Fun Stuff > CHATTER
Please, Just Let Me Die Already
bbq:
Hey guys. So, what's the best way to break it to a girl that you are in love/obsessed with her?
A bit of background; I've liked her for about 5 months, we met at one of my bands gigs, she has a boyfriend, she goes to a different school and lives about 12 miles away so I only see her whenever we arrange to meet up together, she's the kind of girl who doesn't really find awkward conversations awkward..
snalin:
--- Quote from: bbq on 23 Mar 2009, 13:48 ---she has a boyfriend
--- End quote ---
Bad idea.
redglasscurls:
Yeah, that would be pretty much horribly selfish no matter how you did it, because you will inevitably put her in a very awkward and uncomfortable situation for no real reason than for your own hopes that she might suddenly decide to run away with you. That is a shitty thing to do to a girl.
pwhodges:
--- Quote from: bbq on 23 Mar 2009, 13:48 ---I only see her whenever we arrange to meet up together,
--- End quote ---
So you get to hang out with her sometimes. It's up to her if she wants to change her allegiance - all you can do is simply make the times you happen to meet up awesome.
What's bad from your point of view is focussing on trying to get her; that's probably self-defeating, and also takes your mind away from the rest of the world that's still there to be enjoyed.
Dazed:
The above is very true. Also,
--- Quote ---she's the kind of girl who doesn't really find awkward conversations awkward..
--- End quote ---
This is probably not actually the case. In my experience, most people who seem that way are really just trying to maintain a calm appearance, they find them every bit as awkward as everyone else; and they don't react any better to awkward situations either!
Overall, very bad idea. Do not. Try to find somebody else before you blow up your friendship.
Navigation
[0] Message Index
[#] Next page
[*] Previous page
Go to full version