Alright, you people are the biggest music nerds I know.
Give me good wedding music and suggestions for a first dance song. Preferably something in 3/4 time.
Closer to God - Nine Inch Nails.
Don't be a douchebag.
Oh, oops!
A friend of mine actually built a really nice reception playlist around Sting's baroque album. There was more to it than that, but it was the glue binding the rest of the pieces together.
Edit: VVV What's creepy is all the couples who DO use "Every Breath You Take" by the Police.