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Blog Thread 4; Live Free or Blog Hard - 'cos we all like blogging
bainidhe_dub:
We're currently on week two of actually planning a menu and shopping for it at the beginning of the week. I even bought a white board and put it up in the kitchen to write the menu on! So at least we didn't have to go through the whole "what do you want for dinner?" "I don't know, what do you want?" rigamarole. But it was just the fucking cherry on top.
Oh yeah and we got an invitation to his cousin's wedding in the mail today. It's in Florida. On the 30th.
Aethien:
I still think making him prepare you a fancy meal (with fancy wine/beer of course) while wearing nothing but an apron is a good idea.
Redball:
When you come up for air, I hope you talk to him about this. He needs to hear it.
Bluesummers:
--- Quote from: Aethien on 07 Mar 2013, 16:21 ---Sounds like it's time to have a conversation with your husband, partially to set up some kind of text message code for "my day is going absolutely horrible, cook me a fancy dinner"
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An excellent idea...some way to be able to reach out to him and let him know that the day is sucking massive nuts, and that you need his support.
--- Quote from: bainidhe_dub on 07 Mar 2013, 16:41 ---Oh yeah and we got an invitation to his cousin's wedding in the mail today. It's in Florida. On the 30th.
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That's pretty short notice for ANYONE who has to arrange airfare. And in this economy, it take at least a couple months, even on a steady income, to save up enough for a trip. The cousin is out of their mind.
--- Quote from: Redball on 07 Mar 2013, 17:43 ---When you come up for air, I hope you talk to him about this. He needs to hear it.
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Seconded. As a husband who has all too often not been there for my wife, I can tell you that if he really loves you, he needs to know that it's not your responsibility to cook dinner every freaking night, especially since you're working just as much (or more...I'm really just assuming on the job situation here) as he is. Example: I work, and my wife does not (physical disability). But we take turns cooking and taking care of other responsibilities around the house. Not just odd days/even days, but when one of us is feeling like crap, the other will pick up the slack. I'm pretty sure your day was worse than his, thus he should be wearing the apron at that point.
Plus, cooking is fun. He really has no excuse. :mrgreen:
Patrick:
--- Quote from: idontunderstand on 01 Mar 2013, 06:48 ---Aren't there any places you can go together though? Does it have to be a 21+ bar?
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All bars are 21+, but there's restaurants with bars. It's really a non-issue though, we both like to spend time outside being active. She's gonna be joining the pickup baseball group that my bandmates + their SOs and I are founding members of. She's a baseball fan (yesssss) and has a pretty good throwing arm and catching eye. Haven't seen her hit before, but I've got faith, and who cares anyway, it's pickup baseball with lots of shittalking.
I know it's still WAY too early to tell, but this is already feeling like it could be a very good thing for me.
--- Quote from: bainidhe_dub on 07 Mar 2013, 16:15 ---creepy awful guy
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I say you oughta get a crew together and fuck this guy up, because nobody should have to put up with shit like that at work. Stupid coworkers are one thing and I don't envy you (I sympathize so god damn much), but people making you feel super uncomfortable in your workplace... they should be punched.
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