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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
Bastardous Bassist:
--- Quote from: calenlass on 08 Sep 2009, 10:06 ---That sort of thing can also happen when you become comfortable and happy with being single. The confidence and happiness, I mean.
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This is exactly why everyone says, "You'll find someone when you stop looking." It's not just something to shut you (me) up, it actually works.
jhocking:
--- Quote from: jmrz on 08 Sep 2009, 07:52 ---One of my friends asked me the other day (actually, one of the guys who has shown interest in dating me, who asked me how my love life was going), whether I would be upset if he started dating someone else. I sat there for five minutes debating whether the 'yes' I'd instantly typed out and not sent was the right answer or not. Yes, I would upset. I would be pretty damn devastated if he did. I just don't know whether I can tell him that without fucking things up. Because things ARE great. But this is not how things usually go with me, I hate not knowing.
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What yo should do is go on a date with this other guy and see how your boy responds.
That's actually really shitty advice but seriously you should do that.
jmrz:
Uhm, I have kind of done that already, but it was ages ago. Like after only about two weeks of being with pseudo-relationship boy. I'd asked him whether or not he'd be okay with me dating other people and he said yes, but as I said, that was about two and a half-ish months ago and he doesn't really KNOW that it was a date? And besides, I ended up going to straight to his place afterwards to hang out with him anyway.
There was also a terrible mistake of a one night stand thrown in there just before the first talk we had (so a month or two ago?), which was what made me realise that yes, I actually like this guy quite a lot and holy shit did I ever feel guilty. He doesn't know about that though. I mean, if he asks I'll tell him, but we were official like and we never agreed that anything was exclusive either.
So uhm, I don't really want to do either of those things again to see how he would react because a) it would be kind of mean because it would feel like I was leading someone on who I have no intention of actually dating and b) I would feel all sorts of guilty about it.
Jaclyn:
--- Quote from: KvP on 07 Sep 2009, 23:52 ---I'm going to assume you mean you're in love with furniture the same way Mai is in love with with shoes or I'm in love with the Roland TB-303, not that you're actually an objectum sexual.
Because that would be odd.
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It's my couch, man. He get's me.
Bastardous Bassist:
Well, your couch certainly is supportive and a good listener, but I don't think it'll end well. He's just so emotionally cold.
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