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Title: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 15 Feb 2015, 08:06
So, Faye and Pintsize know Claire is at the apartment. Will we see more of the "Breakfast at Marten's" or will Jeph move on to other things? Will something big happen in strip 2900 this Thursday? Or will it just be another week of QC?

Personally, I can see it either being more at the apartment (Faye breaking down and telling Marten the whole sorry tale... again) or moving on with the rest of the day. I, for one, wouldn't be adverse to seeing the start of Faye's day under the watchful eye of some keeper (most likely Hannelore, horror of horrors). There is a lot of story to be told there!

Or, pulling the 'unexpected twist' card, Faye (having the daylight hours to her own devices for once) runs into Sam and ends up involved in some convoluted and unlikely mid-teen adventure involving frogs, snakes, the woods, Jim, Veronica and disproportionate amounts of maple syrup and chocolate sauce. I let the individual minds of the reader attempt to create a semi-coherent scenario from such a set of criteria! :evil:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheCaffeinatedPanda on 15 Feb 2015, 08:11
So...

Faye runs into Sam, they go to the woods, Sam catches a snake/frog/whatever, they take it back to Jim and Sam's place, walk in, and find Jim and Veronica in a... Sticky... Situation in the kitchen?

Although risque, I could see it happening - chocolate sauce would make for pretty good censorship material, after all...  :-o
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 15 Feb 2015, 09:44
SVENPOCALYPSE WHEN
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 15 Feb 2015, 10:25
I wanna see the anthroPCs date, when's that gonna happen?

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 10:32
I voted for Tai, not because I want 2-3 strips of her finding out about Marten & Claire spending the night together, but because I figure it's going to happen anyway.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 15 Feb 2015, 10:38
I voted Clinton and Emily's date, but I see that Tai having no chill whatsoever is much more likely.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aliensporebomb on 15 Feb 2015, 11:25
Sven goes nuts when he hears Dora fired Faye? 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 15 Feb 2015, 11:38
I voted for Tai, not because I want 2-3 strips of her finding out about Marten & Claire spending the night together, but because I figure it's going to happen anyway.

Yes, but I really hope it happens off-screen and she fills in Dora or something.

A horrible idea just popped into my mind.. Sven could offer Faye a job! I'm not sure what kind of job it would be, but he also had an intern and found something he could occupy her with.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 11:53
Yes, but I really hope it happens off-screen and she fills in Dora or something.

Or Dora could find out directly from Claire.  Those two should hang out, share notes on Marten.*  Dora tries to give some helpful bedroom tips, only to learn that Claire's already figured most of them out.

*And also have a conversation or two that passes the Bechdel Test.  They just haven't interacted much, yet.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 15 Feb 2015, 11:54
I voted for Tai, not because I want 2-3 strips of her finding out about Marten & Claire spending the night together, but because I figure it's going to happen anyway.

Yes, but I really hope it happens off-screen and she fills in Dora or something.

A horrible idea just popped into my mind.. Sven could offer Faye a job! I'm not sure what kind of job it would be, but he also had an intern and found something he could occupy her with.

SVEN: "You did welding, right?"
FAYE: "Sure, but why exactly are you asking?"
SVEN: "You're now in charge of building me a bronze replica of my dick"
FAYE: "And you're now liable to get hit with a bronze replica of your dick"
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 15 Feb 2015, 11:56
I could totally see Faye doing that expressly to wang someone upside their head with a dick replica. Be careful what you ask for...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 11:57
SVEN: "Wow, it's taller than me!  You really went all out.  Wait, why are there hinges on the side?"
FAYE: "It doubles as an Iron Maiden." *opens it, shoves Sven inside, closes it again.*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 15 Feb 2015, 12:22
I voted "The Talk, Phase 2" because this time - it's Claire's turn.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 15 Feb 2015, 12:28
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: KevxD on 15 Feb 2015, 12:51
Hope we we see something of Dora, massive loose end there
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 15 Feb 2015, 12:54
I suspect that this will occur this week.


Hopefully, no blood will be spilt.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 15 Feb 2015, 13:01
I voted "The Talk, Phase 2" because this time - it's Claire's turn.

IIRC, Claire's dad was having an affair and that is what led to the separation (I'm presuming it's a divorce by this point).

That said, it would be a daring move on Jeph's part to tell Claire's back-story in more detail that has already been told. It's one of those arcs that, no matter how he does it, he'll end up pissing off at least some people badly enough that his Twitter and Tumblr comment accounts are going to light up like the Christmas illuminations at Blackpool. I could excuse him for not wanting that drama in his life for any reason.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 15 Feb 2015, 13:25
I voted Dora... 'cause it's a big unexplored mess. What do the other employees think? How does it effect business? Does Dora feel guilty?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 15 Feb 2015, 13:31
Marten and Hanners presumably need to go to work sooner or later, but they would not let Faye stay unsupervised. Enter Sam (I guess school still is out for summer?). I really hope for another walk in the woods, this time with Faye and Sam. Also, Faye probably can make really good frog and snake traps. Just for the hell of it, they should release their catch at CoD.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 15 Feb 2015, 13:34
I voted "The Talk, Phase 2" because this time - it's Claire's turn.
Dear lord. Yes, Claire has some issues with her father that might or might not be explored - I really hope they don't, because while it's bad that your father cheated on your mother, it's no excuse to be completely immature about it well into your 20s.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 15 Feb 2015, 13:55
I voted Dora... 'cause it's a big unexplored mess. What do the other employees think? How does it effect business? Does Dora feel guilty?
Nah, that can wait. Dora has developed into a very unsymphatic person when she is in "boss mode" (which is most of the time). I guess Hanners soon will quit. Penelope will be the new assistant manager. Dale and Cosette may continue, and Dora will need to hire one or two new employees. Because the Dora/Faye interaction was the central theme at CoD, I guess CoD will play a minor role from now on.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DSL on 15 Feb 2015, 14:21
I am going to write in a vote for "Faye meets keeper Momo."
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 15 Feb 2015, 14:26
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

Pintsize: You're making progress, this one actually let you hit it. *gets hurled across the room. By Claire.*

P.S.: I know that's extremely bad taste. It's obviously not what I'd say, at least not in this situation.

I'm a bad person, am I?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 15 Feb 2015, 14:27
Marten and Hanners presumably need to go to work sooner or later, but they would not let Faye stay unsupervised. Enter Sam (I guess school still is out for summer?). I really hope for another walk in the woods, this time with Faye and Sam. Also, Faye probably can make really good frog and snake traps. Just for the hell of it, they should release their catch at CoD.

You know, I can't help but feel that Faye and Sam would make a terrible combination right now. Sam is what? 13? 14? She's looking at Faye as a role model, or at least bonded with her more than she did with Dora. Faye needs someone who will stand be her, but also be a firm hand. Sam? I doubt it. I think she'd be looking for Faye's approval and maybe end up supplying her with her dad's alcohol.

That's a worst case scenario, but I really can't see either of them working well together without someone watching the pair of them.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 14:31
Plus, I can't imagine Jim would approve.  Wouldn't surprise me if Dora has already called him to warn him against bringing her to CoD (or letting her visit by herself) anytime soon, with Faye out of the picture...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 15 Feb 2015, 15:20
Really? You think Dora would tell private and embarrassing information about Faye to uninvolved third parties?

Dora is better than that. If Sam comes, all Dora has to say is that Faye isn't there. no big deal. After a while she might tell Sam that Faye doesn't work there anymore. No more details. that's it.

NilsO: Really? You really think that Boss Dora is soooo unsympathetic? I guess we just have different standards of what sympathetic means.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 15 Feb 2015, 15:35
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

Pintsize: You're making progress, this one actually let you hit it. *gets hurled across the room. By Claire.*

P.S.: I know that's extremely bad taste. It's obviously not what I'd say, at least not in this situation.

I'm a bad person, am I?

Jeez dude, that's a low blow even by Pintsize standard  :psyduck:  :psyduck:  :psyduck:

I'm gonna vote Dora for next week, fair bit of clean up/damage control needed on her side. Although Jeph does seem to enjoy writing Marten/Claire so we may well see more of them.

I voted Dora... 'cause it's a big unexplored mess. What do the other employees think? How does it effect business? Does Dora feel guilty?
Nah, that can wait. Dora has developed into a very unsymphatic person when she is in "boss mode" (which is most of the time). I guess Hanners soon will quit. Penelope will be the new assistant manager. Dale and Cosette may continue, and Dora will need to hire one or two new employees. Because the Dora/Faye interaction was the central theme at CoD, I guess CoD will play a minor role from now on.

Don't think Hanners will quit, when Dora broke up with Marten she was working there and still stayed on. Cosette and Penelope won't be that surprised that Dora's finally had enough in their eyes, Dale I don't think has worked there long enough to take sides and so in my opinion won't be going anywhere (having said that he's had no trouble finding work in the past (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2478) so if he did take Faye's side I can possibly see him quit, but think that's unlikely). Going to be interesting to see if Dora hires someone new or goes back to working the extra hours by herself, but judging that Faye was pretty much full time that's a lot to take on. If the former is true...new character p'haps?

...or May. Oh god, she'll be worse than Faye in customer relations. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2762)

Edited for strip references.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 15:38
I just meant, since Jim previously considered Faye a reliable babysitter, and Sam was in the habit of going to Coffee of Doom on her own to visit her instead of Dora, Dora may have chosen to (tactfully) let Jim know that Faye isn't working there anymore and, at least for the near future, may not be the most reliable person to watch a kid.  Although Sam won't have any free time with school starting soon, so maybe it won't be an issue anymore.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 15 Feb 2015, 15:53
I voted Dora... 'cause it's a big unexplored mess. What do the other employees think? How does it effect business? Does Dora feel guilty?
Nah, that can wait. Dora has developed into a very unsymphatic person when she is in "boss mode" (which is most of the time). I guess Hanners soon will quit. Penelope will be the new assistant manager. Dale and Cosette may continue, and Dora will need to hire one or two new employees. Because the Dora/Faye interaction was the central theme at CoD, I guess CoD will play a minor role from now on.

To make CoD/Dora a minor part of the story? I think that is too much of a shift from the focus of QC since strip 500. I may be wrong, but I don't see Jeph doing this. I like Dora as a character in this series. I feel that dropping CoD and Dora from the story would cripple Faye's character development in this arc.

Neither character is the villain or the hero in this story arc; they are people doing people things. They are sometimes foolish and sometimes wise, and sometimes the foolish things we do lead us to wise realizations. As a reader, that is what I would like to see here. MAYBE their friendship is damaged beyond repair, but they can both learn from this experience and become better people because of it.

*steps off soap box*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 15 Feb 2015, 16:06
I just meant, since Jim previously considered Faye a reliable babysitter, and Sam was in the habit of going to Coffee of Doom on her own to visit her instead of Dora, Dora may have chosen to (tactfully) let Jim know that Faye isn't working there anymore and, at least for the near future, may not be the most reliable person to watch a kid.  Although Sam won't have any free time with school starting soon, so maybe it won't be an issue anymore.

Yeah, that would be a problem. No, not that Dora would inform Jim that Faye's not working there any more, that's fine - but telling Jim that Faye would make a bad babysitter (at least at the moment). Faye's problems are private, and Jim is a probable employer, at least as a side gig or while Faye's looking for a job. Faye should decide for herself if she's fit to be a babysitter right now, and tell Jim herself if she isn't.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 16:16
Yeah, you're right.  Didn't think about that.

To make CoD/Dora a minor part of the story? I think that is too much of a shift from the focus of QC since strip 500. I may be wrong, but I don't see Jeph doing this. I like Dora as a character in this series. I feel that dropping CoD and Dora from the story would cripple Faye's character development in this arc.

(https://farm8.staticflickr.com/7411/16543523455_c15f5cbc6d.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TieDyeKat on 15 Feb 2015, 17:04
I know they're not all that in to watching TV (outside of YouTube clips, anime and the occasional bad movie), but it might be about time someone turned on the TV and saw Angus.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 15 Feb 2015, 17:11
I know they're not all that in to watching TV (outside of YouTube clips, anime and the occasional bad movie), but it might be about time someone turned on the TV and saw Angus.

It's possible that Angus might have only been gone for a few days at this stage. He's probably still working on material for the show.
Of course, that being said, Angus being successful might trigger something of a lapse for Faye. But that's several weeks down the line, be it real time or after a time skip in the comic, but after wrapping up some of the current threads.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 15 Feb 2015, 17:58
I know they're not all that in to watching TV (outside of YouTube clips, anime and the occasional bad movie), but it might be about time someone turned on the TV and saw Angus.

Some adverts too, but that's for one off joke strips.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 18:07
It's possible that Angus might have only been gone for a few days at this stage. He's probably still working on material for the show.

Well, judging by AprilArcus's most recent timeline (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30197.msg1295777.html#msg1295777), it's been less than a week.  1811 (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2811) was on Monday, Faye's firing and hospital stay were on Thursday/Friday, and today is Saturday, I think?  Angus is supposed to start "next week," so by Monday night Faye might have a rude awakening...although, is there even a TV in the apartment? 

SVENPOCALYPSE WHEN

I keep thinking it was a long time ago, too, but Dora only announced her intention to cut Sven out of her life in strip 2776 (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2776), only a week ago in-comic (and 120 strips/24ish weeks ago, our time...okay, it has been a while...), but I'm guessing Jeph decided to let it simmer on the back burner for a while so he could set up a few other things?  Maybe now that Angus is gone and Faye is single, jobless, and a recovering alcoholic, the kettle might just boil over...any...day...now....
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TieDyeKat on 15 Feb 2015, 18:18
It's possible that Angus might have only been gone for a few days at this stage. He's probably still working on material for the show.

Well, judging by AprilArcus's most recent timeline (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30197.msg1295777.html#msg1295777), it's been less than a week.  1811 (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2811) was on Monday, Faye's firing and hospital stay were on Thursday/Friday, and today is Saturday, I think?  Angus is supposed to start "next week," so by Monday night Faye might have a rude awakening...although, is there even a TV in the apartment? 


Proof of TV:  http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1674 (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1674)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 15 Feb 2015, 18:22
comic, focus back on Dora.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 15 Feb 2015, 18:23
Is this the first time we've seen Penelope since the last art change?  She looks different. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 15 Feb 2015, 18:24
Dora, stop beating yourself up. You did the right thing.




Warning - while you were typing people have read the comic and are now replying. You may wish to review your post. But that's not going to happen.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 15 Feb 2015, 18:25
So did Dora put in blue contacts b/n panels 3 and 4?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 15 Feb 2015, 18:26
It's clear to me what's going on.


Dora knows about us. She's seen the forums. She's rationalizing it to us. Welcome to the scary new world of post-fourth-wall QC!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: K1dmor on 15 Feb 2015, 18:28
So did Dora put in blue contacts b/n panels 3 and 4?

 She has blue eyes now. "Change Happens".
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 15 Feb 2015, 18:28
She's having second thoughts.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Shadic on 15 Feb 2015, 18:28
Is strawberry blonde the lovechild of Penelope and Cosette? I think it's supposed to be Penelope but her mouth/chin looks off.  :psyduck:

Or it could be somebody else and I'm just being dumb.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TieDyeKat on 15 Feb 2015, 18:29
Well this sucks.
https://twitter.com/jephjacques/status/567147923658395649 (https://twitter.com/jephjacques/status/567147923658395649)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 18:30
So did Dora put in blue contacts b/n panels 3 and 4?

No, Pizza Girl is finally dropping her disguise.  "Who said I was rationalizing it to you?" is, like, the perfect thing to say right before she stabs Penny in the jugular.  Turns out the real Dora's been dead for weeks, and with Faye out of the way, PG finally has her nemesis right where she wants her...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 15 Feb 2015, 18:34
Is strawberry blonde the lovechild of Penelope and Cosette? I think it's supposed to be Penelope but her mouth/chin looks off.  :psyduck:

Or it could be somebody else and I'm just being dumb.
I think it's that her mouth is too large, and the bottom lip being too full that's throwing off her appearance.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 15 Feb 2015, 18:37
Ahhh

Self analysis of the situation.  Dora at her finest.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 15 Feb 2015, 18:48
I took the liberty of fixing todays comic.

(click to show/hide)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 15 Feb 2015, 18:50
So did Dora put in blue contacts b/n panels 3 and 4?

I logged in specifically to bring up this whoopsy, but someone beat me to the punch.
whoopsy.

Also, isn't it kind of unprofessional to discuss the termination of one employee with another?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 15 Feb 2015, 18:51
It's possible that Angus might have only been gone for a few days at this stage. He's probably still working on material for the show.

Well, judging by AprilArcus's most recent timeline (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30197.msg1295777.html#msg1295777), it's been less than a week.  1811 (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2811) was on Monday, Faye's firing and hospital stay were on Thursday/Friday, and today is Saturday, I think?  Angus is supposed to start "next week," so by Monday night Faye might have a rude awakening...although, is there even a TV in the apartment? 


Proof of TV:  http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1674 (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1674)
If there were no TV, how could Marten be horrified by Woodrow (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2587)?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: mustang6172 on 15 Feb 2015, 18:53
So did Dora put in blue contacts b/n panels 3 and 4?

I was wondering the same thing.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 15 Feb 2015, 18:58
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Truec on 15 Feb 2015, 18:58
I can't quite tell, is Dora denying that she's rationalizing her decision, or just pointing out that she's rationalizing to herself?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 15 Feb 2015, 19:01
Also, isn't it kind of unprofessional to discuss the termination of one employee with another?

No doubt Penelope probably heard about Faye being hospitalised or was wondering why Faye was taken off the roster. So she could either go straight to the horse's mouth and ask Dora what happened, or talk to Faye and get her (most likely) skewed take on the matter. And let's face it, Penelope...not Faye's biggest fan.

This also opens up the possibility of Penelope becoming the new assistant manager, as she is now the most senior person there after Dora. Although now that could mean a new strain on Dora; she's somewhat reticent on hiring people at times and this thing with Faye is a breach of trust, might just kick Dora's tendency to be overly controlling into overdrive. More hours to work to cover Faye being fired, taking on yet more work onto herself, Dora is going to suffer as much as Faye.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Vemocleus on 15 Feb 2015, 19:05
Damn, late to the Dora blue eyes "change happens" joke.  Next time, precious.... next time.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 15 Feb 2015, 19:07
I guess you folks could say she turned her brown eye blue.

 :claireface:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 15 Feb 2015, 19:09
I can't quite tell, is Dora denying that she's rationalizing her decision, or just pointing out that she's rationalizing to herself?
She's pointing out that she's rationalizing it to herself, and not Penny.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 19:11
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 15 Feb 2015, 19:13
I took the liberty of fixing todays comic.

(click to show/hide)
Reminds me of Garfield Minus Garfield.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 15 Feb 2015, 19:13
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
To be franc, Dora has to get real about Faye's firing, and Faye will just have to pound on doors to find a new job.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 15 Feb 2015, 19:14
I guess you folks could say she turned her brown eye blue.

 :claireface:

She's going to grow her hair out again?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 15 Feb 2015, 19:24
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
To be franc, Dora has to get real about Faye's firing, and Faye will just have to pound on doors to find a new job.
Is it really necessary to be so pesomistic? I mean, I know we yen for some development on the Dora front, but we don't have to expect a pile of emotional ruble.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 15 Feb 2015, 19:29
It could be worse. She could turn into Pintsize, have cake batter for dinar, then ramble on about colóns and dongs.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 19:32
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
To be franc, Dora has to get real about Faye's firing, and Faye will just have to pound on doors to find a new job.
Is it really necessary to be so pesomistic? I mean, I know we yen for some development on the Dora front, but we don't have to expect a pile of emotional ruble.

That's it, Euro-ver your limit.  Dough not make me throw the buck at you.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 15 Feb 2015, 19:37
It could be worse. She could turn into Pintsize, have cake batter for dinar, then ramble on about colóns and dongs.
I'd be florin it to get out of there before she went out of her gourde  :psyduck:

You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
To be franc, Dora has to get real about Faye's firing, and Faye will just have to pound on doors to find a new job.
Is it really necessary to be so pesomistic? I mean, I know we yen for some development on the Dora front, but we don't have to expect a pile of emotional ruble.

That's it, Euro-ver your limit.  Dough not make me throw the buck at you.
Get rial! I'll shekel you harder than a bad balboa impression!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 15 Feb 2015, 19:37
It's the effect of the pastries from The Secret Bakery.

"Donut make those brown eyes blue", as the song goes.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jmucchiello on 15 Feb 2015, 19:44
Boo, hiss. Dora should not be suffering second thoughts.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 15 Feb 2015, 19:46
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
To be franc, Dora has to get real about Faye's firing, and Faye will just have to pound on doors to find a new job.
Is it really necessary to be so pesomistic? I mean, I know we yen for some development on the Dora front, but we don't have to expect a pile of emotional ruble.

That's it, Euro-ver your limit.  Dough not make me throw the buck at you.
Get rial! I'll shekel you harder than a bad balboa impression!

You think you're pfennig, dontcha? 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 15 Feb 2015, 19:48
Also, isn't it kind of unprofessional to discuss the termination of one employee with another?

Eh, maybe, but CoD is a remarkably informal workplace, as evidenced by things like chair-jousting. (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1051)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 15 Feb 2015, 19:54
I took the liberty of fixing todays comic.

(click to show/hide)

ala Garfield Minus Garfield? http://garfieldminusgarfield.net/page/14

Edit: Damn it - Someone said it before me. Should have read the whole thread first.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 15 Feb 2015, 19:55
You can't title a comic "Change Happens" and casually bring penny back. That's just asking to be nickeled and dimed with bad puns.

Well, Dora already gave no quarter when she fired Faye, and she's not throwing good money after bad.
To be franc, Dora has to get real about Faye's firing, and Faye will just have to pound on doors to find a new job.
Is it really necessary to be so pesomistic? I mean, I know we yen for some development on the Dora front, but we don't have to expect a pile of emotional ruble.

That's it, Euro-ver your limit.  Dough not make me throw the buck at you.
Get rial! I'll shekel you harder than a bad balboa impression!

You think you're pfennig, dontcha?
Man, the puns are flying like a baht outta hell.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ASB84 on 15 Feb 2015, 19:56
Dora's uneasiness and attempts to rationalise firing Faye make perfect sense, and I think demonstrates that she's not some terrible person who's completely lacking in caring, sympathy, or empathy. She was justified in her decision, but it doesn't make it any easier or pleasant. The logic and the rationale has to compete with the emotion.

Frankly, such internal conflict is bound to have an effect on the body, like changing one's eye colour. ;)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 15 Feb 2015, 19:56
Cod is also a very small workplace.

I don't know as much about workplace policy and liability when it comes to an employee being fired, but I feel like it is a good idea to tell the other employees why someone was fired. It helps establish clear consequences for certain behaviours, squelches rumors, and reassures the employees that they won't be fired without just cause.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 15 Feb 2015, 19:57
ala Garfield Minus Garfield? http://garfieldminusgarfield.net/page/14

Jesus H. Tapdancing Christ, that's depressing.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 15 Feb 2015, 19:58
ala Garfield Minus Garfield? http://garfieldminusgarfield.net/page/14

Jesus H. Tapdancing Christ, that's depressing.

Isn't it, though? I thought it fit the theme of today's strip.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 15 Feb 2015, 19:59
I see that it's Dora's turn to play Voice of the Forums.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 15 Feb 2015, 20:00
Cod is also a very small workplace.

I don't know as much about workplace policy and liability when it comes to an employee being fired, but I feel like it is a good idea to tell the other employees why someone was fired. It helps establish clear consequences for certain behaviours, squelches rumors, and reassures the employees that they won't be fired without just cause.

It might be good for the work place, but it isn't good from a legal stand point... which is why most companies are completely silent on these types of matters.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Beroli on 15 Feb 2015, 20:01
Not to you, Penelope--to herself. Poor Dora.

...Never mind Dora's eyes, why does Penelope have orange hair?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 15 Feb 2015, 20:03
Cod is also a very small workplace.

I don't know as much about workplace policy and liability when it comes to an employee being fired, but I feel like it is a good idea to tell the other employees why someone was fired. It helps establish clear consequences for certain behaviours, squelches rumors, and reassures the employees that they won't be fired without just cause.

It might be good for the work place, but it isn't good from a legal stand point... which is why most companies are completely silent on these types of matters.

What could happen, from a legal standpoint?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CaptainFish on 15 Feb 2015, 20:06
Not to you, Penelope--to herself. Poor Dora.

...Never mind Dora's eyes, why does Penelope have orange hair?

Yeah I noticed it big time. I almost wondered if it was Cosette for a second cause she's had bright orange hair like that in strips before.

Looking back made me miss the hair texture stuff Jeph used to do.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 15 Feb 2015, 20:07
Cod is also a very small workplace.

I don't know as much about workplace policy and liability when it comes to an employee being fired, but I feel like it is a good idea to tell the other employees why someone was fired. It helps establish clear consequences for certain behaviours, squelches rumors, and reassures the employees that they won't be fired without just cause.

It might be good for the work place, but it isn't good from a legal stand point... which is why most companies are completely silent on these types of matters.

What could happen, from a legal standpoint?

Sued for defamation of character.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 15 Feb 2015, 20:10
So, out of curiosity, who still mentally pronounces Penelope like antelope? (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=725)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 15 Feb 2015, 20:19
Cod is also a very small workplace.

I don't know as much about workplace policy and liability when it comes to an employee being fired, but I feel like it is a good idea to tell the other employees why someone was fired. It helps establish clear consequences for certain behaviours, squelches rumors, and reassures the employees that they won't be fired without just cause.

It might be good for the work place, but it isn't good from a legal stand point... which is why most companies are completely silent on these types of matters.

What could happen, from a legal standpoint?

Sued for defamation of character.

Defamation of Character is when the information is false. However Faye was fired for drinking on the job and is completely true.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 15 Feb 2015, 20:22
Sued for defamation of character.

huh, really? even if it is true? :edit: ninja'd by The Evil Dog

I could see a problem if Dora were telling people not involved, but other employees are directly affected by the situation and deserve to know what is going on. I could see an exception if, say, Faye had sexually assaulted someone and there would be an upcoming court case. But a court case seems unlikely here.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 15 Feb 2015, 20:36
Lat's knock it off with the money puns. It's depreciating.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 15 Feb 2015, 20:38
So, out of curiosity, who still mentally pronounces Penelope like antelope? (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=725)

Whenever possible!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 15 Feb 2015, 20:46
Lat's knock it off with the money puns. It's depreciating.
Really? I thought it was collecting our interest.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 15 Feb 2015, 20:50
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Looking back made me miss the hair texture stuff Jeph used to do.

It didn't stand out too much for most characters, but I miss Claire's magic hair so much.

As for Pene-lope's hair, I blame Alice (http://www.alicegrove.com/).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ysth on 15 Feb 2015, 20:52
And the tip of Dora's iceberg of guilt emerges from the water...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: vforvancouver on 15 Feb 2015, 20:54
So, out of curiosity, who still mentally pronounces Penelope like antelope? (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=725)

Well, being bilingual, I have problems pronouncing everybody's names in my mind. I tend to pronounce names and numbers in Spanish. Numbers are an issue because I pronounce them in Spanish while talking English, as in "I need the sieves for gravel gradation, number cuatro to tres inches, please."

Therefore, I render Penny's name as "Penélope", which rhymes with, but doesn't sound exactly as "Antílope". Four syllables each, no silent E, last E in Penelope sounds like the first E, second E is stressed.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 15 Feb 2015, 20:57
re: the dora/pen conversation

I don't know. If I were Faye and I found out Dora was talking about my situation like that (especially with how it ended up), I'd be rather embarrassed. It's kind of a betrayal of trust, not between coworkers but between friends. And face it, Faye and Pen aren't exactly close. Information that intimate is pretty need-to-know and despite the stress Dora is going through (and DOES have a right to vent!), I don't feel Pen should be privy to it. I may be projecting myself onto Faye here, though, but she has gotten embarrassed about this very subject in the past.

As for pronouncing Pen's name, I've always heard the last three syllables pronounced as letters: "eL - Oh - Pee." But then again, I've always seen Marten spelled "Martin."
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 15 Feb 2015, 21:22
I think just about everyone's aware of how Penelope is supposed to be pronounced. It's just a callback to Faye's preferred pronunciation (Pen-Ah-lope).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bloodswan on 15 Feb 2015, 21:24
As for pronouncing Pen's name, I've always heard the last three syllables pronounced as letters: "eL - Oh - Pee." But then again, I've always seen Marten spelled "Martin."

Well that's fine since it's technically the proper way to pronounce it. Mentally rhyming it with or pronouncing it like antelope is because of the strip linked earlier where Faye is doing it to get on Pen's nerves (strip 725 (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=725) to be exact). It's a hard habit to break if you get into it.

(And ninja-ed by Omega. Oh well. Great start to coming out of permanent lurkerdom)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Indicible on 15 Feb 2015, 21:27
Pénélope... Pen-Eh-Low-Pe. (low is short, though).

Oh, well.
In any case, Dora is right about every point she has made. It does not sit well with her, though. Why do I have the feeling she is snapping at Penelope?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 15 Feb 2015, 21:30
I just think of her as Pen-Pen

(http://vignette4.wikia.nocookie.net/evangelion/images/c/c8/Pen_Pen.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20090802145023&path-prefix=de)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Somnus Eternus on 15 Feb 2015, 22:01
I just think of her as Pen-Pen

(http://media.tumblr.com/795127c9c408ddfd23a8344ba973a089/tumblr_inline_mqc5uqCXW41qz4rgp.gif)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 15 Feb 2015, 23:32
Poor Dora! It's usually a bad sign regarding your confidence in your decisions if you keep on ranting about why you are right to others who haven't even implied that you are wrong! At least Dora is sane enough (in a somewhat meta way) to be actually aware that she's doing it!

Quote from: Dora
Who said I was rationalising it to you?

That my favourite QC quote of recent times. It demonstrates the sometimes-scary level of self-awareness that the characters sometimes show.

FWIW, I can see nothing wrong with Penny's hair. She looks the same as when we last saw her, AFAIK.

Finally... If Penny is made assistant manager, I'd like for Faye to give her the badge. This would symbolise no hard feelings, that Faye has moved on and serve as one last bit of emotional abuse by guilt trip of her former coworkers (and thus in-character for Faye). It would be made funny if Dora and Penny called her on it and she retreated whilst laughing.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 15 Feb 2015, 23:34
Lat's knock it off with the money puns. It's depreciating.
Really? I thought it was collecting our interest.

The more of them we have would cause an inflation on the number of pages in the WCDT.

On discussing the reason why a person was fired...probably depends on the place you're working. I've only noticed one person getting fired...or rather him disappearing from the office. When I eventually asked I was told that he was dismissed for gross misconduct and that was all I was allowed to hear.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 15 Feb 2015, 23:53
Also, isn't it kind of unprofessional to discuss the termination of one employee with another?
Well, Dora has to give some explanation, otherwise there will be endless speculation and concern. "She quit" is probably not good enough, as usually this is not an abrupt thing. "I had to fire her", without further explanation, should be sufficient. But "she was drunk at work" is decidedly unprofessional. It is Dora's damned duty not to spread rumors about former employees.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 15 Feb 2015, 23:56
I think just about everyone's aware of how Penelope is supposed to be pronounced. It's just a callback to Faye's preferred pronunciation (Pen-Ah-lope).

Broken Lizard's Club Dread taught me it's Peen-ah-lope. That is now the way we say her name forever.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dark Matter on 15 Feb 2015, 23:57
Well, Dora has to give some explanation, otherwise there will be endless speculation and concern. "She quit" is probably not good enough, as usually this is not an abrupt thing. "I had to fire her", without further explanation, should be sufficient. But "she was drunk at work" is decidedly unprofessional. It is Dora's damned duty not to spread rumors about former employees.

I imagine if Dora were thinking completely rationally about the situation she would not be saying all of this to Penelope. However, we should keep in mind that this is not just an boss firing a worker, this is also a personal issue for Dora. My guess is that she is torn between feeling like Faye betrayed her trust and feeling like she is the one who betrayed Faye (hence the rationalization). That is not a mindset that seems conducive to tactfulness.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 16 Feb 2015, 00:04
Even at a large company, details sometimes get published. An accomplished co-worker of mine disappeared, people were initially tight-lipped, then HR announced he'd been fired for viewing porn at work.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Honkytonk on 16 Feb 2015, 00:16
I don't think Dora is being stupid or heartless or anything of the sort. She's done what she needed to. Giving Faye the boot is good for Faye and for CoD as a business.  As for discussing it with Penelope/other members of staff, I work in a west country pub part-time, which is probably a similar size of business staff-wise to Coffee of Doom, and I don't think it's ridiculous to tell other people why someone's been fired - serves as a warning (not really necessary at CoD tbh) and also quashes any rumours/gossip before it takes root. Perfectly reasonable. (Although if people got fired at my place for being drunk at work there would never be any staff)

I know the point of today's comic is Dora's trait of second guessing herself, so I kind of hope there's no backsliding on her part.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dark Matter on 16 Feb 2015, 00:21
I know the point of today's comic is Dora's trait of second guessing herself, so I kind of hope there's no backsliding on her part.

Even if Dora is second-guessing herself, it seems like Faye doesn't really want to return to CoD, so Dora backsliding probably wouldn't get very far.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 16 Feb 2015, 00:24
It's probably better for Faye if she doesn't come back. Probably Dora too, but Faye really ought to move on. She can do other things she just never tried and/or sabotaged herself.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ASB84 on 16 Feb 2015, 02:03
Well, Dora has to give some explanation, otherwise there will be endless speculation and concern. "She quit" is probably not good enough, as usually this is not an abrupt thing. "I had to fire her", without further explanation, should be sufficient. But "she was drunk at work" is decidedly unprofessional. It is Dora's damned duty not to spread rumors about former employees.

I imagine if Dora were thinking completely rationally about the situation she would not be saying all of this to Penelope. However, we should keep in mind that this is not just an boss firing a worker, this is also a personal issue for Dora. My guess is that she is torn between feeling like Faye betrayed her trust and feeling like she is the one who betrayed Faye (hence the rationalization). That is not a mindset that seems conducive to tactfulness.

It's also not spreading rumours: it's the truth. Faye was drunk at work, and she was fired for it.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 16 Feb 2015, 02:13
It's also not spreading rumours: it's the truth. Faye was drunk at work, and she was fired for it.

If Dora had asked her lawyer, he or she probably would have advised to tell the others that Faye was dismissed and it is none of their business why - they can ask Faye if they're that interested in her personal life and good luck to them.

However, this isn't a situation in which coldly rational logic reigns. Dora is Faye's friend as well as (ex-) employer. It isn't easy firing friends, especially when said friends, although you hadn't realised it, were in an emotional death spiral. She's venting to deal with her own emotional turmoil and I doubt that she's thinking about how she's potentially violating Faye's privacy with the member of staff who, IMO at least, disliked her the most.

FWIW, the most solid repercussion of this conversation may be that Faye is denied service for life at The Horrible Revelation. However, it's not exactly her kind of watering hole anyway.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bartman on 16 Feb 2015, 02:17
Also, isn't it kind of unprofessional to discuss the termination of one employee with another?

I think it's reasonable to say X is fired for the following reason: $reason because it makes a point to the staff that this happened for a reason, that the rules/policies need to be adhered to, etc. People need to know that the rules are important and they need reassurance that the firing wasn't random and arbitrary or due to financial issues with the business, so that they don't worry about their own job.

It would be wrong to be 'gossiping' about the gory details of who said what to whom during the actual firing, of course it would, but I don't think Dora is doing that.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 16 Feb 2015, 02:40
She's talking about it an awful lot, though, and to the wrong person. Other employees of the CoD - especially Penelope who can't stand Faye - are the worst venting place she could have chosen, even Tai would have been a better pick. Especially at a semi-public place with customers and everything. Yes, Faye has a problem, but advertising it like that? It's not her place.
We've talked an awful lot about how 'Boss Dora' made the right decision for her business and all that - but being a boss entails being responsible and professional enough to wait a few hours to vent. (Or just ask Penelope to mind the business for five minutes while she calls somebody)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 16 Feb 2015, 02:47
I just think of her as Pen-Pen

Pen2 is a more sympathetic character, though, and he doesn't give a damn about anything.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 16 Feb 2015, 02:52
She's talking about it an awful lot, though, and to the wrong person.

Which is an easy conclusion to reach when you aren't the person who is doing it because of an intense personal pain and sense of guilt. Whilst we can criticise Dora's actions (perhaps rightly), remember that this is a story and Jeph has to consider how his characters' emotions and various issues would affect their behaviour. This leaves them doing things that we, from the ivory tower of detached logic and morality, may consider wrong but nonetheless rings true to their characters.

In my view, Jeph is 'hitting' more than 'missing' in believable characterisation in terms of immediate and human responses to personal challenges, even if some readers feel that what they're doing is wrong.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: anahata on 16 Feb 2015, 03:33
I think it's reasonable to say X is fired for the following reason: $reason because it makes a point to the staff that this happened for a reason, that the rules/policies need to be adhered to, etc.

You could still do that by saying she was fired for violating the terms of her employments contract/breaking the rules/whatever without being specific. That would underline that the rules are taken seriously, without explicitly giving too much away.

In this case, though, I really think it doesn't matter. By divulging more than strictly necessary Dora hasn't actually done anything illegal, just morally questionable.

And what BenRG said...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Indicible on 16 Feb 2015, 04:01
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You could still do that by saying she was fired for violating the terms of her employments contract/breaking the rules/whatever without being specific. That would underline that the rules are taken seriously, without explicitly giving too much away.

Except that if you do not specify which particular clause was not respected, it will lead to speculation. I think Dora is getting more heat than she deserves here. It also stresses to the other employees you can f*** up too much at the CoD, even if you are the boss' best friend.
Her tone, however, may not be the most adequate, here.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Reaver on 16 Feb 2015, 04:04
Boo, hiss. Dora should not be suffering second thoughts.

Yeah, she doesn't need to rationalize OR Justify what she did, Faye deserved to be fired, she came in drunk, LIED about being drunk, then snuck off to drink more >C That's breaking Dora's trust, she was willing to /lie/ to her to just have more booze. :x
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 16 Feb 2015, 06:02
I might not be the first to ask this, but I don't have time to read back forum posts:

What's everyone's read on Dora's final line? I think we can read it to ways:

1. Dora is, via rhetorical question, indicating to Penny that she's rationalizing it to herself, not to Penny. To make this reading work, I feel like we need to imagine that the word "you" is in boldface or italics or otherwise emphasized.

2. Dora doesn't even realize that what she's doing is rationalizing. This would be in character, and remarkably similar to her interactions with her therapist. Basically, it would be Dora explicitly revealing something about her own psychological state through her verbalized thought process, yet remaining oblivious to what she's revealing.

I lean toward Option #1, but I'm not certain.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 16 Feb 2015, 06:04
I'm inclined to agree with the idea that she's monologuing with an audience.  Pen2 is basically there so she's not just talking to herself.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 16 Feb 2015, 06:07
I'm inclined to agree with the idea that she's monologuing with an audience.  Pen2 is basically there so she's not just talking to herself.

Monologuing with herself. I like it. Perfect encapsulation of the implications of Option #1.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: dexeron on 16 Feb 2015, 06:29
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

If Claire didn't already know the Faye backstory (they revealed that to her when they were all on the couch before the "paddling," right?)  then this would be the perfect time for her to reveal that her anger at infidelity stems from when her dad left her family...

...because he had another family in secret, with another wife, and even two other daughters!  The last Claire heard, he was still living with that other family in Georgia, or whatever it was.  She hadn't checked up on him in a long time, because she was so angry.  All she knew that he was going by the last name "Whit..." something.  Whitman.  or Whitacre. Whitaker.  That's it.  Whitaker.

And then Claire can say: "Marten, why are you looking at me like that?" and then his head explodes.   :psyduck:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snubnose on 16 Feb 2015, 06:45
I think that Dora feels guilty for not giving her friend enough support in times of need.

[...] especially Penelope who can't stand Faye [...]
What ? Anyone got any evidence for that ?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 16 Feb 2015, 06:47
[...] especially Penelope who can't stand Faye [...]


What ? Anyone got any evidence for that ?

There are two threads of evidence - Firstly, Penny is the only member of staff who has called Faye out when she becomes abusive. Secondly, when Dora made Faye assistant manager, Penny offered to quit immediately.

Personally, I wouldn't say Penny "can't stand" Faye - She wouldn't work at CoD if it was that bad. However, I would say that Penny has the worst relationship with Faye of all the members of staff.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 16 Feb 2015, 06:48
Pretty much every Faye and Pen-Pen interaction ever. She tried to walk out and quit when Faye became assistant manager. And I don't think it was a joke.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 16 Feb 2015, 06:51
[...] especially Penelope who can't stand Faye [...]


What ? Anyone got any evidence for that ?

There are two threads of evidence - Firstly, Penny is the only member of staff who has called Faye out when she becomes abusive. Secondly, when Dora made Faye assistant manager, Penny offered to quit immediately.

Personally, I wouldn't say Penny "can't stand" Faye - She wouldn't work at CoD if it was that bad. However, I would say that Penny has the worst relationship with Faye of all the members of staff.

Agreed. "Can't stand" might be strong, but almost all of their interactions are antagonistic. Even the one mini-arc that had just the two of them outside of CoD (Penny rousting Faye from bed to go work out) was rife with insults and needling that seemed - to me at least - a bit less jocular than how Faye and Dora would rag on each other. And I don't think Penny or Cosette was kidding when they immediately said "I quit." Obviously, they were talked out of it, but in the moment that they said it, I think they were sincere.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: miados on 16 Feb 2015, 07:11
being friends with your boss/employees can be good and enjoyable but it can also be harsh and hurt emotionally when things that need to happen happen. I mean some things are alright. Telling them they are getting a raise, but telling them they have to work this weekend, they aren't getting a bonus this year, their job is being outsourced, so many other things can be awful to tell your friend and because it was you that told them they connect it to you and as someone they see outside of work it lingers a lot longer than it would otherwise.

Now what if your friend had problems, but they kept it seperate from work for a long time. Not the best comparison, but lets say someone worked at a support hotline for people that were (trigger potential idk) raped. And the person answering the calls has had that experience, but managed to not linger on it almost instantly because hey different people handle things differently. Now they can be good because they experienced it, but also they need to know not everyone operates the same way. The first time they said to the calling rape victim something like "You are still freaking out three years later? Suck it up and move on" they would probably be fired because even in places where certain topics/things aren't seen as unprofessional. (in this case talking about rape because not many places would talk about that super openly) there are still rules to follow.

The hard part is in the small businesses like COD well you connect with those you work with in a similar reason why you befriended those you went to school with. You are together for a long time consantly so you connnect. Especially the boss who would have to deal with them all. Heck they would probably be more picky about hiring people they can get along with even if that person isn't the most qualified. I mean %#@%@ I know i probably would. You use running dungeons and dragons to show leadership and problem solving skills. bonus points in the interview. You talk about your love of twilight and fifty shades of gray you better hope you are my only applicant.

bah I am rambling stupidly. I'll shut up now.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 16 Feb 2015, 08:25
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

If Claire didn't already know the Faye backstory (they revealed that to her when they were all on the couch before the "paddling," right?)  then this would be the perfect time for her to reveal that her anger at infidelity stems from when her dad left her family...

