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Title: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Mar 2011, 10:39
Dear blag,

Man my paycheck from 4 weeks ago STILL is not in my bank account. I'm overdrawn and I am this fucking close to suing payroll. I haven't been eating more than once a day because I just plain haven't had the goddamn money. I've been subsisting just by eating whatever unsellable items are behind the guest service desk at work, mooching off my roomie and friends, humiliating and degrading shit like that. I am bumming cigarettes that I would normally be buying for myself.

I am a much happier person than I used to be, but man, it's shit like this that makes me fucking wonder why.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 23 Mar 2011, 11:25
SO frustrated right now.  I am visiting the university of Michigan this weekend for "visiting days" but I will be missing the last day because my boss wouldn't give me the day off from work.  On that last day there is a internship/job fair that I really want to go to.  Employers like JSTOR, ProQuest, GOOGLE, fucking, GOOGLE, the CIA, and other places it would be really awesome to have an internship or job.  I feel like I am really missing out on some great opportunities to work a 4 hour shift at my crappy job.  But it is a crappy job I need right now.  We are so poor, I don't even know how we are going to pay for the things we need to do in the next few months. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 23 Mar 2011, 12:08
I dunno about you Kat, but I've heard some pretty sketchy stories about working for Fucking.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 23 Mar 2011, 12:14
I have potentially good news! So you remember the property management company I was temping for on and off, before the pizza job, between the lighting company laying me off every few months, that wanted to hire me but then I waited too long to answer and they hired somebody else? (Of course you do, what else do you have to do but keep track of my employment status, right?) Anyway, at the location where I temped originally, like last April, the girl who I replaced for a month while she was on vacation just resigned, and I have gotten a phone call and 2 emails saying "call me!" about it, and I did. And the HR Lady is going to talk to the Vice President of Virginia Offices about hiring me there. And while it is like 25 miles away in friggin' Tysons Corner, VA, they would almost double the salary I'm making now, which sounded great at the time when I started the pizza job but damn does biweekly pay take some getting used to.

(And y'know how Tania's posts are supposed to faster and faster as they go? Read this like that too.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 23 Mar 2011, 12:17
Eeee Rosie exciting!!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 23 Mar 2011, 13:21
I was having a really good ride home this evening, a bit of a tailwind, nice and warm and a beautiful sunset over The Peak District. Alas, as my life has to be shitty right now, it rapidly went down. Firstly some shit in an Audi decided that they're far too important to observe a modicum of safety on the road and nearly left hooked me, I then got a phone call from a company I interviewed for on Monday to reject me. Again I was "suitably qualified", but "just not what we're looking for".

I really can't help but feel completely useless these days. I know I have necessary skills, I know I work hard, I know that I can do as good a job if not better as any of the other candidate but somewhere along the line I seem to have lost any value at all in the workforce. If you had told me ten years ago that I was going to be washed up at the age of 35 I wouldn't have believed you, but after many applications and enquiries over the past three months, it seems almost inevitable. I'll have to start practicing my "would you like fries with that" if McDonalds will have me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 23 Mar 2011, 13:58
Sorry, you're overqualified.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: scarred on 23 Mar 2011, 16:23
Man the weather was nice today! Sunny and around 50 with only scant clouds. Went for a bike ride, I miss summer. Can't wait for it to return.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: A Wet Helmet on 23 Mar 2011, 16:55
in friggin' Tysons Corner,

I work in Tysons.  If you get the job let me take you to lunch one day.  I'm not trying to be a creeper or anything I just get bored of eating with same people all the time, and it's literally my job to take people out to eat.  

Edit:  I should add this is applicable to any forumite in the Tysons area.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 23 Mar 2011, 17:02
SO frustrated right now.  I am visiting the university of Michigan this weekend for "visiting days"

Ann Arbor?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 23 Mar 2011, 17:25
Oh hey, I've been to Ann Arbor! A bunch of forumites ate at the Chipotle there after 4 of us having spent several hours on planes to get to the US!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 23 Mar 2011, 20:13
Yeah, Ann Arbor.  Most of the employers have a contact email for the recruiter, so I guess I will spend tomorrow writing letters explaining that I can't be there, but totally want in on internship/job opportunities at X company.  It would be so much easier if I could just meet them. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 23 Mar 2011, 20:52
Take the day off sick?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JimmyJazz on 23 Mar 2011, 21:02
Guys an acquaintance of mine made a Facebook status on how affirmative action is "reverse-racism" and I want to respond so badly but I'm so furious like how can someone even ugh

Should I respond/how should I proceed to calmly tell her how full of shit she is?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 23 Mar 2011, 21:11
I have initiated a policy of calling people out on/challenging people's bullshit. Partly because I find it amusing (I'm trolling a girl I used to work with by providing helpful relationship advice when she wants "you-go-girl" type advice, and then again by linking her to informative and helpful websites about weddings when she clearly just wants attention and ego-stroking) but also because if I'm going to be friends with people I don't think I have to allow them to be retarded.

Totally tell her how and why she is wrong. Try not to be a dick about it though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 23 Mar 2011, 21:13
SO frustrated right now.  I am visiting the university of Michigan this weekend for "visiting days" but I will be missing the last day because my boss wouldn't give me the day off from work.  On that last day there is a internship/job fair that I really want to go to.  Employers like JSTOR, ProQuest, GOOGLE, fucking, GOOGLE, the CIA, and other places it would be really awesome to have an internship or job.  I feel like I am really missing out on some great opportunities to work a 4 hour shift at my crappy job.  But it is a crappy job I need right now.  We are so poor, I don't even know how we are going to pay for the things we need to do in the next few months. 

Can you try (via email or whatever) to see if you can meet with them a day or so early?  They might be there early, and willing to meet with you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 23 Mar 2011, 21:16
Guys an acquaintance of mine made a Facebook status on how affirmative action is "reverse-racism" and I want to respond so badly but I'm so furious like how can someone even ugh

Should I respond/how should I proceed to calmly tell her how full of shit she is?
Tell her affirmative action is more about classism than racism.

or show her this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TG4f9zR5yzY)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 24 Mar 2011, 02:24
I work at 6am 7 hours away from Ann Arbor, so I have to leave on Sunday.  Also I asked my boss if I could have the day off so calling in is probably not a good idea. They extended me an offer of financial aid today though! except I can't see it yet.  The email told me to login to the website, the website "opens" at 6am.  I will be at work then, grrr.  I don't want to wait to know how much.  I really hate websites with hours, I know, I know site maintenance, but commmmmon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 24 Mar 2011, 03:19
This Week's Blog Post

--So I'm on spring break. Like five of my friends went to Boston this week to visit our buddy at Harvard and I used to be sad about this until I realized that they are there for three days and they are going to be doing nothing and they spent too much money on their plane tickets because they didn't let me book things. So I was just like, fuck you guys! I'm gonna finish my goddamn EP! And Then I Did (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,26554.msg1025220.html)

--I accidentally fell in love with my best friend but I think I'll be okay.

--I have had In-N-Out thrice, I'm going to have Chipotle twice and I haven't gotten Carl's Jr yet
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 24 Mar 2011, 03:31
In-N-Out is great, Carl Jr's etc. not so much.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 24 Mar 2011, 03:39
I used to think so also, but they have new and improved chicken tenders and they are to die for
That was my birthday meal this year
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 24 Mar 2011, 04:59
Yeah, Ann Arbor. 

If you're going to be eating on campus, try Mia Za's (http://www.miazas.com/). They give you a scantron to fill out and its a make your own pizza/pasta/salad/sandwich type place. It was my go-to place when I was going to UM. Or Flat Top (http://www.flattopgrill.com/locations.html), its a create your own stir fry type of place.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Mar 2011, 05:45
I liked Ann Arbor. Eed and I went back there on our little private two-day jaunt after all you losers had gone home without me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 24 Mar 2011, 05:49
I liked it too! But then again, that me have been because I was happy to be on the ground after having spent a lot of time in the air, plus eating food that wasn't plane food and meeting up with cool people I'd been wanting to meet up with for several months. Oh, and Jens I guess.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Mar 2011, 05:51
I didn't really see Ann Arbor the first time because I was semi-unconcious for the whole time until someone presented me with a burrito the size of my head, and then I think I passed out from exhaustion trying to eat that sucker.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 24 Mar 2011, 05:52
Haha didn't you have that burrito for days? I just threw most of mine away, I knew I was defeated the second I saw it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Mar 2011, 05:56
I love those gigantic burritos. Especially without beans/veggies and with double rice.. can you believe I used to be able to eat the whole thing at once? Thankfully now I can only eat half at a time. I do not need a stomach the size of my head, thank you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 24 Mar 2011, 07:10
I eat chipotle like 2-3 times a week. They know me there. Steak burrito with rice, black beans, cheese, medium salsa and guacamole,  fuck yeah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 24 Mar 2011, 07:45
The cilantro rice is the grossest. Did they really have to pick the single most polarizing spice in the cabinet to make standard in all their rice? Bluh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 24 Mar 2011, 08:20
Man, whatever, I love cilantro. And their rice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Mar 2011, 08:33
hahahha chipotle

gotta say a burrito that's just meat w/ double rice sounds disgusting

arey ou from the north?

I get chicken, double rice, cheese, sour cream, mild salsa and corn salsa. And it's awesome.

I'm from Maryland. I'm just super picky about vegetables and refuse to eat beans.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 24 Mar 2011, 08:43
Man, whatever, I love cilantro. And their rice.

"Some perceive an unpleasant "soapy" taste or a rank smell and avoid the leaves.[7] The flavours have also been compared to those of the stink bug, and similar chemical groups are involved (aldehydes). Belief that aversion is genetically determined may arise from the known genetic variation in taste perception of the synthetic chemical phenylthiocarbamide; however, no specific link has been established between coriander and a bitter taste perception gene."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 24 Mar 2011, 08:49
The flavours have also been compared to those of the stink bug, and similar chemical groups are involved (aldehydes).

Interestingly enough, the same is true of Parmesan cheese and vomit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 24 Mar 2011, 08:59
Oh yeah, I'd forgotten about that. I think you've brought that up before, now that I think about it.

Neko, replace the sour cream with guacamole and that's pretty much what I get. Sometimes steak, sometimes without the corn, but usually it's that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Allybee on 24 Mar 2011, 10:02
I can't believe all of you are talking about fast food when Anna's post also included things about WRITING MUSIC and FALLING IN LOVE
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 24 Mar 2011, 11:01
We're mostly American, Ally. Bring on the noms.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 24 Mar 2011, 12:57
no no food is very important, that was probably the natural course of the thread. i love food

good or bad food
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 24 Mar 2011, 13:03
Even cilantro?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Mar 2011, 13:05
Cilantro is awesome. My boyfriend wants our house to smell like it and will be setting up a few planters with it this year. But he's a chef, and also, he's crazy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 24 Mar 2011, 15:15
Man, I wish we had burrito places like you guys do. I mean, there's a pretty good Mexican chain in Sydney, but you still just order 'a beef burrito.'
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 24 Mar 2011, 15:26
hey hey hey i ate chipotle too over spring break, big deal cause its a half hour car ride to chipotle from school and i am carless. chickens, veggie shit, no beans, spicy salsa, rice, lettuce, corn, and cheese wutup.

also wet helmet if you are offering forumites free lunch if they come to tysons corner i will totally bum down to tysons at some point this summer when im gonna be living mom+dad in rockville, free lunch is nothing to scoff at ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Mar 2011, 16:03
I need to hang out with humans this summer. However I am in boring old Owings Mills, Maryland and carless as well. But I will find a way, damn it. I am so over sitting at home alone all weekend.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: A Wet Helmet on 24 Mar 2011, 16:35
Yeah Sean, c'mon down.  Seriously, I get told I don't feed enough people, give me an excuse.  For you, I'll make sure to bring lots of original pressings of old DC hardcore.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: J-cob9000 on 24 Mar 2011, 17:06
I dressed really well today, if I do say so myself. Also I went to a job fair at school and this black dude told me that I was, "swagged the fuck out." At lunch, another person told me that I should be a model because I "look fresh everyday."
So that was awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Yunior on 24 Mar 2011, 17:23
Realized a few weeks ago I am probably the happiest I've ever been. Not a toothy-grinny type happiness (although that kind certainly comes into play from time to time), but more a prevailing/systemic contentedness with how life is and not so much worry spent on what life could be or isn't. Life is totally good. It's been totally good for, like, months now. The last time I was this consistently happy was probably early/mid-childhood, and really all I remember from childhood is the bubble baths and getting shampoo in my eye and wailing about it so my mom would come in and pay attention to me. (It's been awhile, my mother no longer helps me bathe and also I have not yet figured out in my adult life how to draw a bubble bath where the bubbles don't disintegrate in less than 10-15 minutes, is there some trick to it I'm unaware of or is my childhood nostalgia for bubble baths making them seem better than they really are waaah)

I guess it's more than a little banal to say, but it really, really took me by surprise, realizing how good life can be. I kind of had no idea. I spend most of my time reading and I took up hiking and I am starting to make friends, like other normal human people seem to do. I've been writing every day for well over a year now and it has not driven me crazy, the way it can sometimes. My teachers don't resent me for being the smart kid who never shows up (actually/proverbially). I've mostly quit my anxious tics (skin picking, hair pulling, blah blah) and I've learned not to be so hard on myself if/when I fall back into it. I still mostly assume people do not like me even when I have overwhelming evidence to the contrary. But, y'know, baby steps, people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 24 Mar 2011, 19:39
My new job is awesome. Suck it, everyone who isn't me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 24 Mar 2011, 19:58
I am so glad!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 Mar 2011, 20:17
Yay, Jimmy likes his job!!
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Post by: Rizzo on 24 Mar 2011, 22:30
Jimmy: FFFFFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

In my own job news: I got turned down for a job that I thought was in the bag because I had too much experience... This is pretty damned frustrating. JUST LET ME GET A FOOT IN THE DOOR. I PROMISE TO GIVE YOU 2 MONTHS SOLID WORK BEFORE I CLIMB THE LADDER.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 24 Mar 2011, 22:38
I used to think so also, but they have new and improved chicken tenders and they are to die for
That was my birthday meal this year

Getting in on this conversation late, but fuck it. Not going to lie I'd probably eat those fuckin things like 24/7.

Dear blag,

I am honestly within inches of quitting music for any purpose other than my own personal enjoyment. 3 years of active performing, a 6 month stint on Albanian reality TV, and never once have I ever been paid any more than $50. Even though a good few times I've been promised more, I've always been stiffed. Literally every single time.

My best friend and writing partner doesn't even want to practice anymore lately, I honestly can't remember the last time we practiced anything other than a bunch of blues shit that any of the old farts at open mic can play. I can't remember the last time our practice session went longer than ten minutes. I don't even enjoy playing with him as much anymore. I just haven't been able to stop myself from going out at every single chance I get just to get a quick set in, praying to god that somebody will hear it and like it enough to get us a gig. We've got one coming up on the 9th, though, and I'm not sure if we're even going to be worth hearing just because I know we're going to be incredibly rusty at playing together.

I'm trying hard not to cry about this. So far I'm successful with at least that, but it looks like giving up on this whole thing once Lukas is in the Air Force is probably gonna be my only realistic option. I have no way of realistically getting this off the ground as it is right now.

Jimmy holy god I'm glad you have finally got something you're happy with. You've been putting up with a shit situation for a long time. Please tell me this means what I think it means about your music!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 24 Mar 2011, 23:17
Oh yay, it's Grand Prix weekend. It's just practice runs today and it's on the other side of the damn city and still all I can hear is VROOOOOOOOOOOM VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Mar 2011, 00:39
For a quiet and gentlemanly respite, watch the Boat Race tomorrow afternoon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 25 Mar 2011, 01:09
nobody understands the boat race
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 25 Mar 2011, 01:53
Well I'm off to sunny Oxford tomorrow for a 300k bike ride taking in the delights of the Cotswolds, the Forest of Dean, the Severn Bridge and two of my favourite descents ever.

Should be a good laugh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 25 Mar 2011, 02:51
Tuesday was a pretty good day. We received a grant for this project I'm working on, and I got elected Head of Music at our student radio station (although technically I won't be a student anymore next year).

However, now I am getting all the e-mails that go with the position and  :psyduck: so many e-mails.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Mar 2011, 07:54
Holy crap you guys I am ill again. If I am correct, this is the fourth time I have had gastric flu since I arrived here in January. I've also had innumerable colds and near-constant fatigue.

I think I am going home in April instead. The decision has basically been made in my head but I need to talk to my mum about it, and then take it to my employer (she already knows it's on the cards and is being very supportive).

I really don't want to have to leave, but more than that I'm worried that I have screwed up my immune system pretty badly. I got tonsillitis last June, is it unreasonable to think that it should be better by now?

At choir practice last night my throat was bleeding, and I realised that this happens quite a lot. My vocal range has shifted down by about four tones, meaning that I'm now most comfortable singing the tenor part at pitch (which I'm not allowed to do, so I sing a higher part which makes me bleed internally).

Basically I wanted to come here and mope about it because I can't really talk about it on my blog or anything until I've made a proper decision and told my employer, but it feels like a heavy weight I'm carrying round with me. One of those damned if you do, damned if you don't decisions.

Also I'm starving, I haven't eaten for twenty-seven hours and have thrown up twice since then so I'm running on negative food.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 25 Mar 2011, 08:03
Holy crap you guys I am ill again. If I am correct, this is the fourth time I have had gastric flu since I arrived here in January. I've also had innumerable colds and near-constant fatigue.

I would suggest that you have had the same flu etc recurring since January. The brother-in-law had a similar problem with tonsilitis and other stuff and kept getting too ill but would go back to work as soon as he felt able to. In the end his boss put him on extended recuperation leave and promised to fire him if he set foot on company grounds during that time (about two months). He thought it was new illnesses but turns out not.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 25 Mar 2011, 08:17
I got tonsillitis last June, is it unreasonable to think that it should be better by now?

Were you treated with antibiotics? If so, it should have cleared up in two weeks or less. You may want to consider having your tonsils removed. Either way I definitely think you should go to an ear/nose/throat doctor about the bleeding. That's not normal at all.

I'm getting my tonsils removed in April or May and I am sooo excited. They are like baseballs in my throat and I'm going to be able to get through a day without coughing/clearing my throat when they're gone and it's gonna be awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Mar 2011, 09:24
I wasn't actually treated with anything. I got sick on the Monday night, I think, and staggered to the doctors on Wednesday for an unrelated appointment I'd made previously. The doctor sort of went "wow that is pretty bad", took a swab of my tonsils and told me to stay in bed (not hard to stick to since standing or even sitting up made me feel like I was going to die). I stayed in bed for about a week and then set off on a three-month theatre extravaganza, in the meantime picking up erythyma nodosum and post-viral fatigue, both as a result of being too stupid to let myself get better.

Then I went back to uni, discovered I had a serious problem, was sent home, spent a month recovering, declared myself fit to work and moved to another country without seeing a doctor.

So yeah, I have no doubt at all that you guys are right and it's all connected and plus I have to see a doctor about it. I don't want to try and see anyone here because my French isn't up to it and I don't think my health insurance covers it, so it will have to wait til I go home.

TL;DR: I am a complete moron when it comes to looking after my health.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 25 Mar 2011, 09:32
Your doctor should have given you antibiotics immediately. Unchecked infections can cause problems. Just let the doc you see back at home know that you weren't treated, aside from rest. Hopefully it has nothing to do with it, but it's good for them to know.

I used to be awful about taking care of myself until I almost died from doing a relatively healthy thing (taking birth control). Now I'm going to at least 3 different doctors a month, and only one of them has anything to do with the pulmonary embolism. I need to not fall apart at the age of 25. I know it sucks but taking care of it now means less chance of it getting worse and/or biting you in the ass somewhere down the line.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Mar 2011, 09:51
I'm not sure whether antibiotics would actually have helped, the tonsillitis was viral. I think probably rest would have done the trick, if it had been coupled with food (it wasn't - I was staying in a guest room of a different college and it didn't occur to my friends to bring me food, or to me to ask) and lasted long enough. Anyway it's too late to do anything about it now! I will be going to the doctor once I'm home though, just got to decide whether that will be in five weeks or three months.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 25 Mar 2011, 13:25
Antibiotics would not have done. It is my understanding that with viral infections we treat the symptoms and bolster the immune system.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 25 Mar 2011, 18:10
I am mad at my friends. They are all coming back from Boston tonight and their flight arrives at the Bakersfield airport at like 11 PM and I was like, "Can I come pick you up and be your taxi???" but my friend was like "No I think all our parents are coming." There are four of them and they all live within like a half-mile radius of each other if not less than that. I'm pretty sure they're all just too lazy to call/text their parents. They are SO DUMB
I would be saving their parents gas and time and also carpooling is better for the environment and I just want to see them and there is like literally no drawbacks for me to go get them, only advantages and it just makes so much SENSE and I NEVER make any sense so they're just destroying my one chance at making sense, I'm so mad, I sent them a series of upset and sad texts for them to all receive at once when they turn their phones back on when they get to LAX. Stupid kids.

And then the vending machine at church where I always got 20 oz. cactus coolers for a dollar doesn't even fucking stock them anymore I hate everything and I am nineteen years old
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Post by: Rizzo on 25 Mar 2011, 19:20
Fuck your entire life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 25 Mar 2011, 19:29
believe in yourself anna, you'll find so many more new and wonderful things to hate in life as you get older
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 25 Mar 2011, 20:06
We are in Michigan for Kat's visiting days for grad school and looking at apartments. We are pretty certain we found a nice 2 bedroom today that we are going to take! The only problem is it isn't available until Mid to late August and it is going to be cutting it close for Kat's Orientation stuff. Either way, fuck yeah apartment!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 25 Mar 2011, 20:24
We need to hang out one day. I work up at Domino Farms, at the far northwest boundary of Ann Arbor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: KvP on 25 Mar 2011, 20:32
We are in Michigan for Kat's visiting days for grad school and looking at apartments. We are pretty certain we found a nice 2 bedroom today that we are going to take! The only problem is it isn't available until Mid to late August and it is going to be cutting it close for Kat's Orientation stuff. Either way, fuck yeah apartment!
Live in a (no tell?) motel until you can move in.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 25 Mar 2011, 21:05
Today I went to Target and ran into said friend's mom and we had a lengthy conversation (because sometimes i forget that parents probably really do not like me and i just end up talking to them anyway because it somehow comes easily) and she was just like "she didn't tell me that you offered" so yeah they're just lazy bums

And then I bought three 12-packs of cactus cooler

I'm still sad though
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 25 Mar 2011, 21:35
Your friends are jerk faces.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 25 Mar 2011, 22:08
It's okay, they got to LAX like an hour ago and I got a text from her saying that I exploded all of their phones because I sent all four of them like five messages during the time they were on the plane. I am not sorry
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Post by: öde on 26 Mar 2011, 02:37
Stop being your avatar, anna! You! Are! Rad!
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Post by: Tom on 26 Mar 2011, 02:47
I don't drink but now would be as good a time as any to start.
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Post by: Tom on 26 Mar 2011, 02:50
Oh fucking fuck fuc the Fred Nile endorsed LNP coalition is inevitably taking control of the state. Fuck this state the two main choices are both run by their morally self-absorbed  ethically bankrupt  coproratist shit-headed right winger elements.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 26 Mar 2011, 03:09
Good news: I've ordered a replacement hard drive, and bought a new CPU + Fan!

Bad news: where is money?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 26 Mar 2011, 04:04
God fucking dammit I want a burrito.
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Post by: Joseph on 26 Mar 2011, 09:04
Last night we had a memorial gathering for my friend Ben at a couple friends' house. I'd organized it with one of my old roommates before I'd taken off for Vancouver, and then beyond making a Facebook event and trying to spread the word as best we could, we hadn't planned for anything else. People baked things, and we listened to Ben's old band, and I filled people in on his last few months, the circumstances of his death (he'd been really ill, dealing with psychotic episodes, etc), and what had gone down at the service in Vancouver. It was all really well attended, and people shared stories and laughed and drank together, and I met a lot of his friends who I'd only ever seen occasionally around campus before. It wasn't an especially sombre evening, though there were moments of that, and overall I just feel that we did him pretty proud.

Talked with a few people about trying to get a booklet printed up, of drawings and writings and things which he'd made. Thankful that this sort of project is something others are interested in.

So, yeah, a pretty beautiful night, as these things go. I'm super grateful.
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Post by: jhocking on 26 Mar 2011, 09:23
God fucking dammit I want a burrito.

I am totally about to eat a burrito.

EDIT: I totally ate a burrito.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 26 Mar 2011, 11:05
fuck youuuuuuu
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Post by: J-cob9000 on 26 Mar 2011, 11:30
For breakfast today, I put two eggs, shredded cheese and pepperoni in a frying pan and then fried a bagel in butter. I ate it in my bedroom and watched Netflix while drinking a Pepsi.
I still haven't gotten dressed.
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Post by: Dimmukane on 26 Mar 2011, 11:34
I ate an omelet with crumbled bacon and pepperjack cheese in it.  It was FUCKING DELICIOUS
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Post by: Ozymandias on 26 Mar 2011, 11:36
God fucking dammit I want a burrito.

There are no less than 4 restaurants within decent walking distance from me that make better burritos than you can even imagine. I had one last night!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 26 Mar 2011, 11:37
And then I bought three 12-packs of cactus cooler

Do you know how much you fucking rule Anna because it is an awful lot!

Last night I got a call toward the end of my shift from a music buddy of mine. He picked me up and we went to a bar downtown. That place sucked ass, so we went to the OTHER thing we were invited to do, which was to crash somebody's birthday party at a winery, be fucking amazing, and play music for the party. We were completely successful (birthday girl gave me a hug and wound up with my business card) and wound up getting hella crossfaded.

My lady doesn't remember her night in Vegas last night, but she's still alive and well and 99% sure she didn't wind up fooling around with some other dude. Idunno exactly how comforting she thought that info would be to me, but whatever, I'm not tripping about anything. If anything, I think it's funny as shit. She, on the other hand, is way stressing 'cause she doesn't know if she did anything and "Oh god I hope I didn't do anything I'd feel so horrible because I don't wanna do anything to hurt you." Dude it's Vegas. It's fucking Vegas. I knew it'd be a possibility from the outset and it didn't bother me to think about it then, so why would it bother me now? I think I'm fuckin' impenetrable after this last year I've had, relationship-wise. And besides we have only been 'officially' a couple for like uhhh 4 days maybe? CHILL GURRRRL
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Post by: J-cob9000 on 26 Mar 2011, 11:39
I ate an omelet with crumbled bacon and pepperjack cheese in it.  It was FUCKING DELICIOUS
I was going to make bacon but all we had was fucking turkey bacon. That shit is terrible.
Also, I blasted Frank Ocean while I was cooking and I had so much fun.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 26 Mar 2011, 11:48
So I went out last night with my housemate for next year, and it turns out that as he's going to be head of the student newspaper he gets free gigs and +1's to any gig in Manchester, even if it's sold out.

FUCK YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Mar 2011, 13:59
I'm intrigued, why does it being Vegas change how people act? I realise it's a place where people get drunk, gamble, and make ill-advised marriages officiated by Elvis impersonators, but those people are just as likely to do those things in any other town with a bar, casinos and "chapels" with lax requirements for proof of prior intent.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 26 Mar 2011, 18:25
Holy shit guys, I think I've got a date on Wednesday night. As in, meeting a girl I've never met before who a family friend put me in touch with for drinks after work.

I haven't gone on a date in years.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Mar 2011, 18:26
Actually there seems to be this mentality that Vegas is a separate universe where you are allowed to do basically whatever the fuck you want and it won't affect your life in the "real world". This is totally false because an ill-advised marriage is still legal, thumbs broken by loan sharks are still broken and syphillis is still syphillis regardless of where you are or were when it happened but a lot of people still have that "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" mentality.

Edit: Harry, that's awesome. Also I promise to mail your spare key back this week. I have to find an envelope.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 26 Mar 2011, 18:56
Also I promise to mail your spare key back this week.

I got a new one cut. It's just plain old metal coloured but I tied a pretty ribbon around it!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Mar 2011, 19:07
Oh. I'll just throw it away then. I'd keep it but it doesn't qualify for my collection of Keys to Doors that Don't Exist. Maybe if you got your locks changed...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 26 Mar 2011, 19:43
No no, don't throw it away! If you throw it away then the rat-men who live under the garbage heap will have the key to my house!! Just send it to back to me.

But don't send it via Australia Post, I don't want the Government to know anything about this . . .
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 26 Mar 2011, 19:45
OK yep I definitely seem to be unconsciously trying to kill myself

Decided to make french toast this morning while not wearing pants and of course the first piece of bread I drop in the pan splashes butter out of the pan and directly onto my naked thigh. So now I've got an angry, red, raised lump on my right thigh which neatly matches the angry, red, indent on my left shin from last week (See my post from March 17th in this thread, Dovey fans!- Ed.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Mar 2011, 19:48
Maybe I can just deliver it personally. The next time I come to Melbourne. Yes. Perhaps that would be best.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 26 Mar 2011, 20:01
If you throw it away then the rat-men who live under the garbage heap will have the key to my house!!

(http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y66/Spluff/936full-delicatessen-screenshot.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 26 Mar 2011, 20:03
also I just coughed up the biggest chunk of phlegm I've ever seen

its size was matched only by its disgustisity
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 26 Mar 2011, 20:08
(See my post from March 17th in this thread, Dovey fans!- Ed.)

Can we start doing this when referring to our own previous posts? This actually made me laugh out loud.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Mar 2011, 20:31
Speaking of narcissistic self-referential humour, sometimes I get so depressed I play Star Wars: The Force Unleashed and spend hours victimising one Storm Trooper.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 26 Mar 2011, 20:56
Pick him up, put him down, pick him up, push him past a block, put him down, pick him up, throw him around etc etc

In other news, I had really awesome ramen for lunch from a highly recommended place in China town.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Mar 2011, 21:13
It's usually more like Kill all his friends, push him over, drag him face down across the ground, slam him into the ceiling, drag him across the ceiling for a while, slam him into the walls, use force lightning, slam him back into the ground, spin him around for a while, impale him with a lightsabre. Repeat until feeling better. As long as you don't release the Right Trigger he'll keep screaming and writhing in pain even if he has no HP left.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 26 Mar 2011, 21:22
here rizzo, have some pictures of bears standing on their hind legs to take your mind off your terrible dreams

(http://www.pentaxforums.com/gallery/images/3063/1_Sub_Adult_Grizzly_Bear_standing.jpg)

(http://www.alaska-in-pictures.com/data/media/2/grizzly-on-hind-legs_4168.jpg)

(http://cache4.asset-cache.net/xc/AB02985.jpg?v=1&c=IWSAsset&k=2&d=A5C9C13351D9C3B7CC8952BD9D1B8E2C21B41294DCFF65CB76711F73866912B6)

(http://www.solarnavigator.net/animal_kingdom/animal_images/Brown_bear_rearing.jpg)

(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/7/72/Bear-standing-zoo-jerusalem.jpg)

look at how funny they are! they think they're people
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Alex C on 26 Mar 2011, 21:27
I'm feeling sort of introspective and annoyed that salvia isn't legal in minnesota anymore. Fuckin' senators.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 26 Mar 2011, 23:09
Those bears remind me of the bear on the merry-go-round at the zoo in Chicago. You know, with the paws and the happy face.

I had drinks, but man, they were not that strong. That's the problem with getting the male bartender at the gay bar. I am disappoint.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 27 Mar 2011, 00:01
salvia

That reminds me, I haven't had one of my trademark Hendricks-and-sage gin & tonics in a while. Hmm, it's a beautiful Sunday evening here . . .
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Allybee on 27 Mar 2011, 02:49
just spent a lot of time taking care of a friend who, after months not drinking, mixed alcohol and prescription drugs. the decision not to call an ambulance had already been made so I slept over her house to keep the other girl staying with her company. so scary and emotionally draining, especially in light of other recent life events.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 27 Mar 2011, 04:12
Fuck you facebook, I don't want to be friends with my first love. I messed that all up and now I'm sad from 6 year old memories. Go to hell facebook.
Also stayed up all night playing Dragon Age: Origins. Fuck not having frequent auto-saves.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 27 Mar 2011, 04:53
This is a happy post!

So there's my oldest friend, who I've known since Year 4 in Primary School (over 20 years ago!). He's also one of my best friends. Then there's another one of my best friends, who I've known since the later years of high school, and his girlfriend who's also become a really good friend over the last few years. These three people are some of my favourite people in the world and they've been living in a sharehouse together along wiht a bunch of other people over the last few years.

Anyway, we all know that one of the realities of house renting and sharehousing is that sometimes the house you're living in gets sold and there's nothing you can do about it and sometimes anyway it's just time for a sharehouse to end and so you all have to move out. Which is what just happened to my friends.

Well, they've all found new houses now - my oldest friend with one of the other housemates, and my other friend and his girlfriend with each other. And their new houses are only about ten minutes walk from my house! BEST FRIENDS WHO I NEVER GET TO SEE ENOUGH OF MOVING INTO MY NEIGHBOURHOOD!!!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 27 Mar 2011, 04:56
OH ALSO,

I've been trying to get a bunch of my short-short text message stories published in various places for a while now, and it's pretty frustrating because the publishing industry's really conservative at the moment, and trying to get stories published is pretty fucking dispiriting at the best of times, so it's not hard to start getting really down about it and I got another rejection email from a local literary magazine the other day - but this is what the email said:

Quote
Hey, Harry -

I love the idea behind these, and they're the right format for the suites of short-shorts we're running every issue, but we're full up with those for the year now, and I'd hesitate to accept another suite. If Sleepers doesn't pick them up, or you end up writing more, do you want to try me with a bunch towards the end of the year?

Thanks for the good stuff either way

So right now I feel kind of a bit like http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7z192I-mQM (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7z192I-mQM)
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Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 27 Mar 2011, 04:57
That is a happy post.
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Post by: jhocking on 27 Mar 2011, 05:52
look at how funny they are! they think they're people

oh sure you think that's funny

I think those pictures look like the last thing you see before suffering a gruesome death.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Mar 2011, 12:15
You better bloody well come back.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 27 Mar 2011, 12:41
Also stayed up all night playing Dragon Age: Origins. Fuck not having frequent auto-saves.

It was never a problem for me, I'm a compulsive saver. Big drama convo, save. Alistair and the Warden are now super best fwends, save. Found new daggers and equipped them, save. Kill a monster, save. Take a few steps, save. Actually, I might have a problem.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 27 Mar 2011, 13:29
I think I got spoiled by games like Mount&Blade that do a save every time a screen changes. But really, not saving the entire time between entering&clearing the castle courtyard, going to the village, coming back and going into the main hall, seeing a cut scene and making a bunch of choices that affect what happens next and then travelling the worldmap, there wasn't a goddamn auto-save? and then sometimes its like, "oh you went to the 4th floor, autosave, oh you got near that door right after getting to the 4th floor, autosave"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ummmkay on 27 Mar 2011, 16:11
had a panic attack in the middle of the night while staying with potential new boy for the first time. i haven't had a panic attack in front of anyone outside my family/best friend in years. he probably thinks i am a total nutjob now. and he would probably be correct. super fun.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 28 Mar 2011, 00:53
Trapped a nerve in my back and got a fever, so I feel like I'm dead and I can't afford to miss work but I can't walk far either :(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 09:12
had a panic attack in the middle of the night while staying with potential new boy for the first time. i haven't had a panic attack in front of anyone outside my family/best friend in years. he probably thinks i am a total nutjob now. and he would probably be correct. super fun.

Those are pretty funky. The last time I had one was post-coital in a tent with my now-ex. All the while trying to find the smegging zipper and get outside to get some fresh air, I was yelling "IT'S NOT YOU!!!!" at her.

Eeeesh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 28 Mar 2011, 09:31
I got the new awesome job in frigging Tysons Corner, but they want me to start on April 11th which means I have to give my current boss by two weeks TODAY. And just this morning there was a managers meeting and he was all, it's taken so long to find someone to replace Deena but now we have Rosie and it's really great. Freakin' out about how to do this.
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Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 09:49
"Yeah ya do...FOR TWO MORE WEEKS."

Then laugh like a madman, Rosie. That's the way to do it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 28 Mar 2011, 09:59
I might, but I am working at the pizza place that delivers to my house. I would rather not guarantee myself a future of spit-garnished pasta breadbowls.
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Post by: redglasscurls on 28 Mar 2011, 10:13
Just stop ordering Dominos lady, it's dogshit anyway! New awesome jobs top crappy pizza any day.
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Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 10:14
She's right. Domino's is garbage, pizzawise.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Katherine on 28 Mar 2011, 10:37
Tell them you have to move to take the job and when you order delivery just give them a fake name and hope the delivery person doesn't recognize you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 28 Mar 2011, 10:55
Oh don't worry, I'm still gonna do it, but we do like Domino's! (I think Robert likes it even more when it's free, though. Considering we've had more pizza in the last two months I've been here than in like the 6 months prior.)

Today though feels like I'm just lying about everything when I'm like, yeah sure I'll take care of that. Even for things that I would get done in the next two weeks. But especially for the stuff that I won't.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Mar 2011, 12:14
So I'm working on packing up my stuff. Seeing what I can take, what I should leave behind, all that good stuff. Still not really sure what to do with my records though; pack them up and ship them off to Shane?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 12:17
Whatcha got, Zingo?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Mar 2011, 12:21
Uhhh...

That was fast, dude. Also are you going to be the first to  reply to my blog posts? Not that I mind, but I'd like to know if so...

I don't know what I have off-hand, actually. For the most part it's not going to be recent stuff, mostly pre-80's, a lot of it decently common. I can look through tonight and let you know what I have you might be interested, though
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 12:22
Nah, just a boring ass day at work.

Send me a PM, I'm sure there's something I'll be interested in.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Mar 2011, 12:30
Sent!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 28 Mar 2011, 12:48
It is only the first day of campaign week and I am already completely shattered. I've still got a few hours of day left, so I'm making more flyers and contemplating some night-time spray painting in the garden. Only three more days. It's fine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 28 Mar 2011, 13:26
Resignation done! I still feel bad. Words like "blown away," "worst possible timing," and "one more week" were used.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 13:29
At least they didn't mention "spit-laden pizza".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 15:12
OKAY. I am really god-fucking-damn stressing out right now, and I feel like I'm on the verge of just breaking.

About 9:30 this morning, the electric company showed up to inform me that my mom didn't pay the bill, and that they were cutting power to our house.

Fucking whatever. She does this shit all the time. I don't get it. I pay her rent, she has three jobs, where the fuck is all this money she makes going?!

So I dealt with it. Gave her a call to see what the hell was going on, listened to her rant and rave for a while, took a shower in the dark (though suprisingly there was hot water? Fucking miracle), went to work. Had to deal with my dad complaining that she asked him for money (my parents have been divorced for about 7 years), and then my grandparents (happy birthday, Grandma!), who let her borrow some money. Fair enough. Italian family, always a helping hand when you need it.

She pays the bill, and these fuckers say they won't turn our power back on until TOMORROW morning. I mean, we're in Massachusetts. It's spring, but it's still arse cold. It's supposed to hit 19 tonight. Not celcius. 19 degrees. Below freezing.

Like, what the fuck am I supposed to do? It'll be cold, my laptop battery's almost dead, as is my cell phone. What do you want me to do, power company? Shiver in the fucking dark because you won't be reasonable?


/rantover


Side note: This was cool when we just couldn't afford oil. It got me pissed off. That's when I was in my harshnoise phase. At least it was productive. But no power = no amp.

sider note: If I make any really scathing/sarcastic posts while I'm still at work this evening..don't take it personally. Except for you, Dovey. I'm watching you. Root Beer lover.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 28 Mar 2011, 15:49
Did I ever tell you guys about the time that I drank like two liters of root beer in a minute right after supper then threw up in the cafeteria? I didn't drink root beer for a while after that.

Back on the horse now and man do I love it. Every relationship has it's ups and downs.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 28 Mar 2011, 15:53
when i was a kid i drank like 6 huge rootbeer floats at gymnastics camp (after working out all day in the hot idaho summer sun) and then promptly puked all over my new sandals  i was wearing


it would have been traumatic if it hadn't tasted just as good coming up  :|
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2011, 15:56
Root Beer is pretty tasty. He just pegged me as anti-root beer for quoting a scene from Slap Shot.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Mar 2011, 23:41
My lady came back from Vegas last night. Turned out she was just fucking with me re: the blacking out thing. I figured as much. She tries to troll me, and it doesn't work because I'm just so much more experienced. Because I use the internet for FUN shit.

Like downloading Civ 2 and getting crossfaded to fuck with my roomie. Fuck yes.

Woke up this morning, still had crossfade materials, so we continued the rage. Best friend called me around 2pm, I grabbed some food and then we played bocce (HEY SHANE, BRING IT, MOTHERFUCKER, I will END YOU at that game I don't care how Italian y'all suckas is) and had brats on the barbeque. Got mo' baked, had hours of fun. Lukas derped hella bad and threw the pollino in the air and it landed on his lady's shoulder, which has a history of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. That part sucked, but then we laughed about it. All good.

Then work, where I kicked ass but had to listen to my coworker talk about how good Slipknot is, and how much he loves "oldies rock bands, like the Who and the Stones. I only like 'My Generation,' 'Paint It Black,' and '(I Can't Get No) Satisfaction' though because everything else is just too weird." It took everything in me not to slap that man. I took one for the team, you guys.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 28 Mar 2011, 23:59
I think campaigns week is giving me some hideous indigestion. Can't I just stay home and play Batman today?  :(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 29 Mar 2011, 06:39
Today has been a successful Tuesday. I woke up reasonably early to go and check out a couple of houses. The first was pretty average, decent enough house but the location was a bit out of the way, no supermarkets nearby and only buses to get around.
The second was really good, near Newtown, the "cool" suburb here. Reasonable bedrooms, good kitchen, lounge, bathroom and courtyard. So the rest of the day was spent chasing up the necessary paper work to apply for it. Submitted all that stuff and then paid a deposit on it and then the agent called us to say that we'd been approved. Signing the lease on Tuesday next week!

Huzzah, Jimmy, Ingelise and I all have a proper place to live now :D

(Which is not to say that the apartment is not proper but I am looking forward to having my own room and not crashing in the lounge)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jhocking on 29 Mar 2011, 07:29
I'm gonna be an hour late for work because I lost my keys. fuck
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 29 Mar 2011, 09:22
Pat dogg you ain't need to be Italian to kick ass at bocce. My ex was amazing and she was like...100% Polish.


edit: heating update: I ended up crashing at my grandparents last night, because they have a spare bedroom. I was considering tuning my guitar to Open G and recording an album about it, called Exile on Apremont St.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Mar 2011, 12:19
This is not exactly the correct place for this but I didn't want tostart a new thread for it.

I have the following errors at the top of every forum page I load:


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Am I alone in this? What do I do? What does it mean?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 29 Mar 2011, 12:20
i've got it too, we're probably all going to die. don't worry about it
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 29 Mar 2011, 15:00
I don't have that! Hooray chrome or Linux or something that I am using?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: scarred on 29 Mar 2011, 17:08
I had that earlier and then it magically disappeared.

Magic! Not just for unicorns.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 29 Mar 2011, 18:08
May have you tried¶























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Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 29 Mar 2011, 19:18
oh god it's happening
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 29 Mar 2011, 19:40
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 29 Mar 2011, 22:40
Hey yeah I noticed that warning thing a few times
it seems to go away on its own after a few sessions, with as little warning as when it first appeared

It didn't s̶͝͞e̴̵em to d̛͟o҉ ̧͠a͘͡͞ny͢thii̵̛n҉g t̢̛o͝ t̷͢h̴e͜͡ ͡forums though so I have no problem with it

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Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: WriterofAllWrongs on 29 Mar 2011, 22:56
Whoa. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 30 Mar 2011, 00:53
A+
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 30 Mar 2011, 02:11
I keep yellin' at it but it ain't not doing anything
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 30 Mar 2011, 03:24
I got confirmation of acceptance into manchester to do my masters in comp sci! I have been fist punching the air since I found out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 30 Mar 2011, 03:32
I'm pretty sure I'm going to die of exhaustion this week, guys.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 30 Mar 2011, 04:00
Another night of disappointment!

or

The date that wasn't.

So as you guys may recall I had a date tonight. I was looking forward to it, I had a bit of an emotional melt-down last night (of which, more later), I ironed my shirt and washed my nice white trousers specially and I wasn't even nervous when I got on the train into the city. En route I sent a text to the girl I was meeting to let her know what I looked like and what I was wearing, because we've never met each-other before, and I got to the bar on time and ordered a beer and sat down to wait for her to arrive.

About ten minutes after I got there I received a text from her, saying that she was really glad I'd texted her because she'd left my number at home, and furthermore explaining that she'd been stuck out at a site for work (she works in event management) and wouldn't be able to meet me that night. I texted her back to suggest we meet some other time and she replied that she had a really busy couple of weeks ahead so it'd have to be after that. So I guess I'll have to wait a couple of weeks to see if I ever get to meet this girl or not. I stopped off at another bar where I know the staff on the way home because I needed some friendly faces to talk to and I couldn't stand going home straight away and spending the night alone.

On the face of it it's not so bad but it's been a bit of a shit of a week so this was just one more thing. Yesterday I finally decided to telephone the literary agent I'd sent the manuscript for my novel to just before Christmas, basically to ask why the hell it was taking so long for her to get back to me (but in much nicer words than that, obviously). I left a message on her answering machine and an hour later she emailed me saying she was terribly embarassed and that she thought she'd replied to my submission but that on closer inspection she couldn't find any record of having done so. She then went on to say that although she thought the story of my manuscript was affecting and would appeal to many people (her words), she didn't think it was quite strong enough for the big publishers she usually deals with, given the current publishing climate. She suggested that I try some small independents instead. Now, I've got a lot of respect for independent publishers, I'm trying to get my other book (of the text-message stories I've been writing for the last couple of years) published by an independent because they're the only publishers with the guts to take on something like that, but the novel I thought actually had broad appeal and deserved the kind of audience that the independents can't generally attract, and on top of all the struggles I've been having trying to find a publisher for the short stories book the agent's email yesterday just felt like she was telling me that I was minor-league, which I'm sure isn't what she meant, but it was the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back.

I'm feeling better about it now but I won't lie, after I got that email yesterday I had a little cry and I felt pretty fucking hopeless and despairing. Guys, don't ever try to get two books published at once, it's fucking masochistic.

I really would've like to meet this girl tonight and hang out with her for a bit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jhocking on 30 Mar 2011, 04:43
I'm pretty sure I'm going to die of exhaustion this week, guys.

There are a few politicians who've been elected post-mortem. You can join their ranks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 30 Mar 2011, 05:44
Did the agent give you any solid criticism or did she just say that and leave it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 30 Mar 2011, 06:11
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In the event,  while  RUSSELL AND PETER is an affecting story and I"m sure would appeal to many people, in what is a very difficult publishing environment I don't think it's quite strong enough for me to be confident I could sell it to the commercial publishers with whom we generally do business.  My advice: look to some of the smaller, more innovative houses such as Sleepers Publishing and Transit Lounge. They may pay little or nothing by way of an advance, but they also don't require than an agent be attached to the project.

To be fair with so many people wanting to be writers these days the writing industry has become incredibly compartmentalised, as nobody has time to do everything. Once upon a time maybe an agent would have given a writer advice on their manuscript but nowadays they've got their work cut out for them just trying to keep ahead of the constant flow of submissions they get, so they leave that job to specialised manuscript appraisal services.

The problem is that everyone in the publishing industry is shit-scared for their jobs and their future at the moment, and as a consequence publishing is going through an incredibly conservative period. A typical question you see in publisher's submission guidelines, which absolutely drives me mad, is: "What book would you see as a comparison title to yours?" When you've written an 80,000 word manuscript about something with the express intention of writing something unlike anything you've read before (in my case, a story detailing the end of a long-term relationship in which the word "love" is explicitly never mentioned, and in which the "triumphant ending" is actually the final and definitive dissolution of that relationship, and furthermore in which the two people breaking up try their utmost to remain civil with each-other, all intertwined with, basically, a story about what it's like to be a domestic cat) that's an incredibly difficult and kind of futile question to try to answer.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 30 Mar 2011, 06:15
I'm pretty sure I'm going to die of exhaustion this week, guys.

There are a few politicians who've been elected post-mortem. You can join their ranks.

Wasn't there a guy in Missour-ah that got elected like 3 weeks after he died?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 30 Mar 2011, 09:29
If I die, I had better win. That'd be fuckin' amazing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Verergoca on 30 Mar 2011, 14:11
Harry, i have no idea if this is good advice, but have you thought about publishing your books as e-books on the interwebs? I hear this cuts out the middlemans quite hard?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 30 Mar 2011, 14:33
My curriculum includes a book named prioritizing web usability. It's written in 2006. Some of the things they write are so wrong that it's painful. Like "most video clips needs to be shorter than one minute" for people to bother to watch them on the internet.

This book was released at the same time as youtube had started getting 65k video uploads a day, according to wikipedia. What the hell I hate this class.

EDIT: "going forward, mac will probably continue it's decline (in market share)". Why do people still think that you can write books about technology and predict the future in any way?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 30 Mar 2011, 14:45
That's not even predicting the present right.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 30 Mar 2011, 15:43
"going forward, mac will probably continue it's decline (in market share)"

Proportion of different computer types taken from surveys at Oxford University's Freshers Fairs over the past few years.  They include both new undergraduates and new post-graduate students:

(http://cassland.org/images/OS-usage.png)

In 2010, the split for undergrads was 74:27:6, and for postgrads was 67:39:7.  The totals are >100% because of people who actively use more than one system.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 30 Mar 2011, 17:48
ways in which i have delivered money for drugs to my friend through my third story window:
- paper clipping a twenty dollar bill around a fruit strip and throwing it
- folding up two twenty dollar bills, inserting them into an empty nerds box, taping it shut for security, and throwing it
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 30 Mar 2011, 18:06
I'm feeling really spacey and out of sorts today -- on the verge of really sad, but not quite there, so I've been doing my best to distract myself: lingering in a used bookstore when I really should not have gotten any more books, reading in a cafe when I really should have been doing my homework, working through various literature blogs, etc. After my time in Vancouver, I'm finding it immensely to get my mind back into my schoolwork, and it is hitting me harder than ever that I just don't have the urge to engage with this material anymore; my interests are almost entirely elsewhere. It's good, I suppose, that I only have a couple weeks left before I'm done with my undergrad, and that I'll hopefully have time to figure out where I do want to be & what I do want to be doing later on. I just don't have the heart for what I need to be working on right now, and though I have tons of amazing friends here, I just don't feel up to interacting with anyone.

Blah.

Tomorrow afternoon I think I'll go for a long bike ride, assuming the weather holds strong. I just don't know quite what to do with myself right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: KvP on 30 Mar 2011, 18:13
Why don't you come down to CO instead of us coming up there? It's awesome in the Summertime.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 30 Mar 2011, 18:28
Sounds absolutely wonderful, but at this point I have no idea if I'll actually be able to travel at all or not. I need to figure out work here pretty quick after school ends (though I have a couple promising leads), if I'm going to be able to pay rent and buy food, nevermind going travelling. Unless my parents are feeling mighty generous with graduation gifts.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 30 Mar 2011, 18:41
So a classmate of mine of mine was planning to go to japan during spring break.(last week in canada) I only see him once a week so the first thing that came out of my dumb mouth was "How was Japan?"

Open mouth, insert foot.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 31 Mar 2011, 00:19
After a 2-month hiatus, my federal grand jury service finally enters its second day tomorrow with a training session. Since I'm an alternate, it will probably be several months more before I actually serve. Should be an interesting civics lesson at least.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 31 Mar 2011, 07:14
2 hrs and 45 minutes left. After that I can die.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 31 Mar 2011, 07:23
1 hour forty minutes and then I'm unemployed again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 31 Mar 2011, 10:37
It's over. Lager is in my belly, I'm in the warm, and I can play batman when I get home instead of making more flyers. The winners are announced tomorrow, and if I don't win I will break down in tears on stage.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 31 Mar 2011, 11:31
and if I don't win I will begin the revolution
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 31 Mar 2011, 12:33
oh yeah and that
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 31 Mar 2011, 16:40
I'm currently filling out an eviction notice to stick on my own front door for Stacey to find tomorrow morning. I don't think it would normally fool her, but maybe the 12 hour overnight shift she's working tonight will leave her delirious and susceptible to some april fool's day shenanigans. 

But this all got me thinking, I can't wait to have kids just to mess with them. I already plan on running into their room and screaming "HEY GUYS, WAKE UP QUICK, SANTA CAME REALLY EARLY THIS YEAR!!!" and then filming their disappointment. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 31 Mar 2011, 16:56
NO that's like the time my brother told me "wake up it's christmas morning" in like july and i was like what three years old i didn't keep track of months and i ran out the room to a very normal living room then i just cried and then my mom yelled at him
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 31 Mar 2011, 17:01
How about the "Come on kids, we're going to Disney World!" and then taking them to the dentist?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 31 Mar 2011, 17:11
when i was really small, one of my older sisters had to have a series of major jaw surgeries to correct a severe underbite which resulted in her being really ill and confined to hospital for a few weeks on account she swallowed lots of blood and couldn't eat properly and was really malnourished and lost a lot of weight and etc. she was so mad and bitter about the experience that when i visited her in hospital with my parents she told me that when i grew up i would need the same surgery and that i would probably only have a 30% chance of survival. she totally denies she ever said this to me but there's no way she didn't because like, how on earth could i even make that up at that age. there's no way.

siblings
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 31 Mar 2011, 17:14
How about the "Come on kids, we're going to Disney World!" and then taking them to the dentist?

there's a jack handy sketch where he tells a version of this prank that involves telling his kids he's going to take them to disneyland, and instead he drives them to an old abandoned warehouse and says "oh no, disneyland burnt down!". no idea if anyone's actually done this, it might be too mean. then again it could also be hilarious. your call i suppose
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 31 Mar 2011, 17:17
i thought that happened on simpsons. someone did that in real life? dear lord
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 31 Mar 2011, 17:27
I've only been awake 2 hours and today has been a good day already. Got an email from one of the university departments I applied for saying they were considering my job application which is promising. Then I got a text from Jimmy saying his boss was looking at my CV, nothing definite but still more promising than nothing! Then I applied for another job at another university which sounds pretty cool.

Now I just gotta shower and then go and meet Hannah for burritos. I suspect I shall get nachos instead of burritos however. Pictures possibly forthcoming.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 31 Mar 2011, 17:49
I've only been awake 2 hours and today has been a good day already. Got an email from one of the university departments I applied for saying they were considering my job application which is promising. Then I got a text from Jimmy saying his boss was looking at my CV, nothing definite but still more promising than nothing! Then I applied for another job at another university which sounds pretty cool.

APRIL FOOLS!

Boy, wouldn't that suck.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 31 Mar 2011, 17:50
Guys, I'm kinda in a shitty mood on a count of having an assessment (read exam) in 4 hours and it counts for a 1/3 of my histology mark. FUCK!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JimmyJazz on 31 Mar 2011, 22:35
I get to interview the Black Lips, YES! Sometimes campus radio pulls through
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Elizzybeth on 31 Mar 2011, 23:56
I started a job babysitting a 6-month-old this week.  Infants are pretty crazy!  The most frustrating thing is when he screams and screams and nothing will shut him up (not hungry? diaper is dry? won't fall asleep? won't lie down? won't be carried? singing doesn't help? cartoons? music?), but goddamn there is something primally satisfying about feeding a baby in your arms.

Also I went to a naked beach today.  It was great (weather was amazing), but bodysurfing naked ended up being a terrible idea... my chest is all scraped up, oops.

I have to decide tonight whether I am going off to a doctoral program this year or next year (my top choice told me they'd defer funding to next year... hm) because if I don't tell our management company whether or not we're staying they will try to rent our apartment out from under us beginning tomorrow. Dang.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 01 Apr 2011, 01:32
That test was fucking easy. W00t, me!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 01 Apr 2011, 01:38
my roommate has the worst conversations ever oh god that is what happens when you have zero interests in anything. she spent over five minutes talking about eggs (her recent consumption habits of, and questioning the usage of sour cream on) on the phone with her boyfriend. which is all she ever does. talk on the phone with her boyfriend, that is, not talk about eggs. but dear lord. why why why
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 01 Apr 2011, 02:07
In a fairly grudging fashion I'm quite impressed with the DWP. Years ago you used to have to go somewhere to have your soul destroyed and be wilfully broken on the mechanisms of bureaucracy in order to register as unemployed. These days you get to do it in the comfort of your own home, which now feels a little tainted and dirty. Of course they haven't just resorted to simple expedience for kicking someone when they're down, that would be too easy. Once you've routinely been made to feel worthless, you then have to go somewhere to do it all over again. It's rather thorough and ingenious.

I'm sure that there's someone in Blackpool whose job is to find new ways to make the benefits system ever more gut-wrenchingly dismal. When I find out who it is, I'm taking it from them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 01 Apr 2011, 02:25
Just to put the cap on a week of shit, this afternoon work rang me up and told me that as of next financial year they were going to cut me back to four days a week. Considering I'm struggling weekly to keep my head above water as it is and seeing as how I reeeeeaaaaaaly don't want to get a housemate it looks like I'm going to have to get a second job for one or two days a week from July.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 01 Apr 2011, 08:24
I think I'm out of a job after today. Got a letter from my boss saying security has been cut back.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 01 Apr 2011, 09:48
Yeah, come 5pm I'm jobless.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 01 Apr 2011, 10:10
I actually assumed it was a prank. But one of my coworkers confirmed it is not.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 01 Apr 2011, 11:22
Be offended for some unobvious reasons. Go nuts.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 01 Apr 2011, 16:39
ugh i'm just so up and down lately and i really really need to be out of school so i can sort my shit out and i wish i was able to focus on school so i actually felt i was making progress but i can't at all and i wish my friends weren't writing papers

but at least i have some pretty good books out of the library and victoria will be coming over later and i'm probably going to be seeing this other cute girl this weekend but seriously i just need to be in a better state of mind
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 01 Apr 2011, 17:09
4th out of 5 candidates (not including the RON option). I have never felt so utterly destroyed in my life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 01 Apr 2011, 19:53
At least some people like you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 01 Apr 2011, 22:02
victoria never called me and i couldn't focus enough to read and i just played shitty internet games and listened to music and did all the dirty dishes in the house

blah
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 01 Apr 2011, 22:49
me: I spent the entire past 2 days studying Histo. I need a break.
me: for realz
other guy: lol yea
other guy: brain has turned to jelly trying to absorb all of histo crap
me: if it turned to Wharton's Jelly you'd have a problem
other guy: lol
tme: but at least your family would have some nice new stem cells for whatever
other guy: but then it could differentiate into a new brain :P
me: or a mess of teratomas
me: there's no way to make that funny
me: hint: cancer

In IM, I am unusually chatty. I just keep saying shit that amuses me. Fortunately my meatlife friends are polite.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Apr 2011, 03:57
Gemm I would have voted for you SO HARD. People at your university are foolish. Do not be defeated! Start the revolution!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: the_pied_piper on 02 Apr 2011, 05:55
4th out of 5 candidates (not including the RON option). I have never felt so utterly destroyed in my life.

Don't be put down by this Gemm, university politics are still just a popularity contest. I can't even count the number of candidates who deserved to win our uni elections and finished in the bottom two. (I ran for election once and finished 3rd out of 4 but the one who deserved it finished last)

University is no sort of mirror on the real world, who woulda thunk it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Boro_Bandito on 02 Apr 2011, 07:05
Guys! I'm going to be an uncle! No, this isn't a late lame April Fool's joke! Me and my brothers'girlfriend have been joking constantly though about how they are going to have the most mutt child ever (Me and brother are primarily German heritage but there's a bunch of other little crap mixed in, She's half black/ half some kind of Native American because her mother is full-blooded but adopted so she doesn't actually know the tribe). I'm going to have me a little mixed nephew/niece that I can spoil the shit out of, which helps because there isn't a lot keeping me going nowadays. My parents are not as happy as I am, which probably has something to do with the fact that the parents are both 24 year old college drop-outs but you know what, fuck it! (actually I suppose there already had to have been some of that already)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 02 Apr 2011, 08:02
congratulations
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: A Wet Helmet on 02 Apr 2011, 17:26
According to her text message, my daughter just won a bass playing competition and was complimented by five time grammy winner Vic Wooten on her ability to keep time.

I will be a proud father for awhile.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 02 Apr 2011, 19:52
Yeah, come 5pm I'm jobless.

I thought you had like three goddamn jobs
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 02 Apr 2011, 19:52
If I took off yr shoes I could see the jobs growing off yr feet
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 Apr 2011, 23:32
Yesterday, my best friend turned 21. Today, my body is telling me "Fuck you man that's not funny."

Also, we're all officially quitting open mic. We've finally had enough of the abuse from douchebag diva musicians. We're tired of not getting paid for the work we do, which is considerably harder than we ever get recognition for. One of the regulars even came into my work the other day and said to me straight faced that we didn't deserve to get paid because we don't do anything. Fucking. Bullshit.

So I talked to Lukas, I talked to Lindsay, and we spoke to our buddy and mentor Elvis Bob. And Elvis Bob spoke with the owner. The owner said "Why should I pay for this? I can just have you do it for free like before, Bob." And Elvis Bob told him that he wasn't gonna do it for free anymore either. So now the owner's found somebody willing and dumb enough to play and work for free (god love the new guy, he's one of my dearest friends, but zero business/common sense).

Whatever, my lady's down for the weekend. I'm abuot to bounce to spend time with her. Laaaaaaaata
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 03 Apr 2011, 00:51
i dunno, maybe this opinion is wack, but i dont expect musicians to play at an open mic. though, what do you mean by open mic? cause i mean, when i think of an open mic, i just think of any kind of venue (house to bar to actual legit venue) hosting an event where anyone can show up (usually for free, i guess pay if its a venue venue (so dumb)) and anyone can sign up and play, if they do it in time. though, it sounds like you play this open mic a lot, and in a professional manner too, so maybe open mics are different on that side of the country? derp i dunno i just wouldn't expect to get paid for an event that is an open mic, cause like, any asshole can play at that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Christophe on 03 Apr 2011, 01:56
I believe Pat is referring to running an open mic, which would require running sound, making sure dudes kept within their alloted time et al. I made my bones helping to run sound for an open mic night and it is now a thing I do every Monday and get paid for doing, as well as the live music shows on Wednesday and Saturday.

Pat, good show on telling doude owner to take job and shove it, because open mic can simultaneously be exhilarating (if you get a string of good performers that just fucking bang it out of the park) and frustrating (for any number of reasons, including idiot who doesn't know how a mic works and points it at the monitors, dude who asks for one more song when he's already done three and you want to get the next guy on, rapper who gives you his songs on two different cds and one USB dongle, best man and bride-to-be thinking it's a good idea to get up on stage while you cue up "Barbie Girl" on youtube while they make total fools of themselves [man I'll never live down allowing that to happen although they seemed to take it in stride], oh hey also barely anyone signed up at all today) at the same time, and it's the latter part of the job that should at least net you some dough.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 03 Apr 2011, 05:31
Last night was lets have the whole building wake up Lindsey night. Last night was if I have to leave my room to tell you to be quiet, I'm going to murder you night. I am not going to have fun at work today.

Also Pat, good for you for wanting to get paid. There's a bar here that has a live band that plays for karaoke and open mic and those guys definitely get paid to be there. I hope you can find a gig somewhere else that will be willing to do so.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 03 Apr 2011, 08:29
i love redoing these in-text citations so much, i want to take them behind a middle school and get them pregnant
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 03 Apr 2011, 09:41
oh dang, who the fuck would run an open mic for free? sorry for misinterpreting, but goddamn that is fucked if yr not getting paid to run an open mic, get a better gig and fuck the guy not paying you. in the butt. WITH SHARP OBJECTS CAUSE THAT IS NOT COOL!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 Apr 2011, 14:41
Yeah, come 5pm I'm jobless.

I thought you had like three goddamn jobs

I was doing good with just the one, so I quit the other I had, and I guess I'm not really jobless, I'm still employed by the company, but the contract they had with the bank was eliminated. There are a couple of other contracts that could work in my favor though, there's a 4000 hour/week catholic health (hospitals and shit) and a 1700 hour/week Fedex, possible 1000 hour/week with UPS too, so, there's options at least.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 03 Apr 2011, 15:53
I was really really confused about your figures until I realized that was like, total hours on the contract to your company. Which of those gigs would you most like to grab if you could?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 Apr 2011, 16:25
Probably the FedEx, as you get to work with someone else (one patrolling and one stationed) and other than patrolling you sit in a chair and hold employee cell phones until their shift is over. UPS could be fun, because you get to climb all over trains all day.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 03 Apr 2011, 16:28
UPS fucking suuuucks they can't do anything right. Go with FedEx.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 Apr 2011, 16:31
I'm not really working for that company, I'm just pretending to secure their stuff. Also, FedEx pays $10/hr and UPS pays $9/hr, so I'd rather do Fedex based on getting more money
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 03 Apr 2011, 17:09
Fuck yeah FedEx.
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Post by: Hairy Joe Bob on 03 Apr 2011, 19:44
Fuck yeah FedEx.

said the randy postmistress.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Hairy Joe Bob on 03 Apr 2011, 19:46
My girlfriend bought me some Thai fisherman trousers.

They are possibly the most comfortable things I have EVER worn on the bottom half of my body. Oh yeahhhh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 03 Apr 2011, 19:51
A few years ago I essentially stopped wearing jeans, and I realised that jeans are actually really restrictive and uncomfortable and 90% of trousers are more comfortable than them. (Note to forum: this is not an invitation to post pictures of ridiculous and deliberately uncomfortable trousers.) Silly world, convincing yourself that jeans are the best pants just because of some vaguely remembered attachment to a "common man" ideal that was lost generations ago!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 03 Apr 2011, 20:03
Okay guys one of the people on my Sunday stories contact list tipped me off to this competition for SMS stories (http://bpayshortandsweet.com.au/) and I've cut down a bunch of my stories to the requisite 120 characters and I am getting ready to own this thing. First prize is A$3000. Feelin' good, feelin' like a shark in a reef full of clownfish.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 03 Apr 2011, 20:15
i went to go listen to silkworm and looked at the last played timestamps, which led to me trying to remember why i was apparently awake at 3 AM listening to In the West on thursday morning, when i remembered that i was really high and so guitar inspired and also i guess that's why i ended up not going to my only class that day which was at 2 PM. i really need to get back into school habits, it shouldn't take over a week to do so when i was on break for only one week as well
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 03 Apr 2011, 22:15
A few years ago I essentially stopped wearing jeans, and I realised that jeans are actually really restrictive and uncomfortable and 90% of trousers are more comfortable than them. (Note to forum: this is not an invitation to post pictures of ridiculous and deliberately uncomfortable trousers.) Silly world, convincing yourself that jeans are the best pants just because of some vaguely remembered attachment to a "common man" ideal that was lost generations ago!
Whatever man my jeans are mega comfortable.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 03 Apr 2011, 22:16
I used to think that too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 03 Apr 2011, 23:07
A few years ago I essentially stopped wearing jeans, and I realised that jeans are actually really restrictive and uncomfortable and 90% of trousers are more comfortable than them. (Note to forum: this is not an invitation to post pictures of ridiculous and deliberately uncomfortable trousers.) Silly world, convincing yourself that jeans are the best pants just because of some vaguely remembered attachment to a "common man" ideal that was lost generations ago!

I like jeans. I haven't really found other trousers that are as comfortable or that look the way I like either. I'm ok with this though, I am comfortable enough though I guess it would be nice to not have my pants fall down around my arse all the time despite the fact that I'm wearing a belt.

Okay guys one of the people on my Sunday stories contact list tipped me off to this competition for SMS stories (http://bpayshortandsweet.com.au/) and I've cut down a bunch of my stories to the requisite 120 characters and I am getting ready to own this thing. First prize is A$3000. Feelin' good, feelin' like a shark in a reef full of clownfish.

Go Harry!, kick the shit out of them!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 03 Apr 2011, 23:16
I wore four different pairs of trousers this weekend, the jeans were as comfortable an others. Mind you, I do take care to buy comfortable jeans, which is pretty important.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Apr 2011, 01:44
I only own one pair of trousers and it is jeans. They are too big which is a little awkward and the belt is uncomfortable but the jeans themselves are ok. I need to buy more trousers, it seems.

Two weeks til I leave Paris, guys! And in reality more like nine days because I'm going on a choir tour for the last few days so I won't be around to work any more. Five more working days. I feel kind of stuck in limbo here now and just want to lie in bed all day so that it goes more quickly. There are a few things I want to see before I leave (couple of museums, Versailles and maybe the Arc de Triomphe again) but everything is shut on Mondays so... might get up and have lunch...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Apr 2011, 01:46
oh dang, who the fuck would run an open mic for free?

Me. For the better half of a year now. Hell, I wish I'd realized it was a stupid idea to do it for free.

What's really infuriating to me is that this fucker has strung us along for the entire time, saying "If business picks up I'll start paying you guys." Well, now that my friends and I have been building up the event for 8 months and we've literally tripled his fucking business, where's the goddamn money?

We asked him that question once a while back after we had spent a lot of time working on getting the night bigger and bigger, and he offered to pay us in the wine that he makes up at his winery. Yeah, this fool owns a winery, Livermore is excellent wine country and that shit just happens sometimes. The motherfucker's LOADED, and he wants to pay us in his wine. What the fuck am I gonna do with it? I can't sell it, and I don't drink anywhere even CLOSE to a bottle of wine a week. And I sure can't pay rent or buy food with wine, which are oddly enough two of my biggest problems right now. I want the rate I was promised for the conditions I promised to meet, and then proceeded to surpass.

I have half a mind to call up Andy (my replacement) and see if he won't do me a solid by telling the owner to go fuck himself dry. I know better than to ask for a letter of recommendation from a man who steals (a liar and a thief are all the same), because I can't imagine I'm the only person he's fucked over before. But I don't think I'm going to sit idly by while some douche takes advantage of poor naive saps like us.

I just wish I'd gotten that fucker's word in writing so I could sue him for this bullshit. I'm getting evicted and I go hungry more often than not because I'm not getting paid what we agreed on. I honestly wonder if I shouldn't just call him on his mobile someday and tell him exactly what I've had to eat all day. Just so the son of a bitch can hear the effects of what happens to the people you lie to and steal from.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 04 Apr 2011, 02:03
Okay guys one of the people on my Sunday stories contact list tipped me off to this competition for SMS stories (http://bpayshortandsweet.com.au/) and I've cut down a bunch of my stories to the requisite 120 characters and I am getting ready to own this thing. First prize is A$3000. Feelin' good, feelin' like a shark in a reef full of clownfish.

Go Harry!, kick the shit out of them!

Like a tiger in a jungle full of fat men on elephants.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 04 Apr 2011, 04:39
I only wear jeans anymore. They are the only things that even come close to looking good on my big butt. And the only other pants I've ever liked as much were Tripp bondage pants and I'm trying to be a grown-up so I don't wear them anymore.

Dear Bloggy-thing:

Things are finally picking up at work. After a few months of pretty much making up shit to do around the office, I finally have stuff to do. A lot of stuff. I seem to have more than anyone else on the team. I am starting a new doctor with our practice (maybe 10 applications to fill out), starting two doctors in Delaware (another 5 applications for each doc), starting a doctor at a new hospital (one application, but I have to teach a new girl to do it as well), then showing the two new girls how to do the applications for the Residents that help us out. Which are not difficult, but they take time, which will be tripled with showing completely green people how to do them.

The problem here is that I look like I'm kissing ass. But I can't give away any of my responsibilities, or I'll look like I can't handle the work. And I've really had to work hard to get management to notice that I can do more. I hoped that the other girls would get that I'm honestly just trying to help the team, but it seems this is not the case. Oh well. There's really nothing I can do about it. I am kicking butt, though! I've had tons of compliments from the doctors I work with and it makes me feel awesome.

"Elesia,
Happy credentialing day! Hope you are having a great day. Thanks for doing the hard, tedious work for me, I'd never get those never-ending forms filled out correctly. You are AWESOME! I pledge to complete the forms faster this year!
Enjoy your special day, thanks again for everything,
Dr. Brennan"

I look at this when I'm feeling like crap at my job and it makes me smile :D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 04 Apr 2011, 06:38
oh dang, who the fuck would run an open mic for free?
I have half a mind to call up Andy (my replacement) and see if he won't do me a solid by telling the owner to go fuck himself dry.

There's a power in an open mic, there's a power in a bar, there's a power in the hands of the performer, but it all amounts to nothing if together we don't stand...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Boro_Bandito on 04 Apr 2011, 11:34
Like a tiger in a jungle full of fat men on elephants.

Tiger? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4SqXl9Zj6k&feature=related)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Apr 2011, 12:25
I got drunk over the weekend for the first time in a few years. It was amazing. I got girls who called me cute and a roller derby girl (LeeAnnderthal) gave me her number, and I ended outside of a restaurant managing to sing some kind of solo medley of Bohemian Rhapsody and Sweet Transvestite. Though in hindsight it was probably less of a medley so much as I forgot the words and just meshed into the other. So. MEDLEY.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 04 Apr 2011, 14:30
A few years ago I essentially stopped wearing jeans, and I realised that jeans are actually really restrictive and uncomfortable and 90% of trousers are more comfortable than them. (Note to forum: this is not an invitation to post pictures of ridiculous and deliberately uncomfortable trousers.) Silly world, convincing yourself that jeans are the best pants just because of some vaguely remembered attachment to a "common man" ideal that was lost generations ago!

Full-grown man trousers high five o/
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 04 Apr 2011, 16:02
I don't drink anywhere even CLOSE to a bottle of wine a week.

What is wrong with you
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 04 Apr 2011, 16:04
I'm lucky if I have a glass of wine a week, Ally.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 04 Apr 2011, 16:05
Wine is yucky, real talk
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Apr 2011, 16:07
Off on holiday tomorrow!  12 days in Sri Lanka.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 04 Apr 2011, 16:08
I had a pretty nice beer at a hockey game yesterday. Saranac Black Forest, it's kinda like Sam Adams' Black Lager, but brewed in Upstate New York and a bit tastier.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 04 Apr 2011, 16:08
Red wine is the most delicious thing and if my boyfriend and I don't drink an entire bottle over dinner at least once a week we are not doing it right.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 04 Apr 2011, 16:10
I did, the other week, learn that wine can be aged in steel barrels instead of wood?

The bartender at the place we were at had me try two different chardonnays. I much preferred the steel-aged one.



Addendum: I'm really not much versed in wine. I do know that I like reds better than whites, and that I am a fan of Shiraz.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 04 Apr 2011, 16:14
There were no "woody" tastes to it. I prefer my wine to taste like wine, instead of like trees.

Honestly, I prefer beer over wine. But I am not a beer snob. As much as I like a solid, dark microbrew..I'm also happy with PBR or Miller High Life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 04 Apr 2011, 16:15
I prefer beer AND wine. I am a little bit of a beer snob but I am not a wine snob at all. Cheap red wine tastes the same as good red wine. Whatevs.
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Post by: valley_parade on 04 Apr 2011, 16:24
I'm finding recently that New York, despite being a fairly shitty place, does have some good beer. Saranac, which I mentioned before, does some sheer deliciousness, while downstate, The Brooklyn Brewery is pretty bad ass. Definitely give their Summer Ale a try if you get a shot.
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Post by: Inlander on 04 Apr 2011, 16:25
There is no better drink to drink during a summer thunder storm than a nice glass of white wine. Many are the times I've sat happily in my doorway watching the lightning and the rain crash down on a warm evening with a glass of white wine in my hand.
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Post by: squawk on 04 Apr 2011, 16:26
franzia is my favorite. but i'm also nineteen and very, very classy
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Post by: ackblom12 on 04 Apr 2011, 16:27
Franzia is the only wine I have ever liked sadly.
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Post by: scarred on 04 Apr 2011, 16:33
I've been drinking a lot more wine lately. I like red wine best. Champagne gives me headaches as I drink it.
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Post by: squawk on 04 Apr 2011, 16:40
it (franzia) basically just tastes like juice that gets you drunk! and you get this big ol' catheter of wine for really cheap! what's not to love?
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Post by: Ozymandias on 04 Apr 2011, 17:37
The only good wine is sangria you fucks.
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Apr 2011, 17:46
I don't drink anywhere even CLOSE to a bottle of wine a week.

What is wrong with you

More things than I care to think about.

HEY GUYS does anybody wanna help me move my shit from Livermore to Berkeley this Sunday? The only people who were willing to help me are now making like Catholics and pulling out, and now I am shitting myself so fucking hard that I don't know which way to aim it all
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Post by: tania on 04 Apr 2011, 18:04
i don't drink at all but that is because my stress levels and general life coping skills are so terrible that i am honesty, no joke a little bit terrified that my decision to start drinking alone is going to be the first of like four or five decisions/rationalizations that leads to me waking up with the sudden realization that i've become a high-functioning alcoholic
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Post by: tania on 04 Apr 2011, 18:13
yep, nothing but sleepless nights and crippling anxiety and literally endless coffee consumption for this smart, well-adjusted lady
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Post by: Alex C on 04 Apr 2011, 18:18
Sangria's usually too watery for my tastes.
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Post by: Inlander on 04 Apr 2011, 18:35
waking up with the sudden realization that i've become a high-functioning alcoholic

Hey, but high-functioning, right? That's a win!
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Post by: Dazed on 04 Apr 2011, 19:45
Drink mead you fucks
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Post by: jhocking on 04 Apr 2011, 19:47
Boy did we have an epic weekend. We nearly died twice on the way back home. We were in Colorado skiing; the skiing was decent, but coming back we hit the worst weather I've ever traveled through. First a giant snowstorm hit while we were on a road going up the mountain, so the car barely stayed in control as we slid around. Then the flight from Denver to Chicago had to go around massive thunderstorms (out the window it looked like apocalypse) and the plane actually hit something in midair.

Now my fiancee's about to leave for a 3 week business trip throughout southeast Asia.
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Post by: Tom on 05 Apr 2011, 00:59
I'm halfway through my research report on Vibrio and man, I just don't want to do anymore of it right now. The half I've already done is like mad shitty and the whole thing is due at 1pm tomorrow. I have 1000 words left, not good. Stupid procrastinating, why didn't I do this half yesterday and the last half today.
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Post by: squawk on 05 Apr 2011, 01:43
i don't know where else to express my distress right now. but right now i am dealing with two drunk bitches both on the phone with their respective boyfriends and i want to kill myself. roommate's friend is just, SO loud, and babbling, and this is punctuated by my roommate saying random foods like "chicken carbonara" because her relationship with her boyfriend consists of playing the Let's List A Bunch Of Things That Start With This Letter game, or, the kind of games that only like, eight year olds play with other eight year olds when they're so bored out of their fucking skulls because they are in a vehicle that is traveling or will travel for more than four hours. someone please tell me what. in the fuck. i have done to deserve this. i am a pretty fucked up person but i wouldn't even wish this on coldplay.
oh well. i'll deal.
WAIT WASN'T TODAY MONDAY WHY ARE THEY FUCKED UP
people should not get fucked up with no regard for the days of the week unless they are me and zach
why my life
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Post by: The extra letter on 05 Apr 2011, 02:54
My favourite pair of jeans split today. It wasn't out of fatness, I was stepping over a dog gate. Which is like a baby gate for a dog. I was sad.
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Post by: nufan on 05 Apr 2011, 04:23
I suck so very hard at writing complaint emails. I just had to send two, one to a t-shirt company that forgot to pay the VAT on the shipping (meaning that I had to pay the VAT of £3.50 plus an £8 customs handling fee), and another to the company I bought some glow poi off of as the damn things keep turning off mid flight. Both of them pretty much went "erm, could you pretty please do something about this? If not, it's cool" whereas the probably should have gone "sort it out, bitches".

Damn my britishness.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 Apr 2011, 05:23
Hold on a second, I'm British and I write harsh complaint emails. I'm also a bit Canadian but I'm not sure that makes much of a difference.

If you need complaint emails written, just let me know, all I demand is ten percent of the spoils of war.
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Post by: David_Dovey on 05 Apr 2011, 09:04
Yeah cos Canadians are never polite
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Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 05 Apr 2011, 16:22
oh shit getting into discussions about literature with my parents' friends on facebook somebody save me the future is here and it's weird
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Post by: Eris on 05 Apr 2011, 17:07
So, I went to a respiratory specialist on Monday. I have had a cough for six months and antibiotics haven't worked and I am tired all the time and feel like I am constantly running a low grade fever and have I mention I have had a cough for half a year? My GP decided that because my lungs are clear I shouldn't be coughing so I should try more asthma medication. I asked to see someone who ight have a better idea about what might be wrong rather than just prescribing me medication at random to see if anything changes.

So, $380 and a stab with a needle later, I am on more antibiotics! A six week course! That's gonna cost me about $80 all up and if that doesn't work I have to get a CAT scan to see why the antibiotics didn't work. Apparently the most likely situation is that I have done some sort of mild lung damage (could be from my scoliosis, or the bad chest infections I have had in the past, or maybe the whole hanging around with smokers deal) which means things aren't draining properly and stuff is getting caught and subsequently infected. I really hope these antibiotics work, I don't really know what will happen if they don't.
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Post by: tania on 05 Apr 2011, 17:45
dang hannah i hope everything works out, six months sounds like a real pain in the ass. here's hoping whatever the problem ends up being is easily fixable.
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Post by: Rizzo on 05 Apr 2011, 18:15
Damn hanburger, hope all clears up fairly swift-like. Dealing with coughing is frustrating as hell.

Things are pretty good for me right now. Signed the lease on a new apartment with Jimmy and Iggy yesterday, moving in in about 2 weeks. Job hunting is going fine, applying for a fair number of things each day, no doubt someone will get in touch soonish.

I finally heard back from google. The reason they couldn't hire me was that head office has decided that they want more quality improvement staff (devs, QAs, security etc) rather than support so they're not going to expand their support team at the moment. The bright side of this is that if they give the Sydney office the go-ahead to hire more staff I'm at the top of the pile. So, all is not lost but I don't intend to hold my breath on this one.

Going to see Star Fucking Hipsters on Friday. Should be awesome. When Leftover Crack (basically the same band less one vocalist) played in Auckland it was one of the best shows I've ever been to so this will likely be rad also :D (Sydney peeps, you should come too - http://www.myspace.com/starfuckinghipsters )
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Post by: Slick on 05 Apr 2011, 19:31
I really liked Chocking Victim so if these guys are descended from Leftover Crack I would totally go see them.
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Post by: sean on 05 Apr 2011, 22:04
oh geez my roommate just handed me an invitation to his wedding  :psyduck:

this is somewhat surreal, first time i've ever been invited to a wedding on my own.
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Post by: Rizzo on 05 Apr 2011, 22:31
Woo, two blog updates in one day, you lucky bastards.

I have an interview at Jimmy's work tomorrow. And I've been asked to submit examples of my writing to another company that I had an interview with. I'm in the final two for that place. Ultimately I'd rather work for the first company as they pay better, sound less stressful and almost certainly have a better company structure.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 05 Apr 2011, 22:34
Aw yeah work/internet/live-in chums!
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Apr 2011, 00:56
I am so drained mentally right now that I could scream. Except then I'd have to actually scream, and that'd be just ONE MORE THINK TO HAVE THUNK.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Apr 2011, 06:11
Things are happening with my new job! I only have 3 days left at the pizza place, and yesterday I took off to go to the annual team meeting at the new company. Woo! No more bitches asking why it took the driver longer to get to their house than it would have taken them to get to the store! You are not the only people getting pizza on a Friday night, most delivery runs have a couple of stops. If you wanted it that bad you could always, y'know, order for carryout and drive the 5 minutes to pick it up yourself. Also no more people losing their shit because we (actually it's corporate, this is a franchise, we have to do what they say) got rid of their Chicken Kickers. Geez. It's just fucking pizza.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 06 Apr 2011, 08:31
insert needlessly maudlin post

Lets at least try to be a bit more fucking positive eh.
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Post by: Boro_Bandito on 06 Apr 2011, 14:01
 Ohhhh, Dominos? Yeah I had a friend who was a delivery driver for them, and essentially they had him beat his car to absolute hell, customers are ridiculous and the pay absolutely sucked, he just got a job working for Flowers and Fancies as a driver since Valentine's Day and now he's got his own company van, better pay, less stress and less crazy co-workers. Of course I suppose the trade-off there is that now he has to deliver to hospitals and funeral homes and sometimes he has multiple deliveries to the same place because well sometimes there's more than one of whatever family involved there (both permanent and not) but overall he's much happier now.




I myself have currently stopped going to school, I am now enrolled as part of Sheppard Pratt's outpatient adult day hospital program, just dropped my prescription for Zoloft off at the pharmacy (I have never taken anti-depressants before) and in general I feel more crazy than I did the day I went to the ER that started all of this. 

Also I am enrolled in their "dual-diagnosis program", which means that I'm the only person in it for marijuana abuse (whereas everyone else is in it for Alchohol, heroin, and in some cases mixing of those plus several other drugs) even though I've agreed to completely stop smoking as long as I'm on any sort of medication, haven't smoked for the past two weeks since my little ER incident, have no desire to smoke (because the last thing I want to do is deal with side-effects from drug interaction) and generally I don't see myself as addicted in any way (I don't smoke alone ever, I don't mix drugs, I've never sold any possessions or stolen anything in order to buy drugs), and now I'm second guessing myself because all the nurses there and my psychiatrist are being pretty patronizing about all of it and in general making me, well, feel like an addict.

Also did I mention I'm somewhat of an introvert with horrible stage-fright that really, really hates having the center of attention focused on me at any given time? And group therapy? Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck.

Positive can be a very hard thing to be sometimes. Shit the only reason I can even say any of this is that sort of boundary that comes from the anonymity of this being the internet (even though I've met some of you awesome people in person, yes I know it doesn't make sense)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Apr 2011, 14:10
I assume you are being compelled to be in the program? Sounds kind of a tricky situation because of course they are not going to take your word for it that you aren't an addict... even if you really aren't. Good luck!

Had my last Wednesday with the kids - this time next week I'll be in St Jean de Luz and in two weeks I'll be home. We had a really nice day at Versailles having a picnic in blazing sunshine which I would consider good weather for August, never mind April. Four-year-old daughter, unsurprisingly, fell off her bike (which has stabilisers! I didn't know this was possible) and slightly grazed her knee. Cue hystrionics and constant references to "my blood". I must admit to limited patience for her hypochondria - although she's pretty stoic when she's actually hurt, but of course the tiny nicks and grazes happen all the time and it's so.boring.
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Post by: Boro_Bandito on 06 Apr 2011, 16:13
No, it's on a volunteer basis, I can walk out the door anytime I want as long as they don't have reason to believe I plan on hurting myself or someone else (I'm a pacifist and this has nothing to do with aggression towards others its just part of the thing they ask us every morning). However, based on the strong suggestions that they give me while I'm in the program I have to do what they say or they'll kick me out, and I'm in this program because I haven't found a psychiatrist that doesn't have at least a month long line before I can get an appointment, well at least one that takes insurance. I'm lucky that they were able to take me, frankly. I really, really don't like being called a liar though, whether they actually use the term or not, I try to be a person of my word and I've never been in a situation before where the latter is assumed. I suppose that once you admit to mental health problems the view becomes that every word you say is suspect by default, which really, really sucks.
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Post by: Elizzybeth on 06 Apr 2011, 19:26
My brother has been in a partial hospitalization day treatment program for a couple of months now, and he calls me frequently to complain about the groups.  He finds the experience helpful otherwise, but evidently the groups are uncomfortable and aggravating...

Will be thinking good thoughts for you, Boro.  Hope the medication helps.
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Post by: JD on 06 Apr 2011, 19:58
hurk graduating is so confusing
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Post by: JD on 06 Apr 2011, 20:02
like I might be going to london in the year after the next maybe but my mom expects me to go there without leaning on my aunt(who lives there) for support. I dunno how that's gonna work if I find vancouver to be a scary big city itself.

I just a po' country boy somebody help me.
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Post by: JD on 06 Apr 2011, 20:06
Also also my grandmother's memory has gotten so bad. She literally forgets things five minutes after we tell her. It's also(also also) a surprise trying to find things in the kitchen.
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Post by: Tom on 06 Apr 2011, 21:12
I'm sitting near a Texan who's skyping to a friend back in Austin. He keeps talking about how tanned he is. He is not.
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Post by: Rizzo on 06 Apr 2011, 21:30
Interview went well this morning. Only took 15--20 minutes though. Feeling pretty hopeful, not 100% sure though. Also got a callback from submitting some of my writing to come in for a second interview at the software company. If I get the job today I will call and cancel the interview but if I don't get it I guess I'll go along and see what's on offer.

It's hard to weigh up cause given that the software company said it was down to me and another dude and given they responded within an hour of me submitting my writing I'm fairly sure they want to offer me the job. But I don't really want to work there. It sounds like it'd be stressful, minimal/no room for growth, pay isn't as good. However, pros - closer to home, better hours, possibly more challenging work.

ARGH!

Also, I am an idiot. The modem here keeps dropping the connection, which is mildly annoying. So I went to the computer shop today to pickup a specific modem I had been recommended. Ended up walking out with another router since they didn't have the particular one I wanted... Do you see the problem here?

So now I have a useless router that I need to return. Oh well, gives me something to do tomorrow.

Edit:
(http://i16.photobucket.com/albums/b18/Cthulucore/goodnewsfarnsworth.jpg)
GOOD NEWS EVERYONE. I got the office job, working with Jimmy. Huzzah!
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Post by: Lines on 07 Apr 2011, 06:37
I'm sitting near a Texan who's skyping to a friend back in Austin. He keeps talking about how tanned he is. He is not.

If his definition of a tan is like my definition of a tan, then what he really means is he doesn't have to worry about blinding people as much with his skin. Lets put it this way - one summer one of my friends said that I could use the underside of my wrists as a self defense mechanism to blind attackers. When I "tan", I don't blind people as much.

Unless he's still blinding people with his paleness, then yes, he would be sadly misinformed.
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Post by: Katherine on 07 Apr 2011, 08:13
I very badly want to go back to school and get my Master's in Forensic Accounting, but I would more likely than not have to take a year off from work to do so.  I can't afford to do that.  I have roughly eleven months to figure this out/win lottery.
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Post by: Verergoca on 07 Apr 2011, 08:19
Right, today my basement went from this:

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/206354_1906283505939_1507323046_2104285_7907290_n.jpg)

to this:

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/214997_1906375548240_1507323046_2104333_7582307_n.jpg).

Took 2 trips with a van filled to capacity (and i think i went over the weightlimit on the last trip. Loads of wood!). Tomorrow, one more trip, and then we can start making something out of the thing.

Im tired now :)
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Post by: valley_parade on 07 Apr 2011, 11:28
Yr killing me here, Red Sox.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Apr 2011, 12:27
I am getting things done but slowlyyyyyyy oh god if there's anything I hate as much as packing I sure as fuck don't know what it is maybe it is fucking opossums or awful drummers or spiders or something I DON'T EVEN FUCKING KNOW ULAHGLUAHGLUHLGUHLA

IT IS PRETTY AWFUL THAT I WORKED THAT KEYSMASH OUT IN MY HEAD AND THEN ACTUALLY VOCALIZED IT. That is the level of procrastination I'm at right now

~*~i'M~a~HoT~mEsS~*~
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2011, 12:48
I hate packing too! It is the worst thing that I have to do on a semi-regular basis! Packing-hatred high five! o/

My favourite hobby at the moment is looking at properties to rent which are theoretically within my (completely invented and arbitrary) budget and feasibly close to uni. It's not like any of them will be available in October (and if they are there's something wrong with them anyway) but I still like to pretennnnnnnnnd.
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Post by: Lines on 07 Apr 2011, 13:06
I hate packing, but I hate unpacking even more.
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Apr 2011, 13:07
Is it weird that I totally love packing? Organizing, cleaning, all of that stuff makes me happy. Unfortunately this only annoys the boyfriend and co-workers.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2011, 13:08
Unpacking is the best thing! You get to set everything up how you want it and for a little while everything is shiny and clean and new and perfect! Packing is horrible because it means the end of something (even if it's the start of something else) and you have to fit everything into boxes which have suddenly got smaller and think about where you will need each thing and something is BOUND to be forgotten and it'll be the biggest, most awkward thing, and there's nowhere to put and ARGH.
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Post by: Lines on 07 Apr 2011, 13:10
I only enjoy cleaning when I'm angry. And I'd rather organize by not putting things into a box. I like categorizing and organizing my things, I just don't like packing because it means at some point I'll have to unpack it all again. Also I lose things in the packing process and I really hate that. A lot.
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Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 07 Apr 2011, 13:17
i like packing because i fucking rule at it


well...i rule at figuring out to efficiently fit things together (and my parents said tetris was useless).....I DON'T rule at deciding what to bring on a trip (i am the worst at that)

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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Apr 2011, 13:47
I'm pretty awful at packing for trips. I always end up with way too much stuff, and not because I'm stereotypically girly and think I need 10 purses with me, but because I think, well what happens if I sit in something and it gets my pants dirty and then my underpants and I don't have enough underpants?? This actually happened at my last convention. My friend was pouring me a drink and then poured like a cup of some alcoholic beverage directly into my crotch. And then I had to wash my pants (I was prepared on the underpants front) in the hotel sink and iron them dry. So I end up packing for a 3 days trip with 6 pairs of underpants.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2011, 14:21
I am amazing at packing for trips because I have done so many of them lately - I also own over a month's worth of underwear which means I don't have to do laundry during long trips. Packing up everything I own to move AGAIN is horrible though. Cannot. Wait. Until I can sign a lease for somewhere I will be staying for more than eight weeks at a time.
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Post by: Lunchbox on 07 Apr 2011, 15:31
I've moved I think 8 times in the past 3 or 4 years. I am great at packing. I also love moving, which is lucky.
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Post by: Caleb on 07 Apr 2011, 15:42
If I had a choice I would rather be locked in in a room with someone who has an extensive knife collection rather than someone who loves moving.  (Not good knives either, like the crappy ones you see on late night infomercials that only the truly deranged buy)

Honestly I just can't fathom how someone can have any positive feelings toward moving.  Being neutral to moving would be fine.  I guess I could maybe understand that a very few people might even like moving.

But...loving it?  I don't get you Lunchbox.

In other news I am moving out of my current apartment that has isopods in it and moving into a newly remodeled and painted townhouse two story apartment.

And though I am excited about living in a new space I am not excited about moving.
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Apr 2011, 15:49
I have moved twice, and only once for real, and even that was not for real for real.  Neither move had hard deadlines.  The first one was out of my parent's house into an apt two blocks away, so I could take my time getting my stuff and the second was out of that apt into the house next door to my parents, which they own so I had a week to move in before my other lease was up.  This time my move out date is flexible here, but since the move is out of state we have to do it all in one shot.  

I am nervous about the moving process for us at the end of this summer.  We have started sorting and packing things already because I just know we are going to have so much to do in the last few days.  Our new apt is smaller so we have to get rid of a lot of things.  Also we don't know anyone in Ann Arbor so moving stuff into the second floor apt is going to be all on us.  

Any pro tips for us, ye of many moves?  
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Post by: Caleb on 07 Apr 2011, 15:54
Make sure you label on opposite sides of the box if you have the time.  Or on the top and sides of the boxes.

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Post by: Lunchbox on 07 Apr 2011, 15:55
Start packing early. Get lots of boxes from the liquor store. Use teatowels and sheets and towels to wrap your breakables. Do one trip before you take your furniture over so that you can unpack some of the bigger stuff and empty some boxes.

I mainly love moving because I love decorating, and I love exploring new places and changing up my schedule.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2011, 15:58
Yeah label everything. And think really carefully about what you are going to need (not what you MIGHT need but what you are actually going to need) and keep that out. It sounds really obvious but you really don't want to be unpacking the whole box to get at the spatula or whatever.

Pack early. Pack viciously - if it's only a "might" need this before the move, you don't. It's better to keep washing the same plate and glass than to have to pack all your crockery on the last day.

Oh yeah and remember you have to lift those buggers, probably up stairs. Boxes weigh three times as much on the day as they do in advance - truu fakt.

If you're one of those people who can trick themselves into an early deadline, do that - tell yourself you've got to be ready three days before you actually have, and then camp out for the last three days rather than leaving it all to the last minute.

And as my dad always says to me "there's only one last minute, and it's sixty seconds just like all the others".
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Post by: Eris on 07 Apr 2011, 16:02
One thing I have seen reccommended a lot that seems really clever is to have one box with stuff you will need straight away, like two plates, some basic cutlery, towels and change of clothes or whatever. Then  when you get there and there are all these boxes and you just want to have a shower or a glass of water you don't have to rummage through all the boxes or suitcases to fine what you need for that first night.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2011, 16:04
KETTLE FOR CUP OF TEA
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Apr 2011, 16:19
The longest I've ever lived in one place is maybe 4 years - and everywhere else I've been less than 2 years. So I've done a shit ton of moving and I no longer mind it. I do love getting to re-decorate and re-think everything and really sort through all my junk and get rid of what I no longer need/want. The only thing I really, honestly hate is the physical labor. I am smooshy and weak.

My tip is to think through where everything is going to go. Pack by room as much as you can - and know that there will always be "misc crap" boxes. If you can make them "misc bathroom" or "misc bedroom" boxes, at the least, it will save you a lot of time when unpacking. If there's anything that's going to stay in boxes for some time - like books that are low priority - write everything on the box, and be thorough. That way when you're searching through boxes for something, you can ignore that box entirely. But it just takes way too much time to do that with all the other boxes, so that's only helpful on low priority stuff.

EDIT: Boro, my brother also went to Shepherd Pratt, for the same program, and it really helped him. He hated the group stuff just as much. Good on you for getting help for yourself. I hope you start feeling better soon!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Apr 2011, 16:27
Oh oh something I forgot: Packing lists. They are superuseful for holidays and even better for boxes! Make a list of what is in that box and stick it to the outside of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 07 Apr 2011, 17:17
I think my flatmate is playing matchmaker for me. It's a bit weird.

EDIT: nope it's alright. never mind.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Boro_Bandito on 07 Apr 2011, 18:26
That has a bit of a vague meaning to it to mang.


You guys are moving to Ann Arbor, MI? I'm looking at the travel Wiki and it seems lovely.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 07 Apr 2011, 20:23
Hey so I've been entering a bunch of stories in this SMS short story competition which closes on Sunday (Australian time), but apparently the winner is going to be determined in part by some bullshit popularity contest, and because it's almost the weekend I'm not feeling a lot of shame, so if any of you who have Facebook want to "Like" my stories to boost my chances of winning a cool three Gs you can click on the following links to my get to my stories:

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0NzE1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0NzE1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0NTE1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0NTE1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0NzQ1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0NzQ1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0OTQ1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI0OTQ1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1MzM1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1MzM1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1NTE1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1NTE1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1NjE1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1NjE1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1NzQ1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1NzQ1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1OTc1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI1OTc1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI2MzE1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI2MzE1)

http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI2MTk1 (http://www.bpayshortandsweet.com.au/e/NjI2MTk1)

I'm going to submit a few more over the weekend.
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Post by: squawk on 07 Apr 2011, 21:24
I liked the first one! And then it started giving me errors. I will try again soon.

I also actually like all your stories, as in "enjoying" them
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Post by: Inlander on 07 Apr 2011, 21:32
Thanks Anna!

This competition has actually been a really useful experience for me, because it's demonstrated that I can actually cut down my Sunday SMS stories succesfully (the competition limit was 120 characters). Sure, whatever nuance or colour is possible in 160 characters tends to get lost in the process - but it's still doable. I'm currently thinking of ways to do modified versions of the stories also as a twitter feed (140 characters) to try to get a larger readership.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scarychips on 07 Apr 2011, 21:38
Not to sound creepy, but if you go through with that Twitter thing, I'd follow you. I am really enjoying your stories there, Harry.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 07 Apr 2011, 23:48
My favourite hobby at the moment is looking at properties to rent which are theoretically within my (completely invented and arbitrary) budget and feasibly close to uni. It's not like any of them will be available in October (and if they are there's something wrong with them anyway) but I still like to pretennnnnnnnnd.

There's a stunningly beautiful art deco cinema in Sheffield called the Adelphi. It's closed down and up for sale and I'm wondering if I can get away with calling up the estate agents and arranging a look around because it is absolutely lovely and I want to get inside and touch things.

(http://www.picturesofengland.com/img/L/1108392.jpg)
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Post by: Inlander on 08 Apr 2011, 00:04
There's a beautiful old brick Art Deco building near my house, all the more notable because the dominant architectural styles in this part of Melbourne are Victorian and Edwardian. And what do you suppose is in this building, spattering its advertising and branding all over the facade?

A fucking McDonald's.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 08 Apr 2011, 00:08
What a waste, Harry.

Bloody hell, I want to live in that art deco cinema.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 08 Apr 2011, 00:29
Well obviously living in it would be lovely. I won't deny at least half an hour of fantasising about long self-congratulatory chats with Kevin McCloud as he enthuses over my sensitive restoration and commitment to the original designer's vision. Alas my Grand Design moment is probably a long way off right now.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 08 Apr 2011, 02:41
Hooray,

I got a letter from HMRC saying that I underpaid tax of £667.60 and that I need to pay them by the end of the month. Just what you need when you're unemployed with no prospects of a job.

FML
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 08 Apr 2011, 02:59
Thanks Anna!

This competition has actually been a really useful experience for me, because it's demonstrated that I can actually cut down my Sunday SMS stories succesfully (the competition limit was 120 characters). Sure, whatever nuance or colour is possible in 160 characters tends to get lost in the process - but it's still doable. I'm currently thinking of ways to do modified versions of the stories also as a twitter feed (140 characters) to try to get a larger readership.

I've been thinking of suggesting this for a while. Also consider that with a popular twitter feed behind you, it might be easier to get the book published.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 08 Apr 2011, 03:18
What I'm thinking of doing is keeping the regular Sunday SMS stories, but also cutting them down to size and posting them on Twitter on Mondays. I'll also set up a simple blog which will explain the whole project and which will have the phone number for anyone who wants to subscribe to the SMS versions. I'll probably also get a PayPal account or something and start charging a small subscription fee for the stories - probably A$10 a year (which will more than cover the costs of distribution).

I'll probably waive the fee for existing subscribers, though. (Don't tell anyone!)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 08 Apr 2011, 07:50
Hey Jens, can you go to the wailing wall or whatever and stick a note in there praying for some decent Red Sox baseball?

I feel like maybe I should try this religion thing, 0-6 is just not natural.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 08 Apr 2011, 08:25
Our government may get shut down today. Oh joy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 08 Apr 2011, 08:33
USA! USA! US...oh wait.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Apr 2011, 11:05
I think I've managed to condense my life into as little as I can. I'm going to be taking two books, both signed (one is poetry, the other is newspaper articles only in a book), one DVD, and ten records. Tea for the Tillerman ain't going nowhere without me.

Also I'm back in shithole hometown Albion. I found my birth certificate, because the last six months I've been asking my father to find it but he can't seem to manage to find his ass with both hands, a flashlight, and backup rescue party. Took me five fucking minutes. But! I have it now, and can finally go about changing my damn name.

Life is getting better!
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Post by: Lines on 08 Apr 2011, 14:06
Good for you!

Student teaching today was so awesome oh my god these kids are great.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 08 Apr 2011, 14:28
I'll probably waive the fee for existing subscribers, though. (Don't tell anyone!)

I've been forwarding them on to a friend across town. When you started, he was my neighbor and I'd read them to him every few weeks over beers. Now I don't see him as often so I send it. Should I keep doing that, or make him get his own subscription so you can have some monies from him?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Apr 2011, 14:42
ARGH YOU GUYS I am kind of considering dropping out of my degree and taking a childcare qualification instead. HELP. What do I do.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 08 Apr 2011, 14:44
Finish your degree, May.

Then raise your own babies. Not other peoples'. Duh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 08 Apr 2011, 14:46
Also if you drop out of uni I will heckle you mercilessly. And be disappointed in you. Just ask Shane.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Ozymandias on 08 Apr 2011, 15:00
Finish your degree, May.

Then raise your own babies. Not other peoples'. Duh.

Except for mine, raise mine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 08 Apr 2011, 19:19
If I've learned anything from studying its that uni gets easier to navigate, and as a direct result the stuff you study seems considerably less scary. If you're thinking of dropping law because you don't think you can handle it, I suggest you stick with it a little longer. If you're just not enjoying the stuff you're studying, and don't think its because its hard to understand, then you're not doing yourself any favours by sticking around because you won't use it when you graduate.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 08 Apr 2011, 20:35
I'll probably waive the fee for existing subscribers, though. (Don't tell anyone!)

I've been forwarding them on to a friend across town. When you started, he was my neighbor and I'd read them to him every few weeks over beers. Now I don't see him as often so I send it. Should I keep doing that, or make him get his own subscription so you can have some monies from him?

Nah keep doing it, my main interest is making sure as many people read them as possible and I love that people share them. I did that census last year and I found out that the "unofficial" readership is about three or four times the size of the "official" readership (ie, the number of subscribers), which is amazing. Making money is a secondary concern.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Apr 2011, 23:06
So I found out a friend of mine kinda sorta founded Wax Trax Records

Mind is pretty well blown
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Christophe on 08 Apr 2011, 23:14
So I've decided that a policy of Sexual Détente is probably the best for me right now. Yeah, I haven't had a whole lot of success with the ladies at this point but honestly I've really stopped caring that I'm not getting any right now. I feel like I've got to focus on being as happy as I can without needing to pursue someone at this point, and it's something I've never really done. I can't remember a point since middle school where I haven't felt "I'm happy without wanting/needing a girlfriend" and I think I'm long overdue for that. (Granted for four years I was with a cool girl, but I'm not anymore and since then I've done a lot of re-evaluating of what I want out of a lady and such.) There's so many things I feel like I should probably focus on (like finding a more stable job, moving out of where I am right now, playing music), things I can actually do and have fun with or that actually really matter before involving a girl into the equation. If something just happens to fall into my lap and I'm down, I'm not gonna say no but I'm not going to actively pursue it.

Is this sensible or is this my dry spell getting to me? Do I just need to get laid?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: allison on 08 Apr 2011, 23:51
haha yes dude at the bar it is funny when you try and undo my bra hahaha also when you try and put your beer between my breasts because my shirt is low cut haha you just hit me in the teeth with the bottle ow haha
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 08 Apr 2011, 23:58
Did you report it to security? That sounds like behaviour that would get a guy kicked out of a bar in no time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 09 Apr 2011, 07:40
Jimmy made kangaroo for dinner which was pretty damn good if a wee bit strange tasting. After lurking about watching cartoons all evening I suddenly noticed this weird smell, no idea quite what to make of it...
After smelling my way around the kitchen for a moment I realised it was the kangaroo'y frying pan. Apparently kangaroo fat smells like satan's butthole.

Basically I am attempting to share my new found knowledge, kangaroo, delicious but deadly! (but mostly delicious (let Jimmy cook for you, he's really good)).

Is it weird that I'm blogging about this?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 09 Apr 2011, 07:43
haha yes dude at the bar it is funny when you try and undo my bra hahaha also when you try and put your beer between my breasts because my shirt is low cut haha you just hit me in the teeth with the bottle ow haha

Did you punch him in the face?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 09 Apr 2011, 10:11
Man this forum I post on a ton just closed down with like a day's notice. It's been getting kinda shitty for a while but I'm really bummed out about this. I haven't got a clue how to get in touch with anyone I knew from there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Apr 2011, 11:22
Finish your degree, May.

Then raise your own babies. Not other peoples'. Duh.

Except for mine, raise mine.

I am going to do both! I will raise my own and people will pay me to stay home and homeschool my kids because I will also be playing the Choking Hazard game with their babies! (Don't put that in your mouth... take it out of your mouth! What have you got in there now?)

Jordan, you are welcome to move to wherever I open my daycare and put your kids into it. DO THIS.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 09 Apr 2011, 12:57
I'm going out tonight! I'm going to be social, and there will be alcohol!

I'm afraid  :psyduck:
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Post by: Tom on 09 Apr 2011, 13:16
Is it weird that I'm blogging about this?

Not at all, Kangaroo is very good for you and the environment. I really wish that we'd switch to it as our main domestic source of red meat.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 09 Apr 2011, 13:48
I feel like I've got to focus on being as happy as I can without needing to pursue someone at this point, and it's something I've never really done. I can't remember a point since middle school where I haven't felt "I'm happy without wanting/needing a girlfriend" and I think I'm long overdue for that. (Granted for four years I was with a cool girl, but I'm not anymore and since then I've done a lot of re-evaluating of what I want out of a lady and such.) There's so many things I feel like I should probably focus on (like finding a more stable job, moving out of where I am right now, playing music), things I can actually do and have fun with or that actually really matter before involving a girl into the equation. If something just happens to fall into my lap and I'm down, I'm not gonna say no but I'm not going to actively pursue it.

Is this sensible or is this my dry spell getting to me? Do I just need to get laid?

If your ultimate goal is a meaningful long-term relationship with someone, this is how it should be done. Being happy and stable makes you more attractive to other happy and stable people, and having your happiness and stability arise from outside a relationship puts much less stress on the relationship, increasing the chances it will be successful. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 09 Apr 2011, 13:49
(but mostly delicious (let Jimmy cook for you, he's really good)).


Once he tried to feed me fried spam. If anything smelled like Satan's butthole, that was it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 09 Apr 2011, 14:05
If your ultimate goal is a meaningful long-term relationship with someone, this is how it should be done. Being happy and stable makes you more attractive to other happy and stable people, and having your happiness and stability arise from outside a relationship puts much less stress on the relationship, increasing the chances it will be successful.  

Also as cliche as it sounds, the best way to find someone is to stop looking, and just let yrself be open to the possibility if it arises instead of forcing it. I'd imagine this has a lot to do with people being a lot more attractive when they're not desperate and consumed by desire to be in a relationship no matter what.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Allybee on 09 Apr 2011, 14:10
evaluating my life:

+ exciting summer internship. there's a stipend and I'm getting my own place but it's not terribly far from my parents or my best friend. located in a small college town where there will be many students. internship directly pertains to my interests and career goals (it's in land conservation). future coworkers seem incredibly friendly.
+ got into printmaking class for next year. you have to interview for upper level classes here and I've never gotten refused but it's still nice, I'm not going abroad so that I can take this. the professor loved my work and I felt good in the studio. might concentrate on printmaking within my art major.
+ successfully restarted super cool art collective. people seem stoked/interested. I hear people talking about it on campus.
+ I have many exceedingly lovely friends.
+ my friend's birthday party is at the farm tonight :)

- I am so fucking fail with boys. still.
- my housemates have band practice and ug that bass is loud

I'm going to try to stop looking and concentrate on continuing to be great at everything. boys are time consuming anyways.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 09 Apr 2011, 14:15
I'm going out tonight! I'm going to be social, and there will be alcohol!

Got cancelled on  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Apr 2011, 14:50
Our government may get shut down today. Oh joy.

The only negative consequence I can think of is that if the State Department can no longer exist then my mum's out of a job. It's honestly about fucking time, this shit's been completely without function for more years than I care to think.

Dear blog,

Literally every single thing that could possibly go wrong with my move has gone wrong with my move. Fuck my life completely.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 09 Apr 2011, 15:28
Well, one of my roommates works at a library and that would have affected her getting paid. That would have been bad. But at least they got their shit together and didn't shut down and Planned Parenthood wasn't affected, so hey.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 09 Apr 2011, 16:02
Look on the bright side, your corporations can remain prosperous and competitive and your military strong. You just need to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and move on.

EDIT: for a country that doesn't believe in wealth redistribution, you sure do a lot of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 09 Apr 2011, 16:14
Got cancelled on  :psyduck:

I'll go out and party with you, Dovey. I'll just spend my next rent payment on plane tickets because, pfft, who needs a roof over their head?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 09 Apr 2011, 16:29
OK! I only have a single bed but I'm sure we'll work something out.
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Post by: sean on 09 Apr 2011, 21:22
cuddle
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Post by: Tom on 09 Apr 2011, 21:55
I lent my mouse to dad yesterday because his was broken (some crappy $2 wired mouse he got from playing a shit ton of internet poker), I took it back this morning when he wasn't around because I wanted to play torchlight on my laptop. He just came down here and I asked him what was up and he was all hyper-aggressive: well what do you expect me to do I don't have a mouse! I didn't want any trouble or any of his alpha-male bullshit so I just gave it to him even though it is mine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 10 Apr 2011, 00:02
Today I found a 5-book compilation of Tom of Finland comics. I really wanted to buy it and send it to Tommy, but it was $25 and I am desperately poor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: est on 10 Apr 2011, 01:31
There is some sort of Tom of Finland boxed set at Pentimento in Newtown.  It looks intimidatingly large.
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Post by: Metope on 10 Apr 2011, 05:01
Oh man guys, Glasgow is gorgeous in spring! Yesterday and today the weather has been so good, and everyone seem even happier than usual. I went to the park yesterday and spent most of the day outside, and since I burn easily I wore 50+ spf sunblock, like I always do when the sun is out. When I got to the pub in the evening where I was meeting my friends, one of them said 'you look sunburned'. Yep, I get sunburned with 50+ spf in the Northern UK (and yes, I did reapply every other hour)/

Oh and while I was walking down a street, this drunk old hobo stopped me and said 'Wow, those red shoes go so well with your striped top, you know how to dress!'
Why, thank you, fashion conscious hobo!
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Post by: Liz on 10 Apr 2011, 07:18
I feel like Fashion Conscious Hobo is going to be the next internet meme.

Let's make this happen.
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Apr 2011, 07:40
I feel like Fashion Conscious Hobo is going to be the next internet meme.

Let's make this happen.

already was in China Brother Sharp  (http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/brother-sharp-%E7%8A%80%E5%88%A9%E5%93%A5)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 10 Apr 2011, 08:31
Quote
On January 1st, 2011, fashion entrepreneur Zhuang Weiguo announced the launch of China’s very first “peasant chic” fashion brand, a luxury men’s clothing line entirely inspired by the vagabond style of Brother Sharp.

God sometimes I hate the world.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 10 Apr 2011, 09:05
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zkOBAEa9wn8  ?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 10 Apr 2011, 12:55
One of my best friends is getting married holy what the crap.

He's the first one from my social group to do that. Depending on when the wedding is, I'm gonna try to fly home, I don't wanna miss this.

I am slightly worried in a sense though, I've never even met the girl, they've only been dating since I left, so like 10 months max. Also this girl is I think only the third girl he's ever been with. Kinda blown away about this whole thing to be honest.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 10 Apr 2011, 20:15
My first (and ex, duh) girlfriend is engaged, I'm really weirded out about that. A ton of people my in my age and social group have had babies though, so that lessens the impact a bit, I guess.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 10 Apr 2011, 21:10
A lot of my girlfriend's friends from highschool either already have kids or are getting pregnant and it really weirds both of us out. These people are still like, 22 and it doesn't make a great deal of sense to us.

I don't know what a lot of people from my past are doing. I don't keep in touch with my exes (to the point where I moved to a different part of Sydney and broke contact with all our mutual friends, in the case of my last relationship) so I imagine I would be weirded out if that was happening.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 10 Apr 2011, 23:29
gaaaaahd daaamn. here goes week three of the quarter. i am not looking forward to when calc starts being calc but hopefully i can keep on top of my shit.

which i have been doing so far, lately! i seem to have fucking randomly lost the habit of procrastination? so now instead of having obligations constantly hanging over my head i just do work and then i end up with all this free time that doesn't count as "fucking around" anymore and it's really weird and i do not like it. i liked last quarter better when it was colder and i was sadder and my friend was sad too and we both were taking only twelve units and i didn't even have to actually go to class and we'd just do drugs but now i have class every day for the first time all year and i can't miss ANY of them and our dealer got kicked out of school and we can still get drugs but we're trying to stop doing things that aren't blazing because we're not so fucked up anymore. so i guess now i'm biding my time and focusing on school. also i don't have any friends

but i'm so bored. i am getting super complacent not doing much besides listening to and playing music and i'm worried that i'm getting super boring. but i can't really go out and metaphorically fuck shit up if i don't know what i'm looking for. i just feel very neutral and indifferent and it is crippling. i'd rather be sad than this

also i stopped smoking when i actually need more excuses to go outside
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 11 Apr 2011, 02:14
You could go and explore your area? I certainly haven't done that enough around here.

I'm going to Honolulu in June! What does one do in Honolulu?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 11 Apr 2011, 07:39
i heard there might be a beach around there somewhere

 :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 11 Apr 2011, 07:41
And pineapples. So many pineapples.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 11 Apr 2011, 08:39
Also if you drop out of uni I will heckle you mercilessly. And be disappointed in you. Just ask Shane.

 :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 11 Apr 2011, 08:44
A lot of my girlfriend's friends from highschool either already have kids or are getting pregnant and it really weirds both of us out. These people are still like, 22 and it doesn't make a great deal of sense to us.

I don't know what a lot of people from my past are doing. I don't keep in touch with my exes (to the point where I moved to a different part of Sydney and broke contact with all our mutual friends, in the case of my last relationship) so I imagine I would be weirded out if that was happening.

That freaks me out too, especially if it was someone in a grade below my own. One of my classmates got married recently and I was freaking out a little, thinking, "I am no where close to thinking about marrying any one, how could she?"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 11 Apr 2011, 09:23
My little sister has a baby. She's like 4 years younger than me. Oh and she's married. One of my exes who is a few years younger than me is very happily married, and plenty of my high school friends are married and/or have kids.

I'm perfectly content being in a long term relationship with only fuzzy four-legged children. Though the fact that my little sister has a kid does bug me quite a bit.

I don't want children myself, I prefer to borrow others' kids and dress them up like animals and then return them when they poop or start crying or something. The marriage thing I think I would like but it's no big deal right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 11 Apr 2011, 10:07
I'm going to my first not-probably-a-result-of-Catholic-upbringing-but-age-has-brought-these-people-to-a-time-in-their-lives-type wedding in July. It's gonna be weird, I'm probably gonna get loaded and hang out with their really adorable kids, overall prediction: positive night.

Hey! The band went to Medicine Hat this weekend and played for a bunch of art school kids. It was really, really great, especially since a bunch of them voted for us to be there (!) and we were thrown into the ring for that by a good friend of mine who's doing design there. And then while I'm there my friend, Graeme, tells me he's had an idea for These Estates t-shirts. And then when I get home he's posted a draft design on my wall. Behold, the only band shirt you've ever seen where the ink is actual real BBQ sauce:

(http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/216254_10150216315583268_504973267_8559914_2588733_n.jpg)

I am so fucking proud of this guy. This is the dorky beardo equivalent of that Cop Shoot Cop record with the pig's blood on it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 11 Apr 2011, 14:23
would mail-order that shirt
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Post by: Ozymandias on 11 Apr 2011, 15:44
Would give you my bank account and routing numbers for that shirt.
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Post by: Scarychips on 11 Apr 2011, 16:56
Would give you Ozy's bank account and routing numbers for that shirt.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 11 Apr 2011, 16:59
Yeah, would definitely let Jordan buy one for me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scarychips on 11 Apr 2011, 17:03
In fact, let's have Jordan buy one for everybody!

Jordan: This forum's very own Oprah.
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Post by: Inlander on 11 Apr 2011, 17:07
Ooh, can he take me with him on a holiday to Australia?

Oh wait . . . never mind.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 11 Apr 2011, 17:54
posting because i just changed my avatar/accompanying text

and yeah riz if i had a car i'd be set...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 11 Apr 2011, 18:45
Whoa I am doing four projects at once goddamn is this what being productive is like
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 11 Apr 2011, 18:51
Squawk, your legs don't work? I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 11 Apr 2011, 19:08
I just live in a really weird place! :[ I'm basically trapped on campus (which is very fun to wander through, i am good at that) and can get out only by bus, but there's so much of this city i can't explore that easily because the buses only run through certain places. next year/this summer will be better
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Apr 2011, 19:10
I got my car back today from the shop.  Somehow the check engine light magically went off, so it passed inspection and it cost less than the insurance settlement to fix the door, so money in my pocket to compensate for what a pain in the ass this has been I guess.  Super happy about that!

Also I was looking up Michigan's inspection requirements online, since when this inspection expires I will have moved and they have none.  NONE. NOTHING.  I could just tear off the windshield wipers, and ride the tires bald and spew black smoke every time I accelerate and I would be legal to drive there.  wtf?  I mean I appreciate not having to spend a grand every year fixing random things in hopes it gets the damn light off so I can drive my car, but I would think at least a safety inspection?  I am guessing the state's (waning perhaps) interest in keeping the auto industry happy has something to do with it, but I still can't believe it.  
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 11 Apr 2011, 19:29
In Arizona there is no inspection, just an emissions test every two years. I don't think you even have to pay for it either.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Eris on 11 Apr 2011, 19:56
you guys remember this picture?

(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v663/Lapuz/drawings/looklike.jpg)

I realised today that I now look like how I wanted to look like.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Apr 2011, 19:58
o/
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Post by: Eris on 11 Apr 2011, 20:01
\o
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 11 Apr 2011, 20:21
Mine was this:

(http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j125/allylester/66422b07.jpg)

And I did briefly look like this (except still with the nose and the glasses) but then I cut my hair off again and still wear jeans and blazer every day for work but wear dresses on the weekend.
Also shit, I am wearing that exact outfit today except I am wearing my black flats and not my red ones.

PS Original  thread whut: http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24785
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 11 Apr 2011, 20:24
i just wanted to buy a pair of glasses, i think i did alright on that
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Post by: allison on 11 Apr 2011, 20:42
still no moustache, sorry guys
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Post by: Lunchbox on 11 Apr 2011, 20:51
I have adjusted this to include all of the things I want to buy with my next paycheck and also grown my hair back at rapid speed but have it be less annoying and shinier and prettier with neater curls and also taking less than 5 minutes to do in the morning please.

(http://i79.photobucket.com/albums/j125/allylester/looklike.jpg)
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Post by: Lunchbox on 11 Apr 2011, 20:52
Also fuck me, what is wrong with MS Paint it is so dumb now
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 11 Apr 2011, 20:55
last wednesday i wrote about 4000 words in my novel. today between about 6:00 and now i wrote another 4000 words. i need finals to be over so i can throw myself into this thing full-time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 11 Apr 2011, 21:00
Wait, what? Johnny, I didn't even know you were writing one! God damn it man you're a musician, stick to one damn thing Can you tell us what it's about?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Yunior on 11 Apr 2011, 21:03
4000 words a DAY? Seriously I hate you I hope all 4000 words are stupid words, also what Inlander said
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 11 Apr 2011, 21:20
Wait, what? Johnny, I didn't even know you were writing one! God damn it man you're a musician, stick to one damn thing Can you tell us what it's about?

it's about basically a bunch of high schoolers who smoke pot and listen to heavy metal and go to shows and kind of care about one or two subjects at school but not really all of them and then it's also at the same time as it's about those things it's about the catastrophic influx of information in our lives on a daily basis in the early days here of the 21st century and of how the ways we get information and how we expect information to come in to us have dramatically altered the ways we engage with privacy and with identity and how basically we have to deal with everything we had to deal with before the internet and facebook and 9/11 but on top of it we have to deal with all of those things too and how in adolescence that can be a serious fucking nightmare and we don't really know how these people are going to turn out as adults affected by this. there's some obvious baudrillardian anxiety in there too. i haven't really worked the whole thing out yet. also there's a character who i'm going to strongly hint is psychic and the novel's going to end with a sequence of heavy metal magical realism
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Post by: tania on 11 Apr 2011, 21:26
man fuck you johnny i have a 30 page paper to finish by friday morning and all i have been able to summon the strength to do with my day is feebly edit sentences here and there between lengthy chain smoking and stuffing nutella down my mouth hole sessions. okay not really fuck you but kick my ass okay, i need your help this time
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Post by: Inlander on 11 Apr 2011, 21:33
Yeah but when you're writing a novel you get to just make shit up, see. Makes the writing so much easier.
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Post by: Johnny C on 11 Apr 2011, 21:56
here are a couple of snippets i'm pretty proud of right now, that don't spoil anything major, since now i want the opening of the novel to be as much a surprise as i can muster

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Brad pauses, then brings his right hand off the keyboard, holds it in the air, and slowly but firmly brings it down on ., making this the most deliberate endstop he’s ever put in a piece of writing, to date. Midway through he almost changes his mind, then thinks better of it.
   One down, four to go. Drink. He’ll never get used to the flavour of energy drinks, he thinks. Other guys in his grade are constantly ducking out to the gas station across the street at lunch and during the morning break between classes, usually crossing mid-street and messing up traffic something fierce, for a can of the stuff. He doesn’t get it. He can barely drink anything that isn’t orange juice before eleven. Usually he just buys some from the student-run, staff-supervised canteen. If it’s a good week and he’s feeling loose with his money he’ll buy one of the retarded kids whatever it is they’re getting, usually a cookie or something. He got in shit from Ms. Bhabi one time for buying Nicks, the big one with the wheedly voice and the squinty eyes, a pack of candy, so whenever Nicks wants candy Brad usually gently suggests that maybe Nicks would like a banana or an orange and Nicks usually says “Okay” and after Nicks goes over to where all Ms. Bhabi’s kids sit Brad watches as Ms. Bhabi doesn’t smile but as she peels the fruit she usually gives Brad the little half-smirk with the cocked eyebrow that passes for a look of approval from her. She never really looks actually happy about something, mostly just sarcastic. That’s not the right word and if Brad asked Jamie he’s sure she’d be able to give him a word that sounded nicer but anyways Brad doesn’t think she (Ms. Bhabi) likes anything very much although she seems to appreciate the fact that Brad doesn’t screw with Nicks. Not that a lot of kids do, or screw around with anyone in Ms. Bhabi’s class to begin with, since it’s pretty low to screw with someone who’s retarded and a lot of them learned that in grade school at the very least, but Brad especially basically just tries to treat them decently. He knows sometimes he pours it on a little thick and so he catches himself and tries not to speak overly slowly since like that’s not even a thing you do with handicapped people, it’s a thing you do with foreign people and even then you only do it if you’re a racist idiot so Brad tries not to do it with them either, with the point being that a guy like Nicks is neither overtly foreign nor deaf so Brad doesn’t do the slow-talking thing, at least not consciously. He does do it with the one kid with palsy, Travis, who can’t really do anything except open his mouth and slowly wave his arms in a way that makes Brad’s gut cringe but that’s just because like Brad’s not really sure how much Travis can hear or understand to even begin with so he makes sure he also makes his sentences pretty simple. Not that that’s tough for Brad to do that, either, especially considering how shitty this essay is going, but point is that he thinks it’s decent to at least try to accommodate Travis too.
   Ms. Bhabi, by the way, is hot. Like, completely attractive, a darker brown lady from India with the kind of curved face you want to put both hands on before you try and grab her lips with your own, the kind of attractive person who also, probably, knows exactly how attractive she is. The kind of attractive that they should vet for before hiring a teacher, because it’s honestly not fair to any of the guys in the school, having a teacher who looks like Ms. Bhabi. The kind of attractive that a couple of kids Brad knows have actually honestly tried, through what he understood to be really shady methods, to get her phone number. Brad has no idea what they’d do with it. His favourite shirt she wears is probably the one with the ruffled neck where the ruffles form a V and go over top of her breasts, which the rest of the shirt is tight and smooth and light-blue and basically clings to them so that your eyes have no choice but to wait until she’s not looking and then try to guess their weight. Brad thinks they’d be pretty heavy but he’s not sure, since the only breasts he’s touched so far are of the developing variety. The ruffles kind of look like maybe waves breaking against a pair of rocks. That sounds stupid every time Brad thinks it, though. She also has a shapely and proud-looking ass which Brad and also pretty much as far as he can tell every other straight guy in his grade has noticed since she spends a lot of time leaning over to the kids in her class. Which like okay is a bit weird to think about, granted, cause it’s hard to picture her leaning over for a perfectly acceptable mental image like Whoops I Dropped A Pencil, I’d Better Pick It Up or Let’s Do Some Warm-Up Stretches or I’m Bracing Myself Here On Your Work Desk Because I Want You To Have Sex With Me From Behind While We Stand Up without one of those kids pushing that little joystick on the armrest of his or her chair and puttering slowly out of Brad’s (and, seriously, just about every other straight guy in his grade’s) liminal fog into the frame of said mental image to wave their arms and drool a little bit and then it’s really, really hard to think about gently sinking one’s fingers into the curved flesh of Ms. Bhabi's cherrylike buttocks. With Herculean effort Brad manages to picture that kid turning around and rolling back off into God-knows-where and so Ms. Bhabi is able to turn around and look at him and make that little eyebrow-raised-half-smile at him again.
   There is absolutely no way Brad will ever have sex with Ms. Bhabi and he knows this so he only entertains the thought at times like now, when he’s realizing that there’s no way he is possibly going to be able to focus with this erection, so he discreetly unzips and pops his erect dick out over top of the waistband of his boxer-briefs and spits into his hand and quickly rubs one out, thinking this time that after doing the thing he was thinking she was doing at the start they’d move around and so Ms. Bhabi would probably be lying on the bed while he stands up and sticks it into her. He’s kind of unclear on a few of the details of how that last part works but he’s got the gist well enough that he grunts a bit as he finishes and grabs a Kleenex to quietly and gently wipe away the mess.

   “The first point of evidence is that the Twin Towers didn’t look like they fell down because of a plane crash. As Loose Change points out the steel girders in the tower could not melt the way that official reports said they could. It was because jet fuel can’t burn at the girders melting point. So something else must have brought them down. Loose Change says that the girders were melted by a controlled explosion that caused the building to collapse. This is also why the building doesn’t look like a normal collapsing building.”

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It takes what feels awfully close to the last reserves in his already-limited strength to not turn right at the stairs and just collapse in front of the TV while he waits for Skate 3 to load, but Brad manages. He shuts the door behind him very gently. This is about the time he realizes he can see the horizon outside his window.
   “Fuck, shit,” he says. “Oh no no no no no no.”
   He gets stuck on “no” and keeps repeating it as he crosses his room in a single stride and pulls his chair underneath him. His resolve to finish the assignment begins a total and en masse retreat. He sees his hands start running slapdash through all of his papers, independently of his brain, which desperately wishes they would calm down long enough for him to give them some instructions. Unfortunately, his hands have absolutely no interest in taking orders and in about five seconds work themselves up into such a frenzy that they’ve literally cleared off Brad’s desk. All his papers are on the floor. His last three remaining nerves will get heroes’ funerals. Brad looks at the mess he suddenly and for what he can tell was basically no reason just created around his workspace and in a moment of panic so intense it’s almost Zen-like he wonders if it’s possible to wish you were dead so hard that it would actually happen. He closes his eyes and tries it. What keeps it from happening isn’t so much his will to live, which is by now non-existent enough to give this a shot, but in fact that he doesn’t have the energy to do it. He sticks his arms out in front of him like a caricature of a blind person and moves his fingers around ineffectually. Alright, you asshole hands, if you want to do things your way rather than Brad’s, then this is the time to get started.

and this is from the description of the kids' high school

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The catch, they soon found out, was that Tomson wasn’t fucking around when he’d told interviewers across several mediums that he was now only doing architecture to push his own boundaries. He also hadn’t been fucking around when he told said interviewers, “I’m not fucking around.” Soft-spoken but assertive, he always caught interviewers off-guard with the sudden and seemingly uncharacteristic use of the word “fucking”. He hadn’t used it in the interview with the school board and maybe that was the problem. It’s tough to know in retrospect.
   Tomson was on a roll. He’d recently completed a Washington state library by designing it first, inverting the entire building design, then redesigning it based on the inverted design. He’d designed a Bank of Hong Kong office tower in Los Angeles by blindfolding himself and spinning a wheel marked with various design elements. He’d drawn up the entire plans for a new Universal Studios ride – a rollercoaster based on Stop! Or My Mom Will Shoot! – left-handed, and managed to complete the added challenge of incorporating subtle references to Henry & June that, due to the ride’s repurposing as a Nutty Professor tie-in, would be a secret he would get to take to his grave. He’d designed, gratis, one the first perfectly self-sustainable, environmentally-neutral outright thirty-bedroom mansions in Laguna Beach for his sixth wife’s ex-husband – and again completed the bonus challenge, this time conducting clandestine detective work into the man’s private background and unearthing his deepest phobia, the scorpion, which of course was what the house wound up looking like from the air, a fact the owner didn’t discover until taking a helicopter flight across the area several months later and subsequently refused to return to the helipad. “Coincidence,” Tomson had told the sixth wife's ex-husband over the phone, before suggesting that the sixth wife's ex-husband simply sell the house (which he later did, for $85 million, a price that more than recouped costs). It was likely a coincidence of a similar order that this was about the time Tomson’s hometown started to call to him. But, again, it just meant a new city and new challenges, and Tomson could at this point do no wrong.
   Well, kind of. In Tomson’s eyes, the resulting high school was perfect – it accomplished exactly what he wanted it to accomplish. That his goals wound up at odds with the school board’s, in his defense, was hard to foresee. A perfect cube, the rooms and static elements therein themselves all cubes, constructed in immaculate correspondence with the Golden Ratio, is not an environment conducive to learning. It is an environment conducive to mild, creeping unease, however, which is why ninth-graders develop nauseous flu-like symptoms at Tomson more than they do any other school in the city, although they usually develop enough of a resistance by the tenth grade that the worst of the effects can often be mitigated by just grabbing onto the rail on your way up the stairs.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 11 Apr 2011, 22:04
PS Original  thread whut: http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24785

Sighhhhh, still not the nightmare horse from Denver Intl. Airport, and even less naked than I used to be. Life is hell.
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Post by: Johnny C on 11 Apr 2011, 22:06
tania while i was writing that i was supposed to be working on stuff that i got an extension on and have betrayed my professors' trust. you, on the other hand, have presented a bunch of real life actual stuff to people in the last week and also you've got enough stuff that you can put this paper together if you just apply yourself. in writing like 8000 words in the last week i've actually failed. you, on the other hand, have got this far, and you've almost certainly got what it takes to actually live up to the potential that people expect of you, here. get fucking working
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 11 Apr 2011, 22:11
Seriously though guys remember this

(http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a55/ddovey/looklike2.jpg)
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Post by: David_Dovey on 11 Apr 2011, 22:12
I look less like that than ever :psyduck:
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Post by: tania on 11 Apr 2011, 22:18
get fucking working

(http://cdn.someecards.com/someecards/filestorage/thanks-deciding-ecard-someecards1.png)
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Post by: Lunchbox on 11 Apr 2011, 23:57
Oh hey blog thread, I have actual blog that is not bitching about my appearance.
I just found out that my work is sending me to Auckland, New Zealand, for three days at the end of the month to help set up our new office. There will be little time for recreation but I have never been paid to go anywhere before and the fact that this involves a passport and planes and my own posh hotel room and extra money for expenses is pretty damned exciting.
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Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 01:10
seriously, tomorrow i'm gonna wake up early and write the fuck outta this paper. i'll make you proud jc. you'll see
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 12 Apr 2011, 01:26
Today has been a good day.
I got a day off from uni because my entire class finished our counselling skills demonstrations last week so we didn't have to come in (and that is the only class I have today). I spent the morning hanging out with Rizzo and Ingelise, then in the afternoon I finished my Theory and Practice of Psychological Assessment and Intervention assessment. It's still needs some reformatting and a bit of editing but I can do that tomorrow after class and before it is due (5pm).
Also today  I discovered that there was a sale on at Game, trade in any two games and buy selected games for $1. I traded in some shit games and got Mass Effect 2 and Dante's Inferno. I am looking forward to my week off from uni next week in our new apartment because holy god Mass Effect 2.

Woo!
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Post by: Rizzo on 12 Apr 2011, 01:54
Oh hey Ally, I'm getting paid to go places with my new job too! I haven't even started yet and they're already sending me to Manly (about half an hour away :( ) for some kind of team event thing over night. Cool.
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Post by: Lunchbox on 12 Apr 2011, 02:39
Holy shit my housemates are moving out I need to move again and my boyfriend is still semi-unemployed oh noesss (but oh yes, because goddamn i am not living in a sharehouse anymore)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 12 Apr 2011, 02:55
I hear Melbourne's a real nice place to move to.
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Post by: Lunchbox on 12 Apr 2011, 03:04
No thanks Harry, I would like to keep my awesome job that likes me enough to pay me to go on holiday.
If you can find a proper job for Max in Melbourne, however, I would consider it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 12 Apr 2011, 03:06
Oh bummer, and I was just about to suggest Sunny Scotland.
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Post by: Inlander on 12 Apr 2011, 03:10
If you can find a proper job for Max in Melbourne, however, I would consider it.

If I find a job for him will he find a job for me?

Oh by the way Yo Blog, a week and a half ago I found out that my job is actually only going to be two days a week from July. Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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Post by: Tom on 12 Apr 2011, 03:16
Also today  I discovered that there was a sale on at Game, trade in any two games and buy selected games for $1. I traded in some shit games and got Mass Effect 2 and Dante's Inferno. I am looking forward to my week off from uni next week in our new apartment because holy god Mass Effect 2.

I ordered a $30 copy of GTA 4: The Complete Edition last week, I hope it arrives next week so I can play it during my break starting Good Friday. Good Friday is the best worst day!
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Post by: Rizzo on 12 Apr 2011, 04:40
Holy shit my housemates are moving out I need to move again and my boyfriend is still semi-unemployed oh noesss (but oh yes, because goddamn i am not living in a sharehouse anymore)
Once I've been at my new job more than a week I'd be happy to fwd on his CV to the appropriate people. :D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Apr 2011, 05:13
You Australians seem to move a lot. I'm guessing you don't have to sign year long leases then? Is it a weekly thing or monthly thing?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Boro_Bandito on 12 Apr 2011, 05:45
Is his name Matt?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 12 Apr 2011, 05:47
You Australians seem to move a lot. I'm guessing you don't have to sign year long leases then? Is it a weekly thing or monthly thing?
Nope, we tend to sign 1 year leases? But people also move in and out of shared houses.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Apr 2011, 05:50
Oh ok. I've known people to rent houses as well, but it's usually it's year to year as well, so that's what was confusing me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 12 Apr 2011, 06:24
Yeah the first person to move into a sharehouse will have to sign a lease with the agent but after that it's not uncommon at all for people to move in and out without ever bothering to sign a lease and with the agent turning a blind eye.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 12 Apr 2011, 10:25
Yeah I'm still not completely sure if I ever ended up getting on my old sharehouse's lease because our agent was a lazy jerrrrrk. I guess I'll find out when I try to get a lease of my own I guess?!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 12 Apr 2011, 10:48
This from the San Franciscon thread, reposting here so more people see it:

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Also, I am pretty sure that I am going to have to stay overnight in Seattle before getting on the train. The bus I'm looking at taking arrives in Seattle at 1615 on Wednesday the 20th of July and the train for SF departs at 0945 the next day. Any Seattle people around, wanna hang out for a night?
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Post by: Edith on 12 Apr 2011, 10:53
Dovey, if you don't find a forums Seattle person, I have library Seattle people who id be willing to ask to put you up.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Apr 2011, 11:08
I had a dream I was at est's house last night. We talked at each other in Donald Duck voices and then I went into his bedroom and was attacked by an emu.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Apr 2011, 11:22
I am packing :( I'm not actually leaving for nearly a week, but since I go away for five days tomorrow morning, I need to get this done now. I HATE PACKING SO MUCH.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 12 Apr 2011, 11:38
Whatever happened to uh, what was his name there? Chuck? I think he lived in Seattle.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 12 Apr 2011, 12:00
was he from seattle? i thought he was from idaho or something....that might have been someone else, i dunno

nick lives in seattle. And i live in alger which is about an hour and a half north of seattle, right next to I-5. you could swing by on your way down, if you're coming from canada  like i assume you are

....if you're into trees and kittens and ropeswings and getting high, then yeah....you should probably roll up. if you dislike and/or hate these things then maybe skip it. there's an excellent view of puget sound up this little mountain right down the street, i always take out of towners there because it's really beautiful
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 12 Apr 2011, 12:09
Oh well yeah just f.y.i I don't need a place to stay, there's a hostel that's 19 minutes walk away from the station that I'm going to stay at. It's called The Green Tortoise Hostel (http://www.greentortoise.net/) and it's right near the Pike Place Market. Mostly I was just seeing if people wanted to hang out, because I like forum people and I like hangouts.

Dan I am totally into all of those things, like, a lot, but how easy would it be to get to Alger and then back into Seattle for my train the next morning?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 12 Apr 2011, 12:12
not all that easy. like i said, it's an hour and a half drive, although there are buses that regularly make the trip now that i think about it

how are you getting to seattle? i just assumed you would be driving south on I-5 from BC (in which case you could just swing by) but if you're coming to seattle from elsewhere then...yeah, i dunno
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 12 Apr 2011, 12:15
Greyhound, from Banff via (I'm assuming) Vancouver.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 12 Apr 2011, 14:09
you could always take a bus to Mount Vernon (where there is a pretty serious grehound station) or Bellingham (i assume they have bus stations too, I don't know for 100% certain though), hang out for a while, then catch a bus to seattle later....if you were so inclined.

never ridden greyhound before so i'm not really sure how it works; like if taking two buses would be significantly more expensive than just taking one the same distance, or what

anyway, i'm native to the mt vernon/skagit valley/bellingham area so anywhere within that bubble i can pretty easily pick you up and show you around for a while


we can look at trees and be confused by each other's accents, it'll be awesome  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 12 Apr 2011, 15:17
All done exams forever.

Just need to finish up my research project in the next couple weeks.

But tonight I drink beer.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 15:18
write mine for me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 15:19
please
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 12 Apr 2011, 16:00
oh jesus so if you guys read the drunk thread at all, you would of noticed that other than getting way too fucked up for a monday and generally making poor choices, i ran into a wall and knocked some of my teeth a lil lose. so today i went to the dentist, it turns out i broke the roots of two of them and im gonna need to get them root canaled, which happens tomorrow.

womp. and then my mom yelled at me for drinking on a monday.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 12 Apr 2011, 16:07
Yeah Linds, I have been in sharehouses for the past couple of years. It is tough. I hate relying on other people and getting fucked over. I've only been at this house two months, and they begged me to move in.
Max has taken it really welll and is on the warpath to get a crappy crappy job today so that he can make money so that we have kitchen sex whenever the damn hell ass we feel like it.
Also my cat peed one one of my housemate's beds last night and Max was super happy and gave Tiger an extra long chin scratch.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 12 Apr 2011, 16:35
please

Only if your tits run for president of canada.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scarychips on 12 Apr 2011, 16:57
Monarchy = No President.
 :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 12 Apr 2011, 16:58
dude i know that
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scarychips on 12 Apr 2011, 17:01
then ask her tits to run for queen of canada. or for general governor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 12 Apr 2011, 17:04
you can't run for those
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 17:04
i'll get on it
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 12 Apr 2011, 17:06
streak the leadership debate
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 17:07
nipples '11
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 12 Apr 2011, 17:09
they've got my vote


which, as an american, counts for 1.45 canadian votes if i'm not mistaken about my exchange rates. this election is in the bag


....or in the bra, as it were
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 12 Apr 2011, 17:15
My dad got some backup software for our computer network so yay I no longer have to keep the backup on one of my cpu drives. Also I have like double the amount of memory I had before.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Apr 2011, 17:59
Also my cat peed one one of my housemate's beds last night and Max was super happy and gave Tiger an extra long chin scratch.

Hehehehe! (Cats peeing on beds, especially pillows, is nasty, but some things deserve it and screwing roommates over is one of them.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 12 Apr 2011, 18:20
I hear Melbourne's a real nice place to move to.

yeah that's a lie
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 12 Apr 2011, 18:21
Right in front of the bed is even better. You wake up to something wet and smooshy between your toes. Perfect way to get back at pretty much anyone.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 12 Apr 2011, 19:35
I hear Melbourne's a real nice place to move to.

yeah that's a lie

Okay it's a shit of a place to move to but once you've fought the obligatory half-dozen rounds of thunderdome to win yourself a house it's ace.

Unless you're out in, like, Dandenong or something, but who the fuck lives out there?!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 12 Apr 2011, 19:39
oh oh my mom also yelled at me saying that if i dared have some kind of drunken accident that required medical attention in two weeks when my parents are in florida that she is going to kill me.

i dont know, that just seems like a giant logical reach.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 19:43
i think that's a pretty reasonable request for a parent to make
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 12 Apr 2011, 20:24
i mean i know it was fucking dumb though, i really really dont need to get lectured about it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Apr 2011, 20:32
Why? My mom tells me not to crash her car or burn down the house every time she goes away. It's what parents do.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 12 Apr 2011, 20:34
i think you kind of deserved this one dude, just cut your losses and accept the consequences. next time you maybe don't get so drunk and do an incredibly stupid thing. them's the breaks
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 13 Apr 2011, 02:07
I hear Melbourne's a real nice place to move to.

yeah that's a lie

It's only a little bit a lie if you're moving from Sydney.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 13 Apr 2011, 04:44
I'm taking Stace to Poland in a week to meet the rest of the family she married in to, and she's super nervous. Would making her watch the Hostel movies be a mean thing to do?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Eris on 13 Apr 2011, 05:06
Red hair, straight hair, no regrowth, trimmed fringe. Lookin' pretty. I keep swooshing my hair around an it still tays neat. Also I smell like hair dye, which I like, even though I generally hate the chemically smelling hair products. It is a little sad, but getting my hair done always makes me feel better about myself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 13 Apr 2011, 06:01
Getting their hair done makes most people feel good. It's like, a thing.

I haven't had my hair did for a while. I should get on that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Apr 2011, 06:13
I don't get my hairs did, but I do enjoy going for a haircut. Even though I have a fairly quick and basic hairstyle (buzzzzzzzzed short), the guy I go to always takes his time and makes sure everything is as even as can be.

Plus it's a barber shop run by black dudes who play old soul music and talk about rap feuds constantly. Even if you're sitting around for a while waiting to get your hair cut, it's always entertaining.

It may sound kinda stereotypical..but hey. The dudes talk about rap, listen to good music, and cut a good head of hair.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 13 Apr 2011, 06:18
Having someone else touch your head has been known to make people feel better. I feel very relaxed after getting my hair cut.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jmrz on 13 Apr 2011, 06:25
Red hair, straight hair, no regrowth, trimmed fringe. Lookin' pretty. I keep swooshing my hair around an it still tays neat. Also I smell like hair dye, which I like, even though I generally hate the chemically smelling hair products. It is a little sad, but getting my hair done always makes me feel better about myself.

Oh me too! I really like the hair dye smell and how it stays in your hair for a while and you can smell it the next time you wash it. I get this same feeling when I spend the time to dry and straighten my hair on my own. Makes me feel good because damn, I have a lot of hair, it takes a lot of effort to make it look nice and making it look nice makes me feel pretty. I should book in for next two weeks, my regrowth will need fixing by then.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 13 Apr 2011, 07:57
Man I love getting my hair cut even if, like Shane, I have a very basic style (I actually tell them what numbers to use and where). My place is this little shop run by indie girls that have various posters everywhere.


Around here we also have these (http://www.ljhaircuts.com/). My girlfriend hates them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Apr 2011, 08:02
Yeah, I'm just "bring it down to a 2, Chris."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 13 Apr 2011, 08:27
I'm taking Stace to Poland in a week to meet the rest of the family she married in to, and she's super nervous. Would making her watch the Hostel movies be a mean thing to do?

Yes, but do it anyway. It will make the trip much more fun for you and she'll get over it.

Maybe.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 13 Apr 2011, 08:31
Yeah, I'm just "bring it down to a 2, Chris."

Boring. I get my haircut by a cool rockabilly lady with lots of tattoos. She works with other cool rockabilly ladies. They give you free drink and have fun decor and like to talk about animals and I like them lots. Also they have good taste in music and tattoos.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Apr 2011, 08:38
You get drinks? All we get is a hot dog place next door.

And of course, RAP FEUDS.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Katherine on 13 Apr 2011, 10:44
I have really thick hair so I love getting my hair cut because I always feel bald afterward, even though I still have lots of hair left.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 13 Apr 2011, 11:21
i used to really struggle with haircuts when i lived in guelph and markham because the only salons i could find were these really prissy ultra-feminine ones where the stylists didn't ever seem to know what to do when i told them what kind of hair i wanted (usually something really short and kind of gay). they'd consistently either leave it way too long or just give me some ultra uninteresting, utterly unflattering nonsense. now i have a middle aged, extremely gay dude with lots of experience for a hairstylist which rules because all i gotta do is give him the basic rundown of what kind of hair i want and clarify that i am actively trying to look really androgynous so, you know, just make me look kind of like an attractive dude, and then he gets really excited and goes to town on it and i always end up with something really exciting and fun. he's not cheap so i only get my hair cut once every four months now but man, do i ever look forward to it. you're the best, allan.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 13 Apr 2011, 11:34
II really need a goddamn haircut. My hair falls really stupid in my neck, and it seems to never outgrow that lame 'growing out' phase, although it's a lot better than it was a couple months ago. I am so tempted to go to a cheap hairdresser and just chop it all off again, but I'm gonna bite my teeth together and wait it out. I'll go get my roots fixed and my hair trimmed in maybe late May, that's all I can afford.

Oh and the colour is pretty bad now too, since the amazing dye I got last time didn't last for very long because my hair was bleached under it. Next time I'll get it fixed properly, but yeah, that's in over a month. Ugh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 13 Apr 2011, 11:44
Last time I got my hair cut it looked like a Dovey from the future was cutting it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 13 Apr 2011, 13:05
womp so i totally had two root canals done this morning. they really arn't that bad! and i have dental insurance, which is really cool.

ANYWAY why im posting about this is cause as the endodontist was looking at my teeth, he commented that it looked like one of my teeth had actually had the nerve severed a long time ago. once he actually got to doing the normal root canal, he confirmed it, so apparently for about 7 years (his estimate) i've needed a root canal anyway if i never had one, my tooth would have eventually gotten infected/decayed/whatever and i would have had to of gotten a much more complicated/expensive/likely more painful procedure. my life what the fuck  :psyduck:

for those of you who are curious, i got it done on my two front left teeth (in fancy dentist talk, they are teeth 8 and 9 apparently.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 13 Apr 2011, 13:12
I needed a root canal when I wasn't insured, so I didn't go for it.  Eventually, I forgot about it, then my tooth decayed so much that it broke in half one day while chewing something soft.  Had to get it extracted, which sucked, and then get an implant, which not only sucked, but cost me a total of about $2500... and that's with the insurance I got beforehand.  Teeth are tricky.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 13 Apr 2011, 15:17
i used to really struggle with haircuts when i lived in guelph and markham because the only salons i could find were these really prissy ultra-feminine ones where the stylists didn't ever seem to know what to do when i told them what kind of hair i wanted (usually something really short and kind of gay). they'd consistently either leave it way too long or just give me some ultra uninteresting, utterly unflattering nonsense. now i have a middle aged, extremely gay dude with lots of experience for a hairstylist which rules because all i gotta do is give him the basic rundown of what kind of hair i want and clarify that i am actively trying to look really androgynous so, you know, just make me look kind of like an attractive dude, and then he gets really excited and goes to town on it and i always end up with something really exciting and fun. he's not cheap so i only get my hair cut once every four months now but man, do i ever look forward to it. you're the best, allan.

ditto except that i went from ultracuts to a cool-ass place where my hairstylist also runs a film production company on the side & is happily married & also he saw fugazi in 2001
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: KvP on 13 Apr 2011, 15:50
My old hairdresser used to be a pro skateboarder who ran in the same circle as Jason Lee. Dude could really cut hair.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 13 Apr 2011, 17:36
I go to the cheap place at the mall. The one time I went to a decent salon I was charged $20 more to do an extremely shitty job. And the lady was super rude and didn't listen to a word I said. So I'm fine with the cheap place at the mall for now.

I just wish I could find a decent blue-black hair dye that would last more than 2 weeks :(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 13 Apr 2011, 17:43
The best part about having curly hair is that you can cut it yourself incredibly easily. No worries about cutting unevenly because you're not going to be able to tell. When I don't like my hair I just head to the bathroom with a scissors and go for it.

Love my hair.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 13 Apr 2011, 17:48
I cut my own hair way too often. Sometimes I give myself a John Denver, other times it's more of a Joan Jett. Then I go in to the Hair Barn and Rhonda figures out a way to make me look good again.

You'd think I would have learned something from my bald Barbie doll, but I can be a bit thick sometimes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scarychips on 13 Apr 2011, 18:53
I get my hair cut by a middle-aged Armenian immigrant who barely speaks french, but understands english pretty well. She's pretty rad, honestly. Last time I got my hair cut, she told me that she wanted to cut it just like Win Butler from Arcade Fire or Diamond Rings (google their hair, I am too lazy). I' decided not to, but it still amazed me that she would propose this. She's cool.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 13 Apr 2011, 20:10
I get my hair cut by my girlfriend who is one of the senior stylists at a super swanky salon in the city. She usually charges something along the lines of $150 for what she does so I'm pretty lucky I guess.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 13 Apr 2011, 20:56
I'm not sure why, but when I was little I would hate getting my hair cut. For some reason it felt really painful when they were using the automatic clippers, and I would constantly grimace and close my eyes. One barber even called me out on it. Now I feels fine to me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 13 Apr 2011, 21:19
The only people who have ever cut my hair are me and my mom.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 13 Apr 2011, 21:19
Yeah my sister would cut my hair back home, and it was brilliant because she understood what I wanted and what would suit me even better than I did, so I could really trust her to just go to town and try something new/different and it would always come out looking awesome. Also it was a real trip to see my sister being competent at something, seeing as she's pretty fucking hopeless in literally every other part of her life. Also with the 50% discount I got I was only paying $26 for the haircut which is basically the exact amount I'd like to pay for a haircut. I made sure I got a cut from her the day before flying out and if and when I go home one of the first things I do will be to book another one. In the meantime I've gotta get good at cutting my own.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Drill King on 14 Apr 2011, 04:13
YES I AM NOT DEAD YET
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Post by: allison on 14 Apr 2011, 04:24
I go to the same hairstylist as my mom - he is very expensive but totally worth it. He moved to Canada from England in the 50s and the first job he got was sweeping up hair in a salon. He never even went to school to learn how to cut hair, he's just naturally talented. He's got a beautiful studio of his own, and lets my mom and myself make appointments at 7 am (before he's open) because she's been his client for 26 years now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Eris on 14 Apr 2011, 04:42
I see Jimmy's lady too and she gives me the best haircuts I have ever had. I would never even try and cut my own hair because there is so much of it! I can't see the back of my head, and I can tell I would miss bits of it and it would look terrible or end up really bottom heavy because I don't know how to cut hair, let alone cut curly hair and add layers to even it out. I will leave that to the professionals.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 14 Apr 2011, 05:44
I need a decent hairstylist that actually knows what would look good on me. I don't suppose anyone knows someone in the Baltimore area? I only recently got myself some bangs after like 23 years of all the same length with a part down the middle.

On a bloggy note; I feel awesome lately. I really do. I have never in my life felt this good.. I wake up every day, in a good mood, not necessarily ready to go to work, but not grumpy and crappy and sad. I love you, venlafaxine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 14 Apr 2011, 06:28
YES I AM NOT DEAD YET

ARE YOU SURE
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 14 Apr 2011, 06:29
Yo blog thread I don't have an interesting hairstylist story but our landlord just got back to us the other day and said it is A-OK so we are getting CHICKENS :mrgreen:

(http://www.barterandsons.com.au/images/Chickens/poplets/Australorp_White_Leghorn.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 14 Apr 2011, 06:37
FUCK YES
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Apr 2011, 06:47
I'm no chicken specialist, but aren't both of those cocks? In which case, what the hell's with all the chicks?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 14 Apr 2011, 06:48
That's awesome, Manda. I want chickens pretty bad, but you have to hide them here because there's a city ordinance against having livestock in the city and there's nowhere on this property to hide them. I'm so happy for you that you get to have some!

Oh, and the black one looks like a hen to me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Apr 2011, 06:50
One day, when I can have chickens of my own, I will learn the difference.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 14 Apr 2011, 06:58
eeeeeee baby chicks
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 14 Apr 2011, 07:08
GODDAMNIT this is the worst week i completely forgot i had a "sophomore competency exam" (music major thing) today and missed the first part of it. i just have to pass everything before i graduate so i can just do it again next year but FUCKING A this week is just being goddamn awful, what the fuck this week?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 14 Apr 2011, 07:09
The white one is a leghorn rooster, but the black one is an australorp hen:) We will probably be getting australorp chicks and maybe a laying hen from a friend's dad! No need to hide them here- my yard backs up to a field full of cows and sheep, so I'm pretty sure we're zoned alright for ag.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Apr 2011, 07:31
Out near us they just generally run aound in the road. Yesterday while cycling home from town I encountered several bird hazards. The first was some juvenile pheasants which are really funny when startled, then some chickens which were arrogantly disinclined to get out of my way. About a mile later it was a massive turkey sat on the edge of the verge by it's farm. This is pretty unusual for Yorkshire, turkeys aren't native and rarely farmed here. They were next to some ducks which weren't in the way, just really shouty.

Are you just getting them for eggs or are you going to get into some home butchery?

In the UK it's got quite common for people to adopt chickens that used to be battery housed but aren't productive enough for commercial interests.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 14 Apr 2011, 08:00
In Australia, chickens are colloquially known as chooks!

Chook chook chook, here chookie chook
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 14 Apr 2011, 08:43
I'm eggs-only, Chris is open to the concept of some for meat though. His vegetarianism is based more on animal cruelty lines, so if he is confident that they had clean, healthy lives and humane butchering then he's happy to eat them (has been the occasional fish only so far). I still couldn't quite stomach it, but we'll see if I'm comfortable having chickens killed/eaten in my yard or not;)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Katherine on 14 Apr 2011, 09:35
I can't fathom eating something that I named, but if he can do it then more power to him.  I would imagine it takes a strong person to be able to separate the backyard chicken from the chicken on the plate.

(For the record, I don't eat animals I haven't named either.  I've been veg for almost 20 years)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 14 Apr 2011, 09:45
I grew up on a small dairy farm, all of the cows we milked got names that we used daily. When they got too old to produce good milk, and if we were running low on beef, well...

You get used to it. They taste the same. And that taste is delicious.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Ozymandias on 14 Apr 2011, 10:05
My wife grew up on a farm in Missouri. They were only allowed to name their animals after food.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 14 Apr 2011, 10:15
My wife grew up on a farm in Missouri. They were only allowed to name their animals after food.

Cmere, Hot Fudge Sundae! Good chicken.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 14 Apr 2011, 10:24
Good lord I am incredibly tired and I don't even know why.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 14 Apr 2011, 11:29
FUCK YES

I know I'm kind of late to point this out but this is quite possibly the most amazing av/post synergy I have seen to date.

oh my fucking god i cannot stop laughing
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 14 Apr 2011, 11:41
I can't fathom eating something that I named, but if he can do it then more power to him.  I would imagine it takes a strong person to be able to separate the backyard chicken from the chicken on the plate.

(For the record, I don't eat animals I haven't named either.  I've been veg for almost 20 years)

there's a bit on this in good meat, i'll find it and type it out later
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 14 Apr 2011, 12:24
OUTSIDE LANDS IS OFFICIAL! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I've never been to a music festival before!!!
And I'm going with my sister and her bf and my best friend and my old best friend and my friend who I hate half the time but is actually a very good friend and ahhhhh!

I should probably register for summer school soon if not like, now?
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Post by: nekowafer on 14 Apr 2011, 12:36
Holy crap, more responsibility = more work. Much, much more. WHY. Just because I do an awesome job doesn't mean they should then dump every project in the department on me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 14 Apr 2011, 12:49
Gah my flatmate bought new knives and they are so motherfucking sharp i just cut a giant hole into my thumb and OH GOD NOW ITS ALL OVER MY SPACEBAR
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 14 Apr 2011, 13:35
here's what's happening outside my office, right now:

(http://img863.imageshack.us/img863/9825/snowx.jpg)

it is april why it snow
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JimmyJazz on 14 Apr 2011, 13:44
'cause CANADA
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 14 Apr 2011, 15:15
Omg omg omg omg. Going to get the keys to the new apartment today and moving stuff in tonight and tomorrow. Last night sleeping in the lounge! Huzzzah!

New job starts Monday. I'm still excited.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 14 Apr 2011, 15:52
Gah my flatmate bought new knives and they are so motherfucking sharp i just cut a giant hole into my thumb and OH GOD NOW ITS ALL OVER MY SPACEBAR
Now it's gonna get all sticky
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 14 Apr 2011, 16:29
IT'S GETTING WORSE

(http://img190.imageshack.us/img190/8973/snowo.jpg)

WHAT DO
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 14 Apr 2011, 16:30
Tania we are supposed to get snow tonight too, after I go to sleep.

If I wake up to a winter wonderland there will be murder.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 14 Apr 2011, 16:32
tania why don't you google "saskatchewan flooding" right now
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Eris on 14 Apr 2011, 16:37
did you know that it is autumn here?

(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v663/Lapuz/autumn.jpg)

the weather really sucks now. Can't wait until spring!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 14 Apr 2011, 16:41
everything is bullshit
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 14 Apr 2011, 16:44
As much as I hate the cold I am kinda appreciating the cool Autumn mornings. Not the wind tunnels that are created in the city when I'm walking from Town Hall to work, though. They're no good.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 14 Apr 2011, 17:24
Yeah, we don't have many deciduous trees. That doesn't mean there's no season between Summer and Winter.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 14 Apr 2011, 19:31
Cities in Australia tend to have extensive planting of European trees, which lend some colour to Autumn. This is particularly true of Canberra, the older parts of which have an abundance of pin oaks (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pin_oak), Liquidambars (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liquidambar), poplars, and plane trees (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Plane_tree). Almost all Australian native trees are evergreen, but a notable exception is Nothofagus gunnii (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nothofagus_gunnii), a species of deciduous beech endemic to Tasmania.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 14 Apr 2011, 20:23
My god, this one conservative blogger from the worst student blog on the internet came to the AGM for QPIRG McGill, the raddest organization on campus. And wrote the silliest article about it. Worth so many laughs: http://princearthurherald.com/archives/4702
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Apr 2011, 21:53
Why the fuck did my phone decide to shit out 9 texts from the last week it's been unable to send/receive them. This thing's such a fat piece of shit that I want to just throw it under a fucking lawnmower.

Also, I am now moved into my new place. It is not my place at all, it's actually a spare room in my friend Biff's house that he and his wife have been kind enough to let me live in for a while. God I fucking hate myself for this. I am homeless, just luckier than most homeless people. But like. Being lucky enough to have friends as kind as the ones I've got doesn't make me feel any fucking better about basically being a quite hygienic tramp living in the home of a couple where one is retired and the other is not far behind. I honestly would rather be on the streets than taking charity from these people.

Oh, and I called Target and they already filled my old position, so it's two months before I can reapply for the bloody company. Which basically makes my situation all the more retarded.

Whatever. I've been up at my best friend's ranch since Tuesday, working for him and his family so I can get rid of stress before going into the real-life job market. I've been applying for work online, but nothing's come to fruition yet. I figure I'll hit the same places in person when I'm back, but applying online has proven to be little more than me flying in a holding pattern.

I love being alive, it's pretty fucking great. But lately I really fuckin' hate my life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 14 Apr 2011, 22:42
hey guys, its spring.

i wore short shorts today.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 15 Apr 2011, 00:16
IT'S GETTING BETTER

img...

SO HAPPY


Fixed
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: KharBevNor on 15 Apr 2011, 06:04
My god, this one conservative blogger from the worst student blog on the internet came to the AGM for QPIRG McGill, the raddest organization on campus. And wrote the silliest article about it. Worth so many laughs: http://princearthurherald.com/archives/4702

"Straight white male studying at prestigious university is positive that privilege is a false idea"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 15 Apr 2011, 06:32
I'm cold and hungry because the carpet cleaner man came early and I didn't think I should hang around inside on the wet carpet so I'm sitting on the porch with a stiff neck and had no breakfast and oh good god why am I so bad at being a grownup?

Also does it seem fishy to you that this carpet guy is $40 cheaper than the big companies, and only accepts cash? Because it seems fishy to me but I am trying to save money so I hired him.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 15 Apr 2011, 06:39
Is he self-employed? Doesn't seem strange to me at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Katherine on 15 Apr 2011, 07:27
It is probably fishy in the sense that he likely doesn't claim it as income so that he doesn't have to pay taxes on it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 15 Apr 2011, 07:43
While the article is stupid and the writer is too, he's right in a way. I admit that not knowing anything about the organisation he's criticising probably skews my perspective somewhat, but there is a fair degree of self-marginalisation in these groups which they cynically use to garner more support from more gullible members of society.
Of course, the other side of the political/social spectrum does this too.

This is why I can't take student groups/associations/whatever you want to call them seriously when they have any ideologic statement to make. It's like politics on a national scale, only less well practiced.

If you actually want to know anything about anything I can school you on that later (right now I have to get to campus), but just so you know, at this point you have no clue what you're talking about. Like, you just made yourself look like an absolute fool.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 15 Apr 2011, 09:52
(I still have no idea what QPIRG McGill is, by the way. People should just stop using stupidly nondescriptive acronyms)

It's right there in the first sentence, Bromar Little
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 15 Apr 2011, 09:53
Also does it seem fishy to you that this carpet guy is $40 cheaper than the big companies, and only accepts cash? Because it seems fishy to me but I am trying to save money so I hired him.

It is probably fishy in the sense that he likely doesn't claim it as income so that he doesn't have to pay taxes on it.

The more likely answer is that, being a small independant trader, he prefers not to be paid in cheque or electronically because then he'll incur bank charges that will eat into his profit margin. That doesn't account for all of the $40, but as a small trader he probably relies on long standing repeat business, small margins and benefits from low overheads and a limited area of operation. If he does a good job and gives a credible looking receipt, use him again and support your local economy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 15 Apr 2011, 10:03
Tania here is what is going on outside my window right now.

(http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/215232_701189518759_33809235_36367481_1645157_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 15 Apr 2011, 17:39
fffffff
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 15 Apr 2011, 17:52
Oh and it has started snowing again so we will have even more by tomorrow morning.

yay fargo
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 15 Apr 2011, 18:34
It was cool and sunny today in Boston. A nice spring breeze by the water, lovely contrast to the howling winds from hell we got all winter.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Radical AC on 15 Apr 2011, 18:41
My best friend growing up lives in Fargo with my next door neighbor that he decided to marry.  And, I'm kinda confused why people keep rebuilding by the Red River.  It's like rebuilding in New Orleans, but you get that lovely weather that goes along with the northern midwest.  I once rode home from Fargo to International Falls (HA) during a blizzard and there were at least two dozen cars in the ditch we passed.  I love MN but I do not miss the weather.

So it is going to be one of those weekends where I spend the entire thing writing papers.  A lot of short ones, though.  Want my degree bad, and it is so close.

Anyway, I am procrastinating by watching the youtube coachella live stream. (http://www.youtube.com/coachella)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 15 Apr 2011, 19:03
I learned today that the study of beards is called pogonology. I find the wiki page for beard pretty amusing. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Beard)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 15 Apr 2011, 19:48
i love getting emails from students asking me to bump up their grades, absent of any reason or merit, so much

hey, you know what's the best way to bump up your mark? by being smart and doing your work! the all natural way
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 15 Apr 2011, 19:51
Dear Tania,

Right now my cumulative GPA is a 3.498 if you could raise my mark in your class by one, or even two marks that would be great.  You gave me a 'B' but you you could change that to a 'B+' or an 'A-' it would help me push my GPA to over a 3.5.  As I am sure you know having a higher GPA will help me to get into better Graduate schools.
Thanks so Much,
Kat

P.S. You are the COOLEST TA ever.  Seriously. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 15 Apr 2011, 19:55
to be fair, i do bump student's grades pretty often when i know the student is smart and it's going to make a difference in what letter grade they get (from an 89 to a 90 for example), but unfortunately "hey could you bump up my participation mark because i really want to get a good grade for this course thanks" really isn't enough to sell me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 15 Apr 2011, 20:03
man i should really stop bitching about my students, i actually like teaching a lot and it's getting pretty predictable. sorry, forum! i'll find some new material this summer
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: WriterofAllWrongs on 16 Apr 2011, 00:05
I might end up without a girlfriend before the night's over.  More news on this to come.

- Christien
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 16 Apr 2011, 01:18
i love getting emails from students asking me to bump up their grades, absent of any reason or merit, so much

hey, you know what's the best way to bump up your mark? by being smart and doing your work! the all natural way

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC8Vh76vy0w (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC8Vh76vy0w)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 16 Apr 2011, 06:06
Something is blocking part of my field of vision. It looks like a ceiling fan would look in my peripheral vision, only it's a half circle across the center of everywhere I look. It has been happening for 15 minites or so. Is this what a migraine looks like?

<edit> I called my Dad because I know he gets visual migraines. He confirmed that that was what I was having. It's gone now. Weird! </edit>
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: WriterofAllWrongs on 16 Apr 2011, 12:15
I still have a girlfriend!  The story of success goes thusly:

For a while, me an my girlfriend have sort of been drifting away because we simply haven't been trying.  She'd been choosing her friends' company over mine pretty consistently (about four times a week), and when she didn't prance off to go watch movies that I didn't really want to watch, she stayed in my dorm room and we never really talked or had conversations or even boned.  We both made jokes about breaking up with each other which follow along with our sense of humour, but it was starting to get a bit more honest.  She had been restricting me from doing acid for a while, which really bothered me because we had smoked weed, tripped out on shrooms, and got sleazy together on tequila habitually during our relationship. As a result of all these small problems, we'd been getting into huge fights and started to get spiteful with each other.  I started to be derisive and mean to her, and we both just sort of stopped listening when the other talked.  So last night, she tells me that we need to talk, because she was worried that we were pretty much at the end of our rope, so we go into the Student Union Building and get into an elevator and talked it out, calmly explaining every little problem we had with each other.  Turns out, we just hadn't been talking enough, because we had a really good conversation and figured that we still loved each other way too much to end all of it due to a few minor mistakes.  Result: I'm doing acid, just not around her.  She's paying more attention to me.  I'm being less of a sardonic shithead towards her.  We are going to listen to each other.  I am so happy, I can barely contain it.

- Christien

I might end up without a girlfriend before the night's over.  More news on this to come.

- me

fuck everything

What's up with that, if you don't mind sharing? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: WriterofAllWrongs on 16 Apr 2011, 12:25
cool
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 16 Apr 2011, 16:44
I still have a girlfriend!  The story of success goes thusly:

For the relationship thread 3 perhaps we should just post this and lock the thread.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jodizzle on 16 Apr 2011, 16:53
HEY GUYS HOLY CRAP!  So we hosted the first ever roller derby bout in Toowoomba last nigth!  WOAH! like and I mean WOAH!  We were expecting maybe 500-750 people... we got over 1,200!!  And they got really into it!  We sold all of our merch (made over $1,000) and sold $6,000 worth of booze and made a HELL of a lot of new fans.  Strangers came up to me and wanted their photo with me.  Oh yeaaaaah, I am going to be roller derby famous like I always dreamed. haha  We lost, 181-101 and it was a DIRTY game.  the other teams were head blocking, skates to the face, one of our girls copped a serious elbow to the ribs which floored her.  The medics had to come to our bench abotu 5 times (the first one was me!  First jam out they smashed me in the collar bone HARD - I am soooore but fine probably!) and the head ref almost forfeited the game because he was worried about our safety.  But the crowd just went CRAZY everytime our team did ANYTHING and I think at least 90% of those people will be back next time.

I have spent the last few months putting all my spare time into organising this bout, and there were some major problems on the day (sound and lighting dude isnt getting paid contract breaking cunty mc cunt, OH HEY ABOUT THAT PROJECTOR AND SCREEN I WAS BRINGING FOR THE SCOREBOARD...AHHHH SUCH AN INTEGRAL PART OF THE BOUT!!!!) but I am so proud of how it turned otu.  Now the horror of organisning another one for end of may/early June. WAAAAHHH

At least we know the people of Toowoomba LOVE roller derby! :D  Prepare yourself for a million derby photos in the photo thread over the next week! :D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 16 Apr 2011, 16:55
For the relationship thread 3 perhaps we should just post this and lock the thread.

that thread is practically my other job! it's like you want to get rid of me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 16 Apr 2011, 17:01
Not at all! In fact, you've been promoted! Your new office is in the basement!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 16 Apr 2011, 18:34
Hey all of my Northern Hemisphere friends who are bitching about the long winter, Banff is scheduled to get about a foot of snow over the weekend and that is fucking rad. I love snowwwww, suuuuuckkk iiiiiiitttt
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 16 Apr 2011, 19:41
It's April. I want spring. I want flowers and birds and bunnies and twitterpated people/animals. You have your snow, I'll enjoy my random sunny days and watch the flowers bloom.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 16 Apr 2011, 19:46
Hey if I can't get my bone on then neither can you or the bunnies
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 16 Apr 2011, 19:47
Obviously you do not know the ways bunnies work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 16 Apr 2011, 21:25
Record store day yesterday! I bought my first vinyl - J Mascis' new solo album. It's on marbled blue and purple vinyl and it is the prettiest thing in the entire world.
I took a picture blogged about it here (http://tigerdarling.blogspot.com/2011/04/record-store-day-2011.html).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 16 Apr 2011, 22:03
i love getting emails from students asking me to bump up their grades, absent of any reason or merit, so much

hey, you know what's the best way to bump up your mark? by being smart and doing your work! the all natural way

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC8Vh76vy0w (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC8Vh76vy0w)

Really happy that you linked this Harry, I picked this movie up from a blockbuster that was closing for $3. Very happy with my purchase of this film. My girlfriend didn't like it very much, but she usually falls asleep partway through movies.

In other news, we tried to watch Space Jam tonight when it was on cartoon network. She fell asleep for the bulk of it. She also didn't know who Charles Barkley was.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dollface on 16 Apr 2011, 23:50
Dear diary

I have this blasting site near me and now they have putted some neon pink markers on the ground and i call them "gay markers" and this conversation happened with my friend.

Me: look a gay marker.
Friend: pink isnt gay color, infact in some cultures pink is sign of masculinity.
Me: gay  markers is gay and thats the end.
Friend: your penis is gay
Me: ofcourse its gay, i have gay penis but thankfully i have  straight ass.
Friend: so you have gay penis but your ass is straight?
Me: yup il make love to gay person but nothing is going up my butt.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 17 Apr 2011, 01:40
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC8Vh76vy0w (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mC8Vh76vy0w)

Really happy that you linked this Harry, I picked this movie up from a blockbuster that was closing for $3. Very happy with my purchase of this film.

Honestly I thought Burn After Reading was terrible and No Country For Old Men was good but it didn't really wow me but A Serious Man is one of my favourite films of recent year and one of my favourite Coen Brothers films ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: KvP on 17 Apr 2011, 02:54
Man you know when you meet a musician you love and before it you're all "oh man it would be so awesome to meet that guy / lady, he / she makes music that I love" but then you realize that it's just you there, and they're there, and you're two people, and you know them but they don't know you and they've probably encountered many dozens of people just like you and you feel weird and end up just kind of muttering and shaking their hand instead of being honest about how you've purchased everything they've ever made on limited white label runs? It sucks!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 17 Apr 2011, 03:47
Australians, go watch ABC1 right now if you're not doing anything. Asher Keddie is nailing it, her Buttrose is uncanny.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 17 Apr 2011, 05:18
Yeah I was very pleasantly surprised by how good that whole hour and a half of television was. Sometimes I feel like I've got a bit of Asher Keddie burnout, that lady's in everything these days, but I was completely convinced by her performance. I don't know how it's possible to do Buttrose's lisp without making it sound like you're taking the piss but I guess that's why I'm not an actor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: est on 17 Apr 2011, 05:33
I was pretty impressed by it.  I wish there was more like it around, I am sick of how much shit it coming out of Aus TV.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 17 Apr 2011, 05:57
Hooray! I enjoyed it too. Hopefully I will be able to catch the last half tomorrow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 17 Apr 2011, 08:08
I hope you guys are deliberately referring to Buttrose as Buttrose without providing any context for the amusement of the non-Oznians. If so, good show!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jmrz on 17 Apr 2011, 08:22
Should I understand what this conversation is about?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 17 Apr 2011, 08:45
the graduate student lounge at my school serves free coffee during the day and because i am a mess with no self control, i was drinking between 6-8 cups of coffee a day during the last six weeks or so of the semester. now that school's over i'm trying to wean myself off that horrible caffeine addiction by drinking nothing at all that has caffeine in it except tea in the morning and i feel absolutely exhausted and very ill and have had an absolutely killer headache since yesterday and i still have so many exams to mark but i can barely even read them. why am i so stupid
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Apr 2011, 11:53
I've just returned from nearly two weeks in Sri Lanka.  No Internet!  It was great!

In the airport terminal on the way out, I checked my emails at the gate, and found my boss had let her university card lapse, and so her university email address had been disabled (she could still email me because we're on the same server)!  I used a remote terminal program on the iPhone to connect (via VPN) to my mail server and set her up a temporary account that used an alternative address that didn't require the university to know about her, and still got on the plane without rushing.  Now I've returned, I find she still hasn't even renewed her card...

There will be photos in due course.  Meanwhile, here is a leopard (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmQdNPluOtI) that came and looked me in the eye at about 10 feet distance; that was awesome!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Apr 2011, 12:19
I've just got back from four days in the South of France with my church choir, which was lovely - really amazing weather, a lot of fun with a whole load of people around my age (including two people who are not in the choir but are friends of someone who is, and who came along to provide extra voices - and who just happen to be from my uni and were in the Pantomime! Small world), great concerts and generally really fun. I spent a lot of the spare time sleeping because it was very intensive but I did get to lie in the sun a bit and eat lots of ice cream and see the town.

Now I'm about to either go to bed very early, or start packing up my stuff in order to leave tomorrow - probably the former because I am zonked. It was Palm Sunday today and we did a procession in the service, carrying privet leaves; weird, but apparently normal in France because palms are rare in Paris. Then I went to a party with some choir friends, which was full of opera students who sang incessant operettas and showed off a lot, and I felt rather awkward about my incredibly untrained, unclassical voice so I didn't sing. Bah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 17 Apr 2011, 13:27
I hope you guys are deliberately referring to Buttrose as Buttrose without providing any context for the amusement of the non-Oznians. If so, good show!

That is exactly what I am doing.

I think she's really good actress and recently I've enjoyed her work enough to even watch Offspring (fun, kinda clever, sorta trashy 1hr dramas on TEN). What I saw of her in Underbelly was alright but it didn't help that the entire series was your average NINE shit sandwich.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 17 Apr 2011, 15:58
I haven't ever seen her before so that made it even more convincing.
Jamie, last night was the first of a two-parter about the beginnings of Cleo magazine in Sydney in the early 70's. The second one is on tonight, but you should probably catch the first. I'm sure it will be up on ABC iView later anyway.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jhocking on 17 Apr 2011, 16:20
hey tommy, have you ever seen the show "How I Met Your Mother"? I'm watching episode 5 from season 3 right now and Barney is like exactly how you would act.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 17 Apr 2011, 17:38
The difference between Barney and Tommy is that Barney knows he is God's gift to all women.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 17 Apr 2011, 21:57
I am absolutely dying of laughter because Facebook's facial recognition 'let's help you tag photos by being creepy' thingy believes that Flava Flav has the same face as my half-japanese half-white panda-resembling friend.
This has been: my life is dumb.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JimmyJazz on 17 Apr 2011, 22:06
After roughly 24 hours/3 days in the studio, all the tracking for my band's EP is finished. Recording in a semi-legit studio's is really fucking cool and  our friend is the most phenomenal producer/engineer; patient, intelligent, someone who approaches the process as a collaboration with the band as opposed to him being passive or telling us what to do. We were well rehearsed and he was familiar enough with the music so that a good portion of the time was spent experimenting and discussing what our goals were for the specific songs. Overall it was a laborious but enjoyable and artistically fulfilling experience. Mixing should be done by the end of spring and then we'll have an actual EP out holy shit, being a band is the best thing ever guys
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 17 Apr 2011, 22:08
yeah dude! congrats! can't wait for us to hear it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 18 Apr 2011, 16:03
snow this morning, and now it's so bright and sunny outside that i can't look anywhere but down

hey, weather, did you know that it's april already? figure it out
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 18 Apr 2011, 16:16
I froze my ass off at a baseball game over the weekend. Had to buy a jacket (thankfully they were on sale..) and a blanket, and yet my feet were still numb and freezing.

Frig, man. It was so cold that I went into the bathroom during the 5th inning and there was steam coming off of my piss.  :psyduck:

Also, Ally, DAMN YOU. I didn't get a chance to stop at a record store, and the only thing I've been wanting to pick up is said Mascis album.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 18 Apr 2011, 16:33
What is that Shane I cannot hear you over the majesty

(http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5023/5626537508_42037d4ed1.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 18 Apr 2011, 16:35
HAUGL.

Will have to order at some point.

If you want to have a fancy record off, I have a Two Cow Garage 7" that is PBR colored. It's half white and half silver with red and blue splatters.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 18 Apr 2011, 17:01
Ugh. Really unproductive today, which is fine I guess since my deadline isn't super pressing but I just want to get this last paper away from me so I can bask in a successfully completed degree. Instead I spent almost all my day reading poetry or reading about poetry, mostly on the internet but I also read two whole books, plus assorted other poems in print and a bit of Zizek. I guess that is productive maybe, in that it's fueling what I really would like to focus my energies on more, but it's probably healthier to finish with my actual school commitments first. But these sorts of things have been basically all I've felt able to focus on at all in the past month, since my friend's death, and as a result I indulge in them probably more than I should.

Really I just need to push through to the end but I just cannot bring myself to sit down and do it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 18 Apr 2011, 18:25
tell me about it, dude, i've hit like a complete & utter wall when it comes to doing stuff. like i actually can't bring myself to do any work. it's fucking awful and i hate it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 18 Apr 2011, 18:41
tell me about it, dude, i've hit like a complete & utter wall when it comes to doing stuff. like i actually can't bring myself to do any work. it's fucking awful and i hate it.

we are just going to have to get good and rowdy drunk in a month to celebrate this shit being over
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 18 Apr 2011, 19:12
Man you know when you meet a musician you love and before it you're all "oh man it would be so awesome to meet that guy / lady, he / she makes music that I love" but then you realize that it's just you there, and they're there, and you're two people, and you know them but they don't know you and they've probably encountered many dozens of people just like you and you feel weird and end up just kind of muttering and shaking their hand instead of being honest about how you've purchased everything they've ever made on limited white label runs? It sucks!

I've never had this problem. I usually just wind up shooting the shit and giving honest critiques of their set. I don't get star struck at all, and it's great because I feel like I am actually making a cool person's acquaintance instead of OMG I AM MEETING THIS PERSON I IDOLIZE. I think it's because I know I will never meet the three people I want to meet the very most in this world (John Lennon, George Harrison, and Elliott Smith) so I just don't really give as much of a fuck? I don't know.

Finding a new job is proving to be very difficult. Why am I not surprised. Back at it tomorrow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: scarred on 19 Apr 2011, 00:12
Man Pat I dunno what the job market's like where you are but I've been searching for a job in Seattle for months (albeit not as hard as I probably could be). Tourist season is coming up though, so I'm optimistic.

