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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
Lines:
Honestly, from reading your posts, I think you just got stuck with bad roommates. I don't know them, so I can't say they are bad people, but some people just are not good roommates. One of my meatlife friends had a situation like this in college and it was really hard on her. The only way she could fix her situation was move out. She did it the nice way, though, by helping to find a replacement roommate and not just up and leaving. From the way they are treating you, first I think you should try to have a meeting with everyone in the house and try to figure out what's going on. If that doesn't improve anything, you should probably start looking for somewhere else to live and see if you can sublet your spot. You're supposed to feel welcome where you live, not feel like someone who's invading foreign territory.
nobo:
Czechs are responsible for Pilsner Urquell and are therefore judged to be outstanding people.
Slovaks are also acceptable since Hostel 1 and 2 took place in their country.
The jury is still out on ukrainians, belarussians, and latvians.
Lithuanians are ok too.
Josefbugman:
Dear relationships thread, I am now the only remaining virgin in my house (at uni) usually I would not find this especially worrying, especially in regard to the fact that one of my housemates apparently needs... chemical help, in order to get it up. But I couldn't help but wonder as I walked through the park today as to wether or not I am not having a relationship because I don't want one, or because I am too afraid to, I mean I had a relationship last year and it was bad, I certainly did not enjoy it despite liking the person I was with, but I am not sure wether that shows willingness to engage with other people or simply fear of my own sexuality.
I mean, is it because I actually don't want sex that I am not looking for anything? Is it so that I don't change my current personality at all and I have convinced myself that I have reached a peak of development? Is it because the housemates are somewhat silly and I think "If they can do it, so can I"? or is it just plain fear of getting turned down?
Welcome to hear your thoughts (based on what you know of me) and I hope this doesn't come across as slimy whining.
pwhodges:
--- Quote from: Josefbugman on 18 Mar 2009, 14:47 ---I am now the only remaining virgin in my house (at uni)
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This is of no importance. Lasting relationships don't generally come by planning, but by serendipity (and not being a hermit, I guess). A willingness not to block them out is assumed, but actually will come of itself when the circumstances call for it. In my case I had no relationships at all until I left university - I then went on to marry and bring up a family, so clearly being a late starter was no particular disadvantage to me. OK, that marriage ended after 22 years, but I'm not embarrassed by that.
Slick:
I have had no relationships and I am just about done university!
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