...because he had another family in secret, with another wife, and even two other daughters!  The last Claire heard, he was still living with that other family in Georgia, or whatever it was.  She hadn't checked up on him in a long time, because she was so angry.  All she knew that he was going by the last name "Whit..." something.  Whitman.  or Whitacre. Whitaker.  That's it.  Whitaker.

And then Claire can say: "Marten, why are you looking at me like that?" and then his head explodes.   :psyduck:

Claire wouldn't live that down. Seriously.

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Thankfully, that won't happen. Even if that was the case, Claire does know that Faye's last name is Whitaker and that one shouldn't really mess with the Pugnacious Peach right now.

Although it'd be more than enough reason to put the extra line on his tombstone like FayeMom wanted to.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aliensporebomb on 16 Feb 2015, 09:36
I have a disturbingly weird idea of where this go could but I'll shush about it.  That being said, I'm sure she'll vent about it to Tai.   She may have another view on things having some distance but who knows.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 16 Feb 2015, 10:29
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

Either that or the way Clinton lost his hand was an accident suffered while firing Augustusdad from a cannon.

I know they're not all that in to watching TV (outside of YouTube clips, anime and the occasional bad movie), but it might be about time someone turned on the TV and saw Angus.

It's possible that Angus might have only been gone for a few days at this stage. He's probably still working on material for the show.
Of course, that being said, Angus being successful might trigger something of a lapse for Faye. But that's several weeks down the line, be it real time or after a time skip in the comic, but after wrapping up some of the current threads.

It's entirely possible to see someone long after you've been involved with them and not have it trigger massive depression and self-loathing, y'know. On one hand, you can be reminded of why you liked someone and be glad they were in your life when they were but realize that in the interim, you're both better off where you are than where you were. On the other hand, you can also be reminded of certain of the other person's personality traits and habits that make you realize you really dodged a bullet by not being with them.

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You could still do that by saying she was fired for violating the terms of her employments contract/breaking the rules/whatever without being specific. That would underline that the rules are taken seriously, without explicitly giving too much away.

Except that if you do not specify which particular clause was not respected, it will lead to speculation. I think Dora is getting more heat than she deserves here. It also stresses to the other employees you can f*** up too much at the CoD, even if you are the boss' best friend.
Her tone, however, may not be the most adequate, here.

I think the tone's the thing. Most of the times that I had to fire someone were because of issues that were obvious to everyone (things like incompetence or chronic lateness). Once or twice, I had to fire someone for theft. If anyone asked where so-and-so was, I kept it short, sweet, and factual: we caught them stealing. They're gone now. Period, end of story. You don't go into what you think of that person's character, how you do or don't feel about them now that they're gone, et cetera. IOW, it sends the message that there are lines you don't cross, without getting into other things that aren't necessary.

Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

If Claire didn't already know the Faye backstory (they revealed that to her when they were all on the couch before the "paddling," right?)  then this would be the perfect time for her to reveal that her anger at infidelity stems from when her dad left her family...

...because he had another family in secret, with another wife, and even two other daughters!  The last Claire heard, he was still living with that other family in Georgia, or whatever it was.  She hadn't checked up on him in a long time, because she was so angry.  All she knew that he was going by the last name "Whit..." something.  Whitman.  or Whitacre. Whitaker.  That's it.  Whitaker.

And then Claire can say: "Marten, why are you looking at me like that?" and then his head explodes.   :psyduck:

Except: Faye's older, so the Augustuseseses would've been the "other" family (though they wouldn't be to themselves, obviously), and I'm also sure that an absence that long from Faye's life would've been noted long before Claire was even a character.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: themacnut on 16 Feb 2015, 10:48
No doubt Penelope probably heard about Faye being hospitalised or was wondering why Faye was taken off the roster. So she could either go straight to the horse's mouth and ask Dora what happened, or talk to Faye and get her (most likely) skewed take on the matter. And let's face it, Penelope...not Faye's biggest fan.

I can see Penelope doing a little happy dance over Faye being gone when no one else (but us readers) is looking.

This also opens up the possibility of Penelope becoming the new assistant manager, as she is now the most senior person there after Dora. Although now that could mean a new strain on Dora; she's somewhat reticent on hiring people at times and this thing with Faye is a breach of trust, might just kick Dora's tendency to be overly controlling into overdrive. More hours to work to cover Faye being fired, taking on yet more work onto herself, Dora is going to suffer as much as Faye.

I would be very surprised if Dora promoted anyone else to assistant manager anytime soon, for all the reasons you mentioned. After all, look what happened when she promoted Faye. She's probably more convinced than ever that no one else can be trusted to run CoD like she does, which means she'll be putting in extra time to make sure things go right. I expect her relationship with Tai to suffer as a result - hard to keep an SO when you have no time to spend with them.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 16 Feb 2015, 11:04
Oh look at that, Jeph fixed Dora's eyes.  :clairedoge:

Also I didn't vote for Sam asking for help in the poll, mostly because I don't really see Jeph taking that route, but I do think that Faye's connection to Sam could be very therapeutic. Spending time with people who radiate positivity can help you do the same, I've found.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SomeCanadianWeirdo on 16 Feb 2015, 11:11
I can't imagine Faye's dad also being Claire's dad.  The logistics seem too wonky.  On the other hand I can imagine Faye's father being Renee's father, as the result of an affair he had, and that finding out he had a daughter he'd effectively abandoned drove him to suicide.  Of course this is Questionable Content  and not The Young and the Restless, so such a plotline seems extremely unlikely.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 16 Feb 2015, 11:11
This also opens up the possibility of Penelope becoming the new assistant manager, as she is now the most senior person there after Dora. Although now that could mean a new strain on Dora; she's somewhat reticent on hiring people at times and this thing with Faye is a breach of trust, might just kick Dora's tendency to be overly controlling into overdrive. More hours to work to cover Faye being fired, taking on yet more work onto herself, Dora is going to suffer as much as Faye.

I would be very surprised if Dora promoted anyone else to assistant manager anytime soon, for all the reasons you mentioned. After all, look what happened when she promoted Faye. She's probably more convinced than ever that no one else can be trusted to run CoD like she does, which means she'll be putting in extra time to make sure things go right. I expect her relationship with Tai to suffer as a result - hard to keep an SO when you have no time to spend with them.

Precisely.
Dora has several failings and the worst is her need to be in control. Faye is her closest friend and her drinking on the job feels like a massive betrayal. Dora's world is already receding into a much smaller space - She already lives in Amherst, she's cut Sven out of her life, she's working a ridiculous amount of hours every day. The only people Dora seems to be close to now seem to be Marten, Hanners and Tai and I'm guessing that two of them aren't going to be able to hang out as much as they used to.
Something is going to give and I suspect it's going to happen soon.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 16 Feb 2015, 11:30
[edited for brevity]

Dora's world is already receding into a much smaller space - She already lives in Amherst, she's cut Sven out of her life, she's working a ridiculous amount of hours every day. The only people Dora seems to be close to now seem to Marten, Hanners and Tai and I'm guessing that two of them aren't going to be able to hang out as much as they used to.
Something is going to give and I suspect it's going to happen soon.

I hadn't considered that, but you're right - Dora's isolating herself more than I noticed. I don't know if she has cut Sven out of her life yet (I only remember the announcement to Marten - not even Tai). I also don't know how close she's with Hanners (as far as I remember, she's Martens and Fayes friend, not so much Doras. I can't remember when they interacted one on one, but I could be very wrong).

Probably this is writing her out, but I think you're pretty much spot-on and this leads to more Dora-related drama.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Cattus on 16 Feb 2015, 11:37
I think that today's strip is starting to show that Dora is having second thoughts about her reaction to Faye.  Fact is, she could (should) have told her to leave and get help before she thinks about coming back.  She could have been supportive.  Faye has been doping really well lately, but Angus leaving has really thrown he for a loop that Dora did not foresee.  Dora has been wrapped up in her own world with Tai and COD and has neglected her best friend.
I think Tai is going to unload on Dora when she hears of what happened.  Tai loves that they are all friends and will hate the fact that Dora and Faye are on the outs.  I see her as being a game changer here.  The Marten and Claire story will intertwine into this drama but be mostly on the outskirts for a bit while the Faye/Dora story is dealt with.  I don't see any major character change or leaving here - they are all key to the QC family.  But that's just IMHO.    :claireface:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 16 Feb 2015, 11:51
Faye has been doping really well lately, but Angus leaving has really thrown he for a loop that Dora did not foresee.  Dora has been wrapped up in her own world with Tai and COD and has neglected her best friend.

Dora is not Fayes keeper, Dora is not Faye's keeper, Dora is NOT Faye's keeper!

Saying that Dora is not a supportive friend to Faye, but not coming down JUST AS HARD on Marten for the exact same thing is such fucking bullshit.

I don't care who you are, your friends are NOT responsible when you screw up.

Maybe Dora should have closed COD to better support Faye while she was going through a hard time. Dora could even sell CoD to help pay for Faye to go to rehab! Maybe Dora should have followed Faye around drinking all of the drinks before Faye could get to them!

I'm running a bit hot on this issue, but seriously, it's the fourth straight week of people going "Faye's drunk! Why isn't Dora doing anything about that?!"
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: themacnut on 16 Feb 2015, 12:03
Many readers have a hard time understanding that it's very difficult to stop a friend/loved one from self-destructing, especially when said friend/loved one is being secretive about their self-destructive actions, and is as stubborn as, say, Faye (in other words, stubborn as the proverbial mule).

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 16 Feb 2015, 12:25
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Maybe Dora should have closed COD to better support Faye while she was going through a hard time. Dora could even sell CoD to help pay for Faye to go to rehab! Maybe Dora should have followed Faye around drinking all of the drinks before Faye could get to them!

I'm running a bit hot on this issue, but seriously, it's the fourth straight week of people going "Faye's drunk! Why isn't Dora doing anything about that?!"
I think it's a difference of culture. Firing somebody on the spot (no benefits, nothing) is seen as something normal for Americans, but other cultures have very different sensibilities. I think it's horrible that she can even do such a thing without proper procedure. (same with the insurance)

I think Tai is going to unload on Dora when she hears of what happened.  Tai loves that they are all friends and will hate the fact that Dora and Faye are on the outs.  I see her as being a game changer here.  The Marten and Claire story will intertwine into this drama but be mostly on the outskirts for a bit while the Faye/Dora story is dealt with.  I don't see any major character change or leaving here - they are all key to the QC family.  But that's just IMHO.    :claireface:
I don't know about Tai - she's high on the job, so she might have a different opinion. If she offers it to Dora, or even calls her out is another matter, since the last thing she wants is an argument.

(I hope some characters get written out - this comic has a lot and I could do with more connected and longer story-arcs and a little faster story progression)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 16 Feb 2015, 12:43
The moment I'm waiting for is when the two of them finally talk to each other.  That's gonna be one interesting conversation.


Next week on QC ..........
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 16 Feb 2015, 12:51
[edited]
Maybe Dora should have closed COD to better support Faye while she was going through a hard time. Dora could even sell CoD to help pay for Faye to go to rehab! Maybe Dora should have followed Faye around drinking all of the drinks before Faye could get to them!
I think it's a difference of culture. Firing somebody on the spot (no benefits, nothing) is seen as something normal for Americans, but other cultures have very different sensibilities. I think it's horrible that she can even do such a thing without proper procedure. (same with the insurance)
The thing is, it doesn't matter if it was in America or Europe or South Africa, Faye was fired for being in breach of contract. She was drinking on the job. That's universally something that everyone can be fired for. I've worked in bars and even if someone buys you a drink, you have to leave it until the end of shift or when the bar closes.

The simple thing here, when you begin a job, you sign a contract. That contract is a promise from both employee and employer about what is acceptable and unacceptable in the workplace. Faye broke the terms of that contract by drinking on the job. In the end, it was Faye and Faye alone that got her fired. Dora was in every right to fire her.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 16 Feb 2015, 12:58
Also, people aren't arguing that Dora is being a bad boss, they are arguing that Dora is being a bad friend. My comments about how Dora could have been a more supportive friend still fit, even when you take the "boss Dora" aspect out of the equation.

Even if someone is your best friend, even if you've known them for years, that does not obligate you to sacrifice your own well being and livelyhood in order to correct their mistakes.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Schmorgluck on 16 Feb 2015, 13:09
What worries me with Penelope being told all this is that it risks to come back to Sven, through Wil. You folks remember why Dora decided to cut bridges with Sven?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 16 Feb 2015, 13:44
I think I'd like to see Faye go to Dora and apologize for the breach of trust. Don't know when or if it'll happen, but it feels like the right move to me. (Note: And not as a prelude to begging for the job again, I think Faye knows that ship has sailed.)

EDIT: Schmorgluck: Aw hell.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: drmike on 16 Feb 2015, 14:24
Just to mention my eyes change color with my mood.  That's could be what's happening here.

Story idea follows....

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Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Truec on 16 Feb 2015, 14:42
Saying that Dora is not a supportive friend to Faye, but not coming down JUST AS HARD on Marten for the exact same thing is such fucking bullshit.

There's a critical difference between Marten and Dora.  Marten didn't know that Faye had a serious problem.  Whereas Faye told Dora to her face that she wanted to be drunk all the time, including while at work.  Dora's response was to tell her not to drink at work, and then drop the subject.

I feel like I keep running back to this, but I see it as an important moment, Dora seriously dropped the friendship ball there.  And being shocked somehow when Faye came in drunk the next day and started drinking on the job, after having specifically told her she was going to do exactly those things, makes Dora seem stupider than we know her to be.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 16 Feb 2015, 14:55
What worries me with Penelope being told all this is that it risks to come back to Sven, through Wil. You folks remember why Dora decided to cut bridges with Sven?

Sven has some maturing to do, but I don't think he would go that low as to go after Faye right now. I could see him trying to be kind and supportive.. and that being seen and misconstrued. But going after a girl who clearly turned  you down after breaking up and getting fired is really low.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 16 Feb 2015, 14:58
Saying that Dora is not a supportive friend to Faye, but not coming down JUST AS HARD on Marten for the exact same thing is such fucking bullshit.

There's a critical difference between Marten and Dora.  Marten didn't know that Faye had a serious problem.  Whereas Faye told Dora to her face that she wanted to be drunk all the time, including while at work.  Dora's response was to tell her not to drink at work, and then drop the subject.

I feel like I keep running back to this, but I see it as an important moment, Dora seriously dropped the friendship ball there.  And being shocked somehow when Faye came in drunk the next day and started drinking on the job, after having specifically told her she was going to do exactly those things, makes Dora seem stupider than we know her to be.

Exactly how did Dora "drop the friendship ball"? Faye had just broken up with her boyfriend in a somewhat terrible way less then a week before. Faye was going through a pretty shitty time. Don't know about you, but the last time I went through a breakup that bad, I downed an entire bottle of whiskey in one night. People want to avoid the pain and from Dora's perspective Faye was doing what everyone does. Hell, Faye is about as welcoming as a rattlesnake with a thorn in it's side at the best of times, and she's shown several times that she does not appreciate people trying to pry into her life.

I'm going to say this large and bold lettering, so everyone can be clear: DORA IS NOT FAYE'S KEEPER. DORA DOES NOT POSSESS ANY FORM OF OMNISCIENCE. FAYE IS NOT AN INFANT TO BE CODDLED. EVERY ACTION WAS HER CHOICE AND HER RESPONSIBILITY. IT IS NOT ON MARTEN OR DORA OR ANYONE ELSE TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR FAYE. FAYE IS A GROWN ASS WOMAN AND CAPABLE OF MAKING HER OWN DECISIONS AND IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HERSELF AND HERSELF ALONE!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CasAttack on 16 Feb 2015, 15:06
I feel really bad for Dora. She doesn't NEED to justify her actions to anyone including herself, but she will anyway because Faye is a friend.

We've seen Faye's knee-jerk reaction to thinking about Dora and CoD. I think Dora's going to be in for a rough time; she's gonna be hypersensitive to people's reactions about Faye, while all the while feeling like she might've done the wrong thing, and to top it off we still haven't seen Tai's reactions to this. I got a feeling this is gonna lead to our first Tai/Dora fisticuffs.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: wlewisiii on 16 Feb 2015, 15:07

Dude. You're getting really close to the "protests too much" level. Are you sure you want to go there?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 16 Feb 2015, 15:12
There's a critical difference between Marten and Dora.  Marten didn't know that Faye had a serious problem.  Whereas Faye told Dora to her face that she wanted to be drunk all the time, including while at work.  Dora's response was to tell her not to drink at work, and then drop the subject.

Marten was just as familiar with Faye's history of alcoholic behaviour as Dora was, if not more so, as he lives with Faye. Marten also came home and found Faye drunk early in the day. A day or so before that he found her terribly hung over. Why didn't he connect the dots and so something about it? Clearly Faye was crying to Marten for help just as much as to Dora. If she didn't want Marten to see her drunk she could have gone out or stayed in her room. You could argue that she wanted him to find her drunk and do something.

And saying "Marten is so wrapped up with Claire, he's distracted and didn't pick up the signals Faye was sending!" but not saying "Dora is so wrapped up with work, she's distracted and didn't pick up the signals Faye was sending" is such fucking bullshit.

I'm not saying Marten should feel responsibility for Faye's situation, or that he helped contribute to it. I am saying that Dora is just as blameless as Marten is.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 16 Feb 2015, 15:25
There's a critical difference between Marten and Dora.  Marten didn't know that Faye had a serious problem.  Whereas Faye told Dora to her face that she wanted to be drunk all the time, including while at work.  Dora's response was to tell her not to drink at work, and then drop the subject.

Marten was just as familiar with Faye's history of alcoholic behaviour as Dora was, if not more so, as he lives with Faye. Marten also came home and found Faye drunk early in the day. A day or so before that he found her terribly hung over. Why didn't he connect the dots and so something about it? Clearly Faye was crying to Marten for help just as much as to Dora. If she didn't want Marten to see her drunk she could have gone out or stayed in her room. You could argue that she wanted him to find her drunk and do something.

And saying "Marten is so wrapped up with Claire, he's distracted and didn't pick up the signals Faye was sending!" but not saying "Dora is so wrapped up with work, she's distracted and didn't pick up the signals Faye was sending" is such fucking bullshit.

I'm not saying Marten should feel responsibility for Faye's situation, or that he helped contribute to it. I am saying that Dora is just as blameless as Marten is.

And again, people keep ignoring Faye's penchant for sarcasm and dry humor, and especially so when she's hiding how she really feels. If people didn't catch on that she was serious, it's not surprising. She's damned good at covering up her emotional state, which is just about always with sarcasm. How people keep forgetting about this is beyond me.

And if she's covering it up and not admitting that she's feeling like shit, then again, that comes back to being Faye's fault, not Dora's for not picking up on it.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 16 Feb 2015, 15:40
A little perspective: These are people in their early 20s with a well-established collective lifestyle of drinking immoderately, especially in reaction to disappointments romantic and otherwise. It's true that Faye has been, from very early on, the one with the biggest problems and the biggest appetite for Kentucky corn juice, but to expect her friends to react to her post-Angus binges with interventions and such is simply not realistic. Say what you will about it, but that sort of hyper-responsible-adult course of action is not one that typical 20-somethings take. It's easy in hindsight to say "Why didn't they help her?!" In the moment, people have episodes like this (up to the hospitalization, not including) and people of that demographic roll with it, maybe worry a little, but not take concrete steps.

Yes, I'm generalizing like crazy here. I'm sure there are exceptions. But this is coming from my own experiences as a 20-something service industry employee in Northampton who had an extended social circle not at all unlike that in QC. Marten's and Dora's (non-) reactions strike me as completely realistic, and lamentable only after the fact.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 16 Feb 2015, 16:03
Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

If Claire didn't already know the Faye backstory (they revealed that to her when they were all on the couch before the "paddling," right?)  then this would be the perfect time for her to reveal that her anger at infidelity stems from when her dad left her family...

...because he had another family in secret, with another wife, and even two other daughters!  The last Claire heard, he was still living with that other family in Georgia, or whatever it was.  She hadn't checked up on him in a long time, because she was so angry.  All she knew that he was going by the last name "Whit..." something.  Whitman.  or Whitacre. Whitaker.  That's it.  Whitaker.

And then Claire can say: "Marten, why are you looking at me like that?" and then his head explodes.   :psyduck:

I haven't read all the way through the new replies yet, so excuse me if this has been said... Damn - that's a good way to really fuck with a reader's mind! I LIKE IT!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 16 Feb 2015, 17:02
Dammit, are we back on the Dora-is-a-bitch train?  Well, remember to keeps your knees bent and roll when you hit the ground.  *jumps off the train*



Claire: So, uh, when I said my dad "left us", what I really mean is he shot himself in front of me...
Marten: Oh no, not this again!

If Claire didn't already know the Faye backstory (they revealed that to her when they were all on the couch before the "paddling," right?)  then this would be the perfect time for her to reveal that her anger at infidelity stems from when her dad left her family...

...because he had another family in secret, with another wife, and even two other daughters!  The last Claire heard, he was still living with that other family in Georgia, or whatever it was.  She hadn't checked up on him in a long time, because she was so angry.  All she knew that he was going by the last name "Whit..." something.  Whitman.  or Whitacre. Whitaker.  That's it.  Whitaker.

And then Claire can say: "Marten, why are you looking at me like that?" and then his head explodes.   :psyduck:

(http://www.head-fi.org/content/type/61/id/540850/width/350/height/350)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Reaver on 16 Feb 2015, 17:05
Seriously, what is with this idea that Faye needs to be coddled nonstop? Dora's not her keeper, Marten's not her keeper, they are her friends, not her babysitters, Dora's got a buisness to run, bills to pay, a new relationship, her life can not be  all Faye, all the time, and don't forget Faye is being a pretty shitty friend herself, she LIED to her best friend who is also her boss, because at that moment the booze was more important than Dora's trust. :-(


Warning - while you were typing a new comic has been updated saying that Dora is actually secretly Faye's mother! You may wish to review your post you twit.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ASB84 on 16 Feb 2015, 17:10
Dora's pretty much in a no-win situation, both in-universe and with a significant portion of the audience. It makes sense in-universe, because she's had to take harsh action against an employee who was also a close friend. The firing was justified - as she notes, it's what any other employer would have done - but logic and rationale is in conflict with her emotions and compassion. She was right to do what she did, but that doesn't make it any easier, or make her feel much better about it.

On a meta level, it's understandable too. She's a divisive character with traits that are going to rub the audience the wrong way. She's certainly erred before, though that doesn't mean she's automatically wrong about everything else; at the very least, there's the old adage of a stopped clock being right twice a day. Still, not every reader is going to be able to cut her some slack, because her past actions have inspired dislike (or at least annoyance) with a part of the audience. You could argue that some people take it a bit too far with their reactions, but it's still an understandable point of view.

All the same, I think the goalposts are constantly moved when it comes to Dora: "Faye broke the rules, but should've been given a warning and shown more compassion...OK, she was already warned and Dora's policy has been quite clear, so the firing is probably justified, but Dora needs to show compassion...OK, she showed that she understands Faye's going through a rough time, but she said the wrong thing when she mentioned insubordination (dialogue that I think was taken out of context, incidentally)...alright, it seems she really does care about Faye after she was rushed to hospital, and the stuff about the insurance is a nice gesture, but wait, she's really terrible for asking Hanners to pass on the message and stressing her out...yes, the firing is understandable, but how dare she mention it to other CoD employees?"

And on and on it goes. Dora can't win for trying, because no matter what she does, there's something wrong with the way she does it, or she didn't say exactly the right thing.

I don't think it was inappropriate to pass on a message through Hanners. She was very concerned about Faye, but knew that she wasn't exactly welcome at her bedside. I don't think it's inappropriate that she's talking to Penelope about this. It's a pretty informal place of work, with a group of employees who know each other fairly well. She's not divulging anything that isn't true (Faye was drunk at work, and she was fired for it), nor going into detail about Faye's problems. From a legal standpoint, I don't think there's much of a case against her at all.

That's something else I've noticed: the prospect of legal action being taken against Dora keeps coming up. A flimsy case aside, it seems like there are people who really want to see her suffer or be punished for firing Faye. Again, kind of understandable given she's a divisive character, but extreme, and a tad silly. She shouldn't be punished for doing, as she acknowledges, what any other employer would do. Furthermore, she is already suffering, because she feels terrible about having to fire a friend.

It is fair to wonder whether she could've been more supportive of Faye, as one of her closest friends. However, it seems they don't socialise as much as they used to, and with Faye's sarcasm and abrasiveness, as well as her secrecy and unwillingness to face unpleasant realities (she avoided the issue of Angus possibly having to move away as much as possible), it's asking a lot for Dora, or Marten, or anyone else to know the extent of her problems. As TheEvilDog pointed out, no one else is ultimately responsible for Faye, either; she may have "hella issues", but she's an adult, and she has to take responsibility for herself and her actions. Having compassion for Faye and holding her accountable for her actions are not mutually exclusive, and her problems are not a Get Out Of Jail Free Card, absolving her of any responsibility or wrongdoing.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 16 Feb 2015, 17:18
Seriously, what is with this idea that Faye needs to be coddled nonstop? Dora's not her keeper, Marten's not her keeper, they are her friends, not her babysitters, Dora's got a buisness to run, bills to pay, a new relationship, her life can not be  all Faye, all the time, and don't forget Faye is being a pretty shitty friend herself, she LIED to her best friend who is also her boss, because at that moment the booze was more important than Dora's trust. :-(

YEAH! Pick on Faye too! Be equal about it.

... I'm not one to judge either of them, really. It's easy to find fault with one character or another, but in the end all that matters is what was lost; trust and friendship. Which is why I'm looking forward to the two characters both growing. In reality, that's the best you can expect in a situation like this... it's either that or become bitter. Too many people choose to become bitter.

Warning - while you were typing a new reply has been posted. You may wish to reflect upon a print of the Vinegar Tasters.

(http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/archive/0/09/20110526075555!Vinegar_tasters.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 16 Feb 2015, 17:20
[edited]
Maybe Dora should have closed COD to better support Faye while she was going through a hard time. Dora could even sell CoD to help pay for Faye to go to rehab! Maybe Dora should have followed Faye around drinking all of the drinks before Faye could get to them!
I think it's a difference of culture. Firing somebody on the spot (no benefits, nothing) is seen as something normal for Americans, but other cultures have very different sensibilities. I think it's horrible that she can even do such a thing without proper procedure. (same with the insurance)
The thing is, it doesn't matter if it was in America or Europe or South Africa, Faye was fired for being in breach of contract. She was drinking on the job. That's universally something that everyone can be fired for. I've worked in bars and even if someone buys you a drink, you have to leave it until the end of shift or when the bar closes.

The simple thing here, when you begin a job, you sign a contract. That contract is a promise from both employee and employer about what is acceptable and unacceptable in the workplace. Faye broke the terms of that contract by drinking on the job. In the end, it was Faye and Faye alone that got her fired. Dora was in every right to fire her.
I didn't say she shouldn't have been fired. I just say the way she has been fired seems barbaric to me. Usually, even when there's a breach of contract and the employee has to be let go, the process is way longer and less sudden, which helps if you're prone to rash decisions, as Dora is. Again, repeating, not saying that Faye shouldn't have been fired, but to be just thrown out of a business you worked for for years feels like an unnecessary cruelty to me.

ASB84: I don't think it's that. There's just things you don't have to point out (Faye's a bitch, sometimes.. a lot of times.. She's got an alcohol problem.. she really didn't handle her break-up too well and so on), so it's more interesting to talk about the finer points of the issue. For example: As Marten saw Faye lying there in her own vomit, the first thing he did was call his girlfriend  that he might not make it to tonight's movie-date. Of course Faye's drinking-until-she-passed-out is the worse offence here, but that goes without saying. It's more interesting to talk about Marten's lack of responsible reaction.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 16 Feb 2015, 17:24
That's something else I've noticed: the prospect of legal action being taken against Dora keeps coming up. A flimsy case aside, it seems like there are people who really want to see her suffer or be punished for firing Faye. Again, kind of understandable given she's a divisive character, but extreme, and a tad silly. She shouldn't be punished for doing, as she acknowledges, what any other employer would do. Furthermore, she is already suffering, because she feels terrible about having to fire a friend.

Legal action was something I brought up... but not because I think she should be punished for firing Faye. I was trying to explain why companies don't disclose reasons for termination to other employees. For the most part, I feel sympathetic to both characters.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 16 Feb 2015, 17:53
For example: As Marten saw Faye lying there in her own vomit, the first thing he did was call his girlfriend  that he might not make it to tonight's movie-date. Of course Faye's drinking-until-she-passed-out is the worse offence here, but that goes without saying. It's more interesting to talk about Marten's lack of responsible reaction.
We're back to this again? At first glance, he probably thought she puked and simply fell asleep. He was close enough to see that she was breathing, and shot off a quick call to let Claire know what was up. Upon further investigation (that he was unable to rouse her), -that- was the point to be alarmed. Considering the group's drinking habits as a whole, it was a perfectly acceptable response. How many times has someone in the group puked from alcohol consumption, then slept it off?

Now, if he'd sat there and had a 20-minute conversation with Claire, then there'd be an issue. But I'm pretty sure it's the former, and not the latter.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 16 Feb 2015, 17:57
Sorry for the double post, but I'd argue that Marten was an -excellent- friend for immediately calling off his date, rather than simply planning on cleaning Faye up, putting her to bed, then going off on his way. The quick call illustrated that he was putting his friend's well-being first and opting to keep an eye on her, rather than leaving her alone.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 16 Feb 2015, 18:25
I just say the way she has been fired seems barbaric to me.
It's the US. Regarding labor, that's just how we are. Hail Reagan!  :evil:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 16 Feb 2015, 18:26
I just say the way she has been fired seems barbaric to me.
It's the US. Regarding labor, that's just how we are. Hail Reagan!  :evil:

Also, from a storytelling perspective, immediate termination works better than "we're probably going to fire you, but stick around and work for a couple of days while I file paperwork about it"
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 16 Feb 2015, 18:26
Well looks like Yelling Bird is in his element.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 16 Feb 2015, 18:30
The Yetis must be on Viagra to cover all that acreage...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 16 Feb 2015, 18:30
Sorry for the double post, but I'd argue that Marten was an -excellent- friend for immediately calling off his date, rather than simply planning on cleaning Faye up, putting her to bed, then going off on his way. The quick call illustrated that he was putting his friend's well-being first and opting to keep an eye on her, rather than leaving her alone.

I was just making an argument :) No need to re-discuss this
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 16 Feb 2015, 18:30
It would explain how Boston's been dicked over for the past month.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 16 Feb 2015, 18:43
Is this when we all start chuckling like bevis and butthead saying "Yeti Jizz" over and over again? Just wanted to make sure I hadn't missed my queue.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 16 Feb 2015, 18:55
Is this when we all start chuckling like bevis and butthead saying "Yeti Jizz" over and over again? Just wanted to make sure I hadn't missed my queue.
Nope, the line is right where you left it  :-D
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 16 Feb 2015, 18:57
Sexual jokes make explicit giggle.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 16 Feb 2015, 18:59
Sexual jokes make explicit giggle.

Heh, heh, heh - yeti jizz... heh, heh, heh!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 16 Feb 2015, 19:03
"If your yeti ejaculations last longer than four months, consult your climatologist."
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 16 Feb 2015, 19:09
What's he gonna do about it, finish him off again? That clearly hasn't worked.

EDIT - I just thought of something, he's a bird, why's he hanging out in jizz when he can just fly? That's what does it, this comic now doesn't make any sense.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 16 Feb 2015, 19:46

The thing is, it doesn't matter if it was in America or Europe or South Africa, Faye was fired for being in breach of contract. She was drinking on the job. That's universally something that everyone can be fired for. I've worked in bars and even if someone buys you a drink, you have to leave it until the end of shift or when the bar closes.

Funny, it's just about the opposite at pretty much every bar that I have ever frequented.  Not only the bartenders, but frequently the kitchen and wait staff take shots when it's slow.  Granted, that's a potential liability, but it is still common practice.  Even the one time when I was working in a coffee shop and morning shift complained about what I did (or did not) do the night before, when I came in to get something to kill the hangover, I just told them to talk to the boss because he got pissed with me.  I think with Dora and Faye, it's the betrayal of trust rather than simply the boozing at work, since CoD seems to have a fair amount on hand.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CasAttack on 16 Feb 2015, 20:23
I'm amazed at how many people are condemning Dora. Really, it is very simple: you don't drink at work.

Someone made a point about them being young and immature, which I disagree as Dora has been running her own business which is not something just anyone without adult scruples can pull off.

Someone mentioned drinking on the job as a norm in some places, but even ignoring the obvious fact that they're in a coffee shop and not a bar, the fact that many professional bars frown on bartenders and the like drinking with clientele, Faye was DRUNK and ignored the previous response of "no" when she asked point blank if she could have a drink at work.

Faye just was handed responsibility and massive amounts of trust in terms of a promotion the likes of which Dora has never made before. It's probably hitting Dora doubly hard because she might be feeling now that even promoting ANYONE was a bad idea, let alone an employee she trusted who had experience.

Faye was in the wrong. There's just no way around that. Even the youngest and dumbest of employees I've seen in past jobs knew not to drink at work or show up drunk. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 16 Feb 2015, 20:27
I think with Dora and Faye, it's the betrayal of trust rather than simply the boozing at work, since CoD seems to have a fair amount on hand.

See, even then the booze at CoD could have been big trouble for Dora, as there shouldn't be any on the premises without a liquor license and from the looks of it, Dora doesn't have it. Now, one might say it was a prop for a few jokes, but there was no way Dora was going to risk her livelihood by actually letting Faye drink.

This hasn't been the first time Faye was drinking on the job - Raven caught her drinking (this might have been right before Faye started therapy). I imagine if Raven had told Dora back then, she would have given Faye a severe dressing down (she probably wouldn't be able to fire her on the second hand account of another employee). But how many times would Faye have to be caught with a bottle to her lips before she had gotten fired? Yes, it was a betrayal of trust for Faye and Dora, but it was also Faye possibly screwing with Dora's livelihood.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 16 Feb 2015, 20:32
We talked about this before, but simply put, the legal issues with a business having a drunk employee are staggering. If Faye hurt anyone (purposefully or accidentally) while working that day CoD could have been sued out of existence for negligence.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 16 Feb 2015, 20:36
This is a nitpick, but I thought a liquor license was required to SELL liquor? technically, people can bring their own liquor as long as no one is selling it or dispensing it to minors. The store could also have a policy against it.

I know of a few restaurants that are BYOB, I thought that was so that they could get away with having liquor on premise without having a license?

Not that that changes anything about Fayes situation.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 16 Feb 2015, 20:38
Abominable
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 16 Feb 2015, 20:43
This is a nitpick, but I thought a liquor license was required to SELL liquor? technically, people can bring their own liquor as long as no one is selling it or dispensing it to minors. The store could also have a policy against it.

I know of a few restaurants that are BYOB, I thought that was so that they could get away with having liquor on premise without having a license?

Not that that changes anything about Fayes situation.

Yes, a liquor license is only needed to sell (or give away, I guess) alcohol. You do not need one to allow people to have alcohol in your store, as with you example of BYOB places. Where I've lived the town only allows a certain amount of liquor licenses at one time (they sell them for a shit-ton of money when one becomes available seeing as it was a vacation town). Many restaurants that couldn't serve alcohol just encouraged patrons to bring their own.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 16 Feb 2015, 20:49
It would explain how Boston's been dicked over for the past month.

Yeah, I was reading in the news that in Boston on Sunday there was two bigfeet of snow.  :claireface:

...

...I'll get my coat
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 16 Feb 2015, 20:51
It's a different situation down here.

In Australia and New Zealand, the term "BYO" (Bring Your Own) emerged to describe business establishments that offered corkage. It is believed that restaurants in Melbourne, in the state of Victoria, were advertising as "BYO" establishments by the 1960s with the concept becoming popular in New Zealand in the late 1970s. Legally, using New Zealand as an example, if your premise only holds an on-licence-endorsed (BYOB license), you as an owner and duty manager with a General Manager's Certificate are forbidden to have a wine list and sell alcohol on the premise. You must have both On-License & On-License-Endorsed to have a wine list and allow BYOB, thus calling your restaurant 'fully licensed'


Quoted from Wikipedia for speed.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 16 Feb 2015, 21:00
A little perspective: These are people in their early 20s with a well-established collective lifestyle of drinking immoderately, especially in reaction to disappointments romantic and otherwise. It's true that Faye has been, from very early on, the one with the biggest problems and the biggest appetite for Kentucky corn juice, but to expect her friends to react to her post-Angus binges with interventions and such is simply not realistic. Say what you will about it, but that sort of hyper-responsible-adult course of action is not one that typical 20-somethings take. It's easy in hindsight to say "Why didn't they help her?!" In the moment, people have episodes like this (up to the hospitalization, not including) and people of that demographic roll with it, maybe worry a little, but not take concrete steps.

Yes, I'm generalizing like crazy here. I'm sure there are exceptions. But this is coming from my own experiences as a 20-something service industry employee in Northampton who had an extended social circle not at all unlike that in QC. Marten's and Dora's (non-) reactions strike me as completely realistic, and lamentable only after the fact.

There isn't enough this to say how much this. It's just so this, right here.

There's a certain logic that goes, "I did do that at that age, and my friends didn't, so it must not be true."  I, myself, didn't get into that sort of thing at that age. My friends did. From about the age of 32, I have been amazed that any of them are still alive. Had there been an actual emergency, I wouldn't have known what to do, or seen the signs, until it was too late.

Knowing those people as I do, I doubt they'd have been open to help, anyway.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 16 Feb 2015, 21:05
It would explain how Boston's been dicked over for the past month.

Yeah, I was reading in the news that in Boston on Sunday there was two bigfeet of snow.  :claireface:

...

...I'll get my coat

NO NO, stay inside! (unless you're into Sasquatch bukakke, in that case go have fun. :mrgreen:)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 16 Feb 2015, 21:13
It would explain how Boston's been dicked over for the past month.

Yeah, I was reading in the news that in Boston on Sunday there was two bigfeet of snow.  :claireface:

...

...I'll get my coat

NO NO, stay inside! (unless you're into Sasquatch bukakke, in that case go have fun. :mrgreen:)

...yeah, I guess I wouldn't be euphoric about being covered in a yeti's euphoria fluid*.

*Thank you Marten/Jeph for that gross term
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Oenone on 16 Feb 2015, 21:23
What's he gonna do about it, finish him off again? That clearly hasn't worked.

EDIT - I just thought of something, he's a bird, why's he hanging out in jizz when he can just fly? That's what does it, this comic now doesn't make any sense.

Can YOU fly with jizz on your wings?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 16 Feb 2015, 21:35

Can YOU fly with jizz on your wings?

You used to be able to before the TSA made those silly rules about liquids.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 16 Feb 2015, 22:26
Goddamn government overreach.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 16 Feb 2015, 23:15
Someone get that Yelling Bird a shovel!

Whilst we're on the subject, I'm wondering how long it will take Jeph to tunnel back into his house after being away for so long? I wish that I was joking, but I'm not!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dark Matter on 16 Feb 2015, 23:41
It's the US. Regarding labor, that's just how we are. Hail Reagan!  :evil:

Ia! Ia! Reagan Fthagn!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 16 Feb 2015, 23:45
, I'm wondering how long it will take Jeph to tunnel back into his house after being away for so long? I wish that I was joking, but I'm not!

About 2 hours if he can borrow this:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheCaffeinatedPanda on 17 Feb 2015, 00:36
I bet Sweet Tits is under there somewhere...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Lubricus on 17 Feb 2015, 00:59
Hmm... Maybe Sweet Tits can start working at Coffee of Doom? There seems to be an opening...  :psyduck:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesariojpn on 17 Feb 2015, 01:46
, I'm wondering how long it will take Jeph to tunnel back into his house after being away for so long? I wish that I was joking, but I'm not!

About 2 hours if he can borrow this:

Bitch. please. 30 frigging minutes with this baby.

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 17 Feb 2015, 03:54
This is a nitpick, but I thought a liquor license was required to SELL liquor? technically, people can bring their own liquor as long as no one is selling it or dispensing it to minors. The store could also have a policy against it.

I know of a few restaurants that are BYOB, I thought that was so that they could get away with having liquor on premise without having a license?

Not that that changes anything about Fayes situation.

BYOB restaurants require a liquor license too, just a different kind. It's cheaper than a full-service one, and in the right kind of restaurant, it can be a very popular attraction for customers. I used to live in a college town in NH that had a Thai and Indian place on the same block, both BYOB. Dinner for two would be maybe $30, plus you could each have three beers for another $10, tops. Genius.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 17 Feb 2015, 04:13
"If your yeti ejaculations last longer than four months, consult your climatologist."

Pshh...if they last that long? I'm consulting everybody.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Zebediah on 17 Feb 2015, 04:23
Goddamned yetis. I won't see the grass in my yard again until April. Oh, by the way, it's going to snow here again today. And some more on Saturday night.

Goddamned yetis.

Fuckers.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 17 Feb 2015, 06:34
I bet Sweet Tits is under there somewhere...

YB is standing on her head.


*edited because I derped and quoted the wrong person. Should make more sense now....
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: questionablydiscontent on 17 Feb 2015, 08:50
 :mrgreen: SNOW DAY  :mrgreen: :-D
IT IS FINALLY SNOWING IN NORTH CAROLINA. HOLY SHIT, GUYS  :psyduck:
It's about time, too! I was hoping that blizzard was going to hit us... But better late than never, I guess!
Yeah, so... we get pretty excited about snow down here. I keep my cool and calm composure, of course. :wink:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Zebediah on 17 Feb 2015, 10:48
As a native North Carolinian now living in Massachusetts, I am laughing, laughing, laughing.  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Not laughing at you, of course. Just kind of laughing in your general direction.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 10:53
As a native North Carolinian now living in Massachusetts, I am laughing, laughing, laughing.  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Not laughing at you, of course. Just kind of laughing in your general direction.

I, on the other hand, am quietly glaring towards the south.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: MooskiNet on 17 Feb 2015, 12:22
As a native North Carolinian now living in Massachusetts, I am laughing, laughing, laughing.  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Not laughing at you, of course. Just kind of laughing in your general direction.

I, on the other hand, am quietly glaring towards the south.

It's hard to tell if that's you or the warm, warm sunshine.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ysth on 17 Feb 2015, 17:21
Well looks like Yelling Bird is in his element.
Naw, too much wang for the win.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 17 Feb 2015, 19:10
Happy and communicating Claire and Marten are cute Claire and Marten. :)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 17 Feb 2015, 19:13
There we go.  This is much better than, say, a week of flashback strips of Marten processing his thoughts over diner pancakes.  Good talk, Marten.

