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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
phooey:
--- Quote from: snalin on 24 Mar 2009, 12:23 ---Any tips?
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Just that if I were to find out that someone who was pursuing me didn't bother to decide between backstabbing friends and myself, then I obviously wouldn't mean as much to that person as they thought I did. You should stand up for what you believe in.
Also, why are you hanging out with "stupid assholes?" There are more important things than having a social life, and I think it would be more emotionally healthy to spend time with people you find worthwhile rather than necessary for some reason.
Lines:
So, the guy who I posted about in the blog thread that plays drum and bass on a gameboy had his show tonight. We got to hang out before the show started and we hit it off rather well. I went with a friend and during the downtime, we made origami because I had paper in my purse and I made the guy a turtle and a helmet. (It's a turtle with a Napoleon complex that says "Vive la France.")
I hope I see him again because dude is totally cute.
Alex C:
--- Quote from: snalin on 24 Mar 2009, 12:23 ---Any tips?
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Do any of these people know her that you're aware of or are they just really that insecure/silly? I only ask this because when in college one of the ladies I was mildly interested in basically turned out to be ridiculously conceited gossip who luckily lost a bunch of credibility as more people got to know her.
Well, that and the time she threw her shoes at that janitor.
NeverQuiteGoth:
I don't like alcohol or caffeine, and eating food makes my face puff up and my acne stand out,
so,
what does that leave? Where the hell can I take a girl on a date? Especially a first date?
Second question. Why might I have a consistent track record of girls I know over the internet falling for me, but nearly every girl I meet in-person looks at me like I'm a piece of furniture? (Except for the one that I knew online FIRST, when I met her in person, she took my virginity and then some)
That "there are no girls on the internet" meme should read "there are no girls from California on the internet" lmao
Lastly, why, when I do meet a girl who doesn't look at me like I'm furniture, do I always seem to end up feeling such contempt for her that by the time she's willing to sleep with me I want nothing to do with her?
0bsessions:
There's always the tried and true movie or just going out and doing something outside, like walking in a park. Living in California, the latter is something I'd recommend as weather will generally be favorable unless you're way north.
I didn't drink, smoke until I was about twenty-two and I swore off caffeine from eighteen to twenty-one, so I know how you feel. The problem is that you're looking at it with too much of a traditionalist mindset. A date is not just dinner and a movie by definition, a date is just going out and trying to have fun with someone you're interested in romantically.
Can you handle rollercoasters? If so, amusement parks are a BIG recommendation. That was one of my top date destinations when I was in your position. You're getting out there, getting some sun and proving to your date that you're not some boring schlub who sits around all day. It's also a long activity that gives you plenty of downtime for getting to know each other while waiting in line for rides, without the pressure of a short dinner date where you pretty much have to make your impression right quick. Not to mention, the adrenaline rush from the rides will get both of you in a mindset that is favorable towards attraction. It's also not something you've got to dress up for and I cannot stress enough how beneficial a casual setting is to a date. It turns down expectations in a big way and basically puts you both on even footing while dropping a lot of pretense.
If not that, try an outdoor activity you're into. Go to the park and people watch or play frisbee or something.
The biggest thing, though, is to let your date know the plan in advance. Surprising people can be fun sometimes, but having your date show up in heels and a skirt is going to put a damper on pretty much anything that involves walking around for more than fifteen minutes at a time.
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