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Title: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 26 Sep 2021, 19:13
New comic!

Well, it makes sense Robots might get depressed....
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: St.Clair on 26 Sep 2021, 21:32
re the corner tag, subtitle, whatever:

"oh no"
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 26 Sep 2021, 22:02
I know I've been saying this for months, but I bet Faye's gonna refer him to Dr. Buenvenida.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gyrre on 27 Sep 2021, 01:22
I know I've been saying this for months, but I bet Faye's gonna refer him to Dr. Buenvenida.

*scratches head*
Have we seen this bot before?
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 27 Sep 2021, 02:45
https://questionablecontent.fandom.com/wiki/Doctor_Corrine_Buenvenida
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 27 Sep 2021, 04:02
I'm not sure how I view today's comic. Is it a filler or the start of a new arc? If it's the latter (which seems more likely due to the lack of a clear punchline), then it means we have another new character.

On the other hand, it does seem to support the argument that Jeph has started writing his autobiography in disconnected sections via various established and new characters.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: John Allenson on 27 Sep 2021, 06:17
I honestly thought the character's name was "Howdy"  as in Howdy Doody.

It would be a cool reference.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: JimC on 27 Sep 2021, 07:24
I thought it was Winslow with a different haircut, but maybe its just the same chassis model.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Perfectly Reasonable on 27 Sep 2021, 07:38
Taller and bulkier than Winslow, different skin and hair color. Though Winslow has had his down moments.
I'd get the basic checks done first-- make sure everything is tight and lubed.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: notStanley on 27 Sep 2021, 09:20
Oh, if only it could be "just" re-seating some chips & cables, and checking the coolant.  Diagnostics, maybe replace a bad memory stick.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: baronvonfritz on 27 Sep 2021, 09:34
We all had the bowl cut in the 90s Jeph
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Roborat on 27 Sep 2021, 11:35
Kinda expecting his name to be Marvin.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 27 Sep 2021, 15:30
Kinda expecting his name to be Marvin.

Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy! :D
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: David F on 27 Sep 2021, 15:43
it does seem to support the argument that Jeph has started writing his autobiography in disconnected sections via various established and new characters.

Started? 

I suspect there's a lot of Jeph's life tied up in his characters in many ways... but the "buy an 8-string guitar" bit felt especially so, and that was some time back.  (And a look at footnote 159 on Marten's page on the wiki confirms that suspicion.)  2418 is almost half the strip's lifetime ago.

Edited for getting Marten's name wrong.  Oops.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Farideh on 27 Sep 2021, 18:33
I think it would be very hard for any piece of art to NOT be autobiographical in some way.

Re. new comic: Faye, no. It would likely be better to send him to Winslow's group and then work from there. I feel for him though: I was also always picked last for any team-based motor coordination sims activities.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 27 Sep 2021, 19:13
Bubbles: FAYE, NO.

*lol*
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: neurocase on 27 Sep 2021, 23:19
Very curious to find out how this is broken down in QC-world. What with depression being caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and all that. What's the reason for AI who don't have those, and are otherwise able to have maintenance done to fix a large variety of issues; the human versions of which would be debilitating, rather than mildly inconvenient.

Roko's disassociation, I never questioned. She's a conscious being in an unfamiliar body under traumatic circumstances. But given what we know of depression, I'm very interested to see how the root cause differs for AI.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 28 Sep 2021, 01:14
What with depression being caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and all that.

I don't think it's quite as simple as that.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: traroth on 28 Sep 2021, 01:34
Faye is increasingly making Bubbles her ethical compass...
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 28 Sep 2021, 01:35
I want Faye to have a version of Lucy van Pelt's front yard therapy booth.

Therapy: $1/minute!

The Doctor is [IN]

YES! We have Percussive Reboot Therapy!
All guarantees, warranties and indemnities explicitly denied - WYSIWYG
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Mr_Rose on 28 Sep 2021, 04:35
Faye is increasingly making Bubbles her ethical compass...
This is surprising?
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 28 Sep 2021, 05:15
Did you read surprise into that comment?
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: snubnose on 28 Sep 2021, 05:48
[...] What with depression being caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and all that. [...]
Thats when theres a medical reason for the depression.

But you can be depressed for real reasons, too. You lost a friend, your long lasting relationship failed, you suffer from loneliness, you are getting bullied, you are in prison and they isolated you, you got a serious permanent injury like losing a limb or going blind, you have a serious disease like cancer that hurts you and might kill you, etc etc etc.


Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: notStanley on 28 Sep 2021, 10:47
...
YES! We have Percussive Reboot Therapy!
All guarantees, warranties and indemnities explicitly denied - WYSIWYG
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Sounds like that would be as (in)effective as the few times I 've tried talking to someone.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 28 Sep 2021, 18:01
[...] What with depression being caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and all that. [...]
Thats when theres a medical reason for the depression.

But you can be depressed for real reasons, too. You lost a friend, your long lasting relationship failed, you suffer from loneliness, you are getting bullied, you are in prison and they isolated you, you got a serious permanent injury like losing a limb or going blind, you have a serious disease like cancer that hurts you and might kill you, etc etc etc.

Those are things to feel sad and unhappy about, which is different from the malignant nothingness of depression that Allie Brosh explained so well at Hyperbole and a Half.

The life-changing idea I got from the psychologically deep movie "Inside Out" was that sadness can counter depression.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Wombat on 28 Sep 2021, 18:36
[...] What with depression being caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and all that. [...]
Thats when theres a medical reason for the depression.

But you can be depressed for real reasons, too. You lost a friend, your long lasting relationship failed, you suffer from loneliness, you are getting bullied, you are in prison and they isolated you, you got a serious permanent injury like losing a limb or going blind, you have a serious disease like cancer that hurts you and might kill you, etc etc etc.

Those are things to feel sad and unhappy about, which is different from the malignant nothingness of depression that Allie Brosh explained so well at Hyperbole and a Half.

The life-changing idea I got from the psychologically deep movie "Inside Out" was that sadness can counter depression.
Those are also things that can contribute to depression as well. Being sad and having depression are different, yes, but there can be an overlap in contributing factors, and depression can present in a variety of ways.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gyrre on 28 Sep 2021, 20:58
[...] What with depression being caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and all that. [...]
Thats when theres a medical reason for the depression.

But you can be depressed for real reasons, too. You lost a friend, your long lasting relationship failed, you suffer from loneliness, you are getting bullied, you are in prison and they isolated you, you got a serious permanent injury like losing a limb or going blind, you have a serious disease like cancer that hurts you and might kill you, etc etc etc.

Phrasing. Maybe 'situational' in place of 'real'?

Clinical depression runs in my family. We can get double-whammied sometimes with both the chemical imbalance and depression brought about by our current situation. For example, my younger brother is a friendless extrovert (it's not my place to divulge tbe reasons why).
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 28 Sep 2021, 23:02
Ah! So, now we get into the comedy!

Today's strip reminded me of the epilogue of Iron Man 3, when Bruce Banner tells Tony Stark that he never became a therapist because he doesn't have the temperament for it. I think that's definitely the case with Faye here: She doesn't want to listen to people's sexual hang-ups and how they think that's impacted their emotional development!

Maybe someone can help me here. For some reason, Bubbles' face seems subtly 'off model' in this strip. Is it just me or does anyone else see it too?
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: snubnose on 29 Sep 2021, 00:38
Those are things to feel sad and unhappy about, which is different from the malignant nothingness of depression that Allie Brosh explained so well at Hyperbole and a Half.
No you can get a full depression from it, and people suicide because of such things.

Like for example the author of Conan the barbarian, Robert Ervin Howard, couldnt take it that his mother had died.

Another example is PTSD that for example rape victims, prostitutes and soldiers who experienced war can get.


[...] For some reason, Bubbles' face seems subtly 'off model' in this strip. Is it just me or does anyone else see it too?
Artstyle changes all the time ... n ot so much recently anymore, sure, but a bit of variation is to be expected.

And I dont see it, sorry.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 29 Sep 2021, 06:59
Or Bubbles is manifesting, 'Dude, WTF?' face....
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Farideh on 29 Sep 2021, 13:48
I do love how Faye and Bubbles keep passing the buck back-and-forth here. Neither of them want to deal with 'Marvin'.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 29 Sep 2021, 19:11
Poor Faye. "GO SEE A THERAPIST, DAMN IT."
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: John Allenson on 29 Sep 2021, 20:13
Yes!
Boundaries are there for the therapists' sakes just as much as for the clients.  It takes training to be able to listen to other people's problems without getting damaged.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 29 Sep 2021, 20:38
Yes, that does mean there is a new comic, for anyone who was wondering.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 29 Sep 2021, 20:40
Faye also really does need to charge him for the time, too. Its not like she could do other work with him there....
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Near Lurker on 29 Sep 2021, 22:36
On the one hand, she probably could have and did.  On the other hand, she probably will, at her standard labor rate.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 29 Sep 2021, 23:16
Pinkerton, old son, that may be me but have you wondered that some of your problem may be due to the fact that you are self-absorbed and insist that reality conform to what you want it to be, no matter what people explicitly say to your face? This is just a guess on my part but I believe that this could lead you to lots of social problems that might impact your mental balance.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gyrre on 29 Sep 2021, 23:22
Faye basically embodying my attitude towards my younger brother talking/wanting to talk my ear off about al of troubles when I'm completely out of social energy.

