That was one) narrowminded, humourless and made huge, sweeping generalisations in as casual a manner as I order a pizza when I can't be bothered to cook (often). It was also 2) incredibly racist and naiive. Obviously, and by her own admission, the author of this travesty against well-thought out arguments has experienced or at the very least witnessed the cruelty of certain men against certain women. It is incredibly stupid, though very very easy to assume that this same type of cruelty is enacted by
all men. And yeah, as a straight, white, middle class male I am fucking offended.
The first scene opens in a war with Mal and Zoe. Zoe runs around calling Mal ‘sir’ and taking orders off him. I roll my eyes. Not a good start.
The first scene is in a military context. If Mal is Zoe's superior officer than of course she is going to be calling him "sir" and following his orders.
Jayne asks Mal to get Kaylee to stop being so cheerful. Mal replies, “Sometimes you just wanna duct tape her mouth and dump her in the hold for a month.”
What the fuck is this feminist man trying to say about women here? A black woman calling a white man ‘sir’. A white male captain who abuses and silences his female crew, with no consequences. The women are HAPPY to be abused. They enjoy it.
I do not believe that this is any kind of malicious statement though, if only the script is read I suppose it could be taken as such. It is obvious from the way the actors portray their characters that there is a pretty high level of camaraderie between the crew members of Serenity. These kinds of jibes are/would be commonplace in this kind of environment. I agree that this is often a little one-sided but again, there is never anything malicious behind the jokes.
I could go on deconstructing her "well-researched" (it isn't) and "bias-free" (it definitely is not that!) little rant (yes, I am being deliberately condescending) but honestly it makes me too angry to be reminded that there are people who are this ridiculously narrow-minded and downright bigotted in the world. Her assumptions about Whedon's private life are petty, cruel and painfully simple-minded, not to mention unfounded, her anecdotal evidence about interracial couples are almost heartbreaking and overtly racist and her obvious revilement of men in general as well as her flippant use of the word
rape which is, as several commentators have pointed out, loaded with connotations that do not even come close to describing what she is trying to, is insensitive and offensive to anyone who has been a victim of what is a physically, emotionally and psychologically damaging attack.
Firefly is not a particularly pro-feminist show (I wouldn't have described any of Whedon's work as particularly feminist but whatever) however it is not the cro-magnon abuse-and-rape-fest that she makes it out to be either. Some of her points, mainly about prostitution being bad in so much as it is not what I would call "good", I can get behind but the abrasive tone and one sidedness of her post literally enrages me. I am half inclined to disregard her entire opinion on
anything simply based on how much of a jerk she has made herself out to be.