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Slick:
I wasn't really going to post this here but I guess in light of the last two posts I might as well.
Basically I slept with my best friend's girlfriend the other day. It was odd.

So I knew my friend had had open relationships before, but I wasn't sure if this one was open or not. It seemed like there had always been an attraction between her ladyfriend and I, and to cut out the details we had been drinking and were then making out. Shortly into that I was like 'uh hey um, so is this going to be OK with <your girlfriend/my good friend>' and she was like 'yes it will be OK I will talk to her tomorrow' which I took to mean it was OK. Apparently, the relationship was not actually open but due to some bizarre precedent some months ago she thought it would be OK. Also this women gave me all hells of an awful hickey.
Things seem to be OK now? Friend was upset but we had a long chat and I think things are OK. They are reasonable rational people and are sorting/have sorted their stuff out. I apologized for not checking with my friend first, I do not think she bears animosity my way now. I would hate to have messed things up for them but I think things will/have recover(ed).

I guess the point there is just to be clear with communication and comprehension of what the relationship situation is. Also if you think there may be problems avoid getting drunk together. I think the danger is not in getting so drunk that you'll get trashed and sleep together and only half-remember it and feel really awkward/weird about it, but that you'll drink enough that your brain will not apply rigorous reasoning and you will just think it is OK what could be wrong with this mmmm makeouts.

Dimmukane:
That's fine and all, but how would you deal with dogged persistence from the other party?

redglasscurls:
Maybe not hang out with them alone:/

Dimmukane:
But that would suck!

Regardless, she's going to be living farther away for a couple of months to finish school and won't visit often, maybe she'll be able to think things through a little bit.

Slick:
If she is persistent and that is beyond the parameters of the relationship, I suppose you ought to tell her that that's some bullshit you can't deal with. That is probably some tough advice to follow up on though.
Saying 'don't let me jump your bones' and then making advances is a pretty shit move to make on a friend.

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