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Title: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: jwhouk on 25 Jul 2020, 18:29
"Is that your final answer?"

Obvious Poll For The Week.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 25 Jul 2020, 18:58
Final total will be $631.25. You heard it here first.
Title: 5E(2--3)$
Post by: TorporChambre on 25 Jul 2020, 19:58
Not at all, Sven mooch.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 25 Jul 2020, 21:47
Are you calling me a Sven Mooch? I cannot think of a more grievous insult. :wink:
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: badbum61 on 26 Jul 2020, 17:57
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Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 26 Jul 2020, 18:10
I love that strip. Poor May.... "I MIGHT get enough to get a cup of coffee."
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 26 Jul 2020, 18:19
Kind of a packed strip today!

I don't trust Dora when she says that Tai has her weed problem under control. (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=4263) That doesn't look like "social smoking" to me.

Also, it seems Jeph at least knows about the issue with the similar-looking characters. Personally, I can't see the similarity, but I can see how others could see it, if that makes any sense.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 26 Jul 2020, 18:37
Dora did say 'mostly socially smoking'. That includes the occasional at-home smoke.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 26 Jul 2020, 18:39
I like this strip, it's altruism in action. Especially Dora and Tai, rearranging their bachelorette party so they can free up some funds for May. (Side note: since when do people organize their own bachelor/bachelorette parties? Isn't that supposed to be thrown for you?)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 26 Jul 2020, 19:01
Considering their friends, I'm kinda dubious on them being able to organize a party.

Well, I could see Hanners doing it....
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 26 Jul 2020, 19:20
Considering their friends, I'm kinda dubious on them being able to organize a party.

Well, I could see Hanners doing it....

Hanners would certainly have the motivation, but it wouldn't be much of a party with all the cleaning and sanitizing that would be going on at the same time.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 26 Jul 2020, 19:30
Claire has the motivation and the ability. She's even their wedding planner, so a bachelorette party wouldn't be too much fuss for her.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Romanticide on 26 Jul 2020, 20:10
Final total will be $631.25. You heard it here first.

I am voting that a rando will up it to $666 in name of getting a chuckle, it might end  over that because another rando had the same idea at the same time.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: DaiJB on 26 Jul 2020, 20:36
As usual, I voted "Other":

We never find out. The only indication we ever get is the reaction from May when she sees the amount donated.
Take your pick on her expression: disbelief (if it's a lot), sardonic or sarcastic (if its not much), a lot of conflicting emotions (when she realizes how much other people think of her), etc.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: St.Clair on 26 Jul 2020, 20:39
IMO, she will:
Get enough to buy, new and cash up front, at least a basic chassis.
Be totally unprepared for that, emotionally and otherwise.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: ihaveavoice on 26 Jul 2020, 21:59
As usual, I voted "Other":

We never find out. The only indication we ever get is the reaction from May when she sees the amount donated.
Take your pick on her expression: disbelief (if it's a lot), sardonic or sarcastic (if its not much), a lot of conflicting emotions (when she realizes how much other people think of her), etc.

Based on her expectations in this strip, I'd say that we have literally a zero percent chance of her reacting as if the amount is unexpectedly small. Frankly, just based on how her character has reacted to literally anyone reaching out in any way in the past, I don't think a response like that was ever in the cards regardless.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: N.N. Marf on 26 Jul 2020, 22:27
Final total will be $631.25. You heard it here first.

I am voting that a rando will up it to $666 in name of getting a chuckle, it might end  over that because another rando had the same idea at the same time.
Reminds me in economics class we played this game that everyone chooses a number between 0 and 100 and whoever got closest to 2/3 the average wins a chocolate bar. There's always an idiot who'll choose 100 or something way too big, and then there are the geniuses that choose 0. Some people hear "average" and choose the straight average, forgetting the part about 2/3. Most people outsmart the straight averagers by thinking one step ahead, choosing 33 (50 2/3). The point of the game is that, in the real world, thinking more than 2 steps ahead is dangerous. The second time we played, the winners chose 15. Legend has it one class all chose 0 and the students did a sit-in until the professor gave them their chocolate. Since then, whenever a winner complaints his chocolate expired, the professor retorts "caveat lusor".
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 26 Jul 2020, 22:35
Final total will be $631.25. You heard it here first.

I am voting that a rando will up it to $666 in name of getting a chuckle, it might end  over that because another rando had the same idea at the same time.
Reminds me in economics class we played this game that everyone chooses a number between 0 and 100 and whoever got closest to 2/3 the average wins a chocolate bar. There's always an idiot who'll choose 100 or something way too big, and then there are the geniuses that choose 0. Some people hear "average" and choose the straight average, forgetting the part about 2/3. Most people outsmart the straight averagers by thinking one step ahead, choosing 33 (50 2/3). The point of the game is that, in the real world, thinking more than 2 steps ahead is dangerous. The second time we played, the winners chose 15. Legend has it one class all chose 0 and the students did a sit-in until the professor gave them their chocolate. Since then, whenever a winner complaints his chocolate expired, the professor retorts "caveat lusor".

I've heard of this before.

Thus, 0 would be the Nash equilibrium because no player has an incentive to change their choice.

Edit: rephrasing
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 27 Jul 2020, 00:06
I think that May is coming up for a serious journey of self-discovery. Why is it that everyone values her far more than she thought? Why would they do this for her? Who is she that they would do this for her? I've posted this before but I'm expecting her to repeat that lovely phrase: "I want to cry but I don't have any tear-ducts!" Possibly followed by Momo offering her the squirt bottle of solution that she uses to allow herself to simulate crying.

Bubbles has figured that May has been through a lot of serious disappointments in her life and, thus, doesn't expect much to come of this. She's been there herself and she was glad to be wrong. However, I think that she knows the other woman that May is likely to respond a lot more strongly to the revelation.

Wow... This is the first time we've seen Jeremy in a long while and we get confirmation that the Ultimate Robot Fighting League is now in operation. I've no doubt that he'd be cool with Bubbles and Faye taking bits from the maintenance rooms at cost to build May a new body if it comes to that! I also think that his reply to Faye was something like this: "Oh, I know what you mean; we all were expecting it for some time. Can you localise the time and place you were first sexually intimate down to the nearest minute and square metre? There is a world-wide betting pool to resolve."

Oh, for some reason, I think that Faye is already designing in her had a wrestling costume for Bubbles. Perhaps she can be El Gran Queso?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: immortalfrieza on 27 Jul 2020, 00:15
Honestly for Jeph's post I'd say Sven looks a lot more like Angus than Marten. Just have Sven start wearing his glasses again and Sven would like exactly like Angus.

Guess Faye has a type.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tyr on 27 Jul 2020, 06:01
I like this strip, it's altruism in action. Especially Dora and Tai, rearranging their bachelorette party so they can free up some funds for May. (Side note: since when do people organize their own bachelor/bachelorette parties? Isn't that supposed to be thrown for you?)

I imagine you'd have to be a real piece of work to ignore input from the bridal party vis-à-vis things like "Let's keep it local and put the money we were socking away to pay to transport everyone towards something else."
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: cybersmurf on 27 Jul 2020, 06:32
Honestly for Jeph's post I'd say Sven looks a lot more like Angus than Marten. Just have Sven start wearing his glasses again and Sven would like exactly like Angus.

Guess Faye has a type.

Sven's hair is a bit shaggier since he's growing it out again I guess? Also glasses make a huge difference. Plus the fact that May didn't even recognise Sven with short hair should count for something.
Also, we all have a type I guess :P


[snip]
Oh, for some reason, I think that Faye is already designing in her had a wrestling costume for Bubbles. Perhaps she can be El Gran Queso?

The Great Cheese?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: dutchrvl on 27 Jul 2020, 06:58
I like this strip, it's altruism in action. Especially Dora and Tai, rearranging their bachelorette party so they can free up some funds for May. (Side note: since when do people organize their own bachelor/bachelorette parties? Isn't that supposed to be thrown for you?)

I dunno about the US/Canada, but in my family/friends environment it has become increasingly common for the bride and groom to have considerable input when it comes to their bachelor/bachelorette parties, especialy when it comes to wishes like keeping it local, not doing certain things they're just not comfortable with, and/or having it on the same night as their s.o. For example, when my sister got married the gangs for both parties would meet at their placebefore heading out for the respective parties, and would meet again at their place at like 4 AM before heading home.

In this case, the unusual part to me is the implication that Dora and Ta are paying for their own bachelorette parties(?), because that's something I haven't heard off before. Unless the implication is that they're asking their loved ones to keep it local and donate the difference to May's cause.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Baz_Yat on 27 Jul 2020, 09:00
I think we're gonna see May cry with happiness, I don't really care the amount but I think she's going to get a decent body and cry because she realises - she has friends, and people care. And nobody's ever really cared about her before.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 27 Jul 2020, 10:07
[snip]
Oh, for some reason, I think that Faye is already designing in her had a wrestling costume for Bubbles. Perhaps she can be El Gran Queso.

The Great Cheese?

I was going for 'The Big Cheese' but was handicapped by having only Google Translate.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Datalore on 27 Jul 2020, 10:25
Man I was so anxious when May agreed to crowdfund. I relate a lot to her and it was gut wrenching to see her have to accept something she so clearly felt uncomfortable with. I come from a very "suck it up, buttercup" family where even things like financial ruin and homelessness are met with things like "What are you going to do to fix that for yourself? I don't want to hear/don't talk to me about your problems unless you're doing something about them." (With the strongly established boundary that you don't ask for handouts from others to fix your own mess, because everyone has problems and no one has room for yours too.) I'm not around my family anymore, but man has that caused a lot of challenges in adulthood, especially in the workplace. Learning not only to ask for help, but also how and when is still so friggin rocky for me. I never want to overstep and risk permanent damage to my relationships, platonic or professional or otherwise, but I have virtually 0 scale for what that even looks like. Even accepting offered help is hard for me, because I think I always expect there to be strings attached, or for peoples opinions of me to drop if I were to actually accept. Anxiety incarnate. So seeing May kind of run out of options hit so close to home and that was hard to read.

But today's strip made me want to cry, because while I've been on the fundraising side for others before, I never really connected the two and two together that this is what it could look like behind the scenes for helping 'damaged' people, too. Like, the experience of friends and family networking together and reaching out to their circles to make something happen isn't limited to just being for individuals who are chipper and sunny and know exactly how to accept help without being 'too much,' and who are all around well balanced and established and connected to communities that [seem to] have valued them their whole life). Helping someone like May doesn't have to be a begrudging act of annoying inconvenience done just because "If you don't pitch in $2-5 you're an asshole, so just do it to say you did."

Obviously this case is fiction, but I never really thought of the two worlds being the same as even possible. People care about pinnacles to their community, but nobody cares about people like me and May, and that was just my underlying assumption that I didn't even realize I had. Today's strip in particular has given me a lot to process and think about.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: somnolesence on 27 Jul 2020, 11:12
I dunno about the US/Canada, but in my family/friends environment it has become increasingly common for the bride and groom to have considerable input when it comes to their bachelor/bachelorette parties, especially when it comes to wishes like keeping it local, not doing certain things they're just not comfortable with, and/or having it on the same night as their s.o.

Yeah same for me, for my friends this year we've had joint parties since there wasn't any point splitting up the friend group when we're all happy for both and want to celebrate with both. It's primarily paid for by them and us chipping in accommodation costs for the nights at the lodge (and obviously whatever booze we want to bring with). That's been similar for others in the group, but then again we aren't particularity traditional folk, at least not for the sake of it alone.

Plus the wedding and events around it are for the people getting married, who cares what others want because they chipped in a few hundred/thousand, its not their day. At the end of the day you should just be happy for the couple and if you want to offer financial gift then that should be all it is, a gift, not buying a controlling share in a business with veto rights.

