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Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Carl-E:
Oh. Damn. Sorry to dampen the mood.
Thrillho:
Gawd, I could really use a rebound.
Zingoleb:
Date's in four hours. It's so awesome that I'm presenting male for this - if I was presenting female, I'd have already started getting ready. Presenting male takes my preparation time down to under an hour.
pwhodges:
Can I ask how you decide? Is it a matter of how you feel, or who you're meeting, or something more complicated?
Zingoleb:
How I feel, usually. How someone views me factors into that - if they don't know about my gender fluidity then I'll usually present how they assume I will and tell them about it. I've not decided how to approach jobs yet - I feel like I look more professional when presenting male, but all my ID is female and that makes things awkward.
Gender ID markers are pretty fucking irritating.
Edit: Also time it takes to get ready. It's way easier to present as a disheveled guy than as a disheveled girl. People don't openly judge you on it. Sexism's great, guys.
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