EDIT: completing the thought
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: DaiJB on 30 Sep 2021, 00:18
On the bright side, this single "therapy" session could probably pay off some of Union Robotics' more pressing bills!
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: snubnose on 30 Sep 2021, 01:13
Well, Jeff Besoz could afford Faye, EASY.

He makes around $200,000 per minute. At thats assuming he would work 24/7.

(According to a quick Google, anyway)
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Potato Farmer on 30 Sep 2021, 05:55
Pinkerton, old son, that may be me but have you wondered that some of your problem may be due to the fact that you are self-absorbed and insist that reality conform to what you want it to be, no matter what people explicitly say to your face? This is just a guess on my part but I believe that this could lead you to lots of social problems that might impact your mental balance.

Yeah, first reaction to this page was "Guy's kind of a jerk."
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: theMarc on 30 Sep 2021, 08:56
"Go see a therapist. And while you're at it, you can hire a private investigator as well, because you clearly need to get a clue."
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Farideh on 30 Sep 2021, 19:39
New comic.

Jeez, that guy just can't take a hint!
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: DaiJB on 30 Sep 2021, 20:57
Augh, now they'll have to add a disclaimer to their website:
"We do not claim to be psychotherapists, nor do we advertise any such service. We supply physical parts, repair and maintenance ONLY."

-And if they want to be really crystal-clear:
"Any attempt to portray our business as supplying any such service will be regarded as grounds for legal action."
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 30 Sep 2021, 23:21
I wonder if Pinkerton is currently telling all his on-line 'friends' about Faye's 'wonderful reverse psychology'?

Poor Bubbles! She just can't fully believe that Faye is seriously into her, can she? There will always be a part of her that just doesn't believe that she is loveable. That's sad, but it says good things about Faye that she's sticking with what must be a very difficult relationship sometimes.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: snubnose on 30 Sep 2021, 23:40
So ... another prediction for the future ... *foreboding*



Besides, since robots are basically people in this comic, its an interesting longterm conflict that they cannot age.

That means one day Bubbles will be without Faye, while she will still be "young". I wonder if she will decide to "die" at this point.

With improvements of genetics, I think at some point in the future we will make our species have the same property though.

Especially since some animals already dont age either: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negligible_senescence

So far no chance of also getting a new body though, like Roko. However various animals also can basically regrow any body part - another ability that we will probably gain in future, thanks to genetics.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 01 Oct 2021, 00:08
Besides, since robots are basically people in this comic, its an interesting longterm conflict that they cannot age.

That means one day Bubbles will be without Faye, while she will still be "young". I wonder if she will decide to "die" at this point.

FWIW, my headcanon is that Bubbles is working on a new body for Faye when the current one wears out.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 01 Oct 2021, 00:15
Agreed that Bubbles's relationship insecurity comes from within. Faye has agreed on "forever".
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 01 Oct 2021, 01:54
I am surprised by the reaction to Bubbles here. I don't see what she said as reflecting insecurity.

Sometimes relationships end in spite of the very best of intentions in the world. Sad but true.

To simply assume that a relationship will last forever, while romantic, is not just naive; it's kinda taking someone's love for granted.

Bubbles will never do that.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 01 Oct 2021, 02:06
What is the deal with calling Winslow "Pinkerton", by the way? Out of curiosity.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: BenRG on 01 Oct 2021, 03:10
What is the deal with calling Winslow "Pinkerton", by the way? Out of curiosity.

That malebot isn't Winslow. A similar chassis model, perhaps.

Unless the quoted post is irony of some sort? I'm bad at identifying that.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 01 Oct 2021, 03:48
You're right. I dunno why I thought it was. It's been awhile since I've seen Winslow, I guess.