In unrelated news I am flying to San Francisco in May, the weekend before Sasquatch! So, that should be pretty fun.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 19 Apr 2011, 08:05
joseph and jc i have googled a "motivational poster" to help you with your respective journeys, i think it's got a good positive message

(http://i1.treklens.com/photos/11724/reach.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 19 Apr 2011, 09:01
While applying for jobs I came across this sentence:

"It serves around 1600 noms per week on average."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Joseph on 19 Apr 2011, 12:02
that moon is going to squish that poor kitty
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 19 Apr 2011, 14:52
The results of a boring afternoon at work (and working alongside some friends):

We found these (http://www.amazon.com/Simtec-Fun-Slides-Carpet-Skates/dp/B000MN8DT0/ref=dp_cp_ob_t_title_1), one of these (http://www.amazon.com/CARPET-PUCK-Double-Pack-Funslides/dp/B000ELQUW2/ref=pd_sim_t_2), and some old Whalers sweaters from another site, along with one of our managers being a hockey mom who would surely lend us sticks..

we're starting a company carpet hockey team. Our NY office has kickball, volleyball and bowling teams..why can't we have fun?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 19 Apr 2011, 19:12
one more thing and im done
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 19 Apr 2011, 19:18
I am sitting outside my old apartment while the carpets get cleaned. So bored.

We've been at our new place for a couple of days now and its pretty nice. Still doesn't feel like home but we're still living out of boxes and bags so I'm sure that'll come with time.
An annoying thing is that I can't do any uni work on my week off because my usb is fucked and I don't have good internet access (I'm on my phone, ill have the net up in like, 2 weeks?). Still its such a nice flat.
I hate our new neighbour though. He's fucking weird. Keeps showing up unannounced and just walking into our flat. Yesterday he just rocked up and hid under Riz's bed. In the end I had to physically eject him from the apartment. He's completely fucked.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Apr 2011, 19:32
Man. When a person who hurt you more than you've ever been hurt by anything in your life suddenly comes up out of the blue after several months and tells you "I should have appreciated you more," how should you react? This is my major quandary of the day.

Also, I can't find my fucking 4-track. I can figure out how to feel about my ex thing later, this is something I have got to solve way more immediately.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 19 Apr 2011, 19:32
You say "well fucking duh" and then you walk away.
Alrighty, sat my Physiology exam. I may have muddled up my short answer Q's on sliding filament theory (I feel really dumb!). I also just got out of my Biochemistry marked practical which was a lot lot easier. I finished roughly 45 minutes early and was happy with my answers til my asshole demonstrator tried to unnerve me (Bastard!). Now to revise for my micro quiz, lab and bacterial isolation. I'll be on Easter break come sundown.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 19 Apr 2011, 22:32
you can ask why she did what she did, if you want closure. otherwise, just forgive her and let it go. admittedly a lot of people probably wouldn't do the same but i can almost guarantee you'll feel much better for doing so. holding a permanent grudge is like sitting at your desk in your shitty little apartment in vancouver eating mcdonalds and a tub of ice cream by yourself: it feels good while you're savoring it, but in the long term rarely does anyone any favours. also sometimes it gives you diarrhea.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 19 Apr 2011, 22:38
(http://images.mylot.com/userImages/images/postphotos/1724391.jpeg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 19 Apr 2011, 23:22
Hey dudes I'm heading down to maryland in the first weekish of july. Anyone in that area know anything interesting to do?

(I won't be up for hangouts because I'll be with family and friends and whatnot)


edit
(Also I would feel kinda weird hanging out with people on the internet when someone else is hoofing the bill for the trip.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Apr 2011, 23:23
I had simply convinced myself it was a bad dream and was content to pretend she didn't exist and it never happened, but it didn't bother me any. We turned out to have a fairly fulfilling conversation about our lives as they are now. It seriously felt like I was just making a new friend. I dunno, I feel like that's a pretty good way for things to go down.

Fuck it, I'll say it. I'm stoked for tomorrow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dimmukane on 19 Apr 2011, 23:30
Hey dudes I'm heading down to maryland in the first weekish of july. Anyone in that area know anything interesting to do?


Whereabouts? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 20 Apr 2011, 00:15
Near Columbia.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 20 Apr 2011, 02:58
I got a reply from a recruitment agency regarding one of the jobs I applied for! I have no idea who the job would be with though, as all the adverts are extremely vague ("our client" etc).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 20 Apr 2011, 03:14
Standard practice. A lot of agencies have had problems in the past where it has become common knowledge that they are recruiting for a particular company and another agency will snipe the job by undercutting them. I've missed out on a couple of posible placements because of this. Usually they'll reveal the client at the point where they want you to go and interview for them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 20 Apr 2011, 04:17
Ugh, I guess the catalytic converter on my car is fucked up. I don't have $350 to fix it either. goddammit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 20 Apr 2011, 10:21
After three and a half months of looking, I finally have another job. After years of  of being critical of them, it feels like a vaguely phyrric victory that the job is with the Royal Mail but WOO HOO nonetheless.

Besides, if anyone gloats I'm going to treat their mail like a suspicious package.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 20 Apr 2011, 14:03
Guess who's drunk at 3pm, guess who just bought a pack of cigarettes, guess who's making all of the bad decisions today
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 20 Apr 2011, 14:15
I'd respond to that but first I gotta go drink a giant bottle of Trois Pistoles while taking a shit and then give myself a drunken haircut
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 20 Apr 2011, 15:18
I've got, like, Janelle Monae hair now. Boss.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 20 Apr 2011, 15:22
Photographs are requested.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 20 Apr 2011, 15:35
dovey you're livin the life i want to live! meanwhile, i just got super high at 2:30 AM and didn't go to my classes AGAIN because i woke up at 3.

it is raining
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 20 Apr 2011, 15:37
Photographs are requested.

eh, it looks pretty much the same as the last time I got drunk and cut my own hair, if a bit shorter on the sides (I had a accident  :mrgreen: )
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 20 Apr 2011, 16:08
Fair enough, I wish I had the balls to cut my own hair, as it is I'm happy to pay someone £9 every couple of months to make it look like this (http://img98.imageshack.us/img98/3899/photokmy.jpg).

I forgot how great spring was! The air smells so sweet and the temperature is perfect!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Apr 2011, 00:41
Dear blog,

I am feeling rather depressed lately. Manageable, but I just feel like I'm not getting anything done. Ugh. Job searching is a grim business around these parts. It's the only thing I ever have to occupy my mind, though, and that seeps into my social life when I do get the chance to escape the whole scene.

There isn't a day that goes by where I don't regret being such a fuckup in school.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 21 Apr 2011, 00:51
My rat just died. I cuddled him and stroked his fur while it happened.

I am Sadness.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 21 Apr 2011, 01:17
:(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 21 Apr 2011, 06:28
There isn't a day that goes by where I don't regret being such a fuckup in school.

Hey, me too! And Edith makes me feel bad about droppin' out of college (I WILL go back some day, promise.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 21 Apr 2011, 06:30
Hugs, Jimmy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Boro_Bandito on 21 Apr 2011, 07:02
My rat just died. I cuddled him and stroked his fur while it happened.

Aww man, condolences. One of mine died just before Halloween of a stroke while I was with him for the entire thing, so I know how that goes.
His name was Ezio so I said "Requiescat in pace."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 21 Apr 2011, 07:18
I just spent $180 on three Manchester United tickets.

Normally, when the Revs are at home, said seats are $20 a piece. And I'm not even in the bloody Fort.  :psyduck: :-o
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: öde on 21 Apr 2011, 07:26
Got an interview next week for a job as an ass manager! Woo! Only downside is I have to travel up to London.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Apr 2011, 08:57
There isn't a day that goes by where I don't regret being such a fuckup in school.

Hey, me too! And Edith makes me feel bad about droppin' out of college (I WILL go back some day, promise.)

I don't know how feasible this is for you at the moment, Patrick, but there are all kinds of part-time, evening, full-time, flexi-time etc courses for adults which you could look into. In a way there's more choice than for "standard-age" students because I guess adults know better what they want to do, and are more motivated to do it?

So far it seems like dropping out of uni for this year has been the best thing I ever did in terms of my education and just life in general. It's shown me that the traditional timeline for school isn't the only one, or even the best one.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 21 Apr 2011, 09:31
Jimmy nooooo  :-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 21 Apr 2011, 09:53
Got an interview next week for a job as an ass manager! Woo! Only downside is I have to travel up to London.

Tell me more about this job. How does one manage asses?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 21 Apr 2011, 10:00
With a carrot on a stick.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Alex C on 21 Apr 2011, 12:19
My sister's marriage is making my life, much, much harder than it needs to be. I just want to yell "Get divorced already!"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Rizzo on 21 Apr 2011, 18:28
Omg omg omg New house! New Job! New... life!

All is going well. Jimmy, Lisa and I are, as you've probably read, moved into a new apartment. It's heaps rad and heaps big. I second Jimmy on the fuck Benny notion, that dude is a goddamn next level creeper. Get off my porch Benny you jerk.

New job is pretty good. Interesting enough and fairly easy. Looks like I'm going to enjoy working the night shift.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 21 Apr 2011, 19:13
Man I am really sick of high school right now. They had to have a pep rally on the day I was supposed to do a rad presentation on roman coins. Also the pep rally was pretty lame because the power went out half way through.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 21 Apr 2011, 19:39
I made cupcakes today. They are decorated like Pokeballs and Mario mushrooms.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 22 Apr 2011, 00:38
blog thread can you just be my blog for a bit because i don't even want to put this in my own blog and i'm sick of blogging to my friends and they probably hate me and just AGH MATH MIDTERM TOMORROW AND I'M SO ILL-PREPARED and my panicking is doing nothing but just holding me back from actually getting productive studying done but like it's probably going to be useless anyway honestly since i'm so sleep deprived (though not as bad as before) and i know this is the price i must pay for making this week Bad Decision Lifetime but it's also just so FRUSTRATING because up until this week i had been on top of my shit and doing my homework and not procrastinating and so i know how to DO all this calc but just conceptually it's a bit COMPLICATED and there's SO MUCH SHIT and so much can go WRONG and oh my god i don't even get to relax after this exam is done because i have to go straight back into panic mode about my chem midterm on monday and that's my only midterm in that class for the quarter and i don't think i've even BEEN to chem since this month was still in like single digit dates and just oh god oh god oh god why can't i be normal and smart instead of crazy and really stupid
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 22 Apr 2011, 00:40
i sent this to my friend 'cause it's kind of an injoke and we communicate in phone screencaps far too often but no yeah this is me, forever

(http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n217/rageaholicdove/Capture0_34_44.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 22 Apr 2011, 03:37
Shit, Anna, just big yourself up and stop freaking. Otherwise you'll spoil all the study you've just done.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 22 Apr 2011, 03:41
ugh, the constant hangovers

university life is taxing
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 22 Apr 2011, 05:15
man, that is basically my main memory from first and second year.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 22 Apr 2011, 05:59
"Say, what kind of bird is that, anyway?"

"That? That's a South American Give-it-to-me. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-gSmVNxePOM)"

I've had a pretty shit week in a pretty shit month but tonight I went and saw the Pajama Men at the Melbourne International Comedy Festival and laughed pretty much non-stop for an hour and a half which improved my mood considerably.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 22 Apr 2011, 09:43
My brother mentioned this over lunch today, and I had to check whether it was true...

Sorbus No Parking (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sorbus_admonitor) is a tree named after a notice nailed to the first sample identified.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JimmyJazz on 24 Apr 2011, 00:17
Guys I am really depressed about the chance that I might not be able to afford school next year that it's affecting my ability to focus on my huge workload, which I need to maintain good grades and make the school give me Scholarship money. Help me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 24 Apr 2011, 06:44
I spent the morning biking, had a kind of business meeting for lunch, and am now replacing the handlebars on my bike before heading to a barbecue in the meadows. Summer is here!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 24 Apr 2011, 09:22
My wrist hurts from the last time I went to my best friend's ranch. We were taking down an old fence that was on it's last legs, and I went to knock one of the boards off by driving the heel of my palm into it. Well, I derped and drove my hand into it at the part where fingers meet palm instead. This caused my wrist to bend back way too far way too quickly, and it's been hella sore ever since. And I can't move it with a very good range of motion.

On the upside, yesterday I went to my old house and picked up my bike. I worked on it with my old roomie for a bit and we had a good time doing so. I love being mechanically inclined, otherwise I'd have hated every second of that AND I'd have probably fucked my bike up. But I fixed it mostly instead!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 24 Apr 2011, 09:50
whoa just emailed two landlords about getting an apartment.

adult things
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 24 Apr 2011, 10:05
I'm fat!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 24 Apr 2011, 10:08
please post a picture of yr stomach, dovey.

pretty please with cherries on top.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 24 Apr 2011, 11:15
Okay definitely starting to get annoyed at how lame this breakup is turning out to be so I'm just gonna go outside and work on my bike and then I'm gonna go to Berkeley and try to get a dang EP recorded with my homie.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 24 Apr 2011, 11:17
I'm fat!

And sassy!

Here is a picture of me

(http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l98plzGLFU1qbipv3o1_400.gif)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 24 Apr 2011, 11:52
I got to hang out with people yesterday and go to the aquarium and it was awesome! And I got a stuffed animal that made the grumpy boyfriend feel better. And then we came back to my house and my friend transferred all 100 gigs of his music collection to my computer. YAY NEW MUSIC! I am in a really great mood today despite feeling kind of sick. This is awesome.

Is that picture pre- or post-"Real Housewife" makeover?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 24 Apr 2011, 15:35
Guys I am really depressed about the chance that I might not be able to afford school next year that it's affecting my ability to focus on my huge workload, which I need to maintain good grades and make the school give me Scholarship money. Help me

whenever i can't focus and feel really overwhelmed and paralyzed by work, what helps me the most is breaking down my tasks into as many small, separate tasks as i possibly can and then just doing each tiny thing one at a time, even if it's writing an essay one single painstaking sentence at a time (which is actually what i did for my final paper - i got 10,000 words in three days!). don't think about the enormity of your workload or the big picture, just focus on each little thing and take it exactly one thing at a time until you feel like you're utterly spent and you can't do any more. compared to entire tasks which might feel monstrous, each tiny thing will be relatively easy to complete and subsequently it's then easier to tell yourself "yeah, i guess i can do one more thing" and thus it's an effective way of keeping busy and productive.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 24 Apr 2011, 17:46
adam smashed his car on saturday, smashed it right into an escalade. that is like, number one of cars to not crash into. it's fine and he's fine but now i get to drive him everywhere.

it's most weird that i don't mind. i just wish psn was up


ALSO: i got him into (smog) today so i am proud of myself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 24 Apr 2011, 21:27
My brother spilled soda on my and refused to apologize despite the insistence of everyone else that he should. Such an asshole and I'm still fuming about it augh
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spluff on 25 Apr 2011, 01:48
My brother spilled soda on my and refused to apologize despite the insistence of everyone else that he should. Such an asshole and I'm still fuming about it augh

It's ok I'm sure he on accidentally the soda on your
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Apr 2011, 03:15
There's a dinner at uni for people who were at the Minack last summer and I really want to go, but I can't justify spending £40 on train tickets when I'm not earning anything. The dinner is on May 6th and I haven't RSVPed yet so I really need to decide for definite in the next few days. I've tried coaches, trains, lifeshare.com, asking other people who are going (no answer on those last two yet).

If any of you guys happen to be driving from anywhere in the vicinity of Shropshire/Birmingham/similar to anywhere near Cambridge/London/similar on anything between the 4th and 6th May, or back on anything between the 7th and 9th, I'd be incredibly grateful if I could cadge a lift! In exchange for petrol money/cup cakes/similar, of course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 25 Apr 2011, 08:16
My brother spilled soda on my and refused to apologize despite the insistence of everyone else that he should. Such an asshole and I'm still fuming about it augh

It's ok I'm sure he on accidentally the soda on your
Use your imagination to change that y into an e.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Boro_Bandito on 25 Apr 2011, 10:00
Shit I was worried that it was your keyboard/xbox/phone/playstation/other expensive piece of electronics
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Apr 2011, 10:36
So I stopped an old man outside the library and commented that I liked his hat. I misspelled that as fat. I do not like your fat, old man, get your fat away from me.

Anyways, I said I liked his hat. He talked for the next fifteen minutes about how he used to be a boxer and ran  eight miles a day, and his children don't care about him and his  wife died, but he was pretty entertaining about it all! Then I said I had to go (because it was cold and I am in a skirt because I have pretty dumb ideas some days (most days)), and he said, and I quote, "Well, like they said in Ireland, merci beaucoup!"

It wasn't his mind going, it was just really adorable. This little old dude in a bowler was a serious charmer back in the day. A serious charmer who punched people in the face.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 25 Apr 2011, 21:32
I ran into the guy that played Spider-man on The Electric Company the other day while at the library, or at least he claims he did. He started chatting me up after I inquired about which library the first collection of Ultimate Comics Presents Ultimate Spider-man came from.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: onewheelwizzard on 25 Apr 2011, 22:09
Things to do before I die:

[√] Set my face on fire

Yep, totally never need to do that again for the rest of my life.

Ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 25 Apr 2011, 22:19
how bad is it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: onewheelwizzard on 25 Apr 2011, 22:38
The area I set on fire is about the size of my hand, between the middle of my forehead and the right side of my mouth.  There's a coin-sized piece of skin that got lifted off the side of my nose (only the very top layer though) and I lost half of my right eyebrow and about a third of my mustache.  All in all, it's not nearly enough to give me an interesting scar and to be honest I probably won't even remember that it happened by the end of the week.  It kinda hurts like a bitch right now though.

It was totally my own fault.  I straight up hit myself in the face with a flaming knot of kevlar that was all soaked in fuel and had only just been lit, got a whole side of my face all wet with actively combusting naphtha, and didn't manage to put it out until at least a second and a half later.  The damage and subsequent pain ended up being relatively light, compared to how bad it could've been.    It'll be sore for a while but I didn't do any lasting damage and I'm counting myself lucky, considering the fact that the area of my face that I set on fire actually covers my right eye (which is a little swollen ... we'll see how it feels in the morning).

In any case, it's not happening again.  I was trying some really difficult shit that I should've waited on until the flames were a good bit lower, and I was a little tipsy to boot, and I paid for it.  It's not the kind of mistake you make twice.  On the plus side, I kept spinning until they burned out, and the second, third, and fourth time I tried the same trick, it worked great.  I didn't realize that I'd actually fucked my face up until I stopped and the adrenaline wore off a bit.

I fucking love spinning fire, by the way.  To be totally honest I'm kind of proud of this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 25 Apr 2011, 22:56
put some aloe vera on that shit
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 26 Apr 2011, 02:36
yesterday was kind of awesome. I woke up early and said goodbye to my mother who had come to see me for the first time in five years in Edinburgh and then she was gone so I biked back home and didn't use punctuation because it makes it sound continuous and like that guy on pitchfork reviews.

Then I totally went to a coffee shop and hung out with my friend who is an expert on afghani warfare and pakistani tribes and shit and then I installed OSX.6 on a new macbook backup that used to be my grandfathers and then I went home to get some more stuff. When I realised I was watching a really lame series I stopped and went outside and when I was outside I went to the big park here called the meadows where I saw the most beuatiful girl I know who I had sworn I would ask out the day before after three years of me being like "I love that girl, but it'll never work."

The upshot is that we hung out all day, first for hours and hours in the sun with friends and then at a horse race that was really thirty hippies running around with people on their back next to cherry blossoming trees which was awesome and there were so many dreadlocks and a fer happy dogs and after being told that the day was a peaceful jaguar day by Big Tim, the guy who is a bit crazy but has a nice dog, i went off and had dinner and wine and good times with girl and co and then at one point after dinner we went into a room alone and played the guitar songs we wrote ourselves before everyone else joined us and then i told her i would meet her today and teach her yoshimi battles the pink robots on guitar and it was perfect and she wanted that.

the problem is I don't know it and this morning before I had to clean the flat because the landlords suck and before I had to go to work and before I annoyed my flatmates by being like 'i have work' i tried to learn it on the guitar and my wrist killed and hopefully i'll get it soon or maybe i'll just restring my ukulele because that's easier and i really want this to work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 26 Apr 2011, 05:53
put some aloe vera on that shit

Ha ha no, if the burn in total is greater than a circle of roughly less that 1 inch in diameter you need to get it looked at by a pro. The possibility of infection is a serious worry even if it isn't yet weeping (serum, puss, whatever take yr pick).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 26 Apr 2011, 06:45
right ignore me then
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: onewheelwizzard on 26 Apr 2011, 06:59
I put some antibiotic and vaseline on it before I went to bed last night and I woke up and it's all weepy and yellow.  I'm going to continue to apply antibiotic.  It's not particularly painful, but it's pretty ugly.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 26 Apr 2011, 10:11
Go and see a doctor you fool. Topical lotions are OK for minor burns but if it's weepy and yellow now then it will probably need proper dressing. Better to deal with it now before it gets proper bad.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 26 Apr 2011, 10:45
Man that was some epic bike fixing fail.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 26 Apr 2011, 10:57
Well, my jobs in jeopardy. I kinda brought it on myself - I work from home and sometimes it is so very easy to get distracted. Got sent a very lengthy letter from my boss (who never normally does anything like that) telling me, in so many words, to fucking get my shit together. Hopefully if I pull a lot of late nights and sort it out in the next few days I can keep it.

To be honest, if this was happening a few months later I'd be tempted by to call it off altogether. I'm off to Uni in September so if this happened in June I might be tempted to take a few months off before I go and enjoy summer. As it is I think I'm just gonna have to pull it together for the next few months I think. Today was sure not fun though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 26 Apr 2011, 11:31
Bosses are very good at asking you to pull your shit together in elaborate ways. My spent half an hour to tell me to work harder, without ever actually asking me to work harder, but instead describing the values my company has, and how that affect my work day. Yay for communications skills.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Apr 2011, 14:30
I went to see a girl in a mustache playing punk on a ukelele last night. It was AMAZING.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 26 Apr 2011, 14:46
It must have been a really big mustache, did she offer rides?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Apr 2011, 14:58
Actually, she did offer a ride. Just not on her mustache, it was in her car. She ended up crashing at my place for the night.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: A Wet Helmet on 26 Apr 2011, 17:22
Bosses are very good at asking you to pull your shit together in elaborate ways. My spent half an hour to tell me to work harder, without ever actually asking me to work harder, but instead describing the values my company has, and how that affect my work day. Yay for communications skills.

Funny, I just finished writing a short, but very carefully constructed email telling a couple of people to get their shit together, like, now.  It was really quite a challenge to convey the level of firm resolve and pissed-offedness necessary while still maintaining a facade of congeniality.

Kinda sucked, actually.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Apr 2011, 12:33
Peoples, I keep seeing Sam's doppelganger around campus and it's weirding me out. Like he has the beard and glasses and everything. Sam, you may have an older brother. I have found him.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: abadname on 28 Apr 2011, 00:12
Tonight I filled out an internal bid at my company for the position of sous chef.  This is a bit of a long shot, but I feel really good about it.  I'm one of the youngest people in the kitchen and I don't have the most experience, but I am the guy that people go to and rely on and I am able to do all the tasks.  This is big, and I feel really anxious in a good way.  There will be a lot of prayers, nerves, and lost sleep until I get an answer.  I honestly think there is a good chance I'll get it, but if I don't then nothing changes.

Also I'm getting married in 44 days and got out of class (culinary school) for the summer last week.  If I get this then this summer will officially be the best possible summer, and I'll be able to go back to school not as just a student with a good amount of real world experience, but as the student who is a sous chef in a restaurant.  I need this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 28 Apr 2011, 11:51
yesterday was one of the most emotionally turbulent days i have ever had, for mostly dumb reasons, and it was mostly ups but the downs were very drastic, at least they all got negated though. but it was just SO STRESSFUL!

my friend had backstage passes to arcade fire (with the national!) in indianapolis and she was just texting me, i can't even be angry or jealous at that. she was at the afterparty and was just like "i am watching arcade fire and the national play basketball." so great! also, this means i'm like, three or four degrees of separation away from arcade fire :D i don't know how they became my favorite band so strongly but they just are

the major reason for my crazies though was probably this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGnJ0uUgJIw), god damn
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 28 Apr 2011, 15:44
Apparently there's some wedding going on tomorrow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 28 Apr 2011, 16:02
This one?
(http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/226234_10150231292750180_612000179_9086388_7289279_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 28 Apr 2011, 16:06
What sitcom is that from?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 28 Apr 2011, 16:09
If my prospective husband looked like the one pictured on that mug, I'd call it off.

What sitcom is that from?

Could be The Royle Family, I suppose.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 28 Apr 2011, 16:56
I think I worked my behind off enough in the last few days to show my boss I'm pretty capable and hopefully save my job. Tonight I plan to get so drunk I forget we live in a monarchy. 1649-1660 4ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 28 Apr 2011, 17:07
the major reason for my crazies though was probably this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jGnJ0uUgJIw), god damn

Hey anna how come you're a Spurs fan when there's like four Californian teams in the NBA?

On a slightly related note, I wanna get more into the NBA but there's never any games on TV :c
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 28 Apr 2011, 19:02
Because three of them suck and I will never support Kobe Bryant ever

And Manu Ginobili is my hero
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: squawk on 28 Apr 2011, 19:03
I don't know, there's a lot to be said about the league and how the Spurs are really quite unique and there's no other team like them but I'll wait til their season is over, which will hopefully be in late June :3
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 28 Apr 2011, 19:31
On a slightly related note, I wanna get more into the NBA but there's never any games on TV :c

myp2p.eu, there might be a canadian/us equivalent?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Apr 2011, 20:25
Sunday, I went to Berkeley and recorded a demo (posted on the music board in the relevant thread, and also here (http://soundcloud.com/kimjongsick/sets/good-feels-promo)). It isn't done, but I am circulating this around to get as much feedback as possible. PM plz!

K.A. Applegate did an AMA on Reddit (http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/gzhau/iam_ka_applegate_author_of_animorphs_and_many/) today and I almost cried. So goddamn good. The Animorphs series was the best shit ever. Honestly some of her responses to questions make me wanna cry.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 28 Apr 2011, 20:38
What I'm thinking of doing is keeping the regular Sunday SMS stories, but also cutting them down to size and posting them on Twitter on Mondays. I'll also set up a simple blog which will explain the whole project and which will have the phone number for anyone who wants to subscribe to the SMS versions. I'll probably also get a PayPal account or something and start charging a small subscription fee for the stories - probably A$10 a year (which will more than cover the costs of distribution).

I'll probably waive the fee for existing subscribers, though. (Don't tell anyone!)

Oh hey there, Blog Thread page 175, remember when I said I was going to do this?

SHAZAM! http://twitter.com/MondayStory (http://twitter.com/MondayStory)

KAPOW!! http://smsstories.blogspot.com/ (http://smsstories.blogspot.com/)

After some careful thought I decided to just beg discreetly for donations rather than demanding a subscription fee from people new to the SMS stories, mainly because asking people on the internet to give me their phone number is already weird and creepy enough without also demanding that they send me money for the privilege.

Anyway if you've been getting the SMS stories you'll know the drill - one extremely short story a week, the SMS version on Sunday (as always) and the Twitter version on Monday (both Australian time - local time may differ).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Graphite on 30 Apr 2011, 04:19
Sunday, I went to Berkeley and recorded a demo (posted on the music board in the relevant thread, and also here (http://soundcloud.com/kimjongsick/sets/good-feels-promo)). It isn't done, but I am circulating this around to get as much feedback as possible. PM plz!

K.A. Applegate did an AMA on Reddit (http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/gzhau/iam_ka_applegate_author_of_animorphs_and_many/) today and I almost cried. So goddamn good. The Animorphs series was the best shit ever. Honestly some of her responses to questions make me wanna cry.
Oh hey, I read that while it was going on. I loved the series, but knowing that she was expected to put out a new book every month, and ended up resorting to ghostwriters from about book 26 on, and then didn't treat them too well, broke my heart a little bit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 30 Apr 2011, 19:53
I've been coming in to work on the weekends (I work on weekends but usually from home) because I haven't got the net at our new flat yet. No one else comes into the office on these days because I'm the only one that does weekend work so I can usually play my own music with impunity over the large speakers.

Today I've been listening to this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujapSvrk92U&NR=1) on an infinite loop.

Someone just came in to the office to get something from their desk or whatever and was met with the site of me, a heavily tattooed, 6 foot, long-haired and generally scruffy looking guy dancing around to a cartoon cat.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 30 Apr 2011, 21:16
http://nyan.cat/

You'll never have to hit replay again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JimmyJazz on 01 May 2011, 01:01
I'm way too angry to write a large amount right now, so this is a placeholder for a rant about a first-hand encounter with the Bystander Effect and bigotry of the most vile kind. Am temped to give up on humanity
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 01 May 2011, 17:02
Dear Blog thread,

I've been fighting migraines for the past three days, I've been sleeping every day and all night just about. I'm running on auto pilot at work, messing things up, but I'm scared and want nothing more than to go home to see my mom. Last week while mom was at work, she was getting tickets from a drawer close to the floor. Next thing she knew, something hit her in the back of her head. She was instantly on the ground, she tried getting back up but her balance was thrown off and she fell back into the bins. At that point a co-worker came and helped her back up, and the first thing a manager said was "Are you ok to work?" mom stayed at work, 2 hours later she was approached by a manager who asked "Are you ok?" mom turned to him crying and said "I don't know.", he said "Ok" and walked away. A bit later mom walkd to her co-managers office crying and told her "My lips are numb, I can't think, I'm confused, I think I need to go home." her co-manager said "Whatever Margie, just go home." and shut the office door on mom. Mom turned to one of her co-workers who was with her, started crying even harder and said "They don't care about me." her co-worker said "Well we do. GO to the emergency room NOW." Mom drove herself to the ER, sat in the parking lot for a few confused on what to do, and then just came home.

The next night, her and dad were sitting down eating, her mouth and nose started pouring blood. Dad panicked and she was finally taken to the ER. They did a CT scan, they found spots on her brain. They kept her in a room hooked to an IV for a few hours and then just simply let her go home. The next day she went to the Walmart doctor to get checked out. He was enraged that the hospital she was at the night before sent her home. The scans showed exactly what was wrong with her, and were what scared her Workman's Comp doctor. He immediately called corporate Walmart and demanded that they send someone in to measure how high the box was and how much it weighed.

The box was 15 feet in the air and 15 pounds, my mom wasn't simply hit in the head, she was hammered. She suffered a stroke, a sub-arachnoid hemorrhage. That workman's comp doctor immediately called an ambulance and had her rushed to MCV in Richmond, Va. They did another CT scan, it showed that the bleeding had stopped. They did a spinal tap to see where the blood she did have in her brain possibly leaked.

Been a few days, she's been home. She has to go through speech therapy, and do little memory tests. It kills me to talk to her. Everything she says, in text, on face book, over the phone... it makes me just cry. I can tell something about her has changed, I can only hope it is temporary. I can hear her struggling on the phone to talk at certain points. She can write things just fine she said, but her speech is very slurred and sometimes she cannot even properly pronounce something. Last night, within an hour, she told me the same thing twice without realizing she had already told me.

I've done some research on her injury, she is very lucky to be alive, 50% of the people that have the injury, and don't seek immediate treatment die in their sleep that very night. I'm panicked because she has to be very careful, the next 30 days are very crucial. 45% of the people don't make it within the first 30 days. This is something she is going to have to live with for the rest of her life. She's not going to be able to do the same things she used to do, she used to go to the gym every day, and a very strong, intelligent woman. They ran tests while she was in the hospital the 2nd time, other than her head injury, her health is immaculate. For a 45 year old woman who smokes, she has nothing wrong with her.

More than anything, I want to take Walmart down for this accident. Their poor management team, the placement of the box, everything. This could have been prevented. Mom could be in a better condition if they had immediately called an ambulance. The first words out of their mouth should not have been "Can you still work?" It should have been "Stay right there, an ambulance is on the way." Head injuries are not to be taken lightly, and people should know better than to allow someone with a head injury, who obviously appears confused as hell make a judgment call on something.

I am absolutely pissed for the terrible treatment from her managers. If I had a reliable car right now, I'm pretty sure I would be in Virginia at this moment putting my foot up some asses. I don't want money, mom doesn't even want to sue.. but I damn sure want some fucking blood for this. My brother and I both do.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 01 May 2011, 17:30
That's awful. I hope your mom pulls through okay.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 01 May 2011, 17:40
Fuck Wal-Mart
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Graphite on 01 May 2011, 18:40
That's horrible. There's probably some form of legal aid who'd be willing to take on her case if you investigate options in your area. If you ever need someone to talk to about dealing with the changes to a family member who's had a stroke (grandfather in my case), my PM box is open.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 May 2011, 00:42
Man wow, and I thought my managers were douches when I had to report a back strain last summer. That is completely bogus of those managers to be so irresponsible. Do they realize the gravity of what they did (or failed to do) at all?

Dear blag,

Yesterday and today were the Livermore Honey and Wine Festival! I handed out resumes,looked at whatever pretty girls were available to look at, and today toward the end of it I went to the music store, asked to borrow a guitar and a stool, and told them I was gonna try and get them some customers. It worked, and I made some pretty alright bank in tips.

Later in the evening I went to a grassy area by one of the downtown bars and sat on the benches with some friends, all of us crossfaded to fuck. These two really good-looking girls came up with a blanket and a picnic basket. I was seated in such a way as to be able to see up both of their dresses, so I did the decent thing and told them that they might be showing off a bit more than they bargained for. And they were like "Oh, sorry!" and I just grinned, walked away and said "The hell are you apologizing for?" The end.

Oh yeah and my allergies make my head want to explode and I have a cough now and it hurts to smoke, cigarettes OR weed, and I basically just want to fucking power drill a hole in my sinuses so they will stop having so much pressure in them. Oh and I think I have a cold on top of it all, because my allergies don't normally give me a productive cough. Just a dry one. Where'd all the shit in my lungs come from? idfk.

Love,
Me!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 02 May 2011, 01:41
I know where the shit in your lungs comes from!

Oh yeah and my allergies make my head want to explode and I have a cough now and it hurts to smoke, cigarettes OR weed


 head want to explode and I have a cough now and it hurts to smoke, cigarettes OR weed



it hurts to smoke, cigarettes OR weed


smoke
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 May 2011, 02:35
EDIT: that was unnecessary of me

in other news I forgot to mention that I saw a girl in a "She Blinded Me With Library Science" shirt on and I just wanna say I totally saw you while I was rocking out in front of the music store and I think you're kinda purdy
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 02 May 2011, 03:30
Shit, Doctor Online. Good luck with getting legal advice: I think that should be a pretty straightforward case you have there. Try talking to the union, as well - is your mother a member? They might be able to help out - they'll certainly be able to give advice as to where to go for this sort of thing. That's part of the union's job, I think.

Patrick, that sounds like a slamming day.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 02 May 2011, 04:29
Thanks guys, my brother and I teamed up together .. basically mom is getting better composure, she's fully aware of what's going on now and actually wants a lawyer to pursue even to just make sure all future medical is taken care of (which when we gave her a run down of what medical will cost, she realizes that no matter what, she's going to be hitting their pocket pretty damn hard). Today, after my work and after his school, we're going to be making some phone calls to our dad, who is advising mom to not even get a lawyer to represent her to be sure she keeps her job. Basically, we have to knock him out of his 1970's company loyalty bull and bring him up to modern times. The world doesn't work that way anymore, Walmart doesn't see a loyal employee, they see lawsuit, and liability.. basically a thorn in their paw.

I'm doing my best in respecting my mom right now, and this is probably the most public I've taken this story. I hope she pursues, and brings this to the public. This isn't the first time it's happened (same store). I'm not quite sure what happened to the other woman, I just know the end result was her in a wheelchair, and she has since passed away. I do not know if her passing had anything o do with her age, or with her accident. But unlike mom, she didn't have an accident report filed. At least mom has that.

I can say, and I'm very vocal about it now. I will never... set foot into another Walmart. Ever. Again.

All I want more than ever is sleep. One real nights worth of sleep. I hope now that I know my mom is doing better I can have that tonight.

On the bright side, my dad got her a puppy (Chinese Crested Powder Puff). She's like a little girl with him, posting all kinds of cute pictures. They named him Wyatt Earp, I talked her and dad into it. My boyfriend and I are going to get a Schnauzer and I'm pretty much set his name will be Doc Holiday... and occasionally I WILL give him a handle bar mustache. But mom's had Wyatt for two days now, and he is the most spoiled dog ever, but so precious. I'm really happy that dad let her get a puppy, I think it's helping her cope with her head injury better. I mean, wouldn't finding this cuteness (http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v98/crimsonstitches/WyattEarp5.jpg) asleep like that make your heart melt?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 02 May 2011, 08:24
that must still be really scary. and that puppy is holy-shit cute!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 02 May 2011, 08:31
I can say, and I'm very vocal about it now. I will never... set foot into another Walmart. Ever. Again.

Man I don't think I will either.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 02 May 2011, 08:48
Livermore Honey and Wine Festival!

Quote from: Dr. Turkleton
WOMAN I WAS COVERED IN BEES
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 02 May 2011, 09:39
That made me burst out laughing. At work. I will be getting funny looks for the rest of the day :D

I am in a fantastic mood today. I let my boyfriend spoil it for about an hour - he's being a dick because he's tired. It's not my fault. But now I'm back to my good mood, and he will not ruin it again.

I may have to play some serious Rock Band tonight. I feel like singing but don't feel like getting any more weird looks from co-workers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 02 May 2011, 12:03
I have been feeling like this for the past couple of days.

(http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lia56uSuz01qg7jxao1_500.png)

but blaugh I had the worst stomach ache earlier today and now it's gone and the feeling is magical
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 02 May 2011, 12:37
Sad stuff and puppies.

I hope your mom gets better! And I hope you guys making Walmart pay for what they did. I mean, at least fire that idiotic manager for not doing shit. Also that puppy is adorable and animals do help in the healing process.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 02 May 2011, 14:29
Fuck Wal-Mart
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 02 May 2011, 16:14
Exactly a week before we're filming the biggest project of our year and the lead actor and actress drop out, out of the blue.

WHOOPYYYYY.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 02 May 2011, 16:18
You've got enough charisma and chutzpah to play both parts convincingly, Ryan.

(I just wanted to say chutzpah)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 02 May 2011, 16:23
My lecturer complains when I act in our films. Because he knows me he can't "immerse himself" in our films.

Also I am not a beautiful blond lady.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 02 May 2011, 18:11
 :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 02 May 2011, 23:06
Don't worry, we think you could be a blonde beautiful lady if you wanted to be.

Today I hitch hike to Canterbury from Edinburgh. Going to a conference, the Mountain Goats on my tongue.

Woo!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 03 May 2011, 00:28
Dear blog thread,

Today I applied for more jobs. And today marks yet another day of not getting a phone call or a return email or anything of the sort. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

And I guess my best friend and I don't play music together anymore because it hasn't happened since the last week we ran open mic, which was St. Patrick's Day.

Oh yeah, and I really don't give a fuck that Osama bin Laden is dead because I don't really believe it anyway.

Love,
Me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 May 2011, 10:10
I thought he died years ago but I guess that was someone else? I don't really know anything about anything.


I have got some new clothes! New bras (the lady in the shop said you should replace your bras every 4-6 months and my mum and I both burst out laughing - I think the last time either of us bought one was over two years ago), a pair of black trousers, and a new dress. I'm going to a fancy dinner on Friday and the dress code is black tie; the dress I'll wear isn't quite black tie but it'll do if I can find some decent shoes. Sadly all my red heels are in storage, which is exasperating as they'd be perfect.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed that in a week or two I'll finally have a job! I applied for this job back in November and at last have returned to the area, completed the paperwork and once that comes back hopefully will be starting.

Also I have come to the definite conclusion that I'm sensitive to lactose. Blood tests insist I'm not lactose intolerant but my stomach says otherwise.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 03 May 2011, 12:17
Today I applied for more jobs. And today marks yet another day of not getting a phone call or a return email or anything of the sort. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

GET ON EM, DUDE.

Seriously. Don't wait for them to call you. I got the job I have now basically by persistantly calling and emailing the HR director (and having friends that work here do the same).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 03 May 2011, 12:26
Also I have come to the definite conclusion that I'm sensitive to lactose. Blood tests insist I'm not lactose intolerant but my stomach says otherwise.

I'm sensitive to it. You just have to figure out which dairy products are bothering you (mine is cheese) and eat less of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 May 2011, 13:17
(the lady in the shop said you should replace your bras every 4-6 months

This sort of sentiment holds true for a lot of things, but really it is not financially feasible to due so. I mean, I was wearing the same pairs of underwear so long (with regular washing) that they started to wear thin and tear. We're talking like 3+ years on the same 6 pairs. Occasionally I will buy another 5 pack because it means I have to do laundry less often.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 03 May 2011, 13:31
Today I applied for more jobs. And today marks yet another day of not getting a phone call or a return email or anything of the sort. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

The squeaky wheel is the one to always get oiled. Call them every day to check up on your application status, companies love persistent people. It sounds crazy, I hate the feeling of bugging the people, but they'll remember your name.

This sort of sentiment holds true for a lot of things, but really it is not financially feasible to due so. I mean, I was wearing the same pairs of underwear so long (with regular washing) that they started to wear thin and tear. We're talking like 3+ years on the same 6 pairs. Occasionally I will buy another 5 pack because it means I have to do laundry less often.

I still have underwear from when I was in high school. I actually have the same jeans from when I was in high school. I'm stuck wearing sweats now cause jeans are expensive and I've gained "happy" weight from moving in with my boyfriend, working on that bit. Lost 20 pounds so far! Squeezing in!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 03 May 2011, 13:58
Please note that the squeaky wheel thing does NOT apply if it's a small company where there is an actual person checking incoming resumes.
I've reviewed resumes for two positions at my very small company and I SWEAR I have read your resume and determined that your background/grasp of basic grammar is not what we are looking for. I've had a guy send me his resume every day for a week and call the office twice and he was the single least qualified applicant we had for the position. It was infuriating and put me in the super awkward position of having to tell someone WHY we had not contacted him for an interview, which is really not my thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 03 May 2011, 14:06
I never even put small businesses into consideration.  :psyduck:

The way to look at it though, you can hope that maybe that man took what you told him (if you went into an actual explanation, not just "You just don't qualify") to heart, and use that as constructive criticism to improve himself for the next place he applied to. That is, if you were forced to go into detail.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 03 May 2011, 16:33
It's really frustrating at my company because I'm not the one who does the hiring or reads the resumes, I just call them up and arrange interviews and confirm via email, and then they keep emailing me back asking how they went and thanking me and asking why they haven't been contacted... aargh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 03 May 2011, 16:47
I've gotta agree (edit: with Amanda). I had a guy reply to an ad for lighting stagehands who thought he was hot shit because he was on the "D" list with the stagehand union (meaning, he got someone to refer him, but had yet to pass a test that is simpler than my Intro to Technical Theatre final). He was now laying fiber-optic cable, and had previously been a gutter cleaner. He could not understand why we did not want him on our crew list. Simple, it starts with the fact that you said "Local 22 D List" like it matters, and ends with the way you bitched that you "worked hard" to get me a copy of your resume when I didn't immediately call to schedule you.

And there was the guy who responded to the "Moving Light Repair Tech Needed: MUST have moving light repair experience" ad, with a resume about equal to mine, aka office bitch 3+ years. I had to explain that being a quick learner is not good enough, we need someone who knows how to do it, because we don't. If MS Word is all it took to fix those things I would be doing it myself.

Soooo, yeah. Gauge the organizations you're applying to when timing your follow-ups and if your ego is feeling up to is maybe ask politely why they don't think you're a "good fit at this time" or whatever if they turn you down.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 03 May 2011, 17:09
What I'm saying is, follow up on his applications, follow up after an interview. Calling them never hurt, and sometimes (with certain jobs) calling every day really is the only way to get a job. My boyfriend used to manage, he said through a hectic day it's hard to remember he was supposed to call an applicant back on a follow up. So he really appreciated the ones who did call back. It showed him they really wanted the job. He's the one who's pushed me to do it, because the job I was applying for was very busy, and actually extremely shorthanded so they never actually had a chance to get to me, but calling them at a dead time during the day to touch bases was ok. They appreciated it and voiced that appreciation.

I am also an Amanda. You did not know that, but I'ma be a butt-face and say in my head you agree with me anyways. =P Makes me feel better.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 03 May 2011, 17:29
Currently listening to a mouse slowly die in the trap I laid out for it earlier. It's not a particularly nice feeling. Eugh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 04 May 2011, 01:58
I learnt a new racial epithet! My friend Liz is Egyptian so can she freely refer to her family and herself as gyppos.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 04 May 2011, 05:24
Currently listening to a mouse slowly die in the trap I laid out for it earlier. It's not a particularly nice feeling. Eugh.

He wasn't dying! Woo! He simply got his leg caught in the thing. Made him easy to find, and I took him to a park about 10 minutes away and released him. I doubt he'll survive for long what with all the cats around here, but it made me feel a lot better.

I am so not a man
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 04 May 2011, 09:25
I'm sensitive to it. You just have to figure out which dairy products are bothering you (mine is cheese) and eat less of it.


Noooooooooooo it seems to be HOT CHOCOLATE AND ICE CREAM nooooooooooooooooooo there must be another way


Real men slaughter all the small critters they see!

I'm glad you're not a real man.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 04 May 2011, 10:28
The plus side is that there are FANTASTIC non-dairy ice creams out there, but non dairy cheese is misery.

Soy Delicious is amazing and comes in a bajillion flavors. Only the vanilla sucks!
(http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSCPtut5t_4T7nu9FGOj_ydGlMxvYhbjT2GFQIrqu1ZXaOGf90Z)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Doctor Online on 04 May 2011, 10:43
I must try this ice cream, I'm in the same boat. I usually just suck it up though and deal with an upset tummy. I love Blizzards and Baskin Robins, I'm walking distance from both stores. I love my apartment. =P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 04 May 2011, 11:14
I learnt a new racial epithet! My friend Liz is Egyptian so can she freely refer to her family and herself as gyppos.


In this part of the world, gyppo is a term for gypsies, romany or other traveller folk. Mind you, if we wanted to slag off the entire Egyptian population, we'd just call them a bunch of bird-head worshipping motherfuckers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 04 May 2011, 11:33
The plus side is that there are FANTASTIC non-dairy ice creams out there, but non dairy cheese is misery.

Oh, I still eat dairy cheese, I just have to moderate which softer cheeses I eat. Like eating cream cheese and fresh mozzarella in the same day at two separate meals is something I can't do, but I can still eat them. Stuff like that. And I can't eat some cheeses anyways because of high mold content, like bleu cheese. (Which is whatever, it smells terrible.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 04 May 2011, 13:13
I dread the day I try to give up dairy. It's going to happen, but I seriously love dairy stuff.

Blog thread,

My girlfriend has decided to grow a goatee, which is very frustrating. Not the facial hair part, but the fact it's a goatee.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 04 May 2011, 13:24
Dear Blog Thread!

In case you were wondering, there are ways to be skint and go to academic conferences:

a) hitch 500 miles and then feel dead afterwards
b) buy tobacco, not cigarettes. learn to roll.
c) don't pay for the crappy food. Contact the organisers and be like "I'm a student can I come for $10?"
d) buy local food! eat local food!
e) don't buy local food - eat dandelion

No, really. i had dandelions for dinner. They tasted bitter.

love,
I
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: tania on 05 May 2011, 12:07
non-dairy ice creams

if you ever manage to locate ice cream made from coconut milk, get on that shit. i used to frequent an ice cream parlour in toronto that regularly served it and it was absolutely fucking heavenly
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 05 May 2011, 14:20
If I remember correctly I'm pretty sure there is a brand of coconut milk ice cream that should be pretty easy to find in most decent U.S. supermarkets. I can't remember the name of the brand or anything but I know we found it in Florida and my (dairy-allergic) ex-gf freaked out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 05 May 2011, 15:43
The prospect of coconut milk based ice cream is a delicious prospect.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 05 May 2011, 18:53
Prospectively, of course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 May 2011, 23:23
Woohoo, completed the 3rd of four qualifying rides for Paris-Brest-Paris last weekend and am now registered. I am GB3494. Very happy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 06 May 2011, 00:26
We're moving offices next week, so someone decided to archive all the passive aggressive notes stuck around the kitchen.


(http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/230623_214623245231924_100000527501861_779660_6536331_n.jpg)

I made this one, it has gone down well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 06 May 2011, 00:34
Your office has a dishwasher?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 06 May 2011, 02:22
Yup, and the place is still a hideous mess. I can't imagine how awful it'd be if we made these boys actually scrub their own dishes.
Oh, there's also this one:

(http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/228420_214623058565276_100000527501861_779656_7131765_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 May 2011, 06:22
Ours has a dishwasher too. And two fridges! There's a angry note on one because for some reason everyone kept using this one guy's butter, even though he had his name clearly written on the packaging.

There's also a Dinosaur Comic taped to the bulletin board.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Elizzybeth on 06 May 2011, 16:40
My dad just called me to say my mom drove off two days ago after a fight without telling him what was going on and has refused to talk to him since, so he is moving all of his stuff out of the house today.  They have separated once before, but he says that he does not think this is going to go well and probably they will not be getting back together.

They visited me together less than two weeks ago and seemed fine.  I mean, like, they bought a hot tub together last Monday.

WTF, parents.  I do not know what to think.
 
:-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Eris on 06 May 2011, 16:47
Oh hey, on the parent front, I got a call from my brother a few days ago letting me know that my mum has given my dad two weeks to take anything he wants (that he owns) and to leave. Now, she doesn't live in the same house as him, but she is the one paying off the mortgage, so he is paying her rent; it is her house. We have kicked him out before, (I think this is the third time) but this time she is changing the locks. I am a bit worried because he doesn't really have anywhere to go, and of the few places he can go they are not very good places for him (his family are arseholes and alcoholics themselves, and the last people he stayed with took advantage of him and got him to renovate some of their house). Also she is blocking his phone number because of the myriad of pointless calls she gets from him every day.

But unlike your story, this has been building for a long time. I just hope he realises that he needs help and gets it rather than living with his overweight, abusive, morphine addict brother and ends up driving drunk and killing someone by accident. Parents are confusing people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 06 May 2011, 19:24
Parents are people.

Unfortunately
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 07 May 2011, 00:21
It can also be confusing being a parent.

Life...

If your parents have problems, try to see them like any other friends with problems (which can be weird).  Help if you can (likely you can't); try not to take sides beyond what's actually helpful to them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 07 May 2011, 05:10
I can't agree with the above point too much. Obviously I don't know how you feel about the possibility of your parents splitting up, but I can provide a little story of how you can cope with it pretty well.

When I was 13, my mum decided her marriage to my dad wasn't working. I won't go into details of why, because that's not really relevant. My sister and I saw it (and still see it) in very different ways. She took it really hard (and turned to the local church and has subsequently become a westboro-style christian, but that's another story). But because my parents never argued in front of me or anything, I was able to approach it with a surprising degree of emotional detachment. What I saw was that my mum wasn't happy with my dad. She'd found someone else who she subsequently married, and as a result she is living a much happier life than she was before. From the off, I saw my mum as just a normal person who needed to be happy with her life, and so I saw the divorce in a good light. My mum was going to be happier, and that could only be a good thing.

I guess my point here is that because I understood that the divorce would make my mum a happier person, it would make her a better parent, so when it comes to parents separating, provided everyone approaches it as adults, aware of each other's needs, then everyone can get through it in a surprisingly happy way, that benefits everyone in the end. Separation might never be fun for anyone involved, but it can still be the best thing to do.

In summary: Happy parents are better than unhappy parents!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jmrz on 07 May 2011, 05:59
I was really young when my parents divorced and the one thing I remember being worried about was that I got to live with mum. I don't think we saw our biological "parent" (I really despise using this word in reference to him because biologically, yes he is, but that is absolutely it) for a year or so after that? When we did it was every second weekend and it upset me and it made me angry a lot of the time, because I just wanted to live with mum. Eventually everything suddenly exploded and I decided I couldn't deal with him anymore and made the decision to stop talking to him altogether. My sister still saw him and it took her a lot longer to make that decision as well.

My sister and I have both since changed our last names (to Mum's last name, she went back to her maiden name and kept it when she got remarried). Mum remarried six or seven years ago now and I consider my stepdad to be my dad now. I don't remember her being unhappy about the divorce because it was definitely a good thing for her, and ultimately us, in a number of ways.

I guess the thing to remember is that they're people living their own lives and if they wont help themselves there isn't a lot anyone else can do for them. Also, they know what they want and what will supposedly make them happy, so you kind of have to go along with it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 07 May 2011, 06:00
I had a flat viewing this morning! The flat is pretty much perfect: cheaper than my current flat, cute bedroom, amazing kitchen, in the best possible area of town, a small garden, sharing with two lovely girls who are also in art school and studying the same as me (although the year above). They're gonna call me later to let me know if I got it or not since they had two more viewings after me, I have a pretty good feeling about this.

So exciting aahh
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 07 May 2011, 09:11
Guys I have just spent the past 24 hours awake taking part in a culture hack, which means that we were given a bunch of data (this time specifically for the Fringe festival here in Edinburgh) and we had to build some apps with it.

We built a cheeky rip off of whatshouldifuckingmakefordinner which randomly suggested shows for people to go see at the Fringe (http://www.wtfringe.com if you're interested), and then i took part in some the most mind numbing data crunching and bending and flexing to build festivalsreview.com, for which we basically scourged four of the main reviewers of the Fringe festivals their websites using simple scripts, and then dumped them on our servers, cross checked them with eachother, and finally brought them all together on the site to be a general this show was the best reviewed, this venue has the best shows, etc. type of website, something that didn't already exist.

It was a really cool experience, and I was surprised by how much we got done. I think we're definitely going to take Festivals Review further.

Also, Kris, I will reply to your message once I have had some sleep!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 07 May 2011, 10:04
I don't think we saw our biological "parent" (I really despise using this word in reference to him because biologically, yes he is, but that is absolutely it)

I tend to go with "sperm donor", myself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 07 May 2011, 11:32
Man as someone who was brought up with the nuclear family being the only thing it is a little scary many people I know have their family fractured or dysfunctional in all kinds of ways. It is the huge minority who still have their family in whatever state it was when it was nearest to 'ideal'.

I would never have guessed it from my experience alone but I guess that whole thing is a crock of shit a lot of the time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 May 2011, 11:52
Today I applied for more jobs. And today marks yet another day of not getting a phone call or a return email or anything of the sort. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

GET ON EM, DUDE.

Seriously. Don't wait for them to call you. I got the job I have now basically by persistantly calling and emailing the HR director (and having friends that work here do the same).

Update: I HAS A JOB. It's for Grassroots Campaigns, Inc. They have an office in Berkeley. Right now I'm just a canvasser, but I'm in line to be in a leadership position two weeks from now when the Cal students come on board for the summer. It's gonna be amusing to be a high school dropout in charge of a bunch of students from one of the country's more prestigious academic institutions, tell you what.

Tuesday I had a show in Berkeley, which went very well! We were the second (and final) opening act for the most popular band in the city (according to an online vote). We got some excellent exposure, which is great when starting to promote a new project. And we performed with the confidence that only comes from knowing you're 100% prepared and well-rehearsed. Kabir had me tell jokes while he and I picked up our other guitars (we each had an electric and an acoustic, because he tunes his shit hellof weird and I tune in something considerably more common), which surprisingly went over very well. The acoustics in the venue were PHENOMENAL. And we are playing original material that I have a lot of faith in. Most likely because I didn't write the lyrics to it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 07 May 2011, 13:14
Fair warning, keep applying for other jobs. Grassroots Campaigns is pretty shitty to their employees and has an insanely high turnover rate. I worked for them last summer on a campaign in Boston for about a month before I quit, and in that month became one of like, the 3 longest tenured members of the staff.

I guess what I'm saying is, congratulations, but get to work on a backup plan ASAP, and don't get used to your co-workers being around.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 May 2011, 13:25
I'm not tripping. My boss is a cute redhead and it's full time work. This is definitely not something I want to do for any longer than I have to, but I'm definitely happy to just plain have a job.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Elizzybeth on 07 May 2011, 14:05
If your parents have problems, try to see them like any other friends with problems (which can be weird).  Help if you can (likely you can't); try not to take sides beyond what's actually helpful to them.

That makes perfect sense, and I genuinely do feel that if my parents can be happier apart, then that is okay with me.  My sense of self is not tied to them being together; I love them both and want them to enjoy life.

HOWEVER, I have some serious concerns about my mom. (When my dad called me to say he had some "bad news," I was actually relieved when it was just them splitting, not my mom dead.)  Only very recently has she stopped talking about suicide daily, and she is a very introverted and private person.  She has only 2 family members left alive, and they live fairly far away.  She is retired at the age of 50 due to a mental breakdown following her mother's suicide and, without the support of my father, would be surviving solely on social security income.  She stopped going to counseling about 6 months ago.

As much as I want to support her fully in whatever decision she makes, part of me worries that she is using this as a way to break away from her personal obligations so that my dad isn't watching over her all the time (she has complained multiple times of him "forcing" her to live).

I'm not sure how to approach this either as a "friend" or as a daughter.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Yunior on 07 May 2011, 14:57
Turned in a mammoth research paper on Friday, I can once again play on the Internet  :police:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 07 May 2011, 16:06
Just made/served Mum breakfast in bed and wished her a Happy Mother's Day. I love my mum.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 07 May 2011, 21:11
I celebrated free comic book day today by buying a comic book.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 08 May 2011, 08:31
I celebrated by going into a comic book store and laughing at most of the things.

No purchase necessary.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 08 May 2011, 16:34
Man. Calling my mom on Mother's Day in front of my friends was probably the funniest thing I've had happen recently. I caught so much shit for my Mom-accent. When I'm on the phone with my mom, I go from the accent they're used to, which is my standard northern California accent (the one you hear in about 90% of movies; very neutral, as far as American accents go) to a slowed-down, incredibly thick Georgia accent. Think Alan Jackson. Not a single one of these kids was even aware I was a Southerner by even the loose stretch I consider myself to be one (my mom's side of the family is all from the South and I lived in Georgia for a significant part of my childhood), so when they all of a sudden heard me turn into a Georgia boy, they didn't know what the fuck was happening. My word choice altered itself significantly; my slang was very different, and I used a lot of semi-archaic words such as "yonder."

I recently learned that it is not advisable to drink alcohol within an hour of taking diphenhydramine (my usual go-to choice of antihistamine). That shit will straight FUCK YOU UP.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 09 May 2011, 07:47
My mother code-switches whenever she is one the phone with southerners, as well. She's from Georgia, but for most of my childhood in Connecticut, spoke in a perfect non-regional General American accent.

I realised recently I pronounce pajamas weirdly because of her.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 09 May 2011, 08:36
do you say pajaymas or pajommas?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nufan on 09 May 2011, 08:54
pah-jar-mahs. Who the tits says pajommas?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 09 May 2011, 09:01
I do! I guess? Everyone does 'round these parts.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 09 May 2011, 09:27
Man, I wish people would pick up subtle hints like, "I'm kind of estranged from my family and really don't want to talk about them." This woman was repeatedly asking me about my family, trying to get me to describe them, when I barely know her, and in front of a whole group of people. She ended up upsetting me until I just walked out, because if I didn't I would just break into crying in front of everyone.

Now I feel bad and she feels bad and everyone feels bad. It's that kind of day.

Also - I saw a woman walking around in a mini-skirt and winter coat today. what the hell?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 May 2011, 09:34
Dude, it's a Cake song.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 09 May 2011, 09:41
And is totally a good look. Just sayin, ladies.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 09 May 2011, 09:49
I want a girl with a short skirt and a looooong... jacket.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 09 May 2011, 09:55
Me too.

Also, she has to be changing her name from Kitty to Karen. No kitties here.

I alternate between pajommas and pa-jam-mas.
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Post by: nufan on 09 May 2011, 10:10
I do! I guess? Everyone does 'round these parts.

Banona's in pajomma's

(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4O-1SBGPjBo/TOta8ahQsOI/AAAAAAAABpM/4XXLq5pQLn4/s1600/bananas.jpg)

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 May 2011, 11:24
Update: I HAS A JOB.

My dogg. o/

Quote
Tuesday I had a show in Berkeley, which went very well! We were the second (and final) opening act for the most popular band in the city

Dude tell me those Berkeley people have proper earholes and you played with the Bye Bye Blackbirds.

(psst hey did you get your phone fixed yet?)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 09 May 2011, 11:27
I finally installed windows 7.  :mrgreen:
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Post by: JD on 09 May 2011, 11:30
Literally the most exciting thing that's happened to me these past couple of weeks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 09 May 2011, 11:33
well, windows 7 is badass so i can't blame you

i did the same thing a couple weeks ago and tried to tell someone how cool it was and they did not get it
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 09 May 2011, 11:34
I installed Mac OS 10.6.6 the other day.

It, too, was very exciting.  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 09 May 2011, 11:36
well, windows 7 is badass so i can't blame you

i did the same thing a couple weeks ago and tried to tell somewhat how cool it was and they did not get it

It's so nice to be completely done with Vista.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 09 May 2011, 11:37
I haven't had any problems with Vista.. I mean, it's not perfect, but that's how it is with any operating system I've ever used. I want 7 but I missed out on my free upgrade :(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 09 May 2011, 12:42
Same here, I don't have any problems with Vista. The only thing I really hate about it is the bar that stays on the top of the screen and will pop up from time to time for no reason.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 09 May 2011, 12:50
I dunno, I get a little annoyed with Vista when the security program stops its own updates to confirm that it is allowed to be running.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 09 May 2011, 15:04
Banona's in pajomma's

(http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4O-1SBGPjBo/TOta8ahQsOI/AAAAAAAABpM/4XXLq5pQLn4/s1600/bananas.jpg)


I have never seen this before! I definitely say it like that, although I'm from Baltimore.

Also, re: Vista, I have no idea what this bar is that you speak of, and I've turned off that stupid security thing. Don't ask me how, I have no fucking clue, but it's done!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 09 May 2011, 21:37
UAC would be totally fine if the popups were a little more obvious when they came up under another program and if powershell had sudo and if you could elevate an existing explorer window.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 May 2011, 04:14
I got a job too! Well not really, I am working for free at the hospital but I have something to get up for in the morning and hopefully when they need someone they will think "oh May is a good typist/secretary/receptionist/general dogsbody, and she is already trained and knows what she is doing, let's just start paying her!". But I'm still going to go to a recruitment agency tomorrow because there is no guarantee that this will ever happen and that rent ain't gonna pay itself next year.

Also a terrible thing has happened - my computer has decided it is going to crash every time I try to play the Sims. What is wrong with my computer. help. Microsoft says it is a problem with my Intel Graphics Driver but nothing it suggests will fix the problem. ARGH.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 10 May 2011, 08:46
Microsoft can't fix your problems. I have no idea why they even included that thing in the first place.

try updating your drivers, and if that doesn't help, uninstall and reinstall them. It looks like intel has an automatic utility for you to do just that (http://downloadcenter.intel.com/, top of the page, looks like a banner add).

Seriously, why does companies think it's a good idea to promote the most important stuff on their web pages with something that looks like a banner add? People will never read those!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 10 May 2011, 08:53
Alternatively, you could light some incense and say a short litany to the Omnissiah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 May 2011, 12:24
Microsoft can't fix your problems. I have no idea why they even included that thing in the first place.

try updating your drivers, and if that doesn't help, uninstall and reinstall them. It looks like intel has an automatic utility for you to do just that (http://downloadcenter.intel.com/, top of the page, looks like a banner add).

Seriously, why does companies think it's a good idea to promote the most important stuff on their web pages with something that looks like a banner add? People will never read those!

FALSE!

Well, I mean that one time Pirates Press had a banner ad on a blog I read about Cock Sparrer reissues. Otherwise, true.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 11 May 2011, 14:41
Half a sec I thought you had an example of when "microsoft has detected a problem, and is trying to find a solution" had figured out something else than "there seems to be a problem with the program with a problem, I'll just shut it down for you and pretend that I didn't claim I could fix it, kay?"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 11 May 2011, 17:31
How do people stay sane when planning a frickin wedding?  Seriously.  I can't focus at work, I'm stressed out as fuck, people are RSVP'ing with additional people that weren't invited, I have to make awkward phone calls to say "sorry, no"  and because of all this shit, along with pressure from my parents to invite  other people that I have no room or money for, I haven't been able to focus on studying for my exam like I should have, and I bombed it, which maybe have a HUGE impact on the direction of my career.  I feel like I have no control over anything in my life at all because all of my fucking energy is going into this party that I didn't even WANT to have... I wanted us to go to Jamaica.  I wanted it to be easy, but no.  Family guilt is strong, and it sucks.  I've had at least 3 total meltdowns that I can recall, so far, and one is always not that far off.  I'm going crazy, and what for?  So I can look pretty for my family and friends, feed them, and try to host a fun party?  That's a lot for one person to handle.  I don't know how I'm going to make it through.  Someone is constantly offended, or complaining about "why can't i bring my girlfriend of two weeks?", or anything else that they can find to bitch about.  I want to call the whole thing off, but we've already spent thousands on preparations and it should be FOR something.  "They" say that it's the happiest day of your life, and all I can think is that it's because all the BS is finally over with.  I want to hide under a rock and cry. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 11 May 2011, 22:52
I wish my life had a snooze button.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 11 May 2011, 22:55
It might seem a little radical, but might I suggest that you "stage" a very public, very messy meltdown where you list everything that is getting to you about organising the wedding and "call the wedding off" because you can't have it the way you want it. Let people stew for a couple of days before puting it back on again and maintaining a hall of asshats on facebook. After that, respond to anything you don't like with the phrase "Fuck off, it's my wedding and if you don't like it I'm cancelling your invite."

I was under the impression that it's the happiest day of your life because you get to be as selfish as you like and no one can do anything about it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 12 May 2011, 00:05
From what I've seen, pen, that's a pretty common occurrence. Take solace in the fact that you're definitely not alone. 

I would advise against mock-canceling it. Take breaks when you can, go on walks with your partner, remember that it'll all be over in a while and you can put all of this behind you.
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Post by: pwhodges on 12 May 2011, 00:08
And remember that someone else gets to do the clearing up after the party!
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Post by: Lines on 12 May 2011, 05:39
You need some sort of Incredible Hulk who lives in your pocket and smashes everyone who is being a douche. If only...

Rachel, hang in there! This is YOUR AND JON'S day, not theirs. If people are being asshats, tell them so. I've known a few people who had limited weddings and that's kind of what they had to do when people started getting fussy about not being able to invite a date or bring their kids.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 12 May 2011, 05:47
Half a sec I thought you had an example of when "microsoft has detected a problem, and is trying to find a solution" had figured out something else than "there seems to be a problem with the program with a problem, I'll just shut it down for you and pretend that I didn't claim I could fix it, kay?"

What, dude I was talking about old Cock Sparrer albums.



Rachel, You'll get through this.

Anyway, you better get through this. Do you realize that I haven't seen you guys in over a year?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 12 May 2011, 07:40
Thanks for the tips, guys.  I got into a screaming match with my mother last night about it... the fun never ends.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 12 May 2011, 07:51
Yeah, I pretty much need to echo what Linds said. It's about you and Jon. Everyone else's bullshit is their own, don't let it get you down.


Also, having watched a myriad of sitcoms in my lifetime, it seems like no wedding will ever go as it was originally planned.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 12 May 2011, 07:53
Our original plan was a castle wedding.  Then Jamaica, then one of the virgin islands because faye's dad wouldn't sign for a passport, then a garden wedding/reception at my dad's in NH, and now this one.  i'd say we're as far from the original plan as we could get.  i really need to learn to stop trying to accommodate other people.  i REALLY wanted jamaica.  *sigh*
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 12 May 2011, 07:55
It's similar to how people are with pregnant women, it seems. Everyone has an opinion, everyone wants to be involved, even though it really should only be about the parents/newlyweds. You just have to put your foot down about a lot of things and tell them there will be no discussion. You'll have some grumpy people but you'll feel better for it, in general. If you have a loud-mouth type friend, and they're willing to bitch at people for you, that would be even better - you tell them what you want, they lay down the law. It's why I make sure to have my sister with me when I need any sort of advocate. I'm too shy/quiet/polite to stand up for myself properly.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 12 May 2011, 07:56
Rachel, just straight up punch someone at the reception.

Not me, though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 12 May 2011, 08:21
I might.  I told my sister that for any of the people who just happened to bring in their infants, if their babies cry, they're kicked out.  period.  I think she thinks I'm joking. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 12 May 2011, 08:29
I like it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 May 2011, 08:53
Get a "You must be this tall to enter" sign and post this beside it:

(http://mattstone.blogs.com/photos/funny_pictures/you_shall_not_pass.jpg)

or this

(http://www.signspotting.com/wp-content/main/2010_03/bangkok%20sign.JPG)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 12 May 2011, 18:51
i REALLY wanted jamaica.  *sigh*

Honeymoon in Jamaica?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 12 May 2011, 19:11
Nobo, we were planning to have our wedding with just immediate family down in Jamaica.  It would have been WONDERFUL.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 12 May 2011, 20:02
What I meant by that was, are you going to Jamaica for the honeymoon to make up for not having your wedding there?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: David_Dovey on 12 May 2011, 22:17
That's kind of setting Jon up for an easy joke though.

D'yer Mak'er?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 12 May 2011, 22:35
Oh man I just had my first blue screen in forever. So much for windows 7 being wildly better than vista.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 12 May 2011, 22:48
Have you ever had a blue screen caused  by Windows, though?  Each of the two main graphics systems accounts for about 1/3 of all blue screens, and the rest are nearly all caused by driver faults as well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 12 May 2011, 23:01
Only once I think.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pen on 13 May 2011, 03:31
What I meant by that was, are you going to Jamaica for the honeymoon to make up for not having your wedding there?

No, I wanted the beach wedding... the sand, flower in the hair, only a few people there to share it with... the rest of the week there would have been cool, but we'll do Jamaica another time.  We're gonna hit up Ireland instead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 13 May 2011, 03:44
Dear blog thread,

I just finished my undergraduate. Nothing left to do but graduate.

Weird.

Regards,
A College Graduate
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 13 May 2011, 03:53
Oh hey, congrats. What did you get your Bachelor in?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 13 May 2011, 04:09
Cheers.

Linguistics. It's weird, though, because I'm in Scotland, I don't get a BA. I've got an MA, now. Never had a BA. Huh.

Woo.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 13 May 2011, 06:19
What I meant by that was, are you going to Jamaica for the honeymoon to make up for not having your wedding there?

No, I wanted the beach wedding... the sand, flower in the hair, only a few people there to share it with... the rest of the week there would have been cool, but we'll do Jamaica another time.  We're gonna hit up Ireland instead.

Aw, that would have been lovely! But a few of my friends have honeymooned in Ireland and they loved it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 May 2011, 06:21
What I meant by that was, are you going to Jamaica for the honeymoon to make up for not having your wedding there?

No, I wanted the beach wedding... the sand, flower in the hair, only a few people there to share it with... the rest of the week there would have been cool, but we'll do Jamaica another time.  We're gonna hit up Ireland instead.

Dear bestest friends ever,

Bring me back a hurley? I'll pick it up in July.  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: redglasscurls on 13 May 2011, 06:34
Couch to 5K. Or, in my case, office worker to 5K. My thighs hate me today.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 May 2011, 08:16
So...I don't get it.

I ordered a Manchester United jersey this week, and got an email saying the numbering that they wear for the Champions League was out of stock and wouldn't be in for a week or two.

Wanting my shirt for the final on the 28th, I called to ask if they could just use the standard league numbering and EPL badges on the sleeves.


Apparently these are two different items, and a league jersey is not available in my size. It's just the same jersey with different numbers and badges heat applied in house before shipping. Whaaaaaaaaaaat?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 14 May 2011, 14:15
Going to celebrate my(now late)grandfather's birthday by going to is favorite restaurant. I hope there isn't too much sentimentality because I am terrible in those situations.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 14 May 2011, 17:42
oh, ha ha ha wow am I in a shitty mood this morning
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Post by: Gemmwah on 15 May 2011, 11:21
So because for the last couple of weeks I have been doing so much uni work that my head is about to fold in upon itself, so my girlfriend and I booked a holiday to Gran Canaria to stay in the Puerto Rico resort for 7 days after my exams are over to try and prevent implosion, but now my work is saying that I've left it too late to book holiday time for my exams and trip to Gran Canaria and at this point I hate my job so much that I am genuinely tempted to just stone cold quit.

Honestly, I've not had holiday that I've wanted to take since August last year, I took a few days in January to look after my Grandad while he had pneumonia but that was more of an emergency than a genuine holiday. My housemate (we work together) has been given 4 weeks off so she can fuck off to California, and one of my other colleagues was given a week off last minute so she could do her dissertation. So I feel like I'm being entirely shafted and I really want to punch my managers in the face.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 15 May 2011, 15:08
I just hobbled together enough of an assignment to not get an F-INC for a whole unit, though it's definitely going to get a fail grade. I'm feeling really disappointed in myself. I know the theory well, I understand exactly what I needed to do, I just didn't leave myself enough time to implement it all.

I've been shit at studying, I'm still unemployed, I haven't achieved half the shit I planned on and my discipline and willpower are at an all time low. There's all these deadlines and things I have to plan around which are getting in the way of me actually doing something about it. Incidentally, my parents are taking me on a trip to Turkey and giving me a bunch of spending money and I don't deserve none of it so I feel awful about the whole thing. I'm feeling really low but at least it's a whole different kind of low to what I'm used to so I guess that's better than it could be.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 16 May 2011, 16:37
I don't know if it's Jussi or just the video I saw of the Finnish hockey goalie falling off the plane and crashing face-first into the World Championship trophy, but I feel like I've created my own stereotype that all Finnish people are batshit crazy.

I don't want to seem prejudiced or anything. It's just that every time I hear mention of Finland, it's inevitably something insane.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 16 May 2011, 18:20
I've been shit at studying, I'm still unemployed, I haven't achieved half the shit I planned on and my discipline and willpower are at an all time low. There's all these deadlines and things I have to plan around which are getting in the way of me actually doing something about it. Incidentally, my parents are taking me on a trip to Turkey and giving me a bunch of spending money and I don't deserve none of it so I feel awful about the whole thing. I'm feeling really low but at least it's a whole different kind of low to what I'm used to so I guess that's better than it could be.

Kinda sounds like you're just out of gas. One way to think of the Turkey trip that minimizes the guilt is to use it to recharge your batteries and get away from everything else long enough to think things over and come back with fresh perspective and concrete achievable goals. I think we all reach some point in our lives when it feels like we're floundering, but it's very likely just a signal that your priorities are changing a bit and you just need to find new motivations to match.

Dear Blog Thread, somewhat related, I'm trying to get a handle on all the projects and goals I want to achieve, and it's quite daunting looking at all the things I want to do, realizing that I almost always kinda just let things slide outside my attention. I really need to start prioritizing and taking steps towards getting some of this stuff done. What's sad is that a lot of it is really cool, but once the bloom is off, I have a hard time getting motivated to continue and finish. It's like some long-term ADD I have. I can concentrate on a particular task for hours when I'm excited about it, but later I have a hard time even getting up the will to take a look at it again.

Fortunately, I have a fairly free summer to try to get my shit together, so I'm working on a plan that I'm hoping plays well with my strengths and weaknesses.
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Post by: Lines on 16 May 2011, 19:18
I made a new friend this weekend.

(http://a7.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/229997_946943490705_21400308_43782655_8240788_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 16 May 2011, 19:24
Oooh, he must work out.
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Post by: Dazed on 16 May 2011, 20:10
Where are the nipples
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Post by: Blue Kitty on 16 May 2011, 20:11
It looks like he's about to hurt you
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 16 May 2011, 20:45
He's helping me up onto his platform. He didn't want me to trip.

Where are the nipples

Those movies never happened. I don't know what you're talking about.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 16 May 2011, 20:46
Be warned, he knows about 7 ways to incapacitate you from that position. Only 3 of them will leave you crippled for life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 May 2011, 22:41
So I'm in Vermont! It's funny, you go to sleep on a bus and wake up feeling like Quasimodo in that same shitty Rochester bus station you always regret going to. Life! But then I fell asleep on the next bus and woke up in mountains. And fog. Foggy mountains. Needed banjoes - always needs more banjoes (except when it doesn't) - but I'm not going to complain (except when I do).

It's about two AM. Almost. Someone gave me sleeping pills - they don't work. I don't sleep well at other people's homes, so I'm pulling an all-nighter. The girl from the internet that I came to meet is fast asleep right next to me and I'm on her laptop now, looking up horrible things, like Oglaf and the QC forums. Gasp - shock - etc. I'm really happy, and I'm not sure what to say. I don't want to go home; there's nothing there for me, and it's depressing to think about being back in Jamestown.

But I'm happy for the time being, until I get shipped back home again. I feel like telling people I love them (someone on the forums? I choose, uh, Linds! Linds is pretty tops. Hi Linds!), so maybe I'm less depressed than usual. Huzzah, etc., let joy be unconfined. That or I'm just super tired.

I ran up to someone today and pointed at the girl and screamed, "SHE CALLED ME MELODRAMATIC!" before bursting into tears. That was fun.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 17 May 2011, 22:42
also I saw a poster today that had a bearded man on it with american flag glasses upon his face, and underneath it said SUBMIT TO EST
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 18 May 2011, 04:12
Dogg if you are in Jamestown again we could actually meet. And if we don't like you I'll get the dagorhir group down there to beat you up with foam weapons.

Also:

- always needs more banjoes (except when it doesn't) -

This will never happen.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 18 May 2011, 05:53
D'aww, thanks!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 18 May 2011, 07:05
Dear Blog Thread,

This week I feel exactly like the Go-Betweens song "Head Full of Steam", except instead of being unable to tear myself away from a girl I'm unable to tear myself away from a handkerchief, and instead of a head full of steam I've got a head full of snot, and instead of feeling great I feel like shit.

Also I've got just over a month to find a new job.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 18 May 2011, 07:06
Dear 2011,

Fuck you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 18 May 2011, 09:28
Dogg if you are in Jamestown again we could actually meet. And if we don't like you I'll get the dagorhir group down there to beat you up with foam weapons.

Also:

- always needs more banjoes (except when it doesn't) -

This will never happen.

I dunno, I could (eventually, at some point) get tired of banjoes. Also I will be in Jamestown at the end of this week, also also I'm trying to get rid of my stuff (i.e. musical instruments and vinyl records). Just putting that out there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 May 2011, 06:18
Update: I HAS A JOB.

My dogg. o/

Lost said job already. Been too busy to post about it til now. :\

Quote
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Tuesday I had a show in Berkeley, which went very well! We were the second (and final) opening act for the most popular band in the city

Dude tell me those Berkeley people have proper earholes and you played with the Bye Bye Blackbirds.

(psst hey did you get your phone fixed yet?)

The band was called Mad Noise and they were very different-sounding from the Bye Bye Blackbirds but that's neither here nor there since the Bye Bye Blackbirds are from Oakland and not Berkeley. They've played some of the same venues, though, and Mad Noise were an excellent act to witness all the same.

(no, and it is really annoying! I would love to be taking advantage of that unlimited texting plan)

Dear blag,

My bandmate and I have been working on our upcoming album so much, we've gotten a shitload done and we're super proud of our work so far! We're gonna debut some of the stuff to Livermore by way of the open mic I used to run. It's finally reached the stage where we are soon gonna be able to focus primarily on getting shows. Which is basically a gigantic dream that I hardly dare even entertain. I fucking love the feeling of it though. We've played some of the demos around for people to give us feedback on them, and we've gotten some very useful reviews, and most of them came with positive assessments! And most importantly, we're really happy with the music we've written. Even if this doesn't get anywhere, it's so fulfilling to create something you feel proud of.

The idea of playing our stuff for the place my friends and I made for ourselves is kinda sentimental, to a degree, and I am really excited to do this.
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Post by: valley_parade on 19 May 2011, 07:08
The funny thing about last night was that my friend and I were sitting in the bar, complaining that we're too shy to talk to the multitude of girls that were there.

And then literally like 2 seconds later we found ourselves in conversation with two of them. I am kinda bummed as to how this worked out. One was wicked smaht and kinda looked like a young Heather Graham and yrrrrragh but she spent the whole night talking to my friend. Her roommate was just..I dunno. Boring and too worried about trying to buy weed.

We ended up going back to their place, and it was clear to everyone aside from my friend that we were just there to have a drank and order a pizza. He's too busy chatting up Heather Graham, and I'm stuck on the couch with Boring Girl Whose Name Ends in Two Es and watching some shitty something Real World whatever on MTV and my brain wants to melt.

Then it's 2:30, I'm all "dogg cmon we gotta work in the morning", it's pouring out, we run back to his car, I jump a puddle, slip, roll into another puddle, long story short I AM VERY TIRED, SLIGHTLY HUNGOVER, BORING GIRL WHOSE NAME ENDS IN TWO ES WAS BORING...but I got her number anyway...AND MY KNEE IS KILLING ME.

And there's a very wet pair of jeans in my room.

Edit: Oh and Patrick called me to tell me he went to a guitar shop.
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Post by: Lunchbox on 19 May 2011, 16:12
This morning I learned that Jimmy The Squid and I catch the same train to work! And also that we work in the same building! And also Rizzo works there too! And also Est works nearby and will be moving into my house with Eris soon! INTERNET WORLD
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 May 2011, 19:11
Now I'm imagining you riding to work with an actual squid on the train. It's a kraken. It takes up an entire car. How did you not notice it?
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Post by: Inlander on 19 May 2011, 19:25
Dude have you ever caught public transport in a large city? It's head down, avoid eye-contact, pretend nobody else exists and you won't get hurt.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 20 May 2011, 12:58
Macho Man Randy Savage had a heart attack while driving and died in the subsequent car crash. :(
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Post by: Spluff on 20 May 2011, 20:57
holy shit this hangover has lasted for 2 days and is still going strong
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 May 2011, 01:04
I've been away from home for the past three weekends in a row. Now I finally get some time to chill out at home and sleep in and the bloody rapture is coming. FML.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 May 2011, 03:37
OK I don't get this, I spend more time at church than almost any of you, trainee priests exempted, and I have not heard about the rapture. Someone tell me quick before I get left behind.


Guys I am Unemployed (as opposed to just unemployed) for the first time and it really sucks, how do people who actually have bills to pay and stuff cope with this? I am underqualified for a cleaning job, for goodness sake! I am looking at the application form right now and it says "What equipment can you use?" and I cannot think of any equipment that anyone would need to use except a cloth and maybe a Hoover. ARGH I AM GOING TO BE POOR FOREVER.

Also it is really frustrating because I'm working full-time without pay at the hospital and I'm the most focused person in the department, they're always stopping for endless cups of tea or to chat to anyone who comes in and barely getting any work done, and yet they are actually being paid for it and I'm not. I've been moved to a different department because I was getting too much work done in the one I was in and they didn't like it.
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 May 2011, 03:47
OK I don't get this, I spend more time at church than almost any of you, trainee priests exempted, and I have not heard about the rapture.

Well, it's nothing to do with real  religion, for a start...
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 May 2011, 04:09
I think knowing about the raptures comes mostly from lurking on lots of really sarky webforums and reading the kind of blogs that like to take the mickey out of asshats.

Short version is that some semi-notable godbotherer with a penchant for crunching biblical numbers has decided that the numbers now tell him that today at 23.00GMT a massive earthquake will tee off in Australia and perpetuate around the world destroying us all.

Perhaps it's a tad presumptious for me to suggest this, but this will be the second time he will have got it wrong. Pitiful really, afterall, who wants to be a heel-chaser to the Jehovah's Witnesses. Worth noting that some of the people who work for the man have made mention that they fully intend to turn up for work on Monday morning.

Mind you, some good is coming from this. Christians, Atheists and Apolcalyptists alike have been organising interdenominational parties to celebrate the event. No word from the Jews, Muslims, Sikhs, Hindus or other faiths as to whether they're coming and if they're bringing food but rumour has it that the Zen Masters have asked if it means Bring Your Own Buddha?
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Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 21 May 2011, 04:52
guys i just died in the rapture
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 May 2011, 05:48
That's lovely dear, would you like a nice cup of tea now?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 May 2011, 06:13
Guys I am Unemployed (as opposed to just unemployed) for the first time and it really sucks, how do people who actually have bills to pay and stuff cope with this?
Well, I have a girlfriend with a steady income so maybe you should look into that option. How to deal with the mental issues like the feeling of being tossed aside by society and feeling useless there, alas, I can offer no suggestions since I've not found the fucking cure for that yet.

So, basically:
Dear 2011,

Fuck you.
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Post by: squawk on 22 May 2011, 03:49
it turns out that managing your emotional instability is really difficult when your only previous method of management was "directing it all at one person"

bluhhhh this is why i shouldn't have friends and i still don't know why i do

posting in the blog thread because (hopefully) i won't be this upset in the morning
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Post by: StaedlerMars on 22 May 2011, 12:24
Dear this week,

Fuck. You.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 23 May 2011, 01:30
Yeah your week has sucked dude.

But think - California. !
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 23 May 2011, 01:38
Buy your god darned tickets already.
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Post by: richlitt on 23 May 2011, 02:01
Jesus christ. Fine. I'll do it today.
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Post by: squawk on 23 May 2011, 02:06
Today I feel better because my friend is the greatest friend ever oh my god he's so nice and smart
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Post by: squawk on 23 May 2011, 02:07
I just stared at that sentence and wondered/lamented how hard it would be theoretically if like people learning english for the first time had to read my rambling run-on thoughts.

(i am spliff high)
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Post by: Tom on 23 May 2011, 03:25
Guys, I probably have a problem that's really impacting my university work and greater social ability in general. I've been looking over the university's Counselling and Psychological services but I can't really bring myself to go in or even in schedule an appointment probably for the same reasons that stop me from doing anything productive. It's just that maybe I'm embarrassed or just fell guilty about it and I know it's there for these kinds of problems but maybe I'm just being a lazy shitheel covering up for my own failings and inabilities by inventing imaginary excuses and making this post for stupid attention whoring reasons. I mean why use up these services if there are people with genuine problems who need help. I haven't tried killing myself or anything, sure I think about very rarely hardly ever can't call it frequently but that's mostly normal just the waiting for a bus boredom talking.
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Post by: Tom on 23 May 2011, 03:27
URRRRGH VALIDATE MY FRAGILE PSYCHE EVERYONE FEED MY NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOUR
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Post by: Eris on 23 May 2011, 03:35
have you tried talking to someone closer than the uni counsellors? There was a time when I felt like I should talk to someone and had that same feelings of embarrassment and failure that it seems you are, and talking to a friend was much less scary than talking to the actual psychological dude. I went and saw a guy a few times but each time I felt stupid and hated the whole process so I would put off going and seeing him again until I just stopped. A friend might make you feel more comfortable.

Or you can go into more detail about the situation here, and we can try and help?
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Post by: Tom on 23 May 2011, 03:49
I'm actually not close to/with anyone who I'd feel comfortable talking to about anything other than casual conversation. I'm not going to talk to any family members because they share almost everything and I know from personal experience that I will only further depress the hell out of mum who will feel like she's failed even further because the one son who she constantly says is the best most helpful and understanding (her words, like constantly) is somehow defective and not at all what she wants or hoped for. This is the woman who said that "she was not calling me a deviant" for looking at gay porn, yea you can imagine.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 May 2011, 03:56
I mean why use up these services if there are people with genuine problems who need help. I haven't tried killing myself or anything,

The services are  there for you - problems can be real even if they don't involve killing yourself!  Although making that first approach can be really, really hard, you may well find that simply having made the first step will help a bit.
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Post by: StaedlerMars on 23 May 2011, 04:06
get drunk
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Post by: Tom on 23 May 2011, 04:17
a simple yet elegant solution
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Post by: nekowafer on 23 May 2011, 04:21
You can always talk to a random person here, one that you know is a good listener. There seem to be plenty of nice people willing to listen to you, if you can just get it out there. It's not an easy thing at all - it's admitting "defeat", admitting that you're not self-sufficient. But that's the thing; no one is entirely self-sufficient. There's nothing wrong with you. You're having problems, sure, but everyone does at some point in their lives.

There are also suicide hotlines. Even if you're not truly considering it, those people are really wonderful to talk to, and can help a lot. Services like that and the one at your uni are there for people like you. You won't be taking anything away from anyone else by making use of them, you'll be helping yourself and the people around you by getting yourself to a better place emotionally.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 23 May 2011, 09:39
Flights are being cancelled in Glasgow because of the ash cloud, and Edinburgh Airport just had a part of it's roof blown off because of the wind. Seriously.

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Post by: valley_parade on 23 May 2011, 10:21
I read that as "fights are being cancelled".
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Post by: öde on 23 May 2011, 11:40
Fights are never cancelled in Glasgow!
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 23 May 2011, 12:20
I heard one was postponed once, but that was because half the participants wanted to get another round in first.
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Post by: valley_parade on 23 May 2011, 12:56
Now I've got that Cock Sparrer song stuck in my head.
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Post by: Gemmwah on 23 May 2011, 14:52
Flights are being cancelled...


NO I AM GOING ON HOLIDAY ON FRIDAY WHY WHY WOULD YOU DO THIS TO ME I HAVE NOT HAD A REAL HOLIDAY IN YEARS
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 23 May 2011, 15:08
It's not volcanoes.


Quote from: one of my friends on Facebook
Isn't it such a coincidence that dusty ash comes from the north as soon as Manchester City take the FA Cup back to their trophy cabinet.


He's got a point, we're talking 35 years of dust.
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Post by: Metope on 23 May 2011, 17:12
Jens got to Glasgow just in time then, he's here now! I doubt he'll ever be able to leave though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 24 May 2011, 01:56
All flights here in Scotland have pretty much been cancelled but Ryanair is fighting the decision tooth and nail. Earlier today (it's only 10 o'clock) they said that things should be clear by this afternoon, but just now they said that the ashcloud will be extra thick this afternoon/evening. Parts of me are telling me to go to Newcastle and fly from there this evening as opposed to waiting to see what happens tomorrow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 24 May 2011, 04:22
Yeah, I'd say go for it, it's looking kinda bleak. Oh no, I'll be stuck with Jens!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 May 2011, 10:45
I'm back from Vermont, where I spent the week with my girlfriend! It was fun. Her mother took me clothes shopping and we looked at apartments. Then we had a Nutella milkshake! And we went to Borders, where I started talking to a purple-haired chick with Legend of Zelda tattoos, whereupon she in/abducted me into her lesbian Mormon cult. Then we were thrown out 'cause her ferrets got out of her purse and caused all sorts of shenanigans! I picked one up. It licked my nose.

Also I'm planning on getting a tattoo later this week. I have a birthmark in the  shape of a Scottish terrier on the back of my left leg. I'm going to give it an eye.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 May 2011, 12:34
Zing, I have two questions:

1. How come your life is so exciting?
2. Why would you ruin a perfectly good milkshake by putting Nutella in it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 24 May 2011, 12:43
Zingoleb has a stash of highly illegal alcohol.

It's FourLoko, mixed up with a bit of the essence of Ryan and Roddy's partying lifestyles.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 May 2011, 13:13

2. Why would you ruin a perfectly good milkshake by putting Nutella in it?

Your FACE. Shut your FACE. I like Nutella.


Though in a milkshake it was wayyyyy better than just straight Nutella.
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Post by: nekowafer on 24 May 2011, 13:44
Tomorrow morning is my tonsillectomy. I might be freaking the fuck out right now. You know.. maybe.
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Post by: Lines on 24 May 2011, 15:41
May, no, a Nutella milkshake sounds yummy. You can keep your boring milkshakes, we'll keep the fun and delicious ones.

You'll be ok! You can eat lots of cold stuff! Think of all the ice cream and sherbet and sorbet and gelato just waiting for you!
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Post by: nufan on 24 May 2011, 15:55
Oh my god. I love Nutella, and I love milkshakes. Why the dickens have I never put 2 and 2 together
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 24 May 2011, 20:53
There's a distinct possibility that I'm going to put on some extra weight over the winter holidays because I've perfected a crepes recipe and there is nothing more delicious than crepes rolled up with nutella inside. It is the best thing. THE BEST THING.
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Post by: Boro_Bandito on 24 May 2011, 23:47
I like them with fresh fruit and whipped cream personally.
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Post by: nufan on 25 May 2011, 01:15
(http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_PLsyqhMySRk/SQAEc1gln2I/AAAAAAAAA4Q/yZMbWO29pv0/s400/homer_simpson31.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 25 May 2011, 03:44
Tomorrow morning is my tonsillectomy. I might be freaking the fuck out right now. You know.. maybe.

Don't be freaking out. I had my tonsil's removed 9 years ago after getting horrible strep throat 3-4 times a year. After the surgery I was on an all ice cream and yogurt diet for a few days and have had only minor sore throats since then. I wish I had it done sooner.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 May 2011, 11:31
for once I ate before I came onto the forums! ha ha ha! your culinary temptations have no effect on me!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2011, 12:36
There's a distinct possibility that I'm going to put on some extra weight over the winter holidays because I've perfected a crepes recipe and there is nothing more delicious than crepes rolled up with nutella inside. It is the best thing. THE BEST THING.

it is the DEVIL'S FOOD what are you all doing don't be deceived it is a massively inferior version of ferrero rocher which has been blended in a pathetic attempt to disguise its demonic tendencies run awayyyyyyyyyy
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Post by: Lines on 25 May 2011, 13:51
May you are crazy please stop before we put you in a padded room why must you say such awful things oh man.
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Post by: look out! Ninjas! on 25 May 2011, 19:19
i don't think much of nutella either
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 25 May 2011, 22:16
Crepes loaded with Ferrero Rocher. Barmy, you may just be an absolute genius.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 26 May 2011, 05:14
The fan in my laptop is broken. I still need it through next week. Why now, computer, why now. (Luckily my computer is not over heating, the fan is just annoyingly loud.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2011, 06:46
Today started out horribly because I was tired and having a bad day, and even though I'd been told to come in at 11 to do something for two hours (meaning that I had nothing to do from when I arrived at 8.15 with my mum until 11, and then nothing from 1 until 5.15 when we go home) they had actually done it by the time I got there so I needn't have gone in at all. But then my stepdad came and picked me up and on the way home I got a phone call asking me to go for a job interview tomorrow, and I've got an email about going in to arrange volunteering at a local hospice, so I finally have other things to do than hang round the hospital!

Still feeling ugh though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 May 2011, 10:33
I finally filed my name change.
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Post by: öde on 26 May 2011, 10:51
Zingoleb isn't a bad name!
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Post by: valley_parade on 26 May 2011, 10:51
So what's your name, now? I need to get my dang contacts in my phone all updated.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 26 May 2011, 10:51
What'd you change? (First, last, both?)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 May 2011, 11:12
Also Shane, I need your address again. I found a Madonna single I was going to mail you.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 May 2011, 11:18
Annnnnnd I just realized my name is now one letter away from being 'lezzie'.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2011, 11:34
Rene is a beautiful name, did you say once that you were going to go by that name? Leslie I don't like as much but I think that is because I haven't massively warmed to all the Leslies that I've met, rather than anything against the name.

Does it feel odd to have taken a totally new name? Or is it kind of not a huge deal after all the other changes?

Typical. It's been raining all day and now the sun has come out and I'm too tired to appreciate it.
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Post by: celticgeek on 26 May 2011, 11:42
Renée is the feminine form:  Names (http://www.thinkbabynames.com/meaning/0/Renee).  My daughter's middle name is Renée.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 May 2011, 11:45
I am perfectly aware of this - but most Americans, insofar as I've experienced, aren't.
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Post by: celticgeek on 26 May 2011, 11:49
True. 
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Post by: valley_parade on 26 May 2011, 12:04
Also Shane, I need your address again. I found a Madonna single I was going to mail you.

Hurrrrr :psyduck:
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 May 2011, 12:05
Renée is the feminine form:  Names (http://www.thinkbabynames.com/meaning/0/Renee).  My daughter's middle name is Renée.

But consider also Rene Engström (Anders loves Maria,  et al).
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Post by: celticgeek on 26 May 2011, 12:08
Hmmm...  There is that:  Rene (http://www.thinkbabynames.com/meaning/0/Rene). 
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Post by: Jace on 26 May 2011, 13:00
I could've been a Sam or Alex, but...this forum already has a Sam and Alex
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Post by: Lines on 26 May 2011, 17:00
It's kinda relieving. Then again, every other person I meet calls me something different, so I'm used to it by now (Leslie, Rene, Ashley, Unicorn...Unicorn is the most common name people have for me). As for Leslie, well, it matches up to what my standards were, which is a name that's well known as androgynous without being super common. I could've been a Sam or Alex, but...I wouldn't have enjoyed it as much. Rene almost fit that - I suppose were I in France it would work better. Over here, people just assume it to be a feminine name, I suppose.

Awesome.
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Post by: Jimor on 26 May 2011, 17:11
The fan in my laptop is broken. I still need it through next week. Why now, computer, why now. (Luckily my computer is not over heating, the fan is just annoyingly loud.)

Then you need this handy DIY song (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpCJzdWxEbQ).
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Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 26 May 2011, 17:22
improbable ninja-steez story incoming!

so....the new guy at my work rolled his new truck over three times after leaving work yesterday. i say "new" truck but it's actually quite old. he got it for free from one of our clients.

anyway, we work at a gymnastics gym and one of the parents was riding her bike on the road and saw the whole thing...she said he dove out the window on the second roll (of three) and actually landed on top of the passenger door (the opposite side he jumped out of).

yes, you read that correctly. he dove out of the still rolling car and landed back on it after it completed another half rotation

what a badass
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Post by: Jimor on 26 May 2011, 19:25
I'll let him have his badass story, but to set the record straight, you don't do anything on purpose in a rolling car. He was ejected forcefully and he luckily ragdolled onto the top of the vehicle instead of underneath the bottom. In reality he's an idiot because he wasn't wearing a seatbelt to keep him inside. [/oldmanscold]
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Post by: JimmyJazz on 26 May 2011, 20:21
Gah I was an idiot andd fucked up my Chem final and failed the course and now my scholarship is taken away from me and I can't attend school and fuckkkkkkkkkk

it brought my GPA to a C average so I can't really transfer to other schools at the moment cause they won't give me aid without at least a 3.0 and shit I'm legitimately freaking out about the future guys. I'm thinking I should take a year to work and make as much money as possible, maybe take a a few online/community college courses and get my GPA up and re-apply to my old college or apply to a cheaper one...does anyone have any suggestions, points of references, advice on where to go from here? etc
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 26 May 2011, 20:33
The fan in my laptop is broken. I still need it through next week. Why now, computer, why now. (Luckily my computer is not over heating, the fan is just annoyingly loud.)

Then you need this handy DIY song (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpCJzdWxEbQ).

Ha! Too bad (or luckily?) that opening my laptop voids my warranty. I might try blowing canned air through the vents, but I dunno if that'll work well enough.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Johnny C on 26 May 2011, 21:26
jens that vacation sounds awesome
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Post by: richlitt on 27 May 2011, 00:57
Going to see the Mountain Goats in Glasgow on Sunday. Man I am excited. Thanks for helping with that Jeans.

Jim, don't know what to say man. Moral support. Maybe try and reset to zero - you're no worse off than you were when you first got the scholarship. A job doesn't sound that bad, and community college or the open university of something is never a really bad idea.
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Post by: Metope on 27 May 2011, 03:07
I am going too, but I don't have tickets! I guess I'll hang around outside hoping for someone to sell one, fingers crossed!
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Post by: schimmy on 27 May 2011, 03:37
Holy shit I didn't know they were on tour! I just checked and they're playing 10 minutes from my house tomorrow night! And it appears tickets are still available! FUCK YEAHHH
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 27 May 2011, 03:42
Yeah, Glasgow is the only one that sold out, fuck me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 27 May 2011, 04:01
But it's supposed to be a date! My date already has a ticket! I will get one, there's always someone selling tickets outside at sold out shows.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 27 May 2011, 04:09
It appears that I have no one to go with. I shall go alone, because I still feel annoyed that I missed Les Savy Fav for that reason.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 27 May 2011, 05:46
Holy crap, we won pub trivia last night again!

Getting good at this. I like $50 prizes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 May 2011, 08:17
I could've been a Sam or Alex, but...this forum already has a Sam and Alex

Hurr. Didn't even think of that. I actually considered typing Andy but reconsidered.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 27 May 2011, 08:19
Whenever I meet a guy called Andy my first thought is 'but Andy's a girls name!', just because of these forums. The Andy here is the only real Andy, all the others are Andrew to me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 27 May 2011, 09:41
What about Andy from toy story?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 27 May 2011, 12:00
The fan in my laptop is broken. I still need it through next week. Why now, computer, why now. (Luckily my computer is not over heating, the fan is just annoyingly loud.)

Then you need this handy DIY song (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpCJzdWxEbQ).

It's the best song on my faves list, hands down. And there's pretty much good stuff there - they are my favorites after all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 27 May 2011, 14:03
Looks like I'm looking for another place to live. Again.

Oh yeah and every other aspect of my life is completely fucked too.

I wish I could just revert to an autosave somewhere earlier along the way or something but that is just not how Real Life works.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: A Wet Helmet on 27 May 2011, 16:04
Smoking a Drew Estate Acid Kuba Kuba and drinking Scottish ale on my front porch while dinner cooks.

I can't complain.  I really enjoy a decent cigar.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 28 May 2011, 10:14
My tonsillectomy went well. The doctor said they were as big as his head, but I didn't get to see them. The anesthesiologist was listening to The Beatles when I got into the operating room, which was kind of cool. She said the music was for the old people in the room, and I was about to say that I knew this song, when I passed the fuck out. Man do I love being knocked out like that. The past two days have been fairly awful, but today is better. I might even eat some real food later!

Unfortunately I am not allowed to eat ice cream or anything with dairy quite yet, as it will leave a film in my mouth and make me cough. But I've had a little jello and lots of crushed ice. I just can't wait until I'm all healed.. I'll be able to sleep a whole night again!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 30 May 2011, 11:16
Any pigeon botherers around these parts. We found a grounded homing pigeon out on the driveway this afternoon. We've followed the advice on the official websites etc, just wanted to know if there's anything else that needs to be done after securing, feeding and watering.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Gemmwah on 31 May 2011, 07:48
Hey guys, I'm on holiday in gran canaria. It is hot. Also i failed one of my 20 credit units this semester so I'm on course o retake the year :-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 31 May 2011, 18:18
Any pigeon botherers around these parts. We found a grounded homing pigeon out on the driveway this afternoon. We've followed the advice on the official websites etc, just wanted to know if there's anything else that needs to be done after securing, feeding and watering.

I'd imagine that if it's a proper homing pigeon you can just let it go after making sure it's strong enough to fly and it'll, you know, home.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: smack that isaiah on 01 Jun 2011, 03:39
Welp, first day of internship today.  I'm up ridiculously early for a day with no school.  I got hardly any sleep cause I was so jittery and nervous.  Augh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 01 Jun 2011, 12:15
Any pigeon botherers around these parts. We found a grounded homing pigeon out on the driveway this afternoon. We've followed the advice on the official websites etc, just wanted to know if there's anything else that needs to be done after securing, feeding and watering.

I'd imagine that if it's a proper homing pigeon you can just let it go after making sure it's strong enough to fly and it'll, you know, home.

Would seem that this isn't going to happen. Have contacted the owner and he's concerned that it's injuries mean that it won't make it all the way from Sheffield to Ayrshire, particularly as it already took three days to get here from Newark. Keeping it in captivity until a courier can be organised.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 01 Jun 2011, 12:18
Hey guys, I'm on holiday in gran canaria. It is hot. Also i failed one of my 20 credit units this semester so I'm on course o retake the year :-(

Surely perpetuating scholardom is a cause for rejoice. Another year of being a feckless and louche student with a healthy appetite for modest self-destruction and a relaxed attitude towards commitment and monogamy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 01 Jun 2011, 19:32
Alternatively what's preventing you from just resitting the module?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Jun 2011, 03:59
I don't know what it's like at Gemm's uni but at mine, if you fail a module you either resit the year, or don't come back at all. I think it is possible to retake a single paper but it's very rare and usually you're just out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 02 Jun 2011, 04:06
Individual paper resits certainly happen in Medicine at Oxford; I know 'cos my wife used to invigilate some.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Jun 2011, 09:05
I keep finding socks that aren't mine in my laundry. I have a sneaking suspicion that when other people lose their socks in the laundry, they somehow find their way into my laundry.

Also, when I went outside this morning, I found a cactus on the sidewalk.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 02 Jun 2011, 09:19
That's not a naturally occuring species in Vermont...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Jun 2011, 09:20
I don't live in Vermont, Shane. I live in New York, Shane.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Jun 2011, 09:27
I was under the impression that the only species native to New York was greasy-haired women in black suits, but they could be a form of cactus I guess.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Jun 2011, 09:29
I don't live in New York City, May. I live in the state of New York, May.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 02 Jun 2011, 09:55
I don't live in Vermont, Shane. I live in New York, Shane.

I thought you moved/were moving to the land of secessionist hippie ice cream making skiers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 02 Jun 2011, 17:05
3 things

1. I just caught a reasonable sized spider (huntsman, i think) inside and put it out into the garden. There is no reason it should die.
2. I finished my Physiology tutorial work and corroborated my answers with the text book last night. This brings us to:
3. I went to the orthodontist yesterday and my mouth hurts like a fucking bitch. This happens for 1-2 days after I go to the orthodontist every time. So, with my timetable cleared (don't need to go to physiology tute) so I can totally take the day off to like like the Scream. I've taken like 2 panadeines (co-codamol) and shit fuck this is horrible I feel super light headed and my gums still hurt and one day I'm going to get a codeine (But I really love Codeine) addiction I swear and I should stop looking up side effects because now I feel mad itchy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 02 Jun 2011, 18:21
Persistent telemarketer, go away we are not interested in changing our line-rental. :x
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 02 Jun 2011, 20:07
https://www.donotcall.gov.au/ (https://www.donotcall.gov.au/)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 02 Jun 2011, 20:11
Try telling that my father, he has like a bizarre nonsensical business/Luddite explanation for shit like this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 02 Jun 2011, 21:55
Gotta love how my mom thinks I'll burn a frozen pizza when I've been working in a commercial kitchen for a semester.

(okay it did burn a little bit, on the bottom)
(still tasted fine)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 02 Jun 2011, 22:36
Hold on, that means your mum was right doesn't it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 03 Jun 2011, 01:49
I keep finding socks that aren't mine in my laundry. I have a sneaking suspicion that when other people lose their socks in the laundry, they somehow find their way into my laundry.

Also, when I went outside this morning, I found a cactus on the sidewalk.

GIVE ME BACK MY FUCKING SOCKS.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Jun 2011, 03:35
I woke up this morning to my phone ringing and it was a job I applied to yesterday, asking if they could interview me today! Sadly they couldn't, because they're a train and a bus journey away, I need one of my parents to take me to the train station and they are both busy all day - but I'm going on Monday. Fingers crossed! Then I got another phone call from the Job Centre, wanting to review my application for Job Seekers' Allowance. I only just found out that I could claim it, since I'm a student waiting to return to my course after illness (I love that there's a category for that), so hopefully I can back-date it to when I got back from Paris.

And they wanted to see me at 10.30 on Monday morning... which is when I'll be in the job interview! So I'm going on Monday afternoon. Luckily the hours I'd be working if I got the job would be few enough that I could still sign on, so it won't be a waste of time going if I do get it. And if I don't, at least I'm not going to be totally broke.

Things are looking up slightly :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 03 Jun 2011, 09:38
Hold on, that means your mum was right doesn't it?
More because our oven is stupid than anything else
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 03 Jun 2011, 10:43
Think about it - if the item is frozen, more heat has to pass to the middle to get it cooked; so either you apply the same temperature to the outside, and it gets too dry, or you apply a higher temperature and it gets burnt.  Not the oven's fault, really, though an accurate thermostat would help in maintaining an acceptable balance between the two.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Jun 2011, 11:31
I thought you moved/were moving to the land of secessionist hippie ice cream making skiers.

Soon, Shane. Soon.

GIVE ME BACK MY FUCKING SOCKS.

  :evil:

The cactus has moved to my porch. I worry that one day I will wake to find it over my bed. I named it Jim.

Also, at my therapist's office today, there was an old man in the waiting room. When his wife pulled him out, he said really loudly in the hall, "THAT WAS THE TALLEST WOMAN I'VE EVER SEEN!" and I was amused and called out, "You know I can still hear you, right?" There was silence for about three seconds, and then he said in a quiet voice, "That was the tallest woman I've ever seen."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 03 Jun 2011, 14:24
My teeth are so much better now, I can actually chew shit again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 03 Jun 2011, 14:40
Also, at my therapist's office today, there was an old man in the waiting room. When his wife pulled him out, he said really loudly in the hall, "THAT WAS THE TALLEST WOMAN I'VE EVER SEEN!" and I was amused and called out, "You know I can still hear you, right?" There was silence for about three seconds, and then he said in a quiet voice, "That was the tallest woman I've ever seen."

This made me laugh so hard. Sometimes the things older people say are just as funny as the things little kids say.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Eris on 03 Jun 2011, 16:44
The last time I went and saw my specialist about my cough (which I still have, btw), there were actually other people in the waiting room. The old lady yammered away to me about how her husband never helped her out with their children, and how she as thinking of pissing him off and moving into a home so she can relax for a while. The husband just sat next to her in silence while she said all this. Then their son, who obviously drove them there, came in and told her where he had parked, which got her ranting about the metric system and how she never learned it. The son seemed be enjoying himself, and this conversation occurred:

Lady: I don't see why I should learn it. If you move to France you have to speak French, why should we have to use their measuring system?
Son: You know, the Americans nearly crashed their space shuttle when going to the moon, because they were using imperial when everyone else was using the metric system.
Lady: Good! Glad to see America sticking to the guns!

I just sat there and read my trashy magazine, smiling to myself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 03 Jun 2011, 17:34
The cactus has moved to my porch. I worry that one day I will wake to find it over my bed. I named it Jim.

Do yeh know yeh snore when yeh sleep lass?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 04 Jun 2011, 15:08
You know, metric is SO much easier to measure things with, but I'm sure most of the American population's heads would explode if we ever switched over. Not that that's necessarily a bad thing... >.>

Also in my 5th grade math class we used to watch a cartoon from the 70s abou the metric system. Metric Man was a ruler man thing with an afro and a cape. I still remember the theme song, it was such a weird cartoon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Jun 2011, 15:20
I learnt metric and imperial units equally; some of the practicals I did at university (engineering course) even had them mixed up, forcing us to do conversions all the time'  And even the metric system has big variations - the electricity course changed from using cgs metric units to SI units halfway through my time, which was rather a big deal, and involved us all getting new textbooks because all the formulae changed.  But even stranger, there was a period when one of the standard sizes of plasterboard (drywall to you Americans) sold in the UK was 4 feet x 900mm - I kid you not!  Mind you, I measure things like that routinely when doing DIY...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 04 Jun 2011, 15:35
Imperial units don't make any sense, they are to the metric system as The Legend of Zelda series is to Mass Effect trilogy. Why do you guys still use imperial, anyway? Don't you guys use it for science like the rest of the world?

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Jun 2011, 18:05
Because Mass Effect is better.

Dear blag,

Yesterday morning was pretty excellent. I was heading over to check up on a resumé at a brewpub in Berkeley (Triple Rock, it's called), and I hadn't finished my cigarette yet, so I stopped a couple doors down from the place to finish it so as to not offend any of their customers with my Filthy Cigarette Habits. While I was finishing my smoke, a really cute girl came up and asked to bum one. I obliged, lit her up, and we got to talking. She turned out to be super rad in a number of ways. Eventually we exchanged numbers. Nice ego boost!

After that came Resumé Checkup Time. I went in and talked to the same guy I'd spoken to earlier, and he was more enthusiastic about my checking up than anybody else has ever been! They aren't currently hiring but I'm gonna be watching that shit like a fucking hawk. I have plans to enjoy a beer there very soon anyway. I love me some microbrew.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 04 Jun 2011, 18:16
Because Mass Effect is better.

But Mass Effect is the metric system in this metaphor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Jun 2011, 19:00
Heh. Didn't realize. Personally I agree with you, but in the case of many gamers I know, such words would be considered heresy. Punishable by being forced to listen to The Circle Song on endless loop. I survived such treatment but only just.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 Jun 2011, 10:48
Just heard news that one of the most influential people in my life has died. I hadn't seen him in almost a year now but was looking forward to seeing him again next month. When I think back to meeting him some eight years ago, I can see how he helped put my life on the course it is now, leading me to do the things I've achieved, met the love of my life and be where I am now.

I wish I could see him just one more time just to be able to say thank you. You don't always see these things coming or realise the importance of one person until they're gone. I'll try not to regret his passing and to help carry on his work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 05 Jun 2011, 12:39
Because Mass Effect is better.

But Mass Effect is the metric system in this metaphor.
It wasn't a very good metaphor
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 05 Jun 2011, 12:40
Also whoop seldom killer, that really blows. What happened?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 Jun 2011, 14:06
An old friend called Barry Mason died while swimming on holiday in Spain.

This is one of the greatest losses to cycling in this country. If you've ever cycled in London then, whether you had heard of him or not, you would have felt the effects of his tireless work to improve safety and security of cyclists and raise the bar for the quality of facilities. I was part of his campaigning group for a while and because of him I got into cycling, saw a side of London that I would never have had a chance to see, became part of a Turner Prize winning art exhibition and so much more. News reports will detail his more tangible work and achievements but stories like mine are so common that it is impossible to put into words the impact that he has had on people and communities across the city and to an extent across the country. Because he never saught the limelight, much of his contribution will never be recognised from those who benefited from him.

He will be missed by thousands, I can only hope that the many more will not lose out for his passing. It is a momentary solace that he died doing something that he loved.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Jun 2011, 07:17
Why do you guys still use imperial, anyway? Don't you guys use it for science like the rest of the world?

They tried this several decades ago. It didn't work. There are too many people in this country and most of them probably never use metric. They teach both in schools and certain professions do need to know both, but forget replacing imperial with metric in the US. I don't see it happening any time soon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Jun 2011, 09:09
That's because we're fucking AMERICA, and we don't need no fucking limp-wristed metric system fucking up things over here.

Mentioning limp-wristed, I went to the queer pride festival yesterday. Other than the fact I forgot both wallet and phone, it was pretty fantastic. I was with the 'transcouples' booth, which was to provide support for couples wherein at least one is trans (they didn't realize that there might be a couple where both people are trans; I was a pretty big reminder of that one), though the way they wrote it 'transcouples' incidentally looked like 'transcoyotes' to me.

So yeah. I brought home a bunch of beads, two phone numbers, and the sunburn from hell as souvenirs.

edit: there was an anti-gay christian protest. It was amusing. One guy, with a sign, being escorted out by four cops.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Jun 2011, 12:16
So the girl I met the other day in Berk is totally down to get drinks soon. Made my morning that much brighter. It's nice making friends.

Yesterday was my dad's birthday. We ate at some divey-looking Italian place that actually had amazing food. Like, the difference between the two was by orders of magnitude, I wish I'd thought to take photos. Well worth enduring my dad and stepmom for free Italian food.

Afterward I went to the hotel nearby where my friend works, and he and I kicked it for the last hour or two of his shift. Then we went over to his place and kicked it some more. Shot the shit, listened to music, played Audiosurf, and got baked. Nice way to end an evening.

Today, I'm on Craigslist, scouring it raw until I get a job, just as I've been doing for the last few weeks. Does anybody else have the same difficulty getting responses as I do? I only ever heard back from somebody once, and it was the shit-awful canvassing job that I lost after 3 work days chilling in the broke-ass middle class Berkeley flats.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jun 2011, 13:26
an anti-gay christian protest

I'd protest against anti-gay christians too.

TSK, I'm sorry to hear your news. At least you can look back on all the things that he achieved and know that he's left an important mark on the world - so many people don't manage that, and it's such a shame.

I've been on a job hunting bonanza lately and I'm really going up and down emotionally over it. Last night we had an awful, three-hour family row with full-scale sobbing, screaming and abuse hurling. I hate those kinds of arguments but I seem to get into them so often at the moment. There hasn't been one as bad as last night's for several years but everyone is getting so stressed with me still being unemployed.

Today I had a job interview for a cafe job which went ok - it's a bit of a hike to get out to the cafe, takes over an hour and costs more than an hour's wages, but it's only 2 days and good hours and I'd take it if I was offered it. I also spent almost two hours in the JobCentre with the world's most inept advisor, filling out form after form only to be told that I needed to come back on Wednesday to make an appointment to come back to see a Personal Advisor to fill out more forms. ARGH. I'm beginning to see how this works - they make it so god-awful trying to claim benefits that you just give up and fall into a depressive slump, at which point they can start blaming you for all society's ills and neatly make you the scapegoat for their own messups.

Also I'm trying to cajole my brother into finding a summer job, or volunteering for something, or just writing a CV would be a good start. He's seventeen; by the time I was his age I had worked four jobs and saved several thousand pounds. I really worry about how he's going to cope when he leaves school, since he's not really considering university and has never done anything work-related. I know it isn't my job to run his life but I wish he would just listen and do something with himself! He's so smart, far smarter than me, and he can be charming and polite and funny and hard-working, all rare qualities in teenaged boys! He's also bloody lazy and totally unmotivated because he's never had to go without anything (he lives with our indulgent and rather profligate father, whilst I live with our much more anxious and spendthrift mother) and also he goes to an awful public school where all the kids have their own Bentleys and half of them already own houses, so the idea of actually having to work for a living is just not normal.

ARGH WHY DO WE HAVE TO LIVE IN A CAPITALIST SOCIETY?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 06 Jun 2011, 14:09
Barmy, this may also be a matter of class.  :mrgreen:

I never get sick and I haven't been sick in over 1 1/2 years, real talk. I'm feeling a little better this morning. I will beat this stupid head cold/flu silly with the power of two many codrals (just pseudo) and my limp sore wrists before Wednesday.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jhocking on 06 Jun 2011, 18:24
edit: there was an anti-gay christian protest. It was amusing. One guy, with a sign, being escorted out by four cops.

(http://www.spareroom.co.nz/wp-content/uploads/2007/01/gay-protest.jpg)

EDIT: pagebreak yessssss
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 06 Jun 2011, 19:16
u need Jesus Christ! in yr but!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Jun 2011, 23:53
I'm just waiting for the start of jokes like "the second coming" and, referring to that awful series of novels, "left behind"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2011, 02:30
Barmy, this may also be a matter of class.  :mrgreen:

I'm confused - how is the fact that I can't find a job because there aren't as many as there were three years ago a matter of class? Am I too bourgeoise or too common? I don't get what you mean.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 07 Jun 2011, 02:41
Oh, sorry for the confusion. I was referring to yr brother.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2011, 03:17
That makes more sense, although he isn't by any means upper class or anything - he's on a 75% scholarship at his school and my dad, who he lives with, earns minimum wage and his girlfriend is unemployed. But yes, the other kids in his school are upper middle class and maybe some might have upper class family (seems unlikely though, it isn't a very good school, upper class kids go to Eton).

I don't know if I ever told you guys about the time I found myself drinking with a group of old Etonians and one of them couldn't believe that I had actually worked part time in a supermarket during my A-levels. They'd never met anyone who'd done that before.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Jun 2011, 05:36
Today, I'm on Craigslist, scouring it raw until I get a job, just as I've been doing for the last few weeks. Does anybody else have the same difficulty getting responses as I do? I only ever heard back from somebody once, and it was the shit-awful canvassing job that I lost after 3 work days chilling in the broke-ass middle class Berkeley flats.

God yes, I think it's a Craigslist Thing. I got two responses from about 15 emails I sent when I was job-hunting in January. When I got my current job and the Craigslist guy was looking for a replacement for me, he got over 15 responses in the first HOUR of posting an ad. You might want to look at CareerBuilder or a temp agency (depending on what you're looking to do) for more serious offers that tend to give more serious consideration because they're not wading through a million unqualified not-even-resumes. But also, you should really be able to find some audio companies around if you want to do that sort of thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 Jun 2011, 08:08
The sushi place next door to my office is having its grand opening today. Half-price sushi from 1-10PM.

My lunch break is 12-12:30.  :psyduck: I want some damn half-priced futomaki!



(note: It's a bit confusing. They've been open for MONTHS, now)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dimmukane on 09 Jun 2011, 21:50
edit: there was an anti-gay christian protest. It was amusing. One guy, with a sign, being escorted out by four cops.

*pagebreak pic*

EDIT: pagebreak yessssss

True story: today my girlfriend got stuck in some slow traffic coming home from work today.  Upon getting closer to where it was moving, it turned out there was some guy driving slow (like 15 under the limit slow) holding a sign that said 'I used to be gay, but god found me yada yada yada meet my wife' and waving flags and shit.  So she pulled up next to them and rolled her window down, politely exchanged hellos, and then yelled 'I LOVE THE TASTE OF PUSSY' and drove off.  They almost got rear-ended.

I love my girlfriend.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: MrBlu on 10 Jun 2011, 12:58
I'm moving to Taiwan.

Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 10 Jun 2011, 13:19
Damn dude, what happened to Canada? I was hoping to try and visit you when I finally can manage to get up there, hahaha. :B

You might want to look at CareerBuilder

This has already been a huge help, holy damn. Thanks for that!

Dear blag,

Oh man I am so pumped for the wedding reception tomorrow, now that it's almost here. My bestie finally managed to come on board for the wedding reception gig, meaning I don't have to do it alone (meaning also that I don't have to be there without somebody I can turn to for the comfort of familiarity). This also means that we get to give the bride what she wants, which is Beatles covers. We've just worked out the PA, and I met the groom last night and he's totally a rad dude who likes a lot of the same music we like. So we've got a lot going in our favor tomorrow. Stooooooked! Lukas is coming over to rehearse in about an hour or so.

The last two nights, I've been going to the open mics that I've frequented. Last night was my final open mic at the place where I used to run it. Or at least, the last one for a while. I need to shift my focus if I'm going to make anything out of this 'performing' thing. Occasional one-off gigs just don't cut it, and open mic hasn't really gotten me anywhere I want to be. I need to get serious about it, but I think I've got a plan for that.

On Tuesday I've got myself a date (I guess) with the cool girl I met in Berkeley a week ago. She lives in Oakland so we've been emailing back and forth and calling from time to time just to chat and stuff, and it turns out she's rad as fuck and have a lot of interests in common. And what we don't necessarily have in common, we're both curious to learn more about. I'm really looking forward to hanging out with her! We'll see where it goes but I'm optimistic, and I'll be happy whatever the outcome.

I guess that's really everything!
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Jun 2011, 14:40
Wedding got played, band got paid, and fun times were had all damn day and I really can't recall when I've had a better day this year. Fuck. Yes.
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Post by: valley_parade on 13 Jun 2011, 14:15
Hey blog thredds, do those 5 Hour Energy shot thingies work?

I'm just mad tired today. Woke up Sunday feeling quite rough from the night before, and then ran myself silly playing ultimate last night. I'm sore, tired, my legs feel heavy, and my face is all puffy from breaking blood vessels whilst ejecting Saturday Night.
 
And I am expected to meet friends at a bar tonight for some quality drinking and Stanley Cup Finals watching. Right now I have 3 hours of work left and want a nap. Will one of these things keep me going for a few hours?
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Post by: nekowafer on 13 Jun 2011, 14:22
They certainly help me. They make me just a little bit jittery but it goes away. Try taking just half of it first to make sure it doesn't overwhelm you.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Jun 2011, 17:14
They work. They make some people feel like their skin is all tingly and weird so yeah, taking half or sipping a little at a time might be better if you haven't had it before. They say there's no (sugar) crash but if I'm already pushing it, I find I'll still pass the fuck out when it wears off.
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Post by: Inlander on 13 Jun 2011, 21:47
Hi guys!

I started a blog! I'm pretty surprised, I never really thought of myself as the blogging type. It's called Noticing Animals. It's about noticing animals. If reading a 1500 word post about aphids and the Melbourne housing crisis sounds like your kind of thing, you can find it here:

http://noticinganimals.blogspot.com/ (http://noticinganimals.blogspot.com/)
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Post by: celticgeek on 13 Jun 2011, 22:21
Very nice, Inlander.  Keep up the good work.
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Post by: Jimor on 13 Jun 2011, 23:01
I'm sitting here with 4T worth of hard drives (1 2T and 2 1Ts) plugged into my laptop, and as I'm shuffling files around to get control over what I've digitally accumulated over the years, I find myself in a contemplative mood, so I apologize in advance for how truly bloggish this will probably turn out.

I posted 3 or 4 weeks ago how I wanted to get organized and get a handle on all the projects I want to accomplish. I'm far from where I want to be, but I think I'm at least on the right track. I've gone through most of my stuff, and while I still have too much, I did let go of a lot of things that I know I'll never need or want in the future. Of what's left, it's organized (all my books and CDs are alphabetized) and I have a good idea of what I know I'll want to keep and what will be on the chopping block next time I go through everything.

I took all the clutter on top of shelves, books, desks, tables, floor, etc., and made one big pile. Then I broke it down into toss, keep but store, keep and use, and a "process" pile. The toss stuff got tossed or shredded (I don't need 12-year-old bank statements and paycheck stubs). The keep but store stuff, usually momentos of some kind, got put into boxes and put in the back of the closet or under the bed. I processed the third pile, usually items that needed to be sorted another level for the same kinds of decisions. So I'm left with the stuff I really do use or need access to on a regular basis. I still don't quite have proper room to put it in a nice permanent place, but at least if it's "out" I know which shelf or desk it belongs on and can find what I need without tearing everything apart again.

So while visitors probably don't notice a lot of difference in some things, I now regularly have a floor, and when all the laundry and dishes are done, they actually ALL have a place to go that's out of sight! But the underlying organization is more a mental relief. If I want a particular book or CD, I can go to the exact location on the shelf and pull it off. If I need my 2007 tax return, I know which shoebox under the bed has them all.

On the computer front, what had been holding me back with a lot of my video projects was simply room to store everything and to work. I have about 50G of spare HD on my laptop, and each tape from my video recorder will dump 12G of files. At a music show, I may fill 3 tapes. So to work, I need to shuffle things on and off the laptop regularly, but I was running out of room on the 2nd 1T external drive, and I have at least 10 tapes of backlog to still process (120G). So I bought a 2T drive to add to the mix. I mostly have projects mirrored on the other 2 drives as backup, I don't want to lose stuff if one of them dies. What I'm doing is making the 2T as my main working drive with everything, then I'll back half on one 1T, and half on the other. Really important files (which take far less room than all the video work) will be on all 3. (I know there are technical solutions to regular backup, but part of the mental process is figuring out exactly what I have and how it's organized instead of just cloning drive on top of drive because they keep getting bigger and bigger and it's "easy" to do.)

OK, the boring stuff is out of the way.

What all the above is allowing me to do is go out to shows, shoot some really cool musicians doing their thing, and sharing it with the world via my YouTube channel (http://www.youtube.com/user/jbailey66). As I talk with more and more of them, I get good feedback on what I'm doing, and the circle of people I know and want to work with has expanded tremendously in the last month. At the same time, I'm making progress on getting some other projects up and running. Possibly some music video shoots, finally more episodes of my TV show, a possibility of a full production shoot of a live show, and I'm helping out with a short film as camera operator. I just get the feeling that by the end of the summer, I'll be a lot further along to where I want to be. All while working with a group of absolutely fantastic people, talented artists, and as its turning out, a lot of good friends.

When the disorganization was holding me back, I felt unqualified to go out there and do any of this because in the back of my mind I was always wondering if I'd just end up letting everybody down. It feels really good to know that's not the case and that I can use my skills to help others as they chase their dreams.  :-)

(Off topic addendum, the other day I checked in with my youtube channel with the joke Attack Attack! "I Kissed a Girl" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH8CRBShZck) video, and for the last month it's been averaging 3000 views a day and is closing in on 500,000 total views.  :psyduck: )
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Jun 2011, 01:00
I'm in awe, I've been skittering around the fact that I need to sort through a box of paper and my laptop hard drive, and there you are reorganising your entire life. Any tips? I usually get to the "everything all over the floor in piles" stage and give up, putting it all back into one big pile and wasting the whole effort.
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Post by: pwhodges on 14 Jun 2011, 01:20
I do that about every eighteen months - it doesn't last, you see.  Entropy.   Also, no part of my past life is good at hiding in boxes, and I find I need one thing out of each one over the next few months.  Perhaps I am just bad at sorting!
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Post by: calenlass on 14 Jun 2011, 01:21
Shane, everyone I know (all four people) who have taken 5-hour energy shots have gotten sick from them. Like, runs, maybe puking, kind of sick. This isn't common though, I guess.
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Post by: Jimor on 14 Jun 2011, 03:12
It's a tough thing to do, May. What usually happens for me is that I'll slowly realize that a whole category of objects are just no longer necessary. A few years ago it was plastic models. I enjoy building them still, but time became an issue, and I ended up with 3 or 4 dozen unbuilt or half built models in their boxes, and the choice was either make the time to finish them, but take that time from new pursuits, or just accept that they were no longer an important hobby to me. So I just packed them all up and donated most to charity, let some kids get joy out them that I won't. I still have several that I finished around, and if I really ever get a hankering to do it again, I can just go buy one and build it. But having all those kits around taking up space was a burden.

Working in a toy store for several years, then a bookstore for a few more gave me a lot of skills in squeezing more stuff into less space. But that's a double-edged sword in one's personal life. I can almost always restack a closet to fit another 10% worth of junk. But it's just as easy to find get rid of 10% of the stuff lying around. And that's all you really need to do once in a while. Take a look at your clothes. If you have 20 shirts, there HAS to be 2 that you could live without.

A lot of the motivation also has come from dealing with my sister. She burned out her brain on drugs, and now has a very strong hoarding tendency, and after watching the TV show Hoarders, and the less extreme show Clean House, I definitely know I want nothing to do with that kind of lifestyle. It's not that I've gone to the other extreme and have a stripped down space with one chair, one table and one bookshelf, but I find it easier and easier to make decisions on what really is important to me, what I merely like to have around if there's room, and what I won't miss.

A way of thinking about how to approach it is something I learned from my video editing experience. What I find as I'm editing 90 minutes of material down to 58 minutes is that I simply can't make the hard choices until I get all the easy choices out of the way first. I do a music show, and we always shoot more songs than will fit. Well, the first criteria is whether or not there was a technical issue with a particular song. If there was, it's gone, and I no longer have to even think about it. When I get down to the last song to cut, then I'll take a lot more time working out how they balance the whole show and work out a flow. The same goes for the objects in our lives. If something is broken, are you REALLY going to fix it? If a dress is torn, are you really going to mend it? Have you used this item at all in the past 2 years?

Just since my previous post, I realized that I do have a category of stuff I no longer really need. I have a "vintage" Atari ST computer, along with a couple boxes of games and disks and manuals. I haven't touched any of it in at least 5 years, and if I really need a spot of nostalgia for it all, there are emulators I can run on my PC. I'll probably also cull a lot of the old PC games I have that only run under Win95. Not everything, since a few might still work, but I spend plenty of time already playing games, and I don't need all of these other ones sitting around waiting for me to never get around to them.

Anyway, more rambling from me, so I'll stop. Hopefully there's at least a little in here that's helpful.
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Post by: nekowafer on 14 Jun 2011, 06:06
I actually truly enjoy organizing things. I do it to some part of my life every week or so, at least. At home we have a file cabinet drawer for important paperwork. In it are hanging files marked with pretty basic labels. Apartment, receipts, coupons, pets, job, finance, health, manuals, and personal. I might be missing one or two but that's most of them. On top of the file cabinet, there is a box that ends up being sort of a catch-all. It has all our mailing stuff in it (envelopes, stamps, tape), plus other random things that we can't figure out where else to put. I generally fill it with all our paperwork if I don't feel like filing - it's "put away" and out of sight, and it's somewhere I can find it later. Every few weeks I will go through the box and file everything. I try to make piles according to the labels, plus a pile of "immediate use" items which will stay in the box and recycle items.

This has helped SO much with all the paperwork. I have a lot of EOBs from being sick recently, so my health file is pretty full - but I keep them in the box for a little while, so if I need something I recently got, it's easier to find. I also keep bills in there so I can follow up on them and such.

When cleaning larger areas or dealing with more stuff, I usually go through and take care of all the trash, dishes, laundry, and paperwork. This is all easy stuff, you know exactly what to do with it. Even if you just stick the paperwork in a pile, it's all together, and can be sorted out later. Like Jimor said, you take care of the easy stuff first. Then I figure out what I have the most of and start organizing that. If it's CDs, I would stack them all and get them out of the way - then you have a smaller pile. Once everything's organized into like-items piles, then you can take your time to go through each pile.

You have to be completely honest with yourself. If you think you'll never use that item again, it needs to go. If you really want to keep it, fine - but put a note on it or something like that and if you don't use it for 6 months, re-evaluate. If you have things that need fixing, put a time limit on them. If you can't get it done within however many months, they have to go. This works especially well with clothing. If I don't wear something for a year, I get rid of it, unless it has sentimental value. Then it goes in a vacuum-pack bag and into the storage area.

I enjoy this stuff so much I've considered becoming a personal organizer.
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Post by: valley_parade on 14 Jun 2011, 11:53
They work. They make some people feel like their skin is all tingly and weird so yeah, taking half or sipping a little at a time might be better if you haven't had it before. They say there's no (sugar) crash but if I'm already pushing it, I find I'll still pass the fuck out when it wears off.

I took the sipping method. No reactions, no throwing up or anything, but I did get it annoyingly late and stayed up until like 2 bugging Zingo about records and listening to Trap Them.

Oh and blog thread, if all goes well in Vancouver tomorrow night, I will be heading to Boston later this week for a Stanley Cup victory parade! Holy shit.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Jun 2011, 12:25

I took the sipping method. No reactions, no throwing up or anything, but I did get it annoyingly late and stayed up until like 2 bugging Zingo about records and listening to Trap Them.


He's not kidding.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Jun 2011, 12:39
Want to come and organise my stuff, either of you?

The irony is that I am actually a very organised person... for other people's stuff. Stage management takes a lot of organisation because you need to know exactly what prop is where, when it is needed, who it is for, where it came from, where it needs to go and so forth. In Paris I was always tidying the kids' bedrooms to be more logical, sorting bookshelves, arranging my employer's handbag (she had the least organised bag I have ever seen, just overflowing with paper and random things, so she was happy to let me get at it!). But my own stuff? It's just either too overwhelming or too full of memories. I hate throwing things away, I even hate deleting emails, never mind if they're circulars or adverts or just plain spam. I want to keep eeeeeeeeeeeeeverything.
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Post by: valley_parade on 14 Jun 2011, 13:05

I took the sipping method. No reactions, no throwing up or anything, but I did get it annoyingly late and stayed up until like 2 bugging Zingo about records and listening to Trap Them.


He's not kidding.

You brought up the rareness, I brought up the NbN 1/100ness.

Suppose I could help out, May. I do tend to keep my records pretty neat. First 12" records, arranged alphabetically by artist, and then chronologically, 12" VAs, then 7"s in the same format, and then split 7"s, alphabetically by the artist on the A-side. I'd like to get some Ikea shelving to make it better than "some crates", but the nearest one is 3 hours away and they don't deliver.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Jun 2011, 13:22
Excellent, organising party at my place?
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Post by: valley_parade on 14 Jun 2011, 13:26
You're covering airfare, right?
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Post by: David_Dovey on 14 Jun 2011, 14:29
You're covering airfare, right?

Hopefully she just covers something off their first record, they really went off the rails after that
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Post by: valley_parade on 14 Jun 2011, 14:35
Hurrrrrrrrr.
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Post by: Jimor on 14 Jun 2011, 14:47
May, one comment before I head out for the day, then probably more tonight. One "problem" is that you're young enough that you don't know what may or may not be important to you later, so to some extent, I think that kind of indecision is natural and not something to worry about yet. But I think you probably do need to take steps to get things under control in other ways.
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Post by: pwhodges on 14 Jun 2011, 15:17
I threw out stuff in my 30s and 40s that I really, really regret not having now in my 60s.  Tough.  What you have to accept is that you can't actually get it right, and when you find something is gone that you now want you must just shrug and move on - either to something else, or to recreating or acquiring what you now miss (if that is even possible).
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Post by: valley_parade on 14 Jun 2011, 15:35
I still need to someday either buy or build a copy of a '73 Fender Mustang to make up for my teenage boneheadedness.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Jun 2011, 05:24
I'm never going to stop calling you an idiot for that, Shane.

I took the sipping method. No reactions, no throwing up or anything, but I did get it annoyingly late and stayed up until like 2 bugging Zingo about records and listening to Trap Them.
He's not kidding.

That explains why I got a text from you around then. Sorry about not responding. Phone's decided to shit the bed on that front yet again but I wasn't about to call you when I knew it was at least an hour or two past midnight.

My sister is coming to town this weekend, flying all the way from DC! I'm pretty excited to see her. The downside is that it is because my uncle's cancer is getting worse and worse (we have already been aware for several months that it's terminal) and so it's basically my sister's (and likely my) final chance to see him while he is still living.

Still, I wouldn't miss it for the world. I made an awful, awful mistake by not seeing my grandpa for a full year before he passed away, and even though it broke my heart every time I did see him, I regret each and every time I chose to postpone seeing him. Fuck. That. Shit. I will spend time with my favorite uncle even if it breaks my heart and kills me.
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Post by: valley_parade on 15 Jun 2011, 05:36
Neither am I.

On the other hand, that Firebird served me well for a few years.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Jun 2011, 05:42
I wish I had gone to see my godmother before she died. I knew she had cancer, I knew it was likely to be the last time I would see her, but I was too busy flirting. Stupid twelve-year-old self, she was far more important than that boy whose name you can't even remember. But I think she would have understood that I was finding it hard to take it all in - she was the first, and so far (incredibly) the only, person I knew who died. But I learnt my lesson and am going to visit my elderly and not very healthy grandmother next month, even though she probably won't know who I am.

Guys guys guys I just applied for the BEST JOB EVER I really hope I get it! 28 hours a week helping organise family events at a local National Trust house. It would be so great! I love the National Trust and I love kids and I could actually get to this place by bus unlike most National Trust places and oh it would be so perfect. Also I have an interview for the cleaning agency next week and that would be once a week and I just started volunteering at the hospice once or twice a week, although that's unpaid, and soon hopefully I'll get an interview for the cafe job in town which is two days a week. Basically after months of desert it looks like lots of little springs are starting to appear and soon I'll be drowning in work opportunities! I hope.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Jun 2011, 17:52
Oh May, I hope you get the job with the National Trust! It'd be really good to see you get a job you like! I've been having a similar springing-up of oases lately. I think it might have something to do with the whole "it is turning into summer in this hemisphere" thing, but that's a good thing anyway.

One of the things that sprung up today was the fact that I called to check up on a resumé at a brewery/alehouse in Berkeley called Triple Rock. I checked back in person a while ago, but they weren't hiring. So I called, asked for the manager I'd spoken to, and explained why I wasn't there in person (it's time and money consuming to get there from Livermore!), and he was like "Oh hey, glad you called! Yeah we're gonna be making some phone calls within the next couple of days. Yeah man, I definitely remember you, you're on the list of people I'm calling!" So that really made my day.

Another good thing that's happened is that my bandmate and I finally got some of the video from a show we played early last month! We had a lot of fun at that show (thanks, fo'ties of Olde English!) and we were really happy with our performance. The only one that's been uploaded so far is our performance of "Rust." The very beginning and the very end got cut off, but I'm really proud of it anyway. Here's the link for anybody interested: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WN9TfL4z9lk
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Post by: Jimor on 16 Jun 2011, 02:30
Good luck, May, that sounds like an awesome job! Lots of other good things heading your way, I'm sure.

(Sorry, another long one)
Yesterday was my debut as a TV director for the music show the access station I work for produces. We tape 2 acts each shoot, and for the first one I was in my usual position on camera. That was a 4-piece metal act that was pretty good. Also cool guys and very professional. 2nd act was a 7-piece experimental industrial goth-ish act led by a guy who was really into establishing a "good vibe" for the shoot. No you can't burn incense because the last time we allowed any kind of smoke in the studio, the fire alarm was set off and we got a $1500 fine from the fire dept.

So I got to tell the 3 cameras what to shoot (yelling into the headset so they could hear me on the floor in the middle of a very loud band), and call which of the 3 cameras was live for the recording.

The directing part worked out ok, and once I was into it, the nervousness went away, but on the floor it was easily the biggest disaster we've had for a shoot. Because of the size of the band and the limits of our sound system, the band brought in their own sound guy and PA so they could have proper monitors to hear themselves. This is actually the preferred setup for louder acts. We just plug into the feed from the sound guy and go.

(Editing out a long paragraph): in short, the band sucked, the sound guy didn't know shit, and the leader of the band was easily the biggest drama queen we've ever had. I'm not sure why the rest of the band put up with him, though I'm sure the turnover is ridiculous.

Directing is a weird phenomenon (For school I directed an episode of a news magazine show, and a game show, so I wasn't totally a rookie). There's a tunnel vision focused on the transitions more than the actual content. So even though I'm watching and listening to everything in the performance, I'm looking for when to switch cameras in time with the music and thinking ahead to the next possible shot, so hardly any of it is processed into memory.

This also means I'm judging my own performance based on that part of what happened rather than on all that other crap beyond my control. The producer was actually pleased with how well it turned out despite the issues and thanked me for working through it all. The sad thing is that the bad taste from how the singer acted and the incompetence of the sound guy means that I'm not particularly interested in seeing the final product. There will be lots of other opportunities, though.

One thing I learned from this is that as I do my own show or other videos with the local music community, I really don't have time for people's bullshit. There's far too many good people who are amazingly talented that I'd like to help promote with my videos for me to waste time and effort with those can't be arsed to care or are just going to make it difficult. The weakness of the station's show is that they are beholden to certain outside influences in choosing the acts, while for my show or gig shoots, it's purely based on the fact that I find somebody I feel is worth supporting, both as musicians and people.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Jun 2011, 08:37
Thanks guys :) I just got an email back from the guy I applied to and it said basically "fill out this application form and we might get in touch but probably not because lots of other people have applied as well" which was less encouraging (it said on the website to apply by email with a CV and covering letter, and now they are saying they can't accept CVs? Make your mind up) but it would still be an awesome job so I guess I'll just re-apply with the form. I hate application forms, they always ask irrelevant and intrusive questions like the one that wanted to know how much I weigh. I was so angry about that one that I reported them to BBC Watchdog.

I also got a call from the office job I applied for yesterday, and they wanted to interview me tomorrow, but in the course of arranging that he realised I didn't have a car, which would make it virtually impossible to get there - the job will start at 6am. Why do they not put these things on the job adverts?! It definitely implied office hours. Bah.
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Post by: valley_parade on 16 Jun 2011, 09:28
One of the things that sprung up today was the fact that I called to check up on a resumé at a brewery/alehouse in Berkeley called Triple Rock.

Quote from: NOFX
It's 3:00 at the Triple Rock, another round of watching Paddy talk

 :psyduck:
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 16 Jun 2011, 11:52
Directing is a weird phenomenon (For school I directed an episode of a news magazine show, and a game show, so I wasn't totally a rookie)

Bah, I'm really gutted I missed out on our third year's news magazine show. All the first years were filling in as and where they were needed (from runners to camera ops), but I was in the editing suite with my editor trying to put the final touches on our end of year film. The annoying thing is the studio was right next to us so I could hear all the hubbub and it sounded like so much funnnnnn.
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Post by: Patrick on 16 Jun 2011, 16:30
One of the things that sprung up today was the fact that I called to check up on a resumé at a brewery/alehouse in Berkeley called Triple Rock.

Quote from: NOFX
It's 3:00 at the Triple Rock, another round of watching Paddy talk

 :psyduck:

See? NOFX at least thinks I'm cool.
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Post by: David_Dovey on 16 Jun 2011, 18:01
Damn shame no one thinks NOFX is cool then  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 16 Jun 2011, 18:42
i did!

like ten years ago :wink:
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Post by: Patrick on 16 Jun 2011, 20:54
Whatever my mom still loves me
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Post by: Spluff on 16 Jun 2011, 21:07
nobody thinks your mum is cool either
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Post by: valley_parade on 17 Jun 2011, 05:41
Damn shame no one thinks NOFX is cool then  :mrgreen:

That and it's about the Triple Rock bar/venue in MINNEAPOLIS, Patrick. Geez dude.


So uh, I'm not sure what/why/how this happened, but last night, my local McDonald's had cheeseburgers for $0.24 each. After a fun night at the bar, where we did bad at trivia but very good at Drink The Beer, my friend Jay (who I will be going to Boston with tomorrow for PARADETIEMZ) decided we should stop in and order a Horton (18 burgers and a high-five).

We each did this and ate a few, and gave some to friends. There's now a bag in my fridge containing a dozen cold cheeseburgers that I really don't feel like eating. Hurray, capitalism and gluttony?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 17 Jun 2011, 13:46
i watched the best girlfight with paddy once. one of the chicks was the bartender. she won. also the triple rock is a venue i like; they have free bacon wednesdays. i mean, generally the shows i go to in the cities are at first ave/seventh st entry but the triple rock is rad too (BACON)

also i am a hoarder for real. one of the best experts on it in the world says to focus your energy on one small part at a time, like the corner of a couch or like, a basket. not a full room or anything cuz that's too overwhelming. then you get three boxes, one for things to keep, one for things to donate and one for things to throw away. you put the things into the boxes-like if there's a shoe and you know you have the match, instead of going and finding the other shoe and putting it away, just put it in the box for now. after you're done with your target area, you go back through the box of stuff to keep and then you can put them away. most hoarders have a tendency to use too many categories and that's where we get stuck. the process has helped me a lot so far... though i still have like a 2 foot high carpet of dirty clothes in my bedroom.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Jun 2011, 01:13
Just seven weeks since I started working at that great hallowed british institution The Royal Mail, and we've all had an "Annual Results Meeting". The news isn't good. Over the past five years business has declined 20% and the expectation is that it will continue to decline 5% year on year. This is all neatly spun in the public facing reports but internally the message is that the company is heading down the pan. As one of the most recent temps to start working there, I'm in the least secure position based on the usual practice of last in first out.

I'd been hired on the premise that the job should last at least a year. I suspect that it would be wise to start looking for work again immediately.

Shitty biscuits.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2011, 14:28
My only unmarried child, my daughter (age 39), got engaged last night.  Apparently he went down on one knee 'n all; also embarrassed her by asking her while they were out in the company of friends.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jun 2011, 14:55
Guys something very exciting has happened but it is not my exciting news to tell so I guess I'll have to wait until the person tells you themselves but I'm super excited about it (and you probably won't even realise that it was the thing I was excited about when you find out but here is me telling you right now that I'm excited about it).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LeeC on 19 Jun 2011, 17:39
Damn, just got tagged in a video from an old friend of mine on FB.  It was pretty much a Farwell letter to me and others because the doctor just sent him an email saying that he is still on the mysterious disease list but he is suffering from multiple organ failure.  Damn.  :cry:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jun 2011, 23:28
The doctor sent that by email ?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 20 Jun 2011, 05:33
That's pretty cool about your daughter, hodges.

And man, that sort of information should not be sent by email. Like...seriously.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jun 2011, 14:09
Congratulations, Paul!

I've found a book called Edward the Dyke (http://www.deepoakland.org/UserFiles/Image/Grahn_Edward.pdf).

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 20 Jun 2011, 14:28
Guys something very exciting has happened but it is not my exciting news to tell so I guess I'll have to wait until the person tells you themselves but I'm super excited about it (and you probably won't even realise that it was the thing I was excited about when you find out but here is me telling you right now that I'm excited about it).

*drumroll*


Nah, just kidding. It's not my news, either. I could just offer up a ridiculous guess at what it would be.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Jun 2011, 01:43
ARGH so you might remember that I am trying to find a job but in the interim trying to claim JobSeekers Allowance. About two weeks ago I spent the entire day on the phone, talking to three different JobCentre offices, my college, and Student Finance, about getting hold of proof that I'm not currently a student and not receiving student finance. At 4.30 that day I'd managed to get college to fax over a letter (great) and Student Finance to agree to type a letter and post it to me so that I could take it to the JobCentre myself (less great but fine if it actually happened).

Well, it didn't happen. I have another JobSeekers appointment tomorrow (they're fortnightly) so I just rang Student Finance to see why the letter hadn't turned up yet and the guy I spoke to, who I have carefully noted down is called Craig, told me that it wasn't actually possible for them to send out letters from their office and my request would have to be referred to their assessors, who would think about it. ARGHHHHHHH first of all why didn't they tell me this two weeks ago, and secondly why the HELL can they not just type a few lines saying "This person no longer receives Student Finance, her final payment was on November 20th"?

ARGH ARGH ARGH this is just getting ridiculous.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 22 Jun 2011, 11:55
Donc, it turns out I can get off the train I'm taking to Boston on Friday at Back Bay Station, which is a meer two blocks from my rather swanky (for a hostel) looking hostel.

With this newfound not-riding-the-T time found, I've made a reservation at a nearby restaurant/jazz club for dinner. This weekend will be awesome. Dinner at a decent restaurant, two friends that don't really post here anymore getting married, and a punk show! And I've never been on a proper train before, aside from commuter rails.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 22 Jun 2011, 15:04
I have open mic tonight, an interview tomorrow, and I am excited about neither. Maybe I'm just mildly depressed or something today.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 23 Jun 2011, 03:00
I have almost had it with this city's abundance of roaches. I just found two 6cm long, jet black 4 winged crawling across an utterly clean surface. What really drives me mental is that I've never seen roaches this big in any other city than sydney. Americans, you think our spiders and snakes are obscene but you haven't seen anything.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LeeC on 23 Jun 2011, 09:31
what city are you in that has all those roaches?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Jun 2011, 10:35
sydney
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LeeC on 23 Jun 2011, 10:37
D'oh, still waking up my bad.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Jun 2011, 16:16
I have almost had it with this city's abundance of roaches. I just found two 6cm long, jet black 4 winged crawling across an utterly clean surface. What really drives me mental is that I've never seen roaches this big in any other city than sydney. Americans, you think our spiders and snakes are obscene but you haven't seen anything.

Oh come on man, the American South has huge fuckin cockroaches. I grew up in Georgia and we had em bigger there, probably 7-8cm long. The kind that leave you standing 1cm taller when you smash 'em underfoot. Sorry to break it to you but our roaches reign supreme, you're just gonna have to be content with your toxic wildlife and be satisfied with that gold medal. Don't be greedy.

Most of my friends here in Livermore, as it turns out, suck ass. Nobody wants to hang out or do anything except for be stoned and antisocial. Fuck, when I'm baked I at LEAST have the goddamn common courtesy of being productive instead of just vegetating on the televisor. Ugh. I don't even know why people watch TV.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Jun 2011, 16:51
I was just in the local tattoo shop, where this white, crewcut military guy was being asked lots of questions by a rather...slow individual:

"What kind of tattoo is that?"
"It's a tribal tat."
"Oh, really, what tribe are you from?"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Darkbluerabbit on 23 Jun 2011, 18:44
Are they actually slow, or just being a discreet smartass about white dudes getting tribal tattoos?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 23 Jun 2011, 19:40
Hey ah Pat, those ones are normal. I'm complaining about the domestic pests in Australia which are huge, numerous and varied. The ones you're describing are certainly big but they are a natural member of that ecosystem.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 23 Jun 2011, 20:52
Do the roaches in Georgia fly?

The ones in Sydney can fly. It's completely fucked.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 24 Jun 2011, 02:05
Idunno if they flew, I never witnessed it myself, but they certainly made a nice big splatter on the floor
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 24 Jun 2011, 07:11
One time I saw some sewer roaches that were like 6"-9" long. all dead but all over the place at this apartment complex.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 24 Jun 2011, 11:23
Are they actually slow, or just being a discreet smartass about white dudes getting tribal tattoos?

Although I suppose it would depend on the nature of the "tribal" tattoo but what's the problem with that? People should feel free to hand their hat on whatever cultural peg they feel like as long as they do so with honesty and integrity. Of course I say that as a white person and realise that there is no culture that we won't relentlessly absorb, integrate and subsume, but hey, that's our culture.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Jun 2011, 11:59
Are they actually slow, or just being a discreet smartass about white dudes getting tribal tattoos?

Actually slow. One time he was following me around the music store telling me when he was possessed by Satan and his skin turned red and he grew horns and a tail. I was like, "Dude, this violin here? I'm trying to play this violin here," but he kept going on about how he was saved by Jeayseusah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 24 Jun 2011, 13:53
ARGH so you might remember that I am trying to find a job but in the interim trying to claim JobSeekers Allowance. About two weeks ago I spent the entire day on the phone, talking to three different JobCentre offices, my college, and Student Finance, about getting hold of proof that I'm not currently a student and not receiving student finance. At 4.30 that day I'd managed to get college to fax over a letter (great) and Student Finance to agree to type a letter and post it to me so that I could take it to the JobCentre myself (less great but fine if it actually happened).

Well, it didn't happen. I have another JobSeekers appointment tomorrow (they're fortnightly) so I just rang Student Finance to see why the letter hadn't turned up yet and the guy I spoke to, who I have carefully noted down is called Craig, told me that it wasn't actually possible for them to send out letters from their office and my request would have to be referred to their assessors, who would think about it. ARGHHHHHHH first of all why didn't they tell me this two weeks ago, and secondly why the HELL can they not just type a few lines saying "This person no longer receives Student Finance, her final payment was on November 20th"?

ARGH ARGH ARGH this is just getting ridiculous.

That is quite shit. Student Finance are incompetent. Entirely. They can't use their own computer systems, the papers and post they recieve from parents trying to get a larger allowance due to lower income goes to a completely DIFFERENT building to the one they send it to (sorted etc) and so this is why so many of my friends and my girlfriend have all but given up trying to do anything with them. What baffles me is that they are in charge of thousands if not millions of people's livelihoods for 3+ years, essentially. And they never do anything right.

On top of that, I think that Job Center (if that is what you're going for for your Allowance) is pretty awful too. They'll pay you, but they really don't help people get jobs, as my brother knows first hand. He gets no calls and nothing from the fortnightly meetings he attends. Its one of those things I also wonder at because tax payers are essentially paying out for those who have no jobs to have money to live on - fair enough. But my brother has been perfectly able to work and just chooses not to, and is getting benefits for it. Its just a terrible system.

That was a pretty awful post of mine, but I guess I'm saying I know how you feel.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jun 2011, 07:13
I have a new puppy; pictures in a while photo thread.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Jun 2011, 09:42
My friend came over last night to wait in my apartment. Apparently my neighbours were fucking and he was waiting for them to finish and get dressed because he was giving them a ride somewhere. After about fifteen minutes, there's a knock on my door, to which I yell, "DON'T COME IN, WE'RE FUCKING" before throwing open the door to find my other neighbour standing there...and his five year old granddaughter.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 25 Jun 2011, 16:44
Dear blag,

I'll reiterate: ALL MY FRIENDS SUCK ASS. I have seriously made plans with like 5 different people, all of whom flaked because they were "Too tired" or otherwise afflicted with some lame excuse. Man, take a fuckin' nap and stop cancelling on a nigga every single time you make plans with him.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: 0bsessions on 25 Jun 2011, 20:20
Oh hey, I'm relatively married now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 26 Jun 2011, 01:17
Neat!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 26 Jun 2011, 04:40
relative to what?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jun 2011, 06:46
I never did get Student Finance to sort themselves out but for some reason the JobCentre decided to process my claim anyway so I am finally receiving JSA. And I have an interview next week for the amazing National Trust job that I really want! Fingers crossed :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 26 Jun 2011, 11:43
Man, take a fuckin' nap and stop cancelling on a nigga every single time you make plans with him.

You do realise that on the most recent page of the Photo's there is a picture that you posted that portrays you as one of the whitest, Johnny Cash, motherfuckers around here.

Don't get me wrong, I'm all in favour of pan-cultural linguistic cross-pollination but somewhere you've got to clock a limit sunshine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 26 Jun 2011, 11:44
Oh and thanks for reminding me to rewatch some Boondocks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 26 Jun 2011, 14:38
Congrats Jon
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 26 Jun 2011, 20:33
So my older sister got a book at Christmas time worth $50, she already had a copy so she got the receipt off of the gifting aunt. Neither my sister nor my mother thought it was prudent to check the store's refund policy (store credit, within 30 days of purchase) and follow through. Fast forward to today, I'm on mid-year break and I need some books to read. When mum asks me what my plans are today I say I'm going to the same bookstore to use my gift-voucher, naturally: oh in that case you can return your sisters book and get a refund. I tell her to hold on a sec while I check the refund policy. She suggests taking the book with me and trying even though 6 months is a hella long time from purchase. I then send an email to store just to placate her. The reply email says: unfortunately we cannot return the book that you requested, simply because if we extended our policy for you it would mean we would have to do it for everyone. Yea fair enough, I know the world doesn't owe me shit. When I tell mum about it she tells me I would have had a better chance if I tried in store and once again it was my defeatist attitude that brought about this inevitable response. This is bull of course because regardless of how emotive and persuasive you are rules are rules and there are no speech checks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 27 Jun 2011, 08:48
relative to what?

I'd actually like to know this. I was there and there was definitely a justice of the peace.

Unless it was a fake justice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jazz Hands Tribute Band on 27 Jun 2011, 12:10
So my older sister got a book at Christmas time worth $50, she already had a copy so she got the receipt off of the gifting aunt. Neither my sister nor my mother thought it was prudent to check the store's refund policy (store credit, within 30 days of purchase) and follow through. Fast forward to today, I'm on mid-year break and I need some books to read. When mum asks me what my plans are today I say I'm going to the same bookstore to use my gift-voucher, naturally: oh in that case you can return your sisters book and get a refund. I tell her to hold on a sec while I check the refund policy. She suggests taking the book with me and trying even though 6 months is a hella long time from purchase. I then send an email to store just to placate her. The reply email says: unfortunately we cannot return the book that you requested, simply because if we extended our policy for you it would mean we would have to do it for everyone. Yea fair enough, I know the world doesn't owe me shit. When I tell mum about it she tells me I would have had a better chance if I tried in store and once again it was my defeatist attitude that brought about this inevitable response. This is bull of course because regardless of how emotive and persuasive you are rules are rules and there are no speech checks.

Sometimes showing up in person can work though, if you're willing to be difficult about it. Eventually they might give you store credit or something. My dad has practically made a career out of that. He could probably star on a Travel Network show about buying things and returning them 4 months later.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jun 2011, 12:50
So I went up to Buffalo and met Jace! He is kind of an asshole and I'm pretty sure he beats up homeless people, but that's okay, I'm not homeless yet, so I like him.

I went going to a party that night afterwards. I wound up running down Main Street at two am flying a kite in five inch heels. I've never worn heels before! It was fantastic. I had a crowd of very drunk and very gay men cheering me on.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 27 Jun 2011, 12:54
I'm amazed you didn't fall over.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jun 2011, 12:58
I tend to walk on my toes all the time. Heels were a natural transition. They also make me six foot fucking nine.

There was a statue of a horse balancing a fish on its nose. I put my hat on it.

Edit:

(http://i157.photobucket.com/albums/t51/alowhum_photos/statue.jpg)

THIS STATUE RIGHT HERE
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 27 Jun 2011, 13:21
So I went up to Buffalo and met Jace! He is kind of an asshole and I'm pretty sure he beats up homeless people, but that's okay, I'm not homeless yet, so I like him.

So THAT'S why I got two similar texts from you and him almost simultaneously.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 27 Jun 2011, 20:59
I finally bothered installing printer drivers on this computer because it was getting irritating having to turn on the old computer or go all the way to uni to print something out and I saw how painless windows 7 made it look.

So then later I'm working through this c++ book because that's totally a skill I should have if I'm going to try and direct my degree more towards high performance scientific computing and I write in a gvim window the word 'print'. Immediately thereafter, the whole computer locks up (something I've never seen windows 7 do) and I have to do a hard reset.

After it reboots I fire up eventvwr and have a look for what might have caused the problem. It's the network printer sharing service. I turned off printer sharing and I got through this post ok so it looks like that solved it but I'm really hoping it was a weird coincidence and printer sharing isn't reading everything I type.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 27 Jun 2011, 21:49
My friend told me that his work is hiring so I am applying there. It's a ten minute bus ride from the Dublin/P-town BART and I can put my bike on a rack at the front of the bus so fuck yeah I'ma work at some Shell gas station with a Wendy's in it.

Dear blerg,

I had a falling out with a friend yesterday. But that friend is super shitty and inconsiderate and downright manipulative, and fuck that fool.

Today I went to my old roomie's place and we kicked it for a bit. I miss the shit out of that dude, we got to be good buds while we lived together, so it was a really good visit. We watched Bully Beatdown and Top Gear (the infinitely superior British version, duh) and made wisecracks the whole time. It was awesome.

At the moment I'm kinda crushingly homesick for Albania; I've been able to talk with some of my old friends there more often recently, and it makes me want to cry every time that happens because I realize suddenly that it's been almost two years to the day since I saw any of them. Breaks my fucking heart, man.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Jun 2011, 12:24
I didn't get the amazing job with the National Trust :( They told me they were interviewing eight or nine people today (out of a large number of applicants, so I'm pleased I made the shortlist) and that it was really tough to choose between me and the other person, but the other person got it because they are already doing something similar somewhere else. So that was upsetting but also it means that I can still go on the choir course. I'd like to just give up and stop looking for jobs, and devote my time to doing interesting voluntary work, but sadly I have to prove I am actively seeking work to get my benefits, and I can't spend the next three months haemorraging money and not earning anything at all.

:(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 28 Jun 2011, 15:46
I'm reading about krokodil (bookmarked a week ago) and the only thing it seems not to do is make your voice all gravelly.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Jun 2011, 13:29
I just got an email from Barack Obama (just a newsletter, nothing individualized).  It is the only thing my spam filter has ever marked as spam. I find this uproariously hilarious for some reason.

Also, last night I ended up throwing out a bunch of CDs. Out the window. Along with some records* and my shoes.

*don't worry! they were only Peter Frampton
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 29 Jun 2011, 13:55
I get russian sex spam occasionally but always hetero.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 30 Jun 2011, 05:01
For a while I got a bunch of spam with random words as the title, and snippets of Pride and Prejudice in the body.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 30 Jun 2011, 05:44
*don't worry! they were only Peter Frampton

Why did you have them to begin with?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 Jun 2011, 10:58
Last night while I was drumming at an open mic I rimshot my left middle finger and now it is kinda purple and very sore where the drum rim hit my finger. Worth it, though, a friend of mine introduced me to her friend, and I got her number in the best display of awkward smoothness I've ever put on. All said and done, a solid night.

I also managed to get a lot of work done on my Fender Jag yesterday, she plays well again! It's only been, like, a solid year since the original nut broke, no worries...

(dogg Shane's right, Frampton sucks)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 30 Jun 2011, 11:50
So you're keeping her, now?

I've got my Allparts cart filled up with "I'll have some expendable cash in a couple weeks" parts to finally get my Trump fixed. And a spare Strat pickup to drop into it. Just need to order a pair of treble bleed kits for that and the Jagmaster.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 Jun 2011, 13:01
A treble bleed kit is what normal people call a 'tone knob' sir

And I'd love to sell my Jag, but let's be real a minute. With all the buckle rash and the body damage and the fact that my dumbass friend took steel wool to it (to get rid of the grime I'd lovingly built up), that thing won't sell in a million years. I'm still picking steel wool pieces out of the pickups with tweezers every other fucking day.

(combined with his other trespasses, which were actually intentional, it's a wonder I didn't murder that fuck when I had the chance; alas, I moved the fuck out of AK instead)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 01 Jul 2011, 05:49
Maybe "treble bleed" is not what I'm thinking of.

It's wiring a .22uf cap and a 100k resistor onto your volume knob so you don't lose treble when you turn down the volume.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 01 Jul 2011, 15:10
Isn't that great. More attempts to socialize blow up in my face. It's the end-of-year barbecue at the university and I find myself invited to an evening session of an Aikido class, by a girl who tells me that she's slightly scared of participating but "if you're gonna go, I will too". So that either means she might be into me (shock and horror, I know) or doesn't want to be outdone by me. If it's the latter, no worries there, because an hour into the class, after a lot of judo rolls, I couldn't keep down the aforementioned barbecue food, although thankfully that didn't happen inside the gym. I decided not to stick around for the second hour and catch the train, but that certainly didn't leave a good impression. I was cursing myself the entire ride home.

This post was brought to you by FML Experiences.

I'm hoping I can find an apartment in the coming summer and move out. Hopefully that makes some difference in meeting some people, maybe go to that gym more regularly. Still not sure if moving out of your parents' house and going to the gym suddenly means being less of a loser though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: TinPenguin on 02 Jul 2011, 07:38
This morning, I walked into the walled garden where I work, to find a huge swarm of honey bees, er, swarming, all around the pear tree in the middle of the garden. We had to keep the visitors out of the way and call in the beekeepers. Three of them.* It was quite exciting, really, watching them do battle with the fuzzy foe until they captured the queen and gained the buzzing horde's surrender. So there's the highlight of my day. To hell with gardening, I wanna be a beekeeper now.

*I feel obliged by the God of Puns to refer to them as 'The Three Must-get-bees'.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jul 2011, 08:50
Dear blag,

Night before last, I got literally zero sleep. I was staying over at a lady's house and she kept fucking doing shit to turn me on. All. Night. I got home blueballed to fuck at 7:30am (after riding my bike home, with my poor balls desperately wishing for a different way home) only to wind up cleaning the house with the guy I live with.

At like 11, I got a text from my buddy saying "Hey dude. Shit. Problem. One of the bands tonight dropped, can you do a set?" and so I threw together a 45-minute set list (it was supposed to be 30; I would rather have too much than too little).

Got my gear dropped off an hour early, practiced a few of the songs for lulz. I was second in the lineup, so I started around 9:40. First three songs? Awesome! Middle of song 4, sound guy completely killed my monitor. I kept asking for it back, and he kept not giving it back, so the rest of my set sucked DICKS. Fuck that guy.

Whatever, I got paid $15. Went to a different bar with my buddy and his band, got a single beer. Waited 15 damn minutes to get my card back, my pint (Fat Tire!) was 3/4 done by time I even got the attention of the SUUUUUUUPER bitchy bartender. She was seriously the nastiest person I ever met! So unnecessarily harsh! Fuck that bitch I didn't tip her shit, on the receipt where it read "TIP" I wrote in "OF MY DICK" because fuck that shit, I ain't about to be given no attitude for the fact that I waited patiently.

Whatever. The other musicians were nice as fuck, and I saw some old friends in the audience. Ooooooold friends, hadn't heard from 'em in years. Awesome!

Love,
Me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Jul 2011, 09:22
I just got back from my two-night trip down to uni (four and a half hour journey there, six hours back... ARGH). It was successful! I saw my DoS and we agreed that a sensible thing to do would be for me to have my Contract law supervisions one-to-one with her, which is a terrifying prospect but hopefully will help me to actually understand what the hell contract law actually is. She also said that she thought there was no reason for me not to come back in the autumn. It isn't up to her, but if she thought I should leave it for another year then I'd have to think very hard about whether or not I agreed.

Then I saw the doctor, who quite happily wrote me a letter stating that I'm medically fit to return, although she also imposed a curfew on me. I'm not allowed to commit to any activities which would mean I wasn't in bed by 11pm. It sounds draconian and ridiculous but I'm glad she did it, because I know that I need to sleep more than most people but it's hard to stick to that when people are pressuring me into going out or doing a show or whatever. Now it's official!

Then I had my choral scholarship audition, which I've been really anxious about. I'd chosen to sing Thou That Tellest Good Tiding To Zion from Handel's Messiah without really considering it very much, and up until three days ago I was finding it impossible to get through some of the longer phrases without running out of breath. But in the audition it all came together and I just got an email from the lady who auditioned me which specifically congratulates me on my breath control! And I got the scholarship :)

I kind of wish I had just come home after all that, because I didn't actually have anything I had to do on Friday afternoon and I was tired. But I went punting with a friend and saw lots of theatre friends and did have fun. I'm just headachey and grumpy because there was an unusually high number of morons on the trains home.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 03 Jul 2011, 15:53
Congrats on the scholarship May!

I'm in southern MD right now for the Solomon's Island fireworks show tomorrow. This has been The Longest Day, we got up and drove for 4 hours, and then did 7 hours of setup on a barge on the river. Friday and Saturday we were up in Harper's Ferry, WV to do their show last night. (Sean, you're from up there, right? Did you see it?) I just wanna say though, fuck Shepherdstown and fuck their no-thru-truck roads and fuck their trucks-no-turns intersections and fuck their no-legal-way-to-get-a-truck-from-one-side-of-town-to-the-other. Now I just need to make it 2 more days without getting a sunburn (like last year) and either me or Robert getting heat exhaustion (again this weekend) and we will be all good.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 03 Jul 2011, 18:49
nah, im from rockville, MD. i go to school up in shepherdstown tho, ill actually be up there again on tuesday.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 03 Jul 2011, 20:28
IMPORTANT NEWS

my cat is super catnip-high at my boyfriend's place and meeting his cat and my cat is so cute and i have a little automatic laser pointer circle thing projecting to the wall and my cat is chirping and trilling and doing jumpy things. also the cat in question is huge.

this is made all the more exciting by being really high.

i'm also really sunburned and hungry.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Jul 2011, 09:42
I went to a festival! I saw bands and they camped near me. Things were fun. It ended two days ago. I still have glitter pouring out of every orifice. I went skinnydipping with friends, and we ran back to the campsite giggling. I wasn't naked, I was wearing a hula hoop. I'm sunburned, except where I got the glitter tattoos.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Katherine on 05 Jul 2011, 18:38
That sounds like a fantastic weekend!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 06 Jul 2011, 13:10
Our Alaskan malamute is only a day or two away from giving birth puppppiiiies yaaaaay
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 06 Jul 2011, 13:52
FFS, more cute animals I gotta google so I know what the hell people are talking about.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 06 Jul 2011, 13:53
OK, that was worth it. You have an aces dog.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Jul 2011, 14:24
Our Alaskan malamute is only a day or two away from giving birth puppppiiiies yaaaaay

!!!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Jul 2011, 18:17
My fourth of July consisted of beer, music, and makeouts. Can't imagine a better day. After jamming with a bunch of random people at a friend's party, the host's band's singer approached me about filling in for their bassist at a gig in San Diego. Next thing you know, I'm booked. Fuck yeah! Networking rules. It's a dad-rock band, but hey, it could be something difficult to slay. Hella stoked!

Yesterday I went and barbecued some stuff with my bestie and his lady, and then I went and spent the night at a friend's house. Tonight is open mic night, where I will continue my networking and see about getting in with some reliable music-folks. If I can do that and get myself enough work to pay some shit off, I might even be able to just start living off of it. Who knows? Summer's half over, so it's not a safe bet, but still.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Radical AC on 07 Jul 2011, 16:27
That sounds like my kind of time Patrick!  Life is better when you have an extensive group of friends who all happen to be musicians.

So today I got a D on a compsci test (Will be a C after the curve, but that doesn't make me feel better), and broke up with my girlfriend of 9 months.  I feel really low right now.  I'm going to drink until I can't remember math.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jul 2011, 16:38
I changed my name today! \o/
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 07 Jul 2011, 19:11
Congrats, Zingo! I really get the impression that for a while now, even though things aren't perfect yet, you've been more in 1 step back, 2 steps forward mode rather than the other way around.  And this is a big indication of how it's because you're taking control of your life instead of letting it control you. :-)

Radical, sorry to hear that. As long as you only lose Fourier transforms, I think you'll be ok, nobody needs that shit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 08 Jul 2011, 04:19
yay Zingo!



I've finally gotten all my grades for last semester - it's a healthy looking ABC combo, and I didn't really care that much about the stuff I got C in. If I can keep this up, and fix that horrendous maths D from first semester (I'm supposed to be good at maths!), it's looking up from the initial ACD outset.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 08 Jul 2011, 04:54
Here, in these forums, is the only place I've ever seen someone add an S to the end of the word math. Do a lot of people do that?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: CardinalFang on 08 Jul 2011, 04:57
It's a UK thing.
It's because 'maths' is short for 'mathematics'.
So it makes sense.
Still looks funny though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 08 Jul 2011, 05:12
whereas, in the USA, math is short for Mathifiyicatin'
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Inlander on 08 Jul 2011, 07:29
It's also an Australian thing.

Actually, it's an everywhere-where-English-is-the-first-language-except-North-America thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 08 Jul 2011, 07:33
It looks AND sounds funny to me. I think I sound like I have a lisp if I say it that way.

Is math'n one-a them there things they learned me in school?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: StaedlerMars on 08 Jul 2011, 07:45
It's a UK thing.
It's because 'maths' is short for 'mathematics'.
So it makes sense.
Still looks funny though.

I never got this logic. It's a short a shortification, so why add an s?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 08 Jul 2011, 08:02
Maths is short for Mathematics - no problem there, surely?

In the past, Oxford University's Internet addresses had two forms: "long" and "short".  My department's were "clinical-pharmacology.oxford.ac.uk" and "clinpharm.ox.ac.uk".

The Department of Mathematics had "math.oxford.ac.uk" and "maths.ox.ac.uk" - in other words, the "long" form was shorter (in that part of the name).  The rationale was that it made it easier for Americans to find them...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 08 Jul 2011, 08:08
I changed my name today! \o/

Hells yeah, you tall-ass sonofabitch! o/
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jul 2011, 08:38
I changed my name today! \o/

Hells yeah, you tall-ass daughterofabitch! o/

What's the female form of Zingo? Zinga? Zingette?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 08 Jul 2011, 09:10
Can I still call you Ed as a Cowboy Bebop reference?

Dear blog,

Last night, I went to open mic at the place where I used to run it. My bestie Lukas was there too. He and his lady and another friend all got to meet the girl I've been kinda seeing for the last week or so, and everybody seemed to be friendly enough! Then Lukas and I borrowed guitars and rocked out on hella Beatles jams for the first time at that open mic since March. We haven't played together in that place since March, and we were as solid as we've ever been on our playing and on our harmonies, so it felt pretty fuckin' awesome. And people really enjoyed it! Another excellent night involving music. (RadAC you should basically just come to the Bay Area and we can hang out and jam if that will help with yr breakup! Those really suck, I'm sorry!)

Today, I turn in job apps I picked up yesterday. Tonight, my lady-thing's friends are apparently throwing a party, where I will get to meet them all. Stoked!

Love,
Me!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Jul 2011, 09:17
Can I still call you Ed as a Cowboy Bebop reference?

The librarian does this, actually.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 08 Jul 2011, 10:39
today i watched two very attractive firemen help a duck and her ducklings cross the road.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 08 Jul 2011, 14:56
Okay Zing, I'll bite, what's your new name?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 08 Jul 2011, 20:03
man I am totally bummed out right now I am so tired but that is not why I am bummed. I am living with my mom (we are like roommates now, it is good) and anyways so I got home from work today at 4:30 so I was like 'hey mom I am going to put this frozen steak on the counter so it thaws can you put it in the fridge when you leave for the evening in an hour' and then she was like 'yeah sure' and I was like great and then I went to second work where I worked from five till now.
but the steak is still on the counter. It's internal temperature is presently 25ºC. It is a warm day here. It has been on the counter for seven hours. I do not think it is safe but goddamn I want to eat it I have been looking forwards to it since about 10AM when I was still working the first job and thinking 'man I am going to be working a long time and biking a lot today, I totally deserve one of those steaks that I bought and froze for just such an occasion'.
goddamn man I want to eat my food, I turned on the barbecue before I even walked into the house. I can reasonably have the other steak thawed in fifteen minutes by running under warm water but god-damn, that is such a long time I have been awake for 17 hours and working or cycling for 16 and a half hours goddamn man
the grill is going to be like almost perfect-hot right now and I have nothing to put on it.
man.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 08 Jul 2011, 20:05
I, oddly enough, have two days off in a row now which never happens and basically food poisoning at this point would be the worst thing
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 08 Jul 2011, 20:12
now I am not sure if I am sleep delerious. I keep getting this feeling like there is a hair or cobweb or something on me but I am not sure and I can never find it to pick it off and I think I maybe saw it but can not verify that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 08 Jul 2011, 20:12
I only slept for like five and a half hours last night guys someone help me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 08 Jul 2011, 21:20
alright that situation has been dealt with. Now I am finishing the last of that wine while munching on my bloomed chocolate (I mean it is no good for tempering anymore but it is good for baking but really it is right there and delicious I am eating it).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lunchbox on 09 Jul 2011, 02:00
Okay Zing, I'll bite, what's your new name?

Pretty sure it is Leslie?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 09 Jul 2011, 03:21
Rene (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,23788.msg1030088.html#msg1030088), if that was the final choice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 11 Jul 2011, 11:22
It is actually both. Leslie first though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 11 Jul 2011, 12:04
Thanks for the correction - I've found it here (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24421.msg1040370.html#msg1040370). Sadly the forum search function, which I relied on, omits a certain proportion of the posts it should return.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jul 2011, 17:18
I wasn't aware people were paying attention!

This morning, my roommate hooked his phone up to my sound system and woke me up by playing I am the Walrus by Jim Carrey. I did not know Jim Carrey did a version of I am the Walrus, and I wish I still did not know that Jim Carrey did a version of I am the Walrus.

We spent last night taking my breast forms (fake tits you put in yr bra to give yrself bigger tits (or just plain tits if you didn't have any to start with)) and shotputting them around the apartment. They suction cup to the walls.

Two days ago I was bitten in the face by a St. Bernard! It was scary and it hurt, but I was already pulling away when it got me so it only broke the skin in one place. This woman came over and was like "OH MY GOD YOU SHOULD COME OVER TO MY HOUSE AND I WILL CLEAN THAT UP" and after being around her for about thirty seconds, it was readily apparent she was on cocaine. This was given away by the first question she asked me once in her house, which was if I liked cocaine. Then she introduced me to her son, big black guy, who gave me the creepiest smile. She mixed me a drink (there was vodka in it and other things) which I politely sipped and poured out when she didn't see me, and offered me a bed to sleep on. All four corners of the bed had ropes attached. I looked around and figured, this smells like rape! So I tried to leave, at which point she had a  massive crying breakdown on me about her ex-husband, and then gave me two books that I absolutely have to read. I took them and left. They were "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants" and "Best American Erotica of 1995".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 11 Jul 2011, 17:38
Today I packed up my room fully. Now it is really empty. I'm here for another ten days, but my stuff is all packed away in the closet, waiting to go to Staedler Mars. I have a bag all set for California, although i'm going to miss you all by a few days.

I took down my posters and the orange globe over my light, so now it's all just white. I feel like I'm in a mountain goats song.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 11 Jul 2011, 20:38
Two days ago I was bitten in the face by a St. Bernard! It was scary and it hurt, but I was already pulling away when it got me so it only broke the skin in one place. This woman came over and was like "OH MY GOD YOU SHOULD COME OVER TO MY HOUSE AND I WILL CLEAN THAT UP" and after being around her for about thirty seconds, it was readily apparent she was on cocaine. This was given away by the first question she asked me once in her house, which was if I liked cocaine. Then she introduced me to her son, big black guy, who gave me the creepiest smile. She mixed me a drink (there was vodka in it and other things) which I politely sipped and poured out when she didn't see me, and offered me a bed to sleep on. All four corners of the bed had ropes attached. I looked around and figured, this smells like rape! So I tried to leave, at which point she had a  massive crying breakdown on me about her ex-husband, and then gave me two books that I absolutely have to read. I took them and left. They were "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants" and "Best American Erotica of 1995".

This is both awesome and terrifying.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 11 Jul 2011, 20:56
although i'm going to miss you all by a few days.

Great Sadness.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 11 Jul 2011, 21:52
Not all of us!

Suckers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 11 Jul 2011, 23:34
Wait, so have you read the books Zingoleb?

Today I tried to wake up early to work and I mostly failed. Now I am on the QC forum and I've worked a third of the amount I should have this week (if I work all day, that is). Turns out I'm horrible at managing my time.

woo Patrick woo.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 12 Jul 2011, 08:03
I am putting Plasti Dip on my sheild so it looks super pretty. THIS IS A FUN EXPERIMENT I HOPE I DON'T FUCK UP
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Jul 2011, 12:59
Wait, so have you read the books Zingoleb?


The erotica was hilariously bad (except for one story that I'd hesitate to class as erotica? but it has some d/s themes in it so I guess it's erotica). The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants seems like it would be really amazing if you're a 14 year old girl.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 12 Jul 2011, 13:15
It's.. kind of a cute movie. I even watched it of my own volition.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 12 Jul 2011, 13:36
We spent last night taking my breast forms (fake tits you put in yr bra to give yrself bigger tits (or just plain tits if you didn't have any to start with)) and shotputting them around the apartment. They suction cup to the walls.

And just in the periphery of my brain I'm wondering if other women would get jealous of this? Not that tits aren't already great, truly the are, but being able to take them out and chuck them around has to be a new bonus.

Have you considered starting up the new trans exclusive sport of vertical titty petanque?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Radical AC on 13 Jul 2011, 20:45
RadAC you should basically just come to the Bay Area and we can hang out and jam if that will help with yr breakup! Those really suck, I'm sorry!

I will so take you up on that offer the next time I'm in the area.  I have family there I should visit anyhow.  Very few things are as cathartic as jamming when you are feeling ... well whatever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LeeC on 15 Jul 2011, 06:06
I hate it when my girl drinks sometimes she forgets stuff.  Like asking me to buy the harry potter tickets last night.  I confirmed it 3 times with her but this morning she thought I did it without her permission (her credit card despite the fact I asked her and she said sure) so now she's pissed and claims that I am lying.  I would not have done this without her permission! I am no thief! :x
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 15 Jul 2011, 07:40
That sounds exactly like what a thief would say.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LeeC on 15 Jul 2011, 08:41
shes starting to revert back to being an alcoholic lately and taking out her internal frustrations on me and I'm getting sick of it.  She pulls stuff like this all the time when she drinks too much! :|
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Jul 2011, 11:34
When she brings the bottle to her lips, shoot it out from under her. If you do it right, you can get her shirt wet, too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 15 Jul 2011, 14:12
I know you didn't ask for my advice but personally I don't think I'd stick around if that kind of shit keeps up, it's putting a burden on your shoulders that is not your responsibility to bear.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 20 Jul 2011, 06:42
Ok so applications for Masters degrees opens at the beginning of August and I have until the end of October to get everything in. I need to get referees though oh shit how do I do this, I can ask two of my tutors from last semester but they've only known me for like 6 months. Because of that break I had (two years) between my undergrad and postgrad, I'm pretty sure all of my undergrad tutors will have forgotten me as well... damniiiiit.
What do you guys (specifically tania) think of this? Would it be weird to ask my old Abnormal Behaviour tutor from 2007 about giving me a reference? I don't think she'll remember me though...

I am also looking into my options of which unis I could apply for. I can (and will) apply for the Masters of Clinical Psychology at my current uni (University of Western Sydney), which is super competitive and despite not being one of the "better" (read: better funded, more respected, etc...) unis in the state overall, it is one of the best unis for psychology in the state.
I can apply for the Masters of Clinical Psychology or Forensic Psychology at University of New South Wales, which is well regarded (being one of the oldest universities in the country) and apparently has a good psych faculty but I've never been there. The course structure seems much the same as the one at UWS though. Both of these courses, as well as the one at UWS are two year courses so I'd finish up in 2013.
I can also apply for the Doctor of Clinical Psychology at Sydney University. This is a three year course and I basically end up a doctor at the end of it. It'll be super competitive as USyd is the hardest uni in the state to get into. This isn't because it's a particularly good school, but it's the oldest uni in the state if not the country, it's the richest uni in the state and it looks the best on a CV. I guess the only downside to this is that they want both an academic reference and a professional reference. Professional references have to be industry relevant and I've never had a relevant job because I won't have any relevant qualifications until the end of the year. Fuuuuuuuuuuck.
Oh and also everything I hear about USyd psychology is that it's really shitty and no one comes out of the course feeling terribly prepared. According to a university ratings website it's been rated the worst of all universities offering psychology in the country. UWS and UNSW are both rated "better than average".