Also, Claire's still wearing his shirt <3
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: grez on 17 Feb 2015, 19:18
A lot of the conversation on these threads has been around the question of whether or not some of our society's less trans-friendly elements should be incorporated into the comic for the sake of realism. I just wanted to say that I really love the positive portrayal in these comics of Claire and Marten's relationship, and that setting a standard is just as important as recognizing reality.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 17 Feb 2015, 19:18
Well said Mister Reed, well said.

And Claire has taste.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SomeCanadianWeirdo on 17 Feb 2015, 19:19
I wouldn't be surprised if we see Clinton in one of this week's strips.  It's going to be really interesting to see how he reacts.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 19:20
It's too cute, throwin up rainbows now.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 17 Feb 2015, 19:21
And whether Claires mom has to go 'Frypan' on him.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 17 Feb 2015, 19:22
I wouldn't be surprised if we see Clinton in one of this week's strips.  It's going to be really interesting to see how he reacts.

CLINTON: "Where the hell were you last night?"
CLAIRE: *GLOWS*
CLINTON: *Facemelts*

Also, it's too bad Jeph decided to keep yesterday's Yelling Bird strip up and numbered instead of just temporary filler.  That would've made this comic #2898 and saved #2900 (with whatever potential drama that entails) for Friday.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DSL on 17 Feb 2015, 19:25
And whether Claires mom has to go 'Frypan' on him.
It's been too long since we've had some good pan violence (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=697) in QC.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 17 Feb 2015, 19:26
Yeah, but since that world wide shortage of monks began, it's been more difficult to find some good targets.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Zalder on 17 Feb 2015, 19:28
Really like that they're talking, and that Marten sounds sincere at what he's saying.  It's good we have this happy story arc going on to counteract all the suck that has also been going on.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: wlewisiii on 17 Feb 2015, 19:41
I wouldn't be surprised if we see Clinton in one of this week's strips.  It's going to be really interesting to see how he reacts.

CLINTON: "Where the hell were you last night?"
CLAIRE: *GLOWS*
CLINTON: *Facemelts*

I wonder if he's aware of what she was dressed in when she went over there. If so, seeing her in his t-shirt would be enough for  *facemelt*

Of course, it could also be a test of if Mommy Augustus still thinks that "he seems like a nice boy..."  :-o
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 19:42
Maybe they all just wanted Claire to get laid, you dunno
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 17 Feb 2015, 19:47
Of course, it could also be a test of if Mommy Augustus still thinks that "he seems like a nice boy..."  :-o

CLAIREMOM: "You seem like a nice boy, Marten.  And Claire is 24 and knows what she's doing.  But if you hurt my daughter..."
She reaches into a drawer and pulls out an intimidating whip.  Marten's face goes pale.
CLAIREMOM: "I see I've made my point."
MARTEN: "That--that's from my mom's line..."
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 17 Feb 2015, 19:52
Maybe they all just wanted Claire to get laid, you dunno
Nah, If anyone that family NEEDS to get laid it's Clinton. You don't want a guy with a mechanical hand to go nuts because of sexual frustration, that's how super villains are created.


Also, today's strip: dawwwwwcutecouplewwwww
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 17 Feb 2015, 19:56
Squeee.

My squee needs are fulfilled now. What's next?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 20:04
Maybe they all just wanted Claire to get laid, you dunno
Nah, If anyone that family NEEDS to get laid it's Clinton. You don't want a guy with a mechanical hand to go nuts because of sexual frustration, that's how super villains are created.


Also, today's strip: dawwwwwcutecouplewwwww

Hey, just because he got that hand thing going on doesn't make him a supervillain. Stereotypes hurt everybody Stephen.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 17 Feb 2015, 20:14
Damn... why is he so smooth with Claire and so tongue tied with everyone else? Maybe it's because everyone else he's been with has always been more experienced. His mother is a dominatrix, after all... Maybe that has a psychological effect on his perception of women and sex in general. Being able to take the lead with someone who isn't sexually experienced or even experienced in relationships is probably a relief for him; he feels he doesn't have to live up to expectations, so he does whats natural (which would have exceeded expectations if he was comfortable enough in the first place).

Or... maybe I'm over analyzing. Damn it! I'm reading this forum too often... :clairedoge:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 20:15
Claire makes it really easy.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 17 Feb 2015, 20:24
Maybe they all just wanted Claire to get laid, you dunno
Nah, If anyone that family NEEDS to get laid it's Clinton. You don't want a guy with a mechanical hand to go nuts because of sexual frustration, that's how super villains are created.

Also, today's strip: dawwwwwcutecouplewwwww
Hey, just because he got that hand thing going on doesn't make him a supervillain. Stereotypes hurt everybody Stephen.

On another note, can you imagine Clinton and Emily sex? So weird it'll make Veronica squig out.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 17 Feb 2015, 20:25
Especially if his hand was set to "autonomous" mode.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 20:26
Especially if his hand was set to "autonomous" mode.

See, I feel like girls would like that.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 17 Feb 2015, 20:27
Damn... why is he so smooth with Claire and so tongue tied with everyone else?

That did bother me a little bit.  I mean, it wouldn't have hurt (here and in previous strips) if Marten had been a bit more awkward and fumbled his words a bit, while still saying the right thing in the end.  Just to give the audience the idea that yeah, this is new to him and he's okay with it, but, like he said in today's comic, he's still worried about messing up.  Not that I have a problem with him being smooth and assertive and able to say all the right things, but slightly-awkward Marten would seem a bit more natural.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 17 Feb 2015, 20:29
Especially if his hand was set to "autonomous" mode.

"Why is she shaking like that? You aren't even touching her! And why is fettuccine alfredo on the ceiling?"

Warning - while you were typing a new kink was invented. You may wish to rinse your pasta after boiling.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 17 Feb 2015, 20:33
On another note, can you imagine Clinton and Emily sex? So weird it'll make Veronica squig out.

In this age of free, unlimited internet porn, that is something I'd pay to see, for the shear psychedelic trippyness.

Sadly they're both fictional, so I'll have to settle for a Bjork sex tape, that'll be pretty damn close.

Warning - while you were typing 3 new replies have been posted. You may wish to see a therapist about your browser history.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 17 Feb 2015, 20:38
Still not as weird as Japan.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 17 Feb 2015, 20:42
I wouldn't be surprised if we see Clinton in one of this week's strips.  It's going to be really interesting to see how he reacts.

CLINTON: "Where the hell were you last night?"
CLAIRE: *GLOWS*
CLINTON: *Facemelts*

Also, it's too bad Jeph decided to keep yesterday's Yelling Bird strip up and numbered instead of just temporary filler.  That would've made this comic #2898 and saved #2900 (with whatever potential drama that entails) for Friday.

There's no need to go Raiders of the Lost Ark on Clinton, now...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DSL on 17 Feb 2015, 20:53
On a tiny screen, I read that as:
"CLINTON: *facepalms*"
... and autonomous mode still would create problems.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Vemocleus on 17 Feb 2015, 20:58
My squee needs shall never be fulfilled.  I require more sustenance!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 17 Feb 2015, 21:22
How can Marten be so smooth now? The Sleeper has awoken. For he is the Squeesach Haderach!

Or maybe he just feels at ease with Claire, more than he ever did with anyone else. With Faye there was tension and intimidation. Dora aggressively pursued him. Before they flirted pretty easily, but once they started dating, it was Dora that was the more aggressive of the pair, and her trust issues didn't help. With Padma it was always hanging over them that she was leaving soon, and he passive-aggressively shot himself in the foot there. Delilah was a forced and awkward one night stand. With Claire, we have someone he got to know pretty well before attraction set in. It built up between them naturally, with no forced awkwardness because of lingering feelings for someone, or guilt. Both were throwing up the 'it is bad to date a co-worker' reason at times, but they've decided to go forward anyway, and keep it professional at work. How that will last remains to be seen.

So this would be Marten's first relationship we've seen that didn't have any baggage attached, and Claire's first relationship period. The only thing going that may trip them up is working together, and 'that trans thing', which Marten has shown repeatedly isn't an issue for him. So yeah. I don't see it that Marten has suddenly become super smooth because he's dating Claire. It's just that he's found someone he can be happy and comfortable with, without the baggage of his other relationships that we've seen.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 17 Feb 2015, 21:39
And before anyone starts complaining that things are too perfect between them (I just had to check out the subreddit, didn't I?  Blech), don't worry, I'm sure Jeph will find a way to add some conflict to their relationship--he's just making it clear that Claire's trans* status won't be the cause of it.  They'll probably clash over their jobs and such.  Claire is pretty set on what she wants as a career, Marten...isn't.  He may be actively happy in his new relationship, but he's still goddamn passive over everything else. 

The only thing going that may trip them up is working together, and 'that trans thing', which Marten has shown repeatedly isn't an issue for him. So yeah.

Oh, right, you already point that out.  Way to read, Gladstone.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 17 Feb 2015, 21:47
I wouldn't be surprised if we see Clinton in one of this week's strips.  It's going to be really interesting to see how he reacts.

CLINTON: "Where the hell were you last night?"
CLAIRE: *GLOWS*
CLINTON: *Facemelts*

Also, it's too bad Jeph decided to keep yesterday's Yelling Bird strip up and numbered instead of just temporary filler.  That would've made this comic #2898 and saved #2900 (with whatever potential drama that entails) for Friday.

There's no need to go Raiders of the Lost Ark on Clinton, now...

(http://cps-static.rovicorp.com/3/JPG_400/MI0003/095/MI0003095920.jpg?partner=allrovi.com)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesariojpn on 17 Feb 2015, 23:19
A lot of the conversation on these threads has been around the question of whether or not some of our society's less trans-friendly elements should be incorporated into the comic for the sake of realism. I just wanted to say that I really love the positive portrayal in these comics of Claire and Marten's relationship, and that setting a standard is just as important as recognizing reality.

I think there is a subtle hint here, just by looking at today's comic. Notice Claire is asking for validation from Marten about the relationship. It almost feels like she's trying to find one negative thing about the relationship from Marten.......and he's not giving it to her. Even the "Your Beautiful" strip had a pang of this; it's like Claire can't get over the fact that a male likes her for who she is cause the general scare for trans-folks is (insert click-baity buzzwords here).

I'm guessing there could be a few more of these queries before she accepts that Marten genuinely likes her.....till they find out that she's serious about her future prospects and Marten is a total slouch. Calling it.   
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ZoeB on 17 Feb 2015, 23:19
I thought my Squee supplies were exhausted.
Nope.
Yes, Marten is handsome. In every way.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 17 Feb 2015, 23:33
I think that the key phrase in Marten's little monologue is "I'm not so much passively cool with things, I'm actively happy with them". This is clearly a completely different relationship for Marten and that is why his behaviour is different. His personal stake and feelings are more intense this time around. This strip strikes me as Jeph trying to answer the criticisms on Marten's characterisation that have been levelled at him of late. However, it also fits well with Claire's anxiety issues, so doesn't feel forced.

So, Claire is daring! Going out in her boyfriend's shirt?

EMILY: " Why are you wearing Marten's shirt?"
CLAIRE: "What...? I... How did you...?"
EMILY: "It intensely smells of him! More than you do! Why do you smell like him? Have you been cuddling more than usual?"

Tai is going to love this!

Right now, I suspect that they're on the way to Casa Augusta for a change of clothes and a maternal interrogation. The next two strips may get awkward and funny in equal parts!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 17 Feb 2015, 23:44
It kind of feels like 'We're not going to talk about it, but we're talking about it' again and it feels like that vagueness is making it hard to read.

I mean, I'm breaking the rules talking about it, but..they're talking about it in comic aren't they? So, I guess I'll spoil it for warning to anyone who doesn't want to read it. And if the post gets deleted I'll understand.
(click to show/hide)

Or is it a problem on my end and I'm reading more into it then there is?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Indicible on 17 Feb 2015, 23:51
Awwww, that's so sweet. Now, where is my insulin.
Contrast with the relationship between Marten and Dora: Marten and Claire may well end up as a disgustingly cute couple.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 17 Feb 2015, 23:53
Or is it a problem on my end and I'm reading more into it than there is?

Yes.  You need to practice not doing that.

As Jeph has told us. (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30194.msg1301837.html#msg1301837)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 17 Feb 2015, 23:55
My guess for where they're going is pancakes (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=607)  :-D

Also squee
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 17 Feb 2015, 23:57
@Rghfrgl,

I think that the point is that Marten is enjoying the whole Claire Augustus package: he likes the personality, the likes, dislikes and quirks. Yes, he also loves the body. However, he's fallen for the person, not the 'equipment'. Whatever the details, they're just not as important to Marten as the person that he's coming to love. That's just part of the character.

(FWIW - I agree with those who say that he is slightly bi; bodies aren't the issue rather he focusses on personalities.)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesariojpn on 18 Feb 2015, 00:02
Or is it a problem on my end and I'm reading more into it then there is?

Try not to look at it from a sexual standpoint, try and look at it from a relationship standpoint. Of course people are gonna wonder if Marten "likes being on the bottom" and other sexual things, but from this strip it appears that Claire is question the whole relationship. This is probably her first serious relationship, and of course she's having reservations about this whole deal. Is Marten really interested in her as a whole package, or is he just a "tranny chaser"  as some people would say.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Genbuthesaint on 18 Feb 2015, 00:02
Wow, i am so glad we got this strip. I'm glad we got a look into Marten's head, i was wondering about his confident streak. I'm glad he said he still has worries and he didn't just become a different person. On another note, DAWWWWWW! I love Claire and Marten so much. They work better as a pair than Dora and Marten. Which, I'm glad to say has helped me get past their break up. Questionable Content is a hell of a drug, don't take too much too fast. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 18 Feb 2015, 00:13
And before anyone starts complaining that things are too perfect between them (I just had to check out the subreddit, didn't I?  Blech), don't worry, I'm sure Jeph will find a way to add some conflict to their relationship--he's just making it clear that Claire's trans* status won't be the cause of it.
"Too perfect" may be a problem here. It is cute, of course, but sooner or later we get tired of that. Perfect couples are not very interesting if you want to tell a story. Therefore, I would guess Jeph has plans for serious Claireten conflicts sometime in the future. In the meantime, Claireten might fade away a little (same as MariDale), and the storyline focusing on other characters (Faye/Hanners/Sam/Dora/Sven?).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 18 Feb 2015, 00:57
I have to say - why are people STILL trying to discuss Claire's body? How often has it been said that it is a). against the forum rules, and b). against the rules of polite and decent behaviour?

My wife is disabled (note that I am NOT comparing being trans to a disability, but both states are....is "non-standard" the right word?). The conversations between Marten and Claire after their first kiss, in the bedroom for the first time naked, the conversation from today's strip...I had the same conversations with my wife, and if I had said the wrong thing she would have run for the hills and I would never have seen her again. It's an incredibly private thing for someone whose body is a little unusual, and the fear of rejection is immense. My friends and family were decent enough not to bring up the topic, realising that it was between us...so why can't we just respect Claire and Marten (and through them, all other real-life trans/cis couples) and allow them their privacy?

And regarding Marten's "personality change"...

I can draw many parallels between Marten now and myself when I was his age. When I was in my mid-twenties I met my future wife (been together since 1998 now) and suddenly everything changed in my life. I was confident with her, I made the first move, I suddenly seemed to know what to say or do - everything seemed to come together. Before I was drifting, with her I found my purpose in life, made some serious life-decisions, started a career, etc. etc.

Thinking about it, everything was there before - I just needed a catalyst to get my ass out of the rut it was in and that was her. I know it sounds really corny, but she inspired me to be a better person and she still does today. I think Marten is going through a similar experience with Claire now, and I wouldn't be surprised if it all impacted on his career plans - although I am sure that Jeph wil surprise us, and as the previous poster said, there is potential for conflict with Claire here.

Marten is growing up (as are some of the other cast members), and QC has come a long way from the gag-a-day format - and I think that it is a much better comic for it. The storytelling is compelling and it's become my favourite web comic now. Go Jeph, keep on doing what you do and keep the awesome coming!

PS: First time poster ;)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hakko504 on 18 Feb 2015, 01:05
<Wall of heartwarming text>

PS: First time poster ;)
Welcome new person! And let me say that for a first post, this was one of the best I've read in a long time. I think you hit the nail head on when it comes to Marten and Claire's relation.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 18 Feb 2015, 01:10
PS: First time poster ;)
Welcome, Khazgar! You are the voice of reason. I hope for many more posts from you.
Probably completely off-topic: I had to buy some stuff from http://www.banggood.com/ (http://www.banggood.com/), just because of their domain name  :mrgreen:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 18 Feb 2015, 01:11
*Excellent* first post. Welcome!

Global Moderator Comment OK, maybe if we explain it a new way. Part of the value of art is the chance to have new experiences. The experience of being around trans* people, if you are decent, includes respecting their physical privacy. The experience of learning by reading about Claire and talking about her should follow the same rule to get us the same benefit.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 01:13
Very good post guy, stick around and don't mind some of the weirder people here. They know who they are.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 18 Feb 2015, 01:24
Thank you *blush*.

I also have to say that I am, generally, very impressed by this forum. I don't agree with everything people post (and in particular the negativity and the search for drama regarding Marten and Claire), but that is my personal opinion and I support everyone's right to theirs, within the realms of decency of course!

People here are mostly very well-behaved, open and inquisitive and this place is a real contrast to seom cesspits I've seen.

The mods also do an excellent job. I've been lurking for a while and reading for longer - and am happy to be playing a more active role now.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesariojpn on 18 Feb 2015, 01:26
...so why can't we just respect Claire and Marten (and through them, all other real-life trans/cis couples) and allow them their privacy?

So what your saying is, Jeph has every right to "discuss" a topic/explore an issue via an open forum like a webcomic, and his fans don't have the same "speaking right" to discuss or explore similar issues? 

Thats.....not right.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 01:32
See, when people say the forums are well behaved it makes me want to act like a total dick. You did this to me.

Okay, let's see what we have to work with... um... okay, hey guys! Sometimes I think your opinions and my own don't match, but that's okay! ... Wait... that doesn't sound right... dammit...

Warning - After writing your stupid... whatever joke, someone else posted something that you want to respond to. Maybe you should have just do that instead adding the above.

Shut up red color words, you're not the boss of me.

Anyways:

...so why can't we just respect Claire and Marten (and through them, all other real-life trans/cis couples) and allow them their privacy?

So what your saying is, Jeph has every right to "discuss" a topic/explore an issue via an open forum like a webcomic, and his fans don't have the same "speaking right" to discuss or explore similar issues? 

Thats.....not right.

You're confusing not talking about their intimacy with not talking about their relationship. We don't talk about their bits because it shouldn't matter and makes many people in this forum uncomfortable.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: MrNumbers on 18 Feb 2015, 01:35
I really, desperately want to emphasize that Marten just said:

"I'm not being passively cool with things, I'm being actively happy with them."

This is about the most explicit, blunt, stated evidence of character growth that sums up this entire character arc.

As in Marten has grown as a character.

Revel!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 18 Feb 2015, 01:36
...so why can't we just respect Claire and Marten (and through them, all other real-life trans/cis couples) and allow them their privacy?

So what your saying is, Jeph has every right to "discuss" a topic/explore an issue via an open forum like a webcomic, and his fans don't have the same "speaking right" to discuss or explore similar issues? 

Thats.....not right.

As far as I can tell, the 'disussion and exploration' basically boils down to:
[edit]
What is really annoying about #3 is that the people who are offended by Marten not being fixed and static in personality are typically the same people who complain about Claire being under-developed as a character! Yeah... You can tell that I'm getting fed up with the whole scratched record, can't you?
[/edit]

I really, desperately want to emphasize that Marten just said:

"I'm not being passively cool with things, I'm being actively happy with them."

This is about the most explicit, blunt, stated evidence of character growth that sums up this entire character arc.

As in Marten has grown as a character.

Revel!

Exactly. Is that so hard to imagine?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 18 Feb 2015, 01:39
It kind of feels like 'We're not going to talk about it, but we're talking about it' again and it feels like that vagueness is making it hard to read.

I mean, I'm breaking the rules talking about it, but..they're talking about it in comic aren't they? So, I guess I'll spoil it for warning to anyone who doesn't want to read it. And if the post gets deleted I'll understand.
(click to show/hide)

Or is it a problem on my end and I'm reading more into it then there is?

I think you're reading too much into it.  I think the conversation is more about how Claire was worried that Marten was in the "cool with trans, would feel weird dating a trans person" camp.  Based on the threads in Discuss, it's a big problem for trans people. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 01:40
Add-on: and regardless of whether or not anyone thinks that we should be able to discuss their intimacy and naughty bits, everyone needs to realize that a lot of people here are offended by that kind of talk. It's just plain old common courtesy to not talk about it.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Thrillho on 18 Feb 2015, 02:20
...so why can't we just respect Claire and Marten (and through them, all other real-life trans/cis couples) and allow them their privacy?

So what your saying is, Jeph has every right to "discuss" a topic/explore an issue via an open forum like a webcomic, and his fans don't have the same "speaking right" to discuss or explore similar issues? 

Thats.....not right.

There is a difference between discussing the storyline developments and Marten's attitude towards them and unnecessary discussion of the finer details/mechanics of the sex they are having or not having/Claire's anatomy. This has been repeatedly explained as to the hurt it can cause to the actual trans* individuals who frequent this forum. This discussion has gone round and round in circles countless times and actual harm is being caused by these crass discussions. And if that doesn't work for you:
Moderator Comment The forum's rules are the forum's rules, and while the mods are always open to constructive criticism (there is a thread for that in Discuss) this is one issue on which we will not be budging. We are here to enforce those rules and maintain this forum as a safe place for all, and warnings and bans have been given out over this exact issue before now.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Genbuthesaint on 18 Feb 2015, 02:27
So anyone else hope Clinton or Marten's mom shows up in in the next few strips? I'm hoping Marten's mom shows up more, though his dads rock as well. Heck yeah! Two dads!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 18 Feb 2015, 02:30
So anyone else hope Clinton or Martens mom shows up in in the next few strips? I'm hoping Martens mom shows up more, though his dads rock as well. Heck yeah! Two dads!

Claire and Marten arrive at the Augustus residence. Claire decides to show Marten her room. When they go upstairs, Mrs A steps out of her room in a negligee and squeaks in embarrassment. Marten, being Marten, is embarrassed but cool with it.

"Spitfire, who is it?" calls a voice that is so familiar that Marten and Claire forget all propriety. They peek in the room to see Jim and Veronica in the maternal Augustine bed.

TRAUMA COEFFICIENT: 250% AND RISING
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ASB84 on 18 Feb 2015, 02:32
As I've said before, I don't think people necessarily want negativity and drama with Marten and Claire - at least not this early - but there are those of us who are definitely hoping to see engaging storylines involving them that go beyond "look how cute they are together". If there is eventually a speed bump in their relationship, maybe it will be because Marten becomes too worried about saying or doing the wrong thing, or hurting Claire, and ends up being over-protective or treating her like she's fragile. That would be interesting, and well set up. That doesn't need to happen soon though (if at all), but again, I'd like to see them in arcs and adventures (as much "adventure" can be had in slice-of-life, that is) that are interesting, entertaining, amusing, and all that; more than just cutesy moments.

There can and should be cutesy moments of course, but if that's all there is, then frankly I'd find that a bit bland, boring, and off-putting after a while. Cut through the treacle and tell a few other stories along the way, is all I'm saying.

As for Clinton, I think it's been established that he's fine with their relationship and isn't going to interfere. While he's had his jerkass moments, I feel that Clinton has kind of gotten a bad rap. It actually reminds me a little of the situation with Dora; it seems like some people really want to see him humiliated and put in his place. I think his concern for Claire ultimately came from a good place, even if he handled it badly. A couple of strips have shown that she does appreciate the underlying sentiment, even if his approach annoys or embarrasses her. But, like Dora, he doesn't seem to be able to win with a portion of the audience that wants to see him "get his" every time he appears.

I guess I started to feel a bit sorry for him during the arc with Emily, where I felt Claire was bullying and being unnecessarily mean to him. His remark about being OK with her dating Marten as long as he was introduced to his "hot friends" was taken way out of context, I feel. His acceptance wasn't actually contingent on that, it was trying to play it cool while asking "So hey, since you've got someone now, I'd like to be set up". I think there's sympathetic backstory and likeable/relatable elements to Clinton's character, but it's tough for us to see that when we've seen his less admirable traits (even if some of them had admirable motivations).

Anyway, that conversation between Marten and Claire was good. It was more touching on a delicate topic without being tasteless or overstepping bounds, and it was a realistic discussion. It was also positive. Good stuff.

I'm also kind of hoping that everyone's reaction to Marten and Claire spending the night together is kind of downplayed. The punchline of people reacting with exuberant joy to Marten and Claire being together has been done to death at this point, so I'd rather not see it re-hashed again. It also comes off a little like it's shilling the relationship, which is unnecessary because we've seen it develop and have been shown the chemistry and dynamic between Marten and Claire. I'd rather see Tai make a sly, even slightly inappropriate remark that makes them blush, rather than throwing confetti and whatnot.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Orkboy on 18 Feb 2015, 02:39
I think part of the negative reactions to Clinton is that we didn't get a lot of character depth until we learned that part of his issues is trying to be a good brother for Claire after/during her transition.  While this did round him out a bit more, it also landed him squarely in a supporting role, and it takes a lot more to get an audience to change their feelings on a supporting character than it would for a main cast member because the audiences' feelings for the supporting character are based so heavily on how they interact with main characters.  We had a few negative and/or awkward interactions between Clinton and both Marten and Hanners, and until he does something to override those initial reactions, he'll always be "that guy that was kind of a jerk to Marten and Hanners."
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 18 Feb 2015, 02:44
Don't forget Momo.  She had to give Clinton a rather large jolt in order for him to behave himself.  Aside from Claire, it seems as though her family doesn't exactly get the whole "boundries" bit.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 18 Feb 2015, 02:52
Aside from Claire, it seems as though her family doesn't exactly get the whole "boundries" bit.

Oh, it's a family-wide affliction alright! Remember Claire's faux pas? "I don't know, are you dumb?" and "I don't take orders from home-wreckers!" Tact and boundaries just aren't an Augustine Family thing. :lol:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 18 Feb 2015, 04:16
Oh, it's a family-wide affliction alright! Remember Claire's faux pas? "I don't know, are you dumb?" and "I don't take orders from home-wreckers!" Tact and boundaries just aren't an Augustine Family thing. :lol:
Yes, Claire has some less desirable traits, that can very well lead to conflicts with Marten's friends (or with Marten) in the future. Clinton may also contribute. In many ways, Claire and Clinton act as immature brats. They are QC's version of Gavia and Ardent.

Possible scenario: After Tai has finished squeeing, she might become tired of Claire and Marten fornicating on the copying machine. Also, it might be against library employment rules for co-workers to have a relationship. Claire will say something stupid, making Tai angry. Marten will try to defend Claire. Both of them will get fired. Shit happens.
(http://thenextweb.com/files/2009/12/pyramid-of-shit-1.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: anahata on 18 Feb 2015, 04:27
Possible scenario: After Tai has finished squeeing, she might become tired of Claire and Marten fornicating on the copying machine.

I can't be bothered to look it up, but Claire has already made her (sensible and mature) views on this kind of behaviour (or anything remotely approaching it) perfectly clear to Marten. "Once we go thorough those doors" etc.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 18 Feb 2015, 04:29
So anyone else hope Clinton or Martens mom shows up in in the next few strips? I'm hoping Martens mom shows up more, though his dads rock as well. Heck yeah! Two dads!

Claire and Marten arrive at the Augustus residence. Claire decides to show Marten her room. When they go upstairs, Mrs A steps out of her room in a negligee and squeaks in embarrassment. Marten, being Marten, is embarrassed but cool with it.

"Spitfire, who is it?" calls a voice that is so familiar that Marten and Claire forget all propriety. They peek in the room to see Jim and Veronica in the maternal Augustine bed.

TRAUMA COEFFICIENT: 250% AND RISING

That also explains exactly why Drunk Veronica adressed Claire as Clarice (as in "it's ClaireMom's name").
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 18 Feb 2015, 04:36
No-one should ever, ever, whether in a comic or in RL, find out or even try to find out anything about their parents' sex lives. Maybe that is why Marten is so laid-back - he has partaken of so much forbidden knowledge and is now completely unshockable.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 18 Feb 2015, 05:58
Am I the only one reading Marten's "I want to keep going" in regards to progressing with the relationship, as an indication that they haven't -actually- slept together? I mean it seems to me that Claire's trying to get confirmation that Marten's ready for 'the next step' and though it could be emotionally, it sounds to me like it's regarding the physical aspect. So, that said, I don't think they've actually done the deed, just had a bit of fun.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 18 Feb 2015, 06:12
Keep in mind folks, the intimate moments between Marten and Claire have been no different than those between any other couple in the comic. There was lead up, a bit of clothes-on foreplay, some kissing and implication of more to come. Then a fade to black at the end of a strip, and the next day is post-coital cuddling. It has always been the same, and probably always will be. It's the things that Jeph doesn't show that we shouldn't be talking about. We don't discuss what Dora and Tai get up to. We didn't talk about what Faye and Angus liked to do. We don't speculate on what Claire and Marten do. That sort of thing is to intimate, to personal and not a place the comic goes to. The same respect should be had when discussing the comic.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 18 Feb 2015, 06:13
For me, Claire made in clear in 2892 that they had done the deed by talking about "next time". I would interpret her question to Marten from today's comic as looking for reassurance from Marten as to his behaviour up to that point. She knows him well and didn't want to feel that Marten just fell into a relationship with her by chance as part of his passivity.

She is setting herself high standards in her first relationship - she wants to be sure that Marten actively wants what she does, I.e. a caring, sharing relationship on an equal footing. And once again Marten speaks from his heart and says exactly the right thing. I could really start feeling jealous...

I also think that Marten is talking about continuing and growing in the relationship. It's not only about sex!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 18 Feb 2015, 06:35
I'm with Khazgar on that part. I think Marten just means that he wants to keep going forward.

I love Claire's assertion too. Sounds like the kind of thing I'd say after such a conversation. Kyoot.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: MooskiNet on 18 Feb 2015, 06:56
Can't tell if he's just drawn better than usual this strip, or if Marten saying awesome things makes him better looking.

I mean, I know that happens in real life, I just never expected to experience it with a webcomic.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 18 Feb 2015, 07:04
Can't tell if he's just drawn better than usual this strip, or if Marten saying awesome things makes him better looking.

I mean, I know that happens in real life, I just never expected to experience it with a webcomic.

I've said this before about Claire. I think that Jeph sometimes draws from a character's perspective. We occasionally see Claire through Marten's eyes and Marten through Claire's eyes. Their feelings for eachother make them look all the better.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 18 Feb 2015, 08:35
Once again, I guess I had a totally different reaction to this comic than most people.  I found it basically a worthless throwaway that doesn't advance plot or characterization. 

It's odd, because Jeph said he was moving away from dialogue-heavy strips.  Marten gets a ton of dialogue in this strip.  But it's basically just a long-winded way of saying "I'm really into you."   The strip does not seriously have exposition about Marten's feelings more broadly.  He could have said he was exposed to a lot of trans people through his mother as a child, and he never thought about it seriously - until he met Claire and it all changed.  Because he sees her as a person first - a person he's crazy about.  Instead he talks mush. 

This just feels like a retread of their first talk.  Claire asks if he's okay, Marten reassures her, and she is beaming at the end.  I'm immune to Marten/Claire squee, but I can't even see what's squee worthy in this strip.  It's frankly the lamest I've seen in months. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Isyrion on 18 Feb 2015, 09:11
I just thought of this, the fact that Claire may cause some issues between Marten and Claire.  Not because Marten has issues with Claire being trans but Claire, this being her first boyfriend, subconsciously thinking Marten is just humoring her.  So far Claire is approaching this right by talking out her concerns, hopefully that continues.  (The reason this came to me is one of my best friends is trans and she said she ended up screwing up a good relationship due to worrying about her partner being weirded out by her being trans despite him repeatedly tell her he was cool with it.  Eventually the constant worrying drove a wedge between them.)

BTW I think they are a cute couple so I hope this works they both deserve happiness.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 18 Feb 2015, 10:16
I'm immune to Marten/Claire squee, but I can't even see what's squee worthy in this strip.  It's frankly the lamest I've seen in months.

Yup, me too. I'm not a fan of trashy romance novels, and I'm not a fan of this 'oh-they-are-soo-perfect-with-each-other-stuff' *squee*. I think it's fine that there are couples that are good with each other, but you don't need to show every boring step.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 18 Feb 2015, 10:25
TBH, I don't really ship characters and I'm not one for squeeing, but I will offer this one piece of advice - if something seems to be too good to be true, then it probably is.

Make that how you will.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 18 Feb 2015, 11:21
Yup, me too. I'm not a fan of trashy romance novels, and I'm not a fan of this 'oh-they-are-soo-perfect-with-each-other-stuff' *squee*. I think it's fine that there are couples that are good with each other, but you don't need to show every boring step.

Just to be clear, from a human dynamic standpoint, what Marten said to Claire is 100% defensible.  From a strip/story standpoint, however, it didn't need to be said, because we already inferred as much already from how Marten was acting around Claire.  Each update should ideally do something to advance one of the core plot elements in the series, or let you know more about the person.  Throwaway humorous strips are fine as well, since they are entertaining.  I find the "squee" strips (particularly ice cream kisses) nauseating, but I can understand why some people like them.  But again this isn't a squee strip - this is supposed to be a discussion about feelings - and it comes across as a nothingburger. 

Unless...as Isyrion intimated, the real purpose of the strip is to highlight that Claire is insecure, and to foreshadow her insecurity eventually causing conflict.  That could end up interesting...eventually.   Although it would be a retread of sorts, given Dora was damn insecure herself. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CaptainFish on 18 Feb 2015, 11:23
Once again, I guess I had a totally different reaction to this comic than most people.  I found it basically a worthless throwaway that doesn't advance plot or characterization. 

It's odd, because Jeph said he was moving away from dialogue-heavy strips.  Marten gets a ton of dialogue in this strip.  But it's basically just a long-winded way of saying "I'm really into you."   The strip does not seriously have exposition about Marten's feelings more broadly.  He could have said he was exposed to a lot of trans people through his mother as a child, and he never thought about it seriously - until he met Claire and it all changed.  Because he sees her as a person first - a person he's crazy about.  Instead he talks mush. 

This just feels like a retread of their first talk.  Claire asks if he's okay, Marten reassures her, and she is beaming at the end.  I'm immune to Marten/Claire squee, but I can't even see what's squee worthy in this strip.  It's frankly the lamest I've seen in months.

I kinda feel similarly. Marten has seemed pretty actively attracted to Claire all along. The only part where he seemed a little more passive is during the afterglow when he responded to Claire's exclamation that it was amazing with a simple, "yeah." But like every thing he's done since the scritchening has shown a lot of physical attraction and initiative while their scenes together have shown a lot of great chemistry. So maybe I'm misunderstanding the question, or it's just Claire asking for uh... elucidation (http://i.imgur.com/NlQW5MT.png?1) of something that was pretty :claireface: all along.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Cyril on 18 Feb 2015, 11:44
My reaction to this strip was more or less the same as to the post on Jeph's tumblr... "wow, he must have been getting an absolute deluge of questions on this topic." The amount of exposure to the variety of (everything) that one gets even with just regular exposure to webcomics in this vein and occasional forum perusals is drastically different than someone who is only immersed in mass market media, similar to how someone whose radio is turned to a politically active (or even aware) station or who follows even a single political blog will have a view of the world completely different from someone who is only exposed to the bare minimum and mostly follows pop culture.

The creator of a work like QC is going to be immersed in questions and discussions (and demands, rants) that can overwhelm the perspective of a reader who is fairly blasé about the issues and is more interested in the funny, conflict, or storytelling. This feels more like an exorcism of the response he's getting so as to be able to cleanly cut to a new story than anything required for the story itself.

Of course, I could be wrong and all of this could just be an extended setup for a dramatic freakout the next time he's alone and not being confronted by a catastrophe. While unnecessary, it wouldn't strain credulity to see that become a vector for internal conflict; it might be too low-hanging a fruit, though, since that particular SL from setup to resolution (positive, so as not to turn readers away from Marten as a person) practically writes itself with the existing cast.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: miados on 18 Feb 2015, 12:03
I had a date with a girl like claire once. And by that i mean the mtf aspect. She was and is a very lovely, sweet, and great girl who I am still friends with even if it isn't super close. I like to think if she asked me something like that I would have said something similar, but i would have thought longer of how to say it and not as good. I am not good at being a human. I never got out of the buggy beta version of being a human.

I think marten is being great with claire. Anyone who is living with that worries about how people will treat them and with how some people are they have every right to worry and because of that they need to be reassured which I think is part of why claire has asked more than once about him being ok with her.

I hope things go well for these two. I also love how it seemed (at least to me) that claire had feelings towards marten before the hook up started. I love when there seems to be feelings for the couple before they become one. I hate when some comics (not this one so far) just force couples for the sake of the story. I mean the characters make the story not the other way around.

I'm gonna shut up now. before I ramble to much and say something stupid.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 18 Feb 2015, 12:07
My reaction to this strip was more or less the same as to the post on Jeph's tumblr... "wow, he must have been getting an absolute deluge of questions on this topic." The amount of exposure to the variety of (everything) that one gets even with just regular exposure to webcomics in this vein and occasional forum perusals is drastically different than someone who is only immersed in mass market media, similar to how someone whose radio is turned to a politically active (or even aware) station or who follows even a single political blog will have a view of the world completely different from someone who is only exposed to the bare minimum and mostly follows pop culture.

The creator of a work like QC is going to be immersed in questions and discussions (and demands, rants) that can overwhelm the perspective of a reader who is fairly blasé about the issues and is more interested in the funny, conflict, or storytelling. This feels more like an exorcism of the response he's getting so as to be able to cleanly cut to a new story than anything required for the story itself.

Wow, that's really sad if true.  And it shows a huge limitation of serial-format stories in the digital age.  Think about how terrible many of the classics would have been if each chapter was submitted to the public in turn, and the dialogue and plotting changed slightly in response.  It might make for popular stories, but it wouldn't make for superior ones. 

I'd like to think that Jeph is paying no heed to the collective voice of the internet (or the forum even) when plotting out the strip.  It's okay if he gets the seeds of particular ideas from individuals - that's how creativity works.  But ultimately he needs to be telling his story - and not the story the audience is clamoring for him to tell - in order to have the strip reach its full potential. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DillyDolly on 18 Feb 2015, 12:08
Okay, I'm getting the gist that the people who are obsessed with Claire's "plumbing" are curious about trans people. While this is not polite (and not necessarily appropriate for a PG, upbeat, slice-of-life comic), it is human.

A great set of comics to quench that curiosity (and learn the finer points of how to behave around non-cis/non-hetero/sexually "atypical" people) can be found at discordcomics.com. There's currently a great rewrite/parody of Shades of Grey going down (Shades of A), and links to another group of comics called Khaos Komix which have really great tell-all stories about two trans characters. Some of them are NWS, but they are labeled as such when you come upon them.

I'm loving how "boring" and "normal" Marten's and Claire's relationship is. Sometimes that's just how it goes down in real life—regardless of the type of people involved. It's sweet and feels good to read—especially considering all the drama with Faye.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheCallMeFez on 18 Feb 2015, 12:11
Seems to me that she was just looking for some....
Claire-ity 
:clairedoge:



I'll show myself out
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 18 Feb 2015, 12:12
Wow, that's really sad if true.  And it shows a huge limitation of serial-format stories in the digital age.  Think about how terrible many of the classics would have been if each chapter was submitted to the public in turn, and the dialogue and plotting changed slightly in response.  It might make for popular stories, but it wouldn't make for superior ones. 
I may be misreading this (I don't think the coffee is working so well today), but many of the classics were published that way (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serial_%28literature%29).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 18 Feb 2015, 12:25
I may be misreading this (I don't think the coffee is working so well today), but many of the classics were published that way (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serial_%28literature%29).

Of course some books were originally serialized.  That in and of itself isn't a problem, it's just a marketing gimmick.  The only serious feedback an author at the time would have regarding serials, however, is how well the sold, which would let him know if they should stay the course, veer off in a different direction, or just wrap it up entirely.  But even if you decided a curveball was needed, it was up to you to decide what that would be, not your fans. 

The internet is different, because you have basically instant critique thrown back at you as an author.  Indeed, the amount of criticism on the internet may surpass original content by at least an order of magnitude.  If you give in to the critique - if you give the fans what they want rather than what you have planned - you're on a slippery slope towards a "market study" view of storytelling.  You're producing a product. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 18 Feb 2015, 12:33
This entry from Jeph's Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/jephjacques/status/568129988324499456) is probably not good news for everyone, based on the comments I've seen (especially this evening).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 18 Feb 2015, 12:36
*Emergency Cuteness Buffers Online*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: dexeron on 18 Feb 2015, 12:37
The internet is different, because you have basically instant critique thrown back at you as an author.  Indeed, the amount of criticism on the internet may surpass original content by at least an order of magnitude.  If you give in to the critique - if you give the fans what they want rather than what you have planned - you're on a slippery slope towards a "market study" view of storytelling.  You're producing a product.

Literature has always been a product to a greater or lesser extent.  Hell, part of the reason that Sherlock Holmes was brought back from the dead was over pressure from Doyle's fanbase over Holmes' "death" in "The Final Problem."  Even back in the late 1800s, fandoms were pretty rabid (with fan-fiction, and pretty vehement feedback to stories they didn't like - or worse, stories they did.)  It might not have been as instantaneous, but authors were quite aware of the reactions to their stories, even those that were being serialized, and it absolutely influenced the actions of some authors.


Warning - while you were typing 2 new replies have been posted. You may wish to review your use of deductive reasoning.  You might have missed a vital clue!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 18 Feb 2015, 12:52
This entry from Jeph's Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/jephjacques/status/568129988324499456) is probably not good news for everyone, based on the comments I've seen (especially this evening).

My squee is ready.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 18 Feb 2015, 12:53
Prepare forum... prepare forum for ludicrous squee! Fasten all seatbelts, seal all entrances and exits, close all shops in the mall, cancel the three ring circus, secure all animals in the zoo!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Cyril on 18 Feb 2015, 12:56
Wow, that's really sad if true.  And it shows a huge limitation of serial-format stories in the digital age.  Think about how terrible many of the classics would have been if each chapter was submitted to the public in turn, and the dialogue and plotting changed slightly in response.  It might make for popular stories, but it wouldn't make for superior ones. 

I'd like to think that Jeph is paying no heed to the collective voice of the internet (or the forum even) when plotting out the strip.  It's okay if he gets the seeds of particular ideas from individuals - that's how creativity works.  But ultimately he needs to be telling his story - and not the story the audience is clamoring for him to tell - in order to have the strip reach its full potential.

