Niomi, like easilyamused, I'd like to know what part of Faye’s dealing (or not) with her trauma you consider unrealistic.
Trying not to deal with it.
Puulleeezze. Everybody does that one. It’s the Human Way.
Bitching at friends and family, even being abusive because of it.
I’ve seen many people do that. Even the punching. Although that was, to an extent, a gag, I know of a person who slapped people, however lightly, ‘in fun.’ Folks didn’t always take it that way, though.
Trying to isolate herself/pushing people away.
Well, at least Faye is aware she does this. All too many people aren’t, even when they are doing everything short of shoving a flaming torch in people’s faces.
Drinking to excess.
Discombobulated Persons survey says: wow, 90%! And 8% of those who don’t would if they thought they could get away with it. (Dry counties, religious extremists in the family and etc. stand in the way). At least she’s not doing drugs.
Moaning about her problems
Oh god, I’m not even going to start on this one.
Being honest about what’s going on.
Okay, you got me. Most trauma survivors do not do this until forced to by a muscular therapist with a bullwhip. Shame on you, Jeph, for being so darned unrealistic. To be more realistic, Faye should be telling everyone: “Problem? I haven’t got a problem! You’re the one with the problem!” Wait, I think she did that with the drinking, at least briefly. But that’s too little, too late, Jacques.
Semi-voluntarily taking steps, some big, some small, to try to get better.
Again, like, totally unrealistic dude. Very few people do this unless, again, persons, circumstances, or both force them too. Some can’t be forced. Bad Jeph! Bad!
I will be the first to admit that Jeph is no Faulkner, and Faye, no Quentin Compson. I will also privately admit Thank GOD. Because I read QC for entertainment, not kathairein, although I sometimes inadvertently get that. Given that the main impetus behind QC are obscure, often-mopey bands, whacky situations and light humor, though, I think Jeph does a darned good job of making Faye ‘real.’
Which is probably, of course, why people dislike her. Nobody likes real, just like nobody reads The Sound and the Fury for light entertainment. Anyone who tells you that’s what they get from that book this is pulling your chain, trying to be self-important, or is someone you need to get the hell away from, fast. Maybe all of the above.
I personally find Marten to be a more unrealistic character than Faye. I also think it revealing that when he does become fairly realistic, such as when Marten vents about what he calls Faye’s double message, people want to call Jeph on it. Why? I suspect because that is realistic. One can only play Job for so long (Unless one actually is Job, I suppose. But then it's not playing), and Marten's been Job to Faye for longer than anyone who doesn't have issues themselves could. (Alert! Canoworms at Five 'o clock!)
But the truth is, Jeph can write a comic that’s little more than a series of gags such as some of his colleagues do, or he can venture beyond this. While not entirely abandoning the gags (hence Pintsize, Hannelore, et. al.), he has elected to go beyond that and to allow QC to grow into something, well, other. (What? For crying out loud, I don't know, but I like it.)
Hooray for Jeph Jacques, sez I. And, more importantly, hooray for me (I get to read it)! Maybe hooray for all of us.