I hope my references are ok with filling out a bunch of reference forms.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jul 2011, 11:27
The hell, Sam?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jul 2011, 11:27
it makes me sad how accurate but how terrible that picture of me is.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 20 Jul 2011, 12:17
The hell, Sam?

Big Black's "Songs About Fucking".

See also: the "Songs About Fucking Up" split with the Copyrights and the Dopamines.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jul 2011, 12:18
Oh, Shane, I can always rely on you to talk about bands I've never heard of. Well, I've heard of Songs About Fucking, probably twice or so, but...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 20 Jul 2011, 12:20
Yeah, pop-punk bands are good at ripping off album covers/whatever.

Songs About Fucking Up does have one of my favorite Dopamines songs, though: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZhzfL0BfpB0


edit: I tried looking to see if anyone took a video when they played Pittsfield last summer, then remember that besides me and my now-ex, the only people at that show were the venue owner and guys from the other bands.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Slick on 20 Jul 2011, 20:10
Would it be weird to ask my old Abnormal Behaviour tutor from 2007 about giving me a reference? I don't think she'll remember me though...

A prof I hadn't seen in a year or two remembered me just fine when I needed a reference, it's worth a shot. Also try to avoid flooding them with reference paperwork right-away, so you don't scare them off.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 20 Jul 2011, 20:57
I was actually just going to email some people today (two tutors from this year and one from 2007) and ask if they'd be ok with giving me a reference, then depending on what their answer is I'll find out what they want to do. I really hope that one of those tutors is taking one of my classes for this semester because she is awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 22 Jul 2011, 08:06
Guys. GUYS! I got the new Nook Simple Touch for my birthday. It's SO PRETTY.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Jul 2011, 13:42
They're pretty great. Pity about their choice in naming.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Elizzybeth on 23 Jul 2011, 23:01
My mom, who has been living in northern CA with my grandfather since she filed for divorce from my dad about two months ago, told my aunt and me on Thursday that she was leaving to commit suicide in the morning and none of us could do anything to stop her.  My grandfather got on the phone briefly to tell me that he wasn't going to stop her and that I will just have to deal with it.  I sobbed, begged her not to, and called 911, but when the paramedics arrived she lied to them, my grandfather corroborated her lies, and they couldn't take her back to the mental hospital.  My father convinced me not to drive up there (about a 7 hour drive) Thursday night because he thought it could be dangerous for me.  She left at 8 a.m. Friday morning and no one has heard from her since.  She did not tell my grandfather (or anyone) where she was going.  She has no cell phone.  I do not know if she is alive or dead.  I have no way of getting in contact with her.  I am pretty upset.  I don't know if I should file a missing persons report.  I don't know what to do at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 24 Jul 2011, 08:39
Oh my god, that sounds like the most horrible thing, I'm so sorry! I can't imagine what you're going through right now, I really hope everything's okay.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 24 Jul 2011, 18:45
Oh man, I am so sorry you're going through this. File the report. Let them know about the lies she and your grandfather told the police, just so they know the whole situation and what they can expect to hear if they find her. Even if they choose not to believe you, at least you know you tried. Here's hoping it's all just a display of drama. {hugs}
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 26 Jul 2011, 12:51
It sounds a lot like a cry for attention but as always you follow the rules, you file a report and cover all the bases. It may seem futile, or even worse, enabling, but the alternative is almost always worse, mostly for you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 29 Jul 2011, 12:25
I don't know how our producer pulled it off, but for her low-budget local short film, she managed to get one of the cinematographers from BBC's Planet Earth to come shoot our underwater scene in somebody's backyard pool. He did the deep sea cave diving photography on the series. All he passed on to her for expenses was extra equipment rental he had to make to supplement his own stuff. Very cool stuff watching him work even on a small project like this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 30 Jul 2011, 05:44
My brother is such a dickhead. I was catching up with some of my cousins at an Aunt's 50th. In a discussion about Dr. Who, I mentioned that Rory gets to punch Hitler (not a spoiler becuase it's just awesome) and my brother comes a long and says something huge and spoilery that he found on the internet. It then turns out that he spoiled the end of the first half of the current series with a single FB post. He knew that he was getting these episodes 2 weeks ahead of the ABC and of the general etiquette of spoilers yet he did it anyway. What a dickhead.

In other news I told a swishy little 8yo boy to eat some cement because he was freaking out over everyone talking when there was a Harry Potter movie on the tele. Only child much!

This just in, I am super juvenile petty.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 Jul 2011, 09:20
This is how I spent Thursday night

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UbLBkP13YS8

hint I'm the skinny one singing lead
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 30 Jul 2011, 19:15
I'm finally traveling again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 30 Jul 2011, 21:19
We spent last night taking my breast forms (fake tits you put in yr bra to give yrself bigger tits (or just plain tits if you didn't have any to start with)) and shotputting them around the apartment. They suction cup to the walls.

And just in the periphery of my brain I'm wondering if other women would get jealous of this? Not that tits aren't already great, truly the are, but being able to take them out and chuck them around has to be a new bonus.

I must say, the mental image of doing shotput with breasts made me laugh. Not jealous, necessarily, but I would probably do it if I ever had the chance.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 31 Jul 2011, 19:41
Woo, Mum got to the mail before I did today and she found my penalty notice from state transit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Aug 2011, 00:54
It's thunderstorming outside right now in the most amazing way; I was standing in it till the rain started really falling, and then came in. I've never seen a storm so constant; there's a lightning flash at least once a second, and the thunder hasn't stopped for maybe twenty minutes: it just grumbles and gets louder and quieter, but never goes away.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Aug 2011, 00:57
And THAT was a crack of thunder that just shook the windows.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Aug 2011, 01:50
I woke up this morning in a massive panic because I realised that in two weeks I'm going on holiday and I need a tent and I don't have a tent. This really isn't something to panic about (I'm just going to buy a tent) but I still did. I hate panicky mornings.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 03 Aug 2011, 00:40
I got an out-of-the-blue query about videotaping a local band's set some time soon. I quoted a fee of $100, which is probably low, but it's what I feel comfortable charging for now while I solidify what I can do and measure the quality of the work against expectations. I think expectations is the part that makes me most nervous. I'm confident in the quality of work, but I'm getting it with consumer grade equipment and no big "production" as far as setup involved. I've simply refined what I do based on the ability to walk into a venue, stand there with my camcorder and point it and the microphone at the stage to get what I need. There are disadvantages and advantages to that approach, so I guess I just need to make sure it's all clear to the client beforehand.

And that in itself is just feels weird to say.  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 03 Aug 2011, 07:51
Today's xkcd (http://xkcd.org/933/) reminds me that I also have tattooed dots on my tummy and back from over twenty years ago.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 03 Aug 2011, 09:31
Exactly what was the BBC planning on installing in you, Paul?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 03 Aug 2011, 11:25
 :-D

Whatever it was, it gave me cancer.  Operation, then radiotherapy, hence the dots of course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 03 Aug 2011, 13:22
Lasers!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 03 Aug 2011, 13:33
Heh!  Actually, if I was inclined to look for a reason other than chance (which I'm not), I would point to the fact that I spent ten years working around radio-isotopes in hospitals (I wrote programs for gamma camera imaging).

In other news, now that I have passed my 65th birthday, I am no longer simply planning  not to retire, I am in a state of being not retired.

In yet other news, today I fixed a major server problem that has prevented me setting up a cluster for the last two months - now I can move forward again with upgrading the whole server installation at work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 05 Aug 2011, 12:35
The people at the bar where I used to run open mic are dicks. The people who run the open mic there now are also dicks. They combined forces and managed to push my bestie Lukas and I 3 hours down the list so that we wouldn't be able to play until almost the very end; Lukas wound up leaving in disgust and anger, so I stayed and played solo instead. Fuck 'em though. I broke the 'swearing' rule with at least 3 F-bombs, I went over my song limit, and I stole a bottle of wine. The wine was made by the owner at his winery and he valued the bottle at $75. I guarantee his wine isn't good enough for that price tag, but I also guarantee that when Lukas and I drink it, it will have the sweetness of a year's worth of payback for the lies.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2011, 06:53
Hey people who live in America, I am coming back! July 11th - 24th 2012 the college choir I just joined is doing a tour of Eastern USA, including Boston, New York City, Philadelphia, and Washington DC). Even if Christian choral music isn't your thing it would be great to meet up with people and I'm pretty sure we'll have free time to wander and explore. I'll know more nearer the time but I'm so excited, I've always wanted to go to New York!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Aug 2011, 07:37
Oh, I'm going to personify the DMV and then either punch them in the dick and/or kick them in the cunt, depending on how they're personified. They keep fucking around with my new ID, and after going through more paperwork, they say I'm not going to get it until the 23rd of August. My flight leaves on the 24th.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 08 Aug 2011, 09:28
Boston

May, remind me closer to next summer, I'll get a few days off and come down for some hangouts!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Liz on 08 Aug 2011, 09:39
Well, we were talking on facebook about doing the next meetup in D.C....
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 08 Aug 2011, 09:45
An ex was telling me about a bar she went to in DC that has skeeball machines.

Fricking skeeball!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 08 Aug 2011, 19:21
Would go to that bar.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 08 Aug 2011, 22:30
I'm not sure if drunken skeeball is the best thing ever, or the worst thing ever.


I fear for everyone else there
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 09 Aug 2011, 06:03
I could definitely come to D.C. for a meetup. That would be pretty awesome. I also love skeeball.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 Aug 2011, 11:47
I mean I could likely do DC, but I also promised Patrick that if his band hits New England next summer I'd hang for a week and help out with shit.

So there's that, too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 Aug 2011, 12:39
Shane if I learn drums wanna start a band? You're closer than These Estates
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 Aug 2011, 13:18
Jace do you like Weezer at all? My friend Tim and I have been playing some old Weezer covers (and Interpol and shit) sans-drums lately.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 09 Aug 2011, 15:52
May! I'm gonna try to get an internship in NYC next summer! Let's hang out in New York! Don't care about DC, sorry folks but all the cool internships are in the big apple.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 Aug 2011, 15:58
Too big and ugly of a city for me. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Metope on 09 Aug 2011, 16:05
I love it! Also, it has all the cool museums I'm gonna apply for internship with, even though I seriously doubt I'll even get close to ever getting through. But then again, I said the same thing when applying to the Glasgow School of Art and look where I am now!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 09 Aug 2011, 16:39
I just got back from a week camping in Alberta. The Rocky Mountains say hello.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Aug 2011, 18:06
Blehhh.

All my Vermontian plans have fallen through; my girlfriend's parents have decided to break us up, by first keeping her from getting an apartment, where I was going to stay, promising me a place to stay instead, and then revoking that at the last minute. There's been that, and a bunch of other bullshit, so...after selling off my instruments/vinyl records/books and everything, I was left without a place to go. So, my friend suggested I move with him out to Washington state, and my girlfriend bought me a ticket. I'm leaving Ithaca, NY on the 24th, in two weeks and a day, and landing in Seattle that same day. I have a friend who's picking me up and  taking me to Olympia, and I have a few places to stay, and about $500 in savings. I've no real plans beyond that except "survive", because every time I make plans they always get boiled down to nothing but "oh fuck how do I survive now" anyways, so I may as well just start from there.

So. West Coast. Yeah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 Aug 2011, 19:16
Jace do you like Weezer at all? My friend Tim and I have been playing some old Weezer covers (and Interpol and shit) sans-drums lately.

I'm pretty sure that I'm actually one of the guys from Weezer already.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 10 Aug 2011, 03:22
Today was the worst, I had to get vaginal smears from a lab-rat with a couple of q-tips. Oh and I grew a beard for a month but I shaved it off today because I just got to the point where I was too self conscious about it and for no other raisin other than I started to feel super gross and all the ginger was creeping me out (my hair is dark brown). Also my skin is really soft and mostly unblemished milky white so fuck my fat face.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 Aug 2011, 05:48
No wait Zingo, did you get rid of the Dirnt bass?  :cry:

Jace, you may or may not actually be Mikey Welch. It's a possibility.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Aug 2011, 11:45
No, I still have it. I'm probably going to have it shipped to me when I can afford to do so. But I got rid of my other guitars, my keyboard, my violin, and my dulcimer.

Also I ended up staying up all night watching Buffy re-runs and texted my friend at 5 am "can we have our own Willow please?" to which she replied "you are our willow hon".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 13 Aug 2011, 13:20
I was just woken up the sound of tiny bones cracking coming from under my bed. There is Fallout level gore.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 13 Aug 2011, 14:46
I mean I could likely do DC, but I also promised Patrick that if his band hits New England next summer I'd hang for a week and help out with shit.

So there's that, too.

I mean this is very much up in the air though considering the fact that we have no idea what we're doing
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: McTaggart on 14 Aug 2011, 00:01
My sister bought a new Toshiba laptop. Once it finally finished installing all the crappy bloatware that you don't get a chance to opt out of we tried to use internet explorer to get Firefox. Internet explorer would not leave the msn homepage -- it kept tripping over a tracking pixel on the msn site and freaking out and not doing anything. On her brand new laptop the internet straight up did not work! What the hell, Toshiba?

Anyway I downloaded Firefox on my computer and we installed it from there and all was well, but it's lucky we had another computer and some degree of wizardry else it'd be completely useless.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 14 Aug 2011, 09:22
I half heartedly suggested to my girlfriend that we try cosplay at one of the conventions we go to this year or the next, mostly to gauge her reaction, and she said she would try. I've always wanted to try and do something like it, as most of my pictures from the conventions are the various people that are brave enough to do it, so I'm kind of happy that she is thinking about it.

I suggested to her Roxanne Richter from Scott Pilgrim while I'll try Professor Pyg from Batman
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 15 Aug 2011, 08:49
Jesus christ, $90 a pop for Bruins preseason tickets.

I wanted to see Drag The River next month, but that's out of the question now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Aug 2011, 00:52
So, I'm living in a house without running water. My father's place. Instead, he runs a hose from his neighbour's house to his (with their permission). I desire a bath, yes? So, what I have to do is fill a pot with water, put it on the hot plate, and then pour the water into the bathtub. Well, I rigged up a makeshift system to keep the water running into the pot without my having to hold the hose down. Lessons learned tonight:
 
A) I am not an engineer.

2) A garden hose, at full blast, whipping around the kitchen, can do an incredible amount of damage to everyone and everything in the way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 16 Aug 2011, 01:48
Please write a book, because your life of hoses and trucker hats and green dresses and tractors sounds pretty interesting.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 17 Aug 2011, 12:43
I wholeheartedly support the idea of you writing a book, Leslie! I'd read it, for sure, and I would happily help promote it in any way I can. You've got a neat way of conveying

Dear blag,

There has been so much going on lately that I've just been too busy to write about! I'm gonna try and catch you all up.

Last Thursday, Squawk-Anna and I met up in Berkeley and had a little acoustic jam up on the UC campus! It was a whole lot of fun, we gelled well while playing together, and as soon as the opportunity presents itself again, I am definitely going to jump on it. Also, Anna's rad as hell. Just saying.

Over the last two weeks, my friend Lindsay and I have been meeting with the manager of a coffee shop here in town and hammered out plans and details in preparation for an open mic that we wanted to try starting up there. A lot of stuff was super easy to work out, and last-minute stuff was kept to a bare minimum. We even got good parking before setup! The open mic began ten minutes behind schedule last night, but we got an unexpected HUGE turnout. It was a standing-room-only audience on opening night, and we had a good turnout of musicians, poets, and comics too! Many of the people who signed up were totally impromptu, but we saw a lot of really awesome talent, and aside from the late start and a single 20-minute dry spell of performers, everything went really smoothly! It was an unprecedented success, and I was absolutely tickled with it!

Over the course of planning and preparation for it all, it was brought to Lindsay's and my attention that our work running our first open mic (at the place that screwed us) had gotten a lot of attention from people all around the Bay Area (as far away as places like Santa Rosa), but by time many of them went, we had already quit. And with the guy who started running it after us, people complained that they were getting fucked over, and many said they wouldn't return. The last part was a huge disappointment (dammit, all our hard work shot to hell by those assholes), but learning about just how far our reputation had spread made us both really proud!

Tonight, I am going to be doing another 'first' by running the open mic at my favorite bar, this time by myself. It's a fantastic little divey-type place, and I've been coming to their Wednesday night jams pretty religiously since the very day they started (around April or so). Since I'm fairly proficient in a bunch of styles on a bunch of instruments, I've made a reputation for myself at that place as being a standby player for any situation, which makes it easier to get a jam going quickly. Combined with the fact that I'm much nicer to everybody than the guy who started this jam night (same guy who took over Lindsay's and my old open mic), I was approached by the owners about taking it over. I'll be making a solid 20% of whatever the bar makes. I have got this shit on LOCK right now, I think, and I'm going to put a lot of energy into making this open mic worthy of repute.

It feels like karma for the bullshit I took at my first open mic has come back to me with interest, and right this minute, I feel as happy as I've ever felt since leaving Albania two years ago. Hoooooly fuck I feel great!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: glyphic on 17 Aug 2011, 13:19
Ok. Haven't posted here in forever. Haven't really told anyone about this, either.

I got a job with a company in Palo Alto, CA. I'm moving in just over two weeks. I'm so incredibly excited and nervous at the same time. Goodbye St. Louis! I won't miss finding blood trails leading to/from my backyard! Hello, Silicon Valley, where I will be sourcing/recruiting the best programmers in the world.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 17 Aug 2011, 14:09
DUDE WE SHOULD HANG OUT except I have literally no way of getting to Palo Alto since they don't have BART
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 17 Aug 2011, 16:37
We finally got a new washing machine!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Elizzybeth on 17 Aug 2011, 23:12
At first I was like, "Wait, how will that help Patrick get to Palo Alto?" Then I realized it was an unrelated statement. 

Washing machines are good!  If you've been living without one for a while, you probably understand what Hans Rosling means when he partially credits them with the advancement of women in the western world (http://www.ted.com/talks/hans_rosling_and_the_magic_washing_machine.html).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Aug 2011, 23:39
Yeah, I've been doing my laundry in the kitchen sink for a year or so. I just upgraded to a bathtub!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: glyphic on 18 Aug 2011, 06:36
Patrick,

Hangouts would be rad, but I'm going to be a penny-pinched, overworked son of a gun for a few months. Maybe we can form a family band and set fire to San Fran in the future!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 18 Aug 2011, 15:57
I just finished the last migration of eight servers at work from physical boxes, old Virtual Server virtual machines and VMware virtual machines, all into shiny new Hyper-V virtual machines.  The Microsoft utilities for each of those conversions worked remarkably smoothly - impressively, in fact.

The new virtual servers are running on a cluster with a big RAID-6 box of disks.  Moving a running virtual machine from one physical host to another without it pausing is really cool.  VMware can do that too, but using VMware instead of Hyper-V would have doubled the total cost of the system (the VMware management software was quoted to me under a special university deal at slightly more than the hardware cost).

As these conversions required the machines to be unavailable and so had to be done out of hours, I've had over a week of working evenings - remotely, from home - until midnight (as well as normal day); so I'll be taking it easier for a while.  There are a couple more new (virtual) machines to build, but they can be done normally, during the day.  Moving the whole department off the present Exchange 2003 server onto a new Exchange 2010 server will be the biggest job, but probably not as tricky as what I've just been doing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 18 Aug 2011, 18:08
Dear internets. What the fuck do you do when you lose everyone who means anything to you? I'm talking "Isn't worth being a friend" and "Is in another country for a year." What the fuck do you do?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 18 Aug 2011, 18:59
personally, i play more video games

i don't necessarily recommend it
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 18 Aug 2011, 19:27
Patrick,

Hangouts would be rad, but I'm going to be a penny-pinched, overworked son of a gun for a few months. Maybe we can form a family band and set fire to San Fran in the future!

As long as you don't mean the latter part literally, you've got a deal.

Dear blag,

I surpassed expectations for my first night running the open mic at my favorite bar, and made more money than I thought I would for such an event. On my first night, I literally doubled the hourly wage that I earned working for Target. If that keeps up, I will be making the same money for half the total work hours. And I work one night a week at this place *and* I have another night at another place that earns me income. I'll take it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Aug 2011, 12:23
The septic tank banked up while I was asleep, flooding the house with raw sewage. This is now officially the shittiest place I've ever lived - thank god I'm leaving in less than five days.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 19 Aug 2011, 12:35
I am hopefully going to play cricket with some friends this weekend!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Aug 2011, 20:19
And it's something impressive enough to put on your CV too. You can only grow in experience from that kind of work.

Oh yeah. I'm definitely already manipulating the text of my resume to include this.

I'm actually looking into finally moving to Berkeley f0 r33lz now. I spoke with my bandmate earlier, and he's going to talk to his roomie on the subject of subletting to me. We already know that their landlord isn't going to have any objections. It'll complicate the arrangement with getting to the places I'll need to get to for the open mics, but it'll be worth the commute if I can keep attendance (and therefore drink-buying) up at the Wednesday night one.

I feel like the Wednesday night thing has me relying on myself to get what I want, though, and that's something that money can't buy. Especially after the last year where I basically haven't been able to provide much at all for myself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 20 Aug 2011, 01:05
I'm doing my Pharmacology assignment, it's worth 5% and I've already done 3/4 of it. It's really alright, no problems but I have the suffocating suspicion I'm doing it very wrong but I've been following the marking criteria to a T. I gotta quit being so neurotic.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: HiFranc on 20 Aug 2011, 01:29
I'm doing my Pharmacology assignment, it's worth 5% and I've already done 3/4 of it. It's really alright, no problems but I have the suffocating suspicion I'm doing it very wrong but I've been following the marking criteria to a T. I gotta quit being so neurotic.

You can only do your best and see what happens.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 20 Aug 2011, 04:22
Patrick, that is really cool to hear you're finding your niche and that everybody is seeing and appreciating the effort you're putting into it. I've been finding that when you treat musicians with respect and look out for their interests, they'll show a lot of loyalty (well, except the douches that always exist in any field, but better off without them anyway). Of course, you understand this from that perspective, so you already know what's going to work. BTW, if you ever want to try playing up here in Sacramento, I at least know who you should talk to about it.

I just got back from filming another show, and it was face-meltingly incredible. Headliner was Sister Crayon (http://www.sistercrayon.com/), an act that I had heard about for years, but hadn't seen before.

I want to say something "out loud" that it's not at all in my nature to say. I am the best at this. I don't mean the best in town, I mean the BEST. I have yet to see a video online that captures live music as well as I'm doing right now. I will add a caveat that I'm talking about "single-camera" style shooting, although there are plenty of multi-camera "professional" videos I've seen that somehow botched translating the live experience. I feel right now that I can walk into any venue, and as long as the sound guy doesn't completely blow it (not a given as I'm sure Patrick and other performing musicians can attest), I'll come out of there with the best live videos that act has ever had.

So there, I've thrown down. I don't mind being proven wrong about this, because it means there's somebody out there I can learn from, but so far I haven't seen it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 20 Aug 2011, 04:58
I don't mind being proven wrong about this, because it means there's somebody out there I can learn from

This attitude is a great one to have. Also, PMed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 22 Aug 2011, 08:18
I am hopefully going to play cricket with some friends this weekend!

Aw screw you, rain. Screw you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: JD on 23 Aug 2011, 00:45
So I might become a founding member of a small business in the next year or so? That's about the coolest thing that's happening to me right now. Other than that I got the summer blaaaahhhhhs
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Aug 2011, 11:41
I'm leaving on a flight in less than twenty four hours to go from New York to Washington and oh my god I am freaking out
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Cire27 on 23 Aug 2011, 11:45
So, uh, going to college but not really sure why (don't have a major or anything!).  I guess it's the thing expected of me.  I don't really know what my other options are either.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 23 Aug 2011, 16:58
We had a friggin' earthquake today. In Virginia. It was weird and kinda scary and everybody asked us what to do, us being building management and all, and we had no idea. And my coworker is kind of a twit and was afraid to go back inside the building which didn't help anything.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: whom on 23 Aug 2011, 18:13
Felt it in Delaware.  Wasn't sure what was going on at first.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: smack that isaiah on 23 Aug 2011, 18:51
I didn't feel it in middle NJ, but a lot of my friends say they felt it.  I'm kinda sad I missed out on feeling my first earthquake :(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 23 Aug 2011, 20:20
My whole office building shook. It was pretty terrifying, actually.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 24 Aug 2011, 05:08
We decked out our living room with the essentials (it also happens to be my bedroom courtesy of a sofa bed).

(http://img593.imageshack.us/img593/628/30087210150407820074348.jpg)

I managed to cut my finger open whilst putting up the curtains after this was taken.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 24 Aug 2011, 18:17
So, my sister tried to set fire to our grandparents' house today. She's been living there since my grandmother died 4 years ago (my grandfather died about 5 years before that). My mother, who's actually in charge of the estate, is quite rightfully pressing charges and evicting her.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 24 Aug 2011, 21:50
Why the arson?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 25 Aug 2011, 08:14
We don't know. For the most part, things have been quiet there the past few months. She had been arrested for shoplifting just before Christmas, and there's always a constant stream of... characters... she kept bringing to the house. But this came quite out of the blue even for her. She just started yelling that she was going to burn the place down and started splashing gasoline on the front. One of the boarders there stepped in and stopped her and called the police, who she screamed at and called a few choice names while being arrested. We don't know if this was a drug/alcohol induced freakout or what at this point.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Aug 2011, 10:43
That's...kinda scary!

I've been having the best few days, though. I got into Seattle Wednesday night - my plane was overbooked and delayed, so they put me on an earlier flight. Got into Olympia, slept through the night after having an excellent meal of paella and clams. Woke up the next morning, was treated to a breakfast in a fancy little cafe, where I met an adorably little dykey librarian girl, and she ended up staying at the place I'm staying at (she's friends with the dirty old man I'm staying with) for the day and there was various degrees of nudity, swimming in the lake, grilled chicken and sweet potatoes and Iron and Wine all day.

The guy here, Kozmo, does plaster casts  (http://ranchofraunch.com/kozbods/index.html) of people, and when I told him about my transgender status, he ended up really intrigued, and at some point he's going to do a plaster cast of my body.

I'm really happy around here. This area is so gorgeous, so wonderful, I feel like I'm at home. Later today I'm going to meet some People From The Internet, and see how well that goes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 28 Aug 2011, 04:10
So I'm bored, super bored. My brother (in Year 11) asked me to print his assignment/essay/what-have-you and so I did (verily!). I forgot to close it down before I returned his USB so I had the thingie open on my desktop. I decided to proof read! Here's what I've got so far This is the entire thing, my brother is so screwed:
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Cleopatra VII (referred to as Cleopatra throughout the text) [excision] of Egypt was the last pharaoh to rule Egypt and one of great controversy. Whilst there are a great number of sources about Cleopatra many contain biased views that are expressed in different ways; from greatest ruler of all time to a profligate, power-hungry woman [replaced clause for poetry]. Her contribution to life is evident in most if not all Egyptian society [poor construction, consider revision].
Cleopatra was born in 69 BCE to [deletion of redundant verb] Pharaoh Ptolemy XII and his queen, Cleopatra V. Cleopatra [ambiguous pronoun, should also be new sentence] was born in Alexandria [DYAC!], a vibrant port city and mercantile hub [lyricism!] for Egypt at the time [consider replacement with period, e.g.: for x era Egypt]. Provided with a library  (proposed by Ptolemy II, he stated that he would collect at least one of every document)[deliver as foot note?] which helped with her choice of subject [wait, uh what?]. [Perhaps: The library... where she studied...] The subjects she studied were mainly history, languages and Greek culture; she was reported to have excel in every area [sauce?]. One of the contributing factors to Cleopatra being renowned as a great pharaoh was her learning of Egyptian (many in her family did not know how to speak Egyptian) [I’ll let this slide but somewhere else I’ll draw the line]. The education provided for her [Nitpick: so not something she did of her own volition?] would help her secure the throne. At this time Ptolemy XII hired Roman support to secure his place on the throne, by 59 BCE Rome had moved to secure bordering countries of Egypt. The Egyptians revolted for his action would condemn Egypt, Ptolemy retreated leaving Cleopatra the VI and her sister Berenice to rule, Cleopatra VI died later giving total rule to Berenice [revise]. Gabinius marched on Egypt, seized control and placed [remembered, past tensed] Ptolemy XII back on the throne.  51 BCE Ptolemy XII died, the laws of dynasty dictated that Cleopatra and her brother Ptolemy XIII would rule as Pharaoh and queen. Cleopatra honored the rituals and practices of the Egyptian people gaining support.  49 BCE Cleopatra was exiled by her brother, Cleopatra fled to Syria, whilst Ptolemy XII had been “a friend and ally” to Rome. (Cleopatra: beyond the myth)[this a reference?]. 48 BCE Cleopatra had recruited an army to march on Egypt and take back the throne. Cleopatra still was no mach [Go! Go! Go! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9VN2mxMnzE)] to [for?] Ptolemy XII’s [possession] army; she decided to seek an [articles] alliance with Caesar.

Cleopatra devised a plan to meet with Caesar within his private quarters in Alexandria. She was wrapped within a role of carpet then carried to his quarters. When Caesar met with Ptolemy XII in the morrow, he declared that he would rule with Cleopatra, and gave Cyprus back to Egypt. This movement meant that Rome had an interest with Egypt and would give it support; this gave Egypt (a country close to being absorbed into the Roman Empire) its strength back. Caesar also moved to stabilize [curious that should use an americanism whilst using whilst] the government with both military and financial support. After the Alexandrian war Caesar left Egypt, leaving Cleopatra (21-22 years old) and her brother Ptolemy XIV (13 years) in charge of Egypt. Caesar appointed three legions to ‘keep the peace’ and to protect Cleopatra. As ruler of Egypt Cleopatra was recorded to be loved by her people and had motivated them [to do what?]. Roughly [circa?] June 23 BCE Cleopatra gave birth to Caesarion, strengthening [describes the act] ties between Egypt and Rome. Caesar declared Cleopatra as the true ruler of Egypt and turned his army toward Ptolemy XII, after 6 months Ptolemy was drowned in the Nile and Cleopatra was given the rule of Egypt.  Cleopatra and Caesar moved to Egypt in 46 BCE but were forced to leave due to Caesars assignation. After her return to Egypt she helped fund the war against those who killed Caesar, the Caesarian party [Wasn’t the Second Triumvirate formed following the assassination?] led by Mark Antony and Octavian. The enemy was Marcus Junius Brutus and Gaius Cassius Longinus. Cleopatra signed a treaty with Mark Antony, which would benefit her with military and Roman support [Why, Shakespeare?].

41 BCE Mark Antony, the new ruler of Rome sent for Cleopatra in order to question her loyalty. Upon meeting her Antony was charmed and, as Plutarch describes it: “Her beauty, as we are told, was in itself not altogether incomparable, nor such as to strike those who saw her; but converse with her had an irresistible charm, and her presence, combined with the persuasiveness of her discourse and the character which was somehow diffused about her behaviour towards others, had something stimulating about it. There was sweetness also in the tones of her voice; and her tongue, like an instrument of many strings, she could readily turn to whatever language she pleased...” (Plutarch in the life of Antony). Antony spent 41-40 BCE in Alexandria with Cleopatra. Whilst in Alexandria Antony proposed that if Cleopatra were to fund him he would protect Egypt. She agreed, but also moved to take advantage of him by ordering him to kill her sister Arsinoe, which was performed in 41 BCE [is fine but you can do better]. By 40 BCE Cleopatra having given birth to her third son by Antony, Ptolemy Philadelphus, officially married Antony even though he was also married to Octavius sister [like Steinman but pleasing my Aphrodite of the written word]. In 34 BCE, Caesarion and Cleopatra became co-rulers of Egypt, Caesarion was associated with the god Horus and Cleopatra the goddess Isis [not to be confuse with Lsis, goddess of cellular destruction]. Octavian declared war on Egypt after Antony and Octavius’s sister divorced. Octavius and Antony met of the coast of Actium; Cleopatra was present with her own fleet but retreated with Antony when defeat was indefinite [I find that the worst kind of defeat is the one with no clear ending, you want: their defeat was assured. I’m assuming that Antony and Cleo lost this]. Octavian marched into Egypt in 30 BCE, where his army was met [? They were fighting each other right or is this a huge ass-mutiny?] by Antony’s. Antony moved to fight Octavius but died, once made known of his death Cleopatra was bitten by an asp (thought to be suicide), she died 39 years old. The two were buried together and to this day their burial ground has not been found.
Cleopatra used Caesar to kill her brother who expelled her form the throne. Using her charm [fascinating, how?] she managed to prevent Rome from annexing Egypt and a full scale war between Rome and Ptolemy which would most likely end with Egypt loosing. She gained military, financial and political support from Rome and as some sources [which?] describe, she also controlled the Roman senate. When Caesar died she married Mark Antony [wasn’t he dead] who provided her with military support. Sources record that Mark Antony was willing to give her anything. Till [ she wasn’t running a shop] her death, she managed to prevent Rome form taking Egypt for close to 20 years.
Cleopatra VII the last pharaoh of Egypt is still surrounded by mystery. She still holds many questions still unanswered and proves a difficult person to research due to the nature of the sources, for each has its own agenda [you didn’t demonstrate this, what use is a thesis if ignored?], whether to disgrace her action or to promote her love interests. Even though Egypt was taken by Rome their society and persona is still strong. [related how?]

The stuff in bold is me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Aug 2011, 12:35
You guys, I have been gone for about three weeks on various jaunts and coming back to read the happy supportiveness in this and the relationship thread makes my heart glow. Well done, internets, we appear to be in a good place at the moment! :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 28 Aug 2011, 16:21
Zingo: sounds like the fresh start is really going to work out for you, and it's good to see! There might still be setbacks along the way, but it feels much more like you're heading in the right direction.

Barmy: welcome back! The internet missed you!  :mrgreen:

Bail for my sister has been set at $135,000. She asked for a new judge because the one assigned to her case had seen her so many times before she thought he'd be biased against her. Went down with my mother yesterday to asses the damage. It was just a couple of scorch marks on the front siding and stains from the gasoline, so not too bad there. Unfortunately, she hoarded up the back yard, and it will cost us around $500 to get rid of all this "free" stuff, including such treasures as a flattened sofa, the back casing to an old TV set, 30 used bicycle tires, and god knows what else.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: sean on 31 Aug 2011, 15:45
wutup motherfuckers.

i live in a badass house in wv now, i just got internet in it.

my life continues to be goddamn awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Aug 2011, 15:50
Two different girls have asked me out this week. I go on one date tomorrow, and another the day after.

This is fantastic.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 01 Sep 2011, 10:10
£3 in my account and all I've got to eat is 4 tins of tuna (but I don't have a tin opener). Gotta survive 14 days until my next payday. Score.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 01 Sep 2011, 12:57
Your options now include overdraft, robbery, porn (starring not watching) or as an absolute last resort, calling your mum and dad and explaining that you still haven't learnt how to budget your money.

Been off the bike for week following buggering up my knee on as 1200km ride. Please to announce that I am largely injury free. However, as I have spent the last two years preparing for said ride, I'm hitting a bit of a blank as to what the hell I'm supposed to do with my life. So this would be a good time for my girlfriend to go to the south of France to work on a whiz-band machine for three months leaving me with only the cat for conversation then would it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 01 Sep 2011, 16:45
Dear blag,

Sorry I've been away so long! I've missed you. But, as you'll soon see, I've been a very, very busy boy.

Last I wrote was the 22nd. Let's see. Since then, I've moved out of one house into another, I've seen my best friend off to the Air Force for a 6-year-commitment, I've completely revived a bar's Wednesday night business (last night, they sold nearly $1k in drinks where they'd been selling maybe 1/4 that before! The owner and I get along reeeeeeal well), I've gotten 2 girls' phone numbers, I've put my Fender Jaguar on consignment, I've found a place where I can actually afford to pay rent AND feed myself (and I move there tomorrow), I've made my back incredibly sore by lifting things incorrectly, and I've decided to start seeing somebody new now that the lady I WAS seeing is no longer interested.

Tomorrow I move, I buy a Honda CT-90 as soon as my geetar is sold, registering that bitch immediately afterward, and everything will be absolutely gravy from here on out. For now. :D

Love,
Me!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 01 Sep 2011, 17:58
Oh man two random girls showed up and they wanted to look at the rooms in the house and I did not let them in because it is not my house (I am staying with a friend until tomorrow) and none of the people who are on the lease are home and basically they are both larger than me and I am not about to watch my buddies get jacked.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Sep 2011, 18:30
I just went on my first real date in a long time. It was amazing. We shared a cheesecake and kissed in alleyways.
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Post by: Jace on 01 Sep 2011, 23:43
£3 in my account and all I've got to eat is 4 tins of tuna (but I don't have a tin opener). Gotta survive 14 days until my next payday. Score.
Can't you just like start a riot or something?
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Post by: nekowafer on 02 Sep 2011, 05:40
I just went on my first real date in a long time. It was amazing. We shared a cheesecake and kissed in alleyways.

So cute!!
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Post by: valley_parade on 02 Sep 2011, 05:40
Too soon, Jace. It'd seem cliche.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Sep 2011, 10:19
Have you ever wondered where your diaphragm is? Here's a quick and easy way to figure it out.

First, blow up an air mattress by yourself. Then, when you're all done, find the part of your stomach that feels like pain. That's your diaphragm!

Lessons learned the hard way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 02 Sep 2011, 10:43
Although she has never used one, the girlfriend found that oddly amusing. Largely because she has a guttermind.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Sep 2011, 10:45
Not that diaphragm (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thoracic_diaphragm).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 03 Sep 2011, 01:02
Oh hey, Dad got a kindle 3 and neither of parents really do much reading of novels and whatnot. Ipso facto I have a kindle.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 03 Sep 2011, 07:11
Can't you just like start a riot or something?

Pfft, who needs looting? I got a free cupcake off a lovely lass whilst going off to extend my overdraft (also found a coupon for a free milkshake from ShakeAway. Totally got a Skittles and gingernut biscuit milkshake with popping candy on top).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 Sep 2011, 09:17
Start a riot on her vagina
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 03 Sep 2011, 10:23
She just added me on facebook and she's 16, bro.

Which is actually legal in England, I guess (but I still think 16 is pretty young).

Addendum: All girls that I flirt with in future must be made to wear a sign with their exact age on it.
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Post by: Tom on 03 Sep 2011, 14:14
This is why being attracted to guys is so much easier. Generally speaking, stubble = fair game.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Sep 2011, 17:46
I just moved into an apartment right next to my favorite coffee shop (where I run my Tues. open mic) and so now I live with two hipsters, an unfathomable yet easily ignored asshole, a super nice metal bassist, and a 15-year-old girl.

I don't understand how in the fuck this group of people lives together, but it's been working so far with zero deaths. So I don't give a fuck. Long as I have a place to sleep, store my shit, and bring ladies up for bonin', it's whatever.
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Post by: Jimor on 04 Sep 2011, 03:36
Ugh. My video camera is dying. During the last 3 shoots, as it heats up, it loses focus and it just won't come back until it completely cools off again, which may take at least 15-20 minutes, which means I basically lose the rest of the music set. I was already getting frustrated by the occasional tape glitch that ruined some awesome performances. Even when I'm doing this for free, it's just unacceptable to have to apologize for missing songs, and if I'm going to try to make money with this, it's really not OK to have something this unreliable.

So I ordered a new camera. It's a nice one that is definitely a step up from what I had, but I was really hoping to be able to wait until I could afford something truly professional. But even as it is, this puts me at an uncomfortable level on my credit card considering I only work part time and will basically only be able to keep it level for a while. Ever since I got this card and until about a year after losing my full-time job, I had always paid the balance in full. Because of that, it has a ridiculously high limit that I'm now pushing more than I really want.

On the other hand, it looks much more like a camera that somebody charging professional rates would use, so perhaps it will help pay for itself in the long run. And no more tapes!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Sep 2011, 11:06
stubble = fair game.

My brother is Puerto Rican and was getting stubble around the age of 14.

I found a place to live! The guy who offered is kinda rednecky but not intolerably so. He doesn't know when to shut up, though. I also made a passing reference to a girl I went on a date with, so he assumes I'm a lesbian, which I'm okay with. Maybe he'll not skeev on me if he just assumes I don't like guys.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 04 Sep 2011, 14:25
She just added me on facebook and she's 16, bro.

Which is actually legal in England, I guess (but I still think 16 is pretty young).

Addendum: All girls that I flirt with in future must be made to wear a sign with their exact age on it.

Had a brownie off of a woman who's tits were certainly no where near contained in her top yesterday while in the capital. As I walked away indulging in chocolatey goodness and thinking about her huge knockers, I couldn't help but think that was a very successful and yet somehow subtle marketing ploy. Also saying "You know you want some!" and winking probably helped. She can't have been older than 24.

Anybody else think that while high school was a time of mass rejection and intolerance of your general appearance, you grow up a bit and suddenly can't help noticing that a lot of people give you their time?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 04 Sep 2011, 16:41
I had no luck with girls in high school. At college I got into a two and a half year long relationship, and now that I'm single and at uni my jaw is literally dropping at the number of chances I have with girls who wouldn't have given me the time of day a couple years back. I don't understand what happened.
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Post by: Dazed on 04 Sep 2011, 19:25
You got fuckin sexy man, that's all
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Sep 2011, 06:08
I dunno, I was much more successful relationship-wise when I was in high school, but that is probably a lot to do with circumstances (tricky to meet people when you're living in rural Shropshire with only your parents to talk to) and also because of being ill, which I think has made me less outgoing and less likely to connect with people. So maybe when I go back to uni I'll start making friends and maybe meet someone supernice (instead of a bit skeezy, like lots of people in sixth form were).

Today was my last counselling session, because next week I'm in hospital and the week after I won't be able to get into town without a lot of waiting round for buses or walking, and it's not worth that. And then I go back to uni! Suddenly things have sped up a lot. There are a whole bunch of things I need to do but it doesn't feel like there's time - go to the dentist, finish up volunteering at the hospice (I haven't been for over a month), see friends. I'm kind of nervous about going back because it has to work out this time. There are no second chances now; if I can't cope with this year I have to drop the entire degree because I can't get finance for any more years. It should be ok though. It should. I hope.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Sep 2011, 11:15
Maybe he'll not skeev on me if he just assumes I don't like guys.

Didn't work. He's an utter creep but he's also the only person who would let me move in.  :-( He's really touchy feely and keeps talking about having sex with me even when I repeatedly tell him to stop and I feel super uncomfortable around him. Last night I was laying down watching TV and told him I was going to bed, so he walked over, kneeled in front of me, nuzzled my chest and then kissed my stomach. I told him off for it and went to my room, which I'm going to have to buy a lock for because this guy is just creeping me the fuck out.

edit: oh right, and he kept asking about my 'man feet' (I wear size twelve women's shoes), and I told him I'm trans. He didn't believe me, but kept calling me a he-she and shemale and whatnot, and calling my friends such, even after I first politely explained that those are super offensive, like on the level of ignorant fucktard-word, to me, and then when he continued, to get super pissed at him. I needed a place to live but I'm going to start immediately looking for a place in October because seriously. This guy is skeevy to the core.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 05 Sep 2011, 13:21
Yeah, you gotta get outta there. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOQiqDWV_Tc)
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Sep 2011, 14:59
Yeah, you gotta get outta there. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XOQiqDWV_Tc)

You like this.

Dear blag,

Yesterday I went to Berkeley to visit my friend and bandmate Kabir! I sold him my Boss delay pedal (a DD-20), he partially paid for it, we rehearsed a shitload with a couple of friends over to critique and provide feedback, and we discussed potential shows.

Also, some of you may have heard about the cannabis street fair in Oakland, and how it got shut down because of their not having the right permits. Well, I've contacted one of the main organizers of the event, and he says 1. that they're going to shoot for a date next month, 2. that they're gonna get the right permits this time, and 3. that Injun Magic can play there. They can't pay us, but we can have a tip jar, merch booth, shit like that. So I'm talking to Kabir about it, and we'll see where this goes. Hopefully it's a success, although I can't see it any other way.

The last year's taught me how to be a businessman a lot better than I could've hoped, I think, and at the moment I can support myself with the open mics I run. But I'm not done. I won't be finished until I've built something truly noteworthy, and that may take some time. Still, I definitely feel like I'm on my way to some amazing shit this year, and next year I imagine it'll be even better. Ahoy!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Sep 2011, 07:03
Well, I was all excited about maybe tutoring a GCSE english student, but then I think they chose another tutor instead. But then today I got an email from someone who wants me to tutor their son in english and maths! Yay!

However, I have slight ethical qualms about this, because they want two two-hour sessions per week (that's £40 a week to me, awesome, but...) the child is five years old.

Five years old and four hours of tutoring a week, in two two-hour blocks? That sounds like hell! I have suggested, partly for my own logistical reasons, that splitting it into one-hour sessions or at least splitting one of them might be better, because what five year old is going to sit still for an extra two hours of school each week?

I suppose it is possible that the kid is home educated or possibly not at school yet or something, and of course I would make it as fun and un-schoolish as possible (if they're falling behind at school already, more school won't help) but still. Pushy parents? Super-ambitious? Hard to say. Anyway if I can do the job I'll take it. You don't turn down that kind of money for doing something you love just because you don't necessarily approve of the parents' pressure. Fix it from the inside, I say (also £40 a week).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Sep 2011, 10:59
Not to mention, I've found most people learn better in four one-hour blocks than two two-hour blocks (I've been on both block and period scheduling - aka one where there's four two hour classes per day, and the other where there's eight one hour classes a day, and I learned way more on the shorter time frame ones. It takes time to digest things.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 Sep 2011, 13:57
I'm at work for another 2 hours and I have literally NOTHING to do.

Huh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Sep 2011, 14:16
Teach a five year old long division!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 Sep 2011, 14:41
No five year olds around.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Tom on 06 Sep 2011, 14:56
long division!

Why do people do this, it drives me crazy. I was meant to learn long division but I told my teacher to 'bugger off' and just did short division.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 Sep 2011, 15:58
The CS department got a little jumpy, so I've been answering the odd phone call here and there, and hey, I leave in a minute.

Also I just read old threads on OSG.
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Post by: Elizzybeth on 06 Sep 2011, 17:08
Not to mention, I've found most people learn better in four one-hour blocks than two two-hour blocks (I've been on both block and period scheduling - aka one where there's four two hour classes per day, and the other where there's eight one hour classes a day, and I learned way more on the shorter time frame ones. It takes time to digest things.)

I dunno, I've found when teaching that my classes are a lot more effective in two two-hour blocks per week than four one-hour blocks.  By the time everyone gets settled in and you get done with administrative stuff (answering questions about deadlines, etc.), there's not a whole lot of time left in the hour.  Having two-hour chunks means you only have to deal with that stuff twice a week instead of four times.  Also, in a writing class, having enough time to do some in-class writing is really helpful.  But my students are 18 - 22, and they have longer attention spans--at least by a little!--than most 5-year-olds.

May, maybe two-hour blocks won't be so bad if you can make your tutoring sessions like play, with games and colorful things and gummy bears or something?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 06 Sep 2011, 21:22
May, unless the parents are uptight yuppies who want junior to know calculus in 2nd grade, I know you'll do wonderful at keeping things fun and interesting. I feel that at that age, the most important thing is to just instill the idea that learning all that stuff is just the coolest thing in the world, and that it's all a piece of cake (even when it isn't).

I just tallied the footage I got from the local art/music festival (http://www.chalkitup.org/) over the holiday weekend. Keeping in mind that I missed most of Saturday because I had to work, I have over 8 1/2 hours of live music from approximately 25 different acts. I managed to nurse my sick camera pretty well through the 2nd and 3rd days, though I had to cut filming short on a lot of sets to give it a chance to cool down before the next one began.

The best thing was meeting a whole slew of new bands and artists. I'm pretty confident that when I can get this processed and people see the quality of it all, a lot more people will know who to call for this kind of thing. My new camera comes tomorrow, then Thursday I'm taking it out to film a national act (Eisley), then later in the month I'm filming a Buddy Holly tribute show that the town's main promoter puts on as part of a long series where he gets about a dozen local acts to each perform 2 or 3 songs from the artists. What I want to do with that is turn it into a high quality DVD that showcases what exactly I can do beyond the filming.

Exciting times.  :-D
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Sep 2011, 02:00
I feel that at that age, the most important thing is to just instill the idea that learning all that stuff is just the coolest thing in the world, and that it's all a piece of cake (even when it isn't).

This is so exactly how I view learning, I really hope the parents aren't going to be obsessed with workbooks etc. Hopefully we can strike a balance - do the workbooks to prove the learning has taken place, but do the learning through fun activities (I relearnt how to make one of those chatterbox things we played with at school - great way to ask questions in a fun way!).

Now I'm off on a canal boat for two days. I'm not sure where I'm meeting said boat yet; I'll just get on a train and hope it's going in the right direction!
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Sep 2011, 16:02
I just went to the music store to discuss a couple of business prospects with my buddy who works there. 1. I got Injun Magic a gig for Sept 16. 2. I met a very young teenage boy who played really well. And his demeanor reminded me so much of my teenage self that I nearly hugged the kid. Instead I borrowed his "Flood" Les Paul Studio, plugged it into a Marshall Haze 40, and let rip on some early Clapton. Then I gave it back and he let rip on something I've never heard before. Kid's talented as fuck, and meeting him made my day.

I'm going to leave here in 15 minutes to set up at the bar for open mic. I've borrowed a snare drum from the music store (the house one broke; we're getting replacement parts soon!) and I've been word-of-mouth promoting like crazy. I spend a lot of time running around town promoting that shit any way I can, and it's already one of the hottest spots in town on Wednesdays. I couldn't be happier.

Also, Injun Magic is working on getting a show at Cloyne co-op in Berkeley this weekend. I'll keep you posted, but if anybody local is so inclined, you should go anyway. Our friends Junkie Blood are a phenomenal punk outfit and I am going whether I.M. plays or not.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Sep 2011, 10:07
Found a new place to stay that's more friendly and not with a guy who insists I'm male.

Also went on a second date with a girl that looks like six foot tall Lucille Ball with a mohawk. Picnic in the woods, which was sushi and chai tea way way way off the beaten path. In the middle of nowhere, so there was kissing and sex and seven year old children walking in on us.
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 08 Sep 2011, 10:17
Oh you.


Edit: Huh, what a terrible pagebreak.


Uh. I don't really have anything blog worthy to say. I went out with the local skate team and made a video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TTrL8iTmdCI) with a friend and one of the skaters (warning: language and bush destruction).

That's about it really.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Sep 2011, 10:19
Well, there was like, one guy around thirty who couldn't decide if he still wanted to be a punk or not, being followed by a bunch of six or seven year old boys. One of them walked away yelling "WELL THAT WAS AWKWARD" the whole way.
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Post by: valley_parade on 08 Sep 2011, 10:39
(warning: language and bush destruction).

Ryan, why did we never hang out when I was younger? We all used to jump in bushes for the fuck of it.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Sep 2011, 10:44
Last night was fucking ridiculous. Some drunk asshole kept jumping on the mic in the middle of other people's sets. He did it a grand total of 3 times. I got him to knock off being an asshole the first time, the second time he jumped on in the middle of some other kid's freestyle rap, and the third time somebody had asked the person playing to play Snow Patrol and he jumps up in the middle of the fuckin song all like "HEY MAN SO FUCK YO VOCAL SHIT AIN'T NOBODY LISTENIN SO I'MA JUMP IN AND THROW DOWN SOME RHYMES" and he just starts rapping right there. That was strike three, so I put my shit down and went in to cut his mic. Bartender (who is also the owner) took it into his own hands though and booted him out.

Then there were the meth heads, and we had this pretty hilarious comedian. The latter was a hit. Meth McGee and Tweakita Tweakschev weren't.
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 08 Sep 2011, 10:59
Ryan, why did we never hang out when I was younger? We all used to jump in bushes for the fuck of it.

There's a little something called the North Atlantic Ocean separating us, dude.
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Post by: valley_parade on 08 Sep 2011, 12:31
Wild, wild horses...
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Post by: benji on 08 Sep 2011, 12:49
It's looking likely that I will spend 11 hours on campus on Tuesdays and Thursdays this semester. Luckily I've only got one class the other days, but still, this kinda' sucks.
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Post by: pen on 08 Sep 2011, 12:59
Today was my kid's first day back at school, and I can't express enough how happy we BOTH are about it!  This summer was a series of disappointments for her... her art program had no real structure, she broke her nose, got ear infections and swimmer's ear... now we find out she might have sleep apnea and needs her tonsils out...  I'm so SO happy she's happy to be back at school too... where there is appropriate supervision.  It makes my life so much easier.
 
This is so exactly how I view learning, I really hope the parents aren't going to be obsessed with workbooks etc. Hopefully we can strike a balance - do the workbooks to prove the learning has taken place, but do the learning through fun activities (I relearnt how to make one of those chatterbox things we played with at school - great way to ask questions in a fun way!).
I think you're on exactly the right track there.  I'd put my kid in your class!
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Post by: valley_parade on 08 Sep 2011, 13:53
Oh yeah, hey, hey, hey Rachel!!!!

I'll be down in yr Metroboston, Metrobostoning it up in a few weeks. I'll get a hold of you and Jon later.
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Post by: LTK on 08 Sep 2011, 14:51
Huh, apparently there was an earthquake today at Xanten, near the eastern Dutch-German border, 4.5 on Richter's scale. They say the most damage was caused by people overloading the phone lines with calls to ask what was happening. Not surprising, seeing as the only quakes the Netherlands is known to get are the result of drilling for gas. As for me, I'm 160 km away and it wasn't noticable here at all.

But that's hardly important, since I'll probably be moving to Amsterdam at the end of the month! After lowering my standards a bit I became eligible for a room plus bathroom in an apartment shared by 5, which I'll be allowed to rent until my university enrollment ends. This'll hopefully break me out of a cycle of social isolation and will be a step forward in life. I'm very much looking forward to it. The day of the first lecture this year turned out great too; me and another fellow student visited a friend's apartment, where we played some games and made dinner. The place was absolutely infested with fruit flies, but that was okay since we ate on the balcony. I'm gonna have to get him an electric flyswatter. There are also plans for a sort of cooking club, where people take turns cooking for everybody, which is a great start to meeting people. Hopefully this is setting a precedent!
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Sep 2011, 16:52
This evening I changed the domain membership of my cluster servers.  This was easy in previous versions of Windows, but in Server 2008 R2, it required the following:

Shut down nine virtual servers;
Export said virtual servers (first detaching data disks to save copying them);
"Delete" them from both Hyper-V and Cluster Services;
Unshare the eight cluster-shared disks (eight LUNs on one RAID array);
Destroy the cluster on both nodes;
Remove the cluster role from both servers;
Reboot both servers;
Change DNS settings (because of strange but different setups of both old and new domains)
Change domain membership;
Reboot both servers;
Add cluster role to both servers;
Run cluster validation tests;
Run Windows updates on both servers (indicated as required by previous tests);
Reboot both servers;
Create cluster;
Give disks back their sensible names;
Enable "cluster-shared disks";
Share the disks;
Give shared disks back their sensible names;
Copy exported virtual machines back into the desired places;
Import virtual machines (re-attach data drives which weren't copied);
Create cluster resources for the virtual machines;
Start the machines, and check them.

All done at home with the dogs playing at my feet, a glass of whisky, and my wife (who's away) on the phone.  Total time: five hours; I'm going to work late tomorrow (actually, going in early in case of issues and leaving at lunchtime, I think).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 09 Sep 2011, 05:46
Woohoo, half days! o/

I'm heading out at 1, packing up and going to the Adirondacks for the weekend. Though, mostly we'll just be at the muscle car show in Lake George because uh, old muscle cars.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Sep 2011, 14:07
My friend's dad just called me asking me to find him weed. I don't know whether to be embarrassed or utterly delighted. A bit of column A, a bit of column B, and apparently a bit of (TH)C.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Sep 2011, 03:04
I just got back from a spontaneous three-day trip on my friend Tom's canal boat. It's a pretty important boat historically; one of the last remaining and certainly one of the best preserved boats from Thomas Clayton's fleet of tar boats. She was built in 1937 and still has the original engine and cabin etc. Which obviously means no toilet on board, no running water, lots of smoke and soot and noise, and very little space to sleep - the cabin fits two at a squash and everyone else sleeps in what used to be the tar tank.

It was a lot of fun and very tiring, so today I'm going to just chill and sit around trying to lose the sensation of gently rocking. Oh and have my first shower for four days.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Sep 2011, 12:23
As of right now, there is a four year old child on my left and a six year old child on my right, both combing my hair and putting things in it to make me a pretty princess. They've been telling me all about princesses today. Apparently, princesses don't wear underwear. When I pursued this line, they informed me that princesses don't wear underwear on their heads. Oh! I never knew that!
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Post by: nekowafer on 10 Sep 2011, 22:28
We used to have six ladies on our team at work, plus the manager and supervisor. Those two don't really do anything aside from give out and track work - the supervisor is new and the manager is so disconnected from us that she has no idea what she's doing most of the time.

One lady went out on maternity leave. Another then went out on medical leave for her mother dying, then her mother-in-law getting sick. A third went out on medical leave for mental health issues.

Second lady quit. There are three ladies remaining - crazy 65 year old woman who dresses like a toddler going to church and talks/acts like one too. She knows how to do some of her job but is mostly a moron. Then a new-ish girl, who is willing to learn but doesn't particularly give a shit about her job.

And then there's me. I seem to be the only competent one left on the entire team. Which means I have a giant fucking to-do list and not enough time, attention span, or energy to do it all. But refusing the work is not an option. The other two ladies will return some time in October, but no one knows when, or what they will do when they return. And one might quit!

I'm going a little insane.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Sep 2011, 19:26
I'm sorta staying at a place called Sidhehaven. I'm surrounded by hippies and naked women.
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Sep 2011, 19:28
I love writing music with my bandmate. I love playing together, I love performing together, and I love recording with him. However, I hate being the only one with any discipline whatsoever on the matters. I hate being the only one who can even fathom what discipline is. I am easily one of the laziest people I know, but when we're talking about something we both love, the guy can't focus for a sack of beans.

It is really fucking irritating. I spend money to go up there and work with the guy, I go out of my way, and I've risked homelessness more times than I care to think about just for the sake of being able to stay in California and continue making music. And what happens? He stays in bed and/or plays video games, then says "Oh we can practice tomorrow." No, because I have shit to do tomorrow. I am not endlessly flexible. I have a social life I like to uphold, I have promotional tasks I could be working on, I have a lot of shit I could be doing that does not involve sitting on my ass and wasting time I've set aside for something important to me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 13 Sep 2011, 11:33
I expect him to not waste half the time I set aside for his ass. Not after I've gone out of my way a million fucking times for this.
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Post by: valley_parade on 13 Sep 2011, 14:04
We're going mini-golfing tomorrow, and my HR director just came over and said that I should rock some argyle.

Thankfully it's going to be on the VERY cool side tomorrow, so I may have to bust out a sweater.
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Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 13 Sep 2011, 14:58
i bought new pants! i never buy clothes

progress is going well on my experiment to see how many pairs of volcom pants a person can own before they become part-owner of the company.


was gonna get some shoes too but i wasn't really feeling it when it came right down to it
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Post by: Lupercal on 14 Sep 2011, 08:30
what do you expect with a name like injun magic

I think that Patrick is Magic, the other guy is Injun.

I wanna be Scrubs, which one is Scrubs?

 :mrgreen:

Dear Blog,

Good and bad things.

GOOD: Going back to University and have officially submitted my first report to the student newspaper. Aw Yeah!

BAD: Girlfriend is very 50/50 about me at the moment and it is making me die inside.

But hey ho, just felt like I needed to get that off my chest. Writing is going well, can't complain.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Sep 2011, 11:15
what do you expect with a name like injun magic

I think that Patrick is Magic, the other guy is Injun.

That was one of the things we joked about when naming the band, yes. He's Indian, as in India, and I am admittedly the guy who plays the most prominent parts of the songs 90% of the time, and they involve a lot of studio magic.

Hey everybody, anyone a fan of Tyler the Creator? If you should, you shouldn't be, because he says "faggot n*gger" in every song. And words are inflexible and can only mean one thing, regardless of context, right? RIGHT? Right!
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Post by: valley_parade on 14 Sep 2011, 13:36
Personally the only Odd Future stuff I could ever get into was Frank Ocean and The Jet Age of Tomorrow.
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Post by: Tom on 14 Sep 2011, 15:27
Dad was just teling me that he needed a mini gender changer for a set of headphone plugs because "two males don't go together, that's just wrong!" Me: "Thanks for that, Biggie!"

I hate my family sometimes.
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Sep 2011, 15:36
Looks like a childhood pal of mine is going to be recording our set on Friday. Heart: Warmed. Soul: Stoked. Fuck: Yeah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 16 Sep 2011, 01:31
Tomorrow I get to be "assistant engineer" on the access TV truck as we go cover a high school football game. It both is and isn't a promotion. No extra pay, but more responsibility. That's OK, the crew is basically a ragtag bunch that are a combination of older guys retired from the regular area TV stations, video pros supplementing their income with the occasional gig here, and a few like my just out of the college program looking to get some experience. It's a shoestring budget, and we mostly use cast-off equipment from the affiliate stations in town, but there are very few places in town where you get to actually jump in and do important jobs in the production like here.

Basically, I'll be in charge of some of the more technical equipment setups, wireless microphones and video for example, plus troubleshooting throughout the day, which given the state of our equipment, can be quite a challenge. This is why the older guy who usually does it is stepping down, all the running around putting out fires was just getting not fun for him. For now, it should be an interesting challenge. More importantly, it's much more impressive resume fodder for down the line.

What I'm really getting excited about is a Buddy Holly tribute show that one of the local promoters is putting on this coming Thursday. 12 bands playing all kinds of covers throughout the night in a club where I know I can get terrific footage and sound. But that's only the beginning. Because of a class I took last year, I can basically create a DVD with any trick you'd see on any of the big Hollywood releases. I'm going to produce a disc that between the quality of the footage and the production values of the disc itself is going to blow this town away.  8-)
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Post by: Patrick on 16 Sep 2011, 10:31
Hey amigo, break a leg with that shit. That's a super rad opportunity to prove yourself even more than previously, and I'm pleased to see you taking it by the balls.

My recent ex is coming by to drop off the rest of my stuff. Not exactly stoked to see her but it'll be cool to get my shit back. It's starting to really cool down at night now and it'll be handy as fuck to get my sleeping bag back. And I'm excited to get my coffee table and my other filing cabinet.

Also, I've just discovered why there is no light in the bathroom. It is because the fixture is wired UNBELIEVABLY POORLY. I tried plugging my beard trimmer into the integrated outlet, and I nearly burned the whole fucking house down. And there's a Chinese restaurant and a bar below us, and I can't afford that shit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Sep 2011, 11:19
I remember living in a house where the wiring needed to be redone. When the wall was pulled away, the wiring wasn't even properly done - there was just an extension cord running behind the wall.
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Post by: Scandanavian War Machine on 16 Sep 2011, 14:44
ugh i just spent like two hours cleaning our big squishy landing mats at the gym, which involved unzipping them, taking all the foam pieces out and vaccuuming up all the foam dust from inside. took the oppurtunity to rearrange the foam and add in some more small insert pieces to shore it up where it was weakened and compressed

god i hate foam dust

these particular mats are about the size of a small sedan fyi  and they probably haven't been cleaned like this in...oh i don't know....ten years? :|
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Sep 2011, 16:35
Wow raw milk is delicious.
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Post by: Tom on 16 Sep 2011, 20:49
Mycobacterium Bovis
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Sep 2011, 20:56
I've heard the debates on raw milk - I'll take my chances. (Also, I'm surprised brucellosis wasn't the first thing mentioned. That's what comes to mind when I think of the hazards of raw milk.)
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Post by: Tom on 16 Sep 2011, 22:17
It is, by far, more common but I've spent the past few weeks studying tb in path. Your chances of not getting anything are fine.
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Post by: Tom on 16 Sep 2011, 22:18
Not that you needed reassurance.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Sep 2011, 23:05
It's kinda like fucking Patrick. Pretty fun, and you probably won't get a nasty virus in return.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 Sep 2011, 23:35
Heh.  I had TB in 1959.  As some milk in the UK was not pasteurised at that time (it was labelled "TT" for "tuberculin-tested"), I suppose it might have been Mycobacterium bovis.  OTOH, it was treated with PZA for 6 months, to which M bovis is resistant; the drug it was combined with I can't now identify, as I can find no record of the combination I was given (whose name I remember as Pycamisan 33).

EDIT:

Ooh, look, the Internet now has a hit on Pycamisan 33.  This article (http://www.bmj.com/content/1/5241/1732.full.pdf) describes two outbreaks of TB in cattle in the exact area and time that I got it, and mentions treatment using Pycamisan 33 which, it seems, did not contain PZA as I thought it did.  I suppose I could even have been an untraced victim of one of those specific outbreaks (my case was diagnosed by early symptoms and X-ray).  Pycamisan 33 was quite unpleasant to take (I took 4 cachets a day for six months, I think), which is not mentioned in the article when discussing that people were uncooperative!
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Sep 2011, 00:29
<headdesk>
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Sep 2011, 15:10
That's insane, fewer than half of students pass?! And only a tiny percentage pass without retakes? That makes no sense at all! Does basically everyone go to university even if they aren't really academic, and then the ones who are can feel smug? Why would you even have a policy like that?
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Post by: snalin on 17 Sep 2011, 15:36
I've heard that some places in the world the A's sit a bit loose, but 40% pass rate is just way too far in the other direction. Almost no retakes is just a joke.
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Post by: valley_parade on 20 Sep 2011, 07:39
I feel like I just pulled off a Bagwell-Andersen deal here.

On another forum, I traded off a vintage distortion pedal for a preeeeeeeetty good tube amplifier.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Sep 2011, 13:49
Living in a laundry room without a door or any air conditioning is a surefire way to never get laid.
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Sep 2011, 15:29
At various times I have given pointers to my son's piano playing.  Here for a change is his wife, my opera-singer daughter-in-law Kirsten Blaise (or Blase).  In the following clip, she is strangled by John Malkovich at 4:40, and then at 7:30 she bursts into song for a while.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3sFYNNJNs4 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3sFYNNJNs4)
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Post by: Jimor on 21 Sep 2011, 02:38
EDIT:
I've applied to do my practice lessons for teacher training at the high school I dropped out of.

Once again Tuathal sets out to prove that he can bullshit his way through life successfully.

It's amazing how much of life is like that. And I don't mean it in a bad way. If you're willing to learn from your mistakes, just jumping in and doing it is often the best thing.

Speaking of, in a similar vein, I've been asked to help instruct this semester's TV production class in the use of the remote truck we use at the access station. This really isn't that much of a step up from when I took the class myself 3 semesters ago, and helped demonstrate the equipment because I was already paid staff on the truck at the time, but this time I get paid to be in class. (I'm taking another video class at the school right now as well).

Earlier tonight I filmed another show. A fun night that included a punk band from Germany, The Yoohoos, who are actually just vacationing in town because the guitarist's girlfriend lives here, and had to borrow instruments to do a handful of gigs around town. The big reason I'm blogging about it is because this is the first time I've gone head-to-head in the video dept with the local legend of show taping, a guy who's been doing it for years now.

I am really competitive when it comes to this, and quite sure of myself. Of course, my cockiness got quite a kick to the groin when I forgot to turn on the mic until halfway into the 2nd song of the first set!  :roll:

Other than that, I feel I got a lot of good footage and I'm happy with how this new camera is working out. But since I AM so competitive, here's a side by side of recent clips taken at the same venue.

Him: Tornado Rider - Bluff of Rough Stuff / Dinosaur (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g3H5pBa7Zog) (this is worth a look in any case because of the amplified rock cello carried around with a guitar strap)
Me: Sister Crayon - Other (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yrc5KUSwPkY)
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Sep 2011, 18:54
Your lighting situation is definitely better than his, but I don't know whether to attribute that to settings on your camera, the camera itself, or the lighting technician. Still, your shooting style seems to be considerably more involved and interested than his does.

Also the sound is much better in yours, to my ears. I haven't listened with my headphones yet though but I'll get back to that in an edit.

In my own news, I am growing weary of not having much to do during the week. I want to do something about that but it can't be Injun Magic related, since Kabir's schedule won't allow it. What to doooooo...
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Post by: valley_parade on 22 Sep 2011, 05:42
One man hardcore punk side project.
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Post by: Tom on 22 Sep 2011, 18:57
I have 70 words left on this report that is due @ 4:30 this 'arvo. I've done the bulk of it this morning and now I get stuck/bored.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Sep 2011, 02:54
1. Tonight I went to Berkeley with a high school bud of mine, we went to my bandmate's place and did a drinkin' and smokin' thing, and my bandie and I rocked out and there was a lot of fun had.

2. I received one of the greatest compliments from one of the raddest musicians I have ever met. He grew up here in Livermore but lives in Austin, TX. He suggested I move out there and rock out with him, and said I was one of the best guitarists he's heard. I admire the guy's work a massive shitload, and the offer's super tempting, but I'm broke as eff.

3. My old weed dealer from AK is on a road trip with his old man and stopped into Livermore yesterday. We got to catch up, and I enjoyed every second of kicking it with that guy. Yeeeeeeee

4. I'm durnk.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Sep 2011, 08:21
Went camping last night. My friend's dog got skunked right in the mouth. OH GOD THE STEEEEEEENCH
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Sep 2011, 11:52
Hey cool I'm the only one posting here anymore. Well, my favorite uncle passed away yesterday. He's my uncle by marriage to my aunt, and they're the only aunt and uncle I ever had who are worth anything as people, frankly. We knew by January that the cancer was gonna be fatal, and I'm amazed he lasted as long as he did. The docs and the hospice folk expected 2, 3 months, he tripled that shit like a boss.

Gonna miss that old fart, though. Rarely ever saw him without a big ol' shit-eating grin on his face, even when he was bedridden.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Sep 2011, 12:45
I'm sorry, Patrick, that must have been a blow even though you were expecting it eventually. I remember you've talked a lot about your uncle on here.
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Post by: HiFranc on 27 Sep 2011, 13:03
That's insane, fewer than half of students pass?! And only a tiny percentage pass without retakes? That makes no sense at all! Does basically everyone go to university even if they aren't really academic, and then the ones who are can feel smug? Why would you even have a policy like that?

I don't know about Belgium but I suspect it's similar to Germany.

In the German system anybody who gets the minimum grades has the Right to go to university (in Britain it's a privilege).  As such university are over subscribed so they work at getting rid of people at the other end.  In Germany that extends to lying to people to see whether they are lazy or have the initiative to exceed what they've been told  -- e.g. "That doesn't need to be in until next week." Translation: "If it's not in by tomorrow, you've failed."

{edit}Hugs Patrick.
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 Sep 2011, 01:00
Commiserations, Patrick.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Sep 2011, 11:13
Thanks for your kindness, you guys. Funeral's on the 8th. My auntie said she had a special request for me, and given the singular focus of my skillset, I assume this means I'm playing a song. If that's the case, I'd be honored. I loved playing for him when he was among the living.
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Post by: valley_parade on 28 Sep 2011, 12:29
given the singular focus of my skillset

You're going to smoke a lot of weed at the funeral?

(<3)
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Post by: Jimor on 29 Sep 2011, 03:27
Condolences, Patrick. Your uncle sounds like the kind of guy that made a world a lot brighter.

I'm reeling, but in a good way. I went to a local meeting of video professionals in order to start making some business contacts in town. One of my professors, a few classmates, and a couple other people I've worked with are regulars. They usually hand out a buttload of door prizes at each meeting donated by various companies, usually things like software plug-ins, collections of production music or stock footage, books on various software, etc. Things that are cool and useful, but nothing earth shattering.

Except tonight we had a presentation by a rep from Adobe, and as part of that, they raffled off a copy of the entire Adobe Studio Premium (http://www.adobe.com/products/creativesuite/production.html) package, and I won!  :psyduck:

A $1700 package that includes Premiere, Photoshop, Illustrator, Flash, Encore, After Effects, Audition.... Pretty much everything needed to make a full Hollywood movie outside of actual CGI. This is also exactly what I was thinking of buying on my own, but the need to replace my camera that I talked about earlier effectively put that off indefinitely. Now I still need a computer that can run this stuff, but that is probably the easiest piece to get if I'm willing to not have the vroomiest machine on the block.

I am definitely not a believer in the woo-woo new age The Secret type stuff, but it really does feel like it's a reward for the time and energy I've put into the local music scene to promote and showcase my friends and other artists. This is exactly what I needed exactly when I needed it to have an opportunity to take everything I'm doing to a whole 'nother level.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Sep 2011, 13:11
That is so great, Jimor, congrats! It does seem like the universe is paying back all your effort, and now you can achieve even greater things :-)

I got a phone call today and my first tutoring session is arranged! Monday, 5pm for one hour a week to start with, for a 9 year old boy from South Korea who needs help with his english particularly written. I'm excited about it, it seems ideal in every way - best time of the week and day for me, because it doesn't clash with choir or any academic things, the right sort of level (teaching a 5 year old seemed wrong somehow) and something I am very good at, rather than German which I tutored before but was never totally confident with. I'm planning some fun activities to do with him, which will hopefully help him without seeming like schoolwork at all. This mother seems much more sensible and isn't aiming for her son to storm his way through dozens of workbooks to become a genius at 10, she just wants to give his language skills a boost.

I've moved safely into college with all my stuff and made a fairly good start on the unpacking, although the room is still pretty messy. I have a huge amount of stuff but it's been swallowed up by the cupboards and there isn't a lot left. The things that are left won't necessarily fit in the places I want to put them, though. I should do a book purge and give some things away - on the bookshelf alone I have thirteen folders and there's another bag full of them. I only do five subjects.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Oct 2011, 07:59
given the singular focus of my skillset

You're going to smoke a lot of weed at the funeral?

(<3)

No, but you did actually get me thinking, and I have a somewhat related plan. I'm going to smoke a HUGE bowl in the morning before my dad picks me up, and I'll probably have an edible stashed for the trip home. He's bringing my stepmom, despite the fact that Uncle Bob told him outright that he didn't want her there. Having dealt with her shit for ten years now, I know she isn't going to have anything polite to say for the whole 2-3hr drive each way, and there is literally no way I'm going to be able to stand being in the car with her for it unless heavily sedated; smoking a bowl will be enough to last the whole trip down, and it will wear off by time the service starts. And it will keep me from kicking her apart. I also plan to have an edible in reserve for when we leave. That way, I can avoid her on the way back, too, and avoid giving myself away with my smoke.

It's maybe not the healthiest plan, relationship-wise with her, but I've all but given up on her. That is the only drama I have with this whole thing.

Thanks again for your kind words, guys. I'm gonna be kinda distant for a little bit while I get some shit sorted. Jimor and May, it sounds like things are going really well for you guys and I'm really happy for you!
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Post by: Jimor on 05 Oct 2011, 20:24
The cable access talk show I work on as a camera operator just finished interviewing John Singleton (http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005436/).  :-o
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Post by: Lupercal on 05 Oct 2011, 23:37
I've conquered both print and online news media at university, fuck yeah. I mean, it's not anything great, but I feel like I'm already amassing a portfolio and finally have something that is an awesome extra-curricular activity that I do. And I'm good at it, and the editors are super pleased about my punctuality and the effort I put into articles. Shameful plug? (http://www.inquirelive.co.uk/node/3745) (It doesn't make much sense to many people outside of my city, but hey)
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Oct 2011, 11:04
Last night as a part of my set I played (and sang) Weezer songs from the Blue Album. I play it a half step higher than the original (because I don't tune to Eb) and as a result the ending scream of "YEAAAAH YEAAAAH YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH" is also higher. So it is that much more likely to give me a very sore throat the next morning.

Here I am now, drinking citrus hibiscus tea from the coffee shop across the street and reading a shitty Orson Scott Card sequel (Shadow Puppets; why the fuck was this book published?). Hating myself this morning.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Oct 2011, 13:12
Man things have got busy fast. Today I had two lectures, a singing lesson, an accidental two hour nap, another lecture, choir practice, evensong and then self-defence class. Also in there about two hours of reading, which should have been four hours but see above for accidental nap. I only had time to eat at quarter to nine, which is way too late to start cooking anything properly so I had toast. I think Thursdays I will have to eat a proper meal at lunchtime, otherwise I'll keel over.

It was all good though! The singing lesson was amazing, a complete revelation. I've been having all kinds of problems with my voice so we just spent an hour doing exercises to fix them and the difference was incredible. It'll take dedicated practice to solve the issue entirely but I can already tell it's working. And my singing teacher is totally lovely, and thinks that I still have the chest infection I got three months ago (or was it more? More, I think) so I should go back to the doctor and get something for that. It's so nice to find someone who can actually identify what is going on with my voice and help fix it! She has done some speech therapy training and is doing more related stuff that is just exactly what I need to learn. So excited.

I only went to self-defence because a friend asked me to go with her, and I don't see her often so I thought I would just go this week. It was actually really good. I'm a bit uncomfortable with the concept of a class that teaches you how to inflict pain on men on the assumption that you will be attacked by one, but it was great exercise and a lot of fun. I'm so incredibly unfit, and one hour a week, in my college rather than miles away, at a sensible(ish) time, without any commitment to turn up every week if I'm busy - perfect.

Now I need to get to bed, so I can get up at 7am and make up the time I didn't spend working today. Thank goodness all I have tomorrow is three lectures, all in the afternoon.
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Post by: Lupercal on 06 Oct 2011, 17:47
I deem tomorrow to be Middlemarch day, and will endeavour to read as much of the rest of it as possible while my eyes are still moist in my skull and I am still partially breathing.

(Srsly like 800 page victorian novel don't think i can take much more of it after 325 pages kind of losing the will to live but have assignments and exams on this book so have to know it back to front and arhhhhhh)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Oct 2011, 14:28
Someone gave me a mandolin earlier this week, and I have been dedicating time to this like I haven't to music in a long, long time. It is so fantastic - I know a bunch of Zelda songs, the Tetris theme, Ziggy Stardust, and I'm going to start working on Crazy on You (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27IW08mC3zE) next.
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Post by: Jace on 08 Oct 2011, 04:20
Wake up at 3pm, pick up friend from work.
Chill with friend until her boyfriend gets home.
Get plugs from him because he works in body mod warehouse.
Go eat taco bell.
He goes to second job.
Keep chilling with friend watching TV+weird videos online.
Go to other friend's party.
She wasn't expecting me, was super happy I showed up.
Flirt with her cousin.
Cousin isn't okay with me having a girlfriend even though we have open relationship.
Mill about still workin on that cousin thing.
Kiss other friend who was hosting because she asked me to.
She thinks I'm a good kisser, neat.
Keep on keepin on with her cousin.
During above party: Drink beer. Indian dude has me do high quality absinthe shot with him. I do shot of patron because italian girl won't do it. I do another half shot of absinthe. Drink second beer.
Chill around with random people just bullshitting
Friend is upset at her boyfriend, has been upset at him for some time, he went to bed super early.
She says she is super close to just blowing me in my car.
I'm like okay.jpg
We go to my car and have some sloppy blowjobbery
She is very impressed with the size of my dongasaurus rex.
Both decide now isn't really the time or place for blowjobbery.
She's probably gonna dump him for reasons unrelated to me.
Still feels good man.
Didn't sleep, went right to work.
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Post by: valley_parade on 08 Oct 2011, 14:11
Someone gave me a mandolin earlier this week, and I have been dedicating time to this like I haven't to music in a long, long time. It is so fantastic - I know a bunch of Zelda songs, the Tetris theme, Ziggy Stardust, and I'm going to start working on Crazy on You (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27IW08mC3zE) next.

Battle of Evermooooooooooore
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Oct 2011, 01:35
Today, I buried my favorite uncle and played some songs for his funeral. It was the most heartfelt performance of my entire life. I saw a lot of cousins for the first time since before I ever moved abroad. It was awkward. I have literally nothing to talk to them about that wouldn't feel to me like I was bragging or in some way trying to be something above what I actually am: a regular dude who is from Bizarre Circumstances. The only thing that made me feel comfortable was the familiarity of the Catholic service, the presence of my favorite aunt (the widow) and her superhuman strength in this situation, and the fact that I was basically only expected to play and sing.

I avoided destroying my stepmother in the car without being stoned (my hook flaked on me) and it was almost as hard as having to bury my uncle. She is so full of herself and she says so many hopelessly tasteless and inappropriate things ALL THE TIME that I honestly pity every single one of her students (she is a middle school teacher).

I guess the reason I'm so beat up about this is because it is only within the last 8-10 months that I finally learned what was worth the emotional investment I spent years wasting on ultimately trivial shit, and those 8-10 months were a major turning point in my uncle's health condition. I feel like I wasted too much time wallowing in my own self-induced misery and didn't put enough time into being there for such a powerful figure in my life.

The shitty thing is that my uncle was a major part of my eventual realization that I was prioritizing things badly. Is this a catch-22 or am I just beating myself up over stuff?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Oct 2011, 02:57
I think when someone important to you dies, it is impossible not to feel regrets about the time you didn't spend with them, but it isn't possible to know in advance how you will feel later on. If someone has had a big impact on you, the best way to honour them is to continue developing in the way they helped you to set off on, and there's no use feeling bad that you were caught up in your own thing when you could have been with them. I'm sure your uncle would be pleased and proud to know that he'd helped you sort yourself out, and that would be just as valuable as your presence while he was ill. That's the thing about true family - they are pleased and proud when their "young" are on track, even if it's at their expense in some way.

I didn't explain that very well but when my godmother died and I hadn't gone to visit her for the last time when I said that I would, I spent a lot of time feeling bad about it. But I'm now fairly sure that she'd have said I should have been getting on with living my life and working out where I was going, rather than worrying and being upset about her all the time. Everything needs balance.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Oct 2011, 03:09
You can't change the past, so feeling bad about it will achieve nothing - which is not to say that grief doesn't have its appropriate place.  If you feel that your uncle started you on the right path in some respects, the best thing for you and for his memory is to continue along that path as best you can.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Oct 2011, 04:39
Argh I hate banks, and money, and budgeting, and bills, and not having any clue where this week's money got to! I'm allowing myself a £50 budget each week, which considering I only spend at the most £20 on food and I earn an additional £15 that isn't included in that, ought to be ample. I am racking my brains to work out where I spent all of this week's £50, plus all the cash I had with me - another £20, I think, although it's complicated by the different days that money is paid to me.

It would be so simple if my bank statement would update and show where I spent it! But noo, the last payment it shows is the incoming £50 from Thursday. And it says "available balance £51.34" but then further down it says something like "Balance available £3.34". Well. Great.

ARGH. I keep telling myself that once I've bought all my textbooks, fixed all my bike issues, and send birthday presents to everyone has a birthday between now and Christmas (which I have done), I'll be spending less. I bloody hope so, or I'm going to run out of money.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 09 Oct 2011, 08:05
If you need help with the bike issues, I have all sorts of spares and bits and bobs kicking around that it would benefit me to donate to a good cause (namely reducing the stack of stuff before I have to move into a new house in a couple of weeks).

Am definitely not liking househunting at the moment. Seems like anything that isn't about to fall down or on some sink estate is looking getting let before we have a chance to look at it. A new one popped up this weekend so I'm hoping that we'll be able to bag it as it's quite nice in a nice part of town which is pretty much where we want to be.

At least Leeds Thoughtbubble have announced the comic convention programme so I can finally book my day there. Anyone else planning on attending?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Oct 2011, 13:32
Thanks for the offer, but the bike issues were a) I hadn't screwed the bike light brackets on yet, and then I dropped the screw into a pile of leaves, and b) the batteries were flat. Both easily resolved :)

The fire alarm in my college keeps going off, and we just all evacuated despite the fact that it was the intermittent alarm in most of the buildings (which means that you don't have to leave, but there might be a fire in another building so be careful) but it's so loud. It was kind of a party atmosphere but then we all came back inside again and now it's stopped. So I have to do some work.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Oct 2011, 14:40
Someone gave me a mandolin earlier this week, and I have been dedicating time to this like I haven't to music in a long, long time. It is so fantastic - I know a bunch of Zelda songs, the Tetris theme, Ziggy Stardust, and I'm going to start working on Crazy on You (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27IW08mC3zE) next.

Battle of Evermooooooooooore

Why did this not occur to me? I already have Going to California down...

@Patrick: I understand what you mean. Whenever someone's gone, it's hard not to look back at all the times you could have spent together but didn't. I've never heard anyone look back on their life and wish they had spent less time with their children, you know?
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Post by: Dazed on 10 Oct 2011, 21:15
There are some cool blind melon songs with mandolin too.

Just sayin'.

Also hi blog, life is good and shit but I have a cold.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 11 Oct 2011, 06:24
Hey blog thread.

I haven't been around much lately. I've been hanging out at some other forum for a while. It's ok.

Things have certainly been interesting for me. At the beginning of the year I went back to university after two years of not doing much and I'm coming up to the end of the course now and I'm starting to get pretty stressed out. I have my thesis due in just over two weeks and I'm not sure I'm going to be able to do a very good job. I'm not an incredible writer or researcher to be honest and I feel really hopeless at this sort of thing. I've applied for a bunch of Master's programs and have one more application to submit after I hand in the thesis. I'm actually really confident about the Masters applications because my references are really good and all my other marks for the year have been Distinctions or High Distinctions (two top grades in Australian university) which is a first for me. I'm even top of the year for statistics, a subject I barely understood at the beginning of this year so that's really impressive.
If I get accepted into the course then I'm going to apply to get a teaching job taking first year psychology classes. One of my teachers told me to speak to the Masters co-ordinator and to tell him that she personally recommended me. I'm so excited that I might actually be able to do something with my life.

Edit: Oh, and the other students at uni seem to think I'm some sort of genius or something? I think they're seeing the long hair and black fingernails and tattoos and assuming that I must be really smart to compensate for it all. It's really strange because I don't think I'm that smart, I just show up to all my classes and lectures (last week I was the only person to show up to Developmental Psychopathology, it was really awkward) and I try to get involved in classes and stuff. I realise that I am that mature age student that always answers the questions and shit but god I am so sick of the lecturer or teacher asking a question and then being met with this stone cold silence from the class. Augh.
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Post by: Lupercal on 11 Oct 2011, 08:48
People are strange and don't seem to want to answer a question, as if they'd be looked down upon for the answer they give. I do Literature, so most commonly the stone cold silence is based around the fact that people haven't actually read the bloody book(s) that we've been set to read. We have so few contact hours compared to other courses and people still don't manage to get the work done - while I don't mind what they do with themselves in terms of hours per week they spend studying, it does annoy me that they cannot contribute to the lectures or seminars.

Had something quite similar myself today, bit depressing that third year students cannot find the time for reading.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Oct 2011, 14:15
Thanks for your support, guys. It means a lot. I'll keep what y'all said in mind so I don't beat myself up over it.

Yesterday, I found out that one of my favorite open mic participants (who is also a good buddy of mine) got arrested. Was surprised to learn he was a coke dealer, which by itself wasn't even the reason they stopped him in the first place. He'd had a traffic offense of some kind where he didn't appear at his court date, and they had a warrant out for him for that. When they found him, they searched him and found an ounce of blow in his shoe. Dude's going away for a while.

Not only am I a little pissed to find out that my friend would hide something like that from me, but I'm also a little pissed to know that somebody who had an outstanding warrant AND who was dealing blow would come into my house and endanger me, my roomies, and every single friend any of us have ever brought up here. My house is fairly high-profile to start with; it's right in the middle of downtown, and there's police patrols at least every 30 minutes, regardless of what time of day it is. And how many times did we have that kid up here...

:psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Oct 2011, 17:02
There's a thing called 'guilty by association'; not sure how applicable it would be in this situation.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 11 Oct 2011, 19:13
I just heard back from one of the schools I applied to for a Masters in Clinical Psychology. Did not get in. They didn't mention anything about my other application for the Forensic Psych. Masters so maybe they're still considering me for that.

Oh well. I have high hopes for the other schools I've applied/am applying to.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 Oct 2011, 20:38
So, I spent last weekend changing the fuel pump in my wife's van.  It went out Thursday night, when she was at Wal-Mart.  She was on steroids for her walking pneumonia, and went through some serious 'roid rage when it wouldn't start...

After about 3 hours I was able to narrow it down to the fuel pump and tow it home with a friend's truck.  The only thing about changing a fuel pump on a modern car is that they're put in the top of the gas tank, so you have to pull that out.  Mind you, this is a 26 gallon tank that takes up the whole bottom of the van - it's bigger than me, and was still 1/4 full of gas, so about 70 - 80 lbs.  And I don't have a lift...

But I did it, and it works.  It's probably the best thing that's happened for several months.  Gave myself a slight case of gas poisoning while I was at it - sick all day Monday, still feeling it a little.  Unfortunately, I also found out exactly how badly the body and frame are rusted.  So it looks like it probably wasn't worth the fucking $200 it cost for the part.  I'd say the van has another year, maybe two, before it's too rusted to pass inspection. 

C'est la guerre!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Oct 2011, 23:19
Jimmy, stay positive! They would obviously reject you for one course if they're going to accept you for the other! So it could be a very good sign :) Which one did you most want to do?

I am up way too early. Wayyyy too early. 7.15am and it is still kinda dark out, and tonight I have choral compline which doesn't even start until 10pm. I can see a nap coming on this afternoon - in fact I have scheduled it into my day (I am a huge geek with so many timetables it is quite funny - weekly ones, daily ones, monthly meal planners).

Time to do two and a half hours of reading before lectures! That sounds really impressive and dedicated but it's because I have a supervision this afternoon and I'm not even half way ready for it. But I will be.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 12 Oct 2011, 02:42
Clinical was actually my first preference. If I get offered a place in a Clinical program anywhere else I would take that over Forensics at UNSW.
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Post by: nobo on 12 Oct 2011, 03:42
Jimmy, what did you do your undergraduate in? and where? My sister wants to get into forensic science and I am at a bit of a loss as to how I can help her.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Oct 2011, 05:25
I realise that I am that mature age student that always answers the questions and shit but god I am so sick of the lecturer or teacher asking a question and then being met with this stone cold silence from the class. Augh.

Ugh, I hate this. There was one class in my undergrad where only two people would ever answer questions - me and this one older woman. I spoke up mostly because I got sick of both the silence and the other woman talking all the time. Also I really wanted to yell at the other students, "Do you people know how to read?" (It was a lit class. An easy lit class. We read Treasure Island and Sherlock Holmes and shit. Read a fucking book.) Now I'll speak if I have something to say, but I hate it when I have a lot to say and feel like I'm dominating a discussion. But I have Questions about Stuff.

I hope you get into a school you like! How many places did you apply?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Oct 2011, 09:12
I'm signed up to a daily email with tips about... well, kind of about budgeting but it's also got recipes and tips for cleaning and generally the kind of stuff that the average housewife would care about.

Because I'm a massive geek I wrote in once thanking the woman who writes the column for a really useful tip she'd included. And the auto-reply email I got back included the following paragraph:

Quote
Did you know that www.Google.com is a great place to get the information you need fast. Just type your question into the Google search bar (for example, "Does corn syrup go bad?" or "How to sell a timeshare") and you'll be amazed at how many links will be featured with the information you're looking for. You'll be surprised at the ease and speed of Google. It's like having a research librarian at your finger tips.

Holy moses. I guess that tells you about the kind of emails they get a lot.
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Post by: pen on 12 Oct 2011, 11:44
I get one of those types of emails every day.  It's the Everyday Cheapskate, and I can't NOT read it.  I have yet to use one of the actual tips, but I think it's pretty neat to just learn about different ways of doing something. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Oct 2011, 15:17
That's the one I was talking about too :) Half of it is either too American or too meat-related to be useful (or are they the same thing?  :wink:) but it's still interesting. It appeals to my nesting instinct.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 12 Oct 2011, 17:01
Jimmy, what did you do your undergraduate in? and where? My sister wants to get into forensic science and I am at a bit of a loss as to how I can help her.

All my undergrad and grad work (I have two qualifications and I'm working on my third) have been in Psychology. First was a BA majoring in Psych, the second was a graduate diploma and this year I'm doing a postgrad diploma. I've done all of these at the University of Western Sydney which is good and bad. It's a fairly young university (about 40 years old) and historically has not been very well funded so a lot of people on the street would tell you it's not as good as other, older universities. The fact is though that in the last few years the Psych faculty specifically have been getting a lot of funding and have pulled in a lot of really respectable psychologists for senior lecturer positions. One of my thesis supervisors is the most prominent sports psychologist in the country (to the point where most sports psych masters programs across the country are based on her work), the head of psychology is the leading researcher in the country in positive psychology and the most prominent expert in paranormal psychology (he's really cool, he used to be on TV a lot whenever tabloid news programs used to do stories about ghosts and shit but now they don't call him because in all the interviews he keeps explaining how and why there are no ghosts and stuff like that). At this point it's the second highest rated university for psychology in the state.
In regards to your sister, I should clarify that the Forensics Masters I was looking at is Forensic Psychology which is very different from Forensic Science. If your sister wants to go into Forensic Science there are a lot of options. If she's interested in studying it here there are actually a shitload of courses available, basically every uni in the country has an F.Sci degree and a lot of the time it's actually easier for international students to get accepted in because they lower the restrictions when you pay full fees (international students can't get Commonwealth Assistance). Aside from forgetting anything she might have learned from television I really couldn't tell you what she could do though... but here are some links to Australian Universities that offer F.Sci degrees.

http://www.forensics.uts.edu.au/ (http://www.forensics.uts.edu.au/)
http://future.uws.edu.au/future_students_home/ug/forensics/bachelor_of_science_forensic_science (http://future.uws.edu.au/future_students_home/ug/forensics/bachelor_of_science_forensic_science)
http://cit.edu.au/future/courses/forensic_science_degree (http://cit.edu.au/future/courses/forensic_science_degree)
http://www.bond.edu.au/degrees-and-courses/undergraduate-degrees/list/bachelor-of-forensic-science/index.htm (http://www.bond.edu.au/degrees-and-courses/undergraduate-degrees/list/bachelor-of-forensic-science/index.htm)
http://www17.griffith.edu.au/cis/p_cat/admission.asp?ProgCode=1264&Type=overview (http://www17.griffith.edu.au/cis/p_cat/admission.asp?ProgCode=1264&Type=overview)

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 12 Oct 2011, 18:59
Jimmy, thanks for the info. I wish my memory had been better and I realized you were studying in Australia and not here in the US. My folks are already having stress ulcers from the idea of my sister moving to a different state, I cannot even imagine what they would do if she moved to a whole different continent. I am a little curious as to what is involved in sports psychology. Have they figured out why athletes slap each others butts?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 12 Oct 2011, 20:15
Sports and Performance Psychology is basically all about the use of psychological techniques to enhance performance. It's not just sports, the theories can be expanded to basically any performance environment; dance, music, public speaking, etc... My thesis is on how well some performance techniques extrapolate to academic situations (according to my data, they don't).

Really it's all about increasing focus, concentration and relaxation during high pressure events and stuff while lowering tension, decreasing distractions and lowering anxiety with the intention to increase performance. It's kind of interesting but mostly not.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Oct 2011, 22:24
So basically how to make a free throw (or not... :psyduck:)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 13 Oct 2011, 03:45
I wonder if sports psychologists are consulted during stadium construction, or when they are making the playlist for the games, or designing uniforms. I'm guessing not, but those thing scould have a potential impact on performance.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Oct 2011, 04:47
That last one is sheer marketing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Oct 2011, 06:01
Or something...
(http://cdn.gunaxin.com/wp-content/gallery/maryland_uniforms/terps_uniforms.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Oct 2011, 07:07
From what I remember of the Maryland flag (Rosie you're from there right? Correct me if I'm wrong), it would actually work were the designs on the helmet reversed.

Otherwise, shut up Under Armour.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 13 Oct 2011, 07:16
...the head of psychology is the leading researcher in the country in positive psychology and the most prominent expert in paranormal psychology (he's really cool, he used to be on TV a lot whenever tabloid news programs used to do stories about ghosts and shit but now they don't call him because in all the interviews he keeps explaining how and why there are no ghosts and stuff like that).
Hey, that sounds pretty interesting, I'd like to hear more about that. Can you give me his name?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Oct 2011, 08:10
I mean yeah, those are the crests on the Maryland flag, but whyyyyy would they plaster it all over everything? Even their new shoes are little tiny repeating flags all over. Godawful. Stupid Under Armor. Plus apparently the Charm City Roller Girls (from Baltimore) have had helmets like that for years.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Oct 2011, 10:32
From what I've read on different uniform blogs (oh yes, those exist and I am a huge sporting nerd), Maryland football has never had an "identity", so they're working with UA to try and create one, based on "oh hey, we're Maryland, you're Maryland based, MARYLANNNNNNNNNNDDDDDD"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 13 Oct 2011, 12:03
Your identity: You are the guy who wears the uniform and pummels the fuck out of the people in the uniform that doesn't match

What the fuck is wrong with these people

Dear blag I guess I'm still sick and I still have another open mic to run tonight. And just like last week I have to do it alone, with a cold. THERE IS NO GOD
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 13 Oct 2011, 14:02
I once had to sing something for "karaoke" (It was just a page with lyrics, and their was a bacckup band. Not complaining just being technical). I did not know the timing or tempo at all, and I constantly came in at the wrong time.

So, originally I was gonna do a long post telling you forum people what my life is right now, but since this is my 50th post and I want to celebrate with tophats and monocles, i'll do prs and cons.

PROS:
Shifting away from shitty friends (those who don't give a damn abut what I have to say, I have to listen to them, and our friendship is barely existent)
Got into Academic Decathlon
Life for me in the next month is pretty chill. I've got two parties coming up for this weekend and for halloween. Won't be too busy, and hey Fall Break soon.

CONS:
I kinda have to stay with the aforementioned friends because of scheduling and one of them being in the nly good local band around here
I am going t be busy, which is good and bad.
My damn pubescent hormones and social aptitude gland keeps on telling me to find a girl. But I really do not want to ruin my cchill next few months :psyduck:



Also, this is my first time using the psyduck (+1)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 13 Oct 2011, 18:59
...social aptitude gland ...

Had mine removed a few years ago. 


It was only getting in the way. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Oct 2011, 02:57
Didn't have to do it alone, hooray! And not a moment too soon, either, 'cause maybe 3 musicians showed. Again. The bar the night before was a similar story. Apparently business gets slow in October. Scotty, the bar owner, said that it gets that way these two weeks in October. Then it picks up and you're busy as fuck until New Year.

Still. It's been a disappointing turnout even with solid promotion. Nothing I can do about it but keep on truckin' with everything and hope for the best.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Oct 2011, 05:32
My doctor decided that maybe the problem with my throat is going to be solved by spraying a hayfever remedy up my nose twice a day. Well hey, I'll try anything, let's see whether this is any use at all. Opinion so far: it is weird to spray a slightly smelly liquid up your nose, even for medical reasons.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 14 Oct 2011, 05:49
I have submitted my dissertation proposal and can now focus on the parts of my life which are fun! Yay! (For a little while at least)

These things are:
1) We have a Sicilian girl staying in our house for a few days. She is good fun to hang around with! Also, mild amusement arises from the fact that she had a one night stand with one of my housemates a couple of weeks ago, and things are now super awkard between them.

2) There is a mouse living somewhere in our house. Initially I was a bit creeped out by this, but we've named it Autonomouse, and in my mind it is becoming our anti-social but sassy fourth housemate.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Oct 2011, 10:53
Guys, in the massively-advanced planning way that I have, I am looking for something interesting to do with my summer.

Here are the criteria:

That is it. I'll go anywhere in the world and do anything anyone will pay me for. Give me ideas!

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Oct 2011, 13:57
Are you looking to tick over the summer holidays without running up any more debts or bank some cash ahead of the new academic year? Not got anything immediately to mind but I'll keep an ear out for anything that meets the needs.

BTW, how illegal does it not have to be? It's just that if you can bring yourself to punch Michael Gove face I reckon I could swing you a grand or two out of an appreciative public.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Oct 2011, 14:01
Finally moving out of our nice big free house in the country. It's been nice to live in a free house of some considerable size but, in all fairness, it's also a bit shit. So in the next few weeks we're moving into the city where we won't be so isolated and won't take an hour to get to anywhere of interest.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Oct 2011, 15:51
I think unfortunately punching a member of the government would get a criminal record, which wouldn't do wonders to my career prospects in the health service.

Edith has potentially come up with some awesome ideas for me! Which will mean I get to spend my whole summer in America if they work out. That would be super excellent.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Oct 2011, 16:14
I was accosted by a person today who was A) super pissed off at me for being rude and not to her and 2) thought my name was "Mordecai".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Oct 2011, 23:58
I think unfortunately punching a member of the government would get a criminal record ...

Surely there's an exception for Michael Gove?

More seriously, good luck in America.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 15 Oct 2011, 14:40
I was accosted by a person today who was A) super pissed off at me for being rude and not to her and 2) thought my name was "Mordecai".

Mordecai is a pretty fucking cool name, though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 16 Oct 2011, 05:22
Two nights ago, hung out with this girl. Super cute, and turns out she's pretty rad to hang out with, so we hung out again today. Best part is, she lives out of town and I live in a laundry room without a door, so I don't have to worry about romance ever happening.

I do hate it when this happens though. The last thing I want is to get romantically involved with anybody, and then a girl comes along who makes it seem more appealing than previously anticipated.

Time for bed, then back to work practicing in the morning.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Oct 2011, 10:01
Yesterday I went up in a hot air balloon and then met Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall. That's almost the best day I've had this year.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 18 Oct 2011, 14:20
I'm imagining that Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall was just floating around up there, waiting for someone to meet him.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 18 Oct 2011, 15:47
Is there a more British sounding person than Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 18 Oct 2011, 16:49
Do you mean Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall or the name Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Oct 2011, 18:02
Both, really. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 18 Oct 2011, 21:50
The name. If only his first name were Reginald, or like.. Martin.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Oct 2011, 23:05
I'm imagining that Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall was just floating around up there, waiting for someone to meet him.

That would have made the day just a little bit better.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 18 Oct 2011, 23:12
Namewise, I think only a title might make The Hugh (as he is known in my house for short/drunk) more British. His voice is very British but I tend to think the more British sounds come from the regions where American actors regularly fail in imitation.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Oct 2011, 00:00
Is there a more British sounding person than Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall?

Me

(OK, not the name)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 19 Oct 2011, 09:54
Gordon Ramsay vs Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJY6xdhyJJs)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 19 Oct 2011, 09:58
Nothing exciting, it was mainly for accent purposes. He is extremely British. Or as we call it, English.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Oct 2011, 12:17
Some random person I've only met once up at my friend's house, who I don't really like, and who stalks the fuck out of my Facebook and simply annoys me to death, was going to come into town and visit. But she cancelled. She was super apologetic, and it took everything in me to not say "No. Really, it's fine. I think you suck anyway, you're a total whiny attention whore who makes me want to shoot myself right in the brain every time you say words."

I don't exactly obscure my feelings about anything. If I am annoyed at somebody, I don't have much patience for their shit. I honestly don't know why this girl hasn't gotten the hint that I don't like talking to her. If I liked talking to her, I'd fucking talk to her more than once every 3 months, and I might actually initiate the conversation myself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Oct 2011, 15:28
Well, she's obviously attracted to that sort of thing. 

Isn't wonderful how social networks connect you with fuckups you'd never even see in real life? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 19 Oct 2011, 16:23
Part of the reason why I deleted Facebook. When you tell people you deleted Facebook, they look at you as if you've just said "I have a tattoo of Bush where my pubes should be" or "I have a degenerative sexually transmitted disease".

I just think its funny that I'M now the weirdo now that I've stopped letting people I don't know and/or give a shit about have a viewing into my life, like some sort of weird voyeurism that other people love but I take no pleasure from. It became inane and irritating. Also, nobody has anything interesting to say, ever. [/hypocritical post]
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 19 Oct 2011, 16:41
Social networks connect you with fuckups you'd never normally see, while network-less people become social fuckups who you never see. Thanks, internet.

Myself, I'm finding out first-hand just how much work and stress in involved in moving. The apartment is a mess, I'm overcharged on the rent, I have to buy all the things, and the communal kitchen is in a state where nuking it from orbit wouldn't make it clean enough. What have I gotten myself into.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 19 Oct 2011, 19:14
I am an expert in moving. It is kinda double edge sword for me socially, it helped me become very adaptable and well rounded, but I do have gaps in my social life, and I have missed sme key moments
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Oct 2011, 07:08
Yeah, like graduation.  I missed HS, BS and Ph.D.  The only graduation ceremony I ever made it to was my master's, cause I didn't have to move.   :|
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Oct 2011, 12:08
I'm going to see Tom Morello at Occupy SF today, 4pm.

Fuck. Yes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 24 Oct 2011, 16:19
My five-month-old puppy, Penny, swam for the first time yesterday. She's enjoyed splashing around for a while (anything to annoy the other dog), but yesterday she deliberately went out of her depth to fetch a stick.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 24 Oct 2011, 16:19
I'm having deja Paul, holy crap!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 24 Oct 2011, 16:22
wut?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 24 Oct 2011, 16:23
I just read same exact post over on the other forum.

(yay swimming dogs!)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 24 Oct 2011, 16:28
The wonders of cut 'n paste!

I'm still not sure whether to simply drop PJ; there's stuff there that interests me still, but it also means putting up with things that annoy me there as much as they used to here...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 24 Oct 2011, 16:48
Yeah, I like both these places. I can handle being on three different forums, whatever (here, there and OSG).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 24 Oct 2011, 18:28
I pretty much gave up on PJ after I realized that the most vocal people are just waiting to get offended about something.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 24 Oct 2011, 18:34
I have always wanted to go find another forum like this. Would anyone here tell me abut pocket jury r anther cool forum?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 24 Oct 2011, 18:37
There are no other cool forums. 


This is it. 


 :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Oct 2011, 00:08
PJ is where a lot of the old regulars decamped when things were getting tense here. Those of us left behind are the ones who didn't want to go with them (or the ones who went with them but keep nipping home to check on the cat).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 25 Oct 2011, 01:03
There are a myriad forums out there, each with a different reason to exist.  In general I avoid suggesting forums for other people to visit, as I simply can't know what they're looking for, or whether any of the tiny number that I know of will suit.

Would anyone here tell me abut pocket jury?

The Pocket Jury forum was set up as place for a specific group of people, some of whom felt that they had outstayed their welcome at this forum (using Jeph's bandwidth at his expense, while having no interest in discussing the comic it was set up to complement and in some cases despising those who do).  They considered making it entry by application only (but haven't), and it is currently run without moderation - a sort of forum utopia, and I'm a bit curious (only a little bit) to see how long it can last in that state*.  It's really only for those who already know that it's their place.

Tommy's rationale for PJ (http://forums.pocketjury.net/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=6&start=1920#p21537)


* Hmm - the first cracks (http://forums.pocketjury.net/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=472#p22411).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Oct 2011, 03:33
I miss those guys, but visiting the PJ forum makes me realise that I like this one more the way it is now, than the way it was then. I am not really cool enough for the PJ forum.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Blue Kitty on 25 Oct 2011, 13:28
Yeah, I like both these places.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Oct 2011, 10:16
I'm of two minds about it. On one hand, a lot of the most active posters are gone from round here now, which really slows this place down. Maybe others will come along and fill the void, I don't know.

On the other hand, I don't have people threatening me in my PM box anymore.

Edit: It also seems like the ones that went to PJ kind of jumped ship once people starting regularly coming on. There was a problem with registration for awhile there, so there wasn't anyone new coming through - then once there was, a lot of the old members (the regular meebo crowd, anyways) left. Maybe that's oversimplifying it, but that's how it seems to me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Oct 2011, 13:21
I would agree - this place had stagnated a bit, and developed a very specific culture that was hard to slot straight into (as you know only too well!). When the move happened, it wasn't so much that people jumped ship, they just went to set up their own place as they realised that they couldn't fairly exclude people any more - and hadn't been doing anyway, it was just by chance that people couldn't register - and that new people changed the dynamic they wanted. It was probably for the best.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 26 Oct 2011, 15:28
The thing is, there's not actually any reason for anyone new to come to these forums unless they are a QC fan - there're no other links to draw them in.  I have removed all the stuff there used to be in the "welcome" threads that warned people not to come down to this part of the forum without taking care, and have made it clear that they are welcome to use the whole forum, but there's not a lot more I can do unless they are actually looking for a wider range of experience. 

Unfortunately, past experiences, with QCD especially*, led Jeph to move the forum link on the QC home page from the main top menu to the bottom of the smallest side menu, so the rate at which new people arrive is in any case far less than might be expected from the popularity of the comic.


* For whatever reason, all the moderators for the whole forum were drawn from the group who have recently moved on, and so they took less interest in the QC discussion than it required (i.e. none) - in practice, until I took it on, it was effectively unmoderated, with unsurprising results.  Maybe I should try pointing out to Jeph that not only is it no longer how it was, there is also no reason for it to return to that state, so he has no more need to hide it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 26 Oct 2011, 16:30
PJ looks like my old social circle- Built out of old shit and drama and it is about to collapse. I could be wrong though, but large social circles with a lot f history tend collapse and fragment eventually. And with no neutral person there, then I am guessing the forum is going to go to hell along with the social scene.

It is truly sad that our forum's dark past has ruined its chances to get more people. Anyways, I think it will take a while for the stigma from the old forum dynasty to clear up. It is not directly there, but when you have leaders for a duration of years, there is going to e some stigma to clean up before progress can be made.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2011, 00:49
That makes it sound far worse than it was! There was a little bit of drama with a few new people - we did get some complete idiots arriving and going on and on about their (lack of) sex life all over the place, but getting angry when we tried to help and getting quite abusive. There was one guy who claimed to be allergic to sunlight. Oh, and another guy who said his friend was a werewolf, that was fun.

But yeah, I wouldn't say it's built of shit or anything. It's a group of friends who've known each other a long time and have similar interests and meet in real life a lot. There's a lot of trust and friendship that it's hard to tap into as a new person. This forum is still finding its feet in the new era but I'd say it'll head that way too as we get to know each other more. It's what happens when people tell each other stuff a lot!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 27 Oct 2011, 01:32
The real "dark past" of these forums was in the QCD that was, which was not anything to do with the PJ crowd.  The behaviour in this part was generally quite tame in comparison, just friends joshing each other; with the single exception of some incidents of unreasonable baiting of new people, mainly, though not solely, those from QCD. 

PJ might not really suit me, because it doesn't have the heterogeneous elements present in this forum.  But each to their own - I wish them well in their new place, and it is not for us to criticise them here, not least because there are still some people with a presence in both forums.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 27 Oct 2011, 02:53
On the other hand, I don't have people threatening me in my PM box anymore.

To be fair, this was due to you saying something incredibly offensive about one of the people that was a) a member, b) the wife of another member, and c) a good friend of a significant portion of the other members. I might also like to point out that since that incident you altered your behaviour and everyone stopped acting like pricks to you (for the most part. I certainly did).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2011, 03:18
Zing, you are a great example of someone who did manage to fit into the culture! A shining beacon of "how not to be NQG".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: benji on 27 Oct 2011, 08:56
So that's what happened to all the old timers. Somehow I missed that. But yeah, I don't think things were ever that bad in the lower forums: there was some cliquish behavior, but I think that was simply the result of people being here for a long time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Oct 2011, 13:08
On the other hand, I don't have people threatening me in my PM box anymore.

To be fair, this was due to you saying something incredibly offensive about one of the people that was a) a member, b) the wife of another member, and c) a good friend of a significant portion of the other members. I might also like to point out that since that incident you altered your behaviour and everyone stopped acting like pricks to you (for the most part. I certainly did).

And I still feel bad about that! I can't really think of a single time you've been a cock to me (or to my face, anyways). I ended up reading an earlier post of mine the other day, and I'm not sure how I got there, but it made me realize how utterly fucking depressed I was for years, and how it's been really hard to get out of the situation and mindset that were informing my depression, and so it all came across pretty negatively.

Still, that incident pretty much fractured much chance of really being involved in the whole meebo/gabbly/whathaveyou group, which is a shame, but I can't really blame anyone for not wanting me in the group after that.

Zing, you are a great example of someone who did manage to fit into the culture! A shining beacon of "how not to be NQG".

This isn't all that hard - you mostly have to not post tentacle porn.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 27 Oct 2011, 13:45
Sorry I meant no offense. It just sounded like the situation I was in a few years bacx. Also I have heard more unflattering things about PJ than positive. Then again, I haven't heard much about it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2011, 14:24
I have barely spent any time there at all, I don't think I have an account, but the people are generally lovely and any unpleasantness is usually a misunderstood joke (some quirky senses of humour, which I think is a good thing!).

So hey blog thread, I spilt pasta sauce on my passport. Do you think it's still valid if the pages are stuck together and smell like broccoli and cheese?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Oct 2011, 15:43
Depends on how hungry the guards are feeling that day...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 27 Oct 2011, 20:42
Maybe if you change your name to Tommy Toesoz from the independent country of Broclichese
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: richlitt on 27 Oct 2011, 23:41
That might be mutilated. Costs the same as a lost/stolen passport to replace.

I just had to cancel a fully paid trip to Brussels for a hackathon, and one to portugal for the same reason, because I lost my passport. Serious shit. :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Oct 2011, 01:53
Noooo I don't HAVE £78 to buy a new passport! And this one is valid for another seven years! NOOO
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 28 Oct 2011, 06:58
Questa mattina mi sono svegliato, and I was quite pleased that I could remember a little of the Italian that I got taught last night. My plan is to learn a line of Bella Ciao every day, so that in a couple of weeks I will (surely) be completely fluent. This is how learning languages works, right guys?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Oct 2011, 09:23
Noooo I don't HAVE £78 to buy a new passport! And this one is valid for another seven years! NOOO

The replacement fee is not usually the same as the cost for a new passport.  They don't have all the verification paperwork to do - they already hunted down your next of kin and best friends - it's just the cost of remaking the thing. 

Then again, maybe that is  78 Euros, but that seems pretty fucking exorbitant. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Oct 2011, 11:08
It definitely is £78 (pounds ;)), I had a look on the website. They also do "extensive enquiries".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Oct 2011, 11:40
Definitely time for new glasses...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 28 Oct 2011, 14:39
Third year at University is definitely "Struggle with essays, but do lots of extra-curricular stuff" year.

As of today I'm the course rep for Stage 3 English Literature at my uni. Which is ...hundreds and hundreds of people that need to tell me things that they like/dislike about the course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: syrupykeyboard on 28 Oct 2011, 14:39
Hey everyone, long time no see. How's it going?

One month + with scabies.
I am now literally batshit insane.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 28 Oct 2011, 16:24
Third year at University is definitely "Struggle with essays, but do lots of extra-curricular stuff" year.

As of today I'm the course rep for Stage 3 English Literature at my uni. Which is ...hundreds and hundreds of people that need to tell me things that they like/dislike about the course.

Same for me, except so far it's more like "Procrastinate on essays, but do lots of extra-curricular stuff". I ended up submitting this paper on animal music 1.5 hours before deadline. Next week I'm starting work as a teaching assistant on a high school, and I need to remember to watch those AI class lectures...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Oct 2011, 02:02
Ugh, scabies sounds like the worst thing - a lingering and irritating illness that isn't really bad enough that you're not concious to know about it. My consolations.

And what, pray, is animal music, LTK?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Oct 2011, 03:19
Deerhoof.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 29 Oct 2011, 04:02
Gorillaz?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 29 Oct 2011, 04:06
I was basically talking about birdsong in the whole thing. There's some quarreling over whether or not you can call the sounds animals make 'music', just as there is about calling animal communication 'language'; certain criteria have to be met, etc. I was constrained to 1000 words, so I just explained how and why birdsong is musical. I could have written another 1000 words about humpback whales and creativity in songmaking, but that wasn't even necessary. There's a lot more information in this (10000 word) paper:

http://www.library.utoronto.ca/see/SEED/Vol5-1/Martinelli.htm

In unrelated news, I've been doing a lot of shopping around for second-hand furniture to move into my new apartment, and yesterday I picked up a nice desk. Then when I try to haul it out of the car after getting home, one of the planks gets stuck beneath the desktop and a corner breaks off. It was completely dark, so I couldn't see the bit that broke off anywhere. Now that it's light, it's still nowhere to be found. I turned the car upholstery inside out, combed out every inch where I carried the parts past, NOTHING. Now I ruined this perfectly good desk, and bits of it inexplicably disappear. This universe is not supposed to work this way, god damnit!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Oct 2011, 05:08
I have been working on an essay for a couple of days now - I think I started planning it on Thursday and I am determined to get it finished by 1.30 today (so I've got 25 minutes...). I had forgotten how tricky I find writing a really good essay. I know what my thoughts are, but I can't remember the things I read which justify and support them. I've been trying to keep track of what I'm thinking when I go to lectures etc, so that I can flick through my notes and find not only the lecture notes, but also my thoughts on the lecture notes, but it's hard. I wish I had more time to work on it! I could easily spend two weeks solid on this essay but it's only 1,500 words and it's due tomorrow. Plus I have another five subjects, one of which has an essay due at some point - not sure when, it's supposed to be due after the supervision has happened but the supervision has been moved three times and then cancelled. It should have been last Monday.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 29 Oct 2011, 05:46
Oh man, essays. I've been writing on a close-reading of Middlemarch by George Eliot for the best part of a week now and although I'm 2,193 words into a 2500 word essay, it is still like pulling teeth. How I'm supposed to work in the Reform Bill of 1832 into an essay that is talking about a very bland part of a very bland book (essentially a woman sits in a chair for a while, goes into a dark hall, her husband comes upstairs, they walk away together. ta dahhh).

On the other hand, having to cram the entire Cameron/Sarkozy/Eurozone thing into under 400 words is a bit of a problem.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 29 Oct 2011, 06:31
I have to write two research papers this semester and I'm probably gonna just do them the night before they are due.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 29 Oct 2011, 09:24
My dad just got back to the U.K after his high school reunion in Deniliquin, Australia and he came back with a bag full of goodies including a 900g tin of Milo, 5 different flavours of Tim Tams and a Canon 550D.

I am pretty much in heaven right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Oct 2011, 12:13
Do all you students realize that we dread reading and grading your essays even more than you dread writing them? 

And that the ones dashed off just before they're due are really  obvious? 

And that I'm putting off grading the ones from my class, so my comments will be dashed off the night before I return them... 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Oct 2011, 14:55
I don't dread writing my essays, in fact there is an essay I really really want to write but I just don't have time. I keep waiting for my supervisor to set it, but I don't think it's likely - we only do four essays a year (for each of five courses) and the topic has been and gone. That sucker had better be on the exam.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 29 Oct 2011, 19:34
I have always wanted to go find another forum like this. Would anyone here tell me abut pocket jury r anther cool forum?

It is less of a forum and more of a discussion board, but I really like www.reddit.com. They have sub-board that cover almost every topic, so you have some very large communities focused on sharing photos, and some really small ones discussing particular scientific theories or board games. Much more anonymous than forum such as this one, but it is easy to make friends there as well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 30 Oct 2011, 05:27
And that the ones dashed off just before they're due are really  obvious? 

Doesn't even matter to me, I hate english classes and writing essays so I put it off as long as I possibly can and shoot for a solid 70% on papers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 30 Oct 2011, 12:19
Aim higher.  There's a breeze...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Nov 2011, 07:28
Grrr I hate land law. It is SO BORING. And I never remember any of it, no matter how hard I study or how long I stare at the textbook, because I just don't care. Plus we take the statutes into the exam with us anyway! Why would I bother memorising hundreds of pages of legislation that I'll be carrying in with me? Can we please just have discussions about what it means, rather than trying to memorise what it is?

In other news, NaNoWriMo started today and I have been trying to get my writing support group sorted. I've been running it for five years and this year I decided to start a new thing - an interview series with the group members. It went great until last weekend, when I realised the person I'd scheduled hadn't actually got back to me in time, so I had to quickly move people around and run the following week's interview early.

They have now got their answers to me, in plenty of time for this weekend, but they are wrong! The interview is meant to be about the novel they will be writing this month. She has answered all the questions in reference to the one she wrote last year, which has been published and is on sale. That's great, but totally irrelevant to the interview. ARGH ARGH ARGH.

On the other hand, she's the first person I've had any kind of difficulty with at all. On the other other hand, I have another five/six interviews to go, and who knows which way they'll go?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 01 Nov 2011, 09:37
I've officially moved! This post is made a horizontal 41 km away from my previous post, and another 10m or so vertically. Got a bed, desk, laptop and mini-fridge. Good timing too, because tomorrow I start my new job right here in the city.

Now let's hope my housemates are not a nightmare.

Hm, I think I forgot to bring paper. The kind you write on. So there's another use for my e-reader: an electronic shopping list!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Nov 2011, 03:07
Good news: I have a job and income.

Bad news: I'm being evicted for being late on rent despite the fact that I now have a job and income.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Nov 2011, 00:58
Except my landlady's a dumbass because if she evicts me, she doesn't get rent. She didn't realize that until today.

Also, I coined the phrase 'fag haggis' tonight. Not sure if that's been said before - and I'm also not sure what it means - but I resolve to use this word more often in future conversations.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 06 Nov 2011, 04:39
It's obvious what it is, but what is it a metaphor for? Gay, intestine-based food doesn't really ring any bells right off the bat.

So, my sister has tapeworm. She probably picked it up back in the orphanage she used to live in half a year ago, but we still have to be checked. I really, really hope I don't have small, living, parasitic worms living inside my guts. eeech.

I also have to send shit to the doctors to get checked, so there's that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 06 Nov 2011, 05:37
Through the post?   :lol:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 07 Nov 2011, 00:09
Having a tapeworm means you have a legitimate excuse to go around using the first person plural pronoun!

It appears I may get a chance to shoot/direct a music video for a fairly big blues artist, Shane Dwight (http://www.shanedwight.com/). However, "big" is relative, and for some reason, his manager asked a classmate of mine, who does DJ work in the region and has connections with various clubs and artists, if he could come up with a music video in fairly short order for Shane's new single, Call Me (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gogkv4rI5L4). My friend contacted me and we talked about it, but I was very ambivalent about it for various reasons. Mostly because I don't like getting into situations where the expectations aren't clear, and I don't have the authority to uphold my part of it.

So I thought it over. It's a reasonable chance to get something out there that might draw attention to what I really want to do. At this point, I'm not concerned about the money, and I have a solid concept that won't cost anything to make. But control is an issue. I can happily be a minion, or I can be in charge, I can't work somewhere in the middle. So I said yes under the condition that if the artist is agreeable to the concept and the plan, it's my shoot, and my edit. Period. The way I figure it, by NOT paying, they forfeit the ability to try to stick their fingers into the details of the process and make it a pain. They'll either like the final product and use it, or they won't. I'm fine with either outcome.

So now we see if this actually comes together over the next couple of weeks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Nov 2011, 05:54
So I've just ordered an upgrade of my ADSL broadband connection to FTTC (Fibre to the cabinet).  This should roughly double both download and upload speeds to something between 32Mbps and 40Mbps down with 2Mbps up (I could select 10Mbps up, but that adds 50% to the cost!).  I currently have 18Mbps down and 1.1Mbps up.

Because BT (British Telecom) supply the modem for this service, and my present modem is in the loft where I guess they won't go (and I'd rather they didn't), I need to get some extra Ethernet wiring in place before they come to install it (and less urgently a mains cable from my UPS).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 07 Nov 2011, 07:11
Wiring party at Paul's house!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 09 Nov 2011, 23:09
Woo Hoo, off on a two day training course in Oxford. I'll combine that with a two evening course in swanning around Oxford drinking tasty beer.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 09 Nov 2011, 23:39
We've got plenty of good pubs for you, anyway.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 10 Nov 2011, 07:51
I saw a genuine hipster stereotype today. Glasses with black rims, quicksilver cap, fixed-gear bike, the whole shebang. Amazing!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Nov 2011, 08:03
Retro will always be in style. 

Wait, is it too soon for hipsterism to be retro? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Nov 2011, 08:39
I was at a choir rehearsal with a bunch of other choirs and the girl standing in front of me was wearing hideous, big round glasses.

Without any glass in them.

What.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Nov 2011, 10:27
Blinders? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 10 Nov 2011, 10:47
We've got plenty of good pubs for you, anyway.

Yeah, I've been missing the ales of the south west. Can I buy you a pint?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Nov 2011, 11:11
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Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Nov 2011, 11:21
When are you here?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Nov 2011, 11:34
Blinders? I have no idea what that is.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Nov 2011, 11:42
Barriers at the sides, like blinkers for a horse. Used by shooters, or on some sorts of sunglasses.  May also be useful for someone with some kind of visual impairment, I guess.

Re your remark somewhere (I forget where) about Cambridge having its Xmas lights already, Oxford put theirs up a week ago, but hasn't turned them on yet.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 10 Nov 2011, 12:12
Evenings of the Sunday 27th and Monday 28th.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 10 Nov 2011, 12:22
I think that we're getting to the stage of post-hipsters?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Nov 2011, 12:42
Monday evening is best (my wife is usually away Monday), though I have to fit round dog training.  Or lunchtime - but I guess you have lunch in.  PM me when you get here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Nov 2011, 12:55
Ah, I thought that might be what blinders were. No, she is just a pretentious hipster I think. She was also wearing a big baggy knitted jumper and had a haircut my aunt had in the 80s.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 15 Nov 2011, 15:57
A nice man came today and swapped my Internet for a new one twice as good - I've been upgraded from straight ADSL to FTTC, and my down speed has gone from 19Mbps to 39Mbps, with up going from 1.1Mbps to 2Mbps (10Mbps up is an option, but costs 50% more).  Unfortunately that's had to use the Ethernet cable from my firewall router in the loft to my study, so until I run another there is no network cable to my main desktop computer (which is also in bits because I had to move my desk out for the installation); I could alternatively move the router to my study, but then the wireless signal might not get to the right places.

I've also been sick for the last couple of days.  Boo.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Nov 2011, 16:37
This term had been going pretty well, I was on top of the work and healthy and keeping my room clean etc, and I started to get a bit more easy-going about saying yes to things.

With the result that I have a supervision at noon tomorrow, I haven't finished the work for it and there's no time to do so, and I have three essays due next week (plus three more supervisions, none of which I've started) and no time to do those things either.

ARGH ARGH ARGH ARGH THE OTHER SHOE IS ABOUT TO DROP.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 16 Nov 2011, 20:43
Sounds more like the other shoe just hit you on the head on its way down...

Sorry, May.  Hope it turns out better than you're expecting. 



Oh, and try to get a few hours sleep somewhere in all that.  Things will go better if you do than if you pull all nighters. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Nov 2011, 23:34
Relax, you won't be the first student to overcommit and I doubt you'll be the last. You've at least recognised this so take some time to get in touch with the relevant people, let them know what is happening and discuss what they expect from you. I reckon it'll make a refreshing change from hearing about it once the deadline has passed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 16 Nov 2011, 23:39
And in bloggage mode. I've taken up playing polo and had a fairly spectactular crash a few weeks back which left me spread across the court like well buttered toast. Got up, walked it off and was fine. This week I simply over-extend reaching for a tackle and have managed to do something bad to the muscle bits around my ribs. Still in pain two days later. Annoyed that the little stuff is more painful than the big stuff, it really shouldn't be this way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Nov 2011, 23:44
Unfortunately letting anyone down isn't an option - I have to do all the things I've agreed to do (with one possible exception, but that thing isn't really at an inconvenient time or anything so I'll just do it). They just will be done badly, to the detriment of my health and the tidiness of my room!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Nov 2011, 00:17
I just got called a narrow-minded classist because I don't believe mugging college students is good for anyone involved.  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Nov 2011, 01:38
I'm dying to know how that  conversation got started...   :-P

Seldomkiller, I've had similar situations.  Thing is, it was probably the polo court accident that actually caused the later injury - you were already injured, but it wasn't until you extended that part of the injured muscle set that you actually felt  it. 

I helped a friend move his gun safe once (not only a safe in name, the real deal, thick steel and heavier than shit).  I overextended my legs, I could feel they were a bit wobbly afterward.  Two days later, stepping off  a ladder, I felt a calf muscle twang like a rubber band.  No stress on it or anything, but I also recognized it as one of the strained, quaking ones from the gun safe day.  Took almost two weeks  to heal up, too...

Be careful, and take it easy for a bit, before you hurt someting else! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 Nov 2011, 11:41
Possibly, although there are three weeks between incidents. I have been moving house recently so that might have something to do with it as well. Fortunately as I put my body through a constant low level of abuse I tend to heal up fairly quickly. In reality I should probably lay off because I'm getting to that age when I'm no longer youthfully indestructable. But that doesn't seem like a lot of fun so there's a genuine risk that I'm going to carry on until I end up hosptialised.

Zingoleb, I'm having a hard time picturing the sort of person who violently steals money from college students and cognitive style to call someone a narrow-minded classist. Do you live in some kind of parrallel universe where life directed by Guy Richie and Gus Van Sant?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Nov 2011, 13:05
It's with a friend whom I have continual disagreements with, and he manages to turn them into altercations. (Though this time it was me that turned it into an altercation, because I was pissed off because that's fucked up.)

He keeps missing time at work for various reasons, and he works raising money for autism awareness, so if he doesn't make xx amount, he loses his job. Well, he misses work because he's stressed, or doesn't like the cold, or needs to help someone. I can understand that last one, but he is *really* not suited for this job in any way, and casually mentioned mugging someone last night so as to make enough money to keep his job. I thought it was a joke, but it turns out he was serious. "Why would mugging a monied, privileged person be a bad thing?" ...because you're fucking over someone else to fix your own problems. Besides, how can you even tell someone's 'priveleged'? "By the way they dress. Or if they go to Evergreen*, 99% of Evergreen students are loaded."

He told me that I need to study class analysis when I pointed out that everyone I know that's going to/gone to Evergreen has dug themselves pretty far in debt to go there. Then called me narrow-minded because I don't think knocking over anyone is a good way to fix a problem.

Oh god, I can usually defend his viewpoint, even when it's pissing me off, but this is just too fucking bizarre.  :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Nov 2011, 14:16
Perhaps you could tell that guy that I would happily give money to charity if someone asked me to (and particularly if they explained that they needed a certain amount in order to keep their job, collecting more in the future) but when I was mugged it fucked me up for months. I was afraid to go out after dark, and I am still nervous if I'm alone in the dark - and since it gets dark here at 4pm at the moment that's a lot of fear. You could also point out to him that being loaded doesn't mean you aren't scared of being attacked.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Nov 2011, 14:27
That won't work - said person is clearly thinking short-term only. 


And pretty effed up thinking, at that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 17 Nov 2011, 16:04
Man, if socializing comes with reeking of tobacco smoke when you get home every time, I'm not sure I want to make it a regular thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 Nov 2011, 22:34
I'm very close to thinking it would be good for quite a few people if one person inparticular got mugged.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 18 Nov 2011, 01:01
Bacterial Sinusitis,
Liver infection,
Glandular fever.
Ow! I hope you feel better soon. Seriously.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: smack that isaiah on 18 Nov 2011, 07:18
Richard Stallman is coming to give a talk at my school on Monday!  I do have to skip fencing practice to attend, but whatever.  I am excited!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 18 Nov 2011, 19:40
Um I argh. (I got snarked at last time I addressed a non-stranger in the stranger-anger thread, so here goes here.)

My coworker is SO DUMB. Like, SO DUMB. I don't think she listens to herself talk, because the only other explanation is that she truly believes the shit that comes out of her mouth, and I just cannot fathom that a person in her position could be SO DUMB.

On Wednesday, she was going to try to go on the roof of a building (and climb the wall-mounted ladder to get up to it). Later in the afternoon she sent a photo of herself on the roof to everyone, but when she got back to the office she told me & the head engineer that it was actually at a different building with stairs instead of a ladder up, and if anyone else asked, she would tell them so. Today we had our weekly meeting with our 2 bosses, and Top Boss asked about it. She said EVERY DAMN THING EXCEPT, "I chickened out and couldn't climb the ladder." She turned benign comments into insults on her weight. She talked herself into a bench press competition (claimed she could do 150lb on the machine, did 80lb). She freaked out on the engineer when he told Top Boss what really happened. She tried to insist it was "just" an omission, not a LIE. She said that because her job description says "may require" the ability to go on the roof, she didn't actually have to be able to.

Ughhh I am going to throttle her one of these days. Thank god everyone else, including Top Boss, seems to feel the same way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 18 Nov 2011, 19:44
What the hell kind of job do you have where any of that is at all relevant to anything?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 18 Nov 2011, 19:46
Property management. She's supposed to be able to do an inspection of the buildings.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Nov 2011, 06:33
Wait, couldn't people tell which roof she was on?  I guess all flat roofs look the same...

Sounds like (with Top Boss being invilved) she won't be there too long.  Unless other aspects of her job performance are so fucking stellar that they're willing to overlook this aspect of her job. 


Or she's fucking someone high up. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 19 Nov 2011, 06:36
Or she's fucking someone high up. 

Can't you read? She's scared of heights!
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 19 Nov 2011, 07:32
Wait, couldn't people tell which roof she was on?  I guess all flat roofs look the same...

Sounds like (with Top Boss being involved) she won't be there too long.  Unless other aspects of her job performance are so fucking stellar that they're willing to overlook this aspect of her job. 

Or she's fucking someone high up. 

Well the head engineer knew right away something was off, because building 4 has a lot more equipment on it than building 5. All you can see behind her is the rock ballast, the little wall that hides the RTUs but there's only a couple of vents, and the tops of trees.

The company doesn't seem like the type to fire someone without a LOT of issues, but goddamn she is not exactly stellar. Poor writing skills, misrepresents things a lot, misunderstands directions, asks questions 2 seconds after they were answered, tries to push a lot of her work on me, fucking diarrhea of the mouth constantly. I'm just gratified that the boss seems to realize most of it, so I don't sit there feeling like the only sane person in the room during these conversations.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Nov 2011, 13:14
My music library is on my hard drive, which is only formatted to work on a Mac, and I only have a laptop running Windows (thank god for it, all the same - it's the only source of income I have). So I've been downloading albums here and there as I want to hear different songs, and sometimes the tags I get confuse the hell out of me.

For example, Marilyn Manson is not Soul/R&B, and I'd like to have a long discussion with whoever would call him such.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 19 Nov 2011, 14:45
Off to the Leeds Thoughtbubble Festival tomorrow. May be forced to rugby tackle Gary Spencer Millidge to the ground and stand on his neck until he finishes Strangehaven or at least gives me the gist of it. Might not have helped that I re-read it rather recently.
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Post by: nobo on 20 Nov 2011, 19:40
Bench press competition (claimed she could do 150lb on the machine, did 80lb).

I'd actually be pretty impressed to see a girl bench 80 lbs. Usually don't see girls doing more than just the bar at the gym.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 Nov 2011, 12:04
Fairly certain my girlfriend benches around a hundred or so.
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Post by: Lines on 21 Nov 2011, 14:07
I've seen it happen, though usually I don't see many girls benchpressing at the gym at all. Most of the ladies I've seen prefer free weights. I use free weights and resistance bands, but it's so I can combine leg and arm workouts.

Also, your blogginess, Thanksgiving is going to be my first holiday ever bringing an s.o. to a family gathering. I hope nothing batshit crazy happens. Also I'll be going to his family's gathering, but I know his family. It's my family he doesn't really know and I am actually worried about. WE SHALL SEE. (But also I'm excited! It's not a bad thing, just...different.)
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Post by: nobo on 21 Nov 2011, 14:29
The most I have ever seen my wife bench press is the bar, and my sister claims 75 lbs bench press and she is very athletic. I'm not knocking on girls in the weight room, I just don't see very at my gym that use the barbells or the dumb bells.

As for Thanksgiving, this will be the first one that my wife spends with my family. Her family is very organized and the turkey is in the oven by 11 a.m. at the latest, and dinner is at 5. My family usually rolls out of bed at 11 a.m. and starts preparing dinner once everyone has bathed and gotten into the spirit. Thanksgiving dinner at my house can be anywhere between 8 pm and 11:30 pm.

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Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Nov 2011, 16:31
I just realized that this is the first year I'm spending Thanksgiving without any of my family. Holy shit.

It's not upsetting at all, mind you, just kind of astounding. Then the following day is my 21st birthday - also my first birthday without any of my family.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Jimor on 21 Nov 2011, 20:51
::sniff:: Our little zingo is all growed up.
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Nov 2011, 21:33
I just realized that this is the first year I'm spending Thanksgiving without any of my family. Holy shit.

Happened to me my sophomore year.  After my first year I realized that the 14 hour (each way) drive home wasn't worth the day of eating and day of sleeping before another day of driving back. 

Thanksgiving every subsequent year was spent with friends who also  couldn't make it home, and eventually, with my wife to be (who cooks a mean turkey  :-D)
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Post by: Tova on 21 Nov 2011, 21:40
Thanksgiving every subsequent year was spent with friends who also  couldn't make it home, and eventually, with my wife to be (who cooks a mean turkey  :-D)

Serves it right for being so mean.

... I'll get my coat.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Nov 2011, 03:31
I'll join you in coat hunting ...

I had the exact same thought.
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Post by: valley_parade on 22 Nov 2011, 12:53
I just realized that this is the first year I'm spending Thanksgiving without any of my family. Holy shit.

It's not upsetting at all, mind you, just kind of astounding. Then the following day is my 21st birthday - also my first birthday without any of my family.  :psyduck:

It's looking like I'll be moving in with some friends next month, so this'll be my first xmas not at home, either.

Though, my family is still in town. Hmmn.  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 22 Nov 2011, 19:22
Do they not go home? My friends and I all went home for Christmas. The apartment was really cold when we got back, though. (I forget who got home first.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Nov 2011, 11:32
I got hit on with the most amazing pick-up line.

"You are so tall. I would climb you like a lemur."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Nov 2011, 11:50
That's a pickup line?

What's the world coming to?   :laugh:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Nov 2011, 11:56
it's a pick up line to me! It was two days ago and it's still amusing the hell out of me.
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Post by: Lines on 23 Nov 2011, 22:36
Bahaha, that's awesome.
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Post by: snalin on 24 Nov 2011, 13:22
Looking at some youtube videos, Lemurs doesn't really climb in a very interesting way. The running is pretty awesome, though.

Now, how to work that into a pick up line...


Oh and I just spent nearly 15k NOK (2,5kUSD/1,9kEuro) on a new computer. Would have cost probably 2k less before nature went to town Thailand. It's more than I really should spend, but the computer has some pretty sweet specs, and I needed a new one anyways as this one is falling to bits around me, and God dammit I'm just not trying to get HP customer service to help me with anything urgent any time again ever. It's still probably around 5 times as much as I've ever spent at once before, and I've pretty much got enough left for Christmas shopping and not any more, but still.
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Post by: LTK on 24 Nov 2011, 13:25
The worst feeling in the world is having a dream in which everything is awesome, but not impossibly so, followed by waking up and finding out things are not so awesome. Goddamn it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Nov 2011, 19:45
I keep having dreams where I'm back in high school. They're horrible, mostly because I'm aware of where my life is headed, so I actually have a chance to get a leg up and start fixing my future before it goes down the shitter and do what I needed to do - and instead I wake up feeling like I've missed a huge opportunity.

Then I remind myself that I'm twenty and I haven't missed out on that much time.

People keep telling me happy Thanksgiving. I just tell them that Freddie Mercury's been dead for 20 years today - still thankful? No, didn't think so.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 24 Nov 2011, 20:27
I'm pretty thankful for that. Queen fucking suck.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Nov 2011, 20:42
I shall have to respectfully disagree. Pistols at dawn, sir.

(while you're meeting at the agreed spot, I'll burn down your house.)





To be honest, I can totally get why someone wouldn't like Queen, but I fucking love them to death. They're one of three bands that I was obsessed with when I was a teenager, but unlike the other two (Pink Floyd and The Beatles) I didn't burn myself out on them.
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Nov 2011, 22:13
I love Queen.  Freddie was a genius. 

Happy Thanksgiving, Zingoleb. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Nov 2011, 16:22
OK Americans, what the holy crap is wrong with your country (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-15879139)?
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Post by: Carl-E on 25 Nov 2011, 20:28
Consumer-based capitalism. 


Sorry, was that too succinct? 
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Nov 2011, 23:11
We've had similar at a single shop!  IKEA, Edmonton (http://edition.cnn.com/2005/WORLD/europe/02/10/ikea.stampede/).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 26 Nov 2011, 04:38
On Sunday a friend and I had the shoot for the musician I was talking about a page or so back. Still a weird situation where the manager had set everything up, but the musician wasn't really sure what it was about and why we were even doing it. It was also the last show of his tour for a little while, so he was pretty burnt out and cranky when we got there, but we kept things easy and simple, he had a good show, so by the end he had warmed up to us. We got good footage, but there's sill so very little mandate of what we're supposed to do with it.

The friend who set it up may do his own thing with it, the manager was originally impressed with his ability to make good short promo clips with flashy graphics that are basically just templates inside Final Cut Pro. Me, I'm going to make a music video. I'm arranging with some friends to get together to shoot some "storyline" footage for me to edit into the performance footage, and I'll see what I can come up with. If they like it, fine, if they don't, also fine.

My friend keeps asking me to help him with other shoots he's been doing, wedding receptions, club events, just the basic videographer freelance stuff. There's some money involved with those, but I keep putting him off, and when he asked why, at the time I didn't really have a good answer. But thinking about it all, I realize that the problem is that they aren't MY projects.

There's really a lot of things I want to try to do with the skills and knowledge I've acquired, and while up to a point, I haven't minded helping out friends with their projects, I was basically doing it to learn different things. Well, one of the things I've learned is that I really have limited patience working on half-assed projects.

The bigger issue is still that I'm in this to create. My background is as a writer, but I wasted so many years letting myself get beat down by a retail "career" that I never properly took advantage of the skills I have in that area. Right now, the only thing I can think of while I'm on these other shoots is how it's all time I'm NOT spending on things I want to do.

The other half of it is who I'm working for. I could do a wedding for a stranger for $1000, or I can shoot a local musician playing their heart out at a local club for free. For a while at least, I'm in a position where I can choose the latter. There's a bit of mercenary strategy to it all, as I make contacts and grow the circle of people I know in the music business around town, but mostly it's because I want to work with people who deserve my energy and skills. Perhaps that's a bit arrogant, but being around such tremendously talented, positive, and motivated people who have become good friends is important to me, not only personally, but also as a driving motivation to be as good at this video stuff as I can be.

And that's more than enough rambling for now!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Nov 2011, 05:01
I want to work with people who deserve my energy and skills. Perhaps that's a bit arrogant. . .

Noooo! That's healthy. It's better to realize your worth and set yourself in a place where you're asking what's good for you rather than to undercut yourself and burn yourself out and things that aren't good enough. You're realizing a good thing that a lot more people need to realize (instead, it seems a lot of people have rather self-important ideas without the substance to back it all up).

Keep it up!
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Nov 2011, 05:16
Seconded.  If you're in a place to turn downthe paying gigs to further your art, that should always be the option. 

OTOH, you can also offer to take some of these projects off your friend's hands for him as an equal, rather than working under him on them...

But only if they appeal to you. 
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Post by: nekowafer on 26 Nov 2011, 16:03
Yesterday was my surgery - got my tubes tied, ovaries drilled (it's to deal with hormone issues) and a D&C, which is a gross thing that I'm sure no one wants details on.

Anyway, I survived! Woo! It's not even all that painful today, though getting up, sitting down, and coughing are all very difficult.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 26 Nov 2011, 16:38
Hurrah! Hope you have a speedy recovery without any complications (though I remember that you know how to deal with piercings and tattoos so I imagine you know how to deal with stitches and the like).
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Post by: snalin on 27 Nov 2011, 04:10
a D&C, which is a gross thing that I'm sure no one wants details on.

Googled it, and... eugh. Congrats with a successful surgery, though!


Up until today, I've read the name of the pet thread as "Because old Pete's thread died apparently". Always wondered who old Pete was.
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Post by: Jace on 27 Nov 2011, 04:28
ovaries drilled

I drilled some ovaries last night, if you know what I mean.
(I mean that I had sexual congress with my girlfriend)
((She had a headache but me and senator Johnson have a super-majority and so the bill to do some offshore drilling passed))
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Post by: nekowafer on 27 Nov 2011, 09:16
Thanks, guys. I think the part I hate the most right now is that one of the incisions is in my navel and that creeps me the fuck out.

Jace: I just hope your ovary drilling didn't involve sedation. Mine involved a lot of sedation, a creepy old Jewish lady, and percocets.
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Post by: Lines on 27 Nov 2011, 09:24
Yesterday was my surgery - got my tubes tied, ovaries drilled (it's to deal with hormone issues) and a D&C, which is a gross thing that I'm sure no one wants details on.

Anyway, I survived! Woo! It's not even all that painful today, though getting up, sitting down, and coughing are all very difficult.

Yay! (Though I did look up D&C and ack, do not want.) I wish you a speedy recovery!
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Post by: valley_parade on 27 Nov 2011, 10:46
a D&C, which is a gross thing that I'm sure no one wants details on.

Googled it, and... eugh. Congrats with a successful surgery, though!


Up until today, I've read the name of the pet thread as "Because old Pete's thread died apparently". Always wondered who old Pete was.

We used to have multiple Petes. They were good dudes.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Nov 2011, 12:14
Thanks, guys. I think the part I hate the most right now is that one of the incisions is in my navel and that creeps me the fuck out.

That's standard for laproscopic abdominal surgeries.  I think it's just to make any scarring less noticable - the naval's a good hidey-hole for a scar.  My daughter's had three of them, and for the most recent, the surgeon was concerned that there'd be too much scar tissue in the belly button to go in that way.  But it worked. 

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Jace: I just hope your ovary drilling didn't involve sedation. Mine involved a lot of sedation, a creepy old Jewish lady, and percocets.

I hope the creepy old Jewess had a medical degree...
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Post by: nekowafer on 27 Nov 2011, 20:04
Thankfully, she did!

Oh and I have pictures of my inside bits. They're creepy.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Nov 2011, 21:51
Whatever you do, don't post them on the vegetarianism thread...

 :-P
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Post by: Lines on 27 Nov 2011, 22:15
We aren't Hannibal Lecters! I don't want to eat human bits, that's nasty.

So what if defending meat really made me want sausage earlier. I can't help it. I blame my British and German ancestors.
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Post by: LTK on 28 Nov 2011, 12:16
Today I took it on myself to do some house-cleaning. And by that I mean communal-kitchen-cleaning. There's so much crap piled up in there, you wouldn't believe it. According to the guy in the next room, it's been sitting there for years. The things I've thrown away are: A tv, two video recorders, a monitor, two computers, a microwave, three books of yellow pages of years back, a cubic meter of waste paper (literally - the box that used to hold a tv set was stuffed full of it), about a dozen corroded pots and pans, a big drum of coffee products (ground, pads) that expired in 2007 (I kept the drum), the coffee machine (probably last used in 2007 as well), a bucket full of chinese food products, a broken clock and two mops. It took four trips with a shopping cart down the elevator to get it all cleared out. (House cleaning, hobo style.) An old guy in the neighbourhood works in recycling and took the pots, pans, computers and tv off my hands. He got me the shopping cart as well.

And I just discovered our stove has a built-in electric lighter. The power cord was still rolled up and attached to the gas pipe with a cable tie. I took one of my extension cords, plugged it in a nearby socket (it was just out of reach otherwise) and plugged the power cord in. Works like a charm. And not a single person in the history of this apartment has ever thought to cut the cable tie and plug that thing into something. Unbelievable!

(And when I first got here, I even bought a new gas lighter for the stove. Lotta good that did.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Nov 2011, 21:28
Dear sad thread,

While texting a photo of my penis to Shane, I accidentally sat on my bag of grapes that I just bought.

Hungry forever.
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Post by: valley_parade on 28 Nov 2011, 21:31
I fucking hate you guys, so much.

Hugs for all of you. Bastards.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Nov 2011, 21:32
I'm reading that post in the voice of Spider Jerusalem, despite the fact I have no idea what Spider Jerusalem sounds like.
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Post by: Lines on 28 Nov 2011, 21:37
Dear sad thread,

While texting a photo of my penis to Shane, I accidentally sat on my bag of grapes that I just bought.

Hungry forever.

I fucking hate you guys, so much.

Hugs for all of you. Bastards.

And now I remember why I love you guys so much.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Nov 2011, 21:39
About half the grapes are okay!

   Whoo!
   /
 :mrgreen:
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Post by: Papersatan on 28 Nov 2011, 23:24
Guys, Christmas is coming and it is making me a little sad. Unlike my grinchy husband I like Christmas, I like the traditions they make me feel connected to my past, but this year everything is different and I am having a hard time with it.  I moved an 8 hour drive from my family in September; I have lived walking distance from my parents for 28 years, so this distance is new for me.  We are visiting Steve's family not mine for the holiday because we promised like 9 months ago and his mother bought us plane tickets.  Also I am super poor, so maybe I won't even get a tree which would be the first time ever I didn't have one and also Steve an I won't be getting each other presents until at least Jan and at that point I don't know if I even want them.  Also my dad got very, very, very sick about three weeks after I moved here, and while he is not in life threatening danger anymore he is in a nursing home re-learning how to use his muscles and re-gaining his ability to carry on a lucid conversation.  This means there isn't likely to be even a skype party with my whole family.  I told my mom I would visit the week before Christmas to help her set up her tree and clean her house (she hosts Christmas dinner) but my car just blew a tire, and the guy who put the donut on said my bearings are also fucked and I should avoid driving until it is fixed.  I have no money to fix it. 

Maybe I should celebrate orthodox Christmas instead? maybe by then things will be sorted?
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Post by: Jace on 28 Nov 2011, 23:30
You can totally get a little tree at target or wal mart for less than $30!
My mom made me a little xmas tree to hang on my wall after I moved.
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Post by: calenlass on 28 Nov 2011, 23:39
We can make it better by sending you pictures of our dicks, Kat. <3
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Nov 2011, 23:50
Get something small for your husband anyway.  Even something corny like a personal coupon (good for one backrub, for example).  Beg, borrow or make some cheap decorations (popcorn strings?).  Just make your own holiday the best you can, don't put all your emotional baggage into it, but if it's important to you, do something

Because doing nothing will just make you dwell on it more and get more depressed about it. 

I think back to my first christmas alone with my wife - we had nothing.  But I managed to get a tiny tree of a lot for nothing, and we made popcorn strings and spent $3 at the goodwill on a used treetop angel.  She got me new underwear (a 3-pack) and I got her two pair of warm socks for in her boots. 


We still put up the angel every year...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 29 Nov 2011, 06:12
My parents still use the teeny tiny ornaments someone gave them when they had a teeny tiny tree on their teeny tiny houseboat. (teeny tiny)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 29 Nov 2011, 08:15
I did put up Christmas lights which I already owned.  And I was going to make some paper snowflakes at some point.  $30 for a tree is out of our price ranged right now though.  When I say poor I mean we are just making rent and groceries for Dec, other bills be damned. 

Dick pics though.  You guys should totally send me dick pics.  We'll hang them over our (nonexistent) fireplace.
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Post by: Lines on 29 Nov 2011, 08:43
Kat, PM me yo' address.
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Post by: Jace on 29 Nov 2011, 13:15
I did put up Christmas lights which I already owned.  And I was going to make some paper snowflakes at some point.  $30 for a tree is out of our price ranged right now though.  When I say poor I mean we are just making rent and groceries for Dec, other bills be damned. 

Dick pics though.  You guys should totally send me dick pics.  We'll hang them over our (nonexistent) fireplace.

You can also make origami trees!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Nov 2011, 14:26
Go the Charlie Brown route.  Hit up the charity tree lots on Christmas eve.  Guarantee, they'll have something for you that they can't move anyway... sure, it'll be small, bent and have a big bare spot, but it'll be a tree, dammit. 

And will become a sweet memory in the future. 
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 29 Nov 2011, 16:29
Just got my marks back for my final statistics exam. I'd felt really good about the whole thing. I'd studied really hard because while I have been doing really well all semester it's always felt like my weakest subject so I didn't want to think it was going to be too easy. Turns out I completely fucked it. I mean I passed but that's it.

Also a couple of my friends have been called in for interviews with another of the unis that I applied to. I haven't heard anything yet but it's starting to look like I haven't gotten in to that one yet either.

Fuck. My. Entire.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 29 Nov 2011, 21:16
Go the Charlie Brown route.  Hit up the charity tree lots on Christmas eve.  Guarantee, they'll have something for you that they can't move anyway... sure, it'll be small, bent and have a big bare spot, but it'll be a tree, dammit. 

And will become a sweet memory in the future. 

A thousand times this. The attitude I take, and one I tell friends as they're coming up on "big" events like weddings, vacations, holidays, etc., is that the things you'll most remember in 20+ years are all the things that went wrong or weren't perfect. It's entirely up to you whether those memories are a reason to smile/laugh, or frown/curse.
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Post by: Dazed on 02 Dec 2011, 04:48
God damn I am sort of really really really beginning to hate school

this has been my third all nighter this week. I think im actually just going to sleep from saturday morning through til sunday night.
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Post by: LTK on 02 Dec 2011, 07:36
I'm having people over for dinner tonight. Kinda nervous! I never had to entertain people before. Well, I had once, but that was a failure in terms of entertainment. This time I did planning.

Man, getting a social life is hard work!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Dec 2011, 07:37
I hate it when you know you will have to do another all nighter after the one you're on now - it's hell.

Term has FINALLY finished (yes, I realise that a term which officially ends on November 30th is not one to complain about but it's been hectic). I went to Burger King for lunch as a "treat", although predictably I now have a headache - junk food always makes my head hurt, I really should learn, and then did a bit of shopping. I'm still in go-go-go mode and finding it hard to relax and accept that I have free time now. Although I do have to go out again to tutoring, and then I'm off to catch a train to London for a concert.

This week has been expensive, you guys! Picked up my ballgown from where it was being altered - £20. Booked my flight home from America for the summer - £345. Bought a strapless bra for the ballgown - £25. Booked a haircut for tomorrow - £28. Talked myself into buying a new phone next week when my phone plan starts - £30 (although £19 will come from my "phone fund" which is basically free money). So much for a £50 a week budget, it's a good job I have this tutoring job or I'd be totally broke right about now.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Dec 2011, 11:58
My laptop (which is my source of income) passed away after a long illness over this weekend. I've been reading psychology textbooks in place of playing Gameboy emulators. Turns out at around 400 BC, Hippocrates had taken the idea from the Egyptians that somatoform disorders were derived from a biological cause - namely, the empty uterus wandering around the body in search of a place for conception. The cure was often marriage, or, occasionally, fumigation of the vagina to lure the wandering uterus back to its proper place.
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Dec 2011, 00:10
Took the dog for a walk this evening, and a block from my home, I got hit by a car.  It came around the corner as I was crossing the street.  There was an SUV parked right at the corner, so we never saw each other until too late.  Hit me in the lower leg, took them right out from under me.  Hit the pavement hard, but didn't hit my head or black out.  The driver was just a kid, maybe 22 tops.  He was more scared than me. 

Ambulance ride, three hours in the hospital, several x-rays, no broken bones, but enough soft tissue damage to the right leg that I can barely stand or walk. 

The next few days should prove to be interesting...

Is it time for another percocet yet? 



Oh yeah, the dog's fine.  She just got her leash yanked when I went down. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Dec 2011, 04:30
Shit Carl, I'm so glad you're not more hurt! You must be pretty shaken up. I really hope your leg recovers.

I went to a ball last night which was really a white-tie ceilidh (but it was so elegant! Everyone was in beautiful ball gowns or tail coats or kilts, and we all had tiny pencils and elegant little dance cards with gold cord to attach them to our wrists) and a buffet supper. I danced eight of the twelve dances - I arrived late so didn't manage to fill my dance card, but twice a stranger asked me to dance which was nice - and my feet are now incredibly painful and bruised. I'm having trouble walking in my soft slippers and it's nearly twelve hours since I got home. Ouch. This evening's carol service will be fun...
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Post by: Carl-E on 04 Dec 2011, 11:42
Ibuprofen will be our friends, May. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Dec 2011, 01:43
I didn't take ibuprofen (I avoid medication unless essential and I took some already this week for the world's worst headache) and my feet are still a little sore. Useable but sore - like the end of sunburn.

Today I am going to London to sing at the NSPCC Carols by Candlelight benefit in Southwark Cathedral! I had not realised until last night quite what a big deal this is. There will be all sorts of celebrities there and people who paid £25/£70 for a ticket to attend - the £70 people get to go to the reception afterwards and meet the celebrities and performers - me! Well, probably not actually me personally, they're probably more interested in Esther Ranzen and David Frost, but still.
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Post by: calenlass on 05 Dec 2011, 04:15
Why do you have ceilidhs and we don't? What is wrong with everyone?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 05 Dec 2011, 05:52
Wait did you wear the 5-inch heels to a ceilidh? I think you are kinda asking for sore feet if you do that.
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Post by: calenlass on 05 Dec 2011, 07:20
I have worn 5 inch heels to ceilidhs. I would do it again in a heartbeat, if there were only any happening around me. :(
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Post by: glyphic on 05 Dec 2011, 09:18
Oh, shit! I got married!
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Post by: celticgeek on 05 Dec 2011, 10:58
Congratulations, glyphic! 

Iechyd Da!
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Post by: nobo on 05 Dec 2011, 11:09
Oh, shit! I got married!

Pics or it didn't happen

Also, Congrats!
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Post by: Lines on 05 Dec 2011, 11:32
^ What he said.

Also, yay! Congrats!
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Dec 2011, 12:54
Also, congratulations! 

Now comes the hard part(s)...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Dec 2011, 15:13
Congrats! I second (third?) the pictures request.

No you guys I didn't wear the five inch heels to a ceilidh that would be silly! I wore two inch heels to the ceilidh.
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Post by: nobo on 05 Dec 2011, 19:18
Now comes the hard part(s)...

No way. Tricking someone into marrying you is the hard part. Smooth sailing afterwards.
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Dec 2011, 20:01
[BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA]


Never been married, I see...
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Post by: nobo on 05 Dec 2011, 20:10
I have, just the once (http://i.imgur.com/4cySn.jpg).
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Dec 2011, 20:15
Nobo:  Sorry, my bad. 

--------------------------------------------------------------------------

Re:  Pedestrian/auto collision (I was the pedestrian...)

So nothing was broken according to the ER.  But...

My right calf (where the bumper hit) is ridiculously large and has shooting pains if I'm not very  careful placing the foot.  My wife (who has some medical training) believes it's probably ligament damage.  I can climb stairs fine (w/o pain), but can only take small steps on level ground and can't go down stairs w/o a great deal of pain. 

Cushioned seats are OK, but my right hip hurts like hell when I lie on my back or either side.  Lieing (lying?) on my stomach is OK.  Getting up is a nightmare.

Can't raise my right arm above shoulder level because of the shoulder.  Right elbow gets sharp pain in the bony part.  Right side of my ribcage hurts when I cough. 

I can get into a car and drive fine, but I can't get out without a lot of work (and pain in the leg). 

Did I mention that, after having my legs knocked out from under me, I came down on my right side onto the pavement? 


I see the doctor tomorrow morning.  Our family physician happens to be an orthopedist... we'll see what she says. 


OWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOW
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Post by: nobo on 05 Dec 2011, 20:21
My wife (who has some medical training)

It looks like we have that in common.

Your accident was a few days ago right? Hopefully it is nothing more than just some really terrible bruising.
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Post by: Carl-E on 05 Dec 2011, 20:54
Funny thing, that - two days, later, and not a bruise showing anywhere.  Not even the calf where the car hit.  And it was a hard, a full body slam to the pavement...
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Post by: Skewbrow on 06 Dec 2011, 00:05
Can't quite match Carl-E's story, but I got my body slam to the pavement this morning when getting the morning paper. The first snow (about one inch of it) of the season managed to hide some ice. A bruised thigh and a reddish spot in my right temple. Hardly worth getting checked out. We celebrate our independence day today, so I don't need to go to work, and can take it easy instead.
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Post by: Akima on 06 Dec 2011, 05:09
Took the dog for a walk this evening, and a block from my home, I got hit by a car.
Ow! If you hadn't mentioned that the driver was a kid, I'd have suspected the bear was after some payback. I'm so glad your injuries are relatively light but still...
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Post by: Lines on 08 Dec 2011, 10:08
About to take my last exam. Probably not going to get a B or better on it. I need a B or better to maintain my B/B- average for the course. If I get a C for the course that means I've failed it and have pretty much wasted the past 3 months being stressed beyond belief for no fucking reason.

Ffffffffffffffffffuck. My. LIFE.
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Post by: valley_parade on 08 Dec 2011, 12:10
(http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lb879gkZ5d1qbolbn.jpg)
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 08 Dec 2011, 14:11
That is neither a bowl of Wheaties or a martini. You fail, not a CHAMPION
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Dec 2011, 14:46
Breakfast?  Porridge or Kippers (Porridge and  Kippers on high days and holidays).
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Dec 2011, 19:48
Full veinous and arterial doppler study of my legs this afternoon, checking for clots and/or embolisms (my right calf's still about twice normal size). 



*sigh* -- It's been way  too long since a pretty young woman asked me to remove my pants...
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Post by: Jace on 08 Dec 2011, 23:10
If I get a C for the course that means I've failed it

THEN_WHY_DID_YOU_MANA_WEAVE?!.jpg

Actually I really think this is dumb, what is the point of designating certain percentages to mean pass or fail if you are going to arbitrarily pick other percentages that are going to mean fail but only sometimes.
(Specifically that a C is a 79% or below in United States schools)
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Post by: snalin on 09 Dec 2011, 05:31
Some courses here alter their percentages to make the grades fall nicely into a statistical normal distribution. Meaning that my grades are better the worse the other students in the same course do. I've heard of A's at 95%, 90% AND 85%. Putting those two together means that I have no chance of knowing how much work is needed to ace a course. FML


Next year I've gotten a job correcting hand-ins in a course I had last semester. A course I got C in and didn't take very seriously. For the course I got A in, and really liked, they gave two guys with C's the job. Wohoo.
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Post by: Lines on 09 Dec 2011, 05:43
This is grad school. For undergrad, anything above an F is considered passing. (An F is 60% or lower.) For a masters program, it is unacceptable to get anything below a B-. Which is understandable! But considering there are only 4 grades for the class and so far I've gotten a B, B+, and a C (which I was expecting, the paper I turned in was complete shit), I am really riding the fence here.

Really the only reason I care is so I don't have to take yet another class I don't have time for. I could care less about the actual class itself. I liked it for the first few weeks, but then the prof became a raging bitch face, so I'm done with it. I just don't have the energy to care about it. All I care about is the letter so I can move on.

(Also I'm pissed because I finished last year with a 4.0. Which I have never had before. It doesn't matter, but it's a small achievement for me and makes me feel better about myself for going through all of this stress and emotional torture.)

Honestly, I know I didn't get an A on the exam and I know I didn't fail it, but still, I need a B- on it to pass the class. Which I don't know if I did or not.
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Post by: Lines on 09 Dec 2011, 05:58
Either that or one of our countries is more demanding than the other. Also it really depends on the field. I think if you have a C average for engineering, you are doing better than everyone else. Most usually have a D+/D average. So yeah.

But if you don't have 80% or higher for masters and doctorate degrees, you are completely fucked and will get put on academic probation or be required to leave.
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Post by: nekowafer on 09 Dec 2011, 07:10
Full veinous and arterial doppler study of my legs this afternoon, checking for clots and/or embolisms (my right calf's still about twice normal size). 



*sigh* -- It's been way  too long since a pretty young woman asked me to remove my pants...

At least your tech was pretty. Mine was a grumpy old lady who used WAY too much lube and I wasn't allowed to shower since I was in the hospital, so I felt super gross for way too long. Any word on the outcome yet?
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Post by: Lines on 09 Dec 2011, 17:08
So...my grade for the class got posted. (Not the exam, just the class.) Got a C+. Which means I was really fucking close to passing, but didn't. Not happy. Not happy at all.

Also just to make it clear, I've never failed anything before. Hence the being incredibly unhappy.
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Post by: Jace on 09 Dec 2011, 17:46
man, straight up if a C+ is failing I don't even want to try and go to school anymore.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Dec 2011, 02:12
Any word on the outcome yet?

No, and my thinking with medical stuff is generally that no news is good news. 


If it were significantly scary, they would have contacted me by now...


Right?     :?
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Post by: nekowafer on 10 Dec 2011, 04:05
Of course! If you had a clot or anything like that they would have put you in the hospital immediately. But I always like to see the reports on such things, personally.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 10 Dec 2011, 06:56
Here, anything above a 70% average grade is a pretty big achievement! There's only about ten out of the 250 each year who get anywhere near that.

I suppose exams must be graded differently here.

are you graded on a curve? or do they seriously expect the majority of the class to not know 1/3 of the answers on the test? because, what, why would they do that? i think if nobody scored above 70% on a final here, the whole class would be up in arms because the test covered things that  were not covered in class, or there were too many essays to do in the time allowed.
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2011, 09:40
I think the different attitudes about grading are interesting.  I went to a high school that didn't use grades so maybe it just makes sense to me that the whole system(s) is invented.  A C here (US) is meant to be "average" and a B "above average" and an A "excellent" which is why some teachers grade a on curve, because those terms imply your position within the class. 

I see there being two ways to think about a grade, either it represents your performance in a class.  Did you show up, did you listen to the professor, did you read the assigned reading? In that case people should be capable of near 100% grades, points off for mistakes, points off for that topic you didn't understand, points off for that class you missed... Most people in a class will still get over a C.  On the other hand a test could grade your understanding of a topic, in that case to get near a 100% you would need a lot of outside reading and studying.  Instead of making sure someone has the basics down, and understands the key topics of the lectures, you are testing the position of their understanding within the field, so it is unlikely you could get an A, because even if the test is limited to introductory topics you won't know most of them after one semester. Say an intro to American Lit class. You wouldn't even know the major authors of all the genres and time periods, let alone have an understanding of how they flow together, let alone have a grasp on the many prominent literary theories about all these works.  And those things are all suitable for a beginning student to know.  As you go up the more potential things there are for you to know, so the tests don't get any easier.  Which is fine, as long as you don't expect people to know 90% of it

I think it becomes confusing here because we mix the idea that a grade tests your knowledge of what the class taught, and your position as "average" "above average" "excellent"  So in many undergraduate programs you are expected to maintain a B average in your major.  So EVERYONE in that third year class is probably trying to get a B, making B the average, not a C.  This is extended to Graduate school where I, like Linds, am expected to get a B or better in all my classes because I am here to excel. Or I am here because I am above average, so an "average" grade is not good enough (or something).   So the average is now probably a B+ meaning that I am no less average within my program, there is just less room for error.  Many of the professors additionally make it quite difficult to get a true A on an assignment, because this is Grad school, so of course things are graded tougher. 
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Post by: Lines on 10 Dec 2011, 09:56
The thing about grad school, though, is unless you're doing complete shit in your class, you will most likely get an A or A-. Like for last year I got a 3.7, 3.9, and then 4.0 for each quarter. This quarter is looking like (because of the one bad grade) 3.5ish. So my average will still be good, because I'm getting As or Bs in everything else, but average doesn't matter - the letters matter.

Welcome to higher higher education.
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Post by: Lines on 10 Dec 2011, 10:15
Not really. If you're getting a C average (or lower) in a masters or doctoral program, you probably shouldn't be in that program because you are Doing It Wrong.

I mean, I kind of deserve that grade. It was self inflicted. I was taking the max amount of credit hours, had a death in the family, and was generally overwhelmed and I should have just sucked it up and dropped something. Also I ended up hating the professor (as did everyone in the class pretty much) and stopped caring about the class because of it. I should have dropped it, but I thought I could pull through. Obviously I didn't. I'm going to try to see if there's something I can do about it, but I have no idea if she'd even let me.
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2011, 10:35
But the point is, if a C is average, then a C in a Grad program should be harder to get than a C in undergrad was, and should still reflect the average ability of the students there.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Dec 2011, 10:50
Should.  But, as Linds points out, grad school grades are taken from an entirely different point of view.  This is especially true at major universities that draw the cream of the crop to their programs, people who frequently are at least on par with their professors in many ways.  If you're in the program, you're already exceptional... and aan average student wouldn't make it in the course! 
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2011, 11:22
Right, but average is subjective, I mean I certainly am not comparing the students in my grad program to EVERYONE and then saying, well, you did Excellent on this test compared to the general population.  I would think they would be compared to the other students in that program. That is why getting into a good program is supposed to carry weight.  My 'A' at Prestigious School is seen as having more weight as my 'A' at Bloop Bloop U because the average I was compared against was higher.  If that is not the case, then we shouldn't care what program people were in right?

So in my program you can't get less than a B in a class, my professors know this so it is hard to get lower than a B, but they also want to provide room for excellence, so they make it hard to get an A.  In my one class you have to do more than was assigned to get an A, because that is excelling.  Fair enough, but that means that for the people who are not failing, and are not doing extra work the grade spread is now only 15 points, an 80-95. 

I guess it really only makes sense if you treat the grade as being a measure of your engagement with the class, which is maybe what you guys were saying. In that case Grad students should be above average in their engagement, but it still seems funny, because when I tell someone I have a B average, all it means now is 'I do what is required of me'.  Maybe this is why I have been repeatedly advised that unless I go on to get a PhD, my grades here don't matter. 
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Post by: Jace on 10 Dec 2011, 11:36
I feel like it's sort of like saying that just because I am a math major I will fail my math classes unless I have a B average, but the english major only needs a C average in their math classes, its just arbitrary and if it is arbitrary and can be decided by a single percentage point why not just make it a Pass/Fail system?
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Post by: benji on 10 Dec 2011, 13:14
The only thing that's important about grade systems is showing your credentials to the next level up. The GPA necessary to pass is fine if its the last degree you want to get, but not if you want to go to the next level. If you're working on an MA or an MS, and you want to get a PhD, you probably can't do that without a B average. The people who run Masters programs know this. They also know that their programs will look bad if they graduate a bunch of people who can't get PhDs if they want to. So they make rules requiring that you maintain a certain average to remain in the program.

So the system is supposed to look like this: A C represents average work. D and B represent bellow average and above average respectively. An A represents exceptional work. An F represents failing to meet the minimum quality of work to get credit for the class.

But in many grad programs it works more like this: a B represents average work. An A represents exceptional work. A C represents below average work. And a D represents not being cut out for this, and so you should probably find something else to do with your life. Fs are rarely assigned and usually indicate a "who let you into this program in the first place?"

It's called grade inflation. It's pretty much just how things work. So why not just do a Pass/Fail system? Many people have asked that same question, but tradition is tradition, and academics love tradition.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Dec 2011, 13:31
Actually, one reason that there are minimum requirements for a program is to limit the number of students in that program.  The requirements can then be shifted up if enrollment gets too big for the faculty to handle (this is a real conern that most students don't realize).  Just hiring more faculty is often not an option, either, usually for (false) financial concerns...

Which is why the Ed program where I work has a 3.0 requirement to get in, even though the degree has been pretty much gutted of content.  The school's known for its Ed program, and that we can meet the states's requirements (PA is one of the strictest states in the country for Ed degrees), but in order to meet those requirements and still graduate people in 4 years, we had to cut out content.  So a Math Ed major never gets much past Calculus, History Ed majors get less history than a plain old history major (although more than a history minor, thank god), and so on. 

My apologies to people getting their ed degrees, but all I know is that we're graduating people who don't know the material that they're supposed to teach...

God Bless 'Merica! 
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2011, 13:48
BA or MA? I don't think a BA in education should be a thing for secondary teachers for exactly that reason.  In New York they they needed to get an MA anyways, so they ought to have their BA in their subject, and the MA in education.  Just my two cents.

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Post by: benji on 10 Dec 2011, 14:52
Carl, I used to work in curriculum development, and I've consulted on many an ED course (granted, mostly in Kentucky, which is not known for its top notch teaching schools). All I can say is, I sympathize with anyone who has to try and teach that content.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Dec 2011, 22:47
BA or MA? I don't think a BA in education should be a thing for secondary teachers for exactly that reason.  In New York they they needed to get an MA anyways, so they ought to have their BA in their subject, and the MA in education.  Just my two cents.

We offer both.  BA is sufficient for getting a job, M.Ed. is required to keep it (getting tenure).  But you don't get the content (not enough of it) in the BA, and though you get some more in the master's program, you don't get enough of it in an M.Ed. either.  Put the together a BA in Math ed with an M.Ed. in Math ed, and you don't quite get the knowledge base of a BS in math. 

The biggest problem's been that people who don't cut it in Math Ed then try to finish up with just a math degree, because it's the only coherent bunch of courses they have.  But it takes them an extra year and a half to do it! 
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 11 Dec 2011, 04:08
I don't remember last night. I've been in a pretty sour mood the last few days and figured necking a whole bottle of rum would be a good idea. According to eyewitness reports, at one point I had found(and was wearing) a venetian mask. I also whipped out the tattoo on my thigh a lot and succrssfully fell down an entire flight of stairs twice. I was in bed by 2 and woke up at 11 still drunk. What am I doing with my life, blog thread?
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Post by: Jace on 11 Dec 2011, 05:08
Living
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Dec 2011, 05:14
Also regretting, probably.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Dec 2011, 05:58
Ugh the disgusting cold that knocked me out for a day last week and seemed to be on its way out has come back with a vengeance and lots of green slime just in time for going to the Boy's house for a few days. Grr. Not attractive. Nice early night tonight I think!
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Post by: valley_parade on 11 Dec 2011, 07:26
Ryan doing Ryan things


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What am I doing with my life, blog thread?

I don't really see the issue.
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Post by: Lines on 11 Dec 2011, 10:38
My apologies to people getting their ed degrees, but all I know is that we're graduating people who don't know the material that they're supposed to teach...

I have a Bachelors of Fine Arts and I'm getting a Masters in Art Education. I feel like I would have missed out a lot if I hadn't gotten a BFA. Actually there are a few people in my program who have completely different backgrounds and I'm wondering whether or not they'll be able to really do what they think they'll be able to. Also I'm learning a whole lot more about education than any of the undergrads who are getting their teaching certificate (you can get it in addition to a BFA, but Art Ed is not a separate undergrad major). I mean, that's a lot of information! I totally agree about getting a BA in the subject and an MA in the respective education. It'd be so much more beneficial for both the teacher and the students they want to teach.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Dec 2011, 10:58
In the UK the "grown-up" way into teaching is that you get your subject degree first and then do an extra course to get a teaching qualification - it's called PGCE - Post-Graduate Certificate of Education.  But there are other options (http://tda.gov.uk/get-into-teaching/teacher-training-options.aspx) for different levels of teaching.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 12 Dec 2011, 22:21
I got engaged at the weekend and duly updated my fb status yesterday morning. It only took a few hours for them to start marketing OK Cupid at me. Thanks a lot facebook you silly cockwombles but I'm pretty certain there isn't a better person out there just waiting for me to be an asshat.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Dec 2011, 01:43
The back broke on my chair as I leaned back today.  I wound up hitting the edge of the desk with the bad leg. 


A week's worth of progress towards walking normally right out the window. 

Hurts like fuck again.  Pain pills only put me to sleeep...

OWOWOWOWOWFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzzz.................
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Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Dec 2011, 04:41
Ouch Carl that is very bad luck :( Hopefully it won't take another week to get back to where you were though.

TSK - when I became "engaged" on facebook I started getting adverts for wedding dresses (understandable) and baby milk. Maybe because you are not female they couldn't think of anything better. Also congratulations!
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Dec 2011, 07:24
I find it cuturally disturbing that, as a male who just got engaged, they're marketing a dating service to him.  [/wrongonsomanylevels]
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Post by: Lines on 13 Dec 2011, 07:26
When I went from single to a relationship, I automatically started getting engagement ring adverts, wedding dresses, and offers for loans for unwed mothers. The last one I really don't get.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Dec 2011, 07:27
Yeah, the implications are pretty disturbing...
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Post by: Dazed on 13 Dec 2011, 07:57
Whenever I become single on facebook it immediately bombards me with pictures of ex-girlfriends and ads for Christian dating sites. It's awful.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: benji on 13 Dec 2011, 08:18
I'm listed as married and I still get adds for Christian Dating sites. Maybe it's keyed into the fact that I'm a seminary student?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 13 Dec 2011, 08:21
... facebook ... It's awful.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 13 Dec 2011, 08:31
I suppose that is a simple yet accurate reduction of that statement, yes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 13 Dec 2011, 10:02
Oh you guys, I bought a new car yesterday. I no longer drive a 2002 VW beetle that is like, light seafoam green. Now I drive a grey-blue 2007 Chevy Malibu. I'm really excited that I don't look like a guy driving his girlfriend's car around.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Dec 2011, 10:13
You know what is a good use for a new car?

ROAD TRIP!

I hear Michigan is nice. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 13 Dec 2011, 10:19
I used to get some google ads from gaychubbydating.com. Apparently my search history is somewhat different from what I thought it was.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Dec 2011, 10:20
Yeah, now that I am married it is mostly baby ads, and things for "Moms".  

Funny thing about targeted ads, about 5, 6 years ago my dad was showing me a video on CNN.com and the ad before it was for a car. I mentioned that It was a nice change from all the Army ads.  Turns out he wasn't getting army ads, he said his ads were always for cars or investment services.  Mine were always for the Army. That was the first time I understood the extent of targeted marketing.  I mean, I don't sign in to CNN.  This was before Facebook had a deal with everyone to keep track of and post what you are doing, I didn't have a Twitter... It knew I was eligible for the army and that he was not and I have no idea how.  
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 13 Dec 2011, 10:42
Would disabling cookies help? Except for the sites that absolutely need them. Like this forum.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Dec 2011, 11:01
I like the ads on Gmail, because when it can't get anything worth advertising about from the content of the message, it gives me ads for Rosie the Riveter products! (because of my name)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Dec 2011, 11:02
Probably.  I don't really mind.  Just at the time I hadn't realized how much "they" can tell about you.  I mean, I am older now, and the wars are winding down... My ads are for cars, and liquor, and grad schools, Oh, and products in online stores I have recently visited.  "Oh... you looked at this rug 3 times, and then left.... Have another look.  You waaaaant it." oooo crafty, you know how to tempt me.

It is the most noticeable when they get it wrong.   Someone linked a light called "The affinity wall sconce" somewhere, which is a joke for people in my program because we spend weeks in assigned groups making "affinity walls"  I clicked it once and it was on my banner ads for a month. Light was ugly. I live in an apartment. I am not in the market for lights.  
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 13 Dec 2011, 11:12
addblock which blocks even google adds. get it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 13 Dec 2011, 11:17
My favorite was when this very website was getting memcheck errors. 

All the ads on the comic page were for flash drives and portable memory backups... 


I took a screenshot, I'll post it when I get home. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Dec 2011, 11:39
I read an online fiction thing for a while that was set in a fantasy world and featured characters in open relationships, gay  relationships and D/s relationships, the banner ad once was selling me Ann Coulter books. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 13 Dec 2011, 12:06
The weirdest one was getting an email from Amazon advertising "games for your new xbox 360".

I bought a used 360 off eBay the day before. Creepy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Sorflakne on 13 Dec 2011, 17:45
Hey guys, what's-

Whoa, post 10,000.  Wow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 13 Dec 2011, 18:25
And keep in mind that this is thread #3, and that the others were even bigger, IIRC.

Hmm, for actually bloggy content. My brother is visiting from Japan, it's been a couple of years since I've seen him, so that's nice. :-)

My class on Adobe After Effects is over with, and I'm pretty happy with what I've been learning (I'd taken other classes for it before). I can't wait to get a new computer that can run the full Adobe Production Suite I won a couple months ago. I'll probably have to force myself to come up for air once in a while as I play with all the new toys as much as I want!

In other video news, I'm editing the music video that I shot with a friend (talked about in an earlier post). It's not the ideal situation for a number of reasons, but I'm making the most of it, and learning some new techniques as I try to work out how to do this. What I'm really excited about is that I'm going to be shooting/editing a REAL music video with a local artist in the next few weeks, where we're actually working together from the start on concept, performance, filming and everything else.

And a short film that I'd been helping out on finally had its LAST shoot. I volunteered to help out, using my camera, back in April... of 2010! It was supposed to be a 3-month shoot, ha! But since I was principle camera person and my camera was the only one available, I got stuck in what overall was a bloody mess with very little organization and "vision" with the script and scenes changing all the time. The writer/director is a nice enough guy, which is why I stuck with it, but man, lesson learned.

For that and other reasons, I'm done for now with working on other people's shit until I get a chance to at least get a few of my own projects going and finished.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Dec 2011, 10:12
I keep getting banner ads for unicorn-related paraphernalia (because of me) and for wanky tech-metal (because of my ex-girlfriend).

My father's accused me of deleting his porn from his computer (which I have no recollection of doing, but apparently he named it all "trash"), and I've met a three-legged dog that inadvertently does cartwheels when he pees. It's the cutest way to urinate, for sure. I dare any of you to try it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 14 Dec 2011, 11:14
"What are you doin' in town, three-legged dog?" 

"I'm-a lookin' fer the man that shot my paw."



Sorry, sorry.  Just... sorry. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 15 Dec 2011, 09:46
I've read almost the top of the iceberg about what there is to know about medieval castles in England and Wales. That's about 100 pages of godly information about Motte-and-Baileys, Hall-Keeps, Curtain Castles, Towers and more. Why is this the tip of the iceberg? I got information about how much money each castle received between a period of time. I got a book about Dutch castles. Another about castles in general and two papers about two individual castles and why those are so damn great. Even then I haven't started on every aspect of what's inside a castle and where about it's situated.
And I only read this to write a 3000 word article about castles.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 15 Dec 2011, 10:48
I am making brownies for a Christmas party tonight and there's a dessert contest for the best themed desert. The theme is "favorite Christmas specials from your childhood." My Christmas special is A Christmas Story.

Move over, Frosty, make room for the Leg Lamp.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 15 Dec 2011, 11:05
They've made it into a musical (http://achristmasstorythemusical.com/vidIntro.php).  Complete with a kick-line of leg-lamps...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 15 Dec 2011, 20:22
HA!

Well, only two people (including me) ended up participating and I was beaten by a nicely crafted Snoopy-sleeping-on-his-house-with-xmas-lights rice crispy treat. Which is ok, because it looked awesome and I had a looooong day today and didn't really have the time to make a cake like I'd wanted so I kind of half-assed the leg lamp in icing on the brownies. But my leg lamp did get several laughs and I got a gift card to BW3, so, woo! Success!

Except I had too much sugar and now I feel kinda blegh so I'm going to bed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 15 Dec 2011, 23:56
If you crash from too much sugar, do you have sweet dreams? 

 :angel:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Dec 2011, 11:52
I just got a card from my grandmother, who knows I'm an atheist, that says,

Quote
Lestie,

Glory to GOD in the highest, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.

Love always Grandma xoxoxox

...I love you, Grandma, but you can't even spell my name right.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2011, 12:37
My Aunt has spelled my name with a 'C' instead of a 'K' my entire life.  It used to drive me crazy, but I just gave up.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Dec 2011, 03:55
Well! It's 4 AM and I'm just getting home from a party.


If you know me, you would realize how insane that is for me to say. I don't party. I stay up late, yes, but that's killing bad guys, not partying. Not at parties involving Nitrous, pot brownies, many shots, and sugar cubes of acid, no, and especially not at parties resulting in makeouts with a super cute (bi, poly, geeky, gamer) girl, who turns out to be one half of a (bi, poly, geeky, gamer) couple, who have invited me to their house for geekery/sex.

...My life is win! My life is full of so much win!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 17 Dec 2011, 04:29
Sounds... kinky

For tonight's being DJ at a gala I still have to prepare and burn CDs and stuff. with a splitting hangover from last night  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Dec 2011, 08:58
Grading.  Fielding emails. 

Gripe, gripe, complain, gripe, bitch and moan. 


