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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
iamiam:
--- Quote from: Ptommydski on 06 Sep 2009, 23:41 ---He's just not that into you.
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does not compute. everybody should be totally into me because i'm fantastic.
KvP:
Not really Mai.
Okay maybe a little.
E. Spaceman:
--- Quote from: Barmymoo on 06 Sep 2009, 11:47 ---Hey relationship, what would you say to a person who was engaged to another person and then that first person posted their number on the internet when someone asked how to procur a one-night-stand? What would your advice be to their fiancee, HMM? HMM?
Note: this may or may not be a joke (you'll never know...)(you probably already do)
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This is straight out of Melrose Place
iamiam:
well okay maybe i was joking. sort of. everybody should be totally into me even though i'm not actually fantastic.
seriously though, it's pretty obvious this is a case of 'he's just not that into you'. what i am confused about is the actions leading up to the present. why the initial eager interest in hanging out that then suddenly fades into total disinterest once the actual opportunity for concrete plans arises? i'm asking because this isn't the first time i've experienced this, and i'm not the only girl i know it's happened to.
i'm sure there are people here that have been guilty of this behavior in the past that can give their own explanations. and maybe there isn't any easy explanation at all. maybe you just have been so busy moving and repairing your car that broke down that you don't have time to make plans and you can't even text because your phone is broken.
but on the other hand i'm wondering if there is some common vein of reasoning behind this behavior, and if so if it's a reflection on the "boy" or the "girl". is it because the game of cat and mouse is fun but once the mouse is caught it becomes boring and it's then time to find a new one? is it because you have a short attention span and if the person you're interested in doesn't immediately reciprocate, you soon will find another to replace them? is it because it takes you a little while to realize a person has a funny smell about them, and then once you do you decide to call it quits?
or am i just thinking way too hard about this and it's just total coincidence that my friends and i know really flakey people?
i'm genuinely curious!
Bastardous Bassist:
I am curious, too. I am the king of getting someone's number, having an awesome conversation with them on the phone, then having that person never answer another one of my phone calls. Maybe I'm not the king, but this always seems to happen to me.
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