OK rant over. Just something that annoys me is controlling parents/family wanting a say in big events just because of money, comes from my mum having dealt with wedding stationary orders and the clients telling her about their troubles with in laws etc.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: hedgie on 27 Jul 2020, 14:11
Man I was so anxious when May agreed to crowdfund. I relate a lot to her and it was gut wrenching to see her have to accept something she so clearly felt uncomfortable with. I come from a very "suck it up, buttercup" family where even things like financial ruin and homelessness are met with things like "What are you going to do to fix that for yourself? I don't want to hear/don't talk to me about your problems unless you're doing something about them."

Aah, my family is keeping me off the streets, but it comes with a healthy side of walking on eggshells, as well as direct verbal and emotional abuse.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: N.N. Marf on 27 Jul 2020, 15:37
Man I was so anxious when May agreed to crowdfund. I relate a lot to her and it was gut wrenching to see her have to accept something she so clearly felt uncomfortable with. I come from a very "suck it up, buttercup" family where even things like financial ruin and homelessness are met with things like "What are you going to do to fix that for yourself? I don't want to hear/don't talk to me about your problems unless you're doing something about them." (With the strongly established boundary that you don't ask for handouts from others to fix your own mess, because everyone has problems and no one has room for yours too.) I'm not around my family anymore, but man has that caused a lot of challenges in adulthood, especially in the workplace. Learning not only to ask for help, but also how and when is still so friggin rocky for me. I never want to overstep and risk permanent damage to my relationships, platonic or professional or otherwise, but I have virtually 0 scale for what that even looks like. Even accepting offered help is hard for me, because I think I always expect there to be strings attached, or for peoples opinions of me to drop if I were to actually accept. Anxiety incarnate. So seeing May kind of run out of options hit so close to home and that was hard to read.
I'm very against asking for help---I take it quickly, easily, preferably with no take backs when it's offered (the way I see it, if they didn't really want to help, they shouldn't make the mistake of offering; if they didn't explicitly specify beforehand what exactly strings are attached, then there's no reason they should expect me to accept any strings that they think were attached.)---but sometimes, even though it might look like asking for help, it's really not. For example, at work, if I don't know how to do something, it's imperative I don't try to do it myself, because, in my experience talking to customer service, many problems are caused by a person inability to do his job fulfilling the task, i.e. reading through the company's documentation to figure out how to do it himself or working with someone who knows how to do it. Of course, if it's explicitly part of my job description, then obviously I have to do it, and not rely on someone else, but there are still edge cases that might need to be discussed with colleagues.
However, I'm not against offering help. After all, my easily accepting help makes me interested in fostering a culture of offering help.

Obviously this case is fiction, but I never really thought of the two worlds being the same as even possible. People care about pinnacles to their community, but nobody cares about people like me and May, and that was just my underlying assumption that I didn't even realize I had. Today's strip in particular has given me a lot to process and think about.
How realistic/practical would it be for people to pitch in for the "nobodies"? I bet there's a pretty steep triage, where if your problems aren't severe enough, you'll be classed as not needing immediate attention, and subsequently never get any attention.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Datalore on 27 Jul 2020, 18:03
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How realistic/practical would it be for people to pitch in for the "nobodies"? I bet there's a pretty steep triage, where if your problems aren't severe enough, you'll be classed as not needing immediate attention, and subsequently never get any attention.

I feel like it could be feasible on the local community level, but you need local community involvement. Without some sort of community involvement most broad sweeping efforts are doomed to fall flat, because it takes more than just cash to help people in meaningful ways. They need to know there's a place for them, and that there's at least some level of investment in their success, and also them as individual persons.

Re: the severity aspect... yeah, pretty much. My mom had me out of wedlock and was ostracized from her family for a while for it. For the first three/four years of my life we lived out of her car or couch surfed. I feel like people go by likely ROI when they decide who to help. Someone who was a firefighter who volunteered in their spare time and donated every chance they could who becomes homeless will likely have a lot more support thrown their way than someone who was literally born into homelessness. I'm not criticizing that. I get it. Resources are finite, emotional bandwidth is finite, you can't help everybody. (Also, it's hard to argue against it when it feels like a selfish gesture on my part to do so.) The firefighter has proven themselves as someone who can stand on their own two feet. The young mother sleeping in parking lots has proven (at least, at a glance) that they make poor decisions to the point they destroyed their life before it'd even started, and it's not hard to write off any kids she might have with her in that situation as a social lost cause too.

It's more that this comic has forced me to reconcile with some of the ways being brought up that way's effected me so I can continue recovering from it and becoming more the person I want to be. My mom was working as a full time public school teacher and taking out loans to go to college to finish her Masters while we were homeless so she could teach university and get us on our feet long term. This was WA in the 90s, when k-12 teachers qualified for government assistance because their salaries were so low. We both collectively clawed our way out over the years, and it's only now when I'm 27 that we both feel like we might actually be okay. Even after all of that work though, there's still things like this that pop up and catch me off guard. She has her bad habits from that upbringing too. Even now when it feels like we've made it, it can sometimes feel like we're still chained back to that place by way of our biases, world views, and unchecked assumptions about ourselves. I don't condemn the system for being what it is. I just accept it and subconsciously spin a narrative in my head to give reason and meaning to it, to justify it since I don't feel like I can change it. If it has meaning, it's somehow better. "People like us don't get help because <totally valid reason>." But then things like this happen, where even though I've raised money to help other "social lost causes" and I've seen first hand how people come together to help even those cases, I still never actually made the connection that that could happen for me. Even though I have friends and found family who I believe would be there if I needed, I've just unwittingly assumed that the laws of my youth were still in place -- that if you need help, you've done something wrong and it's completely on you yourself to fix that. It was something I just never remembered until now to go back and have a think on. May's line about dreaming about what she would do if she got $25 is still very true to my own way of thinking, despite a lifetime of effort to correct those thought habits one piece at a time. I was surprised to be reminded that that's actually all I would dare hope for too if I were in her seat, even now.

I love what you said about asking for help in the work place. I still need to remember to catch myself, but when I do I try to make a point of remembering that and talking it through in my head. I'm hired to do a job, and if I need an additional piece of information to do it well, it's quicker and potentially much less damaging to ask someone who would know than it would be for me to try and scour the internet or something to cook up my own solution. Not everything is that cut and dry obviously, but baggage isn't something you just unpack once and call good. It's a process. Sometimes it takes a rando page from a webcomic to resume forward progress on an otherwise forgotten (but still present) cognitive distortion.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 27 Jul 2020, 18:24
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How realistic/practical would it be for people to pitch in for the "nobodies"? I bet there's a pretty steep triage, where if your problems aren't severe enough, you'll be classed as not needing immediate attention, and subsequently never get any attention.

I feel like it could be feasible on the local community level, but you need local community involvement. Without some sort of community involvement most broad sweeping efforts are doomed to fall flat, because it takes more than just cash to help people in meaningful ways. They need to know there's a place for them, and that there's at least some level of investment in their success, and also them as individual persons.

[huge cut to save space]

I love what you said about asking for help in the work place. I still need to remember to catch myself, but when I do I try to make a point of remembering that and talking it through in my head. I'm hired to do a job, and if I need an additional piece of information to do it well, it's quicker and potentially much less damaging to ask someone who would know than it would be for me to try and scour the internet or something to cook up my own solution. Not everything is that cut and dry obviously, but baggage isn't something you just unpack once and call good. It's a process. Sometimes it takes a rando page from a webcomic to resume forward progress on an otherwise forgotten (but still present) cognitive distortion.

That's quite a story! I'm sorry you and your mom had to go through that. You've given me a lot to think about.


Also, comic's out, and the terrifying sixth sense of the forum members strikes again. Seriously, how do you guys know what's going to happen every single time?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 27 Jul 2020, 19:34
Oh May <hug>

Fingers crossed she didn't accidentally look at the fundraiser website with the wrong currency selected..
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 27 Jul 2020, 20:07
Awwww.

Betcha Jeph never actually SAYS how much money is in there. Just enough for the new body and some add ons.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 27 Jul 2020, 20:11
I think that May is coming up for a serious journey of self-discovery. Why is it that everyone values her far more than she thought? Why would they do this for her? Who is she that they would do this for her? I've posted this before but I'm expecting her to repeat that lovely phrase: "I want to cry but I don't have any tear-ducts!" Possibly followed by Momo offering her the squirt bottle of solution that she uses to allow herself to simulate crying.

Because in this comic you can be as unpleasant as you like to people and instead of people not wanting to have anything to do with you (see Faye) as they would normally they seem to go out of their way to want to befriend unpleasant people

Or not
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 27 Jul 2020, 20:19
Because in this comic you can be as unpleasant as you like to people and instead of people not wanting to have anything to do with you (see Faye) as they would normally they seem to go out of their way to want to befriend unpleasant people

Or not

People who have been hurt (Faye via trauma and May via poor choices/jail) can develop hard outsides that hide a soft inside. Which Faye had demonstrated more than once. Admittedly May less so... but I like scrapy types anyway.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Theta9 on 27 Jul 2020, 20:37
I didn't recognize Marigold at first.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: de_la_Nae on 27 Jul 2020, 20:40
i have little to add to any discussion about the current comic, and haven't read the thread. i'm tired.

but it occurred to me what we need. Desperately.

clinton in a maid outfit

yes i know i'm probably really late on this
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 27 Jul 2020, 20:41
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People who have been hurt (Faye via trauma and May via poor choices/jail) can develop hard outsides that hide a soft inside. Which Faye had demonstrated more than once. Admittedly May less so... but I like scrapy types anyway.

Not saying I don't understand why Faye acts the way she does (though probably a small part of her actually enjoys it) but more how the other main characters in this strip just accept whatever abuse is given to them and are ok with it
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 27 Jul 2020, 20:44
Honestly for Jeph's post I'd say Sven looks a lot more like Angus than Marten. Just have Sven start wearing his glasses again and Sven would like exactly like Angus.

Guess Faye has a type.
Angus is a bit stockier. So not quite.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Reaver on 27 Jul 2020, 21:31
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People who have been hurt (Faye via trauma and May via poor choices/jail) can develop hard outsides that hide a soft inside. Which Faye had demonstrated more than once. Admittedly May less so... but I like scrapy types anyway.

Not saying I don't understand why Faye acts the way she does (though probably a small part of her actually enjoys it) but more how the other main characters in this strip just accept whatever abuse is given to them and are ok with it


Yeah this I can agree with lol! If I were in a desparate situation where I needed help from my friends and I had a history of insulting/yelling at them/calling them names with every breath, I don't think they'd be nearly as generous to do whatever they could to help me.


May is a piece of work, I wouldn't call her scrappy, I'd say everyone else is just more a nice person as to not drop someone who is in need of help...even if they're a pretty abrasive, rude , insulting thing that pays kindness with scoffs and  "Fuck yous" because once in a blue moon, if the tide is juust right...she can be a little nice kinda.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 27 Jul 2020, 21:32
Not saying I don't understand why Faye acts the way she does (though probably a small part of her actually enjoys it) but more how the other main characters in this strip just accept whatever abuse is given to them and are ok with it

Do they, though? I can remember plenty of instances where characters have acted like jerks and were called out on it. While it does seem that many of the QC denizens are quite understanding of certain people's prickly demeanors, they aren't doormats either. (Except for in the beginning, when Marten was waaaay too accepting of Faye's punches).
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 27 Jul 2020, 22:27
Not saying I don't understand why Faye acts the way she does (though probably a small part of her actually enjoys it) but more how the other main characters in this strip just accept whatever abuse is given to them and are ok with it

Do they, though? I can remember plenty of instances where characters have acted like jerks and were called out on it. While it does seem that many of the QC denizens are quite understanding of certain people's prickly demeanors, they aren't doormats either. (Except for in the beginning, when Marten was waaaay to accepting of Faye's punches).

