So basically there are coffee shops with barristas in bikinis, but guys who are normally nice to females anyway don't want to go there because they don't want the barristas in bikinis to think they're hitting on them, or because they don't want to be seen there and have people think that that they're the type of guy who'd go to a coffee shop with barristas in bikinis? And it's embarrassing for the customer?
This is more fucked up than I thought. We've reached the point where servers in bikinis are okay, but guys are too afraid to go there because they don't want to be thought a pervert. Fuck that. I'd still go, because if the girls can't tell the difference between someone being polite and someone hitting on them, that's their problem not mine. And I don't care if someone sees me in there and thinks I'm the type of guy who'd go there, because I am there, so apparently I am that type of guy. Again, all other things being equal, I'll take the shop with the bikini girls over the boring one playing playing bad music. I'll be nice to them and try not to stare, I'll drink my coffee, then I'll leave. Life is too goddamned short to worry so much about what other people think.