Still lost on the Pinkerton thing, though.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: cesium133 on 01 Oct 2021, 04:05
What is the deal with calling Winslow "Pinkerton", by the way? Out of curiosity.
That wasn’t Winslow (Though he does look similar)
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Ghanima Atreides on 01 Oct 2021, 04:30

Still lost on the Pinkerton thing, though.

I assume it's due to him having a pink chassis.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Mr_Rose on 01 Oct 2021, 04:31
You're right. I dunno why I thought it was. It's been awhile since I've seen Winslow, I guess.

Still lost on the Pinkerton thing, though.
They’re pink? I mean I think it’s just meant to be a “clever” play on words.
It’s not like we’ve seen their name used. Other people coined “Marvin” for them as another potential placeholder.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 01 Oct 2021, 06:53
Poor Faye.  :laugh:
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Perfectly Reasonable on 01 Oct 2021, 07:44
I am pleased to see that Faye has professional ethics.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Marco on 01 Oct 2021, 10:45
Augh, now they'll have to add a disclaimer to their website:
"We do not claim to be psychotherapists, nor do we advertise any such service. We supply physical parts, repair and maintenance ONLY."

-And if they want to be really crystal-clear:
"Any attempt to portray our business as supplying any such service will be regarded as grounds for legal action."

We may add that disclaimer to these forums too, just in case.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: David F on 01 Oct 2021, 11:29
Sure, Faye knows she not only has no training in psychotherapy, but that she's also enough of a mess that advising anyone *else* on the topic seems unwise to her.

However, she'd be a great "robot life coach" - a semi-sympathetic ear and willingness (perhaps eagerness) to provide that kick in the ass you need to get moving in the right direction.

Price List
Listening to your problems: $20/hr
Listening to your problems sympathetically: $40/hr
Ass-kicking: Free
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: notStanley on 01 Oct 2021, 11:48
What is the deal with calling Winslow "Pinkerton", by the way? Out of curiosity.

I thought "Pinkerton" was referring the rando that thinks Faye is a psychologist? 
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gyrre on 01 Oct 2021, 14:47
Augh, now they'll have to add a disclaimer to their website:
"We do not claim to be psychotherapists, nor do we advertise any such service. We supply physical parts, repair and maintenance ONLY."

-And if they want to be really crystal-clear:
"Any attempt to portray our business as supplying any such service will be regarded as grounds for legal action."

We may add that disclaimer to these forums too, just in case.
Couldn't hurt.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gyrre on 01 Oct 2021, 15:07
I wonder if Pinkerton is currently telling all his on-line 'friends' about Faye's 'wonderful reverse psychology'?

Poor Bubbles! She just can't fully believe that Faye is seriously into her, can she? There will always be a part of her that just doesn't believe that she is loveable. That's sad, but it says good things about Faye that she's sticking with what must be a very difficult relationship sometimes.

I was reading it as her trying to be reassuring to Faye. Emotional instability is a major factor in many cases of people 'falling off the wagon'.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Dynamitochondria on 01 Oct 2021, 15:57
Re: "Faye climbed up there real quick"

To be honest, if I were in a physically intimate relationship with Bubbles, I would climb her every chance I got, and likely get very quick at it.

So... go Faye.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Farideh on 01 Oct 2021, 18:01
I am surprised by the reaction to Bubbles here. I don't see what she said as reflecting insecurity.

Sometimes relationships end in spite of the very best of intentions in the world. Sad but true.

To simply assume that a relationship will last forever, while romantic, is not just naive; it's kinda taking someone's love for granted.

Bubbles will never do that.


I agree with this take. My husband and I love each other and get along well (most of the time anyway), but we do sometimes talk about 'what if our relationship falls apart?' Because it might, and we both hope that:


a. it won't be a horrendous breakup
b. we will still be friends (or at least cordial to each other)


I hope it doesn't happen anytime soon - I'd be losing one of my best friends.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Jimor on 01 Oct 2021, 22:24
As a streamer, that kind of forcing others to be your therapist is something I see way too often. Fortunately, not often in my own stream, but setting that boundary is something a lot of my friends and I have had to be very careful about. A quick vent about a bad day is fine, but too many people take advantage of the live nature of the medium to dump far too much personal information into chat and expect everybody to stop the flow and deal with it.