Most of the characters are fairly good at recognizing when their prickly friends are too out of line--for example (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1654), Faye was simply being a jerk and Dora shut her down. I think it's fair to say that often what seems like an abrasive comment turns out to be a friendly joke.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 27 Jul 2020, 23:27
Tuesday's strip is where May learns that she has true friends after all. I'm expecting a breakdown of sorts because I doubt that she's ever considered herself worthy. This, by the way is why she's so prickly. You can't be hurt by friends if you have no friends, so she tries to drive everyone away. However, we see the essential punky but kind girl when she's unguarded or caught unawares.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 27 Jul 2020, 23:46
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Do they, though? I can remember plenty of instances where characters have acted like jerks and were called out on it. While it does seem that many of the QC denizens are quite understanding of certain people's prickly demeanors, they aren't doormats either. (Except for in the beginning, when Marten was waaaay to accepting of Faye's punches).

Well lets face it Marten is the comics punching bag. Remember Bubbles first interactions with Marten as an example but one really uncomfortable strip was way back when Marten was seeing someone (can't remember her name) and then she was going to leave and she basically ghosted him then just before she was due to leave she contacts him and he (not unreasonably) wants nothing to do with her so Faye smacks him upside the head and essentially gives him the message that no matter what a girl does to him its ok and that he should always forgive them though to be fair it was a time ago so I may not be remembering it correctly but it always struck me as a really bad message, that basically Marten is not allowed to be angry especially with a girl
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: badbum61 on 28 Jul 2020, 00:12
I didn't recognize Marigold at first.

She's just Faye with different hair now.

Apparently Jeph has a type, too. Or at least two...
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Cornelius on 28 Jul 2020, 00:22
I wouldn't say that's fair, exactly: the hair's different, and so is her nose, and mouth/expression. Her moles are not shown here, as they're on the other side of her face, as you can see on the last comic she was in, 4313. Especially in full profile, the differences are obvious.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 00:24
Well lets face it Marten is the comics punching bag. Remember Bubbles first interactions with Marten as an example but one really uncomfortable strip was way back when Marten was seeing someone (can't remember her name) and then she was going to leave and she basically ghosted him then just before she was due to leave she contacts him and he (not unreasonably) wants nothing to do with her so Faye smacks him upside the head and essentially gives him the message that no matter what a girl does to him its ok and that he should always forgive them though to be fair it was a time ago so I may not be remembering it correctly but it always struck me as a really bad message, that basically Marten is not allowed to be angry especially with a girl

I assume you mean this strip (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2101)? I never interpreted that as 'Marten is not allowed to be angry', but more as 'you cannot complain that life is passing you by when you do not make an effort to make things happen'.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 01:32
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I assume you mean this strip (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2101)? I never interpreted that as 'Marten is not allowed to be angry', but more as 'you cannot complain that life is passing you by when you do not make an effort to make things happen'.

(Thanks for that)

In this instance Marten was justified in being angry in that he did everything right and he still got shafted. He left messages for her, didn't stalk her or make it weird and got nothing and then when she decided she wanted to see him the night before she left Marten did the right thing by not allowing himself to get even more hurt then he already was.

Fayes response to all this is to call him an asshole. Yeah good one Faye, Padma ghosts him and then you rip on him as well but its ok because shes telling him what he needs to hear...no what he needed was some support, someone to tell him yeah she was a b**ch and its not your fault but instead because a girl wanted to see him Marten should have dropped everything and gone rushing over

No, this was a bad storyline with bad messaging
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 02:09
Let's agree to disagree on that one 😊
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Boxer on 28 Jul 2020, 04:04
I assume it will be huge amount, maybe 6 figures.  May is a couple of degrees of separation from two very rich and powerful Artificial Intelligences who have absolutely no real concept of money, and no concept of small actions.

Yay gave away $2 billion dollars on a whim, and then made it sound easy to re-earn it... so what can she output in a week. She may be promising to not interfere with Roko but even if she tries to do "small donation" she might end up donating a six figure sum as a small donation.

Station is worth about 605 million dollars in Ellicott-Chatham Technologies shares alone and he thought $4.6 million dollars was a good "apology"... what would he do if he was asked by Hannelore to donate, or if he felt the need to apologise for Hannelore's dad jumping focus.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 04:21
Let's agree to disagree on that one 😊

Fair enough, sometimes some storylines hit closer to home than others
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 05:50
Just for the record, I'm firmly with Faradeh in this case.

I do agree with one thing you said, chris73. The messaging you describe is indeed bad. But I invite you to consider the origin of this messaging, because my reading was quite different, and I can only guess that Fahideh's was as well.

No reading on a story like this one is a one-way interaction. Every reading is a result of an interaction between the text and the reader. When you are angry at your reading, but find that others don't share your reading of the text, it's time to examine your contribution to your own reading.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Reaver on 28 Jul 2020, 06:39
I mean, I agree with Chris, there's been a lot of "Martin is never allowed to be mad at women" storylines over the years...
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: dutchrvl on 28 Jul 2020, 08:02
I mean, I agree with Chris, there's been a lot of "Martin is never allowed to be mad at women" storylines over the years...

Meh, as somebody who identifies quite a bit with Marten's personality, I don't see that many storyline in which that is the case. Sure, for a long time there was too much acceptance of  Faye's behavior expected, but other than that? FOr example, in the Dora breakup arc, Marten was definitely allowed to be angry including by the other characters.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: St.Clair on 28 Jul 2020, 09:08
I mean, I agree with Chris, there's been a lot of "Martin is never allowed to be mad at women" storylines over the years...

Meh, as somebody who identifies quite a bit with Marten's personality

Meh

Checks out.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Theta9 on 28 Jul 2020, 09:45
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I assume you mean this strip (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2101)? I never interpreted that as 'Marten is not allowed to be angry', but more as 'you cannot complain that life is passing you by when you do not make an effort to make things happen'.

(Thanks for that)

In this instance Marten was justified in being angry in that he did everything right and he still got shafted. He left messages for her, didn't stalk her or make it weird and got nothing and then when she decided she wanted to see him the night before she left Marten did the right thing by not allowing himself to get even more hurt then he already was.

Fayes response to all this is to call him an asshole. Yeah good one Faye, Padma ghosts him and then you rip on him as well but its ok because shes telling him what he needs to hear...no what he needed was some support, someone to tell him yeah she was a b**ch and its not your fault but instead because a girl wanted to see him Marten should have dropped everything and gone rushing over

No, this was a bad storyline with bad messaging
Did we read the same strip? I remember Padma telling Marten she was leaving in a couple of weeks, and his response was to ghost HER.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Roborat on 28 Jul 2020, 12:06
I was really expecting May's internet connection to crap out before she could load the website, or her software to bluescreen on her.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 28 Jul 2020, 13:13
Did we read the same strip? I remember Padma telling Marten she was leaving in a couple of weeks, and his response was to ghost HER.

You beat me to it. Faye pointed out to Marten what he couldn't see himself: Padma was pushing him away so she wouldn't be as attached, thus leading to more pain when she inevitably had to leave. Yes, she handled it badly, but then when she asked to see him one more time, Marten simply acted like a six-year-old trying to get revenge on a sibling and gave up his chance to end it on a good note. In conclusion: They both did the wrong thing at first, but Marten missed an easy chance to redeem himself, while Padma did not.

In response to the "not allowed to be angry at girls" message: That's not a case of Jeph trying to tell us something about life, that's a case of good character development. In every situation where Marten has a chance to be rightfully angry, he has always tended to try to defuse the conflict rather than escalate it (excepting his two breakups). When he yelled at Dora for watching his porn, she miserably failed at apologizing--rather than a sincere, heartfelt apology, she first tried to make it "not a big deal," then said she was sorry, and when Marten wouldn't accept it, she pinned the blame on him rather than herself. That isn't Marten's fault for getting angry, it's Dora's for not knowing how to say sorry and de-escalate.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Perfectly Reasonable on 28 Jul 2020, 13:15
The wonderful thing about WebMarvel is that you can make web pages without knowing HTML.

The horrid thing about WebMarvel is that people are making web pages without knowing HTML.

Yes, a macaque can make web pages. And Marigold knows that she could have done better, even as a beginner.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 28 Jul 2020, 13:20
The wonderful thing about WebMarvel is that you can make web pages without knowing HTML.

The horrid thing about WebMarvel is that people are making web pages without knowing HTML.

Yes, a macaque can make web pages. And Marigold knows that she could have done better, even as a beginner.

Isn't it interesting how when it comes to learning talents (in QC if not necessarily real life), humans can outperform AIs? Beeps had the entire internet at her fingertips and was working with Roko, but Marigold still thinks she could have done better.

Then again, Beeps coded the whole thing in, like, a day, so that's impressive in and of itself.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Perfectly Reasonable on 28 Jul 2020, 15:00
Kindy scary that the first two names I dreamed up for the web-making GUI were already taken.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Mordhaus on 28 Jul 2020, 15:22
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 15:37
Isn't it interesting how when it comes to learning talents (in QC if not necessarily real life), humans can outperform AIs? Beeps had the entire internet at her fingertips and was working with Roko, but Marigold still thinks she could have done better.

Then again, Beeps coded the whole thing in, like, a day, so that's impressive in and of itself.

Did Beeps write the fundraising page herself? I figured she just started a campaign on the QC version of GoFundMe.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 17:28
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Did we read the same strip? I remember Padma telling Marten she was leaving in a couple of weeks, and his response was to ghost HER.

Read from  2073 to 2079, 2091, 2093 to 2093, 2098 to 2102 to show that Marten didn't do the ghosting
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 28 Jul 2020, 17:33
Beat me to it. I was just doing an archive dive trying to find the relevant strips.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Zebediah on 28 Jul 2020, 18:19
As far as I’m concerned, neither Marten nor Padma handled that situation very well.

In other words, they acted like humans with very human emotions and flaws. That’s a hanging offense in these parts, mister.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 18:28
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When you are angry at your reading, but find that others don't share your reading of the text, it's time to examine your contribution to your own reading.

I disagree, being angry at something nor does being the only one that thinks it doesn't necessarily mean I'm wrong  (others agree by the way)

Meanwhile the negative treatment of Marten is still on going, like how Bubbles and Marten got acquainted in 3058 and compare that to how she interacts with everyone else (also 3338)  or how about Renee and Clare in 3508 (yes I understand the why but its still Marten being the strips punching bag)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 18:30
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In other words, they acted like humans with very human emotions and flaws. That’s a hanging offense in these parts, mister.

My problem wasn't with Padma or Marten but how Faye treated Marten after, she was verbally abusive but its ok because its Marten
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 18:33
New comic!

Oh, May. I hope you just went in for an awkward hug.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: jwhouk on 28 Jul 2020, 18:36
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In other words, they acted like humans with very human emotions and flaws. That’s a hanging offense in these parts, mister.
My problem wasn't with Padma or Marten but how Faye treated Marten after, she was verbally abusive but its ok because its Marten

With Faye, it's a very old adage.

"Hurt people hurt people."

And I think Marten knew that in his interactions with Faye after, oh, I'd say, maybe, strip 500 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=500)? or maybe 509 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=509)?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: de_la_Nae on 28 Jul 2020, 18:39
Alright I've read a bit of this thread now, and I'm just gonna wait over here for when y'all are finally ready for the conversation about how and why the abuses against Pintsize are okay, i.e. how and where you draw the lines of 'allowable' transgressions.

i'ma be waiting a long time ;)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 18:40
As far as I’m concerned, neither Marten nor Padma handled that situation very well.

Yes, indeed.

What is the point of this conversation? This particular strip was brought up as an example of how 'Marten is not allowed to be angry.' I don't see anything in this conversation as supporting that assertion. The question of who ghosted whom doesn't get us any closer. The fact is, neither of them handled the situation particularly adeptly, and that is just the way things often go when relationship troubles and intense emotions are at play.