I don't think it'd be possible to take no heed at all, but any creator who has a personal creative vision is going to follow that over the reactions from fans. I didn't mean to imply that JJ or any other specific person (living or dead) is actually taking a strong cue from their feedback, but it's almost inevitable that it's going to color how long and hard you push on certain points to make sure they are received as intended.

To put it another way, some of the most serialized and 'plugged in' authors these days are going to almost certainly use that feedback to adjust the degree to which character traits are shown if they feel that they aren't being interpreted as the author intends (scriptwriting is probably the most obvious, and egregious, example), but a confident author isn't going to change the character entirely because of the same feedback.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: brew on 18 Feb 2015, 12:57

I'm loving how "boring" and "normal" Marten's and Claire's relationship is. Sometimes that's just how it goes down in real life—regardless of the type of people involved.

I don't mind how the relationship is, but I don't like strips being written to show this. You could take away these strips and we'd still get it. It just feels like a waste.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 18 Feb 2015, 13:12
Tomorrow is strip 2900. Either Marten is proposing to Claire, or Jim to Veronica, or Tai to Dora, or the other way around.

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Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 18 Feb 2015, 13:21
...so why can't we just respect Claire and Marten (and through them, all other real-life trans/cis couples) and allow them their privacy?

So what your saying is, Jeph has every right to "discuss" a topic/explore an issue via an open forum like a webcomic, and his fans don't have the same "speaking right" to discuss or explore similar issues? 

Thats.....not right.

That is not what's happening.

Jeph has been approaching everything trans-related with taste and respect. Jeph, the mods, and the community are only asking for the same from the fans.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesariojpn on 18 Feb 2015, 13:40
That is not what's happening.

Jeph has been approaching everything trans-related with taste and respect. Jeph, the mods, and the community are only asking for the same from the fans.

But the strip can't escape the unsightly issues that come with such things. It's better to educate than just sweep it under the rug.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 18 Feb 2015, 13:41
I don't mind how the relationship is, but I don't like strips being written to show this. You could take away these strips and we'd still get it. It just feels like a waste.

If we're going to have filler, I'd rather have Steve eating cereal, or Pintsize doing something zany.  At least it would make me chuckle for a second. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 18 Feb 2015, 13:51
Dennis Miller once said, "We all like to think we're beautiful and unique snowflakes, but when we're alone we all do the same stupid shit."

He was just talking about the condition of being human, at that moment. I think it applies to the condition of being human. Strip a work of references to its time, and you find it applies as much now as did when it was written. Kids these days has a storied history dating back to ancient Greece (the popular quote on the subject actually dates to 1907, but if you look up the context, it stands as a summary of a number of Greek educators complaining about how kids used to be more studious and respectful).

If the kids have always been... well... kids, it follows that the fans have always been fans. The internet only allows more fans to connect more rapidly. It's not that it's changed what we are. It's just allowed us to be alone together with millions of like minded souls. Our same stupid shit is amplified, but it isn't fundamentally different.

Now, about Claire's sex tackle, there are three points that I think bear mention. First, all animals may be equal, but some animals are more equal than others. This here is Jeph's house. If he wants to draw on the walls in marker, he can do that. You have to ask permission. If he says "no," that it. You just to get to watch him draw on the walls, but you get no marker for yourself. If you want a marker, get your own house. You can then discuss the content of Claire's pants to your heart's content. Invite like minded friends! Enjoy the power of denying them access to the markers!

Second, there's nothing necessarily prurient about genitals. That's just a social construct. Like gender or heterosexuality. We have (and by "we" I mean us, including me) some exceptionally dangerous post-Victorian hangups about this whole sex thing. That these hang ups exist is at the root of the discomfort the subject of Claire's anatomy invokes. I propose to do exactly nothing about that aspect. I'm not going to erase nigh 200 years of puritan thought with a pithy comment in webcomic fandom. But I can shine the harsh light on it. Getting bent out of shape about the existence of vaginas and pene costs lives. For some bizarre reason, we tend to think that other people's bit are our business. I mean that in a narrow sense. If we only kept to our own business, it would be a lonely world. But there's a difference between knowledge and ownership of business. I might ask what kind of peanut butter you use. That's really none of my business, unless I mean to eat some of it. But it's not a gross violation of anything, either. Genitals are like that. Most people have them, and you aren't going to eat the vast majority of them. (Also, some people are violently allergic to them.) Knowledge doesn't imply action.

But the flipside of the puritan hang up is the fact that majority confuses knowledge with action. The majority thinks, "I know this thing, so I must do something about it." "Or I know this thing and I find it distasteful, so I must punish those who gave me this information, even though I asked for." To quote another wise man, "a person is smart. People are dumb panicky animals, and you know it."

So, the board policy is the best policy among no great options. But it's important, IMO, to remember that the side-eye given to people with potentially justifiable curiosity is actually a symptom of the underlying pathology that make the policy necessary.

Third--I have said this before, but it deserves repeating until it stops being true--nothing in QC has served as even a useful hint about the configuration of the junction between Claire's legs. Everything is wholly consistent with whatever interpretation you choose to be your headcanon. In/out/none. Whatever you want, the comic supports.

It's possible that Jeph knows the answer (I happen to agree with Christopher Nolan; if you don't intend to tell the audience, you still need to tell yourself. Otherwise you risk injecting nonsense into the story). It's also possible he doesn't. But, so far, nothing in the comic has given a clue, one way or any other.

If a definitive clue ever does drop, the forum rules make this exactly not the place to discuss it. I understand the temptation. When Claire took her pants off, my first thought was that a definitive clue had dropped. Further reflection convinced me that nothing had changed, but there was a moment. And in that moment, I wanted to run my thoughts by a group of people who had the necessary background to vet them. But I didn't, because the rules say that's not cool.

Item's one, two, and three come together at that point. There's nothing definitive. Even if there had been, humanity isn't ready for a rational discussion on the subject for a variety of reasons. Even if humanity was ready, it's Jeph's house and in Jeph's house we do not talk about Fight Club--er the specifics of people's pants cargo. It's not cool. It's not cool when the n00bs do it, it's not cool when the trolls do it, and it's not cool when vets point to the marks on Jeph's walls and try to use them as justification for their own impromptu impressionist phase.

/rant
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Zebediah on 18 Feb 2015, 14:25
That is not what's happening.

Jeph has been approaching everything trans-related with taste and respect. Jeph, the mods, and the community are only asking for the same from the fans.

But the strip can't escape the unsightly issues that come with such things. It's better to educate than just sweep it under the rug.

Here (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,28457.0.html). Also here (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30454.0.html).

If that's "sweeping it under the rug" then it's an awfully goddamned big rug.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: WanderNotAimless on 18 Feb 2015, 14:27
Dennis Miller once said, "We all like to think we're beautiful and unique snowflakes, but when we're alone we all do the same stupid shit."

He was just talking about the condition of being human, at that moment. I think it applies to the condition of being human. Strip a work of references to its time, and you find it applies as much now as did when it was written. Kids these days has a storied history dating back to ancient Greece (the popular quote on the subject actually dates to 1907, but if you look up the context, it stands as a summary of a number of Greek educators complaining about how kids used to be more studious and respectful).

If the kids have always been... well... kids, it follows that the fans have always been fans. The internet only allows more fans to connect more rapidly. It's not that it's changed what we are. It's just allowed us to be alone together with millions of like minded souls. Our same stupid shit is amplified, but it isn't fundamentally different.

Now, about Claire's sex tackle, there are three points that I think bear mention. First, all animals may be equal, but some animals are more equal than others. This here is Jeph's house. If he wants to draw on the walls in marker, he can do that. You have to ask permission. If he says "no," that it. You just to get to watch him draw on the walls, but you get no marker for yourself. If you want a marker, get your own house. You can then discuss the content of Claire's pants to your heart's content. Invite like minded friends! Enjoy the power of denying them access to the markers!

Second, there's nothing necessarily prurient about genitals. That's just a social construct. Like gender or heterosexuality. We have (and by "we" I mean us, including me) some exceptionally dangerous post-Victorian hangups about this whole sex thing. That these hang ups exist is at the root of the discomfort the subject of Claire's anatomy invokes. I propose to do exactly nothing about that aspect. I'm not going to erase nigh 200 years of puritan thought with a pithy comment in webcomic fandom. But I can shine the harsh light on it. Getting bent out of shape about the existence of vaginas and pene costs lives. For some bizarre reason, we tend to think that other people's bit are our business. I mean that in a narrow sense. If we only kept to our own business, it would be a lonely world. But there's a difference between knowledge and ownership of business. I might ask what kind of peanut butter you use. That's really none of my business, unless I mean to eat some of it. But it's not a gross violation of anything, either. Genitals are like that. Most people have them, and you aren't going to eat the vast majority of them. (Also, some people are violently allergic to them.) Knowledge doesn't imply action.

But the flipside of the puritan hang up is the fact that majority confuses knowledge with action. The majority thinks, "I know this thing, so I must do something about it." "Or I know this thing and I find it distasteful, so I must punish those who gave me this information, even though I asked for." To quote another wise man, "a person is smart. People are dumb panicky animals, and you know it."

So, the board policy is the best policy among no great options. But it's important, IMO, to remember that the side-eye given to people with potentially justifiable curiosity is actually a symptom of the underlying pathology that make the policy necessary.

Third--I have said this before, but it deserves repeating until it stops being true--nothing in QC has served as even a useful hint about the configuration of the junction between Claire's legs. Everything is wholly consistent with whatever interpretation you choose to be your headcanon. In/out/none. Whatever you want, the comic supports.

It's possible that Jeph knows the answer (I happen to agree with Christopher Nolan; if you don't intend to tell the audience, you still need to tell yourself. Otherwise you risk injecting nonsense into the story). It's also possible he doesn't. But, so far, nothing in the comic has given a clue, one way or any other.

If a definitive clue ever does drop, the forum rules make this exactly not the place to discuss it. I understand the temptation. When Claire took her pants off, my first thought was that a definitive clue had dropped. Further reflection convinced me that nothing had changed, but there was a moment. And in that moment, I wanted to run my thoughts by a group of people who had the necessary background to vet them. But I didn't, because the rules say that's not cool.

Item's one, two, and three come together at that point. There's nothing definitive. Even if there had been, humanity isn't ready for a rational discussion on the subject for a variety of reasons. Even if humanity was ready, it's Jeph's house and in Jeph's house we do not talk about Fight Club--er the specifics of people's pants cargo. It's not cool. It's not cool when the n00bs do it, it's not cool when the trolls do it, and it's not cool when vets point to the marks on Jeph's walls and try to use them as justification for their own impromptu impressionist phase.

/rant

I like this post. I can't say I agree with all of it, but I like it and respect it.

On a different note, which brought me to the thread originally: Are Marten and Emily the only friends who know about Claire being trans? I remember she told Marten at the lake house some time ago and then Emily at the library more recently. Is that as far as it has gone that we are aware of?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: mikmaxs on 18 Feb 2015, 14:37
Marten's being chill as hell throughout this situation came as a pleasant surprise to me, honestly. Not because I don't think he'd be against dating a trans person, but just because he's never really seemed to be so incredibly easy going and great at saying exactly the right things at all the right times. Compared to his worried/angsty self, he almost seems stoned out to me (or something akin to it) because he's just acting so incredibly chill about everything. Even after the debacle with Faye, an incredibly stressful situation, he just kind of seemed tired afterwards, not stressed or anything. I kind of miss his subtle snark and neurosises (Nueroses?), but it's nice to see that his character has matured, even if it came as a surprise.

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 18 Feb 2015, 14:38
Sometimes you really just are that much at ease with a person. (Speaking from personal experience there.)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 18 Feb 2015, 14:52

I'm loving how "boring" and "normal" Marten's and Claire's relationship is. Sometimes that's just how it goes down in real life—regardless of the type of people involved.

I don't mind how the relationship is, but I don't like strips being written to show this. You could take away these strips and we'd still get it. It just feels like a waste.
Wrong. These strips could be taken away and you would still get it. Unfortunately, idiots abound.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 14:54
You can only have so many penis jokes unfortunately.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 18 Feb 2015, 14:58
Pssh. You can -never- have too many penis jokes.

Keep in mind folks, the intimate moments between Marten and Claire have been no different than those between any other couple in the comic. There was lead up, a bit of clothes-on foreplay, some kissing and implication of more to come. Then a fade to black at the end of a strip, and the next day is post-coital cuddling. It has always been the same, and probably always will be. It's the things that Jeph doesn't show that we shouldn't be talking about. We don't discuss what Dora and Tai get up to. We didn't talk about what Faye and Angus liked to do. We don't speculate on what Claire and Marten do. That sort of thing is to intimate, to personal and not a place the comic goes to. The same respect should be had when discussing the comic.

Point taken. Between my morning-addled brain and my poor short-term memory, I'd entirely forgotten about that strip.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 18 Feb 2015, 14:58
Once again, I guess I had a totally different reaction to this comic than most people.  I found it basically a worthless throwaway that doesn't advance plot or characterization. 

It's odd, because Jeph said he was moving away from dialogue-heavy strips.  Marten gets a ton of dialogue in this strip.  But it's basically just a long-winded way of saying "I'm really into you."   The strip does not seriously have exposition about Marten's feelings more broadly.  He could have said he was exposed to a lot of trans people through his mother as a child, and he never thought about it seriously - until he met Claire and it all changed.  Because he sees her as a person first - a person he's crazy about.  Instead he talks mush. 

This just feels like a retread of their first talk.  Claire asks if he's okay, Marten reassures her, and she is beaming at the end.  I'm immune to Marten/Claire squee, but I can't even see what's squee worthy in this strip.  It's frankly the lamest I've seen in months.

For one thing, a general move away from dialogue-heavy strips doesn't mean that you're going to necessarily abandon them altogether. The art (form) follows, or acts in service to, the story (function). If something can be said with very little dialogue, or none at all, it will (like the strip where Faye's fading in and out of consciousness). If something needs to be told rather than shown, it will be (hence today's talky strip).

Which obliquely leads to your other point. People who have insecurity (or any number of other issues) don't have them constantly. I'm pretty sure that Claire doesn't live under a constant, crushing mountain of self- (or Marten-) doubt, and for him to address it when it's not an issue would be borderline douche-y. But when someone has a valid concern, you address it. She brought it up, he said what needed to be said, she was reassured. That's how it goes sometimes.

It also addresses Isyrion's point:

I just thought of this, the fact that Claire may cause some issues between Marten and Claire.  Not because Marten has issues with Claire being trans but Claire, this being her first boyfriend, subconsciously thinking Marten is just humoring her.  So far Claire is approaching this right by talking out her concerns, hopefully that continues.  (The reason this came to me is one of my best friends is trans and she said she ended up screwing up a good relationship due to worrying about her partner being weirded out by her being trans despite him repeatedly tell her he was cool with it.  Eventually the constant worrying drove a wedge between them.)

BTW I think they are a cute couple so I hope this works they both deserve happiness.

I've kinda been there (was dating someone biracial who, for some reason, thought that I was weirded out by the whole thing, even though A: I wasn't and said as much, and B: I'd asked her out in the first place, which isn't something I'd do if I were iffy about someone). I've been on the other side of that situation as well, thinking that something about me was a bigger deal to someone than it was, or thinking that they were a lot less into the relationship than they turned out to be. Communication (as they're doing now) and trust (which they've got, and seem to have been building on) go a really long way.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 18 Feb 2015, 15:08
But the strip can't escape the unsightly issues that come with such things. It's better to educate than just sweep it under the rug.

Nasty though the world is, it is still actually not all nasty.  You seem to be denying the validity of representing the possibility of coming across some behaviour that's not totally awful.  It may not be typical; but being reminded that there are things better than the typical is also educational and may be encouraging.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Endellion on 18 Feb 2015, 15:20
Prepare forum... prepare forum for ludicrous squee! Fasten all seatbelts, seal all entrances and exits, close all shops in the mall, cancel the three ring circus, secure all animals in the zoo!

It's going to go into plaid.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dalillama on 18 Feb 2015, 15:23

I'm loving how "boring" and "normal" Marten's and Claire's relationship is. Sometimes that's just how it goes down in real life—regardless of the type of people involved.

I don't mind how the relationship is, but I don't like strips being written to show this. You could take away these strips and we'd still get it. It just feels like a waste.
Wrong. These strips could be taken away and you would still get it. Unfortunately, idiots abound.
And Some Anvils Need To Be Dropped (http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped) (Warning, TVTropes link)


Nasty though the world is, it is still actually not all nasty.  You seem to be denying the validity of representing the possibility of coming across some behaviour that's not totally awful.  It may not be typical; but being reminded that there are things better than the typical is also educational and may be encouraging.
Also, this. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 18 Feb 2015, 15:27
This entry from Jeph's Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/jephjacques/status/568129988324499456) is probably not good news for everyone, based on the comments I've seen (especially this evening).

The twist is we're cutting away to Jimbo doing cute things.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 18 Feb 2015, 15:32
For some reason, now all I can picture is a John Deere tea cozy.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 15:35
I imagined a lumberjack cuddling a case of budweiser.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 18 Feb 2015, 16:23
Prepare forum... prepare forum for ludicrous squee! Fasten all seatbelts, seal all entrances and exits, close all shops in the mall, cancel the three ring circus, secure all animals in the zoo!

It's going to go into plaid.
Kaity, bar the door!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 18 Feb 2015, 16:35
Quote
better to educate

It is educational to learn that talking about someone's privates around non-fictional trans people is rude.

For general education there's at least a college syllabus worth of material over in Discuss, and links to some basics in the forum rules.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 16:59
Also, google.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 18 Feb 2015, 17:39
Wrong. These strips could be taken away and you would still get it. Unfortunately, idiots abound.

I prefer my fiction to not be written with idiots in mind. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DSL on 18 Feb 2015, 17:57
For the "everyone but me is stupid" crowd, there are any number of libertarian polemics disguised as science-fiction webcomics. Try the forums of Quantum Vibe or Quentyn Quinn Space Ranger.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: wlewisiii on 18 Feb 2015, 18:15
For the "everyone but me is stupid" crowd, there are any number of libertarian polemics disguised as science-fiction webcomics. Try the forums of Quantum Vibe or Quentyn Quinn Space Ranger.

Freefall http://freefall.purrsia.com/ can get that way too, especially earlier on. Gotten better over time, thankfully, as he's focused on the intersection of AI & Civil Rights.

And it's a strip that has pacing to make QC look like a fast cut MTV video from 1985!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 18:23
Everybody's stupid, but so am I! *Fart Noise *Jackoff motion
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 18 Feb 2015, 18:47
Speak for yourself, I don't claim to be the smartest (fart noise), but an I.Q. Of 156 says I'm sure as hell not stupid.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 18:50
Everyone knows that IQ's are only out of 100 points, don't be silly. How else would you explain my C- IQ score?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 18 Feb 2015, 19:06
One cannot claim that everyone other than one's self is stupid and extol the virtues of libertarianism at the same time. No such virtues exist.

Just because you're smart, it doesn't follow that you aren't stupid.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: maxh on 18 Feb 2015, 19:15
Speak for yourself, I don't claim to be the smartest (fart noise), but an I.Q. Of 156 says I'm sure as hell not stupid.
"People who boast about their IQ are losers."
  —S. Hawking
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 18 Feb 2015, 19:29
Excuse me for a few moments. The sheer levels of saccharine sweetness are making me prone to vomiting.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: wlewisiii on 18 Feb 2015, 19:29
Comics up and more interesting & cute than any IQ noise :D
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 18 Feb 2015, 19:35
That 2nd panel, I now have dawwwwwiabeties
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 18 Feb 2015, 19:44
Now we get to see what happens when irresistible squee comes up against the immovable object of "Where's teh dramaz?"
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 19:46
Everyone's been squeeing for a solid two weeks. The cuteness is making me boil over in manly rage.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Carissa79 on 18 Feb 2015, 19:50
I'm seeing what some of you are saying about these strips lacking character/plot advancement, having too much dialogue/cuteness, and overall acting as boring filler. But I think it's a good thing that there are so many strips about Marten and Claire just hanging out together. It's a depiction of a relationship between a trans person and a cis person, and I could be totally wrong about this, but I feel like it's a nice thing for trans people to see a representation of themselves being handled in a totally casual way - it's important that we have this emphasis on the relationship because it really secures the fact that just because Claire is trans, it doesn't mean Marten has to treat her any differently than he would have treated Dora, or Padma, or any other girl he's had feelings for. Thoughts?

These strips stand out from the comic because of their content and style, sure, but I can definitely see where Jeph is coming from. Also, Claire and Marten are cute as fuck together, and I'm down with that.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dalillama on 18 Feb 2015, 19:51
Everyone's been squeeing for a solid two weeks. The cuteness is making me boil over in manly rage.
Here's some Manly Guys Doing Manly Things for you. (http://thepunchlineismachismo.com/)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 19:53
Not enough, already read.

The only remedy is beef jerky, beer and MLP... wait... AHHH IT GOT ME, TELL THE CUTENESS TO FUCK OFFFFFFFFF, how did it invade my mind like this?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 18 Feb 2015, 19:54
So about the complaints about the lack of drama and character advancement, this part of the story is the setup to the drama. Particularly today's comic: it's setting up Claire's uncertainties about their relationship, which will likely be the basis of future drama. Y'all just aren't noticing it because it's buried in squee.

Warning - while you were typing a new reply has been posted. You may wish to do more manly things.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 18 Feb 2015, 19:54
I'm glad there are still some folks enjoying Clairten, but I need a break from this plot line. Interactions I would find more interesting:

Dora vs. Tai on Sven & Faye
Dora vs. Sven
Faye vs. Sven
Angus says goodbye to Marigold
Momo goes on a date
Claire vs. Tai on transfeminine vs transmasculine experiences & trans women at Smif
Faye & her family on addiction and life choices
Band practice

... really, just, absolutely anything at all.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SomeCanadianWeirdo on 18 Feb 2015, 20:01
Don't worry, next week we'll move on to more of Faye, including her going back into therapy with a new therapist...




....YELLING BIRD!!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SomeCanadianWeirdo on 18 Feb 2015, 20:05
More seriously Jeph will have to post something less cute next week.  WCDT traffic has dropped considerably since last week.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 18 Feb 2015, 20:05
I'm seeing what some of you are saying about these strips lacking character/plot advancement, having too much dialogue/cuteness, and overall acting as boring filler. But I think it's a good thing that there are so many strips about Marten and Claire just hanging out together. It's a depiction of a relationship between a trans person and a cis person, and I could be totally wrong about this, but I feel like it's a nice thing for trans people to see a representation of themselves being handled in a totally casual way - it's important that we have this emphasis on the relationship because it really secures the fact that just because Claire is trans, it doesn't mean Marten has to treat her any differently than he would have treated Dora, or Padma, or any other girl he's had feelings for. Thoughts?

These strips stand out from the comic because of their content and style, sure, but I can definitely see where Jeph is coming from. Also, Claire and Marten are cute as fuck together, and I'm down with that.

Some of it stems from the much different dynamic in this relationship. Marten's relationship with Faye, though it's always been platonic, has been complicated as hell from day one. His relationship with Dora had not only its own issues (like his passivity and Dora's trust issues), but had residual Faye baggage layered on top of that. The relationship with Padma was overlaid with post-Dora drama, more indecision, and the fact that Padma was leaving soon to take care of her grandmother. Delilah wasn't so much Ms. Right as Ms. Right Now. The relationship with Claire has had time to develop; there was already a friendship there, he's not encumbered by other people's expectations or drama, and things have had the chance to come together a lot more organically (and on a more equal footing) than the other romantic relationships we've seen him in up to this point. When you don't have all the other crap to deal with, it's a lot easier to come into a relationship with a clean slate, letting yourself and the other person just be who you are as individuals and see what that means for you as a couple. It probably looks boring as hell to some people from the outside (including a significant portion of the forum), but it's probably a bit more sane and healthy than his last few attempts.

And yes, I think he does treat Claire differently, but I see that as a function of him finally being more comfortable in the relationship than having anything to do with Claire's trans-ness. That may be, in his eyes, mere background noise at this point -- something he deals with if it becomes anything more than a dull hum (i.e., when Claire brings it up), but over which he doesn't otherwise obsess.

PS: My apologies in advance regarding the "background noise" comment; couldn't think of a better way to word it. I don't intend it to mean that he's in any way demeaning or minimizing Claire's experiences or feelings; moreso that he isn't getting carried away over the fact of her trans* status.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 20:10
I don't think it's boring or anything, but I have way too much testosterone for this amount of cuteness on a daily basis. I can't play with my puppy now, my quota for adorbs has been met. Don't you question my manliness, this cuteness doesn't bring happy tears to my eyes, you shut up.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CaptainFish on 18 Feb 2015, 20:11
Claire's half of the conversation was, predictably, way more interesting. The relationship is much more of a revelation for her than it is for Marten. Kinda feels like he should be the one taking the initiative to check in on her, not vice versa, but that's a nitpick since they're communicating well.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 18 Feb 2015, 20:13
This is great.  So far we've only really had Marten's side of the relationship, how he feels about the way things are going.  So it's great that he finally asked Claire for her feelings on the matter.  Communication!  And now I have to second AprilArcus' request for some other story developments, because I have had enough goddamn cuteness for a good long while and I think Marten and Claire are going to be okay if Jeph shuffles them aside for a bit to focus on, well, EVERYONE ELSE in the comic.

Don't worry, next week we'll move on to more of Faye, including her going back into therapy with a new therapist...

....YELLING BIRD!!

Damn it, no!  Bring back Dr. Corrine!  See if the FDA has approved kicks-to-the-rear for trial phases yet.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 18 Feb 2015, 20:13
So about the complaints about the lack of drama and character advancement, this part of the story is the setup to the drama. Particularly today's comic: it's setting up Claire's uncertainties about their relationship, which will likely be the basis of future drama. Y'all just aren't noticing it because it's buried in squee.

Warning - while you were typing a new reply has been posted. You may wish to do more manly things.
Glad to see I'm not the only person to notice that. This is Claire's first relationship and a lot of her uncertainties are going to be come to the fore over the next few weeks and months.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 20:15
Keep in mind folks, the intimate moments between Marten and Claire have been no different than those between any other couple in the comic. There was lead up, a bit of clothes-on foreplay, some kissing and implication of more to come. Then a fade to black at the end of a strip, and the next day is post-coital cuddling. It has always been the same, and probably always will be. It's the things that Jeph doesn't show that we shouldn't be talking about. We don't discuss what Dora and Tai get up to. We didn't talk about what Faye and Angus liked to do. We don't speculate on what Claire and Marten do. That sort of thing is to intimate, to personal and not a place the comic goes to. The same respect should be had when discussing the comic.

Can we still make crude jokes at least?  :-(

(If that was already asked, I apologize... haven't read through everyone's responses yet today.)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 18 Feb 2015, 20:19
Can we still make crude jokes at least?  :-(

Only about butts.

Not specific butts, mind you.  Just butts in general.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 18 Feb 2015, 20:23
Claire's half of the conversation was, predictably, way more interesting. The relationship is much more of a revelation for her than it is for Marten. Kinda feels like he should be the one taking the initiative to check in on her, not vice versa, but that's a nitpick since they're communicating well.

He couldn't take the initiative. Claire has a plus +6 Dex bonus, Improved Initiative, and she rolled a 20.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 20:24
Can we still make crude jokes at least?  :-(

Only about butts.

Not specific butts, mind you.  Just butts in general.

The day I can't make a joke about penis is the day I stop saying things in general.

EDIT - My name is Explicit for a reason, you can't take away my toilet humor!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 20:29
You can only have so many penis jokes unfortunately.

Not true! There are an infinite number of penis jokes... but only so many of then can be good penis jokes.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 18 Feb 2015, 20:31
The day I can't make a joke about penis is the day I stop saying things in general.

EDIT - My name is Explicit for a reason, you can't take away my toilet humor!

PERMISSION DENIED.  THIS IS QUESTIONABLE CONTENT, AND YOU WILL TALK ABOUT BUTTS.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 20:31
SCREW YOUR BUTTS, SCREW IT WITH PENIS.

Well that was fun.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 20:35
Speak for yourself, I don't claim to be the smartest (fart noise), but an I.Q. Of 156 says I'm sure as hell not stupid.

Doesn't matter if you are the smartest person in the room if you are too arrogant to see the facts...
(Not a personal jab... a philosophical note on the difference between intelligence and wisdom.)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: celticgeek on 18 Feb 2015, 20:35
yn dod i ben cefn
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 18 Feb 2015, 20:35
I am glad to finally hear from Claire. I'm glad that Jeph is taking pains to write this plotline in a "this is how it should be done" way.

But I am ready for comics that don't explicitly state things that we were easily able to infer. Aside from underlining Claire's nervousness about being in a relationship (and honestly, even that could be inferred from Claire's actions, Jeph is very good at drawing body language) nothing has been revealed in the more recent Marten/Claire storyline that wasn't already obvious. I can understand why Jeph is hitting his readers over the head to make sure that they don't miss these very important points, but I am sick of treading and retreading the same old tired path.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 20:47
yn dod i ben cefn

Arawyn's ass!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CaptainFish on 18 Feb 2015, 20:48
Claire's half of the conversation was, predictably, way more interesting. The relationship is much more of a revelation for her than it is for Marten. Kinda feels like he should be the one taking the initiative to check in on her, not vice versa, but that's a nitpick since they're communicating well.

He couldn't take the initiative. Claire has a plus +6 Dex bonus, Improved Initiative, and she rolled a 20.

Dang, Marten got caught flat-footed then! Will this encounter be the end of our favourite Bard/Cleric?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 20:50
Claire's half of the conversation was, predictably, way more interesting. The relationship is much more of a revelation for her than it is for Marten. Kinda feels like he should be the one taking the initiative to check in on her, not vice versa, but that's a nitpick since they're communicating well.
He couldn't take the initiative. Claire has a plus +6 Dex bonus, Improved Initiative, and she rolled a 20.
Dang, Marten got caught flat-footed then! Will this encounter be the end of our favourite Bard/Cleric?

Don't worry... he's fighting a Chaotic Good Wood Nymph Enchantress... She's not going to hurt him. Much.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 18 Feb 2015, 20:53
Claire using the C-word doesn't jive with April's timeline. It has only really been pushed for a few years.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 18 Feb 2015, 20:59

Can we still make crude jokes at least?  :-(

(If that was already asked, I apologize... haven't read through everyone's responses yet today.)

Fun fact: treating a trans* person better than you would anyone else is still sexist! Just like taking measures against 'sounding racist' would still be racist. I would say go for it, but I'm certain the admins would argue against me.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: mustang6172 on 18 Feb 2015, 21:10
I hope Claire gets hit by a bus soon.  Then grieving Marten can find comfort in the arms of damaged Faye.  :-D
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 18 Feb 2015, 21:12
Consilium: The forum is not treating Claire better than other people in the comic. The forum is holding people to treat Claire in the same way they would treat other characters in the comic.

Point of fact, far before Claire's character was introduced, there was (and still is) a rule against shipping in the forum. This was there because people were crude about Hanners in a variety of ways.

My point is that this isn't the first forum-wide rule restricting how people can speculate or post about characters. I would argue that it is the same rule, just a little more blunt for those who need it.

If you want to speculate about Claire (or treat her "just the same" as you treat other people) then why don't you go somewhere else to do it? Its a free internet. Have fun.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 21:14
This just in: Within the next 10 comics everyone in QC dies. Pintsize watched "The Terminator".
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 21:14

Can we still make crude jokes at least?  :-(

(If that was already asked, I apologize... haven't read through everyone's responses yet today.)

Fun fact: treating a trans* person better than you would anyone else is still sexist! Just like taking measures against 'sounding racist' would still be racist. I would say go for it, but I'm certain the admins would argue against me.

... Me thinks you misunderstood. I was being facetious.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 18 Feb 2015, 21:14
Claire using the C-word doesn't jive with April's timeline. It has only really been pushed for a few years.

No, it still works.  According to Jeph, QC is set in both 2006 and the present, whenever that happens to be, so all cultural references made in any particular comic are always up-to-date.  No matter when it was written, it's always Now.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 18 Feb 2015, 21:15
Fun fact: treating a trans* person better than you would anyone else is still sexist! Just like taking measures against 'sounding racist' would still be racist. I would say go for it, but I'm certain the admins would argue against me.
How about he's treating her better because he likes her more?   And I think you might have meant to say, treating a trans person better because they are trans.   Yeah, it's sexist, but I also don't think that's the case.    Being understanding and flexible for her isn't sexist.  It's compassionate.   


That said...... 

(http://i.imgur.com/p9dbHMY.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 18 Feb 2015, 21:16
Claire using the C-word doesn't jive with April's timeline. It has only really been pushed for a few years.

No, it still works.  According to Jeph, QC is set in both 2006 and the present, whenever that happens to be, so all cultural references made in any particular are always up-to-date.  No matter when it was written, it's always Now.
QC's energy eigenvalue is very precisely known, and as a result of the Heisenberg uncertainty relation its uncertainty in time is very large.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 18 Feb 2015, 21:17
This just in: Within the next 10 comics everyone in QC dies. Pintsize watched "The Terminator".

Ooh! 'Bout time shit get real!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 18 Feb 2015, 21:45
Maybe on Friday they'll walk into Coffee of Doom and have to help Dora through her own lingering doubts re: firing Faye.

...for, like, two days, and then we'll spend another week on how cute Marten & Claire are as a couple.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 18 Feb 2015, 21:48
May leaves the convenience store and gets a job at CoD (and secretly to protect Hanners).  At least Dora doesn't have to worry about a robot drinking on the job.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: mustang6172 on 18 Feb 2015, 21:51
May leaves the convenience store and gets a job at CoD (and secretly to protect Hanners).  At least Dora doesn't have to worry about a robot drinking on the job.

(http://www.robotplunger.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/bender.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 21:51
May leaves the convenience store and gets a job at CoD (and secretly to protect Hanners).  At least Dora doesn't have to worry about a robot drinking on the job.

Plus, I like the really creative swearing.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 18 Feb 2015, 21:54
May leaves the convenience store and gets a job at CoD (and secretly to protect Hanners).  At least Dora doesn't have to worry about a robot drinking on the job.

(http://www.robotplunger.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/bender.jpg)

She will only have to worry about the robots drinking too much, or too little, I forget how it works with you. Anyway, you haven't drunk exactly the right amount.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 18 Feb 2015, 21:58

That said...... 

(http://i.imgur.com/p9dbHMY.jpg)

The truth is out there.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 18 Feb 2015, 22:03
Claire using the C-word doesn't jive with April's timeline. It has only really been pushed for a few years.

Meh.

The word "cisgender" has been around for a long time, and is an obvious coinage to anyone who knows a little bit of organic chemistry, molecular biology, or Roman history. Urban Dictionary has a definition from July 2004 (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cisgender&defid=770958). Wikipedia's article dates to August 2002 (http://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Cisgender&oldid=135477). Everything2's dates to October 2001 (http://everything2.com/user/Saige/writeups/cisgender). Andrea James's glossary on tsroadmap.org attested it as early as August 2001 (https://web.archive.org/web/20010813200724/http://tsroadmap.com/start/tgterms.html).

It's true that the term "cisgender" wasn't introduced to the wider feminist discourse until Julia Serano's 2007 book, wasn't a "meme" until Char's 2011 tattoo, and wasn't being used on TV until last year, but it's not very hard to imagine it being in a trans person's vocabulary in the mid-2000s.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 18 Feb 2015, 22:14
The Andrea James link called it rarely used.

There's an easy way to settle it though. Find some people who were members of that community back then and ask. Given the number of trans people on the forum there must be a few, non?

Zoe?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 18 Feb 2015, 22:24
The Andrea James link called it rarely used.

There's an easy way to settle it though. Find some people who were members of that community back then and ask. Given the number of trans people on the forum there must be a few, non?

Zoe?

I remember hearing the word a few times, never really used it much cause I wasn't out at the time, and wasn't sure of a lot of things.   But it has become more commonplace so it's used more.   It's not like we use "dagnabbit" thought we know it's out there, and usually only reserved for irony.    Words have life, and it can die.   So don't get gorgonized by timelines.   :clairedoge:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: MooskiNet on 18 Feb 2015, 22:30
Sweet or not, one of the things I like about this strip is how it places focus on what SHE is allowing to happen.  To this point, the narrative has felt very "Marten is dating Claire, a trans woman," whereas now it feels a little more "Claire, a trans woman, has decided to allow Marten into her world."

There's more a sense of reality to the second narrative, at least to me.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 18 Feb 2015, 22:42
Anyone know the LD50 for cuteness? I think we're pushing it with the second and final panels here.

At any rate, this feels like a bookend for now for Marten and Claire happenings. Time for other plots!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 22:47
"Faye realizes she's in love... with Pintsize"
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Stoon on 18 Feb 2015, 22:53
Jeph is being exceedingly hard on my diabetes this week. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 18 Feb 2015, 22:55
Don't worry... he's fighting a Chaotic Good Wood Nymph Enchantress... She's not going to hurt him. Much.

While I can see the argument for chaos(going against the grain to be herself), I'm going with Lawful Neutral Halfling.

She's not laid back enough to be a halfling and that's more suited for Marten, but I am making a short joke and gnomes are dumb.

ANYWAY, like the comic. Claire's coming off in character and real. So, substance with the sugar.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: HannahRose on 18 Feb 2015, 23:09
The Andrea James link called it rarely used.

There's an easy way to settle it though. Find some people who were members of that community back then and ask. Given the number of trans people on the forum there must be a few, non?

I wasn't really a part of the community yet, so to speak, but I was familiar with the term back then (around 2005ish to be more specific). Granted, that was also when I'd just gotten my own/first computer, and I was all but dissecting the internet trying to figure out who the heck I was/am. lol
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 18 Feb 2015, 23:17
and gnomes are dumb.
How mean....

THERE WILL BE GNOMERCY!!!!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 18 Feb 2015, 23:42
I think that this is one of the longest expositions that we've ever had from Claire. It also reminds us that she isn't perfect; Marten has just got her on a good day. We are also reminded that Claire also has a stake in the game as well as her own anxieties over her inexperience (raising the question of whether everything that we've seen from her so far is nothing but a 'best guess').

Y'know, when I see a text-heavy strip, the text tends to dominate my attention and I don't start seeing the details of the art until the third reading or later. Consequently, it took me a while to realise that Jeph was right. Panel 2 was one of the cutest Claires that he's ever drawn!

Now, is it me or has Jeph been playing lots of JRPGs on Game Boy? Panel 6 looks a lot like a level up/level end screen!

Claire using the C-word doesn't jive with April's timeline. It has only really been pushed for a few years.

Remember that this is an AU. Real-world history is a guide here but is not automatically canon.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 18 Feb 2015, 23:43
THERE WILL BE GNOMERCY!!!!
(http://home.comcast.net/~k.faber/worldofdavidgnome4.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 18 Feb 2015, 23:51
I also just don't like using that word, but that's mostly because it sounds weird to me

It also reminds us that she isn't perfect

EDIT - Also, how dare you suggest such a thing!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BrusselSprouts on 18 Feb 2015, 23:52
Do you think the Relationship Status thing will come back during or after the first Clairten fight? I would love for it to become A Thing
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 18 Feb 2015, 23:59
... I'm gonna give an unpopular opinion.

I hate this comic.

I hate the way that Claire and Marten have turned out. And I ship the hell out of them.

I want to find out more than just how cute Claire and Marten are. I want to find out how Claire feels about the Faye Fiasco. I want to see Marten dealing with the little issues that come up when a cis male dates a trans woman: and there ARE issues. Even the nicest, sweetest, most understanding guy in the world WILL have issues because every real relationship has issues.

I wanted Claire and Marten to have a heart-to-heart about Marten having to cancel their date to take care of Faye. Maybe have a conversation about Faye's friendship with Marten. Maybe explore the fact that Claire is fine with this, which might be a bit weird to Marten because Claire HAS to be the most stable person he's ever dated, and as nice as that is, it has to feel a bit odd that Claire doesn't feel threatened or upset that Marten had to cancel their date at the last moment to deal with an emergency.

I wanted Claire and Marten laying in bed, joking and giggling about how awkward sex was, because the first time is always awkward, no matter how nice it is.

I wanted Marten admitting that it felt a little odd to be dating a transgender woman, after a lifetime of dating cisgendered women.

Because these are the sorts of things that people in a relationship need to talk about in order for the relationship to be open, truthful, and real. And none of these conversations have taken place.

All we've seen is the George Lucas version of the relationship: Marten and Claire swooning over each other and blandly monologuing about how their love for each other is a lovey river of lovey love and everything is absolutely fine!

This doesn't make me happy. This doesn't make me feel like this is the start of a new relationship. This feels like Marten and Claire found each other on the rebound after a single drunken night and are desperately trying to convince themselves and each other that they are happy with each other and belong with each other and everything is absolutely fine! THE RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT! NO ONE SHALL EVER BE ALLOWED TO SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP EVER! THE FIRST TIME FOR CLAIRE WILL BE WONDERFUL! NO AWKWARDNESS! NO ONE SHALL EVER DO ANYTHING BUT SQUEE AND SHIP THE PAIRING! THERE WILL BE NOTHING OF INTEREST IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ASIDE FROM GLURGEY SACCHARINE CUTENESS! YOU WILL SQUEE AND YOU WILL ENJOY AND THAT WILL BE ALL!

I want the old Claire and Pintsize relationship back. The one where Pintsize holds the paddle, with big puppy eyes, wanting to spank Claire, and Claire indulges him because honestly, it's harmless fun, right? Not LOOOM YOU SHALL NOT SAY ANYTHING PERVERTED TO MY GIRLFRIEND EVER. Claire's a big girl. She can handle that little dweeb.

... There's been a lot of talk going around about how great it is that a major webcomic has a trans character loving a cis character and everything is fine and dandy. I have no problem with that. I just wish we got more CHARACTER, and less "TRANS and CIS."

edit: I elaborated a bit more on my frustration with the relationship.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 00:05
This doesn't make me happy. This doesn't make me feel like this is the start of a new relationship. This feels like Marten and Claire found each other on the rebound after a single drunken night and are desperately trying to convince themselves and each other that they are happy with each other and belong with each other and everything is absolutely fine! THE RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT! NO ONE SHALL EVER BE ALLOWED TO SAY ANYTHING BAD ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP EVER! THE FIRST TIME FOR CLAIRE WILL BE WONDERFUL! NO AWKWARDNESS! NO ONE SHALL EVER DO ANYTHING BUT SQUEE AND SHIP THE PAIRING! THERE WILL BE NOTHING OF INTEREST IN THIS RELATIONSHIP ASIDE FROM GLURGEY SACCHARINE CUTENESS! YOU WILL SQUEE AND YOU WILL ENJOY AND THAT WILL BE ALL!

I want the old Claire and Pintsize relationship back. The one where Pintsize holds the paddle, with big puppy eyes, wanting to spank Claire, and Claire indulges him because honestly, it's harmless fun, right? Not LOOOM YOU SHALL NOT SAY ANYTHING PERVERTED TO MY GIRLFRIEND EVER. Claire's a big girl. She can handle that little dweeb.

this.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 19 Feb 2015, 00:10
Has it occurred to anyone that this is exactly what Jeph wants as an atmosphere in the comic right now? From his Tweets, I get the impression that he is in a particularly good place, relationship-wise right now. That happiness and optimism will inevitably be reflected in his work.

