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Beren:

--- Quote ---I don't really need another male friend without boy attached to the front of it.
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I find most of my male friends have boys attached to their fronts.

valley_parade:

--- Quote from: Linds on 04 Apr 2009, 22:54 ---Monsters vs. Aliens would be a great date movie. It was funny and cute, though surprisingly short.

So dude and I met up for a 9pm movie and hung around talking until around 1-ish. There were a few awkward silences, but I usually am awkwardly silent around people I haven't been around much and when we were talking the talking was good. And this definitely wasn't a date, but I don't know if he actually has that in mind or if he's just looking for more people to hang out with. I hope it isn't the latter. I don't really need another male friend without boy attached to the front of it.

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I take it you had a good time, then? Good going! =D

LittleKey:
yeah, congrats :-D ! and monsters vs. aliens was an EXCELLANT movie. I saw it in 3d Imax; the visuals were crazy good.

20 jazz funk greats:
dear relationships thread,

why do i get along really well with my boyfriend when we actually see each other in person (one of the reasons i haven't broken up with him, despite certain internet people's advice!) but... not so much when we are apart and communicating through phone conversations/texting/facebook/etc?  what the hell am i supposed to do about this? i don't think spending more time together is the answer because really it is not healthy to only ever hang out with your significant other, and i don't want that because i am an independent lady. but i can't see any other possible solutions either.

also why do i keep thinking about the other boy adlskgjfjhdkdfgdsk. i don't have romantic feelings for him, i just think things kind of ended on a weird note and i would like things to stop being weird and have teh normal friendships but i don't want to act creepy and clingy and keep on inviting him to do stuff with me (not sexy stuff) and keep getting shot down, cause that would be kind of sad and pathetic and desperate. so i just don't talk to him even though i do want to. should i try getting in touch with him again or just not bother?

Alex C:
Unless the communication issues are full blown arguments I wouldn't read too much into them. Speaking from my own experience, I'm about a 1000% better at and more interested in face-to-face communication than talking over a phone. Quite simply, I was raised in a family that communicates largely through equal parts sarcasm and animated body language; I have a strong tendency to send most of my positive/approving messages through non-verbal communication and my negative messages verbally. That's fine in a face-to-face situation when people can obviously tell I'm happy to see them, but over a phone I find life is a lot easier if I actively change the way I communicate. It works, but frankly, it's something I'm not really interested in doing for any longer than I have to. Honestly, the best relationship of my life was somewhat awkward over the phone but it didn't really matter very much.

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