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Sleeping with people with genital herpes?
Boro_Bandito:
Call me old fashioned, but the term casual sex has always sounded wrong to me anyway. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to get laid, that is on the top priority of things for me to do in my life, but casual sex with someone you hardly know has never felt like people are going for the right idea. This may be due to my inexperience but I've heard relationships before sex were the preferable choice. Or maybe I'm just a prude.
blaha 41:
update: she sent me an email while i was out tonight saying that, because i said that "i wouldn't even consider sleeping with you b/c you have herpes," we are "done" as friends.
yeah this sucks.
so far i've only read through the CDC's literature on it, wikipedia's article on it that ODDLY positioned herpes as "NO BIG DEAL," and talked to my friend's dad who is a GP who said "yeah, it's just a skin disease, but you'd be dumb to expose yourself," but apparently i haven't done enough research and i have to talk to HER doctor friend about it.
i would rather not ever knowingly expose myself to herpes, and SOMEHOW this obviously makes me the bad guy.
whoa... multiple capped phrases... i must be really worked up :-o
Spluff:
Tell her that it's okay, there was no way in hell you were going to sleep with her anyway.
Boro_Bandito:
HA, oh man. I like this one.
But on the serious note, it doesn't sound like you guys were that great of friends if something like this gets in the way so easily, sounds like she was looking for something different than being a friend.
thebrosef:
Yea I'd say that if her reaction was that poor then she is probably not someone who you should spend a lot of time associating with. That is not a very fair reaction on her part. Because not wanting herpes is basically the normal reaction to them.
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