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Re: College Life
« Reply #50 on: 02 Mar 2009, 15:21 »


Don't try and reinvent yourself in college.


And why not?  I changed a lot from my first to last year of college, because I became more open to the idea of trying new things instead of just fitting into whatever nerd stereotype applied to me in high school.  My only regret was that I didn't have this attitude sooner.

I think what he was trying to say was "keep it real, bro".
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Re: College Life
« Reply #51 on: 02 Mar 2009, 15:24 »

Also, in college, it is easier not to shower as often, still take the time every morning to shower before classes. Nobody wants to talk to the stanky kid.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #52 on: 02 Mar 2009, 15:27 »

Oh man personal hygiene is the most annoying, time-consuming thing. I never thought finding time to take a shower or brush my teeth would be such a pain.

But it is important. Make sure you do it.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #53 on: 02 Mar 2009, 15:28 »

Fun Fact:  You can shower and brush your teeth simultaneously
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Re: College Life
« Reply #54 on: 02 Mar 2009, 17:30 »

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Re: College Life
« Reply #55 on: 02 Mar 2009, 17:31 »

Being clean is a biggie, but don't buy cheap shampoo/deoderant/cleansers/exfoliant/moisturiser/showergel/shaving stuff because you will smell cheap and they don't do the job as well. If it means eating one less meal a day to afford a £15 quid tube of aftershave balm then do it.

I showered twice a day in college or 3 times if I was gonna go clubbing, sometimes more when I was high and forgot if I had just showered, if only because I had a bathroom in my own room which is the best thing ever.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #56 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:11 »

I skip the shower every other day pretty regularly. It is called "deodorant" and "perfume."

(Plus I work at Bath and Body Works so generally speaking I am going to smell pretty goddamn good at all times.)
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Re: College Life
« Reply #57 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:25 »

Ladies can more easily get away with skipping showers here and there it seems. Although really, guys dont have to shower every day, but it definitely wont hurt.

Umm, let's see... Well, hope you dont get a douchebag of a roommate, but even if you do, really don't make it an issue. Just coexist and try not to get under each other's skin.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #58 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:29 »

You will hate your first two roommates.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #59 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:30 »

I still live with my second college roommate. And the first was a great guy. Really quiet, but a great guy.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #60 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:32 »

I'm probably going to the same school as one of my bandmates. perhaps the other one too. So I will not even hate my first roommate.

take that college

also by bandmates i also mean best friends.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #61 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:33 »

You just wait.

The both of you.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #62 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:39 »

okay

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Re: College Life
« Reply #63 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:40 »

Its rarely a good idea to flat with friends, especially if your both new to the whole thing. Wars can be made over the smallest things
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Re: College Life
« Reply #64 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:47 »

Though, oddly, I roomed with my friend from high school my Freshman year.

5 years and 4 dorm rooms/apartments/houses later, he's still my roommate.

It actually worked out alright.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #65 on: 02 Mar 2009, 19:58 »

Rooming with close friends can be great, but you've got to remember that you're not necessarily going to be any more compatible just because your friends. The real trick is knowing how to prevent the wars. Which really isn't all that hard, but it's a skill like any other. The biggest thing is to resolve issues before they start. Know how clean the common areas need to be for everyone living there, when its acceptable to play music loudly, what is and isn't common property, who's going to do which chores, and most importantly, how you are going to resolve disputes that do arise.  If you figure that out ahead of time, it's really not that difficult to live with someone. Also, be honest about it. If you hate cleaning, don't move in with someone who can't stand a mess, even if you are best friends. If you absolutely need to listen to heavy metal music through your favorite speakers at midnight, don't room with someone who likes to go to bed early.

I'm in my fourth year of living with the same 3 guys and I had roomed with two of them during college as well. Granted we are very compatible people in a number of ways, but I can count on one hand the number of times we've raised our voices to each other, much less gotten in to any sort of war.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #66 on: 02 Mar 2009, 20:02 »

if you want to fall out with someone the best way to do it is to room with them. there are exceptions of course, but for the most part keep in mind it's going to result in you spending a LOT of time together and finding out absolutely everything about each other including terrible things they have done and excruciatingly annoying habits. i have had this experience a couple of times as well, it is not fun.
as a general rule, i would say it's best to start by rooming with an acquaintence(s) who you know is responsible and easy to get along with over your best friend, but if you are confident the latter will work out then make sure you spend enough time apart so that you don't get completely sick of each other, and DISCUSS EVERYTHING because even the slightest unresolved disagreement or hint of passive aggressiveness will snowball and get worse over time.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #67 on: 02 Mar 2009, 20:05 »

i'll keep that in mind. thanks benji and tania.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #68 on: 02 Mar 2009, 20:08 »

I guess I have just been really lucky then. I am rooming with my best friend that I've met during my college years and it is fabulous.  We were really good friends before we got an apartment together and after nearly a year in a pretty small place, we are better friends than ever.