Not sure if that's me or the students.  Probably both...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: whom on 17 Dec 2011, 14:07
I just got a card from my grandmother, who knows I'm an atheist, that says,

Quote
Lestie,

Glory to GOD in the highest, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.

Love always Grandma xoxoxox

...I love you, Grandma, but you can't even spell my name right.

My grandparents frequently mispronounce my name  :-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: smack that isaiah on 17 Dec 2011, 14:28
my dad and my uncle have each misspelled my name on gifts.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Dec 2011, 14:58
Until I was 45 no one ever succeeded in mis-spelling my first name (nor ever formed a nickname from it).  But then I married a woman whose brother-in-law has the surname Paull  [sic].  Guess what...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 17 Dec 2011, 15:20
I knew a guy named Tom in school. A classmate told me he thought it was written Thom, because every person he knew with that name spelled it Thom. And every person I know with that name spells it Tom.

Also, the reason I use the name LTK is that people on the internet would persistently misspell my actual first name. Initials are easier.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Dec 2011, 15:23
Of course, I wasn't counting the Norwegians I used to work with who sometimes wrote it Pål or Paal - that was fair enough from their point of view, and I actually rather like Pål.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 17 Dec 2011, 15:29
Yeah, it can be interesting what foreign languages do to your name. My mother worked in the UK for a number of years and went by Joyce, seeing how her real name is Joke. (That's actually two syllables)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Dec 2011, 15:29
I am always amazed when people misspell my name, because although I realise there are several spellings of it (Mae, Mai... that's all I can think of actually), the correct one is the most common one. I've never met anyone who spells it with an i and only ever heard of one person who spells it with an e.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Dec 2011, 15:51
The only misspelling of the first name that I ever get is with a K.

My last name, on the other hand, is old high German, seven letters and only two vowels.  The middle is a four consonant cluster, the classic German "tsch", and it's constantly mispronounced.  It's a soft ch, like in church, but most people see the sch and do the hard ch from school.  When I pronounce it, it usually gets misspelled... back in college I covered my dorm room door with misspellings of my name from pizza box labels, because I would just tell them what my last name was and let them figure out how to spell it...   :lol:

A few years ago, I discovered a different spelling of my name that ensures accurate pronunciation; I just pretend it's Italian, and replace the "tsch" with a double c, then end it with i to get the long final e pronounced correctly.  Now when I give that spelling to the host or maitre d' at a restaurant, the name is pronounced perfectly!


Yes, this is a real issue.  We've waited for a table before and been skipped becasue the host mangled the name so badly we didn't recognize it.  When no one answers, they just go on to the next person on the list... :x
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Dec 2011, 15:57
My wife's surname is Sieber, but people who know the drugs company often write Ciba.  OTOH, if they see it written correctly, they usually pronounce the ie like "eye" rather than "ee".

My daughter-in-law's surname is Blase, pronounced like "blaze" (her father (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dave_Blase) is American and her mother Dutch), but when she moved to Germany she changed it to Blaise - because Blase is not such a nice word there, as well as being pronounced quite differently
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 17 Dec 2011, 16:23
My first name (Elesia) is almost always mispronounced and misspelled. My own mother pretty often misspells it, but doesn't mispronounce, because she calls me Ellie now.

Most people don't even bother saying my name. Either they call me a nickname, or I'm "hey you".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Dec 2011, 17:06
Hey You is an increasingly popular baby name lately, it seems.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 17 Dec 2011, 18:23
my last name dorigo is normally okay but when i tell them what my middle names are: Valentino Arnold people are like... wtf... why arnold? It's because my grandma was named Arnolda. I always called her granny and nothing else untill I heard she didn't like her grandsons named after her in anyway. My parents thought differently and named my third name Arnold in respect to her :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 17 Dec 2011, 22:48
Mispronounciations/misspellings of my name? Never happened  :roll:

My first name (Jyrki) gives speakers of many a language a headache, so there is nothing to do but be understanding. If I tell a speaker of German to replace the 'y' with 'ü', then they get it about right. English/French/Spanish use 'J' so differently, and the phoneme corresponding to 'ü' does not exist AFAICT, so I just gave up. I suppose I should have searched for an English word that comes close :-D The only time I was mildly miffed was when the professor I was TAing for used incorrect initials in his messages. Come on! I know that it is easier for you to pronounce it, if you assume the 'j' is not there (we pronounce 'j' the way English pronounces an initial 'y'), but look it up from the label of my pigeonhole in the mail room, please.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 17 Dec 2011, 23:21
In my head, your name is Jerky. Like beef jerky. Please enlighten a stupid American?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Dec 2011, 23:36
I'm pronouncing it more "Yorkie".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Dec 2011, 23:38
Yurkey, more like turkey. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Dec 2011, 23:46
That makes sense, why did I pronounce it the way I did? ue...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 18 Dec 2011, 00:00
In my head, your name is Jerky. Like beef jerky. Please enlighten a stupid American?

Absolutely no reason to feel stupid. The most likely useful foreign languages for an American are French and Spanish (arguably Chinese might become more useful soon), and in all those the letter(combination)-phoneme correspondence differs here. This is just one of the downsides of coming from a small group languages.

Yurkey, more like turkey.  
Reasonably close. The rhythm is correct (syllable break between 'r' and 'k'). The first vowel not quite, but I think it does not exist in English. Thanks for your effort. I may use this to guide strangers some time :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 18 Dec 2011, 04:48
This is just one of the downsides of coming from a small group languages.
Whereas, if you come for a large linguistic group like me, everyone will pronounce your name correctly. Oh wait...  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 18 Dec 2011, 05:04
I lost a Magic: The Gathering tournament last night because I was dumb and didn't look at the cards I had on the field, the cards I'd been using for at least 3 turns prior.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 18 Dec 2011, 08:10
I'd pronounce those the same...

But I can do umlauts, anyway.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 18 Dec 2011, 09:48
I think that you are very close. Carl-E and Paul know German, and Tuathal knows Flämisch, so....

As Akima pointed out, even if over 1 billion people speak your language, it doesn't mean that you name would be universally pronounced correctly. It's a colorful world.

BTW. Are Dutch and Flämisch the same language, or is one a dialect of the other or something?

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 18 Dec 2011, 11:18
There used to be a game show on tv that pitted a Dutch and a Flemish team against each other in various language-related tasks. Remember that one?

A Flemish accent really gets on my sister's nerves, but I find them endlessly charming.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 18 Dec 2011, 11:42
To make sure: the language spoken in Northern half of Belgium is called Vlaams/Flemish/whatever, and is understood by all the speakers of Dutch? And they get along just fine - unless they are drunk and on the same soccer stadium?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 18 Dec 2011, 11:56
In 1975 I flew to Leuven with a salesman to visit a hospital whose French-supplied Nuclear Medicine imaging computer system didn't work - I had a tape with a fix which the UK sales office had commissioned me to program (it ended up as a new product).

We waited an hour or so for the consultant to arrive; but when he saw the salesman, he swore at us in Flemish and went away, and we flew back to England.  Just as well, really, because if we had gone any further with it, we would have had the embarrassment of explaining that I had a 9-tape tape, and he had a 7-track tape deck...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 18 Dec 2011, 13:59
10 voor taal.

http://nl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tien_voor_Taal

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 18 Dec 2011, 15:25
I think that you are very close. Carl-E and Paul know German, and Tuathal knows Flämisch, so....
The ü sound exists in Chinese too. It is not a common sound in terms of the number of words that include it, but it does appear in some very commonly used words. Probably the most common is 女 (girl, female, woman) which is pronounced nü (http://www.mdbg.net/chindict/rsc/audio/voice_pinyin_cl_mdbg/nuu3.mp3) in the third (dip-rise) tone. By contrast 汝 (exert, strive) is also third-tone, but pronounced nu (http://www.mdbg.net/chindict/rsc/audio/voice_pinyin_cl_mdbg/nu3.mp3). How far that maps with the German/Flemish/Dutch sound I do not know, because I don't speak any of those languages.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 18 Dec 2011, 23:27
stop the input of dutch things. Even I don't like it... whilst im dutch myself  :psyduck:

anyway, yes, 10 voor taal is a fun programme. still have to write 2500 words about castles. Fuuu :(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Dec 2011, 03:54
stop the input of dutch things. [...]
That's what she said.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 19 Dec 2011, 04:10
stop the input of dutch things. [...]
That's what she said.

 :|
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 19 Dec 2011, 05:36
I think that you are very close. Carl-E and Paul know German, and Tuathal knows Flämisch, so....
The ü sound exists in Chinese too. It is not a common sound in terms of the number of words that include it, but it does appear in some very commonly used words. Probably the most common is 女 (girl, female, woman) which is pronounced nü (http://www.mdbg.net/chindict/rsc/audio/voice_pinyin_cl_mdbg/nuu3.mp3) in the third (dip-rise) tone. By contrast 汝 (exert, strive) is also third-tone, but pronounced nu (http://www.mdbg.net/chindict/rsc/audio/voice_pinyin_cl_mdbg/nu3.mp3). How far that maps with the German/Flemish/Dutch sound I do not know, because I don't speak any of those languages.

God I miss learning Mandarin. Hell of fun language to speak, even if reading is mind bendingly difficult for me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 19 Dec 2011, 05:59
Learning Mandarin? I've been thinking of trying to learn another language, because my brain could really use that kind of an exercise. I was considering Italian, but may be...? Getting started with Mandarin would be very difficult for me - with no background on a language with common roots. Feels like a tall order.

Edit: Looked for more information. The university I work for actually offers courses in Chinese (would that default to Mandarin?). Meaning that I could at least find material and some support. The first course sets a goal of learning about 100 characters, and somewhere else I saw that 1500 is considered the limit of "basic literacy". A long project anyway...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 19 Dec 2011, 06:06
Try Korean. A classmate of mine is learning to read and write that and he says it's easy :X
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 19 Dec 2011, 06:19
Plus I hear the North has a great job opening right now
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Dec 2011, 08:18
Nah, it's taken. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Dec 2011, 11:56
Don't be so sure (http://www.theonion.com/articles/kim-jongun-privately-doubting-hes-crazy-enough-to,18374/).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 19 Dec 2011, 17:52
this is better for this topic than a bump in the singing topic. I just sang for about 20 minutes straight cycling after DJing from 00:30 - 02:30.
I mostly sang in jolly christmas tunes but the lyrics were of death, fucking up shit, santa being the devil (makes you fat and needy) and some bits about the snow and the trip home.

It's the best thing EVER to do whilst cycling home and it brought me in a jolly good mood :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Dec 2011, 19:18
I got headphones today, oh my goodness. I have been so miserable listening to music on my laptop speakers, and these things have some hella good bass response for cheapies.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ummmkay on 22 Dec 2011, 12:57
argh i am incredibly hungover

cold pizza, gatorade, and HIMYM. i'm never getting out of bed again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 22 Dec 2011, 15:36
The university I work for actually offers courses in Chinese (would that default to Mandarin?).
CSL courses in Western countries, unless they specifically say otherwise (the alternative is usually Cantonese), invariably offer Standard Chinese (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/普通话), often called Standard Mandarin*, and use Simplified Characters (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/简体中文). Generally nowadays, the "PRC way" is treated as the standard, but obviously if you were intending to go and study or live in Taiwan, you would need to learn some Traditional Characters.

Knowing 1000 characters would be regarded as very basic literacy in China; it was the standard set in 1950 when the People's Republic launched its famous 扫除文盲 (sǎo​chúwén​máng: sweep away illiteracy) campaign. The minimum standard for rural schools is now 1500. Urban schools regard 2000 as the bare minimum. Compare that with the standardised HSK test levels (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/汉语水平考试) for non-native speakers. Note too the distinction between the number of characters known and the number of words known, because this is often muddled up in discussions of Chinese literacy. At higher levels, the number of words known is more important.

*Technically, Standard Chinese (普通话 Pǔtōnghuà meaning "Common Language" in the PRC, or 國語 Guóyǔ meaning "National Language" in Taiwan, or 华语 Huáyǔ meaning Chinese Language in Singapore) is a standardised form of the Northern Chinese dialects collectively known as Mandarin. Or to put it another way, all Standard Chinese is Mandarin, but not all Mandarin is Standard Chinese. To CSL students, these subtleties are probably irrelevant; they should be aiming to sound like the news-anchors on CCTV (to get a job in broadcasting in China, you have to pass a test in standard pronunciation)!

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 22 Dec 2011, 17:32
From what I remember, and this was a few years ago mind, if you did first year Mandarin (both semesters) you would know about 1500 characters, second year (both semesters) you'd know 3000, third year 9000. We learnt to read both simplified and traditional characters but we only bothered learning to write simplified. I think in third year classes you'd do traditional writing and conversational language. I only ever did first year because the second year classes clashed with every single Psychology elective.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: FIXDIX on 25 Dec 2011, 18:16
Fuck you blog thread it's Boxing Day and I'm alone getting drunk listening to Otis Redding.

Fuuuuuuck yeah life!
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Dec 2011, 02:19
One of my friends gave me a flourescent green safety vest with reflective stripes so that when I walk the dog, I won't get hit by a car...again. 

She meant it as a joke, but I used it tonight. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 26 Dec 2011, 08:15
ugh tinnitus is bullshit with a clicking in my left ear. Extremely annoying
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 26 Dec 2011, 13:57
I got a call this afternoon from my brother.  My mother (73) had an aneurism burst while in the pool at the Y this morning.  My father pulled her out, they stabilized her at the local hospital (Cape Cod), then put her into a medical coma and flew her to Mass General in Boston.  They've put in a drain, and the CT showed three (!!) aneurisms.  They still need to find out which one's leaking and then figure out how  to seal it and what to do about the others. 

She's gonna be there a while.  My brother happened to have taken this week off, so he's at the hospital with my dad (78).  Thank gos he lives close, I'm 500 miles away. 

They've been married 54 years.  They were high school sweethearts (my dad joined the marines at 17 and served 4 years in Korea, then finished high school - hence the age difference). 

Right now, no news is good news.  We talked last night, with merry christmases. 



It's been a heluva month. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 26 Dec 2011, 22:07
Still in surgery. 

So far, so good. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 27 Dec 2011, 00:06
Best of wishes to her, Carl.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Dec 2011, 00:21
Thanks.  She's out of surgery, the bleeder was found and clamped, the others have been stabilised, and now only time will tell...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Dec 2011, 05:36
I'm glad they were able to catch the others as well. Best wishes.
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Post by: Akima on 27 Dec 2011, 15:48
Best wishes to your mother, and to you Carl.
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Post by: DrPhibes on 27 Dec 2011, 16:41
Im gone. MW3.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Dec 2011, 17:56
Thanks, everyone.  All signs are encouraging.  She wiggled her toes today when asked.  Still can't open her eyes, but she's also still heavily sedated.  My brother just texted, they'll be removing the breathing tube and reducing the drugs tomorrow.  It'll be a big day. 

I gotta get some of this out.  Hey, it's the blog thread, after all...

She's one of the strongest, toughest people I know.  Raised four boys nearly singlehanded (my dad worked away from home), and put up with my father (a major accomplishment).  Held two different local elected offices, started her own shop which morphed into a service business that she still runs. 

And has one of the sharpest tongues combined with one of the quickest wits I've ever met.  I know that, even if there's some damage, she'll recover and fight every step of the way. 

She and my father met in High school, but they had a common hobby, too - racing.  They were early members of SCUDERIA-X and the SCCA, racing MG's (TC's, TD's and TF's).  My dad raced on tracks, but he and ma did road rallys together, trading off as driver/navigator.  They organized and ran a rally on thanksgiving weekend in 1957, not expecting a lot of entrants since it was a holiday weekend, maybe 30 or 40.  But because it was a holiday weekend, and there were no other races going on, they had nearly 200 entrants.  They ran the whole thing, recruiting volunteers and relatives to man the rally stations.  At the end of the race, after tabulating the results and announcing the winners, they were wed by a justice of the peace who had run the race with his wife in their Jaguar. 

When they quit racing a few years later, and were selling off the MG's (there were over 13 of them in various states of damage and repair, most were parts cars for the couple that they raced), my father proposed keeping one of them (the best one in the bunch) and putting it up on blocks for their future children. 

My mother's attitude was "Why?  They're cheap cars, and they're barely worth anything anymore!" 

That's ma.  Always practical, and about a sentimental as a rock. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Dec 2011, 19:24
Glad to know she's recovering! Hope she continues to do so.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 28 Dec 2011, 02:13
I didn't read that earlier post Carl-E. Best wishes for her recovery :) And keep that text somewhere, it's awesome as a speech for any good time!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Dec 2011, 09:08
Thanks again, everyone.  Sorry for hijacking the thread, but I have to share this one...

When my brother and father went in this morning, she opened her eyes and gave them a thumbs-up.  They hadn't even begun to dial back the meds yet! 

I promise not to give every little detail of her progress, and I now return you to your regularly scheduled blogging thread. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Dec 2011, 11:33
Hey man, we're a community here. It's good to hear that yr mom seems to be fairing pretty well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 29 Dec 2011, 15:25
Holy shit, guys!

The night before last, my step-brother called his mum, my step-mum, into the room. She walked in, and saw that he was violently stabbing his chair with a knife. He said he was doing so because voices were screaming at him to do it. Whilst she was talking to him, he said "Mum, I think you need to leave the room. They're telling me to stab you now."
My dad called the police and an ambulance, and before they both arrived, my step-brother had voluntarily given up the knife. The police - armed police* - then took him, against his will, to A&E, where he got sectioned.

This is really fucking weird! The guy's had a history of mental health problems, including aggression, suicidal tendencies, and alcoholism, but fuck, I never realised his problems were this bad.

*In case foreigners aren't aware, British police are very rarely armed. The only times I've ever seen armed police in the UK, so far as I can remember, is at airports, outside Parliament, and this one time a house in my area got raided for drugs.
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Dec 2011, 15:41
That's awful - I hope things can be brought under control in a sufficiently satisfactory manner.

Discouraging story:
(click to show/hide)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 29 Dec 2011, 17:05
My cousin has schizophrenia. For the longest time she was doing very very well except for a few hiccups during stressful situations (when our grandfather died she thought that the family were conspiring against her and that we had staged the whole thing, similar situation when our grandmother died as well). For the most part as long as she took her medication and saw her psychiatrist she was ok though. She used to baby sit me when I was little and I'll always remember her as my favourite cousin and one of the loveliest people I'll ever know.


(click to show/hide)

I'm not saying that will happen. I hope it doesn't.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 30 Dec 2011, 00:57
schimmy,

There is hope in what you're written in as much as your step-brother was able to identify and communicate that things were not happening as he felt they should be.

An armed police response for someone threatening others with a knife sounds like standard operating procedure.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Jan 2012, 03:20
I hope things work out for your step-brother schimmy. Best of luck to you and yours.

Blog thread,

Tonight, people kept trying to give me hits of nitrous, but every time it would come to me someone would say something hilarious and I would end up laughing the hit straight out of my nostrils. Example:

"My mother stepped on my parrot."
"What, out of anger?"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 01 Jan 2012, 05:57
I spent New Year's Eve at home, but this is one case where I have no complaints at all. Because I spent the night editing the first ever real music video I've directed. I've done class project music videos, and online contest music videos for Royksopp (finalist) and Duran Duran (rejected), but this is the first time I've worked directly with the artist on a collaborative vision for the song.

It was one of my primary goals for 2011, and we did most of the shoot Friday in and around her home. Now we just need one quick location shoot, and for me to edit it all to final form. Even though this is "just" for a local artist and we did on absolutely no budget with my sem-pro camcorder, this is the kind of thing where I don't accept that this will be in any way inferior to bigger productions. She's an amazingly talented singer/songwriter, and we got exactly the kinds of shots we needed to let both the song and her personality shine through.

I'm babbling like this not just because it's a really cool project, but because of all the things I've done or tried to do, this is my true calling. I've been obsessed with music videos ever since I first saw them during the earlier days of MTv (when they actually played videos for most of the day!) But as much as I watched them, enjoyed them, studied them, it never occurred to me that it was something I could expect to actually do.

But with my recent career shift into the TV/video world, and with the availability of quality tools that anybody can get and use, it became not just a dream, but something that was inevitable as I followed my many friends in the music world, taking live videos and working on a couple of different TV productions centered around music.

And as I sit here and carefully shape the raw footage on the editing software timeline into the final essence of that initial idea, I now understand exactly how my musician friends feel when they're on stage and they just know that it's where they belong.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 01 Jan 2012, 14:18
Don't forget to post it in the MAKE thread whe it's done, if that would be allowed. 

I'd love to see it...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 05 Jan 2012, 03:23
I got a Kindle for Christmas, which is really cool, if a little frustrating to find free version of certain books on. Shouldn't complain about that, but, you know, student and stuff.

I just feel like I have a lot to read before I go back. Ulysses is about 1000 pages, yay. Plus some Virginia Woolf and travel lit. that I'm supposed to be looking at.

In other news, someone backed into my car when I went down with my girlfriend to go visit her relatives, and at the time was fuming and swearing my head off because I thought someone had just crunched it and sped off. Apparently it was an older lady who didn't want to get out, in the dark, and start enquiring as to whose car it was. Fair enough, faith in humanity restored!

Except the insurance guys have given us this freaking HUGE Mercedes in place of my little Fiesta for a courtesy car.

Exchanging this

(http://images.motoring.co.uk/images/car-pictures/mucf-images/500x375/spid1/3a/0a/e1/ford-fiesta-2002-green-hatchback-finesse-8v-5dr-3a0ae1bdbb0afbfc79a1aec1ae2e4a55-m2.jpg)

with this

(http://lewishamilton.me.uk/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/mercedes-a-class.jpg)

They are worlds apart. Although now I do get to say I've driven a Merc, which is pretty cool, but I prefer my sporty little hatchback...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 05 Jan 2012, 07:54
So the water valve cover from the street was spewing water.  I called the water department. 

They turned off the valve, and the leaking stopped.  Which means it's on my side of the valve, so I'm responsible for the repair. 

40 inches under the sidewalk.  And, since it was leaking up onto the sidewalk and forming ice, which is a safety hazard, they left the water off. 


I'm waiting on estimates from all the ridiculously busy plumbers.  Doesn't matter, we're broke.  I found out that I can either hire a plumber, or do the repair myself, so now I'm looking into renting a jackhammer.  One day so far with no water...  been using the toilet at the bar across the street.   :-P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 05 Jan 2012, 07:58
Why on earth are you responsible for the plumbing under the street? The street is municipal property! Right?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 05 Jan 2012, 09:14
In the UK you used to be responsible from the stopcock, wherever that was.  That was changed last year so that you are now only responsible from your boundary.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jan 2012, 09:26
I can't see anything wrong with a policy which allows members of the public to take a jackhammer to the pavement. No siree. Nothing could possibly go wrong with that plan.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 05 Jan 2012, 09:33
No, it allows, maybe requires, them to pay a company that has the appropriate permission!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jan 2012, 11:03
I meant what Carl was referring to, rather than the UK policy now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 05 Jan 2012, 12:11
I know; I was being cynical about the American profit motive - couldn't you tell?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jan 2012, 12:42
The Internet: shrouded in mystery.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jan 2012, 14:40
Things I have done today: discovered I do not get hangovers from drinking half a bottle of port. Walked halfway across college in order to find running water. Grilled halloumi. Plodded through ninety minutes of work. Collected many, many books from the library, mostly written by women who came to my college and then killed themselves. Had a spontaneous dinner party. Washed, dried, labelled and filled glass storage jars for rice and red lentils. Washed, dried and filled a ceramic raisin jar.

Number of things from that list which count towards my degree: One.

I count it as a highly productive day.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 07 Jan 2012, 14:52
Things I have done today:
Go to work. Spend about an hour online trying to figure out if I was building a late war mortar platoon or a mid war italy vet mortar platoon. Build said platoon.
Next up, build Panzergrenadier platoon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Jan 2012, 15:02
Got home from a few days in Germany with my son, and as we walked in the puppy started her first season - literally, the first drop of blood on the floor as she came to greet us.
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Post by: Dazed on 07 Jan 2012, 15:55
SO my back freaked out last night whilst I was out food shopping, and now I can barely walk through the pain. This weekend is not as awesome as I was planning.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 08 Jan 2012, 14:29
So, guess who needs a courtesy car for their courtesy car? (More about this in an appropriate thread...)
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 08 Jan 2012, 16:10
I have a dull headache for the last few days. I don't think it's serious or anything, I canbarely feel it. It is just amking me feel uncomfortable. I need some more time to adjust after vacation.

But anyways, I am trying to plan out my next few months. I have an academic competition coming up soon (that I have not studied for as much as I should have). Then at the end f February, I am auditioning for Les Miserables. There are a lot of male parts and it is more opera than play so I have a god sht at getting a part. But knowing me, I will probably be frustrated that I didn't get the lead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 10 Jan 2012, 08:31
Wait, so, "Sorry to dump you the day before the exam, but I know you hate that subject so I figure you don't care that much about the exam, so I feel like that makes it okay" ??
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Jan 2012, 08:35
What, are you only allowed to dump someone the day before an exam now?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Jan 2012, 23:43
Some people would have the decency to wait till after exams. 


Of course, there may have been pressing issues... but you didn't need to hear that.   :angel:
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 11 Jan 2012, 03:08
Today I was asked to interview for a new job! It's for an NGO that does community housing and mental health support in the town/part of Sydney that I live. This is a really big deal because I have a bachelors degree, a graduate diploma (equivalent to another bachelors) and a postgraduate diploma (equivalent to First Class Honours) in psychology and it's about time I managed to do something with them, though it's difficult to get a job without that last one which I only finished up in November.

I'm really happy about this because for ages I've been doing shitty retail or call centre jobs so I can pay my rent and now I might actually be able to have a job that I can feel good about. I don't expect to love every minute of my job or to jump out of bed every day with a smile on my face but doing something that makes a difference cosmically speaking, even if it's in a very small way, is something I'm so excited about. I'm also looking forward to not being ashamed of what I do for a living when I get asked at parties (I currently work for one of those daily deal websites that just scams the shit out of everybody and is really unethical).
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Post by: nobo on 11 Jan 2012, 03:32
Good Luck on your interview! When is it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jan 2012, 10:03
I managed to get a modelling gig paying $45/hour. Guaranteed minimum of three hours. Exciting.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 11 Jan 2012, 11:24
Some people would have the decency to wait till after exams. 


Of course, there may have been pressing issues... but you didn't need to hear that.   :angel:

Depends how much you value honesty. A little disbelief and questioning and things start spiraling out of control and people get hurt a lot more.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jan 2012, 19:38
Holy fuck my landlady is insane.

My roommate locked my landlady's dog in her room, so my landlady went out, was screaming for her (the dog), driving around looking for her, recruiting neighbours to help find her, all the usual stuff one does when a dog goes missing. Upon hearing the dog locked in my roommate's room, she then did the perfectly rational move of kicking the door off its hinges and telling my roommate she can buy her own door.

I desperately need a regular job so I can move the fuck out of here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Jan 2012, 23:47
Yes, you do. 

Oh, and I have water again.  Total cost; $153, and 5 days without water  :-(

Still better than the $1200 - $1800 estimates I got from professional plumbers.  I was even able to put the sidewalk slabs back in place...  pics when I can get them off my phone. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 12 Jan 2012, 03:02
"Make do and mend" sort of fitting in there - good to hear that it went alright. I'm sure you're a regular at the bar across the street now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 12 Jan 2012, 04:28
Good Luck on your interview! When is it?

It's on Friday 20th so I have plenty of time to prepare. Luckily the girlfriend of my best dude works at the same place so we're going out for dinner on Saturday night and she's going to give me the run down on what the interview is going to be like and what case studies they'll want me to go over. I am super confident for this awwwww yeah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Jan 2012, 07:09
Congrats/good luck, Jimmy!

Job opportunities are very exciting, especially when it means you get to move up in the food chain. :-D I just applied to a position that I'm super majorly qualified for, where I'd be experiencing less stress than my current job but getting paid $4 more per hour. They're only accepting applications for a week, so I'm hoping that smaller timeframe=smaller # of applicants=higher chances for me.

I don't necessarily NEED a new job...but my CEO has been dangling a raise/more responsibilities in front of my face for 2 months and keeps telling me that we're going to "have a meeting"....but either they're too busy to set it up or I'm just not high enough of a priority. I keep going to his secretary to ask when we're going to meet but she has no clue. Plus, they are doing major cutbacks to all agencies like mine and there is talk of merging/being taken over by another agency.... so it's hard for me to feel comfortable about my job security.  :|
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 12 Jan 2012, 12:16
Ok, whoever said I should start pranking my coworker, someone seems to have beat me to it. She got a FB message from somebody, accusing her of sleeping with this woman's husband, saying that somebody saw them together in the city where we work. She's freaking out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Jan 2012, 19:55
I am talking to Amazon customer service. The man at the other end is named Tinku.

I am talking to a man named Tinku at this exact moment in time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Jan 2012, 07:41
Nooooooooooooooo  :x


It is hailing/raining/not-quite-snowing-but-almost outside right now. The hail sounds like hundreds of tiny rocks being pelted at the window. And I NEED to walk to the post office...which is about 5 blocks away. I really don't want to do this but I sold something on Amazon and apparently, you agree to send it within 2 days of it selling. It's been 3 days and I haven't shipped it yet.


My lunch break today is going to SUCK.

I thought about putting this in the stress/panic thread....but methinks it's not quite dramatic enough to go there.


(And btw- Tinku is the coolest freaking name in the world. I am so jealous of that guy.)
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Jan 2012, 08:59
I am talking to Amazon customer service. The man at the other end is named Tinku.

I am talking to a man named Tinku at this exact moment in time.

Tinku beddy much. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Jan 2012, 19:00
The dog's been having days where she'll just lay around feeling very cold, then days of running around happy, then a few days of being cold. The vets said it was anemia. She just laid down and died an hour ago.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 14 Jan 2012, 08:27
 :-(

I'm so sorry for your loss, it sounds like it was so sudden...

*hug*
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 14 Jan 2012, 09:29
It's starting to seem like it was cancer. I'm sad, but I'm okay. She was my landlady's dog for the last 11 years though, and I don't know how she's going to manage.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 14 Jan 2012, 09:51
Oh man.....I kind of feel worse for you now that I know it was her dog. If she's as crazy as she sounds, this might just push her into the deep end.  :|
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 19 Jan 2012, 02:38
A weird thing just happened, and it's making me all introspective and stuff, so feel free to make this stop a tl;dr.

I'm checking e-mail, and there are a couple of notices from LinkedIn, which I'm signed up for, but I rarely rarely sign in, and have maybe a dozen connections who are mostly good friends who have tracked me down there. One for for somebody I know and work with locally in video stuff, and another was for people I "might" know. So I sign in, accept the friend into my Network, then start browsing the might-know list, and there's a Tammy ***** listed with the connection of the college I first went to and flunked out of 20+ years ago. Checking her profile, there's enough additional evidence to suggest that under a different last name, this is the Tammy that I had a HUGE crush on at the time, but was too boy-stupid to do anything about, even though we were pretty good friends at the time. An additional note. When I picture "the most attractive woman I have ever known", hers is the face I see. From the profile photo she has up, she is still amazingly gorgeous 20 years later, and that is not the crush talking.

So I sent a request to network with a short note asking if she was indeed the Tammy I knew. Didn't take long to decide. There wasn't really a way to convey in the short text available anything beyond giving her enough info to remember me (or figure out that she's the wrong one), so I hope it doesn't come off as a desperate "old flame looking for a later-life hookup" because that's not at all why I did it. While I may have regrets about not trying for something more, the regret for me now is losing track of a good friend. So we'll see on that.

So this gets me thinking about what ifs, and missed opportunities, and the "dead end" of retail that I got into. There's a sig quote that has mostly stuck with me because I've read the fantasy book its from, even though I don't recall it specifically from my read, I understand where the character is coming from in context. Paraphrasing: "To think there are worlds out there where I haven't made any mistakes is too heartbreaking to contemplate." Somewhere out there is a timeline where I asked Tammy out, we got married, I was motivated to finish my degree, got a job, we had kids, and they're now grown up and on their own with maybe even a grandkid in the mix, and we're perfectly happy.

But thinking about that doesn't make me sad, because for the most part, I'm in a really good place right now, with amazing friends, many of them enthusiastically following their passions in the video and/or music worlds, and I've found my own passion combining them (culminating in the shooting of a music video mentioned in a previous post, coming soon to a screen near you). But I look back, and see SO many moments in time where a zag instead of a zig would have led to someplace entirely different, and I realize that my mistakes are what made me, and even though many times they caused a lot of pain, I wouldn't choose now to undo those mistakes.

It's very easy to say "look forward", "be positive and good things will happen, even out of the bad", but I know there are places we can fall into where such thoughts don't mean anything for the moment. But in the end, our lives really are what we make of them, and I hope my rambling may help somebody stay open to the possibilities.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Jan 2012, 02:58
There's a timeline out there in which I decided to take up the invitation to be trained up to become the MD of what was then and is now the UK's largest and most successful pipe-organ building firm (Harrison & Harrison - I still have the letters, hand-written by the late owner of the firm, Cuthbert Harrison). 

What I have to remind myself of is that there's also one in which I got there but then ran it into failure!  That deals with the regrets pretty quickly.

Seriously, though; every major career path I turned away from (medicine, organs, sound recording) has remained an integral part of my life from that point to now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 19 Jan 2012, 06:32
I may not be able to reflect back 20 years ago (I'd be reflecting on the ripe old age of 6....) but I do hear where you're coming from and I think it's important for us all to look at decisions we made in the past that brought us to where we are today. Reminds me of that whole time travel/change one thing you change the world thing. It really is true. I made some decisions that I dreaded making at the time and they ended up being really good for me. I would love to think of where I might be if I stayed in Manhattan and pursued the life of an artist/designer/model. But then...I'd probably still be pining for someone I'm better off without. Instead, I moved back to my hometown, got a job working in an office and met the man who will be my husband.

Mistakes are what make us all- how we handle them shows our true character and the learning experiences help to form us into compassionate, well-rounded people. I agree 100% about our lives being what we make of them. It's so easy to point to the tough spots and say "THAT is why I'm not where I want to be". But as they say, the grass is always greener. And I think that once we realize that our alternate universe selves have just as many issues as our actual selves, a weight is lifted off our shoulders.


Thank you for posting your story. :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 19 Jan 2012, 12:53
She accepted the connection, so now that I can see more of her profile, I have an e-mail address to send a more detailed message. She also lists herself as single, which I wasn't expecting. It's still about reconnecting with an old friend, but possibilities, even remote ones, can be powerful things. But that's not really a goal, just something I'll leave open to those possibilities, just like there are possibilities around me all the time closer to home.

One of the larger things triggering this kind of looking back, is trying to figure out what exactly to do with my future. The past 3 years have been about changing course in major ways. A new career, new friends, new passions. I've been taking classes, learning skills, developing relationships with people I want to work with in both the music and video fields, and while I have the idea of the general direction, I don't have a singular vision, nor a plan to reach any specific goals. Mostly that's OK, since the river is flowing in the right direction, and I feel that wherever I finally disembark will be a good place.

At the same time, I think I really have an opportunity to use what I've learned to really help a lot of people reach their dreams, and I want to make sure that I can do things that make that difference, so I guess this year will be about finally adding a rudder and sails to my little raft and take control of the steering for a bit. (I can't resist a good metaphor)

EDIT: Hahahah, as I'm composing an e-mail to her, I get one from her asking me to refresh her memory because she doesn't remember me.  :-P
It's a cold bucket of water AND amusing example of how life works. Exchanging messages to prod her memory now...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Jan 2012, 07:23
Best of luck! I'm sure after a little help, she will remember you.  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 20 Jan 2012, 12:00
Yay! It finally clicked for her, lol. She even remembered that I gave her her first ever CD for her birthday and asked me if I remembered which one it was (Pete Townshend - White City). :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 21 Jan 2012, 07:38
Well, of course  you do...

 :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 23 Jan 2012, 23:58
The conversation has been going very well since then. Fun times chatting about the old days and catching up. :-)

On the video front, I'm learning an important lesson. A couple months ago I talked about helping a friend shoot some kind of promotional video for a blues musician. Despite misgivings, I agreed, and the shoot itself went OK, but I just cannot get the video to work as envisioned, and the frustration has basically made me blow off the deadline, and the friend is understandably getting impatient about it.

The problem is that I have a history of failing to follow through on things, and when that happens, I get depressed, and that makes other things fall by the wayside in a really bad self-defeating spiral. Fortunately, I recognize the danger signs, and I have far too many good things going on right now to let this setback pull me down. But I'm still in a state of semi-paralysis about talking to him about it and just saying it's not going to get done and be rid of the whole mess.

I think I understand why, though. When we were talking about this project, he kept trying to get me to help him with other video gigs, and I finally had to tell him that I need to concentrate on my projects, even though his were paid gigs, and mine are volunteer efforts I'm using to network and learn stuff via experimentation. The epitome of that is the music video I shot and am editing for a young local musician, which is coming out beautifully, and I think will help get both of us a lot of attention in town.

But whenever I talk with my friend, he has a way of questioning what I'm doing in a way that really makes me doubt myself. I don't think he means to do it, he's just caught up in a different mindset about this business. It works for him, and is pretty standard for the industry, but none of it takes me anywhere near where I want to go in this field. Weddings, corporate videos, personal and business events, store promos. There's certainly money to be made with those things, and somebody needs to do them, it just isn't me.

Ironically, I'm about to apply for a job (because I do need more money than I make at the access station) at a video service place that's a combo of sales/rentals/production, so that would be a job where I'm shooting exactly all those things anyway, but that doesn't bother me. And I think I understand why. With that job, I'm punching in the time clock and going where people tell me to go, and I'm perfectly OK with that, because shooting experience is always valuable. I'm also not putting time and energy into selling myself to get those kinds of jobs. Which frankly involves a lot of bullshit designed to make clients think they're getting their money's worth by showing them sparkles flying off text and "my camera's bigger than HIS camera!" posturing instead of focusing on the quality of the actual production.

That's a whole 'nother rant for later. The point being that I'm searching for my own path with all this, and if the result is that I find out that I've worked myself into a dead end, then so be it. And while it bothers me somewhat to be the asshole in this situation, I really cannot allow myself to fall into another rut and waste more years not even attempting to do what makes me happy. The bridges I'd be burning in that direction don't lead anywhere I'm interested in going, while the people I'm building relationships and visions with in the area music community mean everything to me right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Jan 2012, 03:27
Jimor, I think it's always best to follow your own ideas and ambitions instead of trying to fall into line with other people. It's about being strong enough to say "no" upfront to things you don't feel comfortable about - a useful lesson to learn but hard to stick to.

Bit of a mild panic because a couple of weeks ago I promised the development officer at my college that I'd get together some film clips for a promo video. I did a really good one with a friend and emailed it to myself, and just now I played it back to check it was working ok and we emailed the wrong one, a dud one instead of the good version. I'm hoping she still has the good one on her camera! I've got half a dozen people in mind and most of them have already agreed in theory to be filmed but it's getting hold of them when they've got time that's the problem, everyone is very busy and elusive. I think if I get two or three sent off today, I can get the rest by the end of the week - that is if they don't all end up being mangled or lost!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Jan 2012, 17:20
Saying no is really hard to do! But it's also a really healthy skill to learn.

Also, my roommates are fucking insane. The only one I had any respect left for just posted this on Facebook:

Quote
"Cleared the bamboo that was endangering the power line into the house again. There was SO much of it. . . My backyard looks like the Killing Fields. I have taken so much fresh, abundant, green life, and the green and the dirt and the moss ground into my skin is blood that I cannot scrub off. I can still hear them screaming, and my heart is so fucking sick right now and the only thing I find myself capable of doing is crying. I have to crawl back in bed, I somehow have to gain the strength to do something positive and healing with the rest of the day."

She served in the Iraq War, and she just compared pruning already broken bamboo to murdering people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Jan 2012, 18:09
Actually I'm pretty sure it's because it hurts the fairies.

That's not a joke, that's not tongue-in-cheek, that's 100% serious.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 24 Jan 2012, 23:15
There's no mention of Fairies in the post so I'm not sure why. Before I got to that it I just took it that scrubbing her hands reminded her of having to do it in the field and it bought back hard memories. Having worked with war veterans I know that they can have difficulty expressing themselves and sometimes it doesn't come across well. You can make assumptions and swift judgements, but I reckon it would be fairer to take it in greater context. It's posted publically, talk to her about it.

Of course if Fairies, then mad.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Jan 2012, 00:41
She has a shrine to the fairies in her room. She's pretty open about it.

I just got up to go pee and ended up listening to two of my roommates talking about when they're going to evict me in the living room. Oh, that's awesome. Apparently I'm creepy because I spend all my time in my room and only come out when they have company over. Here's why, you bitches: I'm terrified of you. I don't like living in fear that I'm going to be berated and yelled at for something I didn't do, or for something that's not my fault. I don't like having someone point out the fact that I still don't have a job even though I've been steadily applying for one for the last five months, because trust me, it's not easy on me. I don't like you taking your problems out on other people, so I only come out when you have company, because you don't start your bullshit when there's people watching.

I'm tired. And I've been six kinds of depressed since I moved. I was really optimistic, but with each day and each job application, nothing happening - being turned down by the government for aid - now being evicted...I don't know what I'm going to do. I've got nowhere to go, and being homeless hurts because it's so hard to get back off the streets.

About the only thing I have left is doing fucking sex shows on cam for pay, and even that is so stressful that I ended up a suicidal mess after awhile just thinking about it.

And I'm pissed off that they feel threatened by me because I'm unstable, which apparently shows how well they know me: I don't get angry. I get hurt. And the more I hurt, the harder it is for me to do anything about it.

Fuck. My. Life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Jan 2012, 00:56
And on top of that they claim I'm the threatening one when I'm literally the only person in the house who doesn't have a lock on the door, and two other people (one of whom who has blatantly threatened me) have loaded fucking guns. And apparently I'm the one who starts drama when they're posting things in public such as "I am done with house drama." and "I HATE DRAMA!!!!!", which is generally a good way to have people ask "What's wrong?" and continue spreading the drama around.

I really should have seen this shit coming. Months ago. They did this to Camille, they did this to CK, and now they're doing it to me. I wonder how long it'll take to move on to the next scapegoat once I'm gone?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jan 2012, 01:05
That's an awesome story.

I got the eviction notice. Five days to vacate, which isn't wholly legal but to be honest I've already found a new place so I'm not altogether too worried about the fact. I'm not pissed. Slightly bitter,  but not really angry. She's hurting herself by throwing me out, which is making another flatmate leave, and then there was an argument between her another roomie that's going to result in that one moving out in the next couple months, if my guess is correct.

Weiter, weiter.

My friend is offering to let me stay at his place, which is a bit of a genderqueer anarcho-communist punk house. I'm taking him up on that and let us see how this will pan out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 27 Jan 2012, 01:32
Good to hear that the everything erm.. went better than expected.  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jan 2012, 01:35
I feel kind of like a shit, though, 'cause I'm taking solace in the fact that relationships all around my landlady are imploding.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 27 Jan 2012, 02:29
To be fair, she sounds like a total cockbiscuit so I think you're ok. You might even be better off, emotionally, than you would have been staying in that shitstorm of drama, guns and resentment.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jan 2012, 02:32
She takes her pain out on other people. And she has fibromyalgia as well as a host of other problems. No, that doesn't excuse it, but makes it a little easier to rationalize it.

Still. It was a chance I took, and I've learned my lesson: when my instincts tell me not to trust somebody, I should listen to my damn instincts.

Onto better horizons, I hope.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 27 Jan 2012, 03:29
I'm going away this weekend, firday - sunday on a weekend I helped plan! For about 50 students from out small alternative association (club) which had about 170 members. Were gonna go play with Lego, have a blind beer testing thing. Do a music Quiz. Do Poi. Do a drawing class. make masks out of plaster and paint them and then in the evening drinks lots of alcohol to top it off. It's gonna be awesome!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jan 2012, 05:13
Dear blog thread, I do not want to do this degree any more. I'm getting stressed and miserable and generally hating it. I don't understand anything I'm "learning" in land law and I think I'm likely to fail that paper, meaning I won't be able to graduate unless I resit it... and that would mean spending my entire summer on the bloody thing. I hate it so much, it doesn't make any sense and it all seems so arbitrary. Added to the fact that I just can't comprehend the way our system of land ownership works anyway, it is all totally counter to everything I believe in. The textbook keeps saying things like "such and such a change was made to improve the system of conveyancing" and then you read a bit further and discover that "improve the system of convenyancing" means "make it easier for a purchaser to force the occupants of a house out simply because the legal owner decided to sell it over their heads".

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH I am sick of how pretentious and stupid Cambridge is, sick of the ostentation and stress and sick of studying something I don't enjoy or understand because it was presented to me as compulsory. I know now that it isn't a compulsory part of my degree but it is far, far too late to drop it, and anyway I would be inviting fire down on myself by being the only person in the entire year to refuse to take it. A tiny, tiny, tiny bit of comfort in the fact that I am absolutely determined not to take the equivalent paper next year, rains of fire or not, but at this rate I don't think I'll make it that far.

Yesterday I got the email inviting me to halfway hall. All this time and stress and misery and I'm not even half way through yet. Fuck.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 27 Jan 2012, 23:29
May, so sorry university is turning out to be such a pain for you. I hope you realize it's not a failure, but just a hard-earned discovery of what is and isn't right for you. I gotta say I've been impressed as hell with how you've been grabbing life with both hands over the past couple of years, even as I worried you might burn out from it. When you find your path, I am absolutely sure that you will rock it like few others can.

Zingo, good to hear that you've found alternate housing for now. Likewise, I've been impressed with your willingness to take the chance to improve your life with the cross-country move and other things. It's tough as hell sometimes, and there will undoubtedly be more setback, but keep clawing forward until you can get where you really want to be.

With the idea that despite a lot of detours, we eventually end up where we belong, the music video I directed has officially been released! Parie Wood - Freeloader (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sfh-J-PIkcU). It's not going to blow anybody away as the most cutting edge video out there, but I believe it does exactly what it needs to do to express the personality of the artist and the song. :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Jan 2012, 01:25
Good editing! I like it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Jan 2012, 08:24
Things I would like to do today:

Take a nap
Watch a film
Read a book
Knit a pleasing garment
Finish my land law supervision

Things I must do today:

Cycle six miles
Teach about cliches
Sing for perhaps ten minutes
Sit silently backstage for an hour and a half
Mingle with the sort of people who voluntarily pay £32 to watch Wagner
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 29 Jan 2012, 09:21
Crazy weekend. From fridat 18:00 till now, sunday 18:00 I've pretty much been drinking, do a workshop and a musicquiz on a weekend away fro 50 people. Total sleep? 2 times 4 hours.

In the trainride home with a group of eight we've decided as a joke to occupy everything. Occupy Cows, Occupy lasers, Occupy beer, Occupy Facebook.
well, that last one were gonna put in effect and create an Occupy group on FB with pictures of tents and spam people's pages saying they are now occupied :P
edit: http://www.facebook.com/groups/182581988510699/
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jan 2012, 13:10
Jimor, that was really well done.  I'll be showng it to my daughter tonight - the one who tells us we pressured her into doing the thngs that she told us she wanted to do.  Because she thought it was what we wanted her to do.  Which isn't what we wanted for her at all, 


No, there are no typos in there.  Had to double check. 


Zingo, glad you're getting out of that nuthouse.  You may be getting into another, but let's hope the new nuts fit you better.   :laugh:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 30 Jan 2012, 00:25
Tournament on the 18th of February. First time playing in years.
Need to have 89 models painted.
Have 24 models painted
Need to start building 16 more models and a tank (from scratch, no kit), at least 1 model needs somewhat extensive conversion work.
Need to finish building 11 models.
28 that are built need to be based.
1 is based, but 29 that are built need to be primered black.
Then they can be painted.
Need to paint 2 more tanks, 6 models.
The order that I will perform these tasks in are as such:

Finish building the 11 models.
Start the tank/get frustrated with the tank.
Build 16 more models.
Work on the tank/get frustrated with the tank.
Convert the one model.
Finish the tank.
Base 55 models.
Prime 56 models (including the tank, which is not based)
Paint 65 models.
Be done with them for now. But don't varnish them so you can add more detail later.

Waffle on doing homework like you have been for the past week already. Who cares if you have a test coming up. You have miniatures that need painting.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 30 Jan 2012, 10:01
Fascinating - someone who's able to prioritize the ignoring of priorities...

GO, JACE!!!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Jan 2012, 14:28
Oh grah argh mah eh I have so much work to do and I am so tired  :psyduck:

Trying to decide whether it is better to stay up late tonight, or get to bed and just try desperately to cram a week's worth of work into three days. And fail either way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Jan 2012, 02:57
Someone gave me a book but it is so terrible that it's literally unreadable.

Quote from: The Chronicles of Chrestomanci
Cat screamed. Flames burst out of him all over. He screamed again, and beat at himself with flaming hands, and went on screaming. They were pale, shimmering, transparent flames. They burst out through his clothes, and his shoes, his hair, across his face, so that, in seconds, he was wrapped in pale flame from head to foot. He fell on the floor, still screaming, and rolled there, blazing.

Janet kept her presence of mind. She dragged up the nearest corner of the carpet and threw it over Cat. She had heard that this smothered flames. But it did not smother these. TO Janet's horror, the pale, ghostly flames came straight through the carpet as if it was not there, and played on the black  underside of it more fiercely than ever. They did not burn the carpet, nor did they burn Janet's hands as she frantically rolled Cat over in the carpet, and then over again. But no matter how much carpet she wrapped around Cat, the flames still came through, and Cat went on blazing and screaming. His head was half outside the flaming bundle she had made of him, and it was a sheaf of flames. She could see his screaming face inside the fire.

tl;dr: dude's on fire and screams a lot
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 31 Jan 2012, 03:01
Dude be blazing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 31 Jan 2012, 03:48
I love the Chrestromanci series! You better watch whose childhoods you're insulting there, Zingalingading.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Jan 2012, 03:49
Apparently not enough to spell it right.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 31 Jan 2012, 09:43
Portmanteu of Chrestomanci and Romance...?

I remember reading those to me girls when they were younger.  Aimed at pre-teens, as I recall...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 31 Jan 2012, 17:04
Bah I was typing fast in my passion.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Jan 2012, 17:18
I've a bit of kiwi lodged in my sinuses. It's not very pleasant.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Penheart on 31 Jan 2012, 17:36
Just got sworn into the Airforce last January and am now just exercising as much as I can, doing housework, and just doing my own interests (reading, writing, drawing, model repair ect.) four 4-5 more months unless I get a call to come in immediately. It's not really the repetitious days and the fact that all my friends are off to college that's getting to me, since I either really don't care or actually like it. What is is the uncertainty of not being prepared physically yet if I get an immediate call to come in leading to something I like to call passive anxiety.

To cut through this is the call I got from my birth mother in Nicaragua and listening to my little niece in the background laughing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 31 Jan 2012, 18:26

Finish building the 11 models.
Start the tank/get frustrated with the tank.
Build 16 more models.
Work on the tank/get frustrated with the tank.
Convert the one model.
Finish the tank.
Base 55 models.
Prime 56 models (including the tank, which is not based)
Paint 65 models.
Be done with them for now. But don't varnish them so you can add more detail later.

I'm off to a good start so far, having already become frustrated with the tank a full 2 days before I thought I would.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2012, 01:50
What is is the uncertainty of not being prepared physically yet if I get an immediate call to come in leading to something I like to call passive anxiety.

I don't know much about the forces but as I understand it, they don't actually let you enlist unless they think you're fit enough, and you will get training, so although obviously it's good to be working out now and getting fitter, you are unlikely to get there and be told to go home because you're not ready. I could be wrong, but that's how I thought it works - they check your fitness when they enlist you and then they train you up more.

Speaking of exercise, I seem to have lost 3cm round my waist this month. Turns out exercise really does work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Feb 2012, 09:30
I think the idea of any country teaching a course on the culture of any other country is ridiculous, because I am not certain I know of anyone in England who would be able to say what English Culture actually is. Preeeeetty certain I would disagree with your course's opinions. Preeeeetty certain 100 other people would also disagree, and disagree with me, and disagree with each other.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Feb 2012, 11:51
Oh, really? Scottish, Irish, and Welsh people are all the same. They like to hear this, too, it gives them a sense of solidarity, so you should let them know all the time that you don't really see a difference between them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 01 Feb 2012, 13:23
I love the little molotov cocktails you serve before dinner...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 01 Feb 2012, 14:01
Honestly, I'd like to see how "Norwegian culture" would be taught abroad, though I doubt it does. maybe "Scandinavian culture" or "Nordic culture" exists? Depends on how much the universities around caters to the black metal crowds, really. It probably wouldn't be very meaningful - the modern, urban culture seems to be pretty similar all over Europe, so you'd probably have to overemphasize the differences.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 01 Feb 2012, 14:28
Oh, really? Scottish, Irish, and Welsh people are all the same.

Absolutely!  They're all Celts; they all speak Gaelic or something, whatever they call it; and of course there's been no inter-marriage or cross-breeding with the Anglo-Saxon English in the past 1500 years at all.

But they do have all the best mountains (no fjords, though).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 01 Feb 2012, 14:33
I love the little molotov cocktails you serve before dinner...

That's the Irish bombing each other,  and is quasi-religious.  Mind you, they like to bomb the English too, just for the hell of it.

(Those troubles seem to be pretty much over, though.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 01 Feb 2012, 18:34
Pretty sure he was being sarcastic? Considering it's pretty well known they don't like hearing that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Feb 2012, 21:13
Pretty sure he was being sarcastic? Considering it's pretty well known they don't like hearing that.

whoops!

also I was being about as tongue-in-cheek as it possible to be
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 01 Feb 2012, 23:11
(As was I, of course.)  Ah, the dangers of written sarcasm!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 01 Feb 2012, 23:33
Happens too often nowadays. If you don't litter your post/e-mail/whatnot with smileys, then somebody will assume that you were serious.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 01 Feb 2012, 23:48
To be fair, it's happened since the Internet began; there's just so much more  Internet these days.

I come back from the pub and have to read this kind of bullshit?

The pub can have that effect on comprehension...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 02 Feb 2012, 04:25
Pretty sure he was being sarcastic? Considering it's pretty well known they don't like hearing that.

whoops!

Sorry! Do you prefer she or ze?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 02 Feb 2012, 06:39
I LOVE MARC VAN BERKEL.
Aka my newest-history teacher. After failing the resit for the second time I normally have one more chance, if I wouldn't get it than I'd have to leave the university :(!
He gave us two chances! :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Feb 2012, 14:15
Pretty sure he was being sarcastic? Considering it's pretty well known they don't like hearing that.

whoops!

Sorry! Do you prefer she or ze?

They, actually, but I won't be offended by either of those.

I do love this place; everyone respects my pronoun. I'm having a really hard time with others pronouns, though, 'cause...Audrey and D don't have a pronoun, they just go by their name, Taiga and Mims use they/she/ze, Phi is they/it/ze, Brighton and Izi are they/he/ze, Trevor is heshe/shehe (that's awkward), Elsa/Lou is ze/za/zo, and Joey is the only binary person here, and he's just he.

This was as much for your information as much as me trying to keep it all straight.

Elsa/Lou also uses fruits and colours for pronouns, but apparently no one does that more than, say, twice.
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Post by: Lines on 02 Feb 2012, 15:04
Pronouns are tricky. They're the one thing I always forget about - if someone changes gender, I'll call them by their desired name but always mess up the pronoun. And what makes it even more confusing is that some people don't mind and some people are really anal about it. (Like one ftm yelled at a friend because she accidentally called her she after the other had only been male for about a week.) Hopefully I'll remember the right pronoun next time. :)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Feb 2012, 17:07
No problem! I'm not upset.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Feb 2012, 17:39
That's interesting - do you refer to yourself as female? Why they? (Interested rather than judging, but I'd hope you would realise that  :-) ). Also what name do you use these days? Because in my head you are Yuna, wasn't sure if that's actually a name you use outside the internet!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Feb 2012, 18:42
I'm just a person. I let other people gender me, and the given assumption is female 99.99% of the time (I've had...two instances where I was read male, and my natural reaction was to laugh in their faces). If I have to identify, it'd be as an androgyne (http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Androgyne). Most people here are genderqueer, and 'they' is a simple gender-neutral pronoun

The name I use most is Unicorn, so my facebook name was a pun on that. The irony is that my friends in real life are now calling me Yuna because of it. That (Unicorn, that is) was a name that was given to me by a friend early on in my transition and it suited me rather well. A couple years ago I played with the name Raine but I was talked out of it (the idea was that changing your name you're supposed to blend in, not stick out; while I think this is generally true, it doesn't quite apply to myself, I think). My friend Joey knew me by that name, and he's continued using it and actually introduced me to the house as such, so I'm called Raine or Unicorn in fairly equal amounts.

Legal name is still Leslie, named after this Leslie (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leslie_Feinberg). But I think the rest of my life will be staged around various pseudonyms. Identity is fluid.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 02 Feb 2012, 18:50
In my head I only ever refer to you as Zing. Hope that helps.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Feb 2012, 18:52
You're not the only one.
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Post by: Carl-E on 03 Feb 2012, 13:03
Zingo, to me. 


not to be confused with Mr. Starkey...


I've used "they" as a gender neutral pronoun for years and years, but it seems most people don't get it and assume I've lost track of number in my sentences, even though it's an accepted form in the language. 

This includes my English professor father-in-law, who argued with me about it for quite some time a couple of years ago when he came across it in a paper he was proofing for me.  Never  let relatives edit... 
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 04 Feb 2012, 14:04
I've always favoured 'Leb, just because it's reads a lot more as a name and seems to fit the image that I have of you. Not sure I could call someone Unicorn with a striaght face. That has more to do with spending an unhealthy amount of time playing RPGs and hanging around at game-cons and washed up hippies though.
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Post by: snalin on 04 Feb 2012, 14:31
Trevor is heshe

I read that out loud as "hishy", and that sound awesome. Like "fishy", just with the h.
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Post by: Akima on 04 Feb 2012, 15:13
I've used "they" as a gender neutral pronoun for years and years, but it seems most people don't get it and assume I've lost track of number in my sentences, even though it's an accepted form in the language.
The "singular they" has been used in English since at least Chaucer's time, despite constant attempts to misrepresent it as a recent "politically correct" coinage. Such writers as Shakespeare, Jane Austen, and Henry Fielding used it, and I'm certainly not going to say I know English better than they did. In my view, it is by far the least unsatisfactory way of avoiding gender-specific writing.
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Post by: pwhodges on 04 Feb 2012, 15:37
I have used "they" for a long time (though not entirely consistently, I will admit); but there are situations where I feel it still sits uncomfortably, and in these cases I will typically recast the sentence into a form that works for me.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Feb 2012, 22:15
In my view, it is by far the least unsatisfactory way of avoiding gender-specific writing.

Same here. It's one already used broadly and the way English works, if you use it long enough, it becomes grammatically correct, and they as a singular gender-neutral pronoun has been in use for centuries, as you pointed out. There's always experimentation with other words, the most common I see being zie and hir*, which I insofar haven't seen out of the trans* and furry communities (which have a surprising amount of overlap).

*I just realized that zie and hir both could relate to sie and ihr in German...
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Post by: Lines on 05 Feb 2012, 08:22
They could be related to the German, but hir is definitely a combination of his and her and ze (I haven't seen it spelled as zie before) just replaces h/sh for he and she, I think.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Feb 2012, 08:32
Well, yes, I'm very aware of that - I meant that a connection could be drawn between the two, not that it came from German.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 06 Feb 2012, 04:02
Ever since I got my college acceptance, I don't want to go to school anymore.
I just wan to close my eyes and be there.
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Post by: Akima on 06 Feb 2012, 06:00
There's always experimentation with other words, the most common I see being zie and hir*
When speaking  Chinese there is no problem because the words for "he", "she", and "it" (他,她,它) are all pronounced exactly the same ("tā", like "fa" in "do, ray, me, fa..."), but the written forms are different as you can see. In Chinese you can't use "they" to get around the problem because there are three words meaning "they" (他们,她们,它们, all pronounced tā-m'n), and they are gender-specific too (they are simply plural forms of he, she, and it). :(
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Feb 2012, 07:02
In Chinese you can't use "they" to get around the problem because there are three words meaning "they" (他们,她们,它们, all pronounced tā-m'n), and they are gender-specific too (they are simply plural forms of he, she, and it).

If the words for "they" are gender-specific, how do you indicate a group of mixed gender?
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Post by: LTK on 06 Feb 2012, 11:08
If Chinese is anything like French, they use the male plural pronoun.

Fun fact: The Dutch plural pronoun is identical to the female pronoun, 'zij'. To know which one is meant you need to look at how the verbs are conjugated.
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Post by: DrPhibes on 06 Feb 2012, 11:38
Meh, thats so easy as a dutch person you wouldn't confuse the "They" - Zij and the "She" Zij.

Zij zei dat het weer stom was!
Zij zeiden dat het weer stom was!
(translated)
They/She said the weather was stupid!

Guess which one is the plural!
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Post by: Lines on 06 Feb 2012, 11:55
Zeiden? I'm guessing Dutch is pretty similar (and at the same time not at all) to German.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Feb 2012, 12:18
Do you have any verbs which conjugate identically in the single and plural? There must be some. But then again you get the same confusion in English when he told him that he didn't like him.
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Post by: LTK on 06 Feb 2012, 12:48
Meh, thats so easy as a dutch person you wouldn't confuse the "They" - Zij and the "She" Zij.
Of course I wouldn't, but it's still a fun fact!

Do you have any verbs which conjugate identically in the single and plural? There must be some. But then again you get the same confusion in English when he told him that he didn't like him.
Nope, can't think of any. The difference between single and plural verbs is very simple; plural is usually the same as single, only with -en or -n at the end. I fall down. You fall down. We fallen down.
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Post by: pwhodges on 06 Feb 2012, 12:51
he told him that he didn't like him.

Or in the genderless version:  they told them that they didn't like them.
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Post by: Welu on 06 Feb 2012, 13:09
Finally got into a groove for working on an assignment that I keep putting off because it's about music and I'm really not musically inclined and someone else comes into the room and whacks on the TV, turns it up stupidly loud and now my groove is totally messed up and I'm struggling to form a sentence now.

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Post by: Akima on 06 Feb 2012, 15:11
If the words for "they" are gender-specific, how do you indicate a group of mixed gender?
You use the male form, which you're supposed to use in any context where gender is "unknown or irrelevant", a characterisation that is of course massively freighted with sexist assumptions about relevance. Is it irrelevant to refer generically to engineers, doctors, political leaders etc. as if they were all male?

Do you have any verbs which conjugate identically in the single and plural? There must be some. But then again you get the same confusion in English when he told him that he didn't like him.
In Chinese, verbs don't conjugate at all, or change tense. It makes learning European languages challenging. :)
 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Feb 2012, 16:09
Goodness. I think I did know that somewhere in the back of my mind but I'd forgotten. How do you communicate the nuances of meaning? Do you know if it's the same in Korean? That might explain my student's difficulty with conjugation!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Feb 2012, 16:14
My friend was explaining that bit about verb conjugation/tense in Chinese a few weeks ago - he's this bloody genius who picks up language by just being around it, and knows five or six languages already. If he wasn't such a sweetheart I may have to strangle him. Apparently, no, that doesn't carry over into Korean.

I've been learning sign language lately and there's no gendered pronouns in it. You just point to someone or in general to mean she/he/it/they/them/you/I.

Also, Welu, what is your assignment about? I'm willing to help!
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Post by: DrPhibes on 06 Feb 2012, 18:53
If you had a cool set of playing songs as a band... you know how i feel now... but it might sound weird im a DJ and not a band :X

I feel awesome! Played from 11:00 till 00:15 and from 01:10 till 3:30 almost all blipblop 8-bit and shit or general rock/metal/nu-metal!
Wooooooo :)
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Post by: Carl-E on 06 Feb 2012, 21:24
I'd ask for a translation of that, but I'm afraid of what the result would be...   :angel:

Welu - go back and whack the TV again for them, only this time with a small sledgehammer.   :evil:
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Feb 2012, 01:13
We could all write a sentence each of Welu's assignment! It'd be done in no time!
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Post by: Welu on 07 Feb 2012, 03:54
I would love that. :laugh:

Amazingly I don't have a copy of the assignment brief because I was never given one and there's no copy of it on the college site so that's a big reason it's causing me so much trouble! In short it's about the music production process. How to set up microphones for recording a band in a studio, which I've done. Then it's about actually processing the song, the software and mix desk. That's the main bit I'm struggling with since the class spent some weeks in a studio and as the guy said, mixing the song is about getting an instrument to sound right but mostly about preference. That meant I was just guessing what a drum is meant to sound like through a speaker. Most other people in the class are in bands so that bit came easy to most people.
The last bit is to analyse a song. That's the task, "Analyse a song." Not what to analyse about it, or why we like/dislike it or how it was made. That was the bit I was working on last night because I'm good at just bullcrapping vague tasks.
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Post by: LTK on 07 Feb 2012, 05:05
Goodness. I think I did know that somewhere in the back of my mind but I'd forgotten. How do you communicate the nuances of meaning? Do you know if it's the same in Korean? That might explain my student's difficulty with conjugation!
What nuances of meaning? A verb doesn't change depending on who's doing it. It doesn't matter if I eat, you eat, he eat, she eat, we eat or they eat.
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Post by: pwhodges on 07 Feb 2012, 05:51
It matters if we have eaten or will eat, though.

Bloggery:
I just spent two hours on the phone to Dell to correct the configuration of an iSCSI RAID array that went wrong when the building's core switch stack went down - one of the controller boards had been refusing to talk iSCSI at all, even though the internal status was shown as "optimal" and "Online"; now I have full redundancy back.  I love being able to move live running virtual servers from one host machine to another in seconds without anyone noticing.
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Post by: LTK on 07 Feb 2012, 06:21
Neither of which absolutely require a conjugation of 'eat'!
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 07 Feb 2012, 06:39
What about eat/eating/ate? Presumably (but not necessarily) a language would have some way to discern between tense, even if the verb doesn't change based on time or who's doing it.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Feb 2012, 07:10
That's what I meant - do you sort of string words together to indicate the specifics (for example in the way sign language works, to my knowledge, as in saying "I eat yesterday with other people") or is it inferred from the context?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Feb 2012, 07:35
Goodness. I think I did know that somewhere in the back of my mind but I'd forgotten. How do you communicate the nuances of meaning? Do you know if it's the same in Korean? That might explain my student's difficulty with conjugation!
What nuances of meaning? A verb doesn't change depending on who's doing it. It doesn't matter if I eat, you eat, he eat, she eat, we eat or they eat.

Wait, that's also not right. He eats. She eats.
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Post by: LTK on 07 Feb 2012, 08:06
My point being, the extra -s does nothing to change the meaning of 'eat'.

I'd wager that the Chinese past tense, like the English perfect and future tenses, uses an extra verb to indicate it happened in the past.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Feb 2012, 11:43
In my mind, that would be a form of conjugation, but I may be misunderstanding.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Feb 2012, 14:45
Blog:  My mother gets out of the rehab center tomorrow.  A week in a nursing home (de rigeur), and then she'll be back in her home wth some home nursing support.  She seems to remember everything except what happened that day.  Her motor control's a little off (hence the rehab center), but she was only there three weeks, and they say they can't do more for her. 


Fuckin' miracle. 
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Post by: LTK on 07 Feb 2012, 14:56
That's amazing, Carl-E!
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Post by: DrPhibes on 07 Feb 2012, 15:11
Going out drinking and playing some pool with the Irish students here in Holland from 22:00 till 00:00. Might not be a long time but it's always good to talk and all those little things. I almost forgot the turkish girl who was also there, she is so bad in English she doesn't talk much :(
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Post by: Lines on 08 Feb 2012, 10:06
Carl, that's great!
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Post by: Akima on 08 Feb 2012, 15:07
Fuckin' miracle. 
I am so happy, for you and for her.

That's what I meant - do you sort of string words together to indicate the specifics (for example in the way sign language works, to my knowledge, as in saying "I eat yesterday with other people") or is it inferred from the context?
Both. :)  So called "time expressions" are used instead of verb tense, and because they are so important, they go at the beginning of the sentence. Chinese sentence structure is different from English (big surprise, right?). The (very) basic structure of a simple sentence in Chinese is <subject><time><place><prepositional><verb><object>. NB: Not every sentence contains all parts, <time> can be placed before the subject, there is considerable flexibility in where <object> can be placed.

So, instead of writing "Akima ate lunch with May in Oxford yesterday" as you might in English, the Chinese sentence would run something like "Akima yesterday in Oxford with May eat lunch". Obviously replacing "yesterday" with "tomorrow" would place the action in the future instead of the past but the verb would not change. This is very elementary, and in addition there are "aspect particles" that indicate things like "an action that is complete" or "an action that is still continuing" and "auxiliary verbs", that distinguish, for example, between an intention to do something and a confident prediction of it (so that a basic sentence "I go to Beijing" becomes "I will go to Beijing" (someday) or "I am going to Beijing" (next week and I've bought my ticket) depending on the auxiliary placed before the main verb "go").

A phrase that every CSL student learns to dread is "it's understood". A lot of things are left to be inferred from the context, and Chinese people tend to drop words from sentences if they expect the meaning to be clear without them. From the Classical Chinese poets to commuters texting on their mobile phones, Chinese people like to pack a lot of meaning into a few characters.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 08 Feb 2012, 15:53
I love language discussions. It's interesting to see the similarities and differences between languages in different regions, and how they vary from others. Japanese, for example, the verb would change with the tense (the -shita suffix is usually added in place of the formal -masu or informal base root verb ending). The sentence structures are pretty similar, though the verb is more often than not clear to the end of the sentence in Japanese - so to use a simplified version of Akima's example (since my Japanese language skills are pretty rusty), "Yesterday Akita and May as for lunch ate." Again, little rusty, so I can't remember if lunch should be mentioned before or after Akita and May...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Feb 2012, 03:18
That's really interesting, thanks guys :) German has similar rules about the order in which different speech elements come in a sentence. I've never properly considered what the English rules are, although teaching them to someone makes me have to conciously consider why something is wrong, rather than just know that it is.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Feb 2012, 05:22
I'm so tired :( My whole body is aching with tiredness. It is 1.20pm. I have to cycle another 6-8 miles today and work for 2.5 hours and go out to dinner for a friend's birthday (socialising with strangers is pretty tiring) and read for another two hours and I'm just so tired.
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Post by: Welu on 10 Feb 2012, 05:40
Bought a new set of headphones which I YAY'd about in the Happy thread but now I'm wondering if they're too tight, which would be odd because usually over the ear headphones and headgear in general is way too big on me. I can't tell if they're too tight or this is what properly fitted headphones should feel like.
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Post by: LTK on 10 Feb 2012, 06:55
Last year my dad gave me the headphones he bought new for himself to me because they were too tight for him. It doesn't bother me as much, but these things do put more pressure on my head, even though it's not really my ears they're pressing against. Anyway, I've found that my ears start hurting when wearing any kind of headphone for a long time. I think it's best if the headphones don't press your ears to your head too much.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 10 Feb 2012, 07:07
I think I have an abnormally small head....I've never had a pair of headphones too small- they always fall to the back of my head even if they're as tight as they can be. I've even found that most ear buds are too big for me too- they're either painful to have in or so big that they constantly fall out. I have to get the kind that comes with multiple rubber thingies and use the smallest set.

Welu- if they are just a snug fit, they should be ok. I imagine that they would only be considered too small if they actually hurt your head after a few minutes of wearing them.

May- I know you are always ridiculously busy, but would it be possible for you to squeeze in a half hour nap? Some people find that napping is useless and just makes them more tired but I find that even a quick one rejuvenates me enough on my most draining days that I can manage to get in a few extra hours of productivity.
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Post by: DrPhibes on 10 Feb 2012, 08:07
Making Ice-Coffee, or just really good cold coffee for yourself is pretty difficult!

I've tried just doing coffee (hot) with two spoons of sugar mixed in the frige in a 0,5 litre pepsi plastic bottle, it was pretty good, but needed more, or different sugars.
I've than tried freezing the coffee, this results in making the essence of coffee, or a very very cold espresso. I've unfrozen the rest and mixed it with the rest so it's drinkable now. What happened was that the iceformations start in the water and leaves out the coffeeparticles, so they move to the sides of the bottle that get frozen latest. They unfreeze the first, making the first drops of unfrozen coffee ultra strong.

I havent tried unfreezing and putting it in a mixer to crush the ice and make it more of slushie. both above were liquids, not slushie-like
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Post by: LTK on 10 Feb 2012, 08:35
I think I have an abnormally small head....I've never had a pair of headphones too small- they always fall to the back of my head even if they're as tight as they can be. I've even found that most ear buds are too big for me too- they're either painful to have in or so big that they constantly fall out. I have to get the kind that comes with multiple rubber thingies and use the smallest set.
Have you tried earphones that go around the back of the head? I've been using these (http://www.amazon.com/Sennheiser-PMX80-Sport-Behind-Earphones/dp/B001GT185K/) as portables for quite a while now. They won't fall out of your ears, ever. Plus, you can take the earbuds out without having to remove the headphone from your ears. Though you'd have to try them out first for size, I know a girl whose head and ears are also very small, and she can't possibly wear these normally. She carries around a big pair of over-the-ear headphones; I'll ask her what model they are.
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Post by: Welu on 10 Feb 2012, 09:58
I think I have an abnormally small head....I've never had a pair of headphones too small- they always fall to the back of my head even if they're as tight as they can be. I've even found that most ear buds are too big for me too- they're either painful to have in or so big that they constantly fall out. I have to get the kind that comes with multiple rubber thingies and use the smallest set.

Welu- if they are just a snug fit, they should be ok. I imagine that they would only be considered too small if they actually hurt your head after a few minutes of wearing them.

I think my head is abnormally small too. Makes buying hats quite hard. Maybe it's just cause they're new and I'm not used to them. The hurt a tiny bit after I wore them for an hour on my temples and I realized they were pushing on my glasses, although I have pretty thick frames. Headphones are grand without though. This is the pair I bought today. (http://www.amazon.com/Sennheiser-HD-202-II-Professional/dp/B003LPTAYI/ref=sr_1_2?s=electronics&ie=UTF8&qid=1328896590&sr=1-2)
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Post by: DrPhibes on 10 Feb 2012, 19:32
I dunno where to put this. I am not sober at the present but I can't put this at that topic! this is way more personal and influential.

Tonight I was drinking a few brews at a house-warming party. At 00:00 I went into the city. At about 02:00, I was properly drunk and when I'm at that stage, I like to get myself a cigarette. So I got one from some guy, smoked it and off I went. At 03:00, one hour later, I needed another. Mind you, I that's the second smoke in about a month. So I saw my friend Hugo light one up and asked one from him. He said he gave his pack to Bart. Bart said he hadn't got a pack of cigarettes so I was going back to Hugo. Anyway, he hadn't one, so I was left out. I kept asking everyone in that group where the cigarettes were... no one knew! At that time, I got frustrated. A bit about the fact I didn't get to smoke, more about the idea that stuck in my head they were hiding the smokes and leaving me out. So I asked some more and in return got more frustrated because they all didn't honestly know where the fags where gone!  At about 15 minutes later i got seriously frustrated and I thought they were fucking with me, just because I normally don't smoke they'd leave me out. At that time, every time I asked, people started snickering or laughing, not in a hurtful way but just to give me the feeling I was right about the thought they were fucking with me. I told Bart about this feeling and he didn't really understand me... Not a minute later Hugo found the pack in his shirt (the top compartment of his shirt, he didn't realise). During his discovery a girl I know walked by asking me if I'd like a cigarette. I said of course, I was dying after all the frustration and anger at my mates for fucking me over, not realising they didn't do that intentionally! She asked me for one, I said I didn't have a pack with me, so I was at that time in a better mood for not having and some person asking for it. Then Hugo realised and I just got the pack from him and light up a cigarette. That was good.

Then I realised where all the frustration and anger came from. It was from when I was 14-15 years old and my friends in middle/high school fucked me over all the time with stuff I liked and would like to have. They did the same thing I thought was going on, hiding the thing I want and fucking me over with it. I got frustrated because it happened before and I got angry because of the idea that they were fucking me over with it for their own amusement. This happened at that time and it did happen a bit now. After realising this resemblance I apologised to Hugo and Bart for my irrational behaviour. Hugo told me these things just are part of friendship and that little part of fucking with each other are a part of that. I never experienced as that, and in reality, it never happened like that during those years when I was seriously fucked with.

Today I Learned things from your past can seriously haunt you in the present. And now I'm crying about that. I feel better writing this down though <3
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Feb 2012, 03:37
May- I know you are always ridiculously busy, but would it be possible for you to squeeze in a half hour nap? Some people find that napping is useless and just makes them more tired but I find that even a quick one rejuvenates me enough on my most draining days that I can manage to get in a few extra hours of productivity.

You're right - I have 20 minute power naps and it helps. I think I actually had one just after I'd said that, and I managed to get through the day :) Then I slept for nearly 12 hours last night so I'm feeling better.

DrPhibes, it's weird how things that upset us as children can come back and make problems as adults. I am always a bit worried that people are laughing at me if I see someone laughing, even though rationally I know that they aren't. Sounds like you realised what was going on in time not to cause problems, though. I think people sometimes forget that growing up is a process, we're not automatically Grown Ups TM just because we hit 18 or 21 or whatever.

Yesterday I did my first shift volunteering at the hospital. It was only two hours and it went quite fast, I was helping to serve meals and drinks to the patients on the ward. It is an oncology ward and I found it a little difficult at first to know how to talk to people - I cannot imagine being in the amount of pain some of them were, and I realised that at some subconcious level I was believing that they were all terminally ill. The woman who is my supervisor explained to me that the ward mostly houses people who are having transplants and that they are often in remission shortly after, so this isn't the case at all, but it did colour my feelings at first. I hope I didn't communicate that feeling to anyone through my behaviour, and I think next time it will be a little easier. After all they are all people, they are not an illness.
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Post by: pwhodges on 11 Feb 2012, 03:55
Oncology - yes, people get better from cancer, some with a great deal of trouble on the way.  Some with less - I had a cancer over twenty years ago, and had surgery and radiotherapy.

Growing up - can't remember where I picked this up (here, even?):

(http://cassland.org/images/AdultButton.png)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Feb 2012, 15:49
I've spent a lot of this night being an asshole on the internet to stop myself from doing something else much more stupid.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Feb 2012, 13:03
I'm so frustrated at the work that's dried up. The money from camming was so inconsistent that it wasn't worth the massive amounts of stress, the modelling gigs are few and far between, and I've only gotten one phone call back from any jobs in the last six months. I can't even get someone to pay me to rake their goddamn lawn any more.

I'm not sure what to do. I really don't have much of anything worth selling off any more. It's really hard being a bit borderline homeless (I'm staying in an awesome commune, but to be honest, it's illegal for any of us to be here, so while I have a place to sleep and be warm*, I don't have an address), 'cause I'm at a total loss on how to get mail or fill out job applications or any forms asking for my address.

I'm not depressed like I was before. So there's that. Just a little bewildered. You don't ever expect to be in this sort of situation.

*There's no heat in this place; it turns out 11 people crammed into a small space is enough body heat to keep it a liveable temperature.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Feb 2012, 13:11
But I mean on the other hand, I'm surrounding myself with awesome queers and artists and I genuinely love the people in my life. I'm seeing a girl in Seattle who makes me feel so intimidated because she's so smart and devoted and driven. I mean, christ, she started the Seattle SlutWalk and is going to be one of the main organizers for this year's SlutWalk as well. She asked me out on our first date, which is this Friday, at a drag club.

Sure, my life sucks, but that doesn't mean my life can't be awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Feb 2012, 13:48
PO boxes work as addresses for employment purposes, taxes, etc. 

Of course, a PO box also costs money.  But maybe several of you can go in on one. 


Good to hear you're feeling better, though.  Getting out of  a toxic situation has its benefits! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Feb 2012, 13:55
Yeah a PO Box is something like $45 for six months.
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Post by: Welu on 12 Feb 2012, 17:09
Finally set off my already very late Music Production task! At 1am! Other than one assignment, which I have in scraps form but not essay form, I'm caught up with everything it seems.

I always end up at a point where I have everything pretty much one paragraph from done and find it very hard to motivate myself to finish "because it'll take no time to finish it later". I've finally wrote all those final paragraphs. Other than the scraps one because it'll take no time to finish it later. :mrgreen:

Felt cool today because a tutor lost some work of students and now she's lost track of what she got and lost and what people still need to do and sent an email telling people what they need to have ready to hand in tomorrow. My list is all stuff I actually have done so got to panic for a minute that I had nothing done but feel an awesome relief right after when I remembered I got all her stuff done back when I was super motivated at the start of the college year.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 12 Feb 2012, 17:24
Yeah a PO Box is something like $45 for six months.

Yeah but check other post offices - you can search by zip code (https://poboxes.usps.com/poboxonline/search/landingPage.do). In my area the same size box ranges fro $22 to $60 for 6 months, depending on which office it's at.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Feb 2012, 17:32
I am currently in the process of actively looking for a housemate for next year, instead of just moaning about how I can't afford to rent a place on my own. I've also emailed off to an estate agent asking whether their rather vaguely-worded description meant that if you rented the flat as a one-bedroom with a sitting room, it was £119 pppw (i.e. £119 in total) or whether actually what they meant was £238 per week whether or not there are two of you. I'm guessing it's the latter but I can but hope. If it's the former, I will snap that shit up because a year at that price is cheaper than 39 weeks at college rent, and I would have my own flat! For a whole year!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 12 Feb 2012, 18:08
Holey moley! £119pppw? How on earth is it so expensive? Provided you don't live in a ridiculously expensive house/area, I'd never expect to pay more than half that around here. Who can justify charging that?
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Post by: Jace on 12 Feb 2012, 20:05
That is crazy expensive. I pay £~31 per week for just rent. Of course I pay it in USD and monthly too, but that is what it works out to weekly and in your currency.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Feb 2012, 20:13
What the hell? Man.....it's expensive where I live. We pay $1,005 per month. There are two of us, so that definitely helps. But sheesh. And the sad part is that we're actually getting a decent deal....we used to pay $975 for a total shit hole that had mice chewing through the ceiling tiles. Now, for $30 more we have a pool. haha
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Feb 2012, 20:17
$800/month between 11 people comes out to $72. I don't pay in money, though, I just help with dumpster diving and buy food.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 13 Feb 2012, 03:54
$331 for my own kitchen and shower. Bathroom and wasingmachine are shared with other people. I got about... 16m2 about 10m2 is usable and not kitchen/shower.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Feb 2012, 04:11
That's what you get for living in Cambridge :( That's one of the cheapest I've found. At the moment I pay £108.67 per week, with electricity and internet on top of that. And that is for one room in a college, sharing a kitchen and bathroom with about twenty other people, and living on a licence not a lease (so the college staff can come into my room unannounced, require me to change rooms at a day's notice, force me to find somewhere else to sleep on the night of the college ball, and so forth).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 13 Feb 2012, 04:25
Most places around here are around £400 - £500 a month. Hence why I'm so disappointed we didn't snag the £85weekly/£340monthly two bedroom flat. We would have if we could but when we really thought about it it wouldn't have been equal payments from each of us every month due to ways we get paid and that seemed too awkward and easy to lead to fights.

Although the trade-off might be my boyfriend's parents letting us buy a house from them for relatively cheapish off of them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Feb 2012, 05:42
Jeez....this thread makes me want to move. New York is an asshole.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Feb 2012, 06:05
A possibility has now surfaced of moving into a 3-bedroom house for £70 a week, to replace one of my friends who is moving out. Not met the two housemates yet so no idea if they'd want me but it's looking good in theory.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 13 Feb 2012, 06:16
My housemate is a Cambridge local, and I recall him telling me that because the university owns such huge amounts of land, it subsidises / drives down rent for student. I guess he lied to me!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Feb 2012, 06:22
Wow, that would save you a ton of money! Good luck, I'll cross my fingers for you  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Feb 2012, 06:58
It is quite possible that the colleges do do that - land here is incredibly expensive. I imagine trying to rent a private house in the centre would cost thousands. But there aren't any private one-bedroom or two-bedroom places in the centre because the uni owns it all.

I reckon we're caught in a trap - because there are two universities here, and we all need to live within a few miles of the centre, landlords know they can get away with charging twice as much as they would somewhere else.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 13 Feb 2012, 07:17
Oxford is making it much harder and more expensive for private landlords to provide housing for students (or for any other sharers, actually), and is blocking private new building aimed at students (they want colleges / the other university to provide adequate housing for all undergraduates, ultimately).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 14 Feb 2012, 00:04
I got school placement at a big schoolcomplex and with that comes the bonus of a employee-pass for own use! FREE COFFEE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fhdCslFcKFU
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Feb 2012, 22:22
Facebook keeps offering me the same two pages to like. I finally did.

(http://i.imgur.com/O4DuF.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 16 Feb 2012, 23:07
Sounds like they'd go well together! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 17 Feb 2012, 05:50
This is what my friend saw when they looked at my page.
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/402237_3184754340583_1317487419_3274441_1671178160_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Feb 2012, 08:20
My roommate sleeps with za eyes open and ze is staring at me with this half-lidded, glazed expression and it's creeping me right the fuck out
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Post by: schimmy on 17 Feb 2012, 15:27
Wasn't sure whether to put this in the relationship thread or here. Sided with here in the end because I don't really want advice, but just need to vent a bit.

Let me preface this by saying that I am currently trying to quit smoking, so I am incredibly crabby at the moment.

The ladyfriend was supposed to come over today to hang out with me and do some screen printing with my housemate. The plan was she'd come over early, then do some screenprinting. She arrived three hours late, and went promptly to do screenprinting. Which is fine! She needed it done, and that was the original reason she was coming over anyway. Plus, I figured we'd just hang out afterwards. Except, after she was done with the screenprinting, she said she needed to pop out for a minute. She left her stuff - including her phone - here, because she wouldn't be gone long. Three hours later, her friend knocks on the door asking for her stuff, with no explanation other than "She's going home now."

I am now feeling incredibly lonely, and would really like to know what's going on. Also, I fucking need to get some nicotine into my system.


[edit] Got an explanation about what happened. It's a pretty shit one, but extenuating circumstances make it good enough. More importantly, rum has eased my sadness.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Feb 2012, 19:49
My roommate sleeps with za eyes open and ze is staring at me with this half-lidded, glazed expression and it's creeping me right the fuck out

Don't look at zem

   But ze's staring at me

Turn out the lights

   No help, I know those eyes are still staring...

Put something over za face

   But ze'll wake up and think I was trying to kill zem or something...

Roll zem over.  When ze wakes, explain.  If ze sleeps like this all the time, it won't be news. 


Good luck.  Get some sleep, and remember that obsessing in a new environment is (relatively) normal.  It'll be comfortable soon enough. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Feb 2012, 03:09
Trying to do my speech therapy exercises. One of them involves whimpering like a puppy a few times and then sliding down the scale to the bottom of my range so my larynx loosens. Can't make the puppy noises. You know it's a bad day when you can't even squeak.

Also got to go to a networking lunch with a load of lawyers :( It'll be nice to see some of the recent graduates, a bunch of them are apparently coming back, but I don't really want to network with a load of lawyers I don't know. I'd rather practise for the concert tomorrow (but I doubt I can sing today - see above).

Stupid vocal cords
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Feb 2012, 06:57
I'm a bass first thing in the morning (works for Sunday service). 

Second tenor (barbershop) by evening (terrible for the church choir's evening rehearsals).  I can't even find  half the range for the bass parts, and I'm the only bass...


Stress does wonderful things for the vocal chords. 





Get someone to tickle you for the puppy squeals.  Your voice should shoot right up there... good luck getting it back down after that! 

Although there are other activities that may work for that...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 19 Feb 2012, 07:16
My roommate sleeps with za eyes open and ze is staring at me with this half-lidded, glazed expression and it's creeping me right the fuck out

Try shining a lantern on just the eyes and then suffocating with a pillow then cutting up the body parts and putting them under the floorboards.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Feb 2012, 07:21
Bought a new set of headphones which I YAY'd about in the Happy thread but now I'm wondering if they're too tight, which would be odd because usually over the ear headphones and headgear in general is way too big on me. I can't tell if they're too tight or this is what properly fitted headphones should feel like.
http://lifehacker.com/5886125/make-your-tight-brain+squeezing-headphones-more-comfortable-with-these-diy-tricks
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 19 Feb 2012, 07:24
This week in students trying to use metaphors and big words:

"With steam technology in the seat belt, you have something to work with"
"I can find many totalitarian uses from the computer in this period"

So cute.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: whom on 19 Feb 2012, 08:24
I wonder what some totalitarian uses of a computer would be.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Feb 2012, 10:09
My mother went home yesterday.  Still has a pretty good row to hoe, but she really sounds like herself, and seems to be all there. 

My daughter, on the other hand, seems to be getting worse.  Just mild exacerbations of the symptoms she already has, but that in itself is very  worrisome. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2012, 10:55
I'm suffering from norovirus.   Meh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 19 Feb 2012, 13:56
My roommate sleeps with za eyes open and ze is staring at me with this half-lidded, glazed expression and it's creeping me right the fuck out

Try shining a lantern on just the eyes and then suffocating with a pillow then cutting up the body parts and putting them under the floorboards.

Good idea, you should do this
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Feb 2012, 18:43
I've been in Seattle this weekend. I've been studying it, and here's what my findings are insofar:

1) There is a Starbucks on every corner. I'm pretty sure that they're actually starting to gain a hivemind-like intelligence and will soon spread to infect every building in the greater Seattle area.

2) I've never heard of phở before I came to Seattle, but it's everywhere. Also, it's pronounced funny (http://youtu.be/jjkU43-3_QM) and people will snicker derisively at you if you mispronounce it.

3) Based on apparent local dress codes, I've invented a game called Hipster or Homeless? It's probably already A Thing, though (no hobo).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 20 Feb 2012, 02:16
3) Based on apparent local dress codes, I've invented a game called Hipster or Homeless? It's probably already A Thing, though (no hobo).

Sounds like a variant of something I play on public transit: Bluetooth or Batshit Crazy? for when you find somebody talking to an invisible person.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Feb 2012, 09:19
You might enjoy Hipster Bingo-

(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_oAul2_qPZoo/TTB9e1FjNXI/AAAAAAAAJwQ/i1_K98FxO4U/s1600/hipster_bingo.jpg)

There are updated versions out there, this one has been around forever (at least a few years anyway...I remember seeing it floating around when I lived in Brooklyn and you could drown in Hipsterland. Now the only ones I ever see are near the Vassar campus).
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Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Feb 2012, 11:17
Oh hahaha, gosh, those midgets, bein' all hipster 'cause they're short.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Feb 2012, 13:22
Don't forget the Hipster Giants. Everyone knows that no one of average height can be a hipster- you have to be "different"  :-P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 20 Feb 2012, 19:39
Sorry if this is too much of a downer for this thread but I want some feedback and don't know where to go at this time of night for me.

I'm going to class tomorrow to talk to my Head Of Year person to explain why I've been off so much. Short version: I think I'm depressed, which I've been dealing with on/off for over five years. I don't know what to say to her know though because she sort of knows my history even though she's so supportive, I'm really worried about giving off a danger-to-self vibe in which case, she'll need to report to someone and they'll have to report to parents because I still live at home. I really don't want that to happen because as much as I love them and as good as they have been in other areas, my Da just doesn't respond to me when I'm in this state and my Mammy feels like it's all her fault which does nothing to help me.
I do feel I need to talk to the Head though because even though it should be as simple as, "Go to class just to show your face, even if you do nothing." It is not being that simple at all for me right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Feb 2012, 22:02
Depression will do that to you.  Have you sought any treatment?  'cause it'd be great to be able to say, "I have this problem, but I'm getting better". 

Also, you may want to take a slightly longer route - talk to your instructors/professors/lecturers before going to the head.  If you can reach out to them directly, you'll have something to tell her. 


Unless, of course, she  called this meeting...




I'm sure she's seen this sort of thing before.  Good luck. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: SilentJ on 20 Feb 2012, 23:56
As someone who's been in similar situations before, I echo the sentiments of good luck.  It's quite the uphill battle, but you can do it!



So, hey, blog thread.

A while back I met a girl on these here forums.  Becca (I is Grammar) is her name.  She and I started going out.

Six days ago marked two and a half years we've been together.  Things are going well.  Thought you'd enjoy hearing that.

We still make fun of ourselves for meeting, not just on the internet, but on the forums for a webcomic.  World's a pretty strange place sometimes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Feb 2012, 01:08
That's awesome, you kept that pretty quiet! Another forum couple :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 21 Feb 2012, 02:33
thats nice indeed!

A big bus, for trips away and stuff just turned the corner where I now reside... and I was thinking... why does it even come here? There is nothing to do in this street... maybe he was taking a shortcut (also, i didn't see anyone in the passenger seats.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 21 Feb 2012, 02:37
Depression will do that to you.  Have you sought any treatment?  'cause it'd be great to be able to say, "I have this problem, but I'm getting better". 

Also, you may want to take a slightly longer route - talk to your instructors/professors/lecturers before going to the head.  If you can reach out to them directly, you'll have something to tell her. 


Unless, of course, she  called this meeting...


I'm sure she's seen this sort of thing before.  Good luck. 

I've got help before and it's mostly been a great help. Although right now unless I spend ages on a waiting list, which I have done before and by the time I was seen (over a year later), I didn't need a professional any more. Or I need a ton of money to just fall out of the sky.

She didn't call the meeting. I just think it would be good to say something to her because my class has had more than a few just stop showing without warning. She is my lecturer too, I have most classes with her and I wouldn't feel comfortable talking to other lecturers about this any way. It hasn't helped that all of them have the same thought and I know because they've all said some variant to my face. "Oh, it doesn't matter if Welu's off because she gets all her work in by the deadline. (Standards are very low in my class). She doesn't need any help."

Also I ended up just emailing her any way. Thanks though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 21 Feb 2012, 04:19
Oxford is making it much harder and more expensive for private landlords to provide housing for students (or for any other sharers, actually), and is blocking private new building aimed at students (they want colleges / the other university to provide adequate housing for all undergraduates, ultimately).

That sounds like a really good idea. The University of Kent keeps their housing crisis pretty quiet - five hundred students were out of housing coming here last year because of a lack of university accomodation and nothing to be found in the surrounding housing estates. Doesn't help that we have another University in the city. And there are way too many housing agents here (called "Campus Lets" or "Student Letting Agents" or something). Apparently, you can live in a total shit-hole as a student and it doesn't matter, you're young and you just spend all your time out drinking anyway, right? I mean a normal landlord would never go back on his contract with working civilians, but students...well, they're not even real people.

(Found out that one of the people that we were dealing with for our house has taken our rent and left the face of the planet - explains why the house ended up being nothing like promised)

This week in students trying to use metaphors and big words:

"With steam technology in the seat belt, you have something to work with"
"I can find many totalitarian uses from the computer in this period"

So cute.

Doesn't sound too bad. Re-read that I'd written "...the semicolon is the hinge upon which the poem swings.", after which I threw up and deleted this phrase.

Highlights also include: "The poem is on the edge of being Pound’s own verse-based Künstlerroman"

The perks of being an English lit student. Did I mention I severely dislike writing on Ezra Pound?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 21 Feb 2012, 04:34
I mean a normal landlord would never go back on his contract with working civilians

Good joke. Everybody laugh. Roll on snare drum. Curtains. Fade to black.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Feb 2012, 05:23
Oxford is making it much harder and more expensive for private landlords to provide housing for students (or for any other sharers, actually)...

That sounds like a really good idea.

Sure - if you don't mind making a housing crisis worse in the first instance, for graduates and young professionals as well as undergrads. 

We've considered withdrawing our rental house from that market, because it's close to being no longer worth the effort; we haven't yet, but others have.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 21 Feb 2012, 05:56
I suppose I meant that more in line of a housing crisis that is in effect here in Kent. It seems more that private landlords make it worse and more expensive for students to live as opposed to an institution that can reduce the rent and ensure that undergraduates get housing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 21 Feb 2012, 08:18
Also I ended up just emailing her any way. Thanks though.


Excellent first step! 

But if she's also your instructor for several things, some face time might still be a good idea. 


Are you still gettig your work done, or is that getting affected too? 


Sorry if I'm prying - part of my natire, working with students...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 21 Feb 2012, 08:25
Six days ago marked two and a half years we've been together.  Things are going well.  Thought you'd enjoy hearing that.

Glad you guys are doing well! It's been a while since we've heard from either of you.  :-)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 21 Feb 2012, 10:29
Welu- I can definitely sympathize with you on this one. One of the reasons it took an eternity for me to graduate was because I just couldn't pull myself together. I had to withdraw from a number of classes and it took all the energy I had just to pull myself out of bed in the morning and shower. There were times that my roommate would come home at 3pm and I'd still be in bed because all I enjoyed doing was sleeping. It happened mainly in the winter and eased up slightly in the summer, but was always lurking. I struggled with depression for years (and it's still an uphill battle- you never really get "cured") but after seeking therapy and taking meds that allowed me to actually think clearly, I came to realize that I wasn't exactly "depressed" but I was making myself depressed by worrying about things that were totally fine, but my excessive anxiety turned into life or death situations. I feel that I'm slowly coming around the bend towards being content, but it really is hard work (because leading a normal life isn't hard enough, this crap has to make it harder).

Anyway, what I'm trying to say through all this is that there are a number of ways to approach it- I know you are worried about school but it's important to care for your well-being in addition to that. It sounds simple, but try and surround yourself with positivity- I always lose touch with the things I love when I'm depressed and I find that simply rediscovering them makes me hate everything else a bit less. A hobby (even if you just do it 10 minutes a day), music, little treats here and there. Find joy in simple things- you sent an email to the Head person- accomplishment! It's so easy to shirk those responsibilities when you're feeling depressed so by taking actions now, you're really making your life a little easier. Y'know that saying "things could always be worse"? It may not be the healthiest way to deal with things, but I like to compare where I'm at now to a point in my life where I made a huge mistake that ended with me being miserable- then I evaluate just how far I've come and the fact that I actually pulled myself out of the mess I made.

Also...I don't know if it's possible there, but here you can see your primary physician about things like that and they can help you find resources that aren't insanely expensive or take a hundred years. If that's not available, it might be in your best interest to get on a waiting list and go when your time finally comes, even if you are felling better. I've noticed that when I'm in a better place mentally, the skills I learn in therapy tend to make more sense and seem more feasible as opposed to when I'm feeling low and everything seems totally helpless. Then, they are there when I need them, ready and waiting. Of course, you may be in a completely different place on the spectrum but I think that everyone facing the big black cloud tends to find solace in the fact that they are not alone. Maybe that's why I'm so drawn to others who deal with similar issues and/or want to help others....it makes me feel useful and brings me comfort that if I can help other people, i just might be able to help myself one of these days. Anyway, feel free to pull what works for you out of this long garbled mess and disregard everything else. I'm a bit of a rambler if you didn't notice....  :-P
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 21 Feb 2012, 12:17
an institution that can reduce the rent

But why the hell would they do that? It's much more profitable to force out all the independent landlords and then make everyone pay outrageous rent to the school.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Feb 2012, 14:22
Which is what they do here, although in fairness to my college they also give generous rent bursaries for those of us who need it. Part of the problem here and presumably Oxford too is that the colleges are ancient and need a lot of upkeep.
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Post by: schimmy on 21 Feb 2012, 14:49
If only Cambridge and Oxford were immensely wealthy institutions that could easily afford the upkeep of the colleges without resorting to high rents!
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Post by: Welu on 21 Feb 2012, 15:05

Excellent first step! 

But if she's also your instructor for several things, some face time might still be a good idea. 

Are you still gettig your work done, or is that getting affected too? 

Sorry if I'm prying - part of my natire, working with students...

I don't mind. I'm not able to talk to any one else about this really so I'm actually grateful to be asked.

I'm the type of person who works in huge bursts so other than the brand new stuff and things I physically can't do from home, which is two assignments, I'm actually far ahead on everything. Not just with bare passes either, mostly top marks, which adds to the, "Welu needs no help at all." attitude.
The last couple weeks I've not done anything though.



[help]


Thanks for the advice. In a way I've heard some things you said before but it always helps to hear from another person with experience in their way of saying it.
I really relate to this bit.

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I came to realize that I wasn't exactly "depressed" but I was making myself depressed by worrying about things that were totally fine, but my excessive anxiety turned into life or death situations.

Going to my doctor would be the god-knows-how-long waiting list option. It couldn't hurt to talk to him though.
My first time in therapy was when I was pretty clear-headed after waiting on a list for ages but looking back it may have been more accustomed to my thoughts than clear.
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Feb 2012, 15:46
Oh hey guys, I disappeared for several months and then came back. Let me tell you what I've been up to!

So the last time I posted here, I was still living in some super nifty digs right in the center of downtown Livermore. I've since moved twice. First time, the place did not have internets and we were too poor to get them.

I started seeing a girl around Thanksgiving, and I met her family Christmas day. She and I quit seeing each other about halfway through January because she wasn't ready to commit and I was already too attached, so I nipped that shit in the bud. Since then, we've drifted apart and are only barely familiar anymore. It's sad, she was actually just about the neatest girl I've ever met. Oh well.

During the middle of that, two of my close friends broke up with each other, and a SHITLOAD of unnecessary drama blew up over it. They broke up, she found another, he found out about it and flipped a fucking shit, and the friends group divided pretty harshly for a while. Leaving me the only common denominator. He has been trying to make me choose sides ever since, whereas she hasn't, and as a result I've basically picked her side until he quits acting like a little drama queen over the TINEST FUCKING THINGS.

Since then, I lost my old apartment due to my roomie arbitrarily bumping my rent deadline earlier, which (he knew) made it impossible for me to make rent on time. I personally believe that it is because he is an insanely jealous person who was upset over the fact that his girlfriend and I are close friends. Which is fucking stupid. If there's anybody in our extended friendship circles who can be trusted with anybody or anything, it's me. That much has been proven. So why he's doing this is really beyond me, but he and I are done talking until his ass grows up too.

Sunday, however, was probably the best weekend of my life. Went to a friend's house in Albany (near Berkeley), and about 8 of us each did an 8th of shrooms and smoked hella weed and cigs. And we all shot the shit, and every one of us made sure to look out for one another and make sure everybody had a good trip. And it was a complete success, so we're doing it again, same group, 2 weeks.

I'm also in a new band. We're called Troubador! and we have ourselves a Facebook page (http://www.facebook.com/thetroubador) that you should like. We've got a couple songs recorded but we're gonna hold off on posting them until we have a few to choose from. We have a show coming up somewhere on Monday, others in Newark on March 2 and on March 30, and Injun Magic's got one in Berkeley this Saturday.

I have been a busy little lad.
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Post by: Jimor on 21 Feb 2012, 17:43
Other than the drama-queen bullshit, sounds awesome!

There's been hella drama on the local music scene the past couple of months, with some band breakups, bigtime backstabs, and then a few other feuds popping up here and there, which I don't know if I was just oblivious to it all before, or if it really has gotten unusually weird lately. I'm mostly an outside observer, so it hasn't directly affected me, but has hit some of my good friends pretty hard. I just try to keep pumping positive vibes into the mix, though, and just keep doing what I'm doing.

Since you may have missed it, Patrick, here's my first "real" music video with a local artist (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sfh-J-PIkcU). I'm about to do another music video contest shoot for a Ringo Starr song (http://genero.tv/ringo/) with some of the same folks as well, which should be fun. Then down the line I have another local artist lined up for music video, and scouting for many more!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2012, 02:15
If only Cambridge and Oxford were immensely wealthy institutions that could easily afford the upkeep of the colleges without resorting to high rents!

The university may be wealthy, but the colleges are entirely separate. The only connection is that the college receives some funding from the university for teaching. For general maintenance and upkeep they're on their own.

My college is a women's college and relatively new (1871, so not new from American perspectives, but the university was founded in 1209 or something), and therefore basically penniless. We have a wonderful fundraising office who work very, very hard but even so, the college is constantly strapped for cash. Doesn't help that the entire building, including the wallpaper in some of it, is listed (http://www.english-heritage.org.uk/caring/listing/listed-buildings/) and therefore renovations and repairs are even more expensive.


(Can someone explain to me how to embed a link without using HTML?)
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Post by: LTK on 22 Feb 2012, 02:26
(Use the 'insert hyperlink' button, or quote this post to see the tags. (http://urlnamegoeshere))
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2012, 02:30
(Use the 'insert hyperlink' button, or quote this post to see the tags. (http://urlnamegoeshere))

Thank you!
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Post by: schimmy on 22 Feb 2012, 05:15
Overslept and missed a lecture today. When I checked my email, I had one in my Inbox called "Missed Lecture" from my lecturer. I thought "Whaaat? She never checks attendance!"
Anyway, I open it, and I see that its actually an apology that she missed the lecture, because she'd written the time down wrong in her diary.

Bullet: dodged.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 22 Feb 2012, 06:39
Overslept and missed a lecture today. When I checked my email, I had one in my Inbox called "Missed Lecture" from my lecturer. I thought "Whaaat? She never checks attendance!"
Anyway, I open it, and I see that its actually an apology that she missed the lecture, because she'd written the time down wrong in her diary.

Bullet: dodged.

That is awesome. I love when stuff like that happens- it's like the universe apologizing for all the times it decided to turn things to shit.

[help]

Thanks for the advice. In a way I've heard some things you said before but it always helps to hear from another person with experience in their way of saying it.
I really relate to this bit.


Going to my doctor would be the god-knows-how-long waiting list option. It couldn't hurt to talk to him though.
My first time in therapy was when I was pretty clear-headed after waiting on a list for ages but looking back it may have been more accustomed to my thoughts than clear.

Yeah, that's the sneaky thing about brains- they're really good at getting you used to thinking in ways that aren't so positive.

I think that you're definitely on the right track- talking about it to anyone is the best thing you can do. And even though we're just a bunch of strangers on the internet, we're here to help if you want/need.  :-)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Feb 2012, 08:01
I'm struggling a lot with my attitude towards things, I think I'm in a pattern of panic and stress and I can't get myself out of it. I'm not sufficiently bad that other people will take me seriously though. The problem is that it comes and goes, but when it comes back I still don't have the tools to deal with it. I'm heading into a major dip at the moment and I just want someone to say "here are some new ways of tackling your problems, to replace the old ones that don't work". I generally rely on other people to get me out of ruts and that isn't sustainable.
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Post by: DrPhibes on 22 Feb 2012, 08:24
Sounds familiar Barrymoo,

I go through cycles of stress every half-year to year and I had it so bad once I kept to myself, in my room for about a month, only going out for groceries doing nothing all day...
I dont know what the stress is about but going out sometime or just chatting with people helps for me. If else I wouldn't know what to do.
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Post by: Welu on 22 Feb 2012, 13:25
Nearly had a panic attack when I got a text from a friend (not in my class but better friends with my classmates than I am) saying the Head is on the war path because an inspector is coming on. Only got a glance because I was in work and saw something about an assignment being due ASAP and to contact the head and friend right away.

When I finally got to look at the text I saw it was something we did last year and I'm pretty sure I've already got a Distinction on it. Things like this don't help.
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Post by: nobo on 23 Feb 2012, 19:06
Got a haircut. It went like so.

(http://i.imgur.com/6o2Sh.png)
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Feb 2012, 00:13
I generally rely on other people to get me out of ruts and that isn't sustainable.

I dont know what the stress is about but going out sometime or just chatting with people helps for me.


We are social creatures.  Don't feel bad about relying a bit on others - often talking a little about things halps you get them back into perspective.  Especially if you have some people who know you fairly well, and can point out that things aren't nearly as bad as they seem...

Of course, sometimes your old friends can be a source of the problem.  New friends can be good, too!  Even family can be helpful, though that's pretty rare.   :angel:
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Post by: schimmy on 24 Feb 2012, 03:35
nobo, more or less exactly the same thing happened to me last week. I needed a haircut, my girlfriend said "I can do it!" I was foolish enough to believe her. The next morning, when I got home and looked in the mirror for the first time, I realised it was so horrifically uneven that the only thing I could do to fix it was to shave it all off.
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Post by: Welu on 24 Feb 2012, 09:03
Got a couple emails from my Head tutor. There's a big inspector coming in Monday and she needs everything from everyone. One person's even been dropped from the course because he didn't have enough to hand in and I'm pretty sure at least one other person will be gone soon.

Was having a mini-panic but I came in to college, she brought me to an empty room to upload my stuff to her account and I've been reassured by her and the hard-ass tutor that not only am I caught up with everything, but my work is currently the top in the class. Such a relief and feeling a big weight lifted right now. Actually thought I'd have to render two short films from last year I did which would have taken ages but found them hidden on my external harddrive.

Everything went better than expected.  :-)
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Post by: SilentJ on 24 Feb 2012, 09:43
Six days ago marked two and a half years we've been together.  Things are going well.  Thought you'd enjoy hearing that.

Glad you guys are doing well! It's been a while since we've heard from either of you.  :-)

Becca sends her thanks for the well wishes, all.  :-)
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Post by: nobo on 24 Feb 2012, 12:26
I realised it was so horrifically uneven that the only thing I could do to fix it was to shave it all off.

That happened with first haircut she gave me. She messed up cleaning up around my ears and had to buzz it at a zero to fix it. She said I looked like Voldemort and was upset with me that I was not willing to live with her butchering the hair around my ear.
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Feb 2012, 15:19
This is why I cut my own hair.
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Post by: DrPhibes on 24 Feb 2012, 16:57
It might not seem as much of something but I am glad I told this to a game: In a chat based game where you can be townsided or mafia (against town) they introduced a new something called anonymous games. Everyone gets a certain name from history, from the batman universe or from the mario universe. Not all combined, but all names are from one of those three. Before this, certain good players always got killed because they were good, no matter if they were townsided or mafia (certain townsided roles can kill mafia). Now, with Anon games, this should have stopped, but now people are allways killing Adolf Hitler, or Mario, Or Batman because their names stick out. That isn't that bad and people will, in time realise it's stupid to always do that.

What I noticed and what I pointed out was that all those names, Mario for example are always in the same order. There are 25 Mario universe based names in total. In a game of 12, mario doesn't always appear but when it does, its ALWAYS first on the list. If Whomp appears, it's always last in a 12 man game. The list always looks the same. All players that joined the game are mixed between those names, yes, randomness is there, but in my view, those names should also get mixed.
In normal setups, where there is no Anon, the list is based on who joins at what time. First is the creator and last in the list is the last to join. Mario isn't the creator, Whomp itsn't the last to join... The idea is still somwhere in peoples head that certain places on that list correspond to some elemental things... :psyduck:

I've ranted enough! Time to go to bed :)

 
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Feb 2012, 17:21
This is why I cut my own hair.

Not always a sure bet...

I do mine with clippers, using a 1/4" guide.  The old guide got cracked and fell off as I was working my way up the back of my head. 

The night before a conference presentation. 


Had to shave the whole thing...  left the beard, though.  Good thing I wear glasses, I don't think I could've figured where to put the top of the sideburns otherwise...
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Feb 2012, 20:49
Just heard this on the radio (http://youtu.be/4EUifVn-TC4), through a program called This Way Out...

For all our friends.  Jim, Larry, Chris, I really miss you guys. 
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Feb 2012, 04:56
Guys, yesterday I went to my friend/Troubador! bandie Matt's place and we were up until 6am recording songs, resulting in one album-worthy recording and part of one throwaway session of another song (saved for posterity). I crashed at his place, we woke up around 1p, and started working again at the future-throwaway for 2 hours. We got annoyed at it, scrapped it, then started over with a different approach, which did the trick. 2 songs fully tracked with overdubs in less than 20 hours, I love working at that kind of absurd pace! We've been incredibly satisfied with the results too, and so has our mixing and mastering tech. I am so stoked to be working on this album, my life rules right now.

Tomorrow (25th) I'm playing an Injun Magic show in Berkeley, then practice the next day for a Troubador! show on the 2nd in Newark. Might've mentioned already; too exhausted to check :B
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Post by: Carl-E on 25 Feb 2012, 13:25
OK, mini rant time. 

I was listening to the met opera broadcast (I know, I know...) and they anounced the orchestra's concert master Janice somebody-or-other.  And I wondered, why didn't they call her a concert mistress?  Then I remembered doing an example in my stats class, where we were looking at a distribution of the ages of oscar winners.  There was the data for best male actor and best female actor.  WTF?  What ever happened to actresses?  Waiters and waitresses gave way years ago to the (more demeaning, IMHO) "server", and I somewhat understand the effort to remove gender from the language, the thought that adding "-ess" to a word somehow diminishes it, but dammit, in the few cases where English is gendered, and you want  to make the distinction, what's wrong with using the right terms, rather than tying yourself in knots distinguishing male actors from female ones?  The person who does props in our community theatre group used to be referred to as either prop master or prop mistress (though both soon fell to the linguistic seduction of the term "prop tart"). 

I know, I'm showing my age.  The distinction is silly, but it still jars me after all this time.  When you get that M.A. or M.S. degree, will you be a master or a mistress?  The connotations there have obvious problems, as does the French "mademoiselle" that's now getting the official ban.  But dammit, it just skips a beat for me. 

Of course, shouldn't a female doctor be a doctress?  Sounds silly, I know. 

If TL;DR, I understand. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Feb 2012, 15:11
I heard somewhere (no idea where) that female actors don't like being called actresses, because it sounds diminutive. Perhaps that's something to do with it. Also, the idea that women can't be actors is a bit stupid, we don't have masculine and feminine forms of other words, like doctor as you pointed out. Why not de-gender the remaining words? Then people who do not conform to one or the other gender don't have to wrangle with a language that doesn't fit them, they can just be actors.
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Post by: Lines on 25 Feb 2012, 15:22
I would never want to be called a concert mistress. Honestly, they should have just left it as maestro anyways, it's so much more fun to say. And mistress just sounds bad. Madam conductor?...Maybe? But I'd still rather be maestro or something.

And yeah, distinguishing between male and female is sometimes derogatory so it's best to have one term for both genders, it helps us ladies feel like we're on the same playing field. (Yay equality and stuff!)
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Feb 2012, 15:38
I would never want to be called a concert mistress. Honestly, they should have just left it as maestro anyways,

The Concert Master is not the conductor, but the leader of the first violins, in England simply called "the leader".  My Oxford Dictionary of North American English gives it as a single word, with feminine variant (concertmaster and concertmistress).  The equivalent word (konzertmeister) is used in Germany.

the orchestra's concert master

In England we use the term "leader", so the problem doesn't arise. 

There's also a big difference between using a genderless term, like that, and using a term that appears gendered (which can be argued, I guess) but using it in a way that can be seen as inappropriate (see also chairman, etc).  There's a general preference, though, for changing to a non-gendered word rather than highlighting the issue by using the other gendered form (e.g. chairperson or just chair).

Sometimes I just wish that "man" had more thoroughly retained its original (and still quite common) ungendered meaning of human or mankind; Old English had two other words (wer and wif) to mean male man and female man.
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Post by: Carl-E on 25 Feb 2012, 17:45
Paul, I'd completely forgotten Wer and Wif (also spelled Wyf?). 

I guess the complaint wasn't so much the degendering (which has the noble goal of equality, as Linds pointed out), but just my bemoaning the awkward linguistic contortions to re-introduce it when gendering matters.  I've never really seen the derogatory side of some of the terms like waitress or actress, although cetainly a mistress of any kind has serious baggage ("for the whole  orchestra? really?")  :roll:

Really, I was just startled by the sudden realization that this part of the language would soon be completely gone.  It's really nothing to mourn, but it's a matter of phrasing that I grew up with, and I still find myself thinking that way and making the distinction. 

Something my children do not have to do, and my grandchildren certainly won't do.  Like the ability to do large sums in my head after growing up without calculators, it's a dead thinking pattern that still rears it's head in my mind.  It shouldn't bother me, but it strikes me that I've become a living anachronism, like my grandfather and his intimate knowledge of steam power...

Just wait 'till it happens to you!  [shakes cane at no one in particular, shuffles off the porch]
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Post by: DrPhibes on 26 Feb 2012, 03:08
Yeah! Next tuesday there is a playback show and I found the pefect song! Ben Folds - Bitches ain't shit! A perfect mix between indie and awesomeness :)
Now I have to get myself some gangster clothes and paraphernalia :)
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Post by: Lines on 26 Feb 2012, 09:24
I would never want to be called a concert mistress. Honestly, they should have just left it as maestro anyways,

The Concert Master is not the conductor, but the leader of the first violins, in England simply called "the leader".  My Oxford Dictionary of North American English gives it as a single word, with feminine variant (concertmaster and concertmistress).  The equivalent word (konzertmeister) is used in Germany.

Oh yeah. We just never used that term when I played, so I forgot it meant the #1 violinist. Still wouldn't want to be called concertmistress though. "The leader" would be just fine.
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Post by: pwhodges on 26 Feb 2012, 10:43
Still wouldn't want to be called concertmistress though.

It's a matter of habituation, partly.  Are you unhappy with headmaster/headmistress in schools?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Feb 2012, 12:17
I don't really like those terms, they sound old-fashioned and dictatorial, and also to me have connotations of public schools (possibly because public schools are inclined to stick with the traditional when state schools have adopted a new system).
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Feb 2012, 14:57
It also struck me as interesting that female diminutives almost always have two definitions. Master means one thing; Mistress means two. Governor has one meaning; governess has two. Someone had a list detailing all the different ways that this takes place, and I wish I could find it again.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Feb 2012, 17:32
What Z said basically sums it up...mistress can either mean female master or lover to a married man. So yeah, I just don't think it's a very professional term? Like either you're a female concertmaster or you're the person who sleeps with the entire orchestra. Leader sounds better, because there's almost always a section leader and the section leader of the violins could be "THE" leader.

And we don't have headmasters/headmistresses...we have principals. Regardless of gender, you are a principal, so I prefer principal.

I mean, I'm not a huge FEMINIST!, but considering in some professions women still make less than men, I think it would be best to remove gendered titles. I think they're a little old fashioned. There's no real need to distinguish genders in professions. People are people and if they are good at their job, it shouldn't matter what gender they are.
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Post by: Jace on 26 Feb 2012, 18:25
Yeah, I've seen some really well qualified male wet-nurses.
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Post by: Welu on 26 Feb 2012, 19:27
Something awesome I somehow forgot about or at least forgot to mention. My Head tutor has told me if I need, I can come into the building after hours or during days I don't have classes to work so I don't have to deal with my classmates and for the most part, people in general. It is going around the issue but it is a gateway to getting back into my old routine.

Also, my boyfriend convinced me to go out for a meal in a nice restaurant Friday night. Got all dressed up and I had the rack of lamb and he got me in such a good mood I was able to gross him out with the details how I was eating what the now deceased animal used to breathe. He had pretty much the same reaction as Veronica Reed. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=456)
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Post by: Jace on 26 Feb 2012, 19:41
For the 2 year anniversary with my lady I wanted to get her something special. Originally it was going to be a pre-engagement ring (a la arrested development), and as I was looking at rings I had an idea.
So I spent a good hour or so scouring the internet before finally finding a retailer that still sells high quality Blue Lantern rings.
Now some backstory:
I wear a Green Lantern ring a lot, every day actually. It is a big thing with me.
The Blue Lanterns use the power of the emotion Hope. Green Lanterns use Willpower. Without the Green Lantern ring's power, the Blue Lantern ring will not function at full capacity, for without Willpower there is no Hope.
So I bought her a Blue Lantern ring, and I'm going to give it to her and explain the above. Then I'm gonna give her my ring to wear on a necklace so that we are never apart.
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Post by: celticgeek on 26 Feb 2012, 19:44
Very romantic, Jace.  And very cool. 
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Post by: Welu on 26 Feb 2012, 20:02
Aw, Jace. That's lovely. Got a friend who I'll tell that about because I know he'd love it.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Feb 2012, 20:05
D'aww. Nerdy love is the cutest.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Feb 2012, 00:22
Yeah, I've seen some really well qualified male wet-nurses.

Really? I'd love to meet them, I had this weird feeling that we didn't have wet-nurses any more!  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 27 Feb 2012, 05:53
I think the only issue that I have with gendered occupations/titles/etc is the fact that while some of them forgo both gendered titles, others just get rid of the feminine form and women are expected to assume the male gendered title.

Like waiter and waitress- and the change to server. I like that. But why should a female have to be an actor when for years and years it has referred to males? To me, that says that the male title is somehow better or more acceptable than the female variant. If actress became the more widely used form, I can't even imagine how many male performers would stomp their feet about it. Couldn't someone come up with something original?

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 27 Feb 2012, 08:09
The only issue I have with gendered occupations/titles/etc. is the people in this world who actually give a flying fuck. Because actor or actress, at the end of the day, you are still somebody's bitch.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Feb 2012, 09:58
"I'd just like to thank the acadamy..."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 27 Feb 2012, 15:09
Spent the last two hours art'ing. Only got to the point where I've done the rough digital ink for one character, yet to put clothes on them. Still got a giant trashbot to ink and an exploding bridge to draw. Loving (and hating but mostly loving) every minute. Been ages since I've got into a project like this and still been eager past thirty minutes in. :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 27 Feb 2012, 15:49
Hmm.  So my son and his wife are splitting up; not, to me, a huge surprise really, though one of those things one doesn't think about, not wanting to pre-empt or precipitate it.  This can (in my view) only be good for him - but <sigh> the poor children (ages 3 and 6)!  Nothing is sorted or even planned yet; they are in any case both away at work in other countries while the children have their live-in baby sitter.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 27 Feb 2012, 15:54
Sorry to hear that, Paul.  Having children involved usually makes it worse. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Feb 2012, 03:38
So lately I have noticed that a couple of my female friends might be thinking of being something other than 'just' friends, and there was an interesting situation tonight. I had made plans to hang out with a girl I recently started hanging out with, and she stood me up, so I made plans to meet another buddy of mine and then go spend an hour or two at the bar. I got there and went to hang out with my friend Kaitlyn, and maybe 30 minutes later the girl who stood me up walks in the door and seriously apologized for a solid ten minutes, then went to the bathroom and left. The fuck?

And now it's almost 4am, I'm 3 hours late going to sleep, and I am finally about there.

ETA: Didn't see yr post, Paul, sorry to hear things are that way. But... things sometimes just don't work out, and at least they recognized it before the little ones were old enough to understand all the things it could possibly mean. Unless they're super duper perceptive. Regardless, it's sad to hear.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Feb 2012, 06:16
My condolences, Paul. Sometimes things like this actually end up being the best for them though- I think they are young enough that it will be easier to explain that it's not their fault (as older children tend to convince themselves). I'm obviously speculating here, but in most cases it's better to have 2 parents that are apart and able to focus taking care of their kids than together and preoccupied with their own issues. Plus, having a fun granddad will ease the sting a bit, I'm sure.  :-)





On a completely unrelated/silly note: I was woken up this morning quite rudely....My cat seems to have made an enemy of a squirrel that inhabits our yard. This morning, the squirrel catapulted onto the window screen, the cat flew from the opposite end of the window sill and threw herself against the window to "catch" the squirrel. Squirrel then proceeded to scale the side of the building. This particular event has happened at least 4 times in the last 2 weeks. I can't tell if the squirrel is out of its mind, rabid or an asshole who is just plain fucking with the cat for fun. Typically, it's an amusing sight to see, but today I just wanted to sleep.  :-P



Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 28 Feb 2012, 06:25
I am going to go with it's evil and is just messing with your cat. Squirrels are weird like that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Feb 2012, 06:43
After one indirectly broke his leg a few years back*, my father refers to squirrels as "the Evil Empire". 


*Yes, there's a much  longer story behind all that.  I won't bore you with the wall o' text, though.  Suffice to say it involves an incomplete deck, several hundred pounds of pinecones and (eventually) a carbon fiber rod in my dad's fibula...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 28 Feb 2012, 08:35
D: Owwwwwww!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 28 Feb 2012, 08:42
Me and my family were having dinner at a restaurant called Twitter on Sunday. Somehow an idea came to me for a restaurant; one that serves you the most outrageous of lies about the food that you receive. Such as...

"These truffles have been dug up by celibate pigs, who are fed a diet rich in turkey meat, which attunes their sense of smell to pick out the best quality ones."

"Our salmon has been caught from the Colorado river by wild grizzly bears, who have made a pact with the local Cheyenne tribe to trade the fish in exchange for divine protection against poachers."

"These salt shakers are filled with salt that is purified from central-Asian salt flats by Buddhist nomads. On average, one man has died for every ten kilograms of salt that is extracted."

Ideally, the waiters (and waitresses ;)) should make their stories up on the spot so that no two customers hear the same thing. It should also be forbidden to provide information about the food and the restaurant if it is A) true and B) not sufficiently entertaining. Though that might cause some trouble with the inspection, the concept could be succesful. Would you go to that restaurant?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 28 Feb 2012, 09:13
I would! Sounds like a fun restaurant to go to.

Tonight is the big yearly playback show and I'm doing a song! It's about Bitches, hoes and 'the streets'. Originally  a rap song, it's been put to a soft piano tune in true indie style. Very funny. Link here, dont watch the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSJxvi767kQ
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Feb 2012, 10:01
Carl-E-
That's insane! Squirrels really can be pretty nasty little buggers. They're weirdly scary....that mix of almost cute but way too skittish and always looking like they're up to something. After a little more thought, I think my squirrel is definitely doing it to be a jerk.

several hundred pounds of pinecones

that is a LOT of pinecones.


LTK- i would TOTALLY go to that restaurant. Probably on the day that it opened. Do ittttt
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 29 Feb 2012, 00:54
Of course, shouldn't a female doctor be a doctress?  Sounds silly, I know.
In Italy, a female doctor is a dottoressa, and a professor is a professoressa... As for actors and actresses, we could call them all thespians...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Feb 2012, 01:00
In my experience "thespian" is often used as an insult. Not a very serious one, but a mildly derogative prod at someone who is obsessed with theatre.

Guys, something I was worried might happen and took steps to avoid several months ago has happened, and it might well cause another massive rift between me and someone I care about. And I have no idea what to do because unless the other person suddenly concedes and comes round to my view (very implausible, has never happened yet) then I have to choose between two equally bad options.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 29 Feb 2012, 02:49
I've never read anything in this thread before, so I read the entire thread just now. Highlights included lots of crying for lots of reasons. Well done, blog thread.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 29 Feb 2012, 04:56
Aw fuck balls. After having an incredibly docile and snow-free (read: strange) wiinter, we are set for about 10" in the next day or two.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 29 Feb 2012, 06:07
Shane this is why you need to move to California, I was wearing t-shirts and considered breaking out my skinny jorts for a solid 3 days this week.

Dear blag,

My Troubador! bandmate Matt and I decided to begin work on a short 20-30min video featurette to be released with our first album. It's basically a manifestation of the sense of humor we both have, with smatterings of social commentary and Monty Python-esque clip editing shenanigans. So far a lot of it has been done entirely impromptu, but we've been brainstorming ideas and have come to the agreement that there shall be no plot, and no matter what we're going to have fun doing it. And it's already pretty funny, imho.

In the meanwhile, I've been writing a bunch of songs over the last few weeks, but none of them seem to really stand out to me as being very good. I worked on another tonight but I'm not sure how I feel about it. I feel like I write two great verses nearly every time I start a new song, and then I lose sight of the whole thing and want to scrap it. I don't know how to fix this. Halp plz.

I also talked to one of the girls who I think has the wrong idea about what kind of interest I have in her, and it turned out I was right. The good thing is that she was really understanding of the whole thing. Felt great to get it off my chest, because now I can at least rest knowing that I did my part to make sure there were no misunderstandings. Now I just have to repeat this process twice. What is it about the number three...

Love,
Me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 29 Feb 2012, 06:14
Man how cold does it actually get out there? I'd hate for my coats and sweaters to go to waste.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 29 Feb 2012, 06:27
Really happy with how my job interview went today. The guy was really civil and it was a pretty informal chat. Had an interview at this place before so had a good idea of what I was going to be asked.

Doubt I'll get it because they need someone really flexible and I'm not with college. Still happy I went for it. Will hear from them by Monday if I've got it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 29 Feb 2012, 10:09
Today has been a pretty fun day so far! My fellow student teacher and I went on a field trip to the symphony with our mentor teacher and the 4th-6th graders and it was pretty cool! I haven't been to the symphony in ages, so it was a really nice experience. And then afterwards, since we drove separate from the rest, we stopped and got ice cream. And then when we got back we ordered a pizza for lunch. Definitely the funnest day of student teaching so far. :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 29 Feb 2012, 12:48
I have been sleeping an average of like 3-5 hours a night for the last week and it's driving me fucking  :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Feb 2012, 13:03
And I have no idea what to do because unless the other person suddenly concedes and comes round to my view (very implausible, has never happened yet) then I have to choose between two equally bad options.

Sounds like it won't come to that.  You have a choice; worry about the things that are likely to happen and deal with them, or add in the unlikely worries and freeze yourself with panic. 


(Hint:  Go for the first)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Feb 2012, 15:18
I think you maybe misunderstood - what was unlikely to happen was the other person realising that what they are doing is stupid.

However, they have decided to go and do what is likely to be an even more stupid thing, but involving someone other than me, so I am just not going to get involved. I don't want to know, and that way when it all goes wrong they cannot say "why didn't you warn me?!".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 29 Feb 2012, 17:44
I had to start doing similar with friends that wouldn't listen when I offered advice - I was pretty much giving myself ulcers over them. Then I discovered that there's a point where you have to say your piece, and then step back and not concern yourself with it. If they do something stupid, so be it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 01 Mar 2012, 05:22
I live almost directly across the street from a middle school. Today, a man with a rifle was walking around in the hallways of that middle school. He was described as a caucasian male with a green sweater and blue jeans. And, obviously, a rifle. I heard it over the police scanner myself.

Livermore PD apprehended a black dude with a pistol, are you fucking kidding me! And as if that wasn't enough, Livermore's the fucking per capita DUI recordholder for the ENTIRE COUNTRY.

I wanna fucking punch somebody so hard right now
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 01 Mar 2012, 08:16
I'm assuming he was near the school and that the school is one of those gun-free zones, right? Did they give up looking for rifle guy after they picked up handgun man?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 01 Mar 2012, 14:20
in the hallways of that middle school.

I seriously fucking hate this town and I just want to take my bandmate and my bar and just move all of the good shit out of here with me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 01 Mar 2012, 14:31
I don't know if I was unclear- Was the black guy with the handgun the one in the school and they totally had the suspect description wrong or did they get him as well as the white guy with the rifle?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: benji on 01 Mar 2012, 14:41
I think Patrick is saying that the guy in the school was a white guy with a rifle. But since cops in his town don't really know how to arrest white people, they arrested a black person instead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 01 Mar 2012, 14:50
I don't believe that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 01 Mar 2012, 14:56
Better step out of that bubble, mate, before something else bursts it and you fall flat on your face.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 01 Mar 2012, 15:07
For the sake of this conversation I'll give you that cops are all enormous racists and that everybody except the citizens who've stepped outside that bubble is on their side. I still don't believe they saw this white guy with a rifle wandering around a middle school and then went out of their way to find a black guy to take the fall instead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Mar 2012, 00:28
Why would they need to go out of their way?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 02 Mar 2012, 00:54
I think I'm still being misunderstood. Was there a white guy or not?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 02 Mar 2012, 00:58
They were given the description of a white guy with a rifle; they arrested a black guy with a handgun.  But without more information, we don't even know if these were really even supposed to be related to the same incident, whether the first description was contradicted elsewhere, or what.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 02 Mar 2012, 04:51
The news reports I can find say that a parent reported seeing a man with a rifle. Police locked down & searched the school but no one was found inside or arrested in connection with it. It was after hours so there were only some teachers and an after-school group in the building.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 Mar 2012, 06:40
I don't believe that.

Believe what you want about the way people are, because nothing I can say will disappoint you nearly as badly as finding out the truth for yourself.

If anybody is curious, I've posted updates that may satisfy some of your curiosities. I'll warn you, it's a bit ranty and opinionated, so I've put it in spoiler tags for your convenience/the sake of allowing this post to not be stupid long.

(click to show/hide)

Tonight I had a phenomenally good night. Hosted my coffee shop open mic, played at another, killed my set, gave my business card to a prominent local vintner. Some older guy actually asked me about what was happening with the duo of my best friend and I, and even though we haven't played together at that place since before he left for Air Force BMT, the older guy still remembered the silly band name we'd given ourselves. I still can't really believe it. Hell, we only ran the place for a little over half a year, and we had the band name for maybe 1/3 that time. It made me feel really good about what my friends and I have managed to pull off over the last 2 years.

I've got a show to play in 14 hours and I have not managed to get to sleep, I am a little concerned. I haven't slept much all week. It can't be performance anxiety, I play in front of people for at LEAST 8 hours a week (and have for more than half a year now) and I haven't even really been thinking about it that much. Maybe it's because I'm playing bass, and that isn't my usual instrument. But I'm switching to guitar for a significant part of the set...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 02 Mar 2012, 11:04
No fear, sleep will come. 



Right after you kick ass. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 03 Mar 2012, 13:02
So I got dumped today.

When we first started going out, she was a lot more into me than I was into her. I felt a bit uncomfortable about it, like I wasn't being fair to her. We discussed it, and she said that she was okay with the situation. I decided that, since we both wanted to be together, it would be patronising / paternalistic of me to end the relationship "for her own good" if she said she was alright with it. So we kept going out, and my feelings towards her started to get more and more serious. A few weeks ago, I realised that I was happily on course to a Serious Relationship.

Anyway, whilst all this was going on, she started to get depressed, and stopped eating. A few days ago, she ended up in hospital because of it. We had a couple of conversations about how she felt she wasn't being fair on me, dragging me into her personal problems, and not being able to be a 'proper' girlfriend, whatever that means. I explained that her problems didn't get in the way of me wanting to be with her. She decided that wasn't enough to stop her feeling uncomfortable, and broke up with me.

My mind's kind of in a whirl. On the one hand, I totally respect her right to not be in a relationship that she is not comfortable being in, but on the other, I feel really patronised that she didn't let me decide whether or not the dynamics of the relationship were fair on me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 03 Mar 2012, 17:42
Shit man, I'm sorry to hear of it. But you seem to get it, at least. Good on you for being well-adjusted, and here's hoping you move on to bigger and better things!

Guys, my band's show last night was fucking KILLER. I don't know how, but my bandie Matt managed to finagle us the headliner spot, despite it being our very first show. As it turned out, the band before us was relatively green, and so it was appropriate (and fortunate) that a band full of seasoned veterans of live performance would headline. And we fuckin nailed it! We got an encore right there on the spot, and we wound up playing 2 or 3 that we'd never even rehearsed (one of which our drummer Paul had never even heard) and everybody ate it up!

I don't think I've ever had that much fun before in my life, last night was fucking awesome! And now I ABSOLUTELY want to go on tour. I'll wait until we have a record released, but now I know what we're capable of. I couldn't have pipe-dreamed better.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 04 Mar 2012, 00:34
Just started playing the first Metal Gear Solid (Twin Snakes. Have the first disk of the playstation version, but not the second). Now I've beaten it and I regret not playing it sooner. When I started, it took me a half hour to get through the first room. Now if I started a new game, I'd fuck that room up. My brother has the next two games and I'm going to borrow those from him and do them next.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 04 Mar 2012, 16:47
Just finished getting everything ready for the morning. I'm going to attempt a full day of college and the gym tomorrow. I may get my routine back in order just in time for the Easter break.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 05 Mar 2012, 01:40
Writing the third of 4 exams for tomorrow morning. 

Needed a break, checking in.  You're all good? 



Great.  No sleep for me...  hope I can stay awake for the drive to work. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 05 Mar 2012, 07:36
Well FOO! Genero.tv has once again rejected a music video I submitted to their contest, this time for a new Ringo Starr release. Really disappointing to put all that work into it and not even get a chance to have it posted with all the others. It's also frustrating that as somebody who understands editing at a professional level, what they consider as "official music video" material is really nothing more than generic shots with random rack-focusing strung together in slow motion with the current fashionable video filter applied from Final Cut's dropdown menu.

There are definitely some videos entered that are absolutely amazing in every way, but overall there's a sameness to the "acceptable" entries that betrays a real misunderstanding of the art form by the contest runners that does a large disservice to the artists who choose to get involved. Not that I thought I'd win, but I definitely to have things within my videos that the other filmmakers can learn from as well.

Anyway, here it is for the rest of the world. Ringo Starr - Wings (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ix1Ws0bP8Zw) (a remake from a song he originally recorded in 1975)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Mar 2012, 00:59
My amp died. But today I finished recording probably the best-arranged song I've ever been involved with. I am simultaneously stoked and FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUU
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 06 Mar 2012, 01:16
Patrick, you made a music so powerful, it eXplodes your amp.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 06 Mar 2012, 03:22
Woke up. Pool of blood on my pillow. One of my ear piercings seems to have torn some how. Been bleeding for over thirty minutes.  :neutral:

Also I'm gonna be using this emote a lot.  :neutral:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Mar 2012, 03:45
Welu, I'm not an expert on ear piercings but I would say go to the doctor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 06 Mar 2012, 04:08
There is a new forum look, or somehow it's new for me and it's jurting my eyes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 06 Mar 2012, 04:10
Welu, I'm not an expert on ear piercings but I would say go to the doctor.

It's stopped bleeding and I've cleaned it up. It's not near as bad as I thought. Must have tugged on it in my sleep.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 06 Mar 2012, 06:10
Today, I bled for my art.

I should feel good about that but it stings too much.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Mar 2012, 11:43
My amp's gonna cost a metric fucknut to repair. This upsets me a whole hell of a lot, because I am so fucking broke. $30 a tube, requires a matched set of 4, and that's before repairing the actual source of the problem. Fuck my liiiiiiiiife
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 Mar 2012, 13:38
$30 each? What are you, buying fucking NOS tubes?

(see I told you you should have just gone SFDR)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 Mar 2012, 11:21
After having looked my shit up (last I'd done so was last summer) it looks like it's gonna be half that. Still, fuuuuuck, that is money.

(SDFR?)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 07 Mar 2012, 11:52
SFDR, good god.

Silverface Deluxe Reverb. All the goodness of your current amp, approximately 1/4th of the trouble/wattage.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 Mar 2012, 14:10
Shane it is not all the goodness of my current amp because what Deluxe Reverb owner gets to say they have 100w of clean headroom? I play clean so often it's almost disgusting.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Dazed on 07 Mar 2012, 15:03
That is disgusting, electric guitars are made for distortion. I'm sort of from the Billy Corgan school of "distort it until it's barely recognizable, then distort it a little bit more" though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 07 Mar 2012, 16:46
Well, just brought home the new kitty. We had to have one of our two put down last fall, due to what the vet suspects was cancer. Our new addition is currently destressing in his own room, and once he's not longer permastuck under the dresser, we'll let him out to explore and meet our other kitty. Bert can be seen here:

http://www.petfinder.com/petdetail/17686628

The first pic is his current appearance - he's a big boy. The other two are pics from when he was a bit younger. He'd been at the shelter since 2010 (it's a no-kill, non-profit shelter run by fantastic people).

And yes, he has no tail  :lol:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 07 Mar 2012, 17:35
What a cutie! And I love that he's named Bert.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 07 Mar 2012, 19:31
Definitely a cute cat.  And he's Celtic.  And he will surely come out and be sociable. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 07 Mar 2012, 19:44
I'm sure he'll warm up to us eventually - we were told by the people at the shelter that he gets real lovey, once he gets to know you. He seemed to be a favorite of a lot of the volunteers there. Doesn't mean that I don't feel bad for the poor guy, scared and in a new environment and all.

Once that hurdle is done with, the next one will be integrating him with our persnickety female senior citizen feline, Nina. She was hissing at me earlier, after smelling the other cat on my hands.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 07 Mar 2012, 19:57
They'll get over it. I don't think we saw much of Hermione when my mom brought her home, but after a while her and Parker got along just fine. As long as they aren't trying to kill each other through the door (which Parker and my old cat, Waffles, did at first), they should be ok. Otherwise they'll probably just get used to avoiding each other.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 07 Mar 2012, 20:22
Well, Nina's already hissing at me when I try to pet her with Bert-hands, though I intend to be exposing her to his scent a lot while he's acclimating and becoming master of his bedroom. Hopefully that will help matters, when he truly starts to invade her territory.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: smack that isaiah on 08 Mar 2012, 07:14
I have my first real full-job interview next Wed.  I'm freaking out; so scary. D:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 08 Mar 2012, 08:36
I start my first full-time real job on the 19th, and in a managerial position no less. I'm pretty intimidated!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 08 Mar 2012, 10:30
I think I just got prank called at work... That's a first.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 08 Mar 2012, 15:47
Some guy came in to my open mic last night to play harmonica. Except he had the genius fucking idea of bringing a single harmonica. ONE KEY. Are you fucking joking. So I had to listen to this asshole bitch for 2 hours about how he can play "anything, so long as it's in the key of A" and I'm like "Dude I honestly don't know that many songs in A, I've been playing for 8 years and I actually know what 'key of A' means, I promise."

Dude's reaction was to ask if he could play drums, and I was like, "You play drums? Sure!" But instead he just decided to flail his arms and wrists in every which direction. After he insisted he continue playing drums to the entire bar's protest, I finally realized he was probably drunk (and by the size of his pupils, definitely on drugs; we have a don't harm, don't ask, don't tell policy, and people who break it are 86ed unless it's weed because LOLifornia) and needed to be removed. So I talked to the bartender, he got his Big Friend to step in, and that was that. And the rest of the night was awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 09 Mar 2012, 13:40
I am all done with student teaching! Yay! And I would count it as a success. Both schools were awesome. Now I'm gonna take a nap because I am for serious worn out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 10 Mar 2012, 02:20
Finished filming the first of three short films for my course yesterday. Shooting on 16mm film with a 14 man crew is the worst thing in the world when nothing is going right, but insanely fun when it's all going good. I'm boom operator for the one we're filming next week, then the week after I'm directing a zombie film. To celebrate it being the weekend today is going to be a wake and bake and finish watching the first two seasons of Community day.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 10 Mar 2012, 08:01
I'm so sick this is the worst time, not only am I at work, but I have a funeral to attend on monday.
Already called supervisor lets hope he gets back to me soon about a solution before I throw up.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Mar 2012, 18:20
First day of spring break. 
Nothing accomplished. 

 :-D


Brakes started making noises on my car, and a coolant hose fell off  while I was driving home from the chiropractor.  Lucky I had a screwdriver and a gallon of coolant in the trunk.  ...and my wife's car needs some serious work as well.  So much for a break! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Mar 2012, 19:20
This is going to be long and rambly (not that I ever make long and rambly blog posts about my mental health).



Everywhere else is fairly personal and I really just have a lot on my chest I'd like to get off. People who have been on these forums a long time know I'm not quite typical (I'm loathe to use the word 'normal' for a descriptor here), and people who've been here longer than that (and have, by and large, left) have yelled at me for going on and on about this when I had no one else to talk to.

(Yeah, no, I'm not bitter. I totally understand, in hindsight, though abloobloobloo at the time).

Someone once mocked me saying I had a "grocery list of mental problems," which was pretty derisive but I've taken to using that phrase because it's also hilarious and vaguely true. I have a lot of issues. Some of them I'm working on (transiness! needlephobia!). Some of them are slowly easing up over time (Tourette's!). Other things I've been avoiding and hoping maybe if I ignore them long enough, maybe they'll cease to be a factor in my life. One of those is being ADD - I've denied it with a disgruntled hatred because it was such a disorder, and I loathed to think of myself as disordered or as having a learning disability. I'm coming to accept it, though, and that's actually helping, because I'm realizing that as I accept it I tend to notice how my attention span likes to flit back and forth. I've already tabbed off to look at pictures of kittens three times during this paragraph and got lost on macromeme once. Seriously.

I mean, look at this:

(http://www.macromeme.com/cat/rorschac-coffee-sign.jpg)

...uh. Anyways.

The other thing that I've been kind of squelching down for a number of years is being autistic. I've had inclinations and hints dropped in my path for years but I've also had incorrect stereotypes pushed on me as well, so even when I was looking through lists of 'signs of autism' and agreeing with damn near every item on the list, I could still listen to the voice in the back of my head say, for instance, "but you're good at social situations! you can't possibly be autistic!"

I live with two openly autistic people. And one of them participates in Autism Awareness as za job, and one of my close friends in Seattle is an aspie as well. Listening to their stories and their lives and their encounters only strengthened that resonance I felt in my chest, and I've started doing actual research into autism and opened up to one of my roommates today about what I've been thinking and feeling and whatnot.

Ze said that it's pretty obvious, and that ze's been talking with others, and they all think I'm autistic. One of my close friends in NY responded with, quote, "...and then nobody was surprised."

So this is weird. On one hand, I've seen this coming. On the other, even though I know it's not true, I feel like I'm co-opting the abledness of my friends - "oh hey you're autistic cool I've got the autism too we can be aspie buddies now and get ice cream" - and that makes me uncomfortable. They've managed to reassure me that that's fairly blatantly not the case.

Now I'm just figuring out how this plays into my life - does this change anything? Should it? Who should I tell? Anyone? I feel like I should tell my father, if only to make him look back at our interactions and his raising me and to make him go - oh. of course - but I also feel like I've said enough things to make him worry, and I don't need to throw another reason on the fire.

Gah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Mar 2012, 03:38
I would say that if you are happy with your life as a whole, and confident that you are able to work on and deal with the problems that you have to deal with (which it seems you are doing, even if it takes time - and everything worth doing takes time) then it doesn't change anything. It is just a label for something that you were already living with. If it is useful to recognise that label and share it with people, then there's nothing wrong with doing so, but unless you feel that you need external medical support or anything, then keep doing yo thang. Telling people "I have autism" is just a shortcut to letting them figure out your personality and quirks on their own - and possibly might make them look for things which aren't there (like an absence social skills). It's up to you, I guess.

For the record, I'm still here after all these years and I've watched you weather countless storms very ably. I was pretty impressed that you not only stuck it out when everyone was down on you, but also managed to make yourself an integral part of this community :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 11 Mar 2012, 05:24
So this is weird. On one hand, I've seen this coming. On the other, even though I know it's not true, I feel like I'm co-opting the abledness of my friends - "oh hey you're autistic cool I've got the autism too we can be aspie buddies now and get ice cream" - and that makes me uncomfortable. They've managed to reassure me that that's fairly blatantly not the case.

Now I'm just figuring out how this plays into my life - does this change anything? Should it? Who should I tell? Anyone? I feel like I should tell my father, if only to make him look back at our interactions and his raising me and to make him go - oh. of course - but I also feel like I've said enough things to make him worry, and I don't need to throw another reason on the fire.

Gah.
I think you have to be careful with self-diagnoses on that sort of thing. There's a big difference between clinical autism and autism spectrum disorder, the latter being a number of disorders that exhibit some, but not all of the symptoms. Asperger's is a well-known subset of autism spectrum disorder, but just as often the specific pattern of symptoms doesn't fit any formal diagnosis, so they use the umbrella term of PDD-NOS: Pervasive Developmental Disorder, Not Otherwise Specified. There's a lot of comorbidity with autism spectrum disorder and other mental disorders, so it's not unlikely that you fit the pattern.

What you should do about it? Nothing, I think. A diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder is usually helpful for parents and teachers to help their child have less of a hard time in school and social situations. But as an adult, you just think "Yeah, that explains a lot" and get on with your life. You've come this far without having needed people to cater to you being autistic. You could go around telling people that you're autistic if you really want to, but I don't see how that helps for anything but being put in another box.

But it's up to you, really. All I'm saying is, even though you shouldn't rely on Wikipedia diagnoses (I don't know if you are), it's unlikely to matter either way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Mar 2012, 10:22
@May: Thanks a lot! That means a lot to me.

@LTK: I'm trying not to self-diagnose, because then I start looking for problems that aren't necessarily there. If anything, I've been trying to avoid thinking in any sorts of ways that I might be anything other than neurotypical (mostly because I've sort of internalized this idea that autism = bad bad bad, which experience has taught me isn't quite true), and I've been talking with people who've been diagnosed with autism that I've been squatting with, and apparently there's been talk about me when I'm not around w/r/t/ "hey, I think Unicorn might be autistic" - and if anyone's going to know outside of a professional, it's them, really.

It doesn't change anything. It does help put a lot of things in perspective, though. ...A lot of things. I'm not going to need any sort of medical support, and I'm certainly not going to tell people upfront about it. I'm just trying to figure out how I feel about the whole thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Mar 2012, 11:00
I'm in a similar situation. I'm meant to get checked out for autism some time this year but I don't know if I want to because just like you, it wouldn't change anything but would put a lot of things in perspective.
It doesn't help that my Mammy tried to get me checked out when I was about five but our GP decided against it for some reason.

I think if you're not going to need help for it, then you don't need to be 100% sure. Although it can be nice to have something to point to for why things have happened the way they did. I guess if you really become curious you could try to find out, but try to remember it's just a small part of why you are who you are and that's probably enough explanation.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Mar 2012, 13:28
Your old GP was following the "discretion is the better part of valor" path.  For a kid who's coping all right, and doesn't have glaring problems, the diagnosis of autism would have changed your life, and from his/her past experience, probably not  for the better. 

My nephews (my brother's two boys) are both autistic, but at opposite ends of the spectrum.  The older one, who's now 12, still needs diapers, and can barely communicate outside lines from disney movies.  He'll be needing special care the rest of his life. 

His younger brother was streamlined into normal school last year (3rd grade).  He talks a blue streak, and is a train nut (he can get you from Istanbul to Budapest from memory).  But aside from a couple of odd social cues, he seems quite "normal" (I like that term "neurotypical"), and though he would have had trouble in school without the special support he's had these first few years, he would have gotten by. 

Much of these diagnoses are really new, though.  People have been OK with this for centuries...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Mar 2012, 17:03
Your old GP was following the "discretion is the better part of valor" path.  For a kid who's coping all right, and doesn't have glaring problems, the diagnosis of autism would have changed your life, and from his/her past experience, probably not  for the better. 

That makes a lot of sense, actually. Considering how taboo (not the right word but can't think of it) mental health issues are even now, I can see how being treated as "slow and lazy with potential" was a lot better than any kind of special treatment.
Just asked Mammy. She said he didn't think I needed checked because I was "too bright". Most of my problems didn't show or become really bad till I started secondary school, when I was eleven. A therapist (the same one who planted autism in my head) I talked to when I was about sixteen said that's common. You're able to cope when life is simpler and education isn't as tough. Things like being non-talkative or highly interested in things were just personality traits, rather than problems. It probably helped I'm very like my oldest brother. I think if I got out our school reports, they'd be identical.

~~

In other news, just had an odd one. My boyfriend's dad was driving me home; boyfriend in the car as well. Police stopping cars on the way home, very near my house and asked for ID of everyone in the car. Never had that before.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 11 Mar 2012, 17:09
Just let the new kitty out of his room. As expected, he's disappeared without a trace. I imagine we'll discover where he is when our other cat discovers his existence  :-P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Asterus on 11 Mar 2012, 20:07
Of course, it also seems like people are getting a tendency to try and diagnose everything into some strange form of organization. It always seems to me that when it comes to mental health, people would rather be extremely over-specific and quick to label idiosyncrasies as "disorders" regardless of their severity or effect on life. I can't say anything about autism, but every once in a while I end up taking some sort of depression evaluation survey or such, and people always come to the conclusion that I'm suffering from severe depression, I have a 1:7 change of offing myself, blahblahblah, and It always seems like total BS. Yeah, I'm internally moody and pessimistic, an agnostic with nihilist tendencies, and a complete shut-in, but Blanket-labeling all of that under the heading of "depression" isn't going to get you anywhere, especially when you consider that my public persona is the sort of person who's always smiling outwardly, is patient with most people, will do most things on a whim for the sake of pure chaos, and has no problem living each day with the goal of simply seeing what comes along. So to the next person who suggests I get mental help or therapy because they feel like I'm shutting myself in and bottling everything up, let me give you this warning: continue assuming I'll kill myself, and I'll continue whistling Katamari Damacy or something else as loudly as I can around you :P
I had a point in all of this somewhere. Can someone help me find it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Mar 2012, 00:27
Some things are hard to classify, and it's not always worth the effort? 


@Welu, that was the perfect opportunity - "We're not the droids you're looking for."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Mar 2012, 09:36
Sorry to double post, but it's the next day...

Driving home for break, my coolant was a bit low.  "Must be leaking around the temp sensor I replaced last month, I'll have to tighten that". 

First day of break, my brakes start screaming - well, I'll have to fix them, but it's about time. 

Second day of break, and there's a puddle of coolant under my car.  It's the water pump. 

My wife's car's been waiting for some engine work for the last 3 months, and I need to get the tire she popped replaced. 

This is not my idea of a break!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 12 Mar 2012, 09:49
Still no sign of Bert. If it weren't for the fact that he's used his litter box, we wouldn't know there's a second cat in the house at all. This cat is the freakin' Hide and Seek champion.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Mar 2012, 12:19
Carl-E, might I suggest the purchase of a new automobile?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ummmkay on 12 Mar 2012, 21:05
This is not my idea of a break!

sounds like a lot of breaks to me!

ha ha ha
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Mar 2012, 05:37
|; You like this.

Dear guys my weekend was cool. Went busking in Berkeley with my 'artist FKA Injun Magic' bandie (pictures coming to the photo thread!) and had some strange but attractive girl randomly come up, stand between us, and start reading. We're still completely lost on who this girl was or whether or not she was trying to communicate something to us (or what the hell she meant it to say), but hey, whatever.

I definitely saw a girl on drugs that I have never seen anybody on before. Thanks Berkeley McDonald's at 10:30pm!

My Troubador! bandie's computer broke and it is likely hard drive failure. Thank god he's good about backing all music shit up. I'd be devastated if we had to go back and redo everything. Especially since it's bad enough my amp is broken.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 15 Mar 2012, 07:27
Carl-E, might I suggest the purchase of a new automobile?


0_o


The reason I'm bitching is that I can't afford for someone elsse to do the repairs - I'm doin' them myself ($40 for the parts for a brake job vs $150 - $200 at a cheap garage).  So a new car's out of the question.  I got this one two years ago, it's an '01 with plenty of life left.  It replaced the one I hit the bear with. 

Oh, everything's fixed now.   :-D

I only get a new(er) car when absolutely necessary, like when it's something that can't be fixed.  Otherwise, I drive 'em till they're dead.  X_X

The only new car I ever bought was an '87 Escort.  I'm a firm believer in used.  (the Escort's still in the garage, I started restoring it last summer... hell, it got nearly 40 mpg, it'll pay for itself!) 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 15 Mar 2012, 09:42
Bloke, bloke's parents and I looked at a flat today. I can't deny it's in a nice area. In a wee cul-de-sac, got to chat to two of the neighbours. The man downstairs seems civil. Maybe late 60's and by himself. Next door was an older lady who was very nice. Also saw a mum coming back from shopping a few doors up.
Never saw a house like it before. Basically a two story house but the floors are separated. Sort of a bungalow on top of a bungalow. Was smallish but enough for our needs. Only needs some basic cosmetic work, like wallpaper needs changed because there were the marks of the crosses the last person had on the walls.  :meh:

I know I can't really afford to be picky but something about it just didn't feel right to me. All I can really say is  it didn't feel like something I could make into a home.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 16 Mar 2012, 16:38
A friend of mine passed away Wednesday night, a very sweet and soft spoken lady named Fran. She directly influenced my decision to form a new band, and her encouragement kept me from quitting music altogether during some of my darkest times. She was in her 50s, which I think is way too young, but she had MDS so it was kinda a matter of time, really.

Last night I ran my open mic at the coffee shop, and then afterward there was a memorial at another of the open mics in town, one she frequented. I went, and I played one of the songs by my new band that she particularly loved. It was funny, one of the other performers broke a string, and I broke a fingernail (I play fingerstyle a lot). We compared notes and determined that she was definitely with us all that night.

I'm down about it, but I'm not beaten. If there's anything she taught me it's that music can get your heart through anything, no matter what it is. Illness, physical pain, emotional pain, you can get through anything at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 18 Mar 2012, 22:56
Jesus Christ. You know when you think you're doing alright, and then something happens to make you feel worse than you've ever felt? Well that something's just happened to me.

I thought I was doing okay with regards to being dumped. An old friend came over last night to hang out. We had fun, made out a little bit. She gave me the impression it was going nowhere. I went to bed... I got woken up by her moaning and my housemate's bed creaking.

If I could sleep right now, I'd sleep forever. But, I can't, so I'm here.

Fuckkkk emotions.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 19 Mar 2012, 00:56
I know that feel bro, I know that feel.

Somewhere (maybe in this blog thread earlier on) on these forums are copious amounts of me complaining about my old flatmate having really loud sex (and my other flatmate was definitely getting some, but he was fucking polite about not doing it when people were home) when I was on a pretty long dry spell.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Mar 2012, 17:02
I happened to look down last night and saw a flyer for a band called Bua.

Hmm.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 20 Mar 2012, 03:16
anybody ever have a kind of importantish life decision to make and then make it based on what you think might be a sign, or fate, or something pushing you in a certain direction?

I was going to leave my job (I'm almost done at University) in June, as I hope to get work experience and an actual paid job afterwards. I'm currently working in retail, but some "complications" (i.e., HR manager being completely unprofessional and absolutely terrible at her job) have arisen lately to make me leave like, now. Their solution to my problem of having to come and go between two different stores (from when I'm at home or at University) is to just not pay me for three weeks. Well, if my notice period is four weeks, you can guess what letter they'll be getting soon.

Yay for being penniless but no longer working for a terrible faceless corporation!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 20 Mar 2012, 06:36
I happened to look down last night and saw a flyer for a band called Bua.

Hmm.

And you didn't send me a picture? I am disappoint..
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 20 Mar 2012, 09:13
Guested at a friend's gig last night, wound up chatting up this super cute girl. She invited me to come hang out with her and some of her friends at her place. Hot tubbing, drankin, shmokin, and cuddles. And I made a good impression by not instigating any funny business. I think I might actually be Growing Up. Neat!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Mar 2012, 12:31
I happened to look down last night and saw a flyer for a band called Bua.

Hmm.

And you didn't send me a picture? I am disappoint..

I did not have my phone, but I did find their website (http://www.buamusic.com).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 20 Mar 2012, 14:25
And they're an Irish band? Neat.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Mar 2012, 15:52
Until you quoted that, I thought the band was called Blue and didn't get it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: blanktom on 20 Mar 2012, 17:49
Hey blog thread.

Since like, last February after my last relationship went to shit, I started seeing this girl on and off with varying degrees of seriousness until Halloween when we finally got together properly and did 'I love you's' and shit. Anyway, over the last month or more I've kind of changed a bit as a person. I've started thinking more about my general outlook and what it means to me as a person, and realised she's totally different to me. And I'm pretty sure I've fallen out of love with her because of it.

Quick explanation - She's incredibly sentimental, and struggles to let go of everything in the past. She also worries a lot about the future (hers, mine, ours). Lastly, she has an INCREDIBLY reactionary temperament. I, on the other hand, hold on to absolutely nothing in the past, and struggle to even think about the future (near or far), let alone worry about it. I suffer from a chronic inability to stress or get wound up.

As a philosophy I am overtly aware of the impermanence of all things and thing that inner happiness/contentment is paramount in life, and that she should care for herself more than anything else and if she can make herself a truly happy person, good things and good people will come to her. She doesn't seem to agree. I want to move back to being friends with her but apparently she adores me and will not take it well.

I'm unhappy, what do I do?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Mar 2012, 22:21
OK, let's pretend this is the relationship advice thread; 

She souds clingy.  Worse, it sounds like you feel she's clingy. 

What has changed so much that you, the person who lives for the here-and-now, can't find some of that impermanent happiness with this person?  Her outlook may be a bit different than yours, but it sounds more like you're afraid of her than anything else. 

Don't talk yourself out of something before it even starts.  If it doesn't work, end it.  But don't end it before you even know. 

Disclaimer: experience will teach you what to avoid.  If you've had a relationshi[p like this in the past, and it's raising warning flags for you, then yes, stay away.  Otherwise, give it a try! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 21 Mar 2012, 03:31
Does the relationship advice thread even exist? I thought we killed it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Mar 2012, 03:37
It's not far down the list; anyone can revive it if they wish, or start their own.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Mar 2012, 04:25
Man I have been having such a great last few weeks, and even yesterday was awesome, and yet right this minute I'm taking the time to think out how I'm going to sustain this "pursuit of stardom" stuff, how I'm going to get a part-time job and find a proper place to stay long-term, and I now feel weighted down by a crushing sense of inadequacy in terms of being able to handle it.

God damn it. It's lame how I can sustain such a happy-go-lucky attitude for such a long time, keep a positive head through so much bullshit, and then one day I just feel like total shit about myself. Maybe it's because I have to find a new place again in the next week, and I still have nowhere to go. I don't know how many more of these fucking moves I can take.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 21 Mar 2012, 05:29
I've changed my sleep schedule around from going to bed at 7 am and waking up at 10 pm to going to bed around 9 pm and waking up at 6 am. I now wake right up and don't feel groggy in the morning. It's nice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Mar 2012, 08:36
That sucks Patrick, and actually I'm going through super similar things right now. A lot of times it's just depressurising from all the bad things that have happened - like feeling like shit is my eventual reaction to having shit thrown at me, even if I face it when it happens without a problem

it's actually really hard for me because I finished off the third round of testing for this job and sent off the results about a week ago and now have not heard anything back and to be honest I'm kind of counting on this job and I'm freaking out over this continued silence

but I mean hey if I don't get this job I can just move to oakland hahaha

hahaha

(I do not want to move to oakland)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 21 Mar 2012, 09:53
Zingo,

Remember, rejections tend to come faster than approvals - this is one of the rare cases where no news is (more than likely) good news. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 21 Mar 2012, 11:00
(I do not want to move to oakland)

But you could hang with Mr. Cooper.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Mar 2012, 14:54
More importantly, my band needs a permabassist and/or a permadrummer. Come to the Bay!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Mar 2012, 15:27
I AM ALWAYS THE GODDAMN BASSIST

I AM THE ONLY GUITARIST WHO CAN PLAY BASS

AND NOT SOUND LIKE A GUITARIST WHO GOT STUCK ON BASS



AARRRRRRRGH
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 22 Mar 2012, 00:32
Go, Raiders?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 22 Mar 2012, 04:25
I'll teach you drums if it means that much to you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 22 Mar 2012, 05:59
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Sf_pogZ8jE
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 22 Mar 2012, 08:23
Goddamn, Zingo. I'll play bass..if you let me borrow your Dirnt.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Mar 2012, 15:36
That bass is beautiful. That is my bass, dammit.

Also I mean shit if I end up in oakland it won't be the worst thing in the world but I'm actually in a place for once where I like the people around me and I have friends and people I'm dating and opportunities to be happy and I really don't want to leave it now that I'm only just getting involved, y'know? Oakland won't be terrible (and I would probably end up enjoying it down thurr) but I really want to finish what I've started here, not keep moving and moving and moving like I've always done.
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Post by: Welu on 22 Mar 2012, 16:19
Got an email from my head tutor. I'm officially behind with work. Fuck.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Mar 2012, 02:40
So my show tonight went well. We fucked up a couple things but it turned out okay. Apparently we just rock that hard. Whoopee.

Now it's real talk time.

My ex (who is now in the Navy) came like she said she would. And it was great spending time with her. But it sucks knowing that even though she hurt me more than I think I've ever been hurt by anything in my life, before or since, I still have feelings for her. Very strong ones. And she still has them for me, too. But it's in our nature to destroy each other, it seems. Snoop Dogg's right when he says you can't make a ho a housewife, but if she wasn't a ho, I'd have put a ring on her finger a long time ago.

In the meanwhile, she's still the one who broke my heart and put me in a mental hospital. Which, granted, is just as much my fault (and I would never blame her for that; it isn't correct, and it isn't right either). And she's been assigned to Virginia, and she leaves here Monday morning.

No point crying over spilled milk, but I'm still gonna cry, 'cause fuck it. Can't hurt. Might as well cry, 'cause it quantifies our perfect (in)compatibility (because it is both at the same time).

GOD FUCKING DAMN IT
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Mar 2012, 04:48
So after that post I finally wrote my first complete song ever and it is about her and if you want to hear the demo well here it is (http://www.box.com/s/2647ba5430fb7e24d491)
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 23 Mar 2012, 12:29
I got lost in the woods.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Mar 2012, 16:44
Zingo,

Remember, rejections tend to come faster than approvals - this is one of the rare cases where no news is (more than likely) good news.

The manager is going through a family crisis so they haven't had time to start, quote, "bringing [me] in." So it's still on!

I've also checked and I think I could easily make it to the three places I want to go this summer (i.e. home in rural NY, Boston (hi May!), and Halifax) for around $1,200. I am excite!
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Mar 2012, 20:31
Major birthday yesterday.  Feeling roughly half my age emotionally, doc sez I'm as healthy as (and still look like) someone much younger. 

Party's tomorrow night.  For the first time, do not want. 

My older daughter gave me a hug and wished me a happy birthday, and I cried.  By now, I figured I'd have a job that wasn't fucking temporary, let alone needing two, and could afford a hobby or two.  She said, "Well, but you have a beautiful home and family". 

The house is slowly falling apart at the seams, as is the family (health-wise).  That observation made us both laugh, and I needed that.  So it wasn't too bad a birthday after all, I guess. 


Can I have my midlife crisis now?  pleeeeeease? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 25 Mar 2012, 03:31
What sort of midlife crisis would you like?
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Post by: Carl-E on 25 Mar 2012, 05:28
It would have to be something cheap, I'm afraid.  Can't afford the red sports car...  or a trophy second wife. 


Definitely not an affair with someone too young for me.  I don't think I could handle someone who didn't live through most of my cultural references, and would remind me of my daughters all the time! 
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 25 Mar 2012, 06:16
You could do what my dad did and spend every waking moment talking about the collapse of civilization and learning how to make flour out of cat tails in the swamp. My mother told me once that he would talk in his sleep sometimes and said stuff like "Don't believe what they tell you."
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Mar 2012, 06:18
You could take up baking bread, or start running marathons - two of my favourite midlife crises so far.
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 25 Mar 2012, 06:25
Maybe you'll waste your crisis trying to find a midlife crisis.
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Post by: snalin on 25 Mar 2012, 07:42
I think the easiest one to go for is to get about 4000 cats.
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 25 Mar 2012, 08:01
Unless the cats come with free food, that's not cheap.
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Post by: schimmy on 25 Mar 2012, 09:29
Just start dressing like a pirate, and refuse to talk to anyone who doesn't address you as Blackbeard.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Mar 2012, 09:50
I didn't have time for a mid-life crisis.  OK, I had a divorce, but everything else kept on full pelt.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Mar 2012, 10:39
I'm probably not going to have a midlife crisis since I'm more than making up for it by having tens of quarterlife crises.
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Post by: celticgeek on 25 Mar 2012, 10:44
Midlife Crisis Car (http://www.celticgeek.com/lnxgeek.html)
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Post by: celticgeek on 25 Mar 2012, 12:25
Nope.  Honda S-2000 (http://www.celticgeek.com/images/0_TheLinuxGeek.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 25 Mar 2012, 12:45
Can't afford the red sports car...  or a trophy second wife. 

Get a plastic trophy of your wife and put it in your current car.
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Post by: Welu on 25 Mar 2012, 16:13
Got to film six out of nine pages of my film last night. Going through the raw footage to check for any needed retakes. You get a real sense of my directing process in this clip: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eKBw_SWruNE&feature=youtu.be
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Post by: Jimor on 25 Mar 2012, 17:58
Heh, very awesome! And an award for strategic use of a potted plant. (Said as something only a person who's run camera on 3 short films would notice.) Best of luck with the rest of the shoot!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 26 Mar 2012, 06:45
Can't afford the red sports car...  or a trophy second wife. 

Get a plastic trophy of your wife and put it in your current car.

This made me lol, I vote plastic trophy!


Carl- you could always do what a few of my coworkers are doing- they are slowly turning into doomsday preppers. They're convinced that the economy is going to collapse and people are going to start looting and killing each other. They think that if they kill/grow their own food (and stockpile canned goods) that they'll survive the imminent apocalypse. I think they're nuts.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Mar 2012, 07:00
I'm fairly sure that's what my dad and brother are doing - I just cleared out the freezer and found things that went out of date in 2005. No vegetables in the house, though. Off to go and be inventive about what on earth I can cook for tonight. Might need to go down to the shop and buy some veg.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Mar 2012, 10:16
Can't afford the red sports car...  or a trophy second wife. 

Get a plastic trophy of your wife and put it in your current car.

This made me lol, I vote plastic trophy!


I have got  to make this so...

Quote
Carl- you could always do what a few of my coworkers are doing- they are slowly turning into doomsday preppers. They're convinced that the economy is going to collapse and people are going to start looting and killing each other. They think that if they kill/grow their own food (and stockpile canned goods) that they'll survive the imminent apocalypse. I think they're nuts.

I think you're right - that's not a mid-life crisis, they're just nuts...  :-\

A mid life crisis is all about realizing your own mortality and doing something you think matters (no matter how shallow, hence the red sports car/ trophy wife (no offense, celticgeek)) and which explains all those bizarre career changes and such. 

Prepping for the end of civilisation doesn't count...
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Post by: celticgeek on 26 Mar 2012, 10:27
No offense taken.  I sometimes refer to it as my "male menopause" car.  I know it should be a Ferrari, but all I could afford was a Honda.

Also, we celebrated our 50th wedding anniversary last November.  I have a wonderful trophy for a wife.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 26 Mar 2012, 10:29
Well, to be honest a lot of the talk about it is "think of how we'll be in such a different place than everyone else! We'll be powerful!!" so I made the connection in my head (and of course, left it out of my post)....

Although, just plain nuts works too.  :-P

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Post by: Patrick on 27 Mar 2012, 07:28
Definitely homeless tomorrow. As in, I have no idea where I will be sleeping.

Probably not gonna be online much for a bit.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Mar 2012, 12:28
Fuck Pat. I wish I could offer you a place to stay.

Um, in other news, I tried to watch Marble Hornets last night.

At the end of the Impurity video (http://youtu.be/zxPDaFeUzT0), the browser suddenly whited out, and I couldn't move to any other application - and an error message popped up, saying: "An app has become unresponsive: Unknown" - and every time I closed it, it just popped up again.

I tried to control-alt-delete, but instead of the usual screen, the monitor just blacked out with a low glitching sound, the hourglass frozen in the middle of the screen. Another error message popped up that just said "Failure", and I couldn't click on it, so I pressed the escape key. The message box went away, replaced with this picture:

(http://i.imgur.com/KTvtW.jpg)

 (if yr wondering how I got a screenshot, it's the picture for the administrative account of the laptop), and everything was still frozen. I ended up having to force the computer to shut down, and when I tried to restart, the screen would light up black, and then shut itself down again after about three seconds.

It seems to be working fine now.

Not sure that I'm going to watch more Marble Hornets any more though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 27 Mar 2012, 12:50
I tried watching marble hornets. I really, really tried. Boredom set in and I decided I'd rather watch Blair Witch. On a related note: A friend of my brother is actually afraid of the Slender Man. He says he saw him on the side of the road a couple of times and now he's afraid of him forever.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Mar 2012, 12:58
I'm going through the marble hornets wiki and actually reading what other people have deciphered in the vidoes (as well as the totheark reply videos) - it adds a lot to it, in my mind.
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 27 Mar 2012, 19:15
I think my family is putting medication in my food. I've been feeling extra tired and all hollow inside and my mind feels clouded and slow- all of which were side effects when I was taking Haldol and Seroquel. I'm not going to eat anything I didn't buy and prepare myself from now on.
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Post by: pwhodges on 27 Mar 2012, 23:40
If this is so, is it that they feel that it would benefit you, even if you disagree, or is it that they feel that it makes you easier for them to be with?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Mar 2012, 06:00
If you genuinely believe that is happening, parcel some of the food they've prepared for you up and send it off for testing, because that is illegal.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 28 Mar 2012, 06:26
The film I linked that I'm making is basically a Slenderman film. It was accidental, genuinely, but when I realized I decided to play up the theme rather than change it.

Also in awesome news:

I'M GOING TO START MOVING IN WITH MY BOYFRIEND NEXT WEEK!! YAY!!

So excited.  The house is gorgeous and is pretty big, for two people any way. The neighbour is meant to be a hole but we'll deal with that when we need to and I'm going to try to transfer to another branch of my shop in town but I'm being a grown up and there will be bills and it's scary but YAY!
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Post by: valley_parade on 28 Mar 2012, 08:39
A dude in my fantasy baseball league failed to start a Seattle pitcher today, who would have gained him nearly 80 points.

I feel bad because I am not against him this week.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Mar 2012, 09:39
Yay!! Congrats Welu, that's awesome! Best of luck  :-)

Starting out on your own can be scary at times, but for the most part it's truly exhilarating. I moved out pretty young and I still have moments every once in a while when I'll look around my apartment and just smile because I'm actually paying all of my bills and aren't at risk of being kicked out haha


You can do it! And we'll help when we can to make it not so scary :-)

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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Mar 2012, 04:32
I wish I could have a real house! If I were graduating this summer, I could go rent a house and become a foster parent and then get a mortgage and buy a house and be ALL THE GROWN UP THINGS AT ONCE but instead I must continue to be a student :(
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Mar 2012, 05:27
You'll find there comes a time when circumstances mean that you just do it regardless; it generally works out.

(http://cassland.org/images/NotReady.png)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 Mar 2012, 05:44
I'm aching for a house myself....paying rent for what seems like an endless amount of time gets old after a while....

If ever there was a comic that explained my thoughts on becoming an adult, it's this one.

(http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/lease.png)


I still get the feeling sometimes that everyone around me is a mature, responsible adult and I'm just pretending. Most days I can get by pretty well, but there are definitely others when my inner rebellious teenager gets the best of me.
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 29 Mar 2012, 08:04
You might not have rent, but taxes and mortgages still need to be paid.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 29 Mar 2012, 08:21
Yeah but you get EQUITY which you can borrow against later and TAX CREDITS so you get more back in your rebate and - oh god here I am doing that thing again were I act like I know what's going on and what I'm doing. My plan for after college was to get married, buy a house, get a proper job, get a dog, and have some kids. It's been three years now and the only thing not checked off that list is babies and oh jeez I don't know if I'm ready for all that. Some days yes some days no.
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Post by: celticgeek on 29 Mar 2012, 08:28
Were you planning to have a "reasonable number" of kids?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 29 Mar 2012, 08:30
Absolutely reasonable. Two or three, we hadn't quite agreed. I said three because I have two sisters, he said two because he has one sister. Then we never finished our pre-wedding counseling with the pastor because we couldn't find a time and he just said "I'm sure you'll be fine."
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Post by: Lines on 29 Mar 2012, 09:01
My bf and I are going to be looking at houses (in person, not just on the internet like we have been) and I'm getting kind of excited. Technically it'll be his house (for now) because he has a Job and I am still a Student, but we're looking at places where we'll be able to stay for a while and start a life and it just makes me happy thinking about it!
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Mar 2012, 09:25
Another view of adulthood:

(http://cassland.org/images/AdultButton.jpg)
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Mar 2012, 10:03
It's what they call a learning process...

Oh, and bainidhe_dub, someone wise told me that if you waited until you were ready to have kids, you'd never have kids...

OK, blog time; 

Went to Temple University Hospital Tuesday (left Monday after work, it's a 5 hour drive) for my daughter.  they have a relatively new procedure there where they implant a slowed-down pacemaker and hook it to the stomach to get it to act more normally.  She has partial paralysis of the digestive tract (along with a lort of other things). 

We met with the doc, head of gastroenterology, and he was one of the best we've dealt with in the last two years.  All we did was sit and talk for two hours, as he got the history, symptoms, medications, procedures, and timeline down right.  He'd read her file (about 700 pages), but wanted to sort it all out in person. 

So now we go back in May for a 4-day bout of testing to see whether the procedure's right for her. 

I got stressed from the driving, though and snapped in one of my classes Wednesday.  After trying to start class and having the back of the room not shut up, I told them if they didn't want to be there, they could leave.  One wiseass said that I could leave, too. 

I capped my marker and went back to my office.  Screw 'em. 


One of the better students followed me, and asked me to come back, so I did.  Class went on pretty normally from there, but dammit, I did not  need that. 
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Post by: LTK on 29 Mar 2012, 11:04
Hope it turns out all right, Carl-E. Having a competent and caring doctor is a rare thing nowadays. Class wiseasses suck though.

One time, in the middle of class, I told the lecturer that she was interrupting. She got a little confused until I said I meant the microphone was malfunctioning.
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Post by: Redball on 29 Mar 2012, 11:19
Hope it turns out all right, Carl-E. Having a competent and caring doctor is a rare thing nowadays. Class wiseasses suck though.

One time, in the middle of class, I told the lecturer that she was interrupting. She got a little confused until I said I meant the microphone was malfunctioning.

My first thought was to tell her she's "cutting out." But that might have been confusing as well in the U.S.

Carl-E, it looks like the class problem turned out all right. Hope the best for your daughter.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Mar 2012, 12:36
My inner rebellious teenager left a couple of years ago. My inner middle aged housewife keeps knocking on the door, though. I've spent the last three days cooking meals to freeze in individual portions for my brother to reheat when he gets in from school after I leave, and having dinner on the table for him when he gets home while I'm here. I'm enjoying it. I even did a bit of weeding yesterday.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 Mar 2012, 12:42
You might not have rent, but taxes and mortgages still need to be paid.

Well, yeah obviously. But it would be nice to pay for something that you get to keep.



Good luck Linds!!


Carl-E, I hope all goes well for your daughter. And I think you were right to walk out of the class! Sometimes students need responses like that to realize what asses they're being.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Mar 2012, 15:33
My friend is offering to pay for my trip to the Emerald City Comicon (http://www.emeraldcitycomicon.com/tickets/).

My flat tone deceives not the sheer excitement coursing through me.

I will be meeting Ryan North.

I will be meeting Tara Strong.

I will be meeting Jeph Jacques.
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Mar 2012, 15:40
Say hullo to Jeph from me, please; I'm sure I'll never have the opportunity!

(Enjoy your excitement - and the trip, of course.)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Mar 2012, 15:51
I'm mostly piffled that I'll not have any money until after the con. Ugh.
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 30 Mar 2012, 08:12
I've just got off the phone from talking to my sister, who was telling me that in her latest Ouija board chat with our dead great uncle he had mentioned a Belgian business partner and made a comment about his death by gunshot in Belgium.

Personally I do not believe in any of this spiritual stuff, but a quick look into my great uncle on the internet and I find out that not only was he a big time arms dealer during the Spanish Civil War and World War 1 but he partnered with an Edgard Grimard, a Belgian who operated out of Liege.

I don't know if my sister has already searched up on him and is just pulling my leg, but this little Google expedition has caught my interest. Does anyone know how to find out about the deaths of relatives? I'm curious to discover if my great uncle really did die from a shooting.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 30 Mar 2012, 08:49
Ouija board shit creeps me the fuck out. If there is something out there (as in, spirits and the like) it's not something I'd feel comfortable screwing with, especially if those stories of unleashing demons and shit are true.  :psyduck:

The probably aren't, but better safe than sorry.
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 30 Mar 2012, 09:01
I made a ouija board end table for a school project once. The triangle doohickey was a cupholder.
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Post by: benji on 30 Mar 2012, 09:12
Not getting into the veracity of Ouija boards (I've never used one), you can probably contact the local records office where ever he died and get any documentation they might have. A lot of Belgians can read English, so you might well get a response. I wouldn't mention the Ouija board. Just say you're compiling notes on your family history and you want to check on a family story about your uncle being shot.
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Post by: Jimor on 30 Mar 2012, 18:14
Back when I worked in a toy store, a young couple bought a Ouija board. A couple hours later, they came back wanting a refund, "It doesn't work." Several snarky retorts crossed my mind, but I managed to process their return without uttering any of them.

Here's the REAL secret to Oiuja boards: they exist to freak the fuck out of the other person you're playing with.
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Post by: ecstaticjoy on 30 Mar 2012, 20:37
Ouija board shit creeps me the fuck out. If there is something out there (as in, spirits and the like) it's not something I'd feel comfortable screwing with, especially if those stories of unleashing demons and shit are true.  :psyduck:

The probably aren't, but better safe than sorry.

Omg I get the same feeling, too! It's not like I really think the stuff from the movies is going to happen to me, I just feel like I shouldn't be doing it.
I grew up with a psychic mom (she says she talked to me on the Ouija board before I was born and that I told her my name was Joy and that's why she named me that) so I wasn't really mystified by it. It seemed like a telephone to me and I swear I have a memory of talking to her and being frustrated because my dad moved too slow.

But it just feels unnatural to play with. We're in our bodies, we must be here for some reason. If we were meant to be thinking about the spiritual world we wouldn't be in the physical.

And yes it scared me a little, lol.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 30 Mar 2012, 22:49
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HhGuXCuDb1U
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Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Mar 2012, 00:07
Everyone should watch that link, that is seriously some fantastic stuff there.

I love Tim Minchin.
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Post by: Welu on 31 Mar 2012, 07:22
I love that video. Saw Tim Minchin at Greenwich Comedy Festival last year and was so much fun. Ooh, I'm gonna see if the line-up for this year is up yet.  :mrgreen:

Edit: Not yet. :(
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Post by: Lines on 31 Mar 2012, 14:50
Here's the REAL secret to Oiuja boards: they exist to freak the fuck out of the other person you're playing with.

Yup. Back in high school, I was playing this with my friend and her younger sister and I started to drag the pointer thing around to mess with the sister. Not only did she think it was real, but she was convinced later on that she was still talking to her when she played with other friends.
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Post by: Welu on 31 Mar 2012, 16:11
My drama teacher told me a story of when she was about eighteen, her and a few other friends got a Ouija board and it was the only time they used one. The glass apparently shook really violently and she and her friends felt like they had to fight with it to push it down. They asked who they were speaking to and it spelled "devil" and then the glass flew off the table and hit the wall.
As someone who doesn't believe in this type of paranormal stuff at all, I am curious to try with people who do just to see what happens. I used to believe in ghosts so I have an interest and like to listen to people's experiences.

In other news: Filmed again tonight. Went so well. The girls had to leave early but this just made me go into Director-Mode and properly take the lead. Got everything done in about two and a half hours. Other than some small shots with just one actor, all is good. It's awesome to feel excited again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Apr 2012, 00:37
my roommates are all drunk

they were laughing and making out

now they're playing ignition

(so what I'm drunk, it's the freakin' weekend baby I'm about to have me some fun)

and crying

it's not even the weekend
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 03 Apr 2012, 02:41
I somehow stepped on my own fucking toe and it feels like i should get my whole foot amputated

FUCK THIS HURTS
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 03 Apr 2012, 04:03
I also noticed today that a distant relative I have on Facebook constantly watches the worst sounding movies. Today it was "Love, Wedding, Marriage". Is this his poor film choice, or representative of the Canadian film industry? Guess I'll never know.
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Post by: Carl-E on 03 Apr 2012, 06:48
Might be more a factor of who he's watching them with...
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 03 Apr 2012, 07:33
How do I play ignition? Do I have to be drunk and will it make me cry?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 03 Apr 2012, 08:43
I've a picture of drunk people lighting things on fire so there's at least the possibility of crying in there, somewhere.

My son needed a new summer coat so he also needed new emblems. We're going with Cradle of Filth, Dimmu Borgir, Metallica and Led Zeppelin.

He's 19 months old.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 03 Apr 2012, 09:12
Might be more a factor of who he's watching them with...

Oh, no doubt. But they all sound like that, a man needs to have some manly films on if Facebook is constantly publishing his Netflix activity. Tomorrow I'm looking for "I Don't Know How She Does It", "Women In: Things That Go Wrong With My Usually Average Life", and "Bridesmaids 2: The CashCow"

Stick on Fargo once in a while or something.