Be human, people. Let him enjoy it! :-)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Deadman on 19 Feb 2015, 00:11
I have never heard the word CIS used in a neutral or positive connotation I get the fact that Claire is not using it in a negative but the word itself is just.....
 :meh: 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 00:12
Has it occurred to anyone that this is exactly what Jeph wants as an atmosphere in the comic right now? From his Tweets, I get the impression that he is in a particularly good place, relationship-wise right now. That happiness and optimism will inevitably be reflected in his work.

Be human, people. Let him enjoy it! :-)

I'm sincerely happy for Jeph if that's the case.

These comics still suck.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 00:17
DrClef, you make some very good points.   But I make one to challenge all of what you said.    Yet.    Everything you said is something I think we all expect, but it hasn't happened yet.    So in this regard, while many agree, patience is what is called for.    Especially if you binge read the comic and are still somewhat new.  You want more, we all do.    Many relationships start out in that haze of surrealism and blinders.    Why would this one would be any different?   Give it time.   I am sure there will be drama ahead.   If you've read since the beginning, no upside is without it's down.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 00:18
I have never heard the word CIS used in a neutral or positive connotation I get the fact that Claire is not using it in a negative but the word itself is just.....
 :meh:

Okay:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 00:20
I have never heard the word CIS used in a neutral or positive connotation I get the fact that Claire is not using it in a negative but the word itself is just.....
 :meh:

....is just a word used in contrast to the word trans.   It's not used in any other context.   It isn't a negative to be cis.
If you're taking offense, I'd say you're likely reading it wrong.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 19 Feb 2015, 00:21
Gotta admit, I do want to see some of that other stuff Clef was talking about missing... but I think they'll eventually get here. Maybe they'll get here 'tomorrow' in-comic time. Maybe we'll timeskip. Maybe we'll have more of this style comic for a while, but the other stuff will, indeed, come.

Me, myself, I think that final panel in today's comic might just be the final note for this type of strip and it will either go unsaid from here on out, or we'll get all that other interesting stuff.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dark Matter on 19 Feb 2015, 00:26
Everything you said is something I think we all expect, but it hasn't happened yet.    So in this regard, while many agree, patience is what is called for.   

This. There will be plenty of time for Claire and Marten drama later, but right now I personally feel like the current pattern of Claire & Marten cuteness trading off with Faye drama is actually working quite well in ensuring that the comic is not dominated by one or the other.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 00:32
DrClef, you make some very good points.   But I make one to challenge all of what you said.    Yet.    Everything you said is something I think we all expect, but it hasn't happened yet.    So in this regard, while many agree, patience is what is called for.    Especially if you binge read the comic and are still somewhat new.  You want more, we all do.    Many relationships start out in that haze of surrealism and blinders.    Why would this one would be any different?   Give it time.   I am sure there will be drama ahead.   If you've read since the beginning, no upside is without it's down.

I don't want drama. I like Claire and Marten being a stable couple. I just want them to act like a pair of adults instead of a couple of starry eyed teenagers. Have some actual conversations instead of long-winded monologues about how perfect the relationship is and how Claire might be worried but they are sure there will be no problems whatsoever and everything is wonderful and hunky dory and bleh. Talk like human beings instead of bad fanfic writers deciding that the best way to show what a character is thinking is to have them explain, at length, exactly what their emotions are.

I mean, compare this to the other couple whose relationship quickly became sexual after the young woman walked out of her bedroom to find her love interest with a plate of pancakes in the kitchen. Dale and Marigold didn't go into long-winded rants about how they've put aside their differences and worked past their problems and were now friends and lovers. Dale just needed to cook some pancakes and get dragged off to bed by Marigold.

I guess that's the crux of my problem. Jeph has spent a lot of time TELLING us that Claire and Marten are a perfect couple, but they have DONE precious little to show that.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Dark Matter on 19 Feb 2015, 00:35
Have some actual conversations instead of long-winded monologues about how perfect the relationship is and how Claire might be worried but they are sure there will be no problems whatsoever and everything is wonderful and hunky dory and bleh.

You and I must use different definitions of what a monologue is.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 00:37
To be fair I found Dale and Marigold's relationship to be equally insufferable when it was commanding panel time.

God forbid we ever see Sven or Angus again. That would require enduring some degree of discomfort, conflict and narrative momentum.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 00:38
Have some actual conversations instead of long-winded monologues about how perfect the relationship is and how Claire might be worried but they are sure there will be no problems whatsoever and everything is wonderful and hunky dory and bleh.

You and I must use different definitions of what a monologue is.

An entire comic consisting of a character talking at length in response to a short question? Yeah, I call that a monologue.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 00:41
I don't want drama. I like Claire and Marten being a stable couple. I just want them to act like a pair of adults instead of a couple of starry eyed teenagers. Have some actual conversations instead of long-winded monologues about how perfect the relationship is and how Claire might be worried but they are sure there will be no problems whatsoever and everything is wonderful and hunky dory and bleh. Talk like human beings instead of bad fanfic writers deciding that the best way to show what a character is thinking is to have them explain, at length, exactly what their emotions are.

I mean, compare this to the other couple whose relationship quickly became sexual after the young woman walked out of her bedroom to find her love interest with a plate of pancakes in the kitchen. Dale and Marigold didn't go into long-winded rants about how they've put aside their differences and worked past their problems and were now friends and lovers. Dale just needed to cook some pancakes and get dragged off to bed by Marigold.

I guess that's the crux of my problem. Jeph has spent a lot of time TELLING us that Claire and Marten are a perfect couple, but they have DONE precious little to show that.

Bear in mind, we've had a lot more time to process their relationship and develop our own hopes for what it could be.  In their time it's been what?  Less than a week?   I think two people talking about their feelings and thoughts like this are why we have higher hopes for their relationship.   And likely a reason why they might have a healthy one.    Just because they aren't speaking in a manner that you'd expect or desire doesn't mean they aren't being adult about it.   Reflection is a sign of reason, and there is a lot of that, perhaps more than you like.  Which is fine of course, but also consider that they both have said they just want to see where things take them.   And expressing their nervousness through monologues while a little removed from what we might normally experience, seems to me an abrupt and poignant way to deliver the internal thought process each of them have, while also allowing that process to contribute to them being so open with each other.    I still urge patience.   Which doesn't always mean how long we wait, but what we do and how we handle the wait.     :)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 19 Feb 2015, 00:48
I still urge patience.   Which doesn't always mean how long we wait, but what we do and how we handle the wait.     :)
This line alone should be put somewhere where everyone could see it.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2015, 00:57
An entire comic consisting of a character talking at length in response to a short question? Yeah, I call that a monologue.

Two successive comics in which they each talk to the other - already a dialogue.  And bear in mind that each of those probably represents less than a minute of comic time.

The mistake is seeing each strip as a story in miniature - it isn't, it is one of a set that builds into a story.  That's the way this comic works.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 01:09
I still urge patience.   Which doesn't always mean how long we wait, but what we do and how we handle the wait.     :)

I've been sitting here reading this statement, wondering why it bothers me so much. I still haven't come to a conclusion, but I think that I may have the start of one.

It's been 93 pages since the start of Marten and Claire's relationship. That's over four months of real-world time. I estimate about a third of those pages are about Marten and Claire's relationship. So estimate about 30 pages of Marten and Claire.

ALL of those pages have had the same structure.

1. Something happens to further their relationship.

2. They explain to us in no uncertain terms that this is good.

3. Claire does something cute and compliments Marten.

It's a bit uncanny how many of those pages follow this EXACT pattern, and I'm sick of it.

I GET it already. Marten is the perfect boyfriend for Claire. Claire thinks he's handsome and wonderful. And the first ten times this was made clear, I liked it. But around the ice-cream kisses mark, it started seriously getting old.

In the words of the entire cast of Monty Python and the Holy Grail, "GET ON WITH IT ALREADY!" I've BEEN patient, and now I'm getting frustrated.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: greywolfe on 19 Feb 2015, 01:16
Has it occurred to anyone that this is exactly what Jeph wants as an atmosphere in the comic right now? From his Tweets, I get the impression that he is in a particularly good place, relationship-wise right now. That happiness and optimism will inevitably be reflected in his work.

Be human, people. Let him enjoy it! :-)

I'm sincerely happy for Jeph if that's the case.

These comics still suck.

I'm still of the opinion that this is all a dream sequence.  It's to perfect. Marten had evolved into the perfect boyfriend. It's...matrix-y.

I'm taking a bet that it's all a single-malt-prompted dream sequence.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 19 Feb 2015, 01:39
It's a bit uncanny how many of those pages follow this EXACT pattern, and I'm sick of it.

I think that you're just going to have to learn to deal with the fact that this is how Jeph is going to write this phase of Marten and Claire's relationship. Personally, it's my view that, generally speaking, he handled Faye and Angus in similar ways.

I've been thinking about this whole thing. It's worth noting that we're still in the 'roll off' period after Marten and Claire were intimate for the first time. There was the cute giggly moment but this is the first time they've had a chance (away from Faye, who has problems that doubtless made them reluctant to talk whilst around her) to discuss what's going on in their heads.

From this we've learnt that:
It isn't being rubbed in our faces, but the progression is there. You just need to be bothered to look and see. Additionally, given Jeph's general writing pacing, you're going to have to be patient too because developments are going to appear slowly and subtly.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CM_albion on 19 Feb 2015, 04:42
Has it occurred to anyone that this is exactly what Jeph wants as an atmosphere in the comic right now? From his Tweets, I get the impression that he is in a particularly good place, relationship-wise right now. That happiness and optimism will inevitably be reflected in his work.

Be human, people. Let him enjoy it! :-)

I'm sincerely happy for Jeph if that's the case.

These comics still suck.

I'm still of the opinion that this is all a dream sequence.  It's to perfect. Marten had evolved into the perfect boyfriend. It's...matrix-y.

I'm taking a bet that it's all a single-malt-prompted dream sequence.

WHAT IF?
the comic just gets increasingly happy and perfect for the next couple of weeks until we cut back to the hospital and find out...Faye still hasn't awoken?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 19 Feb 2015, 04:45
I could see that happening. But that'd bee a hell of a whiplash.

Also, something about the comic (and sorry if this comes out a bit wrong): Does Claire saying that she's never shared her fears and insecurities and bad days and all that with a cis guy mean that Clinton is also trans? Because I'm pretty sure that's something you'd want to share with your brother.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 19 Feb 2015, 04:45
DrClef's long analysis of Claire and Marten's new relationship struck me as really excellent. At first. Like AprilArcus, I was inclined to say "this." That post was beautifully-written and incisive as hell.

Then I thought about it a little more.

It's been a long time for me, on account of being married and stuff, but I suddenly remembered what the first few days/weeks of a new relationship are like. Especially one that grew out of a friendship from pals to co-flirters to lovers.

This is pretty much what it's like.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 19 Feb 2015, 04:49
Jeph doesn't do the dream-sequence twist though  :parrot:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CM_albion on 19 Feb 2015, 04:56
I could see that happening. But that'd bee a hell of a whiplash.

Also, something about the comic (and sorry if this comes out a bit wrong): Does Claire saying that she's never shared her fears and insecurities and bad days and all that with a cis guy mean that Clinton is also trans? Because I'm pretty sure that's something you'd want to share with your brother.

this might just be me personally, but speaking as someone who grew up with two brothers, they're the LAST people i would open up to about insecurities. well, maybe not the very last, but you get my point.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 19 Feb 2015, 05:02
I have a sister. Older one. I tend to open up to her about this shit. That's why I thought about this.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 19 Feb 2015, 05:05
My brother only ever gets Half Empty Coffee Cup LiteTM. If I say something about what I'm thinking to him, it's either superficial and banal, or I've turned it over enough in my head so that I can give him a sanitized version that doesn't provoke bullshit out of him. Then again, he's a jerk who I have a hard time forgiving. Your mileage may vary regarding sibling relationships.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: no one special on 19 Feb 2015, 05:24
I want to find out more than just how cute Claire and Marten are. I want to find out how Claire feels about the Faye Fiasco. I want to see Marten dealing with the little issues that come up when a cis male dates a trans woman: and there ARE issues. Even the nicest, sweetest, most understanding guy in the world WILL have issues because every real relationship has issues.

Yeah, this is pretty much where I am.  I find it hard to believe that marten has no further questions, concerns, issues at this point.  I mean, okay, maybe today there aren't any questions because afterglow, but to imply (as has been implied) that there aren't any at all...?  Like DrClef said - it's not that Marten isn't understanding, easygoing, all that jazz.  But when starting a trans/cis relationship, there will be issues. 

In that vein - could it be considered irresponsible not to address these types of issues up to this point?  I mean, if the point is to give life and breadth and depth to this relationship, to really create a voice that most of us aren't hearing - oughtn't there be a responsibility to address things in a more nuanced way?  So far, neither Marten nor Claire have shown any real trepidation about their endeavor together minus a few jitters.  Do either of them have the wherewithal/self-awareness/life experience to simply dive into this new and distinctly unique (to them) situation, no questions asked?  Wouldn't the general public be better educated by a more nuanced and detailed path forward? 

Jeph has dealt with many other topics so powerfully and effectively - alcoholism, suicide, anxiety, depression, civil rights.  Why, thus far, is this topic being approached so differently? 

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: MooskiNet on 19 Feb 2015, 05:45
Why, thus far, is this topic being approached so differently?

I think the operative part of your question is 'thus far'.  Time moves at a pace that could be called 'glacial' in the QC verse; it's been less than a week since Marten and Claire snuggled on the couch, if I'm tracking correctly, and certainly less than two even if I'm not.

QC has a lot of irons in the fire right now (perhaps too many), but I would imagine there's a great deal of pressure to do the relationship between Marten and Claire 'right' (whatever that means).  Also, if a significant amount of your positive feedback comes every time a certain redhead does something cute, you could be excused for having her do something cute a lot more often.

Point is, most if not all the quibbles with how the story is being told tend to resolve themselves as the story continues being told.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 19 Feb 2015, 06:12
I want to find out more than just how cute Claire and Marten are. I want to find out how Claire feels about the Faye Fiasco. I want to see Marten dealing with the little issues that come up when a cis male dates a trans woman: and there ARE issues. Even the nicest, sweetest, most understanding guy in the world WILL have issues because every real relationship has issues.

Yeah, this is pretty much where I am.  I find it hard to believe that marten has no further questions, concerns, issues at this point.  I mean, okay, maybe today there aren't any questions because afterglow, but to imply (as has been implied) that there aren't any at all...?  Like DrClef said - it's not that Marten isn't understanding, easygoing, all that jazz.  But when starting a trans/cis relationship, there will be issues. 

In that vein - could it be considered irresponsible not to address these types of issues up to this point?  I mean, if the point is to give life and breadth and depth to this relationship, to really create a voice that most of us aren't hearing - oughtn't there be a responsibility to address things in a more nuanced way?  So far, neither Marten nor Claire have shown any real trepidation about their endeavor together minus a few jitters.  Do either of them have the wherewithal/self-awareness/life experience to simply dive into this new and distinctly unique (to them) situation, no questions asked?  Wouldn't the general public be better educated by a more nuanced and detailed path forward? 

Jeph has dealt with many other topics so powerfully and effectively - alcoholism, suicide, anxiety, depression, civil rights.  Why, thus far, is this topic being approached so differently? 

To be honest, I think he wants a positive representation of a trans character and trans issues (which is a good thing), but he's overshooting by a parsec. As you said, every real relationship has issues, but Marten and Claire.. don't. And while it's fine that they're still in their everything-is-perfect-phase of their relationship, we don't need to see every cutesy boring detail - the other couples we saw also had their perfect-relationship phase but after 2-3 comics it was assumed that they are together and everything is fine and we didn't need 30 comics of content-deprived sweetness to know it. Depicting Claire's relationship with Marten so incredibly boring does them no favour.

Let me be clear - I don't need them to fight and I don't need any drama whatsoever in their relationship, but I don't need to watch them make out and gush over each other for months. We could follow Faye or Dora or Tai or Sven or Angus (or anybody, really), who's dealing with their issues and just assume Marten and Claire are happily making out because they don't answer phonecalls or need an hour from the library to the CoD.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 19 Feb 2015, 06:17
Changing the topic slightly...it's interesting that Claire says that she wants to believe in LETTING the relationship work. It's as if she perceives that the biggest obstacle to her happiness might actually be herself - deep down she knows that she has found a good man but her own anxieties and hang-ups work against her.

I can see Jeph maybe developing on this in the future to give us our much sought after conflict. :wink:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 19 Feb 2015, 06:18
I'm seeing what some of you are saying about these strips lacking character/plot advancement, having too much dialogue/cuteness, and overall acting as boring filler. But I think it's a good thing that there are so many strips about Marten and Claire just hanging out together. It's a depiction of a relationship between a trans person and a cis person, and I could be totally wrong about this, but I feel like it's a nice thing for trans people to see a representation of themselves being handled in a totally casual way - it's important that we have this emphasis on the relationship because it really secures the fact that just because Claire is trans, it doesn't mean Marten has to treat her any differently than he would have treated Dora, or Padma, or any other girl he's had feelings for. Thoughts?

I agree with 100% of what Jeph is trying to portray here.  But I read QC to be entertained, not lectured at.  Didactic anything turns me the fuck off. 

Claire's half of the conversation was, predictably, way more interesting. The relationship is much more of a revelation for her than it is for Marten. Kinda feels like he should be the one taking the initiative to check in on her, not vice versa, but that's a nitpick since they're communicating well.

Agreed.  But then again, Claire's character has had much less of a lobotomy after they started dating than Marten.  To me the most interesting thing she said was that she had never opened up about her issues to a cis guy.  This implies she has transwomen (or perhaps cis-women) friends which have not been seen in the comic.  More characters ahoy? 


Epic rant.


Right on brother!  Or sister!  Whatever.

The thing which makes me sad about this is Jeph has written beginnings to relationships much better.  The Padma arc was fantastic.  It was doomed of course, but it perfectly got across the tension/excitement of meeting someone new and beginning to fall for them.  He wrote Padma as the sort of woman I'd have a hard time resisting.  The now ancient arc with Steve and Meena (remember when Steve wasn't a one-dimensional bro?) was also very well done from a passion standpoint.  And although they were more "comfort" relationships and less full-on passion, Martin/Dora and Faye/Angus were written well.  There was nothing particularly deep about Marigold hooking up with Dale, but it was a realistic depiction of two awkward people hooking up regardless. 

Claire/Marten had great potential, as I've said in the past.  The wedding arc showed amazing chemistry between them, given the combination of friction and sexual tension.  But all of the rough edges have been worn off both of them.  The whole arc since they've started dating seems like bad slash fiction that was written by a fan of the strip, not Jeph himself.

Maybe Jeph will find a way, a year or two from now (real world time) to plant the seeds of serious relationship issues, if not its total destruction.  But by that time if he keeps up this way he may have alienated much of his core readership which wants complicated, intelligent depictions of relationships, and attracted people who just want the puppies and kittens ever after to last.  Meaning he'll have hella blowback. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: kent_eh on 19 Feb 2015, 06:29
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...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: miados on 19 Feb 2015, 06:31
am I wrong or is this the first time we saw marten start the relationship so to speak? I am pretty sure that Dora started the relationship with him. I don't 100 percent recall the other coffee girl offhand but i feel like she kind of made the moves to start it, but it was a while so i guess i need to go back and read again. Although that one night stand i think he kind of made the first move but i don't count that.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 19 Feb 2015, 06:36
am I wrong or is this the first time we saw marten start the relationship so to speak? I am pretty sure that Dora started the relationship with him. I don't 100 percent recall the other coffee girl offhand but i feel like she kind of made the moves to start it, but it was a while so i guess i need to go back and read again. Although that one night stand i think he kind of made the first move but i don't count that.

Padma is iffy.  I mean, Marten was definitely pursuing her, but arguably she was the one who kissed him.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: NilsO on 19 Feb 2015, 06:38
I'm glad there are still some folks enjoying Clairten, but I need a break from this plot line. Interactions I would find more interesting:

Dora vs. Tai on Sven & Faye
Dora vs. Sven
Faye vs. Sven
Angus says goodbye to Marigold
Momo goes on a date
Claire vs. Tai on transfeminine vs transmasculine experiences & trans women at Smif
Faye & her family on addiction and life choices
Band practice

... really, just, absolutely anything at all.
Agreed. Fortunately, today's strip seems to be a temporary closure on the Claire/Marten cuteness. Let us hope they do not reappear in the next 200+ strips, and that AprilArcus' wishes come true. :mrgreen:

I suspect Tuesday's Yelling Bird disturbed the numeric sequence, and today's Claireten closure was meant to be strip #2899. That way, #2900 should be the start of a completely new thread. But a number is just a number, so I shall not complain if the new thread starts at #2901 instead.

I GET it already. Marten is the perfect boyfriend for Claire. Claire thinks he's handsome and wonderful. And the first ten times this was made clear, I liked it. But around the ice-cream kisses mark, it started seriously getting old.
Another soulmate. We have had enough. Time to move on, and get the sweetness out of our bodies.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 19 Feb 2015, 06:40
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...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

It's a new one to me too but my understanding is that it is the Latin antonym to 'trans'. It is, in this context, used to define those who are not trans-sexual.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 19 Feb 2015, 06:41
Hm. The lack of verbal sparring is actually uncharacteristic of the strip enough to make me wonder... What will happen when it does show up? Will it serve to set off those alluded to anxieties? Maybe this change of tone is more significant than I thought from a plotting standpoint.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 19 Feb 2015, 06:42
The other thing is, I wonder if Claire might get sick of being coddled, worried that Marten doesn't see her as an equal, because she's not as experienced as his past partners.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 19 Feb 2015, 06:48
Look at it this way, we're seeing the relationship in the "Lovey-dovey" stage, where it's all cutesy and happy and everything about the other person is new and fresh. That stage doesn't last forever and when it ends, both people start seeing the flaws in the other (and sometimes themselves). It's when a relationship gets to that stage that it's really decided if it can continue or not.

There's no conflict now, but that doesn't mean there won't be any in the future.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 19 Feb 2015, 06:53
Look at it this way, we're seeing the relationship in the "Lovey-dovey" stage, where it's all cutesy and happy and everything about the other person is new and fresh. That stage doesn't last forever and when it ends, both people start seeing the flaws in the other (and sometimes themselves). It's when a relationship gets to that stage that it's really decided if it can continue or not.

There's no conflict now, but that doesn't mean there won't be any in the future.

This would be defensible if they were beginning to date as strangers.  But they were friends for months before hooking up, and arguably were becoming besties.  They've seen each other in pretty bad lights already, and of course they accept one another despite this.  But you don't just magically change how you interact with someone because you start boning.  You just add the boning to the initial dynamic. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: dexeron on 19 Feb 2015, 06:57
I understand people's complaints, but I have a hard time caring because smiling Claire is BestClaire.

More seriously, though, what I'm seeing in some of these complaints boils down to a demand that this relationship play out exactly like every other relationship has in the story.  Why would we want that?  Variety is the fuel for a more interesting story.  I'm also seeing demands for "complicated, intelligent depictions of relationships," but I'd argue that what we're seeing here is every bit as "real" of a relationship* as one founded with the help of a robot and a hologram.  Just because this one has less "drama" doesn't make it devoid of narrative content, or character growth (which is also of importance in a story.)  Just because it's a happier, more optimistic start doesn't make it any less "intelligent," nor less "complicated."

A couple examples:



Also, I have already seen that last panel turned into peoples' Facebook avatars, and it is GLORIOUS.


*I've had relationships that were every bit as "holy crap, everything just fell into place with us" as Marten and Claire's.  Often, after the first few day's glow begins to wear off, there's some discussion, and yeah, sometimes it's the same tone of discussion as we're seeing here.  That's not "bad fan-fiction."  It actually happens, sometimes.



Warning - while you were typing 5 new replies have been posted. You may wish to not try boring everyone to death with gigantic walls-of-text next time.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CaptainFish on 19 Feb 2015, 07:00
Agreed.  But then again, Claire's character has had much less of a lobotomy after they started dating than Marten.  To me the most interesting thing she said was that she had never opened up about her issues to a cis guy.  This implies she has transwomen (or perhaps cis-women) friends which have not been seen in the comic.  More characters ahoy? 

Perhaps we'll see the support group members she alluded to.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: anahata on 19 Feb 2015, 07:12
Yeah, this is pretty much where I am.  I find it hard to believe that marten has no further questions, concerns, issues at this point.  I mean, okay, maybe today there aren't any questions because afterglow, but to imply (as has been implied) that there aren't any at all...?  Like DrClef said - it's not that Marten isn't understanding, easygoing, all that jazz.  But when starting a trans/cis relationship, there will be issues.

It's been suggested before that Marten's early exposure to all the stuff his mother did means he genuinely has no hangups about it. He's seen it all before, and knows too well that there are no limits or rules about what people should or shouldn't or might want do to have sexy fun together. All that matters to him is people's personalities and characters.

Claire, in contrast, has had to tread a hard and lonely path (even if well supported by family) where she was the one that was "different", and is naturally still anxious about whether she's doing things right. It will take a while for Marten to convince her that there's no right and wrong, and whatever she's comfortable with is OK. She's lucky to have fallen on her feet, and got into a relationship that she wanted but wasn't even sure would be possible. "Can't believe it's true" must be how she sees it.

The other thing is, I wonder if Claire might get sick of being coddled, worried that Marten doesn't see her as an equal, because she's not as experienced as his past partners.
Hopefully when Claire relaxes a bit, Marten will stop coddling her so much. It's early days yet - give them time!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 19 Feb 2015, 07:26
I understand people's complaints, but I have a hard time caring because smiling Claire is BestClaire.

More seriously, though, what I'm seeing in some of these complaints boils down to a demand that this relationship play out exactly like every other relationship has in the story.  Why would we want that?  Variety is the fuel for a more interesting story.  I'm also seeing demands for "complicated, intelligent depictions of relationships," but I'd argue that what we're seeing here is every bit as "real" of a relationship* as one founded with the help of a robot and a hologram.  Just because this one has less "drama" doesn't make it devoid of narrative content, or character growth (which is also of importance in a story.)  Just because it's a happier, more optimistic start doesn't make it any less "intelligent," nor less "complicated."

Honestly, I don't think anyone who is complaining about the overdose of VERY SIMILAR Marten/Claire strips is really asking for more drama. At least, I'm not. There is pleanty of drama currently set up in other characters. Characters we aren't seeing. Characters we will see for one strip, then we have at least two, usually more strips of Marten and Claire doing the exact same things they have been doing.

I think the people asking for more complexity are asking for it because... well... if we are going to be forced to focus on Marten/Claire at least give us something interesting to focus on. Anything! Hell, reveal that Claire is PizzaGirl! I don't care how outlandish it is at this point, as long as it is something besides "OOH! Claire and Marten are SOOOOOO Cute! How Cute? Let me show you again with my next strip! And again and again and again!!!11!"

I think at this point we have more than enough proof that Marten and Claire have a strong foundation for a happy relationship. Now show us other things, and let us assume that they are happy and making out or whatever.

For those encouraging patientce, yeah, I get that this is a comic where the plotlines are often a slow burn. But I've been reading this comic for more than five years now, and I've never been so frustrated that one plotline is being stalled in cuteness while another 5 potential plotlines are not being addressed at all.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 07:27
It's been suggested before that Marten's early exposure to all the stuff his mother did means he genuinely has no hangups about it. He's seen it all before, and knows too well that there are no limits or rules about what people should or shouldn't or might want do to have sexy fun together. All that matters to him is people's personalities and characters.

I don't buy it (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=457) that he escaped home with zero hang-ups about trans people. We saw him work through a bit of that (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30235.msg1277848.html#msg1277848) with Tai and Dora, but he was still daunted (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2803) about starting a relationship with Claire as recently as strip 2803. It isn't until 2804 that confidant, smooth, ideal husbando Marten fully takes over.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 19 Feb 2015, 07:35
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...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

It is simply an outgrowth of the usage of the prefix trans- which means 'across from' or 'on the other side of'. Cis- means 'on this side of'. It refers to people who do not experience any significant disconnect with their sex assigned at birth and their identified gender. Basically, in short it means 'someone who is not trans-*'.

Some people assume it is an insult because it's not hugely common yet. And being cis is seen as 'normal' where trans is seen as 'abnormal' so they feel attaching a specific word to being what they see as 'normal' as insulting. For the record, both cis and trans people are perfectly normal and natural. It's just one is a lot more common than the other. The word itself is not in any way an insult. Like any word though, tone, inflection and timing can turn it into an insult. Heck you could use 'puppy' as an insult and that's about the cutest thing I can think of.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 19 Feb 2015, 07:36
It's been suggested before that Marten's early exposure to all the stuff his mother did means he genuinely has no hangups about it. He's seen it all before, and knows too well that there are no limits or rules about what people should or shouldn't or might want do to have sexy fun together. All that matters to him is people's personalities and characters.

I don't buy it (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=457) that he escaped home with zero hang-ups about trans people. We saw him work through a bit of that (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30235.msg1277848.html#msg1277848) with Tai and Dora, but he was still daunted (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2803) about starting a relationship with Claire as recently as strip 2803. It isn't until 2804 that confidant, smooth, ideal husbando Marten fully takes over.

In 2803 he just says that he needs pancakes for processing. It's a surprising amount of times that's happened to me without having any negative connotations, or having anything to do with hang-ups. This is not to say that he had zero hang-ups back then, but to say that maybe he just needed to compile everything he had done the night before 2803. I'm pretty sure he was already fine with what happened in 2800 (which is a whooping 5 hours earlier in comic time, but still).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Euthemes on 19 Feb 2015, 08:02
I don't like the depiction of Clairten. I think it's too cheesy, maybe a mild case of Romantic Plot Tumor. JJ seems to be overly anxious to represent this relationship as unrealistically impeccable as possible. Well, a 3000-strips-long webcomic cannot be perfect at all times and some extra sugar for a few days never hurt anybody.

I think our Comic Overlord needs to relax, he's already doing a great job with QC -even though I arbitrarily believe we will see THE END by strip 4000-.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 08:50
Summary of the WCDT thus far:
Group A: Hmm. New relationship. I see they're still in that stage where neither one of them is thinking of places to hide the body. Cute.
Group B: Where's the drama?
Group A: Uh, it's only been a week or tw--
Group B: Gaaaah! Why haven't they broken up yet? MOAR DRAMAZ!

Couple things here:
First, it's useful to remember that there's a significant disconnect between comic time and calendar time.
Second, it's useful to remember that, in life and in stories alike, it ain't all drama all the time.
Third (he points out for the second, maybe third time), when you're juggling multiple story arcs, you need something to leaven the drama. If you view this as a comedy, on the other hand, sometimes a serious/darker undercurrent (a slot currently occupied by Faye getting her life back together) helps to maintain some balance.

I'm beginning to think that some of the disconnect is from differences in people's experiences.


It's been a long time for me, on account of being married and stuff, but I suddenly remembered what the first few days/weeks of a new relationship are like. Especially one that grew out of a friendship from pals to co-flirters to lovers.

This is pretty much what it's like.

I'm coming from a similar place, having gone through a ton of relationships good, bad, and ugly before getting married. Most of my relationships started similarly to Marten and Claire's. None of them -- including my marriage -- stayed that way. The honeymoon ends. But if you do the honeymoon part of it right in terms of respecting boundaries, figuring out each other's communication styles and issues and "stuff," then you're a lot better prepared when the honeymoon ends and reality sets in.

But the more I read the forum, the more I think that half of y'all won't be happy unless the entire cast dons sackcloth and ashes (except Hanners, because she'd be freaked out probably), and commences the rending of garments and gnashing of teeth. Verily, wailing shall be in all the streets, 'cause, you know, verisimilitude.

The irony of it is that when issues do come up (and as with any relationship, they will), some of you will still be complaining, either because the drama didn't conform to your kinda drama, or because there wasn't enough of it, 'cause there's never enough drama. Which, frankly, makes me glad that I don't know some of you offline.

I think maybe we all need to take a step back and chill - this is gradually edging closer and closer to stereotypical tumblr territory.

Edge? It dove.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 19 Feb 2015, 09:18
We saw him work through a bit of that (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30235.msg1277848.html#msg1277848) with Tai and Dora

April, I love that post on Marten's evolution as an LGBT ally, but I can never find it when I want to.  I suppose I should just bookmark it, but might I suggest you post it in its own discussion page?  That way, it won't get lost in the archives so easily, and we can discuss/add to it as the story progresses.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 09:51
First, it's useful to remember that there's a significant disconnect between comic time and calendar time.

Are you telling me this?

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Second, it's useful to remember that, in life and in stories alike, it ain't all drama all the time.

Life and stories are not alike. Drama is the life's blood of a story. QC has the form of a "slice of life" strip, but it's never been as tediously literal in its entire run as it has been these last few months.

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Third (he points out for the second, maybe third time), when you're juggling multiple story arcs, you need something to leaven the drama.

Let's look at those story arcs, in the 2800-2899 period. Jeph wrote:
So I would call this is more a case of a little angst cutting the sweetness. Only 7 of those 35 Marten/Claire strips (2800-2806) even had any narrative tension. In those hundred strips, we've seen nothing of Dora/Tai, nothing of Dora/Sven, and barely an offhand mention of Marigold/Angus. I would happily have traded ten or fifteen Marten/Claire strips for any of those subplots.

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I think that half of y'all won't be happy unless the entire cast dons sackcloth and ashes (except Hanners, because she'd be freaked out probably), and commences the rending of garments and gnashing of teeth. Verily, wailing shall be in all the streets, 'cause, you know, verisimilitude.

I just want some motion and complication, and some attention paid to other characters (DORA) and dangling plotlines.

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I think maybe we all need to take a step back and chill - this is gradually edging closer and closer to stereotypical tumblr territory.
Edge? It dove.

Instead of casting aspersions on presumed-homogenous groups like tumblr/4chan/reddit/"SJWs", why don't you try unpacking that cliché and say what you really mean? What element of our discourse here has fallen beneath your standards?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 10:06
I could see that happening. But that'd bee a hell of a whiplash.

Also, something about the comic (and sorry if this comes out a bit wrong): Does Claire saying that she's never shared her fears and insecurities and bad days and all that with a cis guy mean that Clinton is also trans? Because I'm pretty sure that's something you'd want to share with your brother.

I'm not caught up, but as someone who has a brother, I can definitively answer: No.

Blood doesn't imply intimacy. For those who say the opposite, it's also worth noting that intimacy defined by blood doesn't always feel like acceptance. Sure they tolerate, but you can't discount the possibility that they only tolerate because of the genetic relationship.

Clinton and CLaire seem to care about one another, but that doesn't mean they are close confidants.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 10:15
First, it's useful to remember that there's a significant disconnect between comic time and calendar time.

Are you telling me this?

No, it was directed generally. If I were telling you specifically, I would've made that explicit. But then, you already knew that.

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Second, it's useful to remember that, in life and in stories alike, it ain't all drama all the time.

Life and stories are not alike. Drama is the life's blood of a story. QC has the form of a "slice of life" strip, but it's never been as tediously literal in its entire run as it has been these last few months.
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While I don't disagree with the "tediously literal" part, I think the "tedious" stems from the comic's habitually glacial pace, and the "literal" likely stems from Jeph breaking the fourth wall a bit. I would also guess that given that he's writing, at least in part, about things outside his experience, he's trying to tread carefully.

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Third (he points out for the second, maybe third time), when you're juggling multiple story arcs, you need something to leaven the drama.

Let's look at those story arcs, in the 2800-2899 period. Jeph wrote:
So I would call this is more a case of a little angst cutting the sweetness. Only 7 of those 35 Marten/Claire strips (2800-2806) even had any narrative tension. In those hundred strips, we've seen nothing of Dora/Tai, nothing of Dora/Sven, and barely an offhand mention of Marigold/Angus. I would happily have traded ten or fifteen Marten/Claire strips for any of those subplots.
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Again, you'd have to take that up with Jeph. There are, as we've discussed, gobs of unresolved plot points -- some of which have been left unresolved long enough that one can't help but wonder if they were afterthoughts to begin with. Which brings us to:

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I think that half of y'all won't be happy unless the entire cast dons sackcloth and ashes (except Hanners, because she'd be freaked out probably), and commences the rending of garments and gnashing of teeth. Verily, wailing shall be in all the streets, 'cause, you know, verisimilitude.

This isn't me. I just want some motion and complication, and some attention paid to other characters (DORA) and dangling plotlines.
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With which I agree. But again, I don't think either of us knows the broader arc here. There may be an offline reason for this arc (as has been suggested elsewhere, maybe Jeph's happy as a clam and the writing reflects that), or maybe there's some narrative reason for the storytelling going the way it has (establishing the Claire/Marten relationship firmly enough that he can then background it a bit and move on to addressing loose ends without everybody collectively losing their shit and thinking this is a sign of the apocalypse or something). I'm holding out hope for the latter, but I'm guessing the answer is C: none of the above.

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I think maybe we all need to take a step back and chill - this is gradually edging closer and closer to stereotypical tumblr territory.
Edge? It dove.

Instead of casting aspersions on presumed-homogenous groups like tumblr/4chan/reddit/"SJWs", why don't you try unpacking that cliché and say what you really mean? What element of our discourse here has fallen beneath your standards?
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Not sure if that part was directed at me or TCP. On the off chance it's the former, here's my take: what I'm seeing pass on this forum for "discussion" of anything remotely issue-related/substantial lately has rapidly devolved into a shitstorm of petulance, snark and ad hominem attacks. Call me a silly bastard, but I'd like to think, or at least hope, that people are capable of better.

PS: Sorry for making a total hash of the formatting... I can never seem to get the hang of the code on this thing.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 19 Feb 2015, 10:20
Quote from: Jeph
I love how I read the first page of this thread and it was super informative and well-considered, and then I jumped to the last page and it was people throwing "privilege" around like it was a javelin. I'm sure I missed something useful/important in between but I don't have the time or energy to read this stuff much so it is what it is.
Global Moderator Comment 1. The moderators have gone out and done legwork about the words "cis" and "cisgender". We take them as neutral. 2. The rules and their enforcement are simply aimed at being decent human beings, no more. 3. Anyone who wants education can spend days in the library just following pointers from ZoeB. 4. Even the delicate questions about trans* people have been answered here. 5. The weekly comic thread is for discussing the comic. 6. Explaining these things is getting really, really old.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 10:22
6. Explaining these things is getting really, really old.

..... Never before have you been in a position to understand the frustration more.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 10:25
Let's look at those story arcs, in the 2800-2899 period. Jeph wrote:
  • 2 strips of Claire talking about something other than Marten

That's pretty much the most disturbing bit of analysis I've seen in this thread.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2015, 10:29
6. Explaining these things is getting really, really old.

..... Never before have you been in a position to understand the frustration more.

It's: "really, really, old" - as in: "yes, we really have been here before!"
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 10:39
6. Explaining these things is getting really, really old.

..... Never before have you been in a position to understand the frustration more.

It's: "really, really, old" - as in: "yes, we really have been here before!"
I was trying to imply the frustration of being trans and being expected to explain things over and over.   I wasn't invalidating the past...  :/
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 19 Feb 2015, 10:47
The formatting for quotes looks like
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I almost jumped in and tidied up Aziraphale's formatting but was afraid of misquoting someone in the process.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 10:49
The formatting for quotes looks like
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I almost jumped in and tidied up Aziraphale's formatting but was afraid of misquoting someone in the process.

Yeah, that's what I was trying to do. For some reason, it was formatting the code as text and not reading it as code, though.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 19 Feb 2015, 10:54
That's pretty much the most disturbing bit of analysis I've seen in this thread.

OMG yes! 

Marten clearly has had a role outside of his relationship with Claire over the last 100 strips, even if it's mainly been to be a good friend to Faye.  Claire seems to be heading in the direction of totally failing the Bechdel Test as a character. 

Hell, even Padma, who was just a fling, more or less, had more independent agency from Marten while we saw her.  She had Elliott-related drama, grandmother drama, the weird fight scenes with Faye, etc.  She wasn't a passive vessel, which is the vibe I'm getting off Claire.  Or more properly, both of them when together, but we don't get to see Claire much when she's not with Marten. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 10:55
Are we starting a meta-dialogue about the conversation we aren't supposed to be having here? Because the recursion level there has reached the recursion level there.

What we talk about when we talk about not talking about Claire

Okay, time to go read Kant.  That hurt my mind.
Try not to think about the fact that your mind is hurt because it hurt your mind. Such thoughts will hurt your mind as they are recursively tautological due to tautological recursion.

That's pretty much the most disturbing bit of analysis I've seen in this thread.

OMG yes! 

Marten clearly has had a role outside of his relationship with Claire over the last 100 strips, even if it's mainly been to be a good friend to Faye.  Claire seems to be heading in the direction of totally failing the Bechdel Test as a character. 

Hell, even Padma, who was just a fling, more or less, had more independent agency from Marten while we saw her.  She had Elliott-related drama, grandmother drama, the weird fight scenes with Faye, etc.  She wasn't a passive vessel, which is the vibe I'm getting off Claire.  Or more properly, both of them when together, but we don't get to see Claire much when she's not with Marten.

I find it disturbing because it didn't feel forced. It's a poster child for slippery slope arguments.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 12:02
The problem I have with the recent failures of writing is that all of this is happening with CLAIRE.

What I loved about Claire was how well she fit in to the group. She was basically just another character in the group. Oftentimes I'd completely forget that she was trans at all: like the wedding arc. It wasn't until she got back and had that conversation with Clinton that I remembered "Oh yeah. . . that would actually have the possibility of being dangerous for her."

But the moment she has a relationship with Marten it felt like she wasn't allowed to be Claire any more. Instead she had to be "ICONIC TRANS FEMALE CHARACTER." And Marten had to be "PERFECTLY UNDERSTANDING CIS MALE BOYFRIEND." Because this wasn't just another relationship. This was CLAIRE'S RELATIONSHIP! And it is big and important and significant and we need to make sure everyone knows that this is perfect and without problems and spend thirty pages on it and bleh.

Whereas: imagine how much more powerful the message would be if Jeph just handled it the same way he handled the start of other relationships? The message then would be "Trans-Cis relationships are just the same as any other: the issues can be different, but the relationship is the same."

Like. . . why did #2900 need to exist? Claire is going to have bad days? Of course she is. Everyone has bad days. I want to see Claire have a bad day and have Marten cuddle and support her. That's how a good writer would have handled it.

Hell, that's how JEPH would have handled it. He said more about Marten and Faye's relationship in a single hug in #2816.

I think it's unfair to characterize the critics of Clairten as wanting to see them break up for the sake of drama. A lot of us shipped the two and were happy as hell when they got together. But looking back at the entire arc, it felt self-indulgent and saccharine, and I seriously hope that it's over.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 19 Feb 2015, 12:09
The problem I have with the recent failures of writing is that all of this is happening with CLAIRE.