I guess I am doing it right?
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Re: College Life
« Reply #69 on: 02 Mar 2009, 20:10 »

Avoid if you can being the sole person on a lease or tied to bills. Get everyones names on it. It doesnt always happen but people can screw you over horribly. If for whatever reason bills cant get paid if its all under your name you get stuck with it.

Also if your having trouble with anything like paying bills or even getting assignments in on time talk to the relevant people as soon as possible. Generally people are happy to help you out.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #70 on: 02 Mar 2009, 20:15 »

it really just depends. i have three housemates; one i have lived with for two years now, she initially started off as someone i kind of knew through a previous roommate and now is one of my best friends and favourite people ever. mostly i am saying that people tend to fall out when they room together due to the fact that it is sort of an impulsive "this will be awesome!" decision and that it is probably more important to take into account less the fact that you are friends and more how compatible you think you will actually be as roommates. i love all of my friends dearly, but there are some i could definitely see myself falling out with were i to live with them for an extended period of time.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #71 on: 02 Mar 2009, 21:09 »

Being a 2nd semester senior I can say this: Make sure you have fun. College will probably be more work than high school, but there are (nearly) no rules, so go out and have a good time. If you sit in your room and do work all day college will suck, so be irresponsible, but keep it within reason. Stay up late playing Mario Kart, go out on weekends (and weekdays, sometimes), go to Wendy's at 3am, make your room badass. You're pretty much on your own, and almost no one will know you, so be who you want, it's a clean slate, just don't be a dudeguy. No one likes dudeguys.

Some other important things I can think of:

Avoid being peer pressured too much. Be willing to try new things, but don't let others control you.

Do stupid things, you're in college, you're allowed to be crazy. That being said don't neglect schoolwork, it's still important.



Honestly, I don't want college to end, it's such a fun time. The work sucks, but I have enough fun that when I leave school I'll remember the parties and fun times more than the work. So, go out there and enjoy the next 4 years.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #72 on: 02 Mar 2009, 21:34 »

College is the only time in your life when it is socially acceptable to have booze for breakfast.  Enjoy this, but not too much, and not on school days.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #73 on: 02 Mar 2009, 21:35 »

Clearly you have never been an old, old man.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #74 on: 02 Mar 2009, 21:42 »

I have not.  Does this apply to old, old women as well?  I like to think I have something to look forward to in life.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #75 on: 02 Mar 2009, 22:12 »

Oh man flatmates, bang some and leave others. The ones you leave might then get a boyfriend who becomes your new dealer too. And again about only having beer drinking nothing but beer for 2 weeks is not good, but it is better than drinking nothing but coke in my experience.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #76 on: 02 Mar 2009, 22:56 »

Stay at the same college.  If you absolutely have to change colleges, try to stay in the same state.

I've been to three colleges in three states.  I wish circumstances had let me just stay at the first one.  Also, don't take a break from college for a few years.  Again, I wish circumstances had let me just keep going to college.  I spent a couple years working and trying to get back into school, in a different state, and the application process can take forever (and you really need to have all your i's dotted and t's crossed on your app).


Get enough sleep.

Away from home, keeping your own schedule, you may be tempted to do things like stay up all night a lot.  Or even just until 3 or 4 am.  And then getting up in the morning to go to class is much, much harder, and so maybe you don't.  This is bad.  And even if you make it to class on zero or little sleep, you will be a zombie and not learn.  This, too, is bad.


Take care to maintain good personal hygiene and housekeeping habits.

Others have said this, too. 
I did not take this excellent advice.  I suck at it.  Not so much the hygiene part as the housekeeping part.  I am a slob.  Do not be me.


Lock your dorm/room/apartment/whatever door when you leave (and at night), make sure your roommate does too.

Dorms, and student-dominated apartments, are terrible for theft.  People will steal anything not nailed down if they get a chance. 


Whether you eat healthy or not, try to eat some good-for-you stuff, too.  Also, consider vitamin supplements.

