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Blog Thread III : Look Who's Blogging Now
JD:
--- Quote from: pen on 28 Jul 2010, 16:39 ---I know! I mean, I know i'm going to have no problem winning the case. It's just added stress that I even have to go to court in the first place that really sucks. I tried being reasonable with visitation rights and stuff, but he's been pushing for more and more, and it's unrealistic. He even said that when we "decide on something" that he wants to go to court anyway to put it in writing. I don't think he realizes that they're going to force him to get off his ass, get a real job and start actually paying for something. Ugh... it's just stupid.
Thanks for all the good vibes. I really need them right now.
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My sister had to go through the same sort of thing a couple years back. It was ridiculous the amount of things he tried to pin on to her.
Good luck though!
Lines:
FYI, typically if you are a bridesmaid, you buy your dress. The bride just happens to pick it out. Also, only about half of the weddings I've been to have had all the bridesmaids wearing the exact same dress. They'll always be the same color and usually same length, but the actual dress will be different. (Like one girl will have a strapless while another has a halter and the last has spaghetti straps or whatever.) It's really up to the people getting married. For instance, one of my best friends isn't going to have a maid of honor, her brother is going to be her "dude of honor." When my cousin got married earlier this summer, he and his wife didn't have any bridesmaids or groomsmen. (They also had a good friend get ordained so he could do the vows and that was pretty awesome.) The only reason I can think of having the same number of people on each side is aesthetics - it looks better if you're flanked on both sides by the same number of people.
Personally, I want to make my wedding as not boring as possible and watching lots of bridesmaids walking down an aisle is kind of boring! One to hold your bouquet and maybe one or two more to catch you if you pass out sounds reasonable to me. Maybe they're traditionally there to keep you from running away, who knows.
Patrick:
I think if I ever get married I will have every present male be a groomsman. Everybody gets to have fun.
Barmymoo:
Perhaps when I get married I will have every person I have ever kissed process in a line behind me in reverse chronological order? Just for comparison, in case I want to make a last-minute change.
Blog thread, I woke up inexplicably at 6.30 this morning and kind of went "huh, weird" and fell back to sleep. Then I woke up at 9 when the alarm went off and discovered that my body had been trying to give me an early warning that it was Shark Week :( Also I have so much to do and the thing I thought was at 8pm turns out to be at 6pm, lopping off two hours ARGHARGHARGH
Today I will: cut and attach a base for the final treasure chest, make and attach lids for all four (curved lids!), stain all four, buy and attach handles, go to the art room and move all the painted things to somewhere more sensible, clean said art room, panic.
Lunchbox:
I learned from Blackadder that the bridesmaids and groomsmen are so if the Bride or Groom don't show up, the next in line have to marry.
BECAUSE WE'RE ALL HERE IN OUR NICE CLOTHES AND THE CATERING'S PAID FOR SO SOMEONE HAS TO GET MARRIED, DAMN IT.
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