What I loved about Claire was how well she fit in to the group. She was basically just another character in the group. Oftentimes I'd completely forget that she was trans at all: like the wedding arc. It wasn't until she got back and had that conversation with Clinton that I remembered "Oh yeah. . . that would actually have the possibility of being dangerous for her."

But the moment she has a relationship with Marten it felt like she wasn't allowed to be Claire any more. Instead she had to be "ICONIC TRANS FEMALE CHARACTER." And Marten had to be "PERFECTLY UNDERSTANDING CIS MALE BOYFRIEND." Because this wasn't just another relationship. This was CLAIRE'S RELATIONSHIP! And it is big and important and significant and we need to make sure everyone knows that this is perfect and without problems and spend thirty pages on it and bleh.

Whereas: imagine how much more powerful the message would be if Jeph just handled it the same way he handled the start of other relationships? The message then would be "Trans-Cis relationships are just the same as any other: the issues can be different, but the relationship is the same."

Like. . . why did #2900 need to exist? Claire is going to have bad days? Of course she is. Everyone has bad days. I want to see Claire have a bad day and have Marten cuddle and support her. That's how a good writer would have handled it.

Hell, that's how JEPH would have handled it. He said more about Marten and Faye's relationship in a single hug in #2816.

I think it's unfair to characterize the critics of Clairten as wanting to see them break up for the sake of drama. A lot of us shipped the two and were happy as hell when they got together. But looking back at the entire arc, it felt self-indulgent and saccharine, and I seriously hope that it's over.

I disagree with much of what you say, but DAMN you say it well.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 12:15
The problem I have with the recent failures of writing is that all of this is happening with CLAIRE.

What I loved about Claire was how well she fit in to the group. She was basically just another character in the group. Oftentimes I'd completely forget that she was trans at all: like the wedding arc. It wasn't until she got back and had that conversation with Clinton that I remembered "Oh yeah. . . that would actually have the possibility of being dangerous for her."

But the moment she has a relationship with Marten it felt like she wasn't allowed to be Claire any more. Instead she had to be "ICONIC TRANS FEMALE CHARACTER." And Marten had to be "PERFECTLY UNDERSTANDING CIS MALE BOYFRIEND." Because this wasn't just another relationship. This was CLAIRE'S RELATIONSHIP! And it is big and important and significant and we need to make sure everyone knows that this is perfect and without problems and spend thirty pages on it and bleh.

Whereas: imagine how much more powerful the message would be if Jeph just handled it the same way he handled the start of other relationships? The message then would be "Trans-Cis relationships are just the same as any other: the issues can be different, but the relationship is the same."

Like. . . why did #2900 need to exist? Claire is going to have bad days? Of course she is. Everyone has bad days. I want to see Claire have a bad day and have Marten cuddle and support her. That's how a good writer would have handled it.

Hell, that's how JEPH would have handled it. He said more about Marten and Faye's relationship in a single hug in #2816.

I think it's unfair to characterize the critics of Clairten as wanting to see them break up for the sake of drama. A lot of us shipped the two and were happy as hell when they got together. But looking back at the entire arc, it felt self-indulgent and saccharine, and I seriously hope that it's over.

I disagree with much of what you say, but DAMN you say it well.
I'm okay with that. What's done is done, and people will feel the way they want to. I'm just trying to help others understand why some of us who are unhappy with how it turned out feel that way, and why it's not just 'boohoo I hate happiness gimme drama.'
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 19 Feb 2015, 12:24
Yeah, I'm really sick of people ignoring the points we make and then going "But why do you hate to see Marten/Claire happy?!! Do you just want teh Dramaz all of the time?"

If that is all you're getting from the walls of text we're spewing out, then you're missing several important somethings.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 12:35
Yeah, I'm really sick of people ignoring the points we make and then going "But why do you hate to see Marten/Claire happy?!! Do you just want teh Dramaz all of the time?"

If that is all you're getting from the walls of text we're spewing out, then you're missing several important somethings.

It's not all I'm getting. I'm also getting eye strain.

<.<
>.>

I thought it was funny as hell.

Look, it's not that people aren't paying attention to your points. No need to martyr yourself just yet. It's that people don't agree with them, there for they discount them. Just the same way as I discount a lot of theories about Claire because my reading of the evidence says they are unsupported.

People have been aggressively hating one every move Jeph makes from the deep past. If you want to get through to them, you have to hit a profound or extremely stark point. Something not open to interpretation. I know where of I speak. If you doin't come with that level of evidence you will either be dismissed or (worse) accused of saying something you didn't say because someone took your point of view personally.

You won't, however, win converts or understanding. At best you'll be expounding doctrine to the temple singers.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 19 Feb 2015, 12:38
I don't need teh dramaz, although as noted, a story without conflict of some sort is boring.  I do need Claire to actually display a bit of snark again, or Marten to put his foot in his mouth just once talking to Claire, to make me really think they're the same people they were 100 strips ago. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 12:40
I do find it funny that just because they haven't had any problems yet people keep kind of assuming they won't have any in the future. It's a relationship guys, something bad's going to happen eventually, calm down.

I've never been in a relationship that immediately had problems, otherwise I probably wouldn't have dated that person.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 12:45
I do find it funny that just because they haven't had any problems yet people keep kind of assuming they won't have any in the future. It's a relationship guys, something bad's going to happen eventually, calm down.

I've never been in a relationship that immediately had problems, otherwise I probably wouldn't have dated that person.

And case in point.

Who says I want problems? I want personality.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 19 Feb 2015, 12:49
Who says I want problems? I want personality.

Well, you got it! In today's strip, Claire nearly outright states that she's been walking on eggshells because she doesn't know how to 'do' relationships. She's so uncomfortable that she's been measuring out her actions very carefully, afraid of scaring Marten off.

Characterisation enough?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 12:54
I was also talking in general, I wanna add.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 12:56
I can't be cavalier?

Well, crap.

Paladin it is, then.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TheEvilDog on 19 Feb 2015, 12:59
I can't be cavalier?

Well, crap.

Paladin it is, then.

Oh! Can I be a Blackguard?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Bologna on 19 Feb 2015, 12:59
I wonder what the general reaction to the pacing would be if we all read it in 100-comic binges. 

For fun, I went back to 2800 and zoomed through.  And, yes, there is a lot of Marten/Claire, but 2800 was also the beginning of the head-skritches.  For a new relationship in the comic, the fact that they pretty much dominate the story makes sense.

That being said, I think this particular story line has reached its first-wave apex, and it'll slow down, hopefully giving way to other stories/people in the QCversepleaseohdearlord
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 19 Feb 2015, 13:02
I have a feeling there's going to be some drama as things progress, but why would you want it right from the start for goodness sakes!!!

This is a Webcomic set in a fictional, semi-futuristic and alternate world people, not a fraking History Drama.


Sheesh!!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 13:04
I can't be cavalier?

Well, crap.

Paladin it is, then.

Well let's see....   Rolls d20, result is 6

I'm sorry but your constitution is too low.   Have you considered a mage perhaps?   A diplomat?   Maybe.... an NPC.   I could make you a Kobold.   :clairedoge:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 19 Feb 2015, 13:07
Which game are you playing where a d20 is used for stats  :psyduck:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 13:18
Which game are you playing where a d20 is used for stats  :psyduck:

True 20? I haven't looked at those rules in a while.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 13:20
Which game are you playing where a d20 is used for stats  :psyduck:

True 20? I haven't looked at those rules in a while.
It's been that long since I played.  We're on what? Ed. 5 now?  :/
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 13:21
I DON'T KNOW WHAT ALL THESE NUMBERS DO, BUT IT SCARES ME.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 13:23
I DON'T KNOW WHAT ALL THESE NUMBERS DO, BUT IT SCARES ME.

You should be scared.  When I roll a d4, people die!!!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 13:34
I have to say, just for those who do think Claire and Marten should cause more drama, there is the WCDT.

I'm making popcorn.

Mostly because I haven't had any in years.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 19 Feb 2015, 13:37
You know, has a WCDT been locked BEFORE Friday's comic before?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 19 Feb 2015, 13:45
Why is this so difficult to grasp. Don't talk about, don't ask about what someone has in their pants. We don't talk about it with any other character. It's no different with Claire. "But she's different!" cries the forum. Yes. Which is why we keep having to say the same thing over and over again. Don't ask, don't talk about what is in someone's pants. If you are not your pants or the one getting in them, it isn't any of your business. This is true for every character, every person be they real or fictional. Just. Don't.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 13:53
(click to show/hide)

[Edit: The context for this post was removed.]
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesariojpn on 19 Feb 2015, 14:27
I really want to make a joke--I think it's funny as hell--but...

Your strawmen. They are made of straw. You've been told that there are places in the Discuss section where you can ask, comment, or otherwise raise the issues you speak of. There's one rule (relevant to the topic). "Not in the Comic forum." How hard is that?

I'm seriously asking, because it feels like you're trying to make martyr out of yourself. Like you are trying to get banned or something, just to prove something. Yet people keep telling you there is place for that. It just a short scroll down the forum.

In it's most basic form: if something is touched upon in the comic, reasonable discussion in WCDT should be allowed, and not be shunted elsewhere, nor someone shouldn't be afraid to ask about it and get lawyered by some rule.

The strip before the current one is the perfect example of what i'm trying to get at: I am seriously wondering why Marten gave Claire that bland response when she asked in it's most distilled form: "Hey, don't you feel kinda weird dating someone who is trans?" Now I know someone is gonna point out "wait, you broached the genitalia issue!!" when I didn't; the question is open ended and I never even guessed or implied either way.

The response is like I said too bland; there doesn't even appear to be some pang of apprehension or even him admitting that "Oh, I had reservations at first, but then...." and go on about how he's okay with it. Add some damn friction. It doesn't have to be earth shattering; people have faults. Your no better than the next person. Claire should at least be reassured that Marten had some sort of "quandary" of some sort, be told about it, and then told he's now okay with her. 

It just smacks of Kid Gloves; Pintsize not even providing some "morality episode" events a few strips before is where it starts to get bad. We all know he's a jerkass, but the way it was deus ex machina by Marten in one panel smacks of this, and so did the recent two strips. I just have to wonder if the rules about genitalia are also hurting the strip as well.
 
Like I said, the comic can't have both; they can't approach a topic, yet say certain things are off limits. It hurts the entire topic as a whole, and it needs to be better managed.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 19 Feb 2015, 14:29
Global Moderator Comment Strictly temporary cooling off period, probably just a few hours. I'll use the time for a split. It will take some thought.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2015, 14:57
You know, has a WCDT been locked BEFORE Friday's comic before?

I think so, but not for a long time; and I was thinking of locking this earlier, but it reached the tipping point while I was otherwise engaged.

Look back over the last couple of pages and see how many moderator comments (plus unmarked comments by mods) there have been leading up to this.  We don't say those things for our own amusement, you know.

EDIT:  Many of those have now been removed along with the nonsenses they referred to.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 19 Feb 2015, 15:10
Everyone eager to discuss how to carry on conversations between the oppressed and the non-oppressed, see the new topic in Discuss. Moderators, feel free to tinker with my work. There are posts that could have gone either way. People who want to discuss the comic passionately, this thread will reopen soon. People who want to make it into arguments about other members, please do something else until the urge passes.

EDIT: unlocked now.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: pwhodges on 19 Feb 2015, 16:14
I sent nearly a page of collective madness to the forum trash bin.  Please don't make it necessary for that to happen again.  Something as simple as counting to ten before starting to reply can help.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 16:15

Who says I want problems? I want personality.

Well, you got it! In today's strip, Claire nearly outright states that she's been walking on eggshells because she doesn't know how to 'do' relationships. She's so uncomfortable that she's been measuring out her actions very carefully, afraid of scaring Marten off.

Was Claire walking on eggshells in 2891?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 16:16
The response is like I said too bland; there doesn't even appear to be some pang of apprehension or even him admitting that "Oh, I had reservations at first, but then...." and go on about how he's okay with it. Add some damn friction. It doesn't have to be earth shattering; people have faults. Your no better than the next person. Claire should at least be reassured that Marten had some sort of "quandary" of some sort, be told about it, and then told he's now okay with her. 

I'm going to respond to just this.    Why does there have to be a "pang of apprehension"   Why does he have to have reservations?  Why does there need to be friction?   Maybe since he's okay with it, that friction isn't needed.   But you're also missing the friction that is there in the form of Claire's uncertainty and apprehension.    Believe it or not, no friction IS a quandary.   It's unheard of in most relationships alone.   Throw your presumptions and expectations for a trans/cis relationship into the mix and what you have is a very lovely surprise.   Because you're complaining about the lack of friction where you expect it to be... (I think that was Jeph's intent)

Point is, Marten doesn't need to come to some realization or revelation about what he's doing.   It does seem like you might though, granted, many not in his position probably would.   I'm not suggesting otherwise.   But since he doesn't, lets see where that takes us.   It's nice to think this is all just perfect and everyone's perfect and aren't they perfect..... (vomits a little).... and the sun and the moon.... (a little more).....  But we know better.   Subtlety only works if you allow it.   So maybe try to see it from that angle.  :)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 19 Feb 2015, 16:18
Well, I'm guessing there was some friction between 2891 and 2892. :parrot:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 19 Feb 2015, 16:19
Back on todays comic, I think perhaps Marten has saw one bad Claire day (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2431). Then again, maybe he defused that before it became a bad day.

While you were typing 4 new replies were posted, you may wish to watch where you're standing when the floodgates open
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 16:24
Was Claire walking on eggshells in 2891?
No, she was stomping the shit out of them.   Similar to ripping off a band-aid holding your guts in and hoping for the best.   I think the stuttering "W-well, this-this is me" is akin to putting everything out there. 

I can't help but make it personal, so I will.   I'm not afraid of sharing my emotions and thoughts with someone.   They are clear, I have no reservations about what I think or feel.   That said, when it comes to my body, yeah no.   Take all the dysphoria one could posses and wrap it up into a singular moment which someone sets aside and hopes the other see's more than what they see.    I think the stuttering "W-well, this-this is me" is akin to putting everything out there.       She's friggin courageous in this clip.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 16:34
The strip before the current one is the perfect example of what i'm trying to get at: I am seriously wondering why Marten gave Claire that bland response when she asked in it's most distilled form: "Hey, don't you feel kinda weird dating someone who is trans?" Now I know someone is gonna point out "wait, you broached the genitalia issue!!" when I didn't; the question is open ended and I never even guessed or implied either way.

The response is like I said too bland; there doesn't even appear to be some pang of apprehension or even him admitting that "Oh, I had reservations at first, but then...." and go on about how he's okay with it. Add some damn friction. It doesn't have to be earth shattering; people have faults. Your no better than the next person. Claire should at least be reassured that Marten had some sort of "quandary" of some sort, be told about it, and then told he's now okay with her. 

Marten gave a bland response because his responses to most anything shy of a gunshot wound to the chest tend to be pretty chill. It's usually his own uncertainty that sets him off. And it's that uncertainty that leads to why people think you're talking about genitals even though you keep saying you're not talking about genitals (which, in turn, makes several of us think that you doth protest too much about genitals -- which, incidentally, is probably the most times I've written "genitals" in a single sentence. But I digress).

Back on track: why would Marten's uncertainty lead people to think that (heaven forfend) you're talking about someone's bits? Because Marten is, by nature, a creature beset by apprehension, uncertainty, and quandaries galore. But it's not like you said, "Given Marten's usual tendency to analyze things to death unnecessarily,* I wonder how he's going to freak out over this?" You said, in effect, "So, everybody. How long do you think before Marten second-guesses dating a trans* woman?"

See the difference?

There's plenty to be apprehensive over in ANY relationship. But given that rather long list, and if we're going to prioritize the list properly (e.g., worrying about stuff like, "Am I being attentive enough? Are we communicating well? Does (significant other) need a hug right about now? Am I, in short, being the person that this other person deserves?") then worrying over your S.O.'s gender falls pretty far down the list.

*Which I think he was on the verge of doing before being accosted by Mrs. A on the way to pancakes
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 16:41
Like I said, the comic can't have both; they can't approach a topic, yet say certain things are off limits. It hurts the entire topic as a whole, and it needs to be better managed.

I hesitate to touch this again, but as it is comic related:

You are absolutely incorrect. The comic can, if Jeph so chooses, have it both ways. My previous analogy about walls and markers applies.  This is Jeph's house. He's paying the bills. If he wants to do X, he can do that. Because he's in his house. YOU (and I and even the Mods) need permission. From Jeph. If he says no, that's it. End of line.

You either accept it, or you exercise your freedom of choice and leave. You could vote with you wallet in hopes that that impacts Jeph's income, because you believe he should see consequences for his choice. But he can still have it both ways until the money runs out, and he is perfectly free to do that in his house with his stuff.

But there's another point.

You see, Jeph never brought up Claire's genitals in the comic. Claire got naked. End of line.

As snarkyone says, getting naked is putting everything out there. Hoping that the person you are trying to connect to--on whatever level--doesn't see you the way you see yourself.

Maybe Claire was saying what a lot of people think she was saying. Maybe. But the comic is just as open to the interpretation that Claire has the same body image issues as most other young women and she was saying "Hi. I've never been intimate before, like this. This is me." Or maybe Claire was saying something else. I'd be more specific, but this isn't the place. I'm trying to address your false equivalence about the comic.

Specifically, just because you think something was brought up by the author, it doesn't mean it was. Jeph's a responsible author. He does recognize that intent doesn't always equal content. But that doesn't mean he has to bend his intent to fit your reading.

People--trans and not--have taken several instances to mean that their preferred interpretation is the truth. That's their head canon. That's all it is. Just as the idea that comic has addressed the items you want to address is yours. Nothing more or less.

So while Jeph can, in fact, have it both ways if he so chooses, that's not what's going on here. You are injecting your interpretation and trying to hang it on Jeph. You aren't the only person doing that. Not all of the people doing that share your interpretation. Since the issue is not clear, the forum policy remains the best available option, considering that the negatives are deemed to outweigh other considerations.

And that's all I have to say about that. /Gump
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 19 Feb 2015, 16:54
Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

All things considered, being accused of following either traditional masculinity or femininity is pretty damn insulting.

I tend to agree with Elizabeth Hungerford about the C-word. https://liberationcollective.wordpress.com/2012/06/08/a-feminist-critique-of-cisgender/

Edit: I should be more clear. Hungerford's reasoning goes beyond the simple who's really 100% conformable with gender roles but it is the suggestion, along with the idea that trans people get to apply a label to another group that people are just expect to accept. They don't care for a lot of words people have applied to them after all.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 19 Feb 2015, 16:54
10 pages by Thursday. We're slipping a bit.  :clairedoge:

The last two pages are actually very typical QC; it's just we haven't seen it for so long.

And who knows how long Claire & Marten (unrelated note: that sounds like an upscale clothing store at a shopping mall, for some reason) will last, but we'll be along for the ride.

We've come a long way from "indie boy hates his job and life and his anthroPC isn't helping."
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 16:55
There may have been some surgical removals.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 16:57
Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

Yup! "Cisgender" is a way of talking about people who aren't transgender without using loaded words like "normal".
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 17:01
Calling me normal would be pretty off the mark anyways.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 17:04
I, on the other hand, am generally normal...

To the plane defined by Earth's gravity over a local area of its surface.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CM_albion on 19 Feb 2015, 17:10
Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

Yup! "Cisgender" is a way of talking about people who aren't transgender without using loaded words like "normal".

i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 17:18
i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.

kids these days with their newfangled mouth sounds why in my day we just had gay, straight, cis and trans and you'd like it maybe demisexual or genderqueer if you were a real special snowflake none of these fictives or otherkin you see running around in public like it's anthrocon all day long telling me I have to remember everyone's pronoun in the nominative, accusative, genitive and dative cases or they'll cry in a corner about how I'm erasing them with my linguistic hegemony well I got news for you, take one step across my lawn and I'll be after you with my pink pearl like Robert Rauschenberg with a Willem de Kooning on his easel!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: swapna on 19 Feb 2015, 17:21
i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.

kids these days with their newfangled mouth sounds why in my day we just had gay, straight, cis and trans and you'd like it. maybe demisexual or genderqueer if you were a real special snowflake none of these fictives or otherkin you see running around in public like it's a damn mascot convention and they tell me I have to remember everyone's pronoun in the nominative, accusative, genitive and dative cases or they'll cry in a corner about how I'm erasing them with my linguistic hegemony well I got news for you, take one step across my lawn and I'll be after you with my pink pearl like Robert Rauschenberg with a Willem de Kooning on his easel!
o.O your avatar fit this.. almost.. perfectly (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1276)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 17:27
Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

Yup! "Cisgender" is a way of talking about people who aren't transgender without using loaded words like "normal".

i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.

This reminds me of an old history teacher who was in the habit of calling me "Mark," or occasionally "Brian" (neither of which is my name) because, as she would say every damn time, "You look like a Mark (or Brian)." It's not like she didn't know my name. It's not like it wasn't right there in front of her in black and white in her grade book. Remembering to call someone what they are, by the terminology with which they identify themselves, is as easy as remembering their name. It's also common courtesy.

But if that's asking too much... well, pleased to meet ya, Sparky.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 19 Feb 2015, 17:28
I'm going to respond to just this.    Why does there have to be a "pang of apprehension"   Why does he have to have reservations?  Why does there need to be friction?   Maybe since he's okay with it, that friction isn't needed.   But you're also missing the friction that is there in the form of Claire's uncertainty and apprehension.    Believe it or not, no friction IS a quandary.   It's unheard of in most relationships alone.   Throw your presumptions and expectations for a trans/cis relationship into the mix and what you have is a very lovely surprise.   Because you're complaining about the lack of friction where you expect it to be... (I think that was Jeph's intent)

AprilArcus has highlighted how Marten's attitude towards trans issues has...evolved...over the years.  We know that he was exposed to a lot of very openly genderqueer people when he was young.  I don't know if Marten needs to be apprehensive per se, but it would show more character growth for him to remark upon how his childhood experiences shaped his initial views.  Like he thought it was all about camp and such, and he never really considered the issue because he never really thought he'd meet a down to earth transwoman (like Claire) whom he had so much in common with. 

So, speaking personally, I don't think that I wanted there to be friction per se.  But presuming that Jeph is telling this story in part to be didactic, it would have helped things IMHO if Marten had a bit more of "everyman" in him in these interactions, and was a little bit less of a magical love gentleman. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 19 Feb 2015, 17:43
Which game are you playing where a d20 is used for stats  :psyduck:

True 20? I haven't looked at those rules in a while.
It's been that long since I played.  We're on what? Ed. 5 now?  :/
The last D&D edition I played was 3.5 (wouldn't touch 4e with a 10-foot pole), and all the stats were pretty much d6 rolls (I think our DM had us roll 5d6 and drop the lowest - it's been a while).

Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

Yup! "Cisgender" is a way of talking about people who aren't transgender without using loaded words like "normal".

i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.

kids these days with their newfangled mouth sounds why in my day we just had gay, straight, cis and trans and you'd like it maybe demisexual or genderqueer if you were a real special snowflake none of these fictives or otherkin you see running around in public like it's anthrocon all day long telling me I have to remember everyone's pronoun in the nominative, accusative, genitive and dative cases or they'll cry in a corner about how I'm erasing them with my linguistic hegemony well I got news for you, take one step across my lawn and I'll be after you with my pink pearl like Robert Rauschenberg with a Willem de Kooning on his easel!

This reminds me of an old history teacher who was in the habit of calling me "Mark," or occasionally "Brian" (neither of which is my name) because, as she would say every damn time, "You look like a Mark (or Brian)." It's not like she didn't know my name. It's not like it wasn't right there in front of her in black and white in her grade book. Remembering to call someone what they are, by the terminology with which they identify themselves, is as easy as remembering their name. It's also common courtesy.

But if that's asking too much... well, pleased to meet ya, Sparky.

I think CM_albion means more that, there seems to not be a very unified language that's appropriate across the board. When there's fifteen or more different possible pronouns that a person may or may not find acceptable to be referred by, it can be extremely daunting, especially for those who have little to no experience with appropriate language. It seems like having -so many- terms, with no real consensus on what's acceptable does more to hurt understanding and acceptance among others than it does to encourage education, acceptance, and understanding.

Think of it like a cliff face - sure, the determined are going to be all 'fuck you rock wall, Imma climb you like a mofo!', but for the vast, vast majority, they'll throw up their hands and take the path of least resistance -i in this case, they fall back on language that they know and are familiar with, and is easy to understand. Thus the importance of having bite-sized information to hand-feed the less-inclined masses. They're much more likely to make an effort, if they don't feel like it's an impossible endeavor to figure out what is the 'proper' word choice.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Consilium on 19 Feb 2015, 17:45
I have a question: so we found out that Claire is worried about what Clairemom may or may not worry about in strip 2840:
(click to show/hide)

So why wasn't this an issue when she stayed over after Faye got out of the hospital? Did Claire have a fuck the police moment and claimed some sovereignty?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CaptainFish on 19 Feb 2015, 17:48
So, speaking personally, I don't think that I wanted there to be friction per se.  But presuming that Jeph is telling this story in part to be didactic, it would have helped things IMHO if Marten had a bit more of "everyman" in him in these interactions, and was a little bit less of a magical love gentleman.

Maybe some supernatural stuff is going down and MLG is possessing the body of Marten!  :psyduck:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 19 Feb 2015, 17:48
Or maybe her mom made it quite clear that she ships this.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 19 Feb 2015, 17:49
i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.

It's a relatively quick and easy way to communicate that you're not an enemy and that you care enough to pick up some vocabulary.

I was delightfully surprised at how much trans* related specialty words helped me think straight. The words "assignment" and "presentation" are precision tools.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 17:53
Or maybe her mom made it quite clear that she ships this.

Or maybe Claire left it more open-ended-ish ("Going to Marten's. See you tomorrow." versus "Going on a date with Marten. See you around midnight-ish.")?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 17:55
The words "assignment" and "presentation" are precision tools.

So is a scalpel but some might hesitate to pick them up, and that's why allies using them are important.  :D
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 19 Feb 2015, 18:00

I think CM_albion means more that, there seems to not be a very unified language that's appropriate across the board. When there's fifteen or more different possible pronouns that a person may or may not find acceptable to be referred by, it can be extremely daunting, especially for those who have little to no experience with appropriate language. It seems like having -so many- terms, with no real consensus on what's acceptable does more to hurt understanding and acceptance among others than it does to educate.


Let's see if I can still do this from memory

I me my mine
thou thee thy thine
ye you your
it its one
he him his
she her hers
we us our
they them their

And of course changes for tense.

Expect people to struggle with anything not on that list, which is to say anything that hasn't entered general usage. Also expect problems with the T words, second person informal has mostly dropped from the language.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:02
You say tomato, I say bruschetta!! 

You say potato, I say french fry!!.....

Shit, my snark turned to hunger.... brb.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 18:04

i must say, for all that i am a supporter of people being themselves, however that manifests, and will be until the day i die, this minefield of new terminology you have to memorize so as not to offend people gives me a headache sometimes.

kids these days with their newfangled mouth sounds why in my day we just had gay, straight, cis and trans and you'd like it maybe demisexual or genderqueer if you were a real special snowflake none of these fictives or otherkin you see running around in public like it's anthrocon all day long telling me I have to remember everyone's pronoun in the nominative, accusative, genitive and dative cases or they'll cry in a corner about how I'm erasing them with my linguistic hegemony well I got news for you, take one step across my lawn and I'll be after you with my pink pearl like Robert Rauschenberg with a Willem de Kooning on his easel!

Quote from: Aziraphale
This reminds me of an old history teacher who was in the habit of calling me "Mark," or occasionally "Brian" (neither of which is my name) because, as she would say every damn time, "You look like a Mark (or Brian)." It's not like she didn't know my name. It's not like it wasn't right there in front of her in black and white in her grade book. Remembering to call someone what they are, by the terminology with which they identify themselves, is as easy as remembering their name. It's also common courtesy.

But if that's asking too much... well, pleased to meet ya, Sparky.

Quote from: OmegaEntity
I think CM_albion means more that, there seems to not be a very unified language that's appropriate across the board. When there's fifteen or more different possible pronouns that a person may or may not find acceptable to be referred by, it can be extremely daunting, especially for those who have little to no experience with appropriate language. It seems like having -so many- terms, with no real consensus on what's acceptable does more to hurt understanding and acceptance among others than it does to encourage education, acceptance, and understanding.

Think of it like a cliff face - sure, the determined are going to be all 'fuck you rock wall, Imma climb you like a mofo!', but for the vast, vast majority, they'll throw up their hands and take the path of least resistance -i in this case, they fall back on language that they know and are familiar with, and is easy to understand. Thus the importance of having bite-sized information to hand-feed the less-inclined masses. They're much more likely to make an effort, if they don't feel like it's an impossible endeavor to figure out what is the 'proper' word choice.

Language evolves as understanding evolves (and thank God for that). What I think can tend to complicate things is that it's not just the out-group (in this case, cis/het/etc. people) trying to keep up or figure this stuff out. As IICIH points out, the terminology evolves toward precision, which is always going to be not only more accurate, but probably also less hurtful, to the people on the receiving end of that terminology.

And sure, it's difficult. Hell, I've lost track of the number of proper descriptors for Americans of African descent that have been acceptable use just in my lifetime, and I'm not even that old. But if you care about people -- and while I'm aware I can come across like an asshole sometimes, I try to be kind and respectful to folks -- then you make the effort, regardless of the level of difficulty. Besides, like the rock climber in your metaphor, it gets a hell of a lot easier the more you do it.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 19 Feb 2015, 18:06
You say tomato, I say bruschetta!! 

You say potato, I say french fry!!.....

Shit, my snark turned to hunger.... brb.

Fries with Tomato Sauce!

Frak!!!


NOW I'm frelling hungry again!!!


*Glowers menacingly*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 19 Feb 2015, 18:10

I think CM_albion means more that, there seems to not be a very unified language that's appropriate across the board. When there's fifteen or more different possible pronouns that a person may or may not find acceptable to be referred by, it can be extremely daunting, especially for those who have little to no experience with appropriate language. It seems like having -so many- terms, with no real consensus on what's acceptable does more to hurt understanding and acceptance among others than it does to educate.


Let's see if I can still do this from memory

I me my mine
thou thee thy thine
ye you your
it its one
he him his
she her hers
we us our
they them their

And of course changes for tense.

Expect people to struggle with anything not on that list, which is to say anything that hasn't entered general usage. Also expect problems with the T words, second person informal has mostly dropped from the language.

I was referring more to the 'Ne, Ve, Ze, Zie, Xe' type deals, not the adaptation of pronouns that are already commonly in use.

Language evolves as understanding evolves (and thank God for that). What I think can tend to complicate things is that it's not just the out-group (in this case, cis/het/etc. people) trying to keep up or figure this stuff out. As IICIH points out, the terminology evolves toward precision, which is always going to be not only more accurate, but probably also less hurtful, to the people on the receiving end of that terminology.

And sure, it's difficult. Hell, I've lost track of the number of proper descriptors for Americans of African descent that have been acceptable use just in my lifetime, and I'm not even that old. But if you care about people -- and while I'm aware I can come across like an asshole sometimes, I try to be kind and respectful to folks -- then you make the effort, regardless of the level of difficulty. Besides, like the rock climber in your metaphor, it gets a hell of a lot easier the more you do it.
Oh, I certainly try, and i will adapt if asked. I was simply trying to elaborate on what CM might have been trying to get at. I don't think they meant any kind of disrespect, but only that it can get a bit overwhelming at times. I myself tend to overthink things, and then worry that I said something wrong and then the person hates me. But I digress.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 19 Feb 2015, 18:12
You say tomato, I say bruschetta!! 

You say potato, I say french fry!!.....

Shit, my snark turned to hunger.... brb.

Fries with Tomato Sauce!

Frak!!!


NOW I'm frelling hungry again!!!


*Glowers menacingly*
mmm... poutine...


No, not you, Vladimir!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:15
You say tomato, I say bruschetta!! 
You say potato, I say french fry!!.....
Shit, my snark turned to hunger.... brb.
Fries with Tomato Sauce!
Frak!!!
NOW I'm frelling hungry again!!!
*Glowers menacingly*
mmm... poutine...

I see now that I am trouble.   While this does not deter me, I will be more mindful in the future about my powers of suggestion.   
*cough*  Buy my Etsy stuff *cough*   
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 19 Feb 2015, 18:24
(http://www.sherv.net/cm/emoticons/black/scornful-smiley-emoticon.png)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 19 Feb 2015, 18:27
You say tomato, I say bruschetta!! 

You say potato, I say french fry!!.....

Shit, my snark turned to hunger.... brb.

Fries with Tomato Sauce!

Frak!!!


NOW I'm frelling hungry again!!!


*Glowers menacingly*

I will cook you a meal in exchange for one unmelted lugwrench
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 18:28
It's a relatively quick and easy way to communicate that you're not an enemy and that you care enough to pick up some vocabulary.

Actually, I can't disagree with this more. I think activists often get into recursive communications scenarios that they don't escape for extended periods. They reach a point, through talking amongst themselves for long periods, that they don't realize that the wider world doesn't have a clue what their jargon means.

And, face it. It is jargon. It shortens complicated phrases to easily packaged sylables. And that's actually a good thing. But the comfort generated by talking, writing, and otherwise communicating in closed circumstances makes them feel that jargon is universal, when--often, mind you--their own movements are divided over the appropriateness of the jargon.

If CM_albion had been inspired by the interjection of xe or zir or something, I'd not object to these responses. But they are actually responding, it seems, to cis. That's a different ballgame. Or, rather--to use their own words--a different minefield. You never know what part of what movement you're dealing with so you can't honestly know what jargon is going to step on toes and what jargon is got to please the French judge. Figuring it out is a lot of work for someone who is just trying to figure out "how do I not be an asshole in this situation."

I might have more sympathy for the opposing viewpoint, if people who were sensitive to the failures of the general public, vis-a-vis this jargon, were equally sensitive to jargon not related to their personal cause. But, in general, they aren't. I rather don't like people holding others to standard they refuse to meet themselves.

I'm not hating on the jargon. It has value, as it certainly reduces typing. e.g. the expansion of "cis" to non jargon is not "normal," it is "people whose physical sex is aligned with cultural definition of their chosen gender identity." That's a lot more letters than cis. But for a rank n00b that's not super helpful. There are two bits of near jargon in the definition of the jargon--the idea the physical sex and gender aren't the same thing, and that gender is just an identity.

Faced with how deep the rabbit hole actually goes, it is hardly surprising that the civilians balk--especially given some of rather vitriolic responses they get for not instantly embracing the jargon. Let's not forget about the previously mentioned minefield.

All of that said, I rather lack sympathy for any complaints about cis relevant to WCDT. It's something CLaire said in a context that makes perfect sense, and no one is required to do anything but google to figureout what she's talking about. So there's no need to face any minefields of offended people to understand the term long enough to fill any context gaps in the comic.

Edit: Also--and I'm not joking here, just to be clear--I find "Americans of African decent" incredibly offensive. That may seem random, but I expect it will make my point for me.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:31
NOW I'm frelling hungry again!!!
*Glowers menacingly*
I skipped this but I must stop and give it the credit it deserves.   Someone that used Frell... well lets just say there aren't enough Farscape fans and I think that could be the friction some people are wanting in Clariten.   Claire is actually a Nebari and Marten is a silly Delvian.   Stick them in a peacekeeper prison and watch the sparks fly!!!!   
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:32
I will cook you a meal in exchange for one unmelted lugwrench

Would warped allen wrenches suffice?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CM_albion on 19 Feb 2015, 18:38

I think CM_albion means more that, there seems to not be a very unified language that's appropriate across the board. When there's fifteen or more different possible pronouns that a person may or may not find acceptable to be referred by, it can be extremely daunting, especially for those who have little to no experience with appropriate language. It seems like having -so many- terms, with no real consensus on what's acceptable does more to hurt understanding and acceptance among others than it does to educate.


this is what i meant yes.

I...was not expecting the amount of aggression people responded to my comment with. or the presumptions that i was against the terminology. i must admit it was a little upsetting.

i had no idea that simply mentioning that i occasionally have trouble keeping track of language when the shifting social norms to a more accepting and open stance so as not to accidentally offend people by using the wrong word at the wrong time is something as this is something i am very self conscious of as i as a person get very paranoid about the notion i might hurt someones feelings with my actions because i partially on the autism spectrum and have extreme difficulty gauging the body language of others and how they react to what i say or do and then not realize i did something wrong until its too late and we're increasingly living in a diverse and wonderful world full of colourful expressive people able and willing to be themselves that i support fully with all my heart would cause trouble.

maybe i should have just typed all that from the beginning. i am so sorry if what i said genuinely upset someone
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:43
this is what i meant yes.
I...was not expecting the amount of aggression people responded to my comment with. or the presumptions that i was against the terminology. i must admit it was a little upsetting.
i had no idea that simply mentioning that i occasionally have trouble keeping track of language when the shifting social norms to a more accepting and open stance so as not to accidentally offend people by using the wrong word at the wrong time is something as this is something i am very self conscious of as i as a person get very paranoid about the notion i might hurt someones feelings with my actions because i partially on the autism spectrum and have extreme difficulty gauging the body language of others and how they react to what i say or do and then not realize i did something wrong until its too late and we're increasingly living in a diverse and wonderful world full of colourful expressive people able and willing to be themselves that i support fully with all my heart would cause trouble.
maybe i should have just typed all that from the beginning. i am so sorry if what i said genuinely upset someone

NO ONE EXPECTS THE SPANISH INQUISITION!!!!
(http://i.imgur.com/EFlc4X8.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 19 Feb 2015, 18:47
Oh, I understand entirely. This business of consciously working hard to do the right thing in an unfamiliar situation, and getting treated as an enemy over simple mistakes? But every time I start to gripe to myself about the work, I remember how much easier I have it than the people I'm talking about.

Besides, "biologically male" is way more confusing than MAAB(*). Jargon can actually be easier.

(*)Male Assigned At Birth. It means that the delivery room doctor put "male" on the birth certificate.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:49
Oh, I understand entirely. This business of consciously working hard to do the right thing in an unfamiliar situation, and getting treated as an enemy over simple mistakes? But every time I start to gripe to myself about the work, I remember how much easier I have it than the people I'm talking about.

Besides, "biologically male" is way more confusing than MAAB(*). Jargon can actually be easier.

(*)Male Assigned At Birth. It means that the delivery room doctor put "male" on the birth certificate.

Queen Mab? 
(http://www.hedgedruid.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QueenMab.jpg)
What's she got to do with it?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 19 Feb 2015, 18:56
I will cook you a meal in exchange for one unmelted lugwrench

Would warped allen wrenches suffice?

For you or Kugai? Only one of you has been trying to corner the unmelted lugwrench market.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 18:57
Oh, I understand entirely. This business of consciously working hard to do the right thing in an unfamiliar situation, and getting treated as an enemy over simple mistakes? But every time I start to gripe to myself about the work, I remember how much easier I have it than the people I'm talking about.

Besides, "biologically male" is way more confusing than MAAB(*). Jargon can actually be easier.

(*)Male Assigned At Birth. It means that the delivery room doctor put "male" on the birth certificate.

That's very noble of you, but it doesn't actually invalidate your experience. As the meme goes, if you aren't allowed to be upset because someone has it worse than you, logically you aren't allowed to be happy because, somewhere, someone has it better than you.

I'm not disagreeing over the technical terms. My disagreement, and I should have specified that, is with "relatively quick and easy." Only compared to mastering the piano, or getting pilot's license.

The fact is that the jargon tends to be rather recursive packaging of difficult concepts. It's great when dealing with people who are familiar with the concepts, because they really don't need you unpack all of that stuff, anyway. But outside that context, it is (to use another of my least favorite words) problematic.

(Though, that one is on my shit list because it seems to mean different things to different people. Here I mean "constituting or presenting a problem.")
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 18:59
For you or Kugai? Only one of you has been trying to corner the unmelted lugwrench market.

For me of course.   No more unmelted Lugwrench's.  I cornered the market long ago and they all get shipped to a garage in Buffalo next to the souls.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: valkygrrl on 19 Feb 2015, 19:06
For you or Kugai? Only one of you has been trying to corner the unmelted lugwrench market.

For me of course.   No more unmelted Lugwrench's.  I cornered the market long ago and they all get shipped to a garage in Buffalo next to the souls.

For you milady I shall prepare a feast. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 19:13
For you milady I shall prepare a feast.

(https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/76/9e/23/769e233f5cad9bee47340b6eadefd738.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 19 Feb 2015, 19:18
I've also posted this in the Trans* thread, as I'm not sure exactly where to post this;

There is a publication looking for speculative fiction written by trans* authors! They say they will pay for the story, but they don't say how much.

http://topsidepress.com/news/cfs-short-speculative-fiction-by-transgender-writers/ (http://topsidepress.com/news/cfs-short-speculative-fiction-by-transgender-writers/)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 19:49
Edit: Also--and I'm not joking here, just to be clear--I find "Americans of African decent" incredibly offensive. That may seem random, but I expect it will make my point for me.

Please accept my apologies; if I'd thought I'd offend ANYone by saying that, I wouldn't have said it.


I think CM_albion means more that, there seems to not be a very unified language that's appropriate across the board. When there's fifteen or more different possible pronouns that a person may or may not find acceptable to be referred by, it can be extremely daunting, especially for those who have little to no experience with appropriate language. It seems like having -so many- terms, with no real consensus on what's acceptable does more to hurt understanding and acceptance among others than it does to educate.


this is what i meant yes.

I...was not expecting the amount of aggression people responded to my comment with. or the presumptions that i was against the terminology. i must admit it was a little upsetting.

i had no idea that simply mentioning that i occasionally have trouble keeping track of language when the shifting social norms to a more accepting and open stance so as not to accidentally offend people by using the wrong word at the wrong time is something as this is something i am very self conscious of as i as a person get very paranoid about the notion i might hurt someones feelings with my actions because i partially on the autism spectrum and have extreme difficulty gauging the body language of others and how they react to what i say or do and then not realize i did something wrong until its too late and we're increasingly living in a diverse and wonderful world full of colourful expressive people able and willing to be themselves that i support fully with all my heart would cause trouble.

maybe i should have just typed all that from the beginning. i am so sorry if what i said genuinely upset someone


My apologies to you as well, then. The way I took it (and, apparently, not the way you meant it at all) was what I hear a lot of from people who can't be bothered to keep up with the terminology (versus having difficulty keeping up). Like you, I get paranoid over the language I use because I try to A: use it properly, and B: avoid causing offense (which I've failed at twice today  :-\ ).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 19:53
(which I've failed at twice today  :-\ ).

We all have bad days Aziraphale, no worries.
(http://i.imgur.com/EqyDkmu.gif)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 19 Feb 2015, 20:12
FYI:

Quote from: '@jephjacques (Twitter)'
@jakedebacher basically I wouldn't ask mods to change anything about that place, I just need to not go there.