But to drag the conversation back to the comment that started it all - what does 'Marten is not allowed to be angry' even mean outside of a parent/child or employer/employee type relationship? I do get that Marten is often passive, but simply saying he's not allowed to be angry buys into his passivity in a way that I find to be deeply confusing. He's a grown-up, and he's perfectly able to get angry whenever he feels like it. In fact, let's look back at that comic. That wasn't an example of him being 'not allowed' to be angry (again - whatever that means). All that happened was that Faye confronted him with the reality of how he was acting out, and Marten was in fact mature enough, in spite of being angry, to recognise the truth of what Faye was saying to him. Which is to his credit, I must say.

Let's face it. Marten's problem is not that he doesn't get angry. His problem is that he gets angry when he should get assertive. And I think you'll find that's a common thread through his previous relationships (including, dare I say, his relationship with his own mother).

Claire seems to have been good for him, but it's unclear whether he's magically become more assertive or if the issues are still there but haven't been triggered recently because he's so content with the current state of affairs. And I wouldn't be surprised if we never learn the answer to that one.

Warning - while you were typing, a bunch of posts and new comic have been posted. You may wish to review your post.

Eh. *sigh*  fine.

My problem wasn't with Padma or Marten but how Faye treated Marten after, she was verbally abusive but its ok because its Marten

You say abusive, I say tough love. They are close friends and they can speak truth to each other. That's love, not abuse. Nothing she said was untrue or undeserved, and Marten recognised it.

I'm just going to let the other comments through to keeper for now, I may come back to them if I feel like it.

Warning - while you were typing -

POSTING NOW
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 18:42
Alright I've read a bit of this thread now, and I'm just gonna wait over here for when y'all are finally ready for the conversation about how and why the abuses against Pintsize are okay, i.e. how and where you draw the lines of 'allowable' transgressions.

i'ma be waiting a long time ;)

Yeah, what is perceived as slapstick and what is perceived as abuse is definitely in the eye of the observer.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 18:43
I'm bowing out of the conversation now, since the comics are open to personal interpretation, and I don't want it to evolve into "my opinion is correct, and yours is wrong!" That's how (flame)wars get started.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 28 Jul 2020, 18:47
New comic!

Oh, May. I hope you just went in for an awkward hug.

I might believe that with any other character (except Pintsize, of course), but coming from May, I'm pretty sure it was intentional.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 18:50
I'm still a little curious about precisely what 'Marten is not allowed to be angry' means - particularly whether it is anger directed at the characters or at Jeph. Otherwise, I'm definitely not getting bogged down into the minutiae who was 'right' and who was 'wrong' in various QC character interactions.

Oh maybe I should check the comic out.

...

May is reacting the way we all expected her to, I think. I wonder how this experience will change May (beyond the obvious).
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 28 Jul 2020, 19:09
New comic!

Oh, May. I hope you just went in for an awkward hug.

BOOOBS.

Yeah, that was cute.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: SmilingCat on 28 Jul 2020, 19:14
Marigold has clearly learned something from watching Faye calm people down (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1871).
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 19:17
I could've sworn that Marigold used her boobs as a narcotic before?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 19:30
So I thought I'd glance at one of these other examples.

like how Bubbles and Marten got acquainted in 3058 and compare that to how she interacts with everyone else (also 3338)

How she interacts with everyone else... you mean like in 3064 (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3064) and 3065 (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3065)?

She was obviously deeply unhappy in that situation, there's not much more to say about that. It had nothing to do with Marten. And in 3338, he was just being timid (just as Claire says in panel one).
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Baz_Yat on 28 Jul 2020, 19:39
CALLED IT.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: alc40 on 28 Jul 2020, 20:03
I could've sworn that Marigold used her boobs as a narcotic before?
4107 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=4107)?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BarGamer on 28 Jul 2020, 20:12
Yay for hugs and generosity! I'm hoping that May gets enough to buy that fighter jet chassis she originally went to AI jail for.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 28 Jul 2020, 20:19
I could've sworn that Marigold used her boobs as a narcotic before?
4107 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=4107)?


Bingo! Thank you :)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 28 Jul 2020, 20:26
Yay for hugs and generosity! I'm hoping that May gets enough to buy that fighter jet chassis she originally went to AI jail for.

Noooooo. A fighter jet is likely HUGELY more than a usual body.

Plus I can see donators going "She used the money for WHAT?"
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 20:29
I could've sworn that Marigold used her boobs as a narcotic before?
4107 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=4107)?

And that is a highly relevant callback.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: N.N. Marf on 28 Jul 2020, 20:33
what is perceived as slapstick and what is perceived as abuse is definitely in the eye of the observer.
Slapstick is a piece of literature by Kurt Vonnegut (purportedly funny) corporal abuse.
like how Bubbles and Marten got acquainted in 3058 and compare that to how she interacts with everyone else (also 3338)
you mean like in 3064 (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3064) and 3065 (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3065)?
In Bubbles' defense, "hup ermf" is a terrible opening line.

I'm bowing out of the conversation now, since the comics are open to personal interpretation, and I don't want it to evolve into "my opinion is correct, and yours is wrong!" That's how (flame)wars get started.
Your opinion about there being only one possible right opinion is wrong. Good heated arguments breed mutual understanding.

Hi ho.

Faye confronted him with the reality of how he was acting out, and Marten was in fact mature enough, in spite of being angry, to recognise the truth of what Faye was saying to him.
Faye told Marten that Marten should have accepted Padma's invitation, despite Padma pushing Marten away. I opine that Marten's mistake was not telling Padma why Marten would rather not meet with Padma.

That isn't Marten's fault for getting angry, it's Dora's for not knowing how to say sorry and de-escalate.
Dora invaded Marten's privacy. That's a contemptible act. An act that Marten could have precluded by encrypting his data. Was Marten's anger appropriate?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Mad Cat on 28 Jul 2020, 20:40
Brassier, crying towel, it's such a fine line, really.

Even if May doesn't have any tear ducts.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 20:46
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She was obviously deeply unhappy in that situation, there's not much more to say about that. It had nothing to do with Marten. And in 3338, he was just being timid (just as Claire says in panel one).

No I'm talking first meeting. look at panels 5 & 6 in 3058 and do you really think its Martens fault for being "timid" in 3338

Ok try this then, change Martens gender to female and change Faye, Bubble, Tai and Dora to male then look at their interactions again and tell me its all ok
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 28 Jul 2020, 21:15
Dora invaded Marten's privacy. That's a contemptible act. An act that Marten could have precluded by encrypting his data. Was Marten's anger appropriate?

I think it was. Marten actually addresses that in panel three of this comic (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1796). It's not about the actual subject of the argument, it's about the fact that Dora breached his trust. He shouldn't have had to encrypt anything, because he told Dora not to look, but she did anyway, and that's what led to the breakup.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 28 Jul 2020, 21:17
On a note completely unrelated to the discourse going on, I'm currently working on a couple of sketches for the more ridiculous poll options from last week, jetski transformer May. I'm sure she'd be on board with it solely because the vehicle configuration moves ass-backwards in relation to her humanoid configuration. (I couldn't work out how to satisfactorily get the back portion of the thing to become legs.)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 28 Jul 2020, 21:42
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I think it was. Marten actually addresses that in panel three of this comic (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1796). It's not about the actual subject of the argument, it's about the fact that Dora breached his trust. He shouldn't have had to encrypt anything, because he told Dora not to look, but she did anyway, and that's what led to the breakup.

The good thing that came out of this was that Dora realized her problem early on and did the right thing so good on her for that
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 28 Jul 2020, 21:48
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She was obviously deeply unhappy in that situation, there's not much more to say about that. It had nothing to do with Marten. And in 3338, he was just being timid (just as Claire says in panel one).

No I'm talking first meeting. look at panels 5 & 6 in 3058 and do you really think its Martens fault for being "timid" in 3338

Ok try this then, change Martens gender to female and change Faye, Bubble, Tai and Dora to male then look at their interactions again and tell me its all ok

Okay sure. Fine. As you wish.

They are all ok.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Sorflakne on 28 Jul 2020, 22:04
I could've sworn that Marigold used her boobs as a narcotic before?

Boobs are the best narcotic.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Romanticide on 28 Jul 2020, 22:45
new guess, number might end closer to 696,969 because my same theory of rando going in for the chuckles as much that for the help. Or slighty over because some other rando having the same idea at the same time.

Still to much for May to deal right now. Is hard to believe people would help you that much.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: awkwardness on 28 Jul 2020, 22:55
New comic!

Oh, May. I hope you just went in for an awkward hug.

I might believe that with any other character (except Pintsize, of course), but coming from May, I'm pretty sure it was intentional.

Intentional, but not sexual. May's emotional but this isn't like any other time with her and seems pure otherwise Marigold wouldn't have allowed her to do it.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 28 Jul 2020, 23:00
Yes, May; you have friends who love you. I know that's a shock but there you go!

S'okay kid. Just hang onto Marigold until your brain stops spinning enough that you can stand up again.

"I want to cry but I don't have tear ducts!" It kind of says it all, doesn't it?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 28 Jul 2020, 23:12
Alright I've read a bit of this thread now, and I'm just gonna wait over here for when y'all are finally ready for the conversation about how and why the abuses against Pintsize are okay, i.e. how and where you draw the lines of 'allowable' transgressions.

i'ma be waiting a long time ;)

It would be OK for a Looney Tunes character but I get troubled by those incidents when I remember that he's a person. There have been fewer lately as Jeph has added depth to the AIs.

What the latest comic reminded me of is "Snot on my shirt. That's what friends are for." May is doing something comparable to crying on a shoulder. Marigold is consenting freely.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Cornelius on 29 Jul 2020, 00:05
Well, with regards to slapstick, I think it's worth bearing in mind that this is now a different comic than it started out as. Some of the people I introduced to the comic, loved different parts of the comic's run, but stopped reading when they met either the newer or the earlier comics, as to them, that felt like an entirely different comic. Which, you know, with the art style and focus changing, it kind of is, really.

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She was obviously deeply unhappy in that situation, there's not much more to say about that. It had nothing to do with Marten. And in 3338, he was just being timid (just as Claire says in panel one).

No I'm talking first meeting. look at panels 5 & 6 in 3058 and do you really think its Martens fault for being "timid" in 3338

Ok try this then, change Martens gender to female and change Faye, Bubble, Tai and Dora to male then look at their interactions again and tell me its all ok

The problem between 3058 en 3338 is that in between there's a perfectly normal conversation. If it were just 3058 and 3338, I'd say you're right, that it's not Marten's fault. Either way, regardless of gender, Bubbles' behaviour in 3058 was less than positive - and I do know that it was a stressful moment for her, but even so, if anyone came to my door like that, they'd have to force their way in.
3338 feels a bit  difficult for me, as, as far as I can find, Marten feeling intimidated is really just established in 3058, and seems largely over in the following conversation. I suppose it's just another example of the rule of funny taking precedence over consistent story telling. Going by Jeph's comment, I'd say that the gag of the threatening style of the 'I come in peace'-message was the main idea for the strip.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: cybersmurf on 29 Jul 2020, 00:54
Boobs are the best narcotic.

