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WCDT: 2641-2645 (Feb 17 - 21 2014) Weekly Comics Discussion Thread
LittleKing:
I know this post has already been adressed, but...
--- Quote from: Black Sword on 19 Feb 2014, 08:53 ---Sex isn't just sex
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It can be just sex and there's nothing wrong with that, who are you to judge?
--- Quote from: Black Sword on 19 Feb 2014, 08:53 ---it's emotions, drives, needs, desires, and more besides. I'd even go so far as to say that sex is a sacred experience for humans because of all the intangibles that go into it. Trust, attraction, creation, vulnerability, and more that I don't even have names for.
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Sure. But some times all you want is to have a good, hard fuck.
Also, what's wrong with being a slut? If someone enjoys having sex with multiple partners/random hook-ups (which is the typical definition of slut, btw, so nothing to do with what Marigold and Dale did) does that automatically make them a horrible person? As long as they're safe and use protection then more power to them. People really need to learn to be less judgmental and mind their own business.
Karilyn:
--- Quote from: Loki on 19 Feb 2014, 17:01 ---
--- Quote from: Schmorgluck on 19 Feb 2014, 13:51 ---It just so happens that I'm not into anal, but if I were the lubricant would be obvious, wouldn't it? (although I've been told too much lubricant can be harmful in anal - FYI)
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(click to show/hide)Literally *all* advice regarding lube and anal I've ever heard boils down to this:
Take waaay too much lube. Then take some more.
So I'd be curious what you are referring to.
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(click to show/hide)I've found that the excessive amounts of lube are a bi-product of people being impatient in sex. Lube is a substitute for going slow, like you should actually do with anal sex.
How slow should you go? SAFETY SNAIL SLOW!
Source: http://www.ohjoysextoy.com/buttsex/
I know for me and basically every anal sex partner I've been with, we all have a strong preference for minimal (and sometimes even no lube, depending on the amount of precum being produced that night) anally. Like, maybe a dime sized amount of lube.
But at the same time, it's worth mentioning that me and every anal sex partner I've had has considered it acceptable for it to take 3-5 minutes from first anal contact to first complete anal penetration. SAFETY SNAIL SLOW. And we spend the time kissing and touching each other, and being intimate. Then by the time you've completed the first complete anal penetration, you've started to significantly lube the anus with precum. And as long as you continue slow for a little while longer, eventually it'll become fully lubricated from precum where you really don't even have to go slow anymore if you don't want.
And that feels a lot better than some sloppy wet overlubed anus. Plus precum is, in my opinion, the highest quality lubricant that feels the best inside of me. I haven't encountered an artificial lube that has yet to meet the same quality standard.
Not that slow isn't almost universally better for the receiving partner, whether you're talking anal or vaginal sex. It's one of the reasons I like anal sex, because it's easier to convince a partner to take it slow for anal sex than it is to convince them to go slow for vaginal sex. (it's also the reason I prefer uncircumcised partners when possible, as they self-lubricate their penis far more successfully than circumcised people do, and for some reason I can't explain, almost unanimously thrust slower and more controlled. I haven't figured out yet why circumcised people seem to thrust frantically, and have to fight consciously to slow down to a more sensual pace. Not that this can't be worked around with circumcised partners, it just takes a more conscientious partner)
Loki:
(regular user hat)
I think it'd be best if we just let the matter of "slut or not" drop.
(/)
jwhouk:
Cats?
CATS! 12 (18.2%)
Cats. 5 (7.6%)
CATS???? 1 (1.5%)
KITTTEHS! 14 (21.2%) <== Did May cheat on this? ;)
Meh. 4 (6.1%)
Cat GIFs! 5 (7.6%)
Hellspawn of EVIL! EVIL, do you HEAR ME???? 5 (7.6%)
Dogs. 8 (12.1%)
Waffles and Pancakes. 3 (4.5%)
SPATHE HAM!!!!!! 3 (4.5%)
MOAR PINTSIZE!!!! 2 (3%)
YELLING BIRD STRIPS! 4 (6.1%)
Total Members Voted: 66
jwhouk:
Only point I'd like to make: this wasn't their first "date".
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