In #3656, look at literally EVERYTHING Bubbles says to Evie. Evie just goes on, ignoring her. "There are still those who hate us." "Hey, I don't like being compared to nuclear weapons." "Hey, my life isn't your case study." Notice how Evie ignores. And ignores. And ignores. And keeps talking, and talking, and talking, but there's not much listening going on.
Mandy has a way of picking crappy girlfriends, and I have to say, I think she done it again. I'm sure Evie lives in an echo chamber full of academics who think she has a brilliant mind, but to Bubbles, she is coming off as an asshole.
Again, I dislike Evie far more than anyone else here. She just rubs me the wrong way. But quite frankly, we have heard enough from her to understand that she can be oblivious, ignorant, and easily butthurt (in the case of Faye) along with being blind to what AIs go through. It's pretty clear that she doesn't have a close personal relationship with any AIs as Faye does with Bubbles.
My guess is that Evie is going to reveal what she said during dinner and Faye is going to end up yelling at both of them and storming out, with Faye delivering a well deserved parting shot. "Way to go Mandy, you sure know how to pick em" before running back to comfort Bubbles.