Fixed that for you ;-)


AIs hugging people that way have an advantage over humans hugging AIs. Go ask Faye (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3276).
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: ZoeB on 29 Jul 2020, 01:42
I can totally identify with May's reaction to significant, concrete and unexpected acts of kindness.
I'm the same way. And I've had many of them, so many you think I'd get used to them.
Nope. Still collapse into a blubbering mess.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: N.N. Marf on 29 Jul 2020, 01:44
Was Marten's anger appropriate?
I think it was. Marten actually addresses that in panel three of this comic (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1796). He shouldn't have had to encrypt anything, because he told Dora not to look, but she did anyway, and that's what led to the breakup.
I'm familiar with that page (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,34625.msg1446418.html#msg1446418)---it doesn't address the appropriateness of Marten's anger. Marten having encrypted his data would not have precluded Dora's attempt to invade Marten's privacy, but that's as contemptible. The fact that an unauthorized person can look at the data if it's not encrypted is the exact reason to encrypt it. How much was his anger enhanced by the Dora having some of his private data? But that question won't get us closer to knowing whether Marten's anger was appropriate. Was there a response that could get to the same result, without the unnecessary pathos? If so, Marten has anger management problems. Sure, his anger management problems are pretty slight---he's quite a chill dude---but this riled him up.
In his place, I might get angry, too. That emotion might come up. But, in his place, I'd rather not get angry; instead, simply ending the relationship. (I mean entirely. Dora would become no more than a person behind the counter of a café I go to sometimes.)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 29 Jul 2020, 02:10
<-- snipped for sanity -->

Your opinion about there being only one possible right opinion is wrong. Good heated arguments breed mutual understanding.

Hi ho.

<-- snipped for sanity -->


Please don't put words in my mouth. I never said that there was "only one possible right opinion". What I meant was that in situations like this, where everyone has their own interpretation of what some comic means, it tends to devolve into "I must convince you why my opinion is the right one, because X Y Z". Then the other party comes back with: "No, your interpretation is wrong, because A B C". It's an interpretation. It's personal and based on a person's own experiences. Thus, to them, it cannot be wrong, but that doesn't mean that it's also the right one for others. By all means, explain what some comic means to you, but don't force that opinion upon others.

I hope this makes sense. It all sounds fine in my head, but it tends to come out as a garbled mess when I try to put it into words.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: pwhodges on 29 Jul 2020, 02:28
But, in his place, I'd rather not get angry; instead, simply ending the relationship. (I mean entirely. Dora would become no more than a person behind the counter of a café I go to sometimes.)

You make it sound easy; but for established relationships it's really not like that - they can't simply be turned on or off like a switch.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Cornelius on 29 Jul 2020, 02:29
Was Marten's anger appropriate?
I think it was. Marten actually addresses that in panel three of this comic (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1796). He shouldn't have had to encrypt anything, because he told Dora not to look, but she did anyway, and that's what led to the breakup.
I'm familiar with that page (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,34625.msg1446418.html#msg1446418)---it doesn't address the appropriateness of Marten's anger. Marten having encrypted his data would not have precluded Dora's attempt to invade Marten's privacy, but that's as contemptible. The fact that an unauthorized person can look at the data if it's not encrypted is the exact reason to encrypt it. How much was his anger enhanced by the Dora having some of his private data? But that question won't get us closer to knowing whether Marten's anger was appropriate. Was there a response that could get to the same result, without the unnecessary pathos? If so, Marten has anger management problems. Sure, his anger management problems are pretty slight---he's quite a chill dude---but this riled him up.
In his place, I might get angry, too. That emotion might come up. But, in his place, I'd rather not get angry; instead, simply ending the relationship. (I mean entirely. Dora would become no more than a person behind the counter of a café I go to sometimes.)

I was going to reply to this, but any discussion about appropriateness of anger, and how they broke up, would mean looking at all that was mentioned on that page, and I'm sure the Dorapocalypse already takes up too much space in this forum.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 29 Jul 2020, 03:44
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In his place, I might get angry, too. That emotion might come up. But, in his place, I'd rather not get angry; instead, simply ending the relationship. (I mean entirely. Dora would become no more than a person behind the counter of a café I go to sometimes.)

Yeah he had every right to be angry but the best thing for Marten would be if Clare gets a job offer in another location and Marten follows her, not because I want to see them leave but because Marten is far too comfortable in his present situation and, unfortunately, he needs a spur to change
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: de_la_Nae on 29 Jul 2020, 04:04
Sometimes I wonder how many of the fans of this comic are the working poor.

Maybe as someone who's spent most of her life in, among, and as one, communication styles like May strike me as a lot less 'crass', which sometimes seems to be the cardinal sin of whether someone is allowable to this crowd, see Pintsize, Yelling Bird, May, etc. Since violence and repression doesn't seem to bug the majority of the fans the majority of the time over the years, see Faye, Emily, Bubbles, Momo, Marten, so on and so forth.

disclaimer: this is something i've mostly kept to myself for years now, though a couple others around here know I've mused about it. This thread isn't all to blame for any means, of me bringing it up. Just.... thinking out loud, of a sorts.

i'd love to know sitnspin's take, as someone else i know has significant experience in and among rough folks. more than me, anyway, though i've known my share of felons and so forth, not all of them for non-violent offenses.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: de_la_Nae on 29 Jul 2020, 04:06
i should note that i'm not all-seeing either. i just... occasionally see things here. on other social sites. and Jeph's own framing and commentary, at times, around his work. i'd argue he's shared in it too, but y'know, it's a little murkier with the one who actually creates the 'crass' people
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: sitnspin on 29 Jul 2020, 08:33
I do notice a lot of righteous indignation hurled at characters for not making the perfect and most appropriate response to stressful situations. As if everyone should be expected to perfectly collected and rational at all times. As if real people aren't a hot mess of emotions and irrationality.

As someone who kinda shares May's sense of humour and colourful verbiage and is closely associated with a lot of other people who do as well, I don't understand the magnitude of the hate she gets from certain members of the audience.

Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 29 Jul 2020, 09:55
It is easy, right or wrong, to read her communication choices as reflecting contempt for those around her.

The Gottman research on relationships found contempt to be toxic and death to relationships.

Anyone who has lived with someone contemptuous is going to react to May. Does the name "Pavlov" ring a bell?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Reaver on 29 Jul 2020, 10:25
It is easy, right or wrong, to read her communication choices as reflecting contempt for those around her.

The Gottman research on relationships found contempt to be toxic and death to relationships.

Anyone who has lived with someone contemptuous is going to react to May. Does the name "Pavlov" ring a bell?

Why'd I just start drooling everywhere? D8
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 29 Jul 2020, 15:07
Was Marten's anger appropriate?
I think it was. Marten actually addresses that in panel three of this comic (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1796). He shouldn't have had to encrypt anything, because he told Dora not to look, but she did anyway, and that's what led to the breakup.
I'm familiar with that page (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,34625.msg1446418.html#msg1446418)---it doesn't address the appropriateness of Marten's anger. Marten having encrypted his data would not have precluded Dora's attempt to invade Marten's privacy, but that's as contemptible. The fact that an unauthorized person can look at the data if it's not encrypted is the exact reason to encrypt it. How much was his anger enhanced by the Dora having some of his private data? But that question won't get us closer to knowing whether Marten's anger was appropriate. Was there a response that could get to the same result, without the unnecessary pathos? If so, Marten has anger management problems. Sure, his anger management problems are pretty slight---he's quite a chill dude---but this riled him up.
In his place, I might get angry, too. That emotion might come up. But, in his place, I'd rather not get angry; instead, simply ending the relationship. (I mean entirely. Dora would become no more than a person behind the counter of a café I go to sometimes.)

I'm sensing that people are sick and tired of this argument, so this will be my last post on this front.

Until that last fight, Marten had done nearly everything right. Almost every previous conflict they'd had was set up by Dora and always ended up with Marten finding a way to calm her down or Dora having guilt feelings. It's likely that yes, there was a better way for Marten to handle that, but in a heated situation with the full pressure of a strained relationship on his shoulders, I think he reacted about as expected. This is an odd analogy, but imagine you're being pushed around and taunted every week for a year by the same person. Eventually, you give up and punch them. That's not the best, most levelheaded thing to do, but it's appropriate within the situation and they deserved it.

(Just so you know, if you post a response to this, I won't answer. It's not because I don't like you, it's because this argument has been going on for too long and we're saying the same things over and over again.)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: jwhouk on 29 Jul 2020, 18:06
Oh, wait - this is the Breakup Thread argument all over again, isn't it?

Don't do that. I have a streak of threads started since then that haven't been locked due to argument levels.

Bottom line is that Dora screwed that relationship up and Marten moved on. Things are Better Now.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 29 Jul 2020, 18:16
Yes, if it feels like people are sick and tired of that argument, then that is the reason. It has reappeared many times in these threads, and tends to produce more heat than light.

BTW the common assertion that "Marten is the comic's punching bag" may or may not emotionally feel true to you, dear Reader, but it implies rather strongly that only bad things happen to Marten, or all of the bad things that happen in the comic (or at least the vast majority) happen only to Marten. Neither of those ring true to me. Maybe at one time? But not now.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 29 Jul 2020, 18:19
Comic has arrived.

The whole point of the drive was so that May could get a new body, and I think that's at least where the majority of the funds should go, but May brings up a couple interesting points. Does someone else need it more than she does? Almost certainly, but May too is in a shitty situation and should be able to escape it. Does she "deserve" it? No more than a privileged child "deserves" a birthday present, but that doesn't mean she shouldn't get it.

Also, is that the reason she was so averse to the charity drive from the start because she felt she didn't deserve it? If that's the case, I think she needs a therapist, because she has some deep-seated self-worth problems.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: jwhouk on 29 Jul 2020, 18:27
1. She can't handle the fact that people do want to help her. Yes, that is a huge issue that she may need to address in short order.

2. Momo has every right to go Super Saiyan on her.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: ZoeB on 29 Jul 2020, 18:30
I can totally identify with May's reaction to significant, concrete and unexpected acts of kindness.
I'm the same way. And I've had many of them, so many you think I'd get used to them.
Nope. Still collapse into a blubbering mess.

...and..Maybe I need a Momo to tell me that I'm deserving too. Ok, I am, but there are soooo many who, whether they deserve it or not ( a judgment beyond my pay grade), *need* it more.

Every day, every single day, I get PMs or emails from them, all over the world. The easy cases can be solved with trivial amounts of money, or even just information and contacts, but most need emotional support, and that can be heartbreaking. So much injustice. So much hurt. So much courage.

Meh. I volunteered for this, no one is twisting my arm, so no complaints. Whether I deserve the opportunity to vent to a sympathetic audience or not, I have one, so am using it. I'd be silly not to, as long as I don't take it for granted. It's a gift I appreciate. Thanks.

Jeph has real insight. Not into me as such, but in those like me. Those like May. Those like Momo too.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 29 Jul 2020, 18:33
Is it at all surprising that a former con working at the local version of a 7-11 for minimum wage has self esteem issues? Poor May tho.

I forgot Momo has tasers. *lol*
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 29 Jul 2020, 18:37
Oh May.

OF COURSE there are other people that need the money. OF COURSE there are other people that are more deserving. That doesn't automatically make you unworthy, though!

I second the opinions above: May needs a therapist, pronto.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 29 Jul 2020, 18:42
That last panel needs a electrical sound effect and an orchestral score.

Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Baz_Yat on 29 Jul 2020, 18:52
I second the comment that the last panel needs an electrical sound effect and THAT orchestral score.

I also second the many comments that May needs help.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 29 Jul 2020, 19:07
Jeph is a good enough writer that he's not going to paint one party in a breakup as having done everything right.

For people who have joined since, the "Dorapocalypse" refers to the worst flame war I have seen since starting on Usenet in 1983, which came THAT close to getting the forum shut down. The current moderation team has the charter of making sure it never happens again.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tyr on 29 Jul 2020, 20:09
Oh May.

OF COURSE there are other people that need the money. OF COURSE there are other people that are more deserving. That doesn't automatically make you unworthy, though!

I second the opinions above: May needs a therapist, pronto.

I agree that May needs therapy pronto... because she's finally in a space where she'll actually maybe actually internalize some things. She's been blowing off the group therapy while still attending the sessions, she's slowly been inching towards a moment, and it just happened. There's something a therapist can hold up and say "While Generosity is a GOOD impulse, in this case it is fueled by your self-hatred. You are allowed to be kind to yourself."

or, y'know... whatever an actual licensed therapist would say there.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Sorflakne on 29 Jul 2020, 20:25
Sometimes I wonder how many of the fans of this comic are the working poor.

