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Weirdest Ending of A Relationship?
Slick:
See that is my problem. I like people, for a variety of reasons, and would like makeouts. The funny thing is that people seem to connect makeouts and whatnot else involving physical intimacy to lead to relationships and that is not what I want. For a bunch of reasons, most of the time I don't think a relationship, a codependency would work or be really fulfilling. Maybe I am afraid of commitment, but I don't see the point in committing if I don't feel it.
I would be totally down for an open casual thing with someone and I would be happy if someone left me for someone who is a good match for them. I am just not in for pretending to be boyfriend and girlfriend when I know that's not what I want.
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Alex C:
Well, you can just expect other people to deal with it, actually. I'm apparently wired a lot like Tommy is and there really isn't anything other people can do about it. Such behavior can really only be moderated by your conscience, unfortunately. Half the reason I'm so hardcore about thinking of right and wrong purely in terms of ethics is because I'm pretty selfish and would be a pretty bad person if I just acted according to my whims all the time. I'd like to think I'm a pretty decent guy, but really, I'm nice to people mostly because you catch more flys with honey, not because I'm really well acquainted with guilt or remorse.
est:
James: That doesn't make you a bad person, it just means that your expectations differ. I think that so long as you're honest with the person in regards to what you want out of the relationship then there's nothing wrong with that.
Alex: The key here is that you're trying to be a nice guy. Maybe I've read Tommy's post wrongly or something but that doesn't come across in what he's said. It just seems like he is saying that he's gonna do whatever the hell he wants and it's up to other people to deal with it.
Slick:
So theory and application in my case are not necessarily the same. My 'logic' centers fail and either my back-up 'freak-out' or 'make-out' circuits kick in.
I have not really talked fairly with people though, which is why I feel bad. It was on my Iron Week list but that went to shit when I was still an invalid with sore knees.
Thomas Edison:
--- Quote from: Ptommydski on 19 Nov 2008, 16:25 ---As I'm constantly reminding people, life is so very very short. You exist for a fraction of time and you make ultimately no impact on anything. If you're not enjoying yourself, something is probably going wrong.
--- End quote ---
Whilst this is the kind of philosophy of life I'd happily subscribe to, it's also the kind of philosophy that makes me just want to drop college and everything and go out there and enjoy life. However, I figure that'd be a pretty bad thing to do, and that sometimes it's worth wading through the annoying, irritating, soul-crushing and breakdown inducing crap before you get to live a little carefree and enjoy yourself for a bit. Isn't it a bit ironic that living to enjoy yourself just seems a little stressful?
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