I wish I could find thigh highs that 1) fit my legs and 2) stayed up. Super jealous, Valdis! I'm loving the first pair.
Little cheese, I feel your pain. I think my real size is a 36F or 38G, but I have only found one in either of those sizes that fits right. Can't wear it to work, though, because it's a french balconette bra and having a job that routinely requires bending over does not mesh well with a bra where the top half of it is only lace. Most of the ones I'm wearing now are 40DDD and two of them are no-wire. (I wear the no-wire ones for work - they've proven to be the most comfortable for my job.) I'm definitely a fan of balconettes - I've had the best luck with them and I've heard several times that they work best for people who hate or have troubles with underwire. And I hate to say it, but you'll probably have to go to a specialty shop and just cave in on one or two expensive bras and just try to take good care of them. They're expensive up front, but they're built to last unlike shitty VS ones.