And in at least one case I know of, a streamer did the opposite of Faye and tried turning his stream into a giant open unqualified therapy session, causing all kinds of unknown damage and backlash. Fortunately that didn't last long, but he quit doing it blaming "cancel culture" rather than understanding what a bad idea it was.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Potato Farmer on 02 Oct 2021, 04:52
As a streamer, that kind of forcing others to be your therapist is something I see way too often. Fortunately, not often in my own stream, but setting that boundary is something a lot of my friends and I have had to be very careful about. A quick vent about a bad day is fine, but too many people take advantage of the live nature of the medium to dump far too much personal information into chat and expect everybody to stop the flow and deal with it.

And in at least one case I know of, a streamer did the opposite of Faye and tried turning his stream into a giant open unqualified therapy session, causing all kinds of unknown damage and backlash. Fortunately that didn't last long, but he quit doing it blaming "cancel culture" rather than understanding what a bad idea it was.
Easier to blame some enigmatic force than to acknowledge that maybe you aren't qualified for a certain task.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Is it cold in here? on 02 Oct 2021, 19:30
Now I'm remembering pwhodges pointing out that every relationship ends in a breakup except the ones that end with a funeral.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Tova on 02 Oct 2021, 19:48
Coincidentally...

Don’t mention the pandemic: Why hairdressers want you to avoid COVID talk in the chair (https://www.smh.com.au/national/nsw/don-t-mention-the-pandemic-why-hairdressers-want-you-to-avoid-covid-talk-in-the-chair-20211001-p58wff.htm)

(paywall, but limited number of free articles available)

Quote
Deborah Bradshaw, owner of Hair Angel in Balmain, has even launched a campaign, Keep your mane sane, to encourage “a COVID conversation-free environment in the salon”.

“We are not trained therapists and the unintentional unload of their stresses, whether it may be a marriage breakup, work challenges or health concerns, can have a huge impact on the hairdresser,” she said.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: shanejayell on 02 Oct 2021, 21:11
Yeah, I work retail. A few times I've had LONG conversations with folks who just needed to vent to someone....
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: hedgie on 03 Oct 2021, 09:29
Everyone knows that’s what bartenders are for.  Although, therapy is generally healthier and quite a bit cheaper.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: St.Clair on 03 Oct 2021, 20:43
It has been said (many times) that there is significant overlap between the professions of counselor/therapist, priest, and bartender.  (And sometimes barber.)
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Jimor on 05 Oct 2021, 02:10
As a streamer, that kind of forcing others to be your therapist is something I see way too often. Fortunately, not often in my own stream, but setting that boundary is something a lot of my friends and I have had to be very careful about. A quick vent about a bad day is fine, but too many people take advantage of the live nature of the medium to dump far too much personal information into chat and expect everybody to stop the flow and deal with it.

And in at least one case I know of, a streamer did the opposite of Faye and tried turning his stream into a giant open unqualified therapy session, causing all kinds of unknown damage and backlash. Fortunately that didn't last long, but he quit doing it blaming "cancel culture" rather than understanding what a bad idea it was.

Holy shit, I should have knocked on wood. Just had a stream where shortly after it started, somebody said (paraphrased) "Can I talk to you after stream? I'm having a bad time and I think it would be best if I ended everything tonight"

The person previous talked in my chat (we can look up chat history in our dashboard) in January with some normal "hello, how are you" chit chat, and hasn't ever spoken up other than that. I deleted the message, and suggested calling actual professional help. And they just said "LOL, I ain't calling anybody, I'll handle it myself".

I really don't know what to say beyond that.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Gnabberwocky on 09 Oct 2021, 20:47
Now I'm remembering pwhodges pointing out that every relationship ends in a breakup except the ones that end with a funeral.

*cue existential crisis*
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Romanticide on 10 Oct 2021, 13:48
Or maybe Claire could just acept the idea that eventully the expresso machine will stain her, or any of the food products and that clothes are ephemeral anyways and just make sure she doesn't bring out her favorites or the most expensive without something to protect them XD
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: ischaemia on 10 Oct 2021, 17:43
Damned if Claire's post education experience of not being able to find a position and having to settle for a service job isn't the very definition of the millenial post college experience. I know tagging stuff with "same" "haha me" and "#relateable" is also very millenial, but I guess it would have been a more concise way to encapsulate my feelings about the most recent (Friday) comic, which I now realise I posted about in the wrong thread.
Title: Re: WCDT Sep 27th - Oct 1st (4621-4625)
Post by: Wingy on 12 Oct 2021, 11:17
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Ass-kicking: Free
Fixing the damage Bubbles did to your ass: quotes given free.