All I'm thinking is, that girl has absolutely -no- freakin' boundaries. I don't care how good a friend someone is, I don't let myself into someone's house unless they give me explicit direction to, on a case-by-case basis.
Well, this is QC. Boundaries are less of a factor here. Pintsize proves that. It is strange though.
And I gotta say, I'd feel very uncomfortable giving relationship advice or just talking about relationship advice with a co-worker/friend when that relationship advice is my ex. Just rubs me the wrong way. Maybe others are a better people than I and would willingly give it, but I honestly don't think I could do it and personally don't view it as fair to ask such things of a person. Maybe I just have a different set of boundaries, but....Ugh. Just no.
Then again, I had a friend who went out with a girl and after a relatively messyish breakup, she started asking him dating advice and what to do to get some other bloke or some such. Just smells of...wrongness to me. If there is a boundary, it should be there. Plus, "cliff notes" on Dora smacks of cheating. You gotta do your own heavy lifting.
But I'm jumping ahead of myself. We aren't even sure what Tai wants to talk about relating to Dora but.
Urghgh. These types of "lemme ask you about your ex who's now 'dating' me" just annoys me.
Agreed with Is It Cold In Here. Isn't there ANYONE Tai can talk to first at least? C'mon.
And I wonder what it will be. A sudden realization of the spacey things/stares of Dora during the date? Or an issue with taking it slow?