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Vendetagainst:
. . .I think that there was a point somewhere and you missed it.

20 jazz funk greats:
dude, midnight umbreon you just don't get it do you?

anyway, sup blog thread i has relationship issues, i am going to ramble on about them and not get distracted by a random picture of tommy.  

issue #1: my ex-boyfriend is clingy, obsessive, mood swingy as fuck and just not understanding that i am not ever going to take him back. he used to be a "nice guy", but i swear he is going to turn into a psycho stalker type someday. i really should just cut him out of my life entirely (because trying to be his friend is extremely difficult for me and not worth it) but i'm not THAT much of a bitch.   :|

issue #2: i have this new acquaintance that i am kinda maybe interested in something or other with.  we are supposed to "hang out" this week, hurrrr hurrr.  i am all excited and slightly nervous like it's a real date and also confused about what it actually is.  nevertheless, i have this huge goofy smile on my face right now.

love,
anna

J-cob9000:
Apparently not.
Someone explain to me what I have done wrong by apologizing.

Ladybug:
It is not the apologizing that is wrong, it is that you just do not understand what you did wrong in the first place. Slick said it pretty well on the previous page:


--- Quote from: Slick ---To spell it out, the problem with using dyke like that is that it is often used as an extremely negative term for lesbians. When it shows up as in the phrase 'evil dykes' people are offended because it conveys a certain attitude towards homosexuals which most of us here think is entirely inappropriate.

--- End quote ---

Alex C:
Yes, the idea is that you stop unfairly slandering entire groups of people just because one person has pissed you off. It's extremely offputting. It's like if I got in an argument with est and was all like "Man, fucking Australians. Only a damned Aussie would try getting away with that shit he pulled." I wouldn't even be articulating what est did to offend me, I'd just be implying that it is wrong to be Australian and that people shouldn't be like Australians. It's just furthering a negative stereotype and doesn't do anyone a damn bit of good.

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