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Please, Just Let Me Die Already
axerton:
Cos I was talking to her about dating and that sort of thing and I figured what the hell
Josefbugman:
how did she reply?
Also, would much prefer (and would probably go much better for you) if done in meat life.
öde:
Asking someone out online because you can't do it in meat life is a problem, for other reasons it isn't.
Elizzybeth:
Having been asked out a fair number of times both via IM and in person (and having both accepted and rejected offers in both situations), I can say that for me it doesn't make much of a difference in terms of how I answer--except that it's a lot easier to say no over IM. If you're the persuasive, persistent type, her having to deal with your pleading face could work in your favor. Not to mention that if you ask her after a fun outing with you, she's got all those feel-good hormones running through her veins. Manipulative? Maybe. I actually kind of like being given the distance and time to think about a tactful, text-based reply without the pressure having to keep a poker face and whatnot.
But I'm a dorky girl who only really dates dorky guys. So the fact that being asked out over IM doesn't bother me is probably proof that it IS dorky.
Beren:
I find it's not particularly romantic, but it's probably not going to sway the person much either way.
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