"That place" wasn't here, on second read. It was the infamous QC subReddit.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 20:17
"You tried your best and you failed miserably, the lesson is, never try." Homer Simpson
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 20:18
Edit: Also--and I'm not joking here, just to be clear--I find "Americans of African decent" incredibly offensive. That may seem random, but I expect it will make my point for me.

Please accept my apologies; if I'd thought I'd offend ANYone by saying that, I wouldn't have said it.

Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

That isn't the point, and I'm not holding it against you. The point is, there's literally nothing you could have said there that someone like me couldn't have found offensive. The only way to win is not to play. Except, if you refuse to play, everyone loses. So maybe, just maybe, it is incumbent upon me, as the oppressed party, to not give you a hard time for failing to beat the Kobayashi Maru.

Just sayin'
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kugai on 19 Feb 2015, 20:23
*Burp*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 19 Feb 2015, 20:23
You say tomato, I say bruschetta!! 
You say potato, I say french fry!!.....
Shit, my snark turned to hunger.... brb.
Fries with Tomato Sauce!
Frak!!!
NOW
I'm frelling hungry again!!!
*Glowers menacingly*

I will cook you a meal in exchange for one unmelted lugwrench

So lug wrenches are currency here? Like cigarettes in prison?

I'm rich!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 20:25
Edit: Also--and I'm not joking here, just to be clear--I find "Americans of African decent" incredibly offensive. That may seem random, but I expect it will make my point for me.

Please accept my apologies; if I'd thought I'd offend ANYone by saying that, I wouldn't have said it.

Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

That isn't the point, and I'm not holding it against you. The point is, there's literally nothing you could have said there that someone like me couldn't have found offensive. The only way to win is not to play. Except, if you refuse to play, everyone loses. So maybe, just maybe, it is incumbent upon me, as the oppressed party, to not give you a hard time for failing to beat the Kobayashi Maru.

Just sayin'

Point well taken. And thank you.

Typically I just use black 'cause that's what the black people I know use, but some people take offense at -- as in, have completely gone off on me over -- that, too.

Rather off-topic, but it is Thursday, correct? Is there a comic this evening, or are we going to get more Yeti jokes from Yelling Bird?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 19 Feb 2015, 20:30
Technically, you couldn't be more on topic.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 19 Feb 2015, 20:32
It's also freaking cold and there's a ton of snow on the ground in the Pioneer Valley at the moment.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 20:32
Moving on, I'm pretty sure it's just late. He was just using his twitter. (I was gonna comment on that whole thing, but it's probably better served in the "is this racist?" thread, being a good kid this time.)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 20:47
And right on queue, comic's up
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: TRVA123 on 19 Feb 2015, 20:48
this is better, much more classic QC!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: tragic_pizza on 19 Feb 2015, 20:48
Last panel Claire is the Best Claire.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 19 Feb 2015, 20:51
First one to find a nominee for the video that Emily was watching gets a fabulous no-prize.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: hedgie on 19 Feb 2015, 20:54
Okay, who *hasn't* howled at a wolf video or a werewolf film?  Show of hands, please.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: jwhouk on 19 Feb 2015, 20:55
Okay, who *hasn't* howled at a wolf video or a werewolf film?  Show of hands, please.

(crickets)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 20:56
First one to find a nominee for the video that Emily was watching gets a fabulous no-prize.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKYotRZNiZ0
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 20:56
First one to find a nominee for the video that Emily was watching gets a fabulous no-prize.

I mostly just thought this was cool:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxXOMwhl9_g

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: DrClef on 19 Feb 2015, 21:00
... All right. I actually like #2901.

Hopefully we see more of this and less of 2900. :)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 21:02
Explicit: was that guy mauled by the wolves at some point? Or am I thinking of the guy with the bears?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 21:03
Grizzly man was eaten by bears I believe, this is something else. I hadn't watched it before, but it seemed really cool. I mean FUCK he's eating a deer with a bunch of wolves!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 19 Feb 2015, 21:08
are these new backgrounds?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 19 Feb 2015, 21:09
are these new backgrounds?

New angles on these (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2367), probably.

Edit: And panel 1 shows up in the last panel of 2366. (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2366)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 21:10
... All right. I actually like #2901.

Hopefully we see more of this and less of 2900. :)

Today feels kinda like a coda, which might mean that we start seeing some new developments, or the picking up of one of the loose plot threads, Monday.

are these new backgrounds?

The first four seem to be. The fifth looks kinda familiar. [edit: Gladstone identified the fifth]
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 21:10
Jesus! How do people pull these up so quickly! I've read through QC 3 times, but you can be damned sure I don't remember the backgrounds!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 19 Feb 2015, 21:13
This one wins.

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 19 Feb 2015, 21:13
Those steps are pretty familiar, is all.  They show up again in 2427. (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2427)  So they're almost to the library, but I really hope we're not in for a week of Tai squeeing over them yet again.  Like Aziraphale says, please be coda.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: celticgeek on 19 Feb 2015, 21:15
Jesus! How do people pull these up so quickly! I've read through QC 3 times, but you can be damned sure I don't remember the backgrounds!

We spend time howling at the backgrounds.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 19 Feb 2015, 21:32
they're almost to the library, but I really hope we're not in for a week of Tai squeeing over them yet again.  Like Aziraphale says, please be coda.

...although if Claire really thought it was a good idea to wear Marten's shirt into the library, I suppose we have no other option.  Pintsize probably decided to take revenge on Marten's LOOOOOM by calling Tai himself.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Meilu on 19 Feb 2015, 21:34
Okay, who *hasn't* howled at a wolf video or a werewolf film?  Show of hands, please.

(crickets)

I'll be the odd one out. [raising hand]
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 21:34
I don't know why, but the prospect of Oddly Serene Emily weirds me out even more than Strangely Zen Marten.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 19 Feb 2015, 21:36
Jesus! How do people pull these up so quickly! I've read through QC 3 times, but you can be damned sure I don't remember the backgrounds!

We spend time howling at the backgrounds.
Howl do we do it? We wolf down the comic every day, then when we see a background again the memory dogs us until we hound out the source.  :clairedoge:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 21:37
I bet you're pretty proud of that one
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 19 Feb 2015, 21:38
Jesus! How do people pull these up so quickly! I've read through QC 3 times, but you can be damned sure I don't remember the backgrounds!

We spend time howling at the backgrounds.
Howl do we do it? We wolf down the comic every day, then when we see a background again the memory dogs us until we hound out the source.  :clairedoge:

I think you've got the warp and woof of it about right.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 19 Feb 2015, 22:14
Monday's strip, if we must:

Claire and Marten pause in front of the library doors.  Claire smacks her forehead, looking exasperated.
CLAIRE: "Shit!"
MARTEN (concerned): "What?"
CLAIRE: "I'm wearing your shirt!  So much for professionalism.  Tai's gonna have a field day with this..."
MARTEN: "Do you want to go home and change?  I can cover for you--"
CLAIRE: "No, too late now.  Just follow my lead, okay?"
Claire walks through the doors, chin up.  She meets Tai's eyes for a moment, then starts dancing.  Marten follows.
Tai's head explodes.
fin

The good news is, the next few weeks of strips will then focus on Dora, as she tries to deal with firing Faye and losing her girlfriend in the space of just a few days.  I think it could work.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 19 Feb 2015, 22:58
New angles on these (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2367), probably.

And dangit, the direct comparison to the third panel and todays last panel has me missing Magic Claire Hair again.

But on the plus side, Arms Race!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: SubaruStephen on 19 Feb 2015, 23:02
New angles on these (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2367), probably.

And dangit, the direct comparison to the third panel and todays last panel has me missing Magic Claire Hair again.

It's not a comparison, it's literally the same background, just zoomed in slightly, look at the tree.
<edit> same with panel 1 and 4.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 19 Feb 2015, 23:03
So today's strip has something for everyone - Marten and Claire, but no-one being or doing anything particularly cute AND the potential for future drama. Maybe we can all calm down for the weekend now?

I'd be interested to know people's opinions on the cast's reactions to Claire coming out. Someone suggested that Faye might have an adverse reaction, but I'm not sure if I see that. To be honest, I don't think I could see anyone react badly to this, as certainly none of the inner circle have showed any prejudice in the past. But maybe I'm wrong...

I also want to see how Dora is coping, but Marten and Claire have to go to work, and Tai exploding in happiness over the two of them would be so much in character for her, so maybe we have to brace ourselves for Monday...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Indicible on 19 Feb 2015, 23:11
I too growl along metal videos. Even more when they are about wolves. (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ne2kFAm8H4) Does that make me as weird as Emily?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 19 Feb 2015, 23:13
Metals songs about wolves are pretty fucking metal.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 19 Feb 2015, 23:18
Actually, I could see Dora saying something rude upon being told what's up. (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30492.0.html)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 19 Feb 2015, 23:22
Here is a conundrum for you. How can you tell if a person who normally is weird is acting weird? Is it "bluer than usual today"? Or "she's acting normal... that's weird!" In Emily's case, the answer is, of course, "grapefruit".

This may just be me but I'm sensing a trajectory here to these three strips that, to a greater or lesser extent, allude to Claire's trans status. I'm thinking that she's going to be outed to someone by mistake or someone will guess, Marten or Emily will confirm and, either way, there will be an awkward morning at the library. I'm thinking Tai who may, unintentionally, push boundaries tactlessly in an attempt to appear accepting. Tai then possibly sets off a chain reaction by talking to Dora without permission.

Actually, I could see Dora saying something rude upon being told what's up. (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30492.0.html)

Yes, Dora may have a specific issue regarding Marten dating a trans-woman, no matter how non-serious the issue seemed to me at the time. We all know Dora has a reserve of insecurity and, even though Marten was kidding, Dora might still remember and fret on whether it was a cause of problems between them.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 19 Feb 2015, 23:36
And since Dora is currently struggling with her guilt feelings at firing Faye AND trying to work out how to run her business without her assisstant manager...I could see her making some comment without thinking about it. Maybe Dora will be the next breakdown!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: osaka on 19 Feb 2015, 23:46
Ok, just in case you needed a top level for weirdness of things to howl to:

(click to show/hide)

Here is a conundrum for you. How can you tell if a person who normally is weird is acting weird? Is it "bluer than usual today"? Or "she's acting normal... that's weird!" In Emily's case, the answer is, of course, "grapefruit".

Please define, that could mean "irresponsible amounts of wine" too. I've seen that happen (The "weird because wine" part that is).

Outside of that, I don't see much to comment about this comic, just classic QC with a new couple up front. It's nice to see that every now and again.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Rghfrgl on 20 Feb 2015, 00:13
Quote
So today's strip has something for everyone - Marten and Claire, but no-one being or doing anything particularly cute AND the potential for future drama. Maybe we can all calm down for the weekend now?

I don't know, Emily howling at wolves sounds pretty cute.

Quote
I'd be interested to know people's opinions on the cast's reactions to Claire coming out. Someone suggested that Faye might have an adverse reaction, but I'm not sure if I see that.

I can imagine Faye having a crude reaction to it, but probably not a intentionally negative one.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ZoeB on 20 Feb 2015, 00:38
The Andrea James link called it rarely used.

There's an easy way to settle it though. Find some people who were members of that community back then and ask. Given the number of trans people on the forum there must be a few, non?

Zoe?
Not me. I'm still not a member of a "trans community" even if one exists here. Never have been.

The first reference to Zissexualismus is from 1919 I believe, so is roughly contemporary with Transsexual. Neither word was in common use until later, but Transsexual came into common parlance long before Cissexual. I'd not heard the latter term 10 years ago, but it was as obvious in both derivation and need for a term as Intrasex is, as the opposite of Intersex.

"Intrasex" is rarely used too. Heck, many people still haven't heard of "Intersex".

Cisvestitismus was used even earlier, 1914. It's sorta obvious.

(http://i.imgur.com/IEd7Exc.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 20 Feb 2015, 00:44
For those that don't speak German...

Cisvestistmus: the inclination to put on clothes of another age group, class or profession of the same sex with the aim of sexual recreation. Related to transvestism. (See dressing urge).

Give me a few minutes to translate the other bit  :-)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 20 Feb 2015, 00:53
And the bit by Doc Burchard, doctor for mental and nervous disorders...

Lexicon of the complete sexual life.

...this lets one person ruin their own health in foolish ignorance, another consume themselves self-tormentingly in unnecessary delusions and scruples and many other people do gross injustices to their fellow men (and of course women) out of blind prejudice.

If this short writ can free some people from needless worry and others from needless prejudice, then it has fulfilled its goal.

Berlin, Easter 1914.


Pretty damn progressive for that time. That doctor sounds like a really good guy.

PS: You're welcome  :-)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ZoeB on 20 Feb 2015, 01:00
Danke Schoen.

BTW - if anyone feels uncomfy if I use the word "Intrasex" to describe "not Intersex", just say. I have no wish to see the cis/trans kerfuffle repeated. I'll continue to use it in technical writings, but not in a social context like this forum. There's a time to stand on one's rights, and a time to say "Meh" and not cause offense unless necessary. Small stuff should be unsweated, and we have bigger fish to fry. Like stopping Intersex kids from being surgically assigned a sex that doesn't fit, purely for the convenience of others.

Now as this really belongs in "DISCUSS", back to the comic.

Emily's weirdness is recursive.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Doc on 20 Feb 2015, 01:29
Howling along with the wolves on YouTube is not weird!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 20 Feb 2015, 01:34
Howling along with the wolves on YouTube is not weird!

It's a social animal thing, I think. In my admittedly small circle, I don't know anyone who hasn't felt the instinctual need to howl along with the wolves. I just think that Emily has fewer or no blocks about following her impulses.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ankhtahr on 20 Feb 2015, 01:52
Zoe, for one part that excerpt you've shown here is great from the contentual side, and for the other part, that typeface is gorgeous and I need to find out more about it… I have some strange hobbies…


But one remark about the translation: the word the goodly doctor uses ("sexuelle Entspannung") is not "sexual recreation", but rather "sexual relaxation", which I find pretty interesting. Also he speaks of "Mitmenschen", which rather means "fellow human" than "fellow man (or woman)".
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Khazgar on 20 Feb 2015, 02:38
@ ankhtahr  - I agree that "fellow human" is a better translation than "fellow man or woman" - here German just has the better word IMO.

However I'm going to stick with my guns with recreation here, especially as it's possible to translate the word as relaxation and as recreation. When you do something sexy, are you looking to relax or have fun? Both are possible of course, but when I want sexytimes I don't equate it with relaxing much. Relaxing comes after ;)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: explicit on 20 Feb 2015, 02:44
It can be both when you're playing bottom. I mean, it'd be polite to help, but that's not the point...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 20 Feb 2015, 03:56
Back to topic and just to repeat my predictions up-thread:
I'd also like for some strips with Hannelore sitting down with Faye and them comparing their 'my life sucks' stories. Faye may find hope that a woman who once needed a bewildering array of anti-psychotics and anti-depressants to be anything but a mindless, screaming shell tied to a bed in a padded cell has been able to fight her way to the point where she is mostly-functional with far less medication. If Hannelore can climb such a mountain, perhaps Faye will be able to learn to live without the crutch of alcohol's buzz.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: CM_albion on 20 Feb 2015, 04:27
Back to topic and just to repeat my predictions up-thread:
  • We're being set up for Claire to be accidentally outed to someone, most probably Tai (who may have already guessed that Claire is a trans-woman because she's met some before but innocent Emily will blurt it out to her, upsetting Emily more than Claire);

i'm almost wondering if circumstances will lead to Marten and Claire at Tai's rave orgy, perhaps to "protect the library" in Claire's "BOOKS=SRS BSNS" mindset.
while their a drunken student is going to mistake her for a party goer, ask her why she isn't nude for the orgy yet and in a good natured way "help" by yanking her trousers down, in front of every.

maybe going too far for jeph, but it's a possible scenario[/list]
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 20 Feb 2015, 05:05
i'm almost wondering if circumstances will lead to Marten and Claire at Tai's rave orgy, perhaps to "protect the library" in Claire's "BOOKS=SRS BSNS" mindset.
while their a drunken student is going to mistake her for a party goer, ask her why she isn't nude for the orgy yet and in a good natured way "help" by yanking her trousers down, in front of every.

maybe going too far for jeph, but it's a possible scenario[/list]

Short answer: No.

Long answer: NO NO NO NO NO.

I hope that helps.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: bhtooefr on 20 Feb 2015, 05:09
And I'm pretty sure even Tai's boundaries would basically result in that person being shunned, even if the victim were cis.

And I reaaaaaallllly doubt that Jeph would go anywhere near there.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 20 Feb 2015, 05:10
Replies like that are why I'm glad you're around, Gladstone.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Gladstone on 20 Feb 2015, 05:27
Jeph has pretty firmly stated that he's not going to use Claire's trans status as drama, which means no accidental outings.  Word of God.  Should be a no-brainer.

And I really can't see him digging up strip 1300 (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1300) to justify Dora's response.  "But Marten, many months ago I voiced a weird insecurity about not having a penis which was never addressed again, and now I find out you're dating a girl who may or may not have one!" Nope.  Nope nope nope again, in 24-point font.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Lubricus on 20 Feb 2015, 05:29
Yeah, Gladstone is definitely right. Jeph wouldn't do that AT ALL.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 20 Feb 2015, 05:35
Eh, regarding the Dora thing, I was more thinking a bit of short verbal sparring that's resolved a strip or two later more than world-shaking drama. The word was "rude" not "bridges burning in the distance".
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 20 Feb 2015, 05:59
The Andrea James link called it rarely used.

There's an easy way to settle it though. Find some people who were members of that community back then and ask. Given the number of trans people on the forum there must be a few, non?

Zoe?
Not me. I'm still not a member of a "trans community" even if one exists here. Never have been.

The first reference to Zissexualismus is from 1919 I believe, so is roughly contemporary with Transsexual. Neither word was in common use until later, but Transsexual came into common parlance long before Cissexual. I'd not heard the latter term 10 years ago, but it was as obvious in both derivation and need for a term as Intrasex is, as the opposite of Intersex.

"Intrasex" is rarely used too. Heck, many people still haven't heard of "Intersex".

Cisvestitismus was used even earlier, 1914. It's sorta obvious.

(http://i.imgur.com/IEd7Exc.jpg)

I seem to recall first coming across the term "intersex" in a Judith Butler book. Butler being notoriously difficult, I didn't fully understand the concept. I've never heard of intrasex. Can anyone define?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: BenRG on 20 Feb 2015, 06:10
Eh, regarding the Dora thing, I was more thinking a bit of short verbal sparring that's resolved a strip or two later more than world-shaking drama. The word was "rude" not "bridges burning in the distance".

This is Dora we're talking about. She doesn't do 'limited'; of late the nuclear option has been her only option. That said, I could see her treating it as a joke and offending Marten because of that.

Regarding the 'accidental outing', I think that too many people seemed to think that CM_Albion's suggestion is the only way to do it. My idea was something like this: Tai is teasing Claire about wearing Marten's shirt (clinched at the back with safety pins so it doesn't hang off of her). Emily gets excited and, in an unguarded moment (possibly even thinking that she's defending Claire) blurts out that, of course Claire can wear boy's clothes; didn't she used to be a boy? There is a horrified dialogue-free box of Claire, Tai and Marten staring in shock at a deer-in-the-headlights Emily. Then Tai says: "Yeah, I worked that out for myself but it isn't the sort of thing you should just blurt out in public you know, Ms Azuma." The last panel is Emily running off, tears streaming down her cheeks.

The focus actually would be Emily and why she is how she is; Claire would go to find her because she's actually worried about what Emily might do thinking that it would make things 'better'. Then then have a reconciliation which is similar in some ways to the scene when Claire comes out to Emily and in which we learn more of Emily's back-story. It would run parallel in Marten getting clarification from Tai about how she knew (that only needs to be a single strip). At the end of the sequence, Claire tells Emily that she's like the baby sister she's always wanted but never had and it's impossible for her to stay mad at her. Emily has the last word by saying something cute but otherworldly about families.

Off topic: I've just been over to the Subreddit. There is a long thread criticising Jeph for dissing them on Twitter and they're basically saying saying that he owes them. In fact, some are so angry that they're swearing off of QC because they can't tolerate the artist not liking their opinions. One or two are even trying to work out if a Subreddit-group boycott of QC would ruin Jeph and thus punish him for his disrespect. There was also the usual spiel about the strip having become boring.

Additionally, according to at least two posters, these forums are a moderator-heavy place dominated by sycophants where no seriously discussion of Claireten or the character of Claire is permitted. I actually consider that quite funny.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 20 Feb 2015, 06:12
I don't see Dora freaking out about Marten dating Claire because of those girl-with-a-penis comments. A) that was a long time ago. B) Dora knew even then that it was a crazy fear because of her insecurities over relationships. C) Dora knows what the breakup was about... her insecurities over relationships. D) Dora has a girlfriend now who she has shown nothing but happiness with and is in general more calm about her relationship fears these days. And finally E) She's been actively trying to push Marten back into the dating pool again of late.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 20 Feb 2015, 06:19
are these new backgrounds?

New angles on these (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2367), probably.

Edit: And panel 1 shows up in the last panel of 2366. (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2366)

Now and then, Jeph will do a background that is not just modeled on but practically a google street view of downtown Northampton, which is always surreal to me. The best example of this that I can recall is the one where Angus gets SCORNED!!!. Dune-style. It happens on a clearly identifiable side street near the local townie pub and the best music venue in town (Iron Horse).

There's one that's clearly right at the intersection of King St. & Main, too, but I can't remember which arc it happens in. Possibly when Tai gets her junk pierced.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Stoutfellow on 20 Feb 2015, 06:41
Why is howling along with wolves any weirder than singing along with people? (I occasionally howl at my dogs to see - and hear - their reactions....)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Kiloku on 20 Feb 2015, 06:46
My Archive-Fu is terrible. When did Claire come out to Emily?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 20 Feb 2015, 06:52
2572 (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2572)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ZoeB on 20 Feb 2015, 07:19
I seem to recall first coming across the term "intersex" in a Judith Butler book. Butler being notoriously difficult, I didn't fully understand the concept. I've never heard of intrasex. Can anyone define?
Glad you asked.
There's a wiki article on the subject that's pretty good.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex

The legal definition in Australia - which I'll quote since I and many others came up with it as something we could all live with, even if imperfect:
Quote
An intersex person may have the biological attributes of both sexes or lack some of the biological attributes considered necessary to be defined as one or the other sex. Intersex is always congenital and can originate from genetic, chromosomal or hormonal variations. Environmental influences such as endocrine disruptors can also play a role in some intersex differences. People who are intersex may identify their gender as male, female or X

I for example identify as female. Convenient, as I'm being treated for "severe androgenisation of a non-pregnant woman".

Intra is the opposite prefix to Inter. Thus someone who is not Intersex is Intrasex. Meaning they have the biological attributes, and all of the biological attributes, of one sex or the other, not both, not neither. The case for most (98.3%) humans on the planet.

For more, see the relevant pages in the DISCUSS thread.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: War Sparrow on 20 Feb 2015, 07:22
I seem to recall first coming across the term "intersex" in a Judith Butler book. Butler being notoriously difficult, I didn't fully understand the concept. I've never heard of intrasex. Can anyone define?
Glad you asked.
There's a wiki article on the subject that's pretty good.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex

The legal definition in Australia - which I'll quote since I and many others came up with it as something we could all live with, even if imperfect:
Quote
An intersex person may have the biological attributes of both sexes or lack some of the biological attributes considered necessary to be defined as one or the other sex. Intersex is always congenital and can originate from genetic, chromosomal or hormonal variations. Environmental influences such as endocrine disruptors can also play a role in some intersex differences. People who are intersex may identify their gender as male, female or X

I for example identify as female. Convenient, as I'm being treated for "severe androgenisation of a non-pregnant woman".

Intra is the opposite prefix to Inter. Thus someone who is not Intersex is Intrasex. Meaning they have the biological attributes, and all of the biological attributes, of one sex or the other, not both, not neither. The case for most (98.3%) humans on the planet.

For more, see the relevant pages in the DISCUSS thread.


I'm glad you posted that. All I found for intrasex was sexual selection, and it didn't sound applicable at all.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: aphanisis81 on 20 Feb 2015, 07:29
I seem to recall first coming across the term "intersex" in a Judith Butler book. Butler being notoriously difficult, I didn't fully understand the concept. I've never heard of intrasex. Can anyone define?
Glad you asked.
There's a wiki article on the subject that's pretty good.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex

The legal definition in Australia - which I'll quote since I and many others came up with it as something we could all live with, even if imperfect:
Quote
An intersex person may have the biological attributes of both sexes or lack some of the biological attributes considered necessary to be defined as one or the other sex. Intersex is always congenital and can originate from genetic, chromosomal or hormonal variations. Environmental influences such as endocrine disruptors can also play a role in some intersex differences. People who are intersex may identify their gender as male, female or X

I for example identify as female. Convenient, as I'm being treated for "severe androgenisation of a non-pregnant woman".

Intra is the opposite prefix to Inter. Thus someone who is not Intersex is Intrasex. Meaning they have the biological attributes, and all of the biological attributes, of one sex or the other, not both, not neither. The case for most (98.3%) humans on the planet.

For more, see the relevant pages in the DISCUSS thread.


I'm glad you posted that. All I found for intrasex was sexual selection, and it didn't sound applicable at all.

Thanks! So to summarize, both terms are biological, not identity-based? And intra- is essentially what we mean when we talk about normative gender/sex organ arrangements?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: eschaton on 20 Feb 2015, 07:43
I don't see Dora freaking out about Marten dating Claire because of those girl-with-a-penis comments. A) that was a long time ago. B) Dora knew even then that it was a crazy fear because of her insecurities over relationships. C) Dora knows what the breakup was about... her insecurities over relationships. D) Dora has a girlfriend now who she has shown nothing but happiness with and is in general more calm about her relationship fears these days. And finally E) She's been actively trying to push Marten back into the dating pool again of late.

To be fair, I *could* see Dora being a bit peeved because it's been established that Marten is pretty vanilla in bed, and she'll (wrongly) think that dating Claire means he was actually holding out on some kinky aspect of his personality or something.

For a lot of people, jumping to the conclusion you're dating a particular "kind" of person because of their characteristics, rather than who they are, is second nature sadly.  I'm white, and years ago had a black girlfriend.  You wouldn't believe the number of people who jumped to the conclusion I was with her because I wanted to see what a black woman was like in bed.  It was pretty nastily both racist and sexist. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: zioninavision on 20 Feb 2015, 07:51
If Jeph has a cold or is disappointed about something, nothing too serious but a bit, in the future we should send him videos of us howling along to wolves howling through twitter en masse.  :)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: no one special on 20 Feb 2015, 07:58
6. Explaining these things is getting really, really old.

Ummm... tough?

Look, I've been around here for a long, long time.  Back in the day, the WCDT never got that long, there weren't that many of us and you could just talk about something simply and not have to repeat yourself.  But times have changed. The comic is more popular than ever, and there are a ton more people in the WCDT.  On top of that, there's never been a topic like this that's had to be broached so many different ways.  When every WCDT is 15 pages long, the more casual observers aren't going to read the whole thing - they're just gonna jump in when they can.  Just how it goes.  Your job's gotten tougher, granted - but ya gotta keep fostering discussion.  That's part of the deal, ya know?    Shutting people down isn't really going to help. 

Why not just put up a sticky?  That way, people can refer to that. 
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 20 Feb 2015, 08:04
Do you mean like the stickies that are already up about the subject, that nobody reads or pays attention to?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: no one special on 20 Feb 2015, 08:06
I've never been in a relationship that immediately had problems, otherwise I probably wouldn't have dated that person.

...and then there are those of us who have chosen, for some damn reason, to tough it out for almost 2 years...

*sigh*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 08:19
Why not just put up a sticky?  That way, people can refer to that.

Noticing the stickies on the board: So (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24872.0.html) EASY (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30194.0.html) a (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,4954.0.html) caveman (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29097.0.html) could (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27839.0.html) do (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27466.0.html) it (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,25614.0.html).
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 20 Feb 2015, 08:21
Hey now, I rocksemble that remark.

(https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/a/ad/Fred_Flintstone.png/165px-Fred_Flintstone.png)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 08:22
BOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 08:24
Hey now, I rocksemble that remark.

(https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/a/ad/Fred_Flintstone.png/165px-Fred_Flintstone.png)

Oh. Sorry. I didn't know you guys were still around.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Fig on 20 Feb 2015, 08:24
Hey now, I rocksemble that remark.

(https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/a/ad/Fred_Flintstone.png/165px-Fred_Flintstone.png)

It's official:  We've hit rock bottom.  I hope no one else takes things for granite.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 08:30
How about we clean the slate, and start over. I don't want to get stoned.

Actually, I do want to get stoned, but not the kind with rocks.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 08:36
I realize that puns are the bedrock of the comic but bad puns tend to hit a stone wall and should never be shoveled in public.

 :clairedoge:
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 20 Feb 2015, 08:38
Sorry, I'll be gneiss from now on.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 08:40
(http://i.imgur.com/vfrhEfg.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: no one special on 20 Feb 2015, 08:42
Ugh, all these puns are a basalt on my senses!!   :psyduck:

*ahem*


Do you mean like the stickies that are already up about the subject, that nobody reads or pays attention to?
a) I don't see a sticky about the definitions of "cis-", "trans*" and other basics.  It sounded that's what you were complaining about explaining for the umpteenth time. 

b) If there were (or is) such a sticky, why not just post a link to it when someone asks a question.  Problem solved. 

There may have been some surgical removals.
I THOUGHT WE SAID NO GENITALIA TALK
...too soon to joke?
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aegir on 20 Feb 2015, 08:50
Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

All things considered, being accused of following either traditional masculinity or femininity is pretty damn insulting.

I tend to agree with Elizabeth Hungerford about the C-word. https://liberationcollective.wordpress.com/2012/06/08/a-feminist-critique-of-cisgender/

Edit: I should be more clear. Hungerford's reasoning goes beyond the simple who's really 100% conformable with gender roles but it is the suggestion, along with the idea that trans people get to apply a label to another group that people are just expect to accept. They don't care for a lot of words people have applied to them after all.

I completely disagree with this article. She doesn't believe that transwomen are real women. I don't know if you read all the comments but here is one of her responses:
"The concept of a cis/trans binary effectively REVERSES the power dynamics between males and females on the axis of gender.

It suggests that a male person’s subjective and VOLUNTARY self-identification as a “woman” can nullify his experiences of membership in the class of people who are privileged at women’s expense.

Further, it suggests that subjective and voluntary self-identification can actually render him (now her) MORE oppressed than the “other” women in the class he alleges to have joined!"

Being trans is not voluntary. Whether or not one chooses to transition, identifying as a woman isn't a choice.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 08:51
b) If there were (or is) such a sticky, why not just post a link to it when someone asks a question.  Problem solved. 

Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?    Don't get me wrong, we understand how people would much rather hear it as a part of the narrative.  That taking it upon one's self to find out for themselves stems back to looking up a word in the dictionary you don't know how to spell in the first place.    We get it, we do.   Which is usually why we answer the questions for the first few thousand times.   But remember, we are human too.  Not walking wiki's ready to take everyone's query.     So before you slam us for being tired of pointing at the sign, put some effort into it.   It demonstrates that you're not just curious but serious.    And then when people have questions, they are a lot more thought out, specific, and welcomed.   :)

..... basalt.    That was good.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Fig on 20 Feb 2015, 08:53
Two Monty Python references in one thread, awesome.  Let's leave no stone unturned lest we get the pointed sticks out.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 08:56
Two Monty Python references in one thread, awesome.  Let's leave no stone unturned lest we get the pointed sticks out.

Only 2?  I must be slipping.    OR SILLY WALKING!!

(http://images2.fanpop.com/image/photos/13500000/Silly-Walk-monty-python-13514283-1280-800.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 08:59
Quote
...with a cis guy

Excuse me for being clueless about such things, but can someone define the term "cis" for me?

I assume from the context that it has something to do with having a traditional gender identity, or something like that.

All things considered, being accused of following either traditional masculinity or femininity is pretty damn insulting.

I tend to agree with Elizabeth Hungerford about the C-word. https://liberationcollective.wordpress.com/2012/06/08/a-feminist-critique-of-cisgender/

Edit: I should be more clear. Hungerford's reasoning goes beyond the simple who's really 100% conformable with gender roles but it is the suggestion, along with the idea that trans people get to apply a label to another group that people are just expect to accept. They don't care for a lot of words people have applied to them after all.

I completely disagree with this article. She doesn't believe that transwomen are real women. I don't know if you read all the comments but here is one of her responses:
"The concept of a cis/trans binary effectively REVERSES the power dynamics between males and females on the axis of gender.

It suggests that a male person’s subjective and VOLUNTARY self-identification as a “woman” can nullify his experiences of membership in the class of people who are privileged at women’s expense.

Further, it suggests that subjective and voluntary self-identification can actually render him (now her) MORE oppressed than the “other” women in the class he alleges to have joined!"

Being trans is not voluntary. Whether or not one chooses to transition, identifying as a woman isn't a choice.

Anyone that uses phrases like "Women born women" and argues that a word which describes people who aren't trans is somehow offensive, as if dark is bad description for the absence of light; is nothing more than a twatwaffle not worthy of your time, respect, or patience in the first place.   
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 20 Feb 2015, 08:59
And now for something completely different...
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 09:03
Free Arrakis?   You said completely different....

(http://i.imgur.com/6awEnra.jpg)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: cesium133 on 20 Feb 2015, 09:04
British diplomats must get so confused at U.S. Presidential inaugurations.

Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 20 Feb 2015, 09:08
I completely disagree with this article. She doesn't believe that transwomen are real women.

Anyone that uses phrases like "Women born women" and argues that a word which describes people who aren't trans is somehow offensive, as if dark is bad description for the absence of light; is nothing more than a twatwaffle not worthy of your time, respect, or patience in the first place.

thank you. *hugs*
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 09:09
Here is a conundrum for you. How can you tell if a person who normally is weird is acting weird? Is it "bluer than usual today"? Or "she's acting normal... that's weird!" In Emily's case, the answer is, of course, "grapefruit".

This may just be me but I'm sensing a trajectory here to these three strips that, to a greater or lesser extent, allude to Claire's trans status. I'm thinking that she's going to be outed to someone by mistake or someone will guess, Marten or Emily will confirm and, either way, there will be an awkward morning at the library. I'm thinking Tai who may, unintentionally, push boundaries tactlessly in an attempt to appear accepting. Tai then possibly sets off a chain reaction by talking to Dora without permission.

Actually, I could see Dora saying something rude upon being told what's up. (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30492.0.html)

Yes, Dora may have a specific issue regarding Marten dating a trans-woman, no matter how non-serious the issue seemed to me at the time. We all know Dora has a reserve of insecurity and, even though Marten was kidding, Dora might still remember and fret on whether it was a cause of problems between them.

Re: degrees of normal: It's not that difficult, at least if you know someone, to be able to tell when something's off. Whether they want to discuss what's going on is something else again.

2324 (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2324): the discussion after Claire comes out to Marten. I don't think that the "outing" itself needs to be problematic (provided someone doesn't say something utterly idiotic). At any rate, their first conversation was, in part, "Well, I'm not that out, but if anybody asks..."

Speaking of Emily and Claire: How ironic would it be if the problem didn't end up Claire being inadvertently outed, but Emily letting something slip on her "date" with Clinton? Especially since (as far as we know) Clinton doesn't know that Emily "knows," and there's any number of misunderstandings that could arise from that, some leaving Marten's trachea in varying states of disrepair.

Re: Dora... I doubt if she'd think much of it, one way or the other. She thought he was vanilla, and as far as we know, he's still every bit as vanilla as he was before.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Omega Entity on 20 Feb 2015, 09:12
Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?
Welcome to retail.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 20 Feb 2015, 09:15
Re: Dora... I doubt if she'd think much of it, one way or the other. She thought he was vanilla, and as far as we know, he's still every bit as vanilla as he was before.

Well he may not be kinky, but I'll be you dollars to donuts our favorite firey redhead can come up with a practical application for his shibari skills (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1302). I think Marten would make a credible service top if he put his mind to it!
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 09:19
Re: Dora... I doubt if she'd think much of it, one way or the other. She thought he was vanilla, and as far as we know, he's still every bit as vanilla as he was before.

Well he may not be kinky, but I'll be you dollars to donuts our favorite firey redhead can come up with a practical application for his shibari skills (http://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1302). I think Marten would make a credible service top if he put his mind to it!

Or maybe it'll figure in his showdown with Clinton. "Behave yourself and MAYBE I'll untie you."

Unless Clinton's hand has an "untie" mode.

Or skitters off to get help, like Lassie.

This could get interesting.
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Neko_Ali on 20 Feb 2015, 09:21
Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?
Welcome to retail.

Yes, I remember those fun days. "where is this item?" Slowly turn 90 degrees and look at the shelf immediately to my right or left. "right there?"

The worst example of that though wasn't technically retail. I lived in Ocean City, MD for many  years. For those that don't know, it's a penninsula, averaging about 2-4 blocks wide at most point. The number of people who asked me 'where's the beach?' is staggering. You can literally see the ocean 80% of the time you are out doors....
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: AprilArcus on 20 Feb 2015, 09:23
Or maybe it'll figure in his showdown with Clinton. "Behave yourself and MAYBE I'll untie you."

That happened once! (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1909)
Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 09:28
    i'm almost wondering if circumstances will lead to Marten and Claire at Tai's rave orgy, perhaps to "protect the library" in Claire's "BOOKS=SRS BSNS" mindset.
    while their a drunken student is going to mistake her for a party goer, ask her why she isn't nude for the orgy yet and in a good natured way "help" by yanking her trousers down, in front of every.

    maybe going too far for jeph, but it's a possible scenario[/list]

    Short answer: No.

    Long answer: NO NO NO NO NO.

    I hope that helps.

    I rather expected another "NO." I was reading that bit in the same voicing as that one part in "Bohemian Rhapsody" and came to the ending sooner than expected.

    Howling along with the wolves on YouTube is not weird!

    I usually only howl along with Warren Zevon.  :clairedoge:

    Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?
    Welcome to retail.

    Yes, I remember those fun days. "where is this item?" Slowly turn 90 degrees and look at the shelf immediately to my right or left. "right there?"

    The worst example of that though wasn't technically retail. I lived in Ocean City, MD for many  years. For those that don't know, it's a penninsula, averaging about 2-4 blocks wide at most point. The number of people who asked me 'where's the beach?' is staggering. You can literally see the ocean 80% of the time you are out doors....


    This.

    I worked at one of those chain record stores (back when those were still a thing) and I'm stocking the cassette tapes (back when those were still a thing). A woman walks up to me and asks, "Where are the cassettes?" I turned around, looked at the twelve-foot wall of tapes, turned back around and looked at the lady and said, "I have no idea."

    Or maybe it'll figure in his showdown with Clinton. "Behave yourself and MAYBE I'll untie you."

    That happened once! (http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1909)

    How did I forget that strip?!?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 09:44
    Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?
    Welcome to retail.
    Oh if I was paid?   That's a different story.   But I'm not.   The only thing I can hope for is that by answering a question here or there, that one day someone won't try bash my skull in cause I answered their mothers question and she raised them just a little bit better.     Idealistic I know...    a girl can dream though right?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Cyril on 20 Feb 2015, 09:53
    I completely disagree with this article. She doesn't believe that transwomen are real women.

    Anyone that uses phrases like "Women born women" and argues that a word which describes people who aren't trans is somehow offensive, as if dark is bad description for the absence of light; is nothing more than a twatwaffle not worthy of your time, respect, or patience in the first place.

    thank you. *hugs*

    That's something I've had to come to terms with myself lately (oh poor me). I spent a good long time feeling that needing a label like 'cis' was silly, hypocritical, insulting, etc. -- to be fair, someone who isn't knee deep in gender issues is likely to first hear that kind of terminology in a way that -is- silly, trivializing, hypocritical, or insulting. Eventually I just chalk that gut reaction up to having to get to the point where I'm understanding myself as being 'part of a group' instead of associating myself with 'everyone' and people who are different as belonging to 'groups' that need the labels. That's a shift that made it a lot easier to internalize legitimacy for any other group.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Omega Entity on 20 Feb 2015, 10:10
    Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?
    Welcome to retail.
    Oh if I was paid?   That's a different story.   But I'm not.   The only thing I can hope for is that by answering a question here or there, that one day someone won't try bash my skull in cause I answered their mothers question and she raised them just a little bit better.     Idealistic I know...    a girl can dream though right?

    I was commenting on people being willingly oblivious to signs two feet in any direction of their line of sight, rather than comparing the entirety of you post to retail as a whole. thus why I edited it down to that particular snippet  :wink:

    That said, I can commiserate on at least the superficial level of annoyance of being asked repeated about something (and not just in a work setting), if not the experiences referred to by you, and I realize that I'll never completely understand as I'm an 'outsider', as it were*. But I do hope that things do get better for you, and everyone else that shares those experiences.

    *that I know of. There's a lot of things that I haven't worked out about myself, and who knows if I ever will. I am, in my own mind, a strange bird, haha.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: snarkyone on 20 Feb 2015, 10:15
    I was commenting on people being willingly oblivious to signs two feet in any direction of their line of sight, rather than comparing the entirety of you post to retail as a whole. thus why I edited it down to that particular snippet  :wink:
    You were, I was just taking it further, I needed a moment.   No worries :)

    I am, in my own mind, a strange bird, haha.
    No no, it's in our minds too  :clairedoge:
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Endellion on 20 Feb 2015, 10:59
    Sorry, I'll be gneiss from now on.

    We'll give you a clean slate  :claireface:
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: brew on 20 Feb 2015, 12:15

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 12:29

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?

    (http://lifeisbutadrink.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/2594328877_46abbb6485_z.jpg)
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Is it cold in here? on 20 Feb 2015, 12:42
    Global Moderator Comment I got some highly practical and constructive feedback about the forum rules for interacting with trans* people and will be editing them soon. It's not too late to contribute guidance or (please please please) bibliographies and links.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 12:43

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?

    Ranging far afield from the comic, but I'll bite once.

    Embrace whatever you like. I don't prefer black. I accept it because mo-fos gotta talk about "race," as if such a thing exists. But as it happens, I'm American. Period.

    Qualifiers not required.

    If you really have a valid political/social context that requires you separate me, and people like me, from the population as a whole, how about "Americans descended from the survivors of our shameful and horrifying slavery period?" Wordy, but it's got a lot of context.

    And that's all I have to say about that /Gump

    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Undrneath on 20 Feb 2015, 12:53
    We as a species have an overwhelming need to quantify and categorize everything and everyone. I wonder if there is some sort of biological imperative for this.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: DSL on 20 Feb 2015, 13:03
    We as a species have an overwhelming need to quantify and categorize everything and everyone. I wonder if there is some sort of biological imperative for this.

    Probably started with "things I can eat" and "things that will eat me."
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 13:06
    We as a species have an overwhelming need to quantify and categorize everything and everyone. I wonder if there is some sort of biological imperative for this.

