I was originally going to post this in the Relationship thread, but I realised I am pretty damn sure there is no advice anyone can give.
Okay, here is a thing.
For the past few weeks I have been hanging out a lot with a girl. It's pretty hard to assess what is going on between us - I sleep in her bed a few times a week at least, spooning. We've hinted at having some feelings towards each other, and outright talked about how it would be pretty fun to have sex with each other. She's also made it clear that nothing will happen between us, due her being creeped out by the age difference (I'm 19, she's 27), and I am alright with that. The more we hang out the more I think of her as a friend who I get to snuggle.
The problem, though, is her situation with the last guy she was with is unresolved. Rather than breaking up, he cut contact just before valentine's day (before I got to know her), and since then has said several times to her "I'll come over so we can talk about it." Now, it seems like he might actually be coming to see her this weekend. She is crazy about him, and would take him back in an instant, despite everything.
So. Here is what I am worried about: this girl has, within weeks of becoming my friend, become without a doubt my best friend. She is absolutely the best person I have ever met. If she gets back with the guy, I have no idea what will happen to our friendship.
He's already expressed a worry about how close me and her have gotten, and she's hinted strongly at the fact that, if she took him back, our friendship would be pretty much doomed, or at the very least, we would barely get to see each other.
So, basically, when the weekend comes, I am quite possibly going to lose the best friend I have ever had. Fuck.