I hope my kids are as rock orientated as yours, BP
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 03 Apr 2012, 09:51
I just hope my kids don't try to kill me or their mother.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 03 Apr 2012, 10:16
House hunting is depressing. You're all, "Man, I love this house! But it's too small for if/when we start having kids, so we can't live here," and "Man, I love this area! But this house makes no sense," or "Man, I really want this house! But there is an income cap so I can't live here." (Income caps don't make sense to me. I mean, they kind of do, but not really.)

Really liking old houses in urban neighborhoods is no fun. They're all either in terrible condition (we do not have the time or money to renovate a house or I totally would) or they are just too small (like, 1 bedroom short of being perfect). I would move back to my old neighborhood, like a lot of our friends are doing, but man, that school district has gone from bad to worse, so no.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 03 Apr 2012, 11:33
Ah, the joys of adulthood!

In other news, the university computer service lifted the block on my mail server this morning, except for the bit that receives mail about patients and adverse drug reactions. When by mid-afternoon I had received no response to my attempts to get something done about this, I raised such merry hell* that the director of the university computing service himself rang me.  Everything was resolved before I went home  :-D

*  I asked them to compare the possible loss of reputation from the university's mail server being blacklisted by Hotmail (which happened twice last autumn, and which they have no wish to repeat) with the possible effect of newspaper headlines about a patient dying because a crucial message had been blocked by their deliberate actions...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Apr 2012, 12:34
What is an income cap and why does it operate?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 Apr 2012, 12:48
I bet it is a system to keep people with high income out of neighborhoods driving up prices so that the people that could have lived in those neighborhoods can't afford housing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Apr 2012, 14:35
How do I play ignition? Do I have to be drunk and will it make me cry?

you go type 'ignition r. kelly' into youtube
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 03 Apr 2012, 18:17
I bet it is a system to keep people with high income out of neighborhoods driving up prices so that the people that could have lived in those neighborhoods can't afford housing.

This, basically. There are a lot of neighborhoods in this city that have become popular for whatever reason and so previously low income neighborhoods have become middle to upper middle class neighborhoods because of people moving in and taking over the neighborhood. Which is both a good thing (yay cleaning up historic neighborhoods!) and also a bad thing (hey poor people gtfo). It was just one house and there are several more we're interested in nearby areas, so it's ok.

We looked at 4 last weekend and are looking at 5 more this weekend and have another we might be interested in and two we're really interested in, but can't seem to get a hold of the realtors. So. We've got options. After this weekend if we don't find one we love, we're going to find a realtor to work with so they can do the looking so we don't get so frustrated.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 03 Apr 2012, 20:05
Oh, Ignition is a song? I'm alright with not listening to an R Kelly song.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 04 Apr 2012, 05:14
Two of the supervisors in work said they'll support me if I asked to be trained for part-time supervising because right now there's two full-time and four part-time supervisors.
One part-time is in university in another country and the system has been changed a bunch of ways since she's left.
One part-time is trying to get a permanent teaching gig and right now she's substituting so she is basically employed elsewhere for now.
The other two-part time are in university two hours away so they can only work holidays and weekends.
There's another one who is trained for supervising but she hates doing it and works full-time as a sales-assistant any way so she'll just do the odd thing to help out during her normal shift if she has to do so.

So basically if one gets sick or can't make their shift, we're kind of screwed.

So yeah, think it's the right time to try to do it. The problem is other than two full-timers, I'm the only person trained for doing the dairy/fresh stock stuff on the weekend which is 9am to 2pm. The second supervisor shift starts at 2:30pm and it's the Sunday night shift they need sorted. Debating asking the morning supervisor to stay on an hour and I'll start at 3:30pm and do the morning shift as well in exchange for swapping a weekday shift. Even without one of the weekday ones, I'd still be doing more hours if I do the supervisor gig.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 04 Apr 2012, 12:39
The problem is other than two full-timers, I'm the only person trained for doing the dairy/fresh stock stuff on the weekend which is 9am to 2pm.

Sounds like your first act as a supervisor is to hire and train someone to do this...


That's part of what supers do, right?  See a deficiency and address it?  And tell everyone to make do until then? 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Apr 2012, 14:32
Unfortunately in my experience of management hierarchies, if it would be a sensible solution to a scheduling difficulty then you will under no circumstances be allowed to implement it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 05 Apr 2012, 02:55
I wouldn't be the one training probably. I'm currently technically under retraining because the system has changed again. Even though I know how to do it. I don't understand my shop most of the time.

Blog: I drove for the first time ever today. Stalled the car.
(http://static.tumblr.com/b3wqona/ulmlxmo2x/like_a_boss.gif)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 05 Apr 2012, 06:15
My (older) daughter has a girlfriend, who makes her ridiculously happy. 

She still suffers from PTSD and violent headaches*, but she's holding down a call center job now and is in love, which is a huge improvement over the last couple of years. 

* -- for those who never knew/don't remember, she was attacked by an armed burglar in her dorm room during her first semester in college.  He beat her severely in the head with the gun when she pointed out that he'd never get away with shooting her.  He was never caught, and is the source of a lot of fear and some minor brain damage two and a half years later.  She dropped out of school, and hasn't been able to handle much of anything for a while, but she's slowly getting better. 

Oh, and she used to be into boys, but tended to hook up with nasty losers from day one.  Her girl friend treats her really well, and that makes her mom and me much happier!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 05 Apr 2012, 06:35
 :-) That is wonderful, Carl-E. Love truly lessens our pain.

I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter's attack, there is no reason that anyone should have to endure that. But a job and a girlfriend show incredible steps in recovery. Sometimes the emotional aspects of things like that are the hardest to deal with and it sounds as though your daughter is going about it the right way. Slowly coming around is a lot better than repressing and pretending to be ok. (She's also very lucky to have loving and supportive parents!)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Apr 2012, 04:25
I don't know how and why I can feel homesick and nostalgic for a time and place where I hated myself and everyone around me

but I do

(all of a sudden I miss everyone)

and I'm wishing for a time that's only a memory (and wasn't even real then; we pacify ourselves with gentle lies and whitewash the rest in fantasy)

but I don't know why

I feel like someone's died and I'm never going to see them again, and it's so sad I cry at the name, even though I despised them and everything they ever did

...and for the first time, I can't go home.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 06 Apr 2012, 06:01
Remember, if you never escape your past, you can't grow. 

And if you don't long for your childhood (no matter how fucked up), you're not an adult (yet). 

Which is why I said "no" to the assholes from school who invited me to the 30th reunion.  I hated most of them, for good reason, but enjoy my whitewashed memories of those years, and would rather not have them disturbed by reality. 


Welcome to your (new) world. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Apr 2012, 06:48
I think I'm going to try to get a summer teaching internship with the zoo. Or at least volunteer. Not that it has a whole lot to do with art, but I really want to do something different this summer and have a little fun.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Apr 2012, 15:25
That sounds really awesome! I hope you get it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 06 Apr 2012, 16:05
Good luck! That sounds like so much fun  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Apr 2012, 22:47
Thanks guys! I volunteered with the botanical garden part of the zoo ages ago and had a blast, so I hope I get it, too. It'd be unpaid, but I just want the experience.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 07 Apr 2012, 21:27
I've been talking about butt holes way too much lately.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 08 Apr 2012, 11:04
Easter, and I'm watching our parish die.  One bad priest can really kill a church. 

My wife saw all the littles, ready for the egg hunt, and said,
"You know what I want for easter?  I want my girls little enough to do an egg hunt, and have back the days of no cancer or brain damage". 



So do I.  We hugged, and she told me not to start bawling.  It's been a rough day. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 08 Apr 2012, 11:36
We did an egg hunt yesterday. My wife wants it that way. The kid and I feel sort of meh about it, but go along with it every Easter. It never fails to bring out a smile.

My kid won the national junior high math competition in his freshman year. One year after he  placed third in county level discus throw competition. Then he came down with CFS. That was seven years ago. Actually the prof is not completely sure what it is, but that is the best description they can come up with. We tried a bit of homeschooling while trying to get a diagnosis. He did ace the junior high final exams. But he has never been able to start high school. A guy two years his senior who lost to him in that competition is now a promising beginning graduate student. Just thinking about all the opportunities slipping away... makes me feel numb. And doesn't really help.

Keep the boat afloat, Carl-E.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 08 Apr 2012, 12:42
Bawling isn't all bad. Wish I'd had more opportunities.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 08 Apr 2012, 13:41
Just finished packing most of my clothes. Not gonna be proper in the house till the end of the week.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 08 Apr 2012, 14:03
<_<

>_>


Can I come over?   :-D

To help pack, of course...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 08 Apr 2012, 18:00
I really don't think I could walk around the house in anything less than a t shirt and a pair of sports shorts. I mean, I am far from attractive, so I am sure no one would rape me or anything(especially not in my own house), but I just feel so exposed. Heck, transitioning from pants to shorts is kinda weird for me too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Apr 2012, 18:40
given half the chance I am naked

straight up no clothes

can't wait for summer
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 08 Apr 2012, 21:10
Remind me to never go to your place in the summer
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 08 Apr 2012, 21:10
I just wear the same pants for a week
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 08 Apr 2012, 23:06
I just wear the same pants for a week

I wear the same pants for like a month at a time without washing. I finally bought another pair (the holes started getting too large) and so now I have 3 pairs of pants I can rotate between, and I pretty much just grab whichever of the three I find first.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 08 Apr 2012, 23:20
There's dressing medieval, and then there's smelling medieval...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 09 Apr 2012, 03:20
I bought some nice pants at Goodwill and had another pair, but then I went to sit on something and the crotch ripped open.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 09 Apr 2012, 03:28
One of my friends has dreadlocks and specifically grew them out so that she could walk around the house topless but covered by her own thick hair.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Apr 2012, 05:43
I wear the same jeans for weeks on end, leaving them to air overnight, because I only own three pairs of jeans - one lives at my mum's house so that if I end up staying longer than planned (which happens regularly) I have something to wear, one pair is five inches too long and I don't have a sewing machine or a big enough needle to turn them up (and won't pay £8 to get a 99p-from-ebay pair of jeans altered), and the other pair has holes in the crotch from cycling so much.

Need to get more jeans, I guess. And probably some not-jeans.

At the moment I am splitting my time between reading about Charlotte Mason-style home education, admiring my pretty new Bible which was an Easter present (it's a study Bible specifically for women, so it has biographical portraits of all the women in the Bible, which is pretty interesting since mostly the focus is on men), revising for my exams by writing masses of essay plans, and eating. Lots of eating.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 09 Apr 2012, 06:35
Around the house I wear comfy pants for weeks, pretty much not washing them unless I spill something on them, and depending on the temperature, bra or baggy t-shirt with Boyfriend-Fleece. Plus I'm off college this week so other than driving lesson on Wednesday, I shouldn't need any respectable clothes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 09 Apr 2012, 16:08
since mostly the focus is on men
Really? I am shocked (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Gf8NK1WAOc), shocked to find that patriarchy is going on in here.  :police:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Apr 2012, 06:16
Haha well yeah, that was kind of my point, I hadn't realised there were so many women in the Bible. Some of them were pretty awesome too. Some of them were saps.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 10 Apr 2012, 17:16
There's dressing medieval, and then there's smelling medieval...

Truth be told, in the summer, or if I do something that causes me to sweat I will wash them sooner. But in the fall-spring, it isn't so bad outside, and if I am gonna run around and get sweaty I wear gym shorts, sweatpants or kung fu pants.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 10 Apr 2012, 21:41
Dear blorg,

I am still homeless but I am going to be able to stay with friends. This will do wonders to aid in my job searching, since now I can afford to get my ID. I think it is fucking idiotic that California makes you pay for an ID, since I barely make $24 that I don't have to immediately spend on food and such, but I have no choice but to follow the law in this case (where normally I don't give a shit about the law, they make it impossible to live off the grid).

Saturday, Troubador! played a show in Sunol with 2 bands that we're friends with and one band that we didn't know. The show was a great success and the night went on smashingly, but the band that nobody knew were super antisocial. The band member they had at the merch table was reading a book during everybody's sets, and all the others were in the back playing pool where none of them could even hear the other bands! Wtf? I can understand they were tired from driving up from a show in Los Angeles that day, but that doesn't mean you should just straight up snub every other band. They're not getting booked with us again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Apr 2012, 03:36
Had my second driving lesson and my instructor is brilliant. He's very nice and calm and says I'm picking up everything really quickly. I got into third gear today and didn't fluster for two minutes before changing into it. :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Apr 2012, 08:27
Trust me, once you're used to it, manual transmissions are a lot more fun than automatic! 

Glad you found someone you can work with. 


And "Yay!" for smooth shifting!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 11 Apr 2012, 20:46
Gonna be doing SCA now too. Can't wait to save up some money and build some armor. Gonna make a badass 14c German kit.

In other news, I'm starting to get pretty muscular. Gonna have to keep hitting up the gym, got lazy the past couple weeks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 12 Apr 2012, 11:47
Met up with two old friends who I have barely seen since they headed off for greener pastures university. One is in England doing drama studies so even on her breaks she's very busy but she organized a meet up. We used to be a Three Musketeers type so close group and we still message but one I haven't seen properly in a year and the other studying in England in two years. Was so good to catch up and reminisce and see we still get along so well even though we've all changed in a lot of ways and see what ways we've stayed the same.
Friends are awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 12 Apr 2012, 18:46
I told somebody I was celibate today. I lied, I just thought she was super fucking creepy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 12 Apr 2012, 20:35
I told somebody I was celibate today. I lied, I just thought she was super fucking creepy.
It wasn't a lie; merely an exaggeration (unless you were actually having sex at the time).  :wink:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 13 Apr 2012, 02:53
Well it's been almost a year but that doesn't mean I'm never having sex ever again

Being broke as fuck does mean I'm never having sex ever again though
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 13 Apr 2012, 03:07
"Baby you KNOW I can't afford to hold you after"

Anyway, bloggers, I got some more work experience in London (academic publishers) and didn't even need an interview. Two emails and one phone call, the guy was impressed that I kept asking him about it, boom, a fortnight of CV-strengthener.

I'm also supposed to be revising but I have absolutely no drive to work at the moment...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Apr 2012, 04:06
man, when yr too poor to even have a place to go, fuckin' is straight up out of the question sometimes

source: MY GODDAMN LIFE

(ask patrick, he knows what happened in those fucking woods)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 13 Apr 2012, 05:40
Damn. I've totally resorted to lovin'-in-the-woods when home just isn't there or appropriate. Dem feelings

Anyway, just read a blog of someone who was in India for a little while. I don't know how people can make blogs so awful when stuff like tumblr is full of amazing shit, but still. Choice quote:

"They stocked their food in big piles either on the ground or in sacks, and served it by hand – I am certain that no one in India has been on a food hygiene course!"

What a shame, I hope the Indian germy-wermys didn't totally fucking kill you.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 13 Apr 2012, 11:54
those fucking woods (http://www.somethingpositive.net/sp05012002.shtml)


I guess I could have resisted...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 13 Apr 2012, 18:45
Just got back from a friend's birthday party where I explained to a guy what internet memes, urban myths, message boards, and web browsers are. Also how natural selection works. And this to someone who had at least a working knowledge of what the internet is and does. That was kind of weird. I guess I take knowing what goes on in the internet for granted really often.

It's hard to explain the concept of 'internet meme' to someone who has literally no clue about what it is. I say that it's "something that's popular and spreads through the internet very quickly". "So Game of Thrones is an internet meme?" Yeah, it fits the description, but it's not it!

Eventually I went with "A small piece of digital medium (image or saying) that, on account of its popularity, becomes used in variations on the context that have otherwise no relation to the original material." Man! Communicating with people is hard!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 13 Apr 2012, 18:54
I can totally relate to not being able to explain what memes are to someone. I'm pretty sure the only way to do it is to show someone some examples.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 14 Apr 2012, 07:47
I've been explaining memes a lot more since someone has started a meme page based around my county. They're taking memes and using them correctly, most of the time at least, and just apply them locally. Some people hate it and some people love it. I'm in the love it category. Find it kind of surreal actually because memes have gone from this internet thing which bugger all people knew or at least never talked about in Tangible Life to almost a household thing in my area really quickly.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Apr 2012, 11:04
Troubador got our single picked up by an internet radio syndicate (http://official.fm/tracks/362901) in Wales last weekend, and they said probably the nicest thing I've ever heard anybody say. "Sounds like it was bathed in sunlight."  8-) I'm tickled pink right now, I can't sit stilllllll
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 14 Apr 2012, 11:10
Congratulations, Patrick and Troubador!  It is about time that somebody recognised your music. 
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Post by: Skewbrow on 14 Apr 2012, 11:45
Seconded. Here's to hoping things will go your way for a while. I listened to Brainwash a couple of times. I'm totally unfamiliar with the genre, but it would  be nice to hear more.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Apr 2012, 14:44
Thanks so much, you guys! I will let y'all know when the album is ready! We'll be posting it online for free download, and physical copies (in the form of CDs and vinyl LPs) will be up for sale as well once all that goes down. I couldn't be more stoked about this year, there's so much I'm looking forward to!

I'm totally unfamiliar with the genre

If it makes you feel any better, we don't even know what the genre would be!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 14 Apr 2012, 15:26
Patrick, you should set up your bandcamp account so that we can pay you if we want.  I'm willing to pay for your album.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 14 Apr 2012, 17:21
The internet equivalent of the open guitar case. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 14 Apr 2012, 22:42
1.50 Euros per day. 


Good luck with that...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 14 Apr 2012, 22:49
Sounds like somebody's going to be eating a whole mess of white rice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 15 Apr 2012, 02:26
And beans, lots of beans. (http://jephjacques.com/post/2981425074/fart-chan-froze-the-cafeteria-lady-in-her-steely)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 15 Apr 2012, 08:43
I'm ready for Summer! :-) :-) I'm done with the annual task of taking the wheels with studded tires off my car, and putting another set of wheels on. In F1 they do this in about five seconds. I needed two hours.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 15 Apr 2012, 09:40
In F1 they have a 5 man team doing it, wth pneumatic power tools.  You had... a jack and a lug wrench, if you're lucky. 

 :lol:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 15 Apr 2012, 11:10
Patrick, you should set up your bandcamp account so that we can pay you if we want.  I'm willing to pay for your album.

We'll do this for the album, sure! But if it doesn't cost us anything to publish it, we don't see any reason to charge for it, so it'll be 'name your own' with no minimum. In the meanwhile, we don't have bank accounts to link to the bandcamp, so it's all free for now! We can also see about getting a PO box so we can do mail-in ordering for physical copies.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 15 Apr 2012, 11:43
There's always the neat trick of getting free refills at the cafetaria by using a friend's place or just grabbing a clean one and smearing some ketchup over it, thank god.

Or coupons! I get a whole bunch of free shit by using coupons.



(edited to add the quote because apparently when I'm sleep deprived and posting I can't figure out how many pages there are in a thread.....and this made no sense on its own.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 16 Apr 2012, 02:48
 :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Apr 2012, 11:34
Ugh. My awful neighbour has clearly moved back in, there is yelling and shouting. Since it's still the vacation I'll not make a fuss but if this shit is still going on next week I will be reporting her all over the shop, it is EXAM TERM shut up shut up shutupshutupshutup.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 16 Apr 2012, 11:47
Exam... term? You have a whole term dedicated to exams?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: smack that isaiah on 16 Apr 2012, 14:19
Holy shit, I just got a job offer.  I have 3 days to make a decision.  Oh my god, real world.  AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 16 Apr 2012, 14:49
We (well, just the boy) put an offer in on a house we really liked and it was rejected within a matter of hours. Like, the owners lowered their price $500, which does not even freaking count as a counter offer. So sadly we couldn't go with our first choice (which was awesome, had lots of character and potential, but needs a LOT of updating), but we're moving on to our second choice, so hopefully we hear something back later tonight or tomorrow. (This house lacks the character of the other one, but it needs no updates at all, which is pretty nice.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 16 Apr 2012, 17:15
Wait, Linds, you are buying a house?

Way to be a grown-up!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 17 Apr 2012, 00:56
So I have this tendency to be super shy around girls, and really chatty and outgoing with dudes. For some reason, this makes me appear nonthreatening to women, and as a result, I have a lot of female friends. Lately I've been noticing them exhibiting some unusual behaviors.

This Saturday, a girl I kinda dig came into town from Oakland, where she lives. We had basically two hours of one-on-one at the bar, which is incredibly rare, as my attention span is usually 10min or less (and due to my shyness, with girls I'm usually out of there in less than 3). Then my friend, let's call her Tara, came up and started basically having a conversation entirely to herself, but directed at everybody, primarily me. I was basically stuck there, because I had nothing to contribute, and the girl I was with had nothing to say either.

This girl wasn't even the only one who seemed hell-bent on fucking up my conversation with the lady. Then another girl I know appeared, and she wouldn't stop addressing every single thing she said exclusively to me. And when I tried to bring The Girl I Dig into the conversation, she would cut me off halfway through my goddamn sentence and finish it incorrectly, where I'd have to say "Well actually I was gonna say ______." And then I'm the one who felt like a dick, because I had nothing to say to the two convo-wreckers, and so it felt like it was my fault the conversation disintegrated into two girls talking about how much weight they've lost.

Meanwhile, The Girl I Dig and I are both 140lbs or less, super fit, blah blah. It was a good time and it turned into an "I'm a fat person but look at me I'm slightly less fat than before, congratulate me" and IOwhefuiosejrthdIOWHJEIFrgiosjeriogsioe

tl;dr next time I'm just gonna ask her if we can go for a walk. Alone. No dumb drunk girls to ruin the conversation we're having, no too-loud music, nothing but us and the sidewalk and a good personal connection. God damn itttt
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Apr 2012, 01:27
Exam... term? You have a whole term dedicated to exams?

Well our terms are only 8 weeks long anyway, so that isn't really that weird. I'm not sure when my exams start but it won't be in the first three weeks of term, I don't think. But obviously everyone is getting a bit tense and revising. The library gets very full and people get very edgy! It's not a lot of fun actually. But the only way to retain any sanity is to get enough sleep and that means people being quiet.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 17 Apr 2012, 19:17
Wait, Linds, you are buying a house?

Way to be a grown-up!

The boy is buying a house that will soon enough be our house, so I guess yes? But it's exciting! And the people who own house #2 accepted M's offer today, woot!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Apr 2012, 03:15
I got an email saying that my flights back from the US this September had been changed somehow, and to call the airline to fix it. Well, the airline is in the USA. It costs me £1 a minute to call US numbers from my phone.

Except! They provided a toll-free number. Not any use from my mobile, because it still charges me about 40p a minute, but I suddenly discovered that I can call freephone numbers using Skype without having to buy any Skype credits. Awesome! I was on the line for 12 minutes, several of them on hold listening to some rather nice classical music.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 18 Apr 2012, 04:35
Slept in the new house for the first time last night. Still got to get a lot set up. Can still get on internet in college but I'm gonna try to be working hard so don't be surprised if you don't hear much from me over the next couple weeks.

Also I booked my next tattoo. Eeee!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Apr 2012, 09:54
Seems I went from having a modest ($200) refund last year to owing the IRS $2500 this year. 


And trhat's after about a 30% cut in income from last year. 



WTF?


Oh, and tonight I get to see my daughter get honored by a womens group as an "up and comer" for the charity she started.  Pity it was started  to take care of her own medical expenses...  fancy dinner.  I have to wear a suit.  I'll try and get a pic...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Apr 2012, 04:21
One of my friends is an alcoholic who refuses to admit he has a problem. It is intensely frustrating and honestly pretty damn scary. It is pretty agonizing knowing that in this kind of situation I can't help him, because he refuses to help himself or be helped by his friends. He's instead choosing to antagonize every last one of us that brings up the subject of his dependency on booze.

Dude's Facebook status even said "I must have had a great time last night, because I can't remember any of it." I know the dude, and I know he's not even remotely kidding. Dude has straight lost touch with the real world.
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Post by: Jace on 21 Apr 2012, 00:36
Made these today:
(http://a2.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/527336_10150884170772317_590257316_12048931_1232731466_n.jpg)

Also this:
(http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/534926_10150884170627317_590257316_12048929_432937211_n.jpg)

Look at that sexy curve:
(http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/535727_10150884170722317_590257316_12048930_1730848760_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 22 Apr 2012, 00:50
Went to the circus tonight. 

Elephants are awesome.  My phone takes shit pictures, though. 

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8008/7101327413_4b7594699a.jpg)

(http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7061/7101327581_2a931553f3.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 22 Apr 2012, 07:44
:(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 22 Apr 2012, 08:40
Was that at the Patriot Center? (I thought you said something about being in NoVa at some point & I know they are in town?)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 22 Apr 2012, 15:13
Naah, the local shriners do a circus annually using a small travelling family owned circus show (Royal Hanneford).  A one-ring job, tigers, elephants, performing dogs, some acrobats, jugglers, and most of the roustabouts are actually the other performers waiting their turns. 

May, I'm sorry if that upset you, but they do treat their animals really well.  Even the tiger trainer talks them through the act, no whips, spikes or other cruel implements. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 22 Apr 2012, 17:27
I like the Shriners. My great uncle was one and I would like to be one, but I don't think the freemasons would let me join.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Apr 2012, 01:43
I'm just very torn about animal circuses. I love animals, and I love seeing them, and I'd never have seen an elephant or a giraffe (two animals I adore) if it weren't for zoos and circuses, but I still can't quite feel that doing tricks for crowds is a very dignified life for a wild animal. I guess the more accurate emoticon would have been :/
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Apr 2012, 04:02
So Idk if I mentioned it to anybody, but my Berkeley-based band Injun Magic has finally renamed. We're called Sun Kin now. Also, I am thinking of quitting. I've long since gotten over the music, my bandmate is impossible to work with (dude doesn't give a fuck what I have to say about even the smallest thing, and doesn't consider or even acknowledge my suggestions), and it's nowhere near as fun as Troubador in literally every aspect. Hell, if it wasn't for Troubador band practice today, I'd be on a 4 day stretch of being disappointed. Hell, I'm a stoner and even 4/20 was shitty.

I'm starting to think that Sun Kin is just a huge waste of my time, and it's starting to sap my self-esteem. When that happens, it's quitting time, and I think I'm just about fed up. Sucks, because when we're not working and we're just hanging out, I really enjoy my time with the guy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 23 Apr 2012, 04:43
I'm sitting in an EEG test lab and I won't have a test subject ready for another two hours. So I hooked up my laptop to the humongous 51" screen with a VGA cable that was lying around.

I wonder what I'll do with it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Apr 2012, 04:48
Porn.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 23 Apr 2012, 08:55
Puppywhirl
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 23 Apr 2012, 09:09
Take meatspin to the next level?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Apr 2012, 10:26
r/spacedicks. Do it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 23 Apr 2012, 10:48
Of all those things I think porn is the only one that I can manage a halfway credible scientific justification for.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 23 Apr 2012, 12:27
Right, well this doesn't really go in the moving thread and I don't want to just dump in the stress thread, so I guess this is going here where people will see it.

Situation:
I'm currently living in a house with another guy. He is one of these guys who always says he has no money, but had a really important job and must've been paid well. I'm guessing he got a severance package or something because he left and still seems to be able to afford all of life's nice things.

This includes constantly taking baths and using the tumble dryer.

Now, I'm pretty much a broke student. To get time off work for revision/final exams I've had to take it unpaid and effectively have no money coming in for next month, so I'm trying to cut corners where I can.

I fee like my housemate is taking advantage of the fact that I'm here and is doing all this energy-consuming stuff so that he won't have to pay quite as much on the next bill - it will be subsidised by me. I've talked to him before about the tumble dryer, how I have never used it once and will not pay for it, and his reply was "oh well I couldn't possibly itemise the bill", yet was willing to charge another housemate £15 because she has a fridge constantly on in her bedroom when she's not here.

Essentially I'm just sick of this guy doing all this energy consuming stuff when I'm here. To give you an idea - my first bill in the house (last September) was £13 for a month, last bill was £45. For my 'share'. What this guy's problem is with just taking a quick shower or hanging clothes on a clothes-horse is totally beyond me.

He's a nice guy - but has a dark side. I don't want to fall out over stupid petty crap like bills, but on the other hand I feel like he shows a complete lack of respect towards me with this whole "can't itemise the bill" stuff. What doesn't help is that last time I tried to bring it up, another housemate piped in saying "dude if we start getting into pedantics about seperate use of utilities it just gets so complicated" - it doesn't get complicated, I'm the only one out of every other person in the house who doesn't use the tumble dryer, end of. I looked online, its simple to work something out - energy input x rate per KWh (kilowatt per hour). It doesn't help that he does all the bills - I don't know what our rate is so its even harder to keep asking him these questions.

Essentially, am I in the right to pick him up on stuff like this, or should I just pay and hold the social niceties intact?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Apr 2012, 14:21
Just pay.  If you don't, he will make the remaining time you live with him a living hell, simply because he's the one doing all the bills. 


Then look for a new place/roomates for next term. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Apr 2012, 15:49
On the flipside, if your bill has gone up from £13 to £45 that is ridiculous, and I think you do need to talk to him about that - Carl, for reference as to how much money that is, I spend about £10-20 a week on food.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 24 Apr 2012, 01:00
Its weird how much you learn of somebody just by living with them. We're friends, but I always get that impression that he's not telling me something that I should know. I don't know, its all a bit weird and I'm often the kind of person that gets trampled due to being nice to people and then they take advantage of it. Also I hate confrontation and realise I get really anal and petty about certain things, usually when I live with people for a lengthy amount of time.

On the other hand, I did order a bicycle which I'm excited about. The fact I'm revising all the time has me rooted to my desk and chair and I'm really very aware of how much time I'm spending sitting down - I'll be cycling every day (I hope) when it finally arrives.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 24 Apr 2012, 03:10
Cycle every time you run an errand! It's what I do. I feel amazing just about every single day, with minimal exceptions.
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Post by: Akima on 24 Apr 2012, 07:52
Cycle every time you run an errand! It's what I do. I feel amazing just about every single day, with minimal exceptions.
Yes! Do this! I commute to and from work by bicycle and do most of my shopping, errands etc. on it too. My commute is only 14km round-trip these days, but it's over steep hilly terrain so I get two stiff little cardio workouts every workday and feel great.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 24 Apr 2012, 10:20
Just got my upper-right wisdom tooth out. Fun.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 Apr 2012, 10:39
So it looks like one of my engineer's company cards might have been stolen, because he now has a $325 charge on it from a Tesco hardware store near Glasgow...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 24 Apr 2012, 11:03
So I have dermographia, which means if I scratch or slap my skin I get hives where the pressure was.  Those hives then itch and it is a cruel cycle.  I usually don't notice I am scratching until an area is covered in hives, but luckily they don't last long, so if I just sit on my hands for 10 min I will be fine again.  Also, hives on my hands are painful, not itchy and I get them from, clapping, opening jars, tieing my shoes, and other every day things that should not cause pain.  This problem developed over the last few years and after a year of me covering my ears and singing lalalalalalala, Stephen has convinced me that it may be related to my food allergy. 

I am allergic to sulphites, which means I can't eat wine, dried fruit, corn starch or corn syrup.  My food allergy symptoms are heartburn, headaches and hives.  When I first developed the allergy (7 is years ago now) I avoided everything, but I found as time went on that I could tolerate more and more so I now eat corn syrup freely, and will eat small amounts of corn starch, for instance in shredded cheese.  My full allergy symptoms have not come back from these, but I did develop this dermographia.  Also the last month I have heart burn again. 

So, I am going clean.  I will not be eating anything that is 'bad' for me for at least two weeks, probably for a month.  Since I live in the US the "no corn syrup" thing is brutal.  Corn syrup is in everything.  Beyond the obvious candy and soda it is in most commercial breads and sauces.  Pretty much we will be making everything from scratch.  Now that school is out, I have time to do this, but it still means no short cuts, and no going out to eat.  This is super frustrating, but it is what is best.  I don't know if I am hoping it works, and the damned itching stops, or if I am hoping it doesn't so that I can expand my diet again. 

Tl;DR To get rid of itching and hand pain I am only eating simple homemade foods. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 24 Apr 2012, 12:41
I had that kind of hives years ago in a new job with a lot of stress; scratching a minor itch left a red itching line where I'd scratched. The itching would develop symmetrically. An itch on one arm would add an itch on the other.  A physician mentioned allergies but gave me Benadryl, and the itching pretty much went away. Although I thought it was stress-related, I now think I should have looked for specific allergies.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 24 Apr 2012, 13:55
Dear fellow blogozoids,

I went out to dinner with a group of friends saturday, and I am going to dinner with another group of friends tomorrow. I just wish it was something besides pizza,, but oh well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 24 Apr 2012, 16:18
Yeah, but it's with friends. That's worth a lot of pizza, in my case a lot of gasoline. Too many of my friends are too far away. I'm driving 3 hours or more over to Chicago Thursday to have dinner with Peace Corps friends from the late 1960s, driving back to MI the following day. In the fall, I sing with a group of friends in Detroit 2 hours away.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 24 Apr 2012, 17:32
I probably spend more time in the car for my job than I do in the actual stores! I think I figured it out to average between 700-1000 miles in a 5-day week, sometimes in a 4-day span if I'm really hauling to give myself a 3-day weekend.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 24 Apr 2012, 23:51
So the day after we went to the local shriner's circus, my wife gets a phoe call - Make-A-Wish has extra tickets for Cirque du Soleil at the Penn State campus, the "Michael Jackson - Immortal" tour.  (I know, first reaction was "Immortal, or Undead?")

5 tickets.  On the floor, second row.  We all went.  I caught a peek at the pricing list, they were $180 tickets...

The show was amazing.  I wish I could describe half of it.  Arealists, acrobats, the dancers and musicians were simply amazing, lights, fireworks, it was beyond words.  There was even a dancer/acrobat who only has one leg*, and works on arm crutches when he's not balancing on his hands.  Beautuful, even inspiring across the board. 

* this guy.  Couldn't take pics, but an internet search for one-legged acrobat in Cirque du Soleil finds him pretty quick!

(http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7024/6785083113_c4fbb3cde9_o.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 25 Apr 2012, 05:56
Makes me want to send Make a Wish some money. They seem to do good work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 Apr 2012, 08:13
AAAAAAAARRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH make it all go AWAY and come back ONE AT A TIME ARGH
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 26 Apr 2012, 02:26
Got internet in the new house. It's home now.  :-D

My birthday is on Monday. Having a party tomorrow night where everyone's gonna be dressed as Batman characters. We were meant to go out but of course in the last couple days I've got people saying, "Are you serious about going out? It's gonna be embarrassing to be out in costumes." Well, yeah, that's the half the fun. For fuck sake, it's me who wants to go out dressed up. You know me? The person who has been out of therapy for social anxiety issues just over a year.
Thanks to parents though who are nice to let me use their house since we're still settling into the new one. Plus don't wanna piss off the neighbour.

Photos to follow in the relevant thread soon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Apr 2012, 07:51
Are you taking bets on how many people are going to turn up dressed as each character? I'd say at least 50% Batman.

Ooof I'm so tired. Getting up at 5.30 was a good idea apart from the fact that I won't get to bed before 11 tonight. I was meant to do three hours of reading this afternoon but I ended up vacuuming my room and tidying my bureau instead. Upside: the floor is no longer disguisting, which is important since I have a friend sleeping on it tomorrow and my mum and grandparents are visiting next week, and the bureau is finally a workspace again instead of a disaster-zone catch-all storage space. Downside: I have only done about three hours of work today, and that means I'll have to do more after choir, plus proof-reading another essay for my tutee's mum. Argh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 27 Apr 2012, 03:48
I was actually trying to get everyone to dress up as Batman but people weren't up for that idea. There's about ten of us and we've all agreed on our characters.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Apr 2012, 05:25
Have half of you smash up your faces and the other half look normal and you could be a collective Harvey Dent
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Post by: schimmy on 27 Apr 2012, 10:00
Well it's official, my house is officially breaking! Today, the kitchen flooded, and the water in it leaked into the basement, onto the fuse box, which started sparking. We turned off the water and unplugged everything electrical. We would have turned of the electricity, but none of us where going to go near a sparking fuse box in a flooded basement. Anyway, our letting agency sent over a contractor, who proceeded to not find a leak anywhere, and pointed out that the water was tripping out the electricity downstairs. Since the leak didn't seem to reoccur when he turned the water back on, he told us to leave it on, and just wait until the electricity downstairs starts working again.

Oh, have I mentioned on here before that we have no gas in the house? Last Friday, we noticed there was a gas leak in the basement. We shut off the gas and called the gasman. He told us what was wrong (some corroded pipes) but said he didn't have the equipment to fix it, and that we'd have to get our landlords to call a contractor. Having asked them several times over what has now been a week, they have yet to do anything. If we don't hear anything by tomorrow, we're just going to call the contractors ourselves, and send an invoice to the landlords.

Jesus H., I hate this house.

*presumably because it's below the bathroom, but we called a handyman and he couldn't find a leak anywhere.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 27 Apr 2012, 10:22
Hi peoples!

I haven't been here in forever. It's sad 'cause I used to come here every day, and I've missed out on what I'm sure was fun times. Ah well, I blog now.

I was in a mental hospital recently, for about 10 days. I went all crazy-like and almost killed myself. I was on suicide watch for half that time, so I couldn't even poop by myself. I almost miss that place, actually. Is that weird?
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Post by: celticgeek on 27 Apr 2012, 10:34
Welcome back!
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Post by: pwhodges on 27 Apr 2012, 12:00
I hope you're feeling better about things.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Apr 2012, 12:10
Is that weird?

Decidedly not.  I was at the hospital yesterday where, two years ago, my daughter lay fighting for her life.  I suddenly realized that I missed being there.  It had become such an integral part of my life for a while.  Anything that fits that definition can be missed, even if it was horrible. 

And welcome back, in every way. 

@Welu, happy birthday (http://www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=batman+function) (a little early)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 27 Apr 2012, 16:27
I understand that. I miss the trips to University Hospital in Ann Arbor. After two years of chemo and radiation, my wife was gone four days after she left for the last time.
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Post by: Lines on 27 Apr 2012, 17:54
Neko, glad you're back! I hope all is well now?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 27 Apr 2012, 18:05
Welcome back, Neko! Hope you're feeling better.....brains can be a big pain in the ass sometimes.


And y'know what? Every once in a while I think it might be nice to be put in a mental hospital. Especially on the really rough days when my neurons are particularly angry (or just lazy, I can't tell).... So no, that is definitely not weird at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 27 Apr 2012, 21:32
They wouldn't let you poop by yourself? Last time I was on suicide watch I had a toilet in my room, but some of the guards wouldn't let me have toilet paper. Hands.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 28 Apr 2012, 02:22
Hey I'm gonna show off this shield I am working on for SCA.

We begin with 2 layers 1/4" of birch plywood glued together and left to dry stretched around a tree. The shield has a nice curve to it. (http://a3.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/534926_10150884170627317_590257316_12048929_432937211_n.jpg)
We then gorilla glued leather onto the edges (also tacked it with carpet nails) and covered it with canvas. Then put the basket and arm strap on it. (that is what the bolts on the front are)
(http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/528089_10150899816677317_590257316_12102797_817585860_n.jpg)
Then I started painting it, decided to go with azure and vert quarterly.
(http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/319821_10150902367597317_590257316_12108624_77045775_n.jpg)
And finally I sketched out and copied the charge in argent.
(http://a8.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc7/485751_10150902647937317_590257316_12108936_280713673_n.jpg)

I just have to touch up the green and then a couple spots of the white and throw a shit ton of sealant on it and it is good to fight with.
For it being my 3rd week fighting, I want to impress the shit out of the veterans and show that I am serious. I also already have leg, arm, knee, and elbow armor that is made with metal, not plastic.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 28 Apr 2012, 04:53
I think the fact that you laminated your shield round a tree gives it extra awesome. It wouldn't be nearly as cool if you'd done it over an oil-drum or something.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 28 Apr 2012, 04:57
That's really well done!

I'm wondering about the grip though - from where the bolts are, I presume that you are holding your left arm at a very sharp angle. Which means that if you want to protect your left foot, you'll have to bend your left arm downwards, exposing your right shoulder. Which means that you'll have to use your sword or axe to protect your right side, which makes counterattacking hard. I'm used to a horizontal grip, where you hold your left  arm at at right angle. Is that grip standard where you fight?
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Post by: nekowafer on 28 Apr 2012, 06:37
Thanks guys :) Things are much better, now. My medicine had stopped working and everything seemed hopeless. Plus my boyfriend was being a jerk. But he's gotten better too.

@Mister D Nomms: I had a bathroom in my room, but there had to be a guard right outside the open door. Also, ew.

I met other crazy people there, and feel slightly less crazy for it. I even hang out with one of those crazies now, and she's one of my best friends.
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Post by: valley_parade on 28 Apr 2012, 06:55
They wouldn't let you poop by yourself? Last time I was on suicide watch I had a toilet in my room, but some of the guards wouldn't let me have toilet paper. Hands.

B.....bidet?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 28 Apr 2012, 09:48
Hi Neko. Welcome back and hope things keep getting better for you.

~~

Blogging:

Party last night was great fun. Got a small but nice haul, more than I expected. Managed to get people to go into town in costume. :) Some photos in the Photos thread. (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27421.msg1084802.html#msg1084802)
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Post by: schimmy on 28 Apr 2012, 11:05
If you asked me when I was a kid, what I wanted to be when I grew up, I would have told you I wanted to be a scientist. If you asked a couple years after that, I would have said video game designer.

When I was a teenager, it became apparent that I wasn't good enough at either of those things for me to be able to make a living out of it. As a result, I became apathetic about my future job prospects and resigned myself to becoming a teacher.

The last few days, though, has taught me some important life lessons; I have thrown off the chains of apathy discovered what I want to be when I grow up. Capable of pissing or farting without following through.

If the future holds at least this for me, I sincerely believe I will be able to take whatever else life throws at me. I know I will be happy no matter what.

tl;dr food poisoning.
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Post by: Lines on 28 Apr 2012, 14:04
Jace your shield is super cool!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 28 Apr 2012, 14:49
Jace, nice work!  @snalin, IIRC, the sheild is held with the arm nearly vertical, the lower point covering the forward (left) leg.  I recall a move where you drop the hand, rotating the sield, to cover the knee, but I think that was for viking style rounds.  The right arm's held back until attacking, so the shoulder's usually out of reach, and you need to punch upward to cover the head, so the vertical arm's an advantage. 

I'll shut up, though.  It's been 25 years since I did SCA combat, and I was a lefty. 
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Post by: Jace on 28 Apr 2012, 15:39
That's really well done!

I'm wondering about the grip though - from where the bolts are, I presume that you are holding your left arm at a very sharp angle. Which means that if you want to protect your left foot, you'll have to bend your left arm downwards, exposing your right shoulder. Which means that you'll have to use your sword or axe to protect your right side, which makes counterattacking hard. I'm used to a horizontal grip, where you hold your left  arm at at right angle. Is that grip standard where you fight?

Its held at about a 45 degree angle to the corner of the shield. This way, I can hold my arm at a 90 degree angle to my body (straight up and down), but the top leaning slightly inward toward me and it covers my shoulder, head (mostly, small movements to protect it) and legs (also with small movement). Anywhere below the top of the knee is not a legal target zone, so there's no worrying about protecting my foot. And I have been working on using the A-frame stance, which would use my sword to protect most of my right side, but it is close to/behind my head. The shield is 24" across the arc, so a slight hip shift will block my right side as well as my left.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Apr 2012, 15:43
I met other crazy people there, and feel slightly less crazy for it. I even hang out with one of those crazies now, and she's one of my best friends.

have you ever read Girl, Interrupted? because this sentence reminded me of it so hard

If you asked me when I was a kid, what I wanted to be when I grew up, I would have told you I wanted to be a scientist. If you asked a couple years after that, I would have said video game designer.

Depending on when you asked me, it would have been 'tap dancer,' 'geologist,' or 'architect'. I still lean towards that last one a lot of times.

Sorry that your bodies in full evacuation mode. :( Shit sucks, dude.

Blog thread:

I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now, and she randomly announced her engagement, only to ask me to be her bridesmaid.
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Post by: schimmy on 29 Apr 2012, 04:11
Success! My bowels seem to be behaving today! This might only be because I didn't really eat yesterday, though.

How do you feel about that Zingo? Were you / are you non-monogamous? Does it change your relationship much? Are you going to be the bitchingest bridesmaid ever?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Apr 2012, 08:06
Obviously the answer to the last question is yes.

My stomach is rejecting most of what I eat at the moment, I think it's a stress response to the looming exams but dude stomach they're a month away, what the heck? I think it would be more stressful if I became malnutritioned in the next four weeks!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Apr 2012, 11:12
How do you feel about that Zingo? Were you / are you non-monogamous? Does it change your relationship much? Are you going to be the bitchingest bridesmaid ever?

I've never been monogamous; and it really oughtn't change the relationship, but it certainly did take me by surprise, since she mostly talks about how much she dislikes her boyfriend - only to have proposed to him!

And of course I'm going to be the bitchingest bridesmaid ever. I mean, seriously. You have to ask?
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Post by: LTK on 29 Apr 2012, 13:00
If you wouldn't mind to explain, it seems to me that getting married is a pretty unambiguous statement in favour of monogamy. How does that not change the relationship? Unless non-monogamous people also get married, is that the case?
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Post by: schimmy on 29 Apr 2012, 13:31
Obviously I don't know the specifics of this particular relationships, but it's often the case that when people are non-monogamous, they have varying degrees of commitment with their partners. For example, you might marry someone because you intend to be life partners with them, but that doesn't mean that you don't intend to have other partners. After all, it's not exactly unusual for people who claim to be in a monogamous marriage to have partners on the side yet still be committed to their spouse.

Personally, though I do find non-monogamous people getting married a little strange. I tend to take it for a given that the same reasons you might think monogamy is bad are the ones that make marriage seem weird. But I guess every marriage is different, so a non-monogamous marriage doesn't need to bear any similarities to a monogamous one.

-

Oh, on the topic of poly relationships, my ex and I had a big talk about emotions, and we decided that we're going to give being together another go. We've had lots of talks about what went wrong in our relationship, talks that we should have had when we were together, and we think we can fix them. So yay for that!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Apr 2012, 13:34
Paging Stephen and/or Kat to this thread, Stephen and Kat to this thread!
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Post by: snalin on 29 Apr 2012, 14:09
Its held at about a 45 degree angle to the corner of the shield. This way, I can hold my arm at a 90 degree angle to my body (straight up and down), but the top leaning slightly inward toward me and it covers my shoulder, head (mostly, small movements to protect it) and legs (also with small movement). Anywhere below the top of the knee is not a legal target zone, so there's no worrying about protecting my foot.

You guys don't do the cheap shot where you lay the flat of the blade against the opponents shin, and then slide it up into their gut? My worries about the foot is all about preventing it from being an entryway to my thighs and midsection for glaives or daneaxes and those kinds of things.

I can see the difference, though - we usually don't fight with headshots allowed, so protecting the face and head isn't a worry. That makes the considerations for what you have to defend completely different. Whenever we do pop on masks, it's very hard to protect out heads, and I can really see having that grip helping with that.
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Apr 2012, 15:20
No cheap shots in the SCA! 

Well, not in combat, at least...

I think the ban against below-the-knee strikes came from two places; first, the weapons are rattan, and though light weight, it's easy to get the momentum to knock a leg out from under an opponent.  The damage from this can be serious, from twisted legs and a hard fall. 

In addition,  it was considered bad form and unchivalrous, and SCA is all about the chivalry.  It's definitely more chivalrous to take out your opponent with a solid blow to the head or body than by hitting them when they're down, especially if you knocked them down to begin with! 

And there are very strict armor/weapon requirements for safety.  "SCA combat's safer than high school football" was a tag line for years...
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Post by: ackblom12 on 29 Apr 2012, 16:11
If you wouldn't mind to explain, it seems to me that getting married is a pretty unambiguous statement in favour of monogamy. How does that not change the relationship? Unless non-monogamous people also get married, is that the case?

To be fair, Kat and I were monogamous for a large chunk of our relationship and didn't end up going poly up until we were already married, but here's some ramblings from myself. Also keep in mind this is all US perspective. I imagine a lot of it would be shared outside the US, but not all of it clearly. I also want to clarify that the term Polyamory has kind of changed to be a much more vague term than it used to be, kind of turning into a umbrella term (at least online and especially on FetLife and Reddit) for all forms of consensual non-monogamy while still being used for it's more specific relationship type when necesarry. It can be confusing when reading about the lifestyle, but it's a lot less of a mouth full than non-monogamous.

The easiest way to describe why marriage is still done in the non-monogamous world is pretty much what Snalin Schimmy said about it, but I am always up for rambling and over explaining. Part of it is just that the concept of marriage has been making another large change over the last 20 years or so. Marriage is quickly becoming, for many, nothing but a secular social/government contract rather than the religious ceremony that it has previously been seen as. A public government contract, declaration and celebration between two people that get to define what it is to them and are allowed to rewrite the vows of said contract when they choose to do so. This happens to be the mindset that we went into marriage with.

Also you get a shit load of legal, financial and social benefits from it. Children are a bit more legally complicated when you're not married, adoption is likely not possible and certain attorney privileges and lots of other things. While there are certainly a lot of poly folk who have philisophical problems with monogamy and/or marriage, there is actually a good sized movement in the poly community wanting Polygamy (multiple spouses with Polyandry being multiple husbands and Polygny being multiple wives) to be made legal. I can't really say I'd be opposed to it, but the nightmare of restructuring our marriage systems, culturally and legally, makes me say that's unlikely.

There are also a lot of different types of relationship within the non-monogamy realm. Open relationships with Don't Ask, Don't Tell policies (I have issues with the concept behind this), One Penis Policy (also is a bit of a shit deal to me), Swinging (which actually seems to be dominated by married couples), Poly-fidelity circles (sex only within the group of 3+ people), Poly-Mono couples (one person being monogamous while the other is not, consensually) and many other variations. Some of the relationships will be more serious and some will be nothing but one night stands. It just all depends on the structure that the people involved have agreed to. While it's kind of an unwritten rule in most poly circles to not shame anyone for a "bad" form of poly relationship, as long as it's not actually abusive, as you can clearly tell from my list and how some of them in the chart I'm linking are worded, there are still strong opinions about certain forms of it.

http://i.imgur.com/WBN0O.gif

tl;dr: Every poly relationship is different and is structured according to whatever the people involved are comfortable with.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 29 Apr 2012, 17:17
No cheap shots in the SCA!
Jace's shield gave me an atavistic desire to gallop past on horseback showering him with arrows. I bet that's against the rules too.
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Post by: Papersatan on 29 Apr 2012, 19:19
So Stephen gave a nice overview of poly.  So I'm gonna be more personal.

I was resistant when Stephen first brought up the idea of being non-monogamous.  Like he said we had been monogamous for a long time (almost 9 years) and successively so.  It felt like taking a big gamble with our relationship to me, and I was insecure about a lot of things, but I wasn't all out against it.  We talked honestly and openly about it from every angle we could think of and I think those conversations made our relationship stronger.  The time from our first discussion to the first time either of us even kissed another person was at least 6 months, and it was over a year before my first outside relationship.

We are married because we love each other and have made a commitment to live as one person.  That is, my fate is tied to his.  We make our life decisions as a couple.  When I want to take a job, I talk about it with Stephen and we decide what is best for us.  We have promised that when things get tough we will stick it out and work on it even when it is difficult or painful, because we believe that the reward in the end will be worth it and because we want to spend our lives together.

So that is what marriage means for Stephen and I, but why bother complicating it with other people?  The biggest benefit for me is that different partners offer different things. One very basic thing being that I am bi, and so being poly means I can sleep with women but  limiting our outside encounters to me seeing women (what Steve called the One Penis Policy) was ever an option for us because we both have problems with what that implies about gender roles. Other differences are varied personalities and sexual preferences. 

Right now I have two main partners outside the marriage and they are both quite different from Stephen and from each other.  One likes to be dominated sexually, which is not a thing Stephen is into, so it is nice to have a partner to explore that with.  One is much more extroverted and energetic it is fun to have someone to get worked up with.  Both offer me unique conversations, view points on life or my problems.  They complement me for different aspects of my personality and body.  The things that I enjoy about each of them are different.  I love spending time with each of them, whether that is watching a movie or having sex.  Both relationships are pretty new, but I am starting to care about them both quite a bit. 

In addition to these two people I have more casual sexual partners that I don't consider myself in a relationship with. I think the next logical question is where are these relationships going, and the answer is I am not sure.  Both of my boyfriends have wives and I don't date either of the wives and am not likely to, nor do they have more than a friendly relationship with Stephen.  They also have not met each other, though they know about each other.  I think part of why it is hard to talk about is that the assumption that a serious relationship will end in a marriage, or a marriage like state.  That is a possibility I suppose.  Neither Stephen nor I object to adding another lifetime partnership to our lives, but that seems like a far off thing to even think about at this point.  Also, should that ever be a possibility for either of us, making the decision to do so will be subject to the "make life altering decisions together" rule of our marriage, as described above. For now I am having fun with a variety of people and enjoying myself.
 
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Post by: Jace on 29 Apr 2012, 20:47
Its held at about a 45 degree angle to the corner of the shield. This way, I can hold my arm at a 90 degree angle to my body (straight up and down), but the top leaning slightly inward toward me and it covers my shoulder, head (mostly, small movements to protect it) and legs (also with small movement). Anywhere below the top of the knee is not a legal target zone, so there's no worrying about protecting my foot.

You guys don't do the cheap shot where you lay the flat of the blade against the opponents shin, and then slide it up into their gut? My worries about the foot is all about preventing it from being an entryway to my thighs and midsection for glaives or daneaxes and those kinds of things.


The thing about it is that any contact to below the knee of the opponent, even if very light, will throw you off, because you'll know when you hit their knee armor, and it might not throw them off, but you'll notice you hit their knee and should be like "oh sorry for the low shot."
Also if you are fighting unchivalrously (as Carl has covered, chivalry is important in SCA combat), there are other guys who will chivalrously show you that you are not being chivalrous.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 30 Apr 2012, 00:22
The easiest way to describe why marriage is still done in the non-monogamous world is pretty much what Snalin said about it,

Wait what? I think you are talking about schimmy.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 30 Apr 2012, 00:38
You people with your names that start with S, you all look alike!

Fixed
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Post by: Welu on 30 Apr 2012, 01:40
I'm really enjoying the two very different discussions going on in this thread.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Apr 2012, 01:50
I was going to say almost exactly that!

Dear blog thread,

I was baptised last night. We sang Amazing Grace and I nearly cried. I was given a candle and a christening spoon (partly as a joke), amongst many other thoughtful gifts. Now I just have to guide myself down the path of righteousness without the benefit of godparents until Sunday when I'll be confirmed. We decided godparents were unnecessary in the circumstances.
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Apr 2012, 02:00
Congratulations; may it bring you joy and help you to follow the path of your convictions.

We decided godparents were unnecessary in the circumstances.

That's appropriate, as the purpose of godparents is to stand proxy for a child in baptism with an added commitment to help bring the child to the level of understanding that would have made them unnecessary.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Apr 2012, 02:08
Thank you :) The irony is that I did have "godparents" as a child, although they were secular ones - they were the people who would have taken us in if anything happened to our parents. My godmother died nine years ago, and my godfather subsequently became my stepfather. He actually has been part of the level-of-understanding thing.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2012, 02:28
Dear blag,

I went camping this weekend! It was at this annual event called Two Day Town which is basically Livermore's version of Woodstock. A bunch of hippies, old and young, go to the campground at nearby Lake Del Valle. There's a main stage where bands play sets of 30min each, and I got to go for free (it's normally $50-60) because I'm friends with one of the bands. Yay!

Wound up drunkenly making out with a girl I know. Not sure how I feel about that having happened. It was nice, sure, but I'm just not in the mindset. Haven't been for a while. I don't have the time or energy for any of that stuff. Sucks, because I've thought highly of this girl for a while. It's fine though, I'm enjoying being in a band a lot more than I ever enjoyed any romantic relationship. I care about the people a lot more because there's a reason for them to matter to me.
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Post by: LTK on 30 Apr 2012, 04:09
http://i.imgur.com/WBN0O.gif
(http://i263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/LaurensK90/drama.png)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 30 Apr 2012, 05:04
Oh damn that image is impressive

(Unicorn-based polyamory is SUPER AWKWARD, because I am perceived as a bisexual female named Unicorn and involved in the local poly/kink scenes and it can be all kinds of hilarious mix-ups only instead of laugh tracks I get awkward silence and trying to explain the reasoning for everything)
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Post by: nekowafer on 30 Apr 2012, 05:48
I'm actually in a poly/mono don't ask/don't tell type situation. The boy is mostly happy with it. It has its problems, but for the most part, I am enjoying it. I do wish I could share details with him, though. He knows basically what goes on, of course, and he even knows a couple of my friends-with-benefits, but he doesn't want to know any more than that. I've asked him if he'd rather we both be monogamous, but he understands my want for other partners without losing him. He also has some play partners, though he treats them more like one night stands, so I wouldn't say he's poly. If any of that makes any sense at all.

Unfortunately, our relationship seems to be falling apart for completely unrelated reasons. Not the least of which is that he gets so angry at me that he screams and this scares the shit out of me. This is part of what put me in the mental hospital, actually. But I feel like I'm stuck with him until the lease runs out, whether I want to leave him or not, so that sucks.

Yay I'm depressing!
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Apr 2012, 13:12
I was baptised last night.

Mazel tov! 


There are times I wish I could be baptised and become a member of the church I attend.  There's just this one little niggling detail;

I'm not a believer.  My wife was raised Episcopalian (the American Anglicans), so when first daughter was on the way, we agreed to raise our kids in the church.  I saw the effects of being raised in a strong church/family environment (I was raised Unitarian), and the effect of not being so on my younger brothers (we moved away and never found a good group to join).  I wanted that support, that faith in something, for my daughters.  I also knew that it didn't really matter where the faith lay, so I deferred to my wife's church.  With a strong foundation, crises of faith can be weathered and resolved better than without one. 

But I can't bring myself to that leap of faith.  I always back away.  I just can't accept it for myself.  And that's OK, but it gets a little weird.  I love the church we go to, the people, the ceremonies, the liturgy, the music.  I just can't accept the basic tenets.  What's stranger is that, after nearly 20 years, most of them don't know I'm not a member.  I can't tell you how many times I've had to turn down the offer to be on vestry, 'cause I'm not a member

It gets stranger, though.  My older daughter drifted away from the church - claims to be an atheist now.  My younger daughter's too ill to go, and my wife doesn't like to leave her alone for an extended period of time.  So, as a member of the choir, I'm the only one in the family who still attends. 

I wonder some Sundays what teh fuck I'm doing there.  Right now, it's an anthropological exercise for me - the parish is falling apart after an incident with a particularly bad priest.  It's fascinating to watch, but very sad.  Some days I think I'm just staying on because there's going to have to be someone there to turn out the lights and shut off the organ when the whole thing ends...

...and I'm sorry for hijacking the thread in this direction, but this is more blog than the religion threads in DISCUSS! were, which is probably why I never got around to posting there. 
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2012, 13:24
From the "things I don't understand" file: why making out with a girl I like did not make me feel good, but instead has served as a catalyst for making me more depressed
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 30 Apr 2012, 13:27
See I looked into Christianity when I moved back to the midwest. I now understand what and why Christians believe what they do, but I just can't accept it. My main goal right now is to stop the reflex prejudice I get when I see a super-religious person.

i would like to say that I am spiritual, just not religious. I just don't see the pint in church for me, I am strictly someone who thinks that your spiritual side should be strictly personal. But I do understand the idea of communal religion.
I don't know, I feel like I just went into a circle.
In any case, I do like churches for giving back to the community, that's the main reason why I still stay in contact with those peple
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Post by: valley_parade on 30 Apr 2012, 13:39
pint in church

I could maybe get into religion if this was a thing.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 30 Apr 2012, 13:41
Curse you O key. I would murder you if you were not an important part of the English language
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Post by: Omega Entity on 30 Apr 2012, 13:43
pint in church

I could maybe get into religion if this was a thing.

There's always the yearly beer tent that some groups put on. I think around here it's either the Catholic church or the Episcopalians.
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Apr 2012, 15:14
What, is communion not enough for you, you alchy fuxx?
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Post by: Lines on 30 Apr 2012, 19:39
Grape juice isn't THAT much fun. The only church I've ever been to that actually served wine was a Catholic church and it was the kind where everyone came up and drank out of the same glass (my old church passes around thimble sized cups) and I was not about to drink germ riddled wine. Stuff is nasty enough. Eurgh.

i would like to say that I am spiritual, just not religious. I just don't see the point in church for me, I am strictly someone who thinks that your spiritual side should be strictly personal. But I do understand the idea of communal religion.

This is how I feel. I have my own beliefs, but I just can't bring myself to go to church anymore (for various reasons that I won't discuss because this isn't DISCUSS! [hurr]), though I do still find getting together with some (keyword: some) people I used to go to church with, including the youth minister and worship leader.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 May 2012, 00:40
Make sure you know how to buck the system by going as close to first as possible, then drain that fucker and split
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 May 2012, 00:52
Make sure you know how to buck the system by going as close to first as possible, then drain that fucker and spit

see, for some reason I thought you said first base and I somehow misread this post as about oral sex

not that you'd ever talk about blowjobs
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Post by: Lupercal on 01 May 2012, 01:49
Grape juice isn't THAT much fun. The only church I've ever been to that actually served wine was a Catholic church and it was the kind where everyone came up and drank out of the same glass (my old church passes around thimble sized cups) and I was not about to drink germ riddled wine. Stuff is nasty enough. Eurgh.

We do that at our Protestant Church (its "High Church", Church of England, similar in the service I suppose) - if the communion is shared, it should come out of a pewter chalice, so that when you're drinking out of the same vessel as the rest of the congregation you're not going to get sick (it has never happened to me). If it was just a normal cup, then  yeah I'd see your point.

Carl-E:

A similar thing happened in my town. A local priest was caught with a load of child pornography (way to beat the cliche, Father) so we sort of inherited parts of his congregation. Trouble is, the only way that congregations either increase in size or stay in a state of stagnancy in terms of numbers is by getting younger people in every Sunday. The only "young" (20s, 30s) people that turn up are people that want to get married there, and they pretty much stop going after they become married. Not always, but most often. And that's fine, it just means that the congregation shrinks around autumn and winter when there are very few weddings planned.

And my brother has been through a state of depression and doesn't go to church anymore - while it was fine that he didn't go to normal Sunday services, he didn't go last Easter, which was a huge shock to me because we always go to the "big" services. I guess I think that if he's put 20 odd years into the church he'll keep going, but I need to understand that everyone has their own developing thoughts about God and the basic tenants of Christianity. I also think he hates that if he doesn't turn up for ages, people then start doing the rounds: "What are you doing with yourself? How are you? Still studying?" - he failed his degree and was out of work for 18 months, it was a period of embarrassment for him I guess.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 May 2012, 01:57
I was worried about the sharing the cup thing too, I am prone to throat infections which isn't very useful for a singer, but then the chaplain explained the pewter thing to me and I feel a bit better about it. Patrick, you can't drain the communion wine, the server keeps a hold on the cup and would stop you from tilting it that far.

My first Communion will be on Sunday! I went to Mass this morning just on a whim, and then there's another tonight, and then that'll be it for my non-partaking :)

I was having a chat with a friend who feels similar to you, Carl, and I was saying that I felt exactly the same at one point. I was going to church out of interest and because I had friends there who were nice. Then something just clicked, and I don't believe it's a change you can make for yourself. Either you believe or you don't, and the process from one to the other involves being open-minded and inviting the experience, and then waiting for God to change your heart. If that never happens, then you haven't really lost anything.
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Post by: Lupercal on 01 May 2012, 03:53
To be fair, most people's innate moral codes align with the basic doctrines of most religions - be nice to others, don't be greedy and selfish, etc. If you're not a "believer", it is most likely you know the difference between right and wrong anyway.

I can't imagine what a confirmation is like when you're in your 20s - I had mine when I was 9, so it was just kind of another thing that I did (at that point I was a sever and in the choir too). Its really great that  you've had such an enveloping experience at Mass. As you have friends there, are you going to try and stay there after you graduate, or will you be confident moving to another parish?
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Post by: Redball on 01 May 2012, 04:13
I guess it is possible to imbibe too much wine at Communion. I was a chaplain's assistant in the Army in the late 50s. The chaplain held Protestant services at each of three anti-aircraft missile battalions, and Communion at them once a month. I served the wine and wafers, and the chaplain must have wondered about my driving after the last service; he told one Communion was enough.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 May 2012, 07:16
Unfortunately I will have to move to another parish because even if I didn't want to move, I would have to sell my internal organs to afford rent round here without student finance. As a matter of fact, as much as I love it here, I miss living in the north and I want to move back to Yorkshire. I've attended quite a lot of different churches in the last few years because of being ill and moving to Paris and so forth, I think five? Or actually six now. So I will probably be fine joining a new church, and now I know what to look for in terms of my personal comfort level. I've discovered I'm a high Anglican, but not quite anglo-Catholic.
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Post by: Lines on 01 May 2012, 08:52
I don't want no mouth herpes. That's mostly what bothers me, not the spit. Keep your ugly mouth problems away, got enough problems of my own, kthxbai.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 May 2012, 08:57
You can dunk the wafer into the water. It's called intincting the host, and some people do it for exactly that reason.
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Post by: Patrick on 01 May 2012, 10:53
Patrick, you can't drain the communion wine, the server keeps a hold on the cup and would stop you from tilting it that far.

My dear May, with enough determination...

Also, happy May Day! Today is your day :)

Dear blag,

I guess I am over my depressive BS from yesterday, this may or may not have everything to do with the fact that I have a Pokemon Sapphire ROM for my GBA emulator.
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 May 2012, 12:27
Dear blog:

I'm thinking. If I can't tell if something on my piercing is a scab (maybe not good) or crusties (normal, dried lymph), I should probably not pick at it. And yet, here I am with blood all over my fingers and a very painful ear. I has the dumb. Who knows how bad I'll be when I finally get my first tattoo.

On a related note, I'm finding myself more attractive in the face area with my new metal. It seems a little silly to me, but hey, whatever works.

On a dubiously related note, I take too many pictures of myself, and most of them are never seen by anyone but myself.
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Post by: nobo on 01 May 2012, 13:05
You mean you only post some of them on the facebook?
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 May 2012, 15:27
...maybe

I send some to friends, too! Like when I make a silly face.

I'm boring
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Post by: Redball on 01 May 2012, 15:56
Jeez, from all you've written recently, probably not boring. Tumultuous?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 01 May 2012, 15:59
...maybe

I send some to friends, too! Like when I make a silly face.

I'm boring

hay ladeeez
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Post by: nekowafer on 01 May 2012, 16:22
hay ladeeez

oh heyyyyyyy

Tumultuous is a good word for it. Still more boring than not, though.
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Post by: Redball on 01 May 2012, 16:53
I lead a kind of quiet life. I can't say it's boring, but it's a little depressing as a widower, often hard to be productive, so I sit too much. But if I had fairly frequent moments of great tumult, I wonder if I wouldn't think the periods in between were boring.
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Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 03 May 2012, 07:14
I'm heading to america for some fun times in October. Looks like I will be in NYC for hopefully about a week (and other places too) and I was wondering if any of the americans here would have any advice on cheap/clean places to stay in NYC. I'm cool with hostels but my partner is very adamant that we get a private room and don't have to share bathrooms and such.

Help me out, internet dudes and lady-dudes!
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Post by: Carl-E on 03 May 2012, 08:20
I've only stayed in NYC once, for my honeymoon.  My father was working as an industrial consultant on a job there at the time, and was staying in the Gramercy Park hotel, paid by the company.  He went home every weekend, so we had a free weekend in the Gramercy Park hotel. 

It is not chap, but it was amazing...
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Post by: Lines on 03 May 2012, 15:37
The one time I went I stayed at The Latham (http://www.thelathamhotel.com/index.php) which was...okay...but they've renovated since I stayed there. My room didn't have a shared bath, but I have no idea if private baths are still a thing or not, you'd have to contact them. The location was pretty convenient - it was pretty close to the Empire State Building, really close to a subway, and within reasonable walking distance to a lot of places, including Greenwich. 
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Post by: Welu on 04 May 2012, 01:12
Getting tattooed today in a few hours. EEEE!!
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Post by: Patrick on 04 May 2012, 08:02
Recently (this weekend, after an accidental episode of drunken makeouts) I've been talking to a girl I have known on and off for 2 years, and every time we talk I wind up finding another thing about her that I like. It's really nice, because I don't generally click on a personal this easily with people, let alone the opposite sex. And I'll be honest, there's that exhilarating butterflies thing going on, and it feels pretty nice.

Not sure how well this whole thing is going to fit in with my plans to permanently avoid romantic type stuff though. I've already told her that I'm not ready for much of anything, and that I doubt I'll ever be. But she lives in SF, goes to SF State, has plans to study abroad for a semester as well as travel abroad elsewhere for fun over the summer. So I really don't have much to worry about right now.

I don't like being conflicted like this. I've been straightforward about things, and I don't see my perspective changing anytime soon. But I do actually kinda dig this gal, and if I were in a better place/mindset for it, I'd be down to give her a shot.
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Post by: Akima on 04 May 2012, 17:43
I'm going to a Cinco De Mayo barbecue/party tomorrow (a co-worker lived in Mexico for many years and married a very nice Mexican lady). I confess that I didn't even know what Cinco De Mayo was about until I read it up on-line when I received the invitation, so I don't know what to expect, but I'm sure it will be fun.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 04 May 2012, 19:36
From what I understand it involves mexican food, tequila shots, and margaritas
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 04 May 2012, 22:44
I just had car sex with a swarthy mexican guy, so my Cinco de Mayo celebration is fulfilled.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 04 May 2012, 23:52
my respect for you just shot way up

I got a violin! And band practise was awesome!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 06 May 2012, 13:36
I really want to go to Sissinghurst, but I can't find anywhere reasonably priced to stay :( I decided I don't want to go to any of the summer balls this year, so I'm going to take the money I'd have spent on that (£65 for my college one, more like £125 on other colleges') and use it to do something fun. I have to find somewhere to sleep on June 19th anyway because I get thrown out of college for the ball. I could just go sleep on a friend's floor in another college but I really wanted to get out of Cambridge.

But nowhere near Sissinghurst costs under £70 a night and most places say minimum stay of two nights during summer. So. Boo.
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Post by: Patrick on 06 May 2012, 16:07
I'm never playing another gig alone as long as I live. I have never had less fun with music in my entire life than I did playing solo today. Yesterday was exactly the opposite, we rocked out and had a blast, but today seriously blew fat dicks all across the board.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 07 May 2012, 00:21
Barmy, you could always camp.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 May 2012, 00:35
I did think about that, but I don't have a tent and I don't know that there's a campsite near. Anyway it wouldn't really be a lot of fun camping on my own. I'm not really a tent person these days.

ETA: Aha! Just did a bit more googling and seem to have found a B&B 40 minutes away by bus which costs £40 a night. I will have a think.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 May 2012, 00:48
I know I've recommended it a number of times before, but have you tried Couch Surfing (http://www.couchsurfing.org)?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 May 2012, 01:15
Considered that too, but I don't really think it's for me. I value my privacy and I want to sleep in a real bed, in a room with a lock!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 May 2012, 02:28
I've gotten that from couch surfing, though!
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Post by: schimmy on 07 May 2012, 03:01
I'm trying cough surfing for the first time ever in a few weeks! Once I've handed in my final ever university essays, I'm going to Scotland for a little while with my girlfriend. It's very exciting!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 May 2012, 03:13
I kind of want to do a grownup thing of "I want to go to this place" *chooses date books hotel books train tickets*. I've never actually done that, it's always been based on dates and places other people have at least had input into, if not chosen for me.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 May 2012, 03:21
Kinda like my half-planned trip to go to Boston in July!
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Post by: Redball on 07 May 2012, 03:38
ETA: Aha! Just did a bit more googling and seem to have found a B&B 40 minutes away by bus which costs £40 a night. I will have a think.
Is the B&B in a town with some potential for exploration? Shops, sights, etc.?
I like the thought of going off on your own, booking your first trip. Those experiences for me are too long ago in the past to recall, and I'm not sure they were special, remarkable.
Does it add new meaning to "rite of passage"?
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Post by: Welu on 07 May 2012, 04:46
Had a late birthday dinner with my family and my boyfriend and his parents last night. Da's birthday was yesterday too so had a twofer celebration. Place was super busy so spent ages waiting on food but everybody clicked so didn't feel like a terrible wait. My Mammy realized when we got there she forgot the cake. Then later in the night one of the waiters came up to us with a cake and we got all confused and kept asking him where it came from but he said he didn't know. He was very sure it was for us though.
Another waiter told us a woman came in with it and pointed at our table and Mammy guessed it was from one of her mates.

Then we realized the cake was meant for the table beside us, also having a birthday. At this point we'd already ate half the cake. All had a good laugh though and the restaurant quickly made up a new cake for them and we have a story about accidentally stealing a cake.
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Post by: Redball on 07 May 2012, 04:52
That's not the first time I've heard of that. Can't remember if it happened to a friend or acquaintance, or as part of a sitcom plot. Both, I think.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 May 2012, 07:19
Haha excellent! Was the cake really specifically decorated or did the restaurant get away with it?
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 May 2012, 09:55
Did itr say somethi9ng specific like, "Happy Birthday, Grampa"?
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Post by: Redball on 07 May 2012, 11:23
No clear memory. The hazy part says it did have some specific, like perhaps the waitstaff figured the family who'd ordered the cake wasn't going to show up.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 07 May 2012, 14:27
Sorry to be a bummer, blog thread, but today was a bummer kind of day. About two weeks ago I found out that a guy I've known since middle school died due to a bad reaction to some medication. The past two weeks have been pretty surreal and it didn't really hit me until I got to the service that he was actually gone. This was the first person in my year that had died, so pretty much the service was a high school reunion gone bad. It was awful. But the service itself reflected Will's personality - he had an amazing sense of humor and his friends and family shared that with everyone and I think he would have liked what they did. But it's still hard to think about how I'm never going to see him again and laugh at his jokes.
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Post by: Patrick on 07 May 2012, 14:46
The kind of service a person leaves behind speaks volumes of the kind of person they were. Sounds like you were quite lucky to know him. I'm sorry for your loss <3
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Post by: valley_parade on 07 May 2012, 14:48
Sorry to hear, Linds.
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 May 2012, 22:47
Went to goth night at the dance club tonight.  Had people telling me to go all year, finally did.  I had a great time, even though I was not dressed for it.  It was more people than in my home goth club (thanks college town? ).  I', gonna try to go again, but dress for it.  I didn't realize I was going to go tonight. 


PS very drunk as per see above. 
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Post by: Jace on 08 May 2012, 00:41
This bascinet looks great, got to add just a bit more padding before practice Wednesday, then just hold onto it long enough so that the Barony will let me buy it off them.

Only things left for my kit are a coat of plates, demi-gauntlets, and spaulders/pauldrons.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 May 2012, 07:40
I taught my first legit guitar lesson yesterday! It was a little awkward at first since I used to be romantically involved with my student (and I don't think either of us ever quite got over it), but I got over that feeling pretty quickly for the sake of the lesson. She did try to flirt with me a little bit (old habits die hard I guess), but I was able to rein that in easily enough and redirect attention back to learning. At the end of the lesson, she knew a C maj scale. Not bad for a beginner student and a n00b teacher after their first lesson. Especially considering our history  :roll:

Maybe I am cut out for more than I give myself credit for.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 May 2012, 07:56
I'd say that was a definite!

Blog thread, I am feeling slightly irritated by two things. First, my neighbour is giggling loudly with someone. I don't feel I can be too annoyed about it because last night my friend came over and we watched (and sang along to) Mamma Mia until just before 11pm, but it is still a bit distracting.

Secondly, last term I gave my friend my old bike. I have a new one, and I was going to give it to a bike recycling charity, but she needed one. She just posted on facebook "does anyone have a bike I can borrow tomorrow?" and I am now wondering what happened to the one I gave her. I don't know why this is annoying me really, but it is.
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Post by: Redball on 09 May 2012, 11:08
Would it ease the annoyance to ask her if the one you gave her "was stolen or something?"
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 May 2012, 13:52
I taught my first legit guitar lesson yesterday!

This post made me open a new tab and look up how to give a guitar lesson. When I got to "How to give a g," Google was suggesting "How to give a guy head."  :psyduck:
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Post by: Lines on 09 May 2012, 13:54
Google didn't give me anything for "how to give a g", so that's something someone has been looking up on that computer! Hooray for cookies.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 May 2012, 13:57
See, I know it's not me. I don't need no online guide for that shit, dude's aren't that complicated.

...Hmm...
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Post by: LTK on 09 May 2012, 14:44
It's your search engine filter bubble in action, that's what it is.
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Post by: Redball on 09 May 2012, 14:53
Aw gee! I get "How to give your ag doll"
a hair wash properly

and then,

"how to give a g"
-spot orgasm

!!
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 May 2012, 15:08
Same here - those things are obviously what old men need to know.

Mind you, if you put the phrase in quotes then the dolls vanish from the selection and it's orgasms all the way!
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 May 2012, 18:29
"How to give a..."

Cat a pill
Cat a bath
Hickey. 


I don't even make it to second base, what with all my cats...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 09 May 2012, 18:45
"How to give a..."

Cat a pill
Cat a bath
Hickey. 
I don't even make it to second base, what with all my cats...
Aw, gee! You left out a letter!
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Post by: Lines on 09 May 2012, 19:15
I also got "how to give" -a cat a pill- (didn't use quotes). I also got -minecraft more money-, which is odd, as I don't play minecraft.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 09 May 2012, 19:24
"How to give a..."

Cat a pill
Cat a bath
Hickey. 
I don't even make it to second base, what with all my cats...
Aw, gee! You left out a letter!

with a final g, no suggestions.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 May 2012, 19:33
I went on a date with a genderqueer yesterday that included bento in the park, breaking into warehouses and into song, and getting harassed by the police (for kissin' in public, but not for breaking and entering). They read my palm and we told stories.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 09 May 2012, 20:15
"How to give a..."

Cat a pill
Cat a bath
Hickey. 


I don't even make it to second base, what with all my cats...

"how to give yourself a black eye"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 May 2012, 21:33
This bascinet looks great, got to add just a bit more padding before practice Wednesday, then just hold onto it long enough so that the Barony will let me buy it off them.

Only things left for my kit are a coat of plates, demi-gauntlets, and spaulders/pauldrons.

Did not add enough padding, said the guy who got clocked on the dome and had the helmet cut into the bridge of his nose.
Moving spaulders up in the list because I took a wicked shot on the shoulder.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 May 2012, 01:27
Would it ease the annoyance to ask her if the one you gave her "was stolen or something?"

I asked her - she said it was too small and she's given it to someone else. That is fair enough! I have no idea why I was feeling annoyed really.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 10 May 2012, 03:40
Man, that sounds like something that would happen to me. Except that, if it was me I would probably have set the dorm room on fire somehow.

As for your situation- she is obviously mentally unstable as well as emotionally. Maybe you were sex-starved? Or maybe, she went all inception on you. In any case, Do not have sex or any other kind of romantic relations with her again. This may seem pretty obvious, but considering how she manipulated you, it might prove to be more difficult than it sounds.

Then again, she could have just been looking for a lay and chose you. So you might not have to consider the above.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 10 May 2012, 09:23
I'm years away from that kind of experience (dammit), but she does sound like trouble. And your account makes me wonder if a culture gap is responsible in part.
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Post by: nobo on 10 May 2012, 11:33
This is one of those situations where the logical thing is to walk away, but where's the fun in that? You're going to end up dating this girl on and off for about 4 years where she will take turns making you feel the highest of highs and crushing you like a worm. You're going to fight like caged dogs, and then make up like monkeys in heat. You'll have your whole life with her planned out, but still not be certain if she'll be around tomorrow. She'll make you feel more loved than ever before, right before making you feel lonelier than the last shrub on the planet. At the end you'll be broke and full of regret, you'll be a changed person, and you'll never look at women the same way again.

That said, I bet it'll be fun while it lasts.
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 10 May 2012, 11:44
You left her alone in your dorm while you went and got food?
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Post by: Patrick on 10 May 2012, 12:58
Oh man okay dude, having lived in Albania for 3 years and knowing quite a bit about the place, the people and the language, I am going to tell you right now, Albanian girls will straight fuck with your head. It is a cultural/upbringing thing. In Albania and Kosovo men have historically been in rather short supply. Whether it's genocide by the Serbs, centuries of hatred and war against the Serbs, war against the Ottomans, blood feuds, World War II and resistance against Italy and the Nazis, emigration for employment, etc., men just ain't as common as women in Kosova and Albania. It's like 4 girls to every guy (wish I'd never left). And it's still quite a patriarchal society. So Albanian girls have learned to adapt by employing subterfuge, and you wouldn't believe how good they can be at it. It's something they're raised with, and it's actually pretty commonly dealt with in music, art, etc.

That should explain just about everything.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 May 2012, 13:07
I am really disappointed, I was going to a fair this weekend (a country fair - farmers' market stalls, horses and a dog show) and it has been rescheduled because of the weather... to September! When I won't even be here! I was so looking forwards to it, I'd got all excited because there's a best puppy competition. I now don't really have anything to look forwards to until June 14th.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 10 May 2012, 13:11
That reminds me, the local farmers' market starts up this weekend! I am incredibly excited, they always have the best apples
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 May 2012, 14:29
The band I'm in apparently has a flier.

(http://sphotos.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/564905_324898167581291_100001833307342_807653_625365644_n.jpg)
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 May 2012, 17:14
Great name.  Love the "general chaos and mayhem" description. 

And very tolerant of you to potentially include cis people...   :-D :angel: :roll:
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 11 May 2012, 00:45
I'm watching a "documentary" called The Winged Beatle and I'm seeing everything they're showing me. There's now no reason I shouldn't believe Paul is dead. Turn me on, dead man. Or something. I'm going to spend the next couple days spotting the number 23 everywhere and practicing the accordion. This is a pre-emptive blog. Also, I'm feeling like my head's a bit muddled, so this will be an interesting weekend. Have some piracetam coming in the mail, which always puts my head back on straight. I'd use proper medicines if I were a rich man, but I'm not, so I will continue to improvise. Plus, I hate doctors.
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Post by: blanktom on 11 May 2012, 14:16
Dear Blog Thread,
                         I am kinda bummed. After working in one of the busiest restaurants in my city for a week straight pulling some pretty tough shifts (a bloo bloo) I decided to get away to my Mums by the coast for a night yesterday to get some peace and quiet, which went really well. I also arranged to then come into London (its not too far by train) this afternoon to visit a friend who lives/works here.

Thing is, he warned me yesterday that he'd have to shoot off for an hour or so at about 7.30 for a very important meeting regarding a free trip to Israel, which I completely agreed was something not to be missed and said I could entertain myself. Well he left just before 7 and gave me a key to his flat, and still hasnt got back or even contacted me yet. I'm sure he hasnt forgotten about me, but I get the feeling he just thinks he can rock up about 11 then we can go out until the wee hours, despite the fact I have to get a train at 12.30pm tomorrow then work in the evening.

I didn't really come to London to just spend the evening in a flat on my laptop, and now I am losing all the vibes I had before for going out and having a good time.
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Post by: Carl-E on 11 May 2012, 15:12
Dude, take a nap instead.  Refresh for the evening NOW
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Post by: blanktom on 12 May 2012, 04:28
A little while after this I just gave in and went into the city to grab some food and a couple of drinks on my own, which was actually pretty cool. Eventually he rang me just before 11, went home to get changed and got a cab from his to meet me at about midnight. We had a pretty good night in the end, but I was properly tired by the end of it!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 12 May 2012, 06:14
Tonight we'll listen to ... Frank Boeijen.

Yeah, as a shock tactic that needs a bit of work.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9zHY7NdpjQ (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9zHY7NdpjQ)

Not very metal.
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Post by: Patrick on 12 May 2012, 11:55
Well holy shit, color me shocked. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/american-anthropological-association/albania-gay-rights_b_1497865.html) There I was talking about Albanian patriarchy, and now here's an article about the huge momentum gain in LGBT rights advocacy in Albania, written by somebody who came to my very first gig (and then she and her partner brought their toddler over to play the next day). On HuffPost, no less. Mind: BLOWN

Tonight Troubador is playing at our beloved pizza shop in Newark, splitting a bill with two bands who have good connections to the Gilman in Berkeley. Tomorrow evening, we're trading Matt's garage for a ~*real studio*~ out in Emeryville, where we plan to finish recording our debut album. Then we take it to our good friend Sedric for mixing and mastering, and we're planning to have it available in physical form by July 1. We'll have a Kickstarter up soon, which I'll be posting places. Woo!!!
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Post by: valley_parade on 12 May 2012, 21:42
Today in a nutshell:

-Woke up outstandingly hungover
-Friend texted me about going to a tag sale advertised in the newspaper, lots of records
-Friend who said would be over shortly took an hour
-Got lost on the way
-Turns out the newspaper's a piece of shit and the tag sale was last week but they advertised it again anyway this week
-She helped me get a Mother's Day gift for my mom
-I forgot to give said gift to my mom when I was over her house
-Also grabbed N64 Rumble Pak from my old room
-Forgot it in my mom's car
-Had plans to catch up with an old comedian friend who was in town from Boston tonight
-Couldn't find a ride to the show
-He forgot his phone in Boston so I wasn't able to get a hold of him for drinks afterwards.
-Anxiety about waking up and watching my favorite soccer team playing a probably futile game unless QPR pull off a miracle
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Post by: Barmymoo on 13 May 2012, 01:21
That sounds like a day that could have been so great, but with gremlins. Boo.

I was meant to be going to see puppies today :( There was a fair scheduled with puppies and the fair has been rescheduled which means no puppies :( Might go visit a duckling instead.
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Post by: Lupercal on 13 May 2012, 01:45
Went to a "Love Music Hate Homophobia" night at University, it was pretty fun. Had some...interesting...live bands, and it totally bummed me out that I could've sorted a band out with some people if only I'd have been more proactive. The last guys I saw were bloody awful, and I hereby claim that when Uni ends in a few months, I will start a band with my brother. Because I'm bored of playing along to records.
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Post by: Patrick on 14 May 2012, 19:17
This weekend my band impressed a band that has good connections to the Gilman in Berkeley. We have at least 2 potential shows coming up at that venue in June now! And we finished recording instruments for our first album last night! I'm exhausted as fuck but I am super excited to let y'all know that it'll be available in about a month :D
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Post by: whom on 14 May 2012, 20:41
I think I might try to teach myself how to sing somewhat decently this summer.  Although, every summer I decide I'm going to teach myself something and don't follow up too well...
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 15 May 2012, 01:03
Dear  diary,

     Today I had a good day. There were no hallucinations or bad people. I had fun even though it rained.

                              And Stuff,
                            Mister Nomms
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Post by: pwhodges on 15 May 2012, 15:36
It seems that someone with my name has just written an article about some anime (http://pocketjury.net/2012/05/anime-and-me-and-a-bit-on-manga/) on Pocket Jury.
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Post by: pwhodges on 15 May 2012, 15:41
In other news, I have been complaining that the successive improvements to the broadband delivered to my home have had no effect on my connection speeds.  Well, a few minutes ago I did something I didn't realise I could do, which is connect my computer directly without using the router.  When I did this I got three times the speed downloading (50Mbps), and eight times uploading (8Mbps); so it seems I have a problem with my router!  Probably in the configuration, because it's a modern one, and I have a very complicated setup here (I have eight external IP addresses, a non-routable internal subnet, and multiple NAT settings for different servers).

Time to get out the manual, I think.
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Post by: celticgeek on 15 May 2012, 16:53
I recently upgraded my broadband also, and also was amazed at the speed increase without the router.  A quick check of the router by the technician showed that the router was defective, and a new router fixed the problem.  My download speed now is about 60 Mbps, and upload speeds about 6 Mbps, both speeds being about what the upgrade promised, and about a factor of 10  over the previous speeds.  The previous slow speeds most likely being the fault of the defective router.
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Post by: Lines on 15 May 2012, 20:03
Paul, I really liked your article! But...Scott Pilgrim isn't anime/manga, it's Canadian!* But I do agree with you about Michael Cera - he was just not a good Scott Pilgrim.

*I am no expert in anime or manga, but my friends are and their knowledge (read: snobbery) is rubbing off on me I think.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 15 May 2012, 23:01
Earlier today my friend was talking about throwing a house party and inviting the world. I told her she may not want to invite Scott Pilgrim, then, because they are not on good terms.

Dear Blog Thread,

Rammstein was amazing. Then I slept in a closet full of naked queers. Right now I'm drinking a milkshake.

Love,

Unicorn
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 15 May 2012, 23:43
Paul, I really liked your article! But...Scott Pilgrim isn't anime/manga, it's Canadian!

Oh, I realise that - after all I do say something about comparing its style to that of manga.  But clearly there's enough overlap that it's silly to pretend that they occupy entirely different universes.  And it was someone else's comparison of Scott Pilgrim (the film, presumably) with FLCL that got me going on that tack.

And thanks - glad you liked it!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 May 2012, 03:27
[...]
Rammstein was amazing. Then I slept in a closet full of naked queers. Right now I'm drinking a milkshake.

Love,

Unicorn
I'm sorry, but all the queers were in the closet?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 May 2012, 04:32
Yes.

Obvious jokes were made.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 16 May 2012, 07:05
Nice wall o' cans! 

And I love canvas shoes. 

Can't wear them though (flat feet). 

And yeah, you're probably still drunk.  Enjoy! 


All my grades are in, and on time.  Now the complaining/begging begins...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 16 May 2012, 08:26
So I wasn't getting the benefit that my new FTTC Internet service should have given.

Duh! When I bought the router, for some reason ($Deity knows why) I set the bandwidth control feature to the max the line could support at the time (20Mbps down, 1.2Mbps up). I've now disabled bandwidth control, and immediately have 50Mbps down, 8Mbps up which is more like what I was expecting (the service capability is 80/20, but I'm in the furthest property from the cabinet, so can't expect to get that).
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 May 2012, 09:54
Good grief. My mum's internet struggles to get over 125 Kbps download most of the time. Why is rural internet so TERRIBLE if cities can get that sort of speed? It can take ten minutes to load the BBC News website sometimes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 16 May 2012, 10:10
Because the population density is too low to support the investment needed to bring higher speeds. I lucked out. I'm at the dead end of a road with maybe 50 homes, perhaps half of them seasonal. We got cable TV more than 15 years ago, before we moved fulltime here, because the cable company was planning to serve the nearest town, 5 miles away, and made a gamble that it could pick up some revenue by running service up our way. Internet didn't come for another 6-7 years. Before that, I was limited to 19.6k on good days. There have been moves to subsidize broadband into rural areas, but no large, consistent effort so far. The latest would have used a part of the RF spectrum next to the GPS band to provide wholesale wi-fi. It foundered because the transmissions interfered with GPS receivers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 May 2012, 10:17
I can understand that argument in a place like the United States. But the UK is so much smaller! There are big cities within 30 miles of my mum's house.
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Post by: Redball on 16 May 2012, 10:22
I'd guess the same principle applies. If it cost as much per connection to extend cable into less dense areas, there'd be no reason not to extend it and get the revenue.
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Post by: Patrick on 16 May 2012, 10:28
I live in a town where anything less than 20mb/s is just plain unheard of. This town also built the first atomic bomb and we are working on being the first to harness nuclear fusion power, though, so I guess that's why. And to be honest I have no earthly idea how fast my connection is. I do know that I can have a 70 minute album in FLAC in under ten minutes using MF, 30 minutes if I torrent and there's more than like 3 seeders.

Blerg,

I have noticed I go through cycles of "FUCK YEAH I AM HAVING SUCH A GREAT TIME" followed by "God why am I such a worthless human being, I really do suck every butt" and it's about an even split that goes from 3pm Wednesdays being "FUCK YEAH" all the way til Monday morning, where I start hating myself again.

Is this what a musician's weekend is supposed to be or am I just a sad sappy sucker? Maybe I should just write all my songs on Mondays and Tuesdays.
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 May 2012, 10:30
I'm not talking cable here - this is over the phone line.  But now the local distribution cabinet at the end of the road has a fibre feed, so only the last quarter mile (in my case) is over copper.  Even in the country this will make a huge difference - and it really is intended to roll it out almost universally over the next several years.
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Post by: Patrick on 16 May 2012, 10:31
I'm not talking cable here - this is over the phone line.

What is this, the Stone Age?
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Post by: pwhodges on 16 May 2012, 10:36
There's cable along the road, and I get two mailings a week trying to persuade me to change.  But the cable services do not allow me to have eight IP addresses and run loadsa servers, like I do; also, although the headline speeds for cable are still a bit faster, in practice (here in the UK, at least) they have much higher contention as well, so my service is probably considerably better than what the cable would give me in practice for my kind of usage.
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Post by: schimmy on 16 May 2012, 10:43
I got food poisoning from one of my favourite takeaway places last night! What a bummer! I threw up all over my girlfriend's bathroom! Exclamation marks make this story exciting for you to read!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 May 2012, 11:13
Yes, my mum's internet comes down the phone line too, and cable isn't even an option there yet. She would have taken it had it been a few years ago, as she (this is so ridiculous) worked as a web designer. Now that she doesn't do that any more, she's actually getting rid of her connection and will share my stepdad's dial-up down the other phone line.

I am proof reading an essay written by the mother of the Korean boy who I tutor in English. His english grammar is more correct and his accent and fluency are more impressive, but her essays are really good! This one in particular has far fewer errors in it - which means she read and took note of my corrections on the last two, hurrah! - and I am having to google some of the words she's used to find out what they mean before I can work out whether or not they're correct (they usually are as well).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 16 May 2012, 11:54
When my daily newspaper cut down on reporting staff 30 years ago, I was told to assemble a bunch of freelancers. One at the time was teaching freshman composition at a Detroit university. He'd bring his copy in after a previous night's meeting, but instead of handing it to me and leaving, he'd stand there while I read it, discussed it with him and typed it into the computer system. His writing improved, week by week. After six months or so, I asked if the changes in his writing for us had changed how he taught his students. Sure, he said. He now taught them to write as he was writing for the newspaper. I never thought about it before: I wonder how those students turned out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 16 May 2012, 15:13
What is this, the Stone Age?
I imagine it is a DSL service (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DSL), probably ADSL.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 16 May 2012, 15:40
Alright guys I've made a decision. On Monday I'm going to start the Couch to 5k programme (got to wait til then - I have no sportswear and crucially no sports bra, and I don't really have time to go shopping until Saturday). I've got seven weeks until I go to America and I'm going to lose some weight. Just bought some weighing scales, headphones for my MP3 player and some jogging bottoms (all on eBay, hurrah!) and found a place to download a free podcast which tells you when to start and stop running, and plays music. Please hold me accountable to this!
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Post by: valley_parade on 16 May 2012, 15:46
Also for start/stop running things to listen to, LCD Soundsystem put out a mix/something or other a few years back called 45:33, I guess it was done with Nike and supposed to be a warm up/run/cool down thing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O84WZkbFaLc
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 16 May 2012, 16:08
ADSL.

This - but mine typically stays up without a break for several months at a time.  Sadly the FTTC service requires that I have the supplier's modem, which must be installed in an accessible place, so I can no longer put this or the router where my UPS is (in the roof space with the server), and a couple of recent brief power cuts have broken the continuity - as have the service upgrades.
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Post by: Lines on 16 May 2012, 18:35
found a place to download a free podcast which tells you when to start and stop running, and plays music. Please hold me accountable to this!

Where?! Link! I really want to start this after spring quarter ends and the timing is the part that concerns me the most.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 May 2012, 00:51
There's this one (http://www.c25k.com/podcasts.htm) which I'll be using I think, but also several more here (http://www.c25k.com/) (scroll down a bit). I haven't listened to any of them yet but I'm hoping they'll be good. Might use several different ones as I go along just to try them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 May 2012, 05:58
Maybe not never.  What you need to do is hold that thought.  It may be a while, but the stars can, and do, align on occasion. 


Of course, it may not happen 'till you're 50, and it may ot happen at all.  But don't give it up too easily. 
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Post by: schimmy on 17 May 2012, 09:00
Just got told off by my landlord for installing a prepay electricity meter in my house. This was an interesting thing to be told off for, considering it's been there since before I moved in.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 17 May 2012, 09:47
Please hold me accountable to this!
I'm experiencing a niggle of a nudge of a temptation to take the challenge.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 May 2012, 12:03
To join in with the C25k? :P or to hold me accountable? I'm fully in favour of being held accountable, in fact I need it!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 17 May 2012, 12:35
I have decided that since I have (a) a Sicilian girlfriend, and (b) vast swathes of lolling about on the dole in front of me, I am going to teach myself Italian! I bought myself a book, and am learning the basics at the moment. I seem to be okay with learning what individual words mean, and can understand written sentences containing those words, but an understanding of the grammar eludes me; I can't tell whether the grammar is more complicated and stricter than English, or if it's just that the rules are completely alien to me. I think part of it is that, since this is the first time I've ever attempted learning a second language, I've never really had to think about grammar before - there seems to be a lot to learn just to be able to form basic sentences. It's fun, though! Here's hoping I don't lose interest!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 May 2012, 13:10
I found that learning a foreign language helped me learn english grammar! And teaching english certainly helps, because I have to understand what I'm explaining. You'll probably find your girlfriend isn't great at explaining why the grammar is as it is, most native speakers don't actually know. I'd suggest getting a grammar guide, unless your book is very clear, because grammar is pretty fundamental to fluency. Good luck, I loved Italian when I briefly studied it.

Much as I love my job(s), I am rather annoyed tonight. I agreed last week that I would proof-read two essays this week for £30 each (very easy money, I'm a good proof-reader and pretty fast when I concentrate). I thought that one was due this week, and the other due next week.

I returned the first one this evening, and discovered that the second one is also due tomorrow. She hasn't finished writing it yet. It's 9pm. I get up at 6.30am, so I need to be in bed by 11 at the latest. I was meant to be going to a party. I am not impressed. I would say I can't do it, but £30 is £30 and I will need food money next year.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 May 2012, 13:53
Something about excercise procrastinate before the end of the post... Please hold me accountable to this!

Don't wait until Monday. You have three days in which to get a bit of a headstart here. Do a little bit of pre run stretching and then go for as brisk a walk as you can without needing a sports bra. When you start the running you're less likely to hit some T-junction deflation where you get to the end of the road on your first step out and wonder why it suddenly feels so hard. Resolutions are always better when they start today, you know it's true.
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Post by: Redball on 17 May 2012, 13:55
Those of you fluent in a second language may disagree, but from my own limited experience, it seems that trying to comprehend grammar may get in the way of learning the language. In training to go to India, we learned Marathi, the language of the Indian state of Maharashtra, (Mumbai's the capital). I kept trying to comprehend the grammar. Others in the group didn't worry about it. They learned the language more quickly.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 May 2012, 14:06
TSK, thanks for the advice but I'm not actually procrastinating so much as being realistic about my schedule this week. Tomorrow I have two revision classes to attend


The Cto5k plan actually includes the walking-jogging slow build up over time, you don't launch into a 5k run straight away. I'm not starting tomorrow because I want to go to morning prayer, and the rest of the day is super busy. Could start at the weekend, but I'm already quite busy (and fairly active - 15 mile cycle ride on Friday night). Next week is almost totally empty, I don't even have choir!
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 17 May 2012, 14:11
Cto5K may be a slow build up, but never call it jogging, always call it running. It works better.
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Post by: Redball on 17 May 2012, 14:14
To join in with the C25k? :P or to hold me accountable? I'm fully in favour of being held accountable, in fact I need it!
To join in with the C25k, hold you accountable, hold myself accountable. I jogged from age 47 to retirement 14 years ago, and at times since I've walked fast enough to break into a shuffling jog, even to hold to it for a mile. I'm 178 cm, 82kg , way too much of that in my tummy, slightly embarrassing breasts but not yet in need of a sports bra, a couch potato spending more time on the laptop than the TV.
Printed out the regime this morning. I'll see.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 May 2012, 14:38
I think it would be useful for me to know you were doing it too, albeit far away! One of my uni friends is considering starting the programme as well, although running on different days to me, so I'd have a little virtual running group! Since the actual college running group is intimidatingly fit.
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Post by: Akima on 17 May 2012, 16:03
Those of you fluent in a second language may disagree, but from my own limited experience, it seems that trying to comprehend grammar may get in the way of learning the language.
It is difficult for me to be sure, because I learned English by formal ESL teaching, and immersion through going to school etc. in an English-speaking country, all at the same time.

I think it is a matter of priority. Many second-language courses are very heavily biased towards written communication, simply because it is easier for the teacher, especially where the teacher is not a native (or even fluent, in many cases) speaker of the target language, and easier to assess and mark in exams. Written work in turn over-emphasises grammar, spelling, getting the diacritic marks right, etc. I think it is much more important to use the target language than to study its grammar. Vocabulary, pronunciation, and fluency are more important than grammar if you want to use a language, rather than pass exams in it. I went through a "Chinglish" phase where I could make myself understood fairly well, despite my terrible grammar. If self-consciousness about grammar makes you stumble and second-guess yourself, instead of just getting the sentence out there, it has definitely become a barrier.
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Post by: Redball on 17 May 2012, 17:48
Chinglish. Interesting: You write so articulately that I don't hear or imagine an "accent." Not that it matters a whit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 17 May 2012, 18:12
I think it would be useful for me to know you were doing it too, albeit far away! One of my uni friends is considering starting the programme as well, although running on different days to me, so I'd have a little virtual running group! Since the actual college running group is intimidatingly fit.
Suggestions for a reporting/supporting communication link? On the exercise thread? PM? Wait a week to see if two of us are left at the end? Out loud might stir some others off the couch. Any others here interested?
In a support group, can one admit one's fears: I'll be lazy. As it heats up here, if I don't get out early, I won't get out. I've been getting up at 6 and 6:30 a.m. lately, an hour that will be cool enough, if I deal with the exercise as a priority. My usual morning habit is at least two hours on the laptop, with this forum, the newspaper comics I get by email, email, etc. Another consideration: Health. But my cardiologist has basically signed off on any level of exercise I feel up to.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 17 May 2012, 18:36
If this is gonna be a Thing, I might do it too. I've been walking my dog 1.5-2 miles most days, but it's kinda hit-or-miss if I decide I feel like it or not. My dog is overweight with no stamina, and so am I, so maybe C25K would be good for both of us.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 May 2012, 20:32
OK, you made me look it up, but...

I'm afraid I can't.  I had that damn accident in December (hit by a car in the right leg), and it's still giving me pain, especially when I walk any distance.  I can't break into a run at all anymore - it's excruciating.  It's also been 6 fucking months.  The doctor was no help, and the chiropractor straightened out the shoulders and spine, but they all say the pain in the leg's nerve damage, which is not right - I can feel the swelling in the side of my calf when it's hurting, something is still damaged, deep down. 


So I keep walking, and deal with the pain.  I stopped the anti-inflammatories because I was eating too many of them, and I needed to see what the real pain level was.  I think I'm going to go back on them, just fewer, for a little control. 

I participated in a walk/run at the AP reading every year, too - came in 3rd in the men's walking division for the last two years.  This year?  Well, it's in less than a month, so I'm not even going to be able to participate. 

Oh, and I've put on 5 pounds. 




I do NOT want to spend the rest of my life like this. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 18 May 2012, 01:32
Carl, that must be so frustrating. Can you try to find someone else to look at your leg? If you can feel swelling then there must be something they can do. I haven't a clue what though.

Does swimming cause the same pain? It's often a better alternative to impact exercise.

Bainidhe_dub (do you have a preferred shortened form to your forum name? Because it confuses my fingers!), perhaps you need to do Pooch to 5K! (http://www.poochto5k.com/) I wish I had a dog to run with.

Perhaps we should start a special thread. Then we can check in there and people who don't care can just not read it, instead of cluttering up the general threads.
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Post by: Jace on 18 May 2012, 01:48
Folded or hung my laundry and re-organized my one dresser a bit so that I can properly utilize half the drawers for clothes. The other 3 are junk drawer, medical supplies, junk/posters. Eventually I will hang all of the posters and that will free up that drawer for clothes. Now all I need to do is dig out the other 2 smaller dressers from my closet and find a way to utilize those better, since they are buried deep in the closet they are of no help even if I could store stuff in them.
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Post by: Welu on 18 May 2012, 03:06
I'm up for a special C25K thread. Having a group, even online, would make it easier and more fun.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 18 May 2012, 06:42
I might try and give it a shot too- I think my hiatus from running might be coming to an end soon. My foot is starting to heal up nicely and I'm a little more energized mentally, getting over that whole I-Suck-Because-My-Legs-Hurt-When-I-Run thing.

Weee  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 18 May 2012, 13:29
Last night I saw definitive proof that spending $5k on a guitar and pedals does nothing to make you a good musician. I'm so lucky I already know there's talent in this town, otherwise I would have just stopped bothering with open mics altogether.
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Post by: Akima on 18 May 2012, 17:00
Last night I saw definitive proof that spending $5k on a guitar and pedals does nothing to make you a good musician.
Relax and remember that goons like this support the second-hand market for poor talented people, just like the guys who keep buying the latest carbon-fibre Cervélo (http://www.for-cycling.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/cervelo-s3.jpg) or whatever in hopes that it will magically make them fast. Pro tip: It won't.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 May 2012, 10:49
I mean, being honest, there's a pretty significant sum of money in my own rig. Only reason for that is because I wanted loud, and I wanted a tube amp (that is the only exception to the rule; tubes make EVERYTHING better). Even if I included every pedal I own, it might be 1/3 of the total cost of the rig he brought with him though, and he didn't even bring an amp!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 May 2012, 10:52
Also I don't know why I keep doing this, but the girl who made out with me at Hippie Camp (as I have decided to start calling Livermore's wannabe-Woodstock weekend) keeps asking me to hang out, and I keep hanging out with her. I haven't let her get any closer than friends-only behaviors ever since, and to be honest I feel like she is reading into these hangouts more than she should be. Idunno. I already told her I'm not interested in anything but being friends, and I don't do or say anything to indicate otherwise, but I still feel like I might be leading her on. Opinions and advice welcome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 19 May 2012, 12:29
Was getting slagged off for wearing my headphones all the time. Tried to point out I don't wear my headphones around any more than most people, they're just more obvious than earphones. This concept makes no sense to people I know, apparently. Then I got slagged off because obviously the only reason to wear headphones is to be a big hipster. Reasons like, "They sound better." or "Earphones hurt my ears." are just hipster excuses.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 19 May 2012, 13:29
They're good in cold weather, too, especially the sealed over-the-ear type that I use.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 May 2012, 15:03
I don't trust earbuds. I'm terrified of developing ear problems 'cause I expect to use my ears to make a living (saw Rammstein live, wore earplugs, and was made fun of at the concert for wearing earplugs (though I took them out for a few songs that more or less demanded to be as loud as possible, but my ears weren't ringing after the concert, so I'm assuming I protected them enough)). Headphones are more comfortable and sound better, end of story.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 19 May 2012, 15:42
Some earplugs are of the highest quality - I use Etymotic ER-4Ps for monitoring sometimes.  Comfort is an individual matter, though. 

Damage is simply a matter of sustained volume, and hearing can be damaged using speakers, headphones or earplugs.  However, without experience it is surprisingly hard to judge the volume of headphones, and even more of earplugs, so it is worth the taking the time to calibrate them against speakers before using them seriously.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 May 2012, 01:08
I just typed in "meanwhile in Finland" and these were the first two results:

(http://cdn.styleforum.net/c/c8/c8ad81c5_Meanwhile_in_Finland.jpeg)
(http://s1.static.gotsmile.net/images/2010/11/23/meanwhile_in_finland2.jpg_1290524635.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 20 May 2012, 01:48
Well, we know who the second is - do we know the first?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2012, 01:55
Oh god. Hearing damage. I'm already a decade of drums too late, I'm afraid. Not only is loud music my living, but my eardrum burst from an ear infection in 8th grade, so loud sounds just don't quite bother me as much as they do others. I always forget to bring my earplugs.

I really have got to make a "going to do music shit" checklist or something.

Today I saw something on Reddit that made me go "a hur dur lolol", so I took a screenshot

(http://i.imgur.com/VJmae.png)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 20 May 2012, 02:05
im karma slutting the hell out of that picture.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 20 May 2012, 02:08
gb2 r/spacedicks

(don't ever do that, it's a horrible place)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 20 May 2012, 02:13
Don't tell me, already went there once.
I'm on /r/community, /r/guildwars2, /r/gameofthrones most of the time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 May 2012, 02:49
Well, we know who the second is - do we know the first?

I've seen it posted on these forums before, but it was years ago. I was assuming it was Jens but now I am second-guessing myself? (I know he doesn't live in Finland...)

(http://i55.photobucket.com/albums/g154/Auravis/Photoon2009-11-25at1152.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 20 May 2012, 03:07
How do I pick up my internship and study work!

Now:
I wait too long to make materials. Too many distractions from the Internet.
I work on an assignment or text, maybe review it once and come with a result.
Knowledge, feedback and revisions are therefore too late resulting in a nervous and stressed posture.

What has happened:
By too much distractions, I didn't believe in the final result.
I panicked and gave up, leading to more stress and depression in my ability to do something and make results.
Results in material, or classes are not made and knowledge and feedback therefor are missed.

My goal:
At the time I have to make material or knowledge I have to ward of distractions to a few moments on the day.
Work on the assignment or text, revised at least once and sent to the persons needing it at least one week before deadlines.
Combatting the nervous attitude by further expansion of knowledge and reviewing my materials.

Materials can be anything from a class-room assignment for next class to making a whole paper or a lesson in my internship.
I hope this could also help other people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 20 May 2012, 04:00
The Finland picture is Dollface, I made that one a few years ago. The picture you linked Zingo was Jens.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 May 2012, 04:46
Of the two Meanwhile in Finland photos I also thought the former was Jens, but I'm not actually sure because as you say, he isn't in Finland. Which one did you make, Stephen? The one with the swingseat and cup of tea, or the one with the sledge and beer?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 20 May 2012, 04:48
Oh right, the first one is not Jens at all. I did the Sled and Beer. The first one has been around for... must be 10 years now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 20 May 2012, 04:57
How do I pick up my internship and study work!

Now:
I wait too long to make materials. Too many distractions from the Internet.
I work on an assignment or text, maybe review it once and come with a result.
Knowledge, feedback and revisions are therefore too late resulting in a nervous and stressed posture.

What has happened:
By too much distractions, I didn't believe in the final result.
I panicked and gave up, leading to more stress and depression in my ability to do something and make results.
Results in material, or classes are not made and knowledge and feedback therefor are missed.

My goal:
At the time I have to make material or knowledge I have to ward of distractions to a few moments on the day.
Work on the assignment or text, revised at least once and sent to the persons needing it at least one week before deadlines.
Combatting the nervous attitude by further expansion of knowledge and reviewing my materials.

Materials can be anything from a class-room assignment for next class to making a whole paper or a lesson in my internship.
I hope this could also help other people.
I've been there at times, and I'm somewhat there now: retired, with a few duties (work on a nonprofit board, writing for a distant newspaper) which I can carry out OK, but otherwise too willing to be distracted from productive activity. One of my hobbies is woodworking. I haven't done anything in the shop for a couple of years, since before my wife died. Finishing something, doing good work, feels good. I've been addicted to that kind of success at times in my life. But not now. It may not be helpful, but is it possible that completing one task well and on time would make the next one easier? And both of us probably should limit the Internet.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 20 May 2012, 05:42
I'm going to expand on this list a bit Redball. After some talks I figured out this is incomplete. I'll probably make a g-docs out of it in a couple of hours.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 May 2012, 09:24
Of the two Meanwhile in Finland photos I also thought the former was Jens, but I'm not actually sure because as you say, he isn't in Finland.

Well, I'm glad I wasn't the only one!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 20 May 2012, 10:25
Oh god. Hearing damage. I'm already a decade of drums too late, I'm afraid. Not only is loud music my living, but my eardrum burst from an ear infection in 8th grade, so loud sounds just don't quite bother me as much as they do others. I always forget to bring my earplugs.

ALWAAAAAAAAAYS. Man. I used to always have a box just for practice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 May 2012, 11:24
My father was a marine on a gunboat during the Korean conflict.  For being on deck when the 9 inch guns were being fired, each man received a single cotton ball that was pulled in half, each piece stuffed in an ear. 

Several years later, he was plant manager for a foundry, and OSHA instituted hearing rules.  He made sure everyone had earplugs, but would often forget his own when he had to go out on the floor. 

We also lived along a major truck route when I was a kid, which is where some of my hearing loss started. 


Upshot is, the old man's deaf as a post without the hearing aids.  But he just got some new, experimental ones from the VA, and it's amazing - they use dual directional mics for depth and direction, and he says he can hear things he hasn't heard in years. 




When he remembers to put them in...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 20 May 2012, 16:17
Related to hearing loss, but not in any meaningful way, but it is kinda funny.

I once told my grandmother when I got hired in at a gas station that I was being trained by the Mayor of Clifford - which was true, the guy that was the assistant manager there was the mayor of a small town north of here.

My grandmother, who hadn't yet succumbed to getting hearing aids and was extremely hard of hearing, gave me a puzzled look as she asked, "You're being trained by an Arab hooker?"

Many laughs were had.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 21 May 2012, 01:00
Sick of getting taxis everywhere but if I carry my backpack for long times any more my back will properly give out on me.
Also I've been sitting on the floor the last twenty minutes moving files around and now I can't feel my leg.

In happier news, just need to fix a tiny bit of audio in my film and render it and YAY! One full assignment finished and my first proper short film done.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 21 May 2012, 01:25
I bring earplugs to shows all the time now. It's never too late to start protecting your ears, better to stop the damage where it's at than to let it get to the point where you can't hear anything. On the occasions I do forget, I'll at least stuff some napkin in my ear. I may be only cutting the noise by 10dB, but it's the most important 10dB to cut!

Speaking of music. I'm on the final push for producing the first shoot of a live music TV show I'm creating with the help of one of the major promoters in town. Friday is the first shoot, and we're using the remote studio "truck" (it's really an RV that's been stripped out and filled with TV equipment) from the access station I work at. It's my production, though, not theirs, and I have a great crew of fellow volunteers to help me out.

Most of it's all worked out in coordination with the venue. I just need to create a final production plan and get copies to everybody so that things will go as smoothly as possible that night. We're filming 3 acts, and each act will be turned into a half-hour episode for the cable channel. Then I'll post them online and give you all the link.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 21 May 2012, 02:15
I don't protect my ears because I hope that when I finally go deaf the ringing will stop.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 May 2012, 02:23
That's not how it works - you'll end up with the ringing but no external distraction.  Sorry!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 21 May 2012, 02:37
Aw dang. I don't wanna get any older now because I know it is only going to get worse.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 May 2012, 02:43
After a few decades you get pretty used to it.  Fortunately my tinnitus isn't too bad - but it is continuous.  It doesn't interfere with listening to music; but it does to some extent when editing very quiet stuff, which I may need to turn up more than other people when listening for faults.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 21 May 2012, 04:55
I'm monetering the student's participation and how well they are doing from behind a desk. Which is boring. So now and then I walk around and get them to work some more. English teaching in this school, for automechanics, is boring and useless. They are not gonna remember or do much with the 'lessons' here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 21 May 2012, 04:59
Also, I have four talks with four different important people about my internship here. Becuase I was so depressed shit has been hitting the 'fan' and alllll talks are gonna be horid I believe. Today, tomorrow, wednesday and thursday is gonna suck.

Tonight is the first C5K run and tomorrow a sportsnight. On friday I'm going over to my sisters to watch over her cat :) and Saterday there's a birthday party :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 21 May 2012, 06:43
Hello Blog Thread,


This has been a very bittersweet weekend. On Friday, Nick and I had his brother over to watch American Horror Story with us (this is somewhat of a tradition for us-usually a friend of mine comes too, but she was at a wedding). I do enjoy watching the show, but it does things to me......I don't handle being scared very well. My palms were sweating like crazy halfway through the first episode. But I'm sort of using this as a "You Can Do It!" thing, because I hate being the person who needs to turn off scary movies because they make me think I'm going to be murdered.


On Saturday we went to the 30th birthday party of one of Nick's high school friends. It was fun, good food, good music and good people...I didn't know many of them, but after a little alcohol everyone knows everyone. After we came home, I found out that one of the guys I went to high school with died in a motorcycle accident. We were never super close but he was always so friendly and open to everyone- he rose about the clique mentality and really accepted everyone for who they were. We chatted via facebook a few years ago (and I had such a huge crush on him in high school). It just feels.....weird. The whole situation doesn't feel real...and even though we were never really close, it's always painful when someone you know passes too young. It brought up a lot of unresolved feelings from when a close friend of mine died last summer. No one knows how and her family never said anything but I'm fairly certain it was suicide....and it really fucking sucks to be reminded of that pain. Sometimes I think I'm still in denial about it. Like she's still alive and just playing a really mean trick on us. But then I feel bad for thinking that she could ever be capable of something like that because she was such a pure, loving, amazing human being. But I just don't want to believe that she's dead.


Yesterday was a trip to the city to go to the Museum of Sex. It's typically $19 to get in per person and I managed to score two tickets for $9 because there was a Groupon for two half priced admissions and I had a $10 Groupon promo thing. It was really cool!! There were a few different exhibits going on and they were all really interesting- one about the history of porn, the second focused on how the digital age influences our perception of sex, the third was all about sex and animals- the so-called "oddities" of nature and on the other side of the spectrum, just how similar animals and humans are in terms of sex and a final exhibit on sex inspired street art. There was also a smaller section with some more sex related history- information on burlesque, the history of erotic photography, a BDSM display, vintage vibrators and gynecological tools....really interesting stuff. We took tons of photos, so I'll post them after I steal them from Nick.


Overall, it was nice to be back in NYC but it did stir up some old memories. There were so many places I wanted to go that I used to frequent when I lived there and there really just wasn't enough time. It made me miss being a city dweller and reminded me of all the fun and excitement there used to be in my life. I mean....I definitely still enjoy myself, but I'm not as....free. Plus, I was reminded of how I managed to stay so thin- we probably walked 5 miles and trekked up 4,000 steps. We ended up completely exhausted from all the running around (and driving- we drove to Hoboken and then took the PATH train into New York). We're definitely taking the train next time.

So yeah.....lots of ups and downs this weekend. Glad to start a new week, but also tired as fuck. I am going to nap like a pro when I get home from work today.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 May 2012, 15:26
After a few decades you get pretty used to it.  Fortunately my tinnitus isn't too bad - but it is continuous.  It doesn't interfere with listening to music; but it does to some extent when editing very quiet stuff, which I may need to turn up more than other people when listening for faults.

I can still pick off the part in Led Zeppelin's "The Ocean" where there's a telephone ringing in one of the verses, so I'm still doing alright-ish.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: DrPhibes on 21 May 2012, 22:13
After a few decades you get pretty used to it.  Fortunately my tinnitus isn't too bad - but it is continuous.  It doesn't interfere with listening to music; but it does to some extent when editing very quiet stuff, which I may need to turn up more than other people when listening for faults.

I can still pick off the part in Led Zeppelin's "The Ocean" where there's a telephone ringing in one of the verses, so I'm still doing alright-ish.

Im deaf for high ranges in my left ear, but those are so high that they don't really matter. I forgot the range.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2012, 00:57
I was upset that I wouldn't be able to go home and visit my mum this summer, because I have a lot of choir things between the end of exams and leaving for America, but I found a four day slot where I had nothing to do (and nowhere to live - my room licence runs out on the 27th June and I get a new room with the choir on the 1st July). The problem was the train tickets were extortionate, and I didn't think it was worth all that money just to go home for three nights. But my mum and stepdad have said they'll give me some money towards it, and also are cashing my tax rebate which finally arrived, so I am going!

I'm visiting my dad very briefly as well, for one night between two other things. The only person I probably won't see who I'd planned on seeing is my half brother, because the day I was going to go see my brothers I've now got a concert. I feel bad because we've only met him once, but there just isn't enough time. I should have said no to the two concerts (one orchestral, one a choir one for a friend's conducting exam) and that would have freed up an entire week. Can't pull out now though, I'd be letting a load of people down.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 22 May 2012, 03:48
I should have said no to the two concerts (one orchestral, one a choir one for a friend's conducting exam) and that would have freed up an entire week. Can't pull out now though, I'd be letting a load of people down.
What's on the program(me)s?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2012, 04:35
Orchestra:

Weber, Der Freischutz Overture
Haydn, Trumpet Concerto   
Suppe, Poet and Peasant Overture       
Delius, La Calinda 
Mathias, Jubilee Dances

Choir:

Sing Joyfully – William Byrd
O How Amiable – Thomas Weelkes
O Clap your Hands – Maurice Greene
Lay a Garland on her Hearse – Robert Pearsall
Sweet and Low – Joseph Barnby
Music, all powerful – Thomas Attwood Walmisley
To Daffodils, from Five Flower Songs, Op. 47 – Benjamin Britten
There is an old belief, from Songs of Farewell – Hubert Parry

Some of it I know, most I don't, but I'm sure it will be quite good.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 22 May 2012, 06:17
Lay a Garland on her Hearse – Robert Pearsall

If any proof were needed that the nineteenth century music scene in Britain was not all wasted decadence...  Often done slower than indicated, which works - but so does the original speed: here it is sung by my choir (http://cassland.org/sounds/Pearsall-LayAGarland.mp3) (for a change, I neither sang in nor recorded this).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 22 May 2012, 06:42
Decadence? I can think of lots of rude things I would call Britain in the 19th century, but I'm not sure decadent would be one.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 22 May 2012, 06:54
Some of it I know, most I don't, but I'm sure it will be quite good.
I don't think I know any of it; I checked out several on itunes a little while ago. You're attending, or performing?
If any proof were needed that the nineteenth century music scene in Britain was not all wasted decadence...  Often done slower than indicated, which works - but so does the original speed (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BDcj15GqwU&feature=related)
Thanks for posting that; it's beautiful!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 22 May 2012, 07:17
Decadence? I can think of lots of rude things I would call Britain in the 19th century, but I'm not sure decadent would be one.

Industrial revolution, realism, Darwinism -> secularisation, confusion, fantastic literature. Fin de siecle pointed towards a time of achievement followed by a moral and religious decline, class anxiety etc. So yes, towards the end of that century, decadence.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 22 May 2012, 10:17
I just upgraded my home desktop machine to 32GB of memory.  That makes it bigger than my 24GB virtual machine hosts at work (not more powerful, though - they have two Xeon processors each, mine has only one).  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2012, 10:27
Performing in both - I dabble in playing the violin (played for eleven years but stopped when I hit sixteen and my life got very manic; I sometimes agree to play in concerts for the college I sing with).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 22 May 2012, 10:56
I just upgraded my home desktop machine to 32GB of memory.  That makes it bigger than my 24GB virtual machine hosts at work (not more powerful, though - they have two Xeon processors each, mine has only one).  :-D
But why?

(And aren't you looking for the hardware thread?)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 22 May 2012, 11:07
Performing in both - I dabble in playing the violin (played for eleven years but stopped when I hit sixteen and my life got very manic; I sometimes agree to play in concerts for the college I sing with).
Seems like I've heard of a number of choirs in the Cambridge area, probably via their recordings. It must be a grand place to be a chorister, or a tourist who enjoys choral singing. I've been in choruses most of my adult life, including a choir which often sang with the Detroit Symphony. Now I'm in an a cappella group which sings in Renaissance costume, primarily to hire out for Christmas events.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 22 May 2012, 11:38
But why?

I use Hauptwerk (http://www.hauptwerk.com/); I am considering this organ (http://www.sonusparadisi.cz/en/organs/top-selection/utrecht-dom-batz-organ-model.html#!/cat_tabs_screenshots_tabbed) (note the RAM requirements).

Quote
(And aren't you looking for the hardware thread?)

Not really.  A blog about something I've been doing today seems to fit the blog thread, I'd say.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 22 May 2012, 11:47
Paul, that recording blew me away.

Blag, a girl I've known for a couple years who likes me more romantically than I like her came over at like 10 last night and we hung out being chatty until 5am. She's a really sweet girl but I don't know how to tell her that I am not trying to get tied down to anything or anyone but my band, because that's the most important thing in my life right now. It has to be, otherwise it will not succeed. All I can really do is not break the physical contact barrier and stay that way for another month til she goes to Thailand for the summer. The problem is that she just had to kiss me before getting in her car, so now I just feel like a goddamn asshole. I just wanna be friends.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 22 May 2012, 12:23
But why?

I use Hauptwerk (http://www.hauptwerk.com/); I am considering this organ (http://www.sonusparadisi.cz/en/organs/top-selection/utrecht-dom-batz-organ-model.html#!/cat_tabs_screenshots_tabbed) (note the RAM requirements).

Quote
(And aren't you looking for the hardware thread?)

Not really.  A blog about something I've been doing today seems to fit the blog thread, I'd say.
Daaaaaaaaaaaaaaang. (Blog or hardware, works either way.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 22 May 2012, 13:34
Being in Cambridge is about the best thing you can do if you want to be a chorister - except maybe being in Oxford I suppose  :roll:

I met three girls who were here on a choral scholar applicant open day a couple of weeks ago. I took them to lunch and then showed them round my college, and I was blown away by how seriously they take choral singing. They're 17 years old and they already know significantly more than I do about it, plus have had masses of experience. One of them drove three hours in each direction every fortnight for a singing lesson. I kind of fell into this environment and there is definitely a distinction between the serious musicians and those of us who just like singing. Nothing wrong with the latter category, and as long as you commit properly and are reasonably good the same avenues are open to you, but it's definitely good for people who want to be professional.

I hope to keep singing when I graduate, but something a little less intense. A Renaissance a cappella group sounds like so much fun! Are you any good?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 22 May 2012, 14:08
Well, we'd be better if we aspired to greater heights. As I said, our music is almost all Christmas, although we'll do a handful of madrigals if we have an unusual spring or summer gig. Our director taught choir and madrigals in a suburban Detroit high school in the 60s and 70s. We've done a couple of recordings, and some are breathtakingly lovely. In some we lose a halftone by the end. But in performance, all of our music is memorized, so we're focusing on the director, or on a gig, on whomever's nodding. Some of us wish the director would do some more difficult, serious music, but she's in her comfort zone with what we do. I wish we were an all year group, although rehearsals for me are a 2-hour drive each way. The group has a loving culture; we're not all best friends, but we seriously care about each other. When my wife died in January, 2011, a dozen drove out to sing at her memorial. I've put up a kind of marketing/recruiting site at twelfthnightsingers.com.
I'm curious about the Carolinian: How long in the UK, how long in your group, is her accent perceptible in her speech? And do you expect to perform on your U.S. trip, or attend performances?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 22 May 2012, 16:08
So yes, towards the end of that century, decadence.
Fair enough. I'm obviously too used to thinking of the 19th century British simply as Goths and Vandals...  :-D

I use Hauptwerk (http://www.hauptwerk.com/); I am considering this organ (http://www.sonusparadisi.cz/en/organs/top-selection/utrecht-dom-batz-organ-model.html#!/cat_tabs_screenshots_tabbed) (note the RAM requirements).
That's... a lot of RAM. And a fascinating website.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 22 May 2012, 17:36
Ughhh. Okay, so, the last job thing fell through, for some bizarre fucking reason. I'm not sure why, but they just stopped responding to my calls or e-mails so whatever, fuck them.

That still leaves me without income.

So a girl I've been playing with does camming, and so we've decided to do it together 'cause couples makes more money, and besides, getting paid to have sex with someone I was already fucking is a pretty good job, but the paperwork is taking fucking weeks to bloody process, which means that I am cutting things really goddamn close to going to Boston in July, since it takes a few weeks for the first paycheck to come through. Ugh.
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Post by: Carl-E on 22 May 2012, 18:38
I just wanna be friends.

Patrick, even friends can share a kiss, though obviously it was probably more than friendly.  Next time you're chatting until 5 AM, be sure to let her know what you're going through, why you're friend-zoning her, and that you could use a friend. 

You're not an asshole for trying to pursue a dream.  If she likes you as a friend, she'll understand.  If she just wants in the pants, so much the better - it gets nipped in the bud. 

Good luck!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2012, 00:11
We've done a couple of recordings, and some are breathtakingly lovely.

Oh, any we can hear?

I'm curious about the Carolinian: How long in the UK, how long in your group, is her accent perceptible in her speech? And do you expect to perform on your U.S. trip, or attend performances?

The Carolinian (never heard that term before!) was just subbing for someone, so she hasn't sung with us before, but she's sung with other choirs in England. From her extensive Facebook about page, I know she has been here for a year, spent a year at another English university before that, and otherwise has been in the States all her life. Her accent is definitely perceptible in speech but it's tempered by the RP that everyone here speaks, as is mine.

US trip:
Thursday 12 July  12:15pm recital in Trinity Church, Copley square, BOSTON MA
Friday 13 July   7:30pm concert in Christ Church, NEW HAVEN CT
Saturday 14 July  5:00pm Mass in Our Lady of Refuge RC Church, BROOKLYN NY
Sunday 15 July  11:00am Eucharist in St Thomas 5th Avenue, MANHATTAN
4:00pm Evensong and 5:15pm Recital in Cathedral of St John the Divine, MANHATTAN
Tuesday 17 July  7:30pm concert in Cathedral of the Nativity, BETHLEHEM PA
Wednesday 18 July    7:30pm concert in Immanuel Highlands Episcopal Church, WILMINGTON DE
Thursday 19 July       12:15pm recital in Episcopal Cathedral, PHILADELPHIA PA
Sunday 22 July   9:00am and 11:15am Mass in St Paul's K Street, WASHINGTON DC
4:00pm Evensong in National Cathedral, WASHINGTON DC


Apologies for terrible formatting, I just copied it from our website. Come along! Hopefully a couple people will be at the Boston concert at least (Zing, I'll understand if money doesn't permit but hopefully it will!).

I'll also hopefully be singing with a church choir in Indiana for the rest of summer, I'm just going to rock up and see if they'll take me.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 May 2012, 02:39
Yea Redball, bust those recordings out if you've got them! :D Also Paul the one you posted earlier was super stunning. I doubt I could ever sing in a choir again, it really requires a lot of discipline. Sang in a boys' choir in elementary school, it involved a lot of rehearsal. I doubt any recordings of it exist. Wish they did, that'd be a trip!
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Post by: Redball on 23 May 2012, 04:07
I'll also hopefully be singing with a church choir in Indiana for the rest of summer, I'm just going to rock up and see if they'll take me.
I'll want to hear your impression of singing in the Cathedral of St. John the Divine. It calls itself the largest cathedral in the U.S., and it seems it could swallow up a choir. I heard the Winter Solstice concert there 13 years ago, an annual event staged by Paul Winter, after hearing it broadcast with narration a few years before. To celebrate the return of the sun, a 5-foot gong is hauled up 125 feet, with a guy in a bosun's chair hammering away at it.
And where in Indiana?
And RP means?
My group's recording: I'll work out putting a few tracks on dropbox and let you know when I have. I'm suddenly shy against singers with such experience.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2012, 04:20
Certainly don't feel shy about me hearing you, I basically only have about five months of actual experience and as long as stuff is in tune and the music is nice I'm generally impressed. I've never developed a snooty snobbish discerning taste in music beyond that. I can tell when things are amazing, but I never understand why people say things are bad if they're not unpleasant to listen to.

Indiana - Fort Wayne, staying with a former forumite who has sort of vanished from here in the last couple of years. I spent a couple of weeks there a few years ago, and can't wait to see her again.

RP is received pronunciation - posh English, basically. The Queen is an extreme example. Most BBC presenters, and Paul, have a fairly standard RP voice. It is not so much an accent as a way of speaking one's words; diction, pronunciation of words and so forth.


ETA: finally managed to get Paul's choir recording to play. Nice! I'm going to enjoy singing this, I think.

Here is a video (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3nWAMCj3tsQ) of a recording of something a bit mushy and rather sweet we premiered for Alan Bullard, who has taken rather a fancy to us and written us a set of canticles. We're recording more of his stuff in the summer. The actual singing starts at about 1.23. I'm second from the end closest to the camera on the right (visible at about 2.00). My favourite bit is when my friend Christie and I are very obviously singing along to the boys' part.
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Post by: Redball on 23 May 2012, 04:46
If you get to Ft. Wayne and it's OK with you, plan on meeting, there or here. It's an hour or less away.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2012, 04:53
That'd be great! I'll check with Eed but I'm sure she'd be happy for you to come and visit us. Travel will be a bit tricky for me, I have basically no money at all and I'm living entirely on Edith's charity most of the summer.
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Post by: Redball on 23 May 2012, 05:00
If you're singing there, perhaps I may have to go to church. Oh, well ....
Are the women in your choir encouraged to sing tenor parts at times? Looks like the ratio of SA to TB is about 2:1. When I sang in Detroit, Rackham Choir had a few "tenorettes."
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 May 2012, 07:17
No, we certainly don't have any female tenors. We don't really have any female altos, we're all secretly mezzos. There is one soprano who has a genuine contralto range but her soprano voice is so amazing that she's stuck up there. I could get low notes before I started using proper technique, and there's one other alto who can get down to a bottom F, but otherwise they have to put tenors on the part instead.

I think we've only got two more sopranos than altos, and about the same number of altos as tenors. What you can't see from the video is that we're arranged SASASAS, BTBTBTB on each side. The two organ scholars sing whatever part is most needed when they're not playing, usually tenor.
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Post by: Lines on 23 May 2012, 07:43
When I was in choir (back in high school, but it was a pretty good choir), there was only one girl who could kind of sing tenor. More like she really wanted to be a tenor, but the director usually wouldn't let her because she couldn't sing the lower notes. There were a lot more altos then sopranos as well, but I think only a few of the sopranos were actual sopranos. I started out as a soprano, but my voice dropped and was a mezzo by the end of high school. Lots of mezzos, lots of altos, a few sopranos, and virtually no contraltos.
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Post by: Redball on 23 May 2012, 07:55
It's good that you're mixed, SASASA and TBTBTB. Our Twelfth Night director aims for the same thing in performance, but many of us, I included, wish to have one other same-part next to us, especially since we're singing without music. As long as I was in the larger group, Rackham Symphony Choir, 1969-1998, with 80-100 voices, our the female:male ratio was typically lopsided. When I joined Twelfth Night in 1987, we were 10 on a part. Now we usually total 35, and the ratio is perhaps 2:1. My favorite rehearsal mode: standing in a square in our rehearsal church sanctuary. I wish it made sense to perform that way.
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 May 2012, 08:32
As the episcopal (read: anglican) church I attend has been dying off, the choir's been decimated as well.  I am now the only male. 

We do a lot of SAB lately, and when it's a 4-part hymn I'll sing whichever of the two parts is more interesting / necessary.  I'm neither a true tenor nor a true bass, but I do better at faking bass in the mornings  ;)
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Post by: Redball on 23 May 2012, 08:47
I was a tenor until I retired from work and both choirs in 1998. When I returned to the a cappella group in 2000, I tried tenor for the first year, but my range was reduced. I've never had training, and wondered if I could have trained myself back into tenor range. I took the easy way out and switched to bass/baritone. I still love the music, but basses don't have as much fun as tenors.
It would be difficult to be the only male voice. But if it happened via attrition, it might not seem so difficult.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 May 2012, 08:53
I've decided (I changed decades ago) that basses have more fun really.  In our next concert the basses have to cover a range from low Db to high F, two octaves and a third - no other voice is asked to do that.
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Post by: celticgeek on 23 May 2012, 09:04
Daddy Sang Bass (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amSbyZDyne8)
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Post by: Redball on 23 May 2012, 09:08
Yeah, mine did too; met my mom in the church choir in 1935.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 May 2012, 09:11
Daddy Sang Bass (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amSbyZDyne8)

:)

That's only an octave and a sixth, though.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 May 2012, 14:27
This post is going to be ragey.

So, I'm supposed to be going up to Seattle today to get a refill on my medication (which, without, I tend to sink into a massively depressed state. Yay medication!). But, when it came time to get the money to travel with, I couldn't find my purse. I ended up finding it in a completely different room than the one I left it in, all the money taken out of it, leaving me with about ~$40 to stretch out until July, when I should start getting paid. Inside is a receipt for a mocha latte my housemate Joey had last night, so I know he used it last.

Thing is, Joey is also not talking to me last night, because I had a breakdown last night (screaming/crying/dislocated my pinky via self-harm) and he's angry at me because my act of self-harm upset him. I am SO pissed off at that, like his being upset at me for being upset is more valid than my mental health is period.

So now I'm not going to Seattle. I can't afford to stay the two days I was expecting to. I'm just going to have to swing by tomorrow, see my friend, and come back. SO. FUCKING. DISAPPOINTED. SO. FUCKING. ANGRY. And I shouldn't even be going up there this week, because the friend who I'm getting the meds from completely bailed on me last week when I went to get them! Bullshiiiiiit. Today is the flaming bag of bullshit on the doorstep of my week.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 May 2012, 16:48
Ugh...Zing that fucking blows. I know it doesn't help the situation, but I can sympathize. I'm a raging lunatic without my meds and even the thought of running out makes me feel like I'm breaking out in hives.

But...let me get this straight- your housemate used your money to buy a latte without asking you and and they're mad at you? I understand that people get upset and uncomfortable when self-harm is the topic of debate/conversation/whatever you want to call it but there are better ways to deal with it than getting mad. Like being supportive and comforting instead because obviously there was a reason it happened.

I'm sorry today is a flaming bag of shit. I hope you find some water to put it out soon. (Don't stomp- that just makes everything worse)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 May 2012, 18:04
No, see, buying a latte with my money? Totally forgivable. This is $50 missing, which is over half of what money I have left, and I have no idea where it is. I don't think anyone stole my money purposefully, but it's definitely gone missing.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 23 May 2012, 22:29
When I was in choir (back in high school, but it was a pretty good choir), there was only one girl who could kind of sing tenor. More like she really wanted to be a tenor, but the director usually wouldn't let her because she couldn't sing the lower notes. There were a lot more altos then sopranos as well, but I think only a few of the sopranos were actual sopranos. I started out as a soprano, but my voice dropped and was a mezzo by the end of high school. Lots of mezzos, lots of altos, a few sopranos, and virtually no contraltos.

We had more sopranos than altos, and we had a few tenors and bass. I sang soprano, and at one point I had a 3-octave range. Did the whole honors choir thing for 3 years (it entailed auditioning with about 500 other high-schoolers from various regions of the state, for a spot in a choir of about 130 or so). It was a lot of fun, though I never made it beyond regionals. Mostly because I never knew the music well enough by then, since I was pretty much the only one from my schoolt o make it in, and pretty much had to learn the music on my own.
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 May 2012, 22:55
some guys tried to tie me to a tree using duct tape today

WTF?  People you knew, or random guys from the pub?  Is this their idea of a prank or something?  Because fuck, that's assault.  You're well within your rights to defend yourself, even with a fucking chair. 
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 May 2012, 01:05
Just applied for state assistance.  <sigh>  I don't know how this is going to go though.  I am claiming I am not in school, because I am not eligible for school services (like the health clinic) over the summer because I am not registered for summer classes.  So if the state school says that being registered for fall doesn't count, then fuck it, I don't think the state should count it.   My residency is in question though.  The state school says I am not  a resident of the state, but I am not a resident anywhere else either damn it.  I do still have my NY drivers licence, but I figure I will go remedy that before my meeting with a caseworker.  Here is hoping though because I would like to see a doctor before September, and also I don't think we have enough money to both eat and pay rent this summer unless one of us finds work. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 May 2012, 03:34
Zing honey, I know you've done a lot of stuff to try and sort your living situation out to be the right place for you, but are there any options you've dismissed where you might be less likely to get your stuff stolen? I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but just feel that your housemates seem to be taking advantage of you (whichever one it was who took the money, or all of them).

Also, apologies if you've already explained this and I forgot, but why are you not able to get Medicaid? I don't really have a clear understanding of how this works - is it because you don't have a legal address?

Anyway I hope things get sorted out because that sounds like a shitty situation to be in.

Tuathal, I'd agree that they were assaulting you (battery, in fact, and false imprisonment if they'd managed it). I'm not suggesting you go to the police about it, although you'd be quite right to do so if you wanted to, but getting angry and forcefully defensive about being physically assaulted is not only understandable but also legal. That doesn't diminsh from your concerns about reacting with anger when you thought you'd dealt with it, but just don't feel that anger wasn't an acceptable emotion at that point.

Blog thread, I went to cake and chat at my honorary college (the one I sing with, whose chapel my college shares) with a friend last night. The friend suddenly and unannouncedly disappeared after about half an hour, which I felt was a bit weird but whatever, she doesn't have to tell me everything and she had said she wasn't going to stay long. I stayed til just after 10pm, which is when I ought to get to bed.

Then I ended up at biscuits and tea in my own college - it's exam period, emotional support groups are all over the place - and because I have a bit of a crush on one of the girls there, I stayed til after 11pm At which point I knew I was going to be tired this morning.

Got up at 6.30. Went to morning prayer. Back at 7.47. In bed again by 7.49. Woke up at 10.50. Oh dear. I'm starting to get a little bit worried that I'm going to relapse to the fatigue disorder - is seven hours' sleep all that usual? Is the fact that I'm not managing to cope on 7-8.5 hours a night a worrying sign, or a sign I just need to go to bed earlier?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 24 May 2012, 05:03
May, it really doesn't sound unreasonable for you to be extra tired right now, with everything you have going on - late night, early mornings, exam prep, increased exercise, apparently low calorie intake. Sometimes you get burnt out and just need to sleep for 14 hours to get caught up - that's what my sisters and I always did at the end of exams.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 May 2012, 05:19
I'm looking forwards to exams finishing for that reason! My June is pretty hectic but I have one fairly quiet week after exams are over and I'm clinging to it like a life-raft.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 May 2012, 06:11
No, see, buying a latte with my money? Totally forgivable. This is $50 missing, which is over half of what money I have left, and I have no idea where it is. I don't think anyone stole my money purposefully, but it's definitely gone missing.

Ugh :-( Either way.....I personally feel that your housemate should have reacted to the situation in a different way. Shaming only makes the situation worse. I've been in that position before and it really fucking hurts.

Also- I second the Medicaid thing- it could be worth looking into.


Tuathal, there is not much more to be said that anyone else hasn't said already but I echo their sentiments. Anger can be a scary thing to feel because we feel the need to expel it somehow and for a lot of people, that involves a physical release. Completely disregarding the fact that you may have a history of explosive behavior I don't see anything wrong with how you reacted. Of course, I don't know what was going on in your head, but the important thing to remember is that your actions were NOT wrong. And really? Who the fuck tries to duct tape someone to a tree if they're not trying out to be the new Jackass? And by the way- I think this:

Not due to any actual childhood events or anything terrible like that. I suppose it's just due to years of bullying during high school.
could definitely be considered a "terrible childhood event". People underestimate the power of bullying and I just want to shake them and yell "STOP THIS SHIT! IT FUCKS PEOPLE UP!" The amount of bullying that is tolerated in most school systems is absolutely sickening.

Kat- I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I think it's total bullshit that schools expect you to magically find your own health insurance over the summer (and in some cases, even winter break). How long have you lived where you're currently at? Most places will allow you to acquire a certificate of residency after a certain amount of time. I think it's usually 6 months?
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Post by: Welu on 24 May 2012, 06:19
Found out my favourite tutor on my course, who has been the only thing keeping me from quitting, will most likely not be teaching the next  level. The only other competent tutor is supposed to be in charge so it might not be horrible but it definitely won't be easy. This has seriously made me consider not doing it but I have no back up plan.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 May 2012, 06:36
My open mic at the bar just got a new drum kit! It's a really nice Gretsch kit made out of good quality 5-ply birch. Pretty dramatic upgrade from the janky CB kit we'd been using. Only downside is that now I have to re-learn how to do proper doublestroke rolls, since this new kit's stick rebound is about a million times better. OH DARN

And just in case anybody was wondering, asthma is awful. Wish there were a fucking cure for it. UGH
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Post by: Lines on 24 May 2012, 08:44
some guys tried to tie me to a tree using duct tape today, I lost it and threw a chair at them.

I also hate that feeling after going into rage mode, but you had every right to react the way you did. Stupid shit like that is completely uncalled for and maybe it'll teach those dudes that they're assholes and hey, maybe they shouldn't fucking assault people.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 May 2012, 10:38
Tuathal - I completely understand your feelings, because I used to have severe rage problems, and it's taken a lot of time and work to get them under control. That said...what you just went through is an entirely legitimate rage reaction. If someone did that to me, I would explode, too. I'd throw two chairs.

Zing honey, I know you've done a lot of stuff to try and sort your living situation out to be the right place for you, but are there any options you've dismissed where you might be less likely to get your stuff stolen? I'm not trying to tell you what to do, but just feel that your housemates seem to be taking advantage of you (whichever one it was who took the money, or all of them).

Also, apologies if you've already explained this and I forgot, but why are you not able to get Medicaid? I don't really have a clear understanding of how this works - is it because you don't have a legal address?

Anyway I hope things get sorted out because that sounds like a shitty situation to be in.

Right now, I'm just staying at a place, not the right one. It's free to stay here - I pay for my housing in food stamps, helping on the occasional dumpster run, and cleaning. None of the housemates seem to know what happened with the money, so I have a feeling I'm never seeing it again. (That said, I'm entirely not above stealing fifty dollars back from the commie fund before I go, because goddammit, that is over half of my money right now)

No, I applied when I had a legal address. I don't remember why they turned me down. I applied again a couple months ago but I never heard a response - I ought to try applying again next week (I'm super busy from now till about Saturday).

The shitty situation is more along the lines of how they're social justice-y types that take it so far that it's just bloody ridiculous and I can't take them seriously. There was an argument on biological essentialism, gender, and patriarchy that took place two days ago - because we named the cat Ladycakes. I've also been accused of coming from an 'academically classist, upper-middle class background,' despite the fact I've lived in trailers half my life and dropped out of high school after two years - but that doesn't matter, because my father owns a house and I took a speed-typing course once.

...maaaaybe I'm a little ranty about all this.
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 May 2012, 10:52


Kat- I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. I think it's total bullshit that schools expect you to magically find your own health insurance over the summer (and in some cases, even winter break). How long have you lived where you're currently at? Most places will allow you to acquire a certificate of residency after a certain amount of time. I think it's usually 6 months?

I've been here 9 months.  For purposes of tuition I cannot be a resident ever unless I work a full time job or my parents purchase property here.  I actually don't think it even counts if I purchase property.  It does not matter that I have no ties to any other state, it doesn't matter if I have a licence here, am registered to vote here, have a part time job here, or how long I live here.  If you move here for school, you pay out of state tuition.  I understand that it is a state school and it is a way to save the tax payers money.  I just hope that the rules for other state aid are not as strict.

Also at my undergrad I got access to the clinic over the summer.  All services were August to August there, so even the summer after graduation I could go to the clinic.   I didn't realize this was not the case here so I put off going until classes were done so I would have more time.  :s
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 May 2012, 11:18
Ahhhh, ok. I remember something with the schools that I went to mentioning that you have to be a resident for at least a year before school starts to be considered a resident. I guess it makes sense. It just sucks in the rare cases like yours where you're not really a resident anywhere because of their stupid rules. Again, best of luck to you with all this.
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Post by: Redball on 24 May 2012, 11:28
I'll keep my fingers crossed as well; the state's not been kind to college students in the last few years.
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Post by: valley_parade on 24 May 2012, 11:46
Hopefully a couple people will be at the Boston concert at least (Zing, I'll understand if money doesn't permit but hopefully it will!).

Put me on this boat as well. Hopefully by next month I'll be all set, but ehhhh.
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Post by: Redball on 24 May 2012, 16:39
Some of you asked to hear my group, Twelfth Night Singers, an a cappella group which sings at Christmas events in the Detroit area. The links are to three songs: Christ in the Stranger's Guise, O My Dear Heart (perhaps a version you haven't heard) and the Somerset Wassail.
Stranger's Guise is almost a theme piece for our group, and O My Dear Heart is my personal favorite. I love the harmonies in that song, and the images in the text: "The knees of my heart shall I bow." I'm not much of a Christian although I've never been far from the faith, but I come closest with such music. I don't like this done with a soprano solo, although ours has a most lovely voice. But our director on the day this was made was unhappy with the group's pitch in SATB. Whenever four parts are together in my presence, it gets done minus the solo. The group knows about my affection for it. The best I ever heard it done was with two on a part around a kitchen table in Royal Oak, Michigan, after everybody else had left the host's St. Patrick's Day party. In the photo at the bar, I'm in the foreground at far left. More information about the group is at twelfthnightsingers.com. I prepared and uploaded the pages. I had a difficult time uploading the last photo. Hope this works.
Songs:
http://db.tt/MILBfRvC (http://db.tt/MILBfRvC)  http://db.tt/GnE74ZYU (http://db.tt/GnE74ZYU)  http://db.tt/Fwnb5dOY (http://db.tt/Fwnb5dOY)
Photos:
http://dl.dropbox.com/u/4416271/12thnitesingers%20at%20gem.tif (http://dl.dropbox.com/u/4416271/12thnitesingers%20at%20gem.tif)
http://dl.dropbox.com/u/4416271/12thnitesingers%20all.tif (http://dl.dropbox.com/u/4416271/12thnitesingers%20all.tif)
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Post by: celticgeek on 24 May 2012, 17:34
Lovely music.  And quite a good looking bunch of singers, too. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 May 2012, 22:56
Gosh, that wassail takes me back to my childhood!  My parents had taken in two refugee families during WWII, and this had given them a wide range of friends from Eastern Orthodox churches in particular (my father was a theologian, with a tendency towards Orthodoxy). Each Christmas throughout my childhood we would host a big party to sing carols, which would include a wide range of little known carols from all parts of Europe, and some well-known ones in new translations by my father.  That wassail was indeed one of our regulars, and I'm not sure I've heard it since.  Thanks!
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Post by: Patrick on 25 May 2012, 01:43
Good lord, what a set of recordings. Well worth the wait. Thanks Redball!

Dear blerg,

The guy whose bad performance upset me at my friend's open mic last week decided to show up at MINE this week. Fortunately, a lot of really talented folks I'd never seen before decided to surprise me by coming out of the woodwork. My favorite regular (this absolutely precious high school junior) showed back up after a couple weeks of absence. Much as I'm jealous of how unreal that kid's level of talent is, I'm still the cat who gets to say "I facilitated her first public performance outside of school" in about ten years when she's famous. I fucking love my job.

Later, at the open mic my friend runs, I showed up with my geetar, played a Rilo Kiley song I just learned, and two of my favorite Troubador songs. My last ex was there, and she kept watching me all night until she left. That made me super nervous. I'd also just finished a massive breve latte (one of the perks of running open mic at a coffee shop) so I was jittery to start with. Still, guess I nailed it, 'cause I never heard the bar get louder than they did after my songs. Felt like such a bawss. Hellyea.

Love,
Me
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 02:17
I like them! My dad and his partner would love to be in your group, they sing with two choirs but neither is very good. Although they enjoy the music, I think they would like to be in a choir where people sing in tune... Also love the costumes, do you own them or rent different ones for each performance?
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 04:02
Thanks for the compliments! The women make their own costumes or have them made by a woman in the group at their own expense. The men have their costumes made by the same woman, but at the group's expense.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 04:12
Care to explain the rationale?
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 04:51
Geez, I don't think I have an explanation. The men's costumes belong to the group.
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 05:00
So today a few friends and I went to the park to hang out all afternoon and the other guitarist for our new punk project called Burning Puppies was there so we did some fun jammy stuff. Exactly what I needed after last night.
I smile at band names but don't give much thought to them since it's not my kind of music. But Burning Puppies prompted another: Screwed Pooches. Many Americans first heard the phrase "screwed the pooch" in "The Right Stuff," about the first U.S. astronauts, as a reference to crashing an airplane, usually or often fatally. I last heard it in negotiation with some local politicians, when one responded to a comment I'd just made: "Now you've screwed the pooch," i.e., he wasn't going to negotiate any more. OTOH, who'd want to use a band name that might suggest "crash and burn"?
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Post by: Welu on 25 May 2012, 05:27
I just finished exporting my final major project. Two tutors watched it. There was some giggling because two of the actors were former students so it was silly seeing them trying to be serious actors. They both said they think it's genuinely good though. Just need to work out with the head when it's okay for me to put it up online. :D
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 05:30
I simply cannot be bothered to do any more revision. This is kind of a problem, because I have an exam on Tuesday and an exam on Wednesday, and then exams on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of the following week. My preparedness for each exam decreases as they get further away.
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Post by: schimmy on 25 May 2012, 05:51
I have a job interview in 2 hours. Embarrassingly, I've managed to make it to this age (20, graduating from university) without ever having had a job. I get the impression it shouldn't be too hard to get the job - it's just knocking on doors asking people to give to charity, and they've given me an interview without even having asked for a CV, so I'm guessing so long as I come off as friendly and confident in the interview, I should be alright.
I really hope I get it, because it would mean I get to stay living in a city that I love and that my girlfriend lives in. The alternative is moving back in with my dad, who lives in a boring-ass town with practically zero job prospects.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 May 2012, 05:59
Good luck! If you're as well versed in the interview as you are online, I think you'll be fine! Plus, even though you've never had a job, you DO have a college education. That's gotta count for something.  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 06:11
Things I have done today: changed my bedding, made a pasta bake, read six pages of the archives of TheBloggess.com.

Things I have not done today: any revision.
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 06:13
Here's another thing you can do today: define "revision" in your current context.
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Post by: LTK on 25 May 2012, 06:27
Things I have done today: changed my bedding, made a pasta bake, read six pages of the archives of TheBloggess.com.

Things I have not done today: any revision.
Procrastination is the best way to get tasks done that you wouldn't want to do otherwise.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 06:35
Only one of those things falls under that category, I'm afraid.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 May 2012, 06:39
I spent a couple of hours a day in my finals term playing a harpsichord in the Ashmolean Museum.  Most relaxing it was, too.

(http://cassland.org/images/PaulKirckman1968.jpg)

There are some recordings of me playing (the day that photo was taken, which was later that same year); they are in the National Sound Archive at the British Library - but I don't have copies myself...
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Post by: Akima on 25 May 2012, 06:40
Here's another thing you can do today: define "revision" in your current context.
Revision is the process of revising.

Revise: [intrans.] Reread work done previously to improve one's knowledge of a subject, typically to prepare for an examination : students frantically revising for exams | [ trans. ] revise your lecture notes on the topic.
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Post by: Lines on 25 May 2012, 07:04
Here's another thing you can do today: define "revision" in your current context.

Yeah, what exactly do you mean by revision? You seem to do a lot of them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 07:06
Oh man don't you guys use that word? Weird. I'm revising - as Akima says, it means studying. Going over the work I did this year (or the work I should have done this year...) and learning it properly because I have exams next week.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 May 2012, 07:15
I see the Oxford American Dictionary & Merriam-Webster's mark this meaning of revise as "British".  That would never have occurred to me.
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 07:17
In other words (with the same root), review.
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Post by: Carl-E on 25 May 2012, 07:22
Really?  You guys are just getting this?  I got it out of the context of usage a while ago. 

Of course, we've been listening to Barmymoo bitch about revising for quite a while, too...   :-D
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 07:25
No, I kept reading it as editing, and it was an extraordinarily long document. Almost a dissertation.
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Post by: Lines on 25 May 2012, 08:14
Same here. Now this makes a WHOLE lot more sense, considering I was wondering why the heck you had to edit papers so many times. Thanks for the clarity!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 May 2012, 10:52
Ditto! I always assumed she was writing too  :-P

Oh and I'm a terrible influence, but reading The Bloggess archives is SO much more fun!

(Have you read her book? It's phenomenal!)
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Post by: schimmy on 25 May 2012, 11:48
I got through the interview! I train on monday and tuesday, then on wednesday I start work proper. This is excellent! I'm actually going to get to live in a city I'd given up as too expensive to live in. Hooray!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 May 2012, 12:03
Sweet! Congrats!
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 12:10
Tell us about it when you start.
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 12:12
Ditto! I always assumed she was writing too  :-P

Oh and I'm a terrible influence, but reading The Bloggess archives is SO much more fun!

(Have you read her book? It's phenomenal!)

Wait. What? Who? I found a couple of neat, sad short stories attributed to a barmymoo.... I also found a Bloggess..... Which?
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 May 2012, 12:41
I was talking about The Bloggess, who recently released her first book.  :-) It's both sad, happy and absolutely hilarious all at the same time. It's called Let's Pretend This Never Happened and it's a "mostly true" memoir filled with utterly ridiculous stories about the life of Jenny Lawson aka The Bloggess. At one point I laughed so hard that I actually had to put the book down and go to the little girl's room. Amusingly enough, it was a story about a diaper.

This is one of my favorites-
http://thebloggess.com/2011/06/psychiatrists-are-not-to-be-trusted/

And this is a "classic" aka why most of the people who read her blog started reading in the first place-
http://thebloggess.com/2011/06/and-thats-why-you-should-learn-to-pick-your-battles/


(I've never read any of barmymoo's short stories, but I'd like to!)
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Post by: Omega Entity on 25 May 2012, 12:56
Really?  You guys are just getting this?  I got it out of the context of usage a while ago. 

Of course, we've been listening to Barmymoo bitch about revising for quite a while, too...   :-D

Got it from the context too. Pretty much just another word for 'studying', or in a more sever context, 'cramming'.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 25 May 2012, 12:58
I do want to read the Bloggess's book, but I haven't yet.

Where did you find my short stories? Assuming they were actually mine. I'm guessing either my barmymoo website (which might well disappear soon, I didn't renew the hosting) or my old writing portfolio. Feedback welcome :) They're all pretty old, I've just been writing essays for the last three years.

On the revising thing, I'm not really cramming or studying - I'd say studying is what I was (should have been) doing all year, and cramming is what I'll be doing on the morning of each exam, just going through my flashcards making sure the correct things are at the front of my mind.
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Post by: Jace on 25 May 2012, 13:10
I had no idea what revising meant but I just knew it was something to do with university.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 May 2012, 19:51
Many Americans first heard the phrase "screwed the pooch" in "The Right Stuff," about the first U.S. astronauts, as a reference to crashing an airplane, usually or often fatally.

The film adaptation is my favorite movie of all time. The book is amazing as well.

Today I went with my bandie Matt to put fliers up all over town for a show we have in a little under a week. Matt recently got his wisdom teeth out, so when he got a hot dog for lunch when we were done, it was amusing watching him try to eat the damn thing.

Afterward we went to our producer Sedric's house so we could do a little preliminary mixing work on the final 4 songs of the album. We're all pretty dissatisfied with the way they sound. We're probably just going to go back to recording ourselves in Matt's garage, just like we did from the beginning. These new ones have a few of my favorites among them too, so I'm doubly upset. We'll see what Sed can do with them. We have some decent-sounding ideas tossing around, at least.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 25 May 2012, 22:16
I see the Oxford American Dictionary & Merriam-Webster's mark this meaning of revise as "British".  That would never have occurred to me.
Yes, I was surprised too when I looked it up. Australian English uses the word in the same way as British in this case.
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Post by: Redball on 25 May 2012, 22:45
Re-view = view again.
But re-vise = ?
I wonder how they came to be synonymous. I wonder if vise is used in the UK with any other prefixes where we'd use view.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 25 May 2012, 23:04
Don't know of any offhand, but the root of the -vise part is the same as the root of vision, and so view as well...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2012, 03:38
I was complaining about my contraceptive pill prescription fiasco in the discuss forum prudery thread, but I thought the update might be more appropriate here. Last night after work I went to the pharmacy and said "hey have you got my pills yet dawg?" or similar words to that effect. It was a woman who I hadn't seen before, the last two times it was the same guy who wasn't unhelpful or rude but just wasn't great. This woman was very helpful, and understood my problem (I suspect that the fact she also has a womb and therefore presumably also has suffered from PMT might have helped). I explained that my exams start on Tuesday, and that I had a period last week and one last month too, and since I normally only have them every four months I really didn't want to have another one for the next week while I try to get hold of some drugs to regulate my hormones again.

She said that:
if the pills arrive this morning she will ring me and let me know
if they do not arrive by early afternoon, she will ring me and also ring the other pharmacies and try to get some in
if she can't get hold of any, she will ring my surgery on Monday and get them to alter the prescription to an identical pill under a different brand

Basically she has solved my problem entirely :) They still have no clue where the pills actually are, they've been ordered three times this week and no message has come through to say why they haven't turned up, but at least I will not be dissolving into a pile of incompetent goo during my exams.
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Post by: Redball on 26 May 2012, 05:13
Any thought of Googling the medication and brand to see if there's a shortage in the U.K.? Any thought of switching pharmacies?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2012, 07:06
I just googled on your suggestion, and there was indeed a shortage... last year. No idea whether maybe it's happened again. Anyway I don't mind if they switch me to a different brand, it makes no difference if the ingredients are the same. I suspect the reason I'm on the one I'm on is simply that it's cheaper for the NHS. Switching pharmacies is no good, because they've part-filled my prescription already so I can't just go somewhere else with it (boy do I wish they'd just told me to do that last week...)
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Post by: valley_parade on 26 May 2012, 07:22
May, if I end up coming to see you in Boston, please, please call me "dawg".
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 May 2012, 07:43
Sho thing, bro
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Post by: Lines on 26 May 2012, 08:29
You need to say both "dawg" and "sho thing, bro" while we're at gencon. Please?
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Post by: CardinalFang on 26 May 2012, 09:42
Seconded.
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Post by: Redball on 26 May 2012, 10:16
Dawg? Bro?
Hey! I've got a great idea! I'll show up, see, and greet you with a great, glad loud voice:
"Son! (or Daughter!) We hoped we'd find you here! Your mom's on her way. She wants to show you the underwear she bought you. She's sure you'll like it!"
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Post by: Lines on 26 May 2012, 13:28
I just want to see if she pronounces them correctly. If not I can give her slang lessons! High school did manage to teach me something.

Also if the underwear comment happens, don't be surprised if I make an equally awkward/hilarious retort.
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Post by: valley_parade on 26 May 2012, 13:47
Linds, do not forget to teach May how to say "swag".
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Post by: Redball on 26 May 2012, 14:01
I don't think I can get there. But it would be precious, all of it.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 May 2012, 15:34
"swag"

whenever I hear swag I think of this:

(http://img11.nnm.ru/1/a/8/f/c/3abdcd838f27edc7db270ddeb0a_prev.jpg)
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Post by: Redball on 26 May 2012, 16:40
Admission: I saw it as a Coolness Thing, for which my parental/grandparental response is to Mortify the Kid. But if it's hoping to hear how a young British woman pronounces dawg and bro', she's got a bit of time to Surprise Us All. Will someone record the event?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 26 May 2012, 19:13
Linds, do not forget to teach May how to say "swag".

Unless I am saying "swag bag", that word never comes out my mouth. So I'm not really sure how to say it in the proper manner...
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 26 May 2012, 19:31
Swag makes me think of curtains.

(http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51P6t8Tx43L._SL500_AA300_.jpg)
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Post by: Jace on 26 May 2012, 19:56
I just want to see if she pronounces them correctly. If not I can give her slang lessons! High school did manage to teach me something.

Also if the underwear comment happens, don't be surprised if I make an equally awkward/hilarious retort.

Its dogg not dawg, doggbros.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 26 May 2012, 20:10
Linds, do not forget to teach May how to say "swag".

Unless I am saying "swag bag", that word never comes out my mouth. So I'm not really sure how to say it in the proper manner...

If you're saying 'swag' and it rhymes with 'bag', then you're saying it right :-)
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Post by: Patrick on 26 May 2012, 21:42
Guys I decided to cold turkey quit cigarettes around 4pm yesterday, and now 29 hours later I am fidgety and miserable. FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUU
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Post by: Patrick on 26 May 2012, 21:43
Okay you know what fuck this I'm going to go get a pack, being healthy just isn't worth it
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 26 May 2012, 23:45
schwagginging
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Post by: Redball on 27 May 2012, 00:58
Okay you know what fuck this I'm going to go get a pack, being healthy just isn't worth it
It really is worth it. Don't stop trying to stop.
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Post by: schimmy on 27 May 2012, 01:42
I was about to post the single thing that ruined me last time I tried to quit, then thought better of it.

Instead, I'll post a tip that helped me quit for about a year in the past - every time I felt an urge to smoke, I'd make myself a cup of tea as a surrogate. A good cup of tea has the same effect on me that a cigarette does, in that it's extremely relaxing. Obviously, your mileage may vary if you're not a tea drinker, but you'd probably be able to find something that does the same to you.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 May 2012, 02:04
I used nicotine patches and they are the best fucking high I ever had.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 27 May 2012, 02:13
I know several people who quit smoking, only to get addicted to patches.

edit:
I'm currently trying to figure out how much council tax I'm going to be eligible for next year. After an hour trying to figure out how all the different rules apply to me, I've given up and sent an email to my local council asking for them to just explain it to me. Then it occurred to me that some UK forumites might have some relevant experience.

Basically, I'm currently planning on working a full time job whilst living with two students. I know that a full student house is exempt from council tax; I know that as a non-student I have to pay council tax.
The clearest information I've been able to find is that if there's only one person living in a house eligible for council tax, then the house gets a 25% discount. I can't figure out if what they mean by this is that it's a 25% discount on top of the exemptions we'd get for having students, or if my living in the property would nullify the student exemptions, resulting in us only getting a 25% overall.

I'm kind of scared that it'll be the latter, but it doesn't make any sense for it to be anything but the former. What would it be about the fact that there's a non-student in the house that means that the students can suddenly afford to pay council tax?

If it is the case that we'd only get a 25% overall discount, then my hopes of living with 2 of my best friends next year are completely scuppered - I can hardly expect them to pay council tax just because I have to, yet I can't afford to live in a house and pay the council tax entirely by myself - if I lived with other people who had to pay council tax, we might not get a discount, but at least I wouldn't be paying the majority of it myself.

Arrrgh stupid taxes, I'm barely going to be able to afford to pay my bills as it is.


edit 2:
It dawned on me that my girlfriend is a student living with a non-student. She says the student exemptions stand, and the remaining adult gets a 25% discount of their share of the tax. Awesome!
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Post by: pwhodges on 27 May 2012, 12:46
In spite of last month's exceptional rain, drought restrictions on the domestic use of hoses for watering are still in place where I live; however, the use of drip-feed irrigation systems is permitted.  I have just spent the evening putting my drip-feed irrigation system in place, and extending it to cover stuff that it didn't reach last year.  One last length of hose, and it'll get to the vegetable patch.
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Post by: Redball on 27 May 2012, 14:26
Amazing that more people haven't learned about drip irrigation. Since retirement to a rural area, I'm on a well which can come up with 1k gallons/hour. I have a home built out from an A-frame with a pool adjacent, and my wife ended up with so much shrubbery that drip irrigation was a must. I have enough installed in a single zone that the well pump runs flat out, and still pumps up 6-7 feet to drip into some hanging baskets.

The township a few years ago considered building a water and sewer system which would have protected our little lakes from pollution but also would have required homeowners to abandon their wells. In principle, I agreed with it, but it would have cost me, between occasional fillings of a 16k gallon pool and the every other day irrigation.

Got in the pool for the first time today. 82F, thanks to 200 sq ft of solar panels. Probably higher tomorrow.
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Post by: Jace on 27 May 2012, 20:14
This is what I did tonight in about 3 hours (total time of like 5 hours but like 3 hours of actual work):
(http://dl.dropbox.com/u/63857951/2012-05-27%2023.05.41.jpg)
(http://dl.dropbox.com/u/63857951/2012-05-27%2023.06.11.jpg)

Looks splinted on the outside, but it is just a solid plate on the inside. Just easier to cut and sand and bend properly that way. The part that covers the hand doesn't have any metal because that part is generally hidden behind a hard basket hilt.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 May 2012, 22:23
Year-long dry spell: over. What am I doinggggggg
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 28 May 2012, 22:56
Just been diagnosed with familial hypercholesterolaemia. Looks like food is going to be a bit more boring from now on.
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 May 2012, 00:01
Well, that depends; a Mediterranean style diet, with oily fish and red wine, is not necessarily any more boring than a Northern European style diet with fatty meat and beer.  And your already healthy lifestyle makes a good starting point.
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Post by: DrPhibes on 29 May 2012, 00:39
I'm going to teach about Napoleon Bonaparte in the following shirt: http://www.topatoco.com/graphics/00000001/beat-serious.png
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Post by: Omega Entity on 29 May 2012, 06:28
I love Kate Beaton. My favorite strip is still http://harkavagrant.com/index.php?id=120 .
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Post by: Lines on 29 May 2012, 07:57
Year-long dry spell: over. What am I doinggggggg

Bad, Patrick, bad!
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 May 2012, 08:08
Holy crap you guys. It's already Tuesday.

Went to Lake Taghkanic on Sunday and it ended up being an absolutely gorgeous day. The ridiculous humidity finally broke and we had a great day of relaxation. Yesterday was a cleaning/laundry day until about 4pm. Then went to buy a dress for my cousin's wedding (this Saturday) and take advantage of the free air conditioning in the mall (the previously noted humidity returned yesterday).

Tonight I'm heading out to a friend's house because I'm leaving at 7am with a few friends to head to Pittsburgh (YAY PEPPERS SHOW). The show is tomorrow night but we'll be staying over because it's a 7 hour drive from here to there. Coming home Thursday evening, then leaving again on Friday morning to head to New Jersey for previously mentioned cousin's wedding. They're having it down by the shore, so we gave an arm and a leg for the hotel room. After taxes and fees and all that other crap, it came to $225 for two nights. In a Holiday Inn. Which is actually a half hour away from the wedding venue. If we stayed 15 minutes closer, it would have cost $350 for the same two nights. I'm getting $40 cashback and a $75 rebate for booking 2 nights in a row though, so I guess it could be worse.

The prospect of traveling over 1,000 miles in a week is not exactly fun....but I'll enjoy the destinations!
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 29 May 2012, 08:48
I refuse to stay at any hotel that charges more than 100 a night. I'd sooner find a 24 hour Walmart and sleep in the bathroom stall, which I've done.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 29 May 2012, 09:00
Year-long dry spell: over. What am I doinggggggg

Bad, Patrick, bad!

You don't even know, now I'm gonna get all attached and stupid and I don't want that to happen because I actually like this girl. Goddamned mutual drunkenness.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 May 2012, 09:29
So you like her, and she seems to like you, and you might get attached? Where's the problem?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 29 May 2012, 09:50
The problem is that Patrick can't do anything correctly. My projection is 3 weeks before he starts getting needy with her, realizes it, starts blowing her off, makes out with another girl, and then cries about being dumped. Cries in the lap of another girl. Then the process will repeat itself.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 29 May 2012, 11:46
I bought an air conditioner unit for my window today.
My room is 1000% more comfortable now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 29 May 2012, 12:50
The problem is that Patrick can't do anything correctly. My projection is 3 weeks before he starts getting needy with her, realizes it, starts blowing her off, makes out with another girl, and then cries about being dumped. Cries in the lap of another girl. Then the process will repeat itself.

You are very nearly 100% correct, and this is a cycle I just don't want to deal with. I've gotten into this situation nearly every single time I've been interested in a girl. I can't be trusted in any kind of relationship, but I'm not exactly mentally well-suited for hookups either.  :psyduck:

The sex was amazing though. Easily among the best I ever had.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 May 2012, 13:53
Patrick, have you considered some kind of behavioural therapy to get you out of the loop? Seems healthier than just avoiding something that could make you happy. Obviously you can't do anything about the crazy of the people you get involved with, but you are the common factor in all your failed relationships thus far. I'm saying this as a person who has recognised a similar pattern (different issues, but still me being the common factor) and decided to put things on hold until I have time to get therapy properly, so obviously only you can decide if that's the right thing for you right now.

Blog thread, I think my exam this afternoon went really well! I was pretty pleased. I just hope that tomorrow morning's exam will go equally well; I have prepared some topics thoroughly and others not at all, which is a massive gamble to take but the one I chose so I'll have to stick with it now. I'll skim my lecture notes for some of the others tomorrow before I go in, so that the case names are in my short-term memory, and be cunning about my choice of questions. I was feeling confident and almost enthusiastic about this one a couple of weeks ago, because if the right questions come up then I've got a good chance of shining - I have unusual views on things, and it helps me to stick out. In fact encouragingly my supervisor said something like that in a revision supervision - to the entire group she said "you're lucky to have May in your group, because she has a different way of looking at things". I think she sort of meant that they should also develop some views, but no one seems keen on discussing things with me. So it'll be nice to have the opportunity to get my ideas down on paper and share them with the lecturers, albeit anonymously.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 May 2012, 05:08
Relationships don't make me happy, only I can do that. I don't think choosing to stay away is really necessarily unhealthy, and it's certainly more affordable than any kind of trained professional. I am simply annoyed at myself for consciously making a decision that I knew would make me ask myself "why did you do this" later.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 30 May 2012, 07:24
... and that's why it's called behavioural therapy. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 31 May 2012, 03:08
Dear Blug

I got a work placement at HarperCollins, in the Publicity department. They are publisher of the year. One of the biggest publishers in the world. Actually, they are one of the "big six" of publishing. I am very, very excited. And all it took was harassment since January 31st. Many emails and a strategic phone call later, I'm there for two weeks in September.

It's not paid, it's not techinically an internship, but I'm super happy to have been able to get some experience at a big publishers that deals with fiction (my other placements deal with academic/legal copy).

Now, I just need to do something with myself throughout August (I can't cancel Dinner With Me again, but it's an otherwise empty schedule)

ALSO!

I'm reviewing a book for another press, and based on my review this guy is either going to be published, or not. The bio he sent suggests he's a lawyer, been published before, and is pretty successful. His prose isn't good, he uses a lot of weak metaphors and while I'm sort of half interested in the story, the mistakes and the way in which it is executed isn't working. It feels weird to have so much "power".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 01 Jun 2012, 21:45
Oh hey, the boy is officially a homeowner now. He signed all the stuff yesterday and moved in today. And I'll be moving in sometime mid-June. So...yay! We have a house! I'll post pictures when we get settled.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Jun 2012, 01:41
My friend's boyfriend died on Tuesday and I only found out last night. I have no idea what to say, or whether I should - what the fuck do you do when you're 19 and your boyfriend is killed?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Nikolai on 02 Jun 2012, 01:49
Heal and move on, however long it takes. Sucks, but what else are you supposed to do? Never loving again is a pretty shitty option, especially with ones whole life ahead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Jun 2012, 02:11
I'm sure she will, but I can't imagine how she must be feeling. It couldn't have been worse timing either; I think he died at the start of this week, which means she won't have sat any of the exams and probably won't take next week's either. After that she would have had three months to spend with him. I'm just glad her family live close by so that she can go home.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 Jun 2012, 02:16
Oh May, that's such a terrible tragedy! My bandmate Matt went through something similar earlier this year when one of his dearest friends died of a drug overdose. Being young and having one of the people closest to your heart, who is also your age, just instantly vanish from your life like that... it took Matt a while to be back to his normal self. And I was the only person he had who he could really talk to about it.

I never did figure out exactly what to say. I just gave him a hug, told him how sorry I was, and asked him what his favorite memories of his friend were. That last one seemed to help the most, it got him thinking about how lucky he'd been to have him as a friend in the first place. I got to hear some great stories, and Matt's eyes lit up for the first time that week when he started telling them. I'll never forget how that felt.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 02 Jun 2012, 06:00
I never did figure out exactly what to say. I just gave him a hug, told him how sorry I was, and asked him what his favorite memories of his friend were. That last one seemed to help the most, it got him thinking about how lucky he'd been to have him as a friend in the first place. I got to hear some great stories, and Matt's eyes lit up for the first time that week when he started telling them. I'll never forget how that felt.
Perfect!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Jun 2012, 10:43
I have found out that he was killed in a motorcycle accident, but beyond that I don't know anything. I don't think I need to really. She has been deemed to deserve honours for our exams, but will have to take the exempting subjects in the summer (some papers are required to qualify as a lawyer in the future).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 03 Jun 2012, 02:49
Guys, I have some pretty awesome news! Troubador is opening for a show at the Gilman (https://www.facebook.com/events/144721905662096/)! I've never even been, but I've been dreaming of playing this joint for so much of my life that I hardly dared imagine it could happen, and yet there it is, our name's on the bill.

And now here's a video of Matt and I playing our friends' band Speak Friend's song "Oct 31" (original song here) (http://speakfriend.bandcamp.com/track/oct-31st):
As done by 2/3 of Troubador (https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=424137834274031)

 :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Jun 2012, 04:49
That's awesome, Patrick :) I hope it goes amazingly.

It is a grey and miserable day, and I can't go to London to see the Jubilee flotilla because of choir and exams, but I might eat some ice cream at the Welfare Sundae Sunday event, and maybe next week when my exams are over, the sun will come out.

Also, I found out last night that my ex-girlfriend is definitely going out with my sister. I thought that was the case, they met and hit it off at my birthday party at the end of March, but I only found out for sure last night. I'm pretty pleased, they're both lovely people and I brought them together (albeit totally inadvertently!).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 03 Jun 2012, 08:19
That really sucks, tuathal. Maybe you can try to contact the student newspaper about this, just so that such a fuck-up doesn't go by unnoticed by everyone else.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jun 2012, 14:43
OK everyone I'm going to need your life savings to buy the forum a house (http://webdata.carterjonas.co.uk/assets/CJ/sales/pdf/HUD100094.PDF). If everyone can chip in a couple of grand we'll be sorted, and then we can rent it out and we'll be laughing all the way to the bank.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 06 Jun 2012, 14:55
I already have a house in the Dep thread. You guys can room there as long as you keep it clean.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jun 2012, 14:56
Does your house have three kitchens?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jun 2012, 15:37
I've cycled past it a couple of times while visiting my brother, it looks pretty solid from the outside. They built things to last back then.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 06 Jun 2012, 15:41
Price? Taxes? Utilities?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jun 2012, 15:50
Details, details. We can rent out the gardens to picnicers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 06 Jun 2012, 15:58
Dear Blog,

I finished an animation built in Maya today which would mean I was officially done (bar evaluation) with my second last module to be finished for Monday. I saved it, copied the file to my external harddrive, opened it to make sure it was all good and "FILE BROKEN". Tried the one still on the desktop, "ALSO BROKEN". All the latest incremental saves just died. The newest file working was from over an hour before, just when I finished rigging the thing. So the actually animating wouldn't have taken that long to do, maybe an hour if I was picky, but I was shaking in rage so I just packed up and went.
I did show my tutor the animation before it botched so he knows I've done it and I have the screenshots and diary as proof of my process but I still need the final file. Gotta finish it Friday.

Just... Sucks, man.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 06 Jun 2012, 16:07
Details, details. We can rent out the gardens to picnicers.
Balloonists? Fox hunts? Guess not, on 20 acres.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Jun 2012, 16:17
dude, weddings. you would not believe the amounts people spend on weddings. we'd be set.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Jun 2012, 17:00
SO MANY WEDDINGS. Comparing to what people will pay to have a wedding at one of the local parks, I'm sure we could afford to keep the house up off of weddings in the gardens.

May, if I had the money I'd be so in. I wanted to get some friends together to buy this house (http://www.zillow.com/homedetails/430-W-Cliff-Ln-Cincinnati-OH-45220/34261434_zpid/), but alas, it wasn't meant to be.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 Jun 2012, 18:36
OK everyone I'm going to need your life savings to buy the forum a house (http://webdata.carterjonas.co.uk/assets/CJ/sales/pdf/HUD100094.PDF). If everyone can chip in a couple of grand we'll be sorted, and then we can rent it out and we'll be laughing all the way to the bank.

a) I only have like $190 to my name right now

b) there's no basement, where are we gonna host punk shows as a way of paying the mortgage?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 06 Jun 2012, 18:56

a) I only have like $190 to my name right now

b) there's no basement, where are we gonna host punk shows kink parties as a way of paying the mortgage?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 06 Jun 2012, 19:45
Oh wait, it's got a "vaulted wine cellar". Fuck wine, kink and punk ahoy!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 07 Jun 2012, 05:13
OK everyone I'm going to need your life savings to buy the forum a house (http://webdata.carterjonas.co.uk/assets/CJ/sales/pdf/HUD100094.PDF). If everyone can chip in a couple of grand we'll be sorted, and then we can rent it out and we'll be laughing all the way to the bank.

There's no better way of saying "I'm filthy rich" than "I've got a reception hall. It's panelled in oak. It's described as 'grand'. It's about the size of a quarter of a tennis field". I also like that there are "self contained staff accommodations" - so you don't have to see the servants when they're not serving you!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Jun 2012, 05:25
On the first floor there isn't even any way between the staff and main parts of the house!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 07 Jun 2012, 05:29
Oh wait, it's got a "vaulted wine cellar". Fuck wine, kink and punk ahoy!

Not to hate on punk or people who like it, but most people who like punk don't have that much money! We need to make money off of rich people! So I think Kat's route might actually be more effective, especially if it's very discrete. Also I want to have masquerade balls and that wouldn't mesh well with punk. And you need wine for those things. Also wine is nice. Also outdoor music festivals are a lot better than basement festivals, but if people litter on those grounds, they gonna die.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Jun 2012, 06:03
I'm SO in. Can I sign up as the first wedding on the premises? I nearly had a meltdown yesterday about how much fucking money these Wedding Industry Bastards want to weasel out of us.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 07 Jun 2012, 07:51
Weddings are expensive. Some friends are planning one now and trying to keep the cost down as much as possible, but when you add up food, reception location, photographers, and all that, it's nuts. Personally I want an inexpensive wedding so I can go someplace nice for my honeymoon. I will make most of the stuff myself if I have to (which I kind of want to do anyways).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2012, 08:48
We could totally start a wedding service. One of my stepbrothers is a great photographer, I have musician friends who play at a lot of weddings, between us we could definitely do the catering. OK everyone, send me all your moneys.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Jun 2012, 09:10
So how many two thousand dollarses is this?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2012, 09:11
Currently we're looking at $   3,110,416.50, plus stamp duty. And conversion charges. Better get selling off those kidneys, people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 07 Jun 2012, 09:16
A mere $480 per forum member. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 07 Jun 2012, 09:31
And we send it in to this address in Nigeria, right?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Jun 2012, 09:33
No, this time it's to that department of the UN that uses a Yahoo mail address.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 07 Jun 2012, 09:39
A mere $480 per forum member. 
A bit more if you only count the people who have posted in the last, say, two months.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 07 Jun 2012, 10:05
Oh wait, it's got a "vaulted wine cellar". Fuck wine, kink and punk ahoy!

Not to hate on punk or people who like it, but most people who like punk don't have that much money! We need to make money off of rich people! So I think Kat's route might actually be more effective, especially if it's very discrete. Also I want to have masquerade balls and that wouldn't mesh well with punk. And you need wine for those things. Also wine is nice. Also outdoor music festivals are a lot better than basement festivals, but if people litter on those grounds, they gonna die.

Confession: Mostly I want a huge house with a huge basement someday so I can host shows just to have the bands I like come and play them. Wouldn't give no fucks about turning profit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Jun 2012, 12:50
Weddings are expensive. Some friends are planning one now and trying to keep the cost down as much as possible, but when you add up food, reception location, photographers, and all that, it's nuts. Personally I want an inexpensive wedding so I can go someplace nice for my honeymoon. I will make most of the stuff myself if I have to (which I kind of want to do anyways).

Yeahh, we're definitely going to budget route- gives me an excuse to get artsy and craftsy. I was on The Knot for a while and I saw one person talking about her 30k "budget wedding". I had to pick my jaw up off the floor. We're trying to keep ours at roughly a third of that and I still think it's too much money. That total is even with me making all of the bouquets, centerpieces, favors, stationery....


