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Thrillho:
--- Quote from: Nyithra on 29 Jul 2014, 13:53 ---My answers have ranged from just a flat out no, saying that I'm not interested in him in that way any longer, and actually explaining to him why a couple times when he asked. It's hard to tell him to fuck off completely because usually this stuff comes out of left field from an innocent conversation.
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Well if the option is it being difficult to say and him continuing to do it against your will and with it making you uncomfortable, maybe it's time to disregard whether it's out of left field and just straight up tell him to fuck off.
--- Quote ---After dealing with this multiple times and having to explain why I don't like him like we're in middle school or something, I've stopped initiating contact with him. I didn't go to his birthday when he invited me because when he mentioned it in the past he hinted about fooling around on his bed, something I'm not really interested in dealing with in front of his friends that I don't know. Every once and a while he talks to me on facebook and I think he still has my number so he could text me if he wanted to.
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Sounds to me like he needs to be cut off from every means of contact, with an explanation beforehand noting how many times you've tried to get this across to him and that you're sick to the back teeth with it.
You don't deserve having to spend every conversation just batting away unwanted advances, imagine if this were in real life - I think any one of us would have alarm bells going off in our heads, but just because it's via social media rather than face-to-face he gets away with it not seeming as creepy.
If you don't work with him and go to different schools, I think you can relatively easily drop this guy like a bad habit and be cordial but not friendly to him in any real life social situations you encounter him in.
I hope this helps.
Barmymoo:
I agree, just never communicate with him again (if you feel that you need to send him one last message being clear that you are cutting him off because he is stalking you and you don't appreciate it, then do, but after that no more contact). If he continues to pester you, you've got grounds for taking it to the police.
Nyithra:
Thanks everyone for the advice. I'll probably try to cut off contact soon. I didn't really think about it till now but every time I post a new picture he'll post comments about how 'hot' I am and I shouldn't put up with that, or any of the other stuff he does.
Barmymoo:
Block him. He shouldn't even have access to your photos. You don't want him in your life, so don't let him look through a window onto your life.
hedgie:
--- Quote from: Gareth on 29 Jul 2014, 02:49 ---
--- Quote from: hedgie on 29 Jul 2014, 01:11 ---Sad thing as that at least in my part of the US (where we actually have access to a metric shit-ton of good craft beers), Stella is generally considered one of the "fancier" options. It does make me laugh rather sardonically, but yeah, I'd rather drink well G&Ts than Stella.
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
*cough*
I'm sorry, let me just compose myself.
AAAAAAAAAAHAHAAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Over here Stella is considered to be so classy that it's a byword for domestic violence.
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Yeah, I *know*, which is why I tend to laugh when I see someone order one… Especially since one of my local pubs has a great drinks selection, and another is a dedicated beer shop with about 20 on draught.
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