Again, I didn't practice what I preach.  I'm an awful cook.  It has probably made me drag ass a lot more than I should, not getting all the nutrients I need, which I'm pretty sure that beer and pizza don't provide.  Seriously, you don't want to get scurvy or something...


People you know can teach you things.  And I don't mean professors.

Assuming you still have both your parents, or even one parent, or just somebody older than you who cares, take the time to learn from them.  I wish to hell I'd asked my parents about a couple thousand things when I had the chance.  "Hey Dad, teach my about that tool-stuff you make look so freaking easy."  With that sentence, I could have been a much more capable individual than I am.  "Hey Dad, teach me how to do taxes and stuff."  With that sentence, I might not have such a seething hatred of the IRS.  College is more than classes, it's learning to be an adult, and they don't have classes about some of the most important stuff.

Yeah, it's cool to be a self-made man.  I brag about it all the time (not really, no one cares), while inside I wish I had been smart enough to avoid it.

If you really don't have anyone to turn to for advice, then (dare I say it?) invoke the magic words to summon the mightiest and most schizophrenic repository of information (and lies, and porn) in history:  Consult Teh Internets!  There are places to learn about taxes and tools and bill paying, and places to ask for more specific advice.  Do so.

Knowledge may or may not be Power, but it can definitely save you some trouble, and maybe save your ass.


There is no such thing as "The Typical College Experience" in real life.  Or at least, not everyone gets it.

It's different for everyone.  Some people have the time of their lives.  They make friends, go to parties, and generally have a kickass time.  Some even manage to get decent grades while doing so.  Not everyone, however, has such a carefree and awesome time at college.  Maybe you don't make tons of friends, maybe you don't go to parties, maybe you don't have that much fun.

It's okay.  Don't get depressed if it isn't everything Animal House and Van Wilder and [insert movie about college life here] said it would be.  You're ultimately there to get an education.  Or, should you harbor cynical-type doubts about the quality of the education, you're there to obtain a piece of paper proclaiming you as officially Edumicated, and thus, Employable.  It's still good to try and make friends and have fun, but getting through college and into the Outer World successfully is the important part.


Don't stress out!  Seriously, man, calm down.  CALM DOWN!

That's better.  Don't get freaked out by college, either by how hard it may be, or getting a bad grade in a class, or living on your own, or any lack of social success, or any social setbacks you may encounter, or whatever.  It's cool.  Just stay calm, and remember that it's just college, and life goes on.  You may (will) make some mistakes.  That's cool too, it's part of the experience.  The part that everyone does get.  Try to learn from that stuff, and don't let the bastards get you down.


Sorry I rambled so long.

That is all.



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Re: College Life
« Reply #77 on: 02 Mar 2009, 23:20 »

man yeah i am seconding the vitamin supplements, or at the very least try to eat an orange or drink some juice once in a while. i actually knew a girl who got scurvy while in uni and apparently it isn't really all that uncommon among students.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #78 on: 03 Mar 2009, 04:22 »

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Stay at the same college.  If you absolutely have to change colleges, try to stay in the same state.

I've been to three colleges in three states.  I wish circumstances had let me just stay at the first one.  Also, don't take a break from college for a few years.  Again, I wish circumstances had let me just keep going to college.  I spent a couple years working and trying to get back into school, in a different state, and the application process can take forever (and you really need to have all your i's dotted and t's crossed on your app).

This is not necessarily good advice, at all. I hated my first school, was depressed, overworked/stressed, and horribly unhappy in general. I dropped out, took a year off, and reapplied elsewhere. I'm going to school in a different state now, and things are much, much better.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #79 on: 03 Mar 2009, 04:28 »

Yeah, my friend Tom went up north to NAU and had a terrible time, like, he would come back down (about a 2 hour drive) every single weekend because there were only 3 types of people there: stoners, hardcore christian religious nuts, and marching band kids. He was none of these, and really disliked his roommate. He's now back in town, and feeling a bit better, but still seems down.

I think the advice I can give is to have a job or something. Something that will help you be independent. I'm not in college, but I have enough friends in college to know that being tethered to your parents because they are paying for you sucks.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #80 on: 03 Mar 2009, 05:11 »

check your mailbox on a regular basis

If this were important, I'd be pretty screwed.

Yeah, I reinforce the "just because you don't have to go to class, you really should" statement. If you don't go, you don't learn. If you don't learn, well you will probably fail.