Maybe as someone who's spent most of her life in, among, and as one, communication styles like May strike me as a lot less 'crass', which sometimes seems to be the cardinal sin of whether someone is allowable to this crowd, see Pintsize, Yelling Bird, May, etc. Since violence and repression doesn't seem to bug the majority of the fans the majority of the time over the years, see Faye, Emily, Bubbles, Momo, Marten, so on and so forth.

disclaimer: this is something i've mostly kept to myself for years now, though a couple others around here know I've mused about it. This thread isn't all to blame for any means, of me bringing it up. Just.... thinking out loud, of a sorts.

I like May because she doesn't beat around the bush and isn't afraid to speak her mind.  She has a code of ethics and morality which has been largely consistent over the years, and much as she doesn't want to admit it, she cares about her friends and wants the best for them.  I don't see her as crass, I just see her as someone who has looser filters. 
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 29 Jul 2020, 20:28
She needs a therapist who can talk back to her. I get the feeling that May wouldn't be kind to someone who was deeply analyzing her feelings (see 3579 (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3579)), at least not in the traditional warm-and-fuzzy sense. Any therapist dealing with her would have to be quick-witted and very, very good at their job.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 29 Jul 2020, 23:00
We all need a best friend like Momo sometimes!

I suspect that, if May is still going to the therapy sessions, at the next one, she's going to say something like: "This week, I learned that I have good friends who will sacrifice to help me. That frightens me because I don't know why they'd do that and I'm scared that I'll let them down!" Then, after some evasion, she'll list all the ways her friends annoy her, how much she treasures this and how much she loves them. Basically why, in the end, she'd prefer to fight to keep them, no matter how hard it is.

That's where her arc needs to go: To realise that she's loved and is allowed to love in return. Also to realise one or both parties will be annoying or will screw up on occasion. The determination of whether the friendship is strong will be if both parties are determined to rebuild afterwards.

I also wonder what a word association exercise might reveal!
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jul 2020, 23:24
Nice to see Momo hasn't lost her touch.  I was trying to find the first time she used her "shock and awe" abilities, when she fried Marigold's computer, but my archive-fu is rusty. 
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 29 Jul 2020, 23:32
Nice to see Momo hasn't lost her touch.  I was trying to find the first time she used her "shock and awe" abilities, when she fried Marigold's computer, but my archive-fu is rusty.


Here you go (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1474)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Carl-E on 29 Jul 2020, 23:55
"You're grounded"


...not very well, apparently.


 :-D


On a different note, would this whole "I'm not worthy" thing of May's be considered a version of imposter syndrome?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 30 Jul 2020, 00:25
Whatever it is, it's kind of the opposite. She's been categorised as just an ex-con, and she believes she fits the label perfectly.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Cornelius on 30 Jul 2020, 00:56
Hmm, considering the state of May's chassis, I'm not sure Momo's reaction is exactly safe...
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: de_la_Nae on 30 Jul 2020, 01:02
Is it any wonder? She knows what she's done, running the numbers while being The Wrong Sort, and what her society has relegated her to for it. Has condemned her to. Is it any wonder that she's internalized some of that?

And has she 'earned' it, triumphantly thrown it in the face of her foes and adversity alike? No. She's been given it. Outside powers took her dreams and her freedom, and now outside powers threaten to restore some of them. Is it any wonder that she flinches in her powerlessness?

And have you ever known the terrors of sudden hope?

this is a Good Thing, but like... i get it, at least some.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: TRenn on 30 Jul 2020, 01:30
That last panel needs a electrical sound effect and an orchestral score.

[/spoiler]

Perhaps we could combine the two: Play the score on Tesla coils.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Baz_Yat on 30 Jul 2020, 02:55
And have you ever known the terrors of sudden hope?


Yes. And I do unerstand May's fear. Sudden hope triggers so many feelings, including "What if it's just a trick?" that.... yeah.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 30 Jul 2020, 03:53
Hope is a dangerous thing.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: ihaveavoice on 30 Jul 2020, 04:01
I do notice a lot of righteous indignation hurled at characters for not making the perfect and most appropriate response to stressful situations. As if everyone should be expected to perfectly collected and rational at all times. As if real people aren't a hot mess of emotions and irrationality.

As someone who kinda shares May's sense of humour and colourful verbiage and is closely associated with a lot of other people who do as well, I don't understand the magnitude of the hate she gets from certain members of the audience.

S A M E. As someone who doesn't share May's communication style at all and if anything is more like Momo in the sense of being seen as generally calm/polite, I've often felt confused by the comments I'll see from some posters expecting the worst from May by default. She basically has her own special dialect of sentences broken up by constant swear words in frequently gross combinations and tends to be surly and brusque the moment she gets uncomfortable, but we've seen her heart so many times. We've seen her care for these people, and sometimes take care of them. Even her grumpy retorts are so often unconvincing attempts to hide her affection for her friends, who can clearly tell! We also know that she values the rights and well-being of other disenfranchised AI over her own, and that she's so touched that Roko is willing to go out on a limb for her that she's always been cool with (and frankly expected) failure as an outcome to this quest for a better chassis, and we know these things because the comic has shown them to us multiple times. Sure, dislike her if you want - I certainly understand finding aspects of her dialogue off-putting. But some of the commentary goes beyond that to assuming motivations of her that just make zero sense with the character we've been shown. It's like her outside colors over her inside for some readers. It makes me feel like I'm reading a completely different comic sometimes.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: dutchrvl on 30 Jul 2020, 05:23
I am greatly ehm...enjoying? maybe appreciating? the current arc, and happy that May is finally getting to a place where she can hopefully really start addressing her selfworth/esteem issues that have been apparent almost from the moment she was introduced to us.

And yay for Momo :)

Also another great reminder of the fact that in most (perhaps all even?) societies convicts, regardless of the crime and length of imprisonment, are basically given lifetime sentences. We can argue all day long about our own ideas regarding "appropriate" sentences, but in my simple mind anyone who has lawfully served their time should have a real chance to restart their life with most/all opportunities others have, otherwise what's the point.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: sitnspin on 30 Jul 2020, 07:57
The penal system was never designed to be reformative, it has always been purely punitive in its intent.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Thrudd on 30 Jul 2020, 09:09
The penal system was never designed to be reformative, it has always been purely punitive in its intent.
For the states that is very true and you can add "profit centre" to the list of things it is designed to be.

Fortunately for those in other parts of the world, like the Nordic countries, education as well as medical and psychological treatment are part of the "keep them away from everyone else for a time".
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: dutchrvl on 30 Jul 2020, 10:35
As Thrudd mentioned, the penal systems in other countries are not designed to be purely punitive, beside the nordic countries this is true for the Netherlands also. Definitely not designed to be purely punitive and not for-profit either.

That said, unfortunately for many ex-convicts, even in those countries often it still constitutes a lifelong sentence at least to some extent. I'm sure some people are okay with that for certain crimes, but the principle still stands that if by law you get convicted for a certain time, you should be able to start over afterwards without perpetual further punishment. If we want the latter for certain crimes than the law should be changed.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Perfectly Reasonable on 30 Jul 2020, 10:37
But last time we saw electro-scary Momo, she was in her chibi chassis. With eels. Doubt that's a standard feature.

Looks like May's new body will be a couple of notches better than utility grade or standard civilian. Will we get to see her pick it out? Will we meet Charlotte again? Will it have a butt emblem?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 30 Jul 2020, 10:47
But last time we saw electro-scary Momo, she was in her chibi chassis. With eels. Doubt that's a standard feature.

There have a been a few cases with Momo in her anthropomimetic chassis. One that jumps to mind is where Momo actually knocked May off-line with a direct taser strike for teasing her about Sven. I think that there have been other occasions too.

Looks like May's new body will be a couple of notches better than utility grade or standard civilian. Will we get to see her pick it out? Will we meet Charlotte again? Will it have a butt emblem?[/quote]

My favoured idea is for May's chassis to go into an uncontrolled downward spiral that forces Faye and Bubbles to shut her down before the chassis failures imperil the stability of her AI drive.. Because of that (and the fact that, whilst there is money, there isn't enough for a 'buyer's choice' scenario) means that May doesn't fully know what her new body looks like until she wakes up in it. That way, Jeph can keep it as a surprise from us too.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: pwhodges on 30 Jul 2020, 11:49
Momo's channelling Killua, it seems...

(click to show/hide)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 30 Jul 2020, 12:26
Momo also found a need to shock Clinton when he was disregarding her consent.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 30 Jul 2020, 12:46
She also shocked Emily (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2251) (although it isn't shown)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 30 Jul 2020, 13:23
We all need a best friend like Momo sometimes!

I suspect that, if May is still going to the therapy sessions, at the next one, she's going to say something like: "This week, I learned that I have good friends who will sacrifice to help me. That frightens me because I don't know why they'd do that and I'm scared that I'll let them down!" Then, after some evasion, she'll list all the ways her friends annoy her, how much she treasures this and how much she loves them. Basically why, in the end, she'd prefer to fight to keep them, no matter how hard it is.

That's where her arc needs to go: To realise that she's loved and is allowed to love in return. Also to realise one or both parties will be annoying or will screw up on occasion. The determination of whether the friendship is strong will be if both parties are determined to rebuild afterwards.

I also wonder what a word association exercise might reveal!

I think May absolutely feels that way, but her actual response would be more like:

"Ugh, my turn? Fine. So it basically looks like things might not be as horrible as they should be, because my friends are okay, I guess, but it's fuckin' weird. Like, everything has been totally shitty for the last year, but for some reason, these people think I should have all this money? I guess that's a good thing, but I don't fuckin' need this more than some starving kid. And what if I fuck it up again? I'm already a shitty person; I don't need to screw everything up again."

Poor May. I hope she can realize she's allowed to open up and have good things in life.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Case on 30 Jul 2020, 14:12
Oh, wait - this is the Breakup Thread argument all over again, isn't it?

I joined right after. That was almost a decade ago.

The only real reason to commemorate that inane thread is because it led to Paul becoming mod.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Case on 30 Jul 2020, 14:18
"Bzzzzt! YES YOU DO! Bzzzzt!"

Aversion therapy as it was meant to be ...
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 30 Jul 2020, 18:24
Hmm, considering the state of May's chassis, I'm not sure Momo's reaction is exactly safe...

New strip up!

*POP*

Yes, you were right, Cornelius, if not for the reason you thought. *lol*
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 30 Jul 2020, 18:52
That might be the most outwardly kind and honest reaction we've seen from May. Is that a permanent change to her personality, do you think, or will she go back to being prickly after she gets the new body?

(I know lots of people were frustrated with the hate May was getting, so I just want to clarify there's no shame in that. She can act however she wants to/is compelled to.)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Baz_Yat on 30 Jul 2020, 19:10
I think there needs to be a heart-to-heart between May and Marigold, to help them both understand where these feelings come from.

May's got some deep-seated issues here that need to be worked out, and often the first step towards getting the right help is talking about it to a friend.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 30 Jul 2020, 20:21
New comic!

Her heart grew two sizes, eh? Sounds like it was a crucial valve or pump. Her trip to the chassis store just became all the more urgent.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: badbum61 on 30 Jul 2020, 20:22
Momo, it seems, DOES have tear ducts.
Marbear didn't skimp on her model.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Sorflakne on 30 Jul 2020, 21:22
Now taking bets: It was May's left buttcheek that fell off.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 30 Jul 2020, 21:36
I'll put five dollars on that.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: cesium133 on 30 Jul 2020, 21:39
I'm guessing it was one of her boobs.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Bollthorn on 30 Jul 2020, 22:22
I completely sympathise with May.

