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Re: Whatever, Let's Have A Goddamn Blog Thread, But Try And Keep It Reasonable, pt B
tania:
there is this one guy who i met through a friend (it turns out they think he's kind of an ass now too though) who won't stop talking to me via facebook. he continuously messages me and leaves weird, creepy come-ons on my wall. he is also patronizing and sleazy. i have started to flat-out tell him to stop talking to me but he continues to persist. this isn't really a major problem, i will probably just defriend him if it gets too irritating but i think this stuff bothers me more because i don't get why people think this kind of thing works. like, does he genuinely think this is a strategy for success? is this the result of thousands of horrid romantic comedies that have taught guys that persistence will always get them laid? guy, i am making it very clear that i can't stand you. what the hell, guy.
SonofZ3:
I was out for drinks with two women I used to work not too long ago and we were discussing a similar issue. Both of these women are around 17 years older than me and married. We were talking about marriage and fidning the right person etc, and they both informed me that they didn't marry the guy that they had instant chemistry with, nor did they marry the guy they were most passionate with, nor did they marry the guy that they were infatuated with. They both married the guy that was persistant. One of them even told me that her husband just "Bugged the shit out of her", with the come-ons and flowers and all of that, even when she snubbed him, even when she blatantly dated guys who treated her worse, he just kept on trying, and she married him in the end. Apparently it is a viable tactic sometimes. Unfortunately for me they determined that I am doomed to a life of short lived affairs and one night stands.
michaelicious:
--- Quote from: tania on 27 Dec 2008, 14:52 ---there is this one guy who i met through a friend (it turns out they think he's kind of an ass now too though) who won't stop talking to me via facebook. he continuously messages me and leaves weird, creepy come-ons on my wall. he is also patronizing and sleazy. i have started to flat-out tell him to stop talking to me but he continues to persist. this isn't really a major problem, i will probably just defriend him if it gets too irritating but i think this stuff bothers me more because i don't get why people think this kind of thing works. like, does he genuinely think this is a strategy for success? is this the result of thousands of horrid romantic comedies that have taught guys that persistence will always get them laid? guy, i am making it very clear that i can't stand you. what the hell, guy.
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Sorry.
Spluff:
Persistence will work, but persistently being an ass will not.
tania:
UP YOURS MICHAEL
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