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Blog Thread II: Beyond Blogosphere.
pwhodges:
Instead of crying, learn from your mistakes...
tania:
it's individual to each person, but for the most part when people are upset or angry they're not really trying to be rational, they're just frustrated and need an outlet. just listen to them complain and be there for them. you can still have the "learn from your mistakes" conversation but do it later, not when they are emotional and don't particularly want to hear it at the moment. it's not surprising someone would get even angrier at you for bringing this up when you don't take into consideration their state of mind and how sensitive they are right at that moment.
also, don't compare your girlfriend to a baby. don't compare anyone you care about to a baby. again, depends on the person but lots of people i think would feel pretty pissed off and belittled by this, especially if they're already feeling upset and looking for support.
CardinalFang:
Also, crying does not in any way prohibit someone from learning from their mistakes.
It's not as if the two are mutually exclusive.
valley_parade:
Yeah dude, you're kinda generally terrible at life.
And I mean that in the best possible way.
Emaline:
I am really glad I am single.
I am regularly pretty damn excited that I am not Masterbainter's girlfriend.
Everyday, I see something that makes me happy that I am not currently dating anyone. Today it was this wonderous post, but typically its something a customer does. One guy literally treated his girlfriend like a dog, one girl told her boyfriend how to spend his money. I am so glad I am single.
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