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Sleeping with people with genital herpes?
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--- Quote from: blaha 41 on 21 Feb 2008, 22:20 ---update: she sent me an email while i was out tonight saying that, because i said that "i wouldn't even consider sleeping with you b/c you have herpes," we are "done" as friends.
yeah this sucks.
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i would rather not ever knowingly expose myself to herpes, and SOMEHOW this obviously makes me the bad guy.
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She should have taken a hint the first time and really she should have told you about the herpes the first time. And the second time, she basically went, "I still think we should have sex, but oh yeah, I have herpes! Surprise!" and then got mad when you gave her the obvious answer of no. She's stupid if she thinks that you would sleep with her while you didn't want to in the first place and don't want to get an STD. Holy crap, she is not a good friend whatsoever. You are not the bad guy.
butmyrobotloves:
I dated a guy once for half a year only to find out from his ex-girlfriend that he had herpes. I was SCARED SHITLESS. I've gotten tested twice since then, just to make sure, and luckily have managed to keep clean! But this is after half a YEAR of lots of unprotected (minus bc, buit what's that gonna do?) sex. Obviously, we broke up after that, and I've been told that if I wanted to I could have pressed charges for him not telling me, but I'm not sure if this is true. Bottom line? Well, I guess there are a couple:
1. People are NOT as honest as they should be about this stuff. Be careful.
2. It IS possible to have quite a bit of sex with an infected person and end up safe if they're not broken out, although I still would NOT recommend it unless you're really commited.
3. Don't date douchebags. Unfortunately, there's only so much we can do about that.
butmyrobotloves:
Holy shit I'm back indeed! Just took a two year vacation, s'all.
edit: upon posting this, i reviewed my profile and I actually registered on this forum two years ago TODAY. shit son, that was magical. happy forum birthday to meeeee.
jhocking:
--- Quote from: blaha 41 on 21 Feb 2008, 22:20 ---talked to my friend's dad who is a GP who said "yeah, it's just a skin disease, but you'd be dumb to expose yourself,"
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Note that this is essentially what I said. I should totally be a doctor. yeah
onewheelwizzard:
--- Quote from: butmyrobotloves on 22 Feb 2008, 06:55 ---I dated a guy once for half a year only to find out from his ex-girlfriend that he had herpes. I was SCARED SHITLESS. I've gotten tested twice since then, just to make sure, and luckily have managed to keep clean! But this is after half a YEAR of lots of unprotected (minus bc, buit what's that gonna do?) sex. Obviously, we broke up after that, and I've been told that if I wanted to I could have pressed charges for him not telling me, but I'm not sure if this is true. Bottom line? Well, I guess there are a couple:
1. People are NOT as honest as they should be about this stuff. Be careful.
2. It IS possible to have quite a bit of sex with an infected person and end up safe if they're not broken out, although I still would NOT recommend it unless you're really commited.
3. Don't date douchebags. Unfortunately, there's only so much we can do about that.
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Um, I don't understand the situation at all, not having been there and all, but was there any indication in this situation that maybe she was not telling the truth? I mean, did he admit it? Or do you only have her word and a blank STD test result for yourself?
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