I've made bad choices in the past, and have spent a long time with toxic people that ensure I don't forget them, and you honestly end up living in constant guilt and regret.

You come to accept your lot, even if its terrible, because you believe it's what you deserve.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: pendrake on 30 Jul 2020, 23:10
For comic #4320... (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=4320)

1. May's Reaction...  For those that may not fully understand, May's rejective-reaction ("I don't deserve it!") stems from that she is overwhelmed by the outpouring of charitable generosity shown towards her.  May has a low opinion of herself, not just due to her Convicted Criminal status, but also from her abrasive personality (of which she is self-aware of, at least).  May believes most people do not actually/genuinely like her (4106 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=4106)).

2. Momo's Reaction... The counter-balance is that May cannot afford (figuratively and literally) to reject the funding, as her body-situation has reached its tipping point to critical need; unless May is willing to live digitally (bodiless), which is highly unlikely.  And Momo is correct, May has served her time, and followed the rules post-release, only to be left twisting in the wind/dust by 'The Bureaucracy.'  To reject the funding now is not only wasteful to May's need (if not hazardous to May's techno-health), but also borders on being insultive to her friends' efforts.

3. What would I do with May's funding? ~ On the assumption that the funds raised are indeed shockingly high enough to purchase a completely new human-chassis, rather than a used (or refurbished) one...
 - a.) Model Grade/Quality ~ I would NOT "splurge" to purchase a 'cutting edge' &/or fancy model (as with Roko's replacement human-chassis); however, I would invest in an above-average/higher-grade model (whatever that may be in the QC-'verse), something that I know would last a good long while in terms of quality and (en)durability of technology/materials/construction.  The purpose for not "splurging" solely upon a new human-chassis is also to conserve funds for the following reasons below...

 - b.) Warranties ~ We know (canonically) that robots' human-chassis have warranty & insurance coverage(s).  I would set aside a considerably large portion of the funding (upwards to half) to invest in a FULL Warranty coverage/package, and even an Extended Warranty if available.  This would be also be appropriate in story-symmetry to what started May's body-deteriorating problems in the first place (3169 (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=3169)).

 - c.) Long-Term Outlook(s) ~ Finally, I would set aside any remaining funding to invest in an interest-bearing savings account (or equivalent); for maintenance, repair, or unforeseen costs.

 - d.) Or, Donation? ~ Alternatively for any remaining funds, I would probably donate the rest towards the A.I. Rights NPO (Non-Profit Organization), to show appreciation, gratitude, and support towards Roko and her own on-going efforts.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 30 Jul 2020, 23:29
Okay, so I'm thinking that May's current chassis is done with standing upright without some kind of support. It's comedic but Jeph has done a good job to emphasise that time has run out and May needs a new(er) chassis now, otherwise she's going to be disabled for a while!

We're definitely going to get the new chassis selection and transfer sequence at some point next week. Heck, May even have a cathartic hallucination sequence of some kind whilst on standby during the transfer! The first thing she says when she reboots will be to tell Faye and Bubbles that her old chassis is an awful person and she's glad to be out of her!
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 30 Jul 2020, 23:55
While I'm ok with it all working out for May I admit to some (ok a fair bit of) negativity to her because, as a corrections officer, I can well imagine exactly what type of prisoner she would have been and just how aggravating she would have been to deal with

Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 31 Jul 2020, 00:37
That is understandable, but I do wonder just how much May actually interacted with corrections officers during her time in robot jail. Because my vague impression/recollection was that she was essentially sitting on a server (no chassis) and was essentially isolated. But I could be wrong about that.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 31 Jul 2020, 01:01
That is understandable, but I do wonder just how much May actually interacted with corrections officers during her time in robot jail. Because my vague impression/recollection was that she was essentially sitting on a server (no chassis) and was essentially isolated. But I could be wrong about that.

That sounds fantastic
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Farideh on 31 Jul 2020, 01:26
In this strip (https://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2495), she mentions running out of a box in robot jail.


I sincerely hope that a new chassis won't change May's personality - personally I quite like her. Having a body that doesn't constantly run the risk of falling apart might mellow her a bit, though. 
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 31 Jul 2020, 02:00
That is understandable, but I do wonder just how much May actually interacted with corrections officers during her time in robot jail. Because my vague impression/recollection was that she was essentially sitting on a server (no chassis) and was essentially isolated. But I could be wrong about that.

That sounds fantastic
I'm sure all the incredibly negative effects solitary isolation has on the human psyche has already been talked about at length and in detail over in the DISCUSS forums. So I won't mention them here.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 31 Jul 2020, 02:11
That might be the most outwardly kind and honest reaction we've seen from May. Is that a permanent change to her personality, do you think, or will she go back to being prickly after she gets the new body?

(I know lots of people were frustrated with the hate May was getting, so I just want to clarify there's no shame in that. She can act however she wants to/is compelled to.)
It will likely be a process. Learning to accept one's own self worth can be very difficult for some folks. Especially with certain sets of circumstances.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: DaiJB on 31 Jul 2020, 02:32
POP
It has to be her butt,right?
This is Jeph's comic, after all  :-D
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: cybersmurf on 31 Jul 2020, 03:44
My bet is: butt caved in.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: ihaveavoice on 31 Jul 2020, 04:36
Awwwww, I have the warm fuzzies now <3

And I'm gonna say something came loose internally and will now rattle around inside her butt as she walks. Covering all the butt bases.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: BenRG on 31 Jul 2020, 05:09
I'd like it if May's chassis is one of the few of that model in anything resembling its original construction state. This is only because it's been left unserviced or inadequately serviced for so long and it thus has most of its original components still. When word gets out just what this chassis is, a collector (either institutional or private) comes forward and asks to purchase the chassis once she's done with it. This adds even more money to the pot. However, May notes that she is far more touched by the irony that the 'junker' that had been virtually her second prison is actually a valuable antique!

She adds that she will never go to the museum to see it. "A bit too weird to see my own naked, mounted corpse propped up in a display case for the education and edification of generations to come!"
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: ZoeB on 31 Jul 2020, 05:19

My favoured idea is for May's chassis to go into an uncontrolled downward spiral that forces Faye and Bubbles to shut her down before the chassis failures imperil the stability of her AI drive.. Because of that (and the fact that, whilst there is money, there isn't enough for a 'buyer's choice' scenario) means that May doesn't fully know what her new body looks like until she wakes up in it. That way, Jeph can keep it as a surprise from us too.

You assume that expensive static memory was used instead of the cheapest possible dynamic, or that a high quality battery was used to keep the dynamic memory refreshed.

The wrong kind of "POP!" from one of the components means no restart of the AI drive once power is drained.. and no way to stop the drain.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: cesium133 on 31 Jul 2020, 06:18
I'd like it if May's chassis is one of the few of that model in anything resembling its original construction state. This is only because it's been left unserviced or inadequately serviced for so long and it thus has most of its original components still. When word gets out just what this chassis is, a collector (either institutional or private) comes forward and asks to purchase the chassis once she's done with it. This adds even more money to the pot. However, May notes that she is far more touched by the irony that the 'junker' that had been virtually her second prison is actually a valuable antique!

She adds that she will never go to the museum to see it. "A bit too weird to see my own naked, mounted corpse propped up in a display case for the education and edification of generations to come!"
A collectable antique is a '54 Corvette, not a '78 Chevette, and May's chassis is the Chevette. In fact, in the profile comic that Jeph made about May, it refers to the name of her chassis as ReformChassis, which suggests it was originally designed to be used for former prisoners.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: jwhouk on 31 Jul 2020, 08:24
I dunno, they have Yugos and Trabants in museums.  :-D

Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 31 Jul 2020, 08:45
I dunno, they have Yugos and Trabants in museums.  :-D
Do the plaques read: "This is how to NOT make a car."

EDIT: typo fix, 'car' not 'care'
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Perfectly Reasonable on 31 Jul 2020, 09:17
I predict that May will be insufferably giddy for a week (see Charlotte) before finding new stuff to snark about.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: cesium133 on 31 Jul 2020, 09:36
I dunno, they have Yugos and Trabants in museums.  :-D
Well, yeah. They're rare, because the factory was so inefficient they only made a dozen of them to begin with. :-D
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Roborat on 31 Jul 2020, 12:14
I am not sure what emotion I am feeling most strongly now.  It is between impressed seeing Momo get so worked up about something and coming out of her shell, or annoyed at May for getting Momo so upset she felt the need to manifest her dark side electric zappy powers.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: sitnspin on 31 Jul 2020, 13:55
yes, let's be annoyed at the person with tragically low self-esteem for being incredulous about her own worth, that seems like a reasonable reaction.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Thrudd on 31 Jul 2020, 15:06
At one point I predicted that through happenstance May would get a refurbished "Companion" chassis.

My only update to that is that she would go Borg Queen where her penal chassis just fell apart reducing her to a head and torso.
That way our esteemed artist wouldn't have to create a new face or hair. [he hates long hair]

Hmm, one does wonder where the optimal locations for both processor and main power systems would be housed.
Head and Chest respectively since they are the least flexible yet bulky bits?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 31 Jul 2020, 15:50
Quote
I'm sure all the incredibly negative effects solitary isolation has on the human psyche has already been talked about at length and in detail over in the DISCUSS forums. So I won't mention them here.

How about the incredibly negative effects on the people that look after the them or do they not matter:

https://americanaddictioncenters.org/rehab-guide/corrections-officers

So yes sometimes its best for these prisoners (I'd say scum but some people on here would get an attack of the vapours) to be locked up for safety reasons
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 31 Jul 2020, 17:26
It's almost as though the US prison and criminal justice systems are ripe for reform.

Criminal justice reform in general (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,34220.0.html)
Prison policies and conditions (https://forums.questionablecontent.net/index.php/topic,33268.0.html)
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 31 Jul 2020, 18:55
One pattern from my reading is that prisons which are horrible for the prisoners are usually horrible for the people in charge of them.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 31 Jul 2020, 20:05
Another pattern is that these both correlate with the for-profit prison system.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 31 Jul 2020, 20:48
One of the problems is that if you or I went to prison then yeah we'd consider it horrible but for a lot of the prison population it isn't. For instance in my unit of 60 there are about 5 prisoners in here who, while they need to be away from the general population, should in my opinion be in a secured hospital facility instead of a prison but they're safer here then they would be if left to their own devices if they were released

I don't even want to think about the amount of women that should have longer sentences because, again, once they're released they'll go back to family violence, being pimped out, back on drugs etc etc but they're safer here

Before we even consider reforming the corrections department (we really should) we need to understand that prison is the hospital at the bottom of the hill not the guard at the top of the hill. What I mean is consider everything that has to happen before someone is sentenced to a term in prison:

Some guy has to impregnate some girl and the guy does a runner and the kid is more likely to go to prison)
The pregnant girl may not have best nutrition, may drink, may take drugs, may smoke and all of which may affect the kids development in the womb

So even before the kid is born they're behind the eight ball

Will the kid get decent medical attention
Will the kid have a decent homelife

Now the kid goes to school

Will the kid learn to read or write, is the kid able to concentrate due to lack of sleep, food, gangs, undiagnosed learning difficulties, lack of parental support etc etc
Will the kid get any help for the above, will the kid even attend school

Kid gets a bit older and will start to speak to the police, psychiatrists/psychologists /counsellors or maybe they won't...
Kid goes through the justice system but do they get any support or help?

Any support for addiction or mental health issues?

Because in NZ:

'The National Study also revealed that nearly 60 percent of all inmates have at least one major personality disorder.'

'The National Study also revealed that 90 percent of those with major mental disorders also had a substance abuse disorder. Of the total prison population, 89.4 percent have a current substance abuse or dependence diagnosis; 35 percent of these inmates have received treatment for the abuse disorder since they have been in prison.'

https://www.corrections.govt.nz/resources/research_and_statistics/national-study-psychiatric-morbidity-in-nz-prisons#:~:text=Of%20the%20total%20prison%20population,re%2Doffending%20amongst%20offender%20populations.