Oh! Can we have a studio in our house too? With easels, wheels, a kiln, etc....we can sell art to pay the mortgage too!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 07 Jun 2012, 13:30
Seconded! Studio is a must. I will even teach classes!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2012, 14:01
Although it's not mentioned anywhere in the descriptions, in the efficiency report (the red to green bar charts) there is a chart for a cottage. Totally can be a studio.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Jun 2012, 14:16
400 sq ft for a wood shop and a closet with window for a ham station.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 07 Jun 2012, 15:03
Every house needs a sex dungeon. If space is tight, we can share with the wood shop.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2012, 15:05
Guys, you are not having a sex dungeon in my 17th century house of elegance and sophistication, you can use one of the outbuildings and I'll just never go there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 Jun 2012, 15:14
You guys all have to be quiet when Troubador's recording though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Jun 2012, 15:15
Trying to imagine incorporating table saws, router tables, drill press, jointer-planer, band-saw, 6x48 belt sander into sex dungeon.
Ewwwww!
And that doesn't include the air compressor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 07 Jun 2012, 15:22
Fuck Saws are a thing actually.

Power Tool kinks are such a big thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 07 Jun 2012, 15:26
Guys, you are not having a sex dungeon in my 17th century house of elegance and sophistication, you can use one of the outbuildings and I'll just never go there.

People in the 17th century had sex!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jun 2012, 15:43
I am sure they did. People still have sex, but not in my room :p
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 Jun 2012, 16:57
Guys, my guitar amp is $300-400 worth of broken, the snare drum at my jam night is broken, and Matt isn't sticking around at open mic tonight. Bummer day.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Jun 2012, 17:31
Fuck Saws are a thing actually.
Even featured in a university course: http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2011/03/05/northwestern-professor-apologizes-for-fcksaw-demonstration/ (http://www.rawstory.com/rs/2011/03/05/northwestern-professor-apologizes-for-fcksaw-demonstration/)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 07 Jun 2012, 18:08
My nana is gonna die and I'm at work trying not to break down because even though no one else is here it sucks and I have been preparing myself for it for years but I never thought that I'd be 3000 miles away when it happened. I don't want condolences or anything, I just have to write this down. Reposted this from the other forum I'm on to ensure coverage.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Jun 2012, 18:59
That's hard, to be far away when someone you love is dying. OK, so no condolences. You've got my sympathy, though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 08 Jun 2012, 04:32
I am sure they did. People still have sex, but not in my room :p

... awwww ...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 08 Jun 2012, 06:55
People in the 17th century had sex!

New sigquote, because I could not stop giggling at this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 08 Jun 2012, 12:57
I tried to surf yesterday for the first time ever. Managed to get on my knees a few times and after the first couple goes I got the hang of balancing pretty quick so I didn't keep falling off. Was very fun but very tiring and today my arms are screaming at me for it. Need to get working on my upper body strength.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 08 Jun 2012, 14:46
You and me both, Welu. In gymnastics, the first time I pulled up to shoulder level in the rings was so intensive I couldn't pull up on anything else for the remainder of the lesson. The trick is, according to a stocky Asian guy with biceps the size of my quadriceps, to get the rings on the inside of your wrists instead of hanging on your palms or fingers.

Now I have a cold, so I feel like crap. And there's nothing like videogames to make you forget all about feeling like crap! When your entire attention capacity is focused on the shiny things on the screen, there's no room left for the thoughts "Man, I feel like crap" and so you don't feel like crap at all any more.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 09 Jun 2012, 12:21
Weddings are expensive. Some friends are planning one now and trying to keep the cost down as much as possible, but when you add up food, reception location, photographers, and all that, it's nuts. Personally I want an inexpensive wedding so I can go someplace nice for my honeymoon. I will make most of the stuff myself if I have to (which I kind of want to do anyways).

Yeahh, we're definitely going to budget route- gives me an excuse to get artsy and craftsy. I was on The Knot for a while and I saw one person talking about her 30k "budget wedding". I had to pick my jaw up off the floor. We're trying to keep ours at roughly a third of that and I still think it's too much money. That total is even with me making all of the bouquets, centerpieces, favors, stationery....

Just run through our wedding budget and it's come out at £4k tops ($6.1k). Mind you, I reckon I could probably halve that if we wanted to forego some of the nice stuff that's important to us. Mind you, the phrase "No, we're not bothering with that sort of nonsense" has crossed my lips a few times in recent months.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Jun 2012, 13:44
I've been having a lot of reminders that I'm homesick hitting me right in the face lately, and it's already ruined my day. Isn't even goddamn 2pm yet and I'm having something of a breakdown. Fuck this, I'm going back to bed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 Jun 2012, 15:52
Me, texting my mom:
"any news?"
response:
"She is in hospice now. Resting comfortably on pain killers. Waiting for her to be ready to move in with your Grandpa Chuckie. Saw her this afternoon-she told me he was there with her & then smiled twice."

Simultaneously uplifting and soul crushing.
Have wanted to call my mom but I've been working the past couple evenings and I know that if I actually talk to her that I'd completely lose my composure.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 09 Jun 2012, 16:10
I think you're saying your grandpa has already gone on ahead?
Jace, can you give yourself permission to lose your composure, cry your eyes out? God knows I did in the last 17 months.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 Jun 2012, 16:38
Yeah, he passed on years before I was born.
The reason I can't lose my composure is because I'm at work and have been for the past couple evenings.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Jun 2012, 17:22
Watching grandparents go weighs on you heavily, everybody knows that. Talk to yr boss, take a day and just let loose, man, it'll do you some good.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 Jun 2012, 17:28
I have a full week of time off that I am taking starting next sunday. There will be fighting day and night and I'm really looking forward to that as it'll be a great stress release.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 09 Jun 2012, 20:17
Just run through our wedding budget and it's come out at £4k tops ($6.1k). Mind you, I reckon I could probably halve that if we wanted to forego some of the nice stuff that's important to us. Mind you, the phrase "No, we're not bothering with that sort of nonsense" has crossed my lips a few times in recent months.

Just out of curiosity, what's the nice stuff?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 09 Jun 2012, 23:35
We're having a Celidh band for our music where we could have done the music for practically nothing. As we're getting married in the morning and having the reception in the evening we've decided to orchestrate a picnic in between up on Burbage Moor in the Peak District. This has bumped up the transportation costs a fair bit. I could probably have arranged catering for the guests for around £300-400 but we decided to use a local restaurant to do it for us. Again this costs more but the food's really good and that's important to us. Finally I could have done the booze decently on the cheap but instead we went with buying in a couple of kegs from Sheffield's local breweries and while it's not that expensive, it costs a little more.

The bride is knitting her own wedding dress and that is costing dearly in time and frustration but is a massive saving in money. Not the point but it does count.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Jun 2012, 06:29
Knitting her dress? COOL! If she lets you, you should totally post photos of it when she's done, I'd love to see it.

That sounds like it'd be a fun wedding to go to. And it's what you guys want, which is great. I've been to a few weddings where it felt like a wedding for the parents and not for the bride and groom and it just wasn't fun. (At least not for the groom and his friends, from what I could tell.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 Jun 2012, 09:11
Ate a McGangbang last night.

I am giving credit to it for why I don't have a soul-crushing hangover today. However, I did wake up this morning to find I was still in full suit, aside from socks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 Jun 2012, 09:43
Glad you asked!

It's a standard double cheeseburger from McDonalds, but you open it up and stick an entire McChicken in the middle.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Jun 2012, 11:07
Whaaaaaaaaaat. The. Crap. Is that drunk people food? It sounds like drunk people food.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 10 Jun 2012, 11:32
Oh man Shane you and I gotta be like twins or something, I did the same thing 2 days ago, baked as fuuuuuuuuck

Also ate another double cheeseburger with my meal
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 Jun 2012, 12:40
Yeah since it was like 2:30 AM I supplied it with an egg mcmuffin.

Linds: Yes, I was very drunk last night.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 10 Jun 2012, 12:42
Its a McDouble with a McChicken inside it.

Double cheeseburgers have an extra piece of cheese and cost like $50 more than a McDouble.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 Jun 2012, 12:44
SORRY FOR CLASSING IT UP WITH ALL THAT CHEESE.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 10 Jun 2012, 14:05
Anyone here watch the Cinema Snob/Brad Jones? He does a series called "Brad Tries" where he has weird food and drink and on it he has done the McGangBang and the Mc10:35. The latter is named as such because it has to be ordered at breakfast transition time, an Egg McMuffin combined with a McDouble.

(http://www.epicportions.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1432-537x402.jpg)

I have never tried either because I'm not a fan of McDonalds any way but some day I might if I'm hungover and at college, because McDonalds is less than a minute walk from the building.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 10 Jun 2012, 15:21
I saw the Brad Tries video the other day, and it popped into my drunken dome when I was in line.

Of course, our McDonalds has a limited breakfast menu after midnight, so I could've done double duty, but ehh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Jun 2012, 19:16
You guys are making me never want to eat McDonalds ever again. Not that I want to eat it very much anyways. (Except their sausage biscuits because, I don't know why, but they are like breakfast crack.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 11 Jun 2012, 01:17
Going to a friend's funeral today. This is the first funeral I've been to since I was in primary school. I can't really get my head around it, but I'm feeling really nervous for some reason.

How the hell does a 19 year old girl go from "The doctor says I have a heart condition" to having a heart attack in the space of two weeks?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Jun 2012, 03:53
It may seem strange that I ask the same question about a spouse of four decades, a 28-year cancer survivor, who died of a stroke on the day we were to put her in hospice care. How can someone so close be so suddenly .... gone.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Jun 2012, 04:34
The last funeral I went to was the first one I had attended since my granddad died when I was about fourteen. It was the mother of my boyfriend's close friend and it was really surreal. I had only met the woman once a couple of weeks before and she was so lovely. The death was unexpected and sudden so even for a funeral the mood was so heavy. I felt really nervous because I felt like I shouldn't have been there, but I wanted to support my my boyfriend's family and his friend because they were all so close.
I don't want to simplify it so much but just, it's never going to be pleasant and it's hard to not have a lot of questions.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Jun 2012, 06:34
Most of the funerals I attend are those of acquaintances or relatives of acquaintances, and I expect to have an experience both somewhat sad and quite pleasant. The pleasure, sometimes during a memorial service, sometimes at a visitation, usually over food and drink after the service, comes from sharing stories about and around the deceased and sometimes a reunion of people who haven't seen one another for a long time. Might age make a difference? My father died when I was 24, and while I knew he was dying, I was still distraught when he went, the more so because we hadn't been close. The brother of my daughter's best childhood friend committed suicide. She was too distraught to return to college for several days and for years resented her mother for ordering her back. But when my wife died, I ended up emceeing a memorial, dry-eyed mostly, telling a few funny stories, introducing those who rose to speak, and chatted and laughed afterward.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 11 Jun 2012, 07:31
Schimmy - losing someone suddenly, especially when it's so close to your age, is surreal in the worst kind of way. It makes no sense and I don't think I understood what I was feeling before I went to the funeral for a friend last month. I'm sorry for your loss, I hope her friends and family can find peace soon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Jun 2012, 07:38
I felt really nervous because I felt like I shouldn't have been there, but I wanted to support my my boyfriend's family and his friend because they were all so close.
There's never a reason not to be there, unless you know you wouldn't be welcome. You're giving your presence. That's noticed and valued by the family.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 11 Jun 2012, 08:29
Schimmy, for all of it's seeming breadth and incomprehensible vastness, biology and medicine are still very inaccurate, sciences. Alas, one of the few things that can be said with some absolute certainty is that these thing will continue to happen for a long time to come, such is the effect of a huge number of genetic and biological variables.
The year after leaving school a kid a couple of years down that I know of through other friends tried to dodge a rugby tackle and collided with the H posts. He was knocked out, never regained consciousness and died that night. Yet in comparison I've been knocked unconscious three time, had four cases of hypothermia, broken two bones suffered many illnesses and absorbed a lot of other damage alone the way. I'm no exception either, that's probably pretty normal as the human body is a pretty impressive self-repairing machine capable of amazing things. Unfortunately sometimes it isn't. I'd strongly recommend people to come to terms with that because the oft and unfulfilling answer to "Why?" is "just because". I realise that sounds cold and callous and it comes from a position afforded the comfort of distance. Better to focus on what you were fortunate enough to have rather than tilt against having lost it.

If you're nervous, that's normal, even later on in life it is uncomfortable and unsettling to have one's mortality challenged so abruptly.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 11 Jun 2012, 08:36
The last funeral I went to was for a friend of mine in college....she passed last July at the age of 26. No one said how she died, but it is presumed that it was suicide.

I was a total fucking mess. I miss her so much.

Someone I went to high school with died in a motorcycle accident last month. Was the kind of guy that everyone loved, had a daughter on the way. I just couldn't bring myself to go...I've been incredibly preoccupied with mortality lately. I need brain bleach. I really wish I could come to terms with it, but I mean....I get anxious when I think about not having time to buy stamps. I actually remember the first time I panicked about death. I was in elementary school and I was sitting in a recliner in the living room. Nothing really put the thought in my head except for my imagination but it got the best of me. I was clutching my knees and crying and my mom walked in and asked what was wrong. All I could come out with was "I don't want to die". She just looked at me and said "You're 8! You're not going to die for a very, very, very long time."



TSK: this is a tad bit late, but your wedding sounds like it's going to be awesome. I second the notion of a dress photo.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 11 Jun 2012, 09:29
That's the thing with the human body - so strong in some ways, but so fragile in so many others. All it takes is an injury to the wrong place, and sometimes not even that in the case of people born with defects or abnormalities.

I believe it was this last spring that I found out that a girl my age (28) had died - I didn't have a lot of friends in compulsory school, and I didn't really know her, but I do remember that she was a quiet, sweet girl (I remembered her because she was one of the ones that -didn't- tease me - that, and my Grandfather's and father's building company had built her parents' house, where they still live).

Come to find out, she had been in the hospital the week before for pneumonia, had been released, and had gone to a doctor's appointment the day before and was told she was doing well. She opted to not go to a party with her parents, saying she wanted to recoup a bit before going back to work on the following Monday (she was a teacher). The parents talked to her on the phone in the afternoon, but when they came home they found her on the couch, gone.

You just don't know.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 11 Jun 2012, 15:45
Welp, that's that.
And she's gone.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Jun 2012, 16:39
How're you doing? Easier, with time off?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 11 Jun 2012, 17:40
I'm doing pretty good. It happened slow enough that I was able to think about it and find a good place of acceptance. My family is really easy going, my mom left me voicemail saying she had news while I was asleep and my lady said it didn't sound like she was doing too badly. I joked that maybe nana had achieved godhood and now we'll all have to deal with her forever. My mom laughed when I told her that as well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Jun 2012, 17:53
Were you surprised by your ability to joke and your mom's ability to laugh?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 12 Jun 2012, 05:37
Nah, I (and by further extent, my family) generally deal with things by joking. Even when it is unjokeable topics.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 12 Jun 2012, 05:44
Humor helps in a lot of dark places- one could argue that it's more prevalent there than anywhere else. After all, laughter is the best medicine.


It's tough to know what to say, but I'm glad you're faring better than you were.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: schimmy on 12 Jun 2012, 12:46
I never expected to say this, but the funeral was really good. A number of people gave some really touching speeches. A couple of the speeches were heart breaking - three of her closest friends essentially broke down and cried in front of everyone, but they all managed to say some really sweet things. The other speeches (from  her boyfriend, a friend of mine, and her cousin) were kind of the opposite - rather than saying how terrible it was to have lost her, they shared some amazing stories about her life, some of which were very funny. I left the ceremony feeling actually quite happy. She had a great life, was having the time of her life at uni, and with her boyfriend, and her death was so sudden that she never even knew it was coming - so no fear, no worry, no pain. Just happiness and then nothing. I hope when I go people can say that about me.

It was really inspiring seeing how many people turned up, as well. The crematorium was so packed that maybe two dozen people had to stand at the back, because there wasn't enough space for everyone to sit down.

I'm not entirely sure how I didn't cry. I genuinely don't remember the last time I cried - I don't think I've done it since I was a child. I was so close though. Closer than I can remember having ever been.

On the topic of humour in dark places, her boyfriend said something that totally caught me off guard, and I didn't believe he'd said it until my friend confirmed it. We were stood outside the crematorium immediately after the ceremony, making the rounds saying hello to everyone, when a noise came from the back of the crematorium. Upon hearing this noise, the only thing he said was "Well that's her done."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Jun 2012, 14:56
I have some plants on my little balcony.  Sugar snap peas, a tomato, and I had morning glories growing and they suddenly started doing very badly.  It looked like they were getting trampled.  Turns out they were. 

This is Henri.

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-MX-4e1G3rfc/T9ewH9ZWjhI/AAAAAAAABc8/Wp7TP1Um7VI/s817/IMG_20120612_170739.jpg)

(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-u2ii4D78kwo/T9ewirh7WlI/AAAAAAAABdM/1TqvtVwSOsQ/s817/IMG_20120612_170902.jpg)
He loves to chill on my porch and dig in the container that used to have morning glories and eat left over bird seed and drink water from my water the plants bucket.  Sometimes he just stretches out on the railing and naps. I'm not sure where this relationship is going, but I think I like it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 13 Jun 2012, 19:21
Oh man, I am so sorry for your loss.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 13 Jun 2012, 19:39
If it helps, tell us more about your friend and how you're dealing with such a terrible loss.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Jun 2012, 19:49
I'm so sorry...it really does feel like the people that leave us unexpectedly are usually some of the most amazing people we know. It fucking sucks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 13 Jun 2012, 20:14
My condolences. 'I'm sorry' seems like it's always an incredible understatement, in situations like this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 16 Jun 2012, 15:26
Shit, pal. I'm really sorry to hear of yr loss. It looks like everybody's experiencing some pretty heavy losses lately. Hugs all around for y'all!

I've actually been having a great time of things for the last straight three days, so maybe sharing some of that sunshine will be distracting. It started on Wednedsay. Had a great open mic, a girl I've known as an acquaintance for a couple years finally decided to come out to see what it was all about. I asked her to name a couple songs she could sing in their original keys, and I taught em to the guys I was jamming with. They both learned suuuper quick (shit like "Billy Jean") and we all instantly gelled for the occasion. Fuckin magic! She told me she would most certainly be returning. Awesome!

Thursday, I had a show at the same bar. Just like I had anticipated, all 3 other bands were amazing! We got a fat ego boost by the other local band making us switch our opening position for their closing position at the last minute (which we did) because we "are pretty much a failsafe draw." That is super nice of them to say. And it actually worked too, which was nice haha. Then I went to an afterparty with some friends and a girl I'm digging. Came home, had great sex, went to sleep, woke up the next morning, had great sex again, played a really fun game of golf.

Last night, I played at a coffee shop, got paid the standard $40 and made an extra $20 in tips, and proceeded to get a 12-pack of Sam Adams and smoke marijuana and engage in tasteless joke exchanges with some friends.

Today I'm going on a bike ride to a park with a bunch of people carrying lightsabers. We will battle in the park, then go to the bar and get our drank on.

Tomorrow, I'm going flying with my dad. Whoooo!

Basically my whole week rules and I wish everybody else's week were better.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Jun 2012, 19:06
People need to like, stop dying, like, right now. I'm sorry for everyone who's having to deal with things.

My life has been up and down, though I've not been very depressed lately which is good (it turns out that the worse my sleep was the worse my depression was, and any caffeine in my body disrupted my ability to sleep in a major way - cutting out caffeine is making me feel a hundred times better). I'm back to sex work which is, well, not great, but it's money - and I've booked the tickets to get to Boston and NY. I'll figure something out to get from NY to Seattle again. I'm tricksy like that.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 17 Jun 2012, 12:54
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jR371V3XSN8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YuERjvIAEWs

I got a black belt today.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 17 Jun 2012, 17:51
Congratulations!

Yesterday I combined a 350 mile round trip drive with a full day at the other end and it was completely worth it. An aviation museum had a surprisingly large group of surviving SR-71 maintenance and flight crew members.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 17 Jun 2012, 19:09
Congratulations!

Yesterday I combined a 350 mile round trip drive with a full day at the other end and it was completely worth it. An aviation museum had a surprisingly large group of surviving SR-71 maintenance and flight crew members.

Did you have a connection to the Blackbird?
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Post by: valley_parade on 17 Jun 2012, 21:12
Even if not, they were super, super cool pieces of machinery. I'd be stoked on it, too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 18 Jun 2012, 02:18
I got a black belt today.
Well done. Jujutsu?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 18 Jun 2012, 08:21
Yup. It was a fun experience and I'm super happy. I'd recommend it to everyone.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 18 Jun 2012, 12:52
Congratulations!

Yesterday I combined a 350 mile round trip drive with a full day at the other end and it was completely worth it. An aviation museum had a surprisingly large group of surviving SR-71 maintenance and flight crew members.

Did you by chance meet a guy named Brian Shul? He's an aviation author who tours the country frequently, and he used to fly SR-71s and take his own private photos while on board.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 21 Jun 2012, 12:52
Gonna tell why I'm feeling awesome by copy and pasting a tweet, with hashtag.

Conquered a driving goal. Cooked a proper meal from scratch. Helped a doggy get home. Passed my movement goal. #stuffididtoday
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Jun 2012, 15:20
Fuck yeah you did. Samples plz
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 21 Jun 2012, 17:25
Lately, I have wanted to write some angry guitar music. Unfortunately, I sold my guitar a few years ago and I have money to buy a decent guitar. As a result, I had to really concentrate not to make angry faces or gestures when I went out tonight.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Jun 2012, 02:22
A friend of mine from Albania decided to move to Rhode Island recently. She called me tonight super upset. She apparently hates it there and has only spent one week there. Poor thing, she's gotta be going through some serious culture shock. I know I did when I moved to Albania, it's just as easy both ways. I know that all I wanted at the time was hugs from my old friends. I'm too far, so the phone will have to do. I'm glad she's calling me though. She's one of the ones I miss the most from back then. And I need somebody to practice Albanian with!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 23 Jun 2012, 08:20
I think her main problem is that she moved to Rhode Island.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Jun 2012, 14:18
I tried to tell her from the get-go that Rhode Island sucked but she wouldn't listen to me. Maybe she'll transfer to Berkeley next year.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 25 Jun 2012, 03:46
I saw Salt N Pepa tonight at the fair, you guys.

They were really really really really awful, I don't think I have ever seen a bigger shitshow. Less than half of the music played was actually Salt N Pepa songs, they kept trying to shout love to "Oakland and Pleasanton" (please just stop embarrassing yourselves oh my goddd) and hey wait what the fuck are you guys really playing the entire hook of a Black Eyed Peas song

Icing on the cake: literally everybody's favorite part of the show was a drunk and cracked out homeless man dancing. I am not even joking. A drunk crackhead got the crowd going apeshit before the show, and then Salt N Pepa themselves asked him to get onstage with them. There was never another point in the show where the crowd was louder.

If that is my musical career after the next 25 years, I am going to shoot myself in the head.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 25 Jun 2012, 15:44
I spent the weekend helping one of my partner's and his wife move and now I am super tired and sore.  I am also sad because he has moved an hour away and so I am going to see a lot less of him.  Good news though today's mail brought both the check from Steve's parents to cover our rent and our Bridge card so that we can access our food stamps.  It feels so good to have food in the fridge!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 25 Jun 2012, 16:55
First off: FIRE!! Just a single outlet that shorted and fried, easily taken care of with an extinguisher and shutting down the circuit breakers, but FUCK.  :psyduck:

I had the fire department come and check it out to be safe, and it looks like the cause was the 6-outlet thingy plugged into the 2-outlet socket. There wasn't that much draw at the time, just the usual array of on-standby consumer electronics. Apparently these things just "go bad" after a while. Now to clean up the extinguisher dust and get an electrician out to look at things and fix it all. Again, FUCK.

On the positive side of the ledger, I've been putting together a live music TV show with friends and colleagues from the access station, and working with a local music promoter. We've had 2 shoots now, with 6 total bands, and I'm busy putting together the footage into individual episodes. I'm almost ready to turn in #1, and I've just posted a teaser clip (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K25jjggnyV0). Once they air locally on cable, I'll put them online and share with everybody. :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Jun 2012, 01:06
I sang in Westminster Abbey yesterday! It was great :) I was disappointed because a friend was planning on coming to hear us, and then we'd go for a drink and catch up, but she had to cancel for a string of reasons leading to her inexplicably being in the Lake District (???). However! I got onto the coach with the rest of the choir, and then spontaneously decided to get off again and stay in London with a handful of people who were going for a drink. It was so much fun, and I made friends properly with a girl I've known since I started my degree (she graduated in my first year so it was great to see her again). Now I have to frantically finish moving out of my room... but it was worth it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 27 Jun 2012, 02:58
I got pulled over in a car by a cop for the first time tonight! I'm so proud of myself. I was nervous as fuck and was scared shitless that it would affect the field sobriety test they gave me. It didn't, by the way, I was cool as a cucumber and aced it without trying.

This fuckin town, though, man. I was so nervous! It's the per-capita DUI capital of the entire U.S., and even though I had only one beer all night (ordered at 9p, we left at closing time which was 2) I still very nearly shit my pants when I saw red and blue lights in the rearview. I diiiid kinda have a weed pipe on me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimmy the Squid on 27 Jun 2012, 05:27
My band is playing it's first gig in nearly four years! I'm terribly excited. I guess if any of you are in Sydney, Australia feel free to come see it!

(http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m69pvhK2bR1r13ocyo1_1280.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jun 2012, 13:14
I feel inexplicably okay, given that I collapsed a week ago and had to be rushed to the hospital, now need surgery, and am due to be homeless in three days. (Well, okay, I did try and kill myself there, but I'm okay now! Really!)

Trying to work out travel plans and couchsurfing plans now on the rare moment I have computer access. Things are weird but things are okay! Life is crazy but I'm alright.

I'm making porn tomorrow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jun 2012, 14:26
Oh man, that sounds dramatic and scary. I am glad you're feeling okay, I hope you are actually okay (as in, as healthy and emotionally stable as possible). Please stay safe! Apart from anything, it would suck if you couldn't come to Boston.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Jun 2012, 14:46
My boyfriend's sister and her friend got into a car accident today. (They are both ok!) Also I just spoke to a friend of mine and her sick grandmother and her boyfriend's cancer-ridden father are both doing awful and both will most likely die by the end of the week. Today has just been an awful day of bad news.

But my boyfriend's sister and her friend are coming over for dinner, so hopefully that will brighten up my originally dull turned dismal day.

Edit: They didn't stay for dinner and the sister is pretty banged up (she has a giant gash in her leg), but otherwise she's ok. Her friend only left with soreness and a bruise. So today pretty much blows.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Jun 2012, 17:45
Eek, I'm sorry Linds! That really sucks. :(

Oh man, that sounds dramatic and scary. I am glad you're feeling okay, I hope you are actually okay (as in, as healthy and emotionally stable as possible). Please stay safe! Apart from anything, it would suck if you couldn't come to Boston.

I am as emotionally stable as a unicorn can possibly be. So, in a state of constant anxiety that I may not actually exist. Metaphysical terror has never been so real.

But other than my breakdown (which was at a party, no less, at my sort-of-partner's apartment) I am doing okay and feel good. I have income, I may be getting insurance soon (I just got the hospital bill for the ER visit - $3,000, and a charity covered $1,800 of it, ugh, ugh, ugh), and I've a couple ways of getting some chunks of money soon. The first one is doing a porn shoot in Seattle (sex work seems to be my only form of income for the last two years...) and the second will be for the HIV vaccine trials, which I've heard pays decently well. Also, you get a vaccine against HIV. So yay!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 27 Jun 2012, 18:55
Dunno if I've actually submitted this here, but here ya go:

http://jwhouk.blogspot.com/ is my little corner of the Blogosphere. It's not updated terribly often, and it got stunted after my exile to the Great North Woods of Wisconsin (which is explained in said blog).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 27 Jun 2012, 21:52
the HIV vaccine trials, which I've heard pays decently well. Also, you get a vaccine against HIV. So yay!

It pays reasonably well, over a period of time, though I think month by month selling plasma is a better pay out, and I know that doing anything that requires 24 hour observation pays better (like the flue vaccine trial I did).  It is also worth noting that you do not get a vaccine against HIV.  You get a series of shots which MAY vaccinate you against HIV, but probably will not. So, please do not adjust your protection habits on the false assumption that you are protected.  You will not find out if it was a working vaccine for YEARS later.  Steve did one when his hair was still above his chin and we found out last year that the vaccine didn't work.  While you are waiting to find out you also cannot get rapid HIV tests, because on the off chance that it does work you will be a false positive (as you will have antibodies to HIV even though you do not have the virus) and getting yourself off whatever registry your state has is a pain. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Jun 2012, 03:29
Zing: On the off chance it does work, though, hell yeah, 'cause HIV is a terrible thing and I support the pursuit of eradicating it from the face of the planet (because god damn it, Paul Rodgers is NOT Freddy Mercury). That and cancer. Fuck cancer too.

Also, I am glad you're doing okay, it's been too long since I heard from you. I'm sorry things have been rough for you!

Dear blog,

I have no idea how I'm gonna make it financially over the next 2 weeks but dammit I will. I bloody well will.
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Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jun 2012, 07:35
How to write music:  Work in progress (https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151065807648023&set=p.10151065807648023&type=1&theater)
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Post by: Patrick on 30 Jun 2012, 14:01
Speaking of works in progress (interesting link, Paul, never seen anybody actually write it out in notes before), Beat Les Troubador is going to be released later than expected, but we've been hard at work the last couple of days trying to get it all laid down. Then it goes to our producer, where he will work with us to make it sound as amazing as possible. Then we will hopefully release it!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 30 Jun 2012, 23:13
the HIV vaccine trials, which I've heard pays decently well. Also, you get a vaccine against HIV. So yay!

It pays reasonably well, over a period of time, though I think month by month selling plasma is a better pay out, and I know that doing anything that requires 24 hour observation pays better (like the flue vaccine trial I did).  It is also worth noting that you do not get a vaccine against HIV.  You get a series of shots which MAY vaccinate you against HIV, but probably will not. So, please do not adjust your protection habits on the false assumption that you are protected.  You will not find out if it was a working vaccine for YEARS later.  Steve did one when his hair was still above his chin and we found out last year that the vaccine didn't work.  While you are waiting to find out you also cannot get rapid HIV tests, because on the off chance that it does work you will be a false positive (as you will have antibodies to HIV even though you do not have the virus) and getting yourself off whatever registry your state has is a pain.

I'm aware of all this! But still thank you for saying it all anyways because it's still useful information. I've already gone through and read the FAQ section on the wobsite. (I don't do sex without protection, except with the monogamous couple I play/cam with, 'cause I'm terrified of getting something like herpes or HIV or chlamydia (sorry Pat, you are never touching my junk))

I talked to my friend who did it; she says she got paid $30-200 per visit depending on how long it took and over the course of a year only made about $1,000. I'm getting over my needle phobia problems - I've found out that IV don't trigger me in the same way so I can handle it. I've not yet looked into plasma donation (I could do that! Probably! Maybe! I hope!) but I'm not sure if my being on medicine (spironolactone) would adversely affect that.

Ooh, just looked into that. "I just went to donate plasma for the first time today and I am taking spironolactone. The doctor told me that spironolactone is a diuretic and thins your blood and so in conjunction with the blood thinners they use in the donation process, it is not safe to donate. So I will not be allowed to donate until 48 hours after I have stopped taking spironolactone." ...I um, I really cannot go off this for two days at a time. That would wreak hell on my hormone levels. So so much for that. ><
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Jun 2012, 23:17
So, what do you do when temperatures are in the mi-to-high 90's (35+ Centigrade), with high humidity and bright sunshine? 


Hold a charity carwash, of course.  Brought in a little over $200 for my daughter's charity, we help provide trasportation to families that need to get to Children's hospital in Pittsburgh.  Got thje idea when we had to rent a car to get to the Mayo clinic, and found that a lot of people rent vehicles to get to the Pittsburgh hospitals.  We've set up a non-profit contract rate that any family with appointments at Children's can use, and we can offset some of the costs for more some of the families.  So far, three families have used the service for a total of 5 rentals since April.  All from an offhand comment of the rental lady. 

6 hours in the sun.  I have a red neck, and got pretty dehydrated.  Spent the rest of the evening in the pool. 



Totally worth it. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 02 Jul 2012, 15:28
Yesterday was concert day - details (and link for listening) here (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php?topic=27843.msg1092410#msg1092410).

Highlights: when the bell tolls during the Purcell funeral piece (!), and Parry's Blest Pair of Sirens (just because...).
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Post by: Patrick on 02 Jul 2012, 16:32
I am kind of psyched and have my credit card lying in front of me waiting.

<---- you just made this guy smile a lot. Instrument tracking's done by the way! Everything sounds pretty good raw, so we're jazzed as fuck to bring it to our producer who will turn the sow's ear into a silk purse (and believe me, he is incredible at what he does).

(sorry Pat, you are never touching my junk)

I am clean, and I'm not even queer!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Jul 2012, 22:38
Whatever, I get straight dudes hitting on me all the time, manslut.

 :mrgreen:


(I'm super excited to hear your album, and I will totally buy it)
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Post by: Thomas Edison on 03 Jul 2012, 09:03
I moved house using a BMX yesterday. It was long and tedious but at least now I have a bedroom to myself instead of sleeping on the sofa of the living room.

Also the music video I produced for my uni course a few months back got uploaded two days ago, but I swear the artist has edited it because the lips are no longer synced and there's a couple shots I don't remember seeing in the final edit, but oh well, it's just under 900 views now and only has one dislike to 57 likes so I guess it's doing alright for a small time thing?
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Post by: LTK on 03 Jul 2012, 09:48
I spent the afternoon cleaning microscopes and now I have a headache from looking through small lenses all the time. Oh well, at least I'm getting paid again. For the rest of this school year that is; the subsidy for my job has been cut so they can't afford to pay me next year. Guess I'm going back to tutoring?
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Post by: valley_parade on 04 Jul 2012, 09:47
Happy day, America. You may not be the best, but you're the only one we've got.

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8167/7450328890_8cbf06d709.jpg)
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Post by: Patrick on 04 Jul 2012, 11:51
'MERICA
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 05 Jul 2012, 01:40
MERCIA
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Jul 2012, 02:23
What is the airspeed velocity of an unladen swallow?
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Jul 2012, 02:29
Oh yeah Troubador's 4th of July show went amazing

I'm drunk as fuck, I got paid. The girl I met last night as my waitress at a great southern BBQ place didn't show up, but I figured she wouldn't. Oh well. The show was live recorded, so as soon as the recordings come through I'm posting them. I did the Hendrix version of "The Star Spangled Banner" tonight and it fucking rocked, yesssssssss I've never played a solo before anyone before!

I AM DRUNK AS FUCK HAPPY FOURTH
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Post by: schimmy on 05 Jul 2012, 15:33
Was going to put this in the confessions thread, but figured it was a bit too heavy.

My girlfriend's been doing pretty great over the past few months; she's been eating normally and been motivated to do things.
Over the past couple of days, though, her eating disorder has reared up again. She's not been eating, and she's been sleeping all day. I'm trying to talk to her about it, but I am at breaking point. Even when we're not talking about it, it's obvious what she's going through. She cannot think rationally about anything at all, and it's getting to the point where trying to maintain a conversation without me shouting at her is pretty much impossible.

I have no idea what to do. I can't see her for another week, and in the absence of someone to talk to, she's almost certainly going to spiral further into it. But I can't keep it up. I just can't.
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Jul 2012, 17:18
Shit dogg. I'm sorry to hear it. But there's only so much helping others that you can do before you have to help yourself. She needs to seek professional help on the matter, because there's only so much you can do.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 05 Jul 2012, 18:55
I agree with patrick. If it's to the point that the people close to her can't help, you need to get her to a professional somehow. Getting her to a therapist or something like that doesn't sound feasible since she is sleeping all the time. But maybe you can go contact one yourself to see what your options are?

Is there anything she has been doing or taking in the last few months that seemed to help her?
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Post by: nekowafer on 05 Jul 2012, 19:16
Is it possible to get her committed to a mental hospital? It may seem kind of harsh but it seems to me like she needs it.
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Post by: Patrick on 06 Jul 2012, 04:59
Having spent a night in a big ol' room in Oakland getting evaluated alongside some REAL crazies did me a lot of good once upon a time. Showed me a pretty significant bit of perspective. It's not a step I should have needed to take, but I should have seen a therapist for years before it happened. Easier to remove a mole than a melanoma, you know?

Dear blog,

Please tell me why people come to an open mic playing the original single version of Party Rock Anthem (vocals included) over the PA while they sing along to it?

It was pretty awesome when a little kid did a dope-ass dance routine, and him singing was alright. There's not a lot of little kids that play instruments and sing simultaneously, so that's acceptable. But when a 24-year-old does it, that's where I really just wanna smack them in the head. I should ask them to find an instrumental-only backing track, learn to to a rudimentary job of performing it with an instrument, or sing without accompaniment. I want people to learn or improve, not do what you do in the car with your favorite radio smash hit.

And most importantly, why in hell did I have to have a hangover? I drank water like mad, I had coffee, took aspirin, ate well, all of that and I still felt like complete shit. I shoulda just cancelled for this week.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 06 Jul 2012, 10:09
Water isn't that good for rehydration if you've got proper drunk. Aspirin and coffee won't help too much either. Salty food, carbs, juice and ibuprofen work better. Sports rehydration drinks will also help.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Jul 2012, 16:19
We had two fireworks shows this week, and one more tomorrow. The first one, last Saturday in Harper's Ferry, WV, went well. The second was in Suffolk, VA, on the 4th, and we did setup in Fulton, MD, today. The show on the 4th went pretty well we thought. A cake fell apart and shot some little 1-inch shells along the ground, and we found 9 duds during the breakdown that had gone up but not exploded. Today though, we got a call from the fire marshal in Suffolk that somebody had "found" another dud by running over it with a riding mower and setting it off, and they had found 4 more in backyards that back up to the shoot site. There was really nothing we could have done, short of what they're doing now, going door to door to search all the nearby yards, but Robert and I are still feeling bad about it. The guy with the mower wasn't hurt thank god but it's scary to imagine.
Here's the cake that broke apart (three guesses which side I was standing on)
(http://img.tapatalk.com/458fc956-726d-6c71.jpg)
And here's the bucket of duds we did find in the shoot site
(http://img.tapatalk.com/458fc956-72a4-50c5.jpg)

Edit: We just got more info, all the duds they found were salutes (the ones that just have a big boom, no colors) and our supplier has been getting reports from all over about those same shells, so it was definitely the product. Dude was almost certainly saved by the mower deck.
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Post by: valley_parade on 06 Jul 2012, 17:18
At least it wasn't a repeat of San Diego.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Jul 2012, 19:16
Yeah, that looked unfortunate. Not likely on our shows though, we hand-fire unless the site or shell size requires it to be electronic.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 06 Jul 2012, 20:45
Got a call from a mutual friend last night informing me that my other friend's son was killed in a car wreck July 4th. The woman whose son died has already had tons of health problem shit thrown at her, and she's one of, if not -the- absolute nicest person I know, and she and her husband sure as hell don't deserve this level of horribleness. Not only that, but her husband's birthday is also the 4th; now he's forever going to have to remember that as the day his son was killed.

Having had my father die in an accident, I know firsthand that it's an awkward situation - nothing seems to be adequate, when giving your condolences, and it's a whole level of suck when people go way before their time. Their son was within 5 years of my age, if I recall correctly (I'm 28, and I think he may have been 30 - the friend is about my mom's age, maybe a couple years younger. I'm trying to figure out what to say, but honestly I think the best thing I can do is just go over there and give her a hug.
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Post by: Welu on 07 Jul 2012, 07:38
My boyfriend dropped my camera. Now it won't focus and is making an unpleasant stutter if I try to focus the shot. A bit of research makes me think it's just the lens but damn. I'm so upset and I'm feeling like a complete bitch because it was an accident and I think I should be thinking, "It's just material worth. It shouldn't matter." but it bloody does. It cost over £500, the most expensive thing I've ever bought and I spent so long deciding if I deserved to spend that much money and I've used it near constantly since I bought it, including making two films and it just really hurts.
I want to hug him for comfort but I'm so angry at him for dropping it. Told him I wanted to be alone and he's gone down to the shop. I hate feeling angry. It's a disgusting feeling.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Jul 2012, 08:22
Welu, some diagostics are in order.  Is there a camera shop where you can try a different lens to see if it's just the lens or the camera itself?  If it's the lens, it can probably be repaired at the same shop. 

The same can't be said for the boyfriend.  Remember, it's natural to be upset about something like this, whether it was an item with monetary or sentimental value (or both).  You'll be able to forgive him soon enough, ad he'll probably be understanding and be able to forgive you for being so upset with him. 

After all, he'll be reliving that drop for a long time...
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Post by: Omega Entity on 07 Jul 2012, 08:27
Being angry is understandable. It's perfectly normal to be upset.

On his part, the polite thing to do would be to offer to pay for the repairs, or worst case scenario if it can't be fixed, buy you a new one. But then I come from the standpoint that, you break something, you damn well better buy it/fix it.
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Post by: Welu on 07 Jul 2012, 08:44
He's back. We hugged and made up. He genuinely is so sorry and feels awful about it so I can forgive him easy enough. He offered to get it fixed or replaced if needed. There's no camera shops in town but I'm gonna try a couple places and ask friends with better knowledge to see what they think is definitely the problem.

I know it's normal to be angry and upset but anger especially is a difficult emotion for me. I'm feeling a bit better though. Upset that it happened but we're resolving it the right way. Decided to try and not worry till Monday when it can be found out what's wrong.

In happier news, I have rediscovered Sims2. Again.
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Post by: Redball on 08 Jul 2012, 06:30
Perfectly pointless: pocky. I found it in a newly enlarged Asian supermarket Saturday in Ann Arbor and bought a pack. Not as good as the first time I found it in Arizona in the spring. I should check brands next time. Never heard of it until I read QC. It won't likely become my favorite chocolate.
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Post by: Welu on 08 Jul 2012, 09:43
I don't know what I did but after some fiddling with the lens, I managed to get it going. Before it was stiff and locking when I tried to turn it but it's moving smoothly now. Even was focusing no problem and refilmed the sketch we were trying to make when it got damaged. So yay!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jul 2012, 12:54
I am not sure whether I'm being silly here or not. I don't know if you guys know this or not but my "sister" (elder daughter of the people I lived with for a few months five years ago, who is three years my junior) has been going out with my ex-girlfriend for the last couple of months. They met at my birthday party in March and I am 100% happy with them being together.

But I am feeling a bit muddled. My sister hasn't really been in touch with me - she never has, she's always been totally hopeless at replying to my emails. But the fact that she's in a long-distance relationship with someone who spends a great deal of time online makes it pretty clear that she does actually communicate other than face to face, just not to me.

The awkward thing is that I end up asking my ex, who is still a good friend of mine, how my sister is doing. Generally I don't mention her unless my ex brings her up in conversation, because I feel like it's not really my business (but I'm not sure how I would be behaving if my ex's girlfriend were not my foster sister), but if she is mentioned then I'll ask how she is. I'm often told how she is, and then advised to ask her myself. My ex keeps offering to give me email addresses or mobile numbers, but my thinking is that my sister has my contact details and we've emailed recently - I emailed most recently in reply to an email she sent, so it was an active address - so it's not fair to abuse my history with her girlfriend to harrangue her.

Am I massively overthinking this? What should I do? If my "sister" isn't bothered about being in touch with me then that's fine, she's not actually my sister and we'd never been as close as I am with her younger sister. But it just feels weird to have two indirect links to her but never actually speak.
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Post by: Redball on 08 Jul 2012, 14:04
The most direct solution is to pick up the phone and tell her you've missed talking to her, hearing her voice. You can probably tell from the enthusiasm in her voice if she's cooled. Not that I think I'm a relationship expert.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jul 2012, 14:49
I don't have her phone number! I have the number for her family but she's at uni now (presumably home for the holidays though, I guess). I dunno. I think this is mostly only an issue because it feels odd to get updates on the girl I call my sister from my ex-girlfriend, not from my sister herself, but I also don't want to just pretend they aren't together.
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Post by: Redball on 08 Jul 2012, 15:03
Your ex has the mobile number?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Jul 2012, 01:31
Yes, but I feel awkward asking my sister's girlfriend for my sister's contact details! Is that silly? What I'm hoping will happen is that my friend will tell my sister that I was wanting to hear from her, and my sister will contact me. If she doesn't, then I guess she just isn't all that bothered. To be honest, we haven't got a lot in common - she is very literary and high-brow and a passionate Marxist, and I have got increasingly apathetic about politics and read trashy novels or legal articles.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Jul 2012, 04:19
924 Gilman was just about the most fun experience I've had. And that was before I found out all the bands made money tonight! The band touring from Olympia on K Records said we were welcome to play shows up there with them whenever, so I'm getting to be even more jazzed than I already have been about the idea of touring this summer.

If there's any one thing we regret about the show, though, it's not having had the goddamn record out yet. That's kinda lame. The timing could have been a lot better if we'd just kept the ball up on recording (Matt and I share plenty of fault in that). But we did get a lot of shows in, and recording the rest of the album after having that experience with the songs definitely could not have hurt, so fuck it. Still, it would've been nice to have had something to offer.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Jul 2012, 11:39
The band touring from Olympia on K Records

heyyyoooooo

what was the band?
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Jul 2012, 13:39
They are called The Maxines and they are super nice people! Also, the drummer's just about the cutest little thing I ever saw in my life.
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Post by: Redball on 09 Jul 2012, 16:32
Also, the drummer's just about the cutest little thing I ever saw in my life.
Using the word I just learned today, how many milliHelens? Just saw her on Facebook. She is cute, but I don't know how to apply the scale yet. And as to the music, I speculate I'd find it in the negative hundreds-of-milliDvorak area.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 10 Jul 2012, 02:36
I learned something new today: http://www.quora.com/How-does-one-calculate-millihelens
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Jul 2012, 11:58
They are called The Maxines and they are super nice people! Also, the drummer's just about the cutest little thing I ever saw in my life.

I have heard of these people! I may have to look them up when they're back in Olyworld.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Jul 2012, 18:08
They're really nice people and it sucks that I don't get to hang out with them on the regular.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Jul 2012, 18:30
Oh my god I am leaving tomorrow for Boston. Oh my god I have to go to Seattle and buy my suddenly unemployed friend some food and oh my god I'm going to be living with my father and oh my god I'm meeting May and oh my god everything is happening at once.
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Post by: valley_parade on 10 Jul 2012, 21:51
Zingo, are you going to be in/near western MA at all?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jul 2012, 08:37
No; if anything, I'm gonna spend most of my trip south of Boston.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jul 2012, 08:38
well fuck actually I have like no plans for Saturday. hmm...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jul 2012, 11:23
So looks like I'll be missing you then, since there's no way I can make it out to you and back to Boston in time for my flight. That is a great and terrible sadness that rests heavily upon my heart for all eternity. I don't know how to express the endless pain I feel.

Maybe eyeliner.
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Post by: valley_parade on 11 Jul 2012, 11:45
My Saturday's busy anyway, My cousin's in town from California and we're grabbing lunch/general shenangians.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Jul 2012, 12:18
whatever, I don't need you anyways

jerk
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Post by: valley_parade on 11 Jul 2012, 12:21
PSSSSSH.
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Post by: Patrick on 11 Jul 2012, 16:23
My Saturday's busy anyway, My cousin's in town from California and we're grabbing lunch/general shenangians.

Oh man you should make the trip Leslie, that girl is fine as everloving fuck
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Post by: Redball on 11 Jul 2012, 17:20
Yesterday was concert day
Highlights: when the bell tolls during the Purcell funeral piece (!), and Parry's Blest Pair of Sirens (just because...).
Downloaded and listened to it thrice. What a pleasure, to hear and to have sung! Favorites were the Rutter, Durufle and unexpectedly the Schubert Psalm 23. I'm sure I'd heard it before, but I heard new things in it, including a tiny thing I find attractive: In measure 14, WEI-de, the quiet second syllable, is a dynamic I notice wherever I hear it. And there was an almost physical reaction in some of the more contemporary music when I could easily imagine myself, my pitch senses on high alert, listening for the other parts to be sure I was in tune. Thanks for letting us hear it.
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Post by: Jace on 12 Jul 2012, 04:59
Last night I failed to authorize for heavy combat. A couple factors:
I took a really solid hit to the head that grounded out my helmet against my forehead, I currently have a bump and bruise.
I was pretty exhausted from not having eaten any real food, getting 4 hours of sleep and doing 30 minutes of melee fights.
I was in the primary stages of being crazy dehydrated.
My shield is about twice as heavy as it ought to be because the hand guard on it is made out of thick sheet metal, going to replace it with a bar grill and then hopefully with leather.

As far as technical skill is concerned, due to the above I made just a couple mistakes like when I was a bit more aggressive with the shield the corner got the guy in the face (we wear helmets so not a huge deal, but not good), but it is an easy fix that I just need to work on. And my hit calibration was a bit on the weak side. Gonna try again after Pennsic probably since there aren't any events between now and then. Since I am not going to Pennsic it isn't a big deal and it helped me a lot because I know what I need to work on.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Jul 2012, 06:04
I'm safely in the States and in the right time zone! Today should be a good day, although I'm still getting over a cold which will make the concert tricky to enjoy. Hope I don't give you my cold, Leslie!
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Post by: Papersatan on 12 Jul 2012, 14:13
Today, Steve and I went to get STD tests.  The first Planned Parenthood we went to was empty.  We were the only patients there.  Never in my life have I been to any clinic without a waiting room at least half full.  Also, they only had one HIV test left... Never have I been to a clinic that ran out of HIV tests.  I don't think these were related, because she didn't realize she was out of tests until we had filled out paperwork all out, so it was not like they had just closed up shop for lack of tests. 

We went to a different Planned Parenthood instead and they gave us the oral HIV test.  I had never had an oral test before. Even the quick result test I had last year was a finger prick.  It was a bit like rubbing a pregnancy test on your gums, and also gave me hives (from the pressure) so is a wash for me compared to the finger prick, but I can see how they are easier to administer not having to worry about a sharps container and band aids and all that. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 12 Jul 2012, 19:19
My Saturday's busy anyway, My cousin's in town from California and we're grabbing lunch/general shenangians.

Oh man you should make the trip Leslie, that girl is fine as everloving fuck

that would be impossible; I can't even find a bus route up that way. (I've heard some things from you about said cousin, anyways)

I met May today! It was awesome! I gave her rainbows! And now I'm watching My Little Pony with my friend. Bring on the rum and coke!
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Post by: LTK on 13 Jul 2012, 11:42
I was at the Friday street auction in Antwerp, where they sell lots and lots of stuff (probably impoundings) indiscriminately and for whatever a fool is willing to pay for it. This can quickly become pretty insane: On the auction for potted plants and flowers, they were offering a tray of six miscellaneous small plants. When no one was willing to bid one euro for that, the auctioneer offered two trays for one euro. Then three trays. Eventually someone bought five trays of plants for one euro. It gets even crazier when the items become too bothersome to sort out, so they start offering boxes full of who-knows-what. Toward the end, there were six boxes, each about half the size of a common moving box, sold for €3,50.

I bought a few things as well. One set of various drinking glasses for €1. There were about six different types: Belgian beer glasses, champagne glasses, cognac classes, regular drinking glasses, a shot glass, a sugar pot, and something that would make a good tea light holder. About four dozen total, way more than me and my sister could carry. We took just the regular drinking glasses and the beer glasses, and left the rest to the vultures.

I also bought two hats. One stack of old-timey looking hats went for €1 - didn't like the look of those anyway - and then there were two funny-looking fuzzy hats, which apparently no one was interested in, so I bought them for €2. Only when I had them in my hands did I notice that one of them had claws, and realized they were made of actual fur. I was not expecting that. They're also too big for my head, so I can't do much with them.

Other auction highlights were: A small chainsaw, €35, a quality bicycle, €35, what looked like sets of gold chains, €15 each, very many laptops in unknown condition, about €30 each, porcelain dolls, about €5 per two, and a big old wooden wardrobe with mirrors in it, I think €100. Ludicrous.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Nikolai on 13 Jul 2012, 12:29
I quit smoking today. I decided I was going to quit about two weeks ago, but wanted to finish the carton I had because I hate wasting things (even though yes, I'm painfully aware that I'm wasting money on smoke and ashes), and I killed the last pack this morning. I spent the last two weeks psyching myself up, telling myself that it's a habit, not an addiction, I can quit because I want to, blah blah blah.

It's midnight, and God damnit I want a cigarette.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 13 Jul 2012, 13:16
Stick with it, it's not an easy addiction to kick. My memory is that after a week, the physical craving gets easier, but just one cigarette? That's not so bad, is it, really? Sure it is.

Hi. My name is Bob. I'm a smokaholic. I haven't had a cigarette since early July, 1977. But I"m a smokeholic, so I still believe that one cigarette would be a trap. Luckily, I haven't had a craving for years. And I hate the smell of smoke, especially smoke that stays in clothing or furniture.

I quit just after I turned 40. My daughter was 5. I wanted to hang around a while and see her grow up.

Stick with it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 13 Jul 2012, 15:48
It's hard for me to quit too, but I'm finishing what I want to be my last pack. The downside is that I've gone from like 4 cigs a day to a full pack and then back down to half per day, so something is definitely needing adjustment. Probably my psyche.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 13 Jul 2012, 19:28
I could issue a challenge as I did to Barmymoo for the C25K, but to do so I'd have to resume smoking after 35 years just so I could attempt to quit. Can you two challenge each other, with some nearly-real-time communication?

Think of the benefits! Live long and prosper!

Or something like that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Nikolai on 14 Jul 2012, 04:04
Alas, I have settled for compromise. Due to the fact that nearly my entire platoon smokes, it's near impossible to avoid. I've just resolved to not buy any more cigarettes, and I won't actively bum any. However, if someone offers me one, I likely won't say no. All things in moderation, right? Three or four a day is better than the pack a day that I was up to.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 14 Jul 2012, 05:56
Not a bad strategy if you can hold to it.
I started smoking when I was 19, quit at 40, and estimated that I smoked 30 pack-years (1 pack year = a pack a day for a year). A physician in the mid-60s had told me that smoking is usually fatal at 60 pack years. Nowadays I can wonder if his data was any good, but I never forgot it, and it helped me quit. In the Army, it didn't help that cigarettes were cheaper than anywhere else -- 20 cents a pack at the time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 14 Jul 2012, 09:14
I quit using patches. Never ever have I ever been so high from a nicotine kick as with those patches. They do do the trick, though.

Today, sort of surprise aikido exam. I am now a brown belt in aikido. This makes me happy!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 14 Jul 2012, 10:17
I smoked on and off for the last 7 years or so. Quit the first time using the gum (that shit takes a while to get used to but I eventually started to enjoy it) then resumed a few years later, then quit cold turkey. I still have cravings from time to time and I'll bum a smoke when I'm having particularly shitty days, but it's gone from a pack a week to 3 or 4 cigs a year. Not too shabby, I suppose.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 14 Jul 2012, 15:05
I caught two little fish today! By far the smallest fish I've ever caught, so combined maybe they'd make a whole small fish, but after the debacle of getting my fishing license last night/this morning, I am happy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 14 Jul 2012, 16:47
The boat, a 16 foot (5 meter) open cockpit sloop, is out of hock for winter storage, has it's docking permit, and is now parked in its trailer slip at the lake. 


Sailing!  My bestest escape...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 15 Jul 2012, 04:40
Had one of the craziest but also best dreams last night. Normally I don't dream, and it is even rarer that I can remember it beyond about 2 hours after having it, so this is great.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 15 Jul 2012, 07:19
Family's flying me out to California for about a week in September. Awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Jul 2012, 19:50
Not a bad strategy if you can hold to it.
I started smoking when I was 19, quit at 40, and estimated that I smoked 30 pack-years (1 pack year = a pack a day for a year). A physician in the mid-60s had told me that smoking is usually fatal at 60 pack years. Nowadays I can wonder if his data was any good, but I never forgot it, and it helped me quit. In the Army, it didn't help that cigarettes were cheaper than anywhere else -- 20 cents a pack at the time.

My grandmother's 82, started smoking at 14, and has been smoking a pack a day for at least 60 of those years. So.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 15 Jul 2012, 19:51
Family's flying me out to California for about a week in September. Awesome.

also when and where? because I was actually planning on hitting up Cali in September, maybe
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 15 Jul 2012, 19:52
Probably like 9/7-15. I'll be in the Bay Area.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 16 Jul 2012, 03:17
I'm in Poland, have been for about a week.

We spoke German or even our limited Russian.

Yeah... stick to just speaking English. You might say that we Poles have a historical hatred for those who speak German or Russian.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Jul 2012, 00:46
So I got a email from the departmet chair today. 

ue to budgetary costraints, and the fact that a master's degree holder is cheaper than a Ph.D. (and two part timers are cheaper tha one full timer), I've been let go from my primary job. 

Two weeks after losig my second, part time job. 

I am now fully unemployed, with massive debts and soon, no insurance for my critically ill daughter. 



On the bright side, I can finally file for unemployment.   :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 17 Jul 2012, 00:56
Shit, Carl-E, that's rough. Are there any other possible means of income you can get access to? Any severance pay?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 17 Jul 2012, 04:40
Aw, damn!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Jul 2012, 05:19
Shit, Carl-E, that's rough. Are there any other possible means of income you can get access to? Any severance pay?


 :laugh:

I was an adjunct, contract-to-contract for a state school.  No, no severance pay.  I was in what I was told was a safe position, because they can't find people willing to go out to the middle of fucking nowhere to teach. 

But, it's budgetary.  if you have to cut somewhere, the cuts have to start at the bottom. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 17 Jul 2012, 06:08
What the fuck. I'm so sorry, Carl....that totally blows. :-(

Make sure you look into COBRA asap- health insurance will be one less thing for you to worry about.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 17 Jul 2012, 06:12
Please tell me this isn't PSU related...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Jul 2012, 09:00
I'm really sorry to hear that Carl.

in my news, I just got this message from my girlfriend:

"I know we haven’t known each other for very long, but I’m thankful for the time we did have together, and I’m sorry for doing this. Thank you for making my last few days happy ones – you gave me something I never thought I’d be able to feel. I hope you’ll remember me fondly.

I’ve requested that my landlord hang onto your things until you get back to pick them up; his house is just down the drive on the left.

Goodbye, you fabulous creature."

She also posted a picture of her holding a gun. She won't answer her emails or her phone.

And now I'm 2,000 miles away from being able to help her.

Goddammit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 17 Jul 2012, 09:37
Can you call police in her city?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Jul 2012, 09:43
I kept calling her. She says she's talking to people and she's okay, and I believe her. She also told me she's moving back to Florida.   :-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 17 Jul 2012, 10:19
So the photo was to scare the hell out of you?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 17 Jul 2012, 11:30
:-( I'm sorry Zing....I can't imagine how tough it is to be far away when she is in a state like that. On the plus side, it sounds like there are a lot of people who care about her and that will NOT let her forget that. Knowing that should be some solace for her and it will hopefully be enough to get her through until you can see her again. And- it should ease your mind slightly that she does have a support system like that.

RE: Florida- try to hold off on discussing it with her until you get back (if you can). Elevated emotions tend to lead to rash conclusions. She may only be thinking of that as an escape.....she may come to find that she doesn't need one.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 17 Jul 2012, 11:34
Holy fuck

This page right now
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 18 Jul 2012, 16:14
Apparently her father called 911, in Florida. A cop showed up at her door five minutes later, and he left her alone and he left her fucking gun the piece of shit fucking goddamn waste of human flesh.

I'm cutting my trip on the east coast short. I'm not going to stay here much longer (I'm already filled with nothing but a hollow rage at my family, most of whom I want to see dead for the sheer blatant disrespect being shown to me), and my father who promised me help with the flight ticket back is now rescinding the offer. I'll just have to bus it.

I am full of so much rage right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Jul 2012, 19:12
Make sure you look into COBRA asap- health insurance will be one less thing for you to worry about.

Yeah, I've looked.  I have really good insurance.  About $1400/moth worth.  No way I can afford it without my (former) employer paying most of it. 

Fortunately, there's medicare/medicaid.  She's already on it, it takes care of the myriad deductibles.  Soon, it will have to take care of everything.  My wife's also on it, and my other daughter has insurance through her work. 

So really, it's just me that will have no health insurance. 

Please tell me this isn't PSU related...

No, no.  Penn State isn't a state school, despite the name (and it's non-union).  I was working for the PA state system of higher education (PASSHE (http://www.passhe.edu/Pages/default.aspx)), a system of 14 universities around the state, each named for the town they're in, ending with "University of Pennsylvania". 

Zingo, so sorry about all the bullshit from all sides.  Good luck, and safe travelling. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 20 Jul 2012, 09:44
Carl,

Ok, so that means that you just have to be REALLY careful until you are insured again. Shall we get started on a bubble?

In all seriousness though, I'm glad to hear that your daughters and your wife are covered. But why aren't you eligible as well?



Zing,

Best of luck with everything. I know it doesn't need to be said, but that cop is a total imbecile. It disgusts me when people in such positions don't exercise common sense or decent judgment. What a fucking ass.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jul 2012, 13:00
A couple friends have stepped in and tossed a bit of cash my way, which means I'll see it on Monday or Tuesday. Hopefully flight prices won't jump too dramatically by then.

I've managed to talk her out of going to Florida; she wants to live with me in Olympia. I'm not sure how things will work out, but I'm hopeful. She seems to be doing okay right now, but...she's also a good actor.

(I kind of want to kill my father's girlfriend; she told me just to cheer up because there was nothing I can do for her but send positive thoughts.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 20 Jul 2012, 15:04
I shall be occupied tomorrow; my daughter is getting married.

This is her about 30 years ago:

(http://cassland.org/images/KitJS.jpg)

She was sitting on a stone in the middle of Otmoor, near Oxford; the stone is shown on the Ordnance Survey maps, as "Joseph's (http://historicoxfordshire.ashmolean.org/SitePages/josephstone.html) Stone (http://www.bbc.co.uk/history/domesday/dblock/GB-456000-213000/page/6)", and is alongside the path of a Roman road.

She is more grown up now - this is her earlier this year:

(http://cassland.org/images/Kit2012.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Jul 2012, 16:08
Paul, Mazel tov! 

LPT, They're both partially disabled, ad so get some SSI benefits (not much) and medicare.  I don't qualify... yet. 

Ad last night, I slipped and fell.  Caught myself with the left arm and wrenced the shoulder pretty well.  Can't raise my left arm today.  Probably the rotator cuff. 


Oh, did I mention I'm left handed? 




FFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU.........................................
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 21 Jul 2012, 06:41
A friend of a friend is offering to host a one-off story for Star Wars table-top game for me to introduce me to the RPing world. I always thought my friends took it super seriously so it seemed off-putting to join them but they actually are very casual. I'm intrigued.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Jul 2012, 17:56
Mixing sessions FINALLY start for Troubador's album tomorrow morning before band practice! I'm super excited about this. I can't wait to hear what they sound like once we're done fiddling about with things. Unfffffffffffffffff
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 21 Jul 2012, 21:04
Welp blogopeople,

I have been feeling reflective lately, which isn't necessarily bad, this bout of introspection has had very little experience every mistake you've made. But it still feels odd. I think this has been brought on by my odd sleep schedule and that I fell asleep on the couch last night. Also, I went to a party with a good group of friends and acquaintances that I won't see for at least a few months, maybe even longer than that. I am also going to a going awa party Tuesday for someone i met last summer, and I will also be saying goodbye to people for the semester or more.

So I am going to list a few things I have noticed over the past three years:
1. My life has changed radically so many times in the past 3 years. Different houses, brothers becoming part of the real world. Andjust now I listened to a song b an old musician friend of mine. I though it was recorded two years ago, but it was just one. So time is going too damn slow
2. There is no way I will ever be able to live alone. I was pretty much isolated from what could be called my social life for the past few weeks and learned that I pretty much go crazy without people
3. I am not even comfortable in my own bathroom. I must check the shower,the cabinet and drawers before I can do anything. I am a complete mess in a strange bathroom.

My life right now is pretty great, good weather, good friends,been experimenting with cooking. By all measures, I shouuld be feeling pretty happy. But I don't feel like it. I just feel weird, not like I'm falling but like I am just stuck in the air.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 22 Jul 2012, 03:48
So the Olympics is happening what, next week? and I'm having to plan around getting home from work as I'm apparently in a "hotspot" of activity (Holborn). It's very strange, because I hardly know London at all yet, and I'm being told to "get ahead of the games" and "plan my route" home.

Well, I get on at Holborn, travel three stops to Liverpool St and then get off there for the overground. All in all the underground portion doesn't take more than fifteen minutes, yet I'm being told to take evasive action...the only way I can avoid crowds, presumably, is to either walk to Liverpool St (probably a good half hour +) and delay my journey home, or walk to the stop preceeding Holborn (Tottenham Court Road), so that I can actually get a train to Liverpool St anyway.

London is busy enough as it is, I'm constantly surprised by the amount of people willing to jump out into fast-moving traffic just to get across the road into a coffee shop or something.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 22 Jul 2012, 09:17
Had a job interview yesterday. Think it went okay but probably won't get it since I can't be as flexible as would be liked.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 22 Jul 2012, 16:59
Last week I found some small, pink plaques of round pellets (about 0.1 mm in diameter) arranged in a honeycomb pattern on the windowsill. I figured they were insect eggs, so I obviously couldn't let them lie there, but I was curious to what would come out, so I put them carefully in a small matchbox and put that on a shelf in the garage. When I remembered to look at them today, the matchbox was completely empty, with no trace of insects, eggs, or remains of eggs. Whatever was in them must have hatched and crawled out. Such a shame that I can't find out what it was.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 22 Jul 2012, 17:06
Maybe they escaped...

to the inside of your brain whilst you slept.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 22 Jul 2012, 21:09
Steve and I went camping this weekend on some property in norther Michigan that one of my partner's owns. He and his wife have about 12 acres in the woods with a little cabin on it, no water or electric.  They invited a few people up to spend the weekend hanging out and drinking.  I had a really good time.  I have not been camping in years.  I made them all dinner one night and Steve and I made breakfast the next morning and everyone seemed impressed.

Sat night my partner and I tromped off to a clearing to lay in the grass and look at the stars.  I was pretty drunk and it was so beautiful that I cried.  Drunk on rum and the feelings the stars make me feel I poured out a bunch of feelings to him and made him cry (good tears).  It was crazy and intense.

Sunday afternoon we went swimming and now Steve and I have the worst sunburns. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 23 Jul 2012, 03:30
Started the blueberry foraging season yesterday. I am slow at picking them, because my fingers are a bit clumsy, and I spend too much picking out leaves and other unwanted pieces from the bucket. Looks like the rainy summer means that this year's crops won't be quite a bountiful as last year's. The blueberry bushes are so low that I usually just sit on the ground while picking (having mercy on my back). That has the side effect that my underwear gets a funny blueberry color. Anyway, the missus rewarded the family with some blueberry pie afterwards, so it was worth my while.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Jul 2012, 09:36
Sang at a funeral this morning.

Off to file for unemployment this afternoon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 23 Jul 2012, 11:20
Was wondering what was up with my gums kinda hurting on one side, thought maybe I jabbed it with a chip or something, nope, feels like the tooth is trying to come through the top.
Maybe 3.5 years is too long to go without dentistry.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 23 Jul 2012, 11:28
I'm kinda feeling the same about 11 years...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 23 Jul 2012, 12:57
Yeah I went 15 years or so without a dentist. And then I had 7 cavities drilled. And soon I may need an implant and all four wisdom teeth removed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 23 Jul 2012, 14:59
At least if the wisdom teeth are already erupted, they usually aren't too bad. the one I had removed took all of 10 seconds for my dentist to get out, not including the time it took to numb me up. Now the molar I had out, on the other hand...

EDIT:
(http://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/558448_4449269436016_1258845107_n.jpg)

Lured this skittish little guy in with some food from my neighbor's backyard - he was really hungry! I couldn't get him to come close enough to catch last night, so I decided that if he was still around today I'd catch him and take him to the no-kill shelter where I adopted my cats from - we live near a busy road, and no cats should be out loose around here, let alone one that small. I put him at between 6 to 8 weeks. Unfortunately the shelter's full up, and I don't dare take him to animal control, so we'll have a houseguest until either a spot opens up, or I can find him a home. That little guy cleaned out a can of wet food that probably weighed more than half of what he does!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 23 Jul 2012, 15:52
I went about five years without a dentist until I got braces. The one I was going to died and they were meant to be getting me on track for braces. Damn, that sounds spoiled... Ragging on the person who committed suicide because my teeth were crooked. However due to the slowness of the NHS system and me taking a gap year, I finally received a letter two days after I turned eighteen. So we had to pay for them! Then another year of getting bounced in the private system but my orthodontist charged the under-eighteen price which is very nice of him since it's about a grand less.

In fairness to the system, I don't think it's usually pretty good. I was just in one of the not usual cases.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 23 Jul 2012, 17:56
I don't like it when servers misbehave and keep me up til 2am.  In particular, I had to cycle in at midnight to press a power button on one machine because rebooting was blocked by a deadlock in the shutdown (yes, I'd installed a hotfix relating to exactly that, but had to do the reboot to complete the installation).

Especially, I don't like it when the virtual machine hosts say in unison that they can't see the RAID array, there is no Cluster configuration, and there are no VMs - all at the same time.  All is good now, of course, and no-one in the office will have noticed - this is why my employers love me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 23 Jul 2012, 18:27
That was always the goal when I worked in radio or the theatre - to do your job in such a way that no one in the audience would notice you were doing anything... 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 23 Jul 2012, 19:04
I wasn't good enough to be invisible while I managed my newspaper's computer system, a demanding "side job" besides my copy editing/assignment duties. Bastard computer was fractious; terminal wiring overheated and needed frequent resoldering, of all things! So I'd ask users, "How's it running today?" and believed myself to be politick, comforting, nurturing, by checking in with them. Best of all, when working on terminals and floor wiring down in Classified, was telling any of the ad-takers, all young women: "Linda (or Nancy, or whomsoever), keep your knees together!" But all in all, with the editorial duties and the computer duties competing for my time, I had the best of both worlds. And the legs of young women were the least of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Jul 2012, 00:34
take him to the no-kill shelter

Ask questions. I used to work (well, volunteer) with animal adoption, and the local no-kill shelter, as it turns out, won't kill animals, but they will fob them off to Animal Control and let AC kill them. :/

How I found out was that a woman who took care of cats (took care of them, vet bills, food, housing, all that - just to give them away!) ended up giving one of her cats to PAWS (which was the no-kill shelter), only to have Animal Control ask her to take in a cat they couldn't keep a few months later - and it was the some one! I'd be pretty pissed at PAWS was it still together - it apparently fell apart in the year I've been away. Now AC is the only place to take a stray, and I would hate to do that.

So, yeah. Ask questions.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 24 Jul 2012, 05:45
Awww, Kitty!!!! 

He is absolutely darling! Look at those pretty eyes :-) I'm sure you'll be able to find him a home soon. I'd take him if I could be guaranteed that Fuzz wouldn't eat him....she can be a beast around other kitties.


Re: Dental Fun-

It's amusing to me that dental issues were brought up because I came in here initially to bitch and moan about my mouth and the fact that it's going to cost me a shitload of money!

I went for 7 years or so without a dentist because I didn't have insurance and when I went back my teeth were fine, but my jaw decided to attack me (I have TMJ). The dentist and I have been talking about taking care of it and I'm finally pulling the trigger. I'm getting a mold taken of my teeth on Thursday, then I'll be receiving a splint in about 3 weeks that I have to wear 24/7. It will reposition my jaw and correct my severe overbite. Apparently, TMJ is related to a lot of other issues that should be resolved with the splint treatment. It can heighten chances of suffering from sinus infections, causes neck and shoulder pain, ear clogs and sleep disturbances. And apparently, more severe cases can actually have adverse effects on your brain function. There have been a lot of studies linking TMJ to depression and anxiety. In most people, it causes severe headaches and jaw pain but luckily I don't have to deal with that too much.

I'm not looking forward to wearing the splint, but I definitely want to resolve all of these issues. I thought they were all just because of anxiety and/or allergies, but if this treatment is going to fix things that I thought I was stuck with forever, I'll be so freaking happy.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 24 Jul 2012, 06:45
All is good now, of course, and no-one in the office will have noticed - this is why my employers love me.
(http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/devotion_to_duty.png)
Sysadmins. Never was so much owed by so many to so few.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 24 Jul 2012, 08:53
take him to the no-kill shelter

Ask questions. I used to work (well, volunteer) with animal adoption, and the local no-kill shelter, as it turns out, won't kill animals, but they will fob them off to Animal Control and let AC kill them. :/

How I found out was that a woman who took care of cats (took care of them, vet bills, food, housing, all that - just to give them away!) ended up giving one of her cats to PAWS (which was the no-kill shelter), only to have Animal Control ask her to take in a cat they couldn't keep a few months later - and it was the some one! I'd be pretty pissed at PAWS was it still together - it apparently fell apart in the year I've been away. Now AC is the only place to take a stray, and I would hate to do that.

So, yeah. Ask questions.

You know, when I spoke with them on the phone, she had mentioned that they had even had to do that, and it didn't even click at the time.

Either way, kitty now has a home with my next-door neighbor  :-)
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Post by: Aimless on 24 Jul 2012, 16:12
Survived my first night on call! Started at 3 PM, came home ca. 10 AM, a total zombie. 'nother shift tomorrow :o

Am slowly figuring out how to make use of my "idle" time to fiddle with notes, instructions etc. Was really on edge last night so I floated around in the hospital between the ER and various wards. Was visited by the ginger who brought delicious food <3 I kept waiting for something terrible to happen, and by "something terrible" I of course mean "acute 'millions of brain-cells dying every second you waste' stroke". Ca. 7 AM I finally collapsed, fervently hoping that I'd succeeded in cheating fate, fell asleep and had a nightmare about the stroke-pager going nuts but somehow I escaped.

And then the stroke pager went nuts just 15 mins before I was supposed to get off my shift. On the bright side, I'd forgotten to set the alarm so its hellish beeping was actually very timely. Moreover, it was a very effective stimulant. The sun seemed to shine brighter today. The walk home was blissful. On the down-side I was too knackered to do anything much once I got home, didn't take the opportunity to lie in the sun, and collapsed for real ca. 5 PM just before the ginger got home.

Still, it's been good, and tomorrow's gonna be better I think :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3f3pTbKmow (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3f3pTbKmow)
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Jul 2012, 20:09
Sunday my bandie Matt and I spent 3 hours doing some mixing work with our producer on some of the songs for the upcoming Troubador album. Things are sounding pretty good, but it's still only about 40% done in that stage, and that's counting the single (+ b-side) we've already released, both of which are included on the album. So that's kinda a bummer. But, at least we're finally making headway on it!

After that wrapped up for the day, band practice with our drummer. We worked out 4 new songs! One of them has a three-part vocal harmony that we will all sing live (and we'll probably record a live take when the time comes for the next record), makes me think of The Band. Fuckin stoked on all the new jams we finished. And I'm writing a new one by myself, and I plan to introduce it to the boys next practice. It's this riproarin rockabilly kinda jam with a lick I would love to play in Nashville someday, and it's right up our sound's alley.

Last two nights have been spent drinking, so now I'm gonna pass out forever.
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Post by: Papersatan on 24 Jul 2012, 21:13
Today I skyped with my friend in China. Oh I miss her so much! We became such close friends in such a short time and then she had to move back home.  We have big gaps between our talks, but when we do talk it is so easy to pick up where we left off. She wants me to come visit, and she is always so optimistic about things "Kat I think you really can come next year!" But I just don't see how I will have the money to fly to China in the next 3 years.  It has already been 2 years since I have seen here, which is one half of the entire time I have known her! Why is the world so big, and am I so poor?
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 24 Jul 2012, 23:19
So the Olympics is happening what, next week? and I'm having to plan around getting home from work as I'm apparently in a "hotspot" of activity (Holborn). It's very strange, because I hardly know London at all yet, and I'm being told to "get ahead of the games" and "plan my route" home.

Well, I get on at Holborn, travel three stops to Liverpool St and then get off there for the overground. All in all the underground portion doesn't take more than fifteen minutes, yet I'm being told to take evasive action...the only way I can avoid crowds, presumably, is to either walk to Liverpool St (probably a good half hour +) and delay my journey home, or walk to the stop preceeding Holborn (Tottenham Court Road), so that I can actually get a train to Liverpool St anyway.

London is busy enough as it is, I'm constantly surprised by the amount of people willing to jump out into fast-moving traffic just to get across the road into a coffee shop or something.

There's an expectation that bus services may be affected less than Underground and there's a few services that go from Holborn to Liverpool Street so that might be an option. My memory of those services was they they were pretty busy anyway though. Can't see walking to Tottenham Court Road making anything better either.
Have you considered taking a Boris Bike. Going along the quieter roads should take around 12-15 minutes at a modest pace so would make journeys free and probably much easier.

I still cross roads like that, it's a very hard habit to break.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jul 2012, 00:55
Crossing the road is a simple matter of dynamics - set your trajectory to miss the other moving objects, and away you go.  Same with cycling, of course.  My brain just sees the world that way and makes the necessary settings automatically.

I think people who can't see trajectories that way are sometimes alarmed by this, and I have to account for their possible changes in behaviour as well.
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Post by: Lines on 25 Jul 2012, 04:13
Or, you know, hit by a car. I cross the street when I know I have enough time to do so without having to stop or make cars stop. It's easy enough to do, but I do scare people sometimes, especially the people who don't know how to walk fast.

One of my friends/former coworkers likes to play a game called "Don't Get Hit" which involves him deliberately swerving in front of cars on his bike. I told him if he ever did that to me, I would hit him. Not enough to kill or seriously injure him, but just enough to fuck up his bike/make him mad/make him not ever pull that shit again.
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Post by: Redball on 25 Jul 2012, 04:37
The risk of insisting on the right of way or playing don't get hit, aside from injury to the person who insists or plays, is causing other collisions as drivers try to avoid the stopping or swerving car in front of them. Other than that, it means trusting your own safety to the ability of the driver in the oncoming car, whether it's a 20-something with lightning reflexes, an 85-year-old with unclear vision and slow reflexes, or a drunk. It seems to me that once you've become a driver, you learn to think like one. And if you're the least bit empathetic, even as a pedestrian part of you is behind the wheel of that oncoming car.
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Jul 2012, 04:43
My aim is never to require the drivers to do anything; sometimes, if they don't get it, they slow down, which can make getting between them and another vehicle more difficult than it might have been - this is the change of behaviour that I remarked that I had to account for.
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Post by: Redball on 25 Jul 2012, 05:37
I see driving and walking near drivers as an expression of body language. One doesn't make a gesture toward another person that would make that person flinch, or invade another person's personal space.
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Post by: Redball on 25 Jul 2012, 06:15
I've done that; took my foot off the gas. Touched the brake once and got followed by a ranting driver far enough I wished I'd found a police station. He finally broke off.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 Jul 2012, 06:28
Ugh, maybe it's my time as a pedestrian in NYC, but I have no patience for people who disregard safety just because they have the right of way. I think it's one of my biggest pet peeves. I mean, I learned to cross the street in Kindergarten!!

We live on the outskirts of a small city and there is a 3 lane highway that we take to get to our apartment. I have yet to drive on that highway without witnessing what my friends and I lovingly call "strutters". These people walk as slow as humanly possible (sometimes called the "pimp walk") across 3 lanes of traffic, outside of crosswalks, usually wearing headphones and with no regard to traffic lights. They don't acknowledge you when you slow down to let them go and they hardly even look in the direction of oncoming traffic, let alone pause to consider whether or not crossing is a good idea. Sometimes I think they are daring drivers to hit them so they can sue.


It's not hard to be a good pedestrian- stop, look, go when no one is coming and if someone stops to let you pass, wave "thank you". Really not difficult.

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Post by: Carl-E on 25 Jul 2012, 07:25
I've been hit by cars more than once; once on a motorcycle, once on a bicycle, an once as a pedestrian last December.  The legs almost feels normal again, thanks for asking! 

If you spend enough time in traffic, you will, eventually, wind up in a situation where an accident is unavoidable, no matter how careful you are.  However, the probability of being in an accident goes way down if you are careful, and even further down if everyone else is also.  It's worth the effort. 

Also, Paul, I'm a trajectory predictor as well, but my depth perceptio's always been a bit poor, so it doesn't always work - I overestimate to compensate.  Blind corners don't help...

Lastly, the consequences of pissing off traffic in Europe (you're in Belgium, Tuathal?) are generally lesser than they are in the states, where I have seen guns drawn and waved on the highway more than once. 

But that's another thread...
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Post by: Omega Entity on 25 Jul 2012, 08:20
I try to be a good pedestrian if I'm crossing, say, a road or something - people may have the right of way, but there's no need to be an asshole about it.

On the other hand, if I'm crossing the narrow lane to get from the parking lot to a store, I'm sorry, but there's no need for any vehicle to move fast enough that stopping is a difficulty. Or rather, there's no need to SPEED UP when I'm crossing, thinking they can beat me.

I was doing said crossing a week ago, and I have long legs and a fast clip. I had plenty of time to get across, especially if I pick up a jog as I often do when a car is coming. Dumbass in the sedan actually sped up to try and beat me so he wouldn't have to stop - IN THE FUCKING PARKING LOT. Not only stupid, but dangerous as well, especially considering there was an ambulance parked along the side that was a nice obstruction for being able to see what's coming. He had a clear line of sight on me, though. When he did end up having to brake for me, -he- had the audacity to honk at -me-, like I was the one being the dick in the situation. Raised my hands up to my sides in a 'what the hell' gesture, mouthed a big ol' 'fuck you' (his windows were up, and I was on the clock for work besides), and gave him the finger before strolling into the store.
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Post by: Lines on 25 Jul 2012, 09:15
Someone did that to me once. Earlier that day, I had done lunges for a fitness class, so I was walking pretty slow, but I still had a good idea on how long it would take me to cross from the parking spaces to the store. There was an SUV about 5-6 stores down that was not moving fast at all, so I decide to go ahead and cross. So what do they do? Speed up and stop about a foot away from me and honk. So I stop, give them a, "Really? Bitch please." look, and slooooooooooooooowly continue on my way. I was already walking about 1/3 of my normal pace, which is usually pretty fast, so I went ahead and slowed it down some more. :evil:

If they had honked again, I probably would have just stood there and made them drive around me. It's a parking lot. Let me walk or I shall park my body where I please.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 25 Jul 2012, 10:13
Reading my previous post, I realize that I came across as a little.....apathetic. I apologize and should clarify that I meant it's not hard to be a courteous pedestrian, not someone who magically crosses all intersections in a perfect manner lol. Accidents happen and there are definitely cases unlike the ones that I posted about. I've just never seen them happen here because there are so many effing douche bags. :psyduck:

And really?? If a driver is an ass hat to you, I commend (and recommend) being an ass hat right back. Operating a large piece of machinery doesn't give someone the right to be a jerk and I think the more people that are shown this fact, the better off we'll all be.


Sometimes being mobile is really scary.  :-\
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Post by: Papersatan on 25 Jul 2012, 12:38
So, I just want to put my two cents in about driving. I have a major pet peev about driving, highway driving in particular, but all driving really.  Good driving (cycling, pedestrian-ing) is about being safe, making sure others know what you are doing by signaling and not making sudden, unexpected decisions, doing only what you are comfortable with, and keeping traffic moving smoothly.  It is not about always about following the rules, and is certainly not about forcing others to follow them.  It is not about being the fastest or the most technically skilled, or feeling self righteous because *you* were a better driver.  Once you let your frustration change your driving, you stop being the better driver. 

Forcing someone to slam their breaks on, or driving in a way where you are forced to slam yours on is:
1. bad for your car
2. bad for your gas mileage
3. bad for your heart rate
4. bad for the over all traffic conditions
5. UNSAFE


It is frustrating when you are cruising above the speed limit and someone is on your ass, but you should get over and let them pass.  Making them slam their breaks by hitting yours is unsafe and people slamming their breaks on is the cause of most traffic jams. You are not their boss and it is not your job to make them slow down. If it helps think about all the reasons your speed might not be fast enough for them, maybe their wife is giving birth in the back seat, maybe they are rushing to the hospital where their mother is dieing, maybe they are late for a job interview, maybe they are just an asshole.  Doesn't matter, it is not your job to slow them down, your tax dollars pay someone to do that, and if this driver thinks it is worth the risk, that is their choice.  Calmly move over with the knowledge you are still a good driver, and if you are super pissed, give them the finger.

It sucks that, when everyone knew the lane was going to close 3 miles ago, that douche sped up the lane to the end and now wants to get in, but if you slow down a little there can be space for him to get in with no fuss, and if you speed up to close the gap and then hit your breaks, that chains back and makes the traffic worse for everyone else, increasing the likelihood people will get frustrated and speed down the closed lane, making more people come to full stops and so on. 

Are you in a traffic jam?  Sure if feels like every time someone cuts into your lane because it is moving 1 mph faster that it is pushing you further from your goal.  It really isn't she will be bored with your lane and on to another one in nor time, but driving in busts is making the traffic jam worse for everyone behind you (besides all the things mentioned in my list).  your goal should be to drive as smoothly as possible,  if this means you don't make it over 10 MPH, so be it, but most traffic jams are spontaneous and would clear up if people drove well. 

I wish every driver had to watch this (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Suugn-p5C1M) and write a response about what they could do to prevent such things from happening. In so many situations I watch people make traffic worse because they can't just take a deep breath and drive calmly.
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Post by: Jace on 25 Jul 2012, 15:42
Good news everyone!
It is just a canker sore. Got a better look at it yesterday.
Bad news everyone!
Jessica's grandma is in hospice.
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Jul 2012, 15:44
I cannot stand distracted driving in any form.

I probably shouldn't tell you about the time I went 90mph down I580 in an SUV at 1am while hitting a weed pipe, left knee on the steering wheel and pipe in both hands.

This actually happened, rock and roll 4 lyfe
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Post by: Akima on 25 Jul 2012, 20:41
So, I just want to put my two cents in about driving.
Yes. So very much yes. A vehicle is a means of transport, not a tool for expressing your anger, frustration, territoriality etc.

One of my friends/former coworkers likes to play a game called "Don't Get Hit" which involves him deliberately swerving in front of cars on his bike.
Does he have a death-wish? I'm a bicycle commuter in the city, and strongly believe that exercising your legal right to ride on the road means behaving like a responsible vehicle operator. Even if you do, some motor-vehicle drivers will carve you up (though not as many as some cycling drama-queens like to suggest), so playing silly games like this should be right out.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Jul 2012, 04:46
Rest assured, it is never going to happen again. Not a fan of taking stupid risks these days.
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Post by: Welu on 26 Jul 2012, 05:20
I tried to write a post last night about getting invited to a girly night out but it got long and ranty.

Basically, I've been invited to something I know I will not have fun at. It doesn't help I only like three of the seven people involved. One person there really does not like me at all. I did spend two and a half years trying so hard with them with barely any reciprocation. I've managed to not have to see them for about a year other than a couple things, where we just ignored each other. If I do attempt to say anything to her, no matter what it is she quickly gets defensive. Even if I'm not talking to her but I say something she doesn't like, for example a song came on and I said I didn't like it but if she does, she will take it as a personal attack and the only way to appease her is to totally back down.
Although I don't want to miss it because it reminds me of when I was a bitchy teen who would purposely exclude myself from things then get upset when no one would hang out with me. Even though the power of hindsight made me realize there were a lot of people who tried to include me. However I also don't want to fake enjoying the whole night or sulk because I don't want to wreck their night.

I think I'm not going to go since I'm working early the next day any way. I'll try to chat to the people I do like and say I really want to hang out with them and I don't want to mess with their circle of friends so I don't know if it's a good idea if I'm there when some other people are also there. Or maybe just see if they'd understand if I'm there but don't get too involved. I don't know how to explain any of these things without sounding bitchy.

Edit:
On driving. I've had about ten lessons. Not many bicyclists in my town but plenty of people who'll run across the road without looking. I've always thought I was very careful crossing the road due to a near-miss when I was a toddler. Now I'm even more cautious, especially when wearing headphones, since seeing the driver's perspective.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Jul 2012, 07:20
One of my friends/former coworkers likes to play a game called "Don't Get Hit" which involves him deliberately swerving in front of cars on his bike.

Does he have a death-wish? I'm a bicycle commuter in the city, and strongly believe that exercising your legal right to ride on the road means behaving like a responsible vehicle operator. Even if you do, some motor-vehicle drivers will carve you up (though not as many as some cycling drama-queens like to suggest), so playing silly games like this should be right out.

I honestly have no idea. I told him I thought it was immensely stupid, which is why I told him I would hit him if he ever did it do me. And I'm not lying. I will either tap his bike hard enough with my car to dent a wheel or I will get out of the car and start beating him with my purse. Luckily I rarely drive downtown anymore, so I don't really have to worry about it. If he wants to get hit by a car, that's his problem. He knows it's stupid, but he still does it.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 26 Jul 2012, 09:30
I once saw some pedestrians get pulled over for crossing out of turn. It was fantastic. They were crossing a road that's 3 lanes each way plus turn lanes, and their timing was such that they were in front of the left-turn lane when their light turned green so nobody could go. When the going-straight lanes got their light, a cop who was sitting one or two cars back flipped a u-turn and pulled up next to the people as they were reaching the other side of the street.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Jul 2012, 19:49
That's awesome! 

...I told him I would hit him if he ever did it do me. And I'm not lying. I will either tap his bike hard enough with my car to dent a wheel or I will get out of the car and start beating him with my purse.

Please, only the latter.  The difference of mass between a bike and a car is such that even a "light" tap can cause a ridiculous amount of amage to both the bike and cyclist, and it's unpredictable as well.  You may only knock them over (a that's bad eough), or send them flying thirty feet, you can't gauge it. 
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jul 2012, 03:48
Solution: take a passenger, and if he does it, overtake him, have the passenger open their door, then you hit the brakes.

This is definitely not a legal tactic to employ, but hey, guy's being a dick.
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Post by: Redball on 27 Jul 2012, 04:54
Really hard on the door, the hinges, the bike, the cyclist, possibly the passenger, the driver's insurance premium and possibly the passenger's freedom.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Jul 2012, 05:35
...I told him I would hit him if he ever did it do me. And I'm not lying. I will either tap his bike hard enough with my car to dent a wheel or I will get out of the car and start beating him with my purse.

Please, only the latter.  The difference of mass between a bike and a car is such that even a "light" tap can cause a ridiculous amount of amage to both the bike and cyclist, and it's unpredictable as well.  You may only knock them over (a that's bad eough), or send them flying thirty feet, you can't gauge it.

He's been hit before. By both a car and a bus, though he hit the bus because of a car. (He wasn't hurt, but his bike got bent up.) I probably won't actually hit him with my car, I don't hate the guy. (I liked working with him a lot, but he does stupid shit like this that annoys me.) Maybe I should just remove parts instead. (Ones that would be noticeable right away, like the chain or seat or a wheel.) Don't worry, I'd mail them back.

Also, Patrick, tempting, but I like my car and prefer to keep it in one piece.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jul 2012, 06:52
Solution: take a passenger, and if he does it, overtake him, have the passenger open their door, then you hit the brakes.

This is definitely not a legal tactic to employ, but hey, guy's being a dick.

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHFUCKNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In 1992, I was biking to class down the steep hill at IU by the main Library.  There's a stop sign at the bottom of the hill, and cars were backed up for about a block (as usual). 

One brilliant passeger in a rusty yellow Datsun B210, halfway down the hill, said to her driver, "I'll just walk from here", an opened the door without looking...

My tire wound up tangled in the pedals, the frame bent nearly in half, the door was folded flat forward to the fender of the car, and I literally flew 30 feet down the hill, landing on my back/backpack on the sidewalk.  I couldn't feel or move my legs.  Some sensation returned by the time the ambulence reached the hospital, and I was able to walk out after two days with nothing more than a cracked sacrum.  The initial shock had stunned the nerves. 


I was incredibly lucky, and was only a few pounds of force away from becoming a paraplegic, and only a half turn from hitting my head instead of my ass.  DO NOT FUCK WITH BIKES ULESS YOU WANT TO KILL OR MAIM!!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Jul 2012, 09:29
If I do attempt to say anything to her, no matter what it is she quickly gets defensive.

This sounds very similar to the situation I was in with the girl I was sharing host families with on the choir tour. She only ever spoke to me, if we were alone, to discuss logistics (other than the first night, when we chatted about our families - resulting in me telling her a lot of fairly private stuff that she turned round and used against me later), or if we were in a group, to contradict something I had said or argue with me. She is very narrow-minded and has black-and-white views on everything, and I found it impossible to be around her. Which was really not great since we had to stay together for two weeks. I sympathise, someone inexplicably taking against you and not being mature enough to fake friendliness for the sake of others is really tricky to cope with. Especially if it isn't overt enough for others to be aware of it without you whining and complaining every time.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jul 2012, 12:48
lol you guys responded to that like it was a serious suggestion or something

Dear blag,

The wine bar I used to run open mic at a year or so ago is closing down, and their last open mic was tonight. So I went. The owner was there, and he said he wanted me gone because of my wine-stealing incident on my last night working there for free. I just told him to fuck off, walked in further, and kept shaking people's hands and hugging people. What was he gonna do, chase me? ;)

Brought down the house with a sad Troubador song and a Beatles favorite, stayed til close, owner had already left by then. trololololol
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jul 2012, 13:58
lol you guys responded to that like it was a serious suggestion or something

Sorry, but it was bad enough as an accident.  Stupider things than that have been done on purpose.  No hard feelings...   :-D
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Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Jul 2012, 14:39

Dear blag,

The wine bar I used to run open mic at a year or so ago is closing down, and their last open mic was tonight. So I went. The owner was there, and he said he wanted me gone because of my wine-stealing incident on my last night working there for free. I just told him to fuck off, walked in further, and kept shaking people's hands and hugging people. What was he gonna do, chase me? ;)

Brought down the house with a sad Troubador song and a Beatles favorite, stayed til close, owner had already left by then. trololololol

Can't say I'd blame the guy for wanting you gone, if you, you know, actually stole from him. Just sayin'.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jul 2012, 15:00
Guy promised he'd pay me, and 6 months later I still had never seen a penny.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Jul 2012, 15:16
Alright, so he's a raging dick. But I still don't see how that justifies theft.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jul 2012, 16:24
If he's not going to pay money, Pat'll take his pay in wine. 


On the other hand, he may be withholding your pay because of the wine.  The reasonable thing to do would be to take the cost of the wine out of what he owed you, but yeah, sounds like he's a douche. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Jul 2012, 16:40
So you register for unemployment in PA online.  Aside from the fact that the login keeps timing out, there are a couple of things that bug me...

If you say you were fired, all the followup questions are about what you did to get fired.  I didn't do anything - I got fired for being too expensive to keep. 

Which isn't an option, of course.  There's an "Other" choice, then you get to explain it all (in under 300 words). 



I dunno.  It's just depressing, really. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Jul 2012, 17:48
If he's not going to pay money, Pat'll take his pay in wine. 


On the other hand, he may be withholding your pay because of the wine.  The reasonable thing to do would be to take the cost of the wine out of what he owed you, but yeah, sounds like he's a douche.

Then take him to small claims? There's legal ways to go about things. And if you were working under the table, there's the added bonus of getting him into deep shit with the government, as well.
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Jul 2012, 17:53
Definitely under the table, and the bar's closing because he's getting into legal trouble for embezzlement anyway. I don't give NO fucks
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 28 Jul 2012, 04:18
This sounds very similar to the situation I was in with the girl I was sharing host families with on the choir tour. She only ever spoke to me, if we were alone, to discuss logistics (other than the first night, when we chatted about our families - resulting in me telling her a lot of fairly private stuff that she turned round and used against me later), or if we were in a group, to contradict something I had said or argue with me. She is very narrow-minded and has black-and-white views on everything, and I found it impossible to be around her. Which was really not great since we had to stay together for two weeks. I sympathise, someone inexplicably taking against you and not being mature enough to fake friendliness for the sake of others is really tricky to cope with. Especially if it isn't overt enough for others to be aware of it without you whining and complaining every time.

Thanks for the response. Two of the girls know the story from my side and perspective but I'd be surprised if they haven't heard her version too. She's over-sensitive in general so everyone who's met her seen her get defensive over nothing at some point. At New Years Eve they main group saw the song example I talked about and friends who've known me and her are not just aware, two of them dated her and they have their own stories.
I am very sure she took against me because she thought I was trying to steal her then-boyfriend away. Despite being in a relationship myself when I met them.

~ ~

In other news: There is a high chance I am seeing Jonathan Coulton and Tim Vine in September. Yay!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Jul 2012, 18:28
JOYCE MANOR SHOW IN 3 HOURS

BOUT TA PISS MY PANTS
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Jul 2012, 01:20
He's been hit before. By both a car and a bus, though he hit the bus because of a car. (He wasn't hurt, but his bike got bent up.) I probably won't actually hit him with my car, I don't hate the guy. (I liked working with him a lot, but he does stupid shit like this that annoys me.) Maybe I should just remove parts instead. (Ones that would be noticeable right away, like the chain or seat or a wheel.) Don't worry, I'd mail them back.

I am thankful that I am not the only person who has a tendency to put every other line in parentheses. (It is probably my worst writing habit - well, except for using lots of hyphens and semi-colons to lengthen sentences; it's a habit I can't break.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 29 Jul 2012, 02:23
I hate when people put lots of parenthesis in their sentences, especially when it changes the meaning (I do not really hate when people do this (addendum, I do hate when they put parenthesis inside of other ones without going to brackets (No, I don't hate that either, but I do prefer using bracketed systems)))
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 29 Jul 2012, 02:49
Went to the show with my homie Greg, had a great time! I moshed! I've never good'n'proper moshed before, despite being in the pit at previous shows. Greg's hella big, so I had him lift me up so I could scream along to the chorus of one of my favorite jams. I'd started talking to a super cute girl after Summer Vacation's set, and after I'd wished her a good show and went back inside, she came and found me in the crowd and we hung out for the rest of the show. I asked her for her phone number, and now I have it. :3

I am not sure if he was serious, but the bouncer told Greg and I that he just found out his dad died, which kinda threw us for a loop. But after we talked to him and made special effort to be nice and helpful, he seemed to be in a better mood, and he shook our hands on our way out afterward and said thanks. Downside: that did totally prevent me from stagediving.

Also managed to talk to half of Joyce Manor and gave them my business card and a thumb drive with a few Troubador songs on it, including a bootleg track from one of our live shows just for good measure.

tl;dr I had a fucking fantastic time, all the bands were killer (Joyce Manor's singer went through three guitars' worth of E strings [2 weren't his!] just rocking too hard, lololol), and I'm proud of myself for making every second count, fuck yeah. I doubt I could've had a better time even if I'd tried.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 29 Jul 2012, 09:47
He's been hit before. By both a car and a bus, though he hit the bus because of a car. (He wasn't hurt, but his bike got bent up.) I probably won't actually hit him with my car, I don't hate the guy. (I liked working with him a lot, but he does stupid shit like this that annoys me.) Maybe I should just remove parts instead. (Ones that would be noticeable right away, like the chain or seat or a wheel.) Don't worry, I'd mail them back.

I am thankful that I am not the only person who has a tendency to put every other line in parentheses. (It is probably my worst writing habit - well, except for using lots of hyphens and semi-colons to lengthen sentences; it's a habit I can't break.)

I have picked up that habit (since joining this board in fact). Sometimes I think I do it when I don't need to but I have a horrible habit of writing sentences that run on way too long, which annoys the hell out of me when I am story writing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jul 2012, 10:13
Tell it to Dickens. 


Or Victor Hugo. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Jul 2012, 10:17
"I hate Victor Hugo," said Les miserably.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 29 Jul 2012, 10:44
Faulkner.
But I enjoyed Les Miserables.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Jul 2012, 12:22
I use too many brackets as well, it annoys me a little but they're useful. I hadn't considered that I might have developed that habit on here but I bet I did!

Yesterday I headed out to meet Redball, along with Edith. We realised when we were looking at the map that we'd been out that way before, with Kat and Steve (remember the lake house?) so that was good. We had a great time and when I get round to it I'll upload photos - I might even do that today if I get all my other stuff done before we need to go home from the library.

I'm having difficulty with the internet, because the local library branch's wifi isn't anything like good enough to do basically anything - it has an upload speed of 0.05 mbps or something, I don't know, but basically carrier pigeons would be faster. So my attempt at a Skype lesson with my tutoring student was a total failure. I'm going to try a cafe with wifi instead tomorrow, in the hopes that will be more successful, because if not then I won't be able to earn £30 a week and I was banking on that money.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 29 Jul 2012, 16:46
Sometimes I think I do it when I don't need to but I have a horrible habit of writing sentences that run on way too long, which annoys the hell out of me when I am story writing.
Me too. In learning English, once I reached a certain level of competence, I was encouraged to use "good literature" as a guide to good writing. So I have a habit of writing long sentences, full of subsidiary clauses and asides, under the influence of, for example, Hemmingway:

"I was a little ashamed, and regretted that I was such a rotten Catholic, but realized there was nothing I could do about it, at least for a while, and maybe never, but that anyway it was a grand religion, and I only wished I felt religious and maybe I would the next time." - The Sun Also Rises, 1926.

Though the author whose prose style I would most like to emulate is probably Raymond Chandler, but he liked the occasional long sentence too:

"The main hallway of the Sternwood place was two stories high. Over the entrance doors, which would have let in a troop of Indian elephants, there was a broad stained-glass panel showing a knight in dark armor rescuing a lady who was tied to a tree and didn’t have any clothes on but some very long and convenient hair. The knight had pushed the vizor of his helmet back to be sociable, and he was fiddling with the knots on the ropes that tied the lady to the tree and not getting anywhere. I stood there and thought that if I lived in the house, I would sooner or later have to climb up there and help him. He didn’t seem to be really trying."

And yes, Dickens. The opening sentence of "Tale Of Two Cities", for example.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 29 Jul 2012, 16:56
Lots of clauses in the Chandler fragment you cited, but not all that objectionable. As a newspaper reporter, I watched sentence and paragraph length. I enjoyed writing a lead of 3-4 lines of type, followed by a very short second paragraph, in a rimshot kind of followup. I'm still writing for a couple of newspapers, editorials only, but still watching sentence and paragraph length.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 29 Jul 2012, 17:37
There is no author in the world I hate more passionately than Charles Dickens.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 29 Jul 2012, 18:41
Really? Not even Dean Koontz?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 Jul 2012, 19:25
He's been hit before. By both a car and a bus, though he hit the bus because of a car. (He wasn't hurt, but his bike got bent up.) I probably won't actually hit him with my car, I don't hate the guy. (I liked working with him a lot, but he does stupid shit like this that annoys me.) Maybe I should just remove parts instead. (Ones that would be noticeable right away, like the chain or seat or a wheel.) Don't worry, I'd mail them back.

I am thankful that I am not the only person who has a tendency to put every other line in parentheses. (It is probably my worst writing habit - well, except for using lots of hyphens and semi-colons to lengthen sentences; it's a habit I can't break.)
(I sometimes do it whith entire posts, you have no idea.)

I enjoy parentheses myself (they allow me to explain a fragment in such richer detail without distracting from the bigger picture....i don't know if that makes sense).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 29 Jul 2012, 20:05
Makes sense to me. That's how I generally use them  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 29 Jul 2012, 20:43
That's why I use them!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jul 2012, 22:57
Nothing wrong with long sentences, appropriately constructed; long enough, and you get a periodic sentence (according to Wikipedia, though I've always just called it a period), which can be the length of a substantial paragraph - indeed, if you look in the poetry thread (in ENJOY), and find the ode by Milton that I posted, you will see that about three-quarters of it is made up of a single period.  To be a proper period, the sentence must build towards a conclusion or climax, rather than just rambling.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jul 2012, 23:49
I recall a sentence is Robison Crusoe that lasted well over a page ad a half.  My sixth grade Eglish teacher had us deconstruct it. 


With a bit too much glee. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 30 Jul 2012, 05:37
This was the winner of a Bulwer-Lytton contest in the 1980s:
"The sun oozed over the horizon, shoved aside darkness, crept alongthe greensward, and, with sickly fingers, pushed through the castle window, revealing the pillaged princess, hand at throat, crown asunder, gaping in frenzied horror at the sated, sodden amphibian lying beside her, disbelieving the magnitude of the frog's deception,  screaming madly, 'You lied!´"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 30 Jul 2012, 09:22
 Here (http://www.englishforums.com/English/BulwerLyttonEndorsesEek/lrdkj/post.htm) are the rest in the batch. Some are excellent, some not so.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 01 Aug 2012, 10:41
Really? Not even Dean Koontz?

Koontz isn't paid by the word, but Dickens was. Which is why he used too fucking many of them in every single thing he ever wrote.

Dear blerg,

Yesterday I helped my bandie Matt build a practice goal for hockey! It's regulation height, but it's smaller than regulation width, and he's super excited about it. After building was done, we cleaned up his kitchen a bit, jammed out some new song ideas, then went downtown for coffee.

As we were returning home from downtown, we looked up and saw a bunch of really bright lights in the sky, moving rather slowly. Neither of us had any clue what they were, but then they started descending and we were like "WHAT THE HOLY FUCK IS GOING ON" until they started to all land right next to us. Turns out they were a bunch of homemade mini hot air balloons, each with a letter attached. It turns out the letters were for the dead, but I didn't figure it out until around halfway through the letter, so I said "Fuck it, too late" and finished reading. I justify it in my head by saying that it is a good lesson in appreciating what you have in the people you love or something.

We get to Matt's house and he parks in the driveway and puts it in what he thinks is park (we were using his brother's truck since it has better fuel econ), and he gets out while I'm looking down turning off my iPod. Neither of us notice for 5 seconds that the car has started rolling backward into the street, and Matt just yells "OH FUCK DUDE OH FUCK OH FUCK" and I managed to slam on the brakes before it slammed into his mom's car.

Matt's still pissed at NBC for advertising Olympic diving and not showing it last night.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 01 Aug 2012, 11:34
Another thing to consider about Dickens, his novels were serials which means no one expected you to sit down with the whole thing and read though it.  You read small chunks with a week or a month of rest between them.  You know what else is tedious? Watching a season of a TV show on netflix in one sitting.  Even the best of TV shows quickly seem formulaic and even as the overall plot advances it does so in small spirals, round and round almost the same things over and over till we can guess how each character will react, and they keep reminding you what just happened 20 minutes ago... Worst. Movie. Ever.   
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 01 Aug 2012, 15:59
Another thing to consider about Dickens, his novels were serials which means no one expected you to sit down with the whole thing and read though it.
If Dickens were alive today, he would be a script-writer on a soap-opera.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 02 Aug 2012, 03:54
There is no author in the world I hate more passionately than Charles Dickens.

See, it's okay to say that on the internet.

When you say it to a whole publishing office who are buying your drinks, it is not so much of a good idea. You can't unsay "I hate Dickens".

And if we're talking LONG sentences, you should all read the last chapter of Joyce's Ulysses. It has eight sentences in it, spanned over something like eighty to a hundred pages. Have fun with it, I did!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Aug 2012, 06:58
I hate that, though! There was this Polish novel I was reading where a sentence would go on for pages and it was just so hard to follow that I just gave up.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 02 Aug 2012, 23:48
Joyce's effect was to have the "purest" form of inner monologue possible.

I doubt he ever even considered its readability!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 02 Aug 2012, 23:50
Oh I'm sure he considered it for a short period, right before laughing at the the concept of seriously considering it.

Maybe wrote a couple of dirty filthy letters to his wife afterward.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 03 Aug 2012, 04:56
Dear blog,

I'm in a fantastic mood today. I've been doing well lately, over my virus, over my shyness concerning the unintended weight loss... dare I say it, I'm happy. This is somewhat new for me, I'm rarely happy for long but I'm trying not to fuck things up by constantly telling myself it's going to end soon. I get to see one of my "partners" tonight and dress up fancy and listen to him tell me how good I look. It's a rare opportunity for me and I can't wait. Now, please make work go by faster so I can get to the compliments.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 03 Aug 2012, 11:02
Oh I'm sure he considered it for a short period, right before laughing at the the concept of seriously considering it.

Maybe wrote a couple of dirty filthy letters to his wife afterward.

The only Joyce I've read is those letters. I'm not sure whether I should be proud, ashamed, or scrubbing myself in the shower in an attempt to feel clean once more.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Aug 2012, 11:56
Dear blog,

I'm in a fantastic mood today. I've been doing well lately, over my virus, over my shyness concerning the unintended weight loss... dare I say it, I'm happy. This is somewhat new for me, I'm rarely happy for long but I'm trying not to fuck things up by constantly telling myself it's going to end soon. I get to see one of my "partners" tonight and dress up fancy and listen to him tell me how good I look. It's a rare opportunity for me and I can't wait. Now, please make work go by faster so I can get to the compliments.

Yay! I'm glad you're feeling better- in all senses :-) Enjoy your time out tonight!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Aug 2012, 00:19
Damn! I think a rat has just bitten through part of the ring main for the upper part of the house; that means ripping half the house apart to try to find out where and repair it (also, we've been after this rat for eight years - we've blocked every conceivable access point, but it still gets in).

I've had to move my server to another part of the house to get it running again, but my wife will not be happy with no computers running in her study....
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 04 Aug 2012, 05:39
I guess with your experience you're way ahead of me, but is it possible that putting a tone on the pair of wires would let you detect the approximate location? My studfinder also spots electrical wiring, but I suppose it's just acting as a metal detector, which might be useful anyway.
Hadn't heard of a ring main before. Wikipedia explains it. Wiring in my experience here is all radial. Good luck!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Aug 2012, 06:25
My diagnosis was (and still is) incomplete.  When I got into my wife's room, after she woke up, to unplug the remaining items, the fault went away; but when I plugged just those things back in, it did not recur.  One of them (a time switch) turned out to be faulty - but that was a mechanical breakage which could not have produced the problem.  At present I am still considering that there could be damage, but that it has been disturbed again, removing the short; in support of that, I have found an exposed live conductor on a cable which is part of a different circuit in the same area.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 04 Aug 2012, 15:33
Damn! I think a rat has just bitten through part of the ring main for the upper part of the house... also, we've been after this rat for eight years

Lifespan of a rat is typically between 3 and 7 years.

#notarat
#trynorthamericanhousehippo
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 04 Aug 2012, 16:06
Strange how a North American House Hippo would end up in the UK in Paul's home though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Aug 2012, 16:15
Oh no!  The rat has bred and passed on its wire-chewing genes down the generations!
#generationsofrats

Of course, you know that I was speaking loosely.

I found an (empty) nest the rats have made in the rockwool insulation; lots of poison and traps are now in place.  But I still can't figure out where they are getting in to the house at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 04 Aug 2012, 16:34
It's Scabbers!
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Aug 2012, 00:43
A buddy of mine from ages ago who moved to Missouri 2 years ago is in town to visit! Went along with a mutual close friend to pick him up last night, hung out most of today, and we've got an overnight camping trip planned for Tuesday night. So stoked!

During hangouts today, we went to a pickup soccer game at the park. For a guy who hasn't played soccer since playing in the streets with a bunch of 11yo Albanian kids (who whooped my ass; I'm not a fan of hard abrasive surfaces when I fall), I did pretty well, made 5 goals over the course of a few "race to 3 points" matches. Super pleased about that. Matt came by and we played a few games against each other and a few as teammates, which was a ton of fun. We make for a pretty rad team.

Awesome day today with a show tomorrow! Hell yessss
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Post by: pwhodges on 05 Aug 2012, 06:49
The torrential rain and thunderstorm outside my window, that is delaying my dog walking for the day, has just turned to hail.  Oh joy!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 05 Aug 2012, 18:49
Yay! I'm glad you're feeling better- in all senses :-) Enjoy your time out tonight!

Thank you :) I ended up spending the whole weekend with him. I'm so glad we've gotten close, we both really needed it. He took me out to dinner at the Melting Pot which was so fancy. And then I went into maid mode and cleaned basically his whole apartment. Great weekend.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 06 Aug 2012, 07:17
Yay! I'm glad you're feeling better- in all senses :-) Enjoy your time out tonight!

Thank you :) I ended up spending the whole weekend with him. I'm so glad we've gotten close, we both really needed it. He took me out to dinner at the Melting Pot which was so fancy. And then I went into maid mode and cleaned basically his whole apartment. Great weekend.


cleaning* and melty cheese- possibly the best weekend ever. And well deserved!


(*i am kind of sad and kind of happy that i consider cleaning to be a fun thing to do lol)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Aug 2012, 10:59
I am officially starting to keep a food diary. I found an app that has a lot of restaurant menus stored and also has a barcode scanner which makes it too easy to NOT do. I've so far stayed below my calorie intake, which is good. It calculates it for you based on gender, age, height, and weight and also whether or not you want to gain, lose, or maintain weight, so it may not be 100% accurate, but it's better than what I could do on my own. So I'm going to start tracking what I eat and see what I need to eat more/less of and start trying to eat better!

Also since I obviously did not keep up with the Couch to 5K, I'd like to start easing myself back into a fitness routine of some sort and then eventually try that again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ummmkay on 06 Aug 2012, 15:24
what app are you using? i think i'm interested in doing something like that too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Aug 2012, 17:43
It's called Calorie Counter, but apparently there's more than one called that, but it's for Androids, free, and has a green scale for an icon.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Aug 2012, 18:28
The one I use sounds just like that except it's called Lose It! and has an orange scale for the icon. I like it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Aug 2012, 19:15
Pre-show Troubador practice went well, but the vibe was super off, and everybody was super bummed out until the minute we started playing at the show itself. From the first note onward, we were on point the whole night, and it felt great.

Official album release date is gonna be September 11. CONSPIRACY?????

Edit: I also made a hat trick out of getting caught checking girls out today. That's what I get for being 23, I guess.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 07 Aug 2012, 05:53
The one I use sounds just like that except it's called Lose It! and has an orange scale for the icon. I like it.

I use the Lose It! website- I enjoy it when I manage to stick with it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 07 Aug 2012, 15:17
I'm dog-sitting for a couple days. So I'm staying in my parents house this week and I'm already weirded out just hanging out in the living room in the laptop with the TV on in the background. Doesn't help the boyfriend is working early tomorrow so he wasn't able to stay over.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Aug 2012, 04:25
Official album release date is gonna be September 11. CONSPIRACY?????

Fighting for album sales with Dylan now?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 08 Aug 2012, 10:11
Well, it's hard to forget the date...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Aug 2012, 14:47
So Edith and I are going to see Bob Dylan.
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Aug 2012, 19:16
Today I met up with a boy that maybe I was going to do kinky things with.  Turns out he would be cheating on his girlfriend.  Disappointing. :( We did have a nice talk though where I gave him some tips for finding partners safely and encouraged him to have an honest talk with his girlfriend about opening their relationship if he thinks he can't live without his kink needs being met.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 09 Aug 2012, 13:46
New avvy. I quite like it.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Aug 2012, 02:59
I had an exceptional open mic last night. A fairly popular girl I know had a birthday last night and brought all her friends to the bar, and since I know them all I knew exactly what music would be best to play to keep them around. The last full-on jam session ended about 30m before close, so I played a couple songs by myself. It was pretty neat seeing people I knew singing along, it's been a while since something like that has happened. Slow last couple months -___- But last night rocked yeeeeee

Tonight's open mic was cool, introduced some old lady to Elliott Smith's music, spreading the crippling depression to the older generation and all dat
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Aug 2012, 07:48
Oh, come on - we knew crippling depression when you were still in diapers!   :-D
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 10 Aug 2012, 18:01
So today was our 4th (wedding) anniversary so we went down to dinner in Bethesda, which was lovely, and then on the way home we were tangentially involved in a 6-car hit-and-run accident and ended up on the side of Wisconsin Avenue for close to an hour. We were the first car at a red light, and we heard tires screech and then that pop/bang of bumpers hitting, so Robert let off the brakes and went forward a little bit, but the car right behind us still tapped our bumper. It turned out that a girl in a Dodge Stratus had run into a Civic and then veered into the other lane and took off. The Civic hit a Volvo and is totaled, the Volvo hit a Camry, the Camry needs a new trunk, the Camry hit a Magnum, and then there was us. There were a lot of people in surrounding cars and on the sidewalk who saw it, and one lady was taken to the hospital but probably for shock more than anything because she was driving the Magnum, and she managed to take the car keys with her, but everybody else was okay. My husband pulled over to the side and ran back right away with a couple of road flares, and it was all terribly exciting.
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Aug 2012, 02:39
Tonight I drove the single most dangerous stretch of road in California. Fuck I do not like Highway 17 one fucking bit
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lummer on 12 Aug 2012, 03:33
Dear Blog Thread.

Life is good these days, and so is the new Baroness record.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Aug 2012, 00:15
Speaking of records, I am shamelessly post-whoring this in my 3 most-frequented threads on these here forums: Troubador's kickstarter is live and you should give us all your money (http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/665073229/beat-les-troubador)

By that I mean you should give all 3 of us all your money
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Post by: Lupercal on 14 Aug 2012, 01:23
We were the first car at a red light

Reminds me of when I got rear-ended right outside my house by a jackass I knew in high school. People not noticing stationary traffic (or in these cases, noticing too late) always completely confuses me. I was simply indicating to get into my driveway - AND I was in a courtesy car at the time (my 'main' car had been smashed into whilst I was parked outside a relatives house). Obviously the most likely drivers to get hit are the ones not even moving!
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Post by: Sorflakne on 14 Aug 2012, 07:51
I hate when people put lots of parenthesis in their sentences, especially when it changes the meaning (I do not really hate when people do this (addendum, I do hate when they put parenthesis inside of other ones without going to brackets (No, I don't hate that either, but I do prefer using bracketed systems)))
Heh, I do that every now and then  :-P
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Post by: Lines on 14 Aug 2012, 19:58
Blog thread, I am sad. I have been watching a kitten for a classmate of mine for the past two months and today I had to give her back. At first I was like, oh I get to play with a kitten for two months and then give her back, that'll be fun, but really she became my buddy and I ended up wanting to keep her, which I can't do. She ended up being the best kitten ever, not fair.  :-(  We're going to wait and see how the boy's cat reacts. If he's fine, we'll do without, but if he starts acting mopey or looks lonely (he played with the kitten quite a bit), we might consider actually getting a kitten. Hopefully one as awesome as the one I just gave back. Sigh.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 14 Aug 2012, 20:42
Linds, weren't you in MI? Or am I thinking of someone else? My neighbor that adopted the kitten from me decided that she's too high-energy for her, and is looking for a home for her.
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Post by: Lines on 15 Aug 2012, 04:23
No, I live in OH. There's a few people up there, though.

There's almost always people looking for homes for cats around here, though. Last time I went, the pet store had two kittens up for adoption. (They team up with local shelters and organizations and almost always have 1-2 cats in store.) Their names were Pepper Pots and Natasha and it was very hard not to take them both. :D Also I think there may be another adopt-a-thon thing at the local shelter soon...
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Post by: Nikolai on 15 Aug 2012, 09:55
My wife is always signing up to foster kittens, and while I was leery about it at first (mainly due to allergies and not being overly fond of cats), I must say that I've grown fond of looking after little balls of adorableness for a couple months.
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Post by: Lines on 15 Aug 2012, 10:47
When I was younger, my mom and I would catch the cats wondering around our old apartment complex and foster them until we got homes for them. We only fostered a kitten once and it was a tiny, but very, VERY smelly ball of cute. (I don't know why he stank, we but thankfully we only had him for a week and supposedly the smell eventually went away.) This one was different because she was really, really young when we got her (4-5 weeks old, tiny!) and she bonded with me and became my little magnet kitten. Also she was just so freaking cute.

(http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b198/andthentherewaslindsey/IMG_20120719_164558_1.jpg)
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 15 Aug 2012, 12:35
Ello bwog.

I am at college. Roommate arrives tomorrow.

On a somewhat different note, I went to the gym and worked out for like a half hour. I know it's not long, but it was my first time and I was tired of looking at Dr. Oz's face on the television there. I wanted to try weights. But I have no idea how the contraptions there work. I will have to find people who know what they are doing and convince/manipulate them to assist me.

Probably won't be on here for a while. Classes start soon. So I guess I will see all you blogopeople in a few weeks.
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Post by: Redball on 15 Aug 2012, 17:31
This one was different because she was really, really young when we got her (4-5 weeks old, tiny!) and she bonded with me and became my little magnet kitten. Also she was just so freaking cute.
Oh, she was a cutie! I'm a sucker for tuxedo cats with asymmetrical markings on their face. It draws an awwwww response because they're no beauties, but they're adorable. At a time when my wife and I had three aging cats, our neighbor brought us a ball of fluff; the vet next day said she was 10 days old. She was a tuxedo, but the white on her face was a little lopsided. Wild dogs caught her in the nearby woods after about five years. In a few days, we got another tuxedo from the humane society. She's more symmetrical, prettier. I don't let her outside. My other cat's a talkative Siamese.
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Post by: Lines on 15 Aug 2012, 21:10
Talkative cats are fun! You can have conversations with them. My boyfriend's bengal cat is vocal and they'll just talk to each other.
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Post by: Lupercal on 16 Aug 2012, 02:38
Ello bwog.

I am at college. Roommate arrives tomorrow.

On a somewhat different note, I went to the gym and worked out for like a half hour. I know it's not long, but it was my first time and I was tired of looking at Dr. Oz's face on the television there. I wanted to try weights. But I have no idea how the contraptions there work. I will have to find people who know what they are doing and convince/manipulate them to assist me.

Probably won't be on here for a while. Classes start soon. So I guess I will see all you blogopeople in a few weeks.

Ask for an induction so that you can be shown how to use all the equipment safely, nothing wrong with wanting to know how to become He-Man that won't involve pulled muscles and shin-splints.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 16 Aug 2012, 06:04
I agree with Lupercal- at my school, we could sign up for free "personal training" sessions- not exactly what it sounds like, but if you were clueless about how to operate the machinery and didn't want to look like an idiot for spending half your time in the gym reading the signs (like me), it was really helpful. I'm sure they have to staff people to supervise- they (usually) know what they're doing! :-)

Of course, this is all assuming that you're using the gym on campus. Private gyms will typically give you a small introduction for free, but you'd probably have to pay for anything that they call personal training.
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Post by: Welu on 16 Aug 2012, 15:18
Finally entertained in the new house! We had burgers and sausages. They were only here two hours but was good fun seeing everyone again.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Aug 2012, 16:07
Talkative cats are fun! You can have conversations with them. My boyfriend's bengal cat is vocal and they'll just talk to each other.

That's because bengal kitties are the loudest cats in the fucking world. I love their voices but I'm pretty sure I would go crazy hearing one for too long.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Aug 2012, 01:40
I am pretty sure the last week has been the busiest and somehow still the longest week of my life

Tomorrow is the first day in 17 days where I've had literally nothing planned and I intend to sleep until I damn well feel like waking up, then shower, then laundry, and then back to fucking sleep

straight DGAFin
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Aug 2012, 01:43
Oh yeah the kickstarter made our goal and I got my driver's license on tuesday

can't even focus well enough right now to click the edit buttom :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck: :psyduck:
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Post by: Jace on 18 Aug 2012, 14:14
straight DGAFin
My hobby, changing the words in the acronym to mean something dirty.
Dog-Goat Anal Fuckin
Dastardly Gorilla Acrobatically Fuckin
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Post by: Papersatan on 19 Aug 2012, 08:06
In NY visiting friends and family.  Here is the cake I made for my best friend's birthday:

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-2hBhjogDtek/UC_qdcUML7I/AAAAAAAACo0/5QGi4Ys-dFY/s903/IMAG0004.jpg)

And inside:

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-SToG83zQujU/UC_qdTiYFWI/AAAAAAAACo0/1kXVhK1lqLU/s903/IMAG0005.jpg)

Originally it was going to be purple ombre with candied flowers, but then we found the candy eyes and I designed this cake to make use of them. 
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Post by: Redball on 19 Aug 2012, 08:48
Love the color, and the gradient.
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Post by: Lines on 19 Aug 2012, 18:17
Talkative cats are fun! You can have conversations with them. My boyfriend's bengal cat is vocal and they'll just talk to each other.

That's because bengal kitties are the loudest cats in the fucking world. I love their voices but I'm pretty sure I would go crazy hearing one for too long.

Oh he's most certainly loud, he can be heard from anywhere in the house, regardless of who is on what floor. He also has the knack of meowing incessantly to himself, especially at inconvenient times such as right when we're about to fall asleep.

This weekend I got to spend some time with the internet at GenCon (http://www.gencon.com/2012/indy/default.aspx)! Edith (pinkgrrlygeek), May (barmymoo), and I shared a room together with my bf and two of our friends and we all got to hang out and game with Eric (Cardinal_Fang) and some of his friends! All in all, it was a lot of fun, I probably spent too much money, and I left with a lot of good memories and fun games. :)
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Post by: Welu on 20 Aug 2012, 09:21
Friend sent me a text asking if I'd be interested in a "hash brownie night." That's new.
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Post by: Redball on 20 Aug 2012, 10:08
Edith (pinkgrrlygeek), May (barmymoo), and I shared a room together with my bf and two of our friends and we all got to hang out and game with Eric (Cardinal_Fang) and some of his friends! All in all, it was a lot of fun, I probably spent too much money, and I left with a lot of good memories and fun games. :)
Glad you folks got to meet up! I didn't realize you were going to Indy when I offered May a ride to Cincinnati. Looks like Jeph plans to be there next year. Who knows, I might go down for a day. It's about 2 1/2 hours.
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Post by: Lines on 20 Aug 2012, 14:29
It was fun. We spent most of Saturday all gaming together in the hotel lobby, part of which was during the time when free food and drinks were provided.  :-D
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Aug 2012, 13:01
We got free cocktails! There's a great photo that Linds took where I'm surrounded by about five cocktails. They are not all mine, honestly...
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Aug 2012, 19:02
Friend sent me a text asking if I'd be interested in a "hash brownie night." That's new.

Quote
That's new.

We lead very different lives, friend.

Dear blog,

So Matt's parents might let me borrow their other son's truck (he is in college) so I can commute to my upcoming job in the mall! Which, by the way, yeah that's happening!

I have a First Car lined up for when I have $2k, my friend is gonna sell me her '96 Mustang GT! It's a 5-speed manual, V6, and a convertible. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH SEX I AM GOING TO HAVE IN THAT CAR

Mooovin' on up (mooooovin' on up!)
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Post by: Lines on 21 Aug 2012, 19:17
We got free cocktails! There's a great photo that Linds took where I'm surrounded by about five cocktails. They are not all mine, honestly...

It's in the photo thread! Two are mine, one is Edith's, one is May's, and I think there's a coffee lurking in there too.
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Post by: Redball on 21 Aug 2012, 19:42
It's not red Kool-Aid?
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Post by: Lines on 21 Aug 2012, 19:45
Cranberry juice and peach schnapps. Because it's delicious.
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Post by: Redball on 21 Aug 2012, 20:05
Can you taste both ingredients or does it have a taste all its own? My first college drunk came from sloe gin and 7-up, and my memory is it tasted like neither. But I've never repeated the experience.
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Aug 2012, 20:35
Ah, the legendary sloe gin fizz...

Bubbles make the alcohol get into the bloodstream faster.  And the sweetness covers the actual strength...


My wife's favorite, when we met. 
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Post by: Redball on 21 Aug 2012, 21:01
Only one other combination comes to mind that didn't taste like its ingredients: Shrimp removed from a traditional American-Chinese shrimp in lobster sauce and dipped in a traditional plum sauce. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Aug 2012, 21:11
There are lots of things that don't really taste like their constituent ingredients, though.  Meatballs come to mind - don't really taste like either the meat or the breadcrumbs or whatever the hell else is in there - but they only come to mind because I just had a meatball sub. 

Then again, I'm a gestaltist of a gastronome.  I'm lousy at picking out individual ingredients by flavour. 


Dear blag & blaggers; 

I went to the campus I'd been at for only a year and cleaned out my stuff from my former office, and turned in the keys. 

Someone else's name is on the door already.  Mine never got put up.  Really, how long was this in the works? 

The English professor in the office next to mine, with whom I'd grown rather close, happened by and expressed how sorry she was to see me go - her students and advisees had sung my praises, as had other faculty members who had gotten to know me.  I was also a lynchpin in her NSF grant proposal, which with my leaving dismissal has been torpedoed.  She offered a recommendation anytime, as did the dean when I turned in my keys to his secretary. 

I get the same damn reaction everywhere I teach get fired.  I'm an excellent teacher, I just seem to have a knack for pissing off the wrong people.  Even when they're my friends. 

The above mentioned professor told me to remember something a student once told her - that the best sentence in the English language is, "Fuck the fucking fuckers!" 

Teaching college is all I know.  It's all I'm qualified to do, and I can't get certified to teach high school because I never got an "ed" degree.  I've exhausted all the colleges in the area, been let go from every one.  The community college is the last one, and they've only got adjunct work.  I can't move away for a large number of personal and financial reasons. 



I guess it's time to find a new direction, something different to do.  Damned if I know what, though. 
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Post by: Papersatan on 22 Aug 2012, 09:02
Carl,

Have you looked up the requirements for getting a teaching licence in your state?  I know NYS (considered one of the more difficult places to teach) had a pathway to teaching that took into account that you were not fresh from university, and had some life experience.  It only required that you be working on your MA when you got your job, but gave you a temp licence without any specific education education.
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Post by: Lines on 22 Aug 2012, 09:12
I am pretty sure in the state of Ohio, you can take courses to get a teaching license in your desired area/age-range of education without having to be in a master's program. I would look up your state's education licensing requirements. You may even just be able to take the Praxis without having to take classes, I'm not sure.
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Post by: Jace on 22 Aug 2012, 12:23
So my classes start in two weeks. I don't really want to go back to school because this semester I have to bring my GPA up to 2.5/4.0 at least or I lose my funding. Oh! But also I have to make sure I work 5 days a week too or I won't be able to pay my bills because I didn't get any supplemental student loans. Oh! But the current job I work might end about the same time I am starting school, then I'll be going into school with close to ZERO income and I have like $1000 or so in bills each month. Hoping that I go to pull out of my driveway and a semi just smashes into me, it'd make everything easier.
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Post by: Papersatan on 22 Aug 2012, 16:00
Speaking of school money drama.  Subsidized loans for graduate students were eliminated this year.  I have been offered $10,000 in subsidized loans which is great, except it is $9,000 less than I need to pay tuition.  I tried to apply for a graduate PLUS loan, which would give me enough money, but was declined because I have a debt in collections.  I need to find $800 to pay that off before I can get the loans I need to both pay tuition and my debts.  I have applied for a few teaching assistant things but I have been declined for most of them.  There is one left to hear from, but it is the position I was least qualified for. if I don't get that, I am not sure how to work around this. 
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Post by: LTK on 22 Aug 2012, 16:29
So you're saying you need to pay off a debt of $800 in order to be granted a loan of $19,000, with which you can pay off your debt. Can we get ten people to pitch in $80?
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Post by: Carl-E on 22 Aug 2012, 20:46
Carl,

Have you looked up the requirements for getting a teaching licence in your state?  I know NYS (considered one of the more difficult places to teach) had a pathway to teaching that took into account that you were not fresh from university, and had some life experience.  It only required that you be working on your MA when you got your job, but gave you a temp licence without any specific education education.

I am pretty sure in the state of Ohio, you can take courses to get a teaching license in your desired area/age-range of education without having to be in a master's program. I would look up your state's education licensing requirements. You may even just be able to take the Praxis without having to take classes, I'm not sure.

Unfortunately, I live in PA.  We have the strictest requirements in the US.  I can teach in any other state with a PA license, but it'll take two more years of schooling to get the required ed and psych courses, along with a semester of supervised student teaching.  Bear in mind I've been teaching 18 year olds for over 20 years, now...  and I can't afford more school.  14 years of college was enough, really.  I have enough defaulted student loans to buy two of my houses. 

I also can't afford to move to an easier state.  That's not just monetary, there are a lot of issues tied up with that one. 

Now I'm feeling nauseous...  and weepy.  I just want out.  I want to go back, and do everything right.  I don't want to be blindsided by money or politics anymore.  I want to change my major to something useful. 

What the fuck was I thinking, trying to be a professor?  I'm pretty much just an asshole who loves math and likes to show other people how things work.  Why didn't I learn about computers back in the 80's?  I took one Fortran course, and never finished the final project.  At least I'd be employable. 



Fucking fuck. 
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Post by: Lines on 22 Aug 2012, 20:55
 :-(  Don't give up yet. At least you've got a math degree and not something virtually useless. Like art. :-\ It may not be related to teaching, but hopefully you can find something math related that will make you happy. Double crossing all of my fingers, toes, and appendages for you.

Subsidized loans for graduate students were eliminated this year.

They were? Or just for your state/uni? I got offered and accepted (part of) one. Or do you mean unsubsidized loans? Because this was the first year I wasn't offered one of those, I think.
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Post by: Lupercal on 22 Aug 2012, 23:00
Friend sent me a text asking if I'd be interested in a "hash brownie night." That's new.

Quote
That's new.

We lead very different lives, friend.

Dear blog,

So Matt's parents might let me borrow their other son's truck (he is in college) so I can commute to my upcoming job in the mall! Which, by the way, yeah that's happening!

I have a First Car lined up for when I have $2k, my friend is gonna sell me her '96 Mustang GT! It's a 5-speed manual, V6, and a convertible. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH SEX I AM GOING TO HAVE IN THAT CAR

Mooovin' on up (mooooovin' on up!)

What Patrick  can buy with $2000 (http://memimage.cardomain.com/ride_images/1/2434/301/6082650185_large.jpg)

What I can buy with £2000 (http://www.autoweb.co.uk/dealer_sites/car_pix/used-ford-fiesta-013409143624672.jpg)

At least they're still both Fords, but fuck. Way to go Patrick, you don't have to drive something this tiny! (but its totally about under-compensation or something) (#totallywishIhadamustangtoo)
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Post by: LTK on 23 Aug 2012, 02:01
You forgot about currency conversion. What Patrick can buy with $2000 should be compared to what you can buy with £1250.
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Post by: pwhodges on 23 Aug 2012, 02:21
I took that as part of the point!
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Post by: Jimor on 23 Aug 2012, 04:06
One thing to account for with U.S. dollars and U.K. pounds is the weird phenomenon where it seems that despite the current and historical conversion rate, the numbers on prices for a lot of goods and services are essentially the same in both countries. So a CD is $15 in the U.S. and £15 in the U.K. etc. This might have changed somewhat, but I remember a variety of friends over the years commenting on this when they visited over there.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Aug 2012, 04:44
Yesterday I saw Leonard Cohen perform in Amsterdam. Spry for 77. Funny too.
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Post by: negative creep on 23 Aug 2012, 05:20
Hello,
I've got internet again! In some way. I moved in with some friends, so I can use theirs. My computer is still broken.
In other news: I finished my apprenticeship, my girlfriend left me for some 45-year-old teacher (very dramatic), I've got a new band, I grew a beard.
I hope some of you remember me.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Aug 2012, 05:57
:-(  Don't give up yet. At least you've got a math degree and not something virtually useless. Like art. :-\ It may not be related to teaching, but hopefully you can find something math related that will make you happy. Double crossing all of my fingers, toes, and appendages for you.

I concur. Yay unemployed art teachers!

Man....seriously.....fuck the education system in America. I say we all get together and start our own school.


Carl- have you thought about looking into an office job? It's not as fun as teaching, but I feel like administrative jobs are a dime a dozen now- especially those that are fiscal related.
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 Aug 2012, 06:27
I'm looking, now that I'm back home.  One issue is that I took a part-time teaching job for one class nearly an hour away, from 11 - noon.  With the commute and pre- and post-class student time, that pretty much kills 9:30 AM - 2 PM three days a week.  Kills regular hours, maybe I can get 2nd (or 3rd) shift...
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 23 Aug 2012, 06:42
Look into medical facilities! A lot of them employ people during off hours :-)
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Post by: LTK on 23 Aug 2012, 08:08
I just called a telecom service helpdesk for the first time. Taking into account the horror stories I've heard, it was surprisingly painless. Even though the service employee gave me the wrong instructions on how to enable my mobile internet functionality, he did direct me to the appropriate configuration submenu, where I could input the network configuration according to the instructions given by the telecom provider's website, which worked. What the service employee told me didn't work, and his further instructions entailed resetting the entire phone, which would have undone all my work of unlocking it. Thank god I'm tech-savvy.

That reminds me, I need a new job. Maybe I can take his, since he''s obviously not very good at it.
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Post by: celticgeek on 23 Aug 2012, 08:11
Calling the help desk of my ISP is always interesting.  Half of the people seem never to have heard of computers or the Internet, and the other half are very knowledgeable about what is going on and how to fix it. 
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Post by: Omega Entity on 23 Aug 2012, 09:08
One thing to account for with U.S. dollars and U.K. pounds is the weird phenomenon where it seems that despite the current and historical conversion rate, the numbers on prices for a lot of goods and services are essentially the same in both countries. So a CD is $15 in the U.S. and £15 in the U.K. etc. This might have changed somewhat, but I remember a variety of friends over the years commenting on this when they visited over there.

I noticed the same thing in Portugal back in 2002 (holy crap, has it really been a decade since that trip?!). I was scoping out the videogames, and not only were the prices 'equal' in the sense that you put it, but they actually cost significantly more! As in, 77 Euro for what I think was either a PS2 or PSX game!
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Post by: Mister D Nomms on 23 Aug 2012, 10:41
I just had sex with a tranny.
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 Aug 2012, 15:57
Congratulations? 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Aug 2012, 21:22
I just had sex with a tranny.

what in the actual FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Aug 2012, 21:24
like that's awesome that you're willing to reduce someone to a pejorative term that, if you called me that, would get YOUR FUCKING NOSE BROKEN

seriously, FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING CUNT
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Post by: Jace on 23 Aug 2012, 22:07
Maybe he was talking about his car. Lotta guys talk about having to rebuild the tranny in their old fastbacks.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Aug 2012, 22:13
my (trans) friend parked and then when she got out the car started going in reverse and she had to jump in and put it back in park

I told her I blamed the tranny, but I was purposefully vague as to which one I meant
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 23 Aug 2012, 23:58
I grew up in a rather provincial, rural part of England and as such was hopelessly naive* when I left for more cosmopolitan climes. Alas when I first heard someone described as a "tranny" I thought it bizarre and a little obtuse to describe someone as a transistor radio. Shamefully I still find juvenile humour when I return and still hear some ask to "turn the tranny on".

Nomms, might I suggest that you strongly consider that you had sex with a complete person, with the full gamut of personal psychology, history and emotions who is wholly deserving being treated with respect and dignity rather than a reductive two-dimensional biological entity.

*I'm probably comparatively no less naive now.
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Post by: pwhodges on 24 Aug 2012, 02:19
Mister D Nomms meant no offence.  May I remind you of the problems he has to cope with, and ask you to continue to be tolerant:

I have schizophrenia, disthymic disorder, and a small list of other mental problems,
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Aug 2012, 06:27
While this is certainly a blog thread, and that was indeed a journal-like entry, perhaps more of an initial post would have stemmed the minor tide of retribution.  Was he happy, ecstatic, disappointed?  Is this someone he was pursuing, was pursuing him, a random encounter?  Hence my initial response. 

Perhaps, had he told us a bit more in either the original post or a quick reply, the recriminations would not have been as quick and harsh; of course, had he told us less, it would have been a non-issue, since the post was minimal. 

Either way, blogging can be a delicate art, as I'm sure he's learning.  Mental issues aside, he's still a part of the community. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 24 Aug 2012, 07:18
I feel like we've had the discussion recently about how using the term tranny for a person is offensive. Even if we didn't, it was still a pretty tactless way to say whatever it is he meant to say. I don't know. The reason I didn't respond is because it was laid out in a way to shock, not to be blog-like. And obviously it shocked some people in a bad way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 24 Aug 2012, 07:35
The OP's comment seemed to be either an expression of wonderment or intended to shock or surprise. I took it as the former because it reminded me of an incident I might have related here before: In a dormitory discussion in the 1950s, a freshman med school student from an upperclass home announced that he'd "touched" a Negro. He'd shaken hands with the person. It was an expression of surprise.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 24 Aug 2012, 09:30
like that's awesome that you're willing to reduce someone to a pejorative term that, if you called me that, would get YOUR FUCKING NOSE BROKEN

seriously, FUCK YOU YOU FUCKING CUNT
I really wasn't trying to use the word in an insult. What would be the word to use when describing my close friend who is transitioning, but still has a penis? I've always known that to be a transsexual.

I'm actually sorry.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 24 Aug 2012, 09:36
I think the correct phrasing would be "I had sex".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 24 Aug 2012, 10:51
a transsexual.

This is the term you are looking for.
Tranny =/= Transsexual
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 24 Aug 2012, 11:13
My housemate's solution to me suggesting that he take his dog to the vet for his raw tail:
(click to show/hide)

EDIT: Also I keep getting bitten by fleas, there is no way to keep them out of my room it seems as my efforts to just keep the door closed as much as possible is not working. My foot has like 15 little bite marks and I've seen at least 2 jump off me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 24 Aug 2012, 11:17
You're connecting the dog's injuries to its tail with the flea infestation? Seems there must be ways to deal with it all at once.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 24 Aug 2012, 11:32
1. The dog needs flea medication. Flea collars don't work as well, must be meds.
2. You need to get some carpet spray intended for fleas and vacuum as much as possible. That way you kill and suck up as many fleas and eggs as possible.
3. Not quite as important, but does help - wash all fabric things that haven't been washed in a while and may have ended up on the floor at some point.

And seriously, that is a sad picture, and I kind of want to slap your housemate right now. I mean, I can understand if he's broke or something, but there are vets that are willing to work with people that have little money.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Aug 2012, 14:39
Mister D Nomms meant no offence.  May I remind you of the problems he has to cope with, and ask you to continue to be tolerant:

I have schizophrenia, disthymic disorder, and a small list of other mental problems,

I've been diagnosed with dysthymia and schizoaffective disorder, bipolar type, along with a number of other things. I don't really find that to be an excuse in this case.

I'm less pissed beyond reason right now, and more irritated, so let me lay out the problems with what was stated:

The word 'tranny' has a BAD history. It's one of the worst things you can say to a trans *person (the only worse one is shemale, and I fucking loathe that word). Even saying "I had sex with a transsexual" is still reductive of someone to one part of them, 'cause it's taking everything about that person and reducing it to the fact that they are gender variant. It's the difference between, "I had sex with a nigger," "I had sex with a black chick," and "I had sex with a chick." Does that illustrate my point?

Also, you could call her a 'woman,' regardless of her operative status (I'm presuming she identifies as a woman here?). Her genitals don't matter, because she's still a woman regardless of whether she has a penis or not. If you HAVE to talk about her being trans*, you could call her a trans woman. Either way, just referring to someone as a 'tranny' or 'transsexual' is really reducing someone to one small part of them in a way that, to a lot of people, is dehumanising.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 24 Aug 2012, 15:28
Thanks for that. 

Can we end the discussion of this matter in this thread now, please.  If a more extended discussion of gender terminology is desired, it should be taken to DISCUSS!.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 24 Aug 2012, 23:13
1. The dog needs flea medication. Flea collars don't work as well, must be meds.
2. You need to get some carpet spray intended for fleas and vacuum as much as possible. That way you kill and suck up as many fleas and eggs as possible.
3. Not quite as important, but does help - wash all fabric things that haven't been washed in a while and may have ended up on the floor at some point.

And seriously, that is a sad picture, and I kind of want to slap your housemate right now. I mean, I can understand if he's broke or something, but there are vets that are willing to work with people that have little money.

Well the first part isn't going to happen because he refuses to believe that putting frontline on the animals didn't kill all of the fleas on them/in the house. I could probably get my other housemate and I to carpet spray and vaccuum and wash all the fabric, but the third one (who owns the dog) will handwave and say that it isn't a big deal and it is just fruit flies. And it is in his room that the dog goes to sleep, so if we can't get it out of the whole house, well.

Its not even that he doesn't have money either, he is just lazy and would rather get drunk. I mean, I'm lazy too, but when the wellbeing of another living thing is in your care you can't be lazy about this sort of thing.

EDIT: he did put the cone of shame on the dog, so hopefully that will help since it'll keep him from licking and chewing on the raw skin
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 24 Aug 2012, 23:58
Preventing the dog from trying to deal with fleas which are still present could be a form of torture from the dog's perspective.  The cone is properly used to prevent the dog from worrying at a healing wound rather than as a get-out from dealing with the cause of the problem.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 25 Aug 2012, 07:26
Is there a time when he's not home and someone can sneak attack his floor? I mean, that might help a little (especially for the poor dog), but really if you can't kill the ones on the dog, it won't get much better because he'll still have fleas and those fleas will continue to multiply...unless he puts some damn flea medication on the dog.

Your housemate seems frustratingly stupid. Maybe you should call the ASPCA and report him for animal cruelty (depending on your area's laws). Usually what they do is give a warning and tell you to fix certain things and if you don't by the time they come back to check on you, they take the animal away.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 25 Aug 2012, 11:11
take the dog away from that idiot.

call the ASPCA
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 25 Aug 2012, 11:47
Way to go Patrick, you don't have to drive something this tiny! (but its totally about under-compensation or something) (#totallywishIhadamustangtoo)

Thanks! I'm stoked, it turns out it's not the 3.8L V6 but a 4.6L V8 instead, unfffffffff. Re: the money thing, correct me if I'm wrong but don't they have to import Mustangs to the UK but not Fiestas?

Dear Varg,

I made a friend last night. This girl I sorta know but never really liked (she once kicked a door into my hand as I was holding it for her, and my hand hurt for a while after that) was at my bar alone last night. She decided to come up and hang out with my buddy and I while we played pool. Later she and I walked to the gas station together so I could get cigarettes. Turns out she's not actually a total jerk. Still not completely sold on her, but hey, it's positive progress.

It was a little awkward when she first walked up though, 'cause she stroked my back and asked me to watch her beer and I just kinda recoiled a little bit. Just 'cause we know a lot of the same folks doesn't mean I want to be touched like we're super good friends or something, and everybody knows I'm a sensitive dude.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 25 Aug 2012, 12:16
The reason I won't call ASPCA or have the dog taken away is because it'd create some super unnecessary strife between us and I like where I live wrt location and rent cost.

I am gonna mention that we have a flea problem and that we need to do something about it as it should make the dog and cats feel better. Its not that he doesn't care about the dog, he just gets drunk before he can really get anything done.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 25 Aug 2012, 21:26
...he just gets drunk before he can really get anything done.

Which is the real problem.  If he's a student like yourself, he probably won't be for much longer. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 26 Aug 2012, 02:48
...he just gets drunk before he can really get anything done.

Which is the real problem.  If he's a student like yourself, he probably won't be for much longer. 

A close friend of mine is on academic probation from Chico State for that very reason. He partied a lot and wasn't managing his responsibilities vs distractions very well. He's been on a good path lately ever since but it's a bummer he had to have that kind of wakeup call.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 26 Aug 2012, 12:15
Actually he's 31 and has a job that pays him like $30K a year, salary.

I also managed to catch him yesterday while sober and he agreed that there is an issue and he said he's gonna buy some vacuum belts (which is what we need to make our vacuum work) and some anti-flea carpet stuff and we are gonna enact the final solution on the fleas.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 26 Aug 2012, 18:00
A flea bomb may be more effective, since they can be elsewhere. 

Good luck! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 26 Aug 2012, 18:41
we are gonna bomb the basement as well, but we just don't have the time or ability to bomb the house I guess.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 26 Aug 2012, 20:17
You have to clear out of the house for a couple of hours, dog too, which if you're all busy people can be difficult. But I'm glad he's agreed to do something at least.

Blog thread,

I go back to school tomorrow. I don't want to go, I want more summer. I'm used to starting uni in September, but we've switched to semesters and this will be full of suck come morning.  :-\
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 27 Aug 2012, 05:01
Oh man. Today I got final confirmation for a show in Oakland in October, found out we've made good headway on getting a show in Berkeley, and heard from all the bands re: playing a show for my sister when she's here in town in October. Fuck yeah, I rock today.

Had a sorta half-assed practice today, but that's because it was more like a barbecue (okay I'll be honest it was totally just a barbecue) since Matt's birthday is soon and his girlfriend just arrived back from Vancouver AND his parents are out of town until Wednesday. No real hell-raising, just a couple brews and burgers, a good deal of shittalking, and we worked on maybe like 3 of our newer songs. All around a really fun time. The last few practices have been kinda a bummer so it was really nice to just get together as friends and not just focus on working. I have a feeling next practice is gonna kick ass!

All in all, today was good and I'm kinda brimming with optimism, and man it's weird how quickly I switch from being bummed out to being mega stoked all the time :B
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 27 Aug 2012, 08:44
I just delivered the news to someone on facebook that a missing 5 year old was found dead in a trash can.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Mister D Nomms on 27 Aug 2012, 11:23
Did they have a missing 5 year old?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 27 Aug 2012, 11:34
Not after I told them. It was a facebook post. I heard about it right after I saw it pop up on my feed so I commented on it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 27 Aug 2012, 11:37
Child went missing in Niagara Falls NY. Her body was found a few hours later. I'm assuming Jace wasn't communicating the news to the little girl's parents.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 27 Aug 2012, 11:39
Nah, but it was the best/worst delivery.

Post- child missing
me- the child was found
person- thank god, where
me- trash can after neighbor murdered her.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Aug 2012, 12:11
That's...awful.

Blog thread, in case you ever decide to work for the IT department for a university, do not ever upgrade all of the machines running Windows the night before classes start. My shift this morning was a complete lolercoaster because 2/3 of the machines in my lab were buggy! I mean I'm happy we have Windows 7, but they had all summer to do upgrades. Come on now, job.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: snalin on 27 Aug 2012, 13:06
We just had a transition from Fedora to Ubuntu in our part of the university. Just some computers never got the change, because nobody could agree on who's responsibility it was, so they doesn't work anymore. And then some of the computers were changed back. Now we apparently need two different sets of usernames and passwords. And a lot of the computers also lack important software (like Java, when the computers are used by students learning to program in... Java). Our IT department sucks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 27 Aug 2012, 13:16
What used to happen here is that, on the first day of classes, when you turn the teacher's computer on, it will spend the next 45 minutes looking for/downloading all the fancy updates that it had missed over the summer. Lecture over.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 27 Aug 2012, 14:24
So I went to Sheffield and watched my old American football team win the Division 1 Britbowl final. Then we all went out and that's where my memory ends apart from being in the back of a taxi with the MVP at 6 in the morning getting a McDonalds breakfast. The 6 hour coach journey the next day was not pretty either. The entire team, hungover, in a bus with no opening windows and limited air con. Needless to say it did not smell fresh.

Also I've just finished a research project that was due in back in December. So I guess I can actually move on to my final year of university? I haven't done too badly so far, what with only being there for two years and only having failed two years. Definitely doing well at this whole being a student thing.

Time to go celebrate with copious amounts of smoke.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 27 Aug 2012, 15:12
I cleaned up some old retired machines for a training session on some Oracle-based web software we use.  I installed Java 7 without a thought.  Guess what software is incompatible with Java 7?  Oracle's.  Remember who owns Java these days?  Oracle.

Nice one guys!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 28 Aug 2012, 07:34

What the fuck was I thinking, trying to be a professor?  I'm pretty much just an asshole who loves math and likes to show other people how things work.  Why didn't I learn about computers back in the 80's?  I took one Fortran course, and never finished the final project.  At least I'd be employable. 


Hmm. My fellow (math) grad students from Notre Dame were hired (or were later hired) by AT&T (a complex analyst and a logician), GM (a logician and an algebraic geometer), Raytheon (a differential geometer who after a short stint in telcomm decided that cruise missiles have more sheen) and NSA (an algebraist). I don't know, if any options like these are available in your region (or if any of those industries are hiring in the present economy). Some of those jobs do need programming (that you could actually learn quickly enough), but even AT&T didn't ask for that, at least not in the 80s. They were more interested (as another friend who went into telcomm put it) in you being "certifiably able to use your brain" (IOW math graduate degree will be fine).

Wish I could give more contemporary suggestions. The list above is mostly meant to express that there are several industries that appreciate math expertise. Yes, some will be ageists, but you can fight it. Good luck.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 28 Aug 2012, 09:19
My boyfriend has a masters in math and works for the power company predicting the power we will use.  I don't think he has any programming knowledge. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Aug 2012, 15:26
Blog thread! I have managed to arrange two prison visits! They haven't been officially confirmed yet but they're almost definite. I do need to figure out transport, but that will happen. Finally! There's one more I really want to arrange, and it's half sorted, but these two mean that I won't have to repay my college travel grant. I've also had a very productive organising day sorting out various things like trains and plans for when I get back to the UK, and sent lots of emails. I've reached the point now where all I can do is wait for responses which won't happen until the working day starts in the UK in about ten hours, and in the US in fifteen, so I'm off to walk the dog and sort out dinner. It's been a good day (also babysat a cute 3 year old boy and earned some actual dollars so I finally have some cash!) to make up for the stressful, frustrating ones I've been having.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Aug 2012, 18:44
May, that's great!!! Congrats and good luck :-)



Blog Thread,

Life is ridiculous right now. In a weird way. I'm not quite sure if I'm dealing with things on a "normal" level instead of over thinking or if it's just well disguised avoidance. This post is the first time I've actually acknowledged that something is not quite going as it should. My office is moving in 7 business days and it's a total zoo here. Everyone is running around like a maniac, the place is a wreck, I've not done any -real- work in the last week and I've been put in charge of our off-site records storage facility. And all the records that will be going in it.  :x

This would be great if I got some additional compensation for taking on another (huge) responsibility, but since I have no job description, I feel like my job description is "do everything in this office that no one else wants to do".

On top of work being insanity, wedding planning has all but hit a brick wall on my end. I started out strong and really got into it- turning it into an expression of Nick and I, a fun project to put together and an exercise in saving money. I made spreadsheets, checklists, pinterest boards, resource binders, etc (yeah, yeah....a little nuts). But I kinda OD-ed on the wedding-ness after a while. Nick has been doing more than I have and I feel bad but I think I'm just discouraged that a photographer is so damn expensive. I need to look at the portfolios of a few photographers, write down the ones I like, contact them for rates, look at the people that Nick emailed that are in our budget, narrow down both of those lists and choose a damn photographer. Not that hard, but just so damn daunting. Plus....that's the last really big "thing" before I get to do creative stuff. But....it's been a while since I've made any art (outside of a sculpy black cat as part of our cake topper- and that has to be redone anyway). So, I guess I'm feeling a little bit nervous about being rusty.


Oh and blog thread- I've also been feeling pukey! Isn't that great? Actually, it's more like gag-y but I don't like the way that sounds. Every once in a while I'll just get so disgusted by something and gag out of nowhere- and it's not even stuff that is that gross. And nothing really out of the ordinary- taking hair out of the shower drain, cutting chicken up to cook for dinner, thinking about a container of leftovers....even just eating certain things in general. I don't know what it is and it's annoying the hell out of me. I had an appetite at lunch for the first time today in a while and I ordered a chicken salad sandwich and a side salad. I got the the sandwich fine, but for some reason, after a few minutes, just thinking about the salad made me gag. I love salad!!! :-( I've had 2 people tell me that it sounds like I'm pregnant, but I am 99% certain that is not the case. I thought it might be the fact that my meds were increased and it might be a side effect but I went back down to my original dose and I'm still feeling icky.

I'm worried that this is my mouth's reaction to knowing that I will soon be wearing a "device" 24/7 to correct my TMJ. Or that maybe I'm actually sick, but outside of being exhausted from prepping the office move, I don't feel thaaat bad.

(In completely unrelated news, I also gave our bong a hardcore cleaning 2 days ago and it is beautiful. And such a pleasure to smoke out of. Part of me wanted to start up a Toking thread, but wasn't sure how useful it would be. I mean, there are hundreds, if not thousands of forums dedicated to it)  :-P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 28 Aug 2012, 18:51
So I admitted to my girlfriend that we should get me help with my depression so I can get pills and dope myself up so I can pretend to be happy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 28 Aug 2012, 20:01
lepetit - I'll be person number three that says that sounds like classic preggo morning-sickness. Even if you think it's not possible, spend the few bucks for a pregnancy test, just in case. Unless you're not having intercourse -at all-, there's always a chance, and depending on what your personal beliefs are, and/or what the laws are where you live, you don't want to ignore it and not have certain options available to you, should you so choose.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 29 Aug 2012, 05:49
OE- been there, done that lol. This whole ordeal started before my last period, plus I'm on BC and I took a test about a week ago that came out negative. So...if that is what is causing all of this, my uterus must be made of steel and/or fucking with me.

(And is it possible to have morning sickness all day long? Oh god, that would SUCK. Mornings alone would be bad enough!)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 29 Aug 2012, 08:20
Yep! It's only called morning sickness since for most women, it happens when they first wake up, and is usually caused by the stomach being too empty. Thus the importance of saltine crackers to munch on as soon as you wake up. Some unlucky souls do suffer from it all day, or in the evenings, but it's still called 'morning sickness', regardless of duration or time of day. I've heard that it's also usually more prevalent/worse for women carrying multiples.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 29 Aug 2012, 09:23
During one pregnancy my sis had morning sickness for 9 months, every moment of the day.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 29 Aug 2012, 09:28
She must have had a terrible time keeping a healthy weight! Did the anti-nausea pills not do anything for her?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 29 Aug 2012, 09:39
I've heard that most anti nausea meds are not recommended for pregnant women, anyone know how true that is?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Aug 2012, 09:53
Some are, and to be honest, there are more nausea meds available now than there were when my wife was pregnant 20 years ago.  She got by with Sea Bands on each wrist.  Then we found out that most of the sickness and the back labor we thought she had were actually her gall bladder dumping stones - she had it removed when our first daughter was 10 weeks old. 

Nothing like abdominal surgery right after a cesarian...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 29 Aug 2012, 11:07
My best friend had to be on a pump of anti-nausea meds for pretty much all of her pregnancy. I think she was ok the first month, but things went downhill really fast and she ate very little the rest of the time. (Like if she had not gotten the pump, ske could have either lost the baby or she could have gotten some serious health issues/possibly died.) The anti-nausea pills don't really work if you can't keep anything down... :-\

From what I remember, if you need an anti-nausea medication while you're pregnant, you need to talk to a doctor and they can tell you which ones are safe or they can write you a prescription. I think it depends on how much you need it/how strong it needs to be.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 29 Aug 2012, 11:33
She must have had a terrible time keeping a healthy weight! Did the anti-nausea pills not do anything for her?

I don't know whether she actually took any medication. I do know, however, that my sister and 'healthy weight' have never ever lived in the same area code. Ironic, really, since my sister is as large as to almost warrant an area code.

Sorry if that can be perceived to be rude against different sized people but she doesn't eat healthy and she's not stupid and she has been warned and there are no other issues so ...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 30 Aug 2012, 00:48
The response to this turned into an intense discussion of weight and health which has now found its way to the DISCUSS! forum - here (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,28241.0.html).  Blogging may now resume here as normal.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 30 Aug 2012, 14:18
Over the last few months I have been having trouble with getting sharp cuts (like paper cuts) on the ends of my fingers.  I never notice when it happens, and up to now have not even been able to determine when this has been happening.  This evening I was able to think through what I was doing when I got another cut, and I think that I have determined that the culprit is the sharp edges of the moulding round the sides of my keyboard.  I changed to this keyboard just a few months ago (and should change again, because I don't like it!), which correlates with the start of the problem.

Right - now to swap it out again!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 30 Aug 2012, 15:10
I organized my comics into a proper bookmarks folder by day so I can open all the ones of the day in one go. I've got a lot of comics I forgot about and just started another one (All New Issues) and I want to keep up with them rather than having them get lost in my bookmarks. It also means my bookmarks toolbar is a lot less filled which has been annoying me for months.

I'm aware how boring this all sounds. I just take it as a good sign this is the extent of my worst problems. Other than possibly not getting my student grant but I needed to forget about that for a while.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 30 Aug 2012, 22:14
My bokmarks were pretty well organized, but my computer died :(

So now I'm winging it...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 31 Aug 2012, 01:31
Tuesday night, I went and jammed with members of Spanish Cannons, a phenomenal band from the Bay Area that I've had the pleasure of sharing several show bills with. Their practice space is in this huge former warehouse in Berkeley. Had a great time, and my buddy Bryant bummed a smoke to Lars from Rancid! Gotta love local celebrities.

Yesterday morning I had a job interview, and today I found out I GOT THE JOB FUCK YEAAAAAAAAAH

Also I went to the bar tonight to support my friend as he DJed for the place. He played some of my favorite songs, I got him a beer, had a good night hanging out with awesome folks. A girl I think is really pretty was there (unusual; she moved to Portland last year) and a friend introduced us. I was like "Hey don't take this the wrong way but I think you're really pretty" and she was like "Aww thanks, my night's been super shitty and that kinda restores my faith in people not sucking." Feels nice knowing that just a single sentence helped make somebody's bad day better. :3
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 31 Aug 2012, 18:45
Tonight the boy and I celebrated our one year anniversary! We went out to a Brazilian steak house for dinner and it was delicious. I currently am pleasantly carrying a large food baby around in my tummy. *lazy smile*
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 01 Sep 2012, 00:37
Who's that mofucker rollin down the street in his legit as fuck coat of plates?
(http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/296572_10151268978382317_950234229_n.jpg)
Oh he isn't rollin at all he is just awkwardly standing there in the shop in his legit as fuck coat of plates.
FYI the outside shell (what you see) is velvet.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Sep 2012, 05:46
(http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-2yKuTwA_USc/UDk5JHvJadI/AAAAAAAAGdE/WWqmgHek6Pc/s320/Foto4562.jpg)

My boy is two today.

And there is much rejoicing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 01 Sep 2012, 09:54
Jace,

Flashback!  I made that exact same design coat 3 years ago when I first started SCA combat.  Burgundy velvet for me, and I cheated a bit, cutting the plates from a five gallon plastic bucket rather than using metal, boiling them to reshape the curvature.  It worked really well, though! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 01 Sep 2012, 13:19
We cheated some on mine as well, it is t-6 aircraft aluminum. All the protection of steel, a fraction of the weight. Not to mention it is insanely easy to cut and drill through.
Both my buddy and I were a little unsure about the spacing on the rivets, I really only needed 3 for the smaller plates and 5 on the larger ones, but I decided to go with 1" between them. It seemed like a great idea when marking the holes, but upon having to use an awl to put them in, there was regret, then when we finished it, we were once again agreeing it was a great idea because it helps break up the brown a bunch.

Also accidental Atari symbol on the chest and back.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 03 Sep 2012, 17:35
Sun Kin record release party happened on Saturday, and it was fun. Afterward, short acoustic set followed by singalongz. Best time.

I spent yesterday and part of today hanging out with my best friend's parents, lilbrother, aunt, uncle, and 2 cousins. We all miss that guy, but man am I happy to have seen them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Sep 2012, 01:39

My boy is two today.

And there is much rejoicing.

whoa wait what? didn't he just turn one like a few months ago? tell him to cut that shit out, I can't keep track of this passage of time stuff
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 04 Sep 2012, 08:00
Tell me about it. Yesterday he was a mewling infant about 55 centimeters long and today he's a person with his own preferences and life and appointments. It goes by ... so fast.


Cliches for the win.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 04 Sep 2012, 16:27
Stupid young teenagers screwing around in work. I had to give out at them because they were sitting on this plastic framed pit thing we put footballs in and I could see it buckling under their weight. They seemed to be waiting for me to leave and watched me as I left the shop.
Luckily my coworker gave me a lift the two hundred yards to my parents house because there was over ten of them so it genuinely worried me a bit.
I don't get the desire to mess around the front door of the local shop to hang out. I didn't understand it back when I was thirteen-ish. Plus school has started again so do none of these ones have homework? Or parents/guardians to tell them to stay home since they have to be up early?

Either way I'm the cranky bitch lady at the shop and I hate it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 06 Sep 2012, 05:05
I like working with teenagers, don't get me wrong, but they're annoying as shit when they loiter. Loitering is dumb, but they probably just want to get out of the house and hang out with their friends...but if they're beginning to damage stuff, then it's ok to be the cranky bitch lady.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 06 Sep 2012, 15:08
I like working with teenagers, don't get me wrong, but they're annoying as shit when they loiter. Loitering is dumb, but they probably just want to get out of the house and hang out with their friends...but if they're beginning to damage stuff, then it's ok to be the cranky bitch lady.

When I was telling them to get off the pit they were saying things like, "You can't tell me what to do." and "You can't touch us." It's scary to challenge them because if I dared lay a hand on them, even if they are damaging property, I could get into some hell. It's even worse because they know it. I can easily see them doing the same thing to teachers.
Although I do know most of their parents if I need (to get the manager) to say something.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 06 Sep 2012, 21:01
Is there a security department? Maybe you could call them, and have them take care of it?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 07 Sep 2012, 00:14
As I recall, Welu works in a smaller neighborhood shop.  A security guard's not that likely...

So, with all  this extra time on my hands, I'm going to try out for the local concert chorale.  My church choir director, who's on the board, is encouraging me to do so. 

I found a full time online teaching position.  I applied immediately.  Anyone ever hear of South University Online?  It sounds like most for-profit schools... pretty bad.  But hey, a full-time job!  Benefits!  Online (I don't have to move)! 

Appealed the rejection of back-dating unemployment benefits.  Which means there will be a hearing...   :oops: :police: :-P

There was someting else I wanted to say, but I'm too late and it's too tired...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 07 Sep 2012, 01:14
Went over to the shop to work on my armor a bit, just need to put 4 grommets in the shoulders of the CoP for when I decide to wear my spaulders on the outside rather than pointed to my gambeson underneath my maille.
Also helped a bit with fitting a spangenhelm. Seriously fuck spangenhelms. Also also did some preliminary work on adding some rudimentary flutes/dart type things into my knee and elbow fans, did just the elbows but it really really breaks up the flatness and makes them look 100x better.
We also measured and drew a pattern for my new bascinet but didn't cut it out because we didn't feel like getting into that too much. Going to be tossing a nice shovel face klappvisor on it too.

Just need to make that, splinted greaves, and a new gorget that covers my collarbones and I can roll out in a sexy 14th century kit. My hilarious and dumb plan is to spend an evening walking around the bar strip on a friday or saturday night in my full kit so people have an interesting story to tell about their weekend.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 07 Sep 2012, 02:19
The boys and I made Troubador t-shirts, I got hired, I had my first day of work, and my second day is in 5 hours. I should go to bed, but that'd be breaking my streak for this week.

Show on Saturday, more shirt making tomorrow evening, god knows how I'm ever gonna get any sleep anymore ever but that's fine 'cause money and band
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 07 Sep 2012, 02:50
I found a full time online teaching position.  I applied immediately.  Anyone ever hear of South University Online?  It sounds like most for-profit schools... pretty bad.  But hey, a full-time job!  Benefits!  Online (I don't have to move)!
Yay! Best of luck!

I did not know what a spangenhelm was. Now I do (http://www.reenactorswarehouse.com/ReenactorsWarehouseHelmets.htm). This forum and Google are educational.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 07 Sep 2012, 04:32
As I recall, Welu works in a smaller neighborhood shop.  A security guard's not that likely...

I was feeling so down but being remembered on this forum brightened my day so much for some reason.

Good luck with job, chorale and hearing!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Sep 2012, 14:47
It has been a rather mad week! Last weekend we were at Mounted War Games, an SCA event where we got rained on very thoroughly but enjoyed the campfire on Saturday night. For me it was a milestone because Edith and I drove down on Thursday, then I drove back alone to babysit and got myself back safely on Friday evening. My first time driving at night, and on my own for any distance, and it went totally fine. Monday we had a party which Redball came to, and a bunch of other people - not the girl from the cafe who I'd invited because we've seen each other a lot (she works most days when I'm in) but I didn't expect her to come really.

Tuesday and Wednesday Redball and I drove to Wisconsin on a wild goose chase and met Jwhouk, bought cheese, got diverted about four times by road construction, stayed with some friends of Edith, and ultimately did not achieve what we were aiming for - which was a prison visit (stupid paperwork) - but had fun.

Thursday I drove myself to south Indiana to visit a prison more successfully, and I spoke to a lot of people which was very useful for my paper (I have discovered that "dissertation" is a doctoral level term in the US, which might explain the difficulties I've been having) and also very interesting. They have a dog and cat rehabilitation programme, and they had a pile of puppies and four little 6-week old kittens! Playing with them was very academically relevant, honestly...

Today I drove to meet a psychologist who told me a little about her time working in a women's prison, and also totally unexpectedly arranged for me to talk to one of her patients who was incarcerated and lost custody of her children. It was fascinating to talk to her, and sadly her story confirmed what I already knew - that being in prison breaks families apart and is particularly hard for mothers - did you know that women incarcerated for over two years automatically lose parental rights in many states, whilst men do not?

Anyway now I'm at Redball's house and we're off to a gathering later which Edith will meet me at and drive us home again, because frankly I have driven far too much this week! I was trying to work out exactly how far I've driven in the last two months - I'm thinking about a thousand miles. Until I got here, I had not driven a single mile as a licensed driver.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 07 Sep 2012, 17:48
Welcome to America!  One of the requirements for citizenship is the ability to drive a thousand miles...   :evil:


Seriously, my parents live 500 miles east of us, my wife's live 500 miles west of us.  We drive a couple thousand miles every year...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 07 Sep 2012, 19:04
This spring and summer I drove an average of around 400 to 600 miles per week, From around the middle of March til the end of next week - and my area is actually the smallest of all the Field Coordinators of the nursery I work for. I will not miss this job, and I will not be taking the job next year, though the money was nice while it lasted.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 07 Sep 2012, 19:14
did you know that women incarcerated for over two years automatically lose parental rights in many states, whilst men do not?
I didn't, but it does not surprise me in the least.  :-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 07 Sep 2012, 21:00
Quote from: old joke
What's the difference between the Americans and the English?

The Americans believe a hundred years is a long time. The English believe a hundred miles is a long distance.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 08 Sep 2012, 06:13
Tuesday and Wednesday Redball and I drove to Wisconsin on a wild goose chase and met Jwhouk, bought cheese, got diverted about four times by road construction, stayed with some friends of Edith, and ultimately did not achieve what we were aiming for - which was a prison visit (stupid paperwork) - but had fun.

Anyway now I'm at Redball's house and we're off to a gathering later which Edith will meet me at and drive us home again, because frankly I have driven far too much this week! I was trying to work out exactly how far I've driven in the last two months - I'm thinking about a thousand miles. Until I got here, I had not driven a single mile as a licensed driver.

It was a pleasure to make a road trip with someone intelligent to talk to for the first time in a couple of years, a pleasure to see May endure a setback with grace and some laughter and later to acknowledge an Epiphany of Adulthood in all that she was accomplishing. And I think if I'd known how little she'd driven, I'd have put her behind the wheel much sooner, but with more trepidation. And meeting with JWHouk was like a pilgrimage.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 08 Sep 2012, 13:00
I have decided I don't care about passing my courses this semester. I bought Civ V last night.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Alex C on 08 Sep 2012, 20:59
Civ V, huh?

Your grades should be fine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Alex C on 08 Sep 2012, 21:00
I've come to realize that the only times I de-lurk here is to either shit on republicans or civ v.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 09 Sep 2012, 01:42
No man, I'm a sucker for kingdom building and civ games. Like I know you can win Age of Empires games in like 45 minutes but most of mine lasted 3+ hours
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Alex C on 09 Sep 2012, 09:56
Plus, tbh, I've never played it with the xpac either, so maybe after that level of patching the game is less terrible.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 09 Sep 2012, 11:57
I was trying to work out exactly how far I've driven in the last two months - I'm thinking about a thousand miles. Until I got here, I had not driven a single mile as a licensed driver.

I passed my test at the age of twenty and before I had a chance to get a car I had moved to London where such things are a fundamentally futile waste of money so I didn't drive. I borrowed my parents car a couple of times whilst in the country and drove a grand total of maybe 30 miles over a total of two hours. After which, I moved to Toronto, where once again a car was not an economically wise option. I did take a few further lessons to familiarise myself with driving on the other side of the road but gave up when I decided it wasn't worth getting a licence in Canada.
Finally my father came to visit me and we went for a road trip around New England and the Maritime provinces. My first serious driving since becoming licensed. I was very glad to have an experienced driver with me for a little refresher guidance. I then didn't drive again for at least another three years.
Finally, I was pressed into service driving a rental van for a friend who needed to move. This was in central London. Needless to say the experience was horrifiying. Alas, unlike other drivers with years of experience, I demonstrated an uncanny ability to not crash the rental van and thus wash out the deposit and so became the default driver for all house movings. It's not a welcome accolade so I can only advise that it is imperative that should this service be thrust on you, crash the van as soon as possible.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 09 Sep 2012, 12:10
One of my experiences with driving a van for moving was taking it into the underground car-park of an apartment block.  We had to let the tyres nearly down to unjam it from the ceiling, but the rental people didn't check up there for any damage.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 09 Sep 2012, 12:19
In other news, tomorrow I fly to LA for the start of a coach tour round the West that my wife has bought us:  LA, San Diego, Phoenix, Grand Canyon, Bryce Canyon, Zion, Las Vegas, Sierra Nevada, Yosemite, SF.  This is a fully organised tour, which is why I've not attempted to arrange any meet-ups.  There are just two free days, one in Las Vegas (18 Sept) and one in SF (22 Sept, morning of 23 Sept).

It's the third time I've been to America, but both other visits were a week in Manhattan, so this will be entirely new to me.  My wife has also been twice before, once to Manhattan and once to Chicago (which she also liked very much).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: celticgeek on 09 Sep 2012, 12:24
And welcome to the Wild, Wild West, Paul.

Enjoy your stay!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Sep 2012, 15:09
PMing you with my number for when you're near SF, Paul. I'd really like to meet you if you have the time!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spike on 09 Sep 2012, 15:33
Yosemite has been having a bit of a problem with the Hunta virus recently.  If you're not staying in their cabins it shouldn't be a problem.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Sep 2012, 18:09
Matt and I drank too much at our gig in Oakland last night, because the power went out for a whole hour. I shouldn't have driven home (I feel horrible about it and am never doing that again, that's fucked up and I really kinda hate myself for it today), and we played our set horribly; once the first few mistakes were made, we all just lost heart and gave up. But we sold enough shirts to make $32, and we were still the best band there until our buddies Loudtalkers played afterward. Which we had to miss, because Matt had to work heeeeellla early this morning. Last night sucked ass.

Today I learned that one of my musician friends (who I kinda have a crush on but whatever) is into airplanes, so I asked her if she'd go with me to Fleet Week in SF next month. She said yes. I'm super stoked, first we're gonna busk downtown and make some bank, and then I get to go watch airplanes fly around with a super cute girl who won't lose interest in the airshow after the first 15 minutes. We're gonna see the Blue Angels! Yayyyy
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 10 Sep 2012, 04:48
There is something uniquely disturbing about two children crying ceaselessly. You can now guess how my day is going.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Sep 2012, 07:11
On a plane ... for the next 13 hours, I think.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Sep 2012, 08:18
They have a dog and cat rehabilitation programme, and they had a pile of puppies and four little 6-week old kittens! Playing with them was very academically relevant, honestly...

AAHHH!!!! That is the best kind of academic research!

So this is day...3 without my laptop. Honestly I think I fared ok over the weekend with just my phone and borrowing my boyfriend's tablet for online homework, but coming back to work without my own computer sucks. They updated all of the computers in the lab EXCEPT the one that I'm supposed to use, so XP is running rather slow since it's all, "WTF, I should be Win 7, why can't I be Win 7." Also having actually used a tablet for more than 10 seconds, I can honestly say I don't really like them. I now see the appeal for e-readers, but tablets not so much. Typing on them is a pain in the ass. Especially when you have to do a stupid post for an online class that's about 3 paragraphs long. Bah.

Also it's weird because I feel so disconnected from school. It's hard to check my uni email (I can't set it up on my phone, for whatever stupid reason) and BlackBoard is a little too complicated to run on it (the only time a website has been suuuuuper slow). I mean, if this were last year, I'd probably freak out, which I did on Friday when my computer shut down, but the more time that's passed, the less I care. I'm still doing homework...just slower. Which probably isn't good, but I don't care... Oh well. I'll get my computer back later this week, hopefully, even though the Apple repair place never called me to tell me what's actually wrong with it. (The genius dude said it was a short somewhere between the power button and the motherboard. He saw no liquid damage from the soda that exploded on it, though, so I guess that's good.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 10 Sep 2012, 10:18
As for the tablets, their functionality goes up a lot if you can get a bluetooth keyboard and a stand for them. I know they're expensive, but you can find them ridiculously cheap if you know where to look - I paid $20 (including shipping) for my Logitec one, from 1saleaday.com.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Sep 2012, 18:35
I honestly don't need one, though. Between a smartphone and a laptop, it's redundant. It's a decent backup in situations like this, but these situations are rare and I can't justify the money.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 10 Sep 2012, 19:17
Honestly, it depends on how fancy you want it - there's a whole range of prices and models out there. My mom uses a Big Lots $100 special while I have a $250 Google Nexus 7, both in the 7" format. If you want to spend a hell of a lot more, there's always Apple.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Sep 2012, 20:25
Hello LA!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 10 Sep 2012, 20:44
Looks like LA is having some friendly weather. Long as nothing's shaking or burning. Tell us if anything's shaking.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Sep 2012, 21:15
Hope you have fun, Paul!

Honestly, it depends on how fancy you want it - there's a whole range of prices and models out there. My mom uses a Big Lots $100 special while I have a $250 Google Nexus 7, both in the 7" format. If you want to spend a hell of a lot more, there's always Apple.

I've messed with iPads and the boy has a good Droid version, but I still don't like them or want one of my own.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 10 Sep 2012, 21:21
Fair enough. I've decided mine will be handy if/when I'm sharing a motel room with my brother for jewelry shows. He can use my laptop to skype with his family, and I can use my tablet to do forums and internet while he ties up my machine  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 10 Sep 2012, 21:38
If you want to spend a hell of a lot more, there's always Apple.

A while ago my wife got an iPad and an Asus Android tablet for evaluation in her dept. The Asus always got returned; the Apple always needed to be reclaimed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 10 Sep 2012, 21:46
Eh, I like my android.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Sep 2012, 04:19
I've been debating with myself and my boyfriend about getting some kind of Mac laptop or desktop for doing the media course. In the end the only software we can't get on a PC that would be handy is Final Cut Pro. Maya would be handy too but it can be got for PC.
Although the more we looked the more I can't bring myself to spend that amount of cash, even if we split the money. Especially when there are just as powerful and more for half the cost. Also there's just things I don't like about Apple, including the cost, which has led me to my unfortunate, pretentious realisation that I'm against buying their products in principle.

Although I hate spending money in general. Spent weeks debating spending £70 on an external harddrive that I need to get by in the course since my last one died. The Macs aren't connected to any kind of server so every year there's a race to piss on one first. I just work off my harddrive on any free one (half my last class dossed 90% of the time) and get pissed at the ones going, "THEY'RE ON MY COMPUTER! Might as well sit and sulk for the next two hours."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Sep 2012, 06:18
"Hackintosh" machines -- PCs running Mac OS 10, seem to have some capabilities. I don't know what's needed and what their limitations are. Any decent prices on used machines?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Sep 2012, 08:11
Back to blogging;

I was accepted (welcomed, actually) into the chorale.  2nd tenor (first, as needed).  Then there was a three hour rehearsal.  The first concert this fall is with a local university gospel group, so it's mostly some very interesting (read: complex) spirituals. 


Some of which were arranged by our director.  Seriously, there's his name, right on published sheet music... (OK, I'm impressed.) 


And in an hour I'm off to go climb into our church's belltower to document the water damage.  Access is by an iron ladder set into the roof.  I'm pretty much the only one willing, young and small enough to do it. 

And yes, my insurance ran out last week.   :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 11 Sep 2012, 11:01
Having used both Mac and Windows machines for media work, I don't know what it is, but Macs are just better suited for media and graphics. Yeah, they are more expensive, but if you see yourself doing a lot of media work in the future, they are worth it. And if you want to work in the business, you are going to have to work with them anyways, from what I've heard from all of the people I know in graphic and digital design. I don't really give a crap about most of their other products and the company is EH, but I do really like their computers.

In blog related news, I can pick up my laptop after class! I never got a call explaining what needed to be fixed, so I called this morning all, "Please don't tell me you lost it," and they were like, "Hey actually it's fixed, you can has now!" I have learned today that being unplugged from classes is a bad bad thing because I missed some important emails yesterday from my uni email. Whoops.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 11 Sep 2012, 13:15
It seems the office I'm working in at the moment would rather use cheaper high-spec Windows 7 Professional Dells than splurge on Macs. I'm techinically doing "graphic design" - I spend a lot of time in Photoshop and InDesign, but it doesn't seem too RAM heavy. Or doesn't when InDesign isn't crashing constantly (how does the format of the Word Document you're importing make a difference, Adobe? Please become functional with something older than Office 2003 docs plz)

As for tablets - the cheap wars are on the horizon. Kindle Fire, Nexus 7 and now the rumoured iPad Mini are all battling the sub £200 market. Kindle Fires look pretty cool but I do already have a normal Kindle. The only reason I'd get a tablet is for the hour + long train commute twice a day, so it would be nice to do some work/fun crap on one. I've thought about a phone/tablet combo deal, but you know, screw paying £30 a month with limited data allowance.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 11 Sep 2012, 16:33
I'm not a big fan of Apple's pricey hardware or control-freaky tendencies, but I like OS/X a lot, and the "Apple premium" is literally the price you pay, unless you are willing to go the Hackingtosh route, which is really only cheaper if you don't factor in the cost of your time and frustration, and became even more of a pain with Apple's changes in distribution policy in recent years. I hack around in the innards of operating systems and networks for a living, and when I want to do it at home too, I'd rather use one of the Linux or *nix distributions, and do it legally. For my daily personal computing needs, when I just want the thing to work, Apple gets my dollars.

There are reasons why Apple can get away with charging what they do, and they don't all have to do with fashion or fanboyism. The company does some things very well*, and you just have to decide how important they are to you. Mobile phones are not important enough to me to pay the Apple premium so I own an Android phone, but my personal computing needs are important enough for me to shell out for a Mac.

