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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
onewheelwizzard:
On the other hand, a few days ago me and my girlfriend had a conversation after sex after which I pointed out that we'd basically just written an xkcd comic, and we both had a great laugh about that and then had sex again.
I think the conversation was about creating a relationship grid that functioned like a political-leaning grid, with one axis representing the two partners' willingness to open the relationship up to the possibility of involving third parties in some way, and the other axis representing the partners' willingness to exchange roles with one another (such that the four corner extremes of the grid would be a dedicated master/slave BDSM relationship, a swinger relationship in which each of the two people were each always doms or subs no matter who they were with, a monogamous relationship in which each partner tried every facet of role-playing in turn and both got turns being in charge, and a polyamorous relationship in which both partners were free to do whatever they wanted).
I don't know, it was funny at the time, and then the sex was good (really good actually), so I guess the moral of the story is, don't rag on xkcd nerds and their relationships?
Josefbugman:
Who said I was forcing it? I am hanging out with people to be friends with them, its just that for a lot of people they immediatly have a sort of "frisson" with people, I have never really got that with people and was wondering if it was just me.
I do admit it wasn't well phrased though, what I mean to say is I am just trying to make friends but I don't seem to have any immediate attraction to people which a lot of people just seem to get. People seem to get attracted and fall over themselves to pursue it, or are told not to make friends with the person and pursue them.
Also I would like to see that graph, might be quite fun to see if people on the forum could place themselves on it.
Bastardous Bassist:
--- Quote from: Professor Snuggles on 19 Aug 2009, 15:22 ---Honestly though, this is the most depressing thread on the internet.
A bunch of maladjusted forum nerds trying to figure out why they are having trouble with girls(or boys!) by complaining about their poor social skills in a setting that is only going to serve to further retard the development of those social skills. Find a person, or persons!, you like, ask them out, be a relatively normal person, get laid.
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QFT. In my teens, I was all, "It hurts, so I'm going to go on the internet and complain about it." Then I started hanging out with people in real life (reluctantly), and then I started having sex, and somewhere in there I became well-adjusted. It still hurts sometimes, but not all the time, and I bet talking about it on a message forum doesn't help, does it? It didn't for me, at least.
NeverQuiteGoth:
--- Quote from: Bastardous Bassist on 19 Aug 2009, 17:03 --- and somewhere in there I became well-adjusted.
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It was the sex.
Sexual frustration is as damaging to emotional health as severe trauma. :roll:Science says so! :wink:
JD:
Science can be a little silly sometimes.
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