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When did Dora first say she was bi?
Near Lurker:
Besides, "threesomes are like Communism..."
Surgoshan:
They work only if the population is small enough?
Random832:
--- Quote from: maddness on 20 Oct 2009, 07:26 ---I'm bi and I can tell you right now that any guy who suggests a threesome is gone.
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That's an unfortunate attitude, because it creates a universal disincentive to asking. You have replaced a "yes or no" question with a "yes or you're gone" question, which means that people in relationships where both people would be open to such an idea are never going to discover that possibility for fear that the other will dump them over it.
--- Quote ---I think that if you're ... not in an open relationship
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How is anyone ever supposed to have an open relationship if they can't even discuss the possibility like adults?
There is a difference between merely not wanting an open relationship for yourself and setting out to ruin things for everyone.
maddness:
I think that if you want an open relationship that is the sort of thing you discuss early on. I've got no problem with someone saying "How do you feel about open relationships?" You discuss it and decide if you can have a relationship despite differing views/needs. I think that's vastly different than having someone I'm already sleeping with pop out with "Hey! Wanna have a threesome?" I don't have sex with people I don't know fairly well, so the odds are that, if it hasn't already been discussed then at the least, they know my general attitude about it. If they choose not to respect that then they aren't someone I choose to be with.
There is a huge difference, in my book, between an open relationship and having a threesome.
Is it cold in here?:
Anyway, Dora and Marten negotiated monogamy from the start.
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