Dear blogaboo,
Yesterday, I went on a business trip. 2 1/2 hours there, 2 hours speaking, 2 1/2 hours back = most of a work day devoted to a single, 2 hour talk that I probably could have done remotely.
So in reality, I spent most of the time talking to a coworker as we wound our way through the mountains of rural Kentucky. Now, this coworker is a nice guy, somewhere in his late 50s. We get a long well. But some moments with him just seem off kilter. Somewhere not far from our destination, the classical music that we've been listening to on the radio starts to break up, so he reaches for a his CDs. One after another, he pulls a CD out, glances at it, puts it back. Finally, he finds the one he's looking for and slides it in. I think I catch a glimpse of the title "Avril Lavigne live," but think at first that I must have missed something. I haven't. And so there we are, 2 men in suits, driving to speak to a group of college professors, listening to a live acoustic version of "Sk8r boy."
I road in silence, trying to think of something to say that wasn't about the music. I wondered if he had put it on for me, if one of his daughters had maybe left it in the car and if he had thought "well this is something young folks like, right?" But I don't know, I somehow think his daughters probably don't listen to this either, so that makes it his. He likes these songs aimed at teenage girls.
We arrive, we do our meeting, it goes well, and he puts something else on for the ride back. But that half hour, listening to Avril Lavigne, has convinced me that I don't understand my coworkers at all.