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Re: Whatever, Let's Have A Goddamn Blog Thread, But Try And Keep It Reasonable, pt B
KvP:
--- Quote from: benji on 17 Jan 2009, 07:08 ---Ok, maybe I'm out of line offering advice like this, but damned if you don't need some. A friendship is a relationship between equals, but you've put your entire life on this girl. It doesn't sound like friendship so much as hero worship. She's probably just exhausted from being on your pedestal so much. And of course she's leaving. She has to live her own life. But she'll let you in to that life, even if you're at a distance, if you start treating her as a human being instead of as an idol. Right now, you've become convinced that you only own your failures and that your successes are all hers. If you had successes in 2008, that's great. Your task for 2009 should be learning to count your own successes and not attribute them to other people. She may have helped you get where you are, but everything you did belongs to you and if you can admit that to yourself, you'll be a lot happier. What's more, she'll be happier because she'll a friend instead of a worshiper, which means that she'll have someone she can go to for love and support when she's feeling the need for it, instead of always having to be the one doing the supporting.
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You're right. Since I feel like I've spent too much of our time together talking about all this, I'm writing her asking that we can be real friends when I am ready, which I will give to her when she leaves. Hopefully with that and time I'll be able to get past all this.
Thanks for the advice.
Josefbugman:
Dear blog thread
Firstly, appoligise for the unmitigated stupidity I placed in the "you better not be sober" thread. Secondly, I have my first ever date! Its this friday and I am a little nervous but I am really looking forward to it.
How is everyone else?
KvP:
Well, my grandfather came over through the back door yesterday and he left it open on his way out, allowing one of our cats to escape, probably never to return.
My dad has adamantly refused to tell his father about this, because they've always avoided conflict when he was growing up.
Holy shit, my family is fucked up.
Patrick:
Dear blog thread,
I've just come back from my mate's house where I have been playing guitar and singing for the last 5 hours. I have a paying gig next week with him, and we've only both been in town for the last few days, so rehearsal time is a valuable, precious commodity.
Still feels like I deepthroated a horse cock though.
Love,
Me!
P.S. I will donkeypunch the smartass who out-of-context quotes that last sentence. I'm looking at you, Jon.
Slick:
Miette's Man,
(that is a kind of shorthand around here for 'I feel strongly that this person who's name I've bolded is pretty fucking amazing, so much so, in fact, that I can't express this without sounding incredibly creepy so instead I will just write their name in bold as if I was starting a letter to them that was so important that their name should be in bold face font')
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