I'm almost as tall as you, and, given the sexual dimorphism in our species, I'm unlikely to meet any woman who is as tall as I, or even close. But I liked it when exes were wearing heels, mainly because they suddenly became closer in height, and and I didn't feel like I was walking with (or dancing with) someone from the Shire.
But for $DEITY'S sake, this shite is getting *really* sexist. Well, it has been. Too much about how women "ought to be", and whatnot. People have different preferences, granted, but that is not the end-all or be-all of dynamics b/n people.