Speaking from the faculty perspective, I would like to reinforce this point yet again by also saying that you should not count on anyone forcing you to do the work. The only person in your life who will force you to work is your mother, and she's not at college. There are plenty of students who just dick around until actually forced to do any work, and while I'll occasionally prod people if it seems they need it, beyond that I am perfectly content to just let people fail.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #81 on: 03 Mar 2009, 05:44 »

hey i still get my electricity and phone bills through the mail, dangit
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Re: College Life
« Reply #82 on: 03 Mar 2009, 06:40 »

Speaking from the faculty perspective, I would like to reinforce this point yet again by also saying that you should not count on anyone forcing you to do the work. The only person in your life who will force you to work is your mother, and she's not at college. There are plenty of students who just dick around until actually forced to do any work, and while I'll occasionally prod people if it seems they need it, beyond that I am perfectly content to just let people fail.

I think this also gets back to having a good rapport with your instructors. If your profs think you're generally a good student and notices you're behind on your work, they are much more likely to ask what's up or remind you that it was due. If they don't know who you are and have no reason to believe you're not just screwing around, they'll probably assume that you are. I remember that I once accidentally handed in only half of a take-home exam. Because I knew the professor and he knew me, he assumed that it was an accident, let me know that half the test was missing, and let me submit it late without penalty.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #83 on: 03 Mar 2009, 07:21 »

I think the advice I can give is to have a job or something. Something that will help you be independent. I'm not in college, but I have enough friends in college to know that being tethered to your parents because they are paying for you sucks.
I'm going to disagree with this one. If your parents are willing to pay for all or part of your living expenses in college, why not take them up on it? Sure, it's nice being independent and all that, but college is a time when you get to be free in a way that you don't otherwise. Free to simply laze around the odd day and not have to worry about anything. Of course, getting a job during the summer is probably a good idea, cos it will take some of the load of your folks and maybe allow you to save up for something fun, like that Spring Break you kids always talk about.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #84 on: 03 Mar 2009, 07:32 »

Stay at the same college.  If you absolutely have to change colleges, try to stay in the same state.

Get enough sleep.
 
Consult Teh Internets! 

Don't stress out!  Seriously, man, calm down.  CALM DOWN!


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Re: College Life
« Reply #85 on: 03 Mar 2009, 07:39 »

having a part-time job is a pretty good idea if you can manage to fit it into your schedule. for the last three years i've spent about 10-15 hours a week either working or volunteering and it works out a-ok for me, i have stuff to do and people to see every week that aren't related to school and it gives me some good experience for my resume. DON'T work during school, however, if you don't need to and you feel like you really don't have the time to balance between the two and it's causing you huge amounts of stress, that won't end well.
your best bet is to look for a job on campus, as a lot of campus jobs tend to hire exclusively students, are usually pretty good about letting you work pretty minimal hours and will care enough to try to work around your class schedule.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #86 on: 03 Mar 2009, 07:47 »

Maybe it's just isolated to my friend, but he is 19 and has a curfew still, mostly because of the fact that his parents are paying for his college. Because his parents have paid for his stuff, he has never had a job before. Ever.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #87 on: 03 Mar 2009, 07:53 »

I work two part time jobs and go to school full time as well. It would be nice to not have to, but when your parents can't afford to help you out, you gotta make it on your own. And that is what I am doing. It sucks. It really doesn't cause much stress, just when I have to work the night before a test, or when I'm working towards the end of the semester when all the projects and papers and final exams are starting. sometimes it works as a nice little vacation from school, to just be able to go to work and concentrate on something else for a while.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #88 on: 03 Mar 2009, 07:58 »

See, it's really a case by case thing. If you're going to school far away, for example, it's hard for parents to attach strings to your life whether or not they're paying, and you will gain plenty of independence simply from not having your parents to turn to when there's a problem. Also, it depends on your parents. My parents had the attitude that once I was 18 my life was my own and they would advise me whenever I needed it, but it was no longer their job to make rules. I paid for college with money from my parents, loans, and a few scholarships. I do not regret this even a little. If I had paid for it myself, that probably would have meant being limited to going to school in state and living at home, or at least coming home every weekend, which certainly wouldn't have made me as independent as moving half way across the country and living on my own did.  
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« Reply #89 on: 03 Mar 2009, 08:02 »

it does depend on the person. i am pretty lucky in that my parents paid for my degree, but personally i am the type of person who get really burned out if i spend too much time on school and it's really stabilizing to have other things to do for a few hours every week. i've had a full courseload every semester i've been in school, but my grades actually went up significantly the last two years when i started taking on more non-school work because it gave me a lot of breaks from school and made the time i did spend studyng that much more effective. some people are the type of people who need to spend a lot of time studying and revising, though, so working in school doesn't work out for everyone and if you do feel like you are getting stressed out, it's probably better to just cut down on your hours or quit the job altogether rather than try to force it to work cos, again, that's probably going to end really badly.
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« Reply #90 on: 03 Mar 2009, 08:32 »

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Stay at the same college.  If you absolutely have to change colleges, try to stay in the same state.