*Apple does some things incredibly badly too. Like its mice, for example. Apple mice are basically shit, and it really is ridiculous that a company full of clever people, who obviously put a lot of thought into human-factors design in other products, produce mice that work worse than cheap stuff from Logitech.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 11 Sep 2012, 18:00
I can see a clipper (old  sailing ship) from my hotel room in San Diego.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Sep 2012, 18:46
Is it under sail? Picture?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 11 Sep 2012, 20:26
I'm trying to convince my husband that we should redo the kitchen from this:
(http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b291/bainidhedub/kitchenbefore.jpg)
to this:
(http://i21.photobucket.com/albums/b291/bainidhedub/kitchenafter.jpg)
It wouldn't be all that hard... We're already looking for a new above-stove microwave and the drawer pulls have been sitting in a drawer for like a year. Painting cabinets doesn't look all that complex. So really the only thing is the floors, which right now are these old peel-and-stick vinyl tiles that were put down straight over the previous vinyl, and are starting to stop sticking, but it's also not that big of a space (not that big of a house) so we'd just have to decide to save up and do it.
And isn't it SO much prettier? He thinks black cabinets would make it feel too small. I think two microwaves makes it feel too small. Plus in the current arrangement it's a pain in the ass to do dishes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 11 Sep 2012, 20:56
Putting in the faux wood flooring is stupidly easy and can totally be done in an afternoon
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 12 Sep 2012, 06:45
Exactly. Though I think we should really take off at least one of the two (or more? who knows! my house is a mystery.) layers of flooring already down. And that would be a bit of a pain, but it was really hard to remove the old dishwasher when it broke because they had just tiled up to the feet and blocked it in.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Sep 2012, 07:07
Yeah, my mom ripped up the linoleum in one of the bathrooms and there were 3 layers of it. I would at least rip up all but the bottom layer, especially since even faux wood flooring is thicker than linoleum.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Sep 2012, 07:15
Yeah, watch out for the thickness.  The  previous owners of the rental house my parents bought put in laminate flooring.  In the one apartment it raised the height of the floor enough that the door to the basement only opened half way and the one to the side porch wouldn't open at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 12 Sep 2012, 20:12
Oh, yeah, rip out as many of the layers of flooring as you can.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Sep 2012, 22:17
Definitely.  The more old stuff is underneath, he less even the last layer will be! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 13 Sep 2012, 14:41
An old online friend who just faded out of existence a couple years ago has added me on Facebook. She's been chatting to me on the site we first met and says she'll be online more and I'm looking forward to talking to her again. She's popped up a couple times but then disappeared for months again. Work and life getting in the way, she says.

Of course the problem, because there has to be one, is it was her who introduced me to my ex and she was part of a circle of friends that I wormed my way into but things didn't go well and looking back, I can see things were always a bit off, at least when it came to me. I think she's still friendly with one of them but the way they and I left things wasn't on the best terms, even though I tried to gently reopen civility but our correspondence just faded. I guess we can just not talk about those people or incidents depending on her current relationships with those guys but even her just being around reminds me of to when I was at one of my worst periods. In terms of depression, social anxiety and just plain embarrassing shit I did out of being a dumbass teen.
I'm looking forward to catching up but I have to say I'm feeling a big Elephant In The Room each time I talk to her, even though right now we're just talking about what video games we're playing. I don't know how she feels or if she's even thinking of the past and I don't want to bring it up for fear of reminding her. I also don't want to cut her out just because I'm getting that familiar anxiety knot in my stomach when I reply to a comment.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Sep 2012, 00:43
Record's out as a free download (http://troubador.bandcamp.com/) before physical release! seiorjgiodmeriogocfjgiujuiorh SO HAPPY TO BE PUTTING IT OUT :3
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Post by: negative creep on 14 Sep 2012, 06:34
Downloaded it. Now I only need to find out how to play mp3s on this machine...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Sep 2012, 07:51
Welu, if this happened a while ago then she might not even be thinking about it - people change, and she's probably changed as much as you have. The fact that she's reconnected with you is a good sign. If you really need to clear the air you could bring up the subject of how you wish things had ended better with those people, and acknowledge that you did things which were not what you'd do now. Otherwise, why not just assume that she puts less importance on the past than you do, and enjoy being friends with her again?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 14 Sep 2012, 12:35
Welu, if this happened a while ago then she might not even be thinking about it - people change, and she's probably changed as much as you have. The fact that she's reconnected with you is a good sign. If you really need to clear the air you could bring up the subject of how you wish things had ended better with those people, and acknowledge that you did things which were not what you'd do now. Otherwise, why not just assume that she puts less importance on the past than you do, and enjoy being friends with her again?

Gonna stick with the light conversations and see how things go. If she mentions those people I'll take your advice about what to say. Thanks for the advice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 15 Sep 2012, 19:46
Ah well, got a bartending job soon, will shoot you a few <insert currency here> then,cause this is good.

Aw shit you guys, thanks. But wait til we have the CDs before you decide to shoot us some bux! I'd hate for you to spend money on something we're giving away for free when the CD's $10.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 16 Sep 2012, 14:21
I went to the Small Press Expo today. I got totally overwhelmed by all the people, hovered awkwardly near Yuko Ota's booth for a little while, met and got a drawing from Danielle Corsetto, bought QC charms from Cristi while Jeph was at lunch, bought some chubby bird prints off Mike Mitchell, and then had absolutely nothing to say when I met Jeph so I just asked for a drawing of Faye and then we went home. I would say, overall, it was medium successful, but I was definitely ready to cry at one point early on.

Oh wait never mind, just spent like 10 minutes crying.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 16 Sep 2012, 19:15
I just spent over two days with neither phone service nor working Internet, even in hotels. This was longer being completely disconnected than I've experienced for a number of years, even in India or Nepal. I am getting something of a feel for the sheer size of the USA, and have also had temperatures ranging from 110F/43C (Yuma, in Colorado Desert) to 40F/4C (Bryce Canyon at night).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 16 Sep 2012, 21:04
Hope you'll find time to describe the trip further. And I chuckled at the "had temperatures of" and glad you survived both extremes. It may be an Americanism, but to "have a temperature" means a higher than normal body temperature, although the article is usually present. The geography made it perfectly clear, of course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 17 Sep 2012, 04:39
This week just might be the death of me

Mon: Day with the most class time. I have two tests. And I need to buy a certain kind of calculator for chemistry
Tues: One class, but I have an appointment with the counseling center. And I am considering doing a phone bank with the university democrats
Wed: Student Senate approval. I am dressing up in business professional. And I am pretty certain I got in, but who knows.
Thurs: My birthday. Club meeting. And my friend says she wants to have dinner with me then too
Fri: Parents are coming. Homecoming planning committee too. And possibly a parade if I can fit it in there
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 17 Sep 2012, 05:10
"A certain kind of calculator"? What does it need to do that a decent scientific one can't?
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Sep 2012, 09:33
It needs to be a decent scientific one. 

But more than likely, the instructor wants uniformity so they can just give the instructions once, or on a handout, without having to show each individual student where the exponential button is on their individual calculator...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 17 Sep 2012, 10:00
It has to be a TI-30 model. There are several variations, the cheapest one is around 15 bucks.

And I think what Carl-E says explains the main reason why
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 17 Sep 2012, 10:17
Why didn't I think of that? I got plenty wound up when I had to explain to only one or two classmates how to do stuff with their calculators.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 17 Sep 2012, 10:24
My mom dug through me and my sister's high school stuff in the closet. She found a Casio FX 82, a TI-30, a TI-83 and a TI-84. The graphing calculators can come in handy, but I told her the Casio and lower-end TI were basically worthless and that nobody would buy them this time of year.

Every single time I say that, someone turns up and buys them anyway. And here you are, dr. nervioso.

Anyway, if you have a smartphone, you can install a TI-83 emulator that does everything a TI-30 does, and more. Or you can forego the TI thing entirely and install a scientific calculator that's more touchscreen-friendly. Still, it's a lot more fiddly than a real calculator, having to rely on a touchscreen and all, and you won't be allowed to use it in exams, so you're probably better off getting a TI-30 second-hand. From me, five dollars, not including shipping.  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 17 Sep 2012, 11:54
Hell, they're only about $10 - $12 new...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Sep 2012, 14:01
Thing are weird for me right now.

I've decided to move in with my partner in Seattle given that the last job opportunity I was offered in Olympia has also fallen through. Of course, some seriously heavy stuff has come forward at about the same time - dissociative identity disorder-type stuff. It might well be something else altogether, 'cause, y'know, self-diagnosis isn't the best way to go about these things, but I am so fucking thankful for having someone who loves me and is helping me through everything and is actually familiar with this on top of everything else. Of course, this just means I have to get into therapy a lot sooner than later, because this is making it hard to function. I haven't really left the house in days.

I wish I had normal problems.  :meh:

We've been talking about things and she wants me to move in (well, done) and start working on my disability case here in Seattle rather than Olympia...which means going back there and getting the rest of my stuff and moving it all here, which is something I dread. I don't have a particular reason to dread doing this, it's just the thought of going back pinging all of the anxieties.

This is kind of whingy but to be honest I am really happy right now, like, happier than I've ever been. But I'm not sure where I'm going from here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 17 Sep 2012, 15:14
Good old self-diagnosis. Always fun.

I personally think that you shouldn't worry about where you're going from here - move in, get the help you need, and figure it out then.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Sep 2012, 15:21
oh, wait, other issue compounding things: my partner loses her income and (corporate) housing at the end of November!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Sep 2012, 16:08
Now in Las Vegas. As far as I can see it is designed to have as little appeal to me as is possible. So that means lots of time to rest after the last frenetic week. Tomorrow we have a helicopter outing over the Hoover Dam, then going on to land on the floor of the Grand Canyon for a picnic meal with champaign.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 17 Sep 2012, 17:13
Now in Las Vegas.
I travelled to Las Vegas a couple of times for work*, and it is a horrible place. It's a combination of:
(http://www.1cover.com.au/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/300x225xdisneyland-philippines-300x225.jpg.pagespeed.ic.sBkWoHFdfm.jpg)(http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3ot3aR1v11rv8hmto1_500.jpg)

*Did you know that the second-largest manufacturer of gaming-machines in the world is Australian? That Australia has roughly ten machines per head of population, which is something like five times as many as in the USA? That over a third of the "action" goes the the state governments that regulate the industry? It is basically a tax on people who are bad at maths.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 17 Sep 2012, 18:02
Vegas is a nice place to visit on occasion, but I wouldn't want to live there.

Stay away from Koval Lane after dark, Mr. Hodges.

Of course, who am I to talk - my brother-in-law lives in Vegas, works as a regional manager for the Sbarro chain (last I looked).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Sep 2012, 23:23
A five-hour tour of Las Vegas has not improved the image I already had of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 18 Sep 2012, 00:53
And it looks so glitzy on CSI ...

Dreams: Crushed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Sep 2012, 07:29
Mission accomplished! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 18 Sep 2012, 07:43
I know some of you already know from our facebook announcement - but I'M GOING TO BE A DAD! Due date March 20th 2013. Currently 14 weeks in, baby is currently lemon sized according to my app. Wife isn't showing yet, so it hasn't quite sunk in, but, you know :) :) :)
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Post by: Redball on 18 Sep 2012, 08:13
Awesome, and congratulations! And it will sink in.
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Post by: Lines on 18 Sep 2012, 08:15
Yay! Congratulations!
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Post by: nobo on 18 Sep 2012, 08:30
Thank you :) :) I'm sure it will. I think once we learn the gender (6 more weeks), and start buying stuff, it will become very real.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Sep 2012, 10:08
Congratulations! And I am fairly sure it doesn't sink in properly until you've changed your first nappy ;)

I'm sat in Indianapolis airport waiting for my flight, which has been delayed by an hour. I had my knees patted down at security (apparently my skirt moved in the freaky arms-in-the-air scanner) and then they searched my carryon bag because it "looked dense" in the bag scanner, probably because it contains 40lbs of textbooks. Anyway everyone was friendly and pleasant and I'm through without problems. All the delay means is that I don't have as many hours to sit in Newark airport, which is not really a difficulty.

It's been a wonderful, busy, interesting summer and it might be hard to adjust to not being here any more. I am looking forwards to seeing my mum, and to starting back at university, but until term actually starts and I'm too busy to think, I anticipate stabs of homesickness for Fort Eed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 18 Sep 2012, 10:32
I anticipate stabs of homesickness for Fort Eed.
Ft. Eed, pop. 256k, may spend the rest of the summer decompressing. Maybe into the fall.

Anyway, have a good one!  :-D
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Post by: Lines on 18 Sep 2012, 10:53
We shall miss you!

In other news, I have decided not to go to class today because I honestly just don't want to. Which means I can't pick up a prescription until tomorrow, but I honestly don't care. Today is just a very apathetic day, isn't it. I blame the weather and an unfortunate knitting accident from yesterday.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 18 Sep 2012, 10:57
You dropped a stitch into ....?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Sep 2012, 01:15
Congratulations! And I am fairly sure it doesn't sink in properly until you've changed your first nappy ;)
[...]
Meconium.

Don't Google.

Congratulations!
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Post by: Patrick on 19 Sep 2012, 01:42
Don't Google.

This warning never ever works for me
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Sep 2012, 02:01
In that case: don't Google for images.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Sep 2012, 02:02
I've already found out about meconium from Jeff Vogel (http://www.ironycentral.com/archives/babyvol/babyvol1.html). Also from him:

Quote from: Jeff Vogel
When the baby was crying on its first night, the nurse and I placed it on the changing table to check if the diaper was dirty. Not wanting to deal with the bother of rediapering if I removed the diaper and it was clean, I jammed my finger inside it without hesitation, not being sure what I would find.

It felt dry. Just to make sure, I ran my finger around inside for a little bit. Oddly, something stuck to my finger. Something gooey. I pulled my finger out. Attached to the tip was a round, translucent, pearly white wad of goo, about the size of a pea. I showed it to Mariann. She didn’t know what it was. I showed it to the nurse, who immediately said “Oh, that’s just a wad of mucus. It came out of the vagina.”

The wad of goo hung from my fingertip, stickily.

It was at this precise moment that my soul left my body.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Sep 2012, 03:05
My first daughter was 15 days late.  After 17 hours (!) of labor, an emergency caesarian was performed (she was 9 lbs, 12 oz).  With all the stress, she'd already had her first bowel movement. 

She came out covered in a mix of meconium and amniotic fluid. 



It was a very interesting color.  I have pics somewhere...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Sep 2012, 03:22
I'll take your word for it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Sep 2012, 06:26
Meconium doesn't really count as a diaper change, although obviously you need to clear it up. I don't need to google to know what it looks like, I'm an aspiring midwife! Carl's daughter was in a rather a dangerous situation there; meconium before birth can be a serious indicator (it can be ok, but it can also be fatal if the baby inhales it) .
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 19 Sep 2012, 12:48
Rather depressing end to my housesitting stint I've had the past couple of days. One of the cats of the couple I was sitting for (the diabetic one) had been having issues the past few days, since starting a new bottle of insulin for him. He died within ten minutes of taking him to the vet. Poor old guy'd used up a lot of his nine lives in the past year - it seems this one was his last one.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nobo on 19 Sep 2012, 13:24
If the kid comes out pooping, it will be just the first in a lifetime of poops. I think I'm prepared.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 19 Sep 2012, 13:44
Thank you :) :) I'm sure it will. I think once we learn the gender (6 more weeks), and start buying stuff, it will become very real.

Careful about buying gendered stuff now! It's not 100%. A friend's sister after being told the sex bought all the pink stuff they could, painted the room pink, bought all the pink clothes, pink teddies, dolls, fairies, dresses, girly everything and I think you can guess where my story is going: She had a boy!
They decided this boy will love pink or tough shit.  :lol:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 19 Sep 2012, 14:58
One of the cats of the couple I was sitting for (the diabetic one) had been having issues the past few days, since starting a new bottle of insulin for him. He died within ten minutes of taking him to the vet.

 :-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Sep 2012, 18:27
A hundred years ago, pink for boys and blue for girls was usual. You see a remnant of that in the pink shirts that smart men often wear.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Sep 2012, 19:30
We had the opportunity to know the gender, but forwent it (past tense of forgo?).  We decorated in bright yellows, reds and greens, and bought a lot of onesies.  After the birth, while everyone was recuperating, I got to go out and buy her first dress for the hospital photo. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 19 Sep 2012, 21:15
My mother didn't want to know my gender, the only reason it was even possible was that she was over 35 so they were testing me for birth defects.  My father found out though.  He was good and didn't tell her, but he did tell my grandmother who promptly started giving her pink blankets and dresses, ruining the surprise.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Sep 2012, 23:13
Everyone in this thread is really conflating 'sex' and 'gender'.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 19 Sep 2012, 23:27
I think Zingo means that the sex of a child is that indicated by the genitalia, and that the gender is variable, regardless of genitalia. Or maybe I have it wrong. Guessing here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 19 Sep 2012, 23:52
Or sex is a matter of biology, while gender is a social construct. Neither is binary.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Sep 2012, 23:56
Sex is indicated by external genitalia, internal genitalia, chromosomes, secondary sexual characteristics, and hormonal levels.

Gender is more complicated.  :lol:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 20 Sep 2012, 04:28
Well hey guys, today's my birthday.

Now I only have one year left to get out all this teenage angst
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Sep 2012, 06:30
Good luck with that! 

And I will be celebrating your birthday by climbing the nearest belltower... again.  Remember those pics that didn't come out last week?  Time to try again! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 20 Sep 2012, 10:38
My story conflates sex with gender because the people in it did.  They decided what color baby clothing to get me based on my genetic sex. There is no other reason to be interested in the sex of a baby, other than to start thinking about the gender it will be raised as.  That may be fucked up, but it is the way things are.

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Post by: Patrick on 20 Sep 2012, 10:59
Gender can be more complicated.  :lol:

ftfy. Mine's fairly simple, see.

Frankly I think the only reason I'd give a shit about what sex the baby was is for the sake of pronouns.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Sep 2012, 12:14
Well, your gender identity and presentation are in alignment with your birth assignment, so, yeah. Cisgender people do have it a lot easier. But I started to go into the idea of gender as biologically essential vs. gender as social construct and decided to restrain myself a bit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 20 Sep 2012, 14:01
Gender can be more complicated.  :lol:

ftfy. Mine's fairly simple, see.

Frankly I think the only reason I'd give a shit about what sex the baby was is for the sake of pronouns.

You can always take the pseudo-sociopath road and call babies "it."
(or for the gender neutral version, "zit"  :-D)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 20 Sep 2012, 18:27
Now in SF. Wheee!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Sep 2012, 18:47
You can always take the pseudo-sociopath road and call babies "it."

I don't see that as sociopathic. I'm just incapable of looking at a baby and having it register as 'human'.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 20 Sep 2012, 19:04
Because if a full grown person did the same things a baby does it would be creepy as fuck.

(or for the gender neutral version, "zit"  :-D)

This made me giggle far more than it probably should have.

On another note, my boyfriend was just diagnosed with mono. Please say I don't have it oh god please please.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Sep 2012, 19:28
That's why I only date poly people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 20 Sep 2012, 19:33
...so you can get a whole group of people sick?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 20 Sep 2012, 19:39
Gender is a social construct. Babies don't have the ability, or even capacity really, to understand gender and state what gender they are. It is assigned to them at birth by their parents. (Unless they're radical enough to wait until the child is old enough to make their own decision... There's an article about this, I can't remember if I bookmarked it or not, I'll try to find it.) Sex, however, is what you are born with. It is biological to your core. Yes, you can take hormones and have surgery, but it will not change the fact that you are either XX, XY, XXY, XXX, etc. However, once you are old enough to understand your gender, it may or may not match your sex. However, babies are babies and frankly for a while, they really aren't going to give a crap what color they're wearing so long as they are warm and well fed.

Personally if I ever have a girl, I'm telling people not to buy me pink stuff. I don't like pink and unless my daughter says she wants something pink, I'm not going out of my way to give her pink stuff. (I mean, I won't get mad at pink, but I want her to have any and ALL colors, not just pink.) Also the whole culture surrounding gendering the wants of children is stupid.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Sep 2012, 19:57
...so you can get a whole group of people sick?

poly/mono

nevermind
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Sep 2012, 20:01
Also @Linds:

Gender is partially a social construct. If it is purely a social construct, then explain to me, please, why a large number of transsexuals (and, well, trans* people in general) feel from an incredibly young age very aware that the gender they were assigned does not match the way they feel inside? The most common refrain I hear is that a trans woman grew up basically having the femininity beat out of her because boys are supposed to be masculine, but that sort of social reinforcement didn't seem to take, now did it?

On the other hand, gender is an immensely complicated word and can mean so many different things. I'm talking specifically about gender identity - it seems to me that you're talking about the (nearly arbitrary) gendering of things in our culture (colours, in this case - but it extends to clothing, names, anything you can name has gendered assumptions about it).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 20 Sep 2012, 20:04
Wee I get jokes

Oh wait no I don't actually
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 20 Sep 2012, 20:26
Zing, I'm talking about the gendering of babies. And it's not the gendering of stuff...it's how that stuff affects the child (and believe me it does) and how people treat babies and toddlers based on what gender they believe that child to be. That doesn't mean it's going to stick, but a baby has absolutely no idea what gender is and based on social constructs during their childhood, they'll come to believe a certain idea of what gender is. Come adulthood, that opinion is most likely going to be different. And specifically for your friends, I doubt they remember much from years 0-2, which is mostly what I'm talking about. Very few people remember anything from those years just because of how the brain develops over time.

Also, not all people who feel that their gender doesn't match their body will say so. Your trans friends were able to break away from social constructs, but not everyone is able to do so, especially not when they feel that what they feel is inherently wrong...which is due to social constructs. I mean most people don't even understand that there is more to gender than male and female.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Sep 2012, 20:37
I agree completely and have nothing else to add lest I get ranty about binarism.
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Post by: pwhodges on 20 Sep 2012, 21:39
Maybe any further discussion of gendering of babies should be away from the blog thread; it could sustain its own discussion thread if anyone wants to continue at this point.

I had, curiously, no image of what San Francisco would be like; the only landmark I could name was the Golden Gate Bridge - and I knew what BART stands for.  After walking around for barely an hour, I can say that I like it.  Any place that can have trams and trolley buses and cable cars and buses just has to be all right.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 20 Sep 2012, 21:43
So I have decided to get an apartment next year which means

-I am going to have to pay 1000 or so dollars as per the contract I signed, saying that I would live on campus for two years or pay the exit fee if I left before the two years was up
-I am going to have to find someplace to live that is fairly priced, in decent condition, and preferrably in walking distance from school
-I am going to have to find a roommate or two

The last part gives me the most anxiety. Right now I live in what someone I ate with at dinner referred to as "the bro hall." I am not a bro. I do not particularly connect with the bro mindset. I do not really enjoy that many sports and while i have been trying to connect with my floor, it's really hard when we have almost nothing in common. The point being, is while I am aware that roommates do not need  to be BFFS or even close friends to live together peacefully, I'd like to have that experience.

Right now, I am having trouble finding people I relate to, I have friends, but there isn't really anywhere the friendships can go because me and them don't really have much common ground. I'm trying, me and the other person always try to find something in common, but it always slips away. It sucks not having anyone to talk to about music with, that's a basic need for me. But while I am into The cardigans, Taking Back Sunday, and Peter Bjorn and John, everyone else seems to be into dubstep or dance music.

Well it's late and this post is becoming a complaint letter about my social life, so I'm just gonna leave it at that. But if anyone has suggestions about apartment hunting, please feel free to give me any advice
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Sep 2012, 03:00
I had, curiously, no image of what San Francisco would be like; the only landmark I could name was the Golden Gate Bridge - and I knew what BART stands for.  After walking around for barely an hour, I can say that I like it.  Any place that can have trams and trolley buses and cable cars and buses just has to be all right.

Dude Paul, I'm in Berkeley this weekend. If there's time in your itinerary for a trip out there, I'd be delighted and honored. I'll sing you songs!

Blog: My fellow Troubadorks Matt and Paul + their lovely ladies Adara and Lanee and I went to Monterey to see the famous aquarium and Cannery Row today! It was a fantastic time full of good friends, good food, and good fun. We wound up going to a mirror maze/laser "bank heist" game where the mega-cute girl working there was super cool.

After all that, we decided to eat, but didn't know where to go, so Paul used Lanee's phone to call the mirror maze place and ask the girl if she knew anywhere good. This was a ruse to put me on the spot by having me talk to her and ask her to join us for drinks later. I did so extremely awkwardly, but she accepted, so we swooped her and hit the bar.

tl;dr now we're all friends, I have her number, and Lanee got a text saying nice things about me. Best band outing ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 21 Sep 2012, 03:17

My Fellow Troubadorks
I would like to propose a motion to change the name of your band to this.
Further amendments that would be considered would be dropping the "My Fellow"
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Sep 2012, 05:48
I used to follow a band called the Dorkestra.  Names like that work! 
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Post by: pwhodges on 21 Sep 2012, 07:17
Fun back at the office, it seems. The anti-virus package used by the university (Sophos) is flagging its own updater as a virus!
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Post by: Carl-E on 21 Sep 2012, 11:54
... it could be right.  I've had a few mock-updates in the past. 
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Post by: Patrick on 21 Sep 2012, 21:26

My Fellow Troubadorks
I would like to propose a motion to change the name of your band to this.
Further amendments that would be considered would be dropping the "My Fellow"

Pt. 1: I'm afraid we're far too deep in love with the name we've got now. I can work on pt. 2 but no promises, it's just how I talk!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Sep 2012, 00:51
Ugh. Why did I decide that today was a good day for my first tutoring lesson with a new student? I am still jet lagged, I have nowhere to store my luggage, I am not certain my bike isn't a pile of rust so I will have to walk, and I just want to sleeeeeep. I guess it's lucky that I have something to get up and out for, because I'm meant to be out of this guest room by nine thirty. At least tomorrow I can sleep for as long as I want.
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Post by: Redball on 23 Sep 2012, 06:33
Was there any adrenaline to be found in tutoring a new student?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Sep 2012, 10:39
The Girl and I have talked on the phone both nights since meeting. I haven't crushed this hard on anyone in a very long time. ohgodwhatdoido
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Post by: Jace on 23 Sep 2012, 12:06
Put all of your penises in her.
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Post by: Jace on 23 Sep 2012, 12:07
ALL OF THEM.
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Post by: Jace on 23 Sep 2012, 12:08
ALL. OF. THEM.
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Post by: Patrick on 23 Sep 2012, 12:42
I only have two
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Post by: Jace on 23 Sep 2012, 12:46
ALL. OF. THEM.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Sep 2012, 14:23
Be more like your avatar, Patrick.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 23 Sep 2012, 14:32
Quote
I only have two

Superglue plus dildos
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 23 Sep 2012, 15:24
Bye bye USA; hullo jet lag!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Sep 2012, 15:39
How is the jet lag feeling? I think I'd have got over mine far faster if I stopped staying up so late earlier on...

There are so many things I want to do, and not enough time or money to do them all :(
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Post by: pwhodges on 25 Sep 2012, 03:41
Seriously overslept this morning, so late in to work - but feeling fine.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 25 Sep 2012, 15:07
So a very good friend of mine wrote a radio play last year that we got commissioned for our local student radio. After a change of department heads things started to go downhill, but he suffered through many edits and meetings and finally got the date for today, 6pm. What happens? It isn't played. Instead, there is just two hours of autopiloted indie garbage instead - no one was actually in the studio.

Pretty annoyed, as this guy worked really hard on it and hey, I star in it, so I was peeved not to have had this programme on when suggested. I'm going to be raising all kinds of hell over this, but for the time being we'll either get it re-commissioned or just sling it on YouTube.

Also, I 'changed' my hours just for one day today - worked 8am till 4pm, meaning I got home at 5:45pm which is so much nicer than getting home at 7.30. But is it too early in my employment-length to be asking to do awkward crap like change hours? Probably.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 26 Sep 2012, 03:03
I've had a great day. People at work were awesome, my one manager who sucks genuinely went out of her way to try and be helpful, and not a lot of serious lifting for once (that shit suuuuuuucks, got stuff in there that weighs what I do). Got to chill with the bandmates, got to chill with a lot of folks who rock. My friend Brandon (originally from here) is visiting from his new home of Portland. Fuuuuuuuck I am happy to see that guy. Some cats, you don't see or talk for months, and they come back and it's like you had a great night together just yesterday.

I love rad days.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Sep 2012, 03:58
Lupercal, unless you changing your hours would require other people to change theirs, or there is some other reason why they need you at those hours, I don't see why it isn't worth asking. As long as you're not belligerent about it the worst that can happen is they say no.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Sep 2012, 03:35
I just had an impromptu midnight date with a pretty cute girl and together we polished off a very large can of beer (her polishing) and half a bottle of wine (my polishing)

I feel very polished.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 27 Sep 2012, 03:42
I might be getting a new computer soon. It's a little more than I was planning on spending, but I've got fed up with waiting for prices to drop and I wanted to get myself a leaving-college present anyway.
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Post by: Lines on 27 Sep 2012, 05:03
No you don't, that jackass who is keeping it does. And if he knows the guy, that's pretty low to not give it back.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Sep 2012, 06:12
You don't want to accidentally steal my laptop, do you?
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Post by: LTK on 27 Sep 2012, 06:43
"Well, to prove the authenticity of your claim, I'll ask you a riddle: What kinds of fetish porn are there on this laptop?"
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Post by: ackblom12 on 27 Sep 2012, 06:56
"All of them."
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Post by: jwhouk on 27 Sep 2012, 07:26
/end_thread
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Post by: Welu on 27 Sep 2012, 07:40
I'm just back from a few days holiday in Bristol! I saw Jonathan Coulton/Paul and Storm and Tim Vine. Got a photo with Jonathan Couton and he signed a drawing I did for him and I gave him a copy of it.

What I miss?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Sep 2012, 07:55
I don't know who Tim Vine is, but the other guys are awesome and really fun to talk to!
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Post by: Welu on 27 Sep 2012, 08:17
Tim Vine is an English comedian and his material is all word-play and puns. It's better than it sounds. He's touring right now doing a chatshow where he interviews ones from the audience under the idea that "Everyone has a story*. *Not a guarantee that everyone has a story." It was very fun and he was really good at keeping the atmosphere up even when the interviewee was off.

Bought the Paul and Storm USB because that's the first time I've ever heard anything of them. Although I only talked to Jonathan Coulton. He was so lovely and waited patiently and bantered with me while my phone froze because it panics sometimes when I try to use the camera. I honestly never thought I'd get to see him live and I'm so glad I got to do so. Gonna be framing the autographed drawing, which is a left JPEG-y version of this:
(http://fc06.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2012/264/6/3/screw_brains_by_welu_t-d5fg4zg.jpg) (http://fav.me/d5fg4zg)

Context: He has wrote songs about zombies and in the last newsletter email it talked about how he was looking forward to getting some Jaffa Cakes. :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Sep 2012, 11:54
OK, I've been wanting to post this for a while now... I finally figured out Youtube. 

Back in June, 850 of my best friends and I graded over 360,000 AP calculus exams in 7 days.  At the end, there's a "talent show".  For the last three years, I've gathered a group of choristers and written in-joke lyrics to a well known hymn tune. 

This year it was recorded...



I know, too many in-jokes.  But this is really the most fun thing I do all year. 


Kinda sad, actually...
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 27 Sep 2012, 12:27
Sad? In-jokes are a reason to live.
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Post by: Redball on 27 Sep 2012, 12:32
And when will you post the words? And are you directing?
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Sep 2012, 12:33
Kinda bummed, haven't heard from the Girl in a couple days, Idunno if that means something but I'm just gonna drop it, it's not good when I've only known her a week and I'm already overthinking shit.
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Post by: Papersatan on 27 Sep 2012, 14:33
Got good news from the student loan people.  They don't need the letter I was waiting on from a creditor, only the one I have.  I emailed it over today, I should be able to pay October rent without borrowing money. Hurray!

I also started an appeals process with Equifax to fix the problem which is that an old card I paid off is showing up as having a balance of $0, but also as being more than 120 days past due. The letter I got from Equifax was signed:
Thank you for giving Equifax the opportunity to serve you!

Yeah, because an adult in the US who participates in the economy has a choice about letting you serve them. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Sep 2012, 16:54
On the first bit - hooray!
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Sep 2012, 22:12
And when will you post the words? And are you directing?

Yes, that's me directing, and pre-apologizing for offending what are essentially the foremen of the exam reading process...

If you click on the words "AP Calculus Chorus 2012", it links you to the Youtube page, and the lyrics are posted there beneath the video.  You can read most of them on the screen in the video, except for the first verse which got botched by a technical difficulty named Dave. 

One in joke actually is worth explaining.  We used to differentiate on the score sheets between a 0 (no points earned) and a dash (-), given for "no mathematical content", a page that was either blank, or had a poem, song lyrics, little drawings that had nothing to do with the problem, or sometimes just tirades.  This year, we changed that for the first time, and only blank pages got the dash.  Poems, artwork and tirades got zeros, a;long with failed attempts at calculus.  I'm not sure what the data is supposed to measure now, and there was no explanation given at any level.  Even the chief reader, who I made fun of in another verse, didn't know why this was changed. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 28 Sep 2012, 07:24
Carl, your shorts are fierce!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Sep 2012, 09:01
Ugh, I like my new room and I'm glad to have (nearly) all my stuff, but I do not enjoy the process of transitioning from newcomer-in-room-full-of-boxes to home. I can't even walk across the floor yet, and I'm about to go and get another suitcase of stuff. After that there's just one small box and a guitar, and I think everything will be here. Once all the kitchen stuff is out and packed away in my new cupboard and shelves, it will be a lot easier...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Sep 2012, 09:08
I also started an appeals process with Equifax to fix the problem which is that an old card I paid off is showing up as having a balance of $0, but also as being more than 120 days past due.

Obvious solution is obvious, Kat. Send them a check for $0.
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Post by: Papersatan on 28 Sep 2012, 10:20
The credit card knows I don't have an account with them, it is just the credit agency that is confused.

A similar thing happend once with my cell phone.  I forgot to pay the bill and they shut off service, but when I paid it they didn't remove the block.  Any call I made forwarded to an automated message.
"I'm sorry there is a past due balance on this account.  You will need to pay it to reconnect service. You have a past due balance of $0.00, would you like to pay that."
"yes"
"Ok, please say an amount or say "Pay balance" to pay it off"
"pay balance"
"processing.  I am sorry there has been an error.  Please say the amount you would like to pay."
"$0.00"
"That is not a valid amount."
"Operator"
"I would be happy to connect you to customer service, as soon as we clear up this past due balance.  You owe $0.00.  Would you like to pay that today?"

I ended up having to go to a store to get it stored. 
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Post by: pwhodges on 28 Sep 2012, 13:02
Oh look, this week marks the anniversary of my becoming admin here.  No big deal, I guess, as everything seems to be running pretty smoothly these days, for which I thank you all (and especially the other mods).
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 28 Sep 2012, 13:33
Happy adminversary!
Thank you for not being a crazy dicktator like the mods i have experienced in other forums
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Post by: Papersatan on 28 Sep 2012, 14:41
No big deal, I guess, as everything seems to be running pretty smoothly these days

muhahaha

I regularly self-moderate. But if you want more to do.... :)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Sep 2012, 14:42
For those of us who have been here for a long time, it is a pretty big deal. This place is so different to how it used to be, and I put that almost entirely down to good moderation (and of course to people responding well to it and being supportive of each other). Congratulations, and thank you!

In the spirit of that supportiveness... I wasn't sure which thread this should go in but I guess it is a bit bloggy.

I was just reading the story of a homeschooling family who took their daughter out of school after a lot of behavioural and academic problems that they didn't understand the cause of. It turned out after much heart-ache that the little girl has sensory processing disorder.

Out of interest I went to the website which they linked to find out more, because a couple of her behaviours reminded me of myself at the same age. I'm well aware of the tendency for people to self-diagnose with every condition under the sun and I read the list feeling sceptical, but frankly it is hard to ignore the fact that I recognise at least 2/3 of every one of the hypersensitivity categories, and several of the non-binary categories as well.

I hadn't actually finished reading the list before I came to write this post, and I just reached the part which mentions "frequent constipation or diarrhea, or mixed during the same day or over a few days, difficulty with potty training; does not seem to know when he/she has to go (i.e., cannot feel the necessary sensation that bowel or bladder are full". The list is talking about infants and toddlers, but this is something I have trouble with even now (I am only slightly ashamed to admit that I wet myself today because I only had five seconds' warning that I urgently needed to pee) and it might explain my doctor's inability to work out what is wrong with my stomach.

I also just found a checklist of adult symptoms, for which the over-responsiveness has more like an 80% accordance. I will talk to my doctor when I go to see her about the fainting-bladder release issue and the constant-stomach-pain issue, but to be honest I've reached adulthood and coped so far. I probably don't need an official diagnosis. But it is nice to be able to tie together all my personal weirdnesses (including particularly my complete inability to cope with change without plenty of warning, my aversion to crowds and overstimulation and my dislike of lifts) and know that they are connected, and it's common for those things to be linked.

That said, it would also be useful to be able to say "I have sensory processing disorder and I will not be able to cope with that" when I refuse to, for instance, go to a party, rather than my current route of "I'm sorry, I've got boring in my old age".
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Sep 2012, 15:10
"I'm sorry, I've got boring in my old age" is a way more interesting answer. You'd have my attention.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Sep 2012, 15:22
Unfortunately my friends don't all find it that amusing, and I was honestly worrying that it might be connected to the fatigue disorder (although no other symptoms are present any more). Ironically I am not sure whether all the symptoms I recognise now have been around for my entire life, because I definitely recognise the one about not noticing my own state of being, such as temperature, hunger, pain, illness and so forth. It's been a personal goal for the last few years to take better care of myself, with baby steps like "when you cut yourself, clean the cut and put a plaster on" or "when you are feeling emotionally messy, eat something and have a nap".
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Post by: Redball on 28 Sep 2012, 16:19
It would be grand to be able to tie together the several things that bother you into a single knot. Are there treatments for the disorder?

Only once that I can recall did have hope for tying things together: I'd started therapy in 1969 after my first wife left, I was hanging out with Clara, I'd started therapy. I saw a physician on a new health plan. He thought I was a little hyper and sent me for a thyroid test. Ah, I thought, it might be the cause of my emotional problems. No such luck, the thyroid was normal. It apparently isn't quite normal now, and I have medication for that. But I've not noticed that the deficiency caused me any problems.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 28 Sep 2012, 16:50
A woman messaged me on Okc this afternoon. We are going on a date in an hour.  Nervous but excited.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Sep 2012, 16:54
I had an OkC date the other day. It was pretty much entirely impromptu; she lives a block over so I offered to bring her wine.

Her name was Amelia (not to be confused with my partner Amelia or my roommate Amelia).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 28 Sep 2012, 17:16
Or my sister Amelia.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 28 Sep 2012, 17:20
Or my friend Amelia (Maus) or my friend's partner Amelia, or the Amelia I met at a party a couple weeks ago.

Note: every single one of these Amelias I have mentioned are trans. Amelia is a SUPER common name for trans-femmes (surpassed only by some variation on Alex, I think).
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Post by: Redball on 28 Sep 2012, 17:32
If you're worried about being lonely and bored, this should ameliarate.
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Post by: Patrick on 28 Sep 2012, 17:52
Stefanie, the gal who has got my attention but has been quiet lately, is talking to me again, hooray! She's just been having a rough week, but she's going down to L.A. to see her bestie for the weekend and do some decompression.

Lucky her. I wanna get the fuck out of Dodge too lately, life can be pretty mundane around these parts when there isn't music stuff going on. We don't have another show til the 6th, then the 11th, then something like the 27th in the City, then Halloween. October's gonna be a busy month, but until then I'm just gonna be working, which means boredom and exhaustion. But also money.

I've been hanging out with my buddy Greg a lot lately, and he's moving to New Zealand soon. I am gonna miss him an awful lot. He and my bestie Lukas are two of the people I'm closest to in the world, and they're both gonna be on different continents, different time zones, etc., and it's gonna be just like I never moved back to Livermore, as far as they're concerned. Bums me out so bad. But they're fulfilling their lives more, and going and seeing the world in a way that I was lucky to be able to do. I'm proud of them and happy for them, but god I miss Lukas, and I'm gonna miss Greg too.

So much going on, so little time to process it mentally. Then again, when in history has anybody ever had enough time to prepare for when their loved ones go far, far away?
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Post by: Jace on 28 Sep 2012, 21:44
I messaged a girl on OKcupid so we could be friends and talk about hockey, DC comics, and gaming, she sent back "I like cheese :3" and I was just disgusted at that.
fucking cheese, are you kidding me?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 28 Sep 2012, 21:50
What do you have against cheese? Cheese is awesome!

Are you really that finicky that a simple statement like that will put you off of someone?
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Post by: Papersatan on 28 Sep 2012, 22:07
Date was great. Didn't kiss her.  Probably should have.  But we had nice talks for 4 hours and she walked me home. :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Sep 2012, 02:20
I'm a big fan of cheese too. Perhaps I should date her instead.

I think the only treatment for sensory perception disorder is to learn how to avoid unpleasant stimuli, which I already do, and occupational therapy to increase tolerance, which is probably not worth it since I am coping fine. It was just very interesting to discover and makes me feel a bit less like there are lots of little things wrong with me.
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Post by: Welu on 29 Sep 2012, 05:17
I don't think it's cheese itself, which I personally only like melted. I like the taste of most cheeses but the textures put me off. Although I have no issue with the yellow-flavoured plastic that is processed slices, love those.
I think it's more it sounds like Jace sent a somewhat detailed message about possible shared interests and she sent back a !wacky and random! one sentence comment, along with kitty emote.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Sep 2012, 05:22
With Jace it's hard to tell ;) I'm not sure I've ever met anyone who prefers plastic processed cheese to actual cheese before.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 29 Sep 2012, 10:41
I'm allergic to cheese. Well, dairy stuff. Not much, but enough to make me think twice before I have too many ice creams.
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Post by: TheEvilDog on 29 Sep 2012, 11:36
I like cheese, especially the blueberry cheese that's made in the next town.
I also like making a mornay sauce that works quite well in a salmon pie.
 :-D
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Post by: Edith on 29 Sep 2012, 11:41
... "I like cheese :3" ...
fucking cheese, are you kidding me?

...kitty emote.

Whoah! I never saw that as a cat before. I honestly thought it was supposed to be Cthulhu.
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Post by: Papersatan on 29 Sep 2012, 12:00
man I always thought it was balls deep... shows where my mind always is... :/
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Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Sep 2012, 14:05
I messaged a girl on OKcupid so we could be friends and talk about hockey, DC comics, and gaming, she sent back "I like cheese :3" and I was just disgusted at that.
fucking cheese, are you kidding me?

oh GOD. she sounds like my ex who spent one night calling me up every fifteen minutes to say "Hey. Do you like cheese?"

moral of the story: never date someone out of pity
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Post by: Welu on 29 Sep 2012, 16:46
Confession: When I was a young teen heavily influenced by the internet I was one of those OMG I AM SO EPIC RANDOM AND LIKE THE MOST CRAZY PERSON EVER ones. I haven't fully grown out of it but there's a time and place for it, which is mostly in the early morning and only in the company of my boyfriend.

man I always thought it was balls deep... shows where my mind always is... :/
I will forever associate that now. I like that meaning better and it'll make my Facebook feed a lot more entertaining.
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Sep 2012, 16:58
moral of the story: never date someone out of pity

That's not a moral, that's a principle! 

OK, serious blog time, with photos!  Remember that crappy day  I had a little while ago, nothing worked out?  I went back up into the church steeple, and this time the pics came out.  I'll spare you the ones about the leaks...

The only way in is to use an old iron ladder built onto the roof.  You can barely see it in this pic...

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8034/8037284881_0463a2ff63.jpg)

You start by propping a 16 foot ladder against the gutter, then climb (yes, that's me)...

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8180/8037263330_3312c2d346_n.jpg)

At the top, you use a handhold/step built into the side of the steeple to stand on the roof ridge, grab the handles, open the screen door, and swing yourself into the opening (it's about 2 1/2 feet wide by 3 high). 

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8460/8037286752_3f6eee273a_n.jpg)

Our bells; Faith (1000 lbs),

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8034/8037283045_133ef6b5b8.jpg)

Hope (500 lbs) and Charity (300 lbs). 

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8455/8037284940_841b661a21.jpg)

The funeral toller is a hammer that sits on the floor and strikes Faith when she's stationary (something about the joy of a bell swinging being inappropriate for a funeral, I think)

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8457/8037346614_edb24c0b45_n.jpg)

The first time I went up was to replace a rope that had broken, because Faith and Hope had been cross-roped.  Faith was twisted in her yoke and had a broken grease fitting, Hope hadn't rung for over 20 years, and Charity was getting flipped regularly.  The funereal toller was broken, too.  It all works, now. 

You never know what you'll find in some places...  this old oiler's been sitting there in the rafters for... I dunno, but I know the grease fittings were put on in the 50's making it obsolete about 60 years ago. 

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8173/8037281113_34ed6e2055_n.jpg)


Oh, and the sign I couldn't get laid out right?  It came out pretty well...

(http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8179/8037402846_3a881747c8.jpg)
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 30 Sep 2012, 07:38
Very cool, Carl!! I really enjoyed those photos :-)


I'm a big fan of cheese too. Perhaps I should date her instead.
This seriously made me LOL.
Re:cheese- I have a serious cheese addiction. At any time, I have 5 different cheeses in my fridge. And I'm lactose intolerant. But it's so worth it. (And it makes me crazy that the processed cheese food crap is called "American" cheese. Really? Can't we at least get CHEESE right??)


Re: OkC-
That's where I met Nick! Yay OkC!  :-D

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lupercal on 30 Sep 2012, 14:55
Hey everyone, cheese cravings go back to at least 1989.

You all sound like our favourite Uncle!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dvjRsijFejA
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Post by: Papersatan on 30 Sep 2012, 15:46
Speaking of cheese, Stephen and I made some this weekend.  We failed at mozzarella, but salvaged it into some ricotta. Gonna make stuffed shells with it I think.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 30 Sep 2012, 17:59
Yeah so it was because I don't really like cheese. It is okay with other stuff but I very rarely find myself just eating cheese on its own.
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Post by: Gnomes2169 on 30 Sep 2012, 18:11
Yeah so it was because I don't really like cheese. It is okay with other stuff but I very rarely find myself just eating cheese on its own.
You would not survive in Wisconsin...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 30 Sep 2012, 18:21
I live in Buffalo right now, I have to tell people I don't like blue cheese, and they look at me like I just shit on their car.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 30 Sep 2012, 18:23
Yeah I get that response when I tell people I don't like chocolate or mint. I can do chocolate occasionally but mostly it's just too strong for me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 Sep 2012, 23:53
The first word I ever said was "chocolate". Seriously.

WHAT IN THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Oct 2012, 01:36
The first word I ever said was "chocolate". Seriously.

WHAT IN THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU

fixed
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Oct 2012, 06:11
Can't find my bike key where is my bike key I need my bike key
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 01 Oct 2012, 06:15
I always thought people who claim not to like chocolate are just trying not to eat it for dietary/health reasons. Because, yeah, chocolate.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 01 Oct 2012, 06:17
Some people also just don't like chocolate. Some people also don't like icing on their cake, and while I think they are crazy pants, whatever MORE CHOCOLATE AND ICING FOR ME.

Also for the most part, I hate milk chocolate. It makes me feel nauseous. I prefer dark chocolate. It's more bitter. Just like my soul.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 01 Oct 2012, 06:17
Not me. I just don't really enjoy it. I can eat candy that has some chocolate in it, like Twix, but much more and I just feel bloated and gross.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 01 Oct 2012, 07:11
I have to REALLY be in the mood for chocolate, so I totally get that. I might have it once or twice a month and I prefer that it has something mixed in- pretzels, toffee, caramel, pb, etc. I've always preferred chewy/fruity candy to chocolate. Mmmm....now I want swedish fish.

Another thing people can't believe I don't like? Ice cream cake. I can have a small amount, but anything more than a few bites isn't really enjoyable. It just does NOT taste like regular ice cream to me. I like the crunchies, but I'd rather have them in actual cake-y cake. My family has ice cream cake for every single birthday and I just don't get what they all get out of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 01 Oct 2012, 07:40
The ice cream in most ice cream cakes is crap. I don't really like them either.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: TheEvilDog on 01 Oct 2012, 08:04
I can't eat brown/red curries. I can eat a green curry, but other types I get massive headaches.
Same goes for coffee, if I drink it or eat it, massive headaches. (That said, doesn't happen if I smell it)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 01 Oct 2012, 08:06
The ice cream in most ice cream cakes is crap. I don't really like them either.

I do. And you only have 5 more days to get me one for my birthday. ;)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 01 Oct 2012, 08:36
Can't find my bike key where is my bike key I need my bike key
Hiding in your fridge, of course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 01 Oct 2012, 08:49
The ice cream in most ice cream cakes is crap. I don't really like them either.

I do. And you only have 5 more days to get me one for my birthday. ;)

Sorry, I only bake real cakes. :evil: But in all seriousness, my cakes (and especially cupcakes) are pretty good. Like to the point that I am annoyed that those fancy cupcake shops can't make a better cupcake than me. And if I'm gonna get fat off of some ice cream/cake, it had better be worth it aka delicious.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 01 Oct 2012, 10:28
I live in Buffalo right now, I have to tell people I don't like blue cheese, and they look at me like I just shit on their car.

I've heard some dumb things on this here message board tube system in the past few days. "I don't like blue cheese" is probably second to Patrick telling a dead Irishman that he wrote a shitty Oasis song.

CMOOOOOOON JACE.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 01 Oct 2012, 10:29
I don't like blue cheese either. You'll just have to get over it, Shane.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 01 Oct 2012, 10:30
That was more still ripping on Patrick for mixing up his Gallaghers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Oct 2012, 11:53
I don't like chocolate as much as I eat it. That goes for ice cream as well, and the fudge I'm currently devouring for the simple reason that it's there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Oct 2012, 01:34
My girlfriend thinks I'm stuck and is making me choose a goal and working towards that.

Problem is, I'm stuck, and I don't know what the hell I want in life.


Other than that it was great.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 Oct 2012, 03:03
That was more still ripping on Patrick for mixing up his Gallaghers.

I just checked my britches and everything seems to be a-ok dogg, what are you talking about
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 02 Oct 2012, 09:44
Hello Blog Thread,

I needed to share this with you because it's so utterly ridiculous. When I came into work last week, there was a sign on the fridge asking that all employees ensure that "all items is labeled". I cringed and asked the CEOs secretary (pretty much the go-to person for all office related crap- in addition to practically being a saint) if I could change it. I asked her if she knew who made it so I could ask them and she said no. So, like a good employee (who doesn't want any office visitors to think we're all a bunch of morons), I changed it.

Just a few minutes ago, the HR director just came to me and asked if i changed the sign on the fridge.....and I said yes, because the grammar was wrong. she asked what it was and i told her it said "make sure all items is labeled" instead of ARE labeled. She then proceeded to say "next time, come to me first because you knew i made it since i sent out the cleaning schedule"......uh, how am i supposed to know that since they are 2 different documents relating to 2 different things?

She has a lovely way of making me feel as though i did something wrong, even though she's the one that can't speak proper English. She was born and raised here and holds an upper management position, probably making twice my salary so the woman has no excuse. Can I please jump out a window now???


(As a side note, this is the very same person that decided it was a smart idea to pack away the few items on my desk, 3 days before our office move (mostly personal things that were going home- oh, and my lunch for that day) when I went to a grant writing workshop for 2 hours because "she didn't know if I was coming into work" even though I had been there for 2 hours before I left for the workshop and had a to-do list on my desk for that day.) I wish I could express just how horrible a person she is, but there are really no words. On a good day, she's rude, condescending, brash, self-absorbed and arrogant.


Anyone know of administrative job openings in the Hudson Valley??
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 02 Oct 2012, 09:49
You were absolutely right and I'd have done the same thing. How petty to be that possessive over a sign. Can you report her incompetence to a senior?

I am totally wiped out. I had a meeting this morning on the third floor of my faculty building, which isn't a very long way to walk but I find draining as it's a glass-walled building with stairs that you can see through (there are gaps between the steps) and I am scared of heights. I almost passed out the first time I had to walk up there, especially since the stairs start wobbling when you go up the last flight.

Then I went into town with some friends and wandered round for a while, buying vegetables and stuff. I came back home, dumped my bags, grabbed some late lunch and walked the twenty minutes to another college for a meeting with a new supervisor. It turns out he can only supervise on two days - Tuesday afternoons at times that clash with my dissertation seminar, or Sunday evenings, at times that clash with choir and anyway I'm not prepared to have class on a Sunday.

So I got given the name of someone else who might be able to supervise me, and walked all the way home again, stopping off to collect a box and a guitar which I had left in my choir director's room over summer. Now I'm wiped out and waiting for a friend to come round for dinner. All I really want to do is sleep, but I need to tidy my room more first.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 02 Oct 2012, 15:10
I have one manager at work who always finds some way to make me feel like a huge piece of shit, and it's always petty shit like that that makes my head feel like bursting.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Oct 2012, 01:36
I woke up this morning with a faint feeling of misery and dread, which I am 99% certain is due to the continued absence of my fridge and my bike key.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 03 Oct 2012, 20:25
I had that same feeling, having lost track of my thumb drive (flash drive thingy) (the cold I've had for the last three days didn't help). 

Found it sitting on the computer in the lab where I help some of my students after class.  And the cold's getting better... so life is good (or at least, not so miserable). 


Oh fall, how I love thee, thine awesome colors and cool, crisp air.  Now, just stop raining for a while, so the leaves stay on the trees a little longer and my feet don't get sodden when I walk the dogs...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Oct 2012, 10:07
Dear blag,

My sis is in town, I've got most of the week off, I've got a sore back, and open mic was fun last night.

I may be seeing the lady in Monterey tonight but it's doubtful because she doesn't ever talk to me so I'm about to just say "Ehhh fuck her" and not talk to her anymore 'cause what is the use being interested in a girl who has obviously lost interest.

Love,
Me
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 04 Oct 2012, 23:44
I woke up this morning with a faint feeling of misery and dread, which I am 99% certain is due to the continued absence of my fridge and my bike key.

Are you still in York?

I have a mini fridge that is available and could delivered in conjunction with one of my frequent jaunts north in the great Shire.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 04 Oct 2012, 23:48
I just submitted my resume to a job being staffed through a staffing agency.  Applying automaticly made ma a profile on their website.  When I went to look at said profile, my phone number was wrong on it.  They auto populated the phone number field by crawling my resume.  I have had the wrong phone number on my resume. 

Fuck
Me

I transposed two numbers.  I checked and it is that way on all my resumes.  Every one I have sent out in the past 8 months.  *sob*

At least I know why I haven't gotten a single call right?  I have been so poor and so depressed by my inability to find a job. This is so stupid, but at least it gives me a glimmer of hope that I could find a job now that I have fixed it....

*sigh*

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Oct 2012, 00:28
How frustrating, Kat! But I agree - you would have got calls otherwise. That is very disappointing but now there is hope!

TSK, I'm in Cambridge - York is a possible future venture. Thanks, but my fridge has now been found! I am currently eating breakfast complete with milk cooled in said appliance.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 05 Oct 2012, 08:38
Hahaha! Post of the week there tuathal. Imagining drunk confused people tumbling around to that...  :laugh:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 05 Oct 2012, 14:07
Oh god that must've been amazing, and a million points to you for Converge. <3
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 05 Oct 2012, 23:05
Turned way down, parts of that are pretty danceable. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Oct 2012, 16:54
Well. A few days ago my partner broke up with me, and today she's thrown me out of the house. She's still letting me use the laptop she 'forcibly lent' to me.

I feel surprisingly good right now. Probably 'cause I'm just kind of numb.

I ended up in the psychiatric ward of the ER last night, but they wouldn't keep me for observation even though I was suicidal. I'm tempted to off myself just to get them in trouble, but it's a lot of dedication for a little ire.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 06 Oct 2012, 17:17
Don't cut off your head to spite the ER.

sucks to hear about getting thrown out.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 06 Oct 2012, 17:43
I dunno, it sounds like a lot of ire. Anyone to unload on?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 06 Oct 2012, 17:55
I dunno.

She calls me a liar and a manipulator because I have a lot of conflicting and confusing feelings, and I'm trying to express them as best as I can. She threw me out. It hurts so fucking bad to be called a liar when I'm just trying my hardest to be open about what I'm dealing with. It hurts so much to be told I'm just trying to manipulate someone when I'm just trying to tell them I'm hurting and I need help, but I don't want them to so much as inconvenience themselves.

I knew it was too soon to move in, but I had no choice. I had nowhere to live then, and I have nowhere to live now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Oct 2012, 05:50
Where are you staying in the short-term? I hope you are safe. There must be some infrastructure for providing people with housing in emergencies, surely! I am afraid I have only a hazy idea of how I'd go about finding housing in the UK, and not a clue about the US, but I hope you find something.



Why does reading articles make me sleepy? Come to that, why am I tired when I've been getting 7-10 hours of sleep a night for the last week?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 08 Oct 2012, 06:23
GAH!
I am pretty sure I am sick at least somewhat today. My throat is scratchy and my head just feels like shit. I really hope this doesn't get worse throughout the week, I have been planning too long for this week to let viruses ruin all my planning
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 08 Oct 2012, 07:59
Oh crap! I have a telephone interview on Friday for a job that is exactly what I like to do, and makes enough money, but it's 9 hours away from here in the opposite direction from my family, who are 10 hours away, so I'd never be able to drive there for the weekend; I'd have to budget and FLY. Also I have a boyfriend here and he likes his job and owns a house so that is also not ideal. But I feel like I should go ahead and finish out the interview process but OH GOD OH GOD THEY MIGHT ASK ME ANYTHING AND WHAT WILL I SAY AND AM I EVEN REMOTELY QUALIFIED FOR THIS?!

so yeah. I'm freaking out but trying not to think about it too much.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 08 Oct 2012, 08:34
Well, damn! There goes the neighborhood!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Oct 2012, 10:09
You were pretty keen for this job at the first stage (congratulations for the telephone interview!) so I'd say keep keeping your options open. You don't need to make up your mind until you actually have been offered the job. And of course you are qualified for it! You are basically qualified for ALL THE JOBS. Except fire eater. Don't do that one.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Edith on 08 Oct 2012, 10:28
Did I never tell you about the time I played a fire eater in an undergrad independent theatre project about circuses?

I'm lying, I  am way too  wussy to put fire in my mouth.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Oct 2012, 10:33
Where are you staying in the short-term? I hope you are safe. There must be some infrastructure for providing people with housing in emergencies, surely!

With friends. Homeless shelters aren't that great for a lot of reason (especially for trans people).

I'm going to try and talk to Amelia and tell her I need to live with her so I can get the help I need. I can't do this.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 08 Oct 2012, 22:39
Punk rock girl, give me a chance
Punk rock girl, let's go slamdance..



FEELINGS ARE FUCKING WEIRD.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 09 Oct 2012, 04:40
Hi Blag Thread. Petty whining ahead:

The college computers suck nuts. Their headphone jacks are all messed up and everything sounds really static-y. Especially music heavy on bass (the majority of my music), but even just clicking on links makes a horrible static fart noise. Figured out if I turn up the volume loud enough, it hides the static but it hurts my ears.
Going to attempt to write an article about the quality of various microphones now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Oct 2012, 05:04
It won't help any but my kid is hugely entertained by the avatar Llama, Zingo.

Good luck.





Fed deer today. The deer were happy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 09 Oct 2012, 05:56
Zing, I wish I knew a way I could help you. It's hard being in an extremely difficult circumstance. I know it seems like everything's collapsing but you're a good soul, and I'm sure that if you keep on keeping on, and keep pressing and trying, you're going to wind up being a-ok. Remember me a year ago? I'm not sure I even deserve what's come to me from friends, but surely things must look up for you. I'm confident in you. <3

I've taken some time off work while my sister's been visiting from DC! We hung out a lot on Thursday. I went to a show Friday, played one Saturday, put some labor into both. Sunday afternoon, I went to SF Fleet Week with my homie Erika and her dad, lilbro, and lilbro's best bud. Said dad is an aerospace engineer for Boeing, and homegirl plays music. There was limited street performing, and then there was an F-22 demonstration followed by the Blue Angels. Music and airplanes, two things I've been down for since birth. Sunday night, did dinner with the fam. Had a cigar with my dad, his bestie, and my sis. Then the bar afterward. My bandie Matt came out, which was awesome, and everybody had a great time. Busy goddamn week, but time well spent.

Work's been awesome. One manager sucks ass and I've already had to complain about her not only disrespecting me in front of customers but also hindering my work performance by being a stickler and a real pain in the ass. But the rest of my coworkers are all totally awesome and I really like working with them. They're all not only competent and helpful, but happy to embrace their humanity. Tl;dr I am making friends with them. I really do enjoy my job.

Tonight I went out and chilled with friends, and tomorrow it's back to work. I've been up for 18 hours, part of which was spent working, and I shoulda been in bed 3 hours ago :3
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 09 Oct 2012, 17:34
Hmmm... I am feeling very weird right now. On one hand, I fell really happy. Like happier than i have been for a long time. On the other hand I kinda wanna throw up. And on the other OTHER hand I kinda want to punch something. In the face.

Can't say why I am telling you guys this, i guess I need to talk to some random internet people.

I could tell you all why I am feeling these emotions, but that might cause a volatile hormonal reaction like punching something or throwing up. So for now I'll be all mysterious
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 09 Oct 2012, 19:09
Just don't punch a toilet and throw up at the same time. That could end badly!

On a more serious note, I hope the nausea and desire to punch go away and just leave you happy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Oct 2012, 02:31
I woke up this morning at 7.30 feeling dizzy and faint (while I was still lying down). I reset my alarm for 9am instead of 8, and went back to sleep. Woke up again just before nine still feeling faint and dizzy. Drank water, ate food, moved very carefully and although I'm still feeling dizzy and wobbly I'm not feeling like I'm about to pass out so that's an improvement.

I really have got to go food shopping today - all I really have is food for evening meals and I need breakfast food. Today's breakfast was meant to be tomorrow's lunch but it was the only ready-to-eat thing I had.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 10 Oct 2012, 02:47
Got that feeling once as well, when I woke up and couldn't even sit up in bed without feeling like I was about to pass out. A hot shower was a good remedy that time.

I'm on the verge of being overwhelmed with coursework for my master's, and I'm only one month in. Working my ass off, now that's pretty novel.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Oct 2012, 03:19
Temporary solution to the fainty feeling is a mug of mocha with extra hot chocolate. I must buy some snack foods, this is ridiculous.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 10 Oct 2012, 12:53
Accidentally posted this in the top three thread. Oops.  :lol:

I found out yesterday that I fucked up my disability application.

It ended up being around ~6 miles of walking, but I managed to find out how I fucked up, walked to the Department of Social and Health Services (DSHS), got the application, and brought it home to fill it out...there's a good chance I'll make it this time. I was going to do it all yesterday but I'm just so exhausted from sleeping on couches and walking everywhere I just couldn't do it. I was going to do it this morning, but Amelia kept me up till 3 am watching Community very loudly.

I feel powerless to do anything here, lest she call me manipulative and throw me out again.

But...I have to do this. And if I fail, then I get a lawyer who can deal with disability (they take 5% of your settlement as payment).

That still might take a few months. Or a few years.

Goddammit, I am tired...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Oct 2012, 07:46
Zing, don't trouble trouble til trouble troubles you. No point trying to work out what you'd do if you failed until you know you have.

As you already know, I think you would be better living in a different place, even a temporary place - but you know far better than anyone else can whether there is anywhere that would be even remotely safe or suitable. I just think you don't need the hassle of her as well as all you're dealing with already.



In bloggy news, I am mid-way through my application for Midwifery. I've requested that my Director of Studies might write me a reference (she hasn't replied which is alarming, she usually replies to emails immediately...) and my personal statement is finished. I've just got to do the boring stuff of inputting my academic and employment details and wait for the reference.

I'm still keeping my options open as regards jobs, and for some reason today I didn't just throw away the flyer that was in my pigeonhole. I just had a proper look at it and it's advertising a workshop and a talk for a management consultancy firm called Bain. I'm actually considering going to the talks, if only to find out what exactly a management consultancy firm does...

Has anyone got any experience with this firm, or the field in general? The deadline for job applications to start in 2013 is November 4th so I need to get a move on but I can't write an application until I know what the job actually is.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Oct 2012, 08:06
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bain_%26_Company

?

Mitt Romney's former company? Surely not?
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 11 Oct 2012, 08:29
Sort of, but not exactly.

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Relationship with Bain Capital

Bain & Co. is an entirely separate entity from Bain Capital. Bain Capital is a private investment firm specializing in private equity (PE), public equity, leveraged debt asset, venture capital, and absolute return investments. Bain Capital does not provide management consulting services to its clients.

Bain Capital was founded in 1984 by several former Bain & Co. partners that included Mitt Romney (later to become the 70th Governor of Massachusetts and candidate for President of the United States), T. Coleman Andrews III, and Eric Kriss. On account of these shared roots, Bain & Co. still maintains a strong institutional relationship with Bain Capital. Many current Bain Capital managing directors and professional staffers began their business careers at Bain & Co.


Oh can I just say I don't like that everybody now knows the name "Bain" as a bad thing?
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Post by: Barmymoo on 11 Oct 2012, 08:58
I had never heard of it before, and I don't really care that it's historically connected with Mitt Romney. The more I read about the company, the more I don't want to work as a management consultant though. I think I'll be a foster carer instead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Oct 2012, 09:16
My father was a management consultant for many years.  As I understand it, it's a lot like the work of efficiency expert Frank Gilbreth (the father in the original "Cheaper by the Dozen") as applied to management. 

Many companies, as they grow, have legacy management behaviours that are inefficient, to put it mildly.  A managerial consultant looks at these from the outside, points out what isn't working, and finds a better, more efficient (and often money-saving) way.  They're often responsible for management restructurings at a company that results in a "leaner" team (i.e. cutting management jobs). 

One of my favorite examples of my father's was the Mississippi barge company.  They used a roster of where the tugs needed to be and when, but if anything was running late (and it usually was), tugs would sit idle for days at a time waiting for barges.  My father rode with several of them, getting a feel for the process. 

His solution?  Call ahead.  He had all the tugs fitted with special radiophones (this was the early 70's, new technology!) and a dispatch system so that if a set of barges was running behind, the waiting tug could be freed up to go back to port and take a different load, and a later tug could meet the late barges.  Downtime was cut by huge amounts, and the amount shipped went way up.  Efficiency! 

He got the idea when he was jumping off a tug at a lock to call home one evening.  It was a regular ritual, and he could only talk until the tug was getting ready to leave the lock so he could hop back on... "why the hell can't there be phones on the tugs?"

So sometimes it was actual process efficiency, but a lot of the time it was just streamlining the management process.  Some companies liked what he did so much they hired him away from the consulting company - this happened three times, and each time he turned the company around to the point where they were bought out by a competitor... and he'd be out of a job in the reorganization, and go back to consulting. 

So if you're a killer at analysing, and you like coming into a new environment and shaking things up to improve them, it can be an amazing job.  Lots of travel, too.  Dad always arranged to be home weekends, though.  Many of the consultants didn't - just lived out of a company-provided hotel room for weeks at a time, until a job was done. 

Anyway, hope that helps a little! 

Edit:  I see you've already decided...  yeah, it's not the life for everyone. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Oct 2012, 11:31
Zing, don't trouble trouble til trouble troubles you. No point trying to work out what you'd do if you failed until you know you have.

Yyyyyyeah, but I kind of need several back-up plans. Not working out anything prior means I'm on the streets with nothing planned at all. Right now I'm looking at that place you sent me (thanks again), and talking with friends.

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As you already know, I think you would be better living in a different place, even a temporary place - but you know far better than anyone else can whether there is anywhere that would be even remotely safe or suitable. I just think you don't need the hassle of her as well as all you're dealing with already.

My problem with this is that my stuff's already here, and it's such a pain in the ass to keep putting a big fucking pack on and lugging it around. I've got a bad back and that hurts enough without resorting to carrying all my stuff around.
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Post by: Patrick on 12 Oct 2012, 02:04
I played a show tonight. I reminded myself how much of a slut I am. I also remembered how amazing it feels to play through a nice sound system with good monitors. I then smoked weed in public.

PS FUCK YEAH GIANTS!  :-D too bad about Oakland though :\
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Oct 2012, 09:51
I reminded myself how much of a slut I am.


I'm dying to ask how you did that...  partly because I think you're pretty hard on yourself about it. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Oct 2012, 10:10
Good luck with that...


"Hey, that's not how my old techer did it!"   :roll:
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Post by: Edith on 12 Oct 2012, 11:35
Welp, I had the phone interview. Now it's a waiting game, followed by deciding whether I actually want it if I get it.

The coworkers sounded/seemed pretty cool.

My boyfriend lives here, and he's super-cool. We're going to a Food Truck Rally tonight.

AIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!
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Post by: Welu on 12 Oct 2012, 12:33
One of my closest friend's girlfriend died yesterday morning. I don't know the details but it seems very sudden. I'm completely in shock. I only met her once for a couple of minutes but she was really lovely.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 12 Oct 2012, 13:28
I reminded myself how much of a slut I am.


I'm dying to ask how you did that...  partly because I think you're pretty hard on yourself about it.

Oh, just the 'taking advantage of songs I didn't write in order to get laid or at least get attention'
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Post by: Lines on 12 Oct 2012, 17:35
Exchange between me and my mom after I told her me and Michael's ideas for wedding location:

Mom - You are wearing a wedding dress.
me - Yeah, I'm wearing a wedding dress.
Mom - No, like you ARE wearing a wedding dress. A white one.
me - Well, not white, but yeah.
Mom - White, off white, whatever, but you are wearing a wedding dress.

It is important to note that because of her tone, those sounded like commands. Not questions, not statements, commands. Not that I was planning on getting married in anything other than a wedding dress, but ok. I don't think I've ever said otherwise? But regardless. Moms.
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Post by: Carl-E on 12 Oct 2012, 19:43
You should have said, "No", and when she asked what you are planning on wearing, tell her "nothing - we're having a nude wedding". 

The fits, they would be epic. 




How's her heart?
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Post by: Redball on 12 Oct 2012, 19:50
Moms indeed. Their efforts to control have led to more than a few elopements.
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Post by: Lines on 12 Oct 2012, 20:48
Granted I am her only child, so I think that is part of it. But if she tries to control anything...she's probably going to get shot down if it's not something I already want.
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Post by: Nikolai on 13 Oct 2012, 01:03
My mother-in-law tried to insist on us having a cake for the wedding (in addition to the brownie pyramid we had planned) because I guess "it's a wedding, and people will expect cake". Fortunately, the brownies were a huge hit.

News from my own life: Almost done with this deployment, finally. I can count the weeks I have left on one hand! I can't wait to see my cat.

It's looking like I'll have to wait to get home to finish up my citizenship process though, which is mucking up re-enlisting.
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Post by: Carl-E on 13 Oct 2012, 08:19
Wait, re-enlistng has stronger criteria than enlisting in the first place? 

"Allright, just this once.  We'll check later.  But if we find out you're not really a citizen, we won't let you back in!"

 :psyduck:


One of the online jobs is "paying off" - I start the three weeks of unpaid training on the 22nd.  It's part time, and when I finally teach, pay is by the student rather than per course or credit hour (which is weird).  I still need something "real" for insurance.  Or something that pays really well so I can buy insurance. 

Any of you guys familiar with American Public University?  I think they do a lot of work with the military. 
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Post by: Nikolai on 13 Oct 2012, 11:33
Re-enlisting is actually really complicated. I'm trying to switch my occupation within the military to one that requires citizenship, mostly for security clearance. Good news, though! Immigration finally got a date for the overseas swear-in ceremony. I'll be 'Murrikan by the beginning of next month.

I've heard of APU, but haven't looked into them. I'm taking my college courses through Central Texas College.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 13 Oct 2012, 17:07
Exchange between me and my mom after I told her me and Michael's ideas for wedding location:

Mom - You are wearing a wedding dress.
me - Yeah, I'm wearing a wedding dress.
Mom - No, like you ARE wearing a wedding dress. A white one.
me - Well, not white, but yeah.
Mom - White, off white, whatever, but you are wearing a wedding dress.

It is important to note that because of her tone, those sounded like commands. Not questions, not statements, commands. Not that I was planning on getting married in anything other than a wedding dress, but ok. I don't think I've ever said otherwise? But regardless. Moms.

Urgh. Sounds like my mom and the Minister thing. She even went so far once to tell me that her minister "told us that he supports gay people getting married" because she thought that would sway my decision. Y'know, because he's a minister, but he's "cool". That's lovely for him, but does not change the fact that we are NOT having a religious ceremony.
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Post by: Lines on 13 Oct 2012, 18:13
Yeah, she was a little surprised when I mentioned we might not get married in a church. Which is odd considering she's not religious and we aren't particularly religious. I mean, we might have a minister marry us (there's two we're friends with), but I don't think either of us want a religious ceremony. We might just get a friend ordained and do it that way, who knows!
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Post by: Spike on 13 Oct 2012, 18:58
I think it doesn't even really stem from being religious, it's probably more just a cultural thing.  A lot of people get married in Churches, so other people just assume that's the way it's done.
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Post by: Papersatan on 13 Oct 2012, 19:26
I got married in a church, just one that had been un holy-ed.  I didn't want to get married outside or under florescent lights. this chapel was part of a boarding school, and then it went under and became apartments so the lovely marble chapel was rented out for weddings.  Otherwise I maybe would have done at an art gallery or summat.

edit: also I didn't have that date tonight cause she was sick. :(  hopefully she gets well soon.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 13 Oct 2012, 19:51
We did ours at a performing arts center, with the ceremony in the theater with set seating and the reception in the dance studio. We had a minister do the traditional Methodist ceremony - my husband's family's thing, not mine.
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Post by: Lines on 13 Oct 2012, 19:55
I would LOVE to get married at the art museum, but, uh, that's stupid expensive. We're thinking Mecklenburg Gardens (http://www.mecklenburgs.net/index.htm) (ceremony in the gardens, reception in the banquet haus), but we're not sure if it's big enough. We need to make a tenative guest list first, I think, to figure out how much space we'd need.
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Post by: Patrick on 14 Oct 2012, 03:17
I ran into a bad memory at the bar tonight, and after butting into my conversation with a close friend, said friend and I humored her for a bit (barely; I blew off just about every question she asked me with a "whatever, why do you care about that?") and then left the table. For the next 2 hours I had to put up with her following me around the bar trying to talk to me, saying how she's moving 1000+ miles away for grad school soon (thanks for telling me that I will never run into you, actually, that's actually pretty comforting) and saying that she misses our friendship. I don't, and I told her so straight up.

You don't just treat a person like shit and abandon them during one of the roughest patches in their life, then come up and make like no apologies are necessary and try to pick up where your friendship died. It wasn't just 'left off', it is outright dead, and I explicitly do not care to see it revived. Go to school and do whatever it is that you're going to do with your life, and don't tell me about it, and I won't tell you what I'm doing with mine, and leave it at that so I don't hurt your feelings with honesty.
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Post by: jwhouk on 14 Oct 2012, 05:59
"I'm sorry, Vitriolic Open Letters is three threads down. This is abuse."
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 14 Oct 2012, 10:44
I know it doesn't really sound all that important, but I just cleared out my friends list on facebook.
There was some really old shit on there. Plus me and my life is changing too fast for me to worry about the past and the meaningless memories associated with it. I'm dumping all the junk from my past and moving on.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Oct 2012, 13:26
A girl I have never in my life spoken to and only know very slightly by sight and have not seen in five years keeps trying to add me on Facebook. I keep rejecting the request, because I only add people who I actually know and can imagine myself having even a five second conversation with if I saw them in the street. She doesn't meet that threshold. I feel like it'd be unkind to actually block her, but I am not going to add her - I'd just end up removing her again a few weeks later in a cull of people I no longer talk to.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Oct 2012, 02:12
Today was Troubador practice day, and we had a great session and tightened up a new song that we knew would be kick-ass once we tightened it up. Very proud of what we accomplished today and I can't wait to play the new jam at our next show.

I have nothing new to say about Bad Memory Girl except that we're not mad at each other and that I don't ever have to hear from her again. We discussed it, I laid out my point of view in a polite and articulate way, and now we've reached the conclusion that we are both just unlikely to forgive each other, and that doing so wouldn't exactly accomplish much anyway except maybe give us a point of closure made moot by her upcoming move a long ways away.

Today was awesome and now I'm probably going to fall asleep playing singleplayer Minecraft.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 15 Oct 2012, 05:51
A girl I have never in my life spoken to and only know very slightly by sight and have not seen in five years keeps trying to add me on Facebook. I keep rejecting the request, because I only add people who I actually know and can imagine myself having even a five second conversation with if I saw them in the street. She doesn't meet that threshold. I feel like it'd be unkind to actually block her, but I am not going to add her - I'd just end up removing her again a few weeks later in a cull of people I no longer talk to.

Does she have a really large number of friends? I know people who add everyone who comes up into their Recommended list and I've had people I've rejected show up in that list multiple times. I would advise just ignoring rather than rejecting to leave the request in limbo so she can't send another.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 15 Oct 2012, 05:58
It's the middle of October...
Wehn the fuck did this happen? Oh right homecoming
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Oct 2012, 06:30
Welu, I hate unresolved friend requests!  :roll: I know that's silly. If she tries again I'll just actually block her from requesting - if you say you don't know them outside facebook then they can't request again and it looks like it's just pending.

I have successfully organised a weekend at my mum's next month! We have the day off from choir, and I managed to plan a journey which gave me a reasonable amount of time there but didn't cost a fortune. It involves missing two lectures on Monday, but I can just get the handouts and work through them on the train. It'll be nice to have time to get away (it's during the week everyone says is the worst during the term, week five of eight) and I haven't seen much of my mum this year. I'm glad it's sorted.

My Saturdays are almost all planned to have something interesting in them every week until Christmas. Yay for weekends! I don't really have time to take the weekend off from studying, but I'm doing it anyway.
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Post by: CardinalFang on 15 Oct 2012, 10:07
I would LOVE to get married at the art museum, but, uh, that's stupid expensive. We're thinking Mecklenburg Gardens (http://www.mecklenburgs.net/index.htm) (ceremony in the gardens, reception in the banquet haus), but we're not sure if it's big enough. We need to make a tenative guest list first, I think, to figure out how much space we'd need.

What? You aren't getting married at GenCon?  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 15 Oct 2012, 15:09
My old tutor got married at a music festival. Her friends told her she had to wear a white dress. At a very wet and cold outdoor festival.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 15 Oct 2012, 18:20
What? You aren't getting married at GenCon?  :psyduck:

....Can you do that?
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Post by: Akima on 15 Oct 2012, 19:21
"I'm sorry, Vitriolic Open Letters is three threads down. This is abuse."
Do you want the five-minute abuse, or the full half-hour?
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Post by: CardinalFang on 16 Oct 2012, 05:30
What? You aren't getting married at GenCon?  :psyduck:

....Can you do that?
Don't see why you wouldn't be able to.
A quick google search turned up this from some people who got married there.
http://www.myth-weavers.com/showthread.php?t=40274
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Post by: Edith on 16 Oct 2012, 13:33
That Mecklenburg Gardens place looks awesome. Is there an outdoors auxiliary option if the banquet haus is too small? GenCon won't be too small, but it might be nightmarish to try to get hotel rooms. You'd have to require your guests to get badges in January in order to reserve rooms... Maybe you should HONEYMOON at GenCon. :D
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Post by: Lines on 16 Oct 2012, 14:25
We're probably going to GenCon anyways! But I don't want to make people go to Indy on one of the most crowded weekends ever, especially since all of Michael's family will be coming from out of town and all of my family is in Cincy.

Mecklenburg's is just a special place for us... We're just not sure how large or small of a wedding we want yet. I think we're going to be making a guest list before we decide anything, but even if we can't have the wedding there, we might have them cater. We'll see!
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Post by: Omega Entity on 16 Oct 2012, 20:44
I do jewelry and beading, especially with sterling silver, freshwater pearls, and Swarovski crystal. I actually did the jewelry for most of my friend's bridal party, including the bride and her mother. Some examples, though the photos kinda suck:

(http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee282/omega_entity/DSC00517.jpg)

(http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee282/omega_entity/DSC00516.jpg)

(http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee282/omega_entity/DSC00515.jpg)

The orange pearls in the last one were actually more of a pink, but the camera did funny things to it. That last one, in another variation, was done entirely in silver and Swarovski crystals for the bride, and was absolutely gorgeous! It was also one that my friend found online that I wads able to imitate and customize to her liking. As long as it doesn't require seed beads, or doesn't have casted settings, I can usually do it, and I even do chainmail as well. It's also often much cheaper than finding it pre-assembled, and with the benefit of having pretty much full control over materials and colors! If you want, I'm up for doing some for you. I pretty much charge the material costs, plus a bit of labor on top  :-)
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Post by: Lines on 16 Oct 2012, 20:50
Oh wow, thank you! I will definitely keep you in mind when I start thinking about jewelry/bridal party gifts. :-) I really like the last one, btw, I'm a sucker for pearls.
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Oct 2012, 20:56
Stephen and I just sat down like mature adults and created a monthly budget for ourselves.  We used mint.com.  This is the first time in our 7+ years of sharing income that we have ever done this in a real detailed way.  Previous budgets were bills only and derailed when we were spending too much money shopping.  This is bills plus clothing, entertainment and discretionary spending for each of us... everything we could think of that we spend money on.  We will need a few months to make sure our estimate are accurate but I think this will help us live on our sporadic income better and also prepare us to make a realistic budget when I (hopefully) find a job next summer and start paying off loans.  I am hoping this will help us not ramp up our spending to match our new income as frequently happens, but instead pay off the loans quicker.

Mint will pull info from your accounts to check balances and notify you of upcoming payments and you can look at everything on one screen.  It also gives you your "net worth".  That is truly depressing for us.  Because of my student loans, we are worth $-111,000.  uggh.  It is going to be good to be able to see that number change as we pay it off though. 
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Post by: Edith on 16 Oct 2012, 21:00
Take a look at eebacanhelp.com if you have smartphones, too. It really helped me stick to my budget, which I had trouble doing with mint, mainly because my bank didn't want to party with mint...Stupid my bank!
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Post by: Omega Entity on 16 Oct 2012, 21:04
Oh wow, thank you! I will definitely keep you in mind when I start thinking about jewelry/bridal party gifts. :-) I really like the last one, btw, I'm a sucker for pearls.

Haha, me too, though admittedly not until I actually started working with them. I have quite a few stocked up, too, so I might not even need to purchase additional. Keep an eye out for styles of necklaces you like, and send me links to them - I can tell you whether it's something I can do or not  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 16 Oct 2012, 21:08
Take a look at eebacanhelp.com if you have smartphones, too. It really helped me stick to my budget, which I had trouble doing with mint, mainly because my bank didn't want to party with mint...Stupid my bank!

We'll check it out.  our current bank is Mint compatable as are our credit cards and my student loans. Also mint has an app for Android and Ios now.
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Post by: Lines on 16 Oct 2012, 21:15
Michael uses mint and seems to like it. I think his only complaint was it didn't link up with his stocks, but that doesn't seem to be much of a problem for him anyways.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Oct 2012, 00:37
...I don't want to make people go to Indy on one of the most crowded weekends ever...

Saturday, May 24th, 1986; Laura and I got married in West Lafayette, IN, roughly an hour north of Indy. 

It wasn't until we tried getting hotel rooms for her family from St. Louis and my family from Buffalo that we realized Sunday, May 25th was the Indy 500.  Every room within a hundred miles of Indianapolis was booked for that weekend roughly a year ahead of time...

We found a place, but it was close! 
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Oct 2012, 05:05
(http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee282/omega_entity/DSC00515.jpg)
Oh my gosh I love this one.

Also is that just someone's knee covered with blue micro suede?
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Post by: CardinalFang on 17 Oct 2012, 06:23
That Mecklenburg Gardens place looks awesome. Is there an outdoors auxiliary option if the banquet haus is too small? GenCon won't be too small, but it might be nightmarish to try to get hotel rooms. You'd have to require your guests to get badges in January in order to reserve rooms... Maybe you should HONEYMOON at GenCon. :D

This is a much better idea. I was just trying to make it so that I could be reasonably sure I would be at the wedding.  :-D
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 17 Oct 2012, 11:14
(http://i235.photobucket.com/albums/ee282/omega_entity/DSC00515.jpg)
Oh my gosh I love this one.

Also is that just someone's knee covered with blue micro suede?

Yes, actually! It would be my own knee, since I didn't have a decent area to take pictures at  :psyduck:
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 18 Oct 2012, 07:36
Ha! OE, that is brilliant. Beautiful work, by the way!


Stephen and I just sat down like mature adults and created a monthly budget for ourselves.  We used mint.com.

Good for you!! I used mint for a while when I was trying to get my out-of-control spending under control. It really helped me see where I was wasting money without even realizing it. It was kind of horrifying to see months where I'd spend upwards of $100 just on going out to lunch while I was at work. I've brought lunch almost every day since then- maybe going out once or twice a month. I know it can be stressful to see the net worth thing, mine is still wayyyyyy in the negative too. I don't use it as much nowadays but that's mainly because it was so helpful to see back then what was happening and I eventually opened my eyes to the big money wasters. I especially liked the goal setting option- it helped me pay off 3 credit cards. Another nice financial/grownuppy site that I love? Creditkarma.com. My credit score was in the toilet from those stupid cards and it's gone up over 100 points since I started monitoring it!
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Post by: Welu on 18 Oct 2012, 08:29
Tripped on some stairs and sprained my ankle. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Oct 2012, 08:44
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Post by: Edith on 18 Oct 2012, 11:55
I have another phone interview tomorrow for the same job. I hope they either offer it or turn me down quickly, so I can either start packing or get back to work. I'm getting very little done around here!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 18 Oct 2012, 12:19
So you've made a decision then?
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Post by: Edith on 18 Oct 2012, 13:32
Not completely. I mean, I haven't ever even been to Omaha! But I priced trucks today just in case. I really do like the sound of the job, and while apartments downtown are crazy-expensive, there's a lot of adorable housing, too. The job seems pretty great.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 18 Oct 2012, 14:05
I just signed up for mint. Apparently my net worth is $-168.

That's actually really heartening. I was worried I was going to be several thousand dollars in the hole at least. Turns out I can fuck over my life WAY more than I thought I could!
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 18 Oct 2012, 19:16
I just signed up too. I was super shocked when I saw a 6 digit net worth but then I realized most of that is based on our house. When you take that out of consideration it's $356 which is actually better than I expected. I want to see if I can get my husband's stuff on here. Maybe then he'd believe me that I spend my money on groceries while he spends his on toys.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Oct 2012, 05:42
I'm so excited about Christmas - I have found all kinds of things to do! I'm considering trying to go to the Nine Lessons and Carols service at King's, but it suggests starting queueing at 8am for the service which is at 3pm and it is distinctly possible that Jens will not want to do that.
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Post by: valley_parade on 21 Oct 2012, 10:11
Go to halloween party. Find that the baseball mitt for my costume makes an excellent beer can holder. Maybe too good. Drink far too many tallboys. Some shots agave.

Start chatting up a girl at the party. No clue what she was dressed as, but it was in all white. As there were other girls there dressed as Power Rangers, my friends started referring to her as "White Ranger".

Start hopping between the party and the bar down the street, where a bunch of my other friends are. Drink a pitcher. Go back to the party. Talk to White Ranger some more. Tell her I find her ridiculously cute. She has a boyfrann.  :psyduck:

Continue bouncing back and forth between bar and party. Have managed to run out of beer. Suck at beer pong. Roommate has my change of clothes and my keys in his backpack. Manages to lose the backpack. Close out the first bar, head to the second bar. Roommate heads home, finds backpack in friend's car. Go to get pizza, get home just in time to find roommate throwing up in bathroom.

I was genuinely pissed for a second over the dumbest thing, the t-shirt I'd packed was printed up by my favorite record label and I got the last one of the five they'd made. Like, fuck my jeans, fuck my keys, that's my damn t-shirt! Ugh.  :psyduck:
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Oct 2012, 00:27
I had a lot of jello shots and a couple beers and then some sex last night.  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Oct 2012, 00:29
I had sex once. It was pretty tops.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 22 Oct 2012, 00:34
I had a hearing test this morning which is basically to me like forcing a paraplegic to stumble around, grabbing things to prevent the fall, tear down draperies and inevitably fall flat on their face. Did you ever take a hearing test? Did you know that the sinus tones they use to test the hearing sounds exactly like tinnitus? I feel so tragic doing that stuff it's funny. I feel so exhausted now I will probably sleep for the rest of the day.

Fuck mondays, by the way. Bwahaha.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Oct 2012, 00:36
Oh god. I had a friend whose computer emitted a high-pitched note that was perfectly in tune with my tinnitus. I couldn't hear a thing when I was at her house because that sound overrode everything else.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Oct 2012, 13:51
I am the most hearing-impaired guy at my work. People will call for me 2 or 3 times over the walkie to have me do a stock check for them, and one time my least favorite manager threatened to have me sacked for not paying attention. When she came back into the stockroom bitching and moaning at me that day, I got super offended and was like "LOOK, I've been playing drums for twelve years, loud-ass guitars for nine. When I was 13 years old I had a severe ear infection in my left ear, and my eardrum burst, and I lost a ton of my hearing then too. Now, do you have anything else you'd like to say while you're still in lip-reading range? Wouldn't want to miss it."

I take no shit.
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Post by: Papersatan on 22 Oct 2012, 15:03
I have a paper due tomorrow reviewing a reading.  We signed up for readings at the beginning of the semester based loosely on our interests, but with no chance to review the readings in question first.  This is pretty standard. 
The assignment sheet instructs us to write a two page paper which analyzes the key claims, arguments and/or findings and asses their strengths and limitations and to offer evidence from other readings if possible.  Also, standard enough. 

It seems I have drawn a short straw.  My reading is not an article, it is an online tutorial introducing the concepts of digital preservation.  It offers no argument or findings other that those widely accepted as true (e.g. digitally stored data are subject to obsolescence of data carrier type and file format, or having a preservation plan can mitigate the risk of data loss) but it offers dozens of those.  It sprawls across more than 100 pages and has some broken navigation, and just doesn't seem to fit well into they structure for analysis that the professor has laid out in the assignment. 

I'm sure I can fill two pages, no problem, it just is going to be unsatisfying for me.  What this site needs is a 5 page usability assessment. 
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Post by: idontunderstand on 22 Oct 2012, 15:17
I take no shit.

Get a hearing aid or some other kind of help instead dude. They can't help if your hearing is bad.
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Post by: nekowafer on 22 Oct 2012, 15:55
Papersatan: Maybe write that usability assessment for your own peace of mind, and turn it in? Teachers often like when students do more than strictly required.
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Post by: Omega Entity on 22 Oct 2012, 18:14
So, apparently I am a magnet for stray kittens. Was leaving for work, and saw a little black and white ball of fluff on the line on the edge of the road in front of my house. And then it moved. Oh god, oh god, it's gonna get hit! So back to my driveway I went, and retrieved the poor little bugger. Due to her grubbiness, size/age (I estimate between 5 and 8 weeks), and the fact that she smells like a repair garage, I'd say that she had a ride in someone's engine compartment before managing to escape at the two-way stop (I live on the corner of a busy road, and a not-so-busy one). She's an extremely fluffy black-and-white, so she'll be a longhair, and has a somewhat scrunched face - not ridiculously so, but enough that she has a short little nose. She's a cutie!

The kitten is fine, and Mom is taking it in to work with her tomorrow to see if the resident cat man would like to take her in - he had upwards of 40 cats at some time, and takes excellent care of all of his animals. If he or the lady in the office doesn't want her, she has an appointment with the vet on Wednesday for her FIV/Leukemia tests and initial treatment.
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Post by: Lines on 22 Oct 2012, 18:26
FLUFFY KITTY! I wish I lived near you, I'd take her...
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Post by: Omega Entity on 22 Oct 2012, 18:30
I forget, where are you at again?
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Post by: Lines on 22 Oct 2012, 18:36
Cincinnati, OH. You're in...Michigan? But she needs someone who can be around most of the day and I think my cat would get mad at me if I brought another kitten home. (He sort of...tolerated...the kitten I watched over the summer.)
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Post by: Redball on 22 Oct 2012, 19:04
I have friends, a couple in Newport MI I sing with, trying to get rid of a couple of kittens living under their house. They bug me so often about it I've started asking friends. I adore the couple, so I'd drive a cat or two on a half-day journey to a new home.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 22 Oct 2012, 19:30
There's a cat where I'm staying named Reynolds. I call him Captain but no one gets it.
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Post by: Papersatan on 22 Oct 2012, 20:39
awwwww yeah.  The paper in question is due next week not this week.  My error is because my excel sheet in by week number, and since we had off from school last Tuesday this professor didn't count last week when he was numbering the weeks.  I discovered this before staying up too late working on it.  It means I have it half done for next week, and I have time to ask him about how I should approach it.

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Post by: Lines on 22 Oct 2012, 20:43
I love it when that happens. Or more like I WOULD love it if it ever happened, but it never seems to, no matter how much I want it to...
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Post by: idontunderstand on 23 Oct 2012, 05:14
I'm going to Lisbon this thursday with the girlfriend. This was a sudden and welcome decision. WOO!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Oct 2012, 05:36
I'm hanging out in a chemistry room at a school surrounded by my paintings. Hoping to impress people with my stencil prowess ...

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-a-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/553830_10151119962838149_1940504165_n.jpg)
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 Oct 2012, 06:02
Nice! 

Training begins for the online teaching job... oh, yesterday.  Well, it's asynchronous, so I'll start today. 
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Post by: LTK on 23 Oct 2012, 07:40
Exams done. Essays done. Now I have exactly three and a half hours with no time-limited obligations on my schedule, after which it starts all over again.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 23 Oct 2012, 08:42
Well done!
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Post by: Akima on 23 Oct 2012, 16:24
There's a cat where I'm staying named Reynolds. I call him Captain but no one gets it.
If that means that Firefly is officially "over", that can only be a good thing.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Oct 2012, 16:29
I still like it (a lot), even if it's pretty fucking whitewashed.
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Post by: jwhouk on 23 Oct 2012, 16:39
Still touchy about that, hm?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 23 Oct 2012, 16:59
I think you can say it's a good show without denying the pretty blatant racism inherent in its casting/creation. Saying 'who gives a shit?' because it doesn't have bearing on your life is kind of dismissive of legitimate struggles that people face.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 23 Oct 2012, 17:17
I can certainly give a shit about the unfortunate implications of social matters involved in a TV show, book or movie while still enjoying it. To be quite frank, if someone acknowledge the rather obvious racism of Lovecraft, or the tonally inconsistent depiction of "Barney in How I Met Your Mother", or for that matter the incredible amounts of sexism in Robert Heinlein novels (despite them being rather progressive for the time) they're just simply recognizing problems with the works, not stating if they are unwatchable/readable for themselves, though you can certainly and happily declare them both.

Edit: Also to be frank, it's also perfectly acceptable to say "x is -ist" and refuse to give it your support in any way.
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Post by: Carl-E on 23 Oct 2012, 20:41
Edit: Also to be frank, it's also perfectly acceptable to say "x is -ist" and refuse to give it your support in any way.

So long as you don't rip into people who say, "yes, but it's still  good story..."
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Post by: ackblom12 on 23 Oct 2012, 21:34
I'd say it depends on whether or not they're actually acknowledging the problems within it. There is a pretty fair line that a lot of people who enjoy problematic things don't seem to comprehend, and that is not defending the problematic nature of the things they like.

The problem is common in all walks of life, but really seems to come up in nerd/geek culture a whooooole lot, especially in relation to sexist and racist tropes being used. Fantasy art, whitewashing (Firefly and Dark Knight Rises being good examples), female super heros especially. It's rarely the person who thinks it's problematic that pushes the situation into an argument in these cases.
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Post by: Patrick on 24 Oct 2012, 02:35
I take no shit.

Get a hearing aid or some other kind of help instead dude. They can't help if your hearing is bad.

It ain't the "catching shit for being hard of hearing" that bugs me, I catch that from friends and bandmates all the time. It's the "assuming I'm ignoring them and them threatening to sack me from my job for a condition I can't afford to treat without health insurance/income" that pisses me right off. Especially since every single other person in the store has been nothing but wonderful to me, even on days I've screwed something up and made things that much harder for everyone.

This is just one item on a laundry list of reasons I hate this manager anyway, and I am well past the point of putting things gently. I've already made formal complaints about her, once for impeding my workflow with a bunch of arbitrary bullshit, twice for speaking to me disrespectfully in front of a customer. She's never given me the benefit of the doubt in the whole two months I've spent kissing the asses of her and every other one of the people I work with, and frankly I'm tired of biting my tongue til it bleeds just trying not to yell at her outright.

I will do my job, and I'll do as much as I can of what is asked of me. But when somebody threatens me for no legitimate reason, I absolutely will not put up with that shit. Taking your advice, I've brought it up with my store manager that we need to have another talk about this horrible person making things personal.
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Post by: Carl-E on 24 Oct 2012, 09:32
Let's all hope she gets promoted to general manager....



....of a different store. 
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Post by: idontunderstand on 24 Oct 2012, 11:02
Oh ok, well hope she falls into a tiger pit then!

Edit: Tomorrow I'm off to Portugal! Jag ska dansa med vindarna och sjunga valsång med Lissabonjäntorna. See ya in a week.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 24 Oct 2012, 12:02
idontunderstand
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Post by: snalin on 24 Oct 2012, 15:14
"I'll dance with the winds and sing whale songs with the Lisbon girls"

Swedes...
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Post by: Omega Entity on 24 Oct 2012, 16:51
Portugal is a fantastic place - I went there with my friend and sister about ten years ago. Lots to see and do, especially if you like old forts and the like. The people are also extremely friendly. I did get the impression in many of the small family-owned shops, it's pretty well expected of you to haggle over prices - one older gentleman in an second-hand shop seemed disappointed when I asked how much some small ceramics were and tried to pay him the price he stated.

If you get a chance, Porto is a fantastic hillside city, and I found the food is much better there than in Lisbon. And oh god, the food! We ate custard pastries every morning for breakfast while we were there, and amazingly nothing upset my stomach, which is an accomplishment in and of itself; my stomach is extremely finicky.
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Post by: Lupercal on 25 Oct 2012, 14:08
I think you can say it's a good show without denying the pretty blatant racism inherent in its casting/creation. Saying 'who gives a shit?' because it doesn't have bearing on your life is kind of dismissive of legitimate struggles that people face.

Its got women and a black guy in it jeez

In all seriousness, please divulge. As a fan of the show, and of all this crap behind TV/Movies in general, I'd like to explore this viewpoint. I don't know if this is the right place to do it but you know.
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Post by: Lines on 25 Oct 2012, 14:47
Mostly what I see from casting is the lack of diversity? I mean, Inara is Brazilian, Zoe is black, Book is black, and everybody else is white. Various other characters in the show are predominantly white and then sometimes black, but rarely do you see Asians, Hispanics, or other people groups. And really, if the universe is so blended (as seen through language) there would be FAR less white people.

But honestly I see more of a problem with the language than I do casting. Using bad Chinese to swear is racist. 1) They should have gotten the language right and 2) it shouldn't have been just to swear, it should have been incorporated more fully (which is understandable, English and Chinese [Mandarin?] are the two most widely used languages) or not at all. Sci-fi often involves the blending of languages, they could have done so much better with that.
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Post by: valley_parade on 26 Oct 2012, 00:21
Oh sup blawg thredd. I've got a date this weekend.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Oct 2012, 01:07
I went to a bar tonight and they were playing Kyuss loudly there.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 26 Oct 2012, 03:03
Two bacteria walk into a bar. The bartender says, "We don't serve bacteria here." And the bacteria says, "But we work here. We're staph."


I had nowhere else to place this joke, sorry. I just read it in a status update. Which is slightly bloggy, so there.
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Post by: VonKleist on 26 Oct 2012, 04:18
Hmpf, I was gonna go out.. I wanted to go out last weekend but my buddies went on friday and I work saturdays at the moment so I couldn't go. Now there´s an aquaintances birthday party but she moved it from saturday to friday so I can't really go either.. I could go but I have to get up at 6pm. Tomorrow my sister and a friend are selling stuff at a night-flea market with live music and stuff so maybe I´ll go there. But with no one to go with it´ll be stupid too.
Ugh, all I wann do is complain and whine :-\

Also why don't they make Vans Authentics from slightly thicker canvas so I can wear them when it´s really cold?
Yes, I know there are the leather ones but I want canvas.

Also: stay away from the train tracks on weekday nights, people. If you are going to commit suicide or be very very stupid, do it somewhere else without inconveniencing hundreds of people. I had to take a cab and I won't get my money back.
Being stuck in some provincial ghost-town is not how I imagined my thursday night.
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 26 Oct 2012, 06:13
So this weekend should be pretty awesome, big event on saturday night.

And the, first official band practice on Sunday

That's right guys I formed a band. Speaking of that I need to find a place to practice.
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Post by: Lines on 26 Oct 2012, 06:58
Oh sup blawg thredd. I've got a date this weekend.

WOO! Let us know how it goes!
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Oct 2012, 09:15
But honestly I see more of a problem with the language than I do casting. Using bad Chinese to swear is racist. 1) They should have gotten the language right and 2) it shouldn't have been just to swear, it should have been incorporated more fully (which is understandable, English and Chinese [Mandarin?] are the two most widely used languages) or not at all. Sci-fi often involves the blending of languages, they could have done so much better with that.

I can't actually think of anybody I know here in California who fluently speaks a language other than English (I can think of two exceptions: Hispanic folks and me, and I've already lost German and am rapidly losing Albanian)
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Post by: Lines on 26 Oct 2012, 09:41
I know several people who are fluent in Mandarin and half of them are white and I have known a few people who were fluent in Spanish. But there's an entire world out there and plenty of people who speak a language that isn't English. And honestly I think outside of the United States, people are more prone to learn a second language because either they live in close proximity to other countries (think Europe) or learn multiple versions of languages native to their country (like the various types of Chinese).

I mean, we've talked about the language thing in other threads. Most Americans expect people who live in our country to know English, while we make television shows that are trying to blend cultures and don't bother to respect the other cultures while they're doing it. It's lazy. I actually quite enjoy Firefly because of the story and the relationships within the main cast, various aspects of the show still bother me.

Edit: Also if they wanted to just get away with swearing on TV, they could have done something like BSG and just made a word up. Frak is made up, but we know what it means when used in context!



Sorry for this giant block of not-blog text!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 26 Oct 2012, 10:26
I think also if popular TV shows had characters who used several languages without a cliche reason ("oh of course she speaks Spanish, her mother was Mexican" or whatever), just because they knew other languages, people might be more inclined to learn them. Look at how many people learn Japanese because they like Anime, or how many kids learn Spanish from Dora the Explorer.


Blog thread, I have had dinner with people from the choir four times this week and it has been fun! And my tutees are going away for half term next week so I get the week off from tutoring! I don't get any money, but I do get two evenings to myself.
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Post by: jwhouk on 26 Oct 2012, 10:59
Today is going to be Angry Productivity day around the world.

Why?

Because TUMBLR IS DOWN.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Oct 2012, 15:43
First concert I sing in with the chorale is Sunday evening.  I'm so excited!  Borrowed the required tux from the community theatre's costume department. 

The tickets are fifteen bucks, so no one from my family will be there - we can't afford it. 





At least they're feeding us between dress rehearsal and the concert. 
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Post by: Redball on 26 Oct 2012, 16:48
What's on the program?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Oct 2012, 17:01
I've been cleaning up the place I'm staying at. The people who lived here were hoarders, and the people who live here now just never cleaned up (one of them is the son of the people who lived here; he's...kind of a hoarder, too).

Anyways, I don't think they understand what OCD means exactly. I'm putting books and CDs in alphabetical order and they keep saying "You don't have to do that" to me.

Yes.

Yes, I do.
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Post by: Carl-E on 26 Oct 2012, 17:49
What's on the program?

These (http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDFC1B93FF526664E).  The director sent us this list at the beginning of the rehearsals - it speeds the process a bit. 

"Walk Together Children" (the one listed as "Penn State names new Laureate") is the processional, and we're performing it and two other pieces (the Ave Maria and Beautiful City) with that group, Essence of Joy.  They'll be doing a few other pieces on their own, as will we. 

Our director, Jeff Webb, arranged "Beautiful City" and the version of "Sometimes I Feel Like a Motherless Child" that the women are doing (not in the videos)

I love spirituals.  Which is ironic, not so much because I'm white, but because I'm not a christian.   :-\   



I actually sang with Mary Lou Williams (OK, my high school choir did) back in '78
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Oct 2012, 18:23
Last night my buddy Greg stayed over (he's moving to NZ soon and I am really gonna miss that fucker) and we engaged in some "gettin' fucked up" shenanigans and this morning we still hadn't gone to sleep so we spent an hour talking about how weird all people are, ourselves included. It's nice having a good shittalking session with yr bro.
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Post by: Redball on 26 Oct 2012, 18:30
The director sent us this list at the beginning of the rehearsals - it speeds the process a bit. 
My mostly white Detroit choir did a performance of spirituals in a mostly black downtown church back in the 80s. We did it well, and it was thrilling.

My role with my little Christmas gig group is preparation of a rehearsal CD, and this year I found a couple on Youtube. Not the best source, but all I could find.

I checked out your list: The Walk Together Children is a delight, and i love the harmony in the 23rd Psalm. Echoing the best personal review I ever received, from my wife after a 2007 performance of Carmina Burana, may your face be out of the book and may it be beaming!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2012, 01:55
We're singing at a wedding in a couple of weeks (and then inexplicably going to the beach for fish and chips... in late November... because our director has a peculiar idea of fun!) and we just got the music list unofficially via the choir librarian, who is a student.

I was Glad
Love divine (hymn + descant)
Willan Rise up
Jerusalem
Howells Behold
Monteverdi Cantate
All you need is love
Halleluia chorus.

It will be ridiculously cheesy. It will be magnificent. It will be the longest wedding ever.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2012, 02:21
Double post because it's a completely different issue - I am going to a winter ball with my choir (if and when I have enough money to buy the ticket!) and I have my eye on a dress from eBay (http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Convertible-Cap-Sleeve-V-Neck-Gemstones-Ruffle-Evening-Dresses-L-Blue-/160906762341?_trksid=p5197.m1992&_trkparms=aid%3D111000%26algo%3DREC.CURRENT%26ao%3D1%26asc%3D14%26meid%3D3033232090443609806%26pid%3D100015%26prg%3D1006%26rk%3D1%26sd%3D160906762341%26) and it is the most beautiful dress ever and I will look like a princess.

(http://img.auctiva.com/imgdata/4/7/4/5/1/1/webimg/616558223_o.jpg)

Only two days until the end of the auction! In case you're wondering why I haven't bid, I have a hammersnipe set up and I'm keeping an eye on it - if someone else bids in the next two days I'll make sure my snipe bid is high enough. I want that dress! Even if the shipping will cost almost as much as the dress itself, it is still far cheaper than getting one anywhere else.

And I have a science question - a friend was telling me about a process whereby molecules are tagged with DNA which acts as a sort of lock and key mechanism, so that the scientists can control which molecules go where. It sounded really interesting, but he didn't know the name of the process or what it might be useful for. Does anyone know?
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Post by: Patrick on 27 Oct 2012, 02:24
i am drunk, and i sincerely wish i had any idea how to call in sick to work tomorrow to play a show in SF without being an obvious liar

i guess thats why I'm watiing til morning to do it

goodbye drunk blag
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Post by: Redball on 27 Oct 2012, 06:45
It will be ridiculously cheesy. It will be magnificent. It will be the longest wedding ever.

I downloaded the Trinity College version of Rise Up. Will you do the entire Handel chorus, and at the "pronounce you husband and wife" or as a recessional? Twelfth Night Singers has done an abbreviated version that works well at the kiss. And if it's the longest wedding ever, is it the wedding of a couple of choristers?
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Post by: Welu on 27 Oct 2012, 06:47
I love spirituals.  Which is ironic, not so much because I'm white, but because I'm not a christian.   :-\   

I'm the same. Grew up with Christian music, especially in secondary school. Most was crap but some of them have stuck with me more for the nostalgia of practising them in class and one solo I did in a church.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2012, 07:38
I'm not sure whether we'll do all of the Chorus, or when - but you are absolutely right, I think they are former choristers!

Please take particular note of the Beatles song we will be singing. I find it pretty hilarious.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 27 Oct 2012, 08:26
Well, there's nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 27 Oct 2012, 08:50
My boyfriend got a formal grievance filed against him in work and they seem to be taking a "Guilty Until Proven Innocent" approach about it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Oct 2012, 09:22
What does he do?  I know in school systems, they have to take that approach, for the safety of the students...

The Rubber Room (http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2009/08/31/090831fa_fact_brill)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 27 Oct 2012, 10:09
Shop assistant. It's based around "social media" so I'm a bit paranoid about saying much even though there's no reason anything I say, under my internet name, on a somewhat obscure forum, should come back to him but better safe I guess. I understand the need to be strict but I'm also obviously biased.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 27 Oct 2012, 10:21
Carl, I am staggered by that article. This might be the first time I have ever understood why people could be opposed to the concept of a union. What the actual fuck are they doing paying teachers to do nothing at all?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 27 Oct 2012, 11:58
i am drunk, and i sincerely wish i had any idea how to call in sick to work tomorrow to play a show in SF without being an obvious liar

Didn't have to worry about it. Got a call an hour ago saying "Hey dude, want the day off?" and I was like "YEAAAAH!"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Oct 2012, 12:11
Carl, I am staggered by that article. This might be the first time I have ever understood why people could be opposed to the concept of a union. What the actual fuck are they doing paying teachers to do nothing at all?

It's sometimes not only the teacher's unions, either. I've heard some pretty crazy stories regarding GM/automotive unions, as well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 27 Oct 2012, 13:04
This post is long and bloggy and unrelated to weddings.

So I have been seeing a counselor about my ADHD all semester.  Talking about strategies for over coming it and working with my brain.  This has been helpful, but only to a point.  She asked me at the beginning of the process how I felt about medication (which she would have to refer me to someone to be screened for and is a process) and I said I wasn't convinced I wanted it.  I got this far without it and I am leary of becoming dependent on a medication in lieu of changing my own behaviors.  Stephen was on adderall for a while, and we have access to it, even though we are uninsured.  He stopped taking it because he was having a bad reaction, and it has just been sitting here. 

This week I started taking it.  Oh. My. God. I am not sure I can accurately explain the difference it makes.  This has been a historically productive week for me.  I went to all of my classes.  I paid attention in them.  I participated in a group meeting, and remembered what we talked about.  I completed two 1,000 word essays and feel good about how I did on them.  I made a Halloween costume.  I did all of this and I got a full night's sleep every night (except for the one where I went to a party).  Also I didn't have to cut myself off from the internet or avoid watching any TV.  I made a number of massive posts here, and watched a few TV shows. Doing these things over 4 days should not be impressive, but for me it is unheard of.  That Ursala skirt is the first sewing project I have managed to finish in years. 

That said, I don't feel like my productivity is due to increased energy.  Like I said, I was not saying up late or anything, I was actually going to bed exhausted at the end of the day, but exhausted because I did things, not because I was tired of facing the world because everything was too difficult to do.

I describe my mind as a series of channels, like on a mixing board.  Each channel is devoted to something different, a song in my head, my to do list, the paper I am trying to read, the outline of the paper I am writing about the one I am reading, what is the internet doing? and so on.  I see myself as having 5-7 channels on at all times, and I usually have a lot of trouble controlling which ones are loudest, so I flip between them.  When I get distracted I have a very hard time telling myself to change back to the important channel.  This means things that take prolonged concentration are hopeless for me. I always fail at sewing because when I re-start a project I can't concentrate long enough to figure out what I was doing and what I need to do next.  When I do homework I have a lot of trouble just doing homework. 

I have a few ways I cope with this.  First I spend a lot of time prepping myself to do things.  I need a lot of 'ready, set...' before I can 'go'.  If I am going to write a paper I spend a lot of time talking it though in my head while driving or walking or showering, or some other activity that quietly uses a bunch of channels, before I can sit in front of the computer and make it my primary focus.  Once I am there I try and occupy my other channels.  One way I do this that is problematic is I eat.  If I am snacking that keeps part of my brain quietly busy so I am not distracted.  I also find that if I feel panic I can devote more channels to the task at hand.  They might not all be doing the same thing; I will hop from one source essay to the next typing part of one body paragraph and the racing off to find a citation for the fact two paragraphs earlier, but they will at least be related to the paper.  Most of my writing is done at the last minute in an almost manic state where I am alone, with non distracting music on eating, and frantically pulling things together.  It gets things done, but it leaves me exhausted and unable to edit my work.  I don't think I have reviewed or rewritten a paper in years.  This means they are never my best possible work. 

On the adderall I feel like there might be fewer channels, but more importantly than that I feel like I can control which ones are loudest.  So when I am writing and I suddenly want to go see if anyone has answered my post yet, I can tell myself no, and check it later.  I seemed to still be doing two things at once, but only two.  And when I needed to switch I could just say "stop, go back to work". 

I am still not entirely convinced that it works and is not just some placebo effect kicking my ass into gear so I have arranged to do a double blind study on myself comparing it to a caffeine pill, with Stephen's help.  But until we do that, I am just going to enjoy my ability to be productive and enjoy this hopeful feeling.

To graduate on time I need to take a full load of classes (4) next semester AND have an internship.  I have never even successfully taken 4 classes at a time.  In community college I always dropped one of them, in undergrad I always "pass/failed" one (meaning I only had to get a c+ and no grade appeared on my transcript and I always got a c+/b-) and last year in grad school I took 3 classes first semester and withdrew from one of my 4 second semester.  I have also never been able to work anything more than 8 hours a week at more than the most menial of jobs while taking three classes, or I just fall apart.  My last semester of undergrad I had 2 graded classes, one p/f and one paper to write and I worked 10 hours a week at a call center.  I just passed the p/f, I got a b- in one of the graded classes and I turned my thesis in one week late with no edits and no input from my adviser. 

If adderall is really helping me like I think it is, I feel like I could actually take 4 classes and do an internship, you know, like most of my cohort have been doing for 3 semesters now without a problem. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Oct 2012, 16:25
You GO, girl!  Be careful with the caffeine, though - you may want to use truly inert pills.  If you're really ADHD, caffeine can have some unpredictable results. 

(one source of inert pills are the "week off" pills in birth control.  They're pretty much just cornstarch.)

Carl, I am staggered by that article. This might be the first time I have ever understood why people could be opposed to the concept of a union. What the actual fuck are they doing paying teachers to do nothing at all?

These teachers have been accused of wrongdoing, and have the right to an appeal.  IN the meantime, if they're guilty, they can't be teaching; but if they're innocent, they're entitled to the salary they would have been earning.  The real crime here is that it takes 2 to five years to get a hearing in these cases. 

And the rubber room's not the union's idea, it was set up by the city to make the teachers give up.  You study prisons - don't tell me you missed the similarities? 

However, you're right in that it's a thoroughly broken system!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Oct 2012, 17:13
What I also got from that article, though, is that the union hasn't done what it should in ensuring that those in that union are doing a satisfactory job, which seems like that's important when it comes to being responsible for educating people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Oct 2012, 19:18
If you want to be even more depressed about public schooling, watch Waiting for Superman. It talks about teacher unions, but also talks about shuffling bad teachers around from school to school. Most of it is about charter schools, but some of the other issues they talk about are very enlightening, and not in a good way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 27 Oct 2012, 19:47
My wife started teaching in Detroit in 1963, two years before Michigan law permitted collective bargaining by public employees. She defended her union as necessary to protect teachers from bad, stupid administrators. She told hair-raising stories about bad, stupid administrators, but also about bad, stupid teachers. Unions have gone overboard to protect the worst of their members in many professions and trades. On the other hand, I think they've also done much to create a middle class in the U.S.

Full disclosure: My newsroom was unionized from 1971 on, and my little pension comes from my union, not from my newspaper. And I once, with no official portfolio, no position as union steward, tried diplomatically, speaking in a kind of parable, to convince a resentful, distrusting editor that the union would probably roll over if he fired an obviously incompetent reporter. He did, eventually, and the union rolled over.
tl,dr
And there's another story:
The reporter made some egregious fuckups. On Memorial Day, 1975, he covered the suburban Detroit holiday observances, including one in a town at which the new congressman (and governor-to-be) recited the Gettysburg Address. The reporter returned to the office and wrote the story, paraphrasing the Address and attributing it to the congressman. Next day, the managing editor, normally pretty good at his job, left the attributed paraphrase intact.
A few days later, the congressman told us later, he and aides were chuckling in D.C. at our article when a Capitol Hill newspaper reporter happened by. The newspaper wrote about it. Rolling Stone picked up the story, followed by the Washington Post, the LA Tribune and the Chicago Tribune.
One of them called our managing editor for comment. He was heard to say, "Well, you know what journalism schools are turning out these days."
For five years running after that, the newsroom staff held a Dubious Achievement Awards banquet, a potluck at which everyone in the newsroom got an award for something dumb in the preceding year. But our maximum award was given to the person, usually in management, who'd done the most to bring the newspaper into public disrepute. It was named for the hapless reporter, who by that time was no longer employed there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 27 Oct 2012, 19:58
I don't really have to say anything about my situation, especially if you remember anything about what happened in February of 2011. Just Google "Wisconsin Act 10 State Employees".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Oct 2012, 20:21
If you want to be even more depressed about public schooling, watch Waiting for Superman. It talks about teacher unions, but also talks about shuffling bad teachers around from school to school. Most of it is about charter schools, but some of the other issues they talk about are very enlightening, and not in a good way.

We had at least two of those bad teachers shuffled around, one of which had a relationship with (and later married) one of his 14-year-old students, and the other was shifted from one high school to the other, most likely due to allegations from female students. It was a well-known rumor (fact?) that if you were female, sat in the front, and wore short skirts, you would have no trouble passing his class. And his name was Mr. Herfert, AKA Mr. Herfert the Pervert.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 27 Oct 2012, 21:30
Completely off topic - Redball, I coulda sworn I saw you in one of those Jennie-O Switch To Turkey ads.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 27 Oct 2012, 21:31
@ Omega: That's disgusting.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 27 Oct 2012, 21:43
Agreed. I had Mr. Holmes (the first one) for 7th grade Health, but I never had the displeasure of having the (other) pervert for any of my science classes.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Oct 2012, 01:58
^^ Ugh. And I thought I was a shitty person for having a secret crush on a 17yo who plays regularly at my coffee shop open mic. In my defense, at very least I'm not an employee of a government institution that has legal authority over her (but that still doesn't make me feel any better about it).

Speaking of things that are never going to happen, some homeless-looking stranger tried to sell me weed outside the venue at my show in SF tonight.

Show sucked, by the way. The place was completely packed for the Giants game (the bands all waited til afterward to play), and then the whole crowd went home once Romo laid down the final smackdown of the game. We did manage to bring in a couple people from off the street, which was pretty encouraging. And the staff all liked us a lot, we had a good time giving each other shit back and forth during our set. Playing was fun, but overall, the night was a drag once the game was over.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 28 Oct 2012, 03:29
From my limited understanding of the European version of Unions, American Unions are an entirely different beasts in many important ways. They've essentially become a very very necessary but also regularly problematic aspect of the American work force.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Oct 2012, 05:27
^^ Ugh. And I thought I was a shitty person for having a secret crush on a 17yo who plays regularly at my coffee shop open mic.

She's seventeen - at least in Britain, that means she is over the age of consent. She's probably only a few months off being fully adult under all definitions. I don't think the situation is comparable at all.

That reminds me that I keep forgetting to ask: what is the age of consent in the US? I guess it varies by state but in general? Is it 18?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 28 Oct 2012, 05:35
16 - 18 is the state range, but I actually think the average veers a bit closer to 16 - 17 than 18.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Oct 2012, 05:38
In that case I don't see any problem at all with being attracted to a 17 year old. A 7 year old? Different matter.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Oct 2012, 06:00
Here in California, it's 18. Granted, her birthday's just a couple weeks after mine (we're both January) so it's not the worst thing in the world. And she's one of my best friends, her parents don't think I'm some kind of weirdo (yeah, I've met them both, I couldn't get out of it), she and I get along brilliantly, etc.

I just don't want to go to prison for 20 years and get gang-raped by roid raged dudes every day, call me paranoid
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Oct 2012, 06:06
I think you might be ... overestimating the cruelty of the judicial system in the US a bit.

But you could earn a spot on a sex offenders list! So, yay!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 28 Oct 2012, 06:25
I have to ask, Patrick, why would you care what her parents think of you rather than firstly what she thinks of you?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 28 Oct 2012, 06:28
Completely off topic - Redball, I coulda sworn I saw you in one of those Jennie-O Switch To Turkey ads.
Not that I know of. Should I look for it among the Youtube entries to see if it might be me?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 28 Oct 2012, 06:42
It's the one where they serve breakfast to the entire town.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Oct 2012, 06:53
Patrick, just don't have sex with her until January. Being attracted to someone isn't against the law however old you are - even people who are attracted to children aren't committing a crime unless they have child pornography or assault children.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 28 Oct 2012, 07:52
I have to ask, Patrick, why would you care what her parents think of you rather than firstly what she thinks of you?

Because parents can have a person charged with statutory rape even if the child is consenting but under the age of consent. There's some weird laws about stuff like if Pat turned 18 but she was still 17 for another few months.
Because of how rape cases are often handled, Pat could be ostracized without even being found guilty, just because he was accused of rape. Even if it was statutory which can sometimes be consensual (ie, not rape in the definition we normally use it in) but one half can't legally consent.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 28 Oct 2012, 07:54
What her parent's think matters because statutory rape is one of the few kinds that be be prosecuted even if the victim does not cooperate.  The parents can, and frequently do, serve as the complaining witness.

Also, I don't know how old you are Patrick, but most states have a grace period so that couples who are just a few years apart don't get charged when one crosses the threshold. Just make sure you don't film or take pictures.  That is child pornography up until the day she is 18 with no leniency for the age of the person creating the material.  Some minors have been charged for creating child pornography of themselves which is clearly not the intent of such laws, but is how it stands.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 28 Oct 2012, 09:56
Yeah, that´s not what I meant at all.

I mean, I wasn't thinking about the laws or consent or anything, I merely found it curious that he mentioned it.

I venture to guess you don't get along that well with your folks or something, Patrick, because you said something along those lines in a post a while ago.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 28 Oct 2012, 13:05
Getting along with your partner's parents does make the relationship run a lot smoother, whether you're both thirteen or thirty. It's not necessary but constantly having someone in the picture who dislikes you, but is important to your partner, can be a fucking pain.

Note: I get along with my partner's parents and he gets along with mine. Although I'm reminded my close friends' ex (not a grammar error, they dated two of my friends) hated me and made my friends' life hell for not cutting me out over the course of four years.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 28 Oct 2012, 14:18
I have to ask, Patrick, why would you care what her parents think of you rather than firstly what she thinks of you?

Well, I already know what she thinks of me. We're good friends, we play music together all the time.

I don't know how old you are

I'm 23. Pretty sure that's past the grace period  :roll:

Anyway, thanks for easing my mind guys, but I'm pretty sure I'm done thinking about it either way. I'm not exactly much of a relationships kinda guy, no matter how much I like her or care about her. I know myself too well to put myself in a position where I could hurt her feelings.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 28 Oct 2012, 14:31
17/23 is about the same age gap as my relationship, off by one year. Even if you aren't interested in relationship with her I just felt that was worth mentioning.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Oct 2012, 16:53
Blurrghhh......can someone please make the weather just......not do what it's doing?

While I'm excited at the prospect of an impromptu 3 day weekend, it's scary that almost everything in the area is shut down already and it's not even raining yet. Plus....my parents just finished fixing up their house since Irene (which was actually Flood #2 for them). Please keep your fingers crossed that the Hudson Valley gets less than 4 inches of rain....any more than that and they are under again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 28 Oct 2012, 17:15
I have to work tomorrow anyway. House calls. And half of my customers live on the CT coast near NYC. Fun times. I could call out tomorrow, but I get paid on commission, so no work=no money. And I love me some money.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 28 Oct 2012, 17:22
I just came back from my study trip to Leipzig, and it was awesome. I now realize that there wasn't a single moment when I thought about the stuff that's going on back home: tax increases, interest decreases, unjustified fines, delayed student financing, no employment, high rent, and what the heck I'm going to make for dinner. All that was replaced by thinking about fun things, like the excellent Max Planck institute: they have no less than four MRI scanners and labs for EEG, TMS, histology and pediatric psychology all within the same building and a cafeteria where the food is to die for.

We were staying in a hostel divided into groups of six or four, and my group was in a six-person room that turned out to have eight beds in it, so I swiped an extra matress and pillow for myself. Then we unwittingly threw a massive party in that room where I made hexaflexagons for everyone who was interested, and then the bus driver joined the party, and then our tutors joined the party, and when the hostel staff finally showed up to tell us we were being too noisy, they offered to move the party to the bar downstairs, which happened without anybody making much of a fuss. Nothing was broken or soiled in the room, and we were able to clean it up to three shopping bags full of empty bottles which netted four euros in deposit at the supermarket. It basically ended in the best possible way.

In Leipzig we also visited the zoo which has an enormous primate enclosure with chimps, bonobos, gorillas and orang-utans. Their living spaces are separate but the enclosure is unified, which means that they can see and hear each other but cannot make contact. The enclosure is also used for ethological study of the primates' social structure and behaviour. Then there was the St. Thomas church, where Bach is buried, and where we attended a choral performance. (By Bach. No, not from beyond the grave.) The opening was an organ piece, which alternated between melodious-sounding bits and toddler-leaning-on-the-keys-sounding bits. Halfway through the programme we sat through a sermon, which made me very uncomfortable given that the theme was 'save the unbelievers'. The singing was enjoyable, I suppose, but on the whole I'd rather have gone somewhere else; I just didn't want to go off by myself.

On the final day we ate dinner and did some dancing at a restaurant/club that was made inside an old bastion. The brickwork and high arches gave it an amazing atmosphere. I haven't had this much fun in at least a year.

Has anyone else spent time in eastern Germany? It didn't strike me as particularly obvious that the region used to be communist; if anything, it seemed more capitalistic, with malls and warehouses filled with big-name shops and brands, with not a lot of local shops that actually had interesting stuff.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 28 Oct 2012, 17:40
You GO, girl!  Be careful with the caffeine, though - you may want to use truly inert pills.  If you're really ADHD, caffeine can have some unpredictable results. 

The reason I was going with caffeine was that Adderall is a stimulant, and if it is not working because it helps my ADHD it is working because it is simply giving me more energy. I worry that if my placebo is totally inert I will be able to tell which one is the adderall.  One caffeine pill is about the same a a cup of coffee so I think that one will not have a bad effect.  I am not sensitive to caffeine, but one it likely to have a stimulating effect because I don't regularly use it (I don't drink coffee or much soda)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 28 Oct 2012, 17:46
Woop. Had good date!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 28 Oct 2012, 18:45
yeeeah pics or it didn't... oh wait, no.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 28 Oct 2012, 18:47
Yay Shane!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 29 Oct 2012, 10:24
My Da sent me an email offering me and my brothers free WWE tickets. He won them in a draw at work. I might not be able to go though because I might be London checking out the Harry Potter set. Today's been awesome.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 29 Oct 2012, 10:53
yeeeah pics or it didn't... oh wait, no.

The only pic-worthy thing of excitement that happened was when my roommates got home from shopping and hit me with an industrial-sized package of toilet paper.

Otherwise it was just couch cuddlin' and watching movies.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Oct 2012, 14:54
Dang, that sounds nice. I miss that.

I've increasingly found that my situation leads me to either be a) stoned or b) suicidal.

And, well, for what it's worth, I haven't been properly sober for a full day in weeks. It tends to wear off, though, which is frustrating...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 29 Oct 2012, 15:48
I'm not denying your right to cope with things however you want, but I am concerned that it might be making things worse long-term. Is there anything any of us can do to help you? Short of a whip-round to buy plane tickets for you to come and live on my floor, which might be a bit of an impractical solution until I graduate in June.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Oct 2012, 17:27
Actually, it wouldn't be terribly unworkable to go to the UK. I've got friends/family there and it would be fairly easy to get an ancestry visa.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 29 Oct 2012, 21:49
My Da sent me an email offering me and my brothers free WWE tickets. He won them in a draw at work. I might not be able to go though because I might be London checking out the Harry Potter.

Why would you even consider Harry Potter when you could go see WWE?
Its like, Hey I know you have a free 16oz porterhouse steak but I'm gonna chew on this old tire instead.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 30 Oct 2012, 05:17
That was meant to say "Harry Potter set" and it's a college trip I've already paid the fee for so I can't get out of it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 30 Oct 2012, 08:24
Jace, you have that backwards. Why bother with the smelly sock when I can have MAGIC.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 30 Oct 2012, 09:16
Well I'm delighted because the worst case scenario is I get to go to an actual film set. Best case scenario is I get to go to an actual film set and see some WRASSLIN'!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 30 Oct 2012, 12:48
I'll level with you that I have an irrational hatred of Harry Potter. Never saw past the 2nd movie or read past the 3rd book. I moved on to stuff that I feel is better.


Still trying to deal with the fact that my lady thinks 50 Shades of Gray is a good book and is currently reading it. What do I even do with this? Do I beat her? She'll just want that because of the book.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 Oct 2012, 12:53
Any time I see a girl reading that book on the bus I wait til she gets up and then smell the seat
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 30 Oct 2012, 12:58
I have to say, that that book does not appeal to me at all. I enjoy romance novels, but that certainly doesn't fall into that category.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 30 Oct 2012, 13:10
Every time I hear about 50 Shades of Grey, I think about this review (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/340987215) and I laugh and think the people who like it must be stupid. Sorry to the people who like that book, but honestly, anything that started as a fanfic for Twilight can't be good. Twilight was bad enough.

(All three of her reviews are hilarious though and just because of them, I'm glad she went through the torture of reading those books just for the lols.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 30 Oct 2012, 13:22
Any time I see a girl reading that book on the bus I wait til she gets up and then smell the seat
I have no words for how hard this made me laugh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 30 Oct 2012, 14:47
I have to second that. I had a hearty laugh.

I'll level with you that I have an irrational hatred of Harry Potter. Never saw past the 2nd movie or read past the 3rd book. I moved on to stuff that I feel is better.


Still trying to deal with the fact that my lady thinks 50 Shades of Gray is a good book and is currently reading it. What do I even do with this? Do I beat her? She'll just want that because of the book.

I'm not too fussed that it's Harry Potter. I enjoyed it for a while but lost interest before it ended. I'm more excited to see a set in general.

I would link her some decent free BDSM online erotica to show her there is far, far better and truer to the real thing out there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 30 Oct 2012, 19:33
Every time I hear about 50 Shades of Grey, I think about this review (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/340987215) and I laugh and think the people who like it must be stupid. Sorry to the people who like that book, but honestly, anything that started as a fanfic for Twilight can't be good. Twilight was bad enough.

(All three of her reviews are hilarious though and just because of them, I'm glad she went through the torture of reading those books just for the lols.)

After reading that review, it definitely solidifies my opinion on the matter. I don't understand who can enjoy that crap (and not because of the BDSM, which is admittedly not my thing, but rather how badly written the reviewer says it is).   :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 30 Oct 2012, 19:43
It's also bad BDSM. I'm told there are 0 conversations which involve discussions about consent, risks or hard limits, and that he coerces her into doing more than she wants to.  That's just abuse in my book.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 30 Oct 2012, 20:26
I've read enough reviews of it (with passages quoted) to know that it's absolute rubbish. Abusive rubbish.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 30 Oct 2012, 20:34
Yeah, that's what I got from it, too - that the guy is essentially an abusive stalker, and a royal dickwad to boot.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 31 Oct 2012, 06:04
It definitely annoys me that such an awful story is so popular. I'm slightly worried that some guy will see it as his excuse to abuse someone, because they enjoyed the book, they must like it, right? Ugh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thomas Edison on 31 Oct 2012, 08:53
Going to spend my last £7 on a train to Brighton to see how many Halloween parties I can gatecrash in a girl's bear costume.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: valley_parade on 31 Oct 2012, 09:58
That's the Ryan we all know and love.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Nikolai on 31 Oct 2012, 10:23
Whelp, I'm officially 'Merican now. Interview went smoothly, and I signed the certificate. Swear-in ceremony isn't for another two days, but details. I'll try to get some pictures. From the ceremony. Of me. Citizen-izing. Yeah.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 31 Oct 2012, 10:58
Congratulations! I hope.
What kind of place is the swearing in? Courtroom? Very large courtroom, as in lower Manhattan ... no, probably not there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 31 Oct 2012, 11:00
Congrats!  Welcome to the insanity...  just in time to vote, but probably too late to register to vote. 

Well, there's always next time! 


Oh, and the 50 shades people?  Saw this  this morning...

(http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/fifty_shades.png)



Gotta love xkcd...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Nikolai on 31 Oct 2012, 11:43
Thanks!

A clamshell tent-covered basketball court, actually. I'm still in Afghanistan for a couple more weeks. Which means that alas, 'tis definitely far too late to register to vote/apply for my absentee ballot.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 31 Oct 2012, 11:53
Every time I hear about 50 Shades of Grey, I think about this review (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/340987215) and I laugh and think the people who like it must be stupid. Sorry to the people who like that book, but honestly, anything that started as a fanfic for Twilight can't be good. Twilight was bad enough.

(All three of her reviews are hilarious though and just because of them, I'm glad she went through the torture of reading those books just for the lols.)

Those reviews were great. I'll bookmark them for future reference.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 31 Oct 2012, 13:23
Every time I hear about 50 Shades of Grey, I think about this review (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/340987215) and I laugh and think the people who like it must be stupid. Sorry to the people who like that book, but honestly, anything that started as a fanfic for Twilight can't be good. Twilight was bad enough.

Correct me if I'm wrong but I thought that Twilight was Anne Rice fanfic, which in turn comes across as some spectacularly poor Bram Stoker fanfic. Thus rendering 50 Shades fanfic of fanfic of fanfic. No wonder the only relevant shade of grey here is slate.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 31 Oct 2012, 15:09
So today was a day of good news and bad news.

It starts with the bad news of oversleeping this morning, waking up fifteen minutes before class starts.
The good news is that it was only the second class in the course, and I already know the things our teacher is going to tell first.

The bad news is that halfway to class, my bike chain fell off. Now instead of being 15 minutes late, I was 45 minutes late, damn it.
The good news is, I had already cycled all the way uphill when it broke.

The bad news is, after the morning class I still needed my bike to go downtown for the next class, and I discovered this five minutes before the class started. The good news is, a fellow student lent me her bike, so I was able to race down there and only be 15 minutes late instead of the 45 minutes it would have taken with public transport.

The bad news is, my bike still had a loose chain, and the nearest repair shop was at least five kilometers away. The good news is, someone was able to help me put the chain back on, so I was able to go home for a shower and then back to the university.

The bad news is, on the way back the chain came off again. The good news is, I was right next to the train station, so I could easily get back to the university.

The bad news is, my public transport subscription got cancelled by those incompetents at the student financing administration. The good news is, nobody checked my ticket.

And then I had my graduation ceremony for my bachelor's. Woohoo!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Oct 2012, 17:38
What's wrong with your bike? When the chain came off of mine it was just a simple task of putting it back on (which was mostly distasteful because it got my hands oily).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Omega Entity on 31 Oct 2012, 18:26
Older or well-used bike chains can actually stretch, and sometimes require taking a link out of the chain and putting it back together, or getting a new chain.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 31 Oct 2012, 19:05
I'm guessing this is a derailleur-less bike, and so doesn't have a tensioner on the chain?  Much harder to deal with. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 31 Oct 2012, 19:41
Older or well-used bike chains can actually stretch, and sometimes require taking a link out of the chain and putting it back together, or getting a new chain.
Bicycle chains don't actually stretch, in the sense of the metal parts getting longer. What happens is that the pins and bushings at all the joints gradually wear (which is why you should clean and lubricate your chain regularly), and all those little bits of sloppiness make the chain looser and require adjustment. Before it gets to the point where you're thinking of removing a link, you should probably replace the chain. Seriously worn chains can, in time, lead to worn, rounded teeth on the chainwheel and sprockets which can exacerbate chain slipping or falling off, and replacing them is much more expensive than replacing a chain. Modern derailler gear systems often have fairly thin chainwheels and sprockets (to fit lots of gear ratios into limited space), with low teeth (to make gear-changing easier and quieter), which makes them more vulnerable to wear. Single-speeds and bikes with hub gears are better in this respect.</bicycle-nerdery>

And Zingoleb? Consider carrying a pack of thin nitrile gloves in your saddlebag. Clean hands every time! :)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 31 Oct 2012, 19:58
I went to the Giants victory parade in SF today and it was the best day ever. And I have a show in an hour. I CAN'T LOSE TODAY
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 31 Oct 2012, 19:59
Oh, if I'd only known all that 33 years ago.

(About bikes. Not about victory parades and Patrick's band.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 31 Oct 2012, 20:42
And Zingoleb? Consider carrying a pack of thin nitrile gloves in your saddlebag. Clean hands every time! :)

I do this now, actually.

For a lot of reasons. ><
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 31 Oct 2012, 21:33
 :-P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Nov 2012, 00:36
My ex-partner had the same OCD issues I did about getting their hands wet or sticky, and she gave me the idea to carry around gloves.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 01 Nov 2012, 00:36
Digging an even deeper and dirtier hole.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 01 Nov 2012, 02:00
I think you're doing that for me, at this rate.

(there was nothing I could possibly say that couldn't be interpreted in more than one way, bite me.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 01 Nov 2012, 02:42
Went to scratch ear, eyelet popped out through the back. Apparently showering and oiling up my ears makes them looser than a pornstar's butthole in a Rocco Siffredi film.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Nov 2012, 02:51
Rule 37. Now there is ear fucking porn somewhere.

Three kids. 2, 2, 7. Loud.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Nov 2012, 03:10
Just got a really passive-aggressive email on my writing site, challenging me about the details of the application form for my NaNoWriMo group. Really odd... I don't feel it's an unfair process, but this email seemed quite angry that I allowed multiple submissions (you fill out a survey form and then I add you manually) when "you should only have to join once" and why it requires donations but doesn't specify how much - the answer is because some people can afford to give more than others! I think I was polite in my answer but I didn't feel it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 01 Nov 2012, 03:14
Rule 37. Now there is ear fucking porn somewhere.

Three kids. 2, 2, 7. Loud.

It's pretty much the rule that once you've gotten past 1" lobes, you will have a dick in your lobe.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 01 Nov 2012, 03:31
Anyone wanna hear a story about sex and ears? I have a really good one
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Post by: Patrick on 01 Nov 2012, 03:41
PS I got a girl's number at the show tonight. She was dressed as a hula dancer, said it was easy 'cause she was once. I invited her to an afterparty at a friend's house, it was fun. Lots of smokin dem treez and silly conversation.

The show itself went brilliantly. We had a mosh pit, that's never happened at our shows before. Broke strings on Matt's guitar and a guitar that was lent to us after Matt's string broke, hahaha. Everybody had a great time and I wound up giving some dude a poster for free 'cause it had gotten a little beer spilled on it. He was pretty pleased with that. I passed out stickers all night too, it's a great excuse to talk to people and make a little personal connection. Love it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 01 Nov 2012, 07:59
Anyone wanna hear a story about sex and ears? I have a really good one

Not really, but we also know it's not going to stop you! 

 :roll: :-D :lol: :angel:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 01 Nov 2012, 13:21
Back from Lisbon. It was awesome and recommended but I really, really suck at writing reviews. So I'll skip that and just say the weather was nice, the people were too and it's a very beautiful city. It's probably the first "Mediterranean" city I've been in that I'd actually could consider living in (if Sweden wasn't so darned comfy, of course!).

Though I have to say, I really wish I'd read this:

If you get a chance, Porto is a fantastic hillside city, and I found the food is much better there than in Lisbon. And oh god, the food! We ate custard pastries every morning for breakfast while we were there, and amazingly nothing upset my stomach, which is an accomplishment in and of itself; my stomach is extremely finicky.

...before I left. The places where we found something to eat was seldom more but steak and fries, except for when it was "genuine Portuguese food", where they put a fried egg on top of the steak. Whatever, I really shouldn't have let the girlfriend pick the restaurants...

They had the most AWESOME coffee houses I've ever experienced though. Each one had its own specialty and I had stuff like lemon mousse with ginger flavor with an espresso, and pastries I've never seen before in my cake-loving life.

I always end up talking about food when I talk about my travels. Guess I should go to Paris or something.. for now, Lissabon rules though!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Skewbrow on 01 Nov 2012, 13:37
Older or well-used bike chains can actually stretch, and sometimes require taking a link out of the chain and putting it back together, or getting a new chain.
For reasons like these I carry a chain rivet extractor (aka a chain link tool, I think) and about a foot of some leftover replacement chain for fresh links in a tool pouch under the saddle.

Putting a fallen chain back on is usually easy. Force the link on at the top of a chainring (this is easier than wrapping it all the way around the chainring). Then turn the crank, voila!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 01 Nov 2012, 14:04
I put the chain back on today, and was able to ride the 300 meters back to my apartment without it falling off again. The chain doesn't really have a lot of slack - maybe there's about 1-2 centimeters of room to pull it up at the bottom - so maybe I just need to be more careful. I can still grease it when I leave tomorrow. Or would that do more harm than good?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 02 Nov 2012, 05:34
If it's falling off without slack, it's probably from a crooked sprocket or a bent tooth or two on a sprocket.  You'll need to sit down with it and find it. 

Or it could be that the chain's too stiff from rust?  Maybe some oil's in order after all! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 02 Nov 2012, 05:41
Even if it's not stiff, it'll slip more snugly between the sprocket teeth if oiled.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Nov 2012, 06:13
That's what she said.
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Post by: jwhouk on 02 Nov 2012, 07:49
/thread
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Post by: idontunderstand on 02 Nov 2012, 08:24
BeoPuppy, I like your style, man.
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Post by: pwhodges on 02 Nov 2012, 08:36
Made my avatar blush...

(http://cassland.org/images/Blush.png)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 03 Nov 2012, 14:34
Something really bloody scary just happened. Could hear two people arguing outside. A woman screaming at someone to leave her alone and a man yelling to get back in the house. Before I got a chance to process it I saw car lights turning on through the curtains and heard a car driving away. I think the man was my next door neighbour who blares the loud music sometimes.
I'm alone in the house, double-checked the locks but I'm still kind of freaked out. I hope that woman is okay.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Nov 2012, 14:52
Have you called the police? I am always unsure about whether or not that is the right thing to do (it is easy to visualise ways in which it could make things worse) but if you are seriously concerned and especially if it has happened again, I would advise calling the non-emergency number.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 03 Nov 2012, 15:00
I haven't for the reason you said. I'd hate to make it worse. It's the first time it's ever happened to my knowledge so it's possible it was just a loud, emotional argument but I don't want to justify myself not calling if it is worse than that. I've noted the time down and if it happens again I think it'd be safer to call.

Edit: Also thank you so much for the comment, Moo. I honestly had no idea what to do but I've got the local number down now if I ever need it for any reason.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 03 Nov 2012, 15:18
I don't know if this matters, but did the woman's screaming sound angry or frightened? The only scenario I can think of that might have put you in danger is if the woman was trying to escape, to find a haven, into your home. I suppose you might talk to someone at the police station about how you and they should respond to domestic violence calls.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 03 Nov 2012, 15:30
She did sound very upset, very sure she was crying. I don't really think I was in danger in this situation but it's hard to not feel scared when something like that is happening pretty much outside your door. I was mainly scared for her and feeling helpless.
My brother once told me about a time he heard a woman scream outside his flat so he ran out. He found a man pinning her against a wall in the alley beside his house. As soon as the man heard my brother, the man scarpered  and my brother helped her call the police. In one sense that's a really stupid thing to do because it could have resulted in him getting hurt but on the other hand, you don't want someone else to get hurt because you were too scared to do anything.
I just looked outside and the car that drove away has came back. It does seem to be the neighbour I thought it was but I don't hear anything now.

I would like to talk to someone but would it be possible to do it without naming specific people? I don't think I can just say, "I'm worried for someone in my area but I might be over-estimating the danger but if I'm not then something very bad is probably happening." and leave it at that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 04 Nov 2012, 17:12
Today I learned that a, well, aquaintance of ours suffered a brain infarction and is in the hospital. Aside from the obvious concern about her well being it also hits home because she's 38, my age, and has a kid who is exactly one week younger than ours and a few other similarities.

Basically it put the fear of death in us, but good.

Also, brain infarctions are bad.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 04 Nov 2012, 18:19
You've got to use fear of death to motivate you instead of paralyze you. Make every day count.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 04 Nov 2012, 18:54
Alternately, murder your family in a ritualistic bloodbath
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 04 Nov 2012, 19:14
I would like to talk to someone but would it be possible to do it without naming specific people? I don't think I can just say, "I'm worried for someone in my area but I might be over-estimating the danger but if I'm not then something very bad is probably happening." and leave it at that.
You might ask police how they deal with domestic violence/abuse calls, and try to get a sense of their threshold for responding to a call. If you find someone willing to spend a few minutes talking to you about that, naming the people you're concerned about shouldn't be a requirement. As an alternative, you might look for a shelter or service dealing with abused women. If there is such an agency, someone help you understand the role of a bystander.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 05 Nov 2012, 12:25
Although would calling the police and asking about how they would deal with a totally-not-happening-right-now-or-last-night call alert them to the situation? I mean, aside from a few idiots, people don't just ring up the police for the lols.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 05 Nov 2012, 12:40
If Welu reaches the right desk and explains her concern, they might be alerted, but they'd have no reason to act on the information until there's another report.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 05 Nov 2012, 13:48
I would like to talk to someone but would it be possible to do it without naming specific people? I don't think I can just say, "I'm worried for someone in my area but I might be over-estimating the danger but if I'm not then something very bad is probably happening." and leave it at that.
You might ask police how they deal with domestic violence/abuse calls, and try to get a sense of their threshold for responding to a call. If you find someone willing to spend a few minutes talking to you about that, naming the people you're concerned about shouldn't be a requirement. As an alternative, you might look for a shelter or service dealing with abused women. If there is such an agency, someone help you understand the role of a bystander.

Welu - considering what happened in my old neck of the woods a few weeks ago (http://www.jsonline.com/news/milwaukee/family-remembers-azana-shooting-victim-for-helping-those-in-need-m07atg6-175421961.html)? If you hear something and you're concerned for the safety of one of the two parties - CALL.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 05 Nov 2012, 13:59
The police are like doctors. They would rather have their time wasted (to an extent) than have a crime or illness go unreported and it cause a death through no-one thinking to mention it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 05 Nov 2012, 14:02
I will call the cops if something is sounds violent, but not just for people arguing.  People argue all the time in my neighborhood, I live next to an alley connecting two main streets, which has a parking lot on it.  Most people near me are undergrads or the "disenfranchised" and most are pedestrians.  We are on the 'walk home' for a lot of bar and party goers.  There is a frat house across the street.  Our last neighbor was a drunk who had a rotation of other drunks over every night. If I called every time people were arguing I would have to call more than once a night, but there is a tone change when things have escalated, and when it does I try to spy on what is happening and if it looks like other people (friends of the yellers) don't have it under control, or that the body language has changed, I call.  The only time I was really conflicted was once when I was not sure what I had heard.

I was trying to  sleep and people were being loud and arguing, in a posturing sort of way.  It sounded like two men shouting and a woman trying to deescalate the situation.  It sort of died down as the parties moved on, and I was drifting back to sleep and then I swear I heard the woman shriek "oh god help me!"  And I sprang out of bed.  The way the acoustics work between the houses sounds can be coming from one of 3 directions, and so I had no idea where the sound came from.  But there were no noises after that.  No sounds of a scuffle, no shouting, no cars, nothing.  I ran around the house looking out all the windows and saw nothing.  I ended up not calling the police, because I didn't see how I could call and say, I was half asleep and I think I heard someone who wanted help, but I don't know where she was, or what was wrong. 

I am pretty sure I just dreamed it, based on the priming from the argument, but it left me uneasy with my ears super sensitive all night.  I sat at the window for 45 minutes before going to bed, waiting for another sound. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 05 Nov 2012, 14:22
I wasn't too sure what I heard either. Like I said by the time I even processed it was an argument one of them had drove away (I assume that's what happened) and when I looked out the window I couldn't see anyone out there. I've been sensitive to any noise since but heard nothing. There have been times when I've had headphones on or been watching something and thought I heard something like voices but by the time I turn off the sound, the noise is gone and I assume I've imagined it. Happens a lot with car noises in the area too.

I'm thinking of asking shelters like was suggested or maybe my college general advisor-type person. Now that it's days after I don't think I can really call police to make a serious comment, or maybe I can and I'm just nervous to do so. I've got the neighbourhood police team number if I need it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 06 Nov 2012, 04:00
Remember, fellow Yanks, vote for Warren and Jimmy Buffett tomorrow. Better economy and a free J for every man, woman, and child.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 06 Nov 2012, 15:05
My boyfriend and I have come up with a writing challenge for each other because between college and jobs and life, NaNiWriMo would be too much on top. So we've got a much lighter version with a word count for me and a page count for him (scriptwriter). Want to get started to be winning but got college work.  :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 07 Nov 2012, 11:18
Of course, just because we've heard a spine-chilling, blood-curdling scream of the sort to make your very marrow freeze in your bones doesn't automatically mean there's anything wrong. -TP
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Nikolai on 07 Nov 2012, 22:12
Just found out my flight date has been bumped to the left two days. My countdown is officially in the single digits now. I might be home for Thanksgiving omgomgomg.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 08 Nov 2012, 04:01
I already posted this to the most relevant possible thread but I really want you guys to see what Matt got from the postman today

(http://i.imgur.com/5wjlJ.jpg?1)
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Post by: VonKleist on 08 Nov 2012, 04:45
yee. I totally dig the font/framing/picture
reminds me of
country music :)

(http://www.townesvanzandt.com/store/images/townes_albums/ourmm.jpg)


In other news. I had to break the lock on my door because I´m stupid and forgetful and locked myself out for the umpteenth time, this time around with my spare key, that I usually keep at my sister's, in my flat too.
Luckily the lock wasn't the freshest to begin with so one energetic push and the part that sits in the door-frame just flew through the room. I´m thinking of just glueing it back in with epoxy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 08 Nov 2012, 11:00
Pat's album gives me a boner. It is one of the best things I've heard all year.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 08 Nov 2012, 12:33
So. Today I got my fabulous "dental device" for my TMJ. Woo.


It is not as large and scary as I thought it would be, but it's giving me a headache and I've officially started my soft food diet. Even chicken soup is difficult to eat. Wish me luck  :-\
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 08 Nov 2012, 12:36
Chicken soup is always hard to eat, at least Heinz Cream of Chicken Soup is.

It tastes nasty.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 08 Nov 2012, 12:46
Chicken soup is delicious.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 08 Nov 2012, 12:57
Chicken's not my favorite kind of soup, but if I'm craving it there is no substitute- especially if it's homemade. Mmmmmm.....

I have a feeling I'll be making friends with all sorts of soups in the next 6-8 months.
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Nov 2012, 14:04
It is soup season too! I am going to try a pumpkin or butternut goat cheese soup this week I think.
I don't have a recipe, I am making it up, but it sounds good.  Maybe I can buy some fresh sage and fry it up crispy to go on top?

Soooups rock my world.
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Post by: pwhodges on 08 Nov 2012, 15:14
Soups are good.  My regulars are: leek and potato; cullen skink; tomato and red pepper; mixed vegetable.
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Post by: Akima on 08 Nov 2012, 17:58
Soups are good.  My regulars are: leek and potato; cullen skink; tomato and red pepper; mixed vegetable.
I enjoy all those, except the cullen skink obviously (I had to google that - In Australia a skink is a lizard :-o). I also like thick chilli, lentil, and bean; tofu, vegetable, and noodles; mushroom, vegetable, and noodles. Or replace the noodles with rice.
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Nov 2012, 20:13
I'm feeling preeeety good right now.  I have had a few good days in a row.  I got some new shoes, which I have needed very badly for a while.  I had one pair of flip flops and one pair of sneakers that were so old they had become uncomfortable, one pair of winter boots and one pair of heels that I can't really walk in.  I was wearing the flip flops, but it has gotten a bit cold for them.  In the past few days I have gotten a pair of funny sneaker things, a pair of flats, and two pairs of boots, one dressy and one casual.  The casual ones are too small, so I need to return them, but to have so many shoe choices is just mind boggling to me.  The boots were also pretty pricey; they are both real leather.  I have never owned nice shoes before and I am pretty psyched. 

Also, last night I had that successful date I talked about somewhere already.

Also, today I had a long talk with a girl in one of my classes about how we feel like we are not excelling at grad school the way we should be and how we don't know what we are going to do with our lives.  That sounds depressing, but it is actually comforting to hear someone else articulate the same things.  I hope she and I can become some sort of friends, because I don't actually have many friends in Michigan, let alone in my program. I've invited her to go to a job fair/professional networking event with me, which is a thing we both know we need to do, but are bad at doing.  I might be good for her, and I think having someone I know at the same event might be good for me, but we will see.

Also, a few weeks ago I volunteered myself for some difficult work, because I get overambitious sometimes.  I have a group project where we needed to pick a few hundred files out of a set of a few thousand.  They were sorted into folders and the easy way to do this was to just pick one of the folders with an appropriate number of emails in it.  But, I opened my big mouth and said "I bet a Python program could pull us a sub-set in a more interesting way."  I had been warned that in my professional life, opening my mouth about things like that would certainly mean I was volunteering for the task, and that was the case in the group as well.  I am not great with Python.  My school has one mandatory class which teaches the basics, and that is all I know.  The other group members hated that class though, and swore that they wouldn't even know how to start. I am happy to report that I cobbled together a successful program to do what we wanted.  I know it could be better, but it does what it needs to with minimal effort on our part, and I managed to write it using only old assignments I had saved and things I found on the web.  I was sure I was going to have to show up to a professor's office hours and ask them to fix it. 
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Post by: Carl-E on 09 Nov 2012, 00:45
So. Today I got my fabulous "dental device" for my TMJ. Woo.


It is not as large and scary as I thought it would be, but it's giving me a headache and I've officially started my soft food diet. Even chicken soup is difficult to eat. Wish me luck  :-\

Buy a blender.  I did when my mouth was wired shut (broke my jaw in '86), and you can make almost anything into liquid.  I dropped a burger from Steak & Shake in one day just to see... no added liquid, it was smooth and tasted... delicious.  Just like a steak and shake burger should taste.  I broke the jaw in November, and so for thanksgiving I had "turkey through a straw" "(da-dum, da-dum-dum, turkey through a straw...)

Still have the blender, too.  Makes good margaritas...
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Post by: Jace on 09 Nov 2012, 02:12
[python group stuff]

If the subset you want is in a sorted set, you can just program a binary search. I don't know anything about programming really, but I know a bit of pseudocode and I recently learned about various searching algorithms and binary search is pretty fast if I recall.
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 Nov 2012, 05:17
So the emails were converted to text files, and the file names were a long string that was the subject and the date.  They were sorted into folders based on whose inbox they had been in.  The easy thing would have been to pick a person and take their inbox.  What we wanted to do was search the folders for the top executives and pull out any emails they had written to each other.  That ended up not being enough files, so I just took any email that anyone with an '@enron.com' email had sent to Kenneth Lay. 

The program looked at the .txt files contained in its home folder and opened each one, searched for the line that started 'From:' then found the email address on that line and then split that email at the '@'.  If what was after the '@' was 'Enron' it made a copy of the file in a new directory. 

The searching and splitting part I had learned about in my intro class.  It was the looking into multiple files and then saving new copies of the files that I have to figure out from online tutorials. 
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 09 Nov 2012, 05:58
I am definitely thankful for soup season. This is forcing me to experiment a little more. I made a delicious cheddar soup with shredded potato and sour cream last night. Probably not so healthy, but sooooooo delicious. And I'm also thankful for the fact that I'll be able to have a lot of Turkey Day food. Mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce, stuffing, biscuits made soft by sopping them in butter.....om nom nom. I think I may consume more calories this year than during ones I could eat the food I had to chew lol

So. Today I got my fabulous "dental device" for my TMJ. Woo.


It is not as large and scary as I thought it would be, but it's giving me a headache and I've officially started my soft food diet. Even chicken soup is difficult to eat. Wish me luck  :-\

Buy a blender.  I did when my mouth was wired shut (broke my jaw in '86), and you can make almost anything into liquid.  I dropped a burger from Steak & Shake in one day just to see... no added liquid, it was smooth and tasted... delicious.  Just like a steak and shake burger should taste.  I broke the jaw in November, and so for thanksgiving I had "turkey through a straw" "(da-dum, da-dum-dum, turkey through a straw...)

Still have the blender, too.  Makes good margaritas...

Y'know.....I've heard that from a few people but it kinda scares me. Thankfully, I don't have to have a completely liquid diet, just things that don't require much effort to chew- supposedly to help minimize the time that my jaw is spent in the "bad" position. I tried the chicken soup with the splint in my mouth and it was a huge pain in the ass, then I had to go take it out to clean it off anyway, so I think I'm going to just eat with it out and put it back in when I'm done. As long as I'm not chomping on steak and carrots while it's out, I think I'll be ok. Just sucks because I loooooooooove crunchy food. I'm currently not allowed to eat 75% of the stuff in my apartment. But margaritas......now there's a diet I can stick to.  :-P
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Nov 2012, 06:52
When I got sent to the hospital for gallstones, they told me I had to cut all fat out of my diet for three days.

The only thing I could find in the house that was fat-free was vodka.
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Post by: nekowafer on 09 Nov 2012, 08:10
I couldn't do liquefied food, even when I couldn't get anything solid down at all, after my tonsillectomy. I just went a month without "real" food, surviving on juice and various slushy drinks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 09 Nov 2012, 10:22
Thanks to the blender, and a supply of protien shakes from my mother (with added icecream, of course) I was the only person the oral surgeon ever knew who gained weight while their jaw was wired shut. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Nov 2012, 12:01
I just went on tumblr and saw a picture of Dollface on my dash.  :psyduck:
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 09 Nov 2012, 21:21
Well thanks to certain events, I have been completely stressed out and exhausted this week.

And next week, I have several very important and critical deadlines I have to meet.

All I know is I better go out or something tomorrow night
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Nov 2012, 01:17
Sort of a "last call!" situation
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Post by: Barmymoo on 10 Nov 2012, 02:25
I baby sat for five and a half hours last night, which meant that not only did I earn an absolute fortune this week (a total of seven hours of babysitting and four hours of tutoring), I also got through an entire chapter of my EU textbook out of three I need to have read by Tuesday. I also watched David Attenborough for the first time, alongside the 98 year old grandmother of the father of the children I was sitting with. I found it almost impossible to believe that the animals were real.
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Post by: Jace on 10 Nov 2012, 13:21
I had an extremely trying Friday Night Magic experience because in round 4 (out of 4) I was paired up against the 7 year old who clearly did not want to lose another couple games of MtG. I tried to be nice but my deck is just too good against slow to mid-range without removal and by turn 5 both games I'd won. It took almost the full 40 minutes to play two games. Now I don't mind playing against kids if they can focus and have an idea of what's going on (Most of the time, I will end up winning but I try to be helpful during and after the game), but this was rough. I reported the 2-0 victory to the tournament organizer (my housemate). Later the kid came up and said that he decided to quit so it was 1-1. It is unfortunate that the parents don't have anyone to watch him (they also come and play) because he isn't very good at losing and doesn't have the higher level of reasoning to win games consistently yet.

I made some changes to my deck and it is getting downright ridiculous with how well it runs. Hopefully I will do better with it in 2 weeks when I go again. I also started cataloging my collection of cards in standard. I made it through lands, artifacts, and multi-colored cards, still have to do the 5 colors, which is probably around 1500-1800 cards to sort through.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 10 Nov 2012, 14:08
Wait, he retired and in doing so he gained a game?
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Post by: LTK on 10 Nov 2012, 14:45
I think Jace is saying he lied.
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Post by: Jace on 10 Nov 2012, 15:07
Yeah, I won both games. After I had won he said "so I won one and you won one." I corrected him that I had won both games. Then I went and reported our games. Later he went to report the games and tried to lie about the results.
Of course, he is 7 years old and probably lost all 8 games that night.
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Post by: Jace on 10 Nov 2012, 23:49
RGW humans (http://mtgdeckbuilder.net/Decks/ViewDeck/337122)
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Nov 2012, 04:05
I miss Magic. But I haven't had time or opponents in 6 years or so. Pretty sure I don't even know how to play any more. Oh ... and the cards are 6 years old.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 11 Nov 2012, 04:17
Beo, have a look at www.elementsthegame.com

It isn't Magic, but it's quite good. it hasn't been updated in a while, but the dev often disappears for a few months and then comes back.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 11 Nov 2012, 06:57
Or Magic 2013.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 11 Nov 2012, 08:04
... okay ... thanks! That cockatrice thing looks promising!
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Post by: Jace on 11 Nov 2012, 12:58
Just realized this other deck I'm working on has exponential lifegain to the magnitude of (2^n)+t. Where n is the number of Rhox Faithmenders in play (I can create tokens of them and then copy the tokens) and t is the toughness of the creature entering the battlefield.

With all the right cards hitting at the right time at bare minimum, I gain 10 life turn 5, 20 life turn 6, 40 life turn 7, 80 life turn 8. Sometimes though I can get more cards out that copy tokens, which is when it starts to get ridiculous. Creating 4 copies of a card that doubles life gain in a turn, and each of those gaining life when they show up.
On turn 9 (not hard to get to since I've got Fogs) I'm looking at 560 life in the upkeep step. Then another 640 in my main phase.
On turn 10, I'll get 8960 in the upkeep and 10240 in the main phase.

Ri-goddamn-diculous.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 11 Nov 2012, 13:01
The question is how reliably you can get that sequence of cards. Could be interesting though, I'd be interested in knowing how that turns out...
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Post by: Jace on 11 Nov 2012, 13:06
Pretty reliably, I think. All of the cards needed are 3-ofs in the deck. There's usually a pretty good chance that I'll have at least 2 pieces of the combo in my starting hand. In addition, I've also got some low cost creatures to help soak up damage while I draw into the other cards.
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Post by: snalin on 12 Nov 2012, 11:53
Yesterday morning there was a naked junkie chick sleeping on the top of the indoors staircase outside the door to my apartment. She'd apparently grabbed a bean bag that'd been lying out there for a while to sleep on, and some kind of coat. There was a junkie dude with her, who kept going "we have to go!", but she didn't seem awake enough to care. He was nice enough to pull the bean bag and her far enough out of the way for me to get by.

My biggest worry is that the house owner will start threathening with throwing everyone out again when she finds out. Not that she'll ever do that, but it stresses some of my roomies out, and then they start discussing and planning and... Jeez. I asked the guy how they got in, and he just at me and went "... we walked in". Either someone has unlocked the back door that's only supposed to be used for emergencies, or... I don't know.

 :psyduck:
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Post by: Bluesummers on 17 Nov 2012, 05:59
Just realized this other deck I'm working on has exponential lifegain to the magnitude of (2^n)+t. Where n is the number of Rhox Faithmenders in play (I can create tokens of them and then copy the tokens) and t is the toughness of the creature entering the battlefield.

You are a terrifying individual, and you're playing with forces beyond your comprehension. You're going to open a planar rift into the netherworld and we'll all be sucked in. Thanks.

Also, RGW? Isn't that a little tough to manage, being able to pull the right lands at the right time?
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Post by: Welu on 17 Nov 2012, 09:46
I've learned to sort of keep a steady work pace for university work. Been delighted that I've got everything in on time so far and not been freaking out about everything being so perfect. It's clicked in my head that getting something decent in on time is more important than getting the most amazing bit of work the tutor has ever seen in late.
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Post by: Jace on 17 Nov 2012, 12:25
Just realized this other deck I'm working on has exponential lifegain to the magnitude of (2^n)+t. Where n is the number of Rhox Faithmenders in play (I can create tokens of them and then copy the tokens) and t is the toughness of the creature entering the battlefield.

You are a terrifying individual, and you're playing with forces beyond your comprehension. You're going to open a planar rift into the netherworld and we'll all be sucked in. Thanks.

Also, RGW? Isn't that a little tough to manage, being able to pull the right lands at the right time?

Previously I was running a mana curve with a top value of 3, with the highest cost being 1GG. That meant that I could play nearly the whole deck if I got 3 lands out. Now I put in the card Cathars' Crusade which costs 4WW since I have trouble with big creatures and not having enough damage late game for my one or two that get through.
I'm also running 7 dual lands (1 G/R 2 R/W, 4 G/W), Avacyn's Pilgrim (T: add W), and Abundant Growth (land aura, land taps for any color) for mana fixing, plus I've got Druids' Repository for the late game (each time a creature attacks, you add a charge counter. You can remove a charge counter to add one of any color mana to your pool)
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Nov 2012, 12:29
Fuckin NERDS

Right on the first day in a week where it decided to rain, I thought it'd be reeeeeal cool to dress completely monochrome black. This involved black skinny jeans, black long-sleeve tee, black bill Giants hat, and of course my black Chucks, which have been 'talking' since around August. My feet were fucking soaked last night and were that way for at least 4 hours.

It was worth it though, because bandmates and I all hung out, and we wound up running into the super cute girl from our Halloween show! We all hung out with another friend of ours (somebody I've known for 10+ years) and got pie. My bandmates decided to wingman for me (they know I'm interested, of course) and this of course meant them teasing me without mercy the whole time we hung out. All I could do was laugh, it was too funny. Then Halloween Girl took it upon herself to try and defend me, which my bandmates took as an opportunity to turn it against her, and that just put both of us in stitches.

I am soooo tryna hang out with her again. :3
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Post by: nekowafer on 17 Nov 2012, 12:49
Fuckin NERDS

Also aww I remember having adventures like that, back in the day. Only, you know. I'm not a dude.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Nov 2012, 03:56
So I dropped off my bandie Matt at SFO Airport for his flight to see his girlfriend Adara, who lives in Vancouver. I started missing him dreadfully about 30 minutes into standstill traffic on the San Mateo bridge. Now I understand why people always think we're brothers, we totally are.

On the way home, I got a text from one of my coworkers saying shit at work was insane and that I should call in if I could, and since I was 5 miles from the exit and en route to get my paycheck anyway, I did just that. Things were crazy, and it turns out that two stock associates both decided to quit this morning. While I'm stoked about now being the only heterosexual male working there (if there is any workcest to be had, it is going to be all mine), this does not fucking bode well for my Thanksgiving plans at ALL.

This is going to be a long fucking week.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 18 Nov 2012, 06:29
Fuckin NERDS

Also aww I remember having adventures like that, back in the day. Only, you know. I'm not a dude.

Mmmkay, Nerdette. One of us...one of us...
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Post by: Jace on 18 Nov 2012, 12:44
Adara,

This is the name I convinced Jess (my girlfriend) to use in Dagorhir because it sounds suitably fantasy-ish. Mostly it is a big joke because it is an arabic name meaning virgin according to the internet.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Nov 2012, 14:03
Haha, interesting. She's such an innocent person, so that really does suit her I suppose.

I just cleared out all the band shit (but I left the merch, I can sell that to people and make myself useful) from Matt's car and cleaned up a bunch of trash and coffee cups from the front seat, because Matt told me he would be disappointed in me if I didn't bang a chick in his car (yeah, whatever, we'll see). Jesus Christ. I cleaned out 16 packs of cigarettes, one of them was mine. He left an empty Chobani cup in there, and now I know what was making his car smell a little ripe. *sigh* He's lucky I love him.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 18 Nov 2012, 19:14
My friend visited and we talked about living in the Compound together. He said it was like living in a cult while we were there, and holy shit was he so right. It opened up a lot of feelings and memories and I feel weird for having the experience of being in such an awful place.

I think I'm having my first proper rebound, which is kind of cool. She's cute and sexy and we both know it's a rebound (it's one for her too) and it has a definitive end date, so hopefully I can treat this like an adult and use it to heal/grow a bit rather than fuck up again.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Nov 2012, 20:30
Was this friend the one with the box of stuff? 


I hope so, or that she can at least get hold of it for you...
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Post by: Zingoleb on 18 Nov 2012, 20:32
No. Elsa's the one with the stuff, and ze's being a fucking pain in the ass about it.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Nov 2012, 20:57
Oh.  Damn.  Sorry to dampen the mood. 
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Nov 2012, 09:34
Gawd, I could really use a rebound.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Nov 2012, 10:15
Date's in four hours. It's so awesome that I'm presenting male for this - if I was presenting female, I'd have already started getting ready. Presenting male takes my preparation time down to under an hour.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Nov 2012, 10:21
Can I ask how you decide?  Is it a matter of how you feel, or who you're meeting, or something more complicated?
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Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Nov 2012, 11:02
How I feel, usually. How someone views me factors into that - if they don't know about my gender fluidity then I'll usually present how they assume I will and tell them about it. I've not decided how to approach jobs yet - I feel like I look more professional when presenting male, but all my ID is female and that makes things awkward.

Gender ID markers are pretty fucking irritating.

Edit: Also time it takes to get ready. It's way easier to present as a disheveled guy than as a disheveled girl. People don't openly judge you on it. Sexism's great, guys.
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Post by: Welu on 19 Nov 2012, 14:57
I fixed my move counter! Some how! It wasn't uploading the data to the site (USB), displaying a calorie count and taking ages to change the daily goals but I fixed it! Some how!

Edit, ten minutes later: Tested it by plugging it in. It's not uploading data again. Some how!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Nov 2012, 16:02
I took a girl on a date last night. First time I've actually gone on a proper date in at least a year. What happens? Some shady fucker slips something in her drink. Her roommate had to take her home because she started feeling reeeally weird right when we had finally broken some ice.

I'm pissed off, and I can't even imagine how she must feel about it. I brought it to the bartender's attention and talked to a few of the regulars there, we're not gonna let shady shit ruin our bar, but fuck man.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Nov 2012, 03:34
I'm assuming there's no chance she might think you did it - I obviously know you wouldn't do that, but I hope it doesn't mean that your chances of seeing her again are damaged.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 20 Nov 2012, 10:07
Well, we all think it happened while her roomie and I were outside smoking weed, which took us about 30 minutes. Lots of opportunities for creepers to sneak up in that much time, and there were definitely two very creepy dudes sitting with her when we got back.

Honestly though I don't know if she wants to see me again or not. I texted her later saying I felt terrible for what happened to her, and said I'd really like to see her again somewhere where there's less boozin' and more daylight. She never replied, so I'm just gonna assume the worst and leave her alone.

In the meanwhile, I went out again last night, and started talking to a girl sitting at the bar about football. She told me she had a boyfriend, and I was well-behaved like always, but that didn't stop us cuddling outside when my friend smoked me out. I'm such a suckerrrrrr
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Post by: dr. nervioso on 22 Nov 2012, 17:00
Gah, It is only 8 pm?

Why did I get up so freaking early?

I almost wish I was going Black Friday crazy so I would have something to do.
But I don't have the patience
Or the money
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 Nov 2012, 07:31
So I got my new computer yesterday. It's just a little bit of an upgrade; I used to have this (http://www.dell.com/us/dfb/p/optiplex-755/pd#TechSpec) (well, I still do, but...), now I have this (http://www.chillblast.com/Chillblast-Fusion-Vector-Gaming-PC.html) (but slightly modified).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 23 Nov 2012, 07:36
Pat, you do not leave a girl alone on a date for half an hour. I mean, I'm hoping the best for you, but if I were her and some dude left me alone and then creepy dudes put shit in my drink, that would pretty much make that one of the worst dates/nights ever.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Nov 2012, 08:12
I don't wannnnnnnnna tutor tonight, or go to the orchestra rehearsal, or do the work I'd have to do if I didn't do those things. I want term to end already!
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Post by: Barmymoo on 23 Nov 2012, 10:28
Just got rejected from one of the unis I applied to for midwifery. I've got an interview from another and I'm waiting to hear from two more. I'm not all that cut up about it, because it'll all work out the way it's supposed to, but it's disappointing not to have that choice.
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Post by: Nikolai on 23 Nov 2012, 10:29
Sitting in the airport. 27 hours 'till I'm home. Eeeeeeeeeeee
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Nov 2012, 12:31
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Completely juvenile, I know ... but ...

I SOLD A PAINTING!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 Nov 2012, 12:38
Woo! Go you!

Which one? Was it one you've shown us before? (Have you shown us any before?)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 23 Nov 2012, 14:13
... good point ...

(https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-ash3/600323_10151161583443149_1807363296_n.jpg)

It's gone! Out of the building! Out of my hands! To someone I do not know well!

For money!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 23 Nov 2012, 14:35
Pat, you do not leave a girl alone on a date for half an hour. I mean, I'm hoping the best for you, but if I were her and some dude left me alone and then creepy dudes put shit in my drink, that would pretty much make that one of the worst dates/nights ever.

Yeah, I'm certainly not holding my breath. That said, she told me the other day that she was fine and no longer suspected anything had even been wrong with her drink. And then revealed to me she'd had a couple tequila shots while we were off and didn't tell us, hence the sudden changes in behavior. I texted her back saying I was glad she was okay, told her yeah, maybe another time, and haven't hit her up even one time since.

It's shit like this that makes me not want to meet/talk to new people. I don't wanna spend a whole uninterrupted night with some new chick who I hardly know and like 4-5 of her friends, have this shit happen, then get a "false alarm lol" text a couple days later. Idk. I'm not fond of being left to feel like shit for 2 days over something that wasn't even necessarily my fault.  :-\
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Post by: Patrick on 25 Nov 2012, 00:03
Yesterday was the longest day of my life.

I walk into work and it's insanely busy. My stockroom compadre Aaron is mopping up vomit off of the floor near the bathrooms, there's humans walking around EVERYWHERE asking me shit and I don't even start for another 30 minutes. That'll teach me to walk in with my work shirt on.

Next thing I know, I've got hellllllla curbside pickups to do, so I'm sprinting back and forth the whole 200m between offsite storage and the store and getting killer cardio.

Eventually somebody orders a table for pickup at the site nearest the store (but furthest from offsite) and my idiot manager Linda has stolen all the carts from offsite, so I carry a fucking 60lbs table all the way to the store from offsite. Thing's huge and awkward, all flatpacked in the box, and now my coworkers all think I'm "a beast". Nah dude. Just tryna get shit done.

After work, I go out into the parking lot to Matt's car (he was in Canada all week and let me borrow it) so I can pack a bowl and burn one and relax for a bit before going home. I go to blow my pipe out and I get hella weed ash in my right eye. So I ask the nearest person for help. Some Mexican guy who barely spoke any English (and I speak zero Spanish) was smoking a cigarette nearby and he went back into his work to grab an eye washing kit for me. He helps me out for 20 minutes afterward in broken English and all I can do is thank him and consider him a saint.

Eventually he leaves for his other job, and soon another car parks nearby. A gorgeous blonde girl gets out and I flag her down and ask her for help. By "help" I mean "shoot this bottle of eye wash solution into my eye" and it worked. So I smoked her out and we chatted it up for a little bit. I gave her a CD and a sticker for her trouble, but neglected to ask for her number.

So I go home, call my friend Bryant, and he and I go out to the bar. After the bar, we went next door to get some fast food with a friend. A few of our friends are already there, and so is a group of assholes who are looking for a fight. These assholes start instigating things, and sooner or later my friend Desiree goes and starts telling them off. Eventually, this led to her getting a drink thrown in her face, which led to her shoving him, which led to him punching her and throwing her over a table. Right around then, our friends who were already there jump in and start fucking fools up. A few other friends happened to be outside and saw the commotion, and my friend Erin jumped in to restrain one of the instigators. She wound up getting punched in the face, which led to my bud Andrew flipping his shit and beating the fuck out of the guy who hit her. He's got the guy by the throat, slamming his head into the table, punching him with the other hand, just wailing on him.

Eventually Andrew's guy's friends pull him off, and his guy runs out the front door right into the cops who are just pulling up. Cops took everyone's info down, watched surveillance footage from the restaurant, and grabbed the assholes who started it all.

I went the fuck home after, smoked several bowls with Bryant, and passed the fuck out.

Longest. Day. Ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 27 Nov 2012, 15:47
Fucking hell, I literally worked round the clock today. That's not at all what I'd wanted to do on my birthday.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 27 Nov 2012, 15:51
I spent my birthday watching Fight Club with a pretty girl. (It was originally scheduled to happen the night before, but in a unique fit of irony, I was dissociating too heavily to go see her.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 27 Nov 2012, 16:15
That's a good way to spend a birthday.

I don't know if it's the cold or season change or workload but I'm so drained lately. I don't usually have issues with SAD, at least not in Autumn/Winter. I tend to have my low moods in the Spring.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 27 Nov 2012, 16:36
I got four hours of sleep early this morning, woke up, freaked out until I threw up, and called out of work. Then I had to do some training from home and that was an amazingly stressful two hours of my life. And then I took the bus to see my psychiatrist, and I had a panic attack in his office. Then my boyfriend came over and we took a nap, and then he went home.

It's been a weird day.
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Post by: jwhouk on 27 Nov 2012, 17:58
Okay, I really have to ask: what is the definition of "freaking out"?

I mean, I'm a child of the 70's (sorta), so I immediately think of Le Chic. But what exactly does it consist of?

Not trying to make anyone uncomfortable, but I suspect my image (running around like Curly in an old Three Stooges short) isn't quite what it looks like.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 27 Nov 2012, 18:14
A panic attack. Usually of the variety where I can't breathe, I'm crying uncontrollably, and everything is wrong in my life.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 27 Nov 2012, 19:12
Actually, the running around like Curly thing is more like what you feel you body's doing, without you doing it.  Heightened adrenaline, shortness of breath... It's a fear reaction with little, if any, discernible trigger.  You just want to crawl out of your skin. 

I had several when I was in my teens.  I guess I got lucky and "grew out" of it.  My daughter suffers from them ever since she was attacked, and is on medication for it. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Nov 2012, 00:26
I don't usually refer to it as freaking out, but over the summer I had a fairly awful night each month where I would just feel a sense of blind panic, and pace around feeling really, really horrible and not quite being able to believe that the feeling would go away, and therefore wanting to die. Since it's stopped happening now that I've switched back to my old brand of Pill I'm fairly sure it was predominantly hormonal, for which I am incredibly grateful because I couldn't have coped with that every month.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 28 Nov 2012, 04:44
Yeah I'm not sure where I picked up the term but I use it a lot. And that blind panic is something I experience often. It's incredibly frustrating.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 28 Nov 2012, 04:51
A panic attack. Usually of the variety where I can't breathe, I'm crying uncontrollably, and everything is wrong in my life.
To jwhouk's question, I was imagining what a visual answer might be, perhaps even with a reference to someone in the comic. When you're freaking out, do you sit down, pace, go to bed and pull the covers over your head or all of the above? Hope the question's not intrusive.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 28 Nov 2012, 05:13
Generally I curl up in a ball wherever I can sit or lay down. I also try to hug a cat or cute boy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 28 Nov 2012, 05:28
Laying flat down on the ground is oddly soothing to me.
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Post by: lepetitfromage on 28 Nov 2012, 05:47
I second the lying down thing. Curling up into the fetal position can be soothing to me too.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 28 Nov 2012, 06:03
I found myself leaning against walls a lot this summer. It helped to have someone hugging me, but I convinced myself that no one would want to be near me so I couldn't ask, and of course no one knew that I was feeling that way because I was hiding.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Nov 2012, 12:26
Having a first world problem.

Friday night I'm going out with some people from work, plus my new housemate who moves in tomorrow.

It'll be my first night out since my marriage fell apart, and in fact it's been a couple of months before that since I had one too.

I was quite looking forward to... quite frankly, getting drunk out of my mind and waking up next to someone I don't recognise.

And then... somehow the office gossip has been invited along and now I feel like if I do anything even slightly untoward the entire office will know about it soon after.

Sigh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 28 Nov 2012, 12:30
Well, still go out and have a good time, just maybe go home alone after. Maybe non-work friends and/or your housemate can take you out again sometime soon and then you can have the other half you were looking forwards to?
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 28 Nov 2012, 13:59
Wake up next to the gossip. Problem solved.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 28 Nov 2012, 14:02
Wake up next to the gossip. Problem solved.

1. Have you seen this chick?

2. She has a boyfriend

3. I actually do like her boyfriend

4. Have you seen this chick?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 29 Nov 2012, 01:39
Serves her right for being a gossip.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 29 Nov 2012, 06:13
Yeah, but have you seen this chick?
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Post by: Lines on 29 Nov 2012, 06:34
No! Actually we haven't!  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Nov 2012, 06:38
Pics, or it didn't...

Oh, wait.  Nevermind. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 30 Nov 2012, 03:56
Tonight I ran into the girl I dated shortly after I moved back to this town in 2010. She and I had fantastic chemistry back then, and despite this being the first time we've really talked in over a year (some real shit happened), that much hasn't changed. I have her number again. I'm not sure what that means, but I'm glad we're on "we can talk and be friendly" terms again. She's really a great person and we just had bad timing as far as being friends is concerned. And being honest, as far as being lovers is concerned, our timing was terrible for that too.

I've got mixed but mostly positive feelings about this. Some of my feelings are on the "You've made mistakes that started out this way before" side but I've sobered up pretty dramatically since then.

I'll never understand myself enough.
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Post by: VonKleist on 30 Nov 2012, 04:58
Ugh.. I´m such a jerk.

I was looking for a song I had recorded some years ago and couldn't find it in my files. I realized I must have sent it to my then gf via email so it should still be somewhere on my account. I deleted all of "our" mails but not the ones from the "Sent" folder, so I went looking.

So of course I couldn't find the damn file and in addition I´m depressed from reading the stupid shit from back then and asking myself why I can't fucking forget that damn person despite it being nearly 3 years. It just frustrates the fuck out of me.
I keep reminding myself that it already got loads better and I can forget about the whole thing most of the time but then some small thing comes up that reminds me how it was and I get hot-cold and my inside turns to ice.

On the other hand this shit has become so fucking mundane to me that I can't even remember how I felt before.
But then I do remember that I was even more depressed before.
But also less because I didn't have anything to miss or look forward to.
Blagh.
Time to get drunk.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 30 Nov 2012, 05:09
I've got mixed but mostly positive feelings about this. Some of my feelings are on the "You've made mistakes that started out this way before" side but I've sobered up pretty dramatically since then.

I have no doubt that you've made just as many good choices that started this way before as well.
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Nov 2012, 05:54
Ugh.. I´m such a jerk.

I was looking for a song I had recorded some years ago and couldn't find it in my files. I realized I must have sent it to my then gf via email so it should still be somewhere on my account. I deleted all of "our" mails but not the ones from the "Sent" folder, so I went looking.

So of course I couldn't find the damn file and in addition I´m depressed from reading the stupid shit from back then and asking myself why I can't fucking forget that damn person despite it being nearly 3 years.

That's what email search engines are for.  Don't do that to yourself! 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 30 Nov 2012, 10:39
Bluhhhhhh, blog threadddd my head hurtssssssss

I'm not entirely sure what I did (or didn't do) but something is making my head hurt in the exact same way it hurt when I first started wearing my splint. My head feels......tight. Or full. I just feel a ridiculous amount of pressure between my temples. It feels a bit like my head is going to explode. Fun, huh?

I'm not sure why I'm sharing this with all of you, I think I just need to be whiney for a little while.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 30 Nov 2012, 14:15
asking myself why I can't fucking forget that damn person despite it being nearly 3 years. It just frustrates the fuck out of me.

Right? I feel obsessed - it's been three years and five days since she left me, and I'm still pining for her. I recognise it's unhealthy, that I'm idealising her, and that she's really not that good a person, but I'm still thinking about her a lot.

For what it's worth, the only reason I know the day she left me was because it was my nineteeth birthday. :-\

Laying flat down on the ground is oddly soothing to me.

Cleaning is soothing to me when I'm alone. If I'm around people I have to go the crazy kid route and put on my white noise headphones and rock myself - I probably look like some autistic stereotype, but it works pretty great.
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Post by: Welu on 30 Nov 2012, 15:04
... I can't fucking forget that damn person despite it being nearly 3 years. It just frustrates the fuck out of me.

Same feels here, even got bitter a couple days ago in the Relationship Thread. Been over three years and I'm grand 99% of the time but every once in a while a memory comes back from nowhere and I feel nearly as crap as I did back then. Like you I just have to remind myself things are way better now.

You'll never forget a person that had such an impact on you but over time the feeling of the impact lessens, then the memory of the feeling of the impact lessens. At least that's how it's going for me.

