Okay, since genders were requested, I am male and I don't really get the hate on Dale.
I understand that what he is doing might be considered rude in real life, but I think some of his behavior counts as an "acceptable break from reality"(tm) that one might expect in a comic.
I think what he really does is simply teasing Marigold about how childish she is to
hate him on account of being a different faction. When asked what she doesn't like about Dale, she
doesn't even say anything like "He behaves inappropriately and creeps me." When he meets her in a dark alley, she isn't even bothered. She says "he is a jerk because he is playing Alliance".
Regarding 1895:
Hannelore recognized he was flirting. Granted, in his own very weird way by stating how much less hardcore than him Marigold is, but I would still count it as flirting.
Incidentally, Marten
also thinks their rivalry can be considered flirting.
You must also not forget that
he was the one who came to Marigold offering a truce. He is behaving "in character" in a "weird gamer"-ish way full of tropes.
1) He recognizes her as a
WorthyOpponent (TvTropes link).
2)
He presents a challenge to her. The challenge is accepted.
3)
He gauges her "power level" (by repeatedly sending guild mates to their virtual deaths
)
4)
He executes a direct attack himself.5) He loses.
6)
He recognizes his defeat and asks for a truce.7) He backs down when she refuses at first.
So.
Is what he is doing childish? Maybe. Depends on whether he really believes this rivalry stuff or whether he is going with it as a pretense to interact with Marigold.
Is what he is doing creepy? Apparently, Marigold doesn't think so.
Could he be doing it better? Maybe. Then again, probably the easiest way to interact with Marigold is in-game.
Does he mean evil? I definitely don't think so.
Are his glasses annoying? Hell yes.