I don't think I'm playing the game slow. I believe I've unlocked all the areas of the first continent and am close to going to the second one.
*turns on DS*
I have 10 clan members - Cain (the main character, Fighter/Paladin), Adelle (Fighter/Thief and Ninja if I ever get that freaking fourth Thief ability), and one other Hume who is a Hunter/White Mage. Two Nu Mou, one is a Black Mage/Sage, the other I just recently got and am training up to be a Time Mage/Arcanist. Only one Viera

Right now she's a Fencer/Red/Green Mage, I'm waiting until I recruit another one to go for Elementalist/Assassin. Three Bangaa - a Dragoon/Monk, a Bishop/Monk (eventually Templar), and a Warrior/Gladiator/Defender. And one Moogle Juggler/Tinker.
I believe I have just taken the quest to unlock the basic Gunner/Fusilier/whatever it's called now class.
Done 43 quests, 8 of which are main story ones.
So no, I don't think I'm playing slow, just doing as many sidequests as possible because I was assuming that getting all those materials would open up good weapons for me. So far all I've done is unlocked a bunch of cool stuff for classes I can't even use yet (Parivir, Ravager, Geomancer, etc).
There is one type of material - I forget what it was - that I only had one of, and had to choose to use it on making a Thundara rod or a Firaga rod, and I've been pretty careful otherwise not to use my last piece of any material.
Also I'm totally avoiding GameFAQs because I think that site has basically ruined the magic of playing a game yourself (other than discussing it here, I mean).