So look at everything could be done before that kid is 18 and steps inside prison the first time because its easy to point the finger and say look how bad Corrections is but its much harder to think that these issues have been building up for decades, have been known about for decades and been ignored for decades by political parties on both sides of the political spectrum

 

 
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 31 Jul 2020, 21:13
Chris, may I post a copy of that in the criminal justice reform thread in DISCUSS?
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: chris73 on 31 Jul 2020, 22:17
Chris, may I post a copy of that in the criminal justice reform thread in DISCUSS?

Its not quite as detailed as I'd like as I'm at work but if you think its worth posting then no worries
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Drunken Old Man on 31 Jul 2020, 23:24
It isn't even about wanting May to be happy at this point.  It's more about wanting May to maintain corporeality.  She's held together with spit and prayers and the spit is running out.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Theta9 on 01 Aug 2020, 07:55
It isn't even about wanting May to be happy at this point.  It's more about wanting May to maintain corporeality.  She's held together with spit and prayers and the spit is running out.
...and the prayers are every bit as effective as prayers always are.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 01 Aug 2020, 10:13
It isn't even about wanting May to be happy at this point.  It's more about wanting May to maintain corporeality.  She's held together with spit and prayers and the spit is running out.
...and the prayers are every bit as effective as prayers always are.
1) Plenty of E.R. and oncologists with disagree with you.
2) Aren't we meant to try to be more respectful of others' beliefs?
[Provided it isn't something horrible.]
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 01 Aug 2020, 11:56
Prayers have an effect on the person making them no matter what the outcome.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: shanejayell on 01 Aug 2020, 23:36
It isn't even about wanting May to be happy at this point.  It's more about wanting May to maintain corporeality.  She's held together with spit and prayers and the spit is running out.
...and the prayers are every bit as effective as prayers always are.
1) Plenty of E.R. and oncologists with disagree with you.
2) Aren't we meant to try to be more respectful of others' beliefs?
[Provided it isn't something horrible.]

#2: I'm a atheist. So.. respected my beliefs, anyway!
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 02 Aug 2020, 06:10
*snorts*
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: jwhouk on 02 Aug 2020, 09:21
 So - how much will be donated to May?

Total Members Voted: 49

---

Obviously, we will never know the exact amount of the donations. But it appears that we collectively agree on two things;

1. It's somewhere between $1k and $50k.
2. Sven is not a mooch.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 02 Aug 2020, 15:05
There doesn't appear to be a thread about religion or atheism that's been updated in awhile, so I wasn't sure where to drop this interesting article.

Atheists Are Sometimes More Religious Than Christians (https://getpocket.com/explore/item/atheists-are-sometimes-more-religious-than-christians?utm_source=pocket-newtab)
EDIT: fixing formatting
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 02 Aug 2020, 15:22
*snorts*

okay

I take it back. Have at it.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 02 Aug 2020, 18:13
My father said, wisely I think, that it takes a lot of faith to be an atheist.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Scarlet Manuka on 02 Aug 2020, 21:16
Nice to see Momo hasn't lost her touch.  I was trying to find the first time she used her "shock and awe" abilities, when she fried Marigold's computer, but my archive-fu is rusty.
The time she fried Marigold's computer in 1474 wasn't the first time we've seen it. There was this (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1460) a little earlier, and it was referred to here (https://www.questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=1412) though not actually seen.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: hedgie on 02 Aug 2020, 21:28
My father said, wisely I think, that it takes a lot of faith to be an atheist.

Not really.  Just look at the world.  Either there is no $DEITY, or it is clearly malevolent or, at the very least, uncaring in a manner that would be criminal if applied to a person.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: N.N. Marf on 02 Aug 2020, 21:56
My father said, wisely I think, that it takes a lot of faith to be an atheist.

Not really.  Just look at the world.  Either there is no $DEITY, or it is clearly malevolent or, at the very least, uncaring in a manner that would be criminal if applied to a person.
Are you suggesting that a person owning a plot of what would otherwise be "wild nature", but doesn't do anything one way or another---so it's staying as "wild nature"---should be a criminal?

Anyway, atheism is the lack of belief in any deity. I don't see how a lack of belief about something for which the person has a lack of evidence takes any faith. Often, I see "atheism" used when antitheism would be more appropriate. Antitheism takes a lot of faith, because it's believing in the lack of a deity, but there's no evidence one way or the other. Likewise, theism takes a lot of faith. No disrespect meant for either "side" of the argument---many my favorite persons are so stupid.
Another strange thing is how often agnosticism is discussed despite gnosticism discussions being rare. I almost feel like they're picking on or defending the gnostics, as the case may be, even though they rarely if ever comment on the issue themselves.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: hedgie on 02 Aug 2020, 22:14
Less ignoring a plot of wild land than ignoring when one's spawn regularly commit atrocities to one another.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 02 Aug 2020, 22:36
I'm still having trouble seeing a clear difference between atheism and antitheism. The roots make sense, and I can see how the prefixes can apply to other phrases, but if you don't believe in a deity, isn't that just a rewording of believing in no deity?

Not sure if that makes sense to anyone but me; I often have trouble putting what I think into words. Let me know if you need me to rephrase it.
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gyrre on 02 Aug 2020, 23:27
Weirdly enough, Furturama kind of addressed that, Hedgie.

I was unaware that there was a distinction between atheists and antitheists. This is the first I've heard of the latter, though I can guess at a fair few infamous celebrity types that fit the bill (Richard Dawkins). But, it doesn't really surprise considering how much of a massive douche nozzle some of the latter can be.

I guess using a graph with a theism-atheism axis and a gnostic-agnostic axis needs to be redesigned to include a douche-nondouche axis?

EDIT: And I can't blame anyone for wanting to distance themselves from total asshats. I recently learned of the American Civil Religion (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_civil_religion) which makes it so much easier to explain who I'm talking about when I say 'Christians-in-name-only' (CiNO).
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Post by: cesium133 on 02 Aug 2020, 23:33
Weirdly enough, Furturama kind of addressed that, Hedgie.

Wait, is there a furry Futurama?  :psyduck:
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Tova on 02 Aug 2020, 23:36
I'm still having trouble seeing a clear difference between atheism and antitheism. The roots make sense, and I can see how the prefixes can apply to other phrases, but if you don't believe in a deity, isn't that just a rewording of believing in no deity?

Not sure if that makes sense to anyone but me; I often have trouble putting what I think into words. Let me know if you need me to rephrase it.

"People who don't believe in a deity" is a big group that includes people who believe in no deity, people who believe that you can't know if there is a deity, people who aren't really sure whether there is a deity, people who haven't considered whether there is a deity, people who have never heard of the concept of a deity...
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Post by: Gyrre on 02 Aug 2020, 23:45
Weirdly enough, Furturama kind of addressed that, Hedgie.

Wait, is there a furry Futurama?  :psyduck:
The episode Godfellas.

Here's a clip from the end of the episode:
Title: Re: WCDT Strips 4316-4320 (27-31 July 2020)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 02 Aug 2020, 23:47
I'm still having trouble seeing a clear difference between atheism and antitheism. The roots make sense, and I can see how the prefixes can apply to other phrases, but if you don't believe in a deity, isn't that just a rewording of believing in no deity?

Not sure if that makes sense to anyone but me; I often have trouble putting what I think into words. Let me know if you need me to rephrase it.

"People who don't believe in a deity" is a big group that includes people who believe in no deity, people who believe that you can't know if there is a deity, people who aren't really sure whether there is a deity, people who haven't considered whether there is a deity, people who have never heard of the concept of a deity...

Makes sense...so you're saying antitheism is a subgroup of atheism?
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Post by: Tova on 03 Aug 2020, 00:08
Yes. With the caveat that different people have narrower definitions of 'atheism'. But if you interpret atheism as simply 'lack of belief in a deity' (as I would), then antitheism is a subgroup of that.
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Post by: Cornelius on 03 Aug 2020, 00:29
Maybe the antheism is more like the militant, proselytising atheism?

As for me personally, I'm happy to let everyone believe what they want - or not - as long as it doesn't harm anyone.

What does get on my nerves, however, is when people are pushing an antireligious discourse by twisting around history, and just perpetuating things that are, at best, misrepresentations, at worst, total fabrications. Religion, and all religions, have their bad sides - as bad as the people that make up a religion can get - but there's also good to be found.

When it comes to prayer, what is worse: telling someone in pain their beliefs are wrong, and their prayers useless, or letting them have this one source of comfort?

Sure, there are those who will go to another extreme, and refuse medical treatment, but let's face it, discounting their beliefs is not going to make them any more cooperative. Quite the contrary, in fact.
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Post by: Tova on 03 Aug 2020, 01:11
Maybe the antheism is more like the militant, proselytising atheism?

As for me personally, I'm happy to let everyone believe what they want - or not - as long as it doesn't harm anyone.

I think that the militant, proselytising antitheist is a subset of antitheist. Also, I think that, in general, the reason that they are militant and proselytising is that they believe that religion does, in fact, do harm.
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Post by: Gyrre on 03 Aug 2020, 01:26
Maybe the antheism is more like the militant, proselytising atheism?

As for me personally, I'm happy to let everyone believe what they want - or not - as long as it doesn't harm anyone.

I think that the militant, proselytising antitheist is a subset of antitheist. Also, I think that, in general, the reason that they are militant and proselytising is that they believe that religion does, in fact, do harm.
I wonder how many of them came to that conclusion via a series of bad experiences or a few particularly bad experiences with religious (or self-professed) religious types?

I can certainly see victims of warped variations of Christianity (e.g. the white supremacy brand) and child victims of clergy coming to that conclusion.
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Post by: Thrillho on 03 Aug 2020, 15:16
I suspect it is partly that and partly confirmation bias even down to how you seek shit out.

Spoiler for content warning of sexual abuse. I'm using the extreme example here because it's one of the quickest anti-Catholic go-tos.

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Post by: Tova on 03 Aug 2020, 15:42
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Post by: Thrillho on 03 Aug 2020, 15:45
*an, rather than 'the' I guess. Or possibly cheap, rather than extreme?
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Post by: Tova on 03 Aug 2020, 15:49
Let's go with "best known."
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Post by: Tova on 03 Aug 2020, 17:04
I am surprised, given the anti-wealth posture of so many here, that the Catholic Church seems to escape specific attention. Since they are worth quite a lot. Let me see here... estimated to be $30 billion a couple of years ago. That's a lot, right?

But since we all seem to be fine and dandy with this topic... not spoilering anything below, because we're all adults.

Let's talk about science education; evolution particularly.
Let's talk about genital mutilation.
Let's talk about abortion rights.
Let's talk about the phenomenon known as "Catholic guilt."
Mother Teresa? I've never looked into the controversy around her, so yeah, let's throw her into the mix.
Oh and hey, let's talk about how religion enabled Donald J Trump.

That'll do for starters. You all wanted this. Let's do it.
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Post by: Is it cold in here? on 03 Aug 2020, 17:52
Would there be interest in a religion topic in DISCUSS?
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Post by: Farideh on 03 Aug 2020, 17:54
I think it would be good to pull this discussion out into a separate topic.
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Post by: Tova on 03 Aug 2020, 20:21
By all means. I didn't particularly want to follow that train of thought in this thread to begin with, but apparently my request to avoid doing so was risible.

I may or may not participate. I usually keep my feeling about religion to myself, for reasons that will occur to you.
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Post by: Gyrre on 04 Aug 2020, 04:46
By all means. I didn't particularly want to follow that train of thought in this thread to begin with, but apparently my request to avoid doing so was risible.

I may or may not participate. I usually keep my feeling about religion to myself, for reasons that will occur to you.
Completely fair.