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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
a pack of wolves:
Sounds like you're pretty sorted then, going back to college is probably just what you need. Good luck!
LeeC:
--- Quote from: a pack of wolves on 17 Aug 2009, 18:50 ---Sounds like you're pretty sorted then, going back to college is probably just what you need. Good luck!
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haha I hope your right.
20 jazz funk greats:
dear relationship thread,
oh god things with the boy i had a massive crush on (okay, i still like him even though i shouldn't! rawr. ) completely failed. today he basically told me that he doesn't have time for a girlfriend and then i said well i'm not asking you out or anything, i just want to spend some time with you and get to know you better and see what happens. and he was all like "but see, i work 12 hour shifts now. i don't have a social life. i just talk to my coworkers and my roommates, that's it" awww, poor thing! really that is not much of an excuse. i used to work 14 (yes 14) hour shifts and then go see people afterwards because i actually cared about spending time with them. also my job was technically harder than his job. but i guess his is more stressful for him than mine ever was for me cause he doesn't seem to be good at it. or maybe he used to be good at it until i came along and started distracting him by being all sexy? but i didn't actually go there that often, not being a crazy stalker and all. ehhh. i still want him even though he is being dumb and selfish and frustrating and still giving me MAJORLY MIXED SIGNALS. like even when he was giving me the whole "i don't really have time for you" speech he was still looking at me like he would actually want to date me if he could. what. the. fuck. it was making me uncomfortable so i just left and didn't say see you later or try to hug him or try to convince him that i would be an awesome low-maintenance girlfriend (i am really not clingy at all once i'm actually dating someone!) who would give him him as much space as he needs (and mindblowing sex when we do end up seeing each other) i didn't want to make things more awkward.
i would like to get over him (okay not really. i would like to have him, but it's not gonna happen anytime soon so i feel like i should be trying to move on.) but it's hard considering that's he's one of the few guys i actually find interesting on an intellectual level but not freakishly smart and intimidating. i am trying to be open-minded and give new boys a chance. actually agreed to go on a date with one tomorrow. but i feel so indifferent about him that i wouldn't even care if he never showed up. except THIS one would probably show up like an hour early cause he is soooooo into me and would cook me dinner and watch chick flicks with me and send me cheesy text message poetry. but i really don't want any of those things. at least not from him. fuuuuuuuck. i am kind of tempted to cancel this date. should i? or am i just being unfair to this new guy just cause he's not as deep as the other one and overly eager and uses horrible shorthand in his texts?
confused as hell,
anna
Mynah:
So what does it mean when a boy kisses you and then doesn't talk to you for a week?
Some more information that may help, but I don't know where/how to put it:
-I only met him about a month ago. I don't know him all that well, and all we really do with each other is play World of Warcraft and watch the occasional anime together, and actually, until that one night, we were never really alone together. We were always with our mutual friends.
-Other than his sudden making out with me, I haven't caught any hints that he likes me, even though I have been dropping hints that I like him.
-He gave me his phone number shortly before kissing me.
-He's the one who initiated the kiss, but I had been resting my head on his shoulder for about two hours before that.
-Not a whole lot happened after the kiss. We had a very short, awkward conversation, and he had to leave because it was 2am.
-Since then, I have made attempts to reach him, but not too many. Just two very short texts and one call. I left about two days in between each, because I didn't want to nag him or anything. I just know he's shy and that he might need a little prompting.
-I figured, since he gave me his number beforehand, that he would expect me to call/text him. However, he hasn't responded to any of my texts, and he didn't answer his phone or respond to the voicemail I left for him. So... maybe he didn't? Why else would he give me his number?
-We do hang out in the same circle of friends, so, even if he is purposefully avoiding me, we're bound to bump into each other again soon.
So... I haven't done this for a while. What am I supposed to do now? Just wait 'til he either calls/texts me back, or shows up at my house, or I happen to bump into him? Should I be nagging him, or am I right in leaving some space in between prods?
Spluff:
--- Quote from: Masterbainter on 13 Aug 2009, 02:14 ---I'm guessing alot of you guys like to sit there in the friend zone.
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hiiiighway to the friend zone
gonna take your riiiight into the friend zone
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