Is high school in the US really as hellish as the US media says it is?
I was one of the nerdy kids with no friends in high school, yet I was never bullied.
Not necessarily US. Though I'll admit high school was better than elementary. At least there was no beating or strangling involved there. And less teachers going along with it. Still, there were a couple of right bastards in there, and stereotypically, it's the local soccer hero that was one of the worst bullies. Mind, for some reason or other, the guys actually playing on a national level were kind of ok.
The largest incident in my high school career happened after I bested said soccer hero the single time we had a wrestling class.
Things oddly quietened some time later, after we had hockey. Somehow, the image of me coming at them all bloodied with a half splintered stick stuck.
Oshit
elementary school ... I was a late bloomer, and lightest boy in my elementary school class except for that poor bastard I. Without I. subbing as 'the easier target', or my elder cousins' protection, things would have been
very bad for me. I worked out from the age of sixteen onward, and made sure everybody knew that judging my physical strength based on my skinny frame was ... a mistake.
Also, school-type made a
huge difference back then - things were relatively civilised in the Gymnasium I attended, but the schoolyards of the neighbouring Realschule and Hauptschule were a different Universe altogether. I recall one of my cousins (who attended Hauptschule) cleaning up after a fight and advising me "Forget movies - you
always throw the first punch". The German school system was also effectively segregated at the time - the few non-native Germans attending Gymnasium all had European heritage (our equivalent of 'white' - though, effectively, the only true German equivalent to 'white' is 'Western-Germany born Bio-German'. Even German-heritage Germans born in the states of the former GDR complain about exclusion).
Migrant kids were sent to Hauptschule, no matter their aptitude - and
that was so normal that it took me over a decade past graduation to even notice.
Mind you, that was 80s provincial Germany. Dunno how things are today.