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WCDT 26-30 April 2021 (4511-4515)
Mr_Rose:
--- Quote from: Oenone on 29 Apr 2021, 05:05 ---I can’t think of anything Tai can do if she’s that uncomfortable with dates, contracts, research, etc. Even setting up a DJ or a band requires making a list of some kind.
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She could write Harry Potter books. September first on a Monday seven years in a row is fine, no-one will notice!
weisbm:
I remember my wife and I planning our wedding. Honestly it looked about like this.
Platypodes:
--- Quote from: Oenone on 28 Apr 2021, 20:36 ---Also: should you get married if you can’t plan a big project together? It seems like Tai and Dora have wildly incompatible project management approaches, and that Tai is strategically incompetent when necessary to get out of their share of the work
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I think they should expect to have serious friction around this difference for the very long term, and I hope they've discussed that and are prepared to cope. But if they are prepared to cope, it could be the kind of difference that's a net positive or at least a net neutral in their lives. Each of them has strength in an area where the other is weak, and they can counterbalance each other and help each other to grow. Dora can learn to chill a little; Tai can learn to hold up her end when it's really important. Negotiating that is gonna be stressful; they're gonna argue and get on each other's nerves for sure. But they're doing pretty well right now, talking it through without a blow-up and finding a compromise.
hedgie:
This is why, if I ever get hitched, it’s going to be eloping.
sitnspin:
If I ever get married again, which I almost certainly will not, there will be no ceremony, just a party. One wedding (and marriage) was enough.
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