i wasted too many CD-Rs and too much money.
Always a regret at the end of a relationship!
also knowing my luck i will probably not get any kisses etc. for like 2 more years
ugh
Worse things have happened, but you're a good looking guy, a more proactive approach wouldn't hurt if you want to make out with somebody. Remember, there's no such thing as luck.
a relationship takes time and effort, and occasionally putting the other person ahead of you or your friends/interests [all of which i did all the time]
A relationship like that is never more important than your friends or yourself or your interest. That's a strange way to think. Relationships sometimes do require time and effort, usually after a fact, but you can tell pretty early on whether or not a relationship'll work out, it's a shame when that feeling isn't mutual, but everybody comes around eventually. You're still a teenager, like me. We shouldn't be thinking about relationships requiring 'time and effort', just mutual attraction and politeness.
i was a test subject, and the next relationship she has will be all awesome
screw that guy
Don't be bitter, dude! Be happy for that other guy, he isn't wishing you any ill will I'll bet. I'm three days late to the party, so you probably got over this already. I'd have made the exact same post after my first several relationships, and with hindsight, that's just silly. Feelings like bitterness, anger, resentment, jealousy, just because some chick didn't want you around never helped anybody and there's no reason for them anyway. The idea that girls have 'screwed you over' by not wanting to be in a relationship with you is a weird one, I've felt that, and I'm somewhat embarrassed by it now, because it makes absolutely no sense.
I feel like I just offered a band-aid to a dude whose cut already scabbed over, but I don't read this thread and this was the first time I noticed the post.
my spine ain't good
Oh Muffy, that sucks. Is there anyway to work around the discomfort so you can continue to DJ? I don't know the nature or extent of your problem, but that one handed DJ I saw seemed to work around his handicap pretty well. As for pulling, that all depends on what you're looking for, I guess. I'd relate to you the story about the girl with crutches at college, but anymore of these stories and I'll sound like I'm pitching a lifetime movie special. I hope it doesn't alter your lifestyle too much.