    Probably. Some of it could've come from something as simple as knowing which mushrooms you could eat versus the ones that would kill you or leave you having hour-long conversations with the paintings on the cave walls. Some of it likely also came from being able to differentiate between members of one's own tribe and another. Not to say that those things are still necessary, mind you. And while I understand RF's irritation over talking about race, I'd posit that as long as the conversation persists, the other issues that surround it (not least of which is agreeing on the terminology through which the discussion takes place) will as well.

    Edit: Ninja'd by DSL on the classification bit.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 13:10
    We as a species have an overwhelming need to quantify and categorize everything and everyone. I wonder if there is some sort of biological imperative for this.

    Probably. Some of it could've come from something as simple as knowing which mushrooms you could eat versus the ones that would kill you or leave you having hour-long conversations with the paintings on the cave walls. Some of it likely also came from being able to differentiate between members of one's own tribe and another. Not to say that those things are still necessary, mind you. And while I understand RF's irritation over talking about race, I'd posit that as long as the conversation persists, the other issues that surround it (not least of which is agreeing on the terminology through which the discussion takes place) will as well.

    Edit: Ninja'd by DSL on the classification bit.

    I'm not irritated by talking about "race." I'm irritated by the pretense that race is thing that exists as something other than a means for the powerful to oppress, control, and destroy others.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Kugai on 20 Feb 2015, 13:23
    The base for that is ancient.

    It's modern day Tribalism.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: TheCallMeFez on 20 Feb 2015, 13:38
    Free Arrakis?   You said completely different....

    (http://i.imgur.com/6awEnra.jpg)

    This is actually my cover photo on facebook you beautiful person you
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 13:41
    The basis for astrology and possession by evil spirits is ancient. Also incredibly stupid.

    I disagree with the rule about discussion of trans pants on the basis that the taboo involved is stupid, and contributes to the problem (among many other problems). I don't argue that point on the basis that people don't do discussions of everyone else's pants, thus creating a situation where their questions deny the humanity of the trans people.

    Which is what all of this stuff is, at the bottom level. Call it tribalism or a classification compulsion but it is--ultimately--an easy tool to make a human or group of humans into a thing or things.

    Because you don't have to feel bad when you fuck up a thing.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: mvdwege on 20 Feb 2015, 13:42
    That isn't the point, and I'm not holding it against you. The point is, there's literally nothing you could have said there that someone like me couldn't have found offensive. The only way to win is not to play. Except, if you refuse to play, everyone loses. So maybe, just maybe, it is incumbent upon me, as the oppressed party, to not give you a hard time for failing to beat the Kobayashi Maru.

    Just sayin'

    Maybe another point is that sometimes you will say something that offends someone else. If you then get "Hey, that offended me", you can, instead of going all defensive, just apologise, and only then start asking what caused the offence and why.

    We are none of us mind-readers. We will cause offence every now and then. Just see any hints that we did as a heads-up, a minor correction, instead of a personal attack, and a reasonable discussion is possible.

    I personally like to keep things implicit, I hate long disclaimers up front. Unfortunately that means that I occasionally get called on a possible reading I didn't mean to imply. In which case I am glad to provide a more explicit reading of what I meant ex post facto, and an apology for using words that can be read wrong.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 13:58
    Salient point, but completely off the topic, which was that perhaps the people who are quick to pile on those who don't handle the social justice jargon well should back off a bit, and not be upset when the n00bs inevitably fail to beat the no win situation.

    Sometimes you're going to trip up, and say something you shouldn't say. Sometimes you're going to trip up and say something that can be easily taken as something else. In those situations, you do have to own the failure. But sometimes, especially with the jargon, failure is the only option.

    It's cruel, IMO, to beat on people for that. Being oppressed doesn't give license to be cruel. Cruelty begets cruelty, until, think this subject, the conflict loses all connection to what started it.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Emperor Norton on 20 Feb 2015, 14:03
    Why not just put up a sticky?  That way, people can refer to that.

    Noticing the stickies on the board: So (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24872.0.html) EASY (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30194.0.html) a (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,4954.0.html) caveman (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29097.0.html) could (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27839.0.html) do (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27466.0.html) it (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,25614.0.html).

    I run a rather large forum for work. Among the staff we have a joke about stickies: The fastest way to make sure noone reads something.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: brew on 20 Feb 2015, 14:12

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?

    Ranging far afield from the comic

    Today's strip went on about how weird the only Asian character is.

    I'm not sure what the best term is, or how it relates to whether you're othered (certainly seems like Emily's portrayed as being in a different world). But the discussion is definitely relevant to the comic.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 14:22

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?

    Ranging far afield from the comic

    Today's strip went on about how weird the only Asian character is.

    I'm not sure what the best term is, or how it relates to whether you're othered (certainly seems like Emily's portrayed as being in a different world). But the discussion is definitely relevant to the comic.

    Emily's status as the token Asian is an issue for me, but I generally don't feel the WCDTs are a hospitable place to raise that criticism. Or, frankly, any of the "racial" issues the comic has. Since the horse isn't quite dead, I shall beat it a bit more: The only reason I brought up my aversion to "African American" was to underline this problem with the response to CM_albion's expressed frustration with keeping up with acceptable terminology. To highlight the fact that universally acceptable terminology is a myth.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 14:28

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?

    Ranging far afield from the comic

    Today's strip went on about how weird the only Asian character is.

    I'm not sure what the best term is, or how it relates to whether you're othered (certainly seems like Emily's portrayed as being in a different world). But the discussion is definitely relevant to the comic.

    Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but I always saw Emily's oddity being unrelated to her being Asian, rather than being a function of her being Asian. In other words, she's an oddball who happens to be Asian, not somone who happens to be an oddball because she's Asian.

    Besides, if she were "normal" compared to most of the rest of the cast, with all their neuroses and whatnot, that would make her more of an oddity than her oddity does (if that makes sense).
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: cesium133 on 20 Feb 2015, 14:33
    Why not just put up a sticky?  That way, people can refer to that.

    Noticing the stickies on the board: So (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,24872.0.html) EASY (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,30194.0.html) a (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,4954.0.html) caveman (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,29097.0.html) could (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27839.0.html) do (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,27466.0.html) it (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,25614.0.html).

    I run a rather large forum for work. Among the staff we have a joke about stickies: The fastest way to make sure noone reads something.
    Just like the syllabus in a college course.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 14:41

    Accepted. I wouldn't have mentioned except that it is true and it was perfectly in line with my point. You don't hear about it much, because I think people like me are tired of the fight. But I'm not from Africa. I don't know from Africa. I'm from Texas. There's a lot of people like me who are really tired of being "qualified" Americans.

    As an American of Asian descent (who hasn't found a better term than "American of Asian descent"), I find this interesting. Should I start embracing "yellow"?

    Ranging far afield from the comic

    Today's strip went on about how weird the only Asian character is.

    I'm not sure what the best term is, or how it relates to whether you're othered (certainly seems like Emily's portrayed as being in a different world). But the discussion is definitely relevant to the comic.

    Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but I always saw Emily's oddity being unrelated to her being Asian, rather than being a function of her being Asian. In other words, she's an oddball who happens to be Asian, not somone who happens to be an oddball because she's Asian.

    Besides, if she were "normal" compared to most of the rest of the cast, with all their neuroses and whatnot, that would make her more of an oddity than her oddity does (if that makes sense).

    I speak only for myself when I say I doubt the confluence of Emily's heritage and personality is a representation of author intent, or an author commentary.

    On the other hand, even Jeph admits that just because he didn't intend something be read a certain way, it doesn't mean that reading has no validity.  There are definitely issues with Emily. They reduce to the fact that she be summed up as weird and Asian.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: brew on 20 Feb 2015, 14:43

    Maybe I'm reading it wrong, but I always saw Emily's oddity being unrelated to her being Asian, rather than being a function of her being Asian. In other words, she's an oddball who happens to be Asian, not somone who happens to be an oddball because she's Asian.

    I definitely don't think Jeph had bad intentions. But if the only black character just happens to be a thug type, even by accident...
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: AprilArcus on 20 Feb 2015, 14:47
    I think Jeph struggled with introducing three new characters at once when he brought the interns on board. Emily is a caricature with no personality traits besides "lol so random" and Gabby didn't even get to be a caricature before she was written out. I think Emily is mostly still in the strip because she's someone inoffensive and inconsequential for Claire to bounce off of — Tai and Claire have a more frictiony dynamic, and while I enjoy that sort of conflict, the author doesn't seem to.

    ETA: Maybe I'm off base in saying this, but "lolrandom" isn't on my list of stereotypes for Asian American girls. Emily and Claire's character designs also reverse the expectation of tall trans girl / short Asian girl.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Mr. Black Licorice on 20 Feb 2015, 15:10
    Okay consider for a moment, You are somewhere living your daily life.   People keep coming up to you and asking a question, so you answer it.   And then more come, and more still.   All asking the same question or questions.   So after a while you make a sign with the question and the answer and hold it up next to you, yet people still ask you the question.  Over and over and over.    Everyday of your life for years.   Now you have to tell people how to read the sign less than 2 feet away from you?      Does any of that seem rational?
    Welcome to retail.

    Try center escalations: a whole new world of stupid.

    Yes, I remember those fun days. "where is this item?" Slowly turn 90 degrees and look at the shelf immediately to my right or left. "right there?"

    The worst example of that though wasn't technically retail. I lived in Ocean City, MD for many  years. For those that don't know, it's a penninsula, averaging about 2-4 blocks wide at most point. The number of people who asked me 'where's the beach?' is staggering. You can literally see the ocean 80% of the time you are out doors....

    I've been to OC MD a few times... I can attest to accuracy of this statement. If you walk more than 30 minutes in OC and you don't see the Ocean, you are walking North-South and need to take a 90 degree turn.

    We as a species have an overwhelming need to quantify and categorize everything and everyone. I wonder if there is some sort of biological imperative for this.

    I'm sure of it. We're an intelligent species, but we are only so intelligent. We quantify, categorize, and stereo type as a means to make it easy for our monkey brains... If we have stop evolving, it's because we are too lazy to push ourselves to think bigger thoughts. God, I hope that's not true...

    Sorry for the multiple edits... realized that I had three posts in a row after reading through - trying to consolidate.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: SomeCanadianWeirdo on 20 Feb 2015, 17:10
    Is Emily the only Asian character?  Tai's ethnicity is ambiguous, Jeph having claimed it was "tan" when asked.  But I could imagine her being part Filipino.  And of course if you use the UK version of the term Padma was, while Amir probably is.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: eschaton on 20 Feb 2015, 17:14
    ETA: Maybe I'm off base in saying this, but "lolrandom" isn't on my list of stereotypes for Asian American girls.

    Probably not, but Japanese people in general are stereotyped as being eccentric. 
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 17:27
    I think Jeph struggled with introducing three new characters at once when he brought the interns on board. Emily is a caricature with no personality traits besides "lol so random" and Gabby didn't even get to be a caricature before she was written out. I think Emily is mostly still in the strip because she's someone inoffensive and inconsequential for Claire to bounce off of — Tai and Claire have a more frictiony dynamic, and while I enjoy that sort of conflict, the author doesn't seem to.

    ETA: Maybe I'm off base in saying this, but "lolrandom" isn't on my list of stereotypes for Asian American girls. Emily and Claire's character designs also reverse the expectation of tall trans girl / short Asian girl.

    Gabby always struck me as kind of a missed opportunity. Not sure what direction her character would've gone, but it's a shame that we'll probably never know.

    And I agree with the randomness not fitting stereotypes that I'm aware of regarding (to say nothing of my experience with) Asian women, though I'll admit that I'm not a connoisseur of stereotypes.  The only thing that I have seen in terms of eccentricity might be WRT fashion, though that's also highly context-specific (what reads as eccentric or quirky to a Westerner in Massachusetts or Duluth would be right at home, one would guess, in Tokyo), and that hasn't figured into her characterization anyway. Keep the same characterization and change the ethnicity and she'd be similar to any number of women I've known in, and since, college.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 17:28
    ETA: Maybe I'm off base in saying this, but "lolrandom" isn't on my list of stereotypes for Asian American girls.

    Probably not, but Japanese people in general are stereotyped as being eccentric. 

    What he said. Also, it doesn't matter as much that a trait be a sterotype as one would think. Outside of a work where all of the characters exist to be laughed at, it's not really kosher for your token X to be a character who exists solely for the purpose of being laughed at.

    Jeph's got a lot of characters, so it's not unreasonable to expect some time to pass before any character gains depth. But it's been a lot of time for Emily, and pretty much the only thing we know about her that isn't lolwut is that she looks up to Claire. Which was the setup for a short joke.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 17:41
    The one thing I do take issue with WRT Emily (and Hanners, come to think of it) is that both of them seem to have regressed. Emily started out as eccentric, but has gone almost childlike; again, regardless of ethnicity, she's lost any dimensionality that she had. I know some reeeeealy eccentric people, and they also tend to be some of the smartest people I know, even if you have to get past a layer or two of "WTF" to get there. And Hanners... I thought the space station arc -- especially
    (click to show/hide)
    (spoilered for anyone who hasn't read that bit yet) -- showed how far she'd come as a character, but now she's just wallpaper. Adorable wallpaper, but I liked her better with some rough edges. It humanized her, whereas her current characterization infantilizes her.*

    *I don't mean "humanized" in the sense that it made someone who wouldn't otherwise have been or seemed human or familiar to be more so; I mean that she seemed a more fully-realized individual instead of being relegated to foil or gag fodder.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: osaka on 20 Feb 2015, 18:00
    That might be a screentime issue. Specially on Hanners' part. Emily has seemed to be pretty much the "lolwtfisshedoin" part of the comic outside of the mini-arcs, like when she talks to Momo or Claire comes out to her. At least to me. Even in the lakehouse party arc she mentions not having any other friends, which might very well mean that she's always been over the top weird and people didn't come near. Hanners had a long run of having a lot of time as the center of attention since she appeared on the bar and now she's gradually having less and less screentime, which I assume is what's making her a more one-dimensional character - lack of time to show other dimensions.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: bhtooefr on 20 Feb 2015, 18:01
    The other thing is that Emily might get more screen time, as part of the date with Clinton.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: wlewisiii on 20 Feb 2015, 18:23

    On the other hand, even Jeph admits that just because he didn't intend something be read a certain way, it doesn't mean that reading has no validity.  There are definitely issues with Emily. They reduce to the fact that she be summed up as weird and Asian.

    Interesting. My adopted son is Asian, so I've had to become familiar with such issues. Yet, I never thought of Emily as other than the tall girl. I never saw any particular ethnic heritage in how she was presented by Jeph. A bit of a comic relief character but it never buzzed to me that she was Asian.

    Just another alternate read.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 18:58
    Emily's surname is Azuma.

    That her family line, presumably, traces back to Japan is conjecture. But I think it is a reasonable one.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: hedgie on 20 Feb 2015, 19:18
    Of course, there's no telling how long her family ties to the US go back (and this is with the assumption that her ethnic background is Japanese).  For all we know, her grandparents were put into concentration camps on the west coast during WWII, or else were east-coasters who went to fight the Nazis.  Granted, she hasn't had the most development, but what I tend to read her as a rather eccentric CS student (yes, that's probably redundant) who is of East Asian ancestry.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 19:29
    Speaking of the camps, I never could figure out why Issei and Nisei on the East Coast weren't treated the same as their West Coast counterparts. I'm guessing that there was a much lower concentration on the East Coast than there was on the West Coast, but I don't seem to find as much mention of the experiences of Japanese Americans from the Eastern Seaboard in the histories I've seen (Japanese were interned in Boston and on Ellis Island, but IIRC, they were from the West Coast as well). It seems like the government was more concerned with Germans and Italians back east.

    Not one of our better moments as a country, to put it mildly.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: wlewisiii on 20 Feb 2015, 19:35
    Speaking of the camps, I never could figure out why Issei and Nisei on the East Coast weren't treated the same as their West Coast counterparts. I'm guessing that there was a much lower concentration on the East Coast than there was on the West Coast, but I don't seem to find as much mention of the experiences of Japanese Americans from the Eastern Seaboard in the histories I've seen (Japanese were interned in Boston and on Ellis Island, but IIRC, they were from the West Coast as well). It seems like the government was more concerned with Germans and Italians back east.

    Not one of our better moments as a country, to put it mildly.

    More value in the land to be stolen on the West coast than on the East has always been my guess.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: SubaruStephen on 20 Feb 2015, 19:39
    Not one of our better moments as a country, to put it mildly.

    Quote from: Friedrich Nietzsche
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 19:43
    Speaking of the camps, I never could figure out why Issei and Nisei on the East Coast weren't treated the same as their West Coast counterparts. I'm guessing that there was a much lower concentration on the East Coast than there was on the West Coast, but I don't seem to find as much mention of the experiences of Japanese Americans from the Eastern Seaboard in the histories I've seen (Japanese were interned in Boston and on Ellis Island, but IIRC, they were from the West Coast as well). It seems like the government was more concerned with Germans and Italians back east.

    Not one of our better moments as a country, to put it mildly.

    More value in the land to be stolen on the West coast than on the East has always been my guess.

    No, they were more concerned about espionage, I think. Thing is, there was just as much strategic real estate on the East Coast as on the West (Norfolk, the Brooklyn Navy Yard, countless commercial ports, refineries, terminals, rail networks, etc.). Unless the assumption was that people on the East Coast would be less likely to report those goings-on to Japan... but given that they were, after all, part of the Axis, one would think the concern would still be there.

    Not that it should've been; the 442nd was one of the most decorated units in history.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: hedgie on 20 Feb 2015, 19:55
    I think that one of the "reasons" that Japanese-Americans were treated worse on the west coast is that if there *was* going to be an attack on US soil from Japan, that's where it'd be coming from, and "leaders" were worried about a potential fifth column.  IIRC, George Takei has a play running about his experiences as an internee. 
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 19:58
    "Allegiance," which I'd like to see.

    The first time I heard anything about that was when I saw an exhibit at Ellis Island in 1998-99 or thereabouts... and wondered why I'd never heard of it in my high school or college history courses.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: War Sparrow on 20 Feb 2015, 20:26
    "Allegiance," which I'd like to see.

    The first time I heard anything about that was when I saw an exhibit at Ellis Island in 1998-99 or thereabouts... and wondered why I'd never heard of it in my high school or college history courses.

    Every country has one..I learned all about Japanese internment camps, the Chinese head tax, and other wretched things. However, Canada is really bad for not discussing our horrible treatment of natives. It's mentioned, but heavily glossed over. It wasn't till university Political Science that I learned about the "Final Solution To the Indian Problem."

    I actually have high hopes for the Emily/Clinton date. If anything, it will be entertaining.
    I think university History and Sociology might be better though.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: DrClef on 20 Feb 2015, 20:27
    There were a lot of justifications for the Japanese Internment. A lot of which get put in another light, when you consider that in Hawaii (the only state to actually GET attacked by Japan), only 1% of the Japanese-American population were imprisoned, compared to practically all of them in California.

    Of course, in Hawaii, the Japanese-American population were a major part of the workforce. Interning all of them would pretty much have crippled the Hawaiian agricultural industry. And the Hawaiian internees were all community leaders and such.

    It's interesting to note what happened to the entire Japanese-American culture in Hawaii as a result. It practically disappeared.

    . . . all of this has little to nothing to do with the strip, so I'll end it here. Suffice to say that it's not exactly America's finest hour.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 20 Feb 2015, 21:10
    You know, considering what I know of American history, I'm stumped as to what our finest hour could possibly have been.

    We only get one, by definition. All of the contenders seem to mired in tons of really horrible stuff.

    Considering all of this, I suspect our finest hour probably occurred when the majority of us were asleep.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 20 Feb 2015, 21:50
    Well, we have a lot to live down, that's for sure. Then, too, history is complicated at least in part by the fact that it doesn't stay in the past. Our past leaves its fingerprints in the present, and on whatever we might be in the future. So either the best of which we're capable is yet to happen, or our best days exist in some pre-lapsarian past to which we have to return in order to be at our best. Looking at the big picture, I tend to fall into the former camp, since our past is too crowded with the ghosts of our wrongs to make for a desirable future. All that leaves is trying to right the past in the present in hopes of a future that lives up to something better.

    Hopefully that made some kind of sense.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 20 Feb 2015, 22:37
    (the only state to actually GET attacked by Japan)
    Not (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_occupation_of_Kiska) so! (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aleutian_Islands_Campaign)

    Of course, neither Hawaii nor Alaska were states at the time, anyway...
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: DrClef on 20 Feb 2015, 22:53
    (the only state to actually GET attacked by Japan)
    Not (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_occupation_of_Kiska) so! (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aleutian_Islands_Campaign)

    Of course, neither Hawaii nor Alaska were states at the time, anyway...
    I stand corrected. Forgot about the Aleutians Campaign.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: DrClef on 20 Feb 2015, 22:54
    There were a lot of justifications for the Japanese Internment. A lot of which get put in another light, when you consider that in Hawaii (the only state to actually GET attacked by Japan)*, only 1% of the Japanese-American population were imprisoned, compared to practically all of them in California.

    Of course, in Hawaii, the Japanese-American population were a major part of the workforce. Interning all of them would pretty much have crippled the Hawaiian agricultural industry. And the Hawaiian internees were all community leaders and such.

    It's interesting to note what happened to the entire Japanese-American culture in Hawaii as a result. It practically disappeared.

    . . . all of this has little to nothing to do with the strip, so I'll end it here. Suffice to say that it's not exactly America's finest hour.

    *Except Alaska.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Dalillama on 20 Feb 2015, 23:22
    Quote from: Half Empty Coffee  Cup

    Of course, neither Hawaii nor Alaska were states at the time, anyway...
    Which makes Oregon the only actual state to be attacked. (A submarine carried a small plane off the coast; the plane then dropped a fire bomb in the Oregon rainforest, which caused a very minor forest fire)
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Is it cold in here? on 21 Feb 2015, 01:04
    BenRG, please start a comic so I can read it every day.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Boomslang on 21 Feb 2015, 02:00
    Quote from: Half Empty Coffee  Cup

    Of course, neither Hawaii nor Alaska were states at the time, anyway...
    Which makes Oregon the only actual state to be attacked. (A submarine carried a small plane off the coast; the plane then dropped a fire bomb in the Oregon rainforest, which caused a very minor forest fire)

    As an Oregonian, that story gets very incredulous responses every time I bring it up.  Even in Oregon. Despite the articles even a cursory google search turns up.

    But it's not that unreasonable- Oregon has always been a huge supplier of timber to the US. And during WW2, timber was a major strategic material. Destroying the huge quantities of pine and douglas fir flowing from the hinterlands to the shipyards in Washington and California could have made a large difference if it was successful. And it isn't as though the other major war resources, oil or steel or personnel, could have been attacked at the time.

    I think, short of the capitulation of the US, the course of the war was more or less certain after Pearl Harbor, but the time frame was extremely flexible and could have swerved in either direction depending on events.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: BenRG on 21 Feb 2015, 05:24
    I think, short of the capitulation of the US, the course of the war was more or less certain after Pearl Harbor, but the time frame was extremely flexible and could have swerved in either direction depending on events.

    I don't think that the Imperial Japanese ever had any intention to invade the continental US. From the start, Yammamoto's war plan seems to have been to destroy the Pacific Fleet as an effective fighting force. He hoped that, if Japan made it impossible for the United States to project military force there, it would give up its own territorial claims in the Western Pacific (at least in the short term) and sue for peace.

    That plan died with two key strategic failures: Although the Japanese Navy held its own for a year or so after Midway, the failure to secure control of the Western Pacific meant that they had no choice but to continue to fight a two-front war against the US in the Pacific and British Commonwealth forces in East Asia and Oceania. This was unsustainable and it was only a matter of time before attrition and the US's industrial capacity wore down Japan's earlier strategic, technical and tactical advantages.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Zebediah on 21 Feb 2015, 06:26
    Off topic: I've just been over to the Subreddit. There is a long thread criticising Jeph for dissing them on Twitter and they're basically saying saying that he owes them. In fact, some are so angry that they're swearing off of QC because they can't tolerate the artist not liking their opinions. One or two are even trying to work out if a Subreddit-group boycott of QC would ruin Jeph and thus punish him for his disrespect. There was also the usual spiel about the strip having become boring.

    Additionally, according to at least two posters, these forums are a moderator-heavy place dominated by sycophants where no seriously discussion of Claireten or the character of Claire is permitted. I actually consider that quite funny.

    You know, until now I was only passively avoiding the QC subreddit. I wasn't in the habit of reading it, so it didn't require a conscious decision to stay away. But now I'm taking the matter into my own hands and actively, deliberately not ever going there.


    You know, considering what I know of American history, I'm stumped as to what our finest hour could possibly have been.

    We only get one, by definition. All of the contenders seem to mired in tons of really horrible stuff.

    Considering all of this, I suspect our finest hour probably occurred when the majority of us were asleep.

    A while back, somebody asked me who I thought of as an American hero. The name that immediately popped into my head was Rosa Parks. By that measure, America's finest hour was when Rosa Parks decided that she had put up with enough shit.

    And yes, I know, there are megatons of horrible stuff surrounding that moment. It's heroic because of that horrible stuff.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Omega Entity on 21 Feb 2015, 08:51
    I think, short of the capitulation of the US, the course of the war was more or less certain after Pearl Harbor, but the time frame was extremely flexible and could have swerved in either direction depending on events.

    I don't think that the Imperial Japanese ever had any intention to invade the continental US. From the start, Yammamoto's war plan seems to have been to destroy the Pacific Fleet as an effective fighting force. He hoped that, if Japan made it impossible for the United States to project military force there, it would give up its own territorial claims in the Western Pacific (at least in the short term) and sue for peace.

    That plan died with two key strategic failures:
    • The failure to destroy the Pacific Fleet's carriers and shore facilities in Hawaii;
    • The defeat at Midway.
    Although the Japanese Navy held its own for a year or so after Midway, the failure to secure control of the Western Pacific meant that they had no choice but to continue to fight a two-front war against the US in the Pacific and British Commonwealth forces in East Asia and Oceania. This was unsustainable and it was only a matter of time before attrition and the US's industrial capacity wore down Japan's earlier strategic, technical and tactical advantages.
    The atom bombs also heavily factor in. I believe it was directly after the second one that they surrendered.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Dalillama on 21 Feb 2015, 11:12

    The atom bombs also heavily factor in. I believe it was directly after the second one that they surrendered.
    The influence of the bombs is heavily overrated; the Japanese high command was already discussing surrender, but wanted terms.  Then the Soviet Army invaded and took one of the smaller islands, and they decided they'd rather surrender unconditionally (or almost; there were some provisions about the Emperor IIRC) to the U.S. than to the Soviets (which was a very good plan, based on what happened to the Eastern Bloc.)
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: pwhodges on 21 Feb 2015, 11:41
    The second bomb, at least, was certainly unnecessary.  My understanding is that it was dropped as an opportunity to test a difference in the technology.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 21 Feb 2015, 13:02
    There will always be debate over how much the bombs factored into Japan's decision to surrender. I get the feeling, though, that their use was aimed as much at Russia as it was at Japan. That may sound like an odd assertion to make, but if you look at our firebombing campaigns (especially Tokyo, which was every bit as cruelly devastating as what was visited upon Hiroshima and Nagasaki), it was entirely possible to achieve the same ends with conventional weapons (especially given the wooden construction used so much in many Japanese towns and cities, which contributed to the fires and subsequent loss of life). Atomic weapons had the same effect regardless of the city's topography or construction.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Kugai on 21 Feb 2015, 13:25
    I'm just wondering how much influence the Atomic attacks may have had on Hirohito.

    Remember, by the time the two attacks occurred, the Govt. was divided between the Hawks and the Doves, with the Emperor having, in the end, having the final say.  One wonders just which way things might have gone had Fat Man and Little Boy not been used and Operation Olympic had gone ahead.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Dalillama on 21 Feb 2015, 13:27
    There will always be debate over how much the bombs factored into Japan's decision to surrender. I get the feeling, though, that their use was aimed as much at Russia as it was at Japan. That may sound like an odd assertion to make
    Not at all; it makes perfect sense.  Japan's war was pretty much over at that point, no matter what, but the Soviets were feeling very muscular, and had some festering grievances towards the U.S. regarding that whole Archangel thing (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_Russia_Intervention).  But they were also technically on our side in that particular conflict, so it would be impolitic to threaten them outright, so we nuked Japan a couple times to show the Russkies that we could, and would, do it.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: SomeCanadianWeirdo on 21 Feb 2015, 14:26
    Any decision made in 1945 on how to deal with Japan was certain to be awful.  In an alternate timeline the debate is probably over whether dropping an A bomb would have been a lesser evil than the Japanese famine in the winter of '45-'46.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: DSL on 21 Feb 2015, 15:04
    Any decision made in 1945 on how to deal with Japan was certain to be awful.  In an alternate timeline the debate is probably over whether dropping an A bomb would have been a lesser evil than the Japanese famine in the winter of '45-'46.
    Or the million deaths incurred in the invasion.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 21 Feb 2015, 15:11
    Any decision made in 1945 on how to deal with Japan was certain to be awful.  In an alternate timeline the debate is probably over whether dropping an A bomb would have been a lesser evil than the Japanese famine in the winter of '45-'46.

    That's the other thing that I wondered. I mean, by most accounts, Olympic (which was slated for November, 1945 if memory serves) and Coronet (set for early-to-mid 1946) were expected to have casualty counts on both sides that would've made the Iwo Jima and Okinawa campaigns look like dinner theater by comparison. On the other hand, the Japanese Navy was practically nonexistent, and its air force only slightly less so (with the Japanese having nothing that would've presented a serious threat to the B29 anyway -- their fighters would probably have been used for close ground operations and going for slower targets like troop and supply planes).

    So the options:
    1. Drop the bombs, which turned out to have been the tipping point for ending the war (though this wasn't a given at the time).
    2. Invade, resulting in a bloodbath on both sides.
    3. Blockade and heavy bombing campaigns, which may have produced a surrender, but at the cost of millions of civilian lives, many -- if not most -- through starvation.

    The American public was severely shaken by Iwo and (especially) Okinawa; there were widespread fears among the government and military brass that the kinds of casualties suffered in the invasion of the Home Islands would tip the public decisively against the war. The second option may, therefore, have seemed less politically feasible.* The third option would have produced no guarantee of success, and would've had a human cost that could easily have been on par with the Holocaust. I don't think the dropping of the bombs was the "best" option; it may, however, have been the least terrible.

    *I doubt if the effects on Japan's civilian population were given much, if any, consideration in any of these scenarios.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: wlewisiii on 21 Feb 2015, 15:19
    The second bomb, at least, was certainly unnecessary.  My understanding is that it was dropped as an opportunity to test a difference in the technology.

    It was necessary to show the dead enders in the Japanese government that we had more than one bomb. They were still willing to hunker down until the Emperor said NO only after the second bomb.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 21 Feb 2015, 15:23
    The United States (And every other nation that's gone to war) has done far worse things than fire nuclear shots in anger.

    No no nation has ever done anything as spectacular. That's why those two bombs get all the attention.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: wlewisiii on 21 Feb 2015, 15:24
    it may, however, have been the least terrible.

    This is probaby the best way to consider it. I certainly believe that it was the best possible outcome, all things considered.

    Operations Olympic and Coronet were a go right up until Aug 6, 1945. As an aside, we manufactured 500,000 Purple Heart medals for the first wave of the invasion. There are still over 100,000 of them left after all the wars since.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Mlle Germain on 21 Feb 2015, 15:57
    Off topic: I've just been over to the Subreddit. There is a long thread criticising Jeph for dissing them on Twitter and they're basically saying saying that he owes them. In fact, some are so angry that they're swearing off of QC because they can't tolerate the artist not liking their opinions. One or two are even trying to work out if a Subreddit-group boycott of QC would ruin Jeph and thus punish him for his disrespect. There was also the usual spiel about the strip having become boring.

    Additionally, according to at least two posters, these forums are a moderator-heavy place dominated by sycophants where no seriously discussion of Claireten or the character of Claire is permitted. I actually consider that quite funny.
    I recently stumbled into that subreddit by accident (I don't usually read anything on reddit, but I found it when googling something QC related) and found a thread where people were saying what a toxic place the forum is (apparently citing something from that week; which I'm sure must have been deleted by mods afterwards) and how it was once nearly shut down (referring to the phase after the Marten-Dora break-up) and how it caused Jeph to stab himself in the hand that one time (I know that one is not true). And how Jeph allegedly hates the forums.
    On the one hand, I found it very sad that this person had obviously not even tried to get to know the forum community, but was just eager to feel superior on Reddit. On  the other hand, seeing that thread in the same subreddit as all the ones complaining about Jeph portraying Claire "too much like a normal person" was just such a complete joke. (A bad one.)

    (Just to say, the forum is one of my favourite places on the internet, because you can basically find a (usually) nuanced discussion on almost topic here, as well as tons of educational resources.)
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: jwhouk on 21 Feb 2015, 16:16
    I have refused to go on Reddit for a long time now. After hearing about all the crapola in the QC subreddit, I refuse to even consider going there.

    Meanwhile, we're going to have an interesting week this next week. Jeph's gotta build up his buffer again.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: bhtooefr on 21 Feb 2015, 16:25
    Also, Jeph has threatened to delete the forum in the past.

    That past was before pwhodges took over as admin, and things were very different.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 21 Feb 2015, 18:26
    I have refused to go on Reddit for a long time now. After hearing about all the crapola in the QC subreddit, I refuse to even consider going there.

    Meanwhile, we're going to have an interesting week this next week. Jeph's gotta build up his buffer again.

    I thought Jeph didn't usually work with a buffer?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Rghfrgl on 21 Feb 2015, 18:48
    He just does for cons and vacations, is there another con coming up?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: pwhodges on 22 Feb 2015, 01:09
    He also built a buffer for Alice Grove before launching it.  I suspect he's been trying to get more organised in general (it occurs to me to wonder if this is partly a fall-out of his split with Cristi).
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ZoeB on 22 Feb 2015, 06:18
    You know, considering what I know of American history, I'm stumped as to what our finest hour could possibly have been.

    The Atlantic Charter.
    Followed by the Marshall Plan.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 22 Feb 2015, 09:53
    The Atlantic Charter.
    Followed by the Marshall Plan.

    I'm going to have to be ambivalent about those.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Is it cold in here? on 22 Feb 2015, 13:18
    Global Moderator Comment I wasn't sure what the "clever girl" meme that got posted last night was about. "On Reddit[2], it is often used in rage comics where men have been fooled by women" convinced me that it's toxic transphobia and I deleted it.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: cesium133 on 22 Feb 2015, 13:20
    I may be naive, but I just assumed it was a reference to Jurassic Park...
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 22 Feb 2015, 13:22
    On the internet, nothing is just a reference to Jurassic Park.

    Including this.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Rghfrgl on 22 Feb 2015, 14:04
    I don't know if I can agree with that one. If you're not sure on the intent I don't think it should be deleted just in case.

    It's a stretch to say that's not a jurassic park reference with a raptor in the room. There should at least be benefit of the doubt there. If it were to get nuked, and you can make a argument for that, that last line shouldn't be the reason why.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Aziraphale on 22 Feb 2015, 14:11
    I don't know if I can agree with that one. If you're not sure on the intent I don't think it should be deleted just in case.

    It's a stretch to say that's not a jurassic park reference with a raptor in the room. There should at least be benefit of the doubt there. If it were to get nuked, and you can make a argument for that, that last line shouldn't be the reason why.

    I've seen enough of the "trans* person is just a [fill in the blank] in [fill in the blank's] clothing" thing from "The Crying Game" to Reddit to the various Chans and elsewhere that I read it the same way IICIH did, regardless of the last line. IMHO, it's better off gone.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Is it cold in here? on 22 Feb 2015, 14:29
    Global Moderator Comment I'm treating it as an accident and Stanistani is a member in good standing.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 22 Feb 2015, 17:58
    I don't know if I can agree with that one. If you're not sure on the intent I don't think it should be deleted just in case.

    It's a stretch to say that's not a jurassic park reference with a raptor in the room. There should at least be benefit of the doubt there. If it were to get nuked, and you can make a argument for that, that last line shouldn't be the reason why.

    One day, we will live in a world where you can make dick jokes about a transperson and everyone will think it's a dick joke and not a trans joke. One day we will live in a world where off color jokes aren't oppressive because no one is oppressed.

    We don't live in that world yet.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: valkygrrl on 22 Feb 2015, 18:20
    How about a society where we've finally outgrown dick jokes? Then we wouldn't have to worry about how fucking awful it is to make a dick joke about a trans person.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 22 Feb 2015, 18:29
    This is humanity we're talking about. We'll learn to stop killing each other before we learn to stop pointing at genitals and laughing.

    I'm not sure we'll ever lear not to kill each other.

    Punch up, not down, is the cool way to aproach the comedy question. But the moral way would be "don't punch." It seems our method of humor won't tolerate that. Jokes need a butt.

    Yelling bird will be ever happy about that.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: valkygrrl on 22 Feb 2015, 18:43
    By that reasoning it is acceptable to make dick jokes about trans people. When the average is white and had 40'ish years of male privilege there isn't much more in the way of up to punch.  And certainly many people do find it acceptable.

    It's still a _dick_ move.

    I'll "punch" about politics, I'll "punch" about acting like dicks, about special snowflakes using their feels to trample over other people because they refuse to see beyond their own wants. I'll "punch" about using the oppressed as a shield to advance nefarious agendas that would make Virginia Prince stand up and cheer. I'll "punch" when the proposed solutions to problems of the patriarchy somehow involve giving people with dicks more access to women's bodies and I'll consider every one of those "punches" deserved.

    But to make someone's pain worse because you find it funny? How could that ever be cool?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 22 Feb 2015, 19:11
    I never said it was. But just because a person is up, it doesn't mean they are incapable of pain. Position is relative !important.

    I thought it was funny as hell.

    You are up compared to someone. Would it not make your pain fair game is punching up up is morally sound?

    As I said, the moral way is "don't punch." I simply concede the humanity is bad at morality.

    I would like to think that wasn't the case. It's been 51 years since law admitted that I am a person. It's still, basically okay to kill me for WWB, or DWB, or SIMHWB.

    Europe like to turn it's nose up at our problems of that sort, but it was only a few years ago that brown person got to be a marquee character on Doctor Who. After the Jewish market attack in France, there was sudden outbreak of lethal violence against anyone who might have looked Muslim.

    I would like us to be better than we are. But we aren't. And nothing gives me any hope that we ever will be. We might, eventually, give up hating on people because of their differences, but I doubt we will ever give up hating on people. We'll just find other means.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Pilchard123 on 23 Feb 2015, 00:00
    Walking, driving and...sitting in my house?
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Thrillho on 23 Feb 2015, 01:29
    By that reasoning it is acceptable to make dick jokes about trans people. When the average is white and had 40'ish years of male privilege there isn't much more in the way of up to punch.  And certainly many people do find it acceptable.

    It's still a _dick_ move.

    I'll "punch" about politics, I'll "punch" about acting like dicks, about special snowflakes using their feels to trample over other people because they refuse to see beyond their own wants. I'll "punch" about using the oppressed as a shield to advance nefarious agendas that would make Virginia Prince stand up and cheer. I'll "punch" when the proposed solutions to problems of the patriarchy somehow involve giving people with dicks more access to women's bodies and I'll consider every one of those "punches" deserved.

    But to make someone's pain worse because you find it funny? How could that ever be cool?

    There is an entire debate thread in Discuss, actually started by me, about this, and I don't consider every single joke to making someone's pain worse. I also make jokes at my own expense, frequently, about my sexuality, my disability, my class and tons of other things. Admittedly, I'm white cis male so it's easier for me to do so, but amongst my circle of friends (of a mix of classes, genders, sexualities, races, etc.) basically nothing is off limits and no-one's pain is being made worse.

    While our trans users have had to repeatedly remind me that intent is not magic, that does not mean it's irrelevant either - my best friend can get away with all sorts of off colour jokes about my disability because we know each other and so we know what can be got away with. Almost anyone else outside of maybe a dozen people making the exact same joke? It's not okay.

    Anyway, taking the trans issue out of it entirely, I don't think that we as a society need to move on from dick jokes. Dick jokes can be funny. You can also come up with clever, witty dick jokes.

    Farts are funny too.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: BenRG on 23 Feb 2015, 01:41
    But to make someone's pain worse because you find it funny? How could that ever be cool?

    It's a sort of solipsistic behavioural trait, IMHO. Basically, so long as it makes you feel better, that's all that matters. No-one else matters because, on a very real level, they (or at least their concerns) are of no concern to the 'joker'; indeed, it is arguable that they have no subjective existence to the 'joker' beyond as a butt for their 'humour'. The only exception to this is if the butt of their 'humour' is capable of causing the 'joker' personal harm, in which case they are violating the 'joker's' freedom of speech and victimising the 'joker' because they 'need to learn to take a joke'.

    It's basically the same 'only I exist or matter' psychosis that seems to drive most internet trolls.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 23 Feb 2015, 13:05
    Walking, driving and...sitting in my house?

    While Black.

    All reasons people have been killed.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: tragic_pizza on 23 Feb 2015, 20:04
    Dick jokes are one thing.

    Dick jokes about trans people are abuse.

    Simple.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Thrillho on 24 Feb 2015, 01:26
    Yes, but I think the point being made in this thread is that one day we can all make jokes about dicks and vaginas and it not actually have to reflect badly on anybody, because all of us have fun wobbly bits that are fun to make jokes about, and at the moment, as has been said, in a large number of cases they can cause damage.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ReindeerFlotilla on 24 Feb 2015, 04:26
    Yup. That was the point.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Stanistani on 26 Feb 2015, 01:14
    I honestly did not see any of the perceived insults in the image, or I would not have posted it.

    My apologies.

    I never intend to post anything that will hurt people.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Is it cold in here? on 26 Feb 2015, 09:33
    Global Moderator Comment That's what I thought, but thank you for reassuring people -- that was a kind thing to do.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: ZoeB on 01 Mar 2015, 04:50
    I honestly did not see any of the perceived insults in the image, or I would not have posted it.

    My apologies.

    I never intend to post anything that will hurt people.
    If it's any consolation... and speaking purely for myself... I got the Jurassic Park reference, and while there were unfortunate - no, too strong, "ambiguous" - better -  overtones in the whole concept, they didn't rise to the level of "hurt". Or anywhere near it. For me anyway.

    So you can put your mind at ease regarding me. I can't speak for others of course.

    If I may, may I please keep your apology safe, and take it out for use if ever you do something that deserves to be aplogised for? Because I don't think this did.
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Omega Entity on 01 Mar 2015, 06:09
    I only saw it as a Jurrasic Park reference as well, and it made me giggle. I wish that were the only possible connotation it had (the second of which I was completely unaware of)  :psyduck:
    Title: Re: WCDT 2897 - 2901 (16-20 February 2015)
    Post by: Half Empty Coffee Cup on 01 Mar 2015, 06:40
    I'm just going to go ahead and ditto that.