~ ~

In happier news, I just finished editing a wee film I did for college! Analytical thing about film trailers over the years. It's nothing amazing but I'm still quite proud. Especially because the neighbour, the one that blares dance music with his windows open, banged on the walls at one point
(click to show/hide)
and I started to feel anxious but managed to think, "Screw 'em. I've got work to do." and got it done! Even managed to speak above a mumbled whisper after a few takes.
It's not even due till Monday. I'm friggin' delighted.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 01 Dec 2012, 00:08
YOu keep on doing your art nom<atter who bangs on the ceiling/floor

http://kiwi6.com/file/3v0cnga7g3

I´ll sing my little heart out.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 01 Dec 2012, 01:00
I tried banging on the ceiling but I kept falling off.

Also, birthday. Also, kid in lap, stealing my coconut-straciatella pudding. ("Wat heerlijk, pudding.")
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Post by: VonKleist on 01 Dec 2012, 07:03
Happy Birthday, then!!



Good lord. I feel like I drank a bottle of turpentine.
Also I don't usually black out when I drink but I guess I get points for sleeping on the train for 3 hours straight and not getting robbed or even disturbed in my slumber. Luckily the train just goes back and forth and I awoke near my city.

So, friend's girlfriends birthday-party.
I had a good time. Got some weed, tried to convince my one friend who almost never joins us to come along to the party, but of course he didn't want to. Hung out with him for a bit more at another friend's house (who is sort of my dealer but also a friend from way back) and got really, really high and went on to the festivities.
It was a bit awkward at first because everyone kept talking about work (most of them people have something to do with craft [trade? handcraft? I found no translation that fit] or constructiony stuff) but that was okay. Two of ex-girlfriends of my pals showed up unexpectedly. Both of which I was totally into at one time or another.. there may have been some flirting.. but she said I´d have to get rid of my mustache. Meh, would be unethical anyway.

All in all it was a pretty good night and well worth the massive hangover.

Tomorrow is my sister's birthday so is more celebrating ahead tonight O.o
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 01 Dec 2012, 10:39
Yesterday was my sister's birthday and also the last day of NaNoWriMo. I was stressing about it because I still had 2400 words to go, but I couldn't exactly blow off dinner with my family for it. But it worked out. :) I ended up grabbing a present for her on the way from work to my parents' house, wrote until everyone else got there, and then after dinner, I pounded out 2,016 words in an hour and 35 minutes. If only I could have done that more often during the month, I wouldn't have been so stressed on the last day. So I managed to be properly sociable with my parents and sisters and boys-in-law, and also validated at 11:54pm with 50,215 words.
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Post by: jwhouk on 01 Dec 2012, 14:02
Impressive, dub!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Dec 2012, 19:14
i shall confess here and now that I don't actually know how to look like a boy nor am I sure I ever really did short of being extra-frumpy, and as I do not wish to return to a state of utmost frumpiness, i am unsure how to look or act like a boy. this may cause Problems in the very near future but oh well
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 03 Dec 2012, 03:42
Confessions thread is over there, buddy ;)

Dear blag, band practice went fantastically today! Our drummer Paul bought a PA (since he broke up with his girlfriend, he has found himself with a lot more disposable income) and I brought my mics over, so instead of just one mic for practice, we had one for each of us! As a result, we banged out a shitload more new material than we have at any practice before. We did work on six new songs, completed probably three of them, and of those three, there's one that we only started work on today. I can't wait for the show we've got coming up this Saturday!

After practice, we went to the bar and shot a few games of pool. I was leading against Paul in our match, and he's quite the pool shark and I was feeling rather proud of myself, but the bartender was in an especially foul mood (her ex bf had been text-harrassing her all night) and closed the place early. I never got to actually earn a win against drummerboy. We've got unfinished business for next time.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 03 Dec 2012, 04:03
Also I don't usually black out when I drink but I guess I get points for sleeping on the train for 3 hours straight and not getting robbed or even disturbed in my slumber. Luckily the train just goes back and forth and I awoke near my city.

I rode the Metro North into NYC (a 2-hour ride), fell asleep, and during one of the stops, fell onto the floor and woke up. Everyone was staring at me...I guess the "thump" was pretty loud.

I too was not robbed...but I was challenged to fisticuffs by a drunk guy who spoke no english. MTA Police eventually dragged him off the train by his ankles.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Dec 2012, 05:38
I've had a busy week! Term ended on Wednesday night, and I went out for cocktails (actually I had hot chocolate which is totes a dairy cocktail) to celebrate a friend not having cancer - she'd had some dodgy blood test results and panicked for a week before being told she was actually fine. Then on Thursday I hung out with some friends, sang in the first of two carol services and then hung out with my boyfriend's group of friends, who are really nice and have accepted me into their circle. I had to get up early on Friday to get a train to the BBC Good Food Show, which was HUGE and a bit overwhelming but very interesting. Then back to get changed and go to the winter ball. It was brilliant fun. I think it makes a big difference that I was there with friends and also with my boyfriend - it's the first time I've been to something like that as part of a couple. It was a bit odd because all the friends I was with have either recently split up or have partners who weren't there, so for the first time ever I was the one trying to be sensitive to the fact that not everyone had someone to slowdance with.

Saturday we slept in for ages and amusingly a friend came round at 11 (he hadn't been to the ball) and was rather embarassed to find us still in bed. Then Tom, the boy I was seeing last year, and his girlfriend and their fellow bandmate rang up and said "we're in your town, let's go for lunch!" so we did that and the Boy got to meet the ex-boy and it wasn't at all awkward which was nice. Then I went off to tutor for an hour, after which we had an evening in watching Julia Roberts DVDs. We haven't had time all term to just hang out and not have work to worry about, so it was really nice.

Sunday we went for brunch with some of the choir, then sang through a very difficult but impressively beautiful piece that one of the choir basses has written for his final year project. After that there was another carol service, followed by the choir singing an amusing Christmas song to people munching mince pies. Then we all went to a pub for dinner, and finally to bed.

Today is a day full of choir - I've snuck home in the lunch hour to plan my english lessons for this evening. Sadly I'm going to have to miss the choir carol singing and ice skating shenanigans which are half-planned, but I do need a couple of hours to myself to get things done anyway. I haven't slept in my own room since Wednesday night, which is lovely but also means my room is a sea of chaos because I've just walked in, dumped stuff, picked up clean clothes and left again.

I love choir week :) Lots of singing, lots of socialising, everyone is relaxed and we have time to do things.
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Post by: Redball on 03 Dec 2012, 07:01
Since it's a Christmas-gig group, this is the season of socializing and singing for my singers and except for the two-hour drive each way, I love it. We often go for dinner between or after gigs, sometimes both, and Saturday in a Birmingham (MI) pub, I found poutine on the menu. I don't think I'll need to try it again. It was bland.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 03 Dec 2012, 10:10
[...] Julia Roberts DVDs. [...]

This was a most Notting Hillish post anyway, so I asume that was on the menu? Please? For the sake of my mental image?
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Post by: Papersatan on 03 Dec 2012, 13:46
Yesterday I pretended I didn't have a ton of homework and instead bought made room for and put up a Christmas tree.  Her name is Gloria.  Pics soon.

Also
I have this huge team project due, for which I took on a role that meant doing most of the work.  That is ok, I volunteered for that.  I also volunteered to write the extra sorting projects and what not, fine.  But we have a team meeting in 15 min to talk about how to process the records from the working repository into the Records center, and it looks like I am the only one who has added anything to the working repository. 

I divided all the emails and sent them to my team on Friday.  I made sure they all knew how to ingest the records. I told them to email if there were questions.  I thought it was clear that they needed to be done by today, but maybe not?  Hopefully this means they have all be working really hard on their parts of the written report.
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Post by: LTK on 03 Dec 2012, 14:43
All right, I've got three deadlines in three days. Today, programming; tomorrow, research proposal and Wednesday, short essay. I handled programming and research proposal like a boss and turned them in 24 hours before the deadline. That gives me the time I need to do the last one, which should be the easiest. We just have to write a short essay about a few assigned articles every week, so I expect this week to be no different.

Wait, what? You're telling me that for this week's assignment I have to choose my own topic and find my own literature? OH FOR GODS SAKE WHYYYY
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Dec 2012, 15:09
I've just learned that I will be seeing my favorite living non-Beatles songwriter and his band playing my favorite non-Beatles album of all time in SF in a week.

Also I am eating a chicken tender + pepper jack sandwich and drinking Mountain Dew on a sunny, marijuana hazed day off.

I am a happy little Pat today
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Post by: valley_parade on 03 Dec 2012, 16:02
Mikey Erg's doing a solo tour and playing Dorkrockcorkrod in entirety?
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Dec 2012, 16:13
David Bazan is at the helm of Pedro The Lion doing a 10th anniversary tour for Control. You better fucking believe I'm singing every single word.
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Post by: valley_parade on 03 Dec 2012, 16:23
Oh holy fuck.
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Post by: Patrick on 03 Dec 2012, 16:29
On top of that I'm going with someone I've known since middle school (I guess she's talking romantically to my freshly-single drummer, who is in fact the reason I know of PTL) and her best friend, who is mad sexy and once asked me to come play "Bitches Ain't Shit" and Beatles songs at a house party.
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Post by: Lines on 03 Dec 2012, 17:37
Yesterday I pretended I didn't have a ton of homework and instead bought made room for and put up a Christmas tree.  Her name is Gloria.  Pics soon.

Yay! Also do you still have the little one? You should pretend it's Gloria's tree baby. I heard you like Christmas trees, so I put a tree in your tree so you can *fill in the blank*?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 03 Dec 2012, 17:50
We do have the little one, I have put it on the kitchen table as a center piece.  :) Now two rooms are festive.
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Post by: snalin on 03 Dec 2012, 20:15
So I have an exam in 4 hours. I'm probably going to ace it, unless there's something from the last two chapters (out of 18ish) which I have no idea what is about, really. They're probably not going to show up at all, but I decided to look a bit at them. Just in case.

Turns out that the part of the book I haven't read starts with - without any context - a quote from Pride and Prejudice. Looking back, every part of the book has a quote attached to it, the three first by Austen, and the last one by one C. Stevens (this one (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Raymond_C._Stevens)?)

We all love to instruct, though we can teach only what is not worth knowing - Austen, from P&P
Are they implying that the methods taught in the book is not worth knowing, or that they are unteachable?

Allow me to say, ... , that the arguments with which you have supported this extraordinary application have been as frivolous as the application was ill-judged.
Before a chapter about applications of LP-methods. Hehe.

There is, I believe, in every disposition a tendency to some particular evil, a natural defect, which not even the best education can overcome
In my case, the defect seems to be posting instead of cramming. Or maybe not getting geometric interpretations of problems. Protip, educators; n-dimensional objects are really cool, but for the vast majority of us, they are not easy to visualize, so don't use them to help us understand what's going on unless there's really nothing else to work with.

It's hard. But it's harder to ignore it.
It hasn't been that hard to ignore that I should work harder at this course.

 :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Dec 2012, 00:22
Dijkstra's book on Algol-60 headed the chapter on procedures and parameters with "All jokes are better when applied to bishops".  The definition of the language Algol-68 had a quote from Winnie the Pooh over the section on I/O - it was from the story where Eeyore gets a burst balloon and an empty honey pot for his birthday and ends up happily putting the balloon in the pot and taking it out again "look, he said, it goes in and out like anything!"
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Dec 2012, 00:47
I just shaved half my head.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Dec 2012, 02:13
Looks fucking awesome, by the way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 04 Dec 2012, 02:24
thanks! it was my second time using clippers but definitely not my first time drastically altering my appearance on a whim
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Post by: Patrick on 05 Dec 2012, 04:13
I just found out that my stockroom manager, whose heavy handed, passive-aggressive approach is completely useless at managing actual human beings, may well be getting fired soon. Literally everyone in the store except for one person (who got the job because of her recommendation, and is a complete darling) has complained about her. The person most likely to replace her has been not only delightful company and a good friend since day one, but instrumental in improving my work attitude and performance.

If this rumor turns out to be true, I guarantee that the next shift after I find out, I'm making my family's fried chicken recipe in bulk and bringing it to work so we can all celebrate. I will also barely try not to get caught whistling "Ding Dong, The Witch Is Dead" gleefully throughout the store.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 05 Dec 2012, 12:01
Just finished my last assignment for one of my classes.  Now I just have a presentation, a group paper, a personal reflection, an essay, and two finals left! 

6 more deliverables, 10 more days

That's not so bad.  I am going to go put up some Christmas lights before tackling this next paper.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Dec 2012, 12:02
Tonight I'm getting on a bus and will be spending three days going across country.

Ughhhhhh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 05 Dec 2012, 12:27
thanks! it was my second time using clippers but definitely not my first time drastically altering my appearance on a whim

I shaved my whole head as a kind of 'clean break from marriage' thing. Didn't know you had Facebook, add me! I'm on Patrick's friends list.

Also, I have flu or some shit. I ache all over, want to throw up, I'm light-headed and I have a bitch of a fever.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Dec 2012, 12:31
Done! (Also, I used to live near where you live.)
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Post by: Thrillho on 05 Dec 2012, 12:33
Whereabooooots?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Dec 2012, 12:34
Runcorn.

I don't really remember it being much of anything special, other than the fact my family lived there.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 05 Dec 2012, 12:39
You'd be right. This whole area of the country is ho hum. Oxford has a uni in it, and that's it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 05 Dec 2012, 12:41
I shaved my whole head as a kind of 'clean break from marriage' thing.

I think hair cutting is actually pretty common after a break up. My best friend used to grow it out in relationships and chop it off when they ended, and with each break up it got shorter.  Which was fine, cause she can rock short hair. 


Gonna need more Christmas lights, that string only went half way.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 05 Dec 2012, 13:14
Runcorn.

Um, Runcorn ain't near where Gareth and I live...  like they're nearly 150 miles apart, which is quite a lot here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Dec 2012, 13:19
What's the difference between an American and a Brit?

The American thinks 150 years is a long time, the Brit thinks 150 miles is a long distance.  :wink:
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Post by: Lines on 05 Dec 2012, 13:40
Well, to be fair...Great Britain is like...2% of the size of the U.S. So our perspectives of distance are a bit warped, yeah?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 05 Dec 2012, 14:07
I'd be willing to make a short flight for a UK QC meet.  :mrgreen:
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Post by: Thrillho on 05 Dec 2012, 14:10
A QC meet would be fucking bitchin'!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 05 Dec 2012, 14:17
how unprecedented!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 05 Dec 2012, 17:07
The American thinks 150 years is a long time, the Brit thinks 150 miles is a long distance.  :wink:
An American thinks 500 miles is a short distance; a Chinese thinks 500 years is a short time. :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 05 Dec 2012, 18:17
I'd beg to differ on the 500 miles being a "short distance", given that 500 miles is a good 8-10 hour drive.

And in some parts of the US, that could mean not seeing anything of importance in that time frame.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 06 Dec 2012, 15:50
I've heard lots of people expressing themselves about how bad the new iTunes interface is.  Now that mine has updated itself, I can say that in my view it is just as bad as it was before, but different.  No worse (and no better), I'd say - apart from the added bugs.

For something that must be considered a major application (given the number of iDevices there are out there), it was, and remains, appallingly bad.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 06 Dec 2012, 17:05
It took me a while to figure out how to get it back to something resembling how I had it before (you now have to "Show Sidebar" to get the list of libraries, devices and playlists).

I don't care much for it.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 06 Dec 2012, 19:00
I'd beg to differ on the 500 miles being a "short distance", given that 500 miles is a good 8-10 hour drive.

I remember several years ago, when I had a little more cash and a lot more free time, my wife and I would go on "day trips" to New Hampshire, NW Massachusetts/Mohawk Trail, occasionally to Mitsuwa Japanese Marketplace in Edgewater NJ...various other places with 250 miles of CT. Now that I travel the state for work, ironically I find less and less time (and more financial demands) for leisurely traveling. But I remember our week-long trip driving to Niagara Falls...I think I've gotta do that again.

TL;DR: I view miles much more casually than my parents, who would say that a 20-mile ride equates to a "day trip."

♫ Day tripper....day tripper, yeah.... ♫
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Post by: valley_parade on 06 Dec 2012, 20:30
Oh hey, I live on the Mohawk Trail!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 07 Dec 2012, 01:44
I've heard lots of people expressing themselves about how bad the new iTunes interface is.
When I updated, I wondered what all the fuss was about. There's a lot of "chrome" that adds nothing useful, as far as I am concerned. My playlists, scripts etc. all seem to work OK as before. I don't especially like it, but I never liked the old interface either. Meh...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 07 Dec 2012, 01:51
When I plug my iPhone in and look at the TV programs, for about half of them the interface shows no episodes, and for some just a random selection of them.  Just the most obvious new bug I hit in a single use of the program.

Having to poke around at random marks on the screen to find the main menu was just a pointless waste of time; I don't understand this current obsession with hiding the controls of programs (all the browsers do the same now, by default).  What kind of lives do the designers have that they think it's improved by spending the time doing that?
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Post by: Akima on 07 Dec 2012, 04:35
You plug an Apple device into Apple software and immediately encounter obvious bugs? Stellar testing Apple-guys...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Dec 2012, 05:28
[...] Julia Roberts DVDs. [...]

This was a most Notting Hillish post anyway, so I asume that was on the menu? Please? For the sake of my mental image?

I apologise - it was actually Erin Brockovich. But I do love Notting Hill, and ought to get it on DVD.

Choir week finished yesterday, and by a coincidence of forgetfulness (on the part of my employers, not me), my afternoon babysitting was rescheduled so I spent several hours in the pub for the birthday of one of the basses. Then the Boy and I went to pack up his room - mostly I just sat on the bed looking decorative and sneezing from the dust, but I helped out whenever there were jobs that didn't involve making decisions about where to put things or reaching high cupboards.

He left this morning, and I went off to meet a friend for a leisurely breakfast. She got married five months ago and I hadn't seen her since, so we had a lot of catching up to do. I came back intending to tidy my room but it is so horrifyingly messy that I feel defeated by the idea. I'm going to have to go though - I can't actually see my bed.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 07 Dec 2012, 05:36
Order a bigger bed.

Snow, ladies and gentleman. Snow is falling. Flakeage, if you will, has been achieved.

For some strange reason this is the day I decided to clean the deep-fryer and fix my bike.
 
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Post by: Lines on 07 Dec 2012, 06:06
I really hate waiting for grades. It's been a week and a project I turned in still doesn't have a grade. I know this is a huge online class that I'm waiting on, but the instructors have also been a little behind grading minor stuff and we still have a paper that is due during finals week. The university doesn't give much time for grading finals and I need this effing class to graduate and I don't want to wake up the day of graduation with a, "Surprise! You can't actually graduate!" UGH. I don't know what's worse - the stress of dealing with school or the stress of waiting for grades to come out. I am so freaking tired of school.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Dec 2012, 06:10
A bigger bed would be so appreciated. My bed isn't even a full-sized single, so we don't even try to sleep in it. The Boy's bed is a full single, but the bed base is narrower than the mattress (and UK single beds are smaller than US single beds anyway) and I sleep on the open side, so I sometimes find myself rolling off the bed base and only just not falling off the mattress. It's really sweet though, because the Boy sleep-rescues me without any memory of doing so the next morning.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 07 Dec 2012, 06:12
That may be the cutest thing I ever read. You should probably have written it in pink.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Dec 2012, 07:03
Ah, the very small bed! May may heard this story on her visit here, but a search on the forum suggests I never wrote about it:
In the Peace Corps in India, my first wife and I were assigned to a municipal tenement in Bombay, about 300 square feet with a kitchen, livingroom/bedroom, closet size toilet and closet size washroom. So it seemed like a good idea at the moment to have a trundle bed built for us. She slept on the upper, I on the lower. Our marriage of three years or so didn't have nearly enough sex, and the bed further discouraged intimacy. I had some correspondence with the first wife last summer, friendly but reserved. She reminded me about the bedbug infestation that struck a few weeks after our arrival. She said she told me one night she was being attacked by the bugs and could she move down onto my bed. I told her, she recalled, that I didn't think there was room. She told me she realized the marriage was over at that point, that I would never make room for her. She evidently kept her thoughts to herself; I didn't realize the marriage was over for at least another year and a half.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Dec 2012, 10:17
Yeah, definitely The Wrong Answer. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Dec 2012, 10:30
Although I do sort of agree, in that I would have felt a bit peeved if I'd been told there wasn't room for me in my husband's bed, I have to say that ending a marriage over it sounds very poetic and all, but is also really just a bit stupid. It's a lovely metaphor, but that can't really be the reason she decided it was over.
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Dec 2012, 10:36
Clearly there was a buildup before this event.  I imagine her point of view was that it was the proverbial straw...
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Dec 2012, 14:22
I think there are lots of situations in life, or in a relationship when one event can be the trigger that gains meaning for you and pushes you to think about your relationship, or whatever, in new terms.

Back in 2003 or so Stephen and I shared a townhouse with my best friend.  My best friend had this little cat, Jade. One day Jade got stick and curled up in a corner and refused to eat. We knew something was really wrong, because our cat, Sam, who never got along with her, started being nice, and grooming her.  We took her to the vet and they told us she was anemic and before they could even figure out what was wrong, they had to give her a blood transfusion, which was going to cost $1,500.  This was about what the three of us, combined, made in a month, and was therefor well out of our price range. We took her home and started gathering money to have her put down.  My friend arranged an appointment, and on the day the three of us were all going to go together.  She was going straight from work, so I drove home to pick up Stephen and Jade.  When I walked in Stephen was asleep on the sofa with Jade perched on his chest.  I got the carrier and woke him up, and he told me he needed to shower first.  I was frustrated, because we didn't have a lot of time, and he knew when the appointment was, and then he explained.  Apparently, she had started crying and holding her made her stop.  She was super weak at this point, and while laying on him had peed on him.  He didn't want to disturb her when she was finally napping peacefully so he just lay there, soaked in cooling cat pee, and waited for me to get home to comfort her. 

That is when I knew I wanted to marry him.  Even though we didn't talk about marriage for another 2 or 3 years, I knew that day. 

It can be difficult to express how you feel about someone until something happens which you can use as a metaphor to process with.  If Redball's wife felt there was no room for her in his life, she had felt like that or sometime, but this even may have provided the concrete example she needed to process or articulate those feelings.  That said, if she decided that night the relationship was over, instead of sharing how his refusal made her feel, the relationship was doomed for sure.  Once one person decides a relationship is doomed, it always is. 

The space in which a relationship exists is almost a shared delusion.  The boundaries are created as the understanding of the two (or more) parties push against each other and create some thing that the relationship is.  Like two people able to stand straight up from the ground by leaning against each other's back.  If one stops trying, there is no way for the other to keep them both up. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 07 Dec 2012, 14:39
What a great story, Kat! You worried a few days ago you write too much. But you write so thoughtfully and readably, I don't notice the length.
First wife and I didn't communicate very well, and whatever was going on then demonstrated that. Did much better in the second marriage. But then we'd met in group therapy, where I'd gone as soon as the first marriage ended.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Dec 2012, 16:19
I agree, Kat you write beautifully and almost everything you post makes me think carefully and educates me (I have to admit I make an exception for some of the things you post in the drunk thread).
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Post by: Papersatan on 07 Dec 2012, 18:06
Thanks guys. :)
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Post by: Lines on 08 Dec 2012, 06:22
Way to make me all teary eyed.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Dec 2012, 11:46
Matt and I had a girls' day out yesterday. By that I mean we went shopping and got out hair cut together, and then went out to the bar.

At the bar, a group of people showed up all dressed in cheesy Christmas clothes, and as I was ordering a beer I complimented them as a group. Soon enough, a really cute girl split from them and we started talking. We got to talking, I got her number, we barhopped together a little bit, and now despite my hangover I can't stop thinking about how cute she is.

After the night's festivities came to a close, Matt and I were both drunk, so we hitched a ride with the bartender Scotty (a dear friend of mine and my Wednesday boss). I was quite pleased to see them getting along so well.

I'm quite the chipper little guy today, guys, even though my head's fucking pounding.
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Post by: Thrillho on 08 Dec 2012, 13:46
Jesus Christ Pat you are like a girl processing machine
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Post by: Redball on 08 Dec 2012, 16:52
Shits, giggles and 80 Euros or more? Sounds worthwhile to me. Your tolerance reminds me of the concluding novel of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo trilogy.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 09 Dec 2012, 02:24
Try a new career

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Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Dec 2012, 10:07
I'm back in NY. Greyhound lost my duffel of clothes, and I've had a migraine for three days - two of which I was on a bus.

I'm pretty miserable, all around.

Edit: I've been talking to this person (Kit - she's got the whole 'multiple personality' thing going on as well, so we ended up getting close as I turned to her for help) in England, and we're sort of vaguely partners in a long distance relationship, though she's in this sort of relationship with several other people and I'm fairly sure I rank fairly low in terms of priority. Anyhow - she's come to Amerika and she's traveling around to see her partners/friends, and one person she's seeing lives in Jamestown, NY - where I used to live! So I talk to her, figuring that we might know each other.

Turns out, no, we don't - but she knows my ex, and she lives in my old apartment.

FUCKING WEIRD.

But, no, it gets stranger - right now, Kit's in Boston, staying with someone named Tuttle. I recognise that name - my ex Amelia was close friends with someone named Tuttle in Boston. Is he the same person? Turns out, yes.

My life is so weird.
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Post by: Thrillho on 09 Dec 2012, 11:57
I think my head just exploded, dude.
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 Dec 2012, 12:49
Writing up my part of a group report for a group project in which I did most of the work.  Getting more and more bitter each time I write "we" and really mean "I".
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Post by: Welu on 09 Dec 2012, 13:36
I know that feel all too well.

~ ~

I supervised alone for the first time last night. It went okay I think. The shop didn't burn down overnight and I haven't got any texts or calls saying I screwed up yet. Didn't hit me until I was locking up that I was actually in a position of responsibility.
Went to the staff do after. Was really fun, best of the bunch I've been too even though I missed the dinner. People played in the fountain. I didn't but I watched them while I realized barely drinking for a year has really lowered my tolerance.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Dec 2012, 14:09
I think my head just exploded, dude.

 :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:
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Post by: Lines on 09 Dec 2012, 16:20
Writing up my part of a group report for a group project in which I did most of the work.  Getting more and more bitter each time I write "we" and really mean "I".

Ugh. I hate those. You could just stop proofing and when only you did something, use "I" instead. It's passive agressive, but FUCK GROUP PROJECTS. Like I understand that working in groups is supposed to be a skill or whatever, but I always get stuck with the people who don't give a shit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 09 Dec 2012, 17:46
Anyone in the US/Canada who wants to see what my day has been like, tune in to the Sunday Night Football game and look at the snow falling.

All day.

ALL.

DAY.
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 Dec 2012, 18:46
I've realized that  I need to drive to the state archives to finish a paper.  It is my own fault I misunderstood the scope of my paper and thought I had done enough research.  The paper is due Tuesday, so tomorrow is my only day to go.  This sucks because it means I need to miss a review session tomorrow, which I could really have used.  It also means I have to drive an hour to Lansing, do the research and then drive back here to write the paper. 

The good news is I am not really being graded on the quality of my paper.  The assignment was to "secret shop" the archive.  I misunderstood though and thought my deliverable was just a paper on my experience, but I need to make a pass at the "pretend" paper I told them I was writing with examples of the types of materials they had to help me.  I didn't take photos of anything, and I only had one photocopy made.

Blerg.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 09 Dec 2012, 19:41
Anyone in the US/Canada who wants to see what my day has been like, tune in to the Sunday Night Football game and look at the snow falling.

All day.

ALL.

DAY.

do you ever talk about anything other than sports? I honestly can't remember a single time I've read a post of yours that wasn't about sports. edit: I checked - most of your wcdt posts aren't sports-related, but I don't read that so I get a bit of a slanted view.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 09 Dec 2012, 21:54
do you ever talk about anything other than sports? I honestly can't remember a single time I've read a post of yours that wasn't about sports. edit: I checked - most of your wcdt posts aren't sports-related, but I don't read that so I get a bit of a slanted view.
(http://blog.al.com/scenesource/2009/04/medium_John%20Madden.jpg)
FOOTBALL!!!!!
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 10 Dec 2012, 01:08
Get your Madden curse out of this thread!!!
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Post by: Jace on 10 Dec 2012, 01:50
Buildin a buggy out of 2 deffkoptas and extra bits. Its coming along pretty nicely.
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Post by: Lines on 10 Dec 2012, 05:27
Blerg.

This sounds like a really confusing project...
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Post by: jwhouk on 10 Dec 2012, 06:26
do you ever talk about anything other than sports? I honestly can't remember a single time I've read a post of yours that wasn't about sports. edit: I checked - most of your wcdt posts aren't sports-related, but I don't read that so I get a bit of a slanted view.

Well, you see, I'm not much for TV shows or movies; I'm not a gamer; and about the only thing I'm really geeky about is webcomics and sports.

Oh, I do occasionally do the car appreciation thing, and I do get worked up about highways and travel, too.

But other than that? Yeah. Sports.

Hockey, Football, Baseball, Auto Racing, then pretty much everything else.

(Unfortunately, Hockey has been demoted until the idiots in the NHL and PA get their heads out of their asses.)
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2012, 08:40
So Stephen and I feed the birds.  Last year we had mostly sparrows (as is to be expected) and a few finches.  This year we put up a suet block because I had seen a woodpecker about and wanted to attract it.  We also got this guy:
(https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-cn1IUn56DaI/UMYOFTl9E0I/AAAAAAAACas/PsIvb81Q5no/s683/IMG_20121210_112924.jpg)

He is on the seed feeder here, but he mostly goes for the suet.  Cornell tells me it is a red-breasted nuthatch. 

I was thinking about getting a nyjer seed feeder too, and now I think I might just do.
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Post by: Carl-E on 10 Dec 2012, 09:14
Are you in an attic apartment or something? 

I notice roofs, ever since I worked for my father as a contractor, repairing and replacing old slates. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2012, 14:58
Soft of.  We are on the second floor and there is no full attic, just a crawl space.  Most of our walls are straight, but the closets slant with the roof.  The roof in the picture is the porch on the house next door (and a corner of their upper floor).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2012, 17:14
Went to the archive today, spent 3 hours there, got photo copies.  Still not sure I know what to write about.  4,000 word paper due in 17 hours. <head desk>

Just get it done Kat,

Grades don't matter
Grades don't matter
Grades don't matter

EDIT:
Also, I have checked the google doc for the group paper due tomorrow and there is nothing in it except the part I added.  It needs to be a cohesive paper by "close of business" tomorrow. I know that 3 of us have a class 1-4 and a paper due, and the other one is out of town for a family emergency...  When is this paper getting edited? Cause I will not be waking up early to do it.  I did my part two days ago.  It is going to need a proof read and then someone has to export it to word to fix the formatting and add the images. 
It should not be me, since I did most of the other work for this project.
ARRRGGHHH

If at close of business there is nothing but my part there, I will submit what I did with a disclaimer.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 10 Dec 2012, 18:30
I have a 6-8 page paper also due tomorrow by 12 that I need to finish tonight because I won't have time in the morning, so go us! WORK! And then I have another due by midnight. And then at some point I really need to turn in that project I was complaining about last week, because, uh, I haven't yet.

Also I totally agree with you on the bit about sending it in with a disclaimer.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 10 Dec 2012, 19:34
do you ever talk about anything other than sports? I honestly can't remember a single time I've read a post of yours that wasn't about sports. edit: I checked - most of your wcdt posts aren't sports-related, but I don't read that so I get a bit of a slanted view.

I should also point out that because of my job situation, I can't readily talk about work. It doesn't help that I was smack dab in the middle of the ####storm that started in February of 2011 in my wonderful home state. Barmymoo can attest to the "delicate" nature of my workplace.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2012, 19:45
(china shop)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 10 Dec 2012, 20:28
I hate assigning group projects.  Too many of them either a) blow up or b) peter out.  Either way, the project never gets finished, unless it's done individually anyway.  The notion of pairing weaker students with stronger ones is a crock as well.  The weak ones learn nothing but how to stand aside to let the stronger students do everything, and i think they already knew how to do that...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 10 Dec 2012, 21:57
Ugg this non group project, I really should have done something different, and have read the assignment more closely.  I am so fucked.  Like, getting a c in this class I think. 

So, I thought because of how he talked about it in class, and I am not the only one, that the focus of this report was on "secret shopping" the archive.  But the break down of our grade:
15 points the fake product we researched.
10 points our documentation/bibliography
5 points our assessment of the user services at the archive. 

My report is cobbled together crap because I picked a topic I knew nothing about at an archive no where near me.
My bibliography is sparse
I have tons to say about the user services.

I guess the sourcing being 10 points is so we can prove we used the archive? I dunno.  But I am getting a 'C' on this pretty sure.  I will have to ace this final. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 11 Dec 2012, 01:32
Tonight, I saw David Bazan and his band play Pedro The Lion's Control, which is one of my favorite albums of all time. God damn, was it a brilliant show, and it's probably the best birthday present anyone's gotten me, regardless of whether it was 3 weeks in advance of my actual birthday or not. The rest of my day, however, had me as angry as I think I have ever been.

Most of the time, I am more than willing to put up with a specific manager's bullshit, suck it up, and be polite. Not today. After having tried unsuccessfully for 10 days to get my shift covered, I sucked it up and went in this morning and put everything I had into it in hopes of maybe getting let off early. My shift was scheduled to end at 7:30, and my friends and I wanted to leave early so we'd be sure we didn't hit traffic.

So 7:25 rolls around, and over the walkie I ask Linda (my manager) if there's any last quick thing she needs me to do. She says "Is the trash and cardboard gone?" and I replied "No, but that's going to take me a half hour, is there anyone who can help me?" She replied "It's the responsibility of the closing stock person to take all of that out before clocking out" and I replied "Well, I'm off right now and closing isn't for another 4 hours" and she said "You're going to take the trash out or we're going to have a talk and you're going to leave later." Bitch, you don't get to make decisions that affect payroll like that, not without talking to the store or district manager.

Cue epic fucking rage time. I grabbed the key to offsite off my belt, slammed it on the counter where it belongs, emptied all the trash cans, emptied the register trash bins, tied everything up, grabbed all the bags and hucked them into the trash compactor as quickly as possible, slammed it shut. Went back for the cardboard, and didn't even grab all of it, because fuck no I'm not going to fix her fucking mistakes. Shoved my boxes full of empty boxes into the cardboard compactor. Some of them wouldn't quite fit all the way through the door, so I lifted myself up onto the compactor and shoved them in, kicking and kneeing and generally doing what I would've loved to have done to her face.

You don't keep me from my heroes. Not now, not ever. Not when I bust my ass trying to get as much done as possible so I can leave work early. Not when she fucked up payroll for this week by keeping me a total of 90 minutes longer than I would've been there if it hadn't for her fucking up her job. Not when she's already officially on thin ice with corporate for a history of rulebreaking and making her subordinates feel like shit. And certainly not when it's the first time in 10 years David Bazan has played "Rapture" and not when he's never going to play it again. FUCK NO YOU DON'T FUCK WITH ME SEEING MY HEROES.

I am filing my second formal complaint about how her behavior toward me has been disproportionately ill compared to the rest of my coworkers since day one. This has been the last fucking straw.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 11 Dec 2012, 06:32
A former co-worker of mine died earlier this year. Since I hadn't seen him since I left my former place of work, I thought he had died of natural causes.

Turned out, he didn't. (http://host.madison.com/wsj/news/local/crime_and_courts/oakhill-guard-s-suicide-shakes-up-family-prison/article_b03536a4-515d-577d-83f7-ab012d5a5f8e.html)

This bothers me to no end.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Dec 2012, 06:50
Any doubt about his allegations?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 11 Dec 2012, 11:33
Man, that story is very sad. Bullying at any age is wrong and you'd think most adults would understand that, but apparently not.  :-(

In other news, I turned in my final paper for my art history class. It sucks. I have no idea if it even makes any sense whatsoever. Probably because half of it got written in the wee hours of the morning before I passed out. So, uh, yeah. Pretty sure I have an A because of everything else I've done for the class, so at least I know I'll still pass the class... I have B.S. paper due tonight I'm not looking forward to, either, and I should start it but I don't want to because fuck papers and fuck writing a paper that's basically a written version of a project I turned in two weeks ago. Repetitive busy work is stupid.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 11 Dec 2012, 12:18
Blerg.

So you had to go to the archives and pretend that you're writing a paper to...see how they deal with that? I'm guessing that's what you mean by "secret shop". Like those people that test supermarkets and what-not? And then you have to write this fake paper that you only made up to get into the archive?

That seems rather bizarre. Have I missed something?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Dec 2012, 12:23
No that is pretty much it. 

I think the point was to make us actually write the paper so we would actually use the archives and appreciate the struggle of trying to find information in them.  I made the mistake of choosing the archive based on my interest in the archives responsibility for user services, and not base on a topic I care about. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Dec 2012, 14:08
There was an electrical fire in the basement; nothing like waking up to "the house is on fire."

Some electronics blew out (power surge) but nothing really important, other than my speaker system.

I'm still sick from the bus ride - some kind of sinus infection has been kicking my ass. I slept for 16 hours last night, and I feel like I could do that again tonight.

I feel okay, though, emotionally. Kind of numb, but that's better than the alternative. I don't have a bedroom like I was promised - so I'm in the process of cleaning out the attic, which is packed full of moldy clothes, broken wood, and porn - like most attics, I suspect.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 11 Dec 2012, 14:11
I was once woken up by a fireman; in that instance what was on fire was my piano:

(http://cassland.org/images/piano.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 11 Dec 2012, 14:14
I think I once woke up my parents with this exchange:

Me: *knock, slightly open bedroom door* The ceiling's leaking.
Mum: What? Don't let the dog in.
Me: The ceiling's leaking.
Mum: Oh.
Me: ... There's water dripping through the ceiling in the hall.
Mum: OH! Da, wake up.
Da: *snore*
Dog: *WOOF*
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Dec 2012, 14:16
I was once woken up by a fireman; in that instance what was on fire was my piano:
I've heard of tickling the ivories, but never setting them on fire.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 11 Dec 2012, 14:32
Not a Jerry Lee Lewis fan, then?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Dec 2012, 14:32
Finished the stupid archives paper.  Probably the worst assignment I have done in grad school. 

The assignment was two parts (as discussed above) the first said "it would be difficult to do well on this part with under 3,000 words.  and the second was meant to be "under 1,000 words" My whole paper was 2,500 words, not proofread at all and turned in 1 min before the deadline. 

Welp.  Guess I am gonna need to ace this final.


In team paper news two of the four members have not done their parts yet. I just sent them an email.  This professor is not very strict, so I am sure we are fine, but *I* plan on getting drunk tonight, so if people don't get their shit in til 10 or 11, I am nto proofreading or editing.  Sorry bros
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 11 Dec 2012, 16:32
Well, I'd say it's officially their problem.

In other news, I keep forgetting to get my graduation gown and hood. I hope the bookstore still has them. Or has them at all, because I sure didn't order them... I guess I could borrow them if need be. Graduating in winter is odd.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Dec 2012, 16:42
I have decided to have a strong drink and forget about it.

My personal reflection makes clear that I did most of the other work, this professor is not strict and I have an 'A' in the class, so it is not like I will fail for this.  My email gave them an outline of what needs to be done in case they are unclear. I shared the images I need embedded in my part.  I will look at it  tomorrow and if it is still not done I will worry about it then.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 11 Dec 2012, 18:23
Mmm, drinks. I think I'll have one after I finish this lol-ercoaster of a reflection paper. At least it's typing up fast because I get to use the notes I wrote out for the voice recording I had to make. (Yes, this paper is basically a transcript of another project that I turned in two weeks ago. Why it's even a thing, I don't even know.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 11 Dec 2012, 22:35
Second day in a row and 4th shift in a week where my stock manager has sprung a major task on me within 10 minutes of my shift ending. I told my boss that I'm going to quit in 1 month if said manager doesn't 1. stop working there or 2. stop treating me like her whipping/wage slave boy all day and then let me know about a major responsibility that can only be completed well beyond my work time frame.

She's making me look bad personally, she's making the store look bad because the task in question could have been completed earlier (and we wouldn't have to worry about the mega-big bigwig visit tomorrow morning), she's making our boss look bad by fucking up payroll and the overall metrics of the store's functionality, and she's a complete and total bitch about it in the meanwhile.

I'm dead serious, if she isn't gone in a month, I'm done working there. I can't work in the kind of environment where my stock comrade (who isn't even a manager!) can manage more productivity out of me and the entire store in general in a single shift than the bitch with the title and the pay grade can in a whole week.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 12 Dec 2012, 01:22
I would say that as she continues to do this, you should ask for her to make a written note of the time (that you can see and have a copy of) that she is asking for these requests, give some bullshit reason like upper management or HR asked why you keep being over hours or something and you just want to show them that you are doing the stuff assigned to you when it is assigned. This will either have the effect of her not asking you to do that, or will show that she is giving you tasks near the end of your shift and as such is the problem. It may seem like it won't help, but I have found that management seems to side with management over regular employees, and it is really shitty because she can say she gave you the task hours beforehand and you didn't do it until 10 minutes before your shift ends.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Dec 2012, 04:35
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH HA HA

Oh maaaan:


Quote
I still haven't done my SI528 examplary research paper yet, my SI580 paper and Si501 paper prevents me doing the SI528 paper now.  But, I will be sure to make my SI528 group part available today.  Very sorry for the 1-day delay.

Yeah?  Well we all had a lot of other work.  You knew this shit was your responsibility weeeks ago.  In fact, technically it was supposed to be done before I created the records center and we ingested all the records, since, you know, the point of it was that your research would help is create our working definition of a record.

I, am going back to bed.

Fuck
group work
forever.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 12 Dec 2012, 12:33
Confronted my neighbour about his music today. This is the event and exchange as best as I can try to objectively remember:

I'm woken up by the music. Look at my watch, it's 9:45am. Look at bedroom door, it's closed. Spend a couple minutes in bed then get dressed and go downstairs. See neighbour outside putting stuff into his car, I go outside.
Me: Hi. Sorry but I'm letting you know that your music woke me up this morning.
Him: Well you woke with me your doors banging this morning too.
Me: Sorry about that but your music has gone on long enough for me to get dressed and come down here.
Him: The noise goes both ways. I hear your doors banging.
Me: Yeah but there's a difference between the odd door banging and music.
Him: Well what do you expect me to do about it?
Me: Turn it down.
Him: *shrugs and starts to turn away but still looking at me*
Me: *shrugs, turns and goes back inside*

~ ~

I genuinely think the doors banging is just shite he pulled out of his ass to expect to turn the situation on me. He complained that we were banging doors once back in April and we knew they didn't fit in the frames right so we got the edges shaved down. Now they fit no problem. Even if my boyfriend did happen to be closing doors loudly, surely it would have woke me if it was loud enough to wake someone in the next house? I know if we dared play music at half the volume he has had it, he'd be over in a shot to say something.

I have never met anyone so ignorant.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Dec 2012, 13:53
At least it wasn't at 3:00 in the morning. I almost killed a girl upstairs, but my roommate beat me upstairs and started yelling at her. The girls excuse was she'd just gotten off work. The music was so loud it was echoing outside. At three fucking o'clock in the morning. Death.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 12 Dec 2012, 14:03
True. I know near 10am on a weekday is late enough but I was still asleep since I wasn't working till 2pm.

How is her just getting off work an excuse in any way? I get if you work nights you have a different body-clock but that doesn't change the fact that conventionally, almost no time is okay in a housing place for music so loud it echoes outside.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 12 Dec 2012, 14:22
Well we also had a no noise after 10pm policy on our lease. So I'm gonna go with she was dumb and kind of a bitch.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 12 Dec 2012, 20:43
Turns out my sister is in Eastern Kingdom in SCA and one of her friends does SCA and is going to Pennsic, I'm trying to get her to come to Ice Dragon in March. I'm also trying to get her friends to buy some armor from me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Dec 2012, 23:47
That had me confused, because when I did SCA, Buffalo was East kingdom.  Hell, the Pennsic War was originally fought over which kingdom (East or Middle) got to claim Pittsburgh - hence the name "Debatable Lands". 

Originally, the loser got Pittsburgh...

Also, the definition of a mercenary is someone who sells used armour. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Dec 2012, 12:24
So the last member STILL has not turned in this bit.  I emailed the other members to ask what they want to do about it, contact the prof, keep waiting, or just turn in what we have with a note that the other bits will be turned in directly by this guy.  Noone has answered.  I am so sick of this damn project. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 13 Dec 2012, 12:31
The answer clearly involves small-caliber firearms. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 13 Dec 2012, 13:27
Forgot that Jess's work's xmas party was saturday and let it slip that I have to work the morning shift instead of evening. Now I have to go with her but I just do not want to and she won't take no for an answer. I only mentioned it so that we could go see the Hobbit on saturday.
I fucking hate the holidays.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 13 Dec 2012, 14:34
Jace, thanks for the suggestions, but having taken a couple days to sleep on it, I'm seriously done trying to work it out with my manager. She's a bully, and all she's gotten for it in the past has been a slap on the wrist. If they can't handle a bully, they don't get me, simple as that. I'm a sensitive and impatient guy, I don't have the heart or the time for this shit.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 13 Dec 2012, 14:59
Current plans wrt holiday parties:
Jess's work party: ask if the little person that works there is hoarding gold and if he is related to Gimli. Casually mention that it is obvious he can't be a hobbit because he is wearing shoes. If that doesn't make people not like me, try harder. Alternate plan: Don't actually talk. Alternate alternate plan: When introduced to people let them know everything is bullshit. Literally just say "This is all bullshit" or "I have better things to do" while shaking their hand.

Jess's family's xmas eve party: Ask Jess if she wants to spend the night Tuesday over to Wednesday, when people start to give me that "you can't mention that" look, just go on a rant about how is it really that big of a deal that we've fucked. Alternative plan: when people are like "good to see you again" reply with "I'm only here for the food" when they laugh it off as a joke reply with "no really, I can't stand you fuckers."

Both plans should result in me never being invited again.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 13 Dec 2012, 15:02
Definitely, for the work party. 

For the family one, you're assuming there will be no weapons drawn...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 13 Dec 2012, 15:10
We'd be in close enough quarters that I wouldn't get shot if any of them wanted to pull a gun. Its one of the few things I retained strongly from my time doing Kung Fu. If someone is less than 2 arms lengths from you with a gun, you can make sure you don't get shot pretty easily.

I'm just taking the attitude that if I'm being forced to attend these parties I'll do it on my terms.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 13 Dec 2012, 17:38
my friend died in a horrible way and i am sad

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/breaking/chi-intercontinental-hotel-rescue-michigan-avenue-20121213,0,2708213.story

he was an awesome kickass dude and he did a really stupid thing. he was a good person and i'm glad he was in my life as much as he was.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 13 Dec 2012, 17:52
it's nice to see you back but i'm sorry it has to be on such an awful note. that really fucking sucks.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BrittanyMarie on 13 Dec 2012, 19:50
Plus, because it's such a bizarre incident, it's being widely reported by major news stations. MSNBC, ABC News, CNN etc. My boyfriend had a video of his standup from 2009 when he still lived here and so now sort of famous reporters are asking my boyfriend if they can use the footage-footage that OF COURSE already has trolls. Had trolls. The comments got locked down pretty quickly. It's the only video of his stand up that's around really, aside from a company (rooftopcomedy.com) that records and produces comedy clips from a bunch of various clubs... quess what you find if you search "rooftop comedy" now?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 13 Dec 2012, 20:51
Got out of going to Jess's work party, although a little upset that I don't get to ask a dude if he related to Gimli or not.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 14 Dec 2012, 03:23
We played the single worst show in history for an awful crowd tonight.

Shit first got stupid about an hour before the show. Matt and I were on the freeway headed to SF when we got a call from the opening band's frontman, saying that the closing act wanted to switch to playing first instead. Since it was such short notice, we put it to a group vote. 5 vs. 1 said we told them no, so we told them no. They promptly bailed on the gig altogether. We have a gig with them next week, and I plan to find the frontman and kick him directly in the head.

So the other band plays their set to open for us, then we go on. We play a few songs, and some chick asks us to play Weezer's "The Sweater Song" and we've never played it before but we obliged. This caused the entire group of wasted dickheads in the bar to shout random stupid requests at us, and that really bummed us out, so we obliged on a few "fuck you, really?" numbers such as "Stairway to Heaven" and a few other stupid ones that we didn't even give a fuck to play properly.

Some drunk idiot comes up after the show and recognizes my hat and says "HEY BUDDY GREAT JOB" and I was like "Thanks man, but I disagree" and he was like "Whaaaat whyyy you guys played all my favorite songs" and I was like "That's what I mean, we hardly played 2 of our own, that whole thing was horseshit" and then stormed out and got Matt's car.

I couldn't get out of that fucking bar fast enough, man, this week fucking blows and I just pray to god my date tomorrow night doesn't suck.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 14 Dec 2012, 03:58
Our entire last gig got canceled because the other band that was supposed to play called it off on 4 days notice..
Would have been a decent location, no pay-to-play, lots of people would´a showed up.. but the guy that organised it called it quits without even considering anything we´d have to say (we could have easily played 2h set or anything.. I´d have played an acoustic set or whatever, man, asked another band to jump in on short notice)...

-----

I´m sort of on not speaking terms with one of my friends. He runs a construction business with another guy. They mostly do renovation stuff, woodwork, bathrooms, anything really. He has been working on renovating his own flat saturdays because his old place that he shared with his brother (whom he used to work with but they got in a fight too) sucked and he didn't want to stay there for various reasons (it was in the same building as the most frequented bar in town, the landlord was an asshole etc.etc.). So far so shitty for him, because he had to move in with his parents for now.
I have worked for him in the past and he´s always been a bit harsh and I totally get that, cause, he´s the boss, I´m the employee, shit has to get done etc.
Anyway, this job, as it´s gonna be his place once it´s finished, is a bit odd because he does it a bit on the side. We only work there saturdays and imho I´m more helping him out as a friend than being really involved with his business. Still, he pays us of course because it´s work.
Anyway the week before last I did a shitty thing and didn't show up for work because I got hella drunk on friday and fell asleep on the train home. I mailed my other friend who works there too that I won't be abled to make it, sorry, and so on. He told me the next evening that it wasn't a big deal and they kinda laughed it off, so I thought everything was fine. Later the next week I text him about pay and work the next weekend and he explodes at me for not showing up, saying he lost money because of me and scolding me for asking for an advance which I totally didn't and the series of previous setbacks on that building site wasn't my fault either. Now he has a history of being somewhat choleric, yelling at us for minor stuff and getting really worked up about basically nothing.
Now I´m kind of struggling with what to do. I totally owe him an apology for not showing up but on the other hand I´ve had it with his attitude.
And also I really really need the money :meh:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 14 Dec 2012, 08:06
Dammit I finally went to the dentist for the first time in ages (five insurance plan changes in three years, then just never got my shit together to make an appointment after I started my job) and now I need 4 appointments for fillings in all areas. Ughhh.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 14 Dec 2012, 08:09
Tell them you're scared of getting fillings and they might give you some valium.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 14 Dec 2012, 16:14
Little brother in A&E with abdominal pain. My parents were supposed to be home with him an hour ago. While I keep telling myself there's nothing helpful that I can do by staying up worrying, that's exactly what I am doing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 14 Dec 2012, 18:01
Little brother in A&E with abdominal pain. My parents were supposed to be home with him an hour ago. While I keep telling myself there's nothing helpful that I can do by staying up worrying, that's exactly what I am doing.

Can you call or text and get an update? I would be worrying too!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 15 Dec 2012, 01:17
I just had the best first date ever.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: K1dmor on 15 Dec 2012, 01:53
I just had the best first date ever.

 How was it?  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Dec 2012, 02:18
Pilchard, my brother went to hospital with abdominal pains (it turned out to be his appendix) and ended up staying in overnight just to keep an eye on him. Hospitals aren't very efficient places. Could you ring the hospital desk and ask for an update? As a relative you'd be entitled to know, I think.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 15 Dec 2012, 02:20
Pilchard, my brother went to hospital with abdominal pains (it turned out to be his appendix) and ended up staying in overnight just to keep an eye on him. Hospitals aren't very efficient places. Could you ring the hospital desk and ask for an update? As a relative you'd be entitled to know, I think.

In the light of day, it doesn't seem so bad. A friend who works at the hospital said they often keep young children in for longer than adults to keep an eye on them. Dad's been home since I posted that and he doesn't seem too concerned, so they can't have said it was anything too serious.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Dec 2012, 02:23
I'm glad :)

In bloggy news, my stomach hurts :( It is not unusual, but it had stopped being the norm after I started taking the magic pills. I didn't remember to renew the prescription (how stupid to only prescribe a single month's supply at a time!) and now I don't have enough to take three a day, as I'm meant to. I cut it down to one a day and it's not doing any good at all.
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Post by: snalin on 15 Dec 2012, 02:39
I have eaten two oranges, half a bag of chips, half a pizza and two buns since Wednesday morning. Most of that came back up again. Sickness isn't fun. But now I'm feeling better, and kebab for breakfast seems to be the best idea ever.
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Post by: Patrick on 15 Dec 2012, 04:43
I just had the best first date ever.

 How was it?  :-)

We had dinner at a killer pho place, then saw some crazy old deacon's Christmas light extravaganza for kicks (neither of us care about Christmas lights themselves but we certainly enjoyed the spectacle). A couple beers at the bar, then she took me home and we kissed goodnight. I'm tickled pink over this :3
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Post by: Jace on 15 Dec 2012, 04:51
First song to come on after changing the radio station at work this morning? "Santeria" by Sublime. Going to be a goddamn shame when the supervisor comes in and changes it to country for the other 6 hours of my shift.
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Post by: VonKleist on 15 Dec 2012, 04:53
SInging Daddy's got a new fourty-fiiiiiive under your breath?
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Post by: Welu on 15 Dec 2012, 04:54
Neighbour was playing music yesterday at a significantly lower volume. It was still loud enough to hear through two walls, but only if you were sitting in silence. Still annoying but we decided against saying anything in case this was somehow an attempt at being considerate.

In other news, my break has started (mostly, got one more class next week to do a group presentation) and got all my assignments in on time. Even the group document but with not a lot contributed by one member. My boyfriend and I were regularly contacting him over the past four weeks, to update him on what was due and ask if he'd be in. The group person just said they'd be in the next day, then didn't come. It turned out he had a death in the family so I'm feeling guilty, like we were hounding him. Also feels like the lack of stuff from him in the document is throwing him under the bus. From what he said it seems he had to go back and forth from his home town a couple hours away.
On the other hand if he told us at least, "There's a family problem." we could have accommodated him. I don't think the tutors even know since they were asking us why he wasn't in.

Dunno. Hopefully the presentation will go okay.

Also I lost my ring that my friend gave me for my birthday.
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Post by: VonKleist on 15 Dec 2012, 05:12
I don't want to get too much into the politics of this but since this week a bomb was found at the central station of former german capital Bonn I´ve been thinking about it a lot. Thinking about Madrid and London mainly.
The device had probably been set to explode via a time-clock but luckily failed to do so. It was made from bottles of propane and a steel tube of ammonium nitrate, as I understand it. I´m not to clear on the specifics but according to the police it would have made for a reasonably sized boom. What a cowardly thing to do, anyway. Ties to the islamistic scene are being investigated and the police are looking for two people that have been cought on the station's security videos.
What boggles my mind is why public transport? On that particular corner of the station at that time of day you would have blown up maybe 5 homeless junkies and some commuters. Why not target the Ministry for the Interior or something? Noo.. poor people it is. Talk about arguing with crazy people.
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Post by: Carl-E on 15 Dec 2012, 09:10
But that's the point of terrorism - it can be anytime, any place, anyone.  A heavily used public transport station means no one's safe. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Dec 2012, 10:18
My dissertation is depressing me. I'm currently gathering statistics on how many prison nursery places there are in the USA, and how many babies have incarcerated mothers. The answer? About 100 places. A metric shitton of babies*. Whatever my conclusions are about whether or not prison nurseries are the way to go, that's a lot of little children who lose their mothers. Add fathers into the picture, or rather remove them from the picture - and that normally is the case: 40% of incarcerated mothers of minor children were single parents when they were arrested, and a large number are arrested alongside their partner or husband - and we're talking tens of thousands of effectively orphaned children.





* This is not the precise term I will use in my paper.
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Post by: Carl-E on 15 Dec 2012, 10:21
Welcome to America! 


So long as you don't do anything wrong, aren't poor or a minority or make any sudden moves, You'll be OK...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 15 Dec 2012, 10:31
Britain isn't a lot better, to be honest. We just have fewer people in prison so the numbers aren't as high. There are still a lot of children losing their parents here.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 15 Dec 2012, 11:00
And by enforcing strickter anti abortion (anti woman) laws ... there only be more kids! For which they can't and won't provide!

Merry fucking Christmas!
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Post by: jwhouk on 15 Dec 2012, 16:31
And meanwhile, they're trying to make sure that there won't be any place to PUT those kids if they're running afoul of the law, because states are rapidly closing juvie detention facilities because they a.) are unpopulated and b.) cost too much to run.
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Post by: Welu on 16 Dec 2012, 08:37
Just edited my CV to include my new part-time supervisor duties.
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Post by: Thrillho on 16 Dec 2012, 10:57
I just washed every dish in the flat. For the first time probably ever, every single utensil, plate or other thing is available to use.

That lasted ten minutes because then I had to make my fucking dinner.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Dec 2012, 11:02
I'm impressed - I have never managed to reach that point (except when I moved out at the end of a year). I am really hoping to get there before Christmas though; the main problem is all the storage boxes that had frozen portions of meals in them, and I used them but didn't wash the box... I have to now, because I need to do next term's meals after Christmas!
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2012, 11:12
Sometimes Stephen will get us there, but I promptly ruin it by making something messy.  I frequently want to cook/bake big messy things, but there are several things which stop me.  The frustration of finding the space and cookware to do it is one of the major ones though.  This means that there is a direct relationship between how many dishes are clean at anytime and how likely I am to make a lot of dirty dishes. 

Stephen, Sorry that dish washing must seem like a sisyphus-ian task when you live with me. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 16 Dec 2012, 11:24
My magic solution, which sadly is only possible with more than one sink, or with several washing up bowls, is to have a bowl of hot soapy water to put things straight into once I've finished with them. At the moment I eat all my meals in my room, which is quite far from the kitchen, so that doesn't work, but I have a sink in my room and a "draining board" (which is just a plastic tray with a lip round the edge to stop the water going everywhere) which means I can wash up in my room. Can't WAIT for a proper kitchen where I can eat.
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2012, 11:27
arrgghh

This guy in my group project, the one who has been holding everything up, he finished his part of the paper, but cant write the introduction/format it or write the one other little part he was supposed to because he doesn't know how of some shit. 

I agreed to just do it because this thing just needs to be turned in at this point.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 16 Dec 2012, 12:04
I find (when I actually wash up by hand; yay for dishwashers) that having a hot, soapy bowl to wash in and then a cold bowl that you dunk the washed items in to remove suds works quite well. You do have to change the water in each bowl quite often, but you'd have to anyway. It also needs quite a bit of space, but since I usually do it like that when I'm camping, space is rarely an issue.
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2012, 15:22
I just submitted the paper which has been the cause of most of my bitching on the forum over the last few weeks.  It is 5 pages short, 5 days late and of terrible quality, but it is done.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 Dec 2012, 15:42
High five and something alcoholic for you.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Dec 2012, 15:47
There has to be a drink called a High Five. Just has to be.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 16 Dec 2012, 15:50
http://www.thefeedstation.com/drinks/high-5-zero-electrolyte-drink.html
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2012, 15:57
:(

That is not a thing I want to drink.

Also, I have a midterm to study for tonight so I will probably not be drinking.
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Post by: Radical AC on 16 Dec 2012, 16:33
I get my BA in Political Science on Friday.  I am giddy.  I plan on going to law school, but I will take a semester off to play music and enjoy my youth.  Three finals left, but I may end up with a 4.0 this semester.
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Post by: Akima on 16 Dec 2012, 19:11
The device had probably been set to explode via a time-clock but luckily failed to do so. It was made from bottles of propane and a steel tube of ammonium nitrate, as I understand it. I´m not to clear on the specifics but according to the police it would have made for a reasonably sized boom. What a cowardly thing to do, anyway.
Brave, civilised people like us do it with an armed drone from a control-console safe on the other side of the planet. Terrorists target public transport terminals for the same reason Curtis LeMay and Arthur Harris targeted enemy cities; it's where the people are. Perhaps I should have posted this in the Pessimism And Depression thread...
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Post by: celticgeek on 16 Dec 2012, 19:19
I get my BA in Political Science on Friday.  I am giddy.  I plan on going to law school, but I will take a semester off to play music and enjoy my youth.  Three finals left, but I may end up with a 4.0 this semester.

Congratulations!
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2012, 19:59
Yussss <fist pump>

My grade just came back for that "secret shop" the archives project I was bitching about earlier:

27/30 (90%)

so happy with that grade, I was ready for a 75.
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Post by: Redball on 16 Dec 2012, 20:32
The way you talked, I was ready for a 64.
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Post by: Carl-E on 16 Dec 2012, 21:48
Good students often under-report their expected grades. 


I suspect it keeps them motivated, or something. 





Something other than suicidal, I hope!
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Post by: Zingoleb on 16 Dec 2012, 21:53
Well, suicidal is a form of being motivated, if you're looking at it from the right POV...
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Post by: Papersatan on 16 Dec 2012, 22:26
I think what happened is he graded it on a curve.  Everyone I talked to was confused by the project, so even though I felt like I didn't meet the expectations, if no one else did either...
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Post by: Patrick on 17 Dec 2012, 01:50
Well, suicidal is a form of being motivated, if you're looking at it from the right POV...

Aw shit dogg, too soon

Guys my drummer Paul bought the whole band customized Zippos with our band pic on them, I don't even

I will treasure this forever <3333333
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Dec 2012, 04:44
Congratulations Kat! And Radical AC, and everyone else achieving great things :)

I find it funny that 75 would have been a disappointing grade. I have never got 75% on any of my essays and certainly not on any exams. I'm hoping I might get 70% on one exam this year, and aiming for 65% overall.
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Post by: Papersatan on 17 Dec 2012, 06:47
It's that difference in American grading.  I need to maintain an average of 85% to get my degree and any class in which I receive less than a 75% in Does not count for credit.  (though does get added into my average)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Dec 2012, 07:17
I think that's probably closer to other UK universities too. At Cambridge 70% is a First (the highest grade, only 5-15% of people get that) and 80% is a Starred First, which is very rare.
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Dec 2012, 09:36
Here, 75% is considered "average", a C, while the top grade of A only goes to those over 90%. 

90 - 100% = A (Excellent)
80 - 89% = B (Above Average)
70 - 79% = C (Average)
60 = 69% = D (Below Average)
Below 60% = F (Failing)

One guy I worked with would regularly remind students to "...remember, D stands for Diploma!" 
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Post by: Thrillho on 17 Dec 2012, 10:41
Then I sincerely hope that everything you guys do is easier than what we do. The idea that 70-79% is average sounds preposterous to me.

Saying that, I got a lot of firsts on assignments at uni, but it did mean that it seemed basically impossible to excel at anything.
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Post by: idontunderstand on 17 Dec 2012, 12:09
So.. I'm done with Christmas shopping for this year.

A cigar and a CD for dad
Headphones and a book with art by Lars Lerin (GOOGLE IT! You won't be sorry you did, unless you, like, hate art) for mum
Make-up stuff for little sister 1
Bunch of comics for little sister 2, which she will love, guaranteed
and some music I recorded for the girlfriend.

If this doesn't result in at least 5 happy faces this Christmas, I will crap my pants.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 17 Dec 2012, 14:06
Ugh. I have to get up at 5.45 tomorrow to catch a 6.30 train to get arrive an hour early at an interview for a course I probably couldn't do even if I got a place. This seems like much less of a good plan than it did last month.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 17 Dec 2012, 14:44
Here, 75% is considered "average", a C, while the top grade of A only goes to those over 90%. 

90 - 100% = A (Excellent)
80 - 89% = B (Above Average)
70 - 79% = C (Average)
60 = 69% = D (Below Average)
Below 60% = F (Failing)

One guy I worked with would regularly remind students to "...remember, D stands for Diploma!" 

I remember doing the CT Mastery Tests in sixth grade...the reading comprehension passing grade threshold was a 59/100, and our school's goal for all students was 62 (Way to raise the bar, school). My teacher said that anyone who got 90 or better would get taken out for ice cream, and anyone who scored perfect would get taken out to dinner at the restaurant of our choice.

It took two years of reminding her, but my classmate and I did get that dinner. Yay, literacy!
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Post by: Carl-E on 17 Dec 2012, 15:07
Of your choice?  I hope you took advantage of that...

Steak and lobster? 
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Post by: Bluesummers on 17 Dec 2012, 15:40
Of your choice?  I hope you took advantage of that...

Steak and lobster? 

Well, seeing as I was 14 when I got to choose, I could think of nothing better than Ruby Tuesday. In hindsight, It was a damn big burger, so no regrets.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 17 Dec 2012, 16:27
When I was in high school our teacher promised free dinner to whoever scored the highest on the World History RCT (the old NYS standardized tests).  I got a 98.  I never collected my dinner because I was at a socially anxious place and could not bear the thought of that sort of interaction. 

Also, I use that story as anecdotal evidence that standardized tests don't test knowledge learned in school.  I took world history 1 twice because I hated the world history 2 teacher.  I never learned about Asia or Europe. I did well because I am a good test taker. 

Standardized tests are testing at least 4 things:

1. performance under pressure: I believe I am a good test taker and this is to a degree a self-fulfilling prophesy. I don't panic which increases my chance of success.

2. reading comprehension: I have always had excellent reading skills.  While most test makers strive to prevent questions from answering each other (though on this exam two of them did) a good reader can still infer a lot from the way a question is written.  The language of the author frequently betrays their deeper understanding, and even if it does not help on that question, it may elsewhere.

3. knowledge of the subject: some of my answers came from general knowledge I gleaned from PBS and the History channel, but this could have come from paying attention in class too.

4. puzzle solving: putting these pieces together to make good guesses on questions you don't know an answer to is what I think most tests, particularly multiple choice ones, but even short answer ones, test.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 17 Dec 2012, 18:04
I always wondered how I scored a 5 on the AP physics exam, then was fucking clueless in Engineering Physics at uni.

...It also could have been the professor...he had a stutter worse than Ozzy, didn't understand anything not spoken to him in his native Liverpool accent (he told us "it's not insensitive, unless you intentionally talk like Americans to me"), and drank strange liquids out of Erlenmeyer flasks on hot plates in his lab (Trust me, it wasn't coffee).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Dec 2012, 07:03
The AP exams are curved.  Basically, getting a 5 (top score) means you can skip the course because you know as much as a good student coming out of one of those courses. 


This doesn't account for horrible professors...
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Post by: Bluesummers on 18 Dec 2012, 07:12
That's why I was a little confused when the course advisor told me I still needed "Engineering Physics" for my Comp.Sci major...I qualified to skip the year of "physics needed for liberal arts majors" (Like philosophy majors know anything about math)...But apparently Murphy's Law came back to haunt me when I needed the "conversion course" to satisfy the physics requirement for the School of Engineering.

I also failed the AP Calculus exam...I dunno what to think anymore. @_@ But that was seven years ago.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 18 Dec 2012, 07:23
Well, it's ultimately up to each school whether to accept the AP credit or not.  Sounds like this one wanted the engineers to know a little bit more than your average physics student...
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Dec 2012, 12:33
I had my second midwifery interview today at what was my second choice university (out of two), but actually I think the interview went far better than the one for my first choice, which is only my first choice because it would mean staying in the same city. I will find out before Christmas whether I have a place, have been rejected or am "on hold". I think it will either be the first or the last; I think it went well enough that I shouldn't have been turned down but it's hard to know.

I did only get 75% on the maths test though, which I'm annoyed about (sample question, with calculator provided: 5 x 3 + 12). It's not impossible that I could have got one or two questions wrong, but five seems unlikely. I suspect it was because the computer cannot actually tell whether you have the right answer, simply whether you have entered the exact series of characters it has as the "correct" answer. For instance, when I got the answer 8/5 it would not let me enter it as 1 3/8. Some of the other girls entered it as a decimal instead, and we don't know which answer was correct.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Dec 2012, 13:10
...when I got the answer 8/5 it would not let me enter it as 1 3/8. Some of the other girls entered it as a decimal instead, and we don't know which answer was correct.

Well, for one thing, 8/5 = 1 3/5, not 1 3/8.  But most simple computer data reading can't handle mixed numbers anyway, and would probably reject either of those.  Since a calculator was allowed, 8/5 = 1.6 would probably be the only "acceptable" form.  (unless it really was 1 3/8 = 11/8 = 1.375)


[/grading final exam mode]
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Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Dec 2012, 13:35
Yes, you're right - 1 3/5 is what I tried to enter. I put 8/5 in the end but you might well be right that it was wrong. It did specifically say "express as a fraction" such and such.
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Post by: Welu on 18 Dec 2012, 13:44
Went to the Christmas Market in Belfast with the hope of taking photos. My camera battery was dead, somehow the camera was left on. I didn't bring the charger since I thought the battery was fully charged. I did finally have a second battery to always have one spare at least now.

Still had fun, had an impromptu meeting up with my brothers and listened to one be catty about the other's sex life when the other was away from the table.
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Post by: Patrick on 18 Dec 2012, 13:59
I'm cleaning my room. I didn't even bother taking pics of the "before" because I am that ashamed of how fucking disgusting it was. It's still pretty nasty, but it's a few orders of magnitude better than it was before.
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Post by: Jace on 18 Dec 2012, 15:21
Apparently I am supposed to spend like 30 minutes on my rounds checking the parking ramp. There's only like 20 cars up there all parked in the same area so I'm not entirely sure how it is supposed to take me 30 minutes.
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Post by: Jace on 18 Dec 2012, 16:36
Yeah, I even went up the stairs and that only took me 12 minutes.
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Post by: Papersatan on 18 Dec 2012, 19:24
I bought a dress!

(https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-Oorh7cXEeK4/UNExpqnMHaI/AAAAAAAAChU/-6jGfKljXfw/s471/dress.JPG) (https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-Oorh7cXEeK4/UNExpqnMHaI/AAAAAAAAChU/-6jGfKljXfw/s471/dress.JPG))

I am also going to get these two, but I am waiting until the first arrives to make sure it fits well.
(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-P3pdUv7mNok/UNEyON7o3fI/AAAAAAAAChc/_zHuaKi2-oI/s472/dress2.JPG) (http://www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0025426/Pleat-neck-doubleweave-dress)

(https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/--xMpwQ_BYdE/UNEyOAVF7II/AAAAAAAAChk/-Mgc4tdKP8I/s457/dress3.JPG) (http://www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0023626/Pleated-cotton-poplin-dress)

Also I really want this one:
(https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-9EzFHvmI9Dw/UNEyOKDI0SI/AAAAAAAAChg/wW6Hir512Xc/s472/dress4.JPG) (http://www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0025696/Her-fifties-colorblock-dress)
but my shopping buddy made me agree it was of the lowest priority because it is less versatile.  Gonna be hard to resist it when the next bump of financial aid comes in though.
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Post by: Carl-E on 18 Dec 2012, 22:55
Interesting neckline on that last one...

[tucks tongue back in]
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Post by: Akima on 19 Dec 2012, 01:08
It is not called a "sweetheart neckline" for nothing...  :angel:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 19 Dec 2012, 05:10
I really love eShakti dresses and I want one so badly! But I almost never wear the dresses I have...
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Post by: Lines on 19 Dec 2012, 05:28
I bought one for graduation and I LOVE it. I don't have any pictures of me in it, but let me see if I can find it...

(http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b198/andthentherewaslindsey/CL0025321_OSL_zpsdf1c1990.jpeg) (http://www.eshakti.com/Product/CL0025321/Pleated-cowl-neck-knit-dress)

And it has pockets. Effing love dresses w/ pockets.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Dec 2012, 05:30
I just put up 40 odd versions of Hallelujah on facebook and I watched my friends go apeshit over the spamming and the songs and the annoyance.

Fun!

Also, jesus, there are some truly shit covers of that song.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 19 Dec 2012, 06:34
Also, jesus, there are some truly shit covers of that song.

Opinions on Rufus Wainwright version?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Dec 2012, 06:52
I do not like his voice much. I experience it as ... grating.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 19 Dec 2012, 06:56
If you want the worst Christmas song ever, listen to this one!


Yes, Busta Rhymes rhymes vanilla with chinchilla.
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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Dec 2012, 07:04
You've made my ears hurt  :evil:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 19 Dec 2012, 07:13
I warned you. I actually do think it's the worst Christmas song ever. Ever ever. Worse than Celine Dion's cover of O Holy Night.

Like. Drummer Boy and O Holy Night are two of the best Christmas songs ever written, but when they are done badly, they are the worst. (Really, I only like most Christmas songs when they are done by choirs, are instrumental, or are sung by the people who perform them in the style they should be in.)

Here, I'm sorry, let me make it up to you. This is one of my favorites. Better?

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Post by: valley_parade on 19 Dec 2012, 07:25
Right song, Linds, but wrong artist.

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Post by: pwhodges on 19 Dec 2012, 07:44
I only like most Christmas songs when they are done by choirs, are instrumental, or are sung by the people who perform them in the style they should be in.

I don't know if you look in Band; so in case you've missed them, here's a couple of Christmas Concerts by my choir:  2010: An American Christmas (http://cassland.org/USA-Xmas.html); 2012: An English Christmas (http://cassland.org/EnglishXmas.html).

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Here, I'm sorry, let me make it up to you. This is one of my favorites. Better?

Thanks!
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Post by: LTK on 19 Dec 2012, 08:40
Bad news: Someone's washing machine had a bad power cord that was leaking current for months, but never actually enough to blow out the fuse. Until I went in there and reset it, then it burned through. Now I told the landlord that not only the fuse needed to be replaced, but the contacts as well, because they were sparking so much I could hear it in my own electronics. I have no idea if the contacts did get replaced, but the power failures haven't gone away. So I have no power from any grounded plugs, and everyone on the opposite side of the hallway has no power from any non-grounded plugs.

Good news: I can switch all my devices over to the non-grounded plugs, and with three extension cords I have just enough length to connect my oven to a plug in the hallway, allowing me to cook my pizza. Starvation averted!

/firstworldproblems
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Post by: Lines on 19 Dec 2012, 08:51
Right song, Linds, but wrong artist.

Please don't tell me you just called Ella Fitzgerald the "wrong artist". No. Bad Shane. Bad!

I don't know if you look in Band; so in case you've missed them, here's a couple of Christmas Concerts by my choir:  2010: An American Christmas (http://cassland.org/USA-Xmas.html); 2012: An English Christmas (http://cassland.org/EnglishXmas.html).

I haven't looked in Band in ages, so thank you! I'll definitely give them a listen. :)
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Post by: Thrillho on 19 Dec 2012, 09:52
I decided today that fuck it, I feel like singing. Recorded one of my favourite Ryan Adams songs into my phone, singing at the top of my voice like I used to because my flatmate isn't in and... well, I don't suck. It's still not a song that's quite in my key, but I feel like I've got my voice back for the first time in three or four years. Shame I'm about to go away for two weeks and not record anything.
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Post by: ackblom12 on 19 Dec 2012, 10:00
The only good christmas songs are those that praise the true lords of the stars!

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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 20 Dec 2012, 06:59
Am suffering mental scarring through having to respond to emails written to the council by outraged Daily Mail readers.
I don't get paid enough for this.
I don't think anyone gets paid enough for this.
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Post by: valley_parade on 20 Dec 2012, 07:23
Please don't tell me you just called Ella Fitzgerald the "wrong artist". No. Bad Shane. Bad!

IT'S THE DANG VENTURES.
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Post by: Lines on 20 Dec 2012, 07:35
IT'S ELLA FREAKING FITZGERALD!
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Dec 2012, 10:57
Guys, my job has ruined my appreciation for anything jazz, swing, or bebop that isn't from Cowboy Bebop. Sorry, I'm with Shane on this one.

At work yesterday, we had a visit from the district manager, who is one rank above my boss. My nemesis/manager tried her absolute best to make me look like an idiot in front of the DM, and in doing so she completely forgot to do anything to make herself look good. Around noon, she called over the walkie for a specific employee, and after about 4 or 5 attempts was unable to raise her. After her final attempt, she called out, "Marsha, you need to put a walkie on RIGHT NOW." Spotting a golden opportunity, and having had enough of her shit, I called back, "You know, since we've already demonstrated that she is offline, that really isn't going to help anything."

30 minutes later, she calls me over the walkie, and without hiding any of her anger, she says "Patrick, we need to have a private talk about your conduct over the walkie earlier." Now, I don't know about you guys, but to me, "private" means behind closed doors, away from customers and other employees.

Not today. She tried chewing me out in front of everybody. "YOU AND YOUR SMART MOUTH MADE ME LOOK LIKE A FOOL IN FRONT OF EVERY SINGLE EMPLOYEE IN THIS STORE, NOT TO MENTION THE DISTRICT MANAGER. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY FOR YOURSELF?  :x :x :x :x :x :x"

"No, you did."

Silence from her for 3 hours.

Then she tried to fuck my day up by scheduling a delivery each at 2 loading zones on opposite ends of the mall from each other, 15min after my shift ended, so I loaded both orders onto separate carts, delegated one to the new stock guy, brought the other to the store, and told the acting store manager about it. He told me to clock out and delegated my delivery to her. Knowing this, I waited for her in the loading zone, which happens to be the designated smoking area for employees on our side of the mall. She comes out with the order, and I say "O HAY, fancy meeting you here," open up my Zippo, spark up my Parliament, flick the lighter shut, and say "You have yrself a good one now!" and walk off to catch the bus.

Best part is, she doesn't have the power to hire or fire anyone, and nothing I did could get me fired anyway. In fact, I proved myself capable of maintaining consistently above-average productivity, training newbies, delegating tasks, and going out of my way in the middle of everything to help outside of my department.

I'm the fuckin boss, bitchezzz
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Post by: valley_parade on 20 Dec 2012, 11:05
Whoa, I didn't say I didn't like jazz. I love Brubeck, Getz, and Mulligan.
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Post by: Patrick on 20 Dec 2012, 11:40
I never said that. I said I was with you on this one.
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Post by: nekowafer on 21 Dec 2012, 06:59
Went to my first driving class last night. Thankfully I was not the oldest one there (at 27). I expected it to be mostly teenagers.
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Post by: VonKleist on 21 Dec 2012, 07:45
Ugh.. I went to driving school too many times. It always sucked and I never got a license.


Old friendly russian man subaltern at work yesterday:
"You remind me very much of my son"
(aww, how nice of him)
"He looks worn out and tired all the time too"
(I..uh.. okay, nevermind -.-)
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Post by: Jace on 21 Dec 2012, 21:17
Started working on a new set of elbow and knee cops because fuck you I want more armor and also because I need couters and polyens without wings for Dagorhir, since the wings have a chance to cut into the foam weapons and I want to wear my metal armor. I am sore and I smell like kerosene but I got one of the couters dished.

In January gonna probably spend $70 on a sheet of kydex (a type of plastic) and make fake splinted stuff for my SCA kit. Light weight and it'll look badass and match my coat of plates.
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Post by: Welu on 22 Dec 2012, 02:09
Neighbour woke me with music again but it was only on for one song and it was some dance version (I think, the original song might be dancey) P!nk song that he always plays. Actually it's Kelly Clarkson - What Doesn't Kill You, I guess he needed to pep himself up for the day. You'd think a fucker who loves to enjoy the ear-breaking decibels would have more than one playlist.
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Post by: nekowafer on 22 Dec 2012, 11:18
(http://img.tapatalk.com/d/12/12/23/by8e9agu.jpg)

Got my learner's permit! For the first time, at age 27. But hey at least I finally got it. Also my picture looks derpy.
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Post by: Welu on 22 Dec 2012, 11:34
Everyone's picture looks derpy, that's half the fun of having a licence.
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Post by: Patrick on 22 Dec 2012, 13:36
Man, I look high as fuck in mine. I'll post later.
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Post by: Akima on 22 Dec 2012, 17:47
I look faintly sinister in my licence photo, as if I were plotting world domination or something.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 22 Dec 2012, 18:24
To be honest, I always think that of you anyway. I think it's the combination of intelligent posts and angry eyebrows in your avatar.
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Post by: Thrillho on 24 Dec 2012, 05:17
My provisional licence photo just looks like a mugshot.

I have not once had a lesson. I got it entirely for ID purposes so I've no need to carry my passport to bars.

Anyhoo...

This is the blogging thread, and I am blogging like a motherfucker, so I've spoilered it because it's LONG.
(click to show/hide)
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Post by: Zingoleb on 24 Dec 2012, 06:38
Old friends are always the ones that have the weirdest surprises in store for you.

I threatened my oldest friend today and acted like a shit and he surprisingly didn't personally deliver an ass kicking to my doorstep.

People are odd, when you're an otter.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 24 Dec 2012, 07:06
"when you're an otter"

Wat?
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Post by: nekowafer on 24 Dec 2012, 08:08
I think they're odd no matter what sort of creature you are
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Post by: nekowafer on 24 Dec 2012, 10:29
Holy crap it might actually snow here! It barely snowed at all last year and I was totally disappointed. Though there was a ridiculous snow storm the year before that left me trudging through like 2 feet of snow to get home while having a panic attack...
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Post by: Jace on 24 Dec 2012, 12:30
I'm the only guard at this site who has to work both xmas eve and xmas day. I mean I don't care about xmas but Jess does and I'm just gonna be super irritable tomorrow because I work this evening until 11pm and I have to be back here at 7am. So I'll probably get roughly 2-3 hours of sleep between shifts. Normally not a huge deal but then I've got to go spend time with her family and with so little sleep I cannot guarantee that I will not drop f-bombs left and right.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 24 Dec 2012, 13:10
Are they allowed to only give you 8 hours between shifts?
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Post by: ackblom12 on 24 Dec 2012, 13:26
Never had a job where they wouldn't do it on pretty regular occasion. As far as I know, the main thing they can't do is have you work more than 13 days in a row.

That's also up for debate depending on how much they care about OSHA.
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Post by: Jace on 24 Dec 2012, 14:09
Pretty sure the law is something like they have to give you at least 8 hours between shifts otherwise they have to give you overtime. Of course they don't take into account commute time, so you know, the 35 minutes it takes me to drive to work isn't added on.

Also I don't get holiday pay. I'd be a lot less upset about having to work holidays if I got time and a half or double, but nope. Just regular pay. At least if I am employed until this coming June I'll get a whole week of vacation. I only had to have the job for 2 years to get one paid week of vacation.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 25 Dec 2012, 18:54
I just cut someone really shitty out of my life. They were shitty right up to the end, and now I feel shitty, too.

Ugh.

Fuck people.
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Post by: Thrillho on 26 Dec 2012, 09:24
We all still like you, Unicorn.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 26 Dec 2012, 12:34
And we all still like you. 'cept Jack, I don't think he likes anyone.

(the joke is that I'm crazy)
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Post by: nekowafer on 26 Dec 2012, 13:06
Well duuuhhhhh
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Dec 2012, 15:08
I got over 100 cans of Mountain Dew, a shitload of Pocky and Japanese fruit gummies, a 5th of Gentleman Jack, and an amp repair job for Christmas.

Best Christmas on record.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 26 Dec 2012, 16:43
I think I'm getting sick. My throat is sore and I'm headachey and cold and my fillings all hurt. I actually went home early today (after a 5 day weekend, lazy) but that was also welcome because of the weather. I still plan to go in tomorrow, but if I don't it will be the first time I've taken sick leave for illness and not just doctor appointments, so I've got like a month and a half worth of time saved up. I'd rather just not be sick, though.
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Post by: nekowafer on 26 Dec 2012, 17:13
I was singing with Alice in Chains in a particularly ridiculous manner while cleaning the ferret cage. Then Jaxom, one of my fat little ferrets, chose that moment to step on my laptop and change the music to an instrumental song from the Chrono Trigger soundtrack.

I guess he doesn't appreciate my singing.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 26 Dec 2012, 17:23
I got over 100 cans of Mountain Dew,

Part of me wonders how long it will take you to go through those 100 cans...the other part of me says your pancreas probably sets the consumption rate.
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Post by: Patrick on 26 Dec 2012, 17:38
FUCK my pancreas, obvs. 96 of those were from one person alone. And upon actually being sober and doing the math I now know that I have 108.
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Post by: Welu on 27 Dec 2012, 11:06
Good holiday. Partner's family came to my family's house for Boxing Day. We ate a lot of food and bonded.
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Post by: Jace on 27 Dec 2012, 12:50
Got an A in Pre-Calc. A- in Discrete Maths, A in powerpoint (1 credit course to fill schedule), looking at a C in Literature, presently a C in online macroeconomics but I have until mid January to retake any of the tests up to 2 more times so I can easily bring that up to an A.

Also had a pretty good xmas despite having to work. Unfortunately had to shovel my driveway in an hour so I could make it to work.
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Post by: Redball on 27 Dec 2012, 13:08
Good work! I still hope to pass calculus one of these years.
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Post by: Carl-E on 27 Dec 2012, 18:48
You'll have to pickup a little more speed if you really want to pass it...
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Post by: Redball on 27 Dec 2012, 19:23
To be honest, I looked at something like Calculus for Dummies, which showed me how much prep was needed. Then I looked at high school algebra worksheets available on line, which showed me how much work was needed. Then I looked at trig, which showed me how much memorization was needed. Of course, I knew all this stuff to get through pre-calc in high school and analytic geometry in freshman year at Michigan, before all my courses went to hell in 56-57.

Carl, are you doing/have you done any tutoring? A friend in the New York area is making a lot of money tutoring rich kids. But I assume there aren't many rich kids in your part of PA. I know May is tutoring, and I think she was keeping it up while she was in the U.S.

Naw, I'm not asking for myself. Although when a soprano friend moved from Michigan to RI, I asked if she did voice lessons by Skype. But at least one of us knew I was probably kidding.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 28 Dec 2012, 06:05
So I finally got a copy of Portal 2. If I hadn't insisted on getting it on disc, I'd have got it...about a month ago, but hey. Amazon's shipping was fairly quick considering I only ordered it at the beginning of the week and it's around Christmas.
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Dec 2012, 06:32
You'll have to pickup a little more speed if you really want to pass it...

The problem is, there's a limit to it.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 28 Dec 2012, 06:56
The problem is, there's a limit to it.

That's dreadful, and somewhat derivative.
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Post by: Redball on 28 Dec 2012, 07:28
Yet integral to a well-rounded education.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 28 Dec 2012, 15:42
All this calculus gobbledegook is giving me a histogram.  :psyduck:
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Post by: jwhouk on 28 Dec 2012, 16:11
Okay, okay, we'll put a limit on it.
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Post by: LTK on 28 Dec 2012, 16:20
This is very familiar. Your math puns are getting recursive.
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Post by: Carl-E on 28 Dec 2012, 17:08
I don't re-curse anything.  Once is enough. 

So a class opened up at the community college that fits in with the other one that I couldn't do originally.  So a good chance at two classes, and the online courses start in March, and I got called back on a part-time bank teller's job.  That's three part time jobs, which is good, because the unemployment is running out. 

I've been doing online tutoring for Tutor.com for several months, but only when I have some free time, and right now schools out - the service is closed through new years.  But that's only about $12/hour.  I'm going to start posting my number at the local high schools and colleges for some real money. 
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Post by: Jace on 28 Dec 2012, 23:17
Today I dished another couter (elbow armor) and bouged both that and the couter that was dished last week. I was complimented by the extremely well done bouging job on them. Next steps are to grind it smooth and then polish it to a mirror finish.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 29 Dec 2012, 00:32
Finally got plastic up over the broken window in the attic. It's gotten at least 10-15 degrees warmer since up there - I actually have hope that it'll be warm enough to live up there once we're done framing/insulating/drywalling it.

Original wood floor and everything. There's a barn in the back that collapsed a few years ago (which is a shame; it was fairly lovely, and my dog was buried behind it) but the wood is still back there - it's nothing structurally sound, but it's old weathered wood and I think I'll put it up on the walls to keep in with the natural wood look as best as I can. The ceiling I won't have much choice but to paint, though.
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Post by: Patrick on 29 Dec 2012, 04:54
So a girl I used to hook up with is back in town after a few months living out of state. We could've hooked up, but all I could think about was the fact I'm actually legitimately interested in the girl I've been talking to, and that is a feeling I almost forgot I could have.

Work is kicking my ass even harder now than pre-Christmas did, go figure.
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Post by: Thrillho on 29 Dec 2012, 06:38
So a girl I used to hook up with is back in town after a few months living out of state. We could've hooked up, but all I could think about was the fact I'm actually legitimately interested in the girl I've been talking to, and that is a feeling I almost forgot I could have.

I've spoken to you about this already, so you know what I think, man.
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Post by: Carl-E on 29 Dec 2012, 07:05
Work is kicking my ass even harder now than pre-Christmas did, go figure.

With the economy the way it is, why was no one surprised that it would be a disappointing christmas, and that shoppers would be out iin force looking for after christmas deals? 
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 29 Dec 2012, 17:11
Etiquette question: What is the proper way to go about inviting myself to a New Year's party at my college-best-friend's house, that I was not initially invited to but am now aware of due to Facebook?

We never got in a fight or anything, I just kind of didn't see or talk to her (or anyone else, if we're being honest here) very much after I graduated & got married & moved away from campus. Most of the rest of the party is a group of people I would have liked to be better friends with but never quite got/found/made the time to put the effort into it before I graduated, etc. At this point I have no plans for New Year's, as the boy is working and I've received no invitations, because I no longer have friends (see above). And I've been seeing these people posting stuff about hanging out and getting together for a while now but seeing this caused me some actual, physical pain.
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Post by: Redball on 29 Dec 2012, 18:31
I don't think of a proper way so much as a direct one: That you're at loose ends Monday night, and assuming not everyone's paired, could you go.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 30 Dec 2012, 03:13
Yeah I'd say send her a message saying "hey, I miss hanging out with you and I wondered if I'd be able to come to your party".
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Post by: pwhodges on 30 Dec 2012, 04:44
How bad can an advert be?


Disclaimer: my sister-in-law (a lawyer) was the camera operator.
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Post by: Welu on 30 Dec 2012, 06:58
Told my boyfriend that, "I like our house. I don't like it's location." and after some discussion I convinced him we live in a kind of shitty area, but he reasonably said we're stuck, because we are. Gah. I liked denial better.
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Post by: Carl-E on 30 Dec 2012, 07:33
How bad can an advert be?

Does Punch usually sound like he's being spoken through a kazoo?  Just trying to make out what he was saying was ridiculously hard...


Aside from that?  Yeah, it was pretty bad. 
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Post by: K1dmor on 30 Dec 2012, 08:14
Told my boyfriend that, "I like our house. I don't like it's location." and after some discussion I convinced him we live in a kind of shitty area, but he reasonably said we're stuck, because we are. Gah. I liked denial better.

 (http://cdn.memegenerator.net/instances/400x/32655885.jpg)

  :psyduck:
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Post by: Welu on 30 Dec 2012, 08:32
That was a genuine suggestion I made.  :mrgreen:

I just saw a photo of myself with a genuine toothy smile. It's the first I've let myself do in years and since I got my braces off and it's finally clicked how different my teeth look and my main thought is WHATMYFACEDOESNOTLOOKLIKEMYFACEAAAAH.
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Post by: jwhouk on 30 Dec 2012, 13:19
I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, "Is living here worth all the trouble?"

If it is, well, then.

If it isn't... GTHO.
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Post by: Thrillho on 30 Dec 2012, 16:30
The more I think about it, the more I think I need to move back up North. It's cheaper, more of my friends are up there, I like the whole place better... I don't belong down here.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 30 Dec 2012, 23:25
Does Punch usually sound like he's being spoken through a kazoo?

The technical term is a swazzle, all Doctors need one.
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Post by: Patrick on 31 Dec 2012, 00:55
Let's see, the last two days have been roughly as follows:

- Was mistaken for a gang member who was murdered less than 2 blocks from my bandmate Matt's house and received a frantic phone call from him on the matter
- Painted pictures with Matt and his lady Adara
- Went out with other friends, drank, did illegal drugs
- Discovered that one of my buddies has been packing illegally obtained firearms upon hearing the news of his gangbanger friend's death
- What the actual fuck
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Post by: Barmymoo on 31 Dec 2012, 01:35
I'm staying with friends (in fact, the ex Boy) in the city in which I might well be attending university next year, and it would seem that I've organised somewhere to live if I do get a place here. The exboy is moving out to live with his girlfriend and potentiall procreate and I could take over his place in the house. This would, incidentally, render the house entirely vegetarian.
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 31 Dec 2012, 03:37
Sent a message to my friend. Fingers crossed, here goes nothing.
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Post by: Redball on 31 Dec 2012, 08:04
I've been doing online tutoring for Tutor.com for several months, but only when I have some free time, and right now schools out - the service is closed through new years.  But that's only about $12/hour.  I'm going to start posting my number at the local high schools and colleges for some real money.
I quizzed a woman I met last weekend who said she was working one full-time job and four or five part-time ones. One of the part-time jobs was tutoring math. Turned out she was tutoring on line and working through an Ohio college. I told her about a friend in the NYC area who drove around the entire region to tutor with income in six digits. She said she was lucky to clear $30k.
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Post by: Carl-E on 31 Dec 2012, 09:03
I can probably get $40/hour from the kids at the local Penn State branch.  I'd advertise it as $20/half hour on the flyer, though.   :-D

$30 per hour from the High Schools...
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Post by: Redball on 31 Dec 2012, 09:51
Is any of that on-line tutoring?
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Post by: Carl-E on 31 Dec 2012, 10:09
No, in-person - it always pays better! 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 01 Jan 2013, 13:12
I'd have thought so too, but when one of my kids moved back to Korea he was so keen to keep having lessons that we started online tutoring at the same rate! He's a lot of fun to teach, though, and very keen to learn. I find in-person tutoring to be generally easier with kids who are more inclined to go off-track. I think he sees me as one of his friends who happens to enjoy talking about grammar.
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Post by: Jace on 01 Jan 2013, 14:44
I wish I could make some money tutoring, but there is an abundance of algebra tutors in the suburbs (which is where the real money is at)
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Post by: Carl-E on 01 Jan 2013, 16:01
Tutor calculus or statistics - that's where the money is.  Algebra tutors are like weeds...
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 02 Jan 2013, 00:15
... ugly between the roses?
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Post by: jwhouk on 02 Jan 2013, 07:13
No, that's what Wisconsin was yesterday.
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Post by: Carl-E on 02 Jan 2013, 07:26
Oh,  Rose Bowl pun!  You football people...

Actually, it's more that they spring up everywhere.  Some are pretty, some not so much.  Some smell nice, others stink.  But they're everywhere, and really hard to get rid of...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: blanktom on 02 Jan 2013, 17:38
Dear blog thread,
Just over a month ago I started a 'proper' relationship with a girl I'd been seeing for a couple of months. At first I was incredibly worried because she is 5 years my junior (I'm 25) and has never had a proper boyfriend before and she's really pretty and I was like ARGH WHAT DO, then I just stopped worrying about all that and now things are going amazingly. And that's basically all there is to that story. I just wanted to share my happiness!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 02 Jan 2013, 19:08
I just wanted to share my happiness!

Fantastic. Make sure you know what foods she likes, what bands she likes, and what her clothes size is. Commence the spending!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 02 Jan 2013, 20:32
I get it, because a girlfriend is a machine you put money into to make her happy. Funny joke there, guy.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 02 Jan 2013, 20:42
Heh...if that were the case, my girlfriend would be a $2500 massage chair at Brookstone.

...Or it could be that it already is. :psyduck:
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 02 Jan 2013, 22:06
Knowing what kind of food a girl likes is important. Especially if you like cooking and the first meal you cook for her is something she can't eat. Yay!

Like seriously though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 02 Jan 2013, 22:10
That's actually a perfect example...I love to cook, but my wife can't have wheat gluten. Thus, I've learned to adapt rice flour and potato starch into most recipes...it's a form of bonding, because so much stuff has wheat in it nowadays, so we don't go out to eat very often...did you know that the "cheese powder" in macaroni & cheese is mostly wheat? Shameful.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 03 Jan 2013, 00:35
I don't think I've had a girlfriend who doesn't enjoy getting little presents every now and then. Probably the reason I still have a girlfriend is that I occasionally just buy her little things like stickers or a stuffed animal because I know it'll make her happy. Hell she still gets happy when I buy soda and pick up a 2 liter of diet wild cherry pepsi for her.
Its the little things, we leave each other notes when we're the last one to leave the other's house so they can find them later when they get home. She loves that I save all the little notes and cards she gives me.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 03 Jan 2013, 05:06
Trying to build up confidence to set up a doctor's appointment. Made a mental deal with myself if I use my back as a reason for getting cover in work one more time I'd need to get it seen to but I know it's gonna be:

Doctor: Diet and exercise.
Me: I've done that. It starts to help but then because of it or for some other reason my back hurts. Then I have to do the whole Starting Up and Growing Pains of Beginning Exercising again. I understand why it would help but how can I exercise if I'm in so much pain I can't stand!?
Doctor: You haven't lost enough weight.
Me: That's probably true! Thanks, bye!

Gonna try to ask point blank for some kind of scan or check and a session with a physiotherapist but I don't know for what I'm actually asking.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 03 Jan 2013, 06:58
Ask for an x-ray. Simple, relatively cheap, and very quick. It will show the basics of what's going on and tell the doc if there are any problems in your spine.

Also I love getting presents. But I also love giving presents. The buying shit for significant others should really go both ways.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: lepetitfromage on 03 Jan 2013, 08:03
I feel the same way, Neko. And to be honest, I prefer the little, well thought out gifts/things more than anything. If something I own is going to be super expensive, I'd rather wait it out, do my research, make sure I'm getting exactly the thing I want, get a good deal on it and pay for it myself.

A pair of fuzzy socks made you think of me so you bought them? Awwwwww.
You found the awesome scarf I wanted at 75% off? I'm so proud!
Someone at work gave you colored pencils so you brought them home for me? Omg awesome!
Did my laundry? FUCK YEAH.

Don't get me wrong, my tablet for Christmas was pretty sweet but that's actually useful. The idea of receiving expensive gifts like jewelry/designer crap and going to fancy dinners just doesn't do it for me. If I want something fancy, I'll wait til I can afford it, buy it secondhand or use a random internet coupon code to get it myself. We use coupons 95% of the times we go out to eat and watch all the movies we want for free at the local theatre where Nick's brother works. And we still sneak in candy. :-P
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 03 Jan 2013, 08:24
Yeah, the only jewelry I've been bought has been my engagement ring. :-P I hardly wear jewelry and generally have no use for it. But last year for Christmas he got me a set of really nice interchangeable knitting needles and seriously that's the best gift anyone has ever gotten me. I use them all the time and I love them.

Welu, definitely ask for an x-ray. Something else could be going on. Also what kind of exercise do you do? If you're experiencing pain, you should try low-impact exercises that don't strain your joints or back.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 03 Jan 2013, 08:39
The only proper exercise I do right now is light-ish aerobics, once a week. Other than that it's walking a whole bunch because even jogging is a bit too much on my hips. I know the ideal exercise for me is swimming but I'm overly self-concious, even for the ladies night at my local pool. I've whined here before how "modest" suits are either not what I want or stupidly expensive. I should just buy a one-piece and some men's shorts.
I got over the self-conciousness at the gym once I realized everyone is doing they're own thing and most don't acknowledge anyone else unless they're hovering for a machine. I assume that the attitude should be similar in the swimming pool?

I'm fairly sure it's related to sciatica, since my Mammy says my pain sounds similar to hers and for her it started at the same age. I did book the doctor's appointment at least. It's reached the point a five hour shift at work, which involves being on my feet and some light lifting, is enough to leave me in agony the rest of the day.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Jan 2013, 08:51
Something else that is relevant to swimming pools is that as soon as you're in the water, you're barely visible. The water obscures the shape of people and no one is looking anyway. You can walk to and from the water in a towel and only be visible to anyone who happens to glance your way for a matter of seconds.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 03 Jan 2013, 08:53
That's a fair point. I've also found some nice suits just a tiny bit out of my very small price range. Gonna start saving for a suit.  :-)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 03 Jan 2013, 09:21
Something else that is relevant to swimming pools is that as soon as you're in the water, you're barely visible. The water obscures the shape of people and no one is looking anyway. You can walk to and from the water in a towel and only be visible to anyone who happens to glance your way for a matter of seconds.
Hmmmph. That's why some of us like to swim underwater; beware swimmers with goggles. I'd make a gender distinction, but after reading the discussion of butts on another thread, I suspect none exists.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 03 Jan 2013, 11:06
Welp that definitely means I won't be swimming again! ;)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 03 Jan 2013, 11:52
Nah, just watch for swimmers with goggles.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 03 Jan 2013, 20:24
AHHHHHH best date!

So good.

<bounce bounce>

This girl is great.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 04 Jan 2013, 03:02
Yeee, I got asked out just when my self-esteem was at an all time low.

Does that mean I can keep the beard?
DO I wash my apartment and vacuum my clothes?

I think I´m gonna go although I´m not too interested.


Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 04 Jan 2013, 06:17
AHHHHHH best date!

So good.

<bounce bounce>

This girl is great.


Congrats, and gambatte! ^_^

Yeee, I got asked out just when my self-esteem was at an all time low.

Does that mean I can keep the beard?
DO I wash my apartment and vacuum my clothes?

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 04 Jan 2013, 06:29
Did my laundry? FUCK YEAH.

Fuck. Yeah. My ex seemed to think, despite my saying otherwise, that he needed to spend money on a gift for me to like it. But something like this, just helping me out, would have been fantastic.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 04 Jan 2013, 06:29
Ugh.. that RugDoctor looks heavy.. who´s gonna help me lift that thing all the way to the 5th floor?

Apart from that it´s primo advice!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 04 Jan 2013, 06:51
Aside from the Febreze in your armpits. Just neaten everything, including yourself, without going overboard.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 04 Jan 2013, 09:04
OK, so the schedule shifted one last time at the community college, and I can do two courses!  That's almost half time, and I'm following a course for the online school - won't teach one myself until after I shadow this one, but it's moving.  Then I heard back about the bank teller job (part time) I applied for, I still have to wait for the local manager to contact me for an interview (I get he feeling I'm on a list, so it may be a while, but yay anyway). 

Slow progress is progress. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 04 Jan 2013, 09:20
I'm glad you're making progress!

I spent nearly two hours trying to make my printer work. I had great difficulty installing the correct drivers, and then couldn't get them to copy into the System 32 file (did it in the end, I was trying to do the wrong thing), and then when it would print nothing was visible, so I changed the ink cartridge but the heads were clogged so I had to keep printing test pages and cleaning the heads. Finally, ten sheets of double- and triple-printed paper later, text is basically legible. I still don't have any colour ink, but I don't need any.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 04 Jan 2013, 09:42
Good work, Carl. We're on tenterhooks, whatever they are.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Jan 2013, 09:54
Tattoo is officially done hurting, now it just itches FUCKING CONSTANTLY GAAAAAAAHHHHHFUIEHUGFNEWRNMG
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 04 Jan 2013, 09:55
... tenterhooks, whatever they are.

Hooks for attaching wet woollen cloth to a frame called a tenter, to straighten it as part of an old manufacturing process.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 04 Jan 2013, 10:12
... tenterhooks, whatever they are.
Hooks for attaching wet woollen cloth to a frame called a tenter, to straighten it as part of an old manufacturing process.
Doesn't sound comfortable, but the context says it isn't supposed to.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 04 Jan 2013, 14:58
Yes, waiting on tenterhooks is waiting that wants to end. 


I prefer the edge of my seat. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 04 Jan 2013, 16:47
I'm fairly sure it's related to sciatica, since my Mammy says my pain sounds similar to hers and for her it started at the same age. I did book the doctor's appointment at least. It's reached the point a five hour shift at work, which involves being on my feet and some light lifting, is enough to leave me in agony the rest of the day.

My mom has sciatica and that's why I was asking. Even her lifting a box that was slightly too heavy would give her massive back pain for days. Low-impact exercise is definitely best and if you can find something you're comfortable swimming in, I highly recommend doing so!

Something else that is relevant to swimming pools is that as soon as you're in the water, you're barely visible. The water obscures the shape of people and no one is looking anyway. You can walk to and from the water in a towel and only be visible to anyone who happens to glance your way for a matter of seconds.

THIS. I would walk into the pool wrapped up and walk out wrapped up. (At least my legs, because I prefer to hide my thighs as much as possible.) Also, even when you're swimming with goggles, it's really hard to focus on people swimming in other lanes because you do have to watch where you're going. I feel like people who watch people underwater are mostly at public pools during the summer, not ones that are used primarily for exercise. People are busy doing their own thing.

Also the cool thing about pool exercises, if there's a shallow end, you can also "jog", too! One of my friends and I would do laps, then "jog", and then end with pool-side chin ups. (Basically you just try to raise your head above the edge of the pool and do so many times. I think I usually did 50-100? It's good for your arms, but it's easier than traditional ones. Note: I can't do traditional chin ups to save my life. Too tall and too heavy.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 04 Jan 2013, 19:17
Tattoo is officially done hurting, now it just itches FUCKING CONSTANTLY GAAAAAAAHHHHHFUIEHUGFNEWRNMG

Pics or it didn't happen.

Yeah, I just used an overused phrase...it's the first thing that came out of my head on short notice.

Also the cool thing about pool exercises, if there's a shallow end, you can also "jog", too! One of my friends and I would do laps, then "jog", and then end with pool-side chin ups. (Basically you just try to raise your head above the edge of the pool and do so many times. I think I usually did 50-100? It's good for your arms, but it's easier than traditional ones. Note: I can't do traditional chin ups to save my life. Too tall and too heavy.)

Aquatic regimens are awesome...good for any age group or athletic ability.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 04 Jan 2013, 21:06
I posted one taken the night I got it, but if I were to take one now it'd seriously look like a bunch of indistinct tiny blobs coming together to form some semblance of a pic-a-ture.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 04 Jan 2013, 22:08
pic-a-ture.

Pic-a-nic basket!

(http://www.gadgetspage.com/wp-content/uploads/yogipicnicbasket.gif)

Seriously though, I hope it blends into something nice.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 05 Jan 2013, 04:00
I didn't know your camera was an MLT raytracer, Pat.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 05 Jan 2013, 08:38
Nah. Tat's just started peeling, so it looks like shit for a couple days. Once it's done though, GLORY
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 05 Jan 2013, 12:18
Something else that is relevant to swimming pools is that as soon as you're in the water, you're barely visible. The water obscures the shape of people and no one is looking anyway. You can walk to and from the water in a towel and only be visible to anyone who happens to glance your way for a matter of seconds.
Hmmmph. That's why some of us like to swim underwater; beware swimmers with goggles. I'd make a gender distinction, but after reading the discussion of butts on another thread, I suspect none exists.
I wish I hadn't posted that. It's not true. Although I can recall noticing female figures underwater, I can't recall deliberately leering underwater, with or without goggles. And anyone concerned about being observed and leered at doesn't need that attempt at humor.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 05 Jan 2013, 12:36
I don't really worry about underwater leering (even with your comment!), so much as just generally being in public with that much me on show. You're well acquainted with my personal clothes rule; swimming costumes are about as far as possible from meeting it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 05 Jan 2013, 14:23
This morning I filled in on guitar for my friend's Battle of the Bands audition for his band The Growing Room. I auditioned to be a permanent member a couple years ago and they accepted me, but I decided not to go through with it. But I made it clear that I'd be delighted to be on call to fill in for their guitarist if they ever needed it. Today was that day, and I am pretty confident I nailed it. When we were through with our set the judges asked us how long we'd been playing together, and we told em the truth, that today was the first time I'd ever met half the band. They didn't know how to respond to that. We'll hear back either tonight or by the 7th.

Tonight, my own band's playing a show, so today's going to continue being a busy day. Last night I think I had food poisoning. I feel like a badass today even though I'm exhausted. I TOLD U I WAS HARDCORE
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 05 Jan 2013, 14:31
From my experience, as long as the drum and bass are tight in a rock band, the guitarist and singer can fuck up half the time and nobody will even notice. Except singers and guitar players, of course.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 05 Jan 2013, 14:36
I barely even paid attention to the bassist, strictly drums. This was a really poppy rock band, so basically the whole group is the rhythm section. For the first song, all it is is the two of us and the singer for the first verse, so that kinda set the tone for the whole set for me. Just play like it's a two-piece.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 05 Jan 2013, 16:41
Update: we found out about 30 minutes ago that we have made it to the finals! Fuck yeah! We didn't even bring our A game. Now it's time to rip the judges a new one.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 06 Jan 2013, 02:09
I was half-joking. Congrats mate, excellent work.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jan 2013, 03:20
OK, I have a question for you guys - I want to know whether I'm being unreasonable or not.

I tutor via Skype on Sundays, one hour a week. I've been tutoring this kid for over a year now and I enjoy it, he's bright and a fast learner. I'm well paid for it, £15 an hour which isn't bad since I have no teaching qualifications.

He sends me a written diary each week, so that I can look through it and make notes on grammar and spelling mistakes etc. We talk through it and discuss what he's got wrong, and he generally corrects it himself.

His mum just sent me an email asking me to please correct his mistakes and send it back to him before the class, in the same way that I do when I proofread her degree work. I don't want to do this. There are several reasons.

Firstly, a lot of his mistakes are silly mistakes which he knows how to correct himself. Pedalogically, I think it is useful for him to correct them himself.

Secondly, sometimes it isn't so much a mistake as a better way to phrase something. We talk about the possibilities and he chooses how to change it. I want him to take ownership of his writing.

Thirdly, it takes a long time to proofread. When I proofread professionally, I am paid £10 an hour. I'm not paid anything for the time it takes me to prepare each tutoring session, which can range from between 10 minutes and an hour depending whether I need to make new worksheets. If I proofread his diary, particularly if it's a long one like this week (we had a week off for New Year so I've got two weeks, and he wasn't at school so he's written something every day), it will at least double the amount of time it takes to get ready for the lesson.

Finally, the lesson is at noon on Sundays because they are in Korea and the time difference means that no other time is suitable. He sends the diary at varying times, but usually it arrives on Saturday night. I'm in chapel on Sunday mornings, and I leave Chapel breakfast early in order to plan the lesson. I would have to leave even earlier to proofread and return the diary - and there's a finite amount of "earlier" I can leave, because I warden the service and therefore have to be there until after it finishes.

Having written all of those things down, I now sort of feel like I am definitely justified in leaving things as they are. I think I'll compose an email with these points in it - anyone have any input?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: bainidhe_dub on 06 Jan 2013, 08:31
Did she give a reason for why she wants to change things? I think that your objections of the value of discussing & letting him recognize and correct mistakes, and the fact that this kid is sending them to you at basically the last possible moment are the most compelling.
Does she really realize that you're not getting it until Saturday night? If my timezone calculations are correct, he's sending it to you early Sunday morning and has the tutoring at 9pm Sunday. Presumably if she knew you when they lived in England, then she probably knows you go to chapel, but she still might be thinking you've got "all day" to review it, and not taking into account that you're sleeping and at chapel for most of that time. If you got his journal on Friday, then reviewing and sending a marked-up copy back on Saturday so he could look at it and be ready to discuss on Sunday, that would be a more reasonable request, everything else aside.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jan 2013, 09:27
She didn't give a reason. In the past she's made suggestions in a similar manner - once an email saying "I think [Student] should have homework" which I didn't wholly agree with, but I do set him vocabulary to learn or exercises to practise if I genuinely think they will be useful, and once saying "I think [Student] should write a diary and send it to you for review" which I definitely think is useful.

I think she does know I'm not getting it until Saturday afternoon/evening, and she is definitely aware of the time difference because she used to live in England too. Perhaps she's forgotten that I have chapel in the morning, but to be honest even if he did send it a day earlier, it would still be extra time I had to spend preparing for a lesson, and time spent doing something I don't think would be of any benefit to anyone. Really, most of the mistakes are simple typos or "brain working faster than fingers" issues which he can catch himself - I have told him as well as putting it in the email that he should read it aloud before sending it - and otherwise it's mostly just a matter of discussing alternative wording which would sound better. He doesn't make grammar mistakes any more. The diary is simply a way for him to practise writing in English and for me to know what he's been up to, and a good warm-up activity for the lesson.

It ain't broke and I dun wanna fix it, basically.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 06 Jan 2013, 10:44
I'm a little confused. She asked you to start doing the diary thing with him, him writing it and you correcting it together with him. So it's basically a pedagogic exercise you do together. What's the point of you correcting it for him? Since she didn't give any reasons for that I can only assume she wants it to be tougher for the kid for the sake of it and I think you are right in saying no to it.

Also, is this the 10-year old you mentioned in the "what's so terrible about kids" thread?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jan 2013, 11:17
Yup, that's the one. Frankly the only reason I still get him to do the diary is because it satisfies her need to see him doing homework (bear in mind that he goes to school AND to an institute where he learns English, as well as weekly lessons with me) and because it's a good starter exercise for the lesson. It's a good job he actually enjoys studying and learning English. When he had exams at school he looked completely exhausted for about two weeks; I could see that even over webcam. The plus side is that he's going to be very successful (if he doesn't burn out completely at about 16).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 06 Jan 2013, 11:26
"Give a man  fish, you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, you feed him for life."

I see no reason to correct his mistakes for him...how is he going to learn, if you're doing all the work?


I addition, you should bring up the point to his mother that your lesson preparation comes at no charge already...if you were to take more time doing it, you'd need to be compensated. Does she realize that you're only tutoring one child? Maybe she thinks you tutor a while classroom, one kid at a time, and are thus compensated...which you aren't.

Good luck with High Expectations Asian Mom.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 06 Jan 2013, 11:48
Don't have to be Asian:

My wife tells of the dyslexic maths student at her university (Uni of Surrey, in the UK) last year who asked to use her grant for stuff to help her cope with dyslexia to be used for paying a graduate student to give her extra tutoring.  When she was told that this was not allowed (it's in the written rules), her father wrote to the vice-chancellor of the university to complain.  When he confirmed that it was not allowed, the father wrote to his MP who wrote to the VC, who said it was still not allowed...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 06 Jan 2013, 11:58
So, the student wanted to re-appropriate her dyslexia grant money to hire a tutor? I'm not sure I follow...it's grant money apportioned to her use, anyway, why not use it for studies?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 06 Jan 2013, 12:10
Because it isn't apportioned to her use, it's apportioned to leveling the playing field so that she isn't disadvantaged by the dyslexia. For instance, for buying a laptop or some kind of equipment that makes it easier to read textbooks (special versions perhaps, I don't know much about dyslexia adjustments). Extra tuition wouldn't level the playing field, it would give an advantage.

It's a bit like when I took a year off due to illness. I wasn't allowed to attend lectures in that year, because that would mean I got to cover the material twice - I could take the year out to recover, so that I was in the same healthy state as the other students, but not repeat the instruction.

The mother does know I'm only tutoring one child, definitely. I think she maybe doesn't realise that it would take a lot of extra time. I hope she'll just accept my response and not try to persuade me. Honestly, if I thought it would be useful then I'd already be doing it as part of the lesson preparation. I don't believe that homework has much value at all, and certainly I don't believe me correcting the homework would. He is ten years old, he isn't going to back over the work he's done to see if he understands why the corrections have been made. If I don't take him through them in person, he'll never look at them again - I know I wouldn't.

I once turned down a tutoring student (after I'd intially accepted, for which I feel guilty) because I didn't feel capable of teaching them, and I didn't feel that they should be being taught. The parent wanted two two-hour sessions a week of english, maths and study skills... for their five year old. In addition to regular school, that is. I cannot sit still for two hours at a time after a full day of school, never mind expecting a five year old to do so.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 06 Jan 2013, 13:24
A five-year-old? What happened to letting kids be kids?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 06 Jan 2013, 19:46
Overachieving parents, that's what. 
----------------------------------------------

So I was sitting around after church today talking with a few of the remaining members about this and that, and Debbie B, who'ss a good friend, says "I know, I'll ask Carl, maybe he can". 

She got sidetracked, and a little later I asked her what she was going to ask me. 


"Would you like a part time job?"


0_o


Uh.... YES!!!

Debbie owns the Beer Barn here in town, and since her husband Lennie passed away two years ago, it's been just her and two of her sons (and a few delivery drivers for the commercial customers).  They got stretched pretty thin over the holidays, and if one of them gets sick or needs a day for something, they wind up shorthanded.  I'll be taking two days a week outside my teaching schedule, and other days/evenings as needed, especially around holidays (they were stretched pretty thin these last two weeks). 

Her only question for me was, "Do you know how to run a cash register?"

 :-D

Since '76.  And modern ones, too.  I can even count change, which is a dying art...


So that makes it three part time jobs, now.  And I've made a tearoff flyer for tutoring at the local Penn State Campus (like Dillinger said, "because that's where the money is")

It might actually be a good year!  Now if only I can get some health insurance somewhere...
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Post by: Redball on 06 Jan 2013, 21:22
Good work! Oughta be fun if you don't deal with drunks.
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Post by: Pilchard123 on 07 Jan 2013, 00:06
That's what the broadsword is for.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 07 Jan 2013, 00:34
It's a bit like when I took a year off due to illness. I wasn't allowed to attend lectures in that year, because that would mean I got to cover the material twice - I could take the year out to recover, so that I was in the same healthy state as the other students, but not repeat the instruction.

Wow...UK must have very different rules governing education then. My wife took a medical leave two different semesters, and ended up taking the same class three times...no rule against that here. Of course, she wasn't happy about it...it was a Chem class taught by a professor so inane that when I sat in on the class with her, I was ready to strangle him for not following through on his examples and explaining why things did what they did...and I wasn't even a student at that university.

But I digress. I can understand the grant restrictions, that makes sense.

I can only hope the mother will understand the limitations, given that you have a life outside of tutoring. If not, that's her loss, not yours (aside from 15 pounds per week). Don't sweat it.
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Post by: Patrick on 07 Jan 2013, 02:27
That's what the broadsword is for.

I use mine to open lots and lots of boxes and sometimes chest cavities
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jan 2013, 03:26
Carl, that's great, things are looking up! I hope you find somewhere with insurance, what kind of jobs offer that? Is it only really full time ones?

My compromise suggestion that I send a corrected version after the class based on our discussion was accepted. That won't be an issue, I correct as we go along anyway and I just need to highlight the corrections which is easy. I am sure she's right when she says that he misses out some of the corrections on his own version!
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Jan 2013, 04:15
Most places only pay for part of your insurance if you're full time.  Otherwise you can buy into the work plan, but for most part-time jobs, that will take most of your salary...
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Post by: Redball on 07 Jan 2013, 09:25
I'm sure you've been evaluating the Affordable Care Act as it unfolds. Does that hold out some hope?
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Post by: Carl-E on 07 Jan 2013, 09:40
Actually, I've not been tracking PA's invilvement, and I don't think the health care exchanges kick in until 2014...

A lot can happen in a year. 
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jan 2013, 16:18
I went and applied for insurance and food stamps. got turned down. don't really remember clearly what happened next. had some kind of meltdown, tried ot kill myself, cops grabbed me, forced me into a cop car and took me to the hospital. just got out abut an hour ago, just got home twenty minutes ago. turnso ut my father's rented out my room. all my stuff's gone except my bed.

kind of numb.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 07 Jan 2013, 16:23
I am so sorry that you are going through this shit. You deserve so much better, and I wish there was something we could do :(
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Post by: nekowafer on 07 Jan 2013, 16:26
I second what May said. And offer digital hugs for lack of anything more constructive.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 07 Jan 2013, 16:34
what I *want* is to smoke, but my stash that was in my room is missing, too.
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Post by: Patrick on 08 Jan 2013, 01:43
That is some bullshit and if I had weed I'd ask for your address to send some.

Guys,

The cutest girl I've ever met sent me the cutest video I've ever seen in my entire life, and it was her singing something from Adventure Time and basically she asked me out and YES I WILL GO OUT WITH YOU, IS THAT EVEN A QUESTION
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Post by: Welu on 08 Jan 2013, 02:50
Unicorn, many e-hugs your way.

~ ~

Doctor ended up doing what he always does, "Diet and exercise." but he gave some actually advice instead of just, "Lose weight." Gave me some ideas for exercises, told me some stuff to Google including Intermittent Fasting (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-19112549). Seems odd but he said since you're still eating it is okay? I'll think about it.
Says my back issue is not sciatica but it's likely I'll develop it sooner or later, since my issue is where the lumbar meets the spine. The check he did by putting pressure on my back has left me quite sore.
He basically said the exercises he gave me will delay it developing and there'll always be pain to some extent. One thing he did different is he told me to come back in a few weeks to see how things go. Probably more to hold me accountable than anything but in fairness, that could be what I need. He also made a joke about my Da's heart problem which was uncool but I laughed politely any way.
Oh, and a script for painkillers, of course.
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Jan 2013, 08:00
Do you have a chiropractor you can see?  Spinal alignment problems can actually be corrected and held off indefinitely by such treatments, but a lot of regular MD's still think of them as quacks. 

But I'm walking again, and it's just been a year since I was knocked down by a car and couldn't walk at all.  All treatments wound up being chiropractic, because the pain pills the doc gave me didn't do shit to relieve the pressure on the nerve in my leg...
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Post by: Bluesummers on 08 Jan 2013, 08:18
turns out my father's rented out my room. all my stuff's gone except my bed.
 
 kind of numb.
 

Wow...Unicorn, your father sounds like a real shitcock.

Jeez....How the fuck does someone get turned down for foodstamps? I've been making more than full-time minimum wage, and I was receiving them up until my job change a couple months ago. I had a long talk with my case worker, who basically told me flat out "the system is broken, it's a bureaucratic hellmaw, you need to supplement anything you get from us with assistance from a private organization, and not tell us about it."

Not sure it that's a viable option for you, but it's worth a try. I've gotten a lot of help from local food pantries.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 08 Jan 2013, 09:58
Because the social worker knows my father and thinks he's just a great guy all around and is here to help me, therefore I don't need assistance.

Also, all of the food pantries that were in the area that I knew of closed down after Walmart came in - they're the biggest grocery store in the area now, and they put food in the trash compactor rather than donate it.
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Post by: Welu on 08 Jan 2013, 11:06
Do you have a chiropractor you can see?  Spinal alignment problems can actually be corrected and held off indefinitely by such treatments, but a lot of regular MD's still think of them as quacks. 

But I'm walking again, and it's just been a year since I was knocked down by a car and couldn't walk at all.  All treatments wound up being chiropractic, because the pain pills the doc gave me didn't do shit to relieve the pressure on the nerve in my leg...

There's a private one in town but I don't know anything about it. May look into it. I've also heard there's a physio who's employed by the hospital but does some moonlighting in his home surgery. Usually deals with sports injuries but I've heard good things about him.
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Jan 2013, 11:22
Just spent the morning looking for internships and getting upset, then I ran across this:

 Internships Don't Need to Pay as long as You're Rich. (http://gawker.com/5974122/internships-dont-need-to-pay-as-long-as-youre-rich?post=55940412)

<sigh>

I keep seeing great internships, but they are unpaid, and if I don't get paid this summer I get evicted. We ran through the last of our savings last summer and there is no student aid available for the summer term. 

I need to do an internship to graduate.

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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Jan 2013, 13:46
Look for one that's cooperative with the school - many, instead of offering pay, will (with the authority of the school and usually some kind of paper/report) give hours of credit, so you can take it during a semester and still get financial aid. 

They're out there, but you usually have to go throough the school to find them. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jan 2013, 14:15
Welp, I'm single again.

I saw that coming weeks ago, but I hoped it was just paranoia. Guess that's what I get for dating a fresher.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 08 Jan 2013, 14:16
You're above his league anyway...don't let it get you too down.


Look for one that's cooperative with the school - many, instead of offering pay, will (with the authority of the school and usually some kind of paper/report) give hours of credit, so you can take it during a semester and still get financial aid. 

They're out there, but you usually have to go throough the school to find them. 

Is Work-study an option? My wife worked at a greenhouse during her college years, and it helped (a portion, anyway) with her college debt.
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Jan 2013, 14:19
I think she means an internship in her field of study.  Can't just be a school based work-study job. 
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Post by: Redball on 08 Jan 2013, 14:45
Welp, I'm single again.
I saw that coming weeks ago, but I hoped it was just paranoia. Guess that's what I get for dating a fresher.
And besides The Learning Experience, I recall from your posts that you had some good times.
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Post by: Papersatan on 08 Jan 2013, 14:49
Yes, I need an internship in my field of study. I need to complete 240 hours and most internships do this by having you work full time for a summer.  In addition I need to register for the internship class (at $5,000) to get credit for it.  I will take the class next fall when I can get a loan to pay for it, but that still leaves me with no income for the summer. 

I have been using my school's database to search for internships, the problem is my specialization.  The Human Computer Interaction kids get internships that pay them $20 an hour.  The best I have found for me is $10, and most don't pay at all.
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Post by: Barmymoo on 08 Jan 2013, 15:02
Yeah, I was enjoying being with him. I like him a lot. I guess it's just that he wants to be more casual, or maybe date lots of people or something. I don't know. He just said "I don't think this is what I want".

And yes, a learning experience. I've said it before but I am hoping this time it will be for definite; no more dating. No more rushing into things. This has shown me very vividly that I can't handle being with someone if it isn't likely to last forever (or at least as long as forever means in these things), so there's no point getting involved and making it hard for someone else. I'm sure he feels bad about hurting me.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 08 Jan 2013, 15:20
Might be a stupid question on my part but how do you know something might last forever?
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Post by: Redball on 08 Jan 2013, 16:43
With each relationship, you do the best you can and hope for the best. Whether you rush into things or not, I hope you meet lots of guys and hang out with a few of them and maybe even lose your heart to two or three -- serially, of course.

It reminds me that after my parents' divorce, followed years later by my own, I had hopes but no enormous expectations that my second marriage would last forever. When it lasted longer than either of my parents' two marriages, I was a little surprised. Quite proud, too, that I hadn't screwed it up.
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Post by: Carl-E on 08 Jan 2013, 18:12
I've said it before but I am hoping this time it will be for definite; no more dating. No more rushing into things.

Wait - I think you have part of that backwards. 

You should date.  You don't commit yourself to a pair of shoes without trying them on, do you?  Take a few steps, so you can say "No way", or "...mmmmaybe".  That's what dating's for.  If someone seems really compatible, then you can go further with things, at a reasonable pace.  It's the opposite of "rushing into things". 


Unless, of course, you fall for every person you date.  That's a hazard. 
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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Jan 2013, 01:35
"Dating" isn't quite the same thing in the UK as it is in the US. People don't generally go on dates with lots of different people to see who they like best, although some probably do. It's generally used as a synonym for "going out", or "going steady" (that last one hasn't been said since about the 1970s though).

I certainly know when something almost certainly isn't going to last forever. Last time, there were two problems. The first one was that he wouldn't even say he was my boyfriend (massive red flag that I pretended would go away) and also he was violently atheist and couldn't deal with me being Christian. Not going to last. This time, the fact that he is 18 and I'm about to graduate and move away meant the odds were against us, and there were lots of little pinkish flags, if not one big red one, which meant I knew I liked him more than he liked me.

So I guess you can't know it will last forever. But you can know it won't, and so far I always have.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Jan 2013, 01:37
I'm sick as hell, been in bed all day, and I work 1130a-630p AND run my bar's jam night tomorrow. My realjob shift is right along the time frame where I have to do every single bulk item curbside pickup appointment.

I do not know how I will survive.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Jan 2013, 01:42
So I guess you can't know it will last forever.

When you're twenty, you're looking for a relationship that might last three times longer than you have existed on Earth - predicting that reliably is pretty unlikely, really, and it's somewhat amazing that we manage even as well as we do.
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Post by: pwhodges on 09 Jan 2013, 01:59
This evening's entertainment: Sir Harrison Birtwistle (http://www.kingsplace.co.uk/whats-on-book-tickets/music/sir-harrison-birtwistle#.UO0_LETXAfs) :-)
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Post by: VonKleist on 09 Jan 2013, 03:12
Whoa, Patrick, can't you stay in?
I avoid working while sick because I once worked for weeks with a pretty hefty cold that then turned sinusitis and since then every minor cold has a good chance to turn into a pretty bad sinusitis. Just cause I couldn't say "no" to my then employer.

Soo, I´m fresh outta ca$h again, my nigs
but I found that I still have money on my student-card so I can go eat at the cafeteria. Hooray!
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Post by: Redball on 09 Jan 2013, 07:07
"Dating" isn't quite the same thing in the UK as it is in the US. People don't generally go on dates with lots of different people to see who they like best, although some probably do. It's generally used as a synonym for "going out", or "going steady" (that last one hasn't been said since about the 1970s though).

I certainly know when something almost certainly isn't going to last forever. Last time, there were two problems. The first one was that he wouldn't even say he was my boyfriend (massive red flag that I pretended would go away) and also he was violently atheist and couldn't deal with me being Christian. Not going to last. This time, the fact that he is 18 and I'm about to graduate and move away meant the odds were against us, and there were lots of little pinkish flags, if not one big red one, which meant I knew I liked him more than he liked me.

So I guess you can't know it will last forever. But you can know it won't, and so far I always have.
If anyone can sort out the bumps, lumps and rushes, you can. But then I also think you'll be prime minister.
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Post by: Papersatan on 09 Jan 2013, 13:17
My State Senator (or someone in her office anyways) wrote me back.  I sent her a hand written letter last month about the various anti-abortion bills, and how they made Michigan a less apealing place for me to look for jobs after graduations.   I also emailed her a copy of the letter I sent to the governor last week.

While most of her reply was likely copied and pasted from her talking points on the issue, one of the first paragraphs indicates both letters were read and linked to me as their single author:

Quote
I appreciate the time you took not only to share your personal perspective with me on this issue, but also to respond to Governor Snyder regarding his reasons for signing this bill. I am sorry to hear that recent events have made you question your decision to become a Michigander, but I hope that you will choose to stay and work with those of us who refuse to give up in our fight against this war on women.

That is nice, though I expect no such acknowledgement from the governor.

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Post by: Barmymoo on 09 Jan 2013, 13:18
Haha I am not going to be prime minister! I would be terrible in politics, I'd always go for the decision that seemed nicest and then we'd run out of money.

I haven't a clue what the bumps, lumps and rushes are. But I would probably organise them, label them, categorise them and make a spreadsheet of them if I did.

I'm feeling less bad today (in that I only cried twice, and only had to physically prevent myself from crying a few times, instead of every couple of minutes). I ducked out of choir dinner, which almost everyone else has gone to, because I need some time where I can drop the front and be honest about how I'm feeling. I don't want to break down and cry in front of everyone, including the xBoy, because it would be embarassing and awkward and everyone would gossip about me when I left.

We spoke very briefly this afternoon when I returned some stuff he'd left in my room. Then I bumped into the chaplain who asked how my Christmas had been, and I started crying again. The chaplain suggested I should talk to xB about the breakup but I'm not really sure what needs to be said. I'm feeling sad, I knew he was going to break up with me and I think I know why, it's fairly amicable and hopefully soon I'll be able to speak to him without crying.
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Post by: Welu on 09 Jan 2013, 15:46
Don't feel quite right tonight. Head's kind of light. Kind of feel like I'm about to cry and/or going to fall asleep any moment. Think it's anxiety but usually my stomach goes into knots if it's anxiety.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 09 Jan 2013, 16:34
Have you eaten/drank fluids normally today?if that's not the cause, try some slow, deep breaths. Take your pulse if possible...if it's elevated or lowered more than about 30% from your normal resting rate, call your physician.
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Post by: Welu on 09 Jan 2013, 16:39
Yeah, eating and drinking been normal. Thanks for the advice, breathing has helped a bit. Got up and walked around. I think I might be getting sick but just a cold hopefully.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 09 Jan 2013, 16:45
Eat some chocolate and take a short walk. The caffeine and sugar in the chocolate will give you a little boost.

Also, try Vitamin C and Lysine (it's an amino acid...find it near the vitamins at the drug store. It might be labelled "L-Lysine"). It's what my father always recommends...he's a nurse. Together they help to strenthen the immune system, and it's a lot easier than taking a buttload of different pills. If you're already taking a multivitamin on a regular basis, take them anyway. Your body typically utilizes more ascorbic acid (Vit-C) when it needs it, and they're both water-soluble, so any excess is excreted through the urine; you can't O.D. unless you basically chug the bottle.




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Post by: Welu on 09 Jan 2013, 16:59
I actually had some chocolate. My body must have known I needed it.  :mrgreen: Handy advice, will get the vitamins when I'm in town tomorrow.
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Post by: Patrick on 09 Jan 2013, 17:47
Whoa, Patrick, can't you stay in?

I left realjob early, and now I'm about to go set up jam night. I'm going to try and find some Tylenol at the store and maybe break this damned fever. I have a date at noon tomorrow with the Cutest Girl Ever (she offered to raincheck, bless her heart, but when am I gonna have time again soon?) and then I'm gonna try and get a walk-in at the doc's office. Then I'm supposed to set up for my buddy's last camping trip (tomorrow night) before he permanently relocates to New Zealand on the 16th. After setup, I have my open mic at the coffee shop to run, then the camping trip itself.

Why do I do things to myself
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Post by: Bluesummers on 09 Jan 2013, 17:56
...This even mre sums it up...you are a trooper. God bless ya, and I hope you don't pass out halfway through your superadventureness.  ;D
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Post by: Redball on 09 Jan 2013, 19:58
I haven't a clue what the bumps, lumps and rushes are. But I would probably organise them, label them, categorise them and make a spreadsheet of them if I did.
Bumps and lumps: setbacks, what you're experiencing. Rushes: Adrenaline, infatuation, falling in love. That wasn't very clear, but it would make an interesting spreadsheet.
As for prime minister, of course you will. If Hugh Grant can be one, you can.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 09 Jan 2013, 21:00
Hugh Grant, really? Ugh...At least if it were Hugh Laurie, I'd enjoy his parliamentary antics. With assistance from Coalition Leader Stephen Fry.
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Post by: Jace on 09 Jan 2013, 21:20
Made it back to my first SCA practice since August. Using my full kit and a new punch shield. Things went pretty good, I've still got some stuff to work on, mostly generating power from the hips and shots when I get in close. I use a 39" sword so I have range over anyone not using a polearm or spear pretty much (I have the longest sword and the longest arms of any fighter at practice). Next week we are doing a more back to basics thing working on blocking and striking fundamentals and I'm really looking forward to it.

Currently have welts on my butt and upper left thigh, a bruise on my left shoulder, couple small bruises on my arms, a cut on my knuckle (I think I did this putting my armor on), and I smashed my thumb with my basket so it is crazy bruised up.
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Post by: BeoPuppy on 09 Jan 2013, 22:45
Hugh Grant, really?
He is in two of my favourite films ever. And would he be worse than Clegg/Cameron?

There's a tiny girl next to me blowing a whistle. She's really proud of it as well. The dedication is staggering.
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Post by: Patrick on 10 Jan 2013, 03:38
...This even mre sums it up...you are a trooper.

I would've probably used the word "fool" instead but I appreciate the kindness.
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Post by: VonKleist on 10 Jan 2013, 03:53
Also you make me feel that my social life is moving at the speed of a meth-addicted sloth :)

Get some Aspirin+, the kind with vitamin C and some form of ephidrine in it and then try not to collapse at some point!
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Post by: Akima on 10 Jan 2013, 14:22
I use a 39" sword so I have range over anyone not using a polearm or spear pretty much (I have the longest sword and the longest arms of any fighter at practice).
I will make no comment about the appropriateness of your forum avatar...  :-D

Is that the overall length, pommel to tip, or the blade? I am guessing it is the blade if yours is exceptional, since the longest taiji swords are around 38"-39" overall, but have blades only around 32" long.
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Post by: Jace on 10 Jan 2013, 14:27
Oh, its overall length. But most guys use something in the range of 30-32" overall length.

I'm like 2 chromosomes away from a chimpanzee. My forearms are about 2" longer than they ought to be for someone my height.
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Post by: Akima on 10 Jan 2013, 14:51
30"-32" overall would be very short for taiji sword, especially for a guy. My jian is about 34.5" overall with roughly a 28" blade. That is fractionally too short for me according to "the rules", but it is the closest standard size.

Liu Bei (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liu_Bei), hero of Romance Of The Three Kingdoms and all-around legendary good-guy, is famous for his long arms, and for being a deadly swordsman.
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Post by: Papersatan on 10 Jan 2013, 16:16
I've been sick for a few days now with a head cold.  Yesterday my tonsils got all swollen and sore and patchy.  This afternoon I woke up with a twinge in my ear and knew things were headed down hill.  I got a lot of ear infections as a child and I could tell one was coming.  I managed to get to the university clinic just before they stopped accepting new patents at 4 pm and then sat there for two and a half hours.  By the time the Dr. saw me, my ear was throbbing and congested. 

Glad I trusted myself and went when I did.  I would not have been pleased waiting another 18 hours to start antibiotics.

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Post by: Patrick on 11 Jan 2013, 01:35
Date went well. We were both sick so it wound up happening 2 hours later than planned, but fuck it. Afterward, she and I went to a Mediterranean restaurant with some mutual friends and it turns out the place makes byrek, which I haven't had since Tirana. Wasn't like the real thing, but eh, not a lot of people would know.

Camping wound up not happening for anyone, so that saved me a lot of hurt.
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Post by: snalin on 11 Jan 2013, 01:58
I use a 39" sword so I have range over anyone not using a polearm or spear pretty much

You use that thing one handled? That be crazy.

I know what we do over here is pretty different from the SCA, but this advice might still work; if you are opposing someone with a polearm, they expect you to have a lot shorter reach than what you actually have, and won't really see you as a threat if they've got people with shields in front of them. You can get some really easy kills on them because of that - simply use that oversized sword and the long arms to hit them when they're trying to stab the people next to you - they'll probably just be worried about polearms on your side, not swords.
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Post by: Jace on 11 Jan 2013, 02:19
In the melees at practice we usually end up with 5-6 guys per side, and I put myself on the left flank, that way when the other side tries to split up and flank us, I can reach out and smack the dude in the back or head really quick. Its pretty nice because there are rules for being engaged (basically, as long as you are in range of that person's weapon or them in range of yours while facing each other, or if you come up from behind, you turn them around, tap them with your weapon a couple times or shout at them so that they acknowledge you) and thus my engagement range is a little over 70" (177.8cm). It is stupid fun and I can't wait to make myself a polearm and just destroy people.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 11 Jan 2013, 05:32
my engagement range is a little over 70" (177.8cm).

Swords with reach are always good.  Increased threatened squares are great when an enemy tries to move around you and ends up with an unexpected AoO.  Even better if you have Combat Reflexes and can get two in on them as they move in for an attack (or try to retreat).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Jan 2013, 08:06
I am reminded of the close fighting technique I was taught of punching past the opponent's head, then swinging the sword from the wrist, wrapping around behind the shield and hitting them in the back of the head... the guy who taught it to me likened it to a waiter throwing a bowl of soup; straight out with the arm, then a lot of spin with the wrist...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 11 Jan 2013, 14:29
I can't wait to make myself a polearm and just destroy people.
Never take a sword to a gùn (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajyJxM0ZmuQ) fight.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 11 Jan 2013, 14:51
Holy fucking shit, dat WHOOOSH
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 11 Jan 2013, 18:45
Not whooosh, wushu...

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

So our goddaughter, who just got out of the army last year with her husband (they met in high school and went into the military together) came by tonight with her 8 month old son - her husband and she had another fight (third one since he became unemployed before christmas).  This time though, he hit her in the face and drew a gun (unloaded).  She came to us partly because we're walking distance, and partly because her parents (a couple of miles up the road) are wackos (a whole other story). 

Her dad came by and picked her up to talk and (I hope) make a report, and we've got the kid. 

It's not PTSD, they were stationed in Hawaii doing vehicle (him) and weapon (her) maintenance, never saw action.  But he got a "good" job with a trucking company soon after they got back, except they treated him like shit and fired him with no cause right before christmas.  They're trying to deny him unemployment on trumped up insubordination.  He's been moody ever since, and all they seem to do lately is fight. 

I have a few thoughts on "at-will" employment right about now. 


Doors are locked, lights are out, in case he comes by. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 11 Jan 2013, 20:45
Hope that works out, at the least without any more violence.
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Post by: Bluesummers on 11 Jan 2013, 21:21
Ditto. Carl, is there anything against you filing a report as well? Just for thoroughness.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 11 Jan 2013, 22:38
I don't even...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 12 Jan 2013, 02:40
Wow Carl, be careful with that, sounds dangerous.  :-\
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 12 Jan 2013, 04:15
Damn, Carl. Hope things resolve peacefully.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spriteling on 12 Jan 2013, 05:20
There is a mouse in my flat.  Pol is hunting it and has it trapped and it is squeaking and sounding pathetic.  I feel traumatised and grossed out right now.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 12 Jan 2013, 05:26
One of our former apartments had mice and our cat caught two.  One was dead when we found him with it, and soaking wet from being licked, and missing one ear.... The other was still alive and he was playing with it.  I took the living one away from him and went and released it in the woods; the cat was most upset.  I know it probably died from internal bleeding or something anyways, but I just couldn't sit there and watch him torture it to death. 

Nature is brutal.
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Post by: Spriteling on 12 Jan 2013, 05:56
One of our former apartments had mice and our cat caught two.  One was dead when we found him with it, and soaking wet from being licked, and missing one ear.... The other was still alive and he was playing with it.  I took the living one away from him and went and released it in the woods; the cat was most upset.  I know it probably died from internal bleeding or something anyways, but I just couldn't sit there and watch him torture it to death. 

Nature is brutal.

A friend came round and helped me capture the mouse Pol was hunting.  He's a kinda dumb cat, so he wasn't sure what to do once he'd trapped it.  The poor thing was shaking and terrified, but otherwise seemed okay, and now it's free outside. 

>.> I didn't realise how bad my mouse phobia was, though.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 12 Jan 2013, 06:42
It was a loooooong night....

At one point, she snuck out and went and talked to him without the kid.  He had calmed down (he really is a good kid), and has agreed to get counseling/therapy for his anger issues (which apparantly he's had for ages - I never knew) through the local VA hospital (it's one of the bigger and better ones in the state).  She took the baby to stay with her mom this morning. 

The black eye is subtle, but noticeable.  Had her take a picture of it, even if she doesn't make a report, as a reminder. 

They both want this to work, but it's been tough for them since they got back last year.  New kid, trying to find a place, trying to make ends meet... if anyone will make it, I think they will, but his (old) issues coming to a head has to be dealt with immediately

In the light of a new day, I'm optimistic.  I usually am...
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Post by: K1dmor on 12 Jan 2013, 11:35
One of our former apartments had mice and our cat caught two.  One was dead when we found him with it, and soaking wet from being licked, and missing one ear.... The other was still alive and he was playing with it.  I took the living one away from him and went and released it in the woods; the cat was most upset.  I know it probably died from internal bleeding or something anyways, but I just couldn't sit there and watch him torture it to death. 

Nature is brutal.

A friend came round and helped me capture the mouse Pol was hunting.  He's a kinda dumb cat, so he wasn't sure what to do once he'd trapped it.  The poor thing was shaking and terrified, but otherwise seemed okay, and now it's free outside. 

 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 12 Jan 2013, 14:16
I found out yesterday that a funding bid that I did 90% of the work on for the college was successful and that we're going to get £105,000 (about $170,000) over five years and a new staff member I'll have a hand in hiring.

It was a good week.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 12 Jan 2013, 14:37
I just found an absolute gold mine of resources for tutoring. I was thinking desperately "what on earth am I going to teach this kid, he is fluent in English and learning a bucketload of grammar at his English institute?" and I randomly googled something like "writing for different purposes" and came across the BBC Learning Zone videos. I've just built an entire mini study unit using three videos, and they lead neatly into something I've tried in several different ways over the last 18 months teaching the same student. Every time we do any kind of writing, his English is noticably better. I was starting to think I'd have to tell his mum that there was nothing more I could teach him, but clearly all I was lacking was a bit of imagination and some googlefu.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 12 Jan 2013, 14:44
So I think I am going to do drag shows this semester.
And if I do, I will of course be posting pictures on the forum
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 12 Jan 2013, 14:59
It's times like right now that I am so happy you can embed yootoob videos on the forums these days.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Jan 2013, 12:54
So I am only 2/3 done with the half of my semester schedule I can do (see my oughta be a law thread post) and should be starting my readings for next Friday, since we have crossed the starting line and things will only pile up from here, but instead I am trying to teach myself to build an Android app. 

I have only the most minimal programming skills, and all of them I gained in the last 3 semesters.  But I have an app I really want to make, and I am sure it is outside of my skill set to make it at this point, but I am going to try.  I am trying a new approach to schooling.  I am not going on to a PhD, I just don't have the grades for it (I've a 3.4, tangent... I always have a 3.4.  In community college, 3.49 in undergrad 3.47 right now 3.46.... note for non-USA folks most scholarships and higher level programs have lower cutoffs at 3.5...) Also, I am not sure I can afford it financially or emotionally.  With that in mind my new approach is to only worry about passing my classes, but to get as much experience doing things as possible. 

I keep being told that even if I can't gain expertise in a thing, knowing what I am talking about and being able to talk to people who are experts will be a big selling point for me in interviews.  So, I am going to make an app this semester, even if it ends up clunky and buggy and unusable.  No one is ever going to hire me to develop apps, but I think the experience will be good for me.

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jan 2013, 14:45
I believe that unless you need a top grade in order to get to what you want to do next, it is always best to aim to do acceptably well, and spend the remaining time gaining a broader education. I could probably get a first in my degree if I did nothing else. But I'd probably burn out and almost certainly give up and quit because it would be so boring. The girls who want to be lawyers are aiming for the best marks they can get because they want jobs. I just want to graduate.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 13 Jan 2013, 14:57
That's wise.  I spent a couple of hours a day while preparing for engineering science finals playing the harpsichord in the Ashmolean Museum; I even made a recording of it which is now in the National Sound Archive of the British Library.

Mind you, I also didn't need to think about getting a job, because I'd already got one in advance (at the BBC).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 13 Jan 2013, 15:30
And I don't need to think about getting a job because I took entirely the wrong degree and have to requalify! Haha! Ha! Ha! Ha!  :-\
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Post by: Redball on 13 Jan 2013, 15:53
heeheehohohaha,  but as I recall it, you've stuck with the wrong degree because it's a Highly Regarded Degree from a Very Reputable Institution which, when combined with your midwifery training, will surely qualify you when you finally are chosen PM.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 13 Jan 2013, 16:22
I decided to take an extra semester, which was a very expensive decision.  It does mean I don't need to start the job search process yet though.

I finished the first section of Google's tutorial for building an Android app.  I now have a useless little app that does what every "first program" does.  It prints back the text I enter into it.  I am very happy with it though.  I think I am just going to progress through their tutorials and comment the hell out of the code.  My main problem is that everything is in Java and XML, neither of which I know at all, so I am just piecing it together as I go and I am bound to have a ton of frustrations when I try to do something on my own.  I think I am going to start going to the "coffee house coders" group that meets in Ann Arbor though.  I have heard they are friendly people who don't mind explaining things when you are stuck. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 13 Jan 2013, 16:59
I envy you that experience. I created a little music notation recognition program in BASIC in the mid-80s, but never went further. There are a couple of projects that interest me, but at this point not enough to start from scratch.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Jan 2013, 06:26
I woke up to snow. It has been snowing heavily all day. There is a good chance I will not be able to get to my blood donation appointment tomorrow. Sadly I don't think there is a good chance that the rehearsals for Saturday's ridiculous concert will be cancelled :( Even though we won't be able to cycle there and will have to walk.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 14 Jan 2013, 07:43
Oh, my dear May, be ever so glad you didn't come up thisaway during THIS time of year.

You'd be freezing your extremities off AND complaining about the snow.*



* - Even though the snow melted briefly last week due to a rather strange warmup that sent temps a whopping one degree Celsius above freezing...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 14 Jan 2013, 07:55
I was in Norway for Christmas a few years ago. It was -27 celcius. It was horrifying.

If snow were more common here, or rather if people woke up to the fact that it ALWAYS snows at this time of year, we'd be better off. English houses are typically cold in winter, because a) they weren't well-insulated when built, or b) fuel is so expensive we can't afford to heat the whole house, or c) a combination of the above. The roads get cleared but not very well, and it's illegal to have spikes or chains on your tyres so drivers aren't in proper control of their cars (and we don't get taught how to drive in snow as part of driving lessons, or at least I didn't).
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 14 Jan 2013, 08:07
The only UK law relating to studded tyres or chains is that it is illegal to have tyres that damage the road.  Therefore using studs or chains where there is not a solid cover of snow is illegal.  Unfortunately, it is rare in the UK for the snow covering to be solid enough to allow their use, especially as main roads are usually effectively salted when necessary.

The use of specific winter tyres, which is commonplace in the rest of Europe, and compulsory in some places, is barely thought of in the UK.
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Post by: The Seldom Killer on 14 Jan 2013, 09:41
That's largely down to the fact that for the most part we get no more than 5 days a year where snow tires would be of a significant benefit over normal tires. Looking at the weather here in Sheffield, the general panic would have meant that people would have spent time and money changing tyres for basically nothing. Even the brief midday white out didn't drop enough to have an impact on most vehicular handling. Even if I did own a vehicle, the cost/benefit ratio simply wouldn't play out as a motivational factor.

There might be some value to snow driving lessons being available in this country, but mostly people would benefit if there was just less traffic on the roads anyway. Despite being such a small country we've become so utterly dependant on cars that we have difficulty functioning without them.  A more flexible attitude to transport and working location would work wonders.My contingency was based on getting up a bit earlier and being ready to get the mountain bike out if there was significant coverage.

Of course for those not in the n+1 set, there's no legal prohibition on studded tyres on bicycles. 20 minutes of changing tyres in the comfort of your own home and you're away. For those of you with the luxury of disc brakes, you can even make a surprisingly effective snow tyre with zip ties for the princely sum of about £3.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 14 Jan 2013, 10:00
I have never put snow tires on my car.  I admit I have never lived in a rural area, and I come from a city which is good at snow removal, but it is good at it because we get 8 feet a year. While highways and major arteries get cleaned up pretty quickly, side streets don't get down to black unless there are a few good days of warmth. As long as your tires aren't bald you should do alright.  I think that traffic chaos in snow usually has more to do with people being unaccustomed to driving in snow, and I actually think the more great features a car has to make them feel safe and secure, the more likely they are to be a shitty winter driver.  Driving in snow/ice/slush requires you to think further ahead about when you want to stop or turn and an increased alertness for the possibility of other drivers having problems. 


I actually first learned to drive in winter, and I took my road test the day after a blizzard, so
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Post by: Thrillho on 14 Jan 2013, 11:38
So... I'm basically broke.

I think I can afford my bills for the rest of the month, but I'm pretty sure I can't afford food as well.
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Post by: Akima on 14 Jan 2013, 18:43
I don't think I've ever seen a snow tyre. It was 43C in Sydney a few days ago, and cycling home from work was like standing in front of a hair-dryer. According to this article (http://www.economist.com/news/asia/21569440-uncomfortable-time-australians-especially-climate-change-sceptics-up-eleven?fsrc=nlw|wwp|1-10-2013|4576729|35314493|), there is worse on the way. At this rate, we'll be living underground...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 14 Jan 2013, 18:59
And here I thought all the climate change deniers lived in the U.S.
I owned snow tires when I lived in a Detroit suburb. Now that I live in a rural area, I don't. Owning them seemed like a good idea at the time.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 14 Jan 2013, 23:04
The only UK law relating to studded tyres or chains is that it is illegal to have tyres that damage the road.  Therefore using studs or chains where there is not a solid cover of snow is illegal.

In my state, it's allowed to have chains or studs, but only between December 1 and March 31. I could really use them for my work vehicle (whee, no traction at all!), but I've gotta make do with "all-season LT radials"...yay, New England.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: idontunderstand on 15 Jan 2013, 01:24
So... I'm basically broke.

I think I can afford my bills for the rest of the month, but I'm pretty sure I can't afford food as well.

I'd send canned soup, problem is that I need it myself this month.  :oops:
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Post by: Jace on 16 Jan 2013, 21:18
Today I was more aggressive at SCA practice and really got in there and did much better. Continuing to get frustrated that my leg harness droops a little bit, but that's not hard to fix in the long run. I have a bruise forming on the front of my thigh that is exactly the shape of the plate in my splinted cuisse. Maybe there needs to be some more padding than a pair of sweatpants underneath. Also have the normal bruises on the left thigh and not as much on the butt but a little bit. I gotta learn to block.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 17 Jan 2013, 07:30
Work is screwing around with everyone's hours and I told the boss that a 9 - 4 shift is too hard on my back so he seems to be giving me a 7 - 2 shift instead. GAHH.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jimor on 17 Jan 2013, 08:54
I've been kinda quiet lately, but that's largely because I've been trying to finish up the first few episodes of my live music television show. Got the first 2 episodes turned in and now just waiting for the premiere on Jan 22nd!  :-D There are 12 episodes in the can, and they'll air twice monthly on the local access channel, then posted online for wider availability.

There's a Facebook page (http://www.facebook.com/AliveAndKickingTV), and a YouTube Channel (http://www.youtube.com/user/AliveAndKickingTV) that will have the full episodes after they air, so feel free to like/subscribe. Right now the YouTube page has an old teaser I've posted before, plus this opening sequence I built in Adobe After Effects. For the tech geeks, there are about 150 visible elements, and it took about 80 hours to create (including learning curve stuff with the program) and 4 hours to render once completed. For the long haul, I'll probably create a thread in Make or Band to contain future updates on this project.
Edit: D'oh! Forgot to mention that I'm also shooting a music video for a collaboration between 2 of my favorite local acts! Exciting times!  :-D
[soundcloud]https://soundcloud.com/mermaid_sings/calling-out-musical-charis[/soundcloud]
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 17 Jan 2013, 12:40
The site I work at is being taken over by another company, which I thought might suck, but my pay rate goes up by about $4.30 which is great for me and I get to keep the position.
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Post by: Zingoleb on 17 Jan 2013, 12:41
Hourly? Holy shit, that's like another 600/month for a full-time position.
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Post by: Lines on 17 Jan 2013, 12:46
Uh, yeah, Jace, that's pretty awesome!
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Post by: Akima on 17 Jan 2013, 14:54
Yay, Jace!
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Post by: Jace on 17 Jan 2013, 15:14
Yeah I am fairly excited for more money. I'll probably also see if I can work 5 days a week rather than the 4 that I currently work. I was supposed to get an email from them to apply tonight but I didn't so I'll call tomorrow and make sure they send it since they take over the first of Feb.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 17 Jan 2013, 15:34
Huzzah for more monies!

~ ~

I'm debating applying for for a second job that would mean I miss the first hour of every class.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 17 Jan 2013, 15:39
Wow...yeah, that's a bigger raise than I've ever gotten...don't lose it!

I'm debating applying for for a second job that would mean I miss the first hour of every class.

Is it possible to wait until the end of the semester, then apply for the 2nd job when you can work future classes around it? Or is that not financially viable right now?
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Post by: Welu on 17 Jan 2013, 15:42
The specific job I want to apply for won't be around then. I don't think I'll go for it though, having one job plus this course is draining enough.

Just typical January, work is cutting hours and I'm getting paranoid about money.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 18 Jan 2013, 10:32
I'm exhausted and term only started on Tuesday. I have about 300 pages of reading to do by next Friday, and an essay to write on that reading by Thursday afternoon. I won't get much if any work done this weekend. I do not want to go out now to the stupid, stupid rehearsal for the stupid concert that is taking up all of Saturday. I am royally pissed off with this concert. It will sound amazing. It is not worth the amount of time it is taking. There's no way I can get all of this work done. I'm so tired.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Spriteling on 18 Jan 2013, 15:27
I'm exhausted and term only started on Tuesday. I have about 300 pages of reading to do by next Friday, and an essay to write on that reading by Thursday afternoon. I won't get much if any work done this weekend. I do not want to go out now to the stupid, stupid rehearsal for the stupid concert that is taking up all of Saturday. I am royally pissed off with this concert. It will sound amazing. It is not worth the amount of time it is taking. There's no way I can get all of this work done. I'm so tired.

Do the most important things.  Sometimes in life you really just can't do everything, and you have to figure out what is least important, and let those slide.  Honestly that's been the biggest problem for me lately, but I'm slowly figuring it out.  You can do it :)
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Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jan 2013, 01:50
Unfortunately there aren't any "most important things". I have to do all of them.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Jan 2013, 02:28
one of my oldest and closest friends is moving to new zealand and I am going to miss him so fucking much

so we got drunk

hi
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 19 Jan 2013, 05:18
If I do end up switching over to this new company (very likely), and work full time, I will have around $1000 extra dollars every month. I have thought about purchasing a home in the latter half of the year, although with that sort of money I could put away some cash for a down payment and also work on paying off my car or student loans. I am giddy with the thoughts of what I can do with such extra money, and (un)fortunately nearly all of them are adult ideas. Until now I didn't even think "I could buy so much stuff" but rather "I could save up for my own house, or pay off my car early, or put away enough money that I could be unemployed for a year without a ton of worry, or invest in something."

Dunno how I feel about that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 19 Jan 2013, 05:41
YOU'RE SO OLD
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Post by: Bluesummers on 19 Jan 2013, 06:04
Yay, investment capital! Go out and buy some sweater vests and an AARP membership, you old person, you!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 19 Jan 2013, 06:05
... buy Lego. You know you want to.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 19 Jan 2013, 06:08
You've got the right ideas. Do something with part of the extra income you can look back on later with satisfaction: "Yeah, I did good."
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Post by: bainidhe_dub on 19 Jan 2013, 07:26
Build a house out of the Legos.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 19 Jan 2013, 07:40
I feel a sense of quiet satisfaction every time I'm able to make a deposit into my savings account, or as I like to call it, my "buying a house" account.

The final rehearsal for tonight's massive fancy big concert went well; we finished an hour early, so I am now home at the time we were meant to finish having also been to buy some new tights and a hat. I might finally be warm! Because it's Saturday my no sweets, no snacks diet is taking a day off (it has gone ok this week, although two minor blips - a cookie and a piece of cake, on two different days) so I'm having a cup of hot chocolate and a bar of Guylian before tackling another couple of hours of work. Perhaps this heap of reading is not insurmountable after all; I'm getting through it faster than I expected.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 19 Jan 2013, 08:44
Jace,
Have you started saving for retirement?  If not, for sure, some portion of that should be put into a retirement account. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 19 Jan 2013, 08:54
I don't have a retirement account because I've never thought that I'd be able to retire since I live and work in America. Also I figured I'd get a retirement account when I got a real job that requires a degree.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 19 Jan 2013, 09:52
Well, even if you can never retire, at least you can only have to work part-time as a senior... :)

Also, as a math man, I am sure I don't need to tell you how compound interest works.  Starting earlier is better, even if it is not much per month. 

Also, if your new job offers any sort of matching to contribute to a 401k and you don't take them up on it, it is like you are throwing away free money. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 19 Jan 2013, 10:02
I hope you'll tell us if there's a 401k match so we can pile on. Never had matches from my employer, but I put a fair amount aside.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 19 Jan 2013, 10:13
My new job offers nothing. Just like almost every other job I've had. Which is why I figured that I would just deal with retirement stuff when I got a job that requires a degree.

Plus, according to Fox News economists all of our money will be worthless in another year so I should buy gold from this company that he is sponsored by.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 19 Jan 2013, 12:59
Someone in a group I sort of help to run on another site posted a thing about online relationships not being real and I was going to ignore it but I sent a reply all about emotional involvement is still real. I don't like conflict but I always leave group messages floating in my inbox for a while incase other people reply and it got to me.

I know this place's opinions on the meat life vs interwebs but I'm happy I didn't just sit back on something I have a strong feeling about. Also the fact they posted it to a group where over half of the people, who only know each other online, chat to each other outside of the group seems misguided.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 19 Jan 2013, 13:38
Me: 'We got an application at the college last week for a student whose only allergy was dessicated coconut.'
Scottish flatmate: 'Cunt.'
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 19 Jan 2013, 13:57
I am frequently allergic to dessicated coconut.

:(
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 19 Jan 2013, 17:06
My two high school BFFs now officially live so far away that there's a distinct possibility I may never see both of them in the same place again. That is so hard to swallow right now. I wish it got easier every time one of your dearest friends leaves indefinitely, but it really doesn't.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Jan 2013, 17:37
I moved a lot as a kid, and as a result, I never really formed any solid friendships.  So I can't really relate to that. 

With the exception of my wife, I can't say as I have any "best friends". 



It took me a very long time to realize that this isn't entirely normal.  I was about forty. 



And I still don't have any friends that I'd call close. 







So maybe it's just me. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 19 Jan 2013, 17:38
No, Carl, that sounds about right for my life, too.

I'm on move 43...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 19 Jan 2013, 17:52
Fate is kind. 


And timing is important. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 19 Jan 2013, 23:57
My two high school BFFs now officially live so far away that there's a distinct possibility I may never see both of them in the same place again. That is so hard to swallow right now. I wish it got easier every time one of your dearest friends leaves indefinitely, but it really doesn't.

My two BFFs have moved apart...one to Savannah, the other to Detroit, while I'm still here in CT. I'm planning a get-together sometime later this year, but I understand that it can be difficult, between work schedules, flights, finances...it's tough. But if they're that important to you, you've got to make it work somehow.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 20 Jan 2013, 00:02
It's a bit harder to work out kick-its when I'm in the SF Bay Area and one's splitting time between Dubai and England and the other is moving to New Zealand. We have Facebook at least. Saving grace.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 20 Jan 2013, 06:19
I can't sleep for shit these days. I'm getting maybe 5 to 6 hours a night, when usually I need 8 to 9 to really feel rested.

Other than that, apparently I overpaid my doctor's office and I'm getting $450 next week. Woo!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 20 Jan 2013, 07:29
It's the time of year, for one. Lack of sunlight's really done a number on me.

It also doesn't help that it's 0 outside.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jan 2013, 10:27
I'm oversleeping.

Mostly because the attic is freezing and under my covers, I don't notice.

Little known fact: Unicorns are incapable of hibernating for winter, but I'll be damned if I stop trying.

(http://i.imgur.com/OwmxY.gif)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Jan 2013, 11:23
Same with me.  For the week before school started, I kept on trying to get up earlier each day so that I could ease into it, and failed spectacularly, sleeping not just past 10, but past noon on a couple of days. 


Now I have to get up by 7, and yes, I'm cranky about it.  I also should be getting up earlier...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: dr. nervioso on 20 Jan 2013, 12:12
I moved a lot as a kid, and as a result, I never really formed any solid friendships.  So I can't really relate to that. 

With the exception of my wife, I can't say as I have any "best friends". 

It took me a very long time to realize that this isn't entirely normal.  I was about forty. 



And I still don't have any friends that I'd call close. 







So maybe it's just me. 

EDIT Accidentally put my response in the middle of the quote
So Carl-E, this is my life. Except I had the realization about 2 years ago which kinda crippled my Junior and Senior years of high school
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 20 Jan 2013, 12:53
I'm actually finally getting my sleep pattern back into gear. Bed at midnight most nights the last few weeks. 'Tis good!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Jan 2013, 12:59
My older daughter got a promotion and raise at her customer service phone job yesterday. 

The next step up is into training / management.  And she's turning 23 on Tuesday. 


Woot!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Jan 2013, 13:07
Sounds like things are going well for your family at the moment, Carl, I'm so glad!

I had an hour and a half nap this afternoon, I couldn't stay awake any longer - I made it through my noon tutoring class and then just gave up. Early night tonight and I'm aiming to get up and get to morning prayer at 8.30. It should be a good way to make sure that I'm getting up at the same time every day, and that hopefully will help me to sleep at night. But I can imagine it's going to be painful for a while.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 20 Jan 2013, 14:19
I'm a bit compulsive about getting up in the morning. I find it easier to get up at the same time every day of the week, regardless of holidays etc. Like Carl, I pretty much can't sleep in, even when I've had a late-night call-out from work and not got back to bed until oh-dark-thirty.

When it comes to going to sleep, I strongly recommend meditation-breathing (http://www.project-meditation.org/htm/meditation_breathing_techniques.html). Obviously, I am prejudiced here, because meditation is central to my daily practice, but other people to whom I've suggested the technique have found it quite effective in stilling the windmills of the mind (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TtdW--jhAQ).

Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jan 2013, 14:27
It isn't. Not in my experience, anyways. Pot knocks me the fuck out, though, so it's making me irritated that I can't smoke much of it; since my wallet's gone missing, I can't afford to buy any.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 20 Jan 2013, 14:32
The other night I kept dreaming I had slept in because I was working early yesterday, which is a day I don't usually work. Then last night I kept dreaming about getting up and going to work because I usually work Sunday mornings but I wasn't working this morning. Next week I have a 7am start and I'm expecting to have another night dreaming about sleeping in late and I'm not looking forward to it. I also find if I wake up during the night or early in the morning, if I know the time I really struggle to get back to sleep.

I tend to start counting if I'm struggling to get to sleep. I usually lose track at some point and start day dreaming and conk out eventually.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Pilchard123 on 20 Jan 2013, 14:44
I've woken up in dreams repeatedly before now, usually only a little while before I've actually had to get up for real. It isn't fun.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Jan 2013, 15:11
Best trope (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/DreamWithinADream) ever! 


Unless you're living it, of course. 
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 20 Jan 2013, 16:54
It's a bit harder to work out kick-its when I'm in the SF Bay Area and one's splitting time between Dubai and England and the other is moving to New Zealand. We have Facebook at least. Saving grace.
Wow...yeah, that's.........tough. Geez. Hooray for technology at least.

Other than that, apparently I overpaid my doctor's office and I'm getting $450 next week. Woo!
Yay, money!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: LTK on 20 Jan 2013, 18:26
When it comes to going to sleep, I strongly recommend meditation-breathing (http://www.project-meditation.org/htm/meditation_breathing_techniques.html). Obviously, I am prejudiced here, because meditation is central to my daily practice, but other people to whom I've suggested the technique have found it quite effective in stilling the windmills of the mind (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TtdW--jhAQ).
It works wonders for me, although I've only a superficial knowledge of meditation, and the meditative focus is mostly self-taught. I haven't required it in a while, but recently I've been having trouble getting my brain to shut up for long enough to get to sleep, so I simply start to focus on breathing. It's the worst when I've had a particularly salient social event earlier that day that gets replayed over and over again. Otherwise, it's just a runaway train of thought that keeps me awake.

I think the reason why focusing on breathing works so well it's because it's regular. You can try to silence your thoughts and focus on getting to sleep, but that focus disappears when you relax and then your brain just starts rambling all over again. By clearing your mind with every exhale, you keep interrupting the runaway thoughts, so your mental agitation stops. It's very effective in getting me to fall asleep.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jan 2013, 18:44
You can silence your thoughts? Holy shit, that must be nice. Usually I have at least one or two voices just repeating the same thing over and over again, and it's fucking maddening.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Carl-E on 20 Jan 2013, 19:38
I think that's actually the definition of maddening...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 20 Jan 2013, 20:13
You go a little mad, you get the voices, and the voices drive you a whole lot of mad.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 20 Jan 2013, 23:59
I think a big problem is that my radiator will never SHUT THE FUCK UP. Last night I plugged my ears with tissue for a while and just about managed to block out the noise by covering my head with my duvet but I couldn't sleep for worrying that the tissue would get stuck in my ear canal, so I had to take it out. I was kept awake for two hours and then woke up again at 2.30, and finally at 7.20. I've put in a maintenance request to have the fucker bled but what I really want is to have it removed. I would rather be cold and get some sleep.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: The Seldom Killer on 21 Jan 2013, 00:06
While I realise it isn't your responsibility, most radiator noises can be fixed with a radiator key that costs about £2.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Jan 2013, 00:15
fucker

this is the second time I've seen you swear in recent memory. what a shocking change has come over our may...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: VonKleist on 21 Jan 2013, 00:35
While I realise it isn't your responsibility, most radiator noises can be fixed with a radiator key that costs about £2.

Yes, it might just be air in it. I de-aired mine and it went on forever. Like nearly a minute. It still blubbers a bit, though, but in an acceptable range.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 21 Jan 2013, 01:12
I started making a skirt from this fabric I have owned for almost 8 years now.  I just realized the print is probably racist. Trying to decide what to do about it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Jan 2013, 01:15
Racist print? How does that look?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 21 Jan 2013, 01:25
It's an assortment of "Japan" related things: bamboo, cherry blossoms, peonies, pagodas, stylized waves, Japanese writing....

I think I could live with it if it were just the flowers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Jan 2013, 01:26
Doesn't really sound rasict. Touristy perhaps, like the tullips and windmills and endless van Goghs we get here.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Patrick on 21 Jan 2013, 02:37
Man. I realize I still have awesome friends and they're helping me through my bud's move a lot. But it's just harder than I expected it to be to have a friend as casually close as Greg move off. He's one of those people where every single stupid idiosyncrasy of ours under the sun is first nature, realtalk comes second, and love is taken for granted because how else could it even be? Brotherhood.

It's the second night of him being inaccessible, and I'm crying myself to sleep again. Fuck. I'm realizing now that I'm definitely capable of forming meaningful friendships despite my constant moves (and despite my belief otherwise), I'm also capable of forming the kind of friendships that are this level of symbiotic.

Ultimately I'm going to have to start thinking of this as an opportunity to reflect on what level of closeness is possible in a friendship, and that's going to be good for me; we could all use more faith in people. But for now I'm just gonna appreciate this one enough to really be shaken when it's separated this much. If that means bawling, fuck it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Jan 2013, 03:45
Haha I do swear - actually I swear more than I like; I think I probably edit my posts to remove swearing sometimes which is why you wouldn't realise! But seriously, I have been so annoyed by the noise. During the day it's less noticable, until it stops and I suddenly notice how blissfully quiet things are, but at night it's impossible and I get cranky when I'm tired!

However a helpful man from the maintenance team is on the case, and has identified which pump it is that is causing the noise. It's stopped a couple of times as he switched things on and off, but currently still happening... hopefully he can fix it. It's not just my room, it's several in this building which I guess makes it better but on the other hand means it's a bigger problem.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 06:13
Doesn't really sound rasict. Touristy perhaps, like the tullips and windmills and endless van Goghs we get here.

Indeed...it's the kind of "Touristy Bullshit" they sell at touristy traps. Obnoxious? Yes. Will point you out as an aging, easily pickpocketable foreigner? Yes. Racist? No.

Ultimately I'm going to have to start thinking of this as an opportunity to reflect on what level of closeness is possible in a friendship, and that's going to be good for me; we could all use more faith in people. But for now I'm just gonna appreciate this one enough to really be shaken when it's separated this much. If that means bawling, fuck it.

Crying it out sometimes sounds pointless, but it really does tend to help. It releases the flow of serotonin and dopamine to where they should be in your body, and improves stress levels. In short: it's a good thing.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 21 Jan 2013, 06:16
Touristy things are quite regularly incredibly racist.

I would agree that it's racist, though maybe not incredibly so. It's the same kind of subtle everyday racism that clothing with various Native American symbols on it has.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Jan 2013, 06:22
Oh look, a concert (http://www.carnegiehall.org/Calendar/2013/1/21/0730/PM/Nicolas-Hodges/) today.  Now I know why he was playing the Debussy so much when I was with him over Christmas; and I heard him play the Birtwistle (which was written for him) just ten days ago.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 21 Jan 2013, 06:28
I think a big problem is that my radiator will never SHUT THE FUCK UP. Last night I plugged my ears with tissue for a while and just about managed to block out the noise by covering my head with my duvet but I couldn't sleep for worrying that the tissue would get stuck in my ear canal, so I had to take it out. I was kept awake for two hours and then woke up again at 2.30, and finally at 7.20. I've put in a maintenance request to have the fucker bled but what I really want is to have it removed. I would rather be cold and get some sleep.
I admit I've thought it funny and appealing when a young woman not known for profanity utters some, unexpectedly. And you need soft foam earplugs. Not perfect for light sleepers, but better than tissue, no question of getting stuck and very inexpensive.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Jan 2013, 06:32
I would agree that it's racist, though maybe not incredibly so. It's the same kind of subtle everyday racism that clothing with various Native American symbols on it has.

Tourist reminders may give a very unbalanced view of the culture they are taken from, but is this necessarily racist?  That would imply that any incomplete account, which is therefore inherently unrepresentative, could be considered racist - and I think that widening the concept that far is a bad thing, because it serves to remove focus from the cases that matter more.

Perhaps one test is whether a Japanese person (in the case at issue) would be able to buy it without embarrassment.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 06:35
Indeed...I mean, if the shirt has Thomas Nast-style caricatures of Asians, with tiny slits for eyes, big teeth and no hair save for a long braid at the back, then it's racist...otherwise, it's just bad fashion sense.

Perhaps one test is whether a Japanese person (in the case at issue) would be able to buy it without embarrassment.
English-speaking people buy "Engrish" clothing all the time, because they think it's hilarious. Isn't this similar?

After all, marketing that language barrier into t-shirts is how Hot Topic gets half its revenue.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: ackblom12 on 21 Jan 2013, 06:36
I think that narrowing it down to only the worst ignores the fact that racism is a very ingrained part of society, in many ways appearing in ways that you just don't notice in day to day activities.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 21 Jan 2013, 06:38
Doesn't seem racist at all to me. It evokes the geography and the culture, and if it were touristy, it would be an expression of fondness for the visit to a fascinating place. Whether or not it's attractive and tasteful is another matter. It doesn't automatically sound tasteless.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Jan 2013, 06:39
I think that narrowing it down to only the worst ignores the fact that racism is a very ingrained part of society, in many ways appearing in ways that you just don't notice in day to day activities.

I agree in principle; but I think we may disagree markedly on where the boundary should lie.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 21 Jan 2013, 06:43
Indeed...I mean, if the shirt has Thomas Nast-style caricatures of Asians, with tiny slits for eyes, big teeth and no hair save for a long braid at the back, then it's racist...otherwise, it's just bad fashion sense.
I had to go to http://www.etymonline.com (http://www.etymonline.com) to be sure "nasty" didn't come from Nast.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 21 Jan 2013, 07:07
It is currently nine degrees below freezing here in the Great North Woods of Wisconsin.

That translates to -23 Celsius for our friends not in the States.

What it REALLY translates to is ####ing COLD.



(And despite the cold, I can still censor myself.)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Jan 2013, 07:25
I hope that wasn't a dig at me, Houk...

I am considering getting some earplugs. I'm not sure where one buys earplugs, other than in large quantities on the internet.

This morning I went into town and bought a few things I needed, returned an adaptor which I'd bought for the airbed pump which didn't work (a slightly hairy moment when the guy at the shop said "Oh, it sounds like you've blown the fuse" or something, but actually when he tested it the adaptor worked fine so it was indeed the pump that didn't work, which I've already successfully returned), and then on a whim went into a shoe shop and bought some boot wax. My Docs were looking like they needed a bit of care and my brown boots which I've worn almost daily this winter have practically fallen to pieces from not being properly looked after so it was well past due. The brown boots have actually changed colour thanks to the wax, they were so dry and de-moistured. Sadly unlike the skin on my hands, moisturising the leather doesn't appear to have magical fixing qualities so I'll still need to buy some new ones but they should last a bit longer now.

Adulthood: when you notice that something needs attention and you deal with it.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Lines on 21 Jan 2013, 07:46
May, I buy earplugs at drug stores. So whatever the UK equivalent to a CVS or Walgreens is, try there?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Redball on 21 Jan 2013, 07:53
I was about to suggest the same.

And for me, an important path to adulthood was realizing that my car really needed oil changes often than every 12-15,000 miles. I was a little past 30 (age, not mileage) when I made this discovery. Nowadays, oil changes are somewhere between 4-6,000. But YMMV.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: nekowafer on 21 Jan 2013, 08:00
Adulthood for me: Doing things I don't want to do with only a few complaints.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 08:18
For me, adulthood is being happy about getting money every week, but then the happiness goes away along with my money, to pay off my debts.

But the silver lining is that I actually enjoy my job.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: BeoPuppy on 21 Jan 2013, 08:47
Adulthood = kid, for me.

At times.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 21 Jan 2013, 09:25
I am considering getting some earplugs. I'm not sure where one buys earplugs, other than in large quantities on the internet.

In the UK, Boots or Superdrug, for a start.  You might also see if ear-plugs or ear-plugging compounds made for swimming would suit your usage (also from Boots, I think).  Shops that sell travel goods might well have earplugs for travellers, as well.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 21 Jan 2013, 09:44
Man. I realize I still have awesome friends and they're helping me through my bud's move a lot. But it's just harder than I expected it to be to have a friend as casually close as Greg move off. He's one of those people where every single stupid idiosyncrasy of ours under the sun is first nature, realtalk comes second, and love is taken for granted because how else could it even be? Brotherhood.

It's the second night of him being inaccessible, and I'm crying myself to sleep again. Fuck. I'm realizing now that I'm definitely capable of forming meaningful friendships despite my constant moves (and despite my belief otherwise), I'm also capable of forming the kind of friendships that are this level of symbiotic.

Ultimately I'm going to have to start thinking of this as an opportunity to reflect on what level of closeness is possible in a friendship, and that's going to be good for me; we could all use more faith in people. But for now I'm just gonna appreciate this one enough to really be shaken when it's separated this much. If that means bawling, fuck it.

These are all positive, healthy feelings to have.

I had these same feelings when I left Preston to move to Abingdon. I left behind basically every real friend I'd ever made, and I still hardly see most of them. Unfortunately it drove me to some pretty dark places.

But treasure that friendship for what it was while it lasted. There's very little like it. And for a few glorious moments in the future you might see each other again and it'll be like nothing's changed at all.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Barmymoo on 21 Jan 2013, 11:52
Thanks, Paul and Linds - it was rather dense of me not to think of that.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Jan 2013, 14:20
English-speaking people buy "Engrish" clothing all the time, because they think it's hilarious.

I rather like Engrish stuff. I can see how it can be construed as racist, but I look at it on a level that's both simpler and more complex - how languages are translated, how languages that use certain phonemes can be harder to access in languages that don't use them, and systems for translating eastern languages into western languages (this last one most hilariously resulting from Gan4 (http://itre.cis.upenn.edu/~myl/languagelog/archives/005195.html)).

So I'm not sure if Engrish in and of itself is racist - it's kind of an expected language barrier that has some pretty hilarious, unintended outcomes, which can be said of, well, any language trying to be spoken/written by someone who isn't fluent in it. There was a discussion earlier (I think between Kat and Akima?) that touched on how in some Asian languages (I can't remember the exact specifics - sorry!) there's no 'L' - and so it easily becomes mixed up with 'R', which is why you see so many L->R mistranslations - like displays for Eric Crapton, or, y'know, "Engrish."

So part of my fascination with it is because it's funny but also because it shows how language barriers affect communication in a very real way. I'd like to think that's not racist, but as a, y'know, white person I'm not exactly the best judge of what is or is not racist.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Thrillho on 21 Jan 2013, 15:37
I'm sure Japanese folk will buy badly translated Japanese shit from English people, or would if it existed. It's funny because it makes no sense. It's not like 'Haha Japanese people are idiots, look how badly they speak our language.' It's 'Haha, look how badly translated this is, regardless of source.'

I once liked one bit of Engrish so much - 'Your happy is my business' - that I got it put on a t-shirt. It's such a positive message!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 21 Jan 2013, 15:47
My favourite one I've seen was a t-shirt my Da brought back from one of his work trips to China. "Go to the sky and reach a limit." My brothers and I loved the idea of choosing one limit and reaching it, then just stopping. Forget about any other goals, you only get to reach one.

I also feel the humour comes from the bad translation creating some silly nonsense regardless of source.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 17:04
I once liked one bit of Engrish so much - 'Your happy is my business' - that I got it put on a t-shirt. It's such a positive message!
That's an awesome creeper shirt, I do believe.

My favourite one I've seen was a t-shirt my Da brought back from one of his work trips to China. "Go to the sky and reach a limit." My brothers and I loved the idea of choosing one limit and reaching it, then just stopping. Forget about any other goals, you only get to reach one.
Mathematically hilarious.

I heard that several KFC restaurants that opened in China had to change their signage, because the slogan was mistranslated. The original was "KFC: Finger-lickin' Good!" but was translated into Szechuan for local management approval, then back into "English"...the final design read "KFC: Eat Your Fingers Off, It's Good!"

Yum.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Zingoleb on 21 Jan 2013, 17:27
My particular favourite was the one with Perdue chickens in Mexico, where it got translated from "It takes a strong man to make a chicken tender," to "Se necesita un hombre potente para que un pollo sea afectuoso," which apparently means, more or less, "One needs a virile man in order to make a chicken affectionate."
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 17:52
My particular favourite was the one with Perdue chickens in Mexico, where it got translated from "It takes a strong man to make a chicken tender," to "Se necesita un hombre potente para que un pollo sea afectuoso," which apparently means, more or less, "One needs a virile man in order to make a chicken affectionate."

Lol... It gives new meaning to the term "Cockfight".
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Akima on 21 Jan 2013, 18:00
It's an assortment of "Japan" related things: bamboo, cherry blossoms, peonies, pagodas, stylized waves, Japanese writing....
Orientalist perhaps, with possibly a dash of cultural appropriation depending on where the fabric was made, but not really racist in my opinion. Engrish stuff is much more questionable, because a big part of the joke is "Ha ha, these weird yellow people sure talk funny, don't they? Not like us superior people!".

I think that narrowing it down to only the worst ignores the fact that racism is a very ingrained part of society, in many ways appearing in ways that you just don't notice in day to day activities.
I am certainly not going to disagree with that...
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 21 Jan 2013, 18:21
So I nailed the interview for the new company. The interview was that I showed up and filled out paperwork.

They're getting us a golf cart to ride around in instead of walking now!
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 19:22
Golf carts, yay!

Do you get paid a proper salary that corresponds to your golf-cart-ness? Or is the golf cart its own reward?




In other news:

I will be receiving six (Count 'em, SIX) W-2 forms, a 1099-G and a 1099-M for taxes this year. The crappiness of last year's job market is dealing me one final blow in the form of a bureaucratic fight to the death. If I'm lucky, I might be able to qualify for a tax credit. HAHAHA yeah right. I'm not rich, only rich bastards with offshore accounts in the Caymans get tax credits. Fuckers.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Jace on 21 Jan 2013, 20:01
Well I'm getting a 40% raise. and I get to drive a golfcart around which is fun.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Papersatan on 21 Jan 2013, 20:20
The fabric is question was manufactured for the Alexander Henry Collection, located in Burbank California and was purchased at JoAnns, a major fabric retailer in the US.

(http://www.ladybuttonfabrics.com/fabricshop/categories/29/optional/ai_ahenry5234kotoblue.jpg)
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Bluesummers on 21 Jan 2013, 20:34
LOL JoAnn fabrics...they're not bad, nice selection.

So, can anyone translate that?
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: jwhouk on 22 Jan 2013, 07:15
I hope that wasn't a dig at me, Houk...

No, dear, you know me. I cuss like a sailor sometimes at work. The kids make me do it.

But it is STILL ####ing cold outside.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: Welu on 22 Jan 2013, 08:42
I found some of my old writings, including fanfics and they're not as terrible as I thought they were. My newer old writing had levelled up from sucking. Maybe in a few years I'll think what I'm currently writing is okay.
Title: Re: Re: Blog Thread IIIb : Look Who's Blogging Now
Post by: pwhodges on 22 Jan 2013, 09:05
This thread has got scarily long, so I thought it was time to have a nice new one (http://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,28618.0.html).