Dear Internet,
Recently(roughly last weekend), I went to a party hosted by my (at the time)very good friends, we'll call them S and J. J and S are dating.
J picked me up to go to this party, and to buy some booze. He brought his friend, J2 along. J2 is recently single, and he is going to the party as well.
Now, typically S would pick me up, but she was out with a girl she had just met, named V.
After getting all the proper party supplies, J, J2, and I head to J's house. Once there, S and V show up, with V's 2 year old kid, who is promptly put to bed. Party begins, everybody drinks, smokes, etc.
V is new in town and doesn't really know anyone. This is my first time meeting her, J's second, and J2's first time as well. V gets very drunk/high at this party.
At many points in the night, J and S are snuggled up on the couch together, as are J2 and V. I am off to the side of the couches, on the computer, playing music for everybody and partisipating in very little conversation. I am enjoying myself.
At some point, we all go outside to smoke. V informs us all that when she gets high she tends to make out with things, and then points to me and says "you're first." I walk to the other side of the porch.
Later, I am laying on the sofa and V lays on top of me, puts her arm around me and attempts to take pictures. I wiggle free, and go outside to smoke.
Somehow one of my good friends being Jewish comes up, and V uses it to very loudly talk about how there are sooo many jews where she is from. I go back inside and lay on the couch again and start talking to S about everything that has been going on lately. V comes inside and interupts me to continue to loudly talk about all the Jews.
Basically, the party continued thusly. I had an alright time. I don't like V and was never outrightly mean to her. I just kept my interactions with her to a minimum.
Later the next day, I inform S that I don't like V. I never say anything bad about her. I just say "I don't like V, and I am sorry if that makes me a bad person." S then informs me of how I was such a cunt at the party and no one apperciated the way I acted, and ohmygod how dare I be so rude. S and I argue. I feel like I did nothing wrong and am offended that she thinks so. She thinks I am being a bitch and that obviously something is wrong with me for not like V because she is so sweet, and nice and such a wonderful person, not to mention a great mom. I tell S that I am done with the whole thing and want nothing to do with anyone.
Today, J, S's boyfriend, texts me asking if he and I are still on for Dante's(the local goth club*). He and I made plans to go during the party.
Should I go? Should I ask S for an apology? Should I let bygones be bygones? Should I be nice to V? Should I call V out? Should I talk to any of them? Was I being a bitch?
*He wants to go for a class, I want to go to meet people. I have two other circles of friends who hang out there. I've never been before. I know its silly. I'm not goth**. Neither is Coyote. Or Thursday. Or any of my other silly goth friends.
**one of my friend's once called me Gothic Betty Crocker.***
***I'm still not goth.