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WCDT 15-19 November 2010 (1796-1800)

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Is it cold in here?:

--- Quote from: Moxie on 15 Nov 2010, 11:20 ---edit: wait, I don't think this is the second time. I was thinking about the underwear argument, but he just went for a walk after Dora "kicked him out" of the bedroom, right?

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Yes, but you're right that it's the second time. In 1098, he walked away from a rapidly degenerating argument about Faye jumping Sven.

raoullefere:

--- Quote from: Carl-E on 15 Nov 2010, 12:31 ---Here, pussy, pussy, pussy! 

Damn, where'd that invisible cat go?!?

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Teh invisable kat iz wif Schrödinger. They r both laughin at u, cuz ure lookin 4 him. An hez invisable.

Emperor Norton:
To all the people thinking "its no big deal, its just his porn, being in a committed relationship means being able to share everything", no, that is not necessarily true. Everyone is different. My wife keeps her porn in a big folder, that she has on the shared network, that she doesn't care if I look through. I don't even save mine. If she went looking through my internet history to find out what I looked at, that would annoy me. If she did it right after I said EXPLICITLY not to... I would be pissed. (Though, I will admit my wife does in a general way know some of the odd things I look at, from random conversations I've had with her)

It isn't about just her doing it, its about her doing it when he CLEARLY didn't want her to. People, even people in committed relationships, should be allowed the privacy THEY want, especially when it isn't that encompassing. All he has ever seemed to not discuss with her when asked is his porn. This is not a big deal for him to want. What his porn is doesn't change anything about their relationship, or who he is as a person. If he wants to have that left alone, he has the right to do that, and he is NOT wrong to request it, and is under no obligation to ever share it if he doesn't want to.

I don't see this idea that being in a serious relationship with someone gives them the right to know every last detail of your life, no matter that it will never affect them at all.

(I'm a generally open guy, known by most people for TMIing constantly, but that doesn't mean I don't have boundaries that I don't want crossed, or that I at least want to have crossed on MY terms)

Kazukagii:

--- Quote from: hannahsaurusrex on 15 Nov 2010, 12:37 ---Are there still Faye/Marten OTP people?  Is THAT why there's so much Dora hate?

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Marten and Faye? Please, that pairing is so yesterday. Now Marten/Hanners on the other hand... I MEAN, WHAT DORA HATE? NO HATERS HERE, MARTEN/DORA ALL THE WAY, AM I RIGHT GUYS?

Carl-E:

--- Quote from: Coco on 15 Nov 2010, 12:50 ---My husband is definitely the type to walk away from an argument to regain composure, but I'm the type that when he does this the argument festers and I get angrier and the longer he waits the more I turn myself into an innocent victim and cast him as the villian. Let's hope Dora isn't like that. But to anyone who is calling for their break up, my husband and I have been together for over seven years, married for one and we are still working on these issues. Life is like that. Not every fictional couple can be Bella and Edward with their perfect stalker abusive loving relationship.

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My wife and I were much the same.  I'd want to cool down, and in the interim she'd continue to boil over.  It took a couple of years, but we've learned to channel it differently - rather than leaving to calm myself down, I focus on calming her down first, agreeing that there's a problem, and turning it into a mental exercise to try and get to the root of the problem before either of us gets too heated. 

No, it doesn't always work.  But it's better than what used to happen!

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