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Photos can be pretty cool
Masterpiece:
Hey gorgeous
SubaruStephen:
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Necklace?
Oh, yeah, necklace, that's totally what I was looking at.
:angel:
nekowafer:
Yep no cleavage in these here parts
Patrick:
What's a cleavage
lepetitfromage:
--- Quote from: nekowafer on 15 Jan 2015, 11:00 ---I'm working on loving my body as it is now. If I love my body, I am more likely to take good care of it, so I can then work on becoming healthier. Not losing weight - I refuse to get a scale, as the number means nothing to me now. I just want to be healthy, whatever weight I end up at will be okay with me.
--- End quote ---
I hear ya, Neko. I'm coming to terms with that myself. It's odd.....there are so many women that are my size and larger that I think are positively gorgeous, but it's hard to look in the mirror and like what I see. I feel like they own it so much better than I do and carry themselves with that confidence. My confidence ran away about 40 pounds ago and I need to get it back. I think part of it comes from the fact that I was always fairly small and then gained a lot of weight because I stopped taking care of myself- I ate like crap and stopped working out, so a lot of the negativity comes from the fact that I know I stopped caring about myself for a while. It's hard to not feel negative about something you know you did wrong and are trying to fix. The extra pounds are just a physical reminder of that negative mindset/lifestyle.
It's so easy to look at someone else and go "They're doing great! Look at how beautiful and confident they are!" and you kind of forget that they're not this magical creature that was born flawless and they have their own struggles too. I'm trying to keep that in mind because it normalizes my own insecurities and makes me feel a little more ok. It's not as good as completely cutting out comparisons of myself to other people, but it helps to remember that pretty people are still people.
Aaand I went on a tangent here. Sorry, guys!
ANYWAY. You look gorgeous!! You've got serious style. 8-)
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