I've been to three colleges in three states.  I wish circumstances had let me just stay at the first one.  Also, don't take a break from college for a few years.  Again, I wish circumstances had let me just keep going to college.  I spent a couple years working and trying to get back into school, in a different state, and the application process can take forever (and you really need to have all your i's dotted and t's crossed on your app).

This is not necessarily good advice, at all. I hated my first school, was depressed, overworked/stressed, and horribly unhappy in general. I dropped out, took a year off, and reapplied elsewhere. I'm going to school in a different state now, and things are much, much better.

Sometimes it's not possible, because the school you're at isn't working.  I was just saying that it makes things a lot easier and faster.  I switched schools because my last one sucked, but it was expensive and complicated to do so, and I wish it hadn't been necessary.  But it was, if I was going to get an education worth what I was paying.

Stay at the same college.  If you absolutely have to change colleges, try to stay in the same state.

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Don't stress out!  Seriously, man, calm down.  CALM DOWN!


Each of these is a fallacious piece of advice.

Sorry to disappoint you, but "fallacious" doesn't mean "awesome and incredibly useful".  It's okay, there's no need to apologize.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #91 on: 03 Mar 2009, 09:53 »

Best advice is this:
Don't compromise who you are to be popular. This is College, not High School, and "popularity" is so subjective (especially on large campuses) that its better to have a few friends than a million acquaintances.
Seriously a former friend of mine did just that and now has no friends and spends all day in his room because no one will hang out with him anymore.
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« Reply #92 on: 03 Mar 2009, 12:46 »

If you want a job, try and get a work-study job if you're eligible.  I'm not eligible, and am extremely jealous of my friend who gets paid to sit in a room and surf the internet for 4 hours a week.
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« Reply #93 on: 03 Mar 2009, 13:12 »

absolutely everything about each other

Things I have learned about my roommate

A poignant coming-of-age tale about love lost
By Amper H Sandwitch
My roommate:
- Is completely and inexplicably racist against Belgians
- Loves lolcats and loves to send them to me
- Loves badly written sitcoms with laughtracks and loves to listen to them loudly
- Often spills things on her computer
- Has a UTI that she likes to talk about
- Thinks I should 'get out more' but doesn't tell me and instead keeps it as a passive aggressive little gem of pity
- Categorizes a party in a frat's-nest to still be a good party even after she is pelted by a beer can
- Broke up with her boyfriend over the phone
- Cannot understand why it is inappropriate for said boyfriend to lounge around the room in his underwear at 1.00 the night before a big test the next morning at 8.35
- MBates in her sleep

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Re: College Life
« Reply #94 on: 03 Mar 2009, 13:13 »

Yeah I guess I should get out more
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« Reply #95 on: 03 Mar 2009, 13:18 »

Oh man, she broke up with him?

If those two crazy kids can't make it, what hope do the rest of us have?
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« Reply #96 on: 03 Mar 2009, 13:23 »

She's now seeing someone who she also pities, but he has a dick, so it's a-okay

She comes home disheveled on the early bus, wakes me up, and laughingly recounts how he awkwardly articulated 'Your body is beautiful' and complains about what a nerd he is for being a compsci major

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« Reply #97 on: 03 Mar 2009, 13:33 »

     Ozy you know that isn't what you wanted to ask about.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #98 on: 03 Mar 2009, 15:36 »

On the getting a job in college debate:

This really depends on what course you're taking. This isn't meant to come off as offensive, but some of the more social science/humanities directions are a lot less work than some of the science classes.

I spend entire days in the labs actually doing work. We were actually advised at the beginning of this year that if we got a part time job, we would probably not be able to balance our work load.

Then again, the education system here in edinburgh is very much based on exams, so you can get by without doing anything until exams come around if you're that type of student.
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Re: College Life
« Reply #99 on: 03 Mar 2009, 15:52 »

Oh man, you haven't seen the work load Kat gets for literary analysis in her English major. That shit is intense.
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