I don't really know the correct way to pronounce "dj". I think I've only seen it in loan words in English, often of Arabic origin, such as djinn, djebel, djellaba etc. Also in Django Reinhart of course. I just pronounce it as a hard j, as in jump, jungle or joke, so the d is effectively silent.
J is a difficult letter. In English it is usually pronounced "hard" in "jump", but in loan-words French-style and "soft" in "jabot", or German-style like a y in Jungian. I've grumbled before about how English-speakers usually mispronounce Beijing as "Beige-ing" using the French-style "soft" j which is foreign to English and completely absent from Chinese. It is Bei as in bay, and jing as in jingle. Bay-jing. Simple, yes?
I would hope that Tai would not be all blissed out if Marten were doomed to crash and burn, because, for example, all the girls in the house preferred girls or something.