Hey guys, I need some advice.
I am moving out of my apartment soon(hopefully! if I get this new place), and I thought I was leaving my roommate/friend on amicable terms. I came home today to see that all my things had be taken out of the general apartment and thrown haphazardly into my room. Several drawings, and very important sentimental photographs got torn/crinkled/bent, as well as my important papers box getting thrown upside down and everything is a mess and I am really distraught and don't know what to do. I don't want to go back there until I absolutely must to get my things, but I don't really have anywhere to stay except my boyfriend's, I'd be staying here for like a week or so if I ask but I don't know if that is an okay thing to do but I am really just not able to handle going back there with the fight that we're having.
Also, I was going to leave all my furniture(IE all the stuff in the apartment) there so she wouldn't have to get new stuff, should I be vengeful and try and sell it and/or take all the things that are mine and not leave her anything? Like, all the utensils and plates and cups, I bought, our toaster, microwave, etc are all mine. I don't know if this is the bad reaction but uh help