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So are you "into casual" ?
sitnspin:
Ah, the old "does oral = sex" debate. I think the line has to be defined by each person individually. I am a lesbian, so for me it counts. My general definition of sex is roughly "direct manipulation of the genitals (either with part of the body or a toy) without clothing in the way, regardless of whether or not orgasm is reached."
Skelepunk:
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--- Quote from: Skelepunk on 14 Jan 2011, 20:40 ---Question then:If your okay with everything else sexual, then why not sex itself?
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Early childhood trauma. We'll just leave it at that (:
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Well, that's a whole different kettle of fish then, and your distinction makes sense.
tomart:
--- Quote from: vettechinohio on 15 Jan 2011, 04:27 ---Practically everyone I know in my age group in my region, and those of mutual friends around the country, do not consider oral as actual sex. Maybe it's a generational thing? Interesting. Ok then, to be specific, I am a 2/3 virgin, but my mouth is a slut puppy :wink:
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Yes, as an older forumite, I consider it a generational thing. My children tell me stories...
I was lucky enough to be Friends With Benefits with a wonderful woman a few years ago. We were exclusive for a year or two, with her maintaining, "I am NOT your girlfriend!" which I found amusing, since we were doing all the things GF/BF do together... But I was more in love, and when she found someone else, it was over.
[Also: I love that last sentence quoted above, and am strongly tempted to adopt it as my sig...] :laugh:
SarahBeth:
My view on this issue has gone through several changes throughout my life (as I'm sure everyone's has).
1) I was going to remain a virgin until I got married. Period.
2) I decided to have sex with my (ex)boyfriend, who I had thought was "The One" I do not regret it one single bit.
3) That ex and I are still best friends and take part in "casual relations" from time to time and it is great fun and I don't feel uncomfortable, etc with the situation (as I thought I might).
4) Now that I live away from said friend, I find myself feeling *ahem* quite horny, quite often. I know at this present time I do not want to be in a serious relationship (finishing school, looking for a job anywhere). I do know that I miss the experience of sex and have, on occasion, met up with several people I know specifically for the purpose of "casual sex." And I haven't found myself developing feelings, etc for any of them.
There are my two cents...Basically I'm just horny.... :psyduck:
SarahBeth:
THAT BEING SAID!!!!!!!
In this situation (Marten's *mother* suggesting he go out and have casual sex after just having gotten out of a relationship) I do not think casual sex is a good answer. Rebounding can lead to misguided emotions and other...things?
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