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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #650 on: 06 Apr 2009, 03:43 »

It's probably not going to happen, since S seems to like V. Have you ever met V sober? She might be a nice girl who just drinks and smokes way too much and becomes a bitch when drunk/high. But still, you have every right not to want to hang out with her, I just think that if hanging out with S and J makes you happy, then trying a few more times would be the best for you?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #651 on: 06 Apr 2009, 10:14 »

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not so much when we are apart and communicating through phone conversations/texting/facebook/etc?

What's "not so much?" Full on arguing? Lack of discussion? Lack of connection?

For me it just depends on how seriously I'm taking the relationship. If the other person has a hard time connecting to me when I'm not physically there, it's going to be a pretty big drawback if I'm taking the relationship rather seriously, even if it's just because I have kind of high standards for a serious relationship. Do you talk a lot in person? Like.. full blow conversations, one on one?

lack of discussion mostly! i feel like we are having the exact same conversation every single time we speak on the phone. which in turn makes me think that there might be a lack of connection. but then i start thinking that maybe our connection is fine and he is still the person that knows/understands me best, we just seem to have fallen into a bit of a routine and that is a thing that is common in many long term relationships.  arguments don't really happen but sometimes i am irratated with the repetitiveness and he can usually tell and then he'll offer to leave me alone but he does it in this really stupid way ie, saying "oh it's okay if you don't want to talk to me...no one does." whine whine bitch bitch i am so looooonely waaah.  we see each other about once or twice a week nowadays, and do spend more time talking than making out or whatever.  and our face to face conversations aren't awkward or anything.  in person he is cheerful, affectionate, and all sorts of good things. 

james,  i am finding it hard to take your advice seriously since you clearly have a massive internet crush on me and your opinions are slightly biased. hahah.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #652 on: 06 Apr 2009, 10:29 »

Anna I gave up on crushes back when I drained away the last of what was 'good' in my heart. Now I just give bad advice and try to make the world a darker place.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #653 on: 06 Apr 2009, 10:38 »

and then he'll offer to leave me alone but he does it in this really stupid way ie, saying "oh it's okay if you don't want to talk to me...no one does." whine whine bitch bitch i am so looooonely waaah. 


Oh man. I'd break up with dude in a heartbeat. Seriously, dude needs to grow a set, and stop being such a baby. God, how fucking annoying. If some dude said that to me, I'd laugh at him. And I know I am a heartless bitch, but come on. How old is he?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #654 on: 07 Apr 2009, 11:46 »

So the guy asked me if I wanted to get lunch again with him sometime this week, so I'm guessing I didn't bore the crap out of him on Saturday. This is good!
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #655 on: 07 Apr 2009, 11:54 »

Oh man. I'd break up with dude in a heartbeat.


Yeah, that. As a former constant whiner, I can say from experience that I didn't really become more tolerable until I acknowleded two things:
1. Everything isn't always about me.
2. Sometimes people have low self-esteem because they've earned it.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #656 on: 09 Apr 2009, 02:48 »

If you've clearly explained why you were like that at the party and why you don't like V, S is being a complete douch, Em. Clearly you value your relationship with S or you wouldn't be so worried about it, but if you don't want to compromise how you feel about the situation, find better friends.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #657 on: 09 Apr 2009, 05:12 »

So the guy asked me if I wanted to get lunch again with him sometime this week, so I'm guessing I didn't bore the crap out of him on Saturday. This is good!

o/

When a cute girl texts you, asking if you want to go "fuck around" at the basketball court..does she mean it literally, or am I going to have my ass handed to me at basketball?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #658 on: 09 Apr 2009, 05:13 »

You're going to get your ass handed to you.  Bring a band-aid for your pride?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #659 on: 09 Apr 2009, 05:23 »

So, I've been invited to a party by this girl. There's gonna be booze there anyways, but she told me to bring some more - so  we can sneeak off in the middle of the party and get more drunk together. Um, which is all fine and dandy with me, apart from one thing. I have to go to the lake district with my family on the day(s) that I think the party might be on. So, what do I do? Tell her I can't go to the party (which I had to do last time, and in which she ended up getting off with some guy all night), or cancel my family plans (which I didn't actually arrange or feel like doing in the first place)? If it makes any difference other people have also being asking me to do stuff on the days on which the lake district trip is planned.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #660 on: 09 Apr 2009, 05:28 »

Ask the family, if you have been spending a lot of time with them, they should be fine with you should be okay to stay behind for a day or so. Hell's I am sure there are trains to the lake district, you can just catch one of those up after you have had your fun with the girl.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #661 on: 09 Apr 2009, 05:38 »

Bros > Hos > family
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #662 on: 09 Apr 2009, 06:46 »

Well, it's more a me, my mum and sister going to the lake district to see cousins and grandparents. I'm just not sure how explosively my mum will react when I tell her I'd like to stay behind. But yeah, I'll see what they say. Thanks.

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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #663 on: 09 Apr 2009, 07:39 »

so guys, asking a girl (that you know in meat life) out via IM, dorky or not?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #664 on: 09 Apr 2009, 07:43 »

What is the problem with asking her out in meat life?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #665 on: 09 Apr 2009, 07:45 »

Cos I was talking to her about dating and that sort of thing and I figured what the hell
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #666 on: 09 Apr 2009, 07:48 »

how did she reply?

Also, would much prefer (and would probably go much better for you) if done in meat life.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #667 on: 09 Apr 2009, 08:34 »

Asking someone out online because you can't do it in meat life is a problem, for other reasons it isn't.
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« Reply #668 on: 09 Apr 2009, 09:51 »

Having been asked out a fair number of times both via IM and in person (and having both accepted and rejected offers in both situations), I can say that for me it doesn't make much of a difference in terms of how I answer--except that it's a lot easier to say no over IM.  If you're the persuasive, persistent type, her having to deal with your pleading face could work in your favor.  Not to mention that if you ask her after a fun outing with you, she's got all those feel-good hormones running through her veins.  Manipulative?  Maybe.  I actually kind of like being given the distance and time to think about a tactful, text-based reply without the pressure having to keep a poker face and whatnot.

But I'm a dorky girl who only really dates dorky guys.  So the fact that being asked out over IM doesn't bother me is probably proof that it IS dorky.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #669 on: 09 Apr 2009, 10:07 »

I find it's not particularly romantic, but it's probably not going to sway the person much either way.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #670 on: 09 Apr 2009, 11:43 »

It's no worse than asking someone out over the phone. Go for it.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #671 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:11 »

o/

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I don't think it's that big of a deal at all, really, asking someone out over IM, phone, or text.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #672 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:28 »

RELATIONSHIP THREAD.

There is this boy that is cute and single and I wants him, precious. HOW DO I DO IT. HOW I MAKE HIM MINE.

Any help would be appreciated.

Thank you for your help.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #673 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:42 »

You ask him out. It's easier than you think!
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #674 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:44 »

Noooo if it ends badly I will see him every week at STLF meetings. And that is no fun.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #675 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:46 »

SACK UP.

Or wear a skirt or something cute/hot every time you know you will see him and flirt mad crazy with him. I don't know what else is more obvious (other than directly asking) other than being hit over the head with a sign saying, "DATE ME YOU SILLY BOY."
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #676 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:50 »

A lot of men are entirely oblivious.  He probably won't realize you're into him unless you tell him.  I had to kiss mine like 6 times before he got the hint.
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« Reply #677 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:55 »

Well your man seems sillier than most. Just sayin'.

Okay, so the plan so far. Look HOT tonight and hit on him as much as possible. I should ask Brittany if she is available... BRITTANY, IF YOU ARE READING THIS, COME OUT TO THE AQUARIUM TONIGHT AND HELP ME GET THE CUTE BOY I POINTED OUT TO YOU AT MADONNARAMA.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #678 on: 09 Apr 2009, 16:57 »

No, most of us really are that dumb. The few times a girl has pursued me I haven't realized she was doing it until her friend told me to to stop being such a jackass and kiss the woman.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #679 on: 09 Apr 2009, 17:00 »

I think I need to find a button that flashes "KISS ME" and wear it tomorrow.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #680 on: 09 Apr 2009, 17:02 »

Fuck that, I need one of those for tonight. I need one so I can get kisses from this boy (in the argyle).

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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #681 on: 09 Apr 2009, 17:08 »

oooh, he's dreamy!
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #682 on: 09 Apr 2009, 17:41 »

I like the dude making the face better.


What does that say about me?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #683 on: 09 Apr 2009, 17:45 »

Well he looks pretty cute too but I have not met him, so I cannot crush on him like I can crush on Argyle Boy.
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« Reply #684 on: 09 Apr 2009, 18:25 »

Nikki was like "I don't know man, is he hot? Cuz I can't help her hit on the dude if he's not hot" and I said "I GOT A PICTURE I GOT A PICTURE" and she said "haruahhsgh he IS hot. Tell her I approve". So, Liz, my roommate approves. She is hell of picky.

And Liz you're goin' dancing! If you dance with him, that should be pretty obvious I would think! Maybe?
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« Reply #685 on: 09 Apr 2009, 18:31 »

I've gone dancing with hella dudes that I'm not interested in. And I dance dirty. Dancing aint nothing but a thing.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #686 on: 09 Apr 2009, 18:36 »

I think I've only danced with two boys. One was gay and the other was my best guy friend. I've also danced with many a girl.

I have had sex with none of these people.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #687 on: 09 Apr 2009, 18:41 »

Liz, that guy in the middle looks eerily familiar.

Wait a minute, I think I've got it.

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« Reply #688 on: 09 Apr 2009, 18:42 »

Oh my god that made me laugh so hard.
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« Reply #689 on: 09 Apr 2009, 23:18 »

No, most of us really are that dumb. The few times a girl has pursued me I haven't realized she was doing it until her friend told me to to stop being such a jackass and kiss the woman.

Reiterating this, 'cause it is true!

If you like a dude, let him know.

p.s. why would a girl send me a message all "hey dude are you out and about" and when I reply "yeah I'm at blah blah gig, what are you up to?" she's all "actually I'm just going home, see you another time."

What is up with that?
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« Reply #690 on: 09 Apr 2009, 23:24 »

Yeah, I suppose. I would've gone somewhere else if she'd asked, though. The gig wasn't very good, unfortunately. Ah well.
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« Reply #691 on: 09 Apr 2009, 23:26 »

It is because of your hideous deformity Nick, I'm sorry.
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« Reply #692 on: 09 Apr 2009, 23:41 »

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« Reply #693 on: 10 Apr 2009, 00:04 »

Mission: Get Cute Boy.

FAILED.

He spent the whole night all up on a very cute little Asian girl. Oh well.
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« Reply #694 on: 10 Apr 2009, 00:20 »

Goddamn those half-Japanese girls.
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« Reply #695 on: 10 Apr 2009, 05:39 »

They do it to ya ev-er-y time.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #696 on: 10 Apr 2009, 11:57 »

RE: guys being that dumb: yes, yes we are.

6 months ago, a friend of mine came to my birthday, very obviously flirted with me, and has hung out with me almost every week since, usually more then once a week. These days, just about everything I do is either "sweet" or "cute." We've both admitted to being attracted to each other, while keeping such feelings carefully in the past tense. We're both planning on going into ministry and two nights ago she told me I should read a book about 2 ministers who are married and how that relationship effects their ministry. And there's still this voice in my head that says "well, she probably doesn't really like me that much." This voice, stupid though it may be, gets louder and more insistent as my physical proximity to said woman increases.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #697 on: 10 Apr 2009, 13:10 »

I'm considering asking my 'lady friend'/'girl I'm kinda dating'/'I have no fucking idea what to call us and I'd rather not stress about characterizing our relationship' on a double date to see a movie with my ex-girlfriend (who is my current best friend) and her boyfriend. Awkward, y/n?
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #698 on: 10 Apr 2009, 13:38 »

Uh, if you never mention you dated, then no. If she knows you're best friends with your ex, maybe. That's just me, though.
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Re: The Relationship, Or Lack Thereof, Advice Thread
« Reply #699 on: 10 Apr 2009, 13:39 »

She does know that I'm friends with my ex. I just don't know how awkward it